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Your hair is your crowning glory, and you want it to look its best on special days like weddings. But, what do you do when your ends are split, flyaways won’t tame, and your usual go-to hairstyle feels tired and uninspired? Don’t worry — we’re here to help save your style and have your Cinderella moment. 

Styling your hair for a wedding can be daunting, especially if you aren’t the most confident with hairspray and styling tools. However, some of the most beautiful styles are the simplest. So, whether you’re looking for a sophisticated updo with minimal fuss or chic and romantic waves that exude timeless charm, you’re in the right place. This post will walk you through 45 ideas for hairstyles for wedding guests, including what to do with long, short, and curly hair. 

What is a wedding guest hairstyle?

A wedding guest hairstyle is a formal or semi-formal hairstyle that guests can create to attend a wedding ceremony. There’s no difference between a normal formal hairstyle and a formal hairstyle for a wedding. However, a wedding guest’s hairstyle often takes into account the specific ambiance and theme of the wedding, as well as the attire chosen by the guests.

Hairstyles for a wedding as a guest

If you’re looking for some inspiration for wedding guest hairstyles, look no further. Keep reading for a how-to on 45 easy-to-achieve styles. 

Formal weddings

Formal weddings usually demand the most sophisticated or elaborate hairstyles of all wedding themes. However, there are ways you can simplify the hairdo: 

For long hair

Long, formal hairstyles for a wedding as a guest include:

• Romantic waves. Use a hair curler, hot rollers, or a hair waver with a deep barrel to help you achieve romantic waves. Tame your flyaways with a little hair oil and keep it in place with a light hairspray. 
• Elegant updo. Pull your long hair back into an elegant updo. You’ll need some decorative hair clips or grips to hold it in place, and some hairspray to tame flyaways. Try pulling a few face-framing strands out of the updo to soften your face. Updos are especially pretty if you have a Bardot-style top or off-the-shoulder dress. 
• Half-up half-down. Gather the top section of your hair into a twist, braid, or bun, leaving the rest of your hair down in loose waves or curls. This style is great for highlighting hair length or thickness. Try curling the bottom half of your hair or adding a flick to the ends for extra glamour. 

For short hair

Short, formal hairstyles for a wedding as a guest include:

• A textured pixie. This style embraces your hair’s natural texture and is easy to manage throughout the day. Add volume and dimension by adding hairspray at the roots and tousling the hair with texturising spray or wax. Consider adding a side-swept fringe or face-framing strands to highlight your natural beauty. 
• Side swept waves. Use a deep-barrel waver or curler to add some texture to your hair. Be sure to curl your hair away from your face, then gently brush through the curls with your fingers to loosen them. Sweep your hair to the side or over your ear, and finish with a spritz of hairspray to hold the style in place.
• Sleek bob. Slick your hair down with hair gel or paste for an editorial look. This style is best for above-ear haircuts. Any longer than this, and you run the risk of your hair looking greasy. 

For curly hair 

Curly, formal hairstyles for a wedding as a guest include:

• A curly crown. Braid a section of hair on each side of your head, then cross them over at the back and secure with kirby grips or a bobble. Leave the rest of your curls loose, or style them into soft waves for a whimsical finish. Use your favourite curly hair products to ensure your waves look their best.
• A curly pony. Gather your curls into a high or low ponytail and secure with a decorative bobble. Pull out some curls to frame your face for a soft and romantic look, and use a curl-refreshing spray to revive any droopy curls throughout the day.
• Defined curls with hair accessories. Follow your usual curly hair routine to make your curls look their best, then add a fun accessory like hair clips, a fascinator, or a hairband to elevate your style. Try using products like mousse, curl cream, and even hair gel, depending on your hair’s texture. This will define your curls and keep their volume throughout the day. 

City weddings

City weddings are all the rage now, and for good reason! They offer a unique blend of urban charm and modern sophistication. When it comes to hairstyles for city weddings, you want something chic, polished, and effortlessly stylish. Here are some trendy options to consider:

For long hair

Long hairstyles for wedding guests include:

• Sleek low bun. Smooth your hair back into a sleek ponytail, then twist it into a neat bun at the nape of your neck. Slick your parting down with hair gel or hairspray for a slicked-back look. Use kirby grips to secure any loose strands, and finish with hairspray for a polished look.
• A high ponytail. Brush your hair up and backwards into a high ponytail. Secure with a bobble, and use a fine-toothed comb to smooth any bumps on your crown or nape. Use texture spray on the pony to add volume and hairspray for extra shine. 
• Tousled with a statement accessory. Use heated rollers or a deep-barrel waver to add texture to your hair. Use wax or hairspray or tousle your hair for an undone style, then add a statement accessory like a fascinator, hair grips, or headband in a bright colour.  

