Rebecca & Tom’s “Subtly Nerdy” Fantasy Themed Castle Wedding

Thinking about having a more personal, non-traditional wedding? Then consider a themed wedding. They’re a great way to get creative with your partner and guests, and truly express your individual personalities and interests. Meet Rebecca and Tom, who combined traditional wedding themes with some unusual personal touches at their “subtly nerdy” fantasy themed wedding at Hedingham Castle. Check out their magical wedding day story and photos below. 

The Inspiration & Wedding Planning

As with any recently married couple, we love to talk about our wedding!

Both of us are proudly nerdy people, and wanted to reflect that in our wedding – but without going overboard and alienating the people who wouldn’t “get it”. We aimed for a mix of traditional wedding themes with subtle elements that reflected our shared passions.

Many of our friends are geeky as well, and we knew they’d love the little touches we’d added. What we didn’t anticipate was our parents and extended families also really enjoying all the details. My own mum has told us several times how much she loved that it reflected exactly who we are as people, so it’s safe to say “mission accomplished”!

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As anyone who’s planned a wedding can tell you, it’s very easy to go to extremes. You might become really passionate about one particular thing, without considering how it looks next to everything else you have going on. That’s why “subtly nerdy” became our motto: it all had to work together.

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The Venue

We got married in a castle! Hedingham Castle in Essex is a gorgeous venue and close to where we first met, at the University of Essex.

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The Decor

All the wedding signage was themed around fantasy elements: arrows, ravens, swords and medieval imagery. Archery was a recurring theme throughout the wedding, as we had met through our university archery club. Arrows, bullseyes and bows featured on most of our wedding signs.

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We decided to name our tables after mythical beasts like Phoenix, Kraken and Unicorn, hanging each table sign from a wreath. We decorated each wreath with artificial flowers, again reflecting the colours of Beccy’s bouquet.

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Dress, Accessories & Bridal Bouquet

Beccy modified her dress to be more historic and fantastical – for example, she added ‘Guinevere’ sleeves.

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Beccy’s accessories were themed around flowers and florals to fit the soft, fantasy theme, rather than sparkles and modern jewellery.

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Beccy’s bouquet was built to look like a big scoop of wildflowers, and ivy formed a large part of the greenery – again, fitting the castle!

The Cake

The bottom tier of our cake was decorated with the spines of our favourite books, and the colours reflected both the cake topper and Beccy’s bouquet. The topper itself was from Etsy, showing a unicorn in a veil and a dragon in a top hat. I was personally ridiculously pleased at being able to get a dragon onto my wedding cake!

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The Music

All the music was from our favourite films and games, like Jurassic ParkSkyrim and Final Fantasy. Beccy’s entry music was the main theme from Ori and the Will of the Wisps, her favourite game. It’s a beautiful and ethereal piece, but anyone who’s played the game would recognise it immediately.

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The Activities

We had a mead blessing after the ceremony to honour Beccy’s Nordic heritage, and yalekhtas (beaded handkerchiefs) on the dance floor for my Syrian heritage.

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We only had two speeches: I led the thank yous and Beccy ran a game using a big, soft D20 die. Not only did it reflect my passion for Dungeons & Dragons, but we donated money to the winner’s chosen charity!

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Instead of table games like wedding bingo, we changed it up to become “Wedding Achievements”. This was a totally optional activity for our friends and family to do, which encouraged them to explore the gorgeous castle venue and our decorations – the first table to finish them all won a bottle of bubbly. Some examples were “Paparazzi – Take a selfie with the newlyweds” and “And His Merry Men – Get a bullseye with the soft archery kit”.

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Rebecca and Tom’s Suppliers

Feeling inspired? Then why not start planning a unique themed wedding of your own? After all, your special day should be about celebrating everything you love. And as Rebecca and Tom have shown, you can effortlessly blend the traditional and the personal to strike the perfect balance.

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Wedding Gift Registry Alternatives

Not a fan of the traditional gift registry? No problem! There are plenty of great alternatives to physical wedding gifts, from honeymoon funds and charity donations, to memorable experiences to share with your partner, or even no gift at all! Read on for the full list (for more gift ideas, be sure to check out our top gift list ideas).

Honeymoon fund

Ask guests to contribute money towards your honeymoon expenses for a luxe getaway like no other. There are various options to choose from. Consider a flight to a room upgrade, as well as add-ons for the holiday itself, like a romantic beach dinner or boat and snorkeling trip. This is a great way for your loved ones to contribute towards a special shared experience, and make your honeymoon one to remember and cherish for years to come.

Charity donation

Choose a charitable cause that’s meaningful to you and ask guests to make a donation in your honour. Choosing a charity fund as a gift registry alternative is a great way to make a positive impact on the world, adding a purposeful touch to your wedding celebrations. Plus, if you choose a cause you’re passionate about, you can educate your guests about it and raise awareness, so it’s a win-win! The Wedding Shop has a great selection of well-known charities to choose from, from Cancer Research UK and Mind, to Oxfam and Save The Children. Any donations made to your chosen charity will be automatically sent on your behalf. Alternatively, you can create your own personal crowdfunding page, using a fundraising platform like JustGiving or GoFundMe.

Experience gifts

Create a wish list of experiences you would like to share together. Think romantic spa day, weekend getaway, cooking class, or luxury cinema experience. Choosing a gift experience as a gift registry alternative gives you the opportunity to bond with your partner and share lifelong memories. It also gives your guests the chance to give you something that truly reflects your interests and hobbies. Plus, experience gifts are often more versatile and flexible than traditional physical ones. You can redeem them at a time that works best for you, and look forward to them after your wedding.

Home down payment/home renovation fund

If you’ve not already bought a house together, why not create a fund to help you save for a down payment on a new home? Your friends and family will love having the chance to contribute to your future in a very practical and meaningful way. It’s a great alternative to a gift registry, because you can put the money towards a long-term investment and asset. This is particularly helpful if you’re first-time buyers and dreaming of homeownership. If you and your partner are already living together, you can use the cash contribution in other ways, for example, on a home renovation. Or you can be more specific, and ask for a kitchen or garden fund – the possibilities are endless!

Group gift

Some of your guests can come together to contribute towards a larger, more expensive, higher-value gift, such as a special piece of furniture or a new home appliance. Unlike traditional gift registries, which may only offer specific items, this gives your guests more choice, and the chance to help you buy something you need but can’t afford on your own. And rather than choosing from a pre-selected list, this way, your friends and family can personalise the gift to your tastes and needs. If you like surprises, this kind of wedding gift can also be a lot of fun to give and receive!

No gifts

You may prefer to have no wedding gifts at all, and choose to keep the focus on the celebration itself. After all, the presence of your loved ones at your wedding is arguably the greatest gift of all! If you like simplicity, this is a great alternative to a traditional registry. There’s no need to select, purchase and wrap individual gifts – so less stress for both you and your guests. It’s also a more sustainable option – no gifts means no waste or environmental impact, whether that’s the production and disposal of a physical gift, or the transportation involved in something like a gift experience. Requesting no gifts can also help your guests save money, especially if they’re already spending a significant amount on travel, accommodation or other expenses.

With all these alternatives, there are so many ways your guests can contribute to your wedding besides a gift registry. Whether it’s a cash contribution for your honeymoon or home, donations to a charity you love, memorable experiences, or just their presence, there’s something for everyone!

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Alternative Wedding Ideas for Modern Couples

Gone are the days when weddings were all about formal dress codes, traditional vows, and grand, conventional venues. Today’s couples are looking for unique and meaningful ways to celebrate their love and personalise their special day. While some wedding traditions stand strong, others are changing to reflect couples’ unique priorities and interests! If you’re a modern couple looking for alternative wedding ideas, here are some creative options to inspire you, from choosing your ceremony features and wedding party members to your fashion and entertainment.

Alternative venue

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Nearly one-in-five of today’s couples choose a unique venue or location for their wedding. Now that they’re legal, why not take advantage of an outdoor wedding? Whether it’s a garden, park, beach, or forest, the freedom is yours! Outdoor weddings are perfect for couples who want to keep things simple and intimate. For an even more low-key option, consider eloping. You can exchange vows with your partner in a stunning natural setting, surrounded by just a few loved ones.

Alternative catering

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For a more relaxed, informal vibe, swap the traditional sit-down meal for something fun like a buffet or hog roast, or something fancy like afternoon tea. Alternative catering can also be helpful if you’re on a budget, as you can save money spent on silver service or waist-coated waiters. For something more immersive, consider a more interactive dining experience or live cooking. There are plenty of fun options, from chef’s theatres and live cooking, to DIY dining experiences with make-your-own options such as pizzas, cooking with hot stones, Korean-style BBQs, or a giant fondue.

Non-traditional wedding ceremony features

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From non-traditional wedding party members to unique celebrants, you have the freedom and flexibility to choose exactly what wedding features you wish to include in your own wedding. Maybe you want your mum or best friend to walk you down the aisle, maybe you want bridesmates or groomsmaids, page girls rather than page boys, flower boys rather than flower girls. Or you might want to involve your own children in your wedding, or have a pet play a starring role in your wedding party. You can choose whichever combination reflects your own priorities and values.

From our Bridebook couples…

  • “Mum walked down the aisle with Dad”
  • “I had my two brothers as my best men instead of bridesmaids”
  • “Our best friend did the ceremony, and it was totally personal”
  • “All our speeches were gender equal” (e.g. groom’s mum, bride and bridesmaids)

Alternative entertainment and activities

Weddings should be fun! And what better way to create joy than by incorporating activities and games into your wedding? From archery and country line dancing, to kid’s party and lawn games like egg and spoon races and welly wanging, there are so many exciting possibilities! In fact, nearly one-in-five modern couples are incorporating activities or games into their weddings.

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From our Bridebook couples…

  • “We had the surprise of a wedding singer dressed in the uniform of the hotel staff”
  • “Chose archery as an activity for guests between the ceremony and reception”
  • “We had a country line dancing instructor come and run a session”
  • “Bouncy castle, bouncy slide, welly wanging, tug of war, limbo and piñata”

Alternative wedding fashion

Not a fan of the classic white wedding dress? No problem! Colourful wedding dresses are en vogue – from blush pink to crimson red to orange to black. In fact, over half of the dressmakers we spoke to are seeing wedding dresses in alternative colours to the traditional bridal white. David and Nathan were finally married in July of 2022…in a heatwave…in a velvet dress! Thankfully the aircon was fully functional and Nathan stole the show in their Billy Porter inspired gown.

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Alternative wedding themes

Themed weddings are a great way to get creative with your partner and guests. They also allow you to truly express your individual personalities and interests, whether that’s a favourite movie like Harry Potter, or favourite time period like the regency era. From your invites and decorations, to your food and costumes, let your chosen theme run wild! If you’re getting married on a special holiday, like Valentine’s Day or Halloween, you might also want to showcase that.

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There you have our alternative wedding ideas for modern couples. From unique venues and theatrical catering, to fun activities and non-traditional dress, the possibilities are endless. The key is to find an option that reflects your unique priorities and values – and your individual personalities. Whatever you go with, make it personal, meaningful and memorable!

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Mastering the “Bridal Chop”: TikTok Hairstyle Trend Uncovered

There’s no time like your wedding day to make a bold statement and awe your guests. And there’s more than one way to do it, from your dress to your hair, and the subtle to the extreme.

Most often, brides revamp their reception or evening look by changing into an entirely new gown. But one trend we’re seeing is brides shaking up their look without purchasing an additional gown. For example, restyling their existing outfit with a detachable skirt, or wearing a flexible ‘multi dress’. Check out our article on 2023 Wedding Fashion Trends to learn all about it.

The latest TikTok craze, the so-called “bridal chop”, is by far the most daring bridal transformation. Featuring a head-turning haircut in between the ceremony and reception, it’s the ultimate grand reveal moment. Many brides choose not even to let their partner in on it. We spoke to some of our expert hairdressers and stylists, to get their opinion on such a dramatic on-the-day transformation, as well as their top tips on how to style short hair on your wedding day.

Plus, with celebrities from Paris Hilton to Sarah Michelle Gellar and Camila Cabello rocking bobs lately, there’s no denying that a shorter, cropped style is on-trend. So what are you waiting for?

Colette Johnson | CJ Beauty & Co

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What do you think of the latest bridal chop trend?

“I think the trend is brilliant! We have incorporated this as an option for brides under our full day package or with our evening turnaround service. It’s a brave option and a confident statement! But why not? Most brides grow their hair for their wedding day and then have it chopped off either before their honeymoon or when they get back – so why not have it done on the day as you enter married life and your first few hours as Mrs…”

Any top tips for styling short bridal hair?

“Brides are dressing up shorter hairstyles with bows, glitzy hair slides, or simple pearl headbands.”

Eileen Nugent | Eileen Nugent Hair & Makeup

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What do you think of the latest bridal chop trend?

“Regarding the latest “bridal chop” trend, I did do this a few years ago for a bride on her wedding morning and surprised her bridesmaids and husband to be. It was a great success.”

Eva Pisanu | Foreva Hair

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What do you think of the latest bridal chop trend?

“I love this trend! As a bridal hairstylist that is also a qualified hairdresser this is right up my street! Such a great way to surprise your guests instead of a dress change. I quite often get asked for a hairstyle change for the evening do, but I haven’t had a haircut request, but I would love to do this!”

Any top tips for styling short bridal hair?

“There are so many hair accessories that suit a long bob or short hair. One of my favourites would be the floral hairbands!”

Hayley Laws | Freelance Hair & Makeup Artist

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What do you think of the latest bridal chop trend?

“This trend of cutting your hair off between the wedding service and the reception is definitely a unique take on having a second dress for your evening guests. It isn’t something that I have been asked about yet. My brides have opted for another dress or a bold red lip for the evening. Cutting your hair off can be scary when most brides spend so long growing it for their big day. The quirkiest thing a bride has asked me is to put fairy lights in her hair to switch on when the sunset came. I love a dramatic haircut. It empowers the client and gives new confidence. As long as the bride is committed to the change, why not!”

Any top tips for styling short bridal hair?

I would make the process as easy as possible to take less time out of your day. Maybe opt for a down style for the morning ceremony so that a ‘dry cut’ in a similar hairstyle won’t take too much time away from your guests. For short hairstyles in general I love a soft Hollywood wave or any wave at all. Part the hair deep to one side. It is a powerful style but is always a cute look for a short do. Add a simple vintage slide or a thick chunky headband as a statement piece. You could always add a side braid for an edgier style.

Kate Fletcher | Flashkate Bridal Hair & Make Up

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What do you think of the latest bridal chop trend?

“I love this trend! Most brides grow their hair for the wedding day, so they can have a traditional ‘up do’. They mostly plan to chop their hair off after the wedding so why not AT the wedding. I’ve seen it a couple of times, paired with an outfit change, but not personally cut the hair. It’s a ballsy move and not for the faint hearted but has the real ‘WOW’ factor.”

Laura Anne | The Bridal Stylists: Wedding Hair & Makeup

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What do you think of the latest bridal chop trend?

“We haven’t yet [come across this] but we are totally down for this request! We think it’s fab! Such a unique way to transition to the evening.”

Any top tips for styling short bridal hair?

“If you are thinking about doing this, some pointers to consider: it really would only work if you have already had your hair shorter in the past and loved it. Don’t let this be the first time going shorter. Also, make sure the style you go for first is lightly styled without a ton of product, so that the changeover is shift and successful. Plus, your hairstyle needs to be an experienced hairdresser too! We love a choppy, textured wave on shorter hair. Maybe with one side pulled back with a fab statement accessory. Or perhaps you prefer a simple, sleek ‘lob’ letting the hair shine through.”

Laura Glanville | Wishbone & Comb Bridal Hair & Makeup

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What do you think of the latest bridal chop trend?

“As a bridal hair stylist for over 10 years, I must say this new trend is one that I am a huge fan of! As most brides are opting for a change of outfit for the evening, then why not surprise everyone even further, by adopting a whole new hairstyle too? I have lost count of how many brides tell me, when I compliment them on their long hair, that they can’t wait to have it “chopped off” after their wedding. With this in mind, why not incorporate just that into their schedule as well!”

Any top tips for styling short bridal hair?

“I suggest that if they are not going to be away from their reception for too long – I recommend opting for a simple one length cut that can be easily styled with a pretty tiara headband, or with a hairslide clipped to one side, that will showcase their new shorter hairstyle beautifully.”

