When it comes to planning a wedding, dozens of different people, places and professionals come together to create a wonderful celebration. However, with so many moving parts, there’s a risk that one or two things may not go quite as planned. Usually, these things are small and can be replaced or fixed fairly quickly – but what happens when they’re not so small?
Thankfully, wedding insurance is available to give you peace of mind and protect you should anything unforeseen happen, which means you won’t lose your money or your chance to throw your dream wedding. But how much does wedding insurance cost and is it worth it?
In this post, we’re going to explore everything to do with the cost of wedding insurance, including the average amount couples pay, what’s included with wedding insurance and when the best time to secure coverage is.
Wedding insurance is the insurance you can buy to cover your wedding. This means, in the event that something happens either before your wedding or on the day itself, you won’t lose out on your money.
So, if something is cancelled due to financial failure, damaged, lost or stolen, or you or a close family member is injured or taken ill, you won’t have to worry about losing out on potentially thousands of pounds.
As there are so many variations available, the average amount spent by couples on wedding insurance in the UK is between £150 – £180. However, there are basic policies available for as low as £27. Similarly, more expensive policies may set you back around £500 but will offer a far more comprehensive level of coverage.
The average cost of a wedding in the UK is £20,775, so if you’re interested in insurance you’ll probably want a policy that includes cancellation cover that exceeds this amount. That means your policy may cost somewhere in the region of £98 for £20,000 cover; however, this is just an approximation and depends on your chosen insurer and your individual needs.
Yes, wedding insurance is a single, one-off payment. Most policies will cover you for up to two and a half years (30 months) and aren’t long-term and renewable like you might get with other policies, such as car or home insurance.
There are plenty of insurance companies that provide wedding insurance, and we would recommend getting several quotes before choosing your policy. Thankfully, comparison websites, like Money Supermarket, offer the option to gather different quotes all in one go.
What is covered by a wedding insurance policy depends entirely on the insurer and the policy you go for. When securing quotes, make sure you know exactly what the policy will include and what is covered – the last thing you want is any unwelcome surprises in the unlikely event you need to make a claim.
Thankfully, a wedding insurance policy will cover most of the large expenses associated with your wedding, including your venue, catering and transport. However, before assuming it’s covered, we recommend you check with your chosen insurer. Your policy will likely include:
Problems with the venue, such as if they were to cancel your booking due to bankruptcy or go out of business.
Issues with a vendor you’ve made a booking with, such as a caterer or florist going out of business last minute or not showing up at all.
Having to cancel due to death, illness or an accident.
Having to cancel due to redundancy.
Having to cancel in the event that adverse weather means more than half of your guests can’t make it.
Critical items that have been lost, stolen or damaged, including your rings and dress.
Faults with the photos or video, or if the photographer doesn’t turn up on the day.
The good news is that a number of insurance providers, like Wedinsure, now offer policies that cover your wedding if it’s taking place abroad, which is peace of mind if you’ve chosen to go for a destination wedding.
Unfortunately, should either of you change your mind at the last minute (not that it will happen, of course) and cancel your wedding, your insurance won’t cover you. Other reasons for cancelling a wedding that aren’t covered include:
If an item that isn’t key to the wedding is lost, stolen or damaged (for example, table numbers).
Having to cancel your wedding because you realise you’re not able to afford it.
Having to cancel due to a preexisting medical condition.
Poor weather, such as rain.
Marquees – these require their own insurance (though most insurers will provide marquee cover).
That being said, some insurers will cover you for some of the above possibilities, though they may charge a premium. Check with your insurer before taking out a policy to make sure it covers everything you need.
If you’re getting married abroad, your travel insurance may cover you for certain items, such as your wedding attire or gifts, but you should check the single-item limit on your policy to make sure what those limits are.
Does wedding insurance cover an expensive wedding?
You can buy wedding insurance to cover any wedding, regardless of how much it might cost. However, the more money you spend on your wedding, the more you’ll have to spend on your policy.
No, unfortunately, your honeymoon isn’t covered by wedding insurance. While related to your wedding, it’s still viewed as a holiday, so you’ll need to make sure you have the appropriate travel insurance policy in place. That means another cost to bear in mind when budgeting for your wedding.
What other types of insurance do you need with your wedding?
On top of wedding insurance, there are other types of wedding-related insurance you may want to consider.
If you’re hiring a marquee for your wedding, the majority of basic wedding insurance policies don’t include cover for this. However, there will be a marquee insurance extension that you can add to your policy for an additional cost.
Another addition you might want to consider is public liability insurance. This will cover you in the event that a third party is hurt or killed and a claim against you is made. Plus, many venues require public liability cover as part of the contract. Of course, this is massively unlikely, however, just to be safe the majority of couples choose to have public liability insurance if it isn’t already covered by their wedding insurance policy. But, don’t consider this a good enough reason not to go for it, because every wedding and set of circumstances are different.
You can buy wedding insurance up to 30 months before your wedding. Whether you secure your wedding insurance a year before your wedding or a week before, the price won’t change, so it’s important to buy it as early as possible (and before it’s too late).
Wedinsure suggests that you purchase wedding insurance as soon as you have a date and before you start paying deposits. The last thing you want to do is pay out hundreds of pounds only to lose it if your chosen vendor goes out of business.
If your wedding is small and intimate (for example, you’re getting married at a registry office), then you may not need to buy wedding insurance. But, if your wedding is much larger, and therefore you’re spending a lot of money, you should absolutely make securing wedding insurance a top priority.
Not only that, but some venue and supplier contracts may have requirements or recommendations around getting insurance, which you’ll need to take into account.
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Once you’ve decided to propose to your partner and the excitement starts to build, the first big question you’ll face (before you pop the question) is how much should you spend on an engagement ring?
Should you spend the traditional amount? Does your budget stretch that far? If not, are there still beautiful engagement rings out there that fit how much you’re able to pay? What type of metal should you choose? How big does the diamond need to be? Do you need a diamond at all?
In this post, we’ll answer all these questions and more. We’ll explore how much engagement rings cost, including the average amount spent, why they’re so expensive and what you can do to find the perfect ring so all you need to worry about is when and where you’ll get down on one knee.
In the UK, the average amount spent on an engagement ring is £2,089. Because this is simply an average, many rings will cost far more than this – but, many will also cost much less, and still be drop-dead gorgeous. Especially when slipped on your new fiance’s ring finger.
Depending on who you ask, there are a couple of different thoughts about how much you should traditionally spend on an engagement ring – and both revolve around how much you earn:
One month’s salary
Three month’s salary
If you’ve read that and thought about how much you earn compared to your monthly bills and how much you have currently sat in your savings account, then don’t worry. These may be traditional, but that doesn’t mean either has to be followed.
In the UK, the average salary is £29,588. So, if you stuck to either of these traditional amounts, one month’s salary would be £2,466 and three months’ salary would be £7,397. You could buy an engagement ring with a stone big enough to sink a cruise ship with either of these. But, as you can see, neither amount is the same as the average spend – so this isn’t something you should feel obliged to stick to.
Engagement rings express how you feel about the person you love, and asking them to marry you is a promise to commit yourself to them for the rest of your life. As such, a gesture like that requires a ring that’s beautiful and meaningful enough to reflect what it represents.
As well as the massive sentimental value, engagement rings are often expensive because of many other reasons:
Precious metal: Engagement rings are often made using rare and valuable precious metals, such as gold, platinum and palladium. The prices for these often fluctuate based on market conditions, but are usually exceptionally high.
Precious stones: One of the most striking features of an engagement ring is the precious stones set in the centre, with the most popular being a diamond. Depending on the cut, carat weight, clarity and colour of the diamond, the cost can start high but get astronomically high (we’re talking millions).
Brand: Designer and luxury brands are popular choices for engagement rings, which can add to the cost.
Customisation: Personalised additions, such as unique designs or engravings, can bump up the cost of an engagement ring.
Do you have to spend the traditional amount on an engagement ring?
No, you don’t have to spend the traditional amount on an engagement ring. The average amount spent may be £2,089, but that means many, many rings are bought for way less than this. Of course, it does also mean rings are bought for a lot more, too, like the $60 million pink star. Thankfully, not many people expect their partners to propose with a ring featuring a rock like that.
When the time comes to propose, you and your partner might have already had a few discussions about budgets, styles, preferences and expectations. Your partner will know what you can afford and wouldn’t want you to rack up credit card debt just so you can spend the traditional amount on an engagement ring.
Besides, it’s the thought, meaning and commitment behind an engagement ring that gives it its true value.
Just because diamonds are the most popular stone for a classic engagement ring, it doesn’t mean the ring you choose must have a diamond. There are many ring designs out there that make for wonderful engagement rings, but feature different precious stones, such as amethyst, turquoise, emerald, ruby or sapphire. If you do want to propose with a ring that features a diamond, you could choose a trilogy design, with a small central diamond with a less expensive stone on either side. That way, you can still give your partner a diamond ring, but with a unique design that doesn’t cost as much.
The short answer to this question is that you should only spend as much on an engagement ring as you’re comfortable with. How much you spend doesn’t reflect the amount of love you feel. If that were the case, you’d probably want to spend millions. At the same time, you also might want to spend more than the bare minimum, because it is, after all, one of the most significant purchases you’ll ever make.
Before deciding how much you should spend, consider the following points:
How much you can spare – If you’ve considered proposing for a while, you may have saved some money towards a ring. If it’s something you’ve recently thought about, you might not. What can you comfortably afford without going into debt?
Your partner’s expectations – What does your partner want in a ring? Something small and subtle, or a big, emerald-cut diamond? That will have a big impact on what you need to budget for.
Your long-term goals – How will buying the ring impact your savings, and in turn your aspirations? Will it mean you’ll have to save longer to get married or buy your dream house together?
What do the experts say you should spend on an engagement ring?
Wedding planning expert and founder of Bridebook, Hamish Shephard, shares his opinion on the price of an engagement ring:
“Buying an engagement ring is a huge deal. It’s the start of your journey towards marriage and acts as a symbol of your love for your future spouse.
Once upon a time, there was an expectation that you’d have to spend thousands on an engagement ring. But, for many considering popping the question today, this simply isn’t an option – especially as the cost of the average wedding pushes £20,000. Beginning your engagement and your subsequent wedding planning journey in debt because you felt obliged to spend a certain amount on a ring isn’t going to give you the strongest financial starting block. Only spend what you feel comfortable spending, because the most important thing about an engagement ring isn’t the carats or the cut of the diamond – it’s the commitment you’re making to that other person.”
How to find the perfect engagement ring for your budget?
Ready to find the perfect engagement ring but don’t want to break the bank? Below are a few tips to help you get started. Then, once the time comes to start planning your wedding, we have plenty more wedding-related cost-cutting information in our ultimate guide to saving money on your wedding.
Carefully consider your finances and set a strict budget. Don’t be tempted to go over this budget – the perfect ring will be out there for what you can comfortably afford.
Be open to alternative stones, such as sapphires or emeralds, which are still gorgeous but not as expensive as diamonds.
Remember that bigger isn’t always better. It might be tempting to go with a huge central diamond, but the clarity, carat and colour may not make a diamond the best choice when it comes to value. Smaller but higher-quality diamonds can have better fire and sparkle than one that’s larger.
Think about your choice of precious metal. The stone is often the star of the show, so can you choose a ring with a more affordable precious metal to compensate? For example, gold is more affordable than platinum, but still a wonderful choice.
Browse online jewellers. Because they have fewer overheads, you can often find bargains from online retailers. Just make sure you know their returns policy in case you don’t love it quite as much once you see it in person.
Try to subtly find out your partner’s ring size before buying. Taking a ring to be resized later will add to the cost, so buying the right size from the start will prevent unnecessary expenses.
Buy during sales. Jewellers frequently have sales and offer discounts, so wait for the sale season before making your purchase.
Ask for a discount. There’s nothing wrong with haggling, even at high-street jewellers. With tactful bartering, you might be able to get around 10% off.
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When you get married, one of the most generous ways your guests want to congratulate you is by giving you and your new spouse a gift. Whether it’s something for your home, an experience the two of you can share or some much-welcomed cash, you’ll receive a wide selection of thoughtful gifts.
Weddings are expensive. In the UK, couples spend an average of £20,775 on their wedding, which is a huge amount of money for most. After all, your wedding is probably the biggest and most lavish party you’re ever going to throw.
From the perspective of a guest, weddings can also be expensive. Depending on their role in your wedding, guests might have to fork out for a new suit or dress, shoes, accessories, jewellery, a night in a hotel, transportation costs and – yes – a gift for you. These costs quickly add up, so when the time comes for guests to think about your gift, not much of their budget remains.
Thankfully, there are options available for guests who don’t have the money to spare but are still excited to get you a gift for your wedding.
In this post, we’re going to explore the ways you can save money on wedding gifts. We have plenty of tips for wedding guests looking to buy a gift but not break the bank, as well as what couples can do to help guests who might be stressing about what they should or shouldn’t do.
How can you be mindful of wedding guests who can’t afford to give you a pricey wedding gift?
It’s important to be mindful that not all your guests will be in a position to give you a wedding gift. For that reason, don’t be surprised when the number of gifts you receive isn’t equal to the number of guests you invite. If guests are feeling the pressure, you can reassure them so they only buy a gift if they can do so comfortably. The last thing you want on your big day is for your guests to have racked up credit card debt purely because they didn’t want to let you down.
One of the ways you can support your guests is by utilising a gift registry. Not only are gift registries fun to put together, especially when using a site like The Wedding Shop, but they’re incredibly useful for your guests. Adding gifts to your registry which cover a wide range of budgets means guests who want to buy you something will be able to do so even if they have a small budget. It also helps prevent guests from doubling up on gifts, so no one feels like they’ve wasted their money.
Another way to ensure inclusivity is by asking for cash. There are plenty of ways to ask for cash as a wedding gift nicely, and for modern weddings, it’s something guests are used to. Asking for cash also means guests with large or small budgets can give you a gift, whether it’s £1,000 or £10 – and every contribution is more than welcome!
What you should spend on a wedding gift mainly depends on two things: how much you can afford and how much you want to spend. If you want to splurge on the happy couple and buy them a new car, then go ahead. Or, if you want to give them a voucher to redeem on a takeaway for two, that’s brilliant as well.
There are unwritten and extremely loose rules about how much to spend, which can vary depending on how close you are to the couple. For example, if you’re immediate family, you could gift something worth £50 (or £100 if you’re in a couple). Or, if you’re an evening guest, you could gift something worth £20 (or £40 if you’re in a couple). If you’re looking for more guidance on how much you should spend, check out our guide to the cost of wedding gifts.
Do you have to buy a couple a gift for their wedding?
The short and simple answer to this question is no. If you can’t or don’t want to buy a couple a gift for their wedding, then you don’t have to. If you’re going to a wedding, you haven’t been invited because the couple thinks they’re going to get something out of it. You’ve been invited because they want you there to celebrate their big day with them.
If you want to buy a couple a gift to mark their marriage, then that’s entirely your decision. And if you do, but you’re conscious of your budget, we have plenty of ways you can save money below.
Try to plan your budget as early as possible and, whatever you do, stick to it. When it comes to browsing for gifts, it can be easy to get sucked down a rabbit hole and before you know it, you’re adding items that are worth two or three times your budget. Create a strict budget that fits comfortably within your means and make sure you don’t go over – even when it comes to paying for the P&P.
If you have a smaller budget, one way to make sure it goes further is by pooling your funds with other guests. If you’re in a group of five, for example, a group of colleagues, then if each of you contributes £20 you’ll have a £100 pot to buy one big gift, rather than each of you worrying about finding smaller gifts.
If you’re creative, why not use your talents and hand-make the happy couple a gift? That way, you can give them something unique and hugely personalised, while not spending quite as much. Examples include a scrapbook, a painting, a wood carving, a framed photograph, painted pottery, or some handmade jewellery.
When you’re a guest at a future wedding, it can be easy to not think about it until it’s a week or two away. But by that point, it might be too far from payday to have the funds to spare for a gift.
To find the best bargains, make sure you plan ahead. Keep a look out for sales, promotions and discounts so you get exactly the right gift but for a far more affordable price.
There are many reasons a couple would use a gift registry, and one of those reasons is to make sure they don’t receive duplicate gifts. Once the couple announces where you can find their registry, make sure you take a look as soon as possible. You might find that many of the cheaper gifts will be claimed by other guests with smaller budgets. Don’t get caught short, so put your name down for a gift that fits your budget quickly.
It’s the 21st century, and it’s common for couples to ask for – and be more than happy to receive – cash gifts. It might not be the most personal gift out there, but after spending so much on their wedding, it’ll be greatly received. Giving money or a gift card also enables you to control how much you spend, helping you stick to your budget.
When it comes to shopping, if your go-to retailers are online, then make sure you don’t just default to your usual. If you do some browsing outside of your regular haunts, you’ll open yourself up to finding a bigger range of products and deals. Don’t buy from the first retailer you get to – compare prices from a few different sites before clicking the ‘buy now’ button.
If you want to keep your spending down but don’t want to rely on giving cash, one way to gift something thoughtful is with an experience. Of course, some experience gifts can be pricey – West End theatre tickets or a weekend in Paris aren’t going to be budget-friendly options. But, even smaller experiences can be fun and unique. Cinema tickets or a meal for two are both great options for cheaper experiences which are guaranteed to give the happy couple a great time.
Remember last Christmas when you won that candle gift set in the work raffle? Well, why not regift it to someone who will get more enjoyment out of it than you will? So long as it’s done with thought and consideration, regifting is absolutely fine.
If you have a skill or talent that the happy couple could make use of at their wedding, why not use it instead of giving them a monetary gift? That way, you get to help them save money at the same time as saving yourself money – it’s a win win!
For example, if you’re a talented baker, why not offer to design their wedding cake, or make some delicious cinder toffee or fudge they can use as favours? Or, if you have a flash car tucked away in your garage, you could take on the responsibility of wedding transport. If you’re a keen photographer or videographer, helping to document the day will always be appreciated.
Whatever service you can provide, it’ll no doubt be gratefully accepted by the couple, especially if it also helps save them some money too.
If the couple are big vintage or retro fans, explore local antique stores and auction sites to find pre-loved gifts that suit their tastes. If you start looking early enough, you’ll probably find the perfect gift and grab yourself a bargain.
A well-thought-out, handwritten letter is a wonderful way to express your feelings and pass on your heartfelt well-wishes to the happy couple. If you’re raw and honest, a letter can mean more to many couples than a physical or monetary gift. The more personal and carefully considered it is, the better. It shows how much you care about the couple, which can be far more important than a gift.
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Wedding favours are small gifts that you and your new spouse give to your guests as a token of gratitude for being there on your big day. It’s your way of saying thank you and for you to give a little back to your family and friends.
While wedding favours are small and usually inexpensive (don’t worry, you don’t have to gift everyone an iPad), depending on the number of guests you’ve invited, the costs can add up. If your favours cost £3 each and 80 guests are coming to your wedding, the favours alone will cost £240.
The good news is, there are plenty of ways to save money on wedding favours so you don’t have to spend even close to the UK average. In this post, we’re going to explore the many ways you can save money on wedding favours and still give your guests a token gift of appreciation.
Can you get away with not giving your guests a wedding favour?
There’s nothing set in stone that says you need to give your guests a favour when they come to your wedding. Have you ever been to two weddings that were exactly the same? Every wedding is different, and if one of the ways you’d like your wedding to be different is by not giving favours, then that’s fine.
After all, your guests aren’t coming to your wedding because they know they’re going to get a little treat or keepsake – they’re coming to watch you get married and take part in the celebrations. A favour is a small gesture from you to say thank you, and while it’s a tradition that many couples look to uphold, you shouldn’t feel pressured to if it doesn’t fit within your budget or isn’t something you’re interested in.
If you’re keen to offer wedding favours, but you’re conscious about your budget, there are plenty of ways you can save money. Below are 10 tips and tricks for paying less for your wedding favours. You might also want to read our comprehensive guide on how to save money on your wedding, for even more cost-cutting information.
If you have the time and creativity, DIY favours are a fantastic way to save money. There are so many options available for DIY favours, which means you can make whatever suits you, your interests and the theme of your wedding.
Do you love baking? Homemade fudge or honeycomb is quick to make and the ingredients are relatively inexpensive. Do you make homemade jewellery? Charm bracelets or pin badges make for fantastic, low-cost keepsakes.
Use your creative side to come up with ideas for favours you can do yourself. It can also be a fun pre-wedding activity for you and your spouse-to-be to do together.
Chewy sweets, mints, boiled candy, candy floss, marshmallows, hot chocolate… the list of possibilities for edible favours go on and on. Not only are edible favours huge crowd-pleasers (many will snack on them even before their starters at the breakfast), but they’re also generally a super affordable option. Plus, many edible favours can be made and put together at home, which saves you even more money.
Rather than offering a range of favours, there’s nothing wrong with ordering in bulk and giving all of your guests the same. So, browse wholesale retailers online or utilise that Costco membership and buy a job lot or two. Something like a small bag of retro sweets is more than enough to get your guests excited (especially the kids!), and doing this will save you a ton of money.
