Pridebook 2023: Inspiring LGBTQ+ Couple Stories

Here at Bridebook, we’re on a mission to help make the wedding planning journey as joyful as possible for all engaged couples. That means supporting every couple, everywhere. And so, to commemorate Pride Month, we’re celebrating LGBTQ+ couples and suppliers and championing inclusivity at Bridebook and throughout the wedding industry. In this feature, check out the inspiring stories and gorgeous wedding photos of some of our fabulous LGBTQ+ couples. And if you and your partner are looking for an inclusive venue, be sure to check our top LGBTQ wedding venues. They’re going the extra mile to make sure all couples feel supported on their special day. 

Kimberley & Daniella

Photo ©️ F. J. West Films

How did you and your partner first meet?

We met through mutual friends when we were 17. I was mesmerised by her and thought she was way out of my league. We met face to face in person at a birthday party of our mutual friends.

What is your favourite shared memory?

Our wedding day has to be the most amazing day and memory we share.

What is the greatest challenge you’ve overcome together?

We lived 160 miles apart and we overcome that with Kimberley moving away from family. But other than that, we have overcome everything life has thrown at us – health problems, financial uncertainty, getting married in a pandemic to name a few!

What did you plan for your wedding day?

We had rainbow pin badges for wedding favours that were sent by Cancer Research, we had a steel pan artist play our wedding song for Daniella to walk down the aisle to keep her Jamaican roots, we had bowling at the venue. We had all family and friends that meant so much to us.

Chris & Stephen

Photo © Dave Fallon Photography

How did you and your partner first meet?

We met through a mutual friend over drinks during a night out in Glasgow. We just became friends in the same social group over many months, so we never had that awkward first date moment!

What is your favourite shared memory?

Without a doubt our wedding day in 2022. After getting engaged in Toronto in 2018 and having set a date to get married May 2020, we were putting the finishing touches on our wedding and honeymoon plans, however, the covid pandemic struck and cancelled all our plans. We re-scheduled to 2021, that got cancelled again and the we re-scheduled to September 2022. So after all that hassle, stress and uncertainty, it was awesome to finally celebrate our Big Day together with our closest family and friends – a celebration of freedom and fun for us all.

What is the greatest challenge you’ve overcome together?

Buying our first home together in the area we wanted. It took endless viewings, many offers and lots of last minute closing dates where we lost out by only small amounts to finally get the flat of our dreams by chance. We were about to give up and look at different areas but then we managed to cut a quick deal with sellers that avoided closing dates and the rest is history. We’re in the process of doing our flat up and truly love where we stay, so it was worth it in the end.

What did you plan for your wedding day?

We wanted our day to be a fun relaxed day of celebration for ourselves and our family and friends. We kept our ceremony light-hearted and chose to do a Rock Paper Scissors contest in front of our guests to decide which of us would walk down the aisle first. I, Chris, lost, and Stephen, my fairer half, won and walked down first. Our celebrant was fun and got everyone involved in the ceremony including a big group selfie after we got married. We had an acoustic guitarist playing during our ceremony, followed by a cocktail reception afterwards with gin 75 cocktails and nibbles. Dinner and speeches followed . After that, we cut our cake together and a modern vintage swing jazz band entertained our guests for the rest of the evening with fun upbeat covers of classic and pop songs.

Sam & Meg

Photo © Dale Stephens Photography

How did you and your partner first meet?

We were in the same year at school! Had our first romance at the age of 13, found each again at the ages of 19 then went our separate ways and Meg had a little girl in 2011. We lived separate lives until fate brought us back together again for the final time at the age of 31!

What is your favourite shared memory?

Our wedding day felt like our life had come full circle and it the day we had been waiting for.

What is the greatest challenge you’ve overcome together?

COVID! In 2020 we hadn’t lived together long then all of a sudden we were together with our daughter 24/7. We both caught COVID at the start when it was still quite frightening, but we made it through and got engaged that summer.

What did you plan for your wedding day?

We had an intimate day with no more than 30 of us then we hired a DJ and had a party in the evening with around 100 people.

Beth & Gemma

Photo ©️ Megan Daisy Photography

How did you and your partner first meet?

Instagram – Gem liked one of my photos so I messaged her we got to know each other virtually for a while. After a month of talking we finally went on a date at Dinton Pastures. After two years of living together we got engaged there too – Gem had absolutely no idea that I was going to propose.

What is your favourite shared memory?

Apart from our actual wedding day (which was absolutely beautiful), and getting engaged, we loved our trip to Mexico!

What is the greatest challenge you’ve overcome together?

We have overcome a lot of challenges, but the greatest would be how we together challenge people’s perceptions of lesbian couples. There seem to be so many misconceptions out there and we do our best to show that we are just the same as everyone else!

What did you plan for your wedding day?

We had an under the night sky theme that ended with fireworks! We kept everything as “traditional” as we could. We were surrounded by our wonderful friends and family at Warbrook House and had the best day. We were even married by a married couple! We were so worried it wouldn’t happen due to COVID but were so lucky that we could have everyone there to celebrate with us.

Stephen & David

Photo ©️ Dotty Photography

How did you and your partner first meet?

We met on a dating app while at Cardiff University back in 2013 while I was doing my postgrad and he was in his first year. It turned out his friend lived a few doors down from me so he came over for coffee and the rest is history.

What is your favourite shared memory?

Probably our first holiday to Disney World together with my family. One day we got caught in a massive rainstorm and ended up in a pub just chatting away in the middle of Epcot. It was magical!

What is the greatest challenge you’ve overcome together?

Probably surviving long distance for 4 years while he finished his studies in Wales and I worked in England – driving 4 hours each way every weekend to see each other.

What did you plan for your wedding day?

We went for a simple day with lots of family and friends. It was at a lovely hotel in Milton Keynes with about 60 day guests. We walked down the aisle with our mothers, and embarrassingly both cried (tears of joy haha) as we did so. Then my dad gave a wonderful speech that was so accepting and charming that it just made the day.

Megan & Felicity

Photo ©️ Sarah Fishlock Photography

How did you and your partner first meet?

We met in an LGBTQ+ choir! My wife was already a member and I joined and we hit it off!

What is your favourite shared memory?

I think our honeymoon is up there. We had a few nights in Brighton in August and it was so nice. One evening we went down to the hotel bar for cocktails and spotted a mini golf course on the beach so we spontaneously decided to play tipsy mini golf and it was silly and fun.

What is the greatest challenge you’ve overcome together?

