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If you’re about to celebrate your 17th wedding anniversary, congratulations! 17 years of marriage is an incredible achievement and one you’re no doubt excited to celebrate. In some cultures, the number 17 is considered unlucky, but that clearly doesn’t apply to you as you prepare to celebrate this amazing milestone.

One thing you might like to do on your 17th anniversary is treat your partner to a gift and show them just how much they mean to you and always will. But, what kind of gift do you give to the love of your life at this stage in your marriage? Well, did you know that for more than 100 years, there have been gifts traditionally given by couples to each other? That’s right, it’s not just the big milestones like your 10th anniversary or 25th anniversary where this applies. There are also traditional and modern gifts for your 17th anniversary.

These gifts go beyond the usual box of chocolates and have an extra special meaning behind them which makes them worthy of such a fabulous milestone. Not that a box of chocolates or any other type of gift isn’t amazing, but the symbolism behind the traditional and modern gifts takes your gift-giving to the next level.

In this article, we’re going to take a look at what the traditional and modern 17th anniversary gifts are, as well as the traditional gemstone and flower. We’ll also give you 50 suggestions for gifts to consider so you can spoil your other half with something full of love and meaning.

For more information about all the different traditions surrounding anniversary gifts from 1 to 90 years, read our complete year-by-year wedding anniversary gift guide.

What are traditional and modern gifts for a 17th wedding anniversary?

Both the traditional and modern anniversary gifts for 17 years of marriage have been given by couples to each other for more than a century. These gifts are packed with symbolism, which is what makes them such a thoughtful gesture, as they let your partner know how you feel about them. They’re not something you must get for them; of course, any gift is brilliant and will surely be well-received. But these traditions help make your anniversary that little bit more special.

Traditional 17th anniversary gift – A watch

The traditional gift for celebrating 17 years of marriage is a watch. Watches symbolise the passing of time, and your past, present and future as a couple. It’s not exactly a gift that you can have too much creativity with (although there are ways, which we’ll show you below). A watch was also the modern gift for your 15th anniversary, so if you didn’t get your partner one two years ago, it’s definitely something to consider now.

Modern 17th anniversary gift – Furniture

If you’d prefer to give your partner the modern 17th anniversary gift, you’ll want to give them furniture. Initially, it may seem a bit of a strange gift, but it represents comfort and familiarity, which actually makes it very meaningful. You might not necessarily want to get your partner a flatpack wardrobe (unless they’ve asked for one or you think they’d love it – in which case, go for it!), but there’s a lot of fun you can have with the theme.

17th anniversary gemstone – Carnelian

The traditional 17th anniversary gemstone is carnelian, a fabulous red and brown semi-precious stone that is said to boost creativity and self-esteem. When it comes to your relationship, carnelian protects your marriage and brings your energy. Carnelian isn’t one of the most commonly used stones in jewellery, but you should still have a lot to choose from so you can find something perfect for your partner.

17th anniversary flower – Red carnation

The traditional 17th anniversary flower is the red carnation, a beautifully big, bold bloom which isa wonderful addition to any bouquet, but which also works perfectly well as the star of the show. Carnations represent love and devotion, so could there be a flower more appropriate to give to your other half when celebrating 17 years of loving marriage?

How do you choose a gift for a 17th wedding anniversary?

Buying the perfect gift for your other half for your 17th wedding anniversary can be a tricky decision. There may be  a lot of choice, but the themes are perhaps not the most obvious when it comes to a romantic gift your partner would love to receive. Your partner might not wear a watch or have heard of a carnelian before, and there might not be any room for more furniture in your home.

But don’t let this sway you just yet. Before you make your decision, there are a few things to consider.

• Is sticking to one of the anniversary themes important to you? If it is, you’ll want to figure out a way to make the themes work for you.
• Have you agreed on a budget? Watches and furniture can vary wildly in price, so both would suit a variety of budgets.
• Do you want to give your partner a gift that can be personalised? Watches are easier to personalise than furniture, but that’s not to say it’s impossible.
• What sort of gift might your partner like to receive? Maybe you’ve spoken about themed gifts or they’ve dropped hints about something else they might like instead.

Is a couple you love about to celebrate their 17th anniversary? If so, you might be on the hunt for a gift and wonder whether you can get in on the action and give them a gift also linked to either the traditional or modern themes. These themes are for everyone, not just the couple, so if you’ve thought of the perfect gift which also just happens to be on theme, then you should definitely feel free to join in on the fun. The theme isn’t exclusive to the couple and shows them just how much you care by putting in that extra bit of thought and effort.

50 ideas for a 17th wedding anniversary gift

The 17th anniversary themes aren’t quite as obviously romantic as they are with other anniversaries. But, you might still be keen to honour the traditions and give your partner a gift filled with historical meaning. With a little creativity you can give your partner something they can enjoy and treasure for many years to come – but where do you start? Thankfully, we’re here with 50 ideas for 17th wedding anniversary gifts to help you choose something for your other half.

10 traditional gifts for a 17th wedding anniversary

The traditional 17th wedding anniversary gift is a watch, which is a gift that’s fairly self-explanatory so doesn’t leave many options for fun and creativity. But, there are still ways to do something a little different and unique, even if they don’t seem obvious at first. Here are 10 ideas so you can give your partner a watch they’ll never want to be apart from.

1. A carnelian eWatch watch

With a carnelian eWatch watch, not only do you give your partner a pretty swish-looking watch, but it’s also got a carnelian face which can be personalised to include your names and the date of your wedding or anniversary. It’s available in his and her designs and is a beautifully subtle gift your partner can always wear.

2. An engraved wooden watch

For a watch that’s bold and rustic but still incredibly stylish, you might want to choose an engraved wooden watch. It’s made to order and includes a custom message on the back so your other half can always keep a part of you close by.

3. A 17th anniversary watch gift box

This smart men’s Openwork Watch is presented in a gift box complete with a personalised message, and you really can’t go wrong with a 17th anniversary watch gift box. The back of the watch is also open which allows you to see the intricate workings inside.

4. A carnelian ring watch

For something incredibly unique, a carnelian ring watch is a personalisable watch that your partner can wear around their neck. It also features a callback to the 17th anniversary gemstone which makes it a double-hitter.

5. A rose gold watch gift set

Spoil your partner on your anniversary with a rose gold watch gift set. It covers the theme with the inclusion of a lovely rose gold watch, but it also comes with earrings, a necklace and a bangle, providing your other half with every accessory they might need for a big night out.

6. A carnation gold mesh watch

Combine the traditional gift and the traditional flower with a carnation gold mesh watch, a multifunctional watch that has a business-chic feel. Because it covers two traditional gifts, it has double the symbolic meaning, too.

7. A unique Mr Jones watch

If your partner has a style that wouldn’t necessarily be described as ‘normal’, then a bog-standard watch probably won’t push their buttons. Instead, you could get them a unique Mr Jones watch, which comes in a variety of incredible designs, including lazing in the pool, pinball-playing robots and a motorway road sign.

8. A delicate walnut and walnut watch

For a delicate but beautiful way to tell the time, a Holzkern walnut and walnut watch is reminiscent of a bracelet but versatile so that it can go with a wide range of styles and outfits.

9. A personalised photo watch

To give your partner a watch like no other, a personalised photo watch will really do the trick. You can customise the face by uploading your own choice of photo, which could be the two of you, your cat, or maybe even your kids.

10. A watch for a charm bracelet

Does your partner have a charm bracelet and love collecting charms to add their own personal memories which can be swapped out? If so, then a watch charm for a charm bracelet is a tiny perfectly on-theme gift which your partner can wear and which will always remind them of your amazing milestone.

10 modern gifts for a 17th wedding anniversary

If you’re not sure that your partner would love a watch or you gave them one for your anniversary a couple of years ago, you might want to choose the modern gift, which is furniture. Furniture isn’t often considered something you might give as a gift – after all, have you ever tried to wrap up a sofa? That said, furniture is a rather broad theme, so cancel that trip to DFS and take a look at these 10 suggestions for furniture-themed gifts which don’t necessarily mean forking out for a new three-piece suite.

1. A pair of smart bedside tables

We bet that if most of us are honest, our bedside tables are probably past their best. So, you could take the opportunity to pick up a pair of smart bedside tables and bring a breath of fresh air to your bedroom.

2. A lovely new rug

Transform any room in your home by giving your partner a lovely new rug for your anniversary. There’s nothing quite like the feeling of a new rug between your toes. Many retailers sell rugs, but they have a great selection over at Rug Shop to suit all styles, tastes and budgets.

3. A modern bookshelf

For the avid reader in your life, a modern bookshelf provides you with a contemporary way for your other half to keep their favourite books in order.

4. A sit-stand desk

If your partner works from home regularly and often complains about their back, then this gift sounds like it was made for them. A sit-stand desk can be adjusted quickly and easily, so your partner can choose to either sit down or stand up. They’re also said to improve productivity and posture, so it’s a win-win.