For short hair

Short hairstyles for wedding guests include:

• Textured mohawk braid. Create a French braid along the centre of your head, starting from the forehead and working towards the nape of your neck. Leave the sides of your short hair loose, or add some texture with texturising spray for added dimension. This edgy yet stylish hairstyle is perfect for city weddings and is sure to make a lasting impression.
• Asymmetric bob. If you’re feeling bold, try cutting your short hair into an asymmetric bob à la 2007 Rhianna. It will add instant flair and personality to your outfit. However, it’s more permanent than these other suggestions, so make sure you’re confident before taking the plunge. 
• Sleek crop. Slick your short hair down and behind your ears for a classy, editorial look. The shorter the hair, the chicer this looks, so don’t be afraid to go bold. Use gel or hairspray for a high shine effect, or wax or pomade for a matt style. 

For curly hair 

Curly hairstyles for wedding guests include:

• Twisted half-up half-down. It can be difficult to get curly hair to lay flat, so leaning into the ‘undone’ style is a great way to disguise the chaos. Try creating two twists on the side of your head by wrapping two pieces of hair around one another. Pull these around the back of your head until they meet, and secure with a decorative hair clip or bobble. Let the rest of your curls fall loose and style as needed. Pull a few face-framing sections out of the twists for a romantic style. 
• Curly side ponytail. A side pony is a great way to tame your hair while embracing your natural texture. Pull all your hair onto one side of your head and secure it in a low ponytail just below your ear. Try using a decorative or bejewelled bobble for extra glamour. 
• Curly French twist. A French twist is a timeless and elegant hairstyle. However, they’re not always the easiest style to achieve. Be sure to put in lots of practice before the big day if you’d like to wear this style. Sweep your curls to one side of your head and twist them upwards, securing them with kirby grips to create a classic French twist. Leave a few curls loose around your face to soften the look and frame your face. If you’re already a pro at creating a French twist, you can leave a few curls out on the top to highlight your beautiful hair texture. 

Boho weddings

Boho weddings are known for their relaxed, free-spirited atmosphere, so any hairstyles you choose as a wedding guest should reflect this style. 

For long hair

• Half-up half-down with a top knot. Adding a top knot to this classic style adds a touch of whimsy which is perfect for a boho wedding. Part around the crown of your head and brush upwards. A great tip is to create two faux partings in line with the arches of your eyebrows. Twirl the hair gathered into a top knot and secure with either kirby grips or a bobble, depending on the thickness of your hair. Allow the rest of your hair to flow freely. 
• Side-swept fishtail braid. Fishtail braids can be tricky to achieve, but once you’ve nailed them they’re a beautiful yet relaxed hairstyle for any wedding. Sweep your hair to one side and start braiding a fishtail braid, incorporating small sections of hair into the middle of the braid as you go. Secure the end with a bobble and gently pull on the sides of the braid to loosen it and add volume. Finish with a few spritzes of hairspray to hold the style in place. 
• Waterfall braid. Waterfall braids are, again, quite an advanced style. However, once mastered, everyone will be asking for your hairstyle tips! Begin by taking a small section of hair near your temple and dividing it into three strands like a regular braid. Cross the top strand over the middle, then the bottom strand over the middle. On the next cross, drop the top strand and pick up a new section of hair from above the dropped strand to replace it. Continue braiding in this manner, dropping and picking up new sections of hair from above the braid as you go. Secure the end of the braid with a small bobble or a kirby grip, depending on your hair thickness. YouTube is your friend with this one — check out some inspiring and handy tutorials to grasp the exact technique. 

For short hair

• A textured pixie. A textured pixie works well for a boho wedding. Embrace your natural texture and scrunch your hair with sea salt spray or texturising powder for an effortless finish. You can even add hair accessories like floral clips to emphasise the laid-back feel.
• A headband or scarf. Choose a headband or scarf with a bold and colourful pattern or floral design to complement the boho aesthetic of the wedding. Place the headband or tie the scarf around your head, leaving your short hair loose and tousled for a casual and carefree look. This will instantly elevate your hairstyle and add a touch of bohemian charm to your overall look.
• Twisted low pony. This one will depend on the length of your short hair. However, a twisted pony is a great way to keep your hair off your face while maintaining a boho style. Gather your hair into a low ponytail at the nape of your neck and secure it with a bobble. Then, twist the ponytail loosely and wrap it around the base to create a low twisted bun. Secure the bun with kirby grips and leave a few strands loose for a soft and effortless look. 