We now have a child together! They were 6 years’ old when I met Megan, and we have co-parented together ever since – which is always challenging!

What did you plan for your wedding day?

We had a subtly space themed wedding, with a galactic buttercream cake and little moons on all the tables and things. My makeup had star freckles dotted on and my wife had cosmic blue hair!

Katie & Kaz

Photo ©️ Tash Busta Photography

How did you and your partner first meet?

We met at work – the office I was working at closed down and we were relocated to the office where Kaz worked!

What is your favourite shared memory?

Besides our wedding day, it would have to be our lockdown holiday to Devon.

What is the greatest challenge you’ve overcome together?

Kaz was rushed in for a major back operation 4 weeks before the date of our wedding. We wanted a low-key wedding that was personal and all done by us. I suggested postponing but Kaz was adamant she would be walking down that aisle, so I was adamant I would pull every string out of my bag of tricks to make sure it was perfect for her. The recovery is still ongoing so we have daily struggles, but we do it all together. And it just works!

What did you plan for your wedding day?

A small ceremony with our closest family and friends. Owls flew the rings down the aisle and we had photos with them and for our guests as owls are my favourite! I planned an ice cream van to show up for Kaz as an absolute surprise! So I was able to pull her first ice cream as my wife!

Edward & Gary

Photo ©️ Oliver Holder Photography

How did you and your partner first meet?

Through a dating app. We went for a date to a lovely hotel bar and the rest is history!

What is your favourite shared memory?

Getting our dog Freddie!

What is the greatest challenge you’ve overcome together?

Looking after our dog after a major surgery on his back – months of rehab!

What did you plan for your wedding day?

We had quite a small wedding. To start we bucked trends and got ready together. Drove ourselves and best friend down to the venue, had a small ceremony, 20 of us in total. We then had a Christmas feast, made everyone change into black tie, and welcomed another 30 guests for a champagne drinks party. We sang carols around a grand piano and danced the night away!

Samantha & Holly

Photo ©️ Hamish Irvine Photographer

How did you and your partner first meet?

Samantha’s sister was playing on a football team at university with Holly and introduced us!

What is your favourite shared memory?

Renovating our 1960s house – many tears but so much fun!

What is the greatest challenge you’ve overcome together?

Living three hours apart for two years! Lots of late night train rides on a Friday night after work.

What did you plan for your wedding day?

Ice cream canapes, fish and chips main course and a whole load of fun. I spent 18 months learning calligraphy so I could make all the wedding signs and stationery.

Alice & Dawn

Photo ©️ Gareth Edwards Photography

How did you and your partner first meet?

We met at Preston Grasshoppers Rugby club! We played rugby together on the same team. I pursued Dawn and had to convince her to go out with me!

What is your favourite shared memory?

Watching the dancing panda in Prague.

What is the greatest challenge you’ve overcome together?

Probably Al’s endometriosis diagnosis and health issues after that.

What did you plan for your wedding day?

We had it at Spring Cottage, Rivington, which is such a beautiful venue. It was a day event only and we had 40 guests. It was just so simple and perfect and really relaxed.

Gian & Marco

Photo ©️ Andrew Franklin Photography

How did you and your partner first meet?

We met via an online dating site.

What is your favourite shared memory?

We love to travel, and do a lot of activities together, from hiking to jumping off paragliding and to simple things like cooking dinner and watching our favorite TV shows in Netflix.

What is the greatest challenge you’ve overcome together?

So many different things – the pandemic really hit us hard as it imposed a huge threat to our health. We were basically living and breathing the till death do us part!

What did you plan for your wedding day?

Our wedding was an amazing garden wedding. We had an intimate audience of family and friends from around the globe to celebrate the day with us in the UK.

Emma & Em

Photo ©️ HS Media

How did you and your partner first meet?

Became friends at work and you know the saying…fell in love with my best friend!

What is your favourite shared memory?

Apart from our wedding day a gorgeous trip to Venice!

What is the greatest challenge you’ve overcome together?

I (Em) went through life changing surgery. The build-up and recovery were long and hard, with some dark days where Emma became my strength.

What did you plan for your wedding day?

Ours was an Easter wedding. It was a gorgeous sunny day with our guests and ourselves staying at the venue’s glamp site. We had an Easter egg hunt in the forest outside the cottage we got married in, and a live band in the evening. Plus our dog was with us all day at the wedding!

Pride goes beyond June. We’re here to support, to inspire, to educate – and above all to celebrate the LGBTQ+ community – not just for one month, but for all time always.

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Victoria & Chris’ Mythology and Lore Storytelling Themed Wedding

If you and your partner have fairly niche interests, why not join the host of other couples who have planned their own unique themed wedding? There’s no better way to show off your personalities and get creative! Victoria and Chris did exactly that with their non-traditional themed wedding inspired by their love for each other and their shared love of mythology and lore. Check out the details of their wedding planning, and their gorgeous photos, below and get ready to be inspired.

The Inspiration & Wedding Planning

We aren’t very traditional people, met at Boomtown music festival, as wild west performers, and it was definitely love at first shot! For the wedding planning, there was a lot of research!

Photo © Martin Holtom

We started with deciding on which mythologies and lore we wanted to represent, and ended up with different realms that represented parts of our life together and our families: Land of the Fae, Valhalla, Arkham, Olympia, Atlantis, Sherwood, Gallifrey, Loch Ness, El Dorado, and Camelot.

Photo © Martin Holtom

The Venue

Our wedding venue was Forever Green, a beautiful venue in the heart of natural forest land, making it the perfect venue for a hideaway wedding, especially one with a mythology and lore theme!

Photo © Martin Holtom

Forever Green is a unique and magical wedding venue, as its views into the surrounding forest of Ransomwood give you the feeling that the venue and the forest are merged as one.

Photo © Martin Holtom

The Activities

We brought different items together to remind people of stories of each place, so naturally had a wedding reception escape room where all our guests worked together to unlock the wedding cake!

Photo © Martin Holtom

We were also very lucky to have suppliers who were just as excited by our theme as we were! So much personal attention was given to the pre-planning and running of the day.

Photo © Martin Holtom

Victoria and Chris’ Suppliers

If you’re feeling inspired to have your own magical storytelling themed wedding, why not start planning all the little personal touches, and reaching out to suppliers who share your vision? Victoria and Chris have shown that with plenty of research and creativity, you can have the wedding of your dreams, that’s as unique as you are, not to mention fun for all those involved!

