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Everything to Know About Wedding Bands

Wedding bands may seem like a small part of your overall wedding day in and of itself. But, their symbolism, value and impact can’t be understated. 

Unlike most other wedding details, this little ring stays with you long after the big day is over. It’s the piece you’ll look at every day, the one that will remind you of the vows you made, the adventures you’ve shared, and all the memories yet to come. So while it may be small, its meaning (and its place in your life) couldn’t be bigger.

Read on to learn everything you need to know about wedding bands. We cover everything from where to wear a wedding band, to the metals, finish, and style that go into each piece. Plus, we cover 5 top tips to help you pick the perfect ring, and some general care and maintenance tips to help it look its best. Good luck! 

What is a wedding band?

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Your wedding band, or marriage ring, is the ring you receive on your wedding day from your spouse. It’s used as a symbol of commitment and love between you and your new partner. 

Wedding bands are different to engagement rings. Engagement rings are usually more eye-catching, with a focus on gemstones like diamonds or intricate mental work. They’re also traditionally only worn by one partner. However, people of all relationship types and gender identities can of course wear engagement rings. 

Wedding bands, on the other hand, are worn by both members of the couple and are usually simpler and more understated. They focus on durability and comfort for everyday wear, and are intended as a lasting reminder of your partnership. They’re worn daily and serve as a reminder of the vows you made, staying with you as a little piece of your wedding day for years to come.

Which finger do I wear a wedding band on?

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Wedding bands are traditionally worn on the ring finger (fourth finger) of the left hand. If you wear any other rings on that hand, for example, an engagement ring, you should wear your wedding band underneath that ring. This ensures it’s as close to your heart as possible (and it’s the most traditional way to wear it).  

However, in some cultures, people wear their wedding bands on the right hand. Equally, a lot of couples choose to wear their wedding band on their little finger, especially if they wear a signet ring. 

Honestly, there’s no “right” way to wear a wedding band — it’s all about what feels right and special to you both.

To compare this to which finger you should wear your engagement ring on, check out our dedicated article. 

Everything you need to know about wedding bands

Keen to learn more about the different types of wedding bands? Read on to learn everything you need to know about these beautiful and symbolic rings. 

Metals

There are a range of metals to choose from when it comes to wedding bands. The following are the most popular ones…

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  • Gold. Gold is a classic choice for a wedding band. It’s beautiful, durable, and comes in a few different shades to suit any style! You’ve got yellow gold, which has that warm, traditional feel; white gold, which is sleek and modern; and rose gold, which adds a romantic, blush-toned twist. Gold is also a versatile metal, so you can choose different levels of purity depending on how durable you want it to be. For example, 14, 16, or 18 karat. 

 

  • White gold. We’ve separated white gold out from the above due to the specialist care it needs. White gold gets its gold appearance from a thin layer of rhodium plating, which gives it that bright, shiny, silver-like finish. Over time, the rhodium layer can wear off, especially if you wear your ring daily (which, let’s face it, most of us do!). To keep white gold looking its best, you’ll need to get it re-plated every few years. You should factor this maintenance into the overall cost of your ring. 

 

  • Platinum. Platinum is a fantastic choice if you’re looking for something that’s naturally white, incredibly strong, and hypoallergenic. Unlike white gold, platinum doesn’t need any plating to keep its colour, so it’s low-maintenance while still offering a luxurious, bright finish. It’s also noticeably heavier than gold and much more durable. Perfect for those who are heavy-handed. 

 

  • Silver. Silver gives you the same look as white gold and platinum at a fraction of the cost. While it’s not as durable as other metals, it’s a great choice if you’re looking for something stylish and budget-friendly. Bear in mind that to keep silver looking its best, it may need occasional polishing and maintenance.

 

  • Untraditional metals. Untraditional metals like titanium, iron, and tungsten are perfect if you’re after something a bit different with a modern edge. They all come with unique pros and cons, so be sure to thoroughly research these modern metals if you’re after something a little different. 

Stones

Although traditional wedding bands are usually plain, many couples choose to add stones for a touch of sparkle or a bit of personality. Read on to learn more about having stones in your wedding band.

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  • Diamonds. Diamonds are the classic go-to if you want a bit of sparkle in your wedding band. They’re incredibly durable and perfect for everyday wear. You could go with tiny diamonds set around the band for a subtle, elegant shimmer or a single diamond if you want a focal point that’s not too over-the-top. 