It can be tempting to look for highly personalised favours so your guests have something to hold on to and remember your big day by. Keyrings, mugs, coasters and magnets all make for fantastic favours, but personalisation can really bump up the cost. Your wedding will already have plenty of personalisation, so why not forgo it with your favours and use the budget elsewhere?
You don’t have to go crazy and give your guests much – even just a tiny token will be much appreciated. So, embrace simplicity and go minimalist. Just one small, thoughtful and meaningful favour is all you need – for example, you can pick up a packet of Love Heart sweets for 25p. This also means you’ll pay way less!
If you want to offer your guests something handmade or personalised, why not save a bit of money by making the packaging yourself? That way, you get to gift them something unique but still save a bit of money. For example, sites like TEMU offer 100 small gift bags for less than £4, which is an absolute bargain.
Do you have a talented friend or family member who could use their skills to help you create unique wedding favours? When you’re getting married, your friends and family will usually be happy to help where they can, and getting stuck in with the favours is a brilliant way to get them involved. As a bonus, it also means you’ll spend less money! Just remember to buy them a drink or two at the reception to say thanks.
A great way to control how much you spend, but still do something to show your gratitude to your guests, is to donate money to a charity that means a lot to you. Then, you can print a notice to put up at the reception to let your guests know what you’ve done. Your guests won’t mind one bit if they have to go without a bonus gift if they know some money has been donated to a great cause instead.
If you use a bit of creativity, there are ways you can come up with really unique favours that cost pennies to put together. For example, you could buy a big box of wildflower seeds for £20 and then gift them in small bags with a homemade label. That way, you have thoughtful, one-of-a-kind favours for 50 guests and it costs less than £30.
At the end of the night, when things start to wrap up, you may start to wonder what you’re going to do with all the flower arrangements you have that made your venue so beautiful. Well, one option is for you to repurpose them as wedding favours. That way, you don’t have to worry about where you’re going to put all those flowers, and your guests get to take home some wonderful (and expensive!) flowers that will last for at least another week.
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For many couples, one of the most exciting parts of getting married is that not long after the wedding day, you and your new spouse get to jet off on a well-deserved honeymoon. The honeymoon is a non-negotiable for the majority of newlyweds, as it’s a great way to spend time in one another’s company after many hectic months of wedding planning.
So, with a honeymoon being such an important part of many couples’ wedding journey, the cost can be hard to swallow, especially after already spending so much on the big day itself. Luckily, there are ways to save money on your honeymoon so that even if you have a limited budget, you and your new spouse can still have a fabulous time away.
In this post, we’re going to explore how you can save money on your honeymoon, including cost-cutting tips and tricks, and why some couples are pushing their honeymoon back to go on a cheaper ‘minimoon’.
According to our annual UK Wedding Report, a massive 88% of couples look to go on a honeymoon after their big day, whether that’s immediately or within a few months. A honeymoon could be anything from a relaxing two-week beach-side pamper-thon, to a backpacking adventure across East Asia.
But, that still leaves more than 1 in 10 (12%) couples who choose not to go on a honeymoon at all. This could be down to budget, personal preferences, or any other reason. Whatever you choose is fine – just because the majority of couples choose to plan a honeymoon doesn’t mean you should feel the pressured to.
That said, a honeymoon is a great way for the two of you to get away after a long (and undoubtedly tiring, if also exciting) wedding. It gives you a chance to rest, relax and truly get to know your brand-new spouse.
If the rising cost of your wedding has put a dampener on honeymoon plans, then a minimoon is a fabulous alternative you can still get away. It also buys you a little extra time to save for your full-blown honeymoon a little later on.
A minimoon is a shorter, more cost-effective trip which is usually a few days long, but can be up to a week. Much like a honeymoon, a minimoon can be anything you want, but is often something a little closer to home so you don’t have to spend as much and your bank account can have a bit of breathing space.
So, it could be a long weekend in the Lake District, a week at Great Yarmouth, or a few nights in Paris. You could even head off on a cheap all-inclusive week to Marbella – it’s whatever you want it to be (so long as it’s affordable and doesn’t stretch your wedding budget too thin).
However, if you’re not excited about the thought of a minimoon and, like most couples, you know you want to dive right into a honeymoon, there are plenty of ways you can save money and do exactly that.
Below are 15 ways to save money on your honeymoon so you and your new spouse can have a well-earned break. You can also read our complete guide on how to save money on your wedding for even more wedding cost-saving suggestions.
Much like with booking any other holiday, travelling during peak times will be the most expensive. During the summer, Christmas, Easter and bank holidays, you’re likely to pay way more than during other times of the year. You’ll also want to steer clear of half-term breaks if you can (which might be tough if you work in education).
To save money, why not book your honeymoon so you travel during the quieter times of the year, such as November or February? Not only will your honeymoon cost way less, but if you book your wedding for a similar time, you’ll also save money on other parts of your wedding, like your venue and catering.
If you’re getting married during the summer, try to fight back the temptation to head off on your honeymoon straight after the wedding. Waiting until mid-September could potentially save you thousands.
One great way to save money and have a truly memorable wedding is by having a destination wedding. Combining your wedding with your honeymoon guarantees that you’ll get away after many months of wedding planning. You’ll also save money by not having to pay for a separate trip after the big day. Just imagine how incredible it will be to get married beneath a blue sky and in front of a calm ocean. Bliss for the photographs and your bank account.
The only downside is that you’ll probably have to ask your guests to pay a lot more to attend. But, if you give them plenty of notice it’ll help them save, and the thought of being at your wedding somewhere beautiful and exotic will help soften the blow.
If you and your partner find yourselves gravitating towards booking a popular honeymoon destination, like the Maldives or Italy, don’t be surprised if the price you’re quoted is on the high side. Instead of following in the tracks of other honeymooning couples, why not do something a little less common, like Portugal or Egypt? You’re still guaranteed sun, sea and relaxation, but you likely won’t have to pay nearly as much.
If you regularly travel for work, or have been abroad a couple of times in the last year, then chances are you might have accumulated a few air miles or reward points . If you know you want to head off somewhere special after your wedding, save up your miles so you can put them towards your honeymoon.
Another way to gain miles is through reward points. For example, did you know you can convert your Tesco Clubcard points into Virgin Flying Club points? It’s the perfect way to transform potatoes into points and apples into air miles so you can knock some money off your honeymoon.
Rather than booking a fancy five-star hotel that’s half-board or room-only, why not consider a cheap and cheerful all-inclusive deal instead? All-inclusive breaks are an affordable way to get away and enjoy some sun, with the added bonus of you also not having to worry about spending too much money when you’re there.
Once you’ve set a date and booked your wedding venue, you can start thinking about when you might want to head off on your honeymoon. Booking early and paying a deposit is a brilliant way to spread out the cost, allowing you to pay monthly. That way, you’re not left with a huge bill you have to pay all in one go, which might otherwise hit hard among the countless other wedding-related costs you’ll be making during the build-up to your big day.
Have you ever walked past a travel agent’s window and spotted a deal that sounds too good to be true, but the flight is in less than two weeks? Why not take this approach to book your honeymoon? If you’re not precious about where you go, grabbing a last-minute deal could save you thousands of pounds. Just be open and flexible, and don’t set your heart on something in particular, so you’re not disappointed.
You may be tempted to run off on your honeymoon the moment you and your new spouse leave your wedding venue, but waiting a few months means you’ll have time to recuperate after spending money on the most expensive party of your lives. Taking time after your wedding to save a little money before going on your honeymoon means less pressure on you and your finances. Plus, it gives you more time to shop around for deals and keep a look out for those last-minute bargains without wedding planning duties taking all your attention.
If you’re happy to put in a little bit of effort and forgo a package holiday, you can save a decent chunk of money by booking each individual part of your honeymoon separately. For example, booking flights using Skyscanner can uncover some huge bargains. Similarly, you can find great deals on Booking.com for hotels and attractions. Plus, if you hunt for discount codes, you can make further savings, like 10% off hotel stays.
10. Look out for national holidays in the country you’re travelling to
You may have already made a note not to travel during busy periods in the UK calendar, like bank holidays and half term, but it’s also important to do the same for the country you’re visiting. For example, Thanksgiving in the USA and Labor Day in Spain are national holidays, which can make the cost of travel, hotels and attractions a little pricier than they might ordinarily be.
Similarly, are there any sporting events, like a big football match, or cultural events, like the Edinburgh Fringe, which could drive huge crowds – and huge prices – during the time of your visit?
If possible, why not drive to your chosen destination instead of flying? Of course, if you’re planning on going to Mexico, this won’t be an option, but if you’re going to Bruges, Paris, or Amsterdam, driving can be a cost-saving option. As a bonus, it also means you won’t have to rent a car once you’re there, saving you even more. Just be wary of parking fees at your hotel, which can add up if you’re there for two weeks.
12. Tell airlines and hotels you’re on your honeymoon
Don’t be shy about telling everyone you meet that you’re on your honeymoon! Businesses love treating couples who are celebrating their marriage, so do what you can to slip it into conversations when making bookings and checking into hotels and restaurants. From free upgrades to glasses of bubbly, you’ll be surprised at just how often you’ll be treated – even if it’s something small.
The average honeymoon lasts seven to nine days, with many couples taking two or three weeks to relax and decompress together after their wedding. But, the longer you spend away, the more it’s going to cost. Instead, why not book a week, or even just five days, to cut back on how much you spend? That way, you’ll still get to spend some time by a pool without spending close to the average amount.
Instead of putting together a gift registry, you could ask friends and loved ones who want to give you a wedding gift to contribute towards your honeymoon fund. A survey from Expedia found that 65% of couples add their honeymoon fund to their gift registry, which means it’s something that many of your wedding guests will have encountered before. It helps your guests give you something you’ll love and means you’re not spending more money which you might not have anyway after paying for your wedding.
A gift registry is a particularly cost-effective way to have the honeymoon of your dreams packed full of extras that might otherwise have been out of your budget range. For example, you can have your guests gift a flight or hotel room upgrade, or a snorkelling trip and romantic beach dinner for two. Check out our post on wedding registry alternatives to find out more.
Once you’ve booked your honeymoon, consider securing travel insurance as soon as possible. Your honeymoon isn’t covered by wedding insurance, as it’s not considered part of the wedding itself. So, in the unlikely event that something happens which means you can’t get away, travel insurance will help you not lose your money.
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Planning a wedding is a long, time-consuming and expensive process. It requires hours of research, travelling to meet vendors to discuss requirements, and sometimes tricky negotiations. It’s a fun and exciting process, but it can also be difficult and stressful. That’s why many couples decide to relieve themselves of the pressure and enlist the guidance and expertise of a wedding planner.
While that’s a huge amount to pay for something that you could in theory do yourself, there are plenty of reasons why a wedding planner is a must-have for many brides- and grooms-to-be. So, if this is you, how can you save money on a wedding planner so they fit within your budget?
In this post, we’re going to explore the many ways you can save money and make the most of the skills and experience provided by a wedding planner.
With many couples paying thousands for the services of a wedding planner, you might wonder why they’re able to charge so much. Below are just some of the reasons why a wedding planner can be so expensive:
Time – If you’ve already started planning your wedding, you’ll be all too familiar with how much time it takes. A professional wedding planner pours hours and hours of their time into planning a wedding that is perfect for you.
Experience – Wedding planners who have been in the game a long time will have plenty of experience, so will know what to do, where to go and what to say.
Expertise – Along with their experience, a wedding planner will have a ton of expertise, which means nothing you throw at them will be too much.
Connections – If they’ve been in the business a while, a wedding planner will have a whole host of connections to help them get preferential deals.
Personalisation – A planner will work closely with you to make sure they know exactly what you want every step of the way. They’ll also make sure you know what’s happening and when, so you’re involved in every decision.
On top of these, wedding planners also have overheads that need to be covered, including insurance, admin costs, office space, staff costs, technology costs and more.
There are three main reasons why couples choose to hire a wedding planner, and why the seemingly lofty cost is totally worth it to them:
They don’t have the time to plan their wedding themselves
They don’t have the necessary knowledge and expertise
They want to save money
We’ve already explained how wedding planners use their time, knowledge and expertise to plan a wedding that is personal to you and in keeping with your tastes and style. However, it’s also important to highlight that hiring a wedding planner will save you money. According to qualified wedding planner and wedding expert, Hamish Shephard, you could save as much as 20% of what you might otherwise have paid. That means, while you may use 10% of your budget on a wedding planner, you’re likely to save this and more in the long run.
The cost-saving benefits of hiring a wedding planner are obvious, but if you’re on a budget it might be hard to justify spending so much on a service you could do yourself. Luckily, there are plenty of ways to save money on a wedding planner, so you can pay less but still make the most of their expertise. Check out the 10 tips below and read our complete guide on how to save money on your wedding.
A wedding planner provides the most effective service if you hire them before you start planning your big day. So, if you plan on recruiting a planner, don’t jump the gun and book a venue first – in doing so you might have lost out on a discount or deal that means you’re paying more than you need to.
2. Don’t hire the first wedding planner you speak to
Though hiring your wedding planner early is important, make sure you don’t jump in too quickly. Take the time to speak to several wedding planners and weigh up your options. Some may charge you a percentage of your budget; others may ask for a flat fee; and others may charge an hourly rate. Put together a list of planners, their quotes and the service they provide so you can make an informed choice.
A full wedding planning service will be the most expensive option – and that’s because it’s the most thorough and time-consuming. But, most wedding planners will also offer a partial planning service. A partial service helps you with planning specific aspects of your wedding, such as the venue and catering. That way, you can get help with some of the more challenging and expensive parts of the planning process, then do the rest – like the flowers, decor and transport – yourself.
Or, as your big day gets ever closer and the list of jobs keeps mounting up, you could hire a planner for a partial service to help you keep on top of things. Speak to potential planners to find out what they can do for you as part of a partial planning service.
4. Ask friends for recommendations…or hire a friend
Ask your married friends and family for recommendations. Word-of-mouth referrals are a great way to secure a discount and find a planner who’s reliable and brilliant at their job. Even a discount of just 5% or 10% is a huge saving when you’re dealing with expensive rates.
Another great option is to hire a friend to help you plan certain aspects. Sometimes, your friends can be just as excited about your wedding as you are, and involving them in the planning process is a great way to include them. Just try not to task them with all the more difficult or time-consuming jobs, and make sure you thank them with a voucher or bunch of flowers on the big day itself.
Don’t be shy about asking a wedding planner for a discount. Once you’ve met with a planner and discussed what you’re looking for, if they like you and are excited about your vision, they may be happy to discuss lowering their rates. After all, if you don’t ask, you don’t get.
While your wedding planner can take care of the difficult parts, you can make a start on other parts of wedding prep and save money in doing so. For example, you could get ahead on designing your wedding invitations or crafting paper flowers for table decorations.
While you’re hiring your wedding planner to fulfil your and your spouse-to-be’s vision for your big day, it’s important to be flexible, because flexibility is a great way to save money. For example, your planner will know that a midweek wedding is far more affordable than a weekend wedding, so being open to their suggestions will probably save you a ton of money.
The more experienced, skilled, knowledgeable and reputable a wedding planner is, the more in demand they’ll be and the more they’ll be able to charge.
That means, if you hire a wedding planner with less experience, their rates will be more competitive and more likely to be in line with your budget. The only risk is that they might not have the same expertise or connections as others who have been in the industry for longer.
If you go down this route, look out for relevant qualifications like an event planning or hospitality diploma. Though they’re not a legal requirement when it comes to wedding planning, they’ll give you more confidence that your planner knows what they’re doing, even if they have less experience.
When you hire a wedding planner, you’ll spend a lot of time with them as they get to know you and what you want to be included in your big day. Many wedding planners will want to do this in person, but this can take time, especially if there’s travel involved.
To save on travel time and costs, ask your planner if they’re happy to connect virtually instead. Using Zoom or Google Meet is a quick and convenient way to meet and still build a rapport.
To get the most out of your wedding planner, and therefore the best value for money, the most important thing you can do is trust them. Your wedding planner will have planned dozens – if not hundreds – of weddings and will know the industry through and through. The last thing you want to do is have a strained relationship with them, so trust the process and let them do what they do best. This will enable them to do a fabulous job and save you plenty of money.
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If you’re looking for a wedding that is romantic, intimate and incredibly affordable, then a registry office wedding is a fantastic option. While a registry office wedding doesn’t offer you the scale and grandiosity of other weddings, it makes up for it in simplicity and elegance.
Even though getting married at a registry office is one of the most affordable ways to tie the knot, the costs involved can still mount. The good news is, there are ways you can spend less.
In this post, we’re going to explore the many ways you can save money on a registry office wedding and still have a beautiful day with your closest family and friends.
Is it cheaper to get married at a registry office?
The cost can vary depending on several factors, such as the time, date, package, and even which local council oversees your chosen registry office. And, of course, how much you spend overall will entirely depend on your own preferences, including what you spend on your outfits, transport, rings and whether or not you have an evening reception.
That said, a registry office wedding is by far one of the cheapest options, which makes it a great choice if you’re getting married on a budget.
Can you save even more money on a registry office wedding?
Yes, it’s absolutely possible to save even more money when getting married at a registry office, which means you don’t have to pay even close to the UK average. In fact, if you’re particularly thrifty, you could have a registry office wedding for as low as £130 if you’re happy to cut a few corners and forgo some of the pricier aspects of a wedding.
Then again, getting married is a very special event, so you might want to spend a little more than the bare minimum to mark the occasion. Luckily, there are ways to make that happen while still saving some money.
12 ways to save money on a registry office wedding
A registry office wedding is already one of the most budget-friendly ways to get married, but there are ways to make further savings. Below are 12 tips and tricks to help you save money on a registry office wedding. You can also check out our guide on how to save money on your wedding for more information.
If you live a similar distance from more than one registry office, contact each of them to check how much a ceremony costs. This is especially important if they’re in different counties, as this can affect the price. You can find your nearest registry offices on the government’s website. Of course, you’ll have to bear in mind travel times and costs: choosing the cheapest option might not always be the most cost-effective in the long run.
Another point to consider is whether you’ll have the option to have the ceremony in the registry office or a specific ceremony room, which is often slightly larger and can accommodate more guests. These rooms can cost an extra £200 or so, so if you don’t need the space for guests then it might be an unnecessary expense.
As we pointed out earlier, the season, date and time of your wedding will affect the cost. If you choose to get married during peak times, for example during the early afternoon on a Saturday in the summer, then it will be more expensive than if you were to get married on a weekday in the winter. If you can, consider getting married midweek to keep the costs down. This will also help you save costs when it comes to other vendors.
Registry offices are often small and private, which is why they’re perfect for intimate weddings. It might be tempting to invite dozens of people, but if you do that you’ll have no choice other than to pay for a larger space.
Be brave and keep your guestlist to only your closest family and friends. This might upset a few aunts and uncles, but you can invite them to join you afterwards for a nice meal, or to the evening reception if you choose to have one.
A registry office isn’t a grand and elaborately decorated venue, so it can be tempting to want to decorate it so it fits your style and taste. However, this will bump up the cost. Why not embrace simplicity and go for a minimalist style? That way you’ll have more budget to dedicate to other parts of your day.
If you’re keen to add a splash of your personality to your registry office wedding, check out our guide on how to save money on wedding decor.
Because registry office weddings aren’t as big as other weddings, you could save a lot of money by buying off-the-rack outfits. And just because you’re buying off-the-rack doesn’t mean you won’t all look amazing – you simply won’t spend nearly as much money. Plenty of online retailers offer wedding outfits for brides and grooms which are smart, elegant and cost a fraction of the amount of designer or custom-made outfits. The quality and level of service naturally won’t be quite the same, but if keeping costs low is your no. 1 priority, then this is a great affordable option.
You may want bouquets, boutonnières, corsages and floral accents, but if you’re trying to save money, try to keep the number of flower arrangements you have to a minimum. Wedding flowers are justifiably very expensive, so the costs can very quickly add up.
To save money, choose arrangements which include in-season flowers and a lot of green foliage. For something a little more unique (and long-lasting), you could even have paper craft flowers or a dried bouquet.
It probably doesn’t seem right to head straight home after your wedding, does it? Instead, you’ll more than likely want to have a reception so you and your family can celebrate your marriage into the night.
Try to keep things small. One option is to have an intimate meal at a restaurant, then head to a local pub for a few drinks afterwards. If you want to keep things private, choose a pub with function space you can hire for around £500. Just be mindful that during peak times that cost can be much higher. Don’t be tempted to offer your guests free drinks for the night, as this can add hundreds to your cost, depending on how many you invite.
If you’re on a tight budget, and are prioritising cheap and affordable over bespoke and luxury, do things yourself in lieu of enlisting the services of a quality but also costly professional. This includes your invitations, decor and favours, which aren’t the most expensive things you’ll have to pay for but will still bump up the overall cost of your big day.
Do note, however, that aside from the DIY approach not matching the quality of professional wedding services, you will need to factor in the added time and extra responsibility to source all these materials yourself and put everything together. One of the great joys of outsourcing to a professional is peace of mind – the knowledge that you’ll have what you want on your big day exactly when you want it, without having to worry about all the moving parts that go into making gorgeous custom creations.