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Mel & Andy’s Whimsical Alice in Wonderland Themed Wedding

Childhood memories are precious, and often hold a special place in our hearts. What if you could relive those cherished moments on your wedding day? A themed wedding inspired by your childhood can transport you and your guests back in time, creating a magical and unforgettable experience. Get inspired by Mel and Andy’s whimsical Alice in Wonderland themed wedding, complete with quirky DIY touches and a host of unique, interactive activities.

The Inspiration & Wedding Planning

Since I was a kid, I have been obsessed with Alice in Wonderland. I have about 20-25 copies of the book, two Alice in Wonderland tattoos, and always wanted an Alice in Wonderland wedding!

Photo © N D Reid Photography

Thankfully, my husband was happy to let me have my dream wedding – he went with all my crazy ideas and helped make everything. Our wedding ceremony was a White Rabbit theme; our wedding breakfast was a Mad Hatter’s tea party; and our evening party was a Red Queen theme.

Photo © N D Reid Photography

The Venue

Our venue was Nunsmere Hall in Northwich, Cheshire, and we picked it because it was a gorgeous country house which we felt fit the theme.

Photo © N D Reid Photography

My husband and I set up everything in the wedding breakfast the night before and it took hours! My mum and I then stayed over at Nunsmere Hall Hotel the night before together.

Photo © N D Reid Photography

Our wedding coordinator was Erin at Nunsmere Hall, and she was the best ever! She saw our vision and was as excited as we were. We have her Hufflepuff flowers on the wedding day as a thank you (made my friend Amee at A Thousand Years Bouquets). We also gave my mum, my mother-in-law and hairdresser Alice in Wonderland flowers, and pocket watches to my three dads.

Photo © N D Reid Photography

Our wedding decorator was Marie at Butterfly Events (who work with Nunsmere Hall), and our DJ was from Hipswing (who also work with Nunsmere Hall).

Photo © N D Reid Photography

The Decor

We wanted our wedding to be created by ourselves. I was the painter, Andy was the craftsman. I painted six giant paintings from the original Tenniel drawings in the original book, while Andy crafted a this way/that way sign, which I then painted, as well as stands for my paintings and signs, and our own photo memory board. We made all of our own themed invites and table names too.

Photo © N D Reid Photography

We collected tea cups, tea pots, plates etc. for our table decorations. It took two years to collect enough items to make our wonky table decorations, which were covered in card and flowers and keys. Most of our decorations came from charity shops. Our centerpieces for the wedding breakfast were all homemade, and took us about nine months to complete in little stages.

Photo © N D Reid Photography

Dress, Accessories & Bridal Bouquet

I originally wanted a blue wedding dress, but couldn’t find one I liked or that was in my budget! So I had my bridesmaids in blue tea dresses instead.

Photo © N D Reid Photography

My bouquet was handmade by my friend Amee at A Thousand Years Bouquets (she can be found on Facebook). They are made of an old copy of Alice in Wonderland and blue card. She is amazing!

Photo © N D Reid Photography

My wedding shoes were Alice in Wonderland converse-style, which I bought from ShoeArtCottage on Etsy. I also had Alice in Wonderland socks, which were a gift.

Photo © N D Reid Photography

I had my nails done by Karen at Shanti Beauty in Crewe, Cheshire. They were French nails, but my ring fingers were blue with bows on them. Andy bought me stopwatch earrings for the day, and I bought him his cufflinks. I had his tie and pocket square made from blue Alice in Wonderland fabric by my friend Stewart. My bracelet and necklace were from Pandora, and featured all of the Alice in Wonderland collection, which my mum and stepdad had bought me as gifts on the day.

Photo © N D Reid Photography

The Activities

My hen do was at the Rabbit Hole Team Room in Stoke. It was an Alice in Wonderland afternoon tea that my best friend and chief bridesmaid Vickie arranged.

Photo © N D Reid Photography

Two of my dads walked me down the aisle, and Andy wrote the best speech and had everyone laughing. He wrote me a poem in his speech, too, and it was just beautiful.

Photo © N D Reid Photography

We had a chessboard dance floor and provided games like Jenga, and cards for the evening party. We made our own photo booth frame, which we used our own camera for, with props to go with it.

Photo © N D Reid Photography

We had a sweet table with “Eat Me” jars on it, which my two dads arranged for us. Our wedding favours were little shots of gin in “Drink Me” bottles, and “Eat Me” cookies shaped like mushrooms.

Photo © N D Reid Photography

Mel and Andy’s Suppliers

Dreaming of planning your own childhood-inspired themed wedding? Then take a leaf out of Mel and Andy’s book, and start putting together your own unique ideas – the possibilities are endless!

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Joanne and Luke’s Fabulous Lord of the Rings Themed Wedding

Themed weddings are becoming increasingly popular, and for good reason. From fairytale castles to rustic barns, the possibilities are endless. But how to plan a themed wedding that’s both creative and personal, yet tasteful and classy? Check out Joanne and Luke’s fabulous Lord of the Rings themed wedding – the perfect combination of intricate planning and thoughtful DIY touches.

The Inspiration & Wedding Planning

Luke and I are both self-styled Mega Geeks. We love everything fantasy and our home is filled with memorabilia, figurines and books etc. We met at London Film & Comic Con, where I was dressed in a costume she had made as Daenerys from Game of Thrones. For our wedding we needed to find a theme that suited both the venue and was a passion for both of us in equal measure.

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We tried to infuse our themes throughout the wedding without being too over-the-top and were absolutely thrilled with the result, which we felt really reflected us and our passions. Lots of guests commented that the days was very “us”, which was lovely to hear. everyone had a wonderful time!

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The Venue

Had we chosen a castle venue, Game of Thrones was the obvious choice of theme, but when we found Bourton Hall we absolutely fell in love and no other venue then would do!

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It did, however, require a theme re-think, and so we picked the obvious (to us): Lord of the Rings! A lifelong obsession for both of us – both the books and the wonderful movie trilogy, as well as The Hobbit – it was a theme we could both throw ourselves in to fully! We felt it lent beautifully to the gorgeous wood panelling and natural feel of the venue and lent to decorating with wonderful greenery, white, natural flowers and wooden accessories.

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The Decor

Luckily, Luke is an artist (check out his beautiful creations here), which meant we could design so much of our stationery ourselves (and saved a fortune in the process!).

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He created our invitation suite entirely from scratch using the fonts and styles of the Lord of the Rings, and even wood-burned our table names himself, all places from the world of Tolkien.