For curly hair 

• A boho bun. Gather all of your curls into a loose bun at the nape of your neck and secure it with kirby grips. Leave a few curls loose around your face and at the nape of your neck for a relaxed look. 
• Curly updo. This timeless hairstyle is perfect for curly hair at a boho wedding. Twist small sections of your curls and pin them at the back of your head, creating a loose and tousled updo. Leave a few curls loose around your face and at the nape of your neck for a romantic vibe. You can also add floral hair pins or accessories to enhance the style.
• Keep it natural. Boho style is all about embracing your natural beauty and being carefree. What could be more carefree than wearing your natural texture? Follow your usual curly hair routine to help your curls look their best and rock the boho vibes. 

Rustic weddings

Rustic weddings are characterised by their simplicity and natural elements, so you should focus on reflecting this energy in your hairstyles.  

For long hair

• Flower crown with loose waves. Create soft, natural-looking waves using a curler or large barrel round brush. Once your waves are set, place a flower crown on top of your head, positioning it slightly over your forehead for a bohemian touch. The colours in your flower crown should complement your outfit. 
• Volumised curls. Create bouncy curls throughout your hair using a curler or hot rollers. Be sure the barrel of the rollers is wide for more volume. Spray a little hairspray or texturising powder at your roots to increase volume. This is best done on second-day or slightly dirty hair, and will give your hair more texture and longevity. 
• Rope braid. Rope braids are significantly easier to achieve than a waterfall or fishtail braid. Pull your hair to one side and separate it into two sections. Twist these sections around themselves, and then around one another to create a rope braid. Twisting the hair around itself first prevents the rope braid from unravelling throughout the day. Secure with a thin bobble. 

For short hair

• Vintage-inspired pin curls. Create small pin curls throughout your short hair using a curling iron or hot rollers, then secure them with kirby grips or small hair clips. Once their hair has completely cooled, you should remove the pins. Your curls should stay in place depending on the length of your hair. If you like the way your hair looks with pins, use decorative kirby grips like pearl or diamante pins along the sides of your curls for a touch of old Hollywood elegance. 
• Soft waves. Soft waves are the perfect style if you’re going for a romantic or feminine vibe. You can use a curler or waver, but it’s much easier to create soft waves on short hair using a thin straightener. Pull the hair tight between the plates and turn the straightener from side to side to create a loose wave. Set with a little hairspray for longevity. 
• Fringe French braid. This one will take a little practice, but you can French braid your longer layers and fringe into a pretty style. Secure behind the ear with a decorative clip, and you’re good to go. It’s easier to French braid slightly dirty hair, so try using some dry shampoo if your hair is freshly washed. 

For curly hair

• Natural curls with twine details. This style is perfect if you’re a natural curlyhead. Complete your usual curly hair routine to make your curls bouncy and hydrated, then add small rope braids sporadically throughout your hair. Secure them with a small bobble and beads for a laid-back look. 
• Loose curls with a braided headband. Take two sections of hair from above your temples and braid them. The braid should face upwards and away from your face to prevent any bumps in your style. The braid should be about an inch in thickness, so take more or less hair depending on your hair density. Wrap your braids over the top of your head until they reach the opposite side of your head and secure with kirby grips. Allow the rest of your hair to flow free and loose.
• A side braid with flowers. Sweep your curly hair to one side. Create a three-strand braid and secure it with a thin bobble. Decorate your braids with fresh flowers of your choosing. Daisies or small sprigs of babies’ breath look especially beautiful at a wedding. 

Destination weddings

Destination weddings are weddings that happen abroad. While beaches and coastlines are popular choices for destination weddings, they’re not the only options available. Destination weddings can take place in a variety of breathtaking settings, including picturesque vineyards, historic castles, or lush gardens. Be sure to match your hairstyle to the location for a cohesive look. 

For long hair

• Beachy waves. Create loose, beachy waves throughout your hair using a curler or a deep-barrel waver or iron. Accessorise with accents from the destination. For example, small seashell clips or hairpins for a beach, flowers for a woodland wedding, or leaves for a vineyard.
• Messy bun with twists. Begin by gathering your hair into a high ponytail and loosely twisting it into a bun, securing it with kirby grips. Leave a few strands loose around the face to soften the look and add texture. Incorporate small twisted sections of hair into the bun for added dimension and visual interest.
• Braided high ponytail. A high ponytail is a great way to keep your hair off your face and keep yourself cool, and incorporating a braid adds interest to the style. Start by dividing a straight section from the front of your hairline to the crown. French braid this section and secure it with a clip or small bobble. Brush the rest of your hair into a high ponytail and secure with a thicker bobble. Add a little hairspray to tame flyaways and some texture spray to your pony for a volumised look. 