5. A comfortable armchair

There’s nothing quite like climbing into a big, comfortable armchair to enjoy a book, watch a movie, have a nap or any of the other things your other half might like to do in an armchair. Check out Marks and Spencer’s range of armchairs to find one that suits your decor.

6. A coffee table arcade machine

For the retro gamer in your life, give them the surprise of a lifetime by switching out your old coffee table and replacing it with a coffee table arcade machine. These tables are completely customisable, include two sets of controls for multiplayer madness and come loaded with more than 1,000 games.

7. Design-your-own coffee table

We bet you haven’t got another piece of furniture quite like this at home. A design-your-own coffee table lets you upload your own photograph which is then printed and handmade, so you can give your partner a one-of-a-kind gift to mark your big day.

8. A romantic loveseat

Give your partner a gift that lets you get snuggly on date night, with a romantic loveseat. They’re available in loads of different colours, styles and designs, so finding one that suits your home shouldn’t take long.

9. Floating book bookshelves

Floating book bookshelves let your partner display their favourite books seemingly by magic, which is great for creating a fun and unique way to store their books.

10. A hardwood storage box

If you have a little room at the end of your bed, a hardwood storage box provides ample storage space for bedding, towels and cushions, while being a centrepiece that can help bring a room together.

5 affordable gifts for a 17th wedding anniversary

Both the themes of a watch and furniture are rather different, meaning you can certainly choose to give your other half a unique gift to mark your anniversary. But, both can also be quite expensive, which might not be suitable if you have a smaller budget. That  said, with a little creativity, if you’re only looking to give your partner a small token gift, you can absolutely do that without the need to spend more than you’d like. Here are five suggestions for cheap 17th wedding anniversary gifts.

1. A cute pair of chair stud earrings

There’s nothing to say the furniture theme has to be something life-size. This pair of chair stud earrings is incredibly cute and a funny yet thoughtful way to incorporate the modern theme into your gift.

2. A furniture-themed anniversary card

If you’re planning to give your partner an anniversary card, you could make sure it’s linked to the modern gift by getting them a furniture-themed anniversary card. It includes a great sofa-related pun, and who doesn’t love a good pun?

3. A bag of retro candy watches

Give your partner a sweet (literally) and affordable gift in the form of a bag of retro candy watches. They wrap around your partner’s wrist so they have a sweet treat on hand (also literally) at all times. That is, unless they scoff them all first, which is likely.

4. A Casio unisex watch

It might not have all the glitz and sparkle of an expensive watch, but at the end of the day, a Casio unisex watch tells the time and that’s all many of us expect from a watch. A solid and dependable affordable gift.

5. A pocket watch necklace

Not only is a pocket watch necklace a fabulously affordable gift, but it’s also fashionable and a quirky way to stick to the traditional 17th anniversary theme.

5 DIY gifts for a 17th wedding anniversary

If you really want to do something unique and special for your anniversary, you might consider making your partner’s gift yourself. Okay, so making your own furniture or watch from scratch might be a tall ask unless you have prior experience, but it’s not impossible. There are ways to get creative or pick up a kit so you can have a stab at doing something. Here are five ideas to get those creative juices flowing.

1. Decorate your own stool

You can really have some messy fun by decorating your own stool in a way that your partner will love. Be as imaginative as you like, whether it’s adding colours, cushions, a photograph, crystals… the possibilities are endless. Just pick up a cheap stool from IKEA and get to work!

2. Upcycle an old piece of furniture

Upcycling is a brilliant way to take an old, tired piece of furniture and turn it into something fresh and modern. It makes for a fun project, lets you have a creative outlet and leaves you with a fab gift at the end of it. You can find affordable furniture at charity shops and auctions, and there’s information on ways to upcycle furniture available online.

3. Make your own cosy pet bed

Do you and your partner have a beloved furbaby whom you love dearly and who can do no wrong? Well, one thing you might want to make for your partner (but really for your four-legged friend) is to make them a pet bed that’s completely one-of-a-kind. There are video tutorials available online to give you a helping hand.

4. A Swiss watchmaking kit

Watchmaking is a tough but hugely rewarding skill, but it can be even tougher knowing where to start. If you’d like to have a go at making your partner a watch for your 17th anniversary, a Swiss watchmaking kit provides you with everything you need.

5. A DIY wooden clock

Okay, so this one is bending the rules, but only slightly – because a clock is just a big watch, right? But it’s too good not to include. A DIY wooden clock kit is a simple way for you to create a custom clock to include anything from colours to photographs.

5 experience or activity gifts for a 17th wedding anniversary

If you’re looking for a way to make your 17th wedding anniversary extra special, why not whisk your partner away so the two of you can enjoy an activity or experience together? You don’t necessarily need to go to Paris or sit down for a Michelin-star meal either. You can tie what you do into the traditional and modern themes to make them even more memorable. So, here are five suggestions for new and interesting things to do.

1. A furniture-making course

If you and your partner have ever fancied having a go at making some furniture yourself, then a furniture-making course could just be the ideal gift. There are a range of courses available, from upholstery workshops to stool-making courses.

2. Browse ancient furniture at the V&A

The Victoria & Albert Museum is an amazing museum in South Kensington, just a little south of Hyde Park. It features incredible exhibits around art and design, including a huge collection of furniture which goes back hundreds of years. It’s the perfect way to incorporate the modern theme into an anniversary trip to London.

3. A watchmaking workshop

So much goes into watchmaking. It’s a time-consuming (see what we did there?) and intricate skill to learn. But, with a watchmaking workshop, you can find out all about what goes into it, and even have a go at it yourself.

4. Take a romantic trip to Basel, Switzerland

Switzerland is known for producing some of the best and most luxurious watches in the world. If you have the time and budget, you might consider a weekend away to Basel, which is even home to an annual watch fair. Check out Lonely Planet for more information on exploring Basel’s must-see attractions and planning your next getaway.

5. A trip to Coventry Watch Museum

For something a little bit different, take a trip back through time (we just can’t stop with these puns) and view a huge collection of antique watches at Coventry Watch Museum. You’ll have the time of your life (sorry, we’ll stop now)!

10 17th anniversary gifts that contain carnelian

If you’ve got your sights set on a piece of jewellery to give to your partner on your 17th anniversary, they’ll no doubt love it. But, you could tie that jewellery into the theme by making sure it contains the traditional 17th anniversary gemstone, which is carnelian. It’s not one of the most commonly used stones in jewellery, but its reddish-brown colour makes for a great addition to a variety of pieces (usually gold). You might want to consider the following pieces that can be set with carnelian:

1. Earrings
2. A ring
3. A necklace
4. A bracelet
5. A broach
6. A locket
7. A watch
8. An anklet
9. A hairpin
10. Cufflinks

Because carnelian isn’t one of the more popular gemstones, it can be a little more difficult to find a piece you think your partner might love. High-street and independent jewellers may have a small range of pieces which include carnelian, but you may have to visit various stores. At Bridebook, we’ve partnered with loads of brilliant jewellers, many of which have a selection of carnelian jewellery. Make sure you check them out in your search.

5 floral-inspired gifts for a 17th wedding anniversary

Flowers are a worldwide symbol of love, so you may be considering giving your partner something blooming brilliant on your anniversary. The traditional 17th anniversary flower is the red carnation, a big brightly coloured bloom that’s full of life. It works great in a bouquet, but also as the inspiration for other gifts. Here are five suggestions for carnation-inspired gifts.

1. A bouquet of red carnations

A bouquet of red carnations is a vibrant, bold and beautiful gift to give to your partner to mark your anniversary. Just an explosion of vivid colour which lets them know exactly how you feel.

2. Handmade red carnation earrings

If your partner likes to wear fabulously unique earrings, then a pair of handmade red carnation earrings might be right up their street. They’re unique but subtle enough to be worn on a wide variety of occasions.

3. A red carnation bowl

For a touch of retro class, a red carnation bowl is a versatile and perfectly on-theme gift that’s also beautiful and practical. It ticks all the right boxes.

4. A hand-knitted carnation

Give your partner a floral gift that’s guaranteed to never wilt in the form of a hand-knitted carnation. A super romantic and token gesture which they can hold on to forever.

5. A preserved carnation flower sphere

Light up your partner’s life with a preserved carnation flower sphere. It encapsulates a carnation in resin so it can be displayed on a desk or shelf, and also doubles as a lovely little nightlight or lamp.

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Here you are, about to celebrate 10 whole years of happiness with the love of your life – what an incredible milestone to reach in your marriage. A whole decade spent with the person you chose to dedicate your life to – magical!

So, to mark such an incredible occasion, you might wonder what sort of gift you can give your other half. Do you give them flowers or chocolates, treat them to a fancy dinner or a trip away, or do something else entirely? What kind of gift do you give your person to tell them how much you love them after 10 years of marriage?

Well, did you know that there are actually traditional gifts, flowers and gemstones that couples celebrating their 10th anniversary have chosen to give each other for more than a century? That’s right, if you want to give your partner a 10-year anniversary gift full to the brim with symbolic meaning, there are unofficial ‘rules’ you might want to follow.