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Our top table was Rivendell, complete with a golden dragon to keep an eye on us. We couldn’t find an actual Smaug, so Viserion from Game of Thrones did a wonderful job of filling in for him!

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Luke also created an amazing table plan, fitting in with the maps of Middle Earth (Rivendell, Erebor, Hobbiton, Mordor, Lothlorien and so on), which everyone commented on!

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We decorated the lounge tables with piles of old books rather than flowers to give the area a cosy, “Hobbity” theme, and hidden around the beautiful floristry were some little hanging Hobbit holes.

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We created some guest bags to go in the rooms of our guests that stayed overnight, and made labels for items with relevant quotes from the books to decorate. And finally, we had a photo booth in the evening, for which we collected various Lord of the Rings related props and costumes which leant to some wonderfully funny moments in the evening!

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The Accessories

I had ordered a replica of Galadriel’s Nenya ring to wear on the day, which came in a beautiful wooden carved box. I also contacted Weta Workshop (who created all the props, costumes, and pretty much everything for the films), and they very kindly sent a second ring box – which we were completely blown away by – so that both the bride and groom’s rings could be kept in style!

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Some little finishing touches were Luke’s cufflinks, handmade little wooden Hobbit holes which were a Father’s Day gift from Charlie, who also had a Leaf of Lorien brooch on his little suit.

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The Music

We created playlists including music from all of our favourite films and TV shows.

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Whilst waiting for the bride to arrive, there were some Game of Thrones and Lord of the Rings musical pieces, and during the wedding breakfast we had created a playlist using acoustic versions of various themes, including Harry Potter, Star Wars and even Pokémon!

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Joanne and Luke’s Suppliers

If you’re looking for a wedding that’s personal to you and your partner, why not have a fantasy-themed wedding of your own? With careful thought and plenty of research, you can – like Joanne and Luke – incorporate your favourite elements in a manner that’s both creative yet tasteful.

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Catherine and Robert’s Botanical Houseplant Themed Wedding

Your wedding day is your day. That means it should be personal to you, and reflect who you are as a couple. Having a themed wedding can be a great way to create something truly special and unique. You can go as whimsical and wacky as you like! Take Catherine and Robert’s botanical houseplant themed wedding – perfect inspiration for all the earth-loving couples out there!

The Inspiration & Wedding Planning

We wanted our wedding to reflect who we are and our values, and the most important thing for us was to make sure our guests had a good time.

Photo © Allan Bovill

I’m a zoologist so a lot of our guests are an environmentally-friendly crowd, so we tried to be as sustainable as possible with things (dried flower confetti made at home, biodegradable bags and stickers, seed favours etc.).

Photo © Allan Bovill

The Venue

I always wanted to get married in a botanical garden, so we had our pictures done in the Glasgow Botanic Gardens, and then the wedding and Reception at Orán Mòr across the road.

Photo © Allan Bovill

This is a beautiful hall with really rich, bold colours which is what I based my colour schemes on, and it worked nicely with the plants (I think).

Photo © Allan Bovill

The Decor

My husband and I are both PhD students so we are both very busy as well as being on a budget.

Photo © Allan Bovill

The houseplants were a combination of it being a bit different and a result of us having a big houseplant collection anyway, so we just decided to use them as decorations!

Photo © Allan Bovill

The Veil & Bridal Bouquet

The veil was a colourful wildflower embroidered veil from Etsy, which was handmade to order.

Photo © Allan Bovill

The flowers were designed to match the veil, hand-arranged by Lavender Blue in Glasgow.

Photo © Allan Bovill

The Cake & Cheese Table

I specialise in frogs so I had a frog pond layer in our wedding cake and a frog topper!

Photo © Allan Bovill

We had a cheese table instead of canapés at the reception!

Photo © Allan Bovill

The Music & Personal Touches

We walked down the aisle to the theme song to “Detectorists”, which is our favourite TV song!

Photo © Allan Bovill

We had photos with some dinosaurs that were in the Botanic Gardens at the time, which we loved!

Photo © Allan Bovill

Catherine and Robert’s Suppliers

Want a green eco-wedding like Catherine and Robert’s? Now’s the time to start planning! Remember to make the most of what you have, and DIY where you can if you’re on a budget. And don’t be afraid to let your personalities and interests shine as you unleash your creativity!

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Alice & James’ DIY Festival Themed Farm Wedding

If you’re looking to have a fun and unique wedding, why not have a themed wedding? You can make it truly personal, including the things you love most just because you love them. Festival lovers Alice and James went for nothing less than a DIY festival themed farm wedding. Read on to learn all about their celebrations and take inspiration from their uplifting wedding photos.

The Inspiration & Wedding Planning

My husband is James and I’m Alice. We have always loved festivals and they’ve played quite a big part of our relationship! Lots of mementoes! James even asked me to be his girlfriend at V festival. So when he asked me to marry him, we knew a festival theme would be really fitting!

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A lot of our friends are also festival lovers and our family know us as party people. We really wanted to create a relaxed few days that our friends and family could enjoy. Lots of great food, free flowing drinks, a fantastic band and our own little tent village!

Photo © Alice Johnstone

The Venue

We planned a three-day event at Willow Grange Farm in Ely, Cambridgeshire, which was the most beautiful setting we could imagine! They have a huge Sperry Tent which has the festival look we wanted whilst giving a bit of a glam take on it! It also provided bell tents for all of our guests which was so exciting!

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The Decor

I really wanted to be heavily involved in all parts of the wedding so did a lot of DIY. I made my own invitations as festival lanyards, including our festival name “G Festival” as my new surname would be Girscher.

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My mum made all of my bridesmaids’ bouquets and flower crowns. I reused paper tassel garlands from someone else’s wedding. I hung ribbons to blow in the wind and we had huge helium balloons with tassels down the aisle. I made my own table plan, name places and order of the day pallet! I personally really loved seeing everything I had planned come together on the day. It was all worth it! Hall & Co added to my creation with beautiful florals.

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The Catering

Hall & Co also catered the day with canapés, BBQ sharing boards and dessert boards to give the relaxed atmosphere we wanted! Lots of wine on the tables.

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The Cake

My mum and I made our 5 tier cake which was covered in pressed flowers, glitter balls and sparklers. Plus my mum and dad’s topper from their wedding cake 30 years ago!

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The Activities

The second day, everyone woke up and dressed ready for festival party! We had a bottomless Prosecco brunch with singing waiters. It was so much fun! The party continued with card games, dance offs, karaoke, volleyball and dancing all fuelled by gigantic bottles of Prosecco! An ice cream van was booked for the afternoon and it really was a perfect day!