For short hair

• Hair jewellery. Hair jewellery adds a glamorous touch for castle weddings or a whimsical touch to woodland weddings. You can incorporate hair jewellery into any style, so consider using any of the above hairstyles and adding accessories as you see fit. 
• Curly bob. Curly bobs are great for vineyard or beach weddings. Use a curler with a slim barrel to achieve a pretty, curly look. Finish with hairspray for longevity and add a sparkly hairband or flowers depending on the location. 
• Textured lob. It’s easy to achieve volume and texture with a lob (long bob), as this hairstyle isn’t weighed down by excess length. Add texture and movement to your lob by tousling it with sea salt or texturising spray. Alternatively, you can create loose waves with a hair curler or waver, then spritz with hairspray for a lived-in look.

For curly hair 

• Curly Dutch braid updo. Begin by creating a Dutch braid along one side of your head, incorporating sections of curly hair as you braid. Continue braiding until you reach the nape of your neck, then secure the braid with kirby grips or a bobble. Gather the remaining curly hair into a low bun and secure with kirby grips. Leave some curls loose around your face for a soft look and add some pretty accessories or hair jewellery for a finishing touch.  
• Double low buns. Split your hair down the middle and secure into two low bunches. Twist your hair around themselves until you create two low double buns. Secure with a bobble and then add some pretty ribbons for a feminine touch. 
• Braided updo. Begin by creating multiple small braids throughout your curly hair, varying the size and placement for a textured and whimsical look. Gather the braids into a loose bun or updo at the back of your head, securing them with kirby grips or a bobble. Allow some curls to cascade down your back for an elegant and glamorous look.

The bottom line on hairstyles for wedding guests

Remember, though your hairstyle is important when you’re a wedding guest, it’s not the be-all and end-all. The best hairstyles for wedding guests are the ones that make you feel beautiful and authentic. Follow the dress code, keep a mini hairspray in your bag, and you’ll fit right in with the vibe of the big day.

In the end, it’s not just about the hairstyle you wear, but also the confidence and happiness you bring to the celebration. Don’t be afraid to add a touch of personal flair to your hairdo, whether it’s a delicate hair accessory, flaunting your natural texture, or sneaking a subtle braid into your updo. If you’re feeling nervous or aren’t especially skilled when it comes to hairstyles, remember that the most beautiful accessory you can wear is your genuine smile!

Frequently Asked Questions

Can I wear a hat as a wedding guest?

You can wear a hat as a wedding guest so long as the dress code allows it. However, you’ll likely need to remove your hat any time you enter a building, meaning you’ll still need to style your hair underneath. So don’t think you can hide a bad hair day with the use of a tactful hat!

Can I wear my hair down as a wedding guest?

Wearing your hair down is a beautiful and timeless choice for wedding guest hairstyles — especially if you have long or thick hair. Consider beachy waves, romantic curls, or even a half-up half-down. 

Can I wear hair accessories as a wedding guest?

Accessories are to hair as herbs and spices are to a tasty meal — they should be used in moderation. Less is more when it comes to hair clips, headbands, or fascinators. Opt for one statement piece or a few subtle accents to complement your hairstyle without overpowering it. Remember, balance is key to achieving a polished and elegant appearance. 

Can I do my own hair as a wedding guest?

Doing your own hair is a great way to save money and ensure that your hairstyle perfectly reflects your personal style. With a little bit of practise and the right products, you can achieve a look that’s both stunning and uniquely you. 

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Wedding season is fast approaching, which means it’s time to don your glad rags and head to the dancefloor! But, first thing’s first — what are you going to wear?

Whether you’re the best friend, a distant relative, or the plus-one, figuring out what to wear to the wedding reception can be tough. You’ll need to navigate the realms of style, etiquette, and personal flair to create an outfit that’s uniquely you. It’s no small feat!

So, if you’re wondering what to wear to a wedding reception, keep reading! We have specific guidance on formal, casual, and cocktail wedding reception attire to help you feel comfortable and confident as you celebrate the big day. 

What is a wedding reception?

A wedding reception is the evening portion of a wedding day. It’s usually framed as a party to celebrate the happy couple’s big day and as a display of hospitality to those who attended and supported the wedding. Think of it as the grand finale of the special day!

It’s common for someone who isn’t immediate family or a close friend of the newlyweds to be invited to the reception only. You may also be invited as a plus-one or an extended part of the couple’s social circle. While the ceremony is more intimate, the reception opens its arms wider, inviting a wider group of guests to share in the love and happiness.

What do you wear to a wedding reception?

If you’re feeling stuck on what to wear to a wedding reception, check out the following guidance. Formal, cocktail, or casual are three safe bets when dressing for an evening wedding reception. 

What is formal attire for a wedding reception?

Formal attire is the epitome of elegance and sophistication. It’s all about fitting in with the beauty of the big day and making an impression.