Melissa Clare | Melissa Clare Makeup & Hair

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What do you think of the latest bridal chop trend?

“I personally haven’t had any brides do this but I think the idea is fab. In the same light as brides who love to have more than one dress and change halfway through the day to create a new vibe for the second half, why not add in a totally new cool chop too!”

Any top tips for styling short bridal hair?

“My advice would be if you are having a chop resulting in short-mid length tresses, then show it off, don’t hide your new look in a bun. Keep it down, whether you prefer casual beachy waves or a more glamorous Hollywood or vintage wave, you can accessorise this look with an on-trend headband or comb worn on the side behind the ear. If you prefer to have your new do off your shoulders you could try a low textured ponytail with chunky bow/ribbon.”

Olga Taylor | Barnet and Boatrace

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What do you think of the latest bridal chop trend?

“We’re absolutely loving the new bridal chop trend, but yet to find a bride that is brave enough to go through with this on their big day! Many are talking about it at their trial appointments though. It’s common practice for brides to grow their hair as they are led to believe that this is something that they ‘should do’ in preparation for their big day. Fuller, thicker, longer princess hair. We totally get it. Then suddenly, not long beforehand, they’ve been known to chop it as they feel totally fed up with the extra length or that it’s not really them. Within our team we have qualified hairdressers as well as stylists so we’d love to meet a bride who just holds off a couple more weeks and trusts us to transform them not once but twice on their big day!”

Any top tips for styling short bridal hair?

“A jewelled clip placed strategically above one ear on one side with brushed out waves looks simple yet super cute and guaranteed to wow guests at your evening ceremony!”

Vicki Lord | Vicki Lord Hair Wedding Hairdresser

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What do you think of the latest bridal chop trend?

“Having a mid-day haircut can definitely be a fun and unexpected way to completely transform and switch up your look for your wedding day, and add an unexpected twist to your wedding day style! Being a multi award-winning bridal, red carpet, celebrity, fashion, cut and colour hairstylist, it’s not uncommon to see brides grow out their hair in anticipation of their wedding day, and it’s understandable that they may want to have longer hair or an up-do hairstyle for their big day. However, without regular trims, long hair can become unruly and difficult to manage, which can make it harder to achieve the desired wedding day style. In any case, in recent years, there has been a trend towards more unique and individualised bridal hairstyles.”

Any top tips for styling short bridal hair?

“Short hair can be just as beautiful and elegant as longer styles and can be styled in a variety of ways to suit the bride’s taste and wedding theme. A skilled hairstylist can work with the bride to create a bridal transformation that highlights her features and personality. Incorporating a cool and elaborate hairpiece can add an extra touch of glamour and individuality. Ultimately, the goal is to create a hairstyle that makes the bride feel confident, beautiful and true to herself on her special day!”

So if you were thinking of taking the plunge with a bridal chop of your own, this is your sign! With these top tips and tricks, you’re all set to turn heads more than once on your big day.

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Supplier Showcase: Brilliant Female-Owned Wedding Businesses

In celebration of International Women’s Day, we’re shining a light on the achievements of female wedding business owners. Women have long played a prominent role in the wedding industry. From wedding planners and coordinators to wedding designers, photographers, florists, cakemakers, caterers, and more, women make up 80% of the wedding industry! Read the success stories, achievements and advice of some of Bridebook’s top female business owners below.

Mercedes | 4YaParty Weddings and Events

About Mercedes: Mercedes (she/her) is a qualified venue stylist and prides herself on having great customer service and high attention to detail. She owns and manages 4YaParty Weddings & Events, specialising in providing eco-friendly and sustainable wedding and event decor, upcycled wedding decor, prop hire, and sweet treats. She says no to balloons and no to single-use plastic. Plus, for every booking she makes, she’ll have a tree planted in your honour!

Proudest achievement to date: “Becoming an accredited member of the Sustainable Wedding Alliance, making weddings eco-friendly by being carbon neutral for 2 years!”

Biggest challenge to overcome: “Being a black, queer, disabled, female business owner comes with many challenges! But the biggest challenge I have is believing in myself and knowing my worth! Believing in the value that my service brings to the wedding industry. But I have an epic support network in family, friends, the SWA and wedding suppliers, who have become friends!”

Best part about owning a wedding business: “Meeting lovely couples from all walks of life and hearing their love stories, watching their personality as a couple unfold in their wedding decor!”

Advice to aspiring female business owners: “My biggest advice for any woman who wants to start their own business is to make sure you’re passionate about whatever you choose! Running your own business is not a get rich quick route at all! It’s a very slow burner lol so if you don’t truly love it, then when it gets hard, it will be too easy to give up!”

Gemma | The Isla Gladstone Conservatory

About Gemma: Gemma is a leading entrepreneur and businesswoman in the hospitality industry with a number of nationally recognised restaurants, hospitality venues, catering companies and social enterprises under her guiding hand. She began her career in her teens, when she famously became the youngest licensee in the country. Over the last two decades she has developed a wide portfolio across the UK, successfully building iconic venues that are rooted in their communities. ****She opened The Isla Gladstone Conservatory in 2014 in the heart of Stanley Garden.

Proudest achievement to date: “They all said it couldn’t be done…A glass house in Liverpool…We have gone from strength to strength each year and have an all-women management team!”

Biggest challenge to overcome: “COVID…To see your hard work and dream stopped with nothing you could do about it. Having to break bride’s and groom’s hearts postponing their date time and time again, when we didn’t know when we could open again. It was truly the hardest time ever.”

Best part about owning a wedding business: “It’s a happy place to be. Guests arrive happy, venue looks beautiful, and we get to be one of the happiest memories for brides and grooms.”

Advice to aspiring female business owners: “Believe in what you do…Look for support…Employ the best people to be around you…And enjoy!!!”

Stacey | The Venue Experts

About Stacey: Stacey, a.k.a. the “turbocharged wedding booking superstar”, is founder and CEO of The Venue Experts. She comes with over 20 years’ experience in the industry. From managing wedding venues and developing businesses in the hospitality sector to hosting large-scale events at some of the East Midlands’ best-known events companies, she is ready to take on any challenge. Stacey has extensive knowledge of managing venues in-house, having had business development and sales consultant roles at properties including Belvoir Castle and Hodsock Priory.

Proudest achievement to date: “I was recognised as one of the top 100 Female Entrepreneurs to watch by The Telegraph and NatWest.”

Biggest challenge to overcome: “Starting a business in the pandemic.”

Best part about owning a wedding business: “Making a difference in the industry and being considered as one of the leading experts.”

Advice to aspiring female business owners: “Believe in yourself, know your worth, and remember that it is worth the risk.”

Natalie | Velvet Moon Ceremonies

About Natalie: Natalie is an independent celebrant and proud founder of Velvet Moon Ceremonies. She loves crafting bespoke, personal ceremonies that reflect each couple as individuals and their story together so far. This includes matching both the tone (be it fun and laidback, or sentimental and romantic) and theme (traditional or alternative), and learning what’s most important to the couple. She weaves all this together into their script, to create a truly unique ceremony.

Proudest achievement to date: “I’m proud that within my first proper year of weddings I already got to do one of my dream ceremonies – one themed around the video game series Final Fantasy! I love being able to write meaningful, special ceremonies for couples that reflect who they are and what they enjoy whilst they celebrate their love for each other.”

Biggest challenge to overcome: “Having 2020 as what should have been my first wedding season! Obviously everything got pushed back and it’s been slow going, but I’m proud of what I achieved last year and I couldn’t have asked for better couples to work with.”

Best part about owning a wedding business: “Being part of someone’s wedding day, surrounded by so many talented women who are amazing at their work! There’s so much build up, and being a 2023 bride myself I know how much work goes into the planning and the trust you have to have for every supplier involved to understand what you want and bring it together on the day.

Advice to aspiring female business owners: “Network – there are so many other amazing women in this business who have been through what you have or struggled in similar ways. They can provide support and advice on any issue you’re facing as well as cheer you on and celebrate your wins.”

Jemma | Charlesworth Classics Ltd

About Jemma: Jemma is the proud owner and director of Charlesworth Classics Ltd. She works with couples from start to finish to choose and arrange the perfect transport for their special day. From vintage and classic London taxis to iconic Rolls Royces, there’s something for everyone. She hand-picks all the drivers herself, and prides herself on the service she provides.

Proudest achievement to date: “Breaking through the wedding car industry! I am not aware of another female director in this field local to me currently. This is still a very male dominated role, and there is still a very strong “boys’ club” mentality, which I hope will change in years to come. I have been very fortunate to have the support of my husband (which has made interactions with other wedding car companies a little easier), and to have been included with a select few individuals with whom I work very closely and experience no prejudice.”

Biggest challenge to overcome: “I think my biggest challenge/lesson has been to follow my instincts. Prior to starting my company I was a stay-at-home wife. I had no experience what-so-ever. I just knew this was something I wanted. When COVID came, I refused to jump on the panic bandwagon. I made the most of the down-time and grew my business and feel I was in a good position to move forward once normality was restored.”

Best part about owning a wedding business: “My couples! I love hearing the stories behind why my couples want to book my cars, whether it’s because we have been recommended by friends or family, or they simply just love our cars. There is always a story there and I love hearing them. Looking back at photos and receiving a review, reading the appreciation of the service my team and I have provided, there really is no better feeling!”

Advice to aspiring female business owners: “Believe and achieve! Mindset is one of the most important parts of owning your own business. Find other women with your mindset and work together, pick each other up. Owning your own business can be very lonely. You spend a lot of time alone so a good support network is very beneficial – you don’t even need to work in the same field.”

Nyssa | Edinburgh School of Food & Wine

About Nyssa: Nyssa is the owner and manager of the Edinburgh School of Food & Wine. She prides herself on delivering a first-class service, having a dedicated wedding team to ensure each couple’s day runs perfectly from beginning to end. She organises and manages everything from wedding catering, bar services, room set up, lighting options, and prop selection. Couples can also choose from stag and hen do packages at the cook school, ranging from cocktail masterclasses to champagne, whisky or wine tasting, to BBQ cookery and food masterclasses.

Proudest achievement to date: “Finalist for 3 wedding awards as caterer of the year.”

Biggest challenge to overcome: “Taking over the business mid-COVID and making it a success whilst also being mum to three young kids.”

Best part about owning a wedding business: “Making specials for our clients, the delight of delicious food and great service!”

Advice to aspiring female business owners: “Take the leap! It is so fulfilling to run your own business. It is hard work but worth every minute.”

Lily | Lily Kerbey Musician

About Lily: Lily is a passionate professional singer-guitarist who has been performing in and around Yorkshire at wedding and other private milestone celebrations for the last 10 years. A true expert in her field, she has played at all types of weddings, from cliff tops in Portugal to a DIY woodland wedding. She strives to make every couple’s day special, from singing as you walk down the aisle, to entertaining guests during the photos, and can create custom playlists of wedding songs.

Proudest achievement to date: “Singing at my first wedding abroad was very special! Also the fact I managed to get so many bookings that I could leave my full-time teaching job, which made me so stressed I got ill. I’m now happy and thriving and working at 10% of the capacity I was before.”

Biggest challenge to overcome: “Making the move from part-time to full-time. The instability of self-employed work is so scary, but now I’m in it I could never go back!

Best part about owning a wedding business: “Getting to be involved in the best day of people’s lives. Everyone is happy at a wedding, and that happiness spreads.”

Advice to aspiring female business owners: “Find something that doesn’t feel like work. And enjoy every moment! When you genuinely love your job, everything else in your life fits into place. Take every opportunity you can but also look after yourself and put aside time for yourself!”

Sarah | The Purple Pumpkin Cake Company

About Sarah: Sarah is an award-winning professional cake artist and proud owner of The Purple Pumpkin Cake Company. After a career in retail management, she made the inspiring decision to turn her hobby into her profession. She creates bespoke wedding cakes and fresh designs for every couple, to make your cake individual and unique to you. Having inherited baking from her mum, and now with four children of her own, family is everything to her.

Proudest achievement to date: “I’ve won two business awards alongside cake awards. Being awarded for my business skills was amazing!

Biggest challenge to overcome: “Apart from COVID you mean? Being a mother of four, then taking on the custody of my six-month old grandson, while caring for my dying mum, while running a successful business, off the back of COVID, and still smiling always!”

Best part about owning a wedding business: “I get to meet loads of excited, varied and different couples, and be part of their stories! I also love working alongside other fantastic suppliers.”

Advice to aspiring female business owners: “People buy from people, so be more you. Don’t look at others and try to copy them. Be yourself, and you’ll be successful. If you’re always comparing yourself to others you’ll never get there!”

Emily | Emily’s Moments Photography

About Emily: Emily is empathetic and quirky Belgian-born photographer with a passion for being who we are unashamedly. Her commitment is pure and simple – to tell each couple’s unique story sensitively and with humanity. Based in St Albans, Hertfordshire, but working across the UK, she produces images and photo albums that you will treasure for decades to come. She has been lovingly described as “approachable, upfront, honest, hopeful, curious, quirky.”

Proudest achievement to date: “Being back at square 1 in a brand new career aged 37 and building a sustainable business from scratch.”

Biggest challenge to overcome: “Managing my own expectations of what can be achieved. Owning a business is a few full-time jobs in one with a huge variety of skillsets to be acquired over time. I have to accept that I can’t acquire them all at once. I have to be patient.”

Best part about owning a wedding business: “Being totally independent when making my own decisions to grow my own business. My daily successes are mine and mine alone to celebrate.”

Advice to aspiring female business owners: “Don’t ever believe any unsupportive voices…whether they come from others or from yourself. Us women have a tendency to have in-built doubt in what we are capable of. We have to fight that inner voice. We can achieve whatever we set our mind to in our own way, using our own strengths and our own uniqueness.”

Jade | Hushabye Films

About Jade: Jade is an experienced film maker, videographer and owner of Hushabye Films. She spent over 15 years in broadcast television, working as a shooting producer/director, with experience across channels such as the BBC, ITV, MTV, E4, C4, Sky and various other satellite channels, with credits on high-profile programmes including the BAFTAs, Big Brother, T4, Comic Relief and V Festival. She has also created hours of online, YouTube and corporate content. She takes a cool, calm and personalised approach to shooting wedding films.

Proudest achievement to date: “When I decided to shoot weddings, I knew straight away I was going to do things differently! I took everything I had learnt from my 10+ years working as a TV producer and used it to make wedding films that people actually wanted to watch! When I started there were no “fun” wedding videographers. There was a HUGE gap in the market and I grabbed it with both hands! I’ve now shot over 200 weddings.”

Biggest challenge to overcome: “COVID!!! We were NOT prepared for that!!! But somehow I managed to shoot some small weddings and make promotional films to earn some income and spend hours everyday moving dates and making sure I could still film all the weddings the following year whilst also shooting all the new ones!”

Best part about owning a wedding business: “Working with the clients you want to work with and being creative everyday. I love the wedding industry and all the talented supplier friends I’ve made.”

Advice to aspiring female business owners: “Don’t worry about what other people are doing with their businesses. Do what’s right for you and recognise that everyone is at a different stage of their own journey. Don’t carbon copy a business because it looks like it’s successful. Take inspiration if you have to but always put your own spin on it so you can be proud of your achievements.”

Harriet | Harriet Alice Fox Designs

About Harriet: Harriet is a Sheffield-based illustrator and graphic designer who specialises in creating hand-drawn bespoke wedding stationery. Working on a friend’s wedding stationery made her fall in love with the creative process. Since then, she has gone on to showcase her work at wedding fairs and attract a whole host of couples wanting something special for their wedding stationery. Harriet is passionate about creating unique designs that celebrate the wedding venue, reflect the couple’s interests, or even feature a beloved furry friend who can’t attend the big day.

Proudest achievement to date: “I’m most proud of my portrait seating plans! I’m so excited whenever couples want to work with me on them. The amount of work put into drawing every guest individual portraits and piecing it together is massive but so rewarding, and such a fabulous keepsake for the couples themselves.”

Biggest challenge to overcome: “Realising that your product/style might not be everyone’s cup of tea, and that’s a good thing. Because it makes what you do so much more unique and custom.”

Best part about owning a wedding business: “Delivering all the stationery goodies! There’s so much excitement from the couples, and I’m very grateful to be part of the buildup.”

Advice to aspiring female business owners: “Believe in yourself and your product. If you’re giving it 100% then your passion will shine through.”