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The next day we had breakfast in the Sperry Tent and said our farewells. It was the most amazing few days with our closest friends and looking back at the photos, all I see is laughter, love and happiness and it makes me cry every time! Our photographer Lee Allison and our videographer Harry Tarbuck from Servo Creatives captured it so perfectly.

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Alice’s Advice

I would really recommend a non-traditional wedding for any couple! Make it personal! Put your character in it! Include things that you love just because you love them. I think there is so much pressure to pick things because your guests will like it more or “it’s more wedding appropriate” but I truly think your heart shines most when you’re doing what you love! It’s your special day and it should be everything you love.

Photo © Lee Allison Wedding Photographer | See their Bridebook profile

Alice and James’ Suppliers

Inspired to plan a DIY festival themed farm wedding of your own? Then go for it! As Alice and James have shown, not only does it offer a rustic and charming atmosphere, but it also allows for authentic and personalised touches that truly reflect your style and personality. From creating your own decor to hosting memorable, interactive activities, you can really make it your own!

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Beth and David’s Magical Disney Barn Wedding

For that extra special wedding magic, there’s nothing like a themed wedding…especially if it’s a theme that takes you back to your childhood. You can personalise it completely, incorporating all the little details, simply because they bring you joy. Get inspired by Beth and David’s magical Disney-themed barn wedding, which they wanted to be subtle yet special. The newlyweds also share their top tips for other couples looking to have their own themed wedding.

The Inspiration & Wedding Planning

We chose Disney for our theme because I have loved Disney since I was little and love going to Disney World as it feels like home! Every time I see the castle my heart just fills with love and joy. The details for our wedding came about as I knew I wanted Disney but I wanted it to be subtle.

Photo © Rob Moore Photography

The Venue

Our venue was All Manor of Events. We chose this venue because I wanted a barn style rustic wedding. The venue is also excellent value, they do a really good midweek package as well.

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The Decor

I loved the idea of having our tables named after Disney rides, with fast passes for the seating plan (this went down so well with our guests) and knew I had to make it happen. I wanted to keep the centrepieces simple and easy to attach the ride cards so our guests knew which table was which.

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The Accessories

Nails, cufflinks and Mickey pins for the groom and groomsmen I found on Etsy last minute and knew they would tie it all together. The bridesmaids and I all had Mickey pins in our hair.

Photo © Rob Moore Photography

The Cake

We had a bespoke three-tiered wedding cake with a special yet subtle gold Mickey design.

Photo © Rob Moore Photography

The Music

Our first dance was to Today Was A Fairytale by Taylor Swift (Taylor’s Version), as that was the song from the film we saw on our first date, plus I am a huge Taylor Swift fan so we had to include her! Plus the fairytale theme of the song fit our wedding so well!

Photo © Rob Moore Photography

Beth’s Advice

The only tips I have for planning a themed wedding are:

  • Decide how much or little of the theme you want to include before you start.

  • Work out what is worth the money. We felt we didn’t need to splurge on our centrepieces as I was happy to make them myself to bring my vision to life. But we HAD to have the seating plan!

  • Discuss everything with your partner. If you want a themed wedding you both need to be on board!

  • It doesn’t matter if your guests or family don’t like the theme. It’s your day – do whatever is best for you as a couple!

    Photo © Rob Moore Photography

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Rebecca & Tom’s “Subtly Nerdy” Fantasy Themed Castle Wedding

Thinking about having a more personal, non-traditional wedding? Then consider a themed wedding. They’re a great way to get creative with your partner and guests, and truly express your individual personalities and interests. Meet Rebecca and Tom, who combined traditional wedding themes with some unusual personal touches at their “subtly nerdy” fantasy themed wedding at Hedingham Castle. Check out their magical wedding day story and photos below. 

The Inspiration & Wedding Planning

As with any recently married couple, we love to talk about our wedding!

Both of us are proudly nerdy people, and wanted to reflect that in our wedding – but without going overboard and alienating the people who wouldn’t “get it”. We aimed for a mix of traditional wedding themes with subtle elements that reflected our shared passions.

Many of our friends are geeky as well, and we knew they’d love the little touches we’d added. What we didn’t anticipate was our parents and extended families also really enjoying all the details. My own mum has told us several times how much she loved that it reflected exactly who we are as people, so it’s safe to say “mission accomplished”!

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As anyone who’s planned a wedding can tell you, it’s very easy to go to extremes. You might become really passionate about one particular thing, without considering how it looks next to everything else you have going on. That’s why “subtly nerdy” became our motto: it all had to work together.

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The Venue

We got married in a castle! Hedingham Castle in Essex is a gorgeous venue and close to where we first met, at the University of Essex.

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The Decor

All the wedding signage was themed around fantasy elements: arrows, ravens, swords and medieval imagery. Archery was a recurring theme throughout the wedding, as we had met through our university archery club. Arrows, bullseyes and bows featured on most of our wedding signs.

Photo © The Humble Photography Co.

We decided to name our tables after mythical beasts like Phoenix, Kraken and Unicorn, hanging each table sign from a wreath. We decorated each wreath with artificial flowers, again reflecting the colours of Beccy’s bouquet.

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Dress, Accessories & Bridal Bouquet

Beccy modified her dress to be more historic and fantastical – for example, she added ‘Guinevere’ sleeves.

Photo © The Humble Photography Co.

Beccy’s accessories were themed around flowers and florals to fit the soft, fantasy theme, rather than sparkles and modern jewellery.

Photo © The Humble Photography Co.

Beccy’s bouquet was built to look like a big scoop of wildflowers, and ivy formed a large part of the greenery – again, fitting the castle!

The Cake

The bottom tier of our cake was decorated with the spines of our favourite books, and the colours reflected both the cake topper and Beccy’s bouquet. The topper itself was from Etsy, showing a unicorn in a veil and a dragon in a top hat. I was personally ridiculously pleased at being able to get a dragon onto my wedding cake!

Photo © The Humble Photography Co.

The Music

All the music was from our favourite films and games, like Jurassic ParkSkyrim and Final Fantasy. Beccy’s entry music was the main theme from Ori and the Will of the Wisps, her favourite game. It’s a beautiful and ethereal piece, but anyone who’s played the game would recognise it immediately.

Photo © The Humble Photography Co.

The Activities

We had a mead blessing after the ceremony to honour Beccy’s Nordic heritage, and yalekhtas (beaded handkerchiefs) on the dance floor for my Syrian heritage.