Ladies

Ladies should wear a floor-length gown, a tea-length dress, or even a classy jumpsuit. Rich fabrics like silk, velvet, or satin are all beautiful options, and you should opt for dark colours or jewel tones. If you’re a fan of glitz and glamour, a little bit of sparkle doesn’t go amiss at a formal wedding reception!

Enhance your outfit with sparkling jewellery, a stylish clutch, and satin gloves for a touch of elegance. Remember, formal dressing isn’t just about the dress, but about the outfit as a whole. 

Men

Men can’t go wrong with a well-tailored suit in a dark colour. Pair with a crisp shirt, a contrasting tie, and polished dress shoes to complete the ensemble. Black, charcoal, and deep navy are all acceptable suit colours, and shirts should be white or pale blue. 

Accessorise with cufflinks, a pocket square, and a dress watch. You should look clean and well-groomed, with clean nails and a well-maintained beard (if you have one). It’s also a good idea to get a haircut a week or so before the wedding. This way, you’ll look tidy without worrying about itchy hairs ruining the day. 

Gender-neutral or non-binary

A jumpsuit, tailored suit, or formal separates are all great gender-neutral or non-binary options. The most important thing is striking the balance between formality and being true to your own style. Don’t feel the need to wear a suit if you’d never usually wear one; likewise, don’t wear a jumpsuit if you’re going to be uncomfortable all day. Instead, opt for an ensemble that makes you feel confident and fabulous, ensuring you can fully enjoy the celebration.

A great tip is to express yourself with accessories. For example, if you’re more flamboyant, opt for chandelier earrings to offset a classic suit look. Alternatively, consider going bright with your makeup while opting for a jumpsuit in a dark or jewel tone. This will help you infuse your personal style into your outfit while still respecting the formality of the occasion. 

Shoes should be classic and comfortable to ensure you can dance the night away without issue. 

What is casual wear for a wedding reception?

Casual wear usually means a more relaxed or informal dress code. Similar to ‘come as you are,’ casual dress codes are all about feeling comfortable while still dressing appropriately for a family party. 

Ladies

Ladies can wear sundresses, midi dresses, or a nice top with flowy trousers. You could also wear a pretty blouse with dressy shorts or a casual jumpsuit if that’s more your style. Bring a light cardigan or denim jacket to keep off the chill. 

Accessories should be understated, and you can wear clean trainers, sandals, or other flat shoes.  Try an effortless hairstyle like a side braid or loose waves to tie into the laid-back style. 

Men

Try pairing a button-down shirt or polo shirt with some smart chinos for a polished but casual look. You could also include a casual blazer or smart jumper if the weather promises a chill. Complete the ensemble with stylish yet comfortable footwear. Loafers, slip-on shoes, or clean trainers are all great options for a casual look. 

Stick to pale, neutral colours and subtle patterns for a timeless look. 

Gender-neutral or non-binary

Casual separates are a good gender-neutral or non-binary option. For example, a stylish blouse with flowy trousers, a tunic top with leggings, a smart shirt with chinos — the choices are endless. Mix-and-match however feels right to you and accessorise accordingly. Consider a belt, a dress watch, and understated jewellery. 

Remember that fashion is a form of self-expression. Choose an outfit that’s true to you and reflects your personality. Wear it with confidence and you’ll look fabulous.

What is cocktail attire for a wedding reception?

Cocktail attire is a great balance between casual and formal attire. It allows guests to dress to impress while still maintaining a sense of ease and approachability. Here’s a detailed guide on what cocktail attire entails for women, men, and non-binary guests.

Ladies

You can’t go wrong with a little black dress for cocktail wear. However, if this isn’t your style, a midi-length bodycon dress, a dressy jumpsuit, or a knee-length cocktail dress are also great options. Statement jewellery, a clutch, and a fascinator can all elevate your outfit and add a touch of glamour. 

We recommend wearing heeled shoes or dressy flats to a cocktail reception. These shoes will not only complement your outfit but also add a polished touch to your overall appearance. 

Men

Men can either wear a tailored suit or a shirt, tie, and dressy trousers. Black, navy, and charcoal are all great options. However, you can also opt for something jazzier with cocktail wear. For example, dark purple, dark green, or even burgundy can be both stylish and unusual. 

Choose polished dress shoes such as Oxfords or loafers. Match the shoe colour to your suit for a cohesive appearance.

Add refined details with a pocket square, tie bar, cufflinks, and a dress watch. These accessories contribute to an overall sophisticated look and tie in well to the cocktail theme.