 

  • Coloured gemstones. If you like a pop of colour with your bling, consider coloured gemstones! Sapphires, emeralds, rubies, and even birthstones are a beautiful way to add a personal touch to your wedding band. Just keep in mind that some gemstones are a bit softer than diamonds, so they might need a little extra care if you’re wearing your band every day.

 

  • Natural stones. Natural stones like turquoise, pearl, and moonstone can add a unique, earthy vibe to your wedding band. However, these stones are often substantially softer than diamonds or other coloured gemstones, so do your research and make sure you’re prepared for the maintenance to come. 

 

  • Other natural materials. Lots of jewellers now offer services where they can capture other organic matter in resin and incorporate it into your wedding band for a truly one-of-a-kind piece. For example, sand from a favourite beach, a pressed flower from a memorable bouquet, or even a bit of wood from a meaningful forest. This option is perfect for couples who want to carry a piece of their shared history or a special memory with them every day.

Width

The width of your wedding ring is also important. This detail contributes a lot to the look, style, and feel of your ring, so it’s important to consider all your options when picking a width. 

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  • Thin. Thin bands are definitely the trend at the moment. They’re dainty, beautiful, and perfect for a minimalist look. Thin bands are great if you want something subtle that won’t overpower your engagement ring or if you’re just a fan of that delicate, barely-there vibe. However, thin bands aren’t as durable as thick rings, and can bend or even snap with everyday weather.

 

  • Medium width. A happy medium (pun not intended) between thin and thick bands, medium width bands offer the best of both worlds and a classic look. They’re substantial enough to feel sturdy and durable for everyday wear, yet not too bold or overpowering.

 

  • Thick. Chunky bands look best when worn alone or paired with a simple engagement ring. Thick bands are bold and eye-catching, perfect if you want a wedding band that stands out on its own. They’re also super durable and can handle everyday wear without worry, making them ideal for someone who leads an active lifestyle or works with their hands.

Style

The style of your wedding band will make a huge difference to the overall vibe of your ring, so it’s worth thinking about what really speaks to you. Consider the below when picking the style of your wedding band:

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  • Traditional. Traditional wedding bands are the traditional, rounded wedding bands we know and love. They have a slight curve to the top and a smooth, polished finish that gives off an elegant, timeless feel. This style is perfect if you’re a fan of simplicity and want a ring that will look classic forever.

 

  • Slight. A slight wedding band is a more delicate version of the traditional style. It’s slim, dainty, and has just a hint of curve, perfect if you want something subtle but still classic. Slight bands are ideal if you’re after that “barely there” look or if you’re planning to stack multiple rings together. 

 

  • Edge. Edge rings have a flatter, more modern style with a smooth top and a defined edge, giving them a sleek, contemporary look. This style is perfect if you want something a bit more structured but still understated. 

 

  • Wish. If you’re lucky enough to have an oval, marquise, or just downright big engagement ring gemstone that doesn’t quite fit with a straight band, a wishbone or “wish” band might be your new best friend! These bands have a subtle V-shape or curve, allowing them to sit perfectly around your engagement ring, creating a lovely, cohesive look. 

 

  • Curved. Slightly softer than a wish, curved wedding bands are designed to gently hug your engagement ring without a deep V shape. They’re ideal if your engagement ring has a setting that sits low or has a bit of an edge to it.

 

  • Art deco. Art deco rings are a dream if you love vintage glam and intricate designs. Think bold geometric patterns, milgrain details, and lots of character. Art deco bands often feature tiny stones or engraved patterns that give them a unique, glamorous look straight out of the Roaring Twenties. They’re perfect if you want something that feels like an heirloom or if you just love a bit of old-school charm with a modern twist. They come in lots of different shapes and styles, and look stunning either solo or paired with a simple engagement ring.

 

  • Twisted. A braided or ‘twisted’ wedding band style is known to present unity and togetherness — what could be more perfect for a wedding band? These rings usually have two or three strands intertwined, creating a look that’s both elegant and full of meaning. They add a touch of texture and look especially lovely with plain or slightly curved engagement rings. 

 

  • Floral. If you’re looking for something whimsical and beautiful, a floral wedding band might be just the thing. Floral bands feature delicate engravings or embossed patterns of leaves, vines, or flowers, adding a romantic, nature-inspired touch to your ring. Floral bands can be intricate and detailed, or bold and colourful, making them a lovely choice for a standalone piece or a charming addition next to a simple engagement ring.