Photo © The Humble Photography Co.

We only had two speeches: I led the thank yous and Beccy ran a game using a big, soft D20 die. Not only did it reflect my passion for Dungeons & Dragons, but we donated money to the winner’s chosen charity!

Photo © The Humble Photography Co.

Instead of table games like wedding bingo, we changed it up to become “Wedding Achievements”. This was a totally optional activity for our friends and family to do, which encouraged them to explore the gorgeous castle venue and our decorations – the first table to finish them all won a bottle of bubbly. Some examples were “Paparazzi – Take a selfie with the newlyweds” and “And His Merry Men – Get a bullseye with the soft archery kit”.

Photo © The Humble Photography Co.

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Lily and Matthew – Real Wedding (Elegant Winter Wedding)

 

Faye and Adam Hughes in the church getting married
Lily and Matthew  – Real Wedding (Elegant Winter Wedding)

Lily and Matthew had an elegant winter wedding in East Yorkshire at Rise Hall, it was a beautiful day.

Lily and Matt’s wedding was held in late February and was a celebration of family. Staying at Rise Hall during their wedding made it so relaxed and this is reflective in the memories captured. Also the black and white colour scheme was classic and elegant. They had so much fun during their day!

Catering: Dine Catering events @dine.co.uk, @dinevenues @risehall

Cake Provider: Cakes by Mrs O cakesbymrso@gmail.com @cakesbymrso

Music: The Nashville Heat – info@thenashvilleheat.co.uk – www.facebook.com/thenashvilleheat www.thenashvilleheat.co.uk

Hairdresser: Flourish Hair dressing info@flourishhairdressing.co.uk @flourishhairdressing

Makeup Artist: RL Make Up and Beauty rebeccalouisebeauty@hotmail.com @rebeccalouise_makeupandbeauty

Colours: Black, White and Gold| Styles: Classic, Country, Glamorous and Luxury

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A Parisian-Style Outdoor Elopement in Kent

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Daisy and Keith’s stunning, Parisian-style wedding at The Castle Westenhanger is up there with our favourite springtime weddings. Daisy and Keith were one of the first couples to marry after lockdown restrictions began to be lifted in early 2021, with their April 2021 wedding a simple yet beautiful celebration.

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Congratulations, Daisy and Keith, on your beautiful wedding!

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Meghann & Joseph – Real Wedding (Garden + Outdoor)

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Meghan and Joseph’s stunning romantic and intimate wedding at Oldwalls Gower was simple, clean and Classic. What makes this wedding special? Oldwalls has such a special and wonderful look. The standard that everything is done to, from the rooms to their the Rustic Retreat cottages, there is such attention to detail. You really feel the luxury.

Videographer: Break every chain productions

Florist: Ruth Milton Jones|Catering: Oldwalls Weddings|Wedding Dress Designer: Eddy K and Riki Dalal (two dresses from Eva Ashley bridal)|Wedding Cake: Bella cakes|Stationery Provider: Brogan Evans|Hairdresser: Kristin Davis|Make-up artist: Louise Williams|Menswear Provider:Moss Bros

Colours: Green, White & Black| Styles: Classic, Traditional, Formal & Luxury

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Clare & Tim – Real Wedding (Rustic + Whimsical)

Clare & Tim - Real Wedding (Rustic + Whimsical)

Clare & Tim’s wedding included a unique bridal entrance via river boat to an intimate outdoors gazebo ceremony with a rustic flower theme and handmade touches. Hosted at Island Hall, Huntingdon.

Photographer: @chrisbolandweddings

Florist: Heather Adland | Catering: Chef Steven Kitchen @StevenKitchen1| Music: @pinklampweddings| Entertainment: Children’s entertainer – Benjamin Hasker | Cake Provider: @sarahseaman2504

Colours: Orange, Yellow, Green, Blue, Purple, Pink, White & Neutral| Styles: Outdoor, Rustic, Vintage, Whimsical, Casual, Country & Natural

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Alexa & Andrew Riddle – Real Wedding (Classic + Elegant)

Alexa & Andrew Riddle - Real Wedding (Classic + Elegant)

A beautiful, classic and elegant wedding in a modern and quirky Manor House venue! Charlton Hall was the perfect setting for Alexa and Andrews gorgeous wedding set in the heart of Northumberland.

Florist: Floral Quarter | Videographer: Inspired Wedding Imagery | Wedding Dress Designer: YAP Bridal | Bridesmaid Dress Provider: Motee Maids|Cake Maker: Sweet Things Cakery | Decoration/Hire Provider: Great British Bash

Colours: Pink, White, Silver, Gold, Neutral, Patel, Sparkes & Balloons| Styles: Classic, Traditional, Modern, Whimsical, Formal, Neutral, Glamourous & Luxury

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Kate and Sam James – Real Wedding (Boho + Whimsical)

Kate and Sam James - Real Wedding (Boho + Whimsical)

Kate and Sam James’s stunningly romantic Spring wedding at Notley Abbey was simple yet unique. What makes this wedding special? We love the boho styling and romance that is shown so clearly in the photos.

Photographer: Samuel Docker

Florist: Daisy Ellen | Catering: Harper Weddings | Wedding Dress Designer: Jenny Packham | Bridesmaid Dress Provider: ASOS | Music: Guitarist – Park Life

Colours: Green, White & Neutrals| Styles: Classic, Outdoor, Boho, Luxury & Whimsical & Romantic

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Harriet Sharman and Jon Pegg – Real Wedding (Floral + Pastel)

Faye and Adam Hughes in the church getting married

Botleys Mansion hosted Harriet and Jon’s stunning pastel wedding. This Stately Home was the perfect fit for a classically glamorous couple. The decorations, flowers and dresses at this wedding oozed such style and elegance, we just had to share!

Photographer: Nick Rose

Florist: Fine Flowers | Catering: Harper Weddings | Videographer: Minty Slippers | Wedding Dress Designer: Galia Lahav | Bridesmaid Dress Provider: Portia and Scarlett | Music: Guitarist – Stephen Cornwell & Evening – Harper DJ| Entertainment: Magician – Unbelievable Magic & Fireworks – Illusion Fireworks | Cake Provider: Gifted Heart Cakes

Colours: Blush, White, Pastels & Rose Gold| Styles: Classic, Formal, Glamourous, Luxury & Elegant / Country, Casual & Natural 

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Naomi and James – Real Wedding (Rustic + Romantic)

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Naomi and James had a beautifully rustic Spring wedding at Cain Manor. A firm favourite with the team who loved the rustic details and simple, but breathtaking style of photography at this wedding.