In this guide, we’ll take a look at all the gift-giving traditions which surround that all-important 10th wedding anniversary, so you can give your partner something fitting for such a special occasion. We’ll also give you 50 gift suggestions and get your imagination working so you can find your partner a gift they’ll treasure until the next major milestone and beyond.

To learn all about every wedding anniversary tradition from 1 year to 90, read our complete year-by-year wedding anniversary gift guide.

What are traditional and modern gifts for a 10th wedding anniversary?

Many different anniversaries have traditional and modern themes associated with them, as well as traditional gemstones and flowers. Each has a historical and symbolic meaning, so if you choose to, you can give your partner a gift that lets them know exactly how you feel.

Traditional 10th anniversary gift – Tin or aluminium

If you’d like to go with the traditional 10th anniversary gift theme, you actually have a choice of two: tin or aluminium. They’re both similar metals, but there are a few differences which might sway your decision. Tin is often more silvery than aluminium, while aluminium is far closer to grey, and aluminium melts at a higher temperature. But, both are strong and don’t rust, which means they’re incredibly durable – just like your marriage after making it to 10 years.

Modern 10th anniversary gift – Diamond

If you’re looking to give your partner a gift linked to the modern anniversary theme, you’ll want to pick up something linked to diamond. Diamonds are one of the hardest materials on Earth and exceptionally beautiful. They symbolise beauty, strength and durability, which makes them the perfect gift for celebrating 10 years. But on the flip side, they can be rather expensive.

10th anniversary gemstone – Diamond

You might not be surprised to learn that the traditional 10th anniversary gemstone is diamond, which means it’s both the traditional gemstone and the modern anniversary gift – a double hitter. Diamonds are stunning and often set in pretty much every type of jewellery piece or accessory you can think of, so if it’s something you choose to give your partner, you’re guaranteed to find something they’ll love.

Despite diamond playing such a prominent part in a 10th anniversary’s gift-giving traditions, it’s not the official ‘diamond anniversary’. This name is exclusively reserved for your 60th wedding anniversary, when diamond is the traditional and modern gift, and the anniversary gemstone. That means, in another 50 years, you’ll have another opportunity to give your partner a diamond-themed gift if you’re keen to stick to the traditional themes. 

10th anniversary flower – Daffodil

While diamond is a big focus of the 10th anniversary themes, the traditional flower for celebrating a decade of marriage is the far more humble, but no less beautiful, daffodil. Daffodils are bright and colourful and are one of the symbols of spring. When it comes to celebrating your anniversary, they represent new beginnings, which couldn’t be more appropriate as the two of you begin a whole new decade of life together.

How do you choose a gift for a 10th wedding anniversary?

For many couples, celebrating your 10th anniversary is a big deal, so you might want to do what you can to spoil your other half. If you’re keen to stick to traditional or modern gifts, this can be a little tricky – there’s a big difference between the cost of aluminium and diamonds, after all. So, when the time comes to choose a gift, there are a few things to consider before making your purchase.

• Are you interested in sticking to the traditional 10th anniversary themes? If so, you might want to have a long think about what you can do with each theme. Tin and aluminium require creativity, while diamond limits your options to mainly jewellery and accessories.
• Have you set a budget? Tin and aluminium can be relatively affordable, but diamonds are notoriously pricey, so this may affect the type of gift you want to go for.
• Are you looking to give your partner something personalised? Diamond jewellery can be personalised, but more often than not it isn’t, as this can impact the resale value. Tin and aluminium can be personalised easily.
• What sort of thing does your partner love? Do any of the themes fit nicely with the kind of gift your partner might love, or have they dropped any heavy hints about something they might like in particular?

If a couple in your life are about to celebrate their 10th wedding anniversary, you might be looking into whether you can give them something linked to traditional or modern gifts. The great news is that you absolutely can. However, diamonds can be a difficult gift to buy for a couple (then again, you might have found the perfect diamond-related couples gift) so you might be more inclined to choose something tin-, aluminium- or daffodil-themed instead.

Should you give your partner a diamond for your 10th anniversary?

Depending on who you ask, you might be told that you ‘should’ give your partner a diamond to mark 10 years of marriage. This can put unfair pressure on some couples because diamonds can be rather costly!

So, you should definitely avoid doing this if diamonds aren’t within your budget. There are always affordable alternatives, which we’ll go into later in this article.

Yes, diamonds can be a special gift to give on your 10th anniversary, but it’s certainly not a rule set in stone. So, if you don’t have the budget for it, your partner isn’t particularly interested, you have a better idea or you simply don’t want to, then no – you shouldn’t have to buy your other half something related to diamonds.

What you give to your partner as an anniversary gift is entirely up to you. So long as you put some thought into it and it’s full of love, they’re bound to love your gift whatever you give them.

50 ideas for a 10th wedding anniversary gift

When it’s time to pick up the perfect gift for your partner ahead of your 10th anniversary, you can be faced with a huge dilemma: what should you give them that’s fitting for such an amazing milestone? Do you give them an incredible piece of diamond jewellery, or something a little kinder to your budget related to tin or aluminium?

If you know you want to give your love a gift related to one of the traditional or modern 10th anniversary themes but you’re not sure where to start, you’re in luck. Here are 50 gift ideas so you can treat your partner to something extra special on your big day.

10 traditional gifts for a 10th wedding anniversary

The traditional 10th anniversary gift is tin or aluminium, two relatively affordable but incredibly strong and durable metals. You might think they’re not the most obvious choices for romantic gifts, but with a little creativity, you can still find a brilliant traditional gift.

1. A tin rose

The rose is one of the most well-known symbols of love all over the world. You could get your partner a bouquet of roses, but they’ll die and wilt and be gone within a couple of weeks. Instead, why not tie that loving symbol into the traditional theme and give your partner a tin rose so they can have a permanent reminder of your first 10 years of marriage?

2. A 10 years of our family tin sculpture

Since you got married, you may have welcomed a third or fourth (or fifth or sixth!) little human into your exclusive family club. If so, you can include them in your 10 year anniversary gift, in the form of a family tin sculpture, which you can personalise to reflect the look of your perfect little family.

3. A pewter cat trinket box

If your partner a) has a small collection of jewellery they’re not quite sure where to keep safe and b) loves cats, then we have the perfect suggestion for you. A personalised cat trinket box is small, on-theme and can be personalised to include an engraving of your choice.

4. A personalised anniversary calendar keyring

For something small and personalised that your partner can always keep with them, a personalised anniversary calendar keyring contains the exact date you got married and slips right onto their keys. It’s also made from pewter, which contains tin, so is spot on when it comes to the traditional 10th anniversary theme.

5. Tincup American whiskey

One option you might consider as a gift for your partner is a good ol’ bottle of whisky. But how on Earth are you supposed to tie that into the theme of cheap but hardy metals? Well, by choosing Tincup American whiskey – which reviews say is delicious and refined.

6. An aluminium heart decoration

One of the best things about aluminium is just how versatile it is, and it’s great for forming into any type of shape imaginable. That includes an aluminium heart decoration, which sits on a base that reads, ‘ten perfect years’. It’s an adorable gift that can sit proudly on a shelf until the next major milestone.

7. An aluminium anniversary tree

Trees might not be the traditional 10th anniversary gift, but they represent strength and life and have deep roots that can hold onto anything. Combine this with aluminium, and you have an aluminium anniversary tree, which is fantastic and full of delicate character.

8. A personalised aluminium bowl

Thanks to its strength, aluminium is a brilliant material for making into useful items you might want to use again and again. This includes a personalised aluminium bowl, which your partner might want to use for fruit, serving food, potpourri… anything, in fact. It can also be personalised to include a hand-stamped message of your choosing.

9. A personalised floating aluminium slide

For the ultimate custom gift, a personalised floating aluminium slide includes the photo and message of your choice and can be hung on the wall to serve as a reminder about the love you and your partner share. 

10. A smart aluminium wall clock

For something big and bold that can hang on the wall and be shown off to everyone who comes to visit, a textured aluminium wall clock is a real showstopper. It’s contemporary and minimalist but is totally on theme when celebrating 10 years of marriage.

15 modern gifts for a 10th wedding anniversary

Both the modern 10th anniversary gift and the traditional gemstone is the one and only diamond. Diamonds are stunningly beautiful and versatile precious stones that are popular but expensive additions to jewellery and accessories. They pair perfectly with almost every other type of stone and precious metal, which means you’re practically guaranteed to find something your partner will adore. If you’re looking for a little inspiration, here are 15 ideas for 10th anniversary gifts containing diamonds.

1. A diamond eternity ring

Eternity rings are a popular gift to give during milestone anniversaries, and with 10 years being one of the most special milestones, now’s your chance – especially since diamond has such a symbolic meaning during your 10th anniversary. Eternity rings are available in loads of different designs, from big and flashy to subtle and muted. For a good idea of what you might get for your budget, check out Ernest Jones’s selection of eternity rings.