Even though you’re not planning an extravagant wedding, you’ll probably still want photographs to help you remember it forever. While photographers usually offer set packages, they’re often open to hearing if you have specific requests. So, why not ask them if they’ll shoot your wedding for an hourly rate, instead? That way, they can take pictures at your ceremony but it won’t cost nearly as much as a set package.
There’s nothing to say you have to outright buy everything you use for your wedding day. If there’s something you need but can’t afford brand new, why not ask a close friend or family member if you can borrow it instead? This includes anything from table linen to a veil.
Another option is rental, which is a fantastic alternative to buying something. For example, you can rent a suit for as little as £50 a day, which can be more than a third of the price of buying one. Just be mindful of return policies so you’re not fined for returning it late.
A wedding cake can be another chunky expense – understandably so, as it’s edible art – so keep costs down by choosing a smaller cake with a simple design. One great option is to choose a cake from a supermarket, such as M&S, which offers a range of affordable wedding cakes.
There are plenty of great tips for slicing your cake costs in our post on how to save money on a wedding cake, if you’re willing to compromise a little.
A great way to save money, and give your loved ones a role to play in your special day, is by assigning everyone something to do. This could include:
Transport – Why not ask someone you know to be your chauffeur for the day to help you get to and from the registry office?
Music – We all know someone who has a huge music collection or is skilled in the guitar, so consider having them play or perform at your wedding.
Beauty – You could ask a talented friend, or one of your bridesmaids, to do your hair and makeup before the ceremony (though this isn’t without its risks – read our post on demystifying bridal beauty costs to learn more)
Videography – Most people have a smartphone, so you could ask someone you trust to record the ceremony for you (again this isn’t without its drawbacks, and is unlikely to match a professionally-shot and edited film)
He’s your best mate. Your partner in crime. You’re brothers in spirit, if not always in blood. And now, you’re his best man. Congratulations!
The honour of being the best man is a true testament to your friendship and the faith the groom puts in you. The best way to pay him back is to write a best man speech that will have everyone in stitches and teary-eyed at the same time.
Writing a best man’s speech might not be easy for everyone. But there’s no need to panic! Whether you were born for the stage or a little more reserved, we’ve got the best man speech ideas and examples to help you get started. Prepare to craft the perfect speech to make your guests laugh, cry, and reminisce on your best friend’s big day.
The best man speech is a speech made by the best man during the wedding reception. It should be about 5 minutes long and include some anecdotes, jokes, and your favourite memories about the groom. These stories should highlight your friendship, adventures, and any lessons you’ve learned together.
The best man’s speech is usually third in the order of speeches: first is the father of the bride’s speech; second is the groom’s speech; and third is the best man’s speech. It can be delivered after the main meal or between courses. This will give guests a break from the monotony of long speeches and capture the attention of everyone present.
Here are some key elements you should consider including in your best man speech:
Thick as thieves. Engage the guests from the get-go with captivating stories about your time with the groom. It’s the perfect time to share your adventures and describe your escapades surrounded by the people who love your groom the most. It’s important to strike the right balance between sharing your craziest moments and not embarrassing the groom too much on their special day!
Share their story. You likely knew the groom before he met his partner bride. Try sharing some stories of how they met, when he decided to propose, or when he told you they were the one. These special, intimate moments will no doubt make the couple smile and pull at the guest’s heartstrings.
A playful roast. Throw in a few light-hearted (and appropriate) jabs at the groom. Keep it clean; keep it playful. The goal is to make everyone laugh, including the groom himself. Balance the teasing with genuine admiration, support, and love, and you won’t go far wrong.
Toast the happy couple. Raise your glass and lead the crowd in a toast to the couple’s future health and happiness. It’s the perfect opportunity to end your speech on a high note and leave everyone feeling uplifted.
Following a clear structure can help you feel more confident when writing a best man’s speech. Try using this structure to get you started:
Introduction
The first part of your speech should be focused on introducing yourself and explaining your relationship to the groom. You’re his best man, but are you also his childhood best friend, partner in crime, brother, or new brother-in-law?
This is your opportunity to build rapport with your audience and share some light-hearted anecdotes about how you met or your journey so far.
Acknowledge the happy couple
Once you’ve introduced yourself, it’s time to shift your focus to the happy couple. This is the perfect opportunity to highlight how beautiful the bride looks and how much you admire her positive qualities. Express how happy you are for the newlyweds, your excitement for their special day, and explain how the bride has positively influenced the groom’s life.
Stories and anecdotes
The next portion of your speech should be concerned with sharing your favourite stories about the groom. These stories could showcase his character, quirks, and any memorable moments you’ve shared.
Balance your jokes with sincerity, ensuring the stories reflect the groom’s best qualities, highlight your friendship, and don’t embarrass him too much in front of his new family!
Reflect on your friendship
This portion of your speech should talk about how you’ve supported one another through the trials of life. You should discuss how you met, the lessons you’ve learned together, and how much your friendship means to you.
Although these types of speech may not come naturally to all, today is a sentimental day and the perfect opportunity to express your gratitude for their friendship over all these years.
Closing and toast
Now is the time to close your speech and raise a toast to the happy couple. Thank all the guests for attending, express gratitude to the couple’s parents, and end on a heartfelt note before raising your glass to the happy couple. Cheers, you did it!
Best man speech template
To help you navigate the complete breakdown of your speech, it can be helpful to have a visual guide to refer to. Check out our handy infographic below:
Don’t stress. It’s natural to feel nervous when making a speech in front of a large group. However, keep in mind that you couldn’t ask for a better audience! The guests will have already listened to two speeches, are expecting yours, and are likely to have met you before. Take deep breaths, speak slowly and clearly, and maintain eye contact with the audience. Remember, everyone is there to support you, and the couple will appreciate your efforts regardless.
Respect boundaries. Avoid sensitive or controversial topics that could offend or upset anyone in attendance. Some light-hearted roasting is appropriate, but stay away from any stories that may embarrass the couple or make them uncomfortable. If in doubt, check with the groom what stories he’s happy for you to use and disclose beforehand. This way, you can make sure he’s comfortable with the stories you’ll share while keeping your speech’s content a secret.
Practice makes perfect. As with anything – practice makes perfect! Rehearse your speech multiple times before the big day. Try practising in front of a mirror, to trusted friends, or even record yourself making the speech to watch back. This will help you feel more comfortable, ensure a smooth delivery, and help you remember the key points you want to cover. If you’re still feeling anxious, check out our speech delivery skills to help you prepare for your best man’s speech.
Toasting etiquette. This may be one of the first times you’re instigating a toast, so it’s important to have proper toasting etiquette. When raising a toast, ensure your glass is filled with the drink of your choice beforehand. This is traditionally champagne. However, prosecco or a non-alcoholic fizzy drink is also acceptable. Make eye contact with the couple and raise your glass towards them. Encourage others to join in by signalling or making a simple gesture.
If you’re looking for some inspiration, check out our top 12 examples of great best man wedding speech ideas, from the short and simple, to the funny and personal!
A lot of traditional best man speeches and examples will refer to a bride and groom, but you can simply change the references to the groom’s partner and the appropriate pronouns if you’re attending an LGBTQ+ wedding.
Example 1: Classic best man speech
Introduction: Hello, hello, hello everyone. Is everyone having a good time? My name is [Your Name] and I have the incredible privilege of being [Groom’s Name]’s best man.
Reflect on your friendship: Now, let’s start by saying, being [Groom’s Name]’s best man is no small honour— it’s huge. I mean, out of all the people he knows, all the people he could have chosen to stand up here and speak… he picked me. Which either means I’m the most qualified, or the least likely to tell his more embarrassing stories. Sorry to disappoint, mate!
[Groom’s Name] and I go way back. We met when we were 5, and from the very beginning, I knew he was someone special. Mainly because he beat me at Mario Kart and never let me forget it. But in all seriousness, growing up together has been one of the greatest gifts of my life.
Stories and anecdotes: When we were about 10, [Groom’s Name] was absolutely convinced he could teach me how to backflip into a pool. Spoiler alert: he could not. But he stuck by me, encouraging me every time I belly-flopped. And that about sums him up— always cheering others on, even when it’s pointless and a little bit reckless.
Acknowledge the happy couple: As we grew older, I watched [Groom’s Name] become the man he is today. He’s a loyal friend, a generous soul, and now, the luckiest guy in the room. Because let’s be real, [Bride’s Name], you are absolutely stunning, intelligent, and everything a man could hope for. The fact that you’ve chosen to marry him is proof that love is blind, but hey, we’ll take it! Joking aside, you two are perfect together. The way you look at each other, take care of each other, and love each other is a genuine inspiration to everyone here today.
Closing and toast: So, everyone— please will you join me in a toast to [Bride’s Name] and [Groom’s Name]. May your love continue to grow, may your adventures together be endless, and may [Groom’s Name] finally learn how to put his boxers in the washing basket.
To love, laughter, and happily ever after! Cheers!
Example 2: Brother’s best man speech
Introduction: Good evening, everyone! For those of you who don’t know me, my name is [Your Name], and I have the absolute pleasure of being [Groom’s Name]’s brother. And, as tradition dictates, his best man. Now, when I got the call to take on this prestigious role, I was thrilled. But let’s be honest, I probably would have started World War 3 if I hadn’t got it, so…
Stories and anecdotes: Growing up as [Groom’s Name]’s brother has been an experience, to say the least. He was always the one with the big ideas, the wild plans, and, occasionally, the questionable decisions. I remember when we were kids, [Groom’s Name] convinced me that Mum would be absolutely fine with it if we brought home these two fox cubs we found in the garden. I won’t lie, they were pretty difficult to wrangle. I think we lured them into the house with a bit of ham on some string in the end, but it didn’t take long for Mum to figure out what we were up to. Let’s just say, the foxes had a better chance of staying than we did that evening.
That’s [Groom’s Name] for you—always full of schemes, ideas, and a knack for turning an ordinary day into an unforgettable adventure (or complete chaos, as Mum called it).
Reflect on your friendship: But it wasn’t all mischief and madness. [Groom’s Name] has always had a big heart to match those big ideas. Like the time he spent an entire weekend building me a treehouse because I’d been grounded and couldn’t leave the garden—despite the fact it collapsed the moment I climbed into it.
He’s the kind of brother who would go to the ends of the Earth for the people he cares about, even if you’re 80% sure he’s the reason you got grounded in the first place.
Acknowledge the happy couple: Now, let’s talk about [Bride’s Name]. From the moment you came into his life, it was like something shifted in him. Suddenly, this guy who used to leave the milk out and wear socks that didn’t match started showing signs of being… responsible. You’ve clearly had quite an effect on him, and for that, I owe you a massive thank you.
Closing and toast: So, as we raise our glasses tonight, let’s toast to [Bride’s Name] and [Groom’s Name]. Here’s to a lifetime of love, health, and adventures—hopefully without any foxes this time. May your lives be filled with joy, your home always be warm, and your ham always stay on the plate, where it belongs.
Example 3: Childhood best man speech
Introduction: Ladies and gentlemen, boys and girls, and everyone in between—good evening! My name is [Your Name], and I’m so proud to be here today as [Groom’s Name]’s best man. When [Groom’s Name] asked me to take on this role, I was deeply honoured. But more importantly, I knew this was my golden opportunity to share a few of the greatest hits from our childhood. Get ready, this is going to be fun.
Stories and anecdotes: Growing up with [Groom’s Name] was bonkers. There was always laughter, always chaos, and usually, one of us doing something we definitely shouldn’t have been doing. Take, for example, the time we decided it would be a brilliant idea to turn our bikes into “rocket bikes.” All it took was a couple of fireworks, some duct tape, and absolutely zero adult supervision.
We were convinced we’d invented something revolutionary—right up until the moment the fireworks went off and [Groom’s Name] ended up in the neighbour’s rose bushes. Two ruined bikes and a lot of TCP later, we learnt a valuable lesson: leave rocket science to NASA. But honestly, that was the magic of growing up with [Groom’s Name]. Life was never boring, and there was always a story to tell—even if it involved a bit of pain and a lot of explaining to Mum.
Reflect on your friendship: But for all the wild plans, [Groom’s Name] has always been the guy who’d do anything for the people he loves. He’s got this knack for turning the smallest moments into adventures and making you feel like you’re part of something special. You really are the life and soul, and I’m grateful for every moment of our wacky childhood.
Acknowledge the happy couple: But, of course, all good things must come to an end. Well, almost all good things—because one wild chapter of [Groom’s Name]’s life may be wrapping up, but today marks the beginning of an even better one with [Bride’s Name]. Now, I’ll admit, when I first heard about [Bride’s Name], I was a bit sceptical. Not because of her, but because I thought, “Who in their right mind would willingly sign up for [Groom’s Name]’s shenanigans?” But then I met you, [Bride’s Name], and it all made sense.
You’re kind, funny, and you’ve clearly got the patience of a saint. You not only see the best in [Groom’s Name], but somehow, you’ve managed to make him an even better version of himself. Together, you’re the perfect match, and I couldn’t be happier for you both. No one deserves this as much as you.
Closing and toast: On that note, please charge your glasses to the new Mr and Mrs [Surname]. May your life be filled with love, laughter, and fireworks in all the right places.
Example 4: Twin’s best man speech
Introduction: Good afternoon, everyone. Are you all having a good time? For those of you who don’t know me, my name is [Your Name], and I’m not only the best man, but the Groom’s twin brother.
Stories and anecdotes: Now, if there’s one thing you need to know about being a twin, it’s that it’s a bond unlike any other. Growing up, [Groom’s Name] and I were inseparable. Not by choice, of course—our parents tethered us together with those silly baby reins and dressed us alike until we were old enough to protest. But even after we finally got to pick our own clothes, we were still a team. We’ve shared everything—birthdays, inside jokes, and more than a few questionable decisions.
It probably goes without saying, but [Groom’s name] and I are completely identical. Right down to the freckles on our arms. I know you know where this is going, but Mum, Dad—we have a few confessions.
We swapped places for 5 out of 7 secondary school picture days. Even I don’t know who is who in the Year 10 one.
[Groom’s Name] broke up with my ex for me because I just couldn’t bring myself to do it. I honestly don’t think she noticed.
I took [Groom’s Name]’s driving test for him. To be fair, he’d failed twice already, and I thought, “How hard could it be?” Apparently, harder than I thought, because I failed too.
But, that’s twins for you—always in it together, even when it’s a total disaster.
Reflect on your friendship: But beyond the mischief and the laughs, [Groom’s Name], you’ve always been my rock. We’ve shared every milestone, every challenge, and every triumph. You’ve been my best friend, my sounding board, and the one person I know I can count on, no matter what. Being your twin is the greatest privilege of my life, and I wouldn’t swap it for anything.
Acknowledge the happy couple: And then came [Bride’s Name]. I have to admit, when I first heard about you, [Bride’s Name], I wasn’t sure how anyone could handle [Groom’s Name]. But from the moment I met you, I knew you were perfect for him. You balance him out, keep him on track, and I think you might be the only person who can genuinely tell us apart… or so you say.
You’ve brought out a side of [Groom’s Name] that I’ve never seen before—more thoughtful, more grounded, and, dare I say it, even more in love with life. Together, you’re an unstoppable team, and I couldn’t be happier to welcome you to the family. Though, fair warning: we might still try to rope you into a twin prank or two.
Closing and toast: So, as we raise our glasses, let’s toast to the incredible bond of love, laughter, and partnership. [Bride’s Name], thank you for making my brother the happiest he’s ever been. And [Groom’s Name], here’s to being the best twin, the best friend, and now, the best husband you can be.
Example 5: Nostalgic best man speech
Introduction: Hi everyone, my name is [Your Name], and I’m lucky enough to be standing here today as [Groom’s Name]’s best man. For those of you who don’t know, [Groom’s Name] and I have been best friends since we were just a couple of kids running around in nursery, with scraped knees, a pocket full of Matchbox cars, and far too much energy.
Reflect on your friendship: Looking back, it’s hard to pinpoint the exact moment we became inseparable. Maybe it was the time we teamed up to build the tallest Lego tower the classroom had ever seen… until someone “accidentally” knocked it over (we never liked that girl). Or maybe it was when we discovered a mutual love for hiding from the teachers during nap time, convinced we were rebels. Whatever it was, it started something that’s lasted a lifetime.
Stories and anecdotes: Growing up together meant sharing all the milestones—big and small. I’ll never forget the time we started our first “business” selling conkers to other kids in the playground. We thought we were entrepreneurs, until the headteacher shut us down for “causing a distraction.” We re-grouped, obviously, and started swelling sweets at break time… but I’m pretty sure that’s what got us in internal exclusion, wasn’t it? Sorry if you didn’t know that, [Groom’s Mum’s Name]. We’re all learning things today.
But, the friendship was a lot more than being told off. In fact, [Groom’s Name] was the most sensitive friend I had. He’s the one I knew I could count on, even when things seemed hopeless. Like the time I lost my first football match and was inconsolable. [Groom’s Name] sat with me, telling me stories and insisting that I’d be the next Beckham—even though we both knew I couldn’t score a goal to save my life.
He’s the sort of person who makes you feel like you can do anything, who’s there when you need them most, and who can make you laugh even when you feel like crying. It’s no wonder that he’s found someone as incredible as [Bride’s Name] to share his life with.
Acknowledge the happy couple: [Bride’s Name], from the moment I met you, I knew you were something special. Not because of any big gesture or because you were clearly far too good for him, but because of the way you looked at [Groom’s Name]. It was as if you already saw the best parts of him—the kindness, the loyalty, the big heart that I’ve been lucky enough to know my whole life. You’re everything he could have hoped for and more, and I’m so proud of you both.
Closing and toast: So, as we raise our glasses, I’d like to toast to friendship, to love, and to the memories that shape who we are. [Bride’s Name], thank you for making my oldest friend happier than I’ve ever seen him. And [Groom’s Name], thank you for being the brother I chose all those years ago in nursery. To [Groom’s Name] and [Bride’s Name]!
Example 6: Uni days best man speech
Introduction: Hi everyone, isn’t this an amazing day? For those of you I haven’t met yet, my name is [Your Name], and I have the immense privilege of being [Groom’s Name]’s best man. [Groom’s Name] is undoubtedly the closest thing I have to a brother, so I couldn’t be more thrilled to stand here today and celebrate this incredible moment with him and [Bride’s Name].
Reflect on your friendship: Now, [Groom’s Name] and I go way back, but some of my fondest memories are from our university days. Life was never dull with him around. Like the time he decided we should pull an all-nighter to prepare for exams—by which I mean playing FIFA until sunrise and deciding caffeine would somehow help us “absorb and process” information. Did we re-sit that one once… or was it twice? Twice for you, definitely.
Acknowledge the happy couple: Something you might not know is that I played a small part in introducing [Groom’s Name] to [Bride’s Name]. I say “small,” but it was more like divine intervention. Picture this: a university party, a bit too much liquid courage on both sides, and me, ever the wingman, awkwardly blurting out to [Bride’s Name], “You have to meet my mate, [Groom’s Name]. He’s not bad looking once you’ve had a drink.”
Anyway, we turn around, and he’s casually vomiting into the mop bucket. Not his finest hour. But, somehow, [Bride’s Name] saw past that, and they went for a drink the following week. The rest, as they say, is history.
Stories and anecdotes: From there, things only got better—well, mostly. [Groom’s Name] managed to charm [Bride’s Name] with his unique brand of humour, his questionable dance moves, and his uncanny ability to somehow always lose his wallet when it’s his turn to buy drinks.
We went from being a dynamic duo—Nottingham’s answer to Ant and Dec—to [Bride’s Name] joining the team and upgrading us to a proper trio. And let’s be honest, it’s been all the better for it. [Bride’s Name] brought a touch of class, a lot of patience, and, most importantly, someone who could finally keep [Groom’s Name] in check—because goodness knows, I couldn’t do it on my own!
Closing and toast: So, as we raise our glasses, let’s toast to the real dynamic duo—[Bride’s Name] and [Groom’s Name]. Here’s to a lifetime of adventures, of laughter, and of teamwork. [Bride’s Name], thank you for making my best mate the happiest man in the room. And [Groom’s Name], thank you for proving that even mop bucket moments can lead to something extraordinary. Here’s to your next chapter. Down in one?!
Example 7: Epic bromance best man speech
Introduction: Well, well, well… where do I begin? What a day this has been already. For those of you who don’t know me, I’m [Your Name], and I’ve had the honour of being [Groom’s Name]’s partner in crime, wingman, and, dare I say it, his second greatest love—after [Bride’s Name], of course.
Stories and anecdotes: I never had a brother, but if I had, I can only hope that he’d have been as brilliant—and as ridiculously infuriating—as [Groom’s Name]. Over the years, we’ve shared everything: laughter, bad decisions, and more than a few late-night kebabs that were definitely a mistake the next morning.