 

  • Filigree. Filigree bands are all about delicate, intricate metalwork that adds an old-world charm to your wedding band. Think swirling patterns, lace-like designs, and lots of tiny details that give your ring a vintage feel. Filigree is perfect if you love the look of something ornate and timeless. It’s like wearing a tiny piece of art on your finger.

 

  • Engraved. For an ultra personal touch, engraved bands are the way to go. You can add initials, a meaningful date, a short phrase, or even a tiny symbol that has special meaning to you and your partner. It’s like a little secret message you carry with you every day, acting as a constant reminder of your special day.

Finish

The finish of your wedding band is just that — the finishing touch that pulls everything together. Below is a list of the most popular finishes for wedding bands you might want to consider. 

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  • Polished. A polished finish is a traditional, smooth, high-shine finish that gives your band a classic, mirror-like look. It’s sleek, timeless, and definitely makes a statement.

 

  • Satin. The satin finish is a smooth, semi-matte finish that offers a soft, elegant glow without the full shine of a polished band. It’s a great middle ground if you like a bit of sheen but want something more understated. Plus, it tends to hide little scratches well, so is brilliant for those who are heavy-handed. 

 

  • Matte. Matte finishes give your band a soft, velvety look without any reflection, so it feels effortlessly cool and sophisticated. It’s a modern and understated look, perfect for those who like something a little different. 

 

  • Brushed. Brushed finishes have a subtle texture with fine, directional lines that give the band a satin-like look with a bit of extra character. It’s ideal if you want a little more depth and texture without going for a full matte. 

 

  • Hammered. Hammered finishes bring a touch of rustic charm to your ring, with small, uneven dimples that create a unique, textured surface. Each “hammer” mark catches the light in a slightly different way, giving the metal a natural, organic look. This finish is perfect if you’re after something that feels handcrafted and one-of-a-kind. It’s rugged yet refined.

Top tips for wedding band shopping

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Keep these top tips in mind when you and your partner go wedding band shopping to find your perfect rings:

1) Keep your lifestyle in mind

Wearing your ring every day means it’ll impact every part of your lifestyle. If you’re an active person, or if you work a lot with your hands, you’ll want a ring that can stand up to the wear and tear. 

Equally, if you’re a little heavy-handed, durable metals like platinum or titanium, or even a hammered or matte finish, can help keep scratches at bay. For something extra tough, consider a comfort-fit band. It’s made to feel smooth and easy on your finger, so you can wear it all day, every day, with no fuss.

2) Set a budget beforehand

Wedding bands can be pricey, especially ones made of platinum or white gold, or those with inset stones. Having a budget in mind before you start ring shopping can help you stay focused and avoid getting swept away by options that are outside your price range. 

While some options can definitely add up, there are beautiful wedding bands out there for every budget. And don’t be afraid to try on a few styles slightly outside your range — you might just find “the one” that’s worth the splurge!

3) Think about future ring stacks

Eternity bands are traditionally given after the birth of a baby, to celebrate a milestone anniversary, or just because you feel like adding a little extra sparkle. If you’re already envisioning a ring stack for future occasions, go for a band that will play nicely with others. Thin, simple bands are perfect for building a stack, and they’ll let you add anniversary bands or other special rings over time.

4) Check the comfort

Sure — your wedding ring looks great on. But, can you pick up a handbag, use a pair of scissors, type on your keyboard, or even hold a pen without feeling like you need to take it off? 

Comfort is key when it comes to a ring you’ll wear daily. Try doing a few everyday tasks while wearing it. Wiggle your fingers, make a fist, and see how it feels. This ring is going to be on 24/7, so you need to be happy with it. 

5) Make it a date

Are there any other wedding activities you and your partner need to sort together? If so, you could make a fun day of this escapade, combining wedding band shopping with a few other to-dos. Check out that new coffee shop, go try on rings, and then pop by your cake tasting or suit fitting afterwards. 

Or, if it’s a more relaxed day, finish off with a celebratory lunch or even a quick toast to ticking another thing off the wedding list! Turning it into a mini date makes it feel special, and it’s a lovely way to make memories out of these pre-wedding moments.

Don’t forget to take some cute photos along the way!

Caring for your wedding bands

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Caring for your wedding bands will depend largely on the type of metal, style, finish, and thickness of the band. Speak to your jeweller for specialist care information related to your specific rings. 

General advice that applies to all rings can include:

1) Use a gentle soap and soft cloth to polish

If you wear something every day, you need to clean it — that’s a fact. A dirty ring can appear dull, scratched, and may even damage the ring over time. 