H | Lawley Fine Jewellers

About H: As well as looking after the marketing and social media side of Lawley Fine Jewellers, H is a passionate jeweller and specialist in handmade engagement and wedding rings. She loves being at the bench and mastering the technical skills required to make beautiful pieces.

Proudest achievement to date: “Our biggest achievement is definitely the popularity and feedback of our Make Your Own Wedding Rings experiences. This year was our busiest yet!”

Biggest challenge to overcome: “Definitely the pandemic, which really hit the industry hard. We consider ourselves fortunate in that we were able to keep going. It was a stressful time both for couples organising their big days and for all the suppliers serving them.”

Best part about owning a wedding business: “Being involved in a small way in each couple’s plans – especially with their wedding rings, which will be worn and cherished every day – is something amazing and we feel honoured. Also, making such great friends with other local talented wedding suppliers has been a wonderful surprise, as it’s something we didn’t expect. Being able to support each other and recommend trusted suppliers to our couples is fantastic.”

Advice to aspiring female business owners: “Follow your own path and be authentic. Have each other’s backs and support each other, be it to share and recommend or offer friendly advice.”

Amy | Beewildblooms

About Amy: Amy is the founder and owner Beewildblooms, a family-run floristry business in Scotland. She specialises in unique wedding flowers and decor, as well as floral masterclasses and 1:1 classes. She is proud to have been featured in both Rock N Roll Bride Magazine and Rock My Wedding. Her style is rustic, wild, romantic, and most certainly one-of-a-kind!

Proudest achievement to date: “Starting our family floristry business during lockdown with no clients – selling £16 arrangements to doorsteps and now becoming a finalist for best wedding florist [for the Scottish Confetti Wedding Awards 2023] and being fully booked for 2023.”

Biggest challenge to overcome: “Having zero funding or savings after redundancy and building my business whilst also being a full-time mum at home.”

Best part about owning a wedding business: “Delivering a bespoke and personalised service to our lovely couples – we keep numbers small to deliver big joy!”

Advice to aspiring female business owners: “Be authentic – YOU are your own super power! Keep trying different things until you find something that makes you happy and fills your cup. You are running your own business for a reason, because you can and you want to – so never forget your why! Don’t compare to others as everyone is at a different stage in business!”

Becky | Lavelle Bridal Couture

About Becky: At Lavelle Bridal Couture, it’s just Becky, all the way. From booking your very first private bridal appointment to the big day, she’s with you every step of the way. Having learnt to sew at the age of 10, she pursued a career in fashion and textiles, working for various design houses and retailers before opening her own bridal boutique right in the heart Warwick. Before opening her shop, she first studied wedding dress design at the London College of Fashion, so knows exactly what’s involved in the construction and how to advise on dress customisations and alterations.

Proudest achievement to date: “My biggest achievement happens every day in my small business… The majority of women feel super nervous when it comes to wedding dress shopping, and I always feel so proud when a bride leaves my boutique with the biggest smile on her face, having had the most amazing wedding dress shopping experience with me. I pride myself on helping brides feel comfortable and confident in their own skin so they feel gorgeous in their dream wedding dress.”

Biggest challenge to overcome: “COVID was a huge challenge for any business, but also supporting brides through such tough times was very challenging at times. The uncertainty of weddings was tough to navigate but I’m very proud to say that I’ve come through it and thrived.”

Best part about owning a wedding business: “Feeling honoured to be chosen by my brides to take a part in their special day and the emotions that brides feel and experience when they find the perfect dress. It’s such a special moment and I love that I can be a part of that!”

Advice to aspiring female business owners: “Collaboration over competition, every day. I always think there is no competition as no-one can be you. Just be yourself and you’ll find the people who love what you do. If you support one another it will always pay you back at some point and then you’ll make great friends across a variety of industries who can support you through your journey.”

The wedding industry owes a great debt to the countless female business owners who have dedicated themselves to making couples’ special days truly unforgettable through their creativity and hard work. We hope that the inspiring stories and insights shared by the female business owners featured here will encourage more women to follow in their footsteps and continue to make a mark on the wedding industry for many years to come.

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Top Tips For Your Destination Wedding

A destination wedding can be a memorable and unique way to celebrate your special day with your friends and family. But planning one can be a daunting task! There are so many decisions to make and details consider. That’s why we’ve put together our top tips for planning a destination wedding. They’ll help you make your big day a success, no matter where you are in the world. From choosing the perfect wedding venue, to being aware of the legalities, we’ve got you covered.

1. Choose the right location

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The location you choose for your destination wedding is crucial. Consider factors like climate, accessibility, price and venue availability. You may want to choose a place that has a special meaning to you and your partner. How about where you first went on holiday together? Or somewhere with stunning, picture-perfect scenery for your wedding photos?

If you’re not sure where to start, check out our handy guide on the top 10 destination wedding locations. From a romantic Mediterranean beach wedding on a Greek island to a cosmopolitan urban getaway in New York, the world is your oyster!

2. Give your guests plenty of notice and information

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When planning a destination wedding, give your guests plenty of advance notice. This will allow them to make travel arrangements and organise their holiday time accordingly (particularly important for very far-flung locations). Send out save-the-date cards at least 6-8 months before the wedding to give your guests plenty of time to plan, and the invitations 3-4 months in advance.

Be sure to include all the important details on a separate information card along with the invitations themselves. We recommend the following as a bare minimum:

  • How to reach your destination and where to stay (include your venue’s address)
  • Information on the weather at the time of year (so your guests can plan their outfits)
  • Tips for places to visit and eat in the area (ask your venue for recommendations)

We recommend listing any extra wedding-related activities, like dinner the day before, or lunch the next day, on your RSVP card. That way, your guests can tick off which ones they’ll be attending.

3. Hire a specialist local wedding planner

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Hiring a local wedding planner can be a game-changer when planning a wedding abroad. They’ll help you create the perfect wedding itinerary and handle all the necessary logistics, so you can focus on simply enjoying your big day and being present in the moment.

A local wedding planner will have specialist knowledge of the area and wedding suppliers, and can help you navigate any language or cultural barriers. Let them serve as your personal directory of recommendations, from accommodations and restaurants, to activities and attractions.

4. Choose the right wedding dress and attire

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When it comes to deciding on your dress code, be sure to consider both the location and nature of your wedding. Depending on the destination, you might need to choose materials that are comfortable in the heat or cold, and shoes that are suitable for the terrain.

If you’re getting married on the beach or very hot country, consider wearing slip-on sandals or going barefoot for a more relaxed feel. If you’re getting married somewhere cold like Iceland, think long sleeves and plenty of warm layers you can change into if necessary.

5. Plan group and honeymoon activities

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An overseas wedding is a great opportunity to spend quality time with your guests. You can organise a rehearsal dinner or post-wedding lunch to extend the celebration and make a holiday of it. Plan group activities to create fun, memorable experiences. We recommend beach bonfires, water sports like snorkelling, hikes and day trips, or food and wine tastings.

Or plan activities for your honeymoon, to make the most of your flight tickets and journey! In fact, with honeymoons being a top splurge for newlyweds, combining your destination wedding with your honeymoon can be a great way to optimise both your budget and your time.

6. Don’t forget the legal details

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If you’re hoping to tie the knot in a foreign country, be prepared to navigate some legal requirements that might be different from what you’re used to in your home country.

  • Make sure your marriage or civil partnership is recognised by the law back home. This might involve getting certain licenses or translations of documents (for example, if you’re a Brit marrying abroad, a certificate of no impediment (CNI) from the UK government).
  • Make sure you follow all the necessary procedures in the country where you’re planning to get married abroad. You’ll need to reach out to the local authorities to learn what to do.

The bottom line is that you don’t want to get caught out by any legal technicalities that could put a damper on your big day. So be thorough with your research!

Planning a destination wedding requires a bit more effort than a traditional wedding at home, but the results can absolutely be worth it. By following these top tips, you’ll be well on your way to planning the destination wedding of your dreams with all of the joy and none of the stress.

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How Much Does a Wedding Cost? The 2023 UK Average

Want to know how much the average wedding costs this year? Introducing our UK Wedding Report 2023: our annual wedding industry study revealing year-on-year changes. This year, we surveyed almost 4,000 married and engaged couples, representing a mix of regions and demographics, to find out what couples like you are spending on. Time to start planning your own wedding budget

Average Cost of a Wedding in the UK

2022 was the year of the Corona Comeback. The lifting of pandemic restrictions saw the highest wedding spend ever! Average wedding spend grew by 15% to an all-time high, rising by £2,500 year-on-year to £19,184 (£24,069 including the ring and honeymoon). It goes to show that couples are prioritising their marriage, and not letting the economic climate impact their wedding spending.

Average Wedding Costs by Supplier Category

Average wedding spend increased in almost every category between 2021 and 2022. The most significant increase was in venue cost (£7,944 average, an increase of 20% vs 2021). We’ve put together a wedding cost breakdown below! These are the average supplier costs for UK weddings:

  • Average cost of a wedding venue – £7,944
  • Average cost of catering – £5,103 (with an average of 88 guests)
  • Average cost of a photographer – £1,357
  • Average cost of a videographer – £1,354
  • Average cost of hair and makeup – £657
  • Average cost of a florist – £1,114
  • Average cost of a wedding cake – £376
  • Average cost of a wedding dress – £1,424

If you’re looking to save money on your suppliers, savvy wedding planning is a must! Our top tip is to enquire to several suppliers to do more price comparisons.

Total Wedding Costs by Region

Couples spent nearly £10K (or 50%) more to marry in London (£29,085) compared to the national average (£19,184). That’s even more than marrying outside the UK, where the average cost is £25,525. Yorkshire and the Humber is the region with the lowest cost (£16,103), making it the most budget-friendly option. So, if you’re looking to save money, the location of your wedding matters!

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Total Wedding Costs by Day of the Week

Weekend weddings are the most expensive, with Saturday weddings costing £20,141 on average. Tuesday is the least costly option (costing £16,804 on average). So, if you’re on a budget and looking for a cheaper alternative, consider a midweek wedding. This can make a huge difference!

  • Monday – £17,327
  • Tuesday – £16,804
  • Wednesday – £17,505
  • Thursday – £17,898
  • Friday – £18,401
  • Saturday – £20,141
  • Sunday – £19,715
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Total Wedding Costs by Month of the Year

Wedding costs tend to be higher in the from June through September, with June weddings costing the most (£21,287). Costs are lowest in the winter, with February being the cheapest month to get married (£15,826), which is ideal if you’re trying to save on your wedding spending.

  • January – £16,179
  • February – £15,826
  • March – £19,200
  • April – £18,733
  • May – £18,174
  • June – £21,287
  • July – £20,369
  • August – £19,403
  • September – £20,620
  • October – £18,913
  • November – £17,270
  • December – £17,659
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Total Wedding Costs by Guest Count

It probably comes as no surprise that wedding spending is heavily influenced by the number of guests attending. The more guests you invite, the more your wedding will cost. Catering accounts for just over 1/5 of this. So, if you’re looking to cut costs, consider having fewer guests to feed!

  • 50 or fewer guests – £12,757
  • 51-100 guests – £18,757
  • 101-150 guests – £23,308
  • 151 or more guests – £29,709
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Top Wedding Spending Splurges

We found that couples are most likely to splurge on their honeymoon, followed by the wedding dress, venue and photographer. With beach honeymoons remaining the most popular honeymoon style (47% of couples married in 2022 chose a beach honeymoon), this is hardly surprising. The honeymoon splurge is heavily linked to the post-pandemic wedding boom and the fact that travel is back on the map. 2/3 of couples married in 2022 planned a honeymoon abroad, which represents a significant jump from 2021, when only 1/4 planned to go abroad.

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So, if you’re hoping to have a wedding in 2023, you’re looking at an average spend of £19,184, up £2,500 year-on-year. The average cost may be more or less depending on the region, day of the week, month of the year, and any optional splurges (for example, on a honeymoon overseas). For a more thorough category-by-category breakdown of the cost of UK wedding suppliers, check out our article on the ultimate wedding budget breakdown. And for a budget breakdown that’s tailored for you, look no further than Bridebook’s one-of-a-kind personalised wedding budget planner.

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Top 10 Locations For Your Destination Wedding

Couples are spending more on their weddings than ever, with destination weddings becoming increasingly popular. So it’s no surprise that couples are choosing to jet off to tie the knot in some of the most breathtaking and romantic settings across the world. If you’re planning an overseas wedding of your own, or looking for some travel ideas and inspiration for a honeymoon abroad, we’ve got you covered. Take a look at the top 10 destination wedding locations.

1. Santorini, Greece

With its beautiful beaches, picturesque villages, and stunning romantic sunsets, it’s no surprise that Santorini has become one of the top destinations for weddings. Whether you want an intimate elopement or an all-our grand celebration, you can exchange your vows amidst the rugged cliffs overlooking the turquoise waters of the Aegean Sea or against the backdrop of the island’s iconic white-washed buildings. There are many dreamy venue options to choose from. Think cliff-side chapels, beachfront restaurants or luxury boutique hotels. Santorini is also known for its excellent dining scene and world-renowned wine. This makes it ideal for a cultural wedding.

Santorini also makes for a convenient island wedding. It’s easily accessible from all major European cities, and offers a variety of transportation options (like direct flights, ferries, and private transfers).

2. Bali, Indonesia

This exotic island paradise is perfect for couples looking for a tropical destination wedding. Bali offers a range of stunning beaches and luxurious resorts, while the island’s unique culture and traditions make for an unforgettable experience. The natural scenery includes lush jungles, tranquil rice paddies, and white-sand beaches. This can provide a picturesque backdrop for gorgeous wedding photos, not to mention a breathtaking setting for a wedding ceremony. At the same time, the island’s traditional architecture, vibrant music and rich, colourful ceremonies, make for a fun and unique wedding experience for both you and your guests.

There’s a diverse range of wedding venues to choose from, no matter your budget or style. Think beachfront resorts, jungle retreats, and luxury villas. Bali also boasts a thriving wedding industry, so you can easily find all the services you need. There are plenty of experienced wedding planners, photographers, florists, and other wedding suppliers to help you make your wedding perfect.

3. Tuscany, Italy

Tuscany is a romantic and enchanting wedding destination in the very heart of Italy. With rolling hills, vineyards, and medieval towns, its picturesque landscapes provide a dreamy backdrop for some truly stunning wedding photos. There are also plenty of amazing venues to choose from, including historic villas, rustic farmhouses, and luxury resorts. And while you’re there, take advantage of the region’s rich cultural heritage. Explore its historic cities, art museums, and iconic cultural landmarks, from the Leaning Tower of Pisa to the Uffizi Gallery.

A Tuscan destination wedding can also offer a gourmet dining experience like no other – think fresh pasta, succulent meats, and world-class wines. It’s also easily accessible from all major cities in Europe, with a variety of transportation options, from direct flights to high-speed trains.

4. Maui, Hawaii

This popular Hawaiian island in the Pacific Ocean is home to some truly mesmerising scenery, including white-sand beaches, cascading waterfalls, and lush rainforests, making it the perfect setting for a picture-perfect wedding ceremony. The island’s unique culture – from its rich history to its vibrant music and uplifting, colourful traditions, can also make for an interesting and unique wedding experience. Plus, if you’re a couple who enjoys adventure and recreation, you can make the most of a range of outdoor activities, such as hiking, surfing and snorkeling.

When it comes to wedding venues, you can opt for a tropical beachfront resort, luxury villa, or charming garden estate. Maui is known for its warm and friendly hospitality, with a welcoming local community and experienced wedding suppliers who will make your big day unforgettable.

5. The French Riviera, France

The French Riviera is known for its glamorous lifestyle, charming towns, idyllic coastline, and elegant culture scene. This makes it a dreamy spot for a destination wedding. Its naturally romantic atmosphere can make for a truly memorable wedding experience. The French Riviera also enjoys a warm and sunny Mediterranean climate throughout the year, so it’s ideal if you’re looking to have a balmy outdoor wedding. And the wedding venues are unreal – think chateaus, historic villas and luxurious boutique hotels overlooking the Mediterranean Sea.

The French Riviera is also renowned for its regional and luxurious cuisine, so you and your guests can enjoy incredible food and drink before, during, and after your special day. Fresh seafood, locally-grown produce, and excellent fine wines – what’s not to love?