2. Diamond cufflinks

Diamond cufflinks are one of the most luxurious and generous gifts you could give – they’re the ultimate status symbol. That means they can be rather pricey, but if you have the budget, it’s the perfect opportunity to spoil your partner. Deakin and Francis has an incredible range of diamond cufflinks.

3. A diamond belly ring

Does your partner have a belly piercing? If so, you could give them a real surprise on your anniversary by giving them a diamond belly ring. This is one piece of jewellery that’s sometimes overlooked when it comes to the more precious gemstones, but they can be absolutely stunning and a unique way to give your other half a diamond on your 10th anniversary.

4. A diamond bracelet

For a gift absolutely steeped in luxury, love and symbolic meaning on your big anniversary, you can’t get any more generous than a diamond bracelet. Bracelets can be dainty and delicate or firm and bold, offering you a wide range of choices.

5. Diamond earrings

The great thing about diamond earrings – apart from being fabulous and exactly on theme – is just how many options there are. Studs, hoops, drops, tear drops, clusters, C hoops… whatever type of earring your partner loves to wear, there will always be plenty available set with beautiful diamonds.

6. A diamond necklace

When asked to think about diamond jewellery, straight after a diamond ring, the next thing many people will likely think about is a diamond necklace. The ultimate statement piece, a diamond necklace just screams class and luxury. And you’re spoilt for choice – with so many designs available, the hardest thing will be choosing which one to go for.

7. A diamond locket

A wonderful way to add personalisation to diamond jewellery is with a diamond locket. Lockets are lovely pieces of jewellery by themselves, but they also allow you to personalise them by including one or even two of your partner’s favourite photos inside. It could be the two of you, your kids, your entire family, your pets… whoever your partner adores most.

8. A diamond watch

To spoil your partner and give them a real touch of luxury, a diamond watch has to be up there as one of the best. They’re available in loads of different styles and designs, and are suitable for different budgets – plus your other half can wear it every day if they want to.

9. A diamond nose ring

Whether your partner has a nostril piercing, septum piercing or another type of nose piercing, a diamond nose ring is a unique way to treat them to diamonds for your 10th anniversary. Not only do they look fantastic, but they’re also among the most affordable ways to give your partner diamonds when celebrating this fantastic milestone.

10. A diamond eyebrow ring

If your partner has an eyebrow piercing, you can give them an anniversary gift they’ll never forget with a diamond eyebrow ring. It’s a sweet and totally unique gift that your partner will never see coming (especially if they don’t have an eyebrow piercing, in which case it’s probably not for them).

11. A diamond charm

The great thing about a charm bracelet is how you or your partner can continue to add to it, choosing charms that are unique to the kind of things they love and enjoy. You could use this as the perfect opportunity to give them a meaningful diamond key charm from Tiffany & Co. as a symbol that only they have the key that unlocks your heart. It’s cheesy, but we bet it’s true.

12. A raw diamond ring

The majority of diamonds that are given as gifts are cut and polished before being set in a piece of jewellery or an accessory. But, raw diamonds can be just as stunning, with a rustic aesthetic that still works incredibly well in some jewellery. A raw diamond ring is a real showstopper and a wonderful choice for a 10 year anniversary gift.

13. A diamond anklet

Anklets are super dainty and the perfect accessory during hot and sunny weather or when you jet off to nicer climates. If you have plans for a post-anniversary holiday, a diamond anklet can be shown off as you relax and unwind.

14. A diamond brooch

Brooches are retro accessories that are beautiful, statement-making and timeless. They come in loads of different designs, from incredible patterns to leopard-shaped designs. Check out Antique Jewellery Company to browse their massive selection of diamond brooches.

15. A diamond tiara

Do you see your other half as your queen? If so, then a diamond tiara is an accessory to top all other accessories. It’s not something they’ll wear on the average Saturday night down the pub, but when the occasion calls for it, they really can be something else.

10 affordable gifts for a 10th wedding anniversary

Your 10th anniversary is one of the most memorable and special anniversaries you’re likely to have, but that doesn’t mean you can or necessarily want to drop hundreds or thousands on diamonds or something else just as pricey. But, that doesn’t mean you can’t still give your partner a brilliantly on-theme gift that sticks to the 10th anniversary theme. So, here are 10 suggestions for affordable gifts.

1. A diamond art craft set

For a crafty way to spend your anniversary, diamond art is relaxing and creative. A diamond art coaster kit lets your partner design their own coasters and provides them with everything they need to give it a go.

2. A diamond paperweight

A diamond paperweight looks great on a desk and is useful if your partner spends a lot of time shuffling through papers for work. It’s not a real diamond (we wish!), but it looks the part.

3. Silver imitation diamond earrings

Diamond earrings can be pricey, and they might not fit everyone’s budget. Imitation diamonds, such as Zircondia, might not be as valuable as real diamonds but they can still look great. Sterling silver Zircondia earrings are an affordable gift that still works with the traditional 10th anniversary theme.

4. Edible diamonds

What’s sweeter than receiving diamonds as an anniversary gift? How about receiving edible diamonds made from sugar? They’re literally sweeter than diamonds and look great as decoration sprinkled on a cake or over a dessert.

5. Herkimer Diamond Rough Crystal

If your partner has a spiritual side, Herkimer diamond rough crystals, also known as ‘Herkies’, are said to help boost someone’s clairvoyant abilities. It’s a unique, on-theme and affordable gift for a spiritual partner.

6. Diamonds Are Forever on Blu Ray or streaming

One of the longest-running film series, James Bond has a movie totally in keeping with the 10th anniversary theme, giving you the chance to have a snuggly date night when celebrating your anniversary. Diamonds Are Forever is available on Blu Ray, or catch it on your favourite streaming platform.

7. A grow-your-own crystal kit

If you don’t want to buy your partner a crystal this time, why not give them a gift and let them grow their own? A crystal growing kit is a great bit of scientific fun, and if you have kids you can get them in on the action.

8. A Minecraft diamond necklace

Is your other half a fan of Minecraft? If so, then they’ll know all about how precious diamonds are in the game. A Minecraft diamond necklace is cute and on theme, with the benefit of being really affordable.

9. A diamond T-shirt

Diamonds are usually super expensive, but do you know what isn’t? A diamond T-shirt! It’s a stylish and thoughtful token gift that works whatever your budget.

10. A tin of your partner’s favourite food

Ok, this one is a bit of a risk, so should only be done if you’ve talked about not giving each other a gift for your anniversary. But, a tin of beans, custard, rice pudding, ravioli, chilli con carne or similar makes for a fun and totally on-theme gift to give on your anniversary. But if you do, just make sure you have a backup present too. Chocolates or flowers often work best.

5 DIY gifts for a 10th wedding anniversary

One way to give your partner a 10th anniversary gift filled with extra special thought and meaning is by making a gift yourself. But, with one of the major themes of 10 years of marriage being diamond, what kind of thing can you make? Well, even at home there are ways to tie the themes in, especially if you lean into the traditional theme of aluminium or tin. So, here are five suggestions to get you thinking on your feet.

1. An aluminium wire scribble heart

If you pick up some affordable aluminium sculpting wire, it can be pretty quick and simple to make a wire scribble heart. You don’t need a ton of experience to make one that looks good, either – check out a video tutorial for tips on where to start.

2. Wire aluminium jewellery

Aluminium wire is super versatile so there’s a lot you can do with it, including heart-shaped jewellery. Again, you don’t need to have made anything before to produce something your partner will love. There are plenty of wire jewellery tutorials available online to help you with some ideas.

3. A tinfoil sculpture

Tinfoil is an obvious joke gift when celebrating your 10 year anniversary, but with a little effort and know-how, you can actually make a lovely little keepsake tinfoil sculpture for your partner based on something they love. If you like the sound of it, there are guides to making tinfoil sculptures that show you the ropes.

4. A homemade ‘diamond’ ring

An Ocean Diamond ring kit provides you with everything you need to design and carve your very own ring featuring an authentic, hand-dived ocean diamond. We really can’t think of anything more creative and fitting as a DIY 10th anniversary gift.

5. A create-your-own diamond painting

Diamond art is a wonderfully on-theme way to create a completely personalised work of art you can present to your partner on the morning of your anniversary. Just choose your favourite wedding photo, get to work, and then marvel at your handiwork before giving it to your partner on your anniversary. You can pick up personalised diamond painting kits online.

5 experience or activity gifts for a 10th wedding anniversary

A memorable way to spend time with your love while celebrating your anniversary is by sharing a new experience together. You can even keep it tied into the 10th anniversary theme if you think creatively, and give your activity a deep and special meaning. Here are five suggestions for fun things to try on your big day.

1. A diamond factory tour

The process of making diamonds is long and complicated, and making amazing jewellery requires a lot of patience and skill. Find out all about the process with a Royal Coster diamond factory tour, which is totally free. The only catch is, it’s in Amsterdam, but there are worse ways to spend your anniversary!