Reflect on your friendship: One of my favourite memories has to be the time we went camping and decided to “live off the land.” For us, this involved trying to forage for berries, getting an upset tummy from drinking dirty lake water, and then calling for a pizza to be delivered directly to the tent. Until you’ve used ‘what3words’ to guide a spotty 17-year-old to your very questionable pop-up tent, you haven’t truly experienced the height of outdoor survival, in my opinion. Bear Grylls doesn’t know what he’s talking about.
And let’s not forget the infamous karaoke night when [Groom’s Name] serenaded the entire pub with his rendition of “Wonderwall.” It was both the worst and best performance I’ve ever seen, and somehow, he convinced the audience to join in. That’s just who he is—charming, unstoppable, and, at times, completely ridiculous. Incidentally, that’s the night he told me he’d met [Bride’s Name].
Acknowledge the happy couple: Now, when I first met her, I knew immediately that things were about to change. [Groom’s Name] had met his match—someone who could keep up with his energy, laugh at his jokes (most of them, anyway), and somehow manage to make him a better version of himself. It wasn’t long before I realised that this wasn’t just a passing romance—this was it.
[Bride’s Name], you’ve not only brought out the best in [Groom’s Name], but you’ve also joined the bromance in the most brilliant way. You’ve made space for our nonsense, even encouraged it at times, and for that, I’m forever grateful. It’s clear to everyone here today that you’re not just his partner—you’re his perfect teammate. I graciously and wholeheartedly pass the torch to you.
Closing and toast: So, as we raise our glasses, let’s toast to the ultimate partnership. To Mr and Mrs [Surname]. Wishing you the world and more—you deserve it.
Example 8: Ride or die best man speech
Introduction: Go easy on me, everyone. I’m not usually one for speeches. For those of you who don’t know me, my name is [Your Name] and I’m [Groom’s Name]’s day one best mate. Our Mums made friends in the hospital because they both had nightmare, awkward babies. Paints a picture, doesn’t it? Anyway, fast forward a few years, and those two awkward babies became inseparable partners-in-crime.
Reflect on your friendship: [Groom’s Name] was the worst influence, and yetthe best friend anyone could ask for. Growing up, if there was trouble to be found, you could bet [Groom’s Name] was leading the charge—with me not far behind, trying to talk him out of it (unsuccessfully, I might add). But the thing about [Groom’s Name] is that no matter how chaotic the situation, he could always get you out of it. He had that gift of the gab, you know? I think the kids now call it ‘rizz’.
Acknowledge the happy couple: I’m pretty sure that’s how he landed [Bride’s Name], in fact. Did you know that this happy couple met at a party where [Groom’s Name] confidently told [Bride’s Name] that he could beat anyone in the room at darts? Now, the problem here was that [Groom’s Name] is absolutely terrible at darts—like, “can’t hit the board to save his life” terrible. But somehow, through sheer charm (and maybe a little strategic sabotage), he managed to turn a humiliating loss into a date with [Bride’s Name].
I want lessons in how you navigated that, by the way, because I think we can all agree—[Bride’s Name] is completely out of his league. What a stunner, and the most beautiful bride we’ve ever seen. But in all seriousness, [Bride’s Name], you’re not just stunning—you’re smart, kind, and, let’s face it, a bit of a miracle worker. You’ve managed to keep [Groom’s Name] grounded, organised, and—most impressively—you’ve got him turning up on time to things. That’s nothing short of magic.
Watching you two together is like watching the perfect double act. [Groom’s Name] brings the chaos, and [Bride’s Name], you bring the calm. Together, you balance each other out in the most brilliant way, and it’s clear to everyone in this room that you’re a team built to last.
Closing and toast: Ladies and gentlemen, boys and girls, please raise a glass to the newly minted Mr and Mrs. [Surname]. May your life be filled with love, laughter, and genuine friendship. To Mr and Mrs. [Surname]!
Example 9: Funny best man speech
Introduction: Hello everyone. [Your Name] here, ready to deliver a blinding best man speech. Let’s get the formalities out of the way—I told [Groom’s Name] I wouldn’t sit down until everyone had had a laugh, so you may as well humour me now. [Pause for polite chuckles.] Lovely, thank you!
Stories and anecdotes: I’ve known [Groom’s Name] for 17 years, can you believe it? And in that time, he’s provided me with endless material for this speech. Honestly, I could stand here all night. But let’s keep it clean and simple, shall we? Take, for example, the time he decided he could teach himself to cook during university. One pan, 9 ingredients, no salt, and a smoke alarm later, I was seriously considering calling the fire brigade. And let’s not even get started on his “spaghetti nuggets.”
Equally, there was the time he decided he could master DIY after watching a couple of YouTube videos. Armed with an IKEA flat-pack shelf and far too much confidence, [Groom’s Name] managed to build something that looked like it belonged in the Tate Modern. Impressive, right? Wrong. It was meant to be a Billy Bookcase.
Reflect on your friendship: But that’s the thing about [Groom’s Name]. Even when his plans go sideways—and they often do—he somehow manages to turn it into a laugh. Whether it’s his dodgy karaoke performances, his insistence that he can beat anyone at pool (he can’t), or his legendary “one more pint” philosophy that has led us to some questionable situations, life with him is never boring.
Acknowledge the happy couple: And then along came [Bride’s Name]. Now, I’ll admit, I wasn’t sure how she’d fit into this whirlwind of chaos. But it turns out that she wasn’t just up for the challenge—she embraced it. [Bride’s Name], you’ve brought a whole new dimension to [Groom’s Name]’s life. You’ve somehow managed to make him more organised, more thoughtful, and—dare I say it—almost respectable.
But what’s even more impressive is that you haven’t tried to change him. You love him for exactly who he is—dodgy cooking, wonky shelves, and all. Together, you’ve become the ultimate duo, with [Bride’s Name] providing the calm and the cleverness, and [Groom’s Name] providing… let’s call it the “creative flair.”
Closing and toast: So, let’s raise a glass to [Bride’s Name] and [Groom’s Name], the perfect team. [Bride’s Name], thank you for making [Groom’s Name] the happiest bloke in the room and for laughing along with all of his antics. And [Groom’s Name], thank you for being the walking punchline we all know and love.
Here’s to a marriage full of love, laughter, and maybe a few more dodgy DIY projects along the way. To [Bride’s Name] and [Groom’s Name]—cheers!
Example 10: Supportive best man speech
Introduction: Well here we are. The big day has finally arrived, and I hope you’re all enjoying yourselves (I certainly am)! For those of you I haven’t met yet, my name is [Your Name] and I have the honour of being [Groom’s Name]’s best man.
Reflect on your friendship: Now, as best man, my job is to stand up here and tell you all about [Groom’s Name]. And trust me, there’s a lot to tell. We’ve been through thick and thin together—he’s my partner in crime, my go-to for a laugh, and, I’d never say this to his face, but a bit of a legend.
I’ve known [Groom’s Name] for over 15 years, and over that time, he’s proven himself to be one of the most loyal, supportive, and downright entertaining people I’ve ever met. If you’re in need of a helping hand, [Groom’s Name] is your guy. Just don’t ask him for directions—because if our road trips are anything to go by, you’ll end up completely lost (but somehow still having the best time of your life…
Stories and anecdotes: And speaking of adventures, one of my favourite memories has to be the time he decided we should train for a marathon. Now, this was coming from a man whose idea of “training” was walking to the fridge and back. Needless to say, it didn’t end well. Two runs in, he declared we’d earned a “cheat week,” which somehow lasted six months. But that’s [Groom’s Name] for you—big plans, endless enthusiasm, and an uncanny ability to turn even the most mundane moments into something unforgettable.
Acknowledge the happy couple: And then along came [Bride’s Name]. Now, I’ll admit, when I first met her, I thought, “She’s far too clever to fall for [Groom’s Name].” But somehow, he managed it. And honestly, it’s not hard to see why. [Bride’s Name], you’ve brought out a side of [Groom’s Name] that I didn’t know existed—one that’s more thoughtful, more focused, and even a little bit grown-up.
But what’s even more amazing is how well you complement each other. Together, you’ve created a partnership that’s full of laughter, love, and just the right amount of chaos. [Bride’s Name], you’ve joined our little team and made it so much better.
Closing and toast: Ladies and gentlemen—as the final point of my speech, I’ll ask you to join me in a toast. To love, laughter, and being legally bound to your best mate for life. Look after each other…
Example 11: Short and sweet best man speech
Introduction: Hey everyone. My name is [Your Name], and I have the incredible privilege of being [Groom’s Name]’s best man. I’m not one for speeches, and to be honest, I’ve been pretty nervous about making this. But, when your best mate asks you to stand up and say a few words on the biggest day of his life, you don’t say no, do you? So here we are. I’ll keep it short, I promise, because we all know the real highlight is the free bar.
Reflect on your friendship: I’ve known [Groom’s Name] for 9 years, and in that time, we’ve been through it all—dodgy haircuts, questionable life decisions, and more than a few first dates.
Some of those dates, I’m happy to report, were so bad they’re still a running joke between us. But then, thankfully, along came [Bride’s Name], and suddenly, the joke was on me—because for the first time, [Groom’s Name] was dating someone who actually made sense.
Acknowledge the happy couple: When I first met [Bride’s Name], my immediate thought was, “She’s way too good for him.” And, let’s face it, I was right. But somehow, he managed to charm her with his dad jokes, nerdy hobbies, and relentless optimism. It’s clear to everyone here that they’re a perfect match.
[Bride’s Name], you’ve done what I genuinely thought was impossible: you’ve made [Groom’s Name] a better man. He’s more thoughtful, more organised—sort of—and let’s not forget, more punctual. But most importantly, you make him happy, in a way I’ve never seen before. And honestly, that’s all any of us could ever ask for.
Closing and toast: [Bride’s Name], thank you for putting up with him, and [Groom’s Name], thank you for being the best mate I could have asked for. Here’s to the happy couple—cheers!
Example 12: Best man speech for a bride
Introduction: I’m going to try and get through this without crying, but I’m not promising anything. Ladies and gentlemen, my name is [Your Name], and I have the absolute honour of being the Bride’s best man! I know I know—quirky. But our [Bride’s Name] has never been one to follow tradition.
Reflect on your friendship: And honestly, that’s one of the many things I love about her. [Bride’s Name] has always been unapologetically herself—bold, kind, and completely impossible to ignore (not that you’d ever want to). When she asked me to be her best man, I was floored. And not just because I now had to write a speech—but because it reminded me of how lucky I am to have her in my life.
I’ve known [Bride’s Name] for 22 years, and let me tell you, she’s the kind of person who changes your life just by being in it. From the moment we met, she made me feel seen, understood, and accepted in a way that few people ever have. She’s been my biggest cheerleader, my shoulder to cry on, and the first person to tell me when I’m being completely ridiculous (which is always).
Acknowledge the happy couple: And then along came [Groom’s Name]. Now, I’ll admit, I was very protective when I first met him. After all, [Bride’s Name] isn’t just my best friend—she’s family. But within minutes, it was clear he was something special. The way he looked at her, the way he listened to her, and the way he made her laugh—it was obvious that this wasn’t just some fling. This was the real deal.
[Groom’s Name], you’ve not only made [Bride’s Name] happier than I’ve ever seen her, but you’ve also been the person she deserves—kind, supportive, and absolutely smitten with her. And honestly, it’s been such a joy watching the two of you build a life together, full of love, laughter, and far too many shared snacks that you both pretend don’t count.
Closing and toast: So, as we raise our glasses, let’s toast to two of the best people I know. [Bride’s Name], thank you for being the friend and sister I never knew I needed. And [Groom’s Name], thank you for loving her the way she deserves—and for letting me keep her as my partner in crime, even if I have to share her now. To Mr and Mrs. [Surname]!
The best man speech is the perfect opportunity to share stories of your adventures, honour the groom on his big day, and celebrate the newlyweds’ love.
To write a killer speech, throw in a few (respectful) jokes, compliment the groom’s partner, and keep an upbeat pace. These tips will help you strike a balance between comedy and sincerity and ensure that you leave a lasting impression on their wedding day.
Leave plenty of time to write your speech and look up plenty of best man speech examples. Whether you’re the groom’s brother, friend, or new brother-in-law, these top 12 best man speech examples are sure to inspire your writing.
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The father of the bride’s speech is the top Daddy duty on your little girl’s big day. It’s a much-anticipated, heartfelt, and tear-jerking speech filled with joy and bittersweet nostalgia.
But writing a great father of the bride speech can be tricky. How do you strike the right balance between wit and sentimentality? How do you keep your audience engaged after a long wedding service? How do you properly capture your love, pride, and hope for their future in one 5-7 minute speech? Don’t stress. We’ve got you covered.
In this post, we’ve captured everything you need to know about writing a heartfelt and funny wedding speech. We break down what you should include, the structure of the wedding speech, a few top tips, and those 12 all-important examples of brilliant father of the bride speeches.
A father of the bride speech is the speech made by the bride’s father during the wedding reception. It should be 5-7 minutes long and end with a heartfelt toast to the new couple.
The father’s wedding speech is a beautiful mix of happy memories, heartfelt advice, and funny anecdotes about the bride. Typically the father of the bride speech welcomes your new son-or daughter-in-law to the family, is an opportunity for a father to reflect on his relationship with his daughter, and offers some words of wisdom to the happy couple as they start this new journey together.
What should you include in a father of the bride speech?
Here are some key elements you should consider including in your father of the bride speech:
All about the bride. Talk about how wonderful your daughter is. Tell her guests about your love for her, her amazing accomplishments, and fabulous qualities. Be sure to let them know she got it all from you!
Welcome the bride’s partner. This is the perfect opportunity to welcome your new son- or daughter-in-law to the family. Share positive thoughts about them, their character, and your hopes for their future together.
Anecdotes and memories. Remember when your daughter came home a little too merry from her first grown-up party? Or the time she went on holiday and didn’t take any knickers? This is the perfect opportunity to share funny, endearing, or slightly embarrassing memories with your daughter. But remember, the point isn’t to make a joke of her on her special day. Any stories you pick should ultimately highlight the special bond you share.
Some pearls of wisdom and advice. Offer some sage words of wisdom to the newlyweds. Draw from your life experience and share insights about love, marriage, and building a strong, lasting relationship.
When structuring your father of the bride speech, following a clear and organised framework can be helpful. Try using this structure to get you started:
Introduction
The first part of your speech should focus on introducing yourself and thanking everyone for attending. Your role is to ensure that everyone feels welcome and appreciated at the reception.
Take a moment to acknowledge and express gratitude to those who have travelled to attend and those who have supported the wedding, whether morally or financially.
The thank yous
You should then move on to thank those who have helped organise the wedding. Give a shout-out to the bridesmaids, the ushers, and other friends and family who have been involved.
It’s also a nice idea to thank the wedding planner (if they used one) and the staff working on the wedding day. They’re as much a part of making the big day happen as everyone else.
This is also a good opportunity to remember any family members who could not attend or are no longer with you. Keep it upbeat, but it’s a nice way to remember those you’ve lost who were a big part of your daughter’s upbringing.
The bride
Now is the time to discuss your special relationship with your daughter. It’s the perfect chance to talk about her childhood, accomplishments, and the little quirks that make her so special. Share any funny stories or special adventures you’ve shared. These anecdotes will add a touch of nostalgia and humor to your speech, creating a heartfelt connection with the audience.
End this portion of the speech with how proud you are of the person she’s become. Talk about her loving relationship with her new partner, and don’t forget to sprinkle in a genuine compliment about how stunning she looks on her wedding day – a moment that will surely make her smile even brighter.
The happy couple
You should then welcome your new son- or daughter-in-law and their parents to your family.
It’s a great time to talk about the groom and your experiences with them. You can reminisce about the first time you met, share funny moments you’ve shared together, or highlight some of their endearing traits. By including the groom in your speech, you’re showing your support and building a bridge of connection between families.
Some words of wisdom
You should then move on to sharing some pearls of wisdom with the newlyweds.
You can draw from your experiences and the lessons you’ve learned along the way. You can talk about love, commitment, their future, and building a strong family.
If it’s more appropriate, some carefully chosen quotes about love and marriage or a nice reading are also great options. Remember to deliver your words with clarity and calmness, whatever path you choose. This is the penultimate part of your speech; you want to round it off well.
The toast
You should then invite everyone to join you in a toast to the happy couple. Raise your glass, and present the couple with their new shared name. Congratulations, you did it!
Father of the bride speech template
To help you navigate the complete breakdown of your speech, it can be helpful to have a visual guide to refer to. Check out our handy infographic below:
Use this father of the bride speech template to guide your writing
Top tips for delivering a brilliant father of the bride speech
Know where you fit into the overall wedding speech order. The father of the bride traditionally gives the first speech at the wedding reception. That means you go before the groom’s speech and are the first family member to address the guest. How you deliver your speech will set the tone for the rest of the reception, so keep it upbeat, funny, and light-hearted.
Don’t panic! Pre-speech jitters are natural. But remember, this is one of the best audiences you could be put in front of. Everyone there knows your daughter or her new partner, and everyone is there to celebrate and have a good time. Embrace the excitement and joy of the moment, and let that energy carry you through your speech.
Let your own personality shine through. This is a unique opportunity to connect with the audience on a personal level using charm and wit. Inject your speech with your personal touch, sharing heartfelt stories, cherished memories, and insights only you can provide. Embrace your authentic self and let your love for your daughter be the guiding light in your words.
Include a few jokes. Humor can lighten the mood, enhance feelings of joy, and engage the audience. Keep the jokes tasteful and relevant to the occasion. Share some light-hearted anecdotes or playful teasing about the bride or groom, keeping it in good spirits. It’s about making the audience smile and creating connections on this special day.
If you’re looking for some inspiration, check out our top 12 examples of great father of the bride speech ideas, from the simple and sentimental to the light-hearted and humorous. And remember that these are just examples. You can use them as templates for your own speech, but it’s important to speak from the heart, and add your own personal touch and unique family anecdotes.
A lot of traditional father of the bride speeches and examples will refer to a bride and groom, but you can simply change the references to your daughter’s partner and the appropriate pronouns if you’re attending an LGBTQ+ wedding.
Example 1: Classic father of the bride speech
Introduction: Good afternoon, friends, family, and neighbours. I’m delighted to be here today at the wedding of my beautiful little girl, [Bride’s name].
The bride: I don’t need to tell any of you here just how special [Bride’s name] is. If you’re here, you already know. [Bride’s name] is just incredible. She has this magical way of lighting up a room, not just with her smile, but with her warmth, her humour, and that little spark of mischief that’s been keeping me on my toes since she was a kid. She’s so different to her brothers, full of crazy ideas and spirit. But, equally, she’s someone who’s always cared deeply about the people in her life, who’s never been afraid to chase her dreams, and who has this unstoppable determination to make the world a little brighter wherever she goes.
I couldn’t be prouder to be here today in front of you all today, watching my little girl start this incredible new chapter of her life. Seeing her so happy, so confident, and so deeply loved— it’s every parent’s dream come true.
The happy couple: I’d also like to speak to [Groom’s name]. From the moment you came into [Bride’s name]’s life, it was clear you were something special. You didn’t just love her, you understood her. You’ve brought out the best in her, supporting her in everything she does with your steadfast reassurance. You’re kind, patient, and with just enough wit to keep up with her, which is no simple feat. Genuinely, welcome to our family. I wouldn’t want anyone else.
The thank yous: That ended up being a lot more emotional than I expected it to be! But, I mean every word from the bottom of my heart.
Speaking of the bottom of my heart, I want to say a huge thank you to everyone who’s made today so special. To all the friends and family who’ve travelled to be here. It means the world to us to celebrate this incredible day with you. Weddings aren’t just about two people; they’re about the love and support of everyone around them, and looking out at all of you, it’s clear that [Bride’s name] and [Groom’s name] have a pretty amazing team in their corner.
Some words of wisdom: As the final point, I’ll tell you what my father told me on my wedding day: Marriage isn’t about big grand gestures, it’s about the small actions you take every day that make their life a little bit brighter. It’s about making them a cup of tea without being asked, sharing a laugh after a long day, and never forgetting to say “I love you”.
The toast: With that in mind, please raise your glasses to the newly minted Mr & Mrs [Surname].
Example 2: Light-hearted father of the bride speech
Introduction: Hello, hello, hello everyone. Friends, family, strangers who’ve wandered in off the street. My name is [your name], and I’m the very proud father of the bride. Now, I say ‘proud,’ but let’s not forget ‘bewildered,’ because how exactly did we get here so fast? It feels like just yesterday that [Bride’s name] was running around in a tutu, insisting she could be a princess, a superhero, and a rock star all at once. Honestly, she kind of pulled it off…
The thank yous: Before we get going I’d like to say a few thank-yous. First, to all of you for being here today—whether you’ve come from near or far, or just turned up for the free food and wine, it means the world to us that you’re here to celebrate [Bride’s name] and [Groom’s name].
I’d also like to thank everyone who’s worked so hard to make today so special. From the beautiful decorations to the incredible food, everything has been perfect. Sincerely, thank you so much.