6. New York City, USA

For couples looking for a vibrant cosmopolitan experience, New York City is the perfect city destination for a wedding. The city boasts a range of stunning venues, including rooftop terraces, historic landmarks, and chic hotels. It’s also home to some of the world’s most iconic wedding locations, such as Central Park, the Empire State Building, the Brooklyn Bridge, and Times Square. This can provide an unforgettable backdrop for your special day.

As one of the most diverse cities in the world, you can draw on its rich cultural heritage (Jewish, Italian, Irish), and enjoy its bustling nightlife as pre- and post-wedding entertainment (Broadway shows, art galleries, restaurants, bars). And importantly, New York City boasts many world-class wedding suppliers, from caterers and photographers, to florists and dressmakers. This means you can easily find high-quality professionals to help make your big day perfect. If you’re inviting out-of-town guests too, the city’s extensive public transport and subway system is super convenient.

7. The Maldives

This island paradise isn’t just for a honeymoon abroad. It’s perfect if you want a luxurious yet secluded overseas wedding. As a remote and exotic location, the Maldives can offer a unique and intimate experience unlike most traditional wedding destinations. This is particularly great for couples who are looking for a little seclusion and privacy on their wedding day. It’s home to some of the most breathtaking natural scenery in the world. The pristine white-sand beaches, crystal-clear waters, and lush tropical foliage make it a truly romantic and picturesque destination.

The world-class hospitality is also noteworthy. Luxurious resorts offer a range of amazing amenities and services to make your big day special. Many have private beaches, romantic overwater villas, and excellent dining options. And there are plenty of pre- and post-wedding activities for you and your guests, from snorkeling and diving, to water sports and spa treatments.

8. Cape Town, South Africa

This vibrant and diverse city offers a beautiful and dramatic backdrop for a wedding. Tie the knot overlooking the city’s iconic Table Mountain or enjoy a natural vineyard wedding in the nearby Cape Winelands. Cape Town also enjoys a balmy Mediterranean climate, with mild winters and warm yet dry summers. This way, you can plan an outdoor wedding with confidence! The city itself is a melting pot of cultures, which you can incorporate into your own wedding. From the traditional music and dance, to the world-class cuisine, there’s something for everyone.

Whatever your budget or style, there’s a wide range of venues to choose from – elegant wine estates, beautiful beaches, chic boutique hotels. Cape Town offers a variety of activities for both couples and guests as well – from hiking and surfing to shark cage diving.

9. Caribbean Islands

The Caribbean islands offer a range of beautiful locations for a tropical wedding full of joy and sunshine. You can choose from a variety of islands (including Jamaica, the Dominican Republic, and Barbados) and enjoy the region’s stunning natural scenery and laid-back atmosphere. The fun and vibrant culture make for an exciting and celebratory wedding day, from the local music and dances, to the bold and flavourful cuisine. Plus, you can get married in some amazing venues, both high-end and affordable , from luxurious beach resorts to intimate guest houses.

The region’s year-round warm and sunny climate makes it ideal for a winter or outdoor wedding as well, or for couples who want to escape colder climates. The Caribbean islands are obviously a popular honeymoon destination too, so getting married there can provide a seamless transition into a romantic and relaxing honeymoon after the big day itself.

10. Reykjavik, Iceland

If you’re looking for a truly unique and unforgettable wedding, Iceland is the perfect destination. It is a land of breathtaking extremes and natural wonders, from magical ice caves and glaciers, to out-of-this-world geothermal hot springs and the famous Blue Lagoon spa. If you’re looking for a unique and unconventional wedding venue in a dramatic setting, then look no further. From hotels to churches, and concert halls to national parks, there’s something for every budget and taste. Iceland’s small population also means that weddings in Reykjavik are often small and intimate. This makes it a great option for couples who want a more low-key celebration.

If you’re adventurous types, you can also enjoy exciting outdoor activities such as hiking, glacier tours, and snowmobiling. Not to mention the Northern Lights…talk about a magical wedding night! Getting married in Iceland is simple and convenient, with minimal paperwork and legal requirements. And finally, unlike some other countries, same-sex marriage is welcome in Iceland – it’s in fact one of the top destinations in the world for gay weddings.

Destination weddings are an exciting and romantic way to tie the knot, and can be a great way to transition to your honeymoon. Whether it’s a beach wedding in Greece or Bali, a historic castle backdrop in Tuscany, an urban wedding in New York City, or a magical wedding in Iceland, there’s an idyllic destination for every budget and taste, whether you want a grand or intimate wedding.

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Gender-Neutral and Inclusive Wedding Terms

Pride Month is the perfect time to celebrate and acknowledge the contributions and struggles of the LGBTQ+ community. As society becomes more accepting and inclusive, wedding ceremonies are evolving to more accurately reflect the diversity of love and partnerships. An important part of that is using gender-neutral wedding terms to include and celebrate all couples. They’re not just for LGBTQ+ couples and individuals, but a great way to make sure everyone feels respected and comfortable, no matter their gender or pronouns or presentation. Most of the following gender-neutral terms aren’t made-up or new. They’re either derived from other terms, or words you probably already use and are familiar with.

Gender-neutral language: a definition

There’s a lot more diversity than just male and female, bride and groom, husband and wife, Mr and Mrs. Gender-neutral language simply means avoiding using these common binary terms, and using more inclusive options instead, like ‘partner’ or ‘couple’.

Mx

A gender-neutral alternative to the gender-specific titles of ‘Mr’, ‘Miss’, ‘Mrs’ and ‘Ms’, pronounced ‘mix’. This is useful for non-binary and gender-fluid individuals, and also in situations where the gender identity of a person either isn’t specified, or doesn’t need to be specified. It can also be applied to contexts outside of weddings and marriage. After all, gender-inclusive language isn’t limited to relationship talk alone, but can and should be used in all areas of modern life.

Nearlywed/Marrier/To-Be-Wed

All great non-gendered alternatives to ‘bride’ or ‘groom’, to describe those who are engaged and preparing for their wedding day. Use them either in the plural or singular, on everything from save-the-dates to invitations, as well as at engagement parties and pre-wedding photo shoots.

Newlywed(s)

The counterpart to newlyweds, used to describe newly married individuals after the wedding. It’s a widely used and familiar gender-neutral term that can replace ‘wife’ and ‘husband’.

Fiance

A gender-neutral term to describe someone you’re engaged to marry. This spelling removes the gendered association with the traditional spelling of “fiancé” (for a male) and “fiancée” (for a female), and is another great alternative to bride and groom.

Spouse

Spouse is like newlywed, but can refer to married individuals regardless of their gender or the time frame. A popular inclusive term both within and outside of the LGBTQ+ community.

Partner, couple, significant other, other half

These are all great (not to mention familiar) terms for talking about a person or people who are in a relationship without specifying their gender or sexual orientation. They can be used at any stage of a relationship, not just in the context of weddings or marriage. This makes them ideal alternatives not only to ‘bride’ and ‘groom’ or ‘husband’ and ‘wife’, but also to ‘boyfriend’ and ‘girlfriend’.

Partner A & Partner B

A gender-neutral alternative to ‘bride’ and ‘groom’ in situations where a couple needs to put down each of their names (such as on vendor intake forms and contracts).

Best Person/Person of Honour

You may have heard the terms ‘Best Woman’ or ‘Man of Honour’ in the context of non-traditional wedding party members. ‘Best Person’ or ‘Person of Honour’ are the gender-neutral alternatives. If you’re the couple, it’s a good idea to talk with your best friends and ask what term they would prefer for their role in your wedding – and to then respect their choice. After all, such important and distinguished members of the wedding party should feel supported and respected.

Wedding Attendants/Wedding Party Members

Non-gendered alternatives to the traditional terms of ‘bridesmaids’ and ‘groomsmen’, as well as the less traditional, but still gendered, ‘bridesmates’ and ‘groomsmaids’. This is both inclusive, and also gives the couple more flexibility and freedom over the choice of their wedding party members. These people are some of the most important in your wedding celebration, so it’s important to make sure they all feel equally represented and respected with the language you use.

Ring Bearer & Flower Child/Flower Person

The traditional ‘ring bearer’ is already naturally gender-neutral. ‘Flower child’ or ‘flower person’ are both inclusive and non-gendered alternatives to the traditionally gendered ‘flower girl’. Both give the couple more freedom over which children to include in their wedding proceedings. They also let the children themselves identify as whichever gender they wish.

Primary Bouquet/Main Bouquet

An inclusive alternative to bridal bouquet, carried by one of the nearlyweds. If both nearylweds are carrying bouquets, use Partner A and Partner B terminology to refer to whose are whose.

Bachelorx

‘Bachelorx’ falls within the same group as ‘bachelor’ and ‘bachelorette’, pronounced ‘bachelor-ex’. It describes a person who is unmarried and has never been married. The suffix ‘x’ eliminates the gendered associations and makes the term more inclusive. Similarly, call any pre-wedding party with wedding attendants a bachelorx or bach party, instead of bachelor or bachelorette party.

Wedding Shower

A non-gendered way of referring to the pre-wedding event where family and friends can shower the couple with presents from their gift list in anticipation of the big day.

Wedding Suite

A non-gendered alternative to the traditional bridal suite. This is the room (or rooms) in the wedding venue where the wedding party can get ready and prepare for the ceremony.

Wedding Outfit/Wedding Gown/Wedding Boutique

A gender-neutral alternative to saying ‘bride’s dress’ or ‘groom’s suit’, to describe the gown or outfit worn on the wedding day by either one of the couple. ‘Wedding boutique’ is similarly a great swap for ‘bridal boutique’, as it removes any gendered associations with wedding outfit shopping.

Celebrant

An inclusive and non-gendered term for a person who performs and officiates a wedding ceremony, regardless of their religious, spiritual or secular background.

Head Table/Table #1

A non-gendered, non-patriarchal and apolitical alternative to the King’s Table (the focal-point table where the couple sits with their closest family and wedding party members).

Swap out gendered language for these inclusive alternatives to celebrate and respect all couples and individuals, regardless of their gender or sexuality. It’s a great way to recognise the diversity of love and partnerships around us. Of course, if gendered language feels authentic to the couple or individual, there’s nothing wrong with using it! But in broad descriptions, it’s important not to make generalisations and assumptions which might exclude members of the LGBTQ+ community.

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Supplier Showcase: Top LGBTQ+ Wedding Experts

In recent years, more and more wedding suppliers have stepped up to be inclusive and welcoming to all couples, regardless of their sexual orientation or gender identity. But finding the perfect LGBTQ+ wedding supplier can be challenging. That’s why we’ve shortlisted our top LGBTQ+ wedding experts – suppliers who are going the extra mile to make sure all couples feel celebrated and supported on their special day. From venues and photographers to florists and cakemakers, these suppliers offer a range of options to fit every couple’s style and vision.

Chapel House Estate

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Chapel House Estate is designed with love-filled celebrations in mind. With an orchard and rustic indoor barn for licenced ceremonies, plus a purpose-built barn, on-site accommodation and restaurant, it’s a dreamy venue for every couple. And every couple is treated with respect from the beginning. All communication is about “partners” until couples share their pronouns, and couples can enjoy a truly individual-led approach (check out their cultural and diversity statement to learn more). 

Laura Bareham Photography 

Photo © Laura Bareham Photography

Laura Bareham Photography is proudly queer-owned and always inclusive. She offers emotive storytelling for free-spirited couples who want to break free of expectation and tradition. In her own words: “Being queer myself, I understand how important it is to work with wedding suppliers that you feel safe and comfortable with. I’m deeply committed to and passionate about inclusivity, and this is visible in all areas of the service I provide.” Laura takes part in regular training, webinars, accreditations to further her LGBTQ+ wedding expertise. She also takes care around wording and terminology, and puts great focus on making sure couples feeling safe and comfortable.

Berwick Lodge

Photo © Berwick Lodge

Berwick Lodge is a privately owned and independently managed boutique wedding venue, set on the outskirts of Bristol within 18 acres of beautiful gardens. They’re proud to be a gay and lesbian friendly wedding venue with extensive experience in LGBTQ+ wedding ceremonies and receptions. Their dedicated team will work with you to create a truly unique wedding day, that you can personalise and tailor to you. Great food, great service, and a warm and friendly atmosphere. If you want something more low-key and intimate, they offer a stress-free elopement package as well.

Bake To The Future

Photo © Florence Berry Photography

Bake To The Future  is an award-winning cake company based in Ashford, Kent. They specialise in cakes with personality, geeky and alternative designs to truly reflect each couple’s uniqueness! Their founder and baker, Lou, is a member of the LGBTQ+ community herself. In her own words: “I ensure that everything I put out is inclusive, and spend a lot of time speaking to my couples at their consultations and hearing their stories. I don’t specifically use ‘bride’ and ‘groom’ wording, as I’m very mindful that not every wedding even has a bride.”

Broadoaks Country House

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Broadoaks Country House Broadoaks is an award-winning, exclusive-use Lake District wedding venue set in seven acres of beautifully landscaped gardens with views across to Windermere. It’s the ideal fairy tale venue – voted one of the most romantic wedding venues in the UK by the AA. For the past few years now, they’ve been the no. 1 gay venue in Cumbria for both weddings and civil partnerships, with an experienced team who have organised, catered and delivered some truly memorable wedding days. Plus, they’re gay-owned – which they say makes a huge difference, as they understand how difficult the journey has been to get this far.

Queen Bea Photography

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Queen Bea Photography specialises in relaxed, natural and fun wedding photography for easygoing couples. The founder and owner, Genevieve, is open to the fact that she identifies as LGBTQ+, and has gone through the wedding process herself. In her own words: “I’m a member of the LGBTQ+ community, so being inclusive is very important to me. I also know exactly what obstacles queer couples can go through when planning their wedding as I’ve been there myself (my wife and I have been married for five years).” There’s a specific page on her website devoted to LGBTQ+ weddings, and her portfolio showcases a wide variety of different couples. Genevieve has also taken the Wedding Business School’s LGBTQ+ Awareness Course, to further her LGBTQ+ wedding expertise.

Crown Hall Farm

Photo © Crown Hall Farm

A unique LGBTQ+ friendly lakeside wedding venue set within three acres of stunning grounds, Crown Hall Farm is perfect for same-sex couples looking to tie the knot. The supportive event team will work with you every step of the way to make your big day as individual as you are. You can completely customise your wedding, making it personal to you as a couple, and don’t have to keep to tradition. The venue itself boats a characterful boat house, 20ft cocktail bar boat and luxury marquee with tiled floor, plus climate control and panoramic views.

Bella Sposa Bridal Boutique

Photo © Bella Sposa Bridal Boutique

Bella Sposa Bridal Boutique is home to designer wedding gowns, occasion wear and accessories. They’re proud to be fully LGBTQ+ welcoming. Most notable is their Diverse Collection – a carefully curated range featuring a wide selection of wedding outfits for those couples who are seeking something other than the traditional. From jumpsuits and playsuits, to overskirts and differently coloured dresses, there’s something for everyone. In the words of owner Cassandra: “We believe in loving without limits. It’s all about finding the wedding attire that makes you feel your best.” The boutique also provides LGBTQ+ colleagues and allies with opportunities to connect, and works alongside LGTBQ+ charities and community groups. They’re committed to meaningful, year-round action. 

Hedsor House

Photo © Hedsor House

Hedsor House is an idyllic location for weddings and civil ceremonies. It’s an award-winning luxury country house wedding venue, set within 100 acres of historic parkland and Grade II listed gardens in Buckinghamshire, 45 minutes from London. It’s reputation as one of the most impressive wedding venues in the country comes as no surprise, and it was voted by Brides Magazine as the no. 1 wedding venue in Buckinghamshire. Most importantly, it prides itself on being a completely open, welcoming and inclusive venue. Any couple who wishes to celebrate and mark their love is welcome at Hedsor. Their talented wedding team are experienced in organising same-sex wedding celebrations, and will be with you every step of the way to bring your ideas to life.

4YaParty Weddings and Events

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4YaParty Weddings and Events specialises in rustic and eco-friendly weddings. They can supply a complete venue styling service, as well as wonderful sweet treats and props. They’re proud to be members of the Gay Wedding Directory, and to have diversity and inclusivity at its core. In the words of owner Mercedes: “At 4YaParty Weddings & Events, diversity and inclusivity aren’t just important, but are one of the main foundations that our small business is grown on. Being bi-sexual myself, I understand too well the importance of feeling safe and being seen. I make sure all couples feel safe by asking and using their correct pronouns, not making assumptions and ensuring that my love and support for the LGBTQ+ community is loud and clear so that they don’t feel the need to ask here. I have taken an LGBTQ+ awareness course and proudly display this badge on my website and socials and am very open about my own sexuality.”