Gender-neutral or non-binary

Cocktail wedding receptions offer flexibility when it comes to guest outfits. So long as they’re dressy, fashionable, and well-groomed, almost anything goes! This is great for non-binary or gender-neutral guests who want to express themselves through their clothing. 

Opt for a tailored suit, a jazzy jumpsuit, or fashionable separates for a look that reflects your personality. Experiment with a range of colours, from classic neutrals to vibrant hues, depending on your mood and the season. Cocktail receptions often allow for a broader colour palette.

You can wear whatever shoes complement your outfit. Whether it’s heeled boots, dressy sandals, or even polished Oxfords, the most important thing is that you’re both comfortable and well-presented. 

The bottom line on dressing for a wedding reception

No matter the dress code, the key to dressing for a wedding reception is to balance comfort with style. There’s nothing worse than the night being ruined because of blisters or tight trousers. Instead, opt for an outfit that fits well, suits the dress code, and reflects your personality. This way, you can fully immerse yourself in the celebration without worrying about wardrobe malfunctions. 

If you’re looking for further inspiration, check out our post on the ultimate guide to wedding dress codes. With over 13 popular dress codes to choose from, you’re sure to find something that fits the bill. 

Frequently Asked Questions

What do brides wear to a wedding reception?

It’s becoming increasingly fashionable for brides to change into a ‘party dress’ during their wedding reception. These dresses are usually shorter and made with less fabric than a traditional wedding dress. This means your wedding dress will stay perfect, and you can dance the night away without all the skirts and petticoats weighing you down. 

Do you have to dress up for a wedding reception?

You don’t necessarily have to, but it is nice to. Even casual wedding dress codes often call for a slightly more polished and put-together look than everyday attire. While the level of formality can vary depending on the couple’s preferences and the specified dress code, dressing up for a wedding reception is a thoughtful way to honour the happy couple and the significance of the big day.

What is the best colour to wear to a wedding reception?

There’s no one ‘best’ colour to wear to a wedding reception. The best colour will completely depend on your preferences, the formality of the occasion, and the wedding colour scheme. However, generally, pale colours, pastels, and neutrals are good for summer weddings, while darker colours or jewel tones are preferable for winter weddings. 

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What could be more beautiful than getting married amidst frozen lakes, snowy paths, and robins peppering the trees? Winter wonderland weddings create a stunning backdrop for the big day and infuse the celebration with a feeling of enchantment and romance. It’s like a real-life fairy tale!

Although beautiful, winter weddings can cause some issues for guests. Trying to strike the balance between being stylish and staying warm can be a challenge. Plus, there’s always the risk of changing temperatures. 

If you’re wondering what to wear to a winter wedding, you’re in the right place! Read on to learn how to balance style and warmth in this inclusive winter wedding dress guide. 

What is a winter wedding?     

A winter wedding is a wedding planned between the months of December and February. People may choose to get married in the winter for a variety of reasons:

• The season holds a special significance to the couple
• The beautiful scenery
• The delicious food
• The cosy aesthetic
• The dark nights are perfect for fireworks
• It’s unique 
• It’s memorable
• It’s cheaper

Winter weddings are usually held inside to ensure the comfort of both the couple and the guests. However, in some circumstances, winter weddings may be held outside. For example, if you’re abroad or love the idea of getting married in front of a frozen lake. 

What do you wear to a winter wedding?

This section includes some general guidance on what to wear to a winter wedding. However, we also have further information about what to wear to a winter wedding in specific situations. For example, an Indian winter wedding, a winter beach wedding, a winter barn wedding, and more. Read on to learn all about how to dress for a winter wedding.

Ladies 

Dresses, jumpsuits, tailored suits, and stylish separates are all great options to wear to a winter wedding. The benefit of wearing a dress is that you can also wear thermal tights, which will keep you warm while maintaining a polished look.

We recommend that you opt for heavier fabrics like velvet, wool, or satin. These will both stave off the cold and add a touch of luxury to your outfit. Dark colours or jewel tones are best. For example, plum, dark green, or dark blue. Avoid black, which can look harsh. 

Add winter accessories like a faux fur stole, a stylish cape, gloves, or a cosy wrap to stay warm while making a fashion statement.

You might not be able to see if there are cobblestones leading up to the venue, so opt for footwear that is suitable for the potential challenges of navigating through snow or colder weather. Try closed-toe shoes, ankle boots, or a low heel to keep your feet warm. You should also bring a wool overcoat. 

Gentlemen

We recommend that men focus on strategic layering, as a suit and coat may not be enough to keep you warm all day. Start with a suit in rich tones like charcoal, navy, or deep burgundy. These colours not only complement the winter season but also exude sophistication. You could also opt for wool or tweed if you’d like something a bit different.