Photographer: Studio Rouge

Florist: Allora Creations and Daisy Chain | Catering: Harper Weddings | Wedding Dress Designer: Stella York | Hairdresser: Charlotte Elizabeth | Music: Guitarist – John James Newman & Evening – Harper DJ| Entertainment: Magician – Rob James

Season: Spring| Colours: Green, White & Pastel| Styles: Classic, Traditional, Rustic, DIY-Inspired / Country, Casual & Natural 

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An Intimate Covid Elopement in Bristol

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Despite the COVID-19 pandemic, Clare and Natalie were still able to plan the wedding of their dreams. Their special day was a romantic elopement at Berwick Lodge in Bristol, a year after their engagement:

“We always dreamed that our wedding day would be intimate and cosy… Covid gave us a great excuse to achieve that by eloping!”

Clare & Natalie: A Covid Elopement at Berwick Lodge
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While the couple eloped just a year after their engagement, they met for the first time many years before:

“Clare was actually the one to propose, even though we’d openly chatted about it. THe day started with a mystery trip out, during which we visited various places we’d lived together… With the final stop being outside the school gates where we’d first met!”

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Clare and Natalie started their remote wedding planning journey by searching for a venue. Since they knew exactly what they were looking for, it wasn’t long before they found the perfect place to elope:

 “We wanted a venue with plenty of character, beautiful gardens and scrummy food… A quick search on Google for “elopement weddings” during lockdown found us this gem of a place!

The simplicity of eloping was so appealing to us and the elopement package at Berwick Lodge included everything we wanted, making it stress-free!”

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Finding dresses to suit the natural, elegant style they were after didn’t mean breaking the bank either. Instead of going bespoke, Clare and Natalie hit the highstreet — and ended up looking absolutely fantastic!

“We always knew we weren’t going to go for traditional white wedding dresses so hitting the high street was perfect for us. As it turns out, we were spoilt for choice so we would definitely recommend doing the same to others!”

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Holding beautiful bouquets of white flowers picked from Berwick Lodge‘s very own gardens, the newly married couple walked out with beaming smiles.

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Clare and Natalie were thrilled with Berwick Lodge, which “provided such a beautiful backdrop for [their] photographs.” They gave special thanks to their hair and makeup artist, Maria Lucas MUA, and their photographer, Christy Blanch Photography: “We absolutely love the photos by Christy! We’re so pleased with them – they’re amazing!”

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So what advice do Clare and Natalie have for couples planning a wedding during a pandemic?

Remind yourselves that it’s all about just the two of you. We found it easiest to focus solely on us and to choose the things that were important to us. Local suppliers were great as it was easy and quicker to make decisions.”

There’s one more thing Clare and Natalie would recommend to any couples in the South West (pandemic or no pandemic!):

“One big tip – choose an elopement package at Berwick Lodge!”

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A Fairytale Wedding with Gorgeous Floral Arrangements in Gloucestershire

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For Emma and Mike, a fairytale really did come true at Berkeley Castle in Gloucestershire! Located on the very edge of the Cotswolds, this magnificent medieval fortress was the perfect location for their elegant white wedding. And we have to mention their gorgeous floral arrangements – aren’t they stunning?

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Emma & Mike in Berkeley, Gloucestershire (Flowers + Elegance)
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Congratulations to Lisa and Mike on their fabulous wedding! And a special thank you to Pippa, the wedding and events manager at Berkeley Castle, for providing us with the photographs and details of Lisa and Mike’s special day.

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Faye & Adam Hughes – Real Wedding Covid-19 Style

Faye Hughes, the Head of Oxleaze Barn wedding venue recently got married, COVID-19 style. Here is Faye’s story about her wonderful COVID-19 style wedding.

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7 days – What shall we do? A bottle of Moet for two.

A wedding planner planning their own wedding – simple? Yes, until the unplannable happens. Having to re-think your wedding an uncountable amount of times the week before due to a global pandemic slowly shutting everything down around you!

We had a romantic unexpected (for me!) proposal at the confetti fields in Pershore in June 2019 (the height of wedding season – that’s how to catch a wedding planner off guard!). Plans quickly started coming together (the guest list was written that same afternoon!) and like all excited newly engaged couples they started to pay deposits and book in their suppliers, Pinterest boards and amazon ordering a plenty! 

Nothing unusual until the week before our wedding in March 2020. Like something from a Craig David song it went like this: 

  • Honeymoon cancelled on Sunday
  • International friends cancelled on Monday
  • High risk family cancelled on Tuesday
  • We were down to 20 by Wednesday
  • Even less on Thursday and Friday were down to 5
  • But we married on SATURDAY!
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From 120 guests attending a church ceremony followed by a reception at Oxleaze Barn to 5 guests (including us and the vicar) how is anyone supposed to choose between parents? Having had things slowly stripped away we had numerous conversations after Boris’ 5pm briefing – do we just pull the plug?

For us, it became clear it wasn’t about the party anymore or guests lining the pathway from the church launching confetti. It was about us marrying. We had accepted by Wednesday evening that this wasn’t going to be the wedding we had planned. Any there was nobody to blame for this, it’s simply bad luck. So, at this point what felt important was taking control.

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One of the biggest parts of getting married for me was having my dad give me away, for Adam’s best man, Will stepped in so he didn’t have to choose between parents. So, that was our 5. 

Once you’ve accepted it and taken control you have to enjoy it! There was no point in going ahead if we were going to mope around so in comes Georgie of Georgina Rose Events to help us test lots of apps and services for live streaming the ceremony to our guests. Georgie went of a secret mission to deliver our wedding champagne to as many local people as possible and we wrote to everyone encouraging them to put their gladrags on and celebrate with us – virtually! 

I’ve always worried that the professional photography aspect of our wedding would make it feel more staged, but instead – it made our marriage a wedding! Marcus made us feel like every other couple he has photographed, like nothing was different even though our couples photos were in a public park and he wasn’t allowed in the church unless the best man was out of it! 

After our photos, Adam had surprised me buy hiring a Tesla to drive off to the countryside in. We had 2 peaceful days at Thyme before lockdown hit. Our wedding evening was spent video calling our family, drinking lots of champagne and refusing to take off our wedding outfits! 

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Our Wedding Advice to couples

Our advice to couples deciding whether to change their plans now for weddings this year… Have an honest conversation between you and your fiancé, what is important to you?