Use a mild soap like baby shampoo or fairy liquid in conjunction with a soft bristled toothbrush and a soft cloth to polish. Be sure to wash the soap off with fresh, clean water, before drying and polishing gently. 

2) Watch for perfume and hand cream build up

Perfume and hand cream can build up over time. But, not washing it off effectively may tarnish or damage your ring. Take your ring off once a month to give it a thorough clean. Consider washing it twice a month if you’re especially attentive with your hand cream or have a ring made of silver, white gold, or with precious stones. 

3) Take it for an annual MOT

Taking your wedding ring for an annual once-over with your jeweller can help keep it looking as good as new and catch any potential issues before they become bigger problems. 

Your jeweller can check for loose stones, worn prongs, and give it a professional clean and polish that at-home care just can’t match. Think of it as an investment towards keeping your band beautiful for the long haul. Plus, it’s always nice to see it shine like it did on day one.

Pick your perfect wedding band with Bridebook 

Your wedding ring is an everlasting symbol of your love. As a result, you want something that not only looks stylish, but is also designed to stand the test of time (no matter what you throw at it). Whether you’re heavy-handed, have a light touch, are committed to weekly cleaning, or prefer the natural look, there are wedding bands to suit every personality and lifestyle.

Finding your dream wedding band is simple with Bridebook. You can effortlessly browse our brilliant range of jewellers, message the ones who take your fancy, save your favourites in a handy ‘scrapbook’, and keep your ideas all in one place. Sign up for a free account today and start your wedding planning journey! 

The Ultimate Wedding Dress Style Guide

You’re engaged! Yay! Cue the “Have you thought about a date?”, “What a beautiful ring”, and “Have you thought about what dress you might like?” questions. 

Hey, we get it. People are curious, and your wedding dress and bridal look is one of the most important outfits of your life. It’s the focal point of your big day, and let’s be honest — it’s probably the part you’re most excited about! But with so many options out there, it can be a bit overwhelming. 

Don’t stress, though! Whether you’re dreaming of a classic ball gown, a sleek and modern fit, or something totally unique, this guide has got you covered. So, grab a coffee, get cosy, and let’s break down all the dreamy details to help you find the one. Consider this your ultimate guide to wedding dress styles. 

How to pick your wedding dress

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Picking your wedding dress is a process. It involves planning, researching, talking, experimenting, and most importantly, trying on! Try following these 5 top tips to help pick your perfect wedding dress.

For even more tips and expert advice, you can also check out our dedicated guide on how to choose your wedding dress.

1. Research wedding dress shops

Bridal dress shops tend to cater to specific groups. For example, high-end boutiques are more likely to carry designer, one-off, or custom-made gowns, while more budget-friendly shops might focus on simpler, ready-to-wear options. 

In addition, you might find that shops specialise in a certain style or vibe. For example, lace specialists, ball gown specialists, or sleek, modern specialists. 

Knowing what a shop specialises in can save you time and help you zero in on the places that have what you’re after. A browse online or a phone call to ask about the kinds of dresses they carry is a good place to start.

You can also check out fabulous bridal boutiques right here on Bridebook, and effortlessly filter by whatever you’re looking for, whether that’s a high-end boutique or bespoke dressmaker, or somewhere that does hats and accessories.

2. Consider the venue and the vibe

You can wear whatever you want on your big day, of course. But the venue and vibe of your big day should be a factor when considering your wedding dress. 

For example, if you’re getting married on the beach, a lightweight, flowy gown might be more practical than a heavy ball gown. Or if you’re in a grand, traditional venue, something with a bit more structure and elegance might feel more fitting. Think about the mood of your wedding day, and pick a dress that complements it.

If you’ve got something specific in mind, don’t be afraid to steer away from the theme. But, basing your wedding dress on the overall theme or vibe can help bring everything together and make the whole day feel cohesive.

3. Sit, dance, hug

Don’t skip the sit, dance, hug test when picking your wedding dress. Sure, it looks great standing up in front of the mirror. But can you sit comfortably, throw all the shapes you want to, and hug your loved ones with ease? You want a dress that lets you enjoy every moment of your big day, from the ceremony to the dance floor.

4. Don’t obsess about sizing

It may seem like something small, but try to forget about the size on the label. Just because you’re usually size x, doesn’t necessarily mean you will be in your wedding dress. 

The material on a wedding dress is thick, and sizing often runs a bit differently than everyday clothes. It’s totally normal for wedding dress sizes to vary, sometimes by a size or two up or down. So don’t stress if the number is higher or lower than expected — it’s all about how the dress fits and feels.