Kings Place

Photo © Kings Place

Kings Place is a modern waterside venue with picturesque views of Regents Canal – the perfect backdrop for an urban LGTBQ+ wedding. The Battlebridge Room is fully licensed for wedding ceremonies and boasts floor to ceiling windows overlooking Regent’s Canal, plus an exclusive, private covered terrace. From organising bespoke entertainment, food, decoration, and everything in between, the flexibility of Kings Place’s spaces and dedicated team means you can have every detail tailored to you. One of their most recent weddings was a same-sex air travel-themed Jew-ish Wedding, featuring everything from the most beautiful bespoke Chuppah to being walked down the aisle with bag pipes and finishing their day with a surprise drag act for everyone to enjoy.

Proud Fox Ceremonies By Martin Fox-Roberts

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Proud Fox Ceremonies By Martin Fox-Roberts specialises in crafting bespoke and personal wedding ceremonies that truly reflect each couple’s uniqueness. A celebrant-led wedding means couples have the freedom to choose the style, time, length and location of their ceremony, and to then personalise it with whatever vows, poems, speeches, rituals or theme they might like. Martin provides a safe space for LGBTQ+ couples by having a Safe Space Statement, being aware of the language used in things like consultations and forms, and displaying images of LGBTQ+ couples. In his own words, “being visible as an openly gay person” also means that Martin knows how to serve the community as a member of that community, and ensures that everything he does is meaningful and impactful. 

Parklands Quendon Hall

Photo © Parklands Quendon Hall

Parklands Quendon Hall is the perfect fairy tale wedding venue for same-sex couples to marry in and celebrate their special day. Their same-sex marriages and civil ceremonies are completely customisable, so you can choose the readings and music to best reflect your personalities and relationship. The venue itself is set in beautifully landscaped gardens and natural deer park, while their exclusive-use Georgian manor house can accommodate anywhere from 40 to 140 guests. It’s the perfect balance of elegance and grandeur, with a relaxed, inclusive, and welcoming feel.

The Bloom Room

Photo © The Bloom Room

The Bloom Room prides itself on being completely couple-led, whether you’re after bohemian, wild blooms, or something more manicured and precise. Founder Lottie is openly LGBTQ+ herself. She believes that working on individual, personal celebrations of love is what makes us truly happy. In her own words: “We are a truly inclusive business. We have supplied flowers to LGBTQ+ couples in the past and have future weddings for LGBTQ+ couples to look forward to. We use inclusive language on our website, in emails and in person and don’t assume gender or the flowers anyone would like for their wedding. Everyone should be free to celebrate their love how they want and we should as suppliers support and encourage that no matter what!”

Siobhan Davies Studios

Photo © Siobhan Davies Studios

Nestled just beyond London’s South Bank, Siobhan Davies Studios provides the perfect venue for an LGBTQ+ wedding ceremony and/or wedding reception in South London. Housed in a converted Victorian school, the contemporary arts space creates a unique balance between old and new design that makes it a fun and versatile space to suit your unique style and vision. The studios hold a wedding and civil partnership licence so can provide a beautiful location for your ceremony and reception. They cater for all weddings and are proud to be a gay-friendly wedding venue and provide a warm and welcoming space for same-sex marriages.

Atelier Weddings

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Atelier Weddings offers a brilliant range of customisable planning services, from full-service to partial to on-the-day. For LGBTQ+ couples in particular, they provide resources and referrals to LGBTQ+ friendly suppliers, as well as information and guidance on potential legal and financial challenges. Founder Kelly understands that each couple is unique and deserves a bespoke celebration that reflects their individual style and personality. In her own words: “At our business, we are committed to creating a safe, supportive, and inclusive environment for all couples, regardless of their sexual orientation or gender identity. We understand that LGBTQ+ couples may face unique concerns and challenges while planning their wedding, and we take steps to address and overcome these challenges.” 

The Mill Barns

Photo © The Mill Barns

The Mill Barns is a purpose-built barn wedding venue like no other, featuring exclusive use of three magnificent oak-framed wedding barns, luxury onsite accommodation, mesmerising water features, and eight acres of mature landscaped gardens. But it’s not just a grand and impressive venue. There is endless opportunity for personalisation, which we know is so important especially to LGBTQ+ couples. The lovely events team will facilitate and encourage all your wedding ideas and plans, both in person and via their wedding planner. There is also a completely flexible same-sex wedding day schedule, which will accommodate every couple’s requirements. So if you want to structure your day slightly differently to meet both of your needs, there are various bespoke schedule options.

Elderflower & Fern

Photo © Elderflower & Fern

Elderflower & Fern provides bespoke floral preservation services for wedding bouquets, so you can transform your gorgeous blooms into sentimental works of art. Founder Lorna is a proud member of the LGBTQ+ community as a bisexual woman, and has helped preserve wedding bouquets from both LGBTQ+ and straight couples! Inclusivity is central to her ethos: “I make sure all of my language on my website and through the booking process, as well as on social media, is inclusive towards not just ‘bride’ and ‘groom’ couples but all couples.”

The Monastery Manchester

Photo © The Monastery Manchester

The Monastery Manchester proudly celebrates love of all genders and colours, and has always welcomed LGBTQ+ weddings. Featuring unique and inspiring Grade II listed buildings, it provides a breathtaking historic backdrop for your special day. It’s 10 minutes from the city centre – great for guests visiting Manchester and well placed if you want to carry on the party in the Gay Village. Plus, every booking goes towards supporting local community projects, including The African Rainbow Family, who support LGBTQ+ people of African and BAME heritage seeking asylum in the UK.

Yasmina Nadine Photography

Photo © Yasmina Nadine Photography

Yasmina Nadine Photography specialises in documentary wedding photography with a focus on storytelling that’s candid and unobtrusive. As a member of the LGBTQ+ community herself, Yasmina explains: “I am actively and visibly supportive in all aspects of my life, not just for the purposes of gaining work.” She uses inclusive language on forms and emails, always asks for pronouns, and is visibly inclusive on her website and social media.

Tower Hill Barns

Photo © Tower Hill Barns

Tower Hill Barns is an inclusive wedding venue set amongst idyllic grounds in North Wales, with rustic barn vibes that offer a unique, fresh and fun atmosphere for your special day. They facilitate and celebrate same-sex marriages and civil partnership ceremonies, as well as celebrant led or humanist ceremonies. From walking down the aisle together, to swapping the usual readings for something unique, to getting ready in the same dressing room, they’ve got you covered. You can also count on them to help you showcase your LGBTQ+ pride on your wedding day in both subtle and not-so-subtle ways (think rainbow kicks and multi-coloured smoke bombs).

Linda Keys

Photo © Linda Keys

Linda Keys is a warm, inclusive celebrant who loves to work with all kinds of beautiful couples. She promises to deliver a ceremony that is truly personal and joyful, helping your select whichever readings and music you like and craft vows that are unique and meaningful to you and your partner. She is also a true LGBTQ+ wedding expert. In her own words: “I have built my business and created all my resources with the LGBTQ+ community in mind. Anybody I work with should feel completely represented, accepted, celebrated, and seen. This has never been something I have had to introduce, as it is fundamental to my values and has been since my childhood.  We have a whole module within our celebrant training which covers inclusive practice and diversity awareness.”

The Wellbeing Farm

Photo © The Wellbeing Farm

The Wellbeing Farm isn’t just a fun, unique and sustainable farm-based wedding venue, but also one committed to diversity and inclusion. They’re proud to be featured on the same-sex wedding guide, offering a safe environment for same-sex couples to get married in, along with having a very supporting team. They also hold a “PRIDE” themed wedding fair every year, specifically with LGBTQ+ couples in mind. These fairs always involve collaboration with LGBTQ+ suppliers, to ensure the experience is as fun, safe and open to LGBTQ+ couples as possible.

AJ Feather Photography

Photo © AJ Feather Photography

AJ Feather Photography loves to tell beautiful stories through thoughtful and authentic imagery, and believes that each wedding is unique to you. In the words of founder and owner Arienne: “I want everyone to feel comfortable when using my photography business. No one should feel shy to tell me who they are or how they want to be identified as. Love is love. I have spent a lot of time educating myself and doing online courses to leave how to make people feel more inclusive. I introduce myself as she/her to everyone so no one is left out and I even have a badge on my work bag so people can see I am inclusive. I love everyone and I want everyone to feel themself around me.”

There you have our top LGBTQ+ wedding expert suppliers for couples who want to celebrate their love in a safe and accepting environment. Whether you’re looking for a grand and formal affair or a more intimate and relaxed celebration, there’s a supplier out there that’s perfect for you.

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14 Romantic Wedding Ideas Inspired by Valentine’s Day

Valentine’s Day is a celebration of love, which makes it a dreamy choice for a wedding. But when it comes to incorporating romantic ideas into your big day, there’s a fine line between classic and cheesy! Less is often more! That’s why we’ve put together 14 unique romantic wedding ideas inspired by Valentine’s Day, featuring real couples and our amazing Bridebook suppliers. Whether you’re planning a special Valentine’s Day wedding, or simply looking for some romantic ideas to share with your partner, we hope you’ll find plenty of inspiration here!

1. Incorporate a romantic theme

Photo © Ashley Hemsley Photography | See their Bridebook profile

Follow a heart theme as an obvious nod to Valentine’s Day in your decor, cake design and stationery. You can carry it out in all the little details, from your napkins to your icing to your invitations. To make more of a statement, consider smoke bombs, or smoke flares. They’ll add so much drama to your couple portraits, and a super fun pop to your day. This romantic shot by Ashley Hemsley Photography is a great example: “A little bit of help from the red arrows created this stunning heart smoke shape”. There are also various alternatives to hearts: love birds, cupid’s arrows, love locks, XOXOs, love knots, love letters, the infinity symbol, and love trees.

2. Create a romantic ambience with lighting

Photo © Jennifer West Photography | See their Bridebook profile

Work with your photographer, or a lighting company, to create romantic shapes with light (whether outside, or as a dramatic ceiling pattern). This shot by Jennifer West Photography is particularly striking and romantic. We love the multi-coloured neon sign and heart-shaped light trails. According to the photographer: “The evening was warm and balmy and as the music filled the air, Luke and Kirsty say it was one of the most special memories of their wedding.”

3. Recreate a scene from a famous romantic movie

Photo © Heather Bailey Photography and Film | See their Bridebook profile

Why not recreate a romantic scene from your favourite romantic movie? We love this photo, captured by Heather Bailey Photography and Film, which recalls Noah and Allie’s iconic boat ride in ‘The Notebook’. What a fun and dreamy romantic wedding idea! Though, according to the photographer herself, it was quite an anxiety-provoking shot to capture: “In reality, I’m not sure who was more anxious – my couple, who worried about capsizing the relatively small boat, or me, the photographer leaning over a high balcony with my camera just begging to fall in the water!”

4. Take inspiration from nature

Photo © John Price Photography | See their Bridebook profile

Taking inspiration from nature and animals for your wedding can be a creative and unique way to add an subtle romantic touch to your big day. Consider a romantic silhouette shot like this one captured by John Price Photography: “The bride and groom requested an evening sunset silhouette shot. I noticed two real swans posing perfectly just slightly apart – and had to edit and bring them in together to form the perfect heart.” There are many other romantic animals that can inspire a magical Valentine’s-inspired atmosphere. For example, doves and wild horses, or butterflies (which symbolise transformation), and dolphins (which embody playfulness).

5. Roll out the roses

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Use rose petals in your bouquet, or consider a unique heart-shaped bouquet. You can also feature roses throughout your tablescape, or have them as wedding favours. For striking and unique floral designs that are inspired by the seasons, check out Tide Flowers. Ethical florist, Cat Allen, will personally guide you through the whole process to create the dreamiest floral displays.

6. Say it with the sweet stuff

Photo © Rhubarb Hospitality Collection | See their Bridebook profile

Sweets and chocolate are among the highlights of Valentine’s Day. After all, it’s not just about the love and romance, but also the fun and indulgence! Set up a sweet buffet or dessert station at your wedding reception, like this one by Rhubarb Hospitality Collection, or go with a funfair and candyfloss theme. For fun sweet station reception ideas, consider a doughnut wall, popcorn bar, S’mores station, cupcake and cookie tower, macaron bar, or mini desert shots.

7. Say it with signage

Photo © Anesta Broad Photography | See their Bridebook profile

Celebrate the theme of love with a large LOVE sign at the entrance to your reception, or in your ballroom as a romantic backdrop to your first dance. We love this dreamy shot, captured by Anesta Broad Photography, of the happy couple dancing: “It’s the happiness of the couple, the delight of the guests in the background and the beautiful setting at Blake Hall that makes this photo feel special. It is a beautiful moment.” For something more subtle, consider dotting some smaller signs around your venue, like near the bar or the sign-in table, featuring romantic love-inspired quotes.

8. Get creative with your catering

Photo © The Full Spoon | See their Bridebook profile

Carry your Valentine’s Day theme into your food by asking your catering team to get creative with colour and shapes and finishing touches. From heart-shaped garnishes to heart-shaped skewers, to a colour palette of pinks and reds, there are so many ways to enjoy a special romantic wedding meal. What’s important is to hire wedding caterers who specialise in creating bespoke, innovative dishes. We particularly love The Full Spoon, who are experts in creating original, personal menus.

9. Create a signature cocktail

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Create a signature cocktail for the occasion with ingredients that are symbolic of love, like champagne and strawberries, or with known aphrodisiacs, like chocolate and chilli. Or go one further, and create little puns to accompany your cocktails, for example, “Love Potion” or ‘Cupid’s Cocktails”). This will give your drinks a romantic and whimsical vibe. For expertly hand-mixed, bespoke cocktails, we highly recommend Fabulous Fizz Bar. They’ll create a bespoke menu for you to fit the style and theme of your wedding, whether that’s Valentine’s Day or something more personal. You can even have your signature cocktails renamed to further personalise them.

10. Romanticise your wedding entertainment

Photo © Smartpicsuk Photo Booth | See their Bridebook profile

Delight your partner and guests with some Valentine’s-inspired entertainment. For example, you can exchange love notes with your partner before the wedding ceremony, or ask the Maid of Honour and Best Man to write an original love poem for the bride and groom to read out during the speeches. Other ideas include splashing out on a themed photo booth with props that are inspired by love and Valentine’s Day. We particularly love Smartpicsuk Photo Booth: in addition to your choice of background for the images, you can also choose the design and text on the prints to compliment the style and theme of your wedding and create something that is truly unique.

11. Hand out Valentines-inspired gifts

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Surprise your partner with a sentimental gift like a locket or custom-made piece of jewellery before the ceremony, or treat your guests to special heart-shaped favours with a sweet note. Heart-shaped cookies and cake-pops work well, or chocolate-dipped strawberries presented in a cute bag. Quintessential Cookies & Cakes create gorgeous bespoke cookie wedding favours, that can be personalised to you and your special day. Celebration cakes, macarons, cupcakes, cake-pops and mini doughnuts are also available, and will make stylish, memorable and delicious gifts!

12. Use a special romantic wedding hashtag

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Over 55% of couples incorporate a wedding hashtag into their big day, so why not create a special Valentine’s-inspired one? Include it on your save-the-dates, invitations or even cocktail napkins, so everyone can get tagging and tweeting those romantic photos and mobile phone footage!

13. Have a romantic meal

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Instead of the usual breakfast in bed, why not try something a little more romantic? Set up a table for two with a candlelit breakfast, or have a special breakfast delivered to the bridal suite. Alternatively, end the day with a special dinner at a romantic restaurant like on date night. For a luxury catering experience like no other, look no further than Lettice Events. From delicate canapés to feasting tables to midnight treats, they have the perfect recipe for a romantic wedding day.

14. Have a special exit

Photo © The Real Flower Petal Confetti Company | See their Bridebook profile

For a twist on the classic confetti shower, have a romantic Valentine’s-inspired exit with a shower of real rose petals. The Real Flower Petal Confetti Company specialises in beautiful, natural, biodegradable flower petals, handpicked and mixed to your bespoke requirements – perfect for a romantic themed wedding! You can effortlessly create a mixture to suit your style and theme. There’s a large range of other accessories too, including personalised confetti cones and sachets, pretty paper envelopers, flower girl baskets, and handmade wedding horseshoes.