2. A diamond driving experience

This one bends the rules a little, but a diamond driving experience at least has diamond in the name! It’s one way to get the blood pumping on your anniversary (and we’ll let you think of another for yourself).

3. A diamond fragrance experience

This also slightly bends the rules, but it’s totally worth it to spend time trying something new with your love! A diamond fragrance experience gives the two of you a chance to invent your very own fragrance, which you can then wear out to a post-fragrance-making dinner.

4. A tinsmithing workshop

Something of a lost art, tinsmithing is the process of making something out of tin. You can learn all about this ancient craft with a tinsmithing experience, and have a go at creating something of your very own.

5. A trip to a Cornish tin mill

If you’re not sure your partner would like to make something out of tin, maybe they’d love to learn all about its production. King Edward Mine in Cornwall offers a fascinating insight into an authentic Cornish tin mill – a super unique way to spend your anniversary.

5 floral-inspired gifts for a 10th wedding anniversary

The traditional flower when celebrating your 10th wedding anniversary is the dainty yet vibrant daffodil – a true symbol of spring. It’s also one of the most recognisable flowers there is, and can grow in pots, in the ground, in woodland, by the side of the road… it’s surprisingly hardy considering how delicate it looks. It’s also great at brightening up a room, whether in a bouquet or as part of an arrangement or design. Here are fie daffodil-inspired gifts if you fancy treating your partner to something floral.

1. A bouquet of 100 daffodils

We couldn’t make this list and not include a bouquet of daffodils. But how do you elevate the humble little daffodil and make it special enough for an occasion like your 10th anniversary? Well, how about a bouquet of 100 daffodils? It’s equal parts extravagant and elegant.

2. A cute daffodil necklace

Because it’s so iconic, the daffodil makes for a lovely addition to jewellery and accessories. This includes a daffodil necklace, which captures the feel of this springtime beauty. It’s also small and versatile enough to be paired with loads of different outfits and other types of jewellery

3. A cast iron daffodil garden ornament

To make a real impact in your garden, a cast iron daffodil ornament provides the birds with a floral perch and offers them a bite to eat. It’s a lovely addition to any garden that has special meaning on your big day.

4. A daffodil stained glass panel

For something fresh and eye-catching, a daffodil stained glass panel is actually a two-hitter. Not only does it represent the traditional flower of 10 years of marriage, the frame also contains tin – the perfect gift thanks to its double meaning.

5. LEGO daffodils

For the LEGO lover you love, LEGO daffodils are realistic and affordable, and will happily sit in a vase for years and years and never wilt or need fresh water. And you can spend time together building them!

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You’ve reached seven years of heaven married to the love of your life. That’s incredibly exciting and is definitely something that deserves to be celebrated.

When the time comes to think about picking up a gift for your other half, you’ll naturally wonder what the perfect present might look like. But, did you know there are traditional and modern gifts that couples have been giving each other for more than 100 years? So, if you want to take part in these traditions, you can give your partner one of these gifts which are absolutely packed with thoughtfulness and meaning.

In this guide, we’re going to explore the ins and outs of 7th wedding anniversary gift-giving traditions, including the traditional and modern gifts, as well as the traditional gemstone and flower. That way, you can give your partner an incredible gift that has loads of historical meaning. And we’ve got 50 suggestions below to help get you started.

To find out more about what all the different anniversary gifts are from 1 to 90 years, read our complete year-by-year wedding anniversary gift guide.

What are traditional and modern gifts for a 7th wedding anniversary?

For more than a century, many couples have chosen to give their love a 7th anniversary gift that has loads of meaning behind it. It’s a great way to show your partner how much you care and also gives you some ideas if you’re not quite sure what to get.

Traditional 7th anniversary gift – Wool or copper

There are two traditional 7th anniversary gifts: wool and copper. Wool is warm and comfortable, and copper is durable and strong – and you no doubt feel all of these in abundance after seven years of marriage.

Modern 7th anniversary gift – Stationery or desk set

The modern anniversary for seven years of marriage is stationery or a desk set. Initially, this might not sound particularly romantic, but it actually represents the work you’ve put into your marriage after all these years – so it’s actually pretty loving and poignant.

7th anniversary gemstone – Onyx

The 7th anniversary gemstone is onyx, an incredibly striking stone that is black and shiny (though can sometimes include white). It can sometimes be pricey, but equally, it can often be fairly reasonable, so can be a great choice of anniversary gift. It also works well when set in different types of gold or silver jewellery.

7th anniversary flower – Freesia

The 7th anniversary flower is the freesia, a beautiful multi-coloured flower that can be a wonderful addition to a bouquet or work perfectly as the star of the show. Freesias symbolise friendship and trust, which is spot-on when celebrating seven years of love.

How do you choose a gift for a 7th wedding anniversary?

A 7th wedding anniversary isn’t exactly one of the most widely celebrated anniversaries out there, sitting right in between the 5th anniversary and 10th anniversary. However, it may be important that you still mark seven whole years – because it is incredible. But how do you choose the right gift? Here are four things to bear in mind:

• Are you and your partner sticking to the rules? If buying each other a traditional or modern anniversary gift is important to you and your other half, you’ll probably want to do what you can to buy something related to the theme.
• Do you know your budget? Wool can be pretty expensive, but copper and stationery mean you can buy an on-theme gift for a smaller budget.
• Do you want to give a personalised gift? Wool can be tricky to personalise, but copper and stationery offer loads of options for personalisation.
• What does your partner love? The traditional and modern options for a 7th anniversary gift are all pretty different, so can you align them with something you think your partner would love?

If a couple you love is about to celebrate seven years together, you might also wonder if it’s appropriate for you to join in on the traditions and buy them something related to wool, copper or stationery. Thankfully, the answer is: of course! These ‘rules’ aren’t exclusive to the couple, and the special meaning behind them will help elevate your gift into something truly memorable.

50 ideas for a 7th wedding anniversary gift

If your 7th wedding anniversary gift is on the horizon and you’d like to give your partner a gift filled with thought and meaning, you might be a little stumped. How can wool, copper and stationery work as a gift for the love of your life? Well, believe it or not, with a little creativity, you can give them something truly memorable. So, here are 50 7th anniversary gift ideas so you can surprise your partner on the big day.

10 traditional gifts for a 7th wedding anniversary

There are two traditional gifts when it comes to celebrating your 7th anniversary: wool or copper. So, you have twice as many options for choosing a gift your partner might love. But if you’re not quite sure where to start looking, here are 10 ideas.

1. A comfortable wool blanket

There’s nothing quite as romantic as getting all warm and snuggly with your other half beneath a comfortable blanket. And you can’t get much more comfortable than a wool blanket from The British Blanket Company so the two of ewe can get cuddly on your big day.

2. A cosy jumper

Imagine a warm and cosy blanket draped over your body – now imagine that comfort wrapped right around you all the time. High-quality Norwegian wool jumpers are guaranteed to keep your toasty and warm during those cold and dark winter months.

3. A wool sheep with a heart balloon

For something cute, cuddly and 100% on theme, a Sheply Sheep with Heart Balloon ticks all the right boxes. It’s adorable and sweet, and can be proudly displayed somewhere so your partner will always be reminded of your 7th magical anniversary.

4. A wool teddy bear

Knitted teddy bears are the epitome of cute, and if they’re handmade like the teddies at The Knitted Bear Company then they’re also extra special and loaded with character. A brilliant little gift that your partner is bound to love.

5. A wool craft kit

Has your partner always talked about learning to knit or crochet but never got around to giving it a go? A wool craft kit gives them everything they need to start learning this incredibly popular hobby. 

6. A personalised copper bracelet

Copper might not be the most obvious choice when it comes to jewellery, but in the right hands, it can be a fantastic item your partner will want to wear all the time. For example, a personalised copper cuff bracelet not only looks gorgeous, but it’s also thought that copper bracelets help prevent stress and ward off negative energy, so it could be useful if your partner is having a tough time.

7. A striking copper vase

If you’ve thought about giving your partner flowers to mark your anniversary, why not accompany them with a super meaningful burnished copper vase? It’s equal parts rustic and beautiful and works with almost any type of flower.

8. Copper coin cufflinks

We bet you didn’t realise that copper coin cufflinks even existed before today, but not only do they exist, they’re also a great idea for an anniversary gift. They’re smart and stylish and perfect for all occasions.

9. A personalised copper keyring

For a brilliantly personal token 7th anniversary gift, a personalised copper keyring is something your partner can always keep by their side so they never forget about your special day.

10. A personalised framed copper heart

One way to give your partner a one-of-a-kind gift is with a personalised framed copper heart, which you can also personalise to include your names and the date of your wedding. That way, you can hang it up at home and have a sweet and meaningful reminder of your wedding.

10 modern gifts for a 7th wedding anniversary

If you’re not sure your partner would love a gift related to wool or copper, you could go for something related to the modern 7th anniversary gift: stationery or a desk set. If this sounds like something your partner might appreciate, here are 10 ideas you might want to consider.