The bride: Now, onto the star of the show. [Bride’s name], what can I say? You’re every father’s dream come true. Funny, clever, beautiful, and a dab hand at an oil change. You’ve always been full of surprises—whether it was your ability to beat your brothers at just about anything, or that phase where you insisted you were going to be a pirate and made us all call you Captain [Bride’s name] for a month. And honestly, seeing you today, so radiant and happy, I can’t help but think, “Yep, she’s still my little superstar.”
The happy couple: [Groom’s name], I know we like to have a joke together, but in all seriousness, I’m just as proud of you as I am of [Bride’s name]. From the moment you came into our family, I knew there couldn’t be anyone else for her. You’re the perfect balance to her crazy energy, and you’ve got a knack for keeping her grounded while still letting her shine. You respect her, you support her, and—most importantly—you know how to handle her competitive streak. Honestly, anyone who can survive a family game night with [Bride’s name] and still come back for more deserves a medal.
Some words of wisdom: And if I could just share a couple of pieces of advice for you both as you embark on this wonderful journey called marriage, here they are. Be each other’s rocks, the other person’s biggest cheerleader. Stand behind them when they need it, and hold their head up when they can’t. Oh, and never underestimate the importance of an spontaneous bunch of flowers.
The toast: Everyone, please charge your glasses to the new, wonderful Mr and Mrs [Surname].
Example 3: Sentimental father of the bride speech
Introduction: Hi everyone, thank you so much for coming. For those of you who don’t know me, my name is [your name] and I’m the very proud father of the bride.
The thank yous: We’ll get the thanks yous out of the way before we all start crying (myself included). First, a huge thank you to everyone who’s travelled to be here today. Whether you came from just down the road or crossed oceans to join us, your presence means the world. This day wouldn’t be the same without each and every one of you. I’d also like to thank everyone who pulled together to make the day so special. From the food to the flowers and everything in between, the day wouldn’t have been possible without all your efforts. Thank you.
The bride: Parents spend a lot of time wondering what this day will be like. Who will they end up with, how will it all unfold, and what will I say when the time comes? Well, let me tell you, [Bride’s name], you’ve turned into someone more wonderful than I could have ever dreamed. I couldn’t be prouder of the person you’ve become. You’ve grown into someone who’s not only beautiful on the outside, but also kind, compassionate, and endlessly capable. Watching you navigate life with such grace and humour has been one of my greatest joys as a parent.
The happy couple: Now, let me talk about [Groom’s name]. From the first time we met, I could see what made you so special. You’re thoughtful, genuine, and you’ve got this steady calm about you that balances [Bride’s name] perfectly. You don’t just fit into our family—you’ve added to it in ways we didn’t even know we needed. It’s clear to everyone here that you adore [Bride’s name], and as her parent, I honestly couldn’t ask for more.
Some words of wisdom: I couldn’t be happier for you both. You’re starting this incredible journey together, and if there’s one thing I could share with you about marriage, it’s that the little things are what truly matter. It’s not the big gestures or the grand milestones. Although those are lovely, it’s the small, everyday acts of love and kindness that build a life together. The shared laughs, the quiet moments, and even the compromises about whose turn it is to take out the bins. Embrace every little moment. It’s an incredible journey.
The toast: On that note… if you could all please raise your glasses to the couple of the decade, Mr and Mrs. [Surname].
Example 4: Quirky father of the bride speech
Introduction: Welcome one, welcome all to the happiest day of [Bride’s name]’s life. My name is [your name] and I’m the very proud father of the bride.
The bride: When I think back to watching my beautiful little girl grow up, I can’t help but smile at the sheer whirlwind of personality she brought into our lives. [Bride’s name] was never one to do things by halves. Whether it was her brief yet passionate career as a magician (apologies to the neighbour’s cat for that one) or her insistence that she could set up a lemonade stand and manage the family finances at the age of seven, she’s always been determined, creative, and just a little bit chaotic—in the best way possible. As a teenager, of course, she had a knack for keeping us on our toes. From her “unique” fashion phases (I still have no idea how neon zebra print became a thing in our house) to the time she decided she’d become a world-class ukulele player overnight, life with [Bride’s name] has been anything but boring. And honestly? I wouldn’t change a single second of it.
Today, seeing her standing here, all grown up and radiant, I can’t help but think she’s still that same adventurous, passionate soul—just with better taste in shoes. [Bride’s name], you’ve turned into the kind of person any parent would be proud to call their daughter: kind, funny, and with a heart as big as your ambition.
The happy couple: And then there’s [Groom’s name]. The first time I met him, I thought, “He seems normal enough… let’s see how long that lasts.” Turns out, it wasn’t an act—[Groom’s name] truly is as genuine and good-hearted as he seemed.
What I quickly realised is that [Groom’s name] not only loves [Bride’s name], but he also gets her. He understands her quirks, supports her dreams, and even seems to enjoy her impromptu ukulele serenades. He’s braver than most, I’ll give you that. You’ve become an integral part of our family, [Groom’s name], and for that, we’re truly grateful. Just one piece of advice: always double-check what she’s ordering online after midnight. Trust me on this.
Some words of wisdom: In all seriousness, my main advice would be that marriage is about being a team. It’s not just about love, though that’s a big part of it. It’s about partnership, patience, and biting your tongue when someone insists they definitely know how to assemble IKEA furniture without the instructions. It’s about finding joy in the little things like laughing at the same old jokes or getting their favourite biscuits in without asking. You’ll find your rhythm, I know you will.
The thank yous: As a final point from me, I’d like to extend a sincere thank you to everyone who made this day possible. To my wife, who graciously returned my cheque book to me, to the wedding planner, who managed to coordinate this beautiful chaos with the precision of a Swiss watch, and to everyone who played a part in making today so special. Genuinely, thank you.
The toast: So, let’s wrap this up before I get too sentimental—or worse, attempt to tell a dad joke. Here’s to [Bride’s name] and [Groom’s name]: may your life together be full of laughter, love, and plenty of biscuits. Cheers!
Example 5: Poetic father of the bride speech
Introduction: Ladies and gentlemen, allow me to introduce myself as the very proud father of [Bride’s name]. As I stand before you today, I find myself filled with a mix of emotions: pride, joy, a touch of nostalgia, and perhaps just a little disbelief at how quickly time has flown. It feels like only yesterday [Bride’s name] was my little girl, with wide eyes and big dreams, and now here she is, beautiful, radiant, and beginning the most wonderful chapter of her life.
The bride: [Bride’s name], from the moment you came into my life, you brought a light that I never knew I was missing. Watching you grow has been one of my greatest privileges. Every laugh, every challenge, every triumph has been a gift. You’ve always been a dreamer, a doer, and someone who leaves the world a little better just by being in it. I couldn’t have been prouder today to give you away to [Groom’s name], who I know will steer you steady through the course of life.
The happy couple: And then there’s [Groom’s name]. The first time I met him, I’ll admit, I had my questions (a father’s prerogative, after all). But it didn’t take long for me to see the depth of his character and the sincerity of his love for [Bride’s name]. He reminded me of the words of Jane Austen: “There is no charm equal to tenderness of heart.” [Groom’s name], you’ve shown us all your tender heart—not just in how you love [Bride’s name] but in how you’ve embraced our family. Truly, we are blessed to have you.
The thank yous: Thank you to everyone who made this day so special. Your presence, presents, and kindness have not gone unnoticed.
Some words of wisdom: I wish you the very best on your journey through life together. Today I am blessed to be able to share my wisdom with you, and this is: Marriage is a delicate balance of independence and togetherness. Remember, communicate openly, forgive freely, a little space is no bad thing, and never lose sight of the friendship that brought you together in the first place.
The toast: Ladies, gentlemen, and non-binary friends, please raise your glasses to the new Mr. and Mrs. [Surname].
Example 6: Thoughtful father of the bride speech
Introduction: Friends, family, esteemed guests… Welcome, to the wonderful wedding of [Bride’s name], my little girl, and [Groom’s name]. I cannot tell you how proud I am to be here today, representing my wonderful daughter on the happiest day of her life.
The thank yous: We’ll get the thank yous out of the way before I lose the ability to speak, no doubt. First off, thank you to everyone who’s made the effort to be here today. Whether you’ve travelled miles or just popped over from down the road, your presence means everything to us. This day wouldn’t be the same without the love and laughter you’ve all brought into this room.
A special thank you to everyone who’s worked so hard behind the scenes to make today so beautiful—the flowers, the food, the music—it’s all been perfect, hasn’t it? And a big thank you to [Groom’s name]’s family for welcoming [Bride’s name] into your hearts. Knowing she’s joining such a kind and supportive family makes this day even more special.
The bride: Now, let’s talk about [Bride’s name]. Where do I even begin? From the moment she came into my life, she turned my world upside down in the best possible way. She’s always been a little spark of joy, full of energy, mischief, and, let’s be honest, more than a few strong opinions. Growing up, she kept me on my toes—from her wild ideas about turning the garden shed into a “pet sanctuary” to her unwavering belief that glitter made everything better (and our carpets still haven’t recovered). But through it all, she’s shown a kindness and determination that I’ve always admired.
[Bride’s name], seeing you today, all grown up and glowing with happiness, I can’t help but feel a little emotional. You’ve become such an incredible person—strong, compassionate, and with a laugh that lights up the room. You’ve always been my little girl, but today, I’m handing you over to someone who I know will cherish and support you as much as I do.
The happy couple: [Groom’s name], let me just say, you’ve set the bar pretty high. The first time I met you, I could tell you were someone special. You weren’t just polite and charming; you had this calm confidence about you that told me you were here for the long haul. It’s been clear from the start how much you love [Bride’s name], but what’s even more important to me is how you understand her. You get her quirks, her passions, and her occasional stubborn streak (good luck with that, by the way). In all seriousness, I couldn’t wish for a better son-in-law, so thank you.
Some words of wisdom: If I can offer you one piece of advice, it’s this: don’t sweat the small stuff. Marriage isn’t about perfection—it’s about showing up every day for each other, even when life gets messy. Be each other’s biggest supporters, keep laughing together, and don’t let anyone or anything come between you. You’re an unshakeable team, and I know you’ll do just fine.
The toast: Ladies and gentlemen, please raise your glasses to the health, wealth, and happiness of the new Mr and Mrs. [Surname].
Example 7: Personal father of the bride speech
Introduction: Well… what a day this has already been. Can you believe we’re here? Because I certainly can’t. Where has my little girl gone? My little girl who used to run around the house with mismatched socks and a million questions… I can’t help but reflect on how we got to this moment.
The thank yous: Before we get going, I’d like to say a huge thank you to everyone who made this day possible. From the bar staff to the priest and everyone in between, this day has been truly magical. Fit for a princess, truly.
The bride: Now, my [Bride’s name]. My little girl. You’ve grown into the most incredible woman—kind, smart, and strong—and yet, in my eyes, you’ll always be that little whirlwind of energy, full of curiosity and laughter. Watching you today, glowing, looking so happy, it’s hard not to feel a lump in my throat (and not just because of the speech nerves, I promise!).
You’ve taken every stage of your life in your stride, and today is no different. Seeing the love between you and [Groom’s name], it’s clear you’ve met your match. He makes your eyes sparkle and your laugh just a little louder. That’s all a dad could ever want for his daughter, to find someone who treasures her as much as we do.
The happy couple: To [Groom’s name], welcome to the family, mate. You’ve passed the ultimate test: her mother likes you. But truly, you’ve not only won her heart but ours as well. Seeing how happy you make her—it’s all we’ve ever wanted for her. As I stand here looking at you both, I can see the perfect balance you bring to each other. [Bride’s name], you’ve found someone who loves and respects you for the amazing person you are, and [Groom’s name], you’ve got yourself a partner who will stand by your side no matter what life throws at you. Together, you’re a force to be reckoned with, and I have no doubt that the future holds incredible things for you both.
Some words of wisdom: It won’t always be smooth sailing, of course. Marriage isn’t. But if you keep steering your ship with love, patience, and a good sense of humour, you’ll always find your way back to calm waters.
The toast: To Mr. and Mrs [Surname]. Wishing you a lifetime of love, laughter, and maybe a little bit of chaos because let’s face it, it keeps things interesting. Here’s to your happily ever after!
Example 8: Humorous father of the bride speech
Introduction: Time for the main event! I’m joking, of course. I know you’re all here for the cake. My name is [your name], and I’m the very proud, if a little emotional, father of the bride, and it’s my absolute pleasure to stand here today and say a few words.
The bride: Now, I have to start by saying how stunning [Bride’s name] looks today. Absolutely radiant, isn’t she? It’s hard to believe this is the same person who used to think that tidying her room meant shoving everything under the bed or into that chair—you know the one. The one where clothes go to die.
Growing up, [Bride’s name] was always the queen of organised chaos. Shoes in the fridge? Sure. Homework on the dog? Why not? But somehow, she always managed to keep it together, even if her surroundings didn’t. And you know what? That’s one of the things I love most about her. She’s not perfect—thank goodness, because none of us are—but she’s real, she’s genuine, and she’s got a heart as big as this room.
The happy couple: Now, let’s talk about the other star of the show—[Groom’s name]. From the moment I met you, I could see how much you loved [Bride’s name]. It’s in the way you look at her, the way you laugh at her jokes—even the bad ones—and how you’re always there to lift her up. You’re the kind of person every parent hopes their child will find: someone who will cherish, respect, and challenge them. So, thank you for loving [Bride’s name] the way you do.
The thank yous: Thank you to all of you, too. Everyone who has travelled from afar, everyone who helped make this day as special as it is. From the venue staff to the florist, and of course, the catering team, who ensured we’ve all been very well fed. Your efforts have not gone unnoticed, so thank you.
Some words of wisdom: But the biggest thanks of all go to [Bride’s name] and [Groom’s name]. Not just for giving us an excuse to dress up and eat cake, but for reminding us all what love and partnership look like. You’ve brought all of us together today, and I think we can all agree—it’s been a pretty spectacular day.
The toast: So, let’s raise a glass to the happy couple: may your lives be filled with love, laughter, and maybe a tiny bit of tidiness (but only if it doesn’t cramp your style). To [Bride’s name] and [Groom’s name]! Cheers!
Example 9: Heartfelt father of the bride speech
Introduction: Testing, testing… No, I’m joking. I know it’s on. Welcome, everyone to this special day. My name is [your name], and I’m the bride’s father. Honestly, I couldn’t be prouder to say that. What a moment this is in a father’s life.
The thank yous: Before we get started, I’d like to say a huge thank you to everyone who made this magical day possible. From the venue staff to the florist, the caterers, and everyone who worked behind the scenes. You’ve all helped create a day that’s nothing short of perfect.
The bride: [Bride’s name], you look absolutely stunning today. I mean, you always look lovely to me, but today you’ve outdone yourself. Watching you grow up has been one of the greatest privileges of my life. From the little girl with scraped knees and a fearless spirit to the incredible woman sitting here now… It’s been quite a journey, hasn’t it? And I couldn’t have been prouder to hold your hand throughout.
The happy couple: Until, of course, you met [Groom’s name]. From the moment we first met him, it was obvious he was something special. He’s got that steady, grounded way about him that balances out your whirlwind energy perfectly. And I’ve seen the way he looks at you, with so much love and admiration…. It’s all I could have ever hoped for you.
Some words of wisdom: Looking at the two of you, I’m filled with so much hope for the life you’re about to build together. If I can, I’d love to give you a little advice: Always dance in the kitchen. Even if there’s no music. Especially if there’s no music. Those silly, unexpected moments will remind you why you chose each other. Don’t just love each other—like each other. Be friends, partners in crime, and the person the other one wants to call with the good news, the bad news, and the “you won’t believe what just happened!”
And finally, remember that it’s the little things that matter most. Not the big gestures, but the everyday kindnesses. Like letting the other have the last slice of pizza, even when you really, really want it. Those are the things that build a lifetime together.
The toast: Ladies and gentlemen, please join me in a toast to the new Mr and Mrs [Surname]. I couldn’t think of anyone who deserves this more.
Example 10: Candid father of the bride speech
Introduction: Hello, everyone. Welcome to the wedding of [Bride’s name] and [Groom’s name]. What a beautiful day this has been so far—and what an emotional one, too. I’ve been doing my best to hold it together, but seeing my little girl all grown up and starting this incredible new chapter… Well, let’s just say it’s a good thing I didn’t wear mascara.
The bride: [Bride’s name]. I love you. I know I don’t say that enough, but I could say it a million times and it still wouldn’t have been enough. As your dad, it’s been my greatest privilege to walk alongside you, to cheer you on, to wipe the occasional tear (and maybe cause a few when I said no to a hamster). Watching you grow into the woman you are today—strong, funny, and with a heart so big it barely fits in this room—has been nothing short of amazing.
There’s a bond between a father and his daughter that’s hard to put into words. It’s love, pride, and the occasional panic when you first ask for the car keys. But it’s also unshakable, no matter how far life takes you. And while today marks a new chapter in your life, know this: you’ll always be my little girl. Always.
The happy couple: [Groom’s name], thank you. I couldn’t think of anyone more deserving of her love. You and I both know that [Bride’s name] isn’t just any woman. She’s a force of nature. She’s clever, compassionate, and a little stubborn at times. But that’s part of what makes her so remarkable. And seeing the way you love her, not despite those qualities but because of them, fills me with so much joy.
From the moment I saw the way you looked at her, I knew. You weren’t just a boyfriend or a fiancé, you were her partner in every sense of the word. You’ve brought a calm, steady presence into her whirlwind world, and for that, I’ll always be grateful.
Some words of wisdom: So, to wrap this up—because I know no one wants to see me cry—I just want to say this: Marriage is a journey, and like all great journeys, it’s made up of small, everyday moments. Make those moments count. Laugh often, forgive easily, and never stop holding hands.
The thank yous: Thank you to everyone who helped out with today. What a fabulous day it’s been so far.
The toast: Let’s raise a glass to [Bride’s name] and [Groom’s name]. [Bride’s name], you’ve always been my little girl, and while today you’re taking on a new title, “wife”, you’ll never lose that special place in my heart. And [Groom’s name], thank you for loving her the way she deserves. Together, you two are unstoppable, and I can’t wait to see the incredible life you’ll build.
Here’s to a lifetime of love, laughter, and the little moments that make it all worthwhile. May you always find joy in each other, even when the socks don’t match and the Wi-Fi’s gone down. To [Bride’s name] and [Groom’s name]—cheers!
Example 11: Short and sweet father of the bride speech
Introduction: Hello, ladies and gentlemen. Are you all having a good time? My name is [your name] and I’m the bride’s father. I’m not one for speeches, so if it’s ok with you, I’ll keep it short and sweet.
The thank yous: A huge thank you to everyone who has made this wonderful day possible. It’s already been a day to remember, and I can’t wait for tonight to see everyone’s dodgy dance moves. Whether you travelled from afar, cooked the whole menu, or even just turned up ready to celebrate, thank you. It means the world to all of us, and I know it means the world to [Bride’s name] and [Groom’s name].
The bride: [Bride’s name]. Look at you. My little girl, and now all grown up. I couldn’t be prouder of the person you’ve become. From day dot, you’ve been an absolute superstar, full of life, laughter, and just a little stubbornness. You’re more than I ever could have dreamed of, and you are truly my greatest achievement.
The happy couple: [Groom’s name], what can I say? You’re the perfect match for my daughter. You make her laugh, you support her dreams, and most importantly, you seem to have mastered the art of letting her win an argument now and then. That’s a skill that will serve you well! Welcome to the family—it’s a slightly chaotic but very loving one, and we’re thrilled to have you in it.
Some words of wisdom: Life will throw its surprises at you—both wonderful and challenging—but if you tackle them together, with a bit of patience and a lot of humour, you’ll be just fine. Oh, and remember, [Groom’s name], the answer to “Does this dress make me look…?” is always no.
The toast: So, let’s raise a glass to [Bride’s name] and [Groom’s name]. May your life be filled with love, laughter, and just enough surprises to keep things interesting. And may you always find your way back to each other, even if someone’s gone and nicked the last slice of cake.
Example 12: Gender-neutral father of the bride speech
Introduction: Welcome, welcome, welcome everyone to the wonderful wedding of [Child’s name] and [Partner’s name]. Isn’t this a spectacular day? I couldn’t be prouder to be stood here today as [Child’s name]’s father, celebrating this incredible moment with all of you. Honestly, what a privilege it is to be part of such a special day, surrounded by so much love, joy, and probably a fair bit of prosecco.
The thank yous: First off, let me say a massive thank you to everyone who’s helped make today what it is. From the stunning venue to the delicious food and the flowers that I definitely can’t name but know look amazing—what an effort. And to all of you, thank you for showing up with your best outfits and your biggest smiles. It’s a real testament to how much love [Child’s name] and [Partner’s name] inspire.
The happy couple: Now, let’s talk about the stars of the show: [Child’s name] and [Partner’s name]. You two are a perfect match, like tea and biscuits or a Friday night and a takeaway. Watching your relationship grow has been like watching the best kind of rom-com—one that’s full of laughter, a bit of bickering over what to watch on Netflix, and a whole lot of love.
[Child’s name], I’ve always known you were destined for something extraordinary. You’ve always had this spark, this way of lighting up a room and making people feel instantly at ease. And then you met [Partner’s name]. From the moment I saw you two together, it was clear—this wasn’t just a spark. This was a full-on firework display.