We also recommend you wear a waistcoat, vest, or some other layer beyond your suit. Adding layers allows for flexibility in adjusting to varying temperatures. You’ll also need a long wool coat and a stylish scarf to keep you cosy. Consider a fabric like cashmere for a touch of class. 

Choose thicker dress socks in a colour that complements your suit. This not only adds a layer of warmth but also ensures a cohesive and put-together appearance. Shoes should be practical and weather-appropriate. 

Non-binary or gender-neutral guests

Non-binary or gender-neutral guests attending a winter wedding have a variety of stylish and comfortable options. For example, you could try a jumpsuit, a tailored suit, or even separates if that’s more your style. 

Opt for neutral colours, winter tones, or even explore textured fabrics that evoke the seasonal spirit. Rich burgundies, deep greens, classic Christmas reds, or tartan can be versatile. We always recommend bringing a tailored coat to keep you warm and accessorising with the cold in mind. For example, gloves, scarves, and even potentially earmuffs. 

Shoes should be comfortable and outfit-appropriate. Try boots, dress shoes, or even clean, modern trainers to complement the overall look.

What to wear to a barn wedding in the winter

A barn wedding brings a sense of rustic charm to the big day. With hay bales to sit on and potential animals to stroke, there will be a sense of magic and whimsy in the air. However, it’s important to remember that barns can be draughty and likely won’t enjoy the wonders of central heating. Be sure to dress accordingly. 

Ladies 

A long-sleeved dress or jumpsuit will keep you warm in cooler temperatures and keep off the chill. A jumpsuit has the added benefit of allowing you to line dance without worrying about what your skirt is doing! Consider fabrics like velvet, wool, or heavier materials that provide both style and insulation. Add a shawl, cardigan, or a denim jacket over your outfit to finish the look. This will help you fit in with the rustic nature of a barn wedding while keeping you toasty and warm. 

Choose practical footwear suitable for a rustic setting. Ankle boots or closed-toe shoes with a low heel can help navigate uneven terrain while keeping your feet warm. You could even wear cowgirl boots if you’d like!

Gentlemen

Men should consider a wool or tweed suit, a long coat, and fun cowboy boots. You could opt for a flannel or checked shirt. However, if you want to wear this, then your suit should ideally be in a neutral tone so you don’t look too busy. 

Add appropriate accessories like leather gloves, a stylish scarf, or a cap to enhance your winter barn wedding look. These items can add warmth and a touch of personality. Stetson or Western hats may also be an option. However, for etiquette reasons, hats may need to be removed when inside, so if you’re going to be inside all day, consider first whether there’s any point in wearing a hat. 

Non-binary or gender-neutral guests

Gender-neutral or non-binary guests will look great in a tailored check suit. This should be in a heavier fabric to keep them warm and paired with a neutral, long-sleeved shirt. 

Alternatively, try utilising layers and separates to create a look that’s uniquely you. Mix textures and patterns for a personalised touch while staying warm in a barn setting.

Choose comfortable boots or closed-toe shoes suitable for walking on uneven surfaces. Gender-neutral options may include Chelsea boots, loafers, or stylish Oxfords. Jewellery should be kept to a minimum to maintain your rustic look. 

What to wear to an Indian wedding in the winter

Ladies 

Indian wedding celebrations are beautiful and colourful wedding ceremonies filled with love and culture. Traditional ladies’ wedding attire includes sarees, Anarkali suits, or lehenga. 

Whatever style you choose, we recommend that you pick heavy fabrics in rich colours like burgundy, emerald green, or royal blue. The heavier fabric will provide warmth, and intricate embroidery or embellishments can add a touch of glamour. Pair with a matching dupatta for an elegant ensemble.

We also recommend that you keep your feet warm with closed-toe heels or embellished flats that complement your outfit. Complete the look with statement jewellery like chandelier earrings, a maang tikka, and bangles.

Gentlemen

Men should opt for a sherwani, a Bandhgala suit, or a Jodhpuri suit in rich, winter-appropriate fabrics like velvet or brocade. Darker colours such as maroon, navy, or bottle green work well for the season and will contribute to the rich, colourful tapestry of an Indian wedding ceremony.

Pair your outfit with traditional Indian footwear like mojris or juttis. Make sure they’re comfortable — Indian weddings can involve a lot of standing and dancing! Depending on the couple’s religion, you may also be asked to wear a turban as a sign of respect. The families will be more than happy to help you if you’re struggling with how to do this. You can also find a wealth of information and guidance on YouTube. 

Non-binary or gender-neutral guests

Indian wedding attire is traditionally gendered. However, there’s no reason you can’t put together an outfit that reflects your gender identity while respecting this rich culture. 