1. A notebook and quill set

Writing using a quill and ink is something of a lost art these days, but if your partner’s a keen writer or enjoys speaking to a penpal, an old-fashioned notebook and quill set is a unique gift they can crack out whenever they fancy being a little bit… fancy!

2. A really nice set of pens

There’s nothing quite like a nice set of pens. Yes, a Bic biro does the job, but when it comes to a high-quality pen it’s like comparing fish fingers to lobster thermidore. Check out Pen Heaven to browse their amazing range of pen sets.

3. A personalised mouse mat

If your partner regularly works at a computer and has a habit of scraping their mouse across the desk, why not revisit the lost art that is the mouse mat? It definitely qualifies as part of a desk set, and you can even give your partner a personalised mouse mat that features a photograph – why not use your favourite wedding photo?

4. A personalised planner

Are you constantly having to remind your other half about what’s happening at the weekend? Or are they always asking what date it is? If this sounds familiar, a personalised desk planner would be ideal for them.

5. A nice and neat gift set

Organisation can be challenging, even for the best of us. Things can get lost, misplaced, forgotten… with a nice and neat gift set, your partner can keep on top of all their tasks and chores and make sure nothing is ever overlooked again.

6. A vintage stationery box

If your other half loves everything old school, then a vintage stationery gift box will tick so many of their boxes. From the retro labels and stickers to the rubber that looks like it’s been stabbed a few too many times by a pencil, they’re all in there.

7. A personalised pen pot

What’s a better way for your other half to organise all their stationery than with a pot in which to keep everything neat? Well, how about a personalised wooden pen pot that can be highly customised to include your partner’s name and a design you know they’d love?

8. A smart desk organiser

To make any desk tidy and classy, a smart desk organiser could be just what your partner needs. It includes loads of different compartments, drawers and slots so everything can be kept neat and in its very own place.

9. A fancy notebook

Almost everyone loves a notebook, but it can be hard to find one nice enough to be fitting as an anniversary gift. However, the notebooks at Katie Leamon are high in quality and big in style, and there are so many designs that you shouldn’t have trouble finding one your partner will love to use.

10. An engraved pen

We’ve already featured a pen set on this list, but how about an engraved pen? They’re smart and affordable, and you can customise them with any message you like, whether it’s your partner’s name, your anniversary date, or simply the words ‘HAPPY ANNIVERSARY’.

5 affordable gifts for a 7th wedding anniversary

You might be super keen to give your partner an anniversary gift filled with meaning, but the pair of you might not want to spend too much money on a token gift related to wool, copper or stationery. If that’s the case, you can still get them a hugely meaningful gift but not break the bank. Here are five ideas for brilliant token gifts for your 7th wedding anniversary.

1. A jar of anniversary wool

We’ve already covered how wool symbolises the warmth and comfort felt after seven years of marriage, so why beat around the bush (sheep?) – you could just get your other half a tiny ball of wool in a jar which is personalised to include the date you got married. It’s small, thoughtful and something your partner can hold on to forever.

2. A cute copper elephant ring holder

If your partner regularly takes off their wedding ring for one reason or another, and they don’t have somewhere safe to keep it, it can be the cause of mild (and even severe) panic as you both run around looking for it. Never experience that feeling again with a cute copper elephant ring holder. Super useful and affordable!

3. A personalised copper token

The ultimate token copper anniversary gift is a… personalised copper token! You can add your initials and the date you got married, for the perfect little keepsake to mark seven years together.

4. A woolly hedgehug

Guaranteed to make your partner squee! a woolly hedgehug is absolutely adorable and lets your partner know exactly how you feel about them. It’s also exactly the sort of token gift that’s likely to get you in your partner’s good books.

5. A wool anniversary card

If you’re thinking about getting your other half an anniversary gift, chances are you’re probably also thinking about getting them a card. Well, why not combine the two and give them a card featuring a crocheted wool heart? It’s the perfect way to give them something fitting the 7th anniversary theme and the perfect card for the occasion all in one.

5 DIY gifts for a 7th wedding anniversary

Nothing says I love you quite like a gift you’ve made yourself – and this counts double on your wedding anniversary. You might think that making something out of wool or copper is tricky – especially if you don’t have any experience working with either of them before. But, there are plenty of resources and tutorials available online that mean you can definitely make something full of charm and personality. Yes, even out of copper! Here are five ideas for brilliant DIY gifts.

1. DIY wool flowers

If you have some wool, a needle and a finger, you can create some simple and effective wool flowers with literally zero experience. And once you have a few, you could glue them to some green wire and give them a DIY wool flower bouquet. There are DIY wool flower bouquet tutorial videos available on YouTube to help get you started.

2. DIY wool coasters

Something nice, easy and effective to make out of wool is a set of wool drinks coasters. You can make one or two, or a whole set! Just choose your partner’s favourite colours and get to work with the help of a DIY wool coaster tutorial.

3. A crocheted scarf

Crocheting is a great hobby, and you can make some amazing things with just a ball of wool and a crochet hook. It can look confusing, but with a good tutorial or guide you can pick up crochet relatively quickly, and a scarf is a simple place to start. Thankfully, there are loads of crocheted scarf tutorials available online.

4. A DIY twisted copper ring

With some copper wire, which you can pick up for next to nothing from craft shops, you can make your partner a lovely twisted copper ring in just five minutes. It might take a little trial and error, but if you follow a tutorial video you should master it in no time.

5. A DIY copper coin keyring

If you have an old keyring and a 1p or 2p coin, you can make your partner a copper coin keyring that’s packed with effort and meaning. It requires a couple of specific tools, but it shouldn’t take you too long if you follow online instructions.

5 experience or activity gifts for a 7th wedding anniversary

For something a little different, you could spend your 7th anniversary sharing a new experience with your other half. But what exactly could you do that ties into themes related to wool and copper? Actually, you might be surprised, as there are a few unique experiences the two of you can do that will make your anniversary one neither of you will forget in a hurry! Here are five ideas for a truly memorable 7th anniversary experience.

1. A sheep shearing experience

Has your partner ever fancied themselves a bit of a farmer (or maybe just loves Stardew Valley)? If so, you could spend your anniversary getting stuck into a sheep shearing experience to really get hands-on with how wool is sourced. It’s a fun and involved way to do something new on your anniversary.

2. A knitting course

Knitting is no longer for the older generation; it’s fast becoming a pastime for the young ‘uns, too. You and your partner could start a new hobby together and learn how to knit under the guidance of a professional. Find a knitting course near you and make something woolly on your big day.

3. A rug-making experience

While knitting is a popular hobby, something a little more off the beaten track is spinning weaving and rug making! So, pull the wool over your partner’s eyes and surprise them with something truly unique. There are a few different spinning and weaving courses available across the UK.

4. A copper bowl-making workshop

Copper bowls are wonderfully eye-catching statement pieces to have on display at home. But what could make one even more special? How about one you and your partner make at a copper bowl-making workshop?

5. A coppersmithing course

If you like the thought of making something out of copper with your partner but would like to make something else like jewellery or a sculpture, a coppersmithing course offers just that. There’s a range of experiences available so you shouldn’t have much trouble finding something your partner will enjoy making.

10 7th anniversary gifts that contain onyx 

The traditional 7th anniversary gemstone is onyx, an incredible black (and sometimes white-flecked) stone that has an air of magic and mystery. As it’s such a deep colour, it looks striking set in a wide range of jewellery that could be either gold or silver. That means you usually don’t have to look too far to find onyx jewellery your partner will love. Here are 10 ideas for jewellery that contain onyx.

1. A necklace
2. A bracelet
3. Earrings
4. Cufflinks
5. A ring
6. A broach
7. A locket
8. An anklet
9. A nose stud
10. Belly button ring

Onyx isn’t exactly the most commonly used stone in jewellery, but most high street chains will have at least a few pieces for you to consider. At Bridebook, we’ve partnered with loads of amazing jewellers who specialise in wedding-related jewellery, so check them out to find the perfect piece

5 floral-inspired gifts for a 7th wedding anniversary

Flowers are an anniversary classic, but to give your floral gift an even more special meaning, you could choose something linked to the traditional 7th anniversary flower, freesia. Freesias are colourful and dainty, and look great in a vase or as part of a floral design. If you’d like to give your partner something related to freesias or other on-theme flowers, here are five bright ideas.

1. A bouquet of freesias

Freesias are a super versatile flower that can complement others in a bouquet, but work easily as a dedicated bouquet. A bouquet of freesias can be eye-catching and absolutely beautiful.

2. A freesia pendant

So that your partner can always wear a reminder of your 7th anniversary, a freesia pendant necklace is big, bold and pretty. It might not be to everyone’s taste, but you can pick up a more subtle freesia necklace from Kew Gardens’ online shop if that would suit your partner better.