[Partner’s name], thank you for loving my child as deeply as you do. You’ve not just joined our family—you’ve completed it.
Some words of wisdom: So, here’s a bit of advice from someone who’s been around the block a few times: Life is unpredictable. There will be highs, there will be lows, and there will definitely be arguments over who left the milk out. But if you keep choosing each other—every single day—you’ll weather anything that comes your way.
And don’t forget to keep laughing, even when the dishwasher’s broken, or someone’s forgotten to replace the loo roll. Laughter is the glue that holds it all together.
The toast: So, let’s raise a glass to [Child’s name] and [Partner’s name]. May your days be full of joy, your nights full of laughter, and your love for each other only grow stronger. And may you always find a reason to celebrate— big or small, rain or shine. To the happy couple— cheers!
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Now that couples in the UK can legally get married outdoors, wedding marquees are growing in popularity. If you dreamed of getting married in the middle of a vineyard or deep within the rolling British countryside, you can!
But, thanks to the great British weather being as volatile and unpredictable as it is, you won’t want to risk a washout in the event it decides to drizzle… or worse.
That’s where a wedding marquee comes in. It’s a fantastic way to add cover and customisation to your wedding. Even if you’re not getting married outside, many couples hire a marquee anyway to add more indoor space to their venue.
If the cost is putting you off of having a marquee at your wedding, then don’t start making alternative plans just yet. In this post, we’re going to take a look at how you can save money on a wedding marquee and what you need to look out for so as not to exceed your budget.
Is it cheaper to hire a marquee for your wedding instead of hiring a venue?
In general, the cost of a marquee can be more affordable than hiring a venue. The average cost of a wedding venue is £9,877 with catering included, and £6,084 without catering. But, if you’re not careful, then the costs involved with a marquee can spiral, which means it might not be any kinder to your budget. Hiring an all-inclusive venue which includes catering can often be the most cost-effective option overall (as just hiring a marquee won’t factor this in).
There are a variety of different marquee types you can hire for your wedding, which includes everything from a tipi to a circus tent. Generally, the more premium it is, the more customisable it is, and the more difficult to transport and set up it is, the more expensive it will be to hire.
One of the cheapest types of marquee to hire is a circus-style tent – costs at Bigtopmania start from as low as £100. But, if you’re looking for something a little less niche, a traditional marquee, a clearspan marquee or a pole marquee are among the most affordable. However, the costs will generally start at around £1,500+ for each, depending on the size you need. Of course, the more guests you invite, the larger your marquee will need to be.
Can you save money by buying a marquee rather than hiring?
Large marquees are expensive, so it more than likely won’t save you any money if you decide to buy one, and even cost more. You may be able to buy a marquee for around £500, but it won’t nearly be big enough to host your wedding – in fact, a marquee for that amount will probably fit in your average back garden.
If you’re looking to hire a marquee that will accommodate 100 guests, it’s far more budget-friendly to hire one rather than buy one. Hiring costs will also include setup and takedown fees and you won’t have to worry about where you’re going to store your marquee once your wedding’s over.
When compared to hiring a venue, a marquee can initially seem like a far more affordable option. But, it’s important to bear in mind that hire costs don’t include the site rental, power generator, staff, toilet hire, furniture hire or insurance costs. You may also need to hire a second marquee for the catering staff, which can significantly add to your costs.
It may be another additional cost, but you will need to secure marquee insurance in the event something unexpected happens on your big day. Insurance will cover you and your guests, and while it’s yet another thing to pay for, it could potentially save you many thousands. If you have wedding insurance (which we really recommend) then you should check with your insurer if your marquee is included in this cover (as basic cover rarely includes). The good news is that you can add marquee cover as an additional premium… the not-so-good news is that it will cost – usually around £50 on top of what you’re already paying.
If a marquee is a big part of your wedding plans, then there are ways you can save money. Here are five tips to help you spend less on a wedding marquee so you can have your dream wedding without breaking the back.
1. Hire from a company outside of London
When deciding on a cheap marquee rental company to hire if you’re on a tight budget, try to choose one that isn’t based in London. As with most professional services and vendors, those located in London naturally cost a little (or a lot) more than those found outside the capital. The same applies to hiring a marquee – after all, storing a marquee when it’s not set up takes up a huge amount of space, which is expensive for London businesses. If you can, hire a local company or one that doesn’t call anywhere inside the M25 their home.
2. Avoid peak dates
Just like with any other vendor or service you may hire for your wedding, including your venue and caterers, if your wedding takes place during peak times, it will cost more – sometimes several thousands more. The most popular times to get married are during the summer months and at the weekend, so if you’re thinking about getting married during either (or both) of these then expect to pay more for marquee rental when competition is highest.
If you can, consider getting married during off-peak times, such as during the winter or midweek. Hiring a marquee for a Tuesday wedding in February will be considerably kinder to your budget than a Saturday wedding in August.
3. Make good use of the space
As you’ve no doubt realised, marquees can be pretty huge – especially if you want one that fits 100 guests. However, it’s important to remember that you and your guests won’t be the only bodies inside your marquee. You also have to consider the staff you hire, including where the catering team is going to prepare your food, and if there’s room for a DJ and dance floor.
So, you may need to go one or two sizes bigger to make sure all the relevant vendors have room, too. If not, then be prepared to hire a second, smaller marquee – which could cost you even more.
The good news is, you can get creative with the space to prevent the need for going bigger. For example, during the wedding breakfast, you can put tables on the dance floor which can be quickly moved out of the way before the evening reception. With a little musical chairs action you can get the most out of the space you have, which will save you some money.
4. Make your booking early (or late!)
Hiring a marquee for a wedding is growing in popularity, especially since laws in the UK changed to allow couples to get married wherever they like. As a result, marquee rental companies tend to fill up their availability many months in advance. If you’re keen to hire a marquee, then make sure you secure your booking early – the closer to the date you book, the more expensive it can be (not to mention more difficult to find availability). Plus, if you book really early you might even be able to secure a juicy discount.
Another important tip when making your booking: ensure the price you’re quoted is fixed so it won’t go up at a later date due to inflation or other reasons.
5. Book a package deal
Remember earlier in this article when we mentioned how, on top of the costs involved with hiring your marquee, there were additional costs on top of this? Well, some wedding marquee vendors, such as Capri Marquees, Tailor-made Marquees and Grice Foster event hire, offer package deals that include many of these extras, such as furniture, decor and power. Booking a package will be far more budget-friendly than booking each part from a separate vendor.
That said, make sure you take the time to compare both options to make sure you really are getting the best deal in your specific situation.
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Forest weddings are whimsical and beautiful. There’s nowhere better to declare your everlasting love than in an enchanting forest surrounded by birdsong and the beauty of nature.
But hold on tight, because planning a forest wedding isn’t just about picking a location and calling it a day! You need to balance the practical details like finding a venue, choosing a photographer, and inviting your beloved guests to your beautiful, nature-inspired backdrop.
So, whether you’re planning an intimate, elven ceremony tucked away under a canopy of trees, or a fabulous flower-strewn soirée, this article will be your go-to guide for turning your dreams into a magical reality.
Ready to learn how to have a wedding in a forest? Let’s dive in!
A forest wedding is either a full wedding ceremony and reception in a forest, or simply a wedding reception hosted in a forest. It’s a beautiful and unique way to celebrate your union amongst the sights and sounds of nature.
Forest weddings offer endless possibilities for personalisation and creativity. Whether you’d like delicate, natural-inspired decor or a full-blown alternative wedding or eco-warrior wedding, you’ll have full control with a forest wedding.
⭐Did You Know: If you want to be legally married at your beautiful venue, double-check that the location of the wedding venue is an Approved Premises under the Marriages and Civil Partnerships (Approved Premises) Regulations 2005. If not, you may need to have the ceremony elsewhere and move to the forest for the reception.
Forest weddings have become increasingly popular in recent years. Many couples are drawn to the natural beauty, tranquility, and enchanting atmosphere that forests offer as a wedding backdrop.
In fact, according to our 2023 UK Wedding Report, over ¼ of wedding ceremonies took place outside. This includes the nearly one-in-five couples married in 2022 who opted for a “unique location or venue”, such as a boathouse, forest, or scenic loch.
But while outdoor, alternative, and forest weddings are growing in popularity, they certainly won’t feel overdone. The peaceful vibe and privacy of a forest wedding are second to none, and with thoughtful planning, you can create a memorable and enchanting experience for you, your partner and your guests amidst the beauty of nature.
Let’s check out some of the key steps you need to take and elements to consider when planning your forest wedding:
1. Pick your dream venue
Picking a venue is likely one of the first things you’ll do. It will be the backdrop of all your photographs and determine the size of your wedding. Make sure you visit lots of venues, chat with in-house wedding planners and discuss budgets before committing to a location.
With our wedding venue search tool, you can filter by venue types such as ‘Outdoor’ and styles such as ‘Rustic’ to see exactly what’s out there. This tool will also give you an approximate price, number of bedrooms and how many guests the location can hold. These approximations can help structure the rest of your planning and help you decide where to have an enchanting forest wedding.
Note that it may be difficult for external suppliers to make it to a wedding in a forest. So be prepared to factor in additional transport costs or pay for wedding insurance add-ons in case their stock is damaged.
2. Embrace nature-inspired decor & styling
Wedding decor can include anything from flowers and bouquets to tablescapes and fun photo booths. Incorporate wildflowers, ferns, moss and rustic wooden accents to create a whimsical and organic ambiance.
Twine, dried flowers, moss, burlap and other natural elements from the forest are often free or low-cost and look beautiful. You could also use eco-friendly paper options or consider seed paper that guests can plant afterwards! Leave a little note with the seed paper explaining the symbolic gesture of your growth as a couple and your connection to nature.
The cost of this decor will depend on your vision and how much you’re willing to do yourself. The great thing about forest weddings is that you can often use natural elements like foliage, dried flowers and rustic elements in your decorations. This decor is easy to DIY, and there are tons of tutorials online. Doing it yourself can help reduce costs, while hiring a professional wedding stylist or florist can increase expenses.
To keep costs down even further, you could create your own invitations using dried flowers, cardstock and twine. This will contribute to the rustic theme and add a personal touch to your big day. If the task feels like too much to do on your own or you aren’t very handy, ask a trusted friend (with nice handwriting) to join you in a craft evening. Then, spend some time creating your wedding invites – you’ll be surprised how much fun you have!
3. Don’t forget the essentials
This includes chairs, tables, lighting, sound systems and any necessary permits or license fees. Check with your venue whether they offer a package that includes these essentials to minimise costs.
If they don’t, look out for companies that offer plastic or polished wood furniture. These will be easier to clean and will contribute to the fresh, woodland theme.
4. Craft a woodland-inspired menu
When hosting a forest wedding, try incorporating nature-inspired elements into your food offerings to create a memorable and cohesive experience for your guests.
For example, try hosting a vegan buffet with farm-to-table ingredients. Alternatively, host a barbecue or rent food vans. These interactive catering experiences will contribute to the laid-back environment of a forest wedding and allow guests with different dietary requirements to manage their plate. Plus, you won’t need to print place cards reminding everyone what they ordered!
5. Capture the magical moments
After putting so much work into your big day, capturing the special moments of your forest wedding is essential.
Holding a forest wedding will allow for truly breathtaking wedding photography. With an ample supply of natural light and a beautiful backdrop, your wedding photos will be something to behold. Ask your photographer if they offer:
Wide-angle lenses. To capture as much of the beautiful forest as possible.
An indoor set-up in case of weather changes. Mother nature can be unpredictable, so opt for an experienced photographer who will be prepared for every eventuality.
A candid photoshoot session. Candid moments convey genuine emotions and create a more authentic story of the wedding day.
Retouching at the standard price. Although a forest backdrop makes for beautiful photos, the untameable foliage is likely to produce a few outof-place leaves or twigs. A talented photographer should be able to edit these out using software. However, you should check that this won’t come at extra cost.
🧠Pro Tip: Check out the photographer’s social media accounts as well as their portfolio when considering your options. Often, photographers will include behind-the-scenes information, their editing process and their favourite angles to use on their social media accounts. This will help you understand whether they’re the right fit for your wedding or not.
6. Combine practicality with style
When considering what to wear to a forest wedding, it’s important to consider the landscape. For example, if you live in an area that has a lot of rainfall, you might want to choose a shorter dress to ensure no mud catches on your hems.
If you really want to lean into the floral, boho theme, look for materials that have flower appliques or lace fabrics. In addition, breathable, flowing fabrics will keep you comfortable all day. Oh, and maybe leave the heels at home!
7. Don’t forget the rings
Wedding rings are one of the most important details of your wedding and an investment piece you’ll wear for the rest of your life. Be sure to pick wedding rings you love and ensure someone reliable has them on the big day.
If you’re looking for something bespoke, there are jewellers who can combine natural elements into your wedding bands. For example, sand from a beach, flower petals, or clay from the forest floor. This material is usually sealed in resin to create an unusual contrast with the metal of the ring. Or, consider having hand-crafted wedding bands – we particularly love Eco Wood Rings, lovingly made from sustainably sourced or salvaged wood and recycled precious metals.
The cost of a forest wedding can vary greatly depending on several factors. This includes your location, head count, wedding attire, the decor and your personal preferences.
Did you know that the average cost of a wedding in 2023 is £19,184, or £24,069 including the rings honeymoon? Average wedding spending has increased in almost every category since 2021!
If that figure makes your eyes water, the good news about a forest wedding is that a lot of the decor and styling is DIY-friendly. It’s easy to make a forest wedding either budget-friendly or extravagant. It totally depends on your preference and priorities.
Here are our top tips to help you plan your forest wedding:
Location, location, location: Research and visit potential forest venues to find the perfect location for your wedding. Although aesthetic appeal is important, consider factors such as accessibility, capacity and available facilities. Look for a venue that aligns with your vision and offers the necessary amenities for your wedding day. In addition, ensure that there is an accessible route for caterers, entertainers and other suppliers to help with set-up. A solid track leading into the forest can make all the difference for small wheels and big carts!
Consider the weather: If you opt for a forest wedding, the weather will make a big difference. Try to steer clear of cold and rainy seasons. However, if this can’t be avoided, cover all bases and rent a marquee to protect your guests from a potential downpour.
Dress to impress: You want to look your best on your special day. Unfortunately, looking your best can come at a price. The cost of your wedding outfit will include the price of a dress, shoes, veil, hair and makeup. For budget-conscious or eco-friendly couples, consider renting your wedding attire. This will reduce costs significantly and ensure your dress isn’t single-use.
Consider the lighting: Although a forest wedding will have ample natural lighting, that beautiful sun won’t last all day! If you intend to party into the wee hours to celebrate your love, consider adorning the trees with some lanterns or fairy lights to tie in with the whimsical theme.
Although it might feel overwhelming at first, planning a wedding is one of the most exciting times of your life, and planning a forest wedding is an opportunity to create a particularly magical and unforgettable celebration.
There may be a lot of logistical concerns when planning a wedding surrounded by nature’s beauty. However, with careful planning and budgeting, you can design a one-of-a-kind experience for your and your guests.
Embrace the magic, infuse your personal touch and plan ahead to ensure a truly enchanting celebration that will be cherished for a lifetime.
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Wedding gifts are something that can leave many of us racking our brains, whether you’re a guest who’s been invited to a wedding or you’re about to get married at your very own wedding.
From the point of view of a guest, how do you know what to buy and how much you should spend on a gift?
From the point of view of a couple getting married, how much is too much when it comes to creating a registry, and can you simply ask for cash?
The good news is that everyone is in the same position as you, because understanding how much to spend on wedding gifts is a confusing topic in general. So, in this post, we’re going to explore everything to do with the cost of wedding gifts, including how much you should spend as a wedding guest, what to ask for if you’re a couple getting married, and how to approach the awkward topic of asking for money.
1. You’re a guest going to a wedding
We get it, you’ve been invited to a wedding and you’re not sure how much to spend on a gift for the happy couple – we’ve all been there. There are so many unwritten rules as to what is the right amount to spend, which can vary depending on how well you know the couple, whether or not you’re in the wedding party, whether you’re an evening or a day guest and whether you’re in a couple yourself.
See, we told you it’s confusing!
So, if you’re umming and ahhing over what to buy a couple as a gift for an upcoming wedding, below should give you a rough idea as to how much you might spend.
How much should you spend on a wedding gift?
The most straightforward and simple answer to this question is you should spend as much as you’re able to and feel comfortable with. But, it’s only natural to worry about how much is enough or right and whether it’s in line with how much others are spending. Paranoia can sometimes get the best of us, with questions like ‘what if they don’t think I’m as generous as everyone else?’ creeping into our minds.
When the time comes for the happy couple to open their gifts, when they finally get to yours and see what you’ve given them, thoughts like these won’t even cross their minds. You haven’t been invited to their wedding because they think they’ll get something out of it – you’ve been invited because they want you there. Whether or not you give them a gift, and regardless of how much it is or what it’s worth, it’s simply a gesture from you to celebrate their marriage.
But, if you really want a rough idea as to how much you should spend on a wedding gift, the below guide should give you an approximation. Just remember, this isn’t set in stone and is by no means a rule you should stick to.
Cost suggestions based on how well you know the couple
What’s the average amount to spend on a wedding gift?
Many guests will spend between £40 – £100 on a wedding gift. This is a fairly typical amount; however, it totally depends on your own circumstances and how well you know the couple. For example, if you’re immediate family but are on a tight budget, the couple won’t mind one bit if you don’t spend £100 on a gift. Similarly, if you’re a colleague then the couple will absolutely not expect a luxury gift from you.
Should you give cash as a wedding gift?
Some wedding guests don’t feel overly comfortable with giving cash as a gift, particularly those who may have spent their lives gifting toasters and knife sets in the past. But, during a time when a quarter of couples live together before marriage, many couples already have the appliances and homeware they need.
It also goes without saying that, after throwing the most expensive and luxurious party of their lives, couples will be grateful for a little extra cash. Plus, after a year of chaotic planning, a honeymoon after the wedding is always appreciated, and a cash gift will help make that happen.
In fact, some couples aren’t shy about asking for money instead of gifts, and this is absolutely fine, too. They may even have included information about this on their invitation or their wedding website if they have one, with information on where a bank transfer can be made before the big day.
At the end of the day, when newlyweds are gifted money they’re given far more freedom to do what they want, whether it’s go on their dream honeymoon, buy the exact toaster they’ve had their eye on, or decorate the spare room – all of which you could help make happen by giving a cash gift.
Popular wedding gifts and how much they cost
If you’re keen on giving a gift to a couple but you’re not sure where to start, here are a few ideas and a rough idea of how much they cost, to give you a little bit of inspiration.
Personalised artwork
A lovely way to mark the occasion, personalised artwork can be displayed to remind a couple of their big day, such as a map showing where they first met or a neon sign that spells out their new shared surname. Costs start from around £40.
Cookware
Perhaps a little old-fashioned, but who doesn’t love a nice casserole dish or a new set of pans? Prices for these will start at around £50. For something extra luxurious, a La Creuset dish is a wonderful gift, but on the pricey side at around £150.
Kitchen appliances
This one may be a bit of a cliché, but new appliances like a kettle, toaster or microwave are great gifts for couples about to move into their first home together. Costs start from around £30 for basic appliances and go up from there. Or, for real extravagance, a KitchenAid mixer would be a real treat for a keen baker and costs around £280.
Personalised homeware
An exciting and unique gift for a newly married couple is a personalised item they can display or use. A chopping board, doormat, or set of mugs are fun and useful, with costs starting at around £35.
Experience vouchers
Treat the newlyweds to an overnight stay somewhere, or a luxurious meal for two in a fancy restaurant. Or for more adventurous couples, something more exhilarating like a helicopter flying experience or rock climbing will get their blood pumping. Costs start at around £120.
What if you can’t afford to buy a gift?
If you’re not in a position to buy a gift for a couple about to get married, then don’t worry. A wedding is a celebration, and a couple gets married to come together and share their love – not because they want a bunch of gifts. Plus, the couple will know that you’ve already gone to great lengths just to be at their wedding, such as by taking time off work, buying a new outfit, travelling and the cost of your accommodation. Simply spend as much as you feel comfortable with and don’t worry about what you think someone is thinking.
If you want to buy a gift and you’re looking for affordable options, check out our post featuring 50 wedding gift ideas for every budget, or for some money-saving tips, our post on how to save money on a wedding gift could help you save a few pennies.
2. You’re a couple getting married
Getting married is super exciting – not only do you get to come together to build a new life with the person you love the most, but you get to throw one heck of a party and invite all your family and friends, which costs an average of £20,775.
Another big bonus is that a lot of your guests will also want to give you gifts, which could range from small token gestures to huge, generous ones – it all depends on who they are, their relationship to you and – of course – their budget.
What should you include on your gift registry?
While not everyone is going to buy you a wedding gift, many of your friends and family will want to. But, many of them will likely be stumped and have no idea where to start – which is why a gift registry is a great idea. Websites such as The Wedding Shop make it quick and easy for you to put a gift registry together.