Ultimately, no one is going to run into your dressing room and see the size on the label. Focus on finding the style that makes you feel beautiful and confident instead of fixating on the tag.

5. Be open-minded

While it’s a good idea to go into wedding dress appointments with an idea of what you might like, it’s also important to keep an open mind. You might have your heart set on a mermaid style, but end up falling for a classic ball gown, or vice versa. Wedding dress shopping is full of surprises, and sometimes the dress that makes you feel the most amazing isn’t what you originally pictured.

Try on a few different silhouettes, fabrics, and details. You might be shocked at how much you love something unexpected! And remember, even if you don’t say “yes” to every dress you try on, each one helps you get closer to what you truly want. Embrace the journey, stay flexible, and trust that the right dress will find you.

The ultimate guide to necklines

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Let’s break down all the different necklines you might try when wedding dress shopping. Experiment with different styles to see what feels best for you. 

  • Sweetheart. A sweetheart is your classic strapless, heart-shaped bustline. Beautiful and iconic, you’ll often find this paired with a fitted bodice or a full skirt for that timeless, romantic look.

 

  • Straight across. Similar to a sweetheart but slightly more modern, the straight across, strapless style is sleek and elegant, offering a clean line across the chest. It’s ideal for brides who want a minimalist look that still feels classic.

 

  • V-neck. A V-neckline has a plunging shape that elongates the neck and adds a touch of sophistication. It’s a versatile option that works beautifully on fitted dresses or flowing A-lines, and it can be as daring or modest as you like.

 

  • Off-the-shoulder. An off-the-shoulder neckline is perfect for brides looking to show off their shoulders and collarbones. It’s both timeless and trendy, adding a hint of romance to any gown style.

 

  • Asymmetric. Asymmetric usually means one-shouldered or diagonally across the chest and brings a modern, edgy twist to bridalwear. It beautifully frames the shoulders and can add balance to gowns with bold silhouettes or simple, sleek lines.

 

  • Queen Anne. The Queen Anne neckline is known for a high collar at the back and a sweetheart or scoop shape in the front. It combines coverage with a hint of romance, making it perfect for brides who want a classic, elegant look. The Queen Anne neckline often works beautifully with lace or intricate detailing, adding a touch of old-world charm to any gown style.

 

  • Halter. The halter neckline is a stylish choice that wraps around the neck, leaving the shoulders bare and drawing attention to the arms and upper back. It works well with both fitted and flowing gowns and is ideal for beach or outdoor weddings.

 

  • High neck. A high neck offers an elegant, sophisticated look with more coverage around the chest and neckline. Often adorned with lace, beading, or intricate embroidery, the high neck brings a vintage or regal feel to a wedding dress, perfect for brides looking for a timeless, classy style. 

 

  • Boat neck. Classy and elegant, the boat neck sits wide across the collarbones, creating a beautiful, soft frame for the shoulders and neck. It’s perfect for brides looking for a sophisticated, Audrey Hepburn-inspired style.

 

  • Illusion. An illusion neckline gives the appearance of a strapless or low-cut style while adding extra coverage through a layer of sheer or lace fabric. Often decorated with lace appliqué, beading, or embroidery, the illusion neckline is perfect for brides who want drama paired with modesty. 

 

  • Scoop. A scoop neck is the perfect neckline for brides looking for a soft, rounded shape that flatters all body types. This gentle U-shaped neckline adds a touch of sweetness and works well with almost any dress style, from fitted mermaid gowns to flowing A-lines. It’s a versatile choice that feels both classic and romantic.

 

  • Square. Similar to a scoop neck, the square neck is a structured and elegant option with a straight, clean line that frames the collarbone and shoulders beautifully. This neckline has a classic, almost regal feel, and works well with fitted or A-line dresses.

The ultimate guide to skirts and silhouettes 

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Once you’ve got the neck down, it’s time to decide on skirt style. Whether it’s sleek and sophisticated or ethereal and princessy, there’s a skirt to suit everyone. 

  • A-line. An A-line skirt is a staple of bridal fashion, offering a classic silhouette that gradually flares out from the waist, resembling the shape of an uppercase “A.” It’s universally flattering, works with various fabrics, and is ideal for brides wanting a bit of volume without the drama of a full ball gown.

 

  • Mermaid. Mermaid skirts are a show-stopping choice for brides who want to show off their curves and make a dramatic entrance. This style hugs you from the bodice down to the knees and then flares out, creating a gorgeous hourglass shape. It’s perfect for a glam, red-carpet vibe and works beautifully with rich fabrics like satin and lace.