3. Wool roses 

As beautiful as flowers are, they eventually wilt and have to be thrown away. The exception to this, however, is wool flowers! They might not be freesias, but wool roses are fantastically creative and fit the traditional anniversary theme to a tee, so they’re still thoughtful and meaningful.

4. A pear and freesia candle

Freesias have a fruity, almost strawberry-like, scent, and when coupled with pear, they make quite the… pair! That’s why a pear and freesia candle smells so sweet and delicious, plus helps create a romantic anniversary-night atmosphere.

5. A stained glass freesia

Did you know there’s only one way to make a freesia even more stunning? That’s right, a freesia made out of stained glass! A stained glass freesia can stand tall and proud on a shelf and cast incredible yellow light across the room.

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Three years might not sound like much, but the fact that you’ve made it to your third wedding anniversary is incredible. All the trials and tribulations you’ve been through, and you still love each other more than ever. We think that definitely means you should treat each other if you can.

But what should you give your partner to mark your 3rd anniversary? Chances are you’ve thought about one or two things you might like to give them, but did you know there are traditional and modern gifts that many people like to give and have done for over 100 years? There’s also a traditional gemstone and flower, so if your thoughts revolve around flowers and jewellery, you might want to include the traditions there to give your gift a little more symbolic meaning.

In this guide, we’re going to explore all the gift-giving traditions and the meanings behind them when it comes to celebrating your 3rd anniversary. That way you’ll have all the information you need to make the best choice for you and your partner to make your anniversary extra special.

For more information about the different gift-giving traditions associated with anniversaries from 1 through to 90 years, read our complete year-by-year wedding anniversary gift guide.

What are traditional and modern gifts for a 3rd wedding anniversary?

Ever since they were made official in the early 1900s (not that you have to stick to them by any means), lots of couples have had fun giving their partners traditional or modern anniversary gifts, as well as gifts linked to the traditional gemstone or flower. 

Traditional 3rd anniversary gift – Leather

Leather is a really durable, hardy and flexible material that can withstand almost anything – which is also true of your marriage as you celebrate three years together. In fact, a leather shoe was found that was over 5,500 years old. Your marriage probably won’t last that long, but we bet it could! Leather represents strength and resilience – and for those looking for an alternative, vegan or faux leather is also just as strong and still absolutely on-theme.

Modern 3rd anniversary gift – Glass or crystal

The exact opposite of leather, glass or crystal is very delicate and fragile. This is also true of marriage, because if you don’t look after it then there’s a risk it could break. But, the fact that you’ve got to three years is evidence of how you look after your relationship. And a glass or crystal gift is a lovely way to show that.

3rd anniversary gemstone – Pearl

Pearls are incredible iridescent stones that come from saltwater and freshwater mollusks. They represent purity and beauty, and what’s more beautiful than you celebrating three years as a married couple? You can also get vegan-friendly pearls, so there’s plenty of choice for everyone if you’re looking to give your partner pearl jewellery.

3rd anniversary flower – Sunflower

The sunflower is one of the most recognisable flowers in the world with its huge open head packed full of nutritious seeds. It’s one of the symbols of summer, and represents happiness and long life – so could there really be a more appropriate flower for celebrating your anniversary?

How do you choose a gift for a 3rd wedding anniversary?

No one else in this world knows your other half quite as well as you do, and you might already have a few ideas about what you want to give them to mark your third anniversary. But, before you dive in and start adding things to your shopping basket, there are a few things to think about to make sure you choose the perfect pressie.

• Do you or don’t you follow the ‘rules’? Traditional and modern gifts don’t suit everyone’s tastes, so decide whether it’s something you want to include in your celebrations.
• Have you established your budget? When it comes to gift giving, it’s easy to get carried away, so make sure you set your budget and don’t be tempted to sway from it.
• Are you looking for a super personalised gift? Personalised gifts are thoughtful and unique and make for something extra special.
• Have you considered your partner’s tastes? You might want to give your partner something leather- or glass-related, but would they love something else more?

If you’re looking for a gift for a friend or family member who’s celebrating their third anniversary, you’re also free to be as involved in the rules as you like. Joining in by giving them a traditional or modern gift can be a lot of fun and shows that you’ve put a lot of thought into it.

50 ideas for a 3rd wedding anniversary gift

If you’re excited to give your partner a symbolic and thoughtful gift to mark your 3rd anniversary but don’t know where to start, we’ve put together this helpful list featuring 50 ideas to get your started.

10 traditional gifts for a 3rd wedding anniversary

The traditional anniversary gift for three years is leather, and thankfully there are plenty of options when it comes to choosing a brilliant and thoughtful present. So, here are 10 leather anniversary presents, which include a mix of cow leather and vegan leather options.

1. A personalised leather keyring

If you’re not sure your partner would love a leather gift but you’re keen to give them something traditional and symbolic, a personalised leather keyring is a cute way to give them something that’s totally on theme. It’s something your partner can carry with them wherever they go, and if you order one through Pedal and Brass you can personalise it, too.

2. A leather wallet or purse

Wallets and purses go through a lot of wear and tear, being pulled in and out of pockets and bags at least a couple of times a day. That’s why nothing beats a high-quality wallet or purse, and it’s something your partner will love and get a lot of use out of. There are great leather wallets available at Wallet King and a huge selection of purses at Lakeland Leather.

3. A leather photo album

Physical photo albums have fallen out of fashion over the last decade or so, and it’s about time that changed – there’s nothing quite as lovely as cracking out old photos to look back on and reminisce. A leather photo album, like those at Noble Macmillan, are great for storing those precious photographs. Or, for something a little different, a leather scrapbook gives you a place to personalise your memories and add a little character.

4. A leather laptop bag

If your partner spends hours of their day glued to their laptop for work, you’ll know just how precious it is to them. You could incorporate that into your choice of gift, by giving them a smart leather laptop bag. Knomo has a great range of extra special leather laptop bags to keep your other half’s work safe and secure.

5. Personalised leather coasters

You can never have too many coasters at home, and personalised leather coasters are stylish, durable and totally fit the theme of a traditional 3rd anniversary gift. Leather coasters from Your Surprise allow you to choose from various options and personalise them with a custom message.

6. A vegan leather notebook

Your partner might write a lot of notes, maybe for work or if they study. Or they could write a journal or like to keep paper close by to write things down. If this is anything like your partner, a vegan leather notebook would be a perfect gift.

7. A watch with faux leather strap

A watch is never a bad idea for a gift, with so many amazing options available to fit all budgets, tastes and styles. And thankfully, there are also loads of different watch strap materials out there too, including faux leather. This trendy faux leather strapped watch from Zazzle ticks a whole lot of boxes associated with the perfect 3rd anniversary gift.

8. A vegan leather jewellery box

Everyone with more than just a couple of items of jewellery knows just how tricky it can be to keep everything safe. If this sounds like your partner, a vegan leather jewellery box will do just the trick – not too expensive, on theme and super useful!

9. A faux leather e-reader case

Kindles and other e-readers are a prized possession for any bookworm. Yes, there’s nothing quite like the smell of a real book, but e-readers are so handy and versatile. Keep your partner’s e-reader in tip-top condition with a vegan leather e-reader case.

10. A vegan leather bookmark

Continuing with the bookish theme, if your other half really does love getting stuck into a physical book, a personalised vegan leather bookmark will make sure they never lose their place. And whenever they sneak in a quick chapter, they’ll always be reminded of your third anniversary.

10 modern gifts for a 3rd wedding anniversary

If you’re not sold on the idea of giving your partner a traditional leather gift, you could choose the modern option, which is glass or crystal. Here are 10 ideas to get you started and hopefully make your decision crystal clear.

1. A Swarovski crystal cherry blossom

Swarovski is one of the biggest and most well-known makers of crystals and other luxury fashion accessories, so spoiling your partner with a gift from Swarovski makes a huge statement. And thankfully, not all Swarovski gifts break the bank, like the Garden Tales Cherry Blossom, a minimalist pink flower with 230 facets to ensure real sparkle.

2. An engraved crystal heart

A lovely and hugely personal crystal gift that looks brilliant on a mantlepiece, shelf or inside a display cabinet is an engraved crystal heart, like the ones produced by 3D Crystal. All you do is send them your favourite wedding snap and they’ll recreate it inside a crystal heart. And when combined with a light base, it really makes for a fabulously personal gift.

3. A Royal Scot crystal vase

Royal Scot is an internationally renowned producer of fine, handmade crystal. Give your partner a real treat on your third anniversary with a vase that you could even give to them with flowers already in them. Then, every time they get flowers they’ll always be reminded of your symbolic gift. Check out the Royal Scot website to browse their selection of vases.

4. A Fortnum and Mason teapot

When many hear the name Fortnum and Mason, they know it’s a name associated with luxury and class. That’s why a Fortnum and Mason glass teapot makes for a brilliant gift for any tea-loving partner. It elevates the average brew and makes every tea time that little bit more special.