These 14 romantic wedding ideas are sure to make your wedding day extra special and memorable, whether it’s on Valentine’s Day itself or not! Let us know your favourites in the comments!

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50 Wedding Gift Ideas 2023 for Every Budget

Whether you’re an engaged couple looking for cool ideas for your wedding gift list, or a guest wanting to source an extra special present, you’ve come to the right place! We’ve compiled a list of 50 unique and thoughtful wedding gift ideas that are sure to make any couple smile. From bespoke, personalised presents, to unforgettable gift experiences, there’s something for everyone – homebodies, foodies, art lovers, adrenaline junkies and more! Read on for the full list.

Wedding Gift Experiences

1. Theatre tickets to The Lion King for two – £144, Virgin Experience Days

For a spectacular theatrical experience like no other, look no further than Disney’s multi award-winning musical. It’ll make an ideal post-wedding date night for the couple.

2. A weekend getaway at The Bird (Bath, Hotel) – £290, Virgin Experience Days

Treat the couple to a two-night winter stay with breakfast at The Bird in Bath. The’ll stay in a cosy king room nestled just a short saunter from Bath’s main attractions.

3. A sunrise air balloon ride – £260, Virgin Experience Days

Let the couple take to the skies together from one of over 100 locations across the UK. They’ll see the sunrise from an unforgettable new perspective aboard one of Virgin’s iconic red balloons.

4. A wine tasting minibreak – £142, Virgin Experience Days

A tranquil one-night countryside break with a vineyard tour and wine tasting at Chapel Down Winery, featuring fine wines and picturesque views. Perfect for wine- and nature-loving couples.

5. A spa gift card – £250, Champneys Health Spa

With a gift card from Champneys, the couple can choose their own path to relaxation and rejuvenation. At-home products, tension-relieving treatment, or a complete romantic spa break!

6. A Russian spa experience for two – £150, Banya No.1

Tucked away in Shoreditch, Banya No.1 offers an authentic take on the Russian Spa. This 3-hour couple-friendly session comes complete with a private booth and table at the lounge cafe.

7. A gourmet dinner at a fancy restaurant – £250, Gordon Ramsay Restaurants

For the ultimate foodie wedding gift, give the couple a very special London dining experience. Treat them to an exquisite six-course tasting menu at Gordon Ramsay’s Michelin starred Pétrus.

8. A two-hour cooking class – £128, The Jamie Oliver Cookery School

Led by professional chefs, this hands-on two-hour course at The Jamie Oliver Cookery School is perfect for newlyweds. From Indian feasts to pasta masterclasses, the choice is theirs.

9. A kintsugi pottery class for beginners – £100, Class Bento

Give the couple the Japanese art of kintsugi at this unique London pottery class. They’ll each get to create a beautiful ceramic piece to take home with them and treasure.

10. A how-to-draw art class for beginners – £190, City Academy

A fun yet educational one-day beginners’ art class, perfect for the creatively-minded couples out there. They’ll have fun expressing themselves while developing their drawing technique.

Personalised Wedding Gifts

11. A personalised wedding guestbook – £35, Stori

What better way to commemorate the big day than with Stori’s personalised book-bound guestbook? You can collect everyone’s best wishes for the happy couple to share with them.

12. A bespoke wedding venue line drawing – £42, Letterfest

Letterfest’s wedding venue portrait is personalised with the couple’s names and wedding details in a handwritten font below. It’s a stylish illustration that makes the perfect wedding gift.

13. A personalised cheese board/serving platter – £27, The Rustic Dish

We love this personalised cheese board, which doubles as a serving board. Why not include some of the couple’s favourite cheeses in the mix for an extra special wedding gift?

14. A personalised silver plated photo frame – £20, Engravers Guild

A classic silver plated photo frame will keep the couple’s happy memories safe year after year. You can engrave it with a message of your choice for a very personal wedding gift.

15. Personalised date night cards – £18, Not On The High Street

These British-made personalised date night cards are a cheap but thoughtful wedding gift. With 52 surprise activities, both indoor and outdoor, the couple can spend exciting quality time together.

16. Personalised Mr and Mrs mug set – £25, Not On The High Street

These ceramic Mr and Mrs mugs can be printed with the couple’s surnames and wedding date. They’ll remember their wedding every time they have their morning coffee or afternoon tea!

17. Personalised Mr and Mrs indoor doormat – £22.50, Not On The High Street

This doormat can be personalised with the couple’s married names (Mr & Mrs / Mr & Mr / Mrs & Mrs) and their wedding date . A personal and welcoming introduction to their home!

18. A set of personalised kitchen aprons – £40, Not On The High Street

These high quality aprons are made of pure cotton and can be personalised with any name or message. A unique wedding gift for couples who love to cook or bake.

19. Personalised embroidered heart couples dressing gown – £40, Sparks and Daughters

This beautiful cotton dressing gown set makes a lovely personalised wedding gift (or cotton anniversary present). The couple can wear them after a bath or when relaxing at home together.

20. A hand-poured personalised candle – £20, Kindred Fires

This hand-poured natural soy wax candle, encased in frosted glass, makes a charming keepsake wedding gift. It can be personalised with the couple’s name, wedding date and a happy message.

Wedding Gifts for the Home

21. Matching Manon throw and cushion covers – £170, The White Company

This cosy and tactile lambswool-blend collection comes in a classic basket weave. It’s an all-seasons knit sure to bring comfort and joy to the recently married couple’s new home.

22. A classic cast iron Le Creuset casserole dish – £329, Le Creuset

You can’t go wrong with a classic Le Creuset dish – it’s great for one-pot wonders, and will last the couple a lifetime. We particularly love this limited-edition romantic hearts design.

23. A pink glass desk & table lamp – £198, Oliver Bonas

This handmade curved glass lamp from Oliver Bonas is the perfect way to lighten and brighten a couple’s new home. Its pink marbled design is unique to each piece.

24. A set of pink champagne flutes by Maison Balzac – £65, Liberty

These lovely pink glass champagne flutes are sure to elevate the couple’s dining display. They also offer the perfect excuse for using up any leftover bubbly from a Champagne Tower!

25. Vera Wang for Wedgwood Love Knots tealight holders – John Lewis, £52

These classic tealight holders make a beautiful, timeless wedding gift. It’s a great choice if you’re looking for a thoughtful wedding gift that combines functionality with style.

26. Capiz wall flower decoration – £78, Anthropologie

This gleaming wall flower, made from handcrafted capiz shells, is sure to give the newlyweds’ walls a touch of glamourous charm. A special piece to remind them of their special day.

27. A ceramic indoor hanging pot trio – £22.99, Hortology

These adorable baby dotty hanging pots are ideal for those green-thumbed couples who don’t have much outdoor space. They’re perfect for hanging herbs or little succulents in the kitchen.

28. A pack of 7 essentials gallery frame – £50, Dunelm

Let the couple show off their wedding photos with this set of black on-trend photo frames. To make their gift extra special, print seven of their favourite wedding day shots and put them in the frames.

29. The original Scratch Map – £20.95, Luckies of London

For couples who love to travel, the original Scratch Map is the perfect affordable wedding gift. Each country scratched off will symbolise a new adventure together, and look great on their wall too!

30. A leather memory box – £229, Life of Riley

This leather memory box is a nifty way for the newlyweds to their precious memorabilia and letters. Styled like a classic treasure chest, it’s a lovely keepsake wedding gift for the home.

Luxury Wedding Gifts

31. A luxury all-in-one wedding day hamper – £160, Fortnum & Mason

This joy-giving wedding hamper is filled with all sorts of celebration-ready goodies. From bubbles to tea to chocolates, everything was created with happy couples in mind.

32. The Velvetiser (white edition) – £99.95, Hotel Chocolat

This indulgent in-home hot chocolate machine is perfect for newlyweds. Let them enjoy a barista-grade drink as part of their morning ritual, or curl up on the sofa with a velvety cup in the evening.

33. Wedding Bells biscuit tin – £48, Biscuiteers

This Wedding Bells collection features an irresistible assortment of wedding-themed lemon biscuits in a keepsake tin. You can even personalise the heart biscuit with a message for the happy couple.

34. A Panasonic bread maker – £199.99, John Lewis

For couples who love creative yet hassle-free baking, look no further than an automatic bread maker. They can enjoy fresh bread and cakes every day without sacrificing quality time.

35. A year of flowers – £240, Bloom and Wild

Brighten up the couple’s home with a year-long flower subscription. Whether they choose the flowers themselves, or prefer to be sent a surprise, they’ll have a fresh delivery every 28 days.

36. The Adventure Challenge book (couples edition) – £49, The Adventure Challenge

The Adventure Challenge book will keep the couple’s date nights fresh and exciting year after year. Each new adventure is a mystery until it’s scratched off, making for unforgettable experiences!

37. Name twin stars gift – £69, World Star Registry

For a special and unique wedding gift, let the happy couple name their own stars. They’ll get matching certificates showing their stars’ co-ordinates, which they can track each night in real-time!

38. The Luxury Retreat Hamper – £179, The Newt in Somerset

Let the couple relive their honeymoon experience with a touch of at-home hotel luxury. The Luxury Retreat Hamper contains everything newlyweds need for a cosy yet indulgent night in together.

39. A bespoke wine subscription – from £36/month, The Grape Reserve

If you know the couple enjoys a drink or two, consider a monthly wine subscription gift. Each curated monthly selection comes with tasting notes, as well as a complementary recipe.

40. A projector for two – from £399.99

Give the couple a cinema experience on the go, with Anker’s Nebula Capsule portable projector. They can enjoy a romantic night watching movies together under the stars anywhere in the world.

Useful Wedding Gifts

41. The Ultimate Travel List – £19.99, Lonely Planet

Lonely Planet’s bestselling Ultimate Travel List is a must-have coffee table book for couples who love to travel. It ranks the world’s greatest places to visit, featuring 200+ awe-inspiring photos.

42. A large carry-on suitcase – £394, Monos

Monos’ award-winning, honeymoon-friendly suitcases will last the couple a lifetime, and come in 10 gorgeous colours. Their largest check-in case is perfect for a few weeks away in the sun.

43. The Couple’s Cookbook: Recipes for Newlyweds – £20, Cole and Kiera Photography

Written by husband and wife wedding photographer duo, Cole and Kiera Stipovich, The Couple’s Cookbook: Recipes for Newlyweds is a lovely primer for newlyweds starting their first home together. From easy weeknight meals to beautiful weekend brunches to dinner party delights, this is a fun, playful and useful wedding gift that will keep on giving.

44. A high and low parallettes set – £119.95, Mirafit

Help the sporty couples out there build up their own home gym! With a Mirafit high and low parallettes set, the couple can train together from the comfort of their living room.

45. A backpack picnic hamper for two – £49.99, Greenfield Collection

Let the couple enjoy lovely picnics together with this deluxe backpack hamper for two. It’s got all the essential accessories, plus plenty of space to accommodate food, drinks and containers.

46. An artisan KitchenAid mixer – £499, KitchenAid

Even the most kitchen-shy couples will want a KitchenAid mixer on their gift list – from whipped cream to mashed potatoes, it does it all. You can customise it further with an assortment of other useful attachments, like spiralizers or a pasta roller, for an even more personal wedding gift.

47. McGregor 5-piece gardening set – £35, Argos

 

If the couple are moving into a home with outdoor space, this 5-piece gardening set is ideal. Strong, durable, and built to last – these tools will keep their garden looking gorgeous!

48. A Smarter coffee machine – £199, Smarter

No gift list is complete without a coffee machine, but for a more unique wedding present, consider a lightweight Smarter coffee machine. With the Smarter App, the couple can set the strength and choose from two different modes, ‘filter’ and ‘grinder’, to achieve a flawless cup of coffee each time.

49. A scribble writing digital alarm clock – £15, Prezzybox

This scribble writing digital alarm clock doubles as a light-up memo pad – perfect for busy or forgetful couples! And at only £15, it’s a super cheap wedding gift, that’s super fun and useful!

50. An AirTag, £35 Apple

For couples moving into a new home together, a tactile Apple AirTag will provide a private and secure way to easily locate their most precious items…like their new housekeys!

There you have our top 50 wedding gift ideas for every budget. From homebodies and foodies, to nature lovers and adrenaline junkies, there’s something to delight every couple.

Best Themed Weddings of 2022

We’re wrapping up our 2022 Wedding Photography Awards with our final category: themed weddings. From the decorations to the food, to the music and the activities, enjoy our selection of the best unique and creative themed weddings of the year, where couples are free to truly express their personalities and share their interests with their guests.

OVERALL WINNER: Tom Cullen Photography | Tom Cullen 

Photo © Tom Cullen Photography | See their Bridebook profile

The story behind this photo: “May the force be with them! Meela and Maciek tied the knot at The Secret Garden in Kent. They had an incredible day and rocked their couple shots in the autumn sunshine. Their details really reflected their personalities, with a lightsaber bouquet, Nordic gnomes and a visit from Marduk their gorgeous Elf Hound!

Why we chose this photo as our overall winner: This is what the best themed weddings are all about – celebrating your love for your partner alongside your shared interests. This image is full of personality and individuality, as well as artistry. We particularly love the clever use of props to structure the composition, with the vertical lighsaber perfectly dividing the shot of the couple’s profiles. And the Darth Vader mask is something else – a bold, striking choice!

Read on for our list of honourable mentions, whose submissions simply blew us away!

AJTImages | Alex Taylor

Photo © AJTImages | See their Bridebook profile

The story behind this photo: “The couple loved Beauty and the Beast and wanted to incorporate it into their photos.”

Why we shortlisted this photo: This photo truly captures that Disney magic with its artistic use of lighting! We love how perfectly it creates that iconic dance scene.

Bolla Bello Photography | Bolanle Bello 

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The story behind this photo: “The bride’s dad surprised the couple with a Chewbacca mask as he was asked to give his opening speech. The couple are movie heads and were pleasantly surprised and joyful to see the dad embrace their love for movies on their special day.”

Why we shortlisted this photo: The Chewbacca mask transforms an otherwise classic wedding speech photo into something truly unique and special, not to mention funny!

Dave Edward Photography | Dave Edward

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The story behind this photo: “A movie-themed wedding and this was the couple’s take on The Hangover”.

Why we shortlisted this photo: A playful, candid image, which speaks for itself! We love to see the groomsmen having so much fun posing and playing out their roles.

Jennifer West Photography | Jennifer West

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The story behind this photo: “Drummer Luke and photographer Kirsty celebrated their love with a weekend-long, mini music festival wedding. I wanted to make a unique portrait for them against the festival tents. Using a hand-made multi-coloured neon sign and some creative slow shutter speed, I created heart-shaped light trails around them. The evening was warm and balmy and as the music filled the air, Luke and Kirsty say it was one of the most special memories of their wedding.”

Why we shortlisted this photo: This photo is a perfect balance of dreamy and romantic, and unique and colourful. A vibrant themed wedding, full of love, joy and celebration.

John Mason Photography | John Mason

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The story behind this photo: “This was a football-themed family wedding.”

Why we shortlisted this photo: This is a brilliant action shot of an alternative wedding. We love to see the bride’s determined look as she prepares the football, while her dad blows the whistle.

Lemon Feather Photography | Cemanthe McKenzie 

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The story behind this photo: “I love bouncy castles at weddings, and Anna and Joe’s big bouncy slide was no exception! The theme of their wedding was “Cake Fest” and the whole day was about fun and joy.”

Why we shortlisted this photo: We think “Cake Fest” should be the theme of every wedding! We love the energy and sense of exhilaration here, and the bright party colours.

Michelle Charnock Photographer | Michelle Charnock 

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The story behind this photo: “I adored this wedding party. The couple were so free spirited and full of love for each other and their families. They’re probably one of the coolest couples I’ve ever captured and I think this captures a lot of what they’re about.”

Why we shortlisted this photo: What a vibrant and energetic shot! We love the pops or orange and eclectic, retro theme, which perfectly matches the couple’s fun, alternative pose.

Peter Rollings Photography | Peter Rollings 

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The story behind this photo: “Chris and Claire are avid VW campers, and wanted to theme this throughout their day. This was the perfect summer wedding, with this image reflecting their love of their Volkswagen Jammin.”

Why we shortlisted this photo: We love the perspective and dynamism of this photo, with the Volkswagen head on in motion, and the couple embracing in the front window.