When putting your list together, you’ll need to be open to including a range of items that fit a range of budgets. Some great items to put on your list include:
Dinnerware set
Tupperware set
Artwork
Kitchen appliances
Experience days
Spa visit
Vases
Ornaments
Blankets
Pillows
Luggage
Basically, you can include anything on your gift registry that you and your new spouse will use and enjoy. However, it’s usually items the two of you will use together in your home, or as part of a shared experience, rather than, say, video games or a new pair of trainers for one of you.
If you’re not putting a wedding registry together but would still like to let your guests know what they could give you, read our post on wedding registry alternatives.
Is it rude to ask for money as a wedding gift?
While it’s definitely not rude to ask for money as a wedding gift, there are ways to approach it delicately. After all, asking for money can be awkward, but it’s absolutely fine to ask for cash instead of gifts. Iif you and your new spouse-to-be are already living together, you’ve probably got most of the things you need in and around your house, and you don’t want to risk ending up with five new toasters (unless you really love toast).
You could simply explain to your guests that, if they’re considering giving you a gift, a cash gift would be appreciated so you can go on your honeymoon or buy a new car or replace the leaky roof on the garden shed. Once they know why you’re asking for money, most of your guests won’t mind at all. But, don’t be surprised if one or two of your guests decide to give you a gift anyway.
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When all the excitement and chaos involved in planning your wedding is over and the two of you have said, ‘I do’ and partied with your family and friends, many couples embark on their first journey together as a married couple in the form of the honeymoon. It’s a way for the two of you to unwind after a hectic year or more of planning, and spend time in each others’ company while soaking in some sun, being pampered and enjoying some delicious food.
But, with a wedding already costing so much money, how much is a romantic honeymoon going to add to your overall cost? In this post, we’re going to take a look at how much couples spend on their honeymoon, what it costs to visit some of the most popular honeymoon destinations and why many couples are opting for a far more affordable minimoon.
The average amount spent by couples on their honeymoon in the UK is £4,329. While this is an average, many couples can spend far less than this – or far, far more. It all depends on what you’d like to do on your honeymoon, how far you’d like to go and whether you want to splash out on luxuries such as the honeymoon suite or first-class flights.
This is by no means a cheap getaway – it is your honeymoon, after all, and a great reason to treat yourself and your new spouse. It’s especially expensive when you take into consideration the average costs involved with the rest of your wedding, which, as set out in our ultimate wedding budget breakdown, is £20,775. That means, together with the honeymoon, you could be looking at a total cost of £24,069.
But how much should you spend on a honeymoon? Well, that’s another question entirely, and one that only you and your partner can answer. There is no right or wrong amount to spend on a honeymoon, it’s simply down to your tastes and what’s possible within your budget.
Once upon a time, almost immediately after the reception, newlyweds would jump on a plane in search of sun and sand. But, that’s becoming something of a rarity these days. In fact, the majority of couples now postpone their honeymoon, with 76% waiting at least four months after their wedding before jetting off. Of course, this is understandable, as not many couples have the budget to go on an expensive holiday right after throwing the most lavish and expensive bash of their lives.
That being said, the biggest wedding splurge is undoubtedly their honeymoon, with 40% of couples having a post-wedding getaway as their biggest expense.
The average amount of time couples are away on their honeymoon is seven days, but many go away for two or even three weeks. It all depends on where you want to travel to and the budget you have available.
You should start planning your honeymoon around the same time you start planning your wedding. This will give you a good idea as to how much your dream honeymoon will cost, and whether or not you’ll be able to go on it immediately after your wedding or a few months later.
Whether or not you book your honeymoon early is purely down to your budget. On one hand, if you book your honeymoon early you’ll be able to pay it off in chunks or set up a direct debit to pay monthly. On the other hand, if you wait until a few weeks before your wedding you may be able to secure a last-minute deal which is much cheaper. But, the risk with that is you might not be able to go to your first-choice destination.
If you’re keen on rewarding yourself with a honeymoon after months of busy wedding planning, what are some of the most popular honeymoon destinations for couples from the UK, and how much do they cost? Here are 10 of the most popular destinations and a rough guide to how much you might spend (based on two weeks during the summer in a standard room with economy flights).
The Maldives
A collection of islands located in the Indian Ocean, over 100,000 Brits visit the Maldives every year. With crystal clear water, white sandy beaches and stunning coral reefs, it’s a slice paradise that is perfect for honeymooners. Costs for a couple start from around £5,000.
Mauritius
Sharing the same ocean as the Maldives and not too far from South Africa, Mauritius has fabulous beaches, towering mountains, and luscious forests and gardens. Costs start from around £4,000.
Thailand
For a real adventure, Thailand is just about as far as a couple can travel from the UK, and offers a chance to see incredible sights and get immersed in a new culture. Costs start from around £3,200.
Seychelles
The ultimate luxury honeymoon destination where your comfort is always a priority. There are also a few private island resorts in the area if your budget allows. Costs start from around £5,500 but can easily exceed £10,000.
Caribbean
With fabulous food and culture, the Caribbean has plenty of options for an idyllic honeymoon, on islands such as Jamaica and the Dominican Republic. Costs start from around £4,500.
Mexico
If you’re looking for a balance of great beaches, rich history and delicious food, you really can’t go wrong with Mexico. Costs start from £3,600.
Greece
Not only does Greece have a huge selection of fabulous resorts and beaches, but it also has a rich history and plenty of culture to keep you busy exploring. Greece is always a great spot for couples on a budget, with costs starting from around £2,000.
Italy
Great food, great wine and great sights. There’s something for everyone in Italy, and costs can be reasonable for a two-week stay, starting at around £2,500.
Kenya
For a honeymoon on the wild side, a trip to Kenya or Tanzania combines relaxation with the chance to explore breathtaking landscapes in search of incredible wildlife. Costs start from around £3,500.
Dubai
A relative newcomer on the honeymoon scene, Dubai has fabulous weather, clear seas and world-renowned entertainment. Costs start from around £4,000.
While many of the above costs are approximations, there are plenty of factors that can influence how much your honeymoon might cost, much like any other holiday you might book.
Location – The more popular the destination, the more you’re likely to pay.
Date – If you’re travelling at peak times, such as during the summer (and especially during school holidays) then expect costs to be way (way) higher.
Hotel/resort – The more premium the resort, the more it’ll set you back.
Upgrades – Because you’re going on your honeymoon you may be keen on a room or flight upgrade, but the costs involved can be eye-wateringly high.
Board – Whether you stay full board, half board, all-inclusive, or room only will affect the cost.
Activities – An adventure-packed honeymoon will cost more than a honeymoon spent lazing by a pool or on the beach.
Spending money – If you plan on eating a three-course meal every evening the costs will add up. Similarly, if you know you like to buy a lot of souvenirs you’ll need to budget accordingly.
If you want to get away on your honeymoon but don’t have a huge budget, check out our post on how to save money on your honeymoon.
If you want to get away after your wedding but don’t have the budget to spend on a two-week honeymoon, a minimoon might be exactly what you need.
A minimoon is a shorter, more budget-friendly way of getting away after your wedding until you’re able to save and get away from a longer honeymoon. There are no rules for what’s classed as a minimoon, but they’re often a few nights and will cost less than £1,000. It’s purely a means to get away, relax and decompress after a year or more of planning your wedding.
If you’re looking to stay in the UK, some popular minimoon destinations include the Cotswolds, Cornwall, the Lake District and the Peak District.
If you’d prefer to hop on a plane to somewhere a little further afield, great international minimoon destinations include Paris, Bruges, Mallorca and Venice.
Wherever you choose to go, and for however long you choose to go, it’s a great way for you and your new spouse to enjoy some well-earned time together.
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Wedding favours offer you the opportunity to provide your guests with a small gift or keepsake that they can take home (or eat!) and remember the time they spent celebrating with you on your big day.
But when you’re already spending thousands on your wedding, how much should you spend on wedding favours that are thoughtful, personal and something that your guests are going to appreciate?
Below, we’re going to take a look at the cost of wedding favours, including the average amount couples spend, how much some of the most popular wedding favours cost, and what factors can influence how much you might spend.
What are wedding favours and do you need them at your wedding?
Wedding favours are small tokens or gifts that you give to the guests who come to share in your celebrations on your wedding day. They’re small, personal gestures that are used to express your gratitude and work as a little souvenir for your family and friends.
Favours don’t need to be expensive – many wedding favours cost around £1 each – but they act as a way for you to show your appreciation. Many couples even choose to put together DIY wedding favours, which can be anything from a packet of sweets to a custom-made Rubix cube (although something like this will set you back a lot more than £1).
Even the most affordable or DIY wedding favour options will add to your ever-increasing list of expenses, which is saying something when you consider that the average cost of a wedding in the UK is £20,775. Does that mean, if budget is a concern, it’s something you could cut to save a bit of money?
While favours aren’t something that your guests will expect – and certainly aren’t the reason they’re coming to your wedding – their absence may be noticed by some (but certainly not all). In fact, some of your guests may choose to not take their favour home at all, and if you’re gifting food or sweets, they may even be devoured before the first course is served at the breakfast.
If you’re looking to save budget, or it’s simply not something that interests you or fits with your style or theme of your wedding, then you shouldn’t feel pressured to provide favours simply to appease others or because it’s something you believe your guests expect – because they definitely don’t.
In the UK, the average amount spent by couples on wedding favours is around £160 in total. This might not be a huge amount when you consider your overall budget (it’s about 2% of what couples pay for the average wedding venue) but if you want custom, handmade favours or you’re inviting 120+ guests, that figure can be much higher.
Similarly, you could keep costs down while still honouring the tradition, by simply leaving a small packet of Love Hearts sweets for every guest. This would cost you much less than the average, with 250 packets costing around £17 (and leaving you with some to keep for yourself).
It’s also important to remember that low-cost wedding favours don’t need to be generic or boring. For more information, check out our blog post on 29 ideas for affordable wedding favours.
If you’re looking for some wedding favour ideas but you’re not quite sure where to start, the below guide will give you a rough guide for how much some popular wedding favours cost so you can gauge if they fit within your budget.
Edible favours
Retro sweets – You can pick up ready-made packs of retro sweets, or put together your own if you shop around to find cheap sweets in bulk. Costs start from £1 each.
Honeycomb – A real crowd pleaser, honeycomb not only looks great but is delicious too. Costs start from £1.50 each.
Fudge – Fudge is creamy and luxurious and is a fantastic way to satisfy your guests’ sweet tooth. Cost start from £2 each.
Hot chocolate kit – A unique favour that most of your guests won’t resist and can be presented in many creative ways. Costs start from £2.50 each.
Popcorn – A cheap and tasty favour that no one will turn their nose up at. Costs start from £1 each.
Mints – Mints offer a breath of fresh air. Costs start from £1 each.
Jellybeans – Sweet treats that are affordable and come in a variety of flavours. Costs start from £1 each.
Cake pops – Cake pops are a lot of fun and a handy way to give your guests a cakey hit if you don’t have a traditional wedding cake. Costs start from £1.50 each.
Marshmallows – Affordable, sticky and sweet. Costs start from £1 each.
Non-edible favours
Bubbles – Everyone loves bubbles! Plus, they’re super affordable. Costs start from less than £1 each.
Personalised playing cards – Massively personal and always something your guests will want to keep. Costs start from around £5 each.
Second-hand books – A great talking point that is hugely affordable. Costs start from around 50p each, or even less if you check out some local charity shops.
Pens, notepads or pencils – A practical favour for everyone. Costs start from £2 each.
Jewellery charms – A cute memento that can be used in a huge variety of ways. Costs start from £3 each.
Wildflower seeds – Not a personal favour, but is certainly thoughtful. Costs start from £1 each.
Charity donation – A hugely thoughtful and generous gesture. You can donate as much or as little as you like.
Soap/hand sanitiser – A useful and unique favour. Costs start from £2 each.
Scratchcards – An exciting way to get your guests talking. Plus, one of your guests could leave your wedding a lot richer (and hopefully they’ll share some with you!). Costs start from £1 each.
Personalised candles – Who doesn’t love a candle? Costs start from £2.50 each.
Personalised coasters – A really unique gift that will remind your guests of your big day whenever they sit down for a cuppa. Costs start from £3 each.
Personalised keyrings – Everyone has at least a couple of keyrings, and there’s always room for one more. Costs start from £2 each.
Disposable camera – Quite a retro favour these days, but it can be a lot of fun having the photos developed to see what happened while you weren’t around! However, disposable cameras are becoming more expensive, with costs per camera starting from around £15 (and of course the cost to develop after the wedding). It can be hugely worth it if you have the budget, though.
If you’re on a budget, it can be much cheaper to do wedding favours yourself. However, if you’re looking for highly personal or customised favours, such as personalised playing cards, you may find the DIY approach more challenging. If you haven’t done anything similar before, there’s also the risk of inconsistent quality.
If you’re looking for something simple, such as a bag of retro sweets, you should be able to put this together with little effort and without much room for error. It should save you some money, too.
What factors can impact the cost of wedding favours?
When choosing wedding favours, as well as the type of favours you go for, there are several factors to bear in mind which can impact the overall cost.
Quantity – It may seem obvious, but the more guests you have the more you’ll have to spend on favours.
Personalisation – Highly personalised wedding favours will cost more than something you can grab off a shelf or make yourself.
Vendor – A small, independent vendor may have higher prices than a large company with hundreds of employees. However, the level of care and quality is also likely to be better from a smaller vendor.
Quality – The higher the quality of materials or ingredients you use, the more expensive your favours will be. Remember, your favours are only a token gift to your guests and they won’t be expecting something premium.
Presentation – Marshmallows or honeycomb may be fairly inexpensive, but if you choose to package them in a fancy box with ribbon they may not be inexpensive for long.
Season – Depending on what you go for, the time of year may play a part in cost. For example, during peak periods when gift companies are in demand, costs may be much higher.
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Here at Bridebook, we’re on a mission to help make the wedding planning journey as joyful as possible for all engaged couples. That means supporting every couple, everywhere. And so, to commemorate Pride Month, we’re celebrating LGBTQ+ couples and suppliers and championing inclusivity at Bridebook and throughout the wedding industry. In this feature, check out the inspiring stories and gorgeous wedding photos of some of our fabulous LGBTQ+ couples. And if you and your partner are looking for an inclusive venue, be sure to check our top LGBTQ wedding venues. They’re going the extra mile to make sure all couples feel supported on their special day.
We met through mutual friends when we were 17. I was mesmerised by her and thought she was way out of my league. We met face to face in person at a birthday party of our mutual friends.
What is your favourite shared memory?
Our wedding day has to be the most amazing day and memory we share.
What is the greatest challenge you’ve overcome together?
We lived 160 miles apart and we overcome that with Kimberley moving away from family. But other than that, we have overcome everything life has thrown at us – health problems, financial uncertainty, getting married in a pandemic to name a few!
What did you plan for your wedding day?
We had rainbow pin badges for wedding favours that were sent by Cancer Research, we had a steel pan artist play our wedding song for Daniella to walk down the aisle to keep her Jamaican roots, we had bowling at the venue. We had all family and friends that meant so much to us.
We met through a mutual friend over drinks during a night out in Glasgow. We just became friends in the same social group over many months, so we never had that awkward first date moment!
What is your favourite shared memory?
Without a doubt our wedding day in 2022. After getting engaged in Toronto in 2018 and having set a date to get married May 2020, we were putting the finishing touches on our wedding and honeymoon plans, however, the covid pandemic struck and cancelled all our plans. We re-scheduled to 2021, that got cancelled again and the we re-scheduled to September 2022. So after all that hassle, stress and uncertainty, it was awesome to finally celebrate our Big Day together with our closest family and friends – a celebration of freedom and fun for us all.
What is the greatest challenge you’ve overcome together?
Buying our first home together in the area we wanted. It took endless viewings, many offers and lots of last minute closing dates where we lost out by only small amounts to finally get the flat of our dreams by chance. We were about to give up and look at different areas but then we managed to cut a quick deal with sellers that avoided closing dates and the rest is history. We’re in the process of doing our flat up and truly love where we stay, so it was worth it in the end.
What did you plan for your wedding day?
We wanted our day to be a fun relaxed day of celebration for ourselves and our family and friends. We kept our ceremony light-hearted and chose to do a Rock Paper Scissors contest in front of our guests to decide which of us would walk down the aisle first. I, Chris, lost, and Stephen, my fairer half, won and walked down first. Our celebrant was fun and got everyone involved in the ceremony including a big group selfie after we got married. We had an acoustic guitarist playing during our ceremony, followed by a cocktail reception afterwards with gin 75 cocktails and nibbles. Dinner and speeches followed . After that, we cut our cake together and a modern vintage swing jazz band entertained our guests for the rest of the evening with fun upbeat covers of classic and pop songs.
We were in the same year at school! Had our first romance at the age of 13, found each again at the ages of 19 then went our separate ways and Meg had a little girl in 2011. We lived separate lives until fate brought us back together again for the final time at the age of 31!
What is your favourite shared memory?
Our wedding day felt like our life had come full circle and it the day we had been waiting for.
What is the greatest challenge you’ve overcome together?
COVID! In 2020 we hadn’t lived together long then all of a sudden we were together with our daughter 24/7. We both caught COVID at the start when it was still quite frightening, but we made it through and got engaged that summer.
What did you plan for your wedding day?
We had an intimate day with no more than 30 of us then we hired a DJ and had a party in the evening with around 100 people.
Instagram – Gem liked one of my photos so I messaged her we got to know each other virtually for a while. After a month of talking we finally went on a date at Dinton Pastures. After two years of living together we got engaged there too – Gem had absolutely no idea that I was going to propose.
What is your favourite shared memory?
Apart from our actual wedding day (which was absolutely beautiful), and getting engaged, we loved our trip to Mexico!
What is the greatest challenge you’ve overcome together?
We have overcome a lot of challenges, but the greatest would be how we together challenge people’s perceptions of lesbian couples. There seem to be so many misconceptions out there and we do our best to show that we are just the same as everyone else!
What did you plan for your wedding day?
We had an under the night sky theme that ended with fireworks! We kept everything as “traditional” as we could. We were surrounded by our wonderful friends and family at Warbrook House and had the best day. We were even married by a married couple! We were so worried it wouldn’t happen due to COVID but were so lucky that we could have everyone there to celebrate with us.
We met on a dating app while at Cardiff University back in 2013 while I was doing my postgrad and he was in his first year. It turned out his friend lived a few doors down from me so he came over for coffee and the rest is history.
What is your favourite shared memory?
Probably our first holiday to Disney World together with my family. One day we got caught in a massive rainstorm and ended up in a pub just chatting away in the middle of Epcot. It was magical!
What is the greatest challenge you’ve overcome together?
Probably surviving long distance for 4 years while he finished his studies in Wales and I worked in England – driving 4 hours each way every weekend to see each other.
What did you plan for your wedding day?
We went for a simple day with lots of family and friends. It was at a lovely hotel in Milton Keynes with about 60 day guests. We walked down the aisle with our mothers, and embarrassingly both cried (tears of joy haha) as we did so. Then my dad gave a wonderful speech that was so accepting and charming that it just made the day.
We met in an LGBTQ+ choir! My wife was already a member and I joined and we hit it off!
What is your favourite shared memory?
I think our honeymoon is up there. We had a few nights in Brighton in August and it was so nice. One evening we went down to the hotel bar for cocktails and spotted a mini golf course on the beach so we spontaneously decided to play tipsy mini golf and it was silly and fun.
What is the greatest challenge you’ve overcome together?
We now have a child together! They were 6 years’ old when I met Megan, and we have co-parented together ever since – which is always challenging!
What did you plan for your wedding day?
We had a subtly space themed wedding, with a galactic buttercream cake and little moons on all the tables and things. My makeup had star freckles dotted on and my wife had cosmic blue hair!
We met at work – the office I was working at closed down and we were relocated to the office where Kaz worked!
What is your favourite shared memory?
Besides our wedding day, it would have to be our lockdown holiday to Devon.
What is the greatest challenge you’ve overcome together?
Kaz was rushed in for a major back operation 4 weeks before the date of our wedding. We wanted a low-key wedding that was personal and all done by us. I suggested postponing but Kaz was adamant she would be walking down that aisle, so I was adamant I would pull every string out of my bag of tricks to make sure it was perfect for her. The recovery is still ongoing so we have daily struggles, but we do it all together. And it just works!
What did you plan for your wedding day?
A small ceremony with our closest family and friends. Owls flew the rings down the aisle and we had photos with them and for our guests as owls are my favourite! I planned an ice cream van to show up for Kaz as an absolute surprise! So I was able to pull her first ice cream as my wife!
Through a dating app. We went for a date to a lovely hotel bar and the rest is history!
What is your favourite shared memory?
Getting our dog Freddie!
What is the greatest challenge you’ve overcome together?
Looking after our dog after a major surgery on his back – months of rehab!
What did you plan for your wedding day?
We had quite a small wedding. To start we bucked trends and got ready together. Drove ourselves and best friend down to the venue, had a small ceremony, 20 of us in total. We then had a Christmas feast, made everyone change into black tie, and welcomed another 30 guests for a champagne drinks party. We sang carols around a grand piano and danced the night away!