5. Royal Doulton Champagne flutes

Royal Doulton has been making ceramics and other luxury items for over 200 years, and they also happen to produce some incredible glassware. And as you’re celebrating three years together with the love of your life, that’s definitely a great excuse to crack out some fizz – and Royal Doulton Champagne flutes are some of the best ways to enjoy it.

6. An engraved whisky glass

If fizz isn’t really your other half’s thing and they prefer a warming glass of whisky instead, an engraved whisky glass will always go down well (as well as the drinks they’ll have from it). The Engravers Guild of London can add unique personalisations to make your gift stand out.

7. Glass on Blu-ray

Glass and crystal won’t suit everyone’s interest, so why not think a little creatively, and give your partner a copy of the movie Glass on Blu-ray. Glass is the sequel to both Split and Unbreakable, so you could have a thrilling movie night in while making sure your gift is still totally on theme. You can pick up the Blu-ray at Amazon if you’re going old-school, or find it on your favourite streaming service.

8. A Saturn crystal light

Give your partner a tiny piece of the galaxy with a Saturn crystal light. The base features a rechargeable battery that lasts up to 16 hours, making it a lovely night light for every space geek out there.

9. A bottle of their favourite tipple

If you really are struggling for ideas for a glass anniversary gift, you could just pick them up a bottle of their favourite tipple. Brandy, gin, vodka, wine, prosecco, ale… so long as it’s in a glass bottle it definitely counts. And if your partner isn’t a big drinker, you can also pick up specialty fizzy pops, or even good ol’ Coca-Cola, which always tastes better when it’s in a glass bottle.

10. A glass paperweight

Paperweights are a smart addition to a desk, even if we’re now in an age where we don’t use as much paper, so paperweights aren’t particularly needed. But thankfully, they’re still lovely ornaments – especially a Royal Scot engraved hare paperweight. That’s just one of many designs that you could choose from, with the options out there being practically endless.

5 affordable gifts for a 3rd wedding anniversary

Both leather and crystal can be a rather pricey gift to give your partner, which can make it tough to stick to the traditions if you have a limited budget. But, if you look in the right places, you can pick up a gift that’s on theme but doesn’t cost too much, so you can still get your other half a gift full of charm and meaning.

1. A glass pocket hug token

A glass pocket hug token tells your partner that you’re always thinking about them. It features hugs, hearts and is made of glass – and it’s super affordable! It’s the perfect token gift to mark your 3rd wedding anniversary.

2. A glass tealight holder

Tealights light a room with a warm dancing glow, which can only be made better with a lovely tealight holder. Dunelm has an affordable glass lotus tealight holder that ensures even more sparkle than a tealight alone.

3. A Dartington crystal gin glass

If your other half is partial to the odd gin, a lovely Dartington crystal gin glass is definitely on theme. It’s the perfect excuse to enjoy a drink to celebrate your big day!

4. A leather cable organiser

We all hate it when cables get the better of us and slither around on top of and underneath desks. If you only want a token gift that fits with the third anniversary theme, a leather cable organiser will suit you to a tee.

5. A leather luggage tag

Bring a little touch of luxury to your partner’s luggage with a leather travel luggage tag from the Leather Company. It’s genuine leather that just so happens to be affordable and really useful, so what’s not to love?

5 DIY gifts for a 3rd wedding anniversary

DIY gifts are fun to make, thoughtful and full of heart. You might assume that making a gift using glass or leather might be difficult and time-consuming, or require skills and tools you might not have. But that’s not always the case, so here are 5 DIY 3rd anniversary gift ideas so you can give your partner a brilliant handmade surprise.

1. Leather wallet

Believe it or not, it’s totally possible to make a wallet yourself without the need for specialist leather-making tools. Making a wallet yourself out of leather is also a fun challenge and means your partner will get a completely one-of-a-kind gift. If you fancy taking on the challenge, there are leather wallet-making video tutorials that walk you through the process.

2. A leather knot bracelet

If you have a few offcuts of leather (and if you don’t they’re cheap to buy online) making a knot bracelet is surprisingly simple. It also means you can give your partner a touching gift that they can wear for many years to come. There are plenty of leather knot bracelet video tutorials available and you don’t need any expertise to give it a go.

3. A glass bracelet

If you’re not sure your partner would love a leather bracelet, how about a glass bracelet instead? Or even a necklace or anklet? You don’t need to be an expert to give jewellery-making a go, and there are glass bracelet-making kits that provide you with everything you need to make your partner something they’ll love.

4. Homemade stained glass

Stained glass looks fabulous whether it’s window, glass, ornament or something else entirely. And you can even have a go at making your own stained glass with a stained glass craft kit, which you can use to elevate an ordinary drinking glass or dish and turn it into something special.

5. A homemade jar of jam or chutney

A mason jar can cost just a few pounds to pick up, which you can then fill with any sort of homemade jam or chutney you can think of. Raspberry, strawberry, fig, plum, pickle, piccalilly, peanut butter… the possibilities are endless. And whatever you create will taste so much more delicious because it’ll be made from the heart.

5 experience or activity gifts for a 3rd wedding anniversary

Your anniversary is all about the two of you, and what better way to celebrate than by doing something fun together? Leather and glass might not seem like they lend themselves particularly well to a fun experience, but with a little creative thinking, there are plenty you could get up to together. So, here are five ideas to help get you started.

1. A leather-making workshop

There’s nothing quite as satisfying as making something yourself and having something you’re proud of. So why not tie this into your third anniversary theme and spend time with your other half taking part in a leather-making workshop? You’ll get to find out all about centuries-old techniques and have a lot of fun in the process. There are leather-making courses and workshops available up and down the UK.

2. A glassblowing experience

If you’re not sold on the idea of making something out of leather, you could always make something out of glass! Glassblowing is another skill that goes back thousands of years, and a glassblowing experience gives you the opportunity to try it out for yourself and make something you can hold onto forever.

3. A whisky-tasting experience

Okay, so whisky tasting might come out of a barrel, but where is it poured? Into a glass of course! If your partner has a pallet for fine whiskies, then there’s no better way to spoil them than with a whisky-tasting experience. Another alternative would be a wine tasting experience, which would be equally as fun.

4. A glass factory experience

Dartington is one of the biggest glass manufacturers in the UK, and has a solid reputation as being the best. They also just so happen to offer factory tours, as well as glass painting, demonstrations and hand casting – a great experience linked really closely to the modern third anniversary gift. Check out the Visit Dartington website for more information.

5. Line dancing classes

This one might be a bit of a stretch, but it’s a brilliant way to spend time together on your third anniversary for two reasons: one, it’s line dancing which is a hell of a lot of fun, and two, cowboys wear leather so it totally counts! There are loads of local line dancing classes and clubs, so see if there’s one close to you for something really different!

10 3rd anniversary gifts that contain pearl 

The third anniversary gemstone is pearl, a wonderful iridescent stone that comes from mollusks. There are also vegan alternatives so everyone gets to enjoy the beauty of this amazing stone. It’s a versatile stone used in all types of jewellery and accessories, so whatever your partner wears you’re bound to find something they’ll love. Here are 10 ideas for jewellery and accessories that can be set with pearl.

1. A necklace
2. A bracelet
3. Earrings
4. Cufflinks
5. A ring
6. A broach
7. A locket
8. An anklet
9. A nose stud
10. Belly button ring

Loads of big-name and independent jewellers have a whole selection of jewellery that contains pearl, and there are even some retailers that specialise in it. You might also want to browse the range of wedding jewellers we work with, as many have a huge amount of choice.

5 floral gifts for a 3rd wedding anniversary

The traditional flower for celebrating your third anniversary is the magnificent sunflower, one of the most recognisable flowers there is and the symbol of summer. Here are five sunflowery anniversary gift ideas to mark this wonderful occasion.

1. A bouquet of sunflowers

Sunflowers are bright and cheerful flowers that last a fairly long time if you look after them properly, and they look great either as the only flower in a bouquet or as part of a larger arrangement. They’re in abundance during the summer months, but florists have sunflower bouquets and arrangements year-round.

2. Sunflower seeds

One of the best things about sunflowers is just how easy they are to grow at home. All you need is a small patch of soil or a pot and access to sunlight, and then just let it do its thing. Sunflowers grow really fast, so if you plant them in April or May you should have huge yellow flowers by the middle of summer. You can pick up a packet of sunflower seeds for around a couple of pounds at your local garden centre.

3. LEGO sunflowers

Real flowers might not be your partner’s thing, or maybe they have an allergy or you don’t have the space. Thankfully, LEGO has a solution, with a set that allows you to build your own LEGO sunflowers. You can spend time building them together and then display them in a vase – and the best thing is they’ll never wilt!

4. A sunflower suncatcher

For something small and floral that brilliantly catches the essence of summery sunflowers, a sunflower suncatcher is a small but perfectly on-theme gift.

5. A sunflower necklace

If your partner loves sunflowers, then they’ll adore a sterling silver sunflower necklace with round cut topaz. It’s dainty and beautiful and the sort of necklace your partner can wear for any occasion.

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