S.G Mark Photography | Stephanie Mark

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The story behind this photo: “Jules and Garry wanted to feel like they were in a regency drama for their wedding photos. During their wedding at Auchen Castle in the Scottish Borders, we took advantage of moody skies and dramatic lighting to make their dreams come true.”

Why we shortlisted this photo: We love the composition of this photo, with the swing and riverside setting. The moody sepia hues add a timelessness in keeping with the theme.

The Bearded Man Photography | Paul Stevenson 

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The story behind this photo: “A Cornish festival wedding at Kudva, a remote campsite on the coast.”

Why we shortlisted this photo: We love to see such the couple having so much fun with their wedding, from the bride’s pink hair against the pink smoke bomb, to the groom’s sunglasses and glittery gold trousers. Their playful personalities really shine through!

Twigs Branch Photography | Paul & Suzi Wilkinson 

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The story behind this photo: “A cinema style elopement, at The Electric Cinema in Birmingham.”

Why we shortlisted this photo: We love the glamour and drama of this photo – perfect for the cinema style theme. The dazzling off-centre spotlight from behind, and the couple’s clasped hands across the aisle, beautifully show off the chic art deco setting.

There you have our favourite themed wedding photos of 2022! That brings our Wedding Photographer Awards series to an end. If you missed any of the other categories, or fancy taking another look at one of your favourites, be sure to check out the rest of the series. They’re not only a great source of inspo, but also the ideal way to find your dream photographer!

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Best LGBTQ+ Photos of 2022

We’re celebrating diversity and inclusion with our best of LGBTQ+ wedding photos, hand-selected for our Wedding Photography Awards. From the fun and colourful, to the unique and unusual, it’s all about recognising and accepting love and joy in all its forms.

OVERALL WINNER: Flisher Photography Ltd | Luke Flisher 

Photo © Flisher Photography Ltd | See their Bridebook profile

The story behind this photo: “The couple wanted to do a smoke bomb shot with pride flag colours with their wedding party in front of Harlaxton Manor to celebrate Harlaxton manors first gay wedding.”

Why we chose this photo as our overall winner: This is a true celebration of the best of LGBTQ+, made all the more special because of the venue’s history. We love the composition, with the grooms in the centre, and their loved ones standing to either side, all of them laughing and showing their support. The smoke bombs in pride colours are spectacular, and give this image a fun, playful tone while also sending an important message of pride and togetherness.

Read on for our list of honourable mentions, whose submissions simply blew us away!

AJ Feather Photography | Arienne Jonas

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The story behind this photo: “Jon and Matt laughed so much together, they had me in tears. We went for a walk along the water and I laughed so much.”

Why we shortlisted this photo: A candid, uplifting image, set against a beautiful natural backdrop. The couple’s smiles and laughter are infectious!

A W Photography | Andy Wilkinson 

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The story behind this photo: “I had initially wanted to take a silhouette shot then develop this with the use of a smoke grenade. As I asked the couple to walk towards me I noticed the sunlight coming through the adjacent trees and quickly turned off the OCF to allow the sun’s rays to catch the smoke, creating this image.”

Why we shortlisted this photo: This is a breathtaking, magical shot. We love the effect of the sun’s rays catching the smoke amidst the trees as the couple embrace.

Bart Kerswell Photography | Bart Kerswell 

Photo © Bart Kerswell Photography | See their Bridebook profile

The story behind this photo: “Nina and Jo didn’t fancy a first dance, so decided on an egg and spoon race. What a amazing idea, even I had a go.”

Why we shortlisted this photo: This is what the best of LGBTQ+ is all about – celebrating your special day in a way that’s unique and personal to you, and having fun doing so.

Big Day Weddings | David Green

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The story behind this photo: “A fantastic gay wedding day at The Gherkin in London.”

Why we shortlisted this photo: The sweeping staircase and monochrome tones create a dramatic and striking image. We love the perspective looking up at the smiling brides.

Chloe Palmer Photography | Chloe Palmer

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The story behind this photo: “Two beautiful brides signing their wedding register at Highcliffe Castle”.

Why we shortlisted this photo: This is a classic but beautifully shot photo – we love its simplicity and clean, white palette. The look the brides share is what makes it so special.

LB Photography | Leanne Brookes 

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The story behind this photo: “It was 5 minutes before the cake-cut and it had just started to rain, so I quickly grabbed Jamie and Jordan for an extra special photo in the archway of The Arnold House”.

Why we shortlisted this photo: The illuminated umbrella and balloons create a fun, celebratory image. We love how the balloons frame the couple as they gaze into each other’s eyes.

Lemon Feather Photography | Cemanthe McKenzie 

Photo © Lemon Feather Photography | See their Bridebook profile

The story behind this photo: “Tasha and Becky were so wonderful on their wedding day as they knew I loved rainbows so they gave me a small rainbow keyring to say thank you for their photos. Their whole day was about rainbows from a rainbow flag exit, to fans, to socks. This photo holds a special place in my heart, for both the rainbows and how wonderful they were.”

Why we shortlisted this photo: This is such a fun and colorful photo – we absolutely love the rainbow fans! It perfectly captures the brides’ personalities and joy.

Magpie-Eye Photography | Jenny Ellen 

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The story behind this photo: “David and Nathan were finally married in July of 2022…in a heatwave…in a velvet dress! Thankfully the aircon was fully functional and Nathan stole the show in their Billy Porter inspired gown.”

Why we shortlisted this photo: A photo which truly celebrates diversity and individuality. Seeing Nathan make his grand entrance in his incredible gown is beautiful to see.

Marta Ilardo Photography | Marta Ilardo 

Photo © Marta Ilardo Photography | See their Bridebook profile

The story behind this photo: “A wedding is a beautiful celebration of love, of your commitment to each other. It’s wonderful to have witnesses, people who share your joy. But it’s also great to want to make it very personal and intimate. Poppy and Marcela chose to combine the two. They officially got married in a town hall and then exchanged their vows and rings in a quiet Soho corner. And I was there to unobtrusively capture it!”

Why we shortlisted this photo: The simplicity of the grey brick background puts all the focus on the couple and their beautiful love. A lovely intimate moment, sensitively captured.

Nik Bryant Photography | Nik Bryant 

Photo © Nik Bryant Photography | See their Bridebook profile

The story behind this photo: “Matt and Darryl at the iconic Victoria Warehouse in Manchester. Having the wonderfully talented Neil Ridley with me meant we could light and create this superb image.”

Why we shortlisted this photo: The use of differently coloured panels of light behind the couple makes for an unusual and striking image. A very creative composition.

Steve Ayres Photography | Steve Ayres 

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The story behind this photo: “A Peaky Blinder’s style wedding at The Royal Pavilion in Brighton”.

Why we shortlisted this photo: We love to see alternative weddings that reflect the couple’s unique personalities and interests. The ‘PRIDE’ letters behind the couple add some extra magic.

There you have our top picks for the best LGTBQ+ wedding photos of 2022! Stay tuned for the grand finale of this blog series, with our favourite themed weddings of the year.

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Wedding Gift List Guide – ft The Wedding Shop

One of the most exciting parts of planning your wedding is creating your wedding gift list. But with so many options to choose from, it can be overwhelming to know where to start and what to choose. That’s why we’ve put together this guide to help you create your perfect wedding gift list. From deciding on a gift registry, to choosing the perfect gifts, we’ve got you covered!

Deciding on a registry

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The first step in creating your gift list is deciding on a registry. There are several options to choose from, including traditional department stores, online retailers, or even a combination of both. The most important thing is to choose a registry that suits your unique needs and preferences. A traditional department store registry will allow you to add a mix of home and lifestyle items, whereas an online registry will give you the flexibility to add items from multiple retailers.

Our recommended gift registry

Photo © The Wedding Shop

For creating a unique and personalised gift list, our top choice is The Wedding Shop. Our founder, Hamish Shephard, used it for his own wedding, and was very impressed! They’ve won a number of awards, and it’s completely free to sign up. Plus, you get your own Gift Guru (a.k.a. personal wedding gift list advisor), to help make your journey enjoyable and unique to you, not to mention stress-free! They’ve got over 30 years of experience and feature over 450 brands, so your list will be in the best possible hands, and you’ll have a great selection of gifts to choose from.

Choosing the perfect gifts

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Once you’ve decided on a registry, it’s time to start choosing the perfect gifts. Consider what you currently have and what you still need, and include a mix of items at different price points (to cater to guests with different budgets). For homebodies, consider items like cookware, bedding and home decor. For foodies, think items like a KitchenAid mixer, a set of high-quality knives and a cast iron skillet. For all the art lovers out there, add a beautiful painting or sculpture, or a membership to a local museum. For the adventurous couple, consider adding experiences such as a cooking class at a gourmet restaurant, or a hot air balloon ride at sunrise – the possibilities are endless!

Our recommended must-have items

We’ve picked out our favourite must-haves from The Wedding Shop, which are sure to inspire you!

Creating your perfect wedding gift list is an exciting opportunity to start building your new life together as a couple. By following these steps, the whole process will be fun and stress-free! Looking for alternatives to physical gifts? The Wedding Shop offers these too! From honeymoon funds and charity donations, to memorable experience gifts, we love the choice and flexibility. Plus, everything is all in one place, which makes the whole process so oh-so-easy from start to finish.

The Best Winter Wedding Guest Outfits

Winter weddings can be such a magical and dreamy experience. But choosing the right winter wedding outfit can be challenging as well. As a wedding guest, you want to look balance formality and style, while also staying warm and comfortable amidst cooler temperatures. To help inspire you, we’ve put together our top tips and tricks for the best winter wedding guest outfits, so you can look and feel your best this season, whatever your style or budget, and whatever the weather!

1. Dresses

Dresses with billowing sleeves, higher necklines, and longer hems are ideal choices for a winter wedding. Opt for a thicker, heavier fabric, like wool or velvet, to keep you warm. You can choose from a variety of sensible styles, from a flowing maxi dress to a form-fitting cocktail dress. The trick is to make a statement with bold prints and luxe embellishments like beading or lace detailing.

2. Suits

You can’t go wrong with a stylish suit at a winter wedding. For warmth and comfort, choose a suit made from a heavier fabric, like wool or corduroy. For a more casual look, consider a pair of dress trousers or skirt with a button-up shirt, with either a sweater or blazer. If you’re on a budget, consider renting a suit – it’s not only a cost-effective option, but also more sustainable.

3. Colours

Winter weddings are the perfect opportunity to wear warm colours in rich, jewel-like hues. Think wine and champagne tones, emerald green, ruby red, burgundy and navy blue.

4. Accessories

From scarves and shawls, to hats and gloves, winter accessories will keep you warm, while also adding a pop of colour and glamour to your outfit. Add some extra sparkle to your look with eye-catching jewellery, like a statement-necklace, earrings or a brooch.

5. Outerwear

A winter wedding always calls for a warm outer layer. For a timeless and sophisticated look, consider a classic wool coat or pea coat, which will keep you warm and complement any dress or suit underneath. For a more budget-friendly option, consider an elegant faux fur jacket. They come in a variety of styles and colours, and can be found at a fraction of the cost of a real fur jacket.

6. Footwear

Closed-toe shoes are a must for a winter wedding, whether that’s heeled boots, ankle boots or loafers. Make sure they’re comfortable enough to dance in, and will keep your feet warm and dry. If you’re on a budget, consider buying a pair of shoes in a neutral colour, like black or brown, so you can wear them with multiple outfits and on more than one occasion.

Now you’ll be properly prepped for all those winter weddings pencilled into your calendar. Whatever the weather throws at you, you’ll have a guest outfit that’s both sensible and stylish.

Supplier Showcase: Veganuary Edition

Sustainable and ethical weddings are on the rise. Back in the day, very few venues and suppliers would cater for such requirements, or when they did, would do so with little creativity (cue sad stuffed mushroom and limp lettuce leaf). But now, there’s a demand amongst today’s couples for more locally sourced, ethical menus, as well as vegan and cruelty-free wedding choices. And so, celebrate the month of Veganuary, we’re showcasing our favourite vegan venues and suppliers.

1. The Wellbeing Farm

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The Wellbeing Farm is one of our favourite sustainable wedding venues…period. It offers a fun, unique farm-based barn experience, is the first B Corp certified venue in the UK, and has just become members of the Sustainable Restaurant Association (which you can’t enter if you haven’t got sufficient vegan and other dietary credentials). Their general ethos is around wellbeing, and minimising stress for its couples. And ensuring every single one of your guests has a creative and tasty meal – whether they’re vegan, gluten-free or lactose-free – is a huge part of that. Their innovative Head Chef sources natural, local produce to create vegetarian and vegan menus that are big in both quality and taste, and even went on a course specialising in vegan desserts (so no more lonely fresh fruit salads!). A lot of venues may offer a single vegan option, but this vegan-friendly venue prides itself on offering a range – a range of starters, a range of mains, a range of desserts. So you’ll be spoilt for choice! For the meat lovers out there, they use Meatless Farm and Beyond Burger as meal substitutes, so you’ll hardly notice the difference.

2. Wilderness Weddings

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Stylish and sustainable, relaxed and boho, there’s so much to love about Wilderness Weddings. Set in a protected nature reserve, it features woodlands, giant tipi tents, and a lakeside boathouse. Their seven accredited caterers provide a wealth of dining options, catering for all tastes and budgets. For vegetarians and vegans in particular, choose Scott Anderson catering, who pride themselves on designing bespoke menus around each couple’s requirements. Look no further for creative canapés, scrumptious sharing wedding breakfasts, and exquisite evening platters!

3. Lettice Events

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Lettice Events is one of the country’s leading names in luxury catering, known for its innovative and creative food design, cutting-edge presentation and stylish service. Their team of talented chefs can cater to specific dietary restrictions, including a completely vegan menu. From vegan cream cheese and smoked carrot ribbons on light rye wafers, to roast pumpkin skewers, you and your guests are sure to be delighted. With pre-event tastings available, you can effortlessly sample different flavours and select your favourite dishes ahead of your big day.

4. The Hogless Roast

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Two veggies unable to stomach another bean burger, Matt and Ross, a.k.a. The Hogless Roast, have reimagined the traditional hog roast for a new generation, whether you’re a vegan or simply trying to reduce your meat consumption. Their smoky BBQ vegan burgers use the best plant protein out there – lathered in apple sauce, topped with homemade stuffing, and loaded into a toasted vegan brioche bun. They’re packed with protein and fibre, gluten-free, and, most importantly, keep pigs off plates! Plus, they only use eco-friendly packaging, and are members of the NCASS.

We’ve taken the best plant based protein out there, infused it with smoky BBQ flavours, lathered it in apple sauce, topped it with homemade stuffing and packed it into a toasted vegan brioche bun. Then we’ve thrown in some naughty vegan crackling for good measure!

5. Bee Vegan Bakery

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For bespoke wedding cakes made vegan, look no further than Bee Vegan Bakery – whether you’re vegan yourself, want a more inclusive option for all of your guests, or have allergies or dietary requirements. There are also plenty of other sweet and savoury vegan treats available, from meatless carrot ‘bacon’ and almond ‘feta’ canapés, and bitesize vegan pastries.

6. Bakehouse Revolution

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From cute cupcake favours to magnificent multi-tiered showstoppers, Bakehouse Revolution works with you to personally design, bake and create stunning wedding cakes for your special day. Everything is 100% vegan, and will leave a smile on everyone’s faces, whether vegan or not.

7. Tanya Westley Vegan Hair & Makeup Artist

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Tanya Westley is a vegan wedding hair & makeup specialist based in Oxfordshire. Her kit consists of a carefully curated list of cruelty-free, vegan products, from brands such as Charlotte Tilbury, Cover FX, Face Atelier and Illamasqua, to Kenra, Paul Mitchell, Moroccan Oil, Living Proof and more.

8. Becx Beauty – Makeup Artist & Beautician

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Becx Beauty offers a bespoke makeup service for your special day, to ensure you look incredible while everyone looks on in awe. She is fully qualified, insured and accredited by BABTAC (The British Association of Beauty Therapy & Cosmetology), and also Barbicide certified. All of the products are vegan and cruelty-free. As a makeup artist, she has built up a strong reputation and portfolio, becoming one of the most sought after vegan and cruelty-Free MUA in the North East.