 

  • Ball gown. It’s a classic for a reason. Ball gown style wedding dresses are the ultimate in fairy-tale bridal fashion. With a fitted bodice and a full, voluminous skirt that flares out from the waist, this style gives you that dreamy “princess” look that so many brides covet.

 

  • Fit-and-flare. Fit-and-flare skirts give you that mermaid-inspired silhouette but with a little more breathing room. Fitted through the bodice and hips, the skirt begins to subtly flare out around mid-thigh. This style is great for brides who love a hint of drama but want a bit more flexibility for moving and dancing.

 

  • Slip. This one has grown in popularity in recent years. The slip dress offers a sleek, minimalist style that skims the body with a soft, close-fitting silhouette. Made from lightweight fabrics like silk or satin, a slip skirt gives off that “barely-there” look, perfect for modern brides who want something chic and understated. 

 

  • Sheath. For a no-fuss, refined look, the sheath skirt is a great choice. This narrow, close-to-the-body style follows your natural lines from top to bottom, creating an effortlessly chic silhouette. If you’re looking for something polished but low-key, the sheath might be just the one.

 

  • Column. Column style skirts are sleek, sophisticated, and perfect for brides who want an elongated, minimalist look. This narrow silhouette gently skims the body without much flare, creating a clean, streamlined shape. They’re comfortable, easy to move in, and ideal for laid-back weddings. 

 

  • Tea-length. Who doesn’t love a 50s-inspired tea-length gown? This skirt will hit you just above your ankles, and leans into the playful, vintage vibe for brides wanting a touch of retro charm. Lightweight fabrics like tulle, lace, or satin make it breezy and comfortable, ideal for garden weddings, beach ceremonies, or any themed wedding. 

 

  • Empire. Another staple of bridal couture, empire waisted gowns are all about elegance and grace. The skirt flows from just under the bust, creating a long, flowing silhouette that gently skims the body. This style is perfect for brides looking for a romantic, ethereal feel and a comfortable fit. 

 

  • Mini. Ultra trendy, mini dresses are all the rage for city or casual weddings. This bold, fun style is perfect for brides who want something fresh and playful, and it’s a fantastic option for showing off killer shoes. Equally, the “double wedding dress” trend is really popular right now. This is where brides change into a second, more casual dress for their evening receptions. Mini dresses are a popular choice for this. 

 

  • Tulip. Tulip skirts have a unique, petal-like wrap design that overlaps in the front, giving a romantic but modern look. It’s super flattering and adds a little twist to the usual styles. This one’s gorgeous in drapey fabrics like silk or crepe and is a fun pick for garden or chic city weddings.

 

  • Midi. Hitting at mid-shin length, midi skirts strike the perfect balance between elegance and playfulness. This style gives you a bit of the classic tea-length vibe but with a more modern twist. 

 

  • High-low. High-low skirts are skirts that are either a mini or midi length in the front, dropping to a longer length in the back, creating a dramatic and playful look. High-low skirts are fantastic for brides who want something a bit out-of-the-box, and they work beautifully for weddings of all styles. Plus, they make dancing a breeze!

 

  • Drop-waist. Effortlessly regal, a drop-waist skirt elongates the torso by starting lower on the hips before flaring out, creating a sophisticated, vintage-inspired silhouette. This style is perfect for brides who want something different but with a touch of old-school glamour.
The 14 Wedding Dress Silhouette Styles
The 14 Wedding Dress Silhouette Styles

Check out our handy infographic above on all the different wedding dress skirt and silhouette styles. Pick the one that looks and feels right for you!

And remember that many bridal boutiques will let you mix and match the neckline and skirt styles to create a bridal look that’s as unique as you are.

What if I don’t want to wear a wedding dress?

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Then you don’t have to! This is your day, and you can wear whatever makes you feel most special and comfortable. If you’re looking for some fun and funky alternatives to wearing a wedding dress, check out the following 7 ideas:

1. Modern jumpsuit

Jumpsuits are becoming a fast favourite of non-traditional brides, combining style and comfort in one chic package. Whether it’s sleek satin, lace, or something embellished, a bridal jumpsuit brings a modern, edgy vibe and lets you dance the night away without a fuss. Plus, they look amazing in photos.

2. Kaftan

Kaftans are floaty and fabulous. If you’re looking for something ethereal and bohemian, a kaftan could be your perfect match. With its flowy silhouette and relaxed fit, a kaftan brings a dreamy, laid-back elegance that’s perfect for beach or garden weddings. Plus, you can find them with gorgeous embroidery, beading, or lace details to keep things feeling special.