There are a number of scenarios depending on the type of ceremony and the type of venue that you were planning for. You have to accept that your wedding won’t be the same, you may have to compromise on your wedding date which in turn means your bridesmaids dresses might not be normal for that season – OH WELL! Does this really matter?

At your fingertips there are hundreds of suppliers who are itching to express their creativity and have tricks and tips on how to adapt things affordably. If you are determined to have a summer wedding, this may cost more and that’s where only you know what matters to you as a couple. If It’s worth the money, do it and enjoy it but it’s ok to decide that a cheaper February wedding would still have the same meaning for you.

Take advice from your suppliers and accept that you aren’t going to be able to cast blame on this situation, but you will have one heck of a story at the end of it! 

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With huge thanks to the suppliers who made us feel like a Bride and Groom:

  • Flowers: corkyandprince
  • Photography: Bigeyephoto 
  • Wedding coordination: Georgina.rose.events
  • Makeup: amyhickeymakeup
  • Hair: rhysjoneshair
  • Church: St Mary’s Church Charlton Kings
  • Couples photo location: Pittville Park, Cheltenham

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The Best Wedding Photos of 2017

 

No one loves weddings as much as we do. We can promise you that.

And it’s not just because of the white dress or the flowers or the cake – although we do love cake-, but because of the magic. The wedding magic that can electrify the shyest of guests into dancing queen mode and make the toughest of grooms shed more than just a tear or two at the altar. Let’s face it, it’s that magic that makes weddings as special as they are.

And who is there to witness it all? The photographers!

This year, we challenged hundreds of Bridebook’s best wedding photographers to one simple task: Send us your most unique, outrageous, tender and funny wedding photos from your 2017 weddings and share those special moments for all to enjoy!

So without further ado, here are some of the very best wedding photos of 2017, and the ones we thought had that extra special something!

Click the link to each artist’s Bridebook profile if you would like to see more from them, or book them for your own special day!

 

Before the storm…

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bridebook.co.uk bridesmaids before the wedding
Photo © Simon Grosset / Q-Photography | More from Simon

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bridebook.co.uk breatfeeding before wedding
Photo © Jonny Draper | More from Jonny

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bridebook.co.uk putting on the dress
Photo © Paul Read Photography | More from Paul

4.

bridebook.co.uk don't get champagne on the bride
Photo © Daniel Marshall / DM Photography | More from Daniel

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bridebook.co.uk someone lost a shoe
Photo © Phil Barrett | More from Phil

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bridebook.co.uk babies and peddies before the wedding
Photo © Vine House Studios | More from Vine House Studios

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bridebook.co.uk groomsmen get ready before wedding
Photo © Andrew Morgan Photography | More from Andrew

 

Ceremony time… 

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bridebook.co.uk crying groom
Photo © Rob Burress / Shootinghip | More from Rob

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bridebook.co.uk the ceremony
Photo © Patrick Leverton Photography | More from Patrick

10.

bridebook.co.uk reading tintin at the ceremony
Photo © Lyndsey Goddard | More from Lyndsey

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bridebook.co.uk little girl at wedding
Photo © Drew Findlay Photography | More from Drew

 

aaaand we’re married! 

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bridebook.co.uk funny bride with veil over her face
Photo © Emma & Rich | More from Emma & Rich

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bridebook.co.uk happy brides
Photo © Clare Tam-Im Photography | More from Clare

14.

bridebook.co.uk happy couple leaving ceremony
Photo © Darren Powell / Everybody Smile Photography | More from Darren

15.

bridebook.co.uk couple on a row boat
Photo © Lars May | More from Lars

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Photo © Nik Bryant Photography | More from Nik

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bridebook.co.uk bride and groom and their kids
Photo © Richard & Christine / kazooieloki | More from kazooieloki

 

Party time!

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bridebook.co.uk wedding party
Photo © Bhavna Barratt | More from Bhavna

19.

bridebook.co.uk bride and grandma
Photo © Clive Blair Photography | More from Clive

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bridebook.co.uk laughing guests
Photo © John Hope Photography | More from John

21.

bridebook.co.uk bride drinking
Photo © Michael Wells Photography | More from Michael

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bridebook.co.uk bride and bridesmaids down the slide
Photo © Richard & Christine / kazooieloki | More from kazooieloki

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bridebook.co.uk groomsmen throw groom in the air
Photo © Dave Watts Photography | More from Dave

24.

bridebook.co.uk family with mustache
Photo © John Steel Photography | More from John 

25.

bridebook.co.uk star wars wedding
Photo © Dan Baillie Photography | More from Dan

26.

bridebook.co.uk wedding games
Photo © Will Barber / Love Heart Photography | More from Will

27.

bridebook.co.uk throwing the bouquet
Photo © Alexa Poppe Wedding Photography | More from Alexa

28.

bridebook.co.uk girls drinking at the bar
Photo © Paul Liddement  | More from Paul

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bridebook.co.uk lady dancing with the lads
Photo © Emma & Rich | More from Emma & Rich

30.

bridebook.co.uk bride flies over guests
Photo © Soven Amatya | More from Soven

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bridebook.co.uk ladies at the wedding
Photo © Pete & Sara / Pixies in the Cella | More from Pixies in the Cellar

32.

bridebook.co.uk sleeping at the wedding
Photo © Soven Amatya | More from Soven

33.

bridebook.co.uk little girl sleeping at the party
Photo © Graham Charles Photography | More from Graham

 

Newlywed photos that melted our BB hearts… 

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bridebook.co.uk groom picks up bride
Photo © Gavin Conlan Photography | More from Gavin

35.

bridebook.co.uk dancing in picadilly circus
Photo © Helen Sarah Pictures | More from Helen Sarah Pictures

36.

bridebook.co.uk bride and groom in the toilet
Photo © Andy Li Photography | More from Andy 

37.

bridebook.co.uk brides drive away from party
Photo © Sarah Hoyle Photography | More from Sarah

38.

bridebook.co.uk happy bride and groom
Photo © The Hendrys | More from The Hendrys

39.

bridebook.co.uk couple and the pigs
Photo © Tom Calton Photo & Film Ltd | More from Tom

40.

bridebook.co.uk beautiful bride and groom
Photo © Simon Heron / Southampton Wedding Photography | More from Simon

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bridebook.co.uk calm after the storm
Photo © Will Barber / Love Heart Photography | More from Will

And, finally…

Here’s to another year of magic-filled weddings!

(and stress-free wedding planning) 

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bridebook.co.uk the coolest bride
Photo © Carine Bea Photography | More from Carine

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