Consider wearing a fusion outfit that combines traditional and modern elements. For example, you can combine a jacket with Indian embroidery worn over trousers or a skirt. Alternatively, an Anarkali suit, traditionally worn by women, can be adapted for non-binary individuals. Choose one with a floor-length top and pair it with palazzo pants for a more gender-neutral look. 

Statement jewellery like bangles, a long necklace, or chandelier earrings can help pull your outfit together. Make sure your shoes are comfortable and match your outfit.  

What to wear to a Church wedding in the winter

Ladies 

A dress, tailored suit, or matching separates are all great options for a church winter wedding. You should also bring a shawl or wrap coat to keep off the chill, and consider wearing a hat to tie the look together.

The most important thing about dressing for a church wedding is that your outfit should be modest. This is easily done in the winter. The general rules are that you can’t show your knees, shoulders, or too much of your chest. 

Gentlemen

Men can’t go wrong with a classic suit and tie combination. Dark colours like black, charcoal, or navy are safe and sophisticated suit choices. Pair it with a crisp dress shirt and a tie that complements the overall colour scheme.

Non-binary or gender-neutral guests

Gender-neutral guests can wear a tailored suit, jumpsuit, or a dress shirt with tailored trousers. You could layer up with a waistcoat or vest to add warmth and interest, and add a long or trench coat in a neutral colour. This will create a polished and put-together look.

Shoes should be formal and comfortable. Consider loafers, Chelsea boots, or heeled boots, depending on your personal style. 

What to wear to a beach wedding in the winter

If you’re attending a beach wedding in the winter, it’s likely to be abroad. As a result, you should consider the climate and weather of that country when picking your beach winter wedding clothes. 

Ladies 

Beach weddings are known for their laid-back feel — lean into it with a Boho-chic outfit. For example, flowy skirts, off-the-shoulder tops, maxi dresses, or other loose-fitting dresses can create a relaxed yet stylish look. Flat and comfortable shoes will help you navigate a sandy beach, while accessories should be focused on keeping the sun off your face (think shades and sunhats). 

You should also bring a light jacket or shawl just in case there’s a chill in the winter. 

Gentlemen

You’ll likely be far too hot in a full suit at a beach winter wedding. Instead, wear a lightweight linen or cotton shirt in a beachy colour. Short-sleeved or rolled-up sleeves can keep you cool during the day. Pair your shirt with chinos, suit trousers, or loose-fitting linen trousers for a laid-back look. Wearing loafers or boat shoes will help you stay comfortable and casual. 

Non-binary or gender-neutral guests

Opt for a flowy jumpsuit, lightweight suit, or mix-and-match separates that show your unique style. The beauty of a beach wedding is that it’s laid back, so you have the freedom to experiment with your outfit and find something that makes you feel comfortable. 

Embrace a colour palette inspired by the coastal surroundings — think soft blues, sandy neutrals, or even fun, tropical patterns. Remember to choose comfortable and beach-appropriate footwear. These include strappy sandals, espadrilles, or clean trainers.

What to wear to a Christmas wedding

A wedding at or around Christmas is the perfect blend of romance and festive cheer. If you’re not sure what to wear to one, keep reading!

Ladies 

A Christmas wedding is a great opportunity to don your most glamorous outfits. Try a floor length velvet gown, a sequin midi-dress, or a classic wrap dress in a festive pattern or solid colour. Accentuate your outfit with festive accessories like a statement clutch, bold earrings, or a faux fur stole for an extra touch of glamour.

Gentlemen

You can’t go wrong with a well-tailored suit for a Christmas wedding. Consider adding some festive touches to make you stand out. For example, a festive tie, tartan pocket square, or Christmas-themed socks to add the perfect touch of festive cheer to your outfit.

Non-binary or gender-neutral guests

Non-binary or gender-neutral guests can wear a festive jumpsuit, well-tailored suit, mix-and-match separates, or a flowy dress or tunic in festive colours or patterns. These comfortable and stylish looks will ensure that you feel confident and authentic while celebrating the joy of a Christmas wedding. 

The bottom line on dressing for a winter wedding

Knowing what to wear to a winter wedding can be tricky. You need to consider the weather, the dress code, the venue, and your own personal style. Trying to blend all these elements into one cohesive outfit with the added benefit of keeping you warm can be a real headache. 

However, with a considered approach and a little bit of guidance, you can easily create a look that not only feels authentic to you but also shields you from potentially harsh winter weather. You can’t go wrong with a long dress and tights, a tailored suit, or a fun and festive jumpsuit. 

If you’re still feeling stuck, try our post on the ultimate guide to wedding dress codes. You’ll find guides on what to wear for the 13 most popular wedding dress codes, including how to add your own fun spin on your wedding guest outfit.

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Happy Planning!