3. Pant suit

Similar to a jumpsuit, pant suits are a power move for brides who want to look sharp, stylish, and effortlessly cool. Whether you go for a sleek white suit or add a twist with pastels or even sparkles, a pant suit lets you own the day with sophistication and comfort.

4. Playsuit with detachable skirt

A playsuit with a detachable skirt is a fun way to get two looks in one. Start with the full-skirted, flowy vibe for your ceremony, and then simply detach the skirt to reveal a cute, playful playsuit underneath for the reception. It’s a fantastic option if you want that classic bridal entrance but are ready to dance and move without any restrictions later on. It’s the best of both worlds. 

5. Tuxedo

Sharp and sleek, tuxedos are a bold choice that makes an unforgettable statement. Opt for a classic white or ivory tux for a chic, bridal feel, or go all out with a tailored black tux for that timeless, ultra-stylish vibe. Add a pair of heels or statement flats, and you’ve got a look that’s both powerful and elegant — perfect for the modern bride who wants to break away from tradition!

6. Bustier and silk trousers

If you want a look that screams glamour, a bustier with silk trousers is the way to go! This combo brings a luxe, red-carpet feel, mixing the feminine elegance of a fitted bustier with the chic sophistication of flowy silk pants. It’s perfect for brides who want something modern and a bit daring while still feeling ‘bridal’. Pair with statement earrings or a bold lip, and you’ll be turning heads all night

7. Sequin jumpsuit

Sometimes you need a little razzle dazzle, and there’s no better excuse than your wedding day. Try a sequin jumpsuit for a look that’s all sparkle, all night! This bold choice lets you shine and brings a party vibe that’s perfect for a bride who loves to stand out. Go for full sequins or a subtler sparkle with embellishments, and add a pair of fabulous heels or funky accessories to complete the look.

To veil or not to veil?

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The eternal question — to veil or not to veil? Veils are a beautiful and classic part of the bridal look, but they’re absolutely optional. 

Traditionally, veils were used to ward off evil and protect the bride on her big day. However, today, they’re really just about adding a bit of magic and drama to your look. If a veil isn’t your thing, there are so many other options to consider that can make your style feel just as special.

Nathalie Neuilly, founder of Dressarte Paris, shares her expert insights as an experienced dressmaker: “We often do custom veils adding custom messages, initials etc. But it’s true that more than 75% of our brides decide to go without veils. Instead they prefer to add fresh flowers when styling their hair, or upcycle their mum’s veil and create a custom accessory.”

For a whimsical or boho vibe, a flower crown can be a beautiful touch. Or, if you want a bit of sparkle, try a crystal-studded headband, tiara, or hair vine for that extra touch of glamour without the full veil.

If you’re loving the idea of a grand entrance but want something a little different, a bridal cape or capelet might be perfect. Long, flowing capes can give you that veil-like effect with a unique twist and can be easily removed after the ceremony. They’re a gorgeous way to bring a bit of elegance and flair to your outfit. Plus, they’re ideal for keeping you warm during an autumn or winter wedding.

Top tips on bridal accessories

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The right accessories are the cherry on top of the cake to your bridal look. Think of them as the finishing touches that bring your entire look together. Accessories can add a bit of sparkle, a touch of elegance, or even a pop of personality — whatever makes you feel like the best version of yourself. 

Remember, your accessories should always enhance and add to your outfit and never distract from it.

Gloves

Gloves add an elegant touch to any outfit, but especially to a wedding dress. Whether you go silk, satin, or even lace, gloves can give your bridal look a hint of vintage glamour or modern sophistication. Short gloves have a playful, retro feel, while elbow-length or opera gloves add an air of classic elegance. Perfect for brides who want that extra bit of drama and style.

Shawl or bolero

Stave off the chill with a shawl or bolero. Just enough to cover your shoulders without adding extra bulk, shawls and boleros add both warmth and style to your bridal look. Choose a lace or silk shawl for a soft, romantic touch, or go for a faux fur bolero if you want something cosy with a bit of glam. 

Jewellery

Aside from the obvious wedding and engagement ring, jewellery can make or break your bridal look. Whether you go for elegant pearls, sparkling diamonds, or something a little more unique, jewellery is your chance to add a bit of you to your bridal style! Think about pieces that’ll bring a little extra magic and, if you’re buying something new, pick something you’ll wear time and time again. 