9. Lauren Marie Studio

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Lauren Marie Studio creates hand-painted, bespoke, eco-friendly wedding stationery that tells your own unique love story, with lots of detail. She is passionate about providing conscious and sustainable stationery, and uses a gorgeous range of eco-friendly papers, sourcing ethical, vegan-friendly materials wherever possible in her exquisite designs.

10. Vegan Wedding Photography

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If you’re a vegan, and keen to choose a wedding photographer whose personal values and lifestyle align with your own, be sure to check out Vegan Wedding Photography. Denis is passionate about the environment, nature and sustainability and follows a vegan lifestyle.

Whether you’re a vegan yourself, want to create a more inclusive wedding for your guests, or simply want to reduce the impact of your wedding, the vegan-friendly venues and suppliers above are a great place to start . If any caught your eye, be sure to check out their Bridebook profiles!

2023 Wedding Fashion Trends

From simple, timeless looks and plain fabrics, to chic, colourful styles with luxe embellishments, this year’s weddings are sure to be full of fashion inspiration and ideas. To get a better understanding of the latest trends and must-have looks this wedding season, we reached out to some of the top dressmakers in the industry to get their expert insights and predictions.

1. Simple styles + extra detailing

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The simple look is in this year – from the style to the fabric. “We’re seeing lots of simple designs made from luxurious mikado, satin or crepe,” comments Jo Maloney from A Bridal Story. “Less is more is definitely going to be a key bridal trend.” Elizabeth from Elizabeth Kate Bridal is also noticing more “plain wedding dresses and plain fabrics such as mikado and satin.”

At the same time, bridal fashion is featuring plenty of luxe accessories and detailing. Fross from Fross Wedding Collections Ltd is seeing a trend towards simple gowns accessorised. “For example, lots of our brides love to add bows to their satin gowns.” According to our dressmakers, the most popular fashion element this year is bows, followed by pearls, then feathers, and finally beads. Zera Rowell from Aime Moi Encore says they are “seeing a demand for simpler designs where extra details can be featured such as big bows and lots of pearls, flowers and head pieces. Flower appliques and colour are also very popular!”

2. Colour, colour, colour

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Wedding dresses with colour are also en vogue. Over half of the dressmakers we spoke to are seeing wedding dresses in alternative colours to the traditional bridal white. Kate Ashwell from Heartfelt Vintage says they are ‘seeing a huge uplift in the number of requests for colourful dresses’. Donna from DM Bridal Accessories also emphasises seeing ‘dresses with colour’.

As for bridesmaids’ dresses, the most popular colours this year are champagne, earthy tones, and greens (both emerald and sage). Dusty rose, blush pink, dusty blue and navy blue are also trending, particularly as we move into the season of late winter/early spring.

3. Statement dresses + luxe embellishments

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At the other end from simple styles, many of our dressmakers are seeing dramatic statement dresses. Jo Maloney from A Bridal Story comments that “big and bold designs are also trending with dramatic skirts, necklines and sleeve’, while Margo Brittain from Margo Chamberlain Millinery is seeing “puff sleeves, long trains, maximalist styles, and large flower corsages.”

Princess skirts, long or floating trains, long veils, even capes, are in high demand. Kate Ashwell from Heartfelt Vintage attributes this to the popularity of Netflix’s Bridgerton: “The Bridgerton-inspired trends keep on coming!” Jekaterina Domnych from Gold Needle Ltd speaks of an “abundance of uber-chic inspo in the 2023 wedding dress trends, from dramatic ball gowns to colorful wedding gowns to luxe embellishments like bows, feathers, ruffles, gloves, capes, scooped and strapless necklines, high-low hemline ball gowns with over-the-top tiered skirts, decadent fabrics and beads, lingerie-inspired slip wedding dresses.” She also adds that “in 2023 we’ll be seeing more statement veils with 3D elements, sparkles, flowers, prints and pops of colour. Fashion is stepping away from plain tulle and making the veil its own masterpiece and something that is able to express the bride’s style and personality.”

4. Long gloves/long sleeves

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Continuing the Bridgerton theme, the trend towards long, elegant gloves is making a comeback in 2023: our dressmakers unanimously report long gloves, from long tulle gloves to long opera gloves. Amy Money from Amy Money Millinery also comments on the trend of long sleeves, and even detachable sleeves for greater versatility and flexibility throughout the day.

5. Splits/slits

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“Split dresses are very on trend”, Zoey Jayaweera from The White Room of Minchinhampton reports. Duduzile Sibanda from Couture & Tiaras Bridal agrees: “We are selling a lot of dresses with a slit.” Split wedding dresses are gaining in popularity over the years because they offer a modern and elegant look, while also being comfortable to dance and move around in. Not to mention that a slit can show off a pair of beautiful shoes!

6. Detachable skirts/multi dresses

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Many of our dressmakers are seeing a demand for detachable skirts or separate overskirts, as brides increasingly look for versatility and flexibility when it comes to choosing their wedding dress. Fross from Fross Wedding Collections Ltd notes seeing “brides wanting two gowns, daytime and evening looks, or gowns with detachable skirts to create two looks in one!”

For bridesmaids, multi dresses (a.k.a. convertible dresses or infinity dresses) are all the rage. These dresses can be worn in different ways, so bridesmaids can choose the most flattering style for their body type and taste. They can also be worn again and again long after the wedding, making them both practical and cost-effective. Jekaterina Domnych from Gold Needle Ltd lists a range of flexible styles for bridesmaids: “mismatching bridesmaids dresses, cowl neck bridesmaids dresses, velvet bridesmaids dresses, convertible bridesmaids dresses.”

7. More individuality/non-traditional dress

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More and more brides are opting to break the mould and wear a non-traditional wedding dress that more truly reflects their own personal style and preferences. Lisa Carrington from Lisa Carrington Couture summarises this trend: “More and more brides are turning to individuality – bespoke instead of mass-produced. I feel trends heading more to personal tastes and not what everyone else is doing, so possibly more quirky and adventurous details will come through.” Nathalie Neuilly from Dressarte Paris agrees: “[There is] great interest towards non-traditional wedding outfits and colours (like black and green in particular)”.

8. Sustainable options

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Sustainability is increasingly become a key concern for today’s couples, according to many of our dressmakers. Eve Mannion from Love It Again Bridal has observed that “more couples are becoming eco-conscious about their wedding choices”. Wendy Hook from Vintage Adornments agrees that the eco fashion trend continues to grow with more and more brides opting for sustainable choices when it comes to choosing a dress: “There’s a real move towards more sustainable choices for both cost and environmental reasons. Vintage and nostalgic themes are also having a real influence after the years of the pandemic and then the fuel and economic crises – couples are keen to harken back to happier times and evoke that in their wedding styling.” Popular sustainable options include choosing a dress made from organic, natural or recycled materials; renting a wedding dress; or opting for a vintage or second-hand dress.

Whether you’re a bride-to-be, a bridesmaid, or simply a fashion-savvy wedding guest, these styles, colours and fabrics are sure to make a statement at any wedding this year. You’ve now got all the inspiration and ideas you need to start putting together your own unique look!

Best Pets Wedding Photos of 2022

Calling all animal lovers! Enjoy our hand-picked selection of the best pet photos for our Wedding Photography Awards. Pets bring so much comfort and joy to a wedding. They’re a great source of fun and entertainment, and can add such a personal touch.

OVERALL WINNER: The Studio Without Walls | Adrian Neal 

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The story behind this photo: “Hungry dog at a wedding reception…loved its bow tie!”

Why we chose this photo as our overall winner: What a beautifully captured, funny and memorable photo! We adore the little dog’s cheeky expression as it eyes up the platters, and the way it stands to the side, front legs held up, like it’s one of the human guests. The purple bow tie adds to the comical effect and gives this photo real personality. We love the brightness of this shot too, with the vibrant saturated colours standing out against the black background.

Read on for our list of honourable mentions, whose submissions simply blew us away!

Ajie Jones Photography | Adrian Williams-Jones 

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The story behind this photo: “The speeches went on too long for Toto.”

Why we shortlisted this photo: This little dog’s sleepy expression is so adorable! We love the way it rests its chin on the table, and looks directly at the camera.

Alexa Poppe Wedding Photography | Alexa Poppe 

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The story behind this photo: “Liz loves goats! So when she found out that the venue had their very own goats we decided to meet them. The goat was not fussed about us so much and had an obsession with Liz’s beautiful colourful bouquet!”

Why we shortlisted this photo: This photo really made us smile – the goat’s cheekiness, the colourful flowers, the bride’s laughter. Everything about it is uplifting and joyful.

Andy Sidders Photography | Andy Sidders 

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The story behind this photo: “Maia and Matt petting ‘Porka Radcliffe’ and ‘Uswine Bolt’ after some amazing pig racing at Maia and Matt’s wedding at Stowe House.”

Why we shortlisted this photo: A super fun and unique take on the pets at weddings theme! We love the perspective from the ground up, with the couple crouching at the pig’s level.

Boryczewski Photography Zee | Zdzislaw Boryczewski 

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The story behind this photo: “Just before the ceremony the groom gave some love to his dog. But the dog’s look!!!”

Why we shortlisted this photo: A lovely heart-warming image, with an unusual composition. The connection between the groom and his little fur baby is beautiful to see.

Flisher Photography Ltd | Luke Flisher

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The story behind this photo: “Kirsty is a dog trainer and it was important to the couple to have their dogs be a part of their wedding at the beautiful Stubton Hall.”

Why we shortlisted this photo: This is such a fun and light-hearted image. We love the composition and colours, with the three gorgeous dogs taking centre stage.

Harry Richards Photography | Harry Richards 

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The story behind this photo: “The bride took her pet horse for a walk.”

Why we shortlisted this photo: A beautiful, timeless image which captures a real feeling of freedom and wildness. The black and white palette adds a sense of refinement and elegance.

James Ireland Photography Ltd | James Ireland 

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The story behind this photo: “This Dalmatian sat and waited so patiently at the front of the queue for the wedding breakfast.”

Why we shortlisted this photo: This is a fun yet sophisticated image, with a striking composition. We love how the black and white palette picks out the Dalmatian’s spots.

John Hope Photography | John Hope

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The story behind this photo: “This couple’s dog latched onto the energy of the couple gesturing everyone to the dancefloor after their first dance. He clearly wasn’t going to be left out!”

Why we shortlisted this photo: We love to see this dog joining in the dancing like one of the human guests. There is a wonderful energy and vibrancy to this photo.

Luke Hardy Photography | Luke Hardy 

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The story behind this photo: “Rosie was only staying for the church ceremony but she just had to be a part of some of the photos. She’s so happy that mummy and daddy are now married.”

Why we shortlisted this photo: A charming, candid shot of the couple walking with their adorable dog! We love the subdued, wintry tones in contrast with the pops of festive red.

Sam Chipman Photography | Sam Chipman 

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The story behind this photo: “Lauren and John always wanted their trusty doggo, Gryff, to be a big part of their wedding day. And he definitely played his part and stole the show.”

Why we shortlisted this photo: We agree that Gryff stole the show here! We love the way he’s smiling at the camera, held between the couple, who are themselves smiling at each other.

White Thistle Wedding Photography | Simon Fox

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The story behind this photo: “Usually the wedding couple have special requests for family or friends they want me to make sure I get a photo of. However, for Andy and Vicky, their priority was their dog Freyja.”

Why we shortlisted this photo: This is such vibrant and joyful image, full of character and personality! We love the bright colours, the confetti, and the dog’s happy smile.

There you have our favourite photos of pets at weddings this year! Next in this series is a celebration of diversity and inclusivity, with the best of LGBTQ+.

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Best Kids Wedding Photos of 2022

Browse our favourite kids wedding photos for this year’s Wedding Photography Awards. Children often aren’t aware of the camera, so photos can capture their genuine reactions and emotions, not to mention those fun and silly moments that adults might overthink.

OVERALL WINNER: Paul Roland Williams | Paul Roland Williams 

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The story behind this photo: “I loved the way it looked like the boys were trying to trick the barman into thinking they were older than they were.”

Why we chose this photo as our overall winner: This is such a beautifully captured and heart-warming kids’ shot. We love the composition, with the two boys standing on stools behind the bar in their smart suits, their backs to us, trying to look grown-up and sophisticated. The barman’s knowing expression adds to the effect. The lighting adds a mature touch, at odds with the presence of the children, which makes the scene all the more humorous and memorable.

Read on for our list of honourable mentions, whose submissions simply blew us away!

Bolla Bello Photography | Bolanle Bello

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The story behind this photo: “This was supposed to be a posed group shot of the couple and the groom’s sister and family. The kids ran left and right throughout and I decided to make it fun. I asked them to run toward me instead and that’s how we got the shot.”

Why we shortlisted this photo: We love the feeling of fun and freedom in this unposed shot. There is a real sense of energy and excitement captured in the kids’ playful running.

Elwood Photography | Tim Elwood 

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The story behind this photo: “The flower girl sucking it up at Lee and Leah’s wedding at Blackfriars Restaurant in Newcastle.

Why we shortlisted this photo: The flower girl’s intense, almost challenging, expression is very striking. We love the way she looks directly at the camera, completed unfazed.

Grace Nicole Photography | Grace Evans 

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The story behind this photo: “All of the children were desperate to visit the sheep in the field opposite the venue, so they all gathered to look through the gate and I captured them all peering through at the same time.”

Why we shortlisted this photo: A lovely candid moment, beautifully captured. We love to see the children’s natural curiosity as they peer over the fence.

James Merrick Photography | James Merrick 

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The story behind this photo: “Waiting patiently for his cue, Obie was beaming as he prepared to walk down the aisle with the rings.”

Why we shortlisted this photo: We love the artful composition of this photo, with the young boy in focus in the centre, perfectly framed by the couple’s joined hands in the foreground. His solemn pride as he stands patiently with his hands held up is beautiful to see.

Katy Brothers Wedding Photography | Katy Brothers 

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The story behind this photo: “During the downtime, before the speeches but when the little ones had finished dessert they all took to the floor to play with the balloon decorations which had been positioned around the room. Once they had gathered them up, the older kids had wrestled them from the youngsters and were beating each other with them. I love this photo, of the youngest flower girl trying her best to convince the young bridesmaids to give her back her balloon. Children at weddings always have their own dramas that if you stop to watch for, create beautiful, emotionally candids.”

Why we shortlisted this photo: The quiet intensity of the youngest flower girl’s expression is beautifully captured. We also love the storytelling behind this photo.

Lemon Feather Photography | Cemanthe McKenzie 

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The story behind this photo: “These two were so cute and as soon I walked into the room to shoot bridal prep, they warmed to the camera and wanted to show me everything in all the rooms in the suite!

Why we shortlisted this photo: An adorable shot, full of playfulness! The composition is very effective, with just the girls’ faces peeping over the edge of the bath.

Lewis Horsley Wedding Photography | Lewis Horsley 

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The story behind this photo: “Was meant to capture their beautiful dresses from behind, but this cheeky one did not want to play ball.”

Why we shortlisted this photo: The cheeky expression of this bridesmaid is priceless! It transforms an otherwise classically formal photo into a uniquely playful snapshot.

LB Photography | Leanne Brookes 

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The story behind this photo: “The bride and groom’s little boy wanted to be as close as possible to his parents and while the couple were exchanging rings he was watching…picking away!”

Why we shortlisted this photo: This is such a funny and brilliantly captured shot. It’s candid moments like this that make photos of kids at weddings so special.

Paul Swift Photography | Paul Swift 

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The story behind this photo: “The bride and groom’s son ran off with a (very large) piece of cake.

Why we shortlisted this photo: We love the fun and playfulness of this photo. The boy’s cheeky side-long glance as he prepares to take a bite of cake is wonderful to see.

Tobiah Tayo Photography | Tobiah Tayo 

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The story behind this photo: “The flower girls were so excited to see a real life bride and wear her veil.”

Why we shortlisted this photo: This is such a sweet photo, with lovely warm lighting. We love the expressions on each of the bridesmaids’ faces, and the way the bride is smiling with them.

Winnington and Coe | Ben Winnington & Elle Coe 

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The story behind this photo: “Gorgeous niece and flower girl seeing her auntie getting ready.”

Why we shortlisted this photo: A beautiful photo capturing a beautiful moment. We love the perspective here, with the focus on the little girl’s reaction, and the bride’s back to us.

There you have our best kids at weddings photos of the year! For even more bundles of joy and cuteness, stay tuned for the next article in this series: pets at weddings.

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