Samantha’s sister was playing on a football team at university with Holly and introduced us!
What is your favourite shared memory?
Renovating our 1960s house – many tears but so much fun!
What is the greatest challenge you’ve overcome together?
Living three hours apart for two years! Lots of late night train rides on a Friday night after work.
What did you plan for your wedding day?
Ice cream canapes, fish and chips main course and a whole load of fun. I spent 18 months learning calligraphy so I could make all the wedding signs and stationery.
We met at Preston Grasshoppers Rugby club! We played rugby together on the same team. I pursued Dawn and had to convince her to go out with me!
What is your favourite shared memory?
Watching the dancing panda in Prague.
What is the greatest challenge you’ve overcome together?
Probably Al’s endometriosis diagnosis and health issues after that.
What did you plan for your wedding day?
We had it at Spring Cottage, Rivington, which is such a beautiful venue. It was a day event only and we had 40 guests. It was just so simple and perfect and really relaxed.
We love to travel, and do a lot of activities together, from hiking to jumping off paragliding and to simple things like cooking dinner and watching our favorite TV shows in Netflix.
What is the greatest challenge you’ve overcome together?
So many different things – the pandemic really hit us hard as it imposed a huge threat to our health. We were basically living and breathing the till death do us part!
What did you plan for your wedding day?
Our wedding was an amazing garden wedding. We had an intimate audience of family and friends from around the globe to celebrate the day with us in the UK.
Became friends at work and you know the saying…fell in love with my best friend!
What is your favourite shared memory?
Apart from our wedding day a gorgeous trip to Venice!
What is the greatest challenge you’ve overcome together?
I (Em) went through life changing surgery. The build-up and recovery were long and hard, with some dark days where Emma became my strength.
What did you plan for your wedding day?
Ours was an Easter wedding. It was a gorgeous sunny day with our guests and ourselves staying at the venue’s glamp site. We had an Easter egg hunt in the forest outside the cottage we got married in, and a live band in the evening. Plus our dog was with us all day at the wedding!
Pride goes beyond June. We’re here to support, to inspire, to educate – and above all to celebrate the LGBTQ+ community – not just for one month, but for all time always.
If you and your partner have fairly niche interests, why not join the host of other couples who have planned their own unique themed wedding? There’s no better way to show off your personalities and get creative! Victoria and Chris did exactly that with their non-traditional themed wedding inspired by their love for each other and their shared love of mythology and lore. Check out the details of their wedding planning, and their gorgeous photos, below and get ready to be inspired.
The Inspiration & Wedding Planning
We aren’t very traditional people, met at Boomtown music festival, as wild west performers, and it was definitely love at first shot! For the wedding planning, there was a lot of research!
We started with deciding on which mythologies and lore we wanted to represent, and ended up with different realms that represented parts of our life together and our families: Land of the Fae, Valhalla, Arkham, Olympia, Atlantis, Sherwood, Gallifrey, Loch Ness, El Dorado, and Camelot.
Our wedding venue was Forever Green, a beautiful venue in the heart of natural forest land, making it the perfect venue for a hideaway wedding, especially one with a mythology and lore theme!
Forever Green is a unique and magical wedding venue, as its views into the surrounding forest of Ransomwood give you the feeling that the venue and the forest are merged as one.
We brought different items together to remind people of stories of each place, so naturally had a wedding reception escape room where all our guests worked together to unlock the wedding cake!
We were also very lucky to have suppliers who were just as excited by our theme as we were! So much personal attention was given to the pre-planning and running of the day.
If you’re feeling inspired to have your own magical storytelling themed wedding, why not start planning all the little personal touches, and reaching out to suppliers who share your vision? Victoria and Chris have shown that with plenty of research and creativity, you can have the wedding of your dreams, that’s as unique as you are, not to mention fun for all those involved!
Childhood memories are precious, and often hold a special place in our hearts. What if you could relive those cherished moments on your wedding day? A themed wedding inspired by your childhood can transport you and your guests back in time, creating a magical and unforgettable experience. Get inspired by Mel and Andy’s whimsical Alice in Wonderland themed wedding, complete with quirky DIY touches and a host of unique, interactive activities.
The Inspiration & Wedding Planning
Since I was a kid, I have been obsessed with Alice in Wonderland. I have about 20-25 copies of the book, two Alice in Wonderland tattoos, and always wanted an Alice in Wonderland wedding!
Thankfully, my husband was happy to let me have my dream wedding – he went with all my crazy ideas and helped make everything. Our wedding ceremony was a White Rabbit theme; our wedding breakfast was a Mad Hatter’s tea party; and our evening party was a Red Queen theme.
My husband and I set up everything in the wedding breakfast the night before and it took hours! My mum and I then stayed over at Nunsmere Hall Hotel the night before together.
Our wedding coordinator was Erin at Nunsmere Hall, and she was the best ever! She saw our vision and was as excited as we were. We have her Hufflepuff flowers on the wedding day as a thank you (made my friend Amee at A Thousand Years Bouquets). We also gave my mum, my mother-in-law and hairdresser Alice in Wonderland flowers, and pocket watches to my three dads.
We wanted our wedding to be created by ourselves. I was the painter, Andy was the craftsman. I painted six giant paintings from the original Tenniel drawings in the original book, while Andy crafted a this way/that way sign, which I then painted, as well as stands for my paintings and signs, and our own photo memory board. We made all of our own themed invites and table names too.
We collected tea cups, tea pots, plates etc. for our table decorations. It took two years to collect enough items to make our wonky table decorations, which were covered in card and flowers and keys. Most of our decorations came from charity shops. Our centerpieces for the wedding breakfast were all homemade, and took us about nine months to complete in little stages.
My bouquet was handmade by my friend Amee at A Thousand Years Bouquets (she can be found on Facebook). They are made of an old copy of Alice in Wonderland and blue card. She is amazing!
My wedding shoes were Alice in Wonderland converse-style, which I bought from ShoeArtCottage on Etsy. I also had Alice in Wonderland socks, which were a gift.
I had my nails done by Karen at Shanti Beauty in Crewe, Cheshire. They were French nails, but my ring fingers were blue with bows on them. Andy bought me stopwatch earrings for the day, and I bought him his cufflinks. I had his tie and pocket square made from blue Alice in Wonderland fabric by my friend Stewart. My bracelet and necklace were from Pandora, and featured all of the Alice in Wonderland collection, which my mum and stepdad had bought me as gifts on the day.
My hen do was at the Rabbit Hole Team Room in Stoke. It was an Alice in Wonderland afternoon tea that my best friend and chief bridesmaid Vickie arranged.
Two of my dads walked me down the aisle, and Andy wrote the best speech and had everyone laughing. He wrote me a poem in his speech, too, and it was just beautiful.
We had a chessboard dance floor and provided games like Jenga, and cards for the evening party. We made our own photo booth frame, which we used our own camera for, with props to go with it.
We had a sweet table with “Eat Me” jars on it, which my two dads arranged for us. Our wedding favours were little shots of gin in “Drink Me” bottles, and “Eat Me” cookies shaped like mushrooms.
Dreaming of planning your own childhood-inspired themed wedding? Then take a leaf out of Mel and Andy’s book, and start putting together your own unique ideas – the possibilities are endless!
Finding the perfect wedding dress or suit can be a huge relief, however, that’s not where it ends when it comes to putting your attire together for the big day. There are still accessories to choose from to complete the ensemble, from the shoes you’re going to wear that balance style and comfort (you’re going to spend a lot of time on your feet!) to the jewellery that ties it all together.
But, what do couples spend on accessories during the build-up to a wedding? In this post, we’re going to take a look at everything related to wedding accessory costs, including shoes, bags, headpieces, jewellery and everything in between.
Wedding accessories are the extras you’ll wear on your wedding day in addition to your dress or suit. They add a little extra sparkle and complement the overall style and theme of your wedding.
Bridal accessories include a veil, a headpiece, jewellery, shoes and a handbag or clutch.
Groom accessories include a tie or bowtie, cufflinks, a watch, a pocket square, shoes and a belt.
There are also accessories for the ceremony and reception, such as ring pillows and flower girl baskets, and accessories at the reception, like table numbers that complement the decor.
The average amount couples spend on wedding accessories is around £300-£400. This can include bridal accessories such as a veil and garter, and groom accessories like cufflinks and a pocket square.
If you’re looking for an idea of what individual accessories might cost, the below guide will give you an estimate of what to budget for. You can also use our ultimate wedding budget breakdown for an understanding of how much your overall wedding may cost.
Veil
A traditional bridal dress is worn with a veil, but it’s certainly not a requirement. In fact, over half of today’s brides choose not to wear one, so there is no right or wrong answer. If you’re keen to wear a veil, depending on the style you choose, expect to spend anywhere from £50 – £250. Bespoke veils with personalised detailing will naturally cost more than standard designs.
Nathalie Neuilly, founder of Dressarte Paris, shares her expert insights as an experienced dressmaker: “We often do custom veils adding custom messages, initials etc. But it’s true that more than 75% of our brides decide to go without veils. Instead they prefer to add fresh flowers when styling their hair, or upcycle their mum’s veil and create a custom accessory.”
Headpiece
If you’re not wearing a veil, a headpiece, such as a tiara or hair comb, can add a little extra sparkle. Costs will be around £100 – £250 but can go higher.
Jewellery
Of course, you’ll likely already have jewellery that would work nicely on your wedding day, but you may want to treat yourself to something new for such a special occasion. Costs for new jewellery can range from a simple pair of earrings at £20 and go up from there.
Jacket
If you’re wearing a strapless dress or getting married during the colder months, you may want to consider a bridal jacket that complements your dress for when the temperature drops. Costs start from £75.
Garter
A garter is a traditional accessory worn around the bride’s thigh and is usually made from lace. It’s another accessory that many brides choose not to wear, but if it’s something for you then you might spend between £20 – £50.
Handbag or clutch
Not many wedding dresses come fitted with pockets, and the modern bride needs somewhere to keep your phone that isn’t your bra. Plus, a small handbag or clutch can complement a dress beautifully. Costs for a clutch will often fall between £25 – £80.
Tie
The groom’s tie is a way to tie a suit together with the overall style and colour scheme of the wedding. Ties will often cost around £25 – £60.
Cufflinks
Cufflinks are a popular gift for a bride to gift her groom ahead of the ceremony. They can be unique and personal and can be customised so that they have meaning behind them. They cost around £50 – £100.
Pocket squares
Pocket squares are another traditional wedding accessory and one that is still typically upheld. It’s another great way to introduce a touch of colour to a suit. Thankfully, they’re relatively inexpensive at around £10 – £15.
Belt
A belt is something already found in no short supply in many drawers, but a new belt for the big day will cost around £15 – £25.
Another key accessory to budget for is the shoes you’ll wear on your big day. At your wedding, you’ll spend a lot of time on your feet, from the time the two of you are exchanging vows to when you’re dancing the night away ten hours or so later. For that reason, you’ll each need a pair of shoes that are kind to your feet.
The average cost of wedding shoes will vary, but couples in the UK spend around £200 on new footwear.
Whether you’re looking for a flat or something with a heel, practicality is just as important as style on your wedding day. The cost of your bridal shoes can vary, but if you budget for between £60 – £150 you should find something to suit any taste.
How much do the groom’s shoes cost?
Grooms have a similar range of choices, including style, colour and even heel if you’re looking to gain an inch or so. Costs for groom’s shoes also vary, but will be around £50 – £130.
There’s a lot to buy during the build-up to your wedding, and whether or not you should buy new jewellery is your decision.
As it’s your special day, you may want to treat yourself to a new piece of jewellery to mark the occasion. Of course, if you’re hoping to wear several accessories, you may have to wear some that you own already. When you consider the cost of a headpiece, a necklace, earrings, a bracelet, cufflinks and a watch, the cost can quickly add up. Our data shows that the average amount couples spend on jewellery is £1,000, and this doesn’t include the cost of the wedding rings. But, it depends on you, your budget and the sentimentality as to whether or not you should buy new jewellery. It’s always nice to have a little treat though, of course!
This is another question that doesn’t have a right or wrong answer. Whether the groom should wear a hat and gloves or not depends on the formality and the theme of the wedding. At a formal wedding, they’re not generally worn, but at a very formal wedding, where the groom may be wearing a tuxedo rather than a suit, they may also choose to wear a top hat, gloves, and even carry a walking stick. But, it’s purely a matter of taste and what suits your style. If this is something you’re looking to wear, then the cost for a hat and gloves will start from around £200.
Accessories at your wedding ceremony, the wedding breakfast and evening reception do often cross over into wedding decor territory, which is worth bearing in mind when it comes to accessorising and budgeting for your overall wedding.
Examples of wedding ceremony accessories include:
Ring pillow or box
Basket for the flower girls
Guest book and pen
Aisle runner
Examples of wedding reception accessories include:
What is a wedding without music? If you think about it, music plays a major part in every wedding. It greets your guests as they take their seats, it accompanies you as you walk down the aisle, and it’s the reason why your uncle decided to do the Macarena alone on the dancefloor because everyone else refused to join him.
Music sets the tone for your wedding, creates atmosphere and gets everyone moving. But, with so many options available, should you choose a solo musician, a band, or a DJ? And what about the music at the ceremony itself?
In this post, we’ll take a look at how much wedding music costs, including the average price couples pay, the cost of various options available to you at the ceremony and reception, and the factors that affect the cost of wedding music.
As revealed in our ultimate wedding budget breakdown, the average amount couples spend on wedding music in the UK is £1,800. To be specific, based on our 2024 UK Wedding Report, that breaks down to £1,127 for reception music, and £641 for ceremony music. This figure doesn’t include the costs that may come with hiring additional non-music entertainment, like magicians or dancers, which can cost an extra £800 on average.
This cost can, of course, be much higher or lower, and depends on various factors such as the number of musicians and singers, how long they’re needed and the type of music they play. It may seem obvious, but a band that comprises five members will usually be more than a solo musician or a DJ.
If it’s important to you that there’s music at your wedding but your budget is on the smaller side, check out our blog post on saving money on wedding entertainment.
How much do wedding bands, singers and DJs cost?
The average spend may be £900, but the price you pay for music at your wedding may be vastly different depending on what you’re after.
Solo musician
A solo musician will be accompanied by pre-recorded backing music or may play an instrument such as a piano or guitar. Some great solo musicians for a wedding include Kate Ferguson and Jon Hart. Costs start from £350.
A duo is a pair of musicians, with one or both often playing an instrument. Great duos include Mango Acoustic Duo and The Boardwalk Duo. Costs start from £500.
Welcome your guests and walk down the aisle to beautiful music by a string quartet. Many quartets even offer classical versions of well-known pop songs! Consider quartets like 4tissimo String Quartetand Crystal Palace String Quartet. Costs start from £500.
A safe option for almost every wedding, a DJ will play the tunes to suit your taste and even take questionable requests from your guests. Some of the DJs you can discover on Bridebook include Iggy Davis, Disco Nytsand The Wedding Players. Costs start from £360.
A choir brings harmony and class to your wedding and is a wonderful way to begin your celebrations. Fabulous choirs include Crystal Gospel Choir and Lyrica Singers. Costs start from £300.
If you’re looking to celebrate your Celtic heritage, the bagpipes are a fantastic way to include some traditional Scottish charm into your wedding. Talented bagpipers include Andrew Brian Highland Bagpiper and Spud the Piper. Costs start from £150.
Delicate and elegant, a harpist is a great way to welcome your guests and a beautiful choice of music to walk down the aisle to. Great harpists include Nottinghamshire Harpist and Meredith McCracken. Costs start from £225.
For a touch of wedding tradition, an organist (or pianist) provides just that. Organ players we love include Musical Sam Servicesand Grant Jones. Costs start from £120.
If you’re on a tight budget, then a live musician isn’t a must-have for your wedding – your guests will still have an incredible time celebrating your big day by throwing some shapes thanks to a DJ. But, if you do have a larger budget to dedicate to musical entertainment, then it will add a unique and personalised touch.
A talented live musician or band not only provides background music to your wedding but also works as a feature and talking point. There’s so much variation out there, whether you’re a fan of rock music, pop, classical, jazz or more. Check out our selection of wedding musicians and find the perfect musical entertainment for your big day.
How much does wedding ceremony music cost?
It’s unlikely you’ll want a band or singer at your wedding ceremony (but if you do, go for it!) but live music can add a lovely, personal touch. A string quartet, a harpist or even a bagpiper ensures a welcoming atmosphere and ambiance that pre-recorded music can’t match.
Because your wedding ceremony is one of the shortest parts of your big day, the cost of a live musician at the ceremony can be far more affordable than a musician you may hire for the entire day or evening reception. If you’re looking for a musician to perform during the ceremony alone, the costs will be around £120 – £350. The more specialist the musician is, such as a harpist, the more expensive they’ll be.
What factors affect the cost of wedding music?
Several factors can affect how much you’ll pay for wedding music, including:
Location: If you’re in London you’ll likely pay more than if you’re hiring a musician outside the capital. You may also have to pay an additional fee if you’re outside their usual catchment area.
Date: Expect to pay more for a musician during peak times, such as during the summer months and at weekends.
Type of music: The type of music played can affect how much you’ll pay. For example, a band will usually be pricier than a DJ.
The number of musicians: It may seem obvious, but you’ll pay more for a band than a solo singer.
Experience: An experienced performer will cost more than an up-and-comer, but is more likely to entertain your guests for longer.
Time: The longer you want the musician at your wedding the more they’re going to charge.
Extras: A lighting package, smoke, bubble or confetti machine, plus mics for the speeches, may be available for an additional cost.
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Themed weddings are becoming increasingly popular, and for good reason. From fairytale castles to rustic barns, the possibilities are endless. But how to plan a themed wedding that’s both creative and personal, yet tasteful and classy? Check out Joanne and Luke’s fabulous Lord of the Rings themed wedding – the perfect combination of intricate planning and thoughtful DIY touches.
The Inspiration & Wedding Planning
Luke and I are both self-styled Mega Geeks. We love everything fantasy and our home is filled with memorabilia, figurines and books etc. We met at London Film & Comic Con, where I was dressed in a costume she had made as Daenerys from Game of Thrones. For our wedding we needed to find a theme that suited both the venue and was a passion for both of us in equal measure.
We tried to infuse our themes throughout the wedding without being too over-the-top and were absolutely thrilled with the result, which we felt really reflected us and our passions. Lots of guests commented that the days was very “us”, which was lovely to hear. everyone had a wonderful time!
Had we chosen a castle venue, Game of Thrones was the obvious choice of theme, but when we found Bourton Hall we absolutely fell in love and no other venue then would do!
It did, however, require a theme re-think, and so we picked the obvious (to us): Lord of the Rings! A lifelong obsession for both of us – both the books and the wonderful movie trilogy, as well as The Hobbit – it was a theme we could both throw ourselves in to fully! We felt it lent beautifully to the gorgeous wood panelling and natural feel of the venue and lent to decorating with wonderful greenery, white, natural flowers and wooden accessories.
Luckily, Luke is an artist (check out his beautiful creations here), which meant we could design so much of our stationery ourselves (and saved a fortune in the process!).
He created our invitation suite entirely from scratch using the fonts and styles of the Lord of the Rings, and even wood-burned our table names himself, all places from the world of Tolkien.
Our top table was Rivendell, complete with a golden dragon to keep an eye on us. We couldn’t find an actual Smaug, so Viserion from Game of Thrones did a wonderful job of filling in for him!
Luke also created an amazing table plan, fitting in with the maps of Middle Earth (Rivendell, Erebor, Hobbiton, Mordor, Lothlorien and so on), which everyone commented on!
We decorated the lounge tables with piles of old books rather than flowers to give the area a cosy, “Hobbity” theme, and hidden around the beautiful floristry were some little hanging Hobbit holes.
We created some guest bags to go in the rooms of our guests that stayed overnight, and made labels for items with relevant quotes from the books to decorate. And finally, we had a photo booth in the evening, for which we collected various Lord of the Rings related props and costumes which leant to some wonderfully funny moments in the evening!
I had ordered a replica of Galadriel’s Nenya ring to wear on the day, which came in a beautiful wooden carved box. I also contacted Weta Workshop (who created all the props, costumes, and pretty much everything for the films), and they very kindly sent a second ring box – which we were completely blown away by – so that both the bride and groom’s rings could be kept in style!
Some little finishing touches were Luke’s cufflinks, handmade little wooden Hobbit holes which were a Father’s Day gift from Charlie, who also had a Leaf of Lorien brooch on his little suit.
Whilst waiting for the bride to arrive, there were some Game of Thrones and Lord of the Rings musical pieces, and during the wedding breakfast we had created a playlist using acoustic versions of various themes, including Harry Potter, Star Wars and even Pokémon!
If you’re looking for a wedding that’s personal to you and your partner, why not have a fantasy-themed wedding of your own? With careful thought and plenty of research, you can – like Joanne and Luke – incorporate your favourite elements in a manner that’s both creative yet tasteful.