Pro tip: Your wedding jewellery is the perfect way to incorporate your ‘Something old, something new, something borrowed, something blue’. Wear a bracelet you wore to your prom, borrow a necklace from your mum, or add a touch of blue with a delicate sapphire ring or even a dainty anklet.

Garter

A staple of bridal wedding attire, a garter is a fun, cheeky little addition that’s both traditional and a bit playful. You can go classic with lace, add a hint of blue for that “something blue,” or even find one with a little sparkle. It’s one of those hidden accessories just for you (and maybe a fun toss later on, if that’s your style!).

Find your dream wedding dress

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Your wedding is one of the most important and memorable days of your life, so finding the perfect dress or outfit is all about making sure you feel your absolute best. This guide has covered everything from dress styles and silhouettes to unique alternatives and accessories. Whether you’re leaning towards a classic ball gown, a sleek jumpsuit, or even a sparkling sequin number, remember that your look should make you feel like the star of the show.

Wedding dress shopping can be a bit of a journey, filled with surprises and maybe a few unexpected “wow” moments. So, take your time, enjoy every try-on, and don’t stress if the process takes a bit longer than expected. After all, it’s all part of the fun!

And don’t forget to browse wedding dresses and boutiques near you here on Bridebook. Whatever your style and budget, there’s something for everyone!

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9 Winter Wedding Outfit Ideas

The natural sparkles of the winter season make it the perfect setting for a magical winter wedding. From snow-dusted churches, frozen lakes, or even a simple sprinkling of frost, winter weddings have a way of feeling extra special and romantic. But figuring out what to wear can be a bit of a challenge — how do you stay stylish while keeping warm in the chilly weather?

Whether you’re attending as a guest, standing at the altar, or walking down the aisle, winter weddings call for outfits that balance elegance with practicality. In this post, we’ll take a look at some fun and unique winter wedding looks to keep you looking fabulous and feeling comfortable all day long.

What is a winter wedding? 

A winter wedding can be either a celebration with a magical, snowy theme, or a wedding that takes place between mid-November and February. These months are known for their frosty weather, shorter days, and cosy vibes, making them perfect for a romantic, candlelit ceremony, or an intimate reception by a crackling fireplace. 

Whether you’re dreaming of twinkling lights, rich seasonal colours, or a festive feel, a winter wedding offers a unique charm and plenty of opportunities to get creative with your big day. But, dressing for a winter wedding can be tricky. How do you accommodate the weather without sacrificing style, looking cosy but chic in your winter coat?

The good news is that dressing for a winter wedding is easier than you may think. We all know that if layers aren’t done right, they can make you look bulky and feel frumpy. But, when done correctly, layers look chic and sophisticated. It’s all about choosing the right fabrics and accessories. Think elegant coats, scarves, and gloves that complement your outfit (rather than hide it!) 

How to pick what to wear in 5 easy steps 

If you’re feeling stuck, try following these 5 simple tips to plan the perfect winter wedding outfit. 

1. Try a statement coat

Whether it’s brightly coloured, a funky fabric, fur-trimmed, or you’re hopping on the leopard print trend, your coat can double as both a fashion piece and a practical layer to keep you warm. The best part? The coat is your outfit, meaning you don’t have to take it off all day (if you don’t want to!). 

2. Prioritise practical footwear

We know your open-toed shoes look amazing with your tea length dress. But, when it’s cold and possibly snowy, those gorgeous shoes might not be the best choice. Instead, prioritise footwear that’s both stylish and practical. Think chic ankle boots or closed-toe heels that can handle slippery paths and chilly temps. 

Plus, practical footwear means extra room for warm, cosy socks. Keeping your extremities (hands, feet, the top of your head etc.) warm tricks your body into thinking you’re warmer than you are, keeping you comfortable throughout the day.

Pro tip: You can always switch into those fabulous shoes for indoor moments if need be. 

3. Think beyond black

It’s a classic for a reason, right?

Well, yes and no. We know it can be tempting to dress in all black for a winter wedding. It’s effortlessly chic, easy to put together, and universally flattering. But, it can also feel a bit predictable. If you want to stand out in a sea of black, try thinking beyond the usual dark shades. 

Winter is the perfect time to experiment with rich, bold colours like deep emerald, royal blue, or burgundy. These jewel tones not only feel festive, but also add a touch of elegance and warmth to your outfit. Plus, they’ll pop beautifully against the neutral, wintry landscape.

4. Layer strategically

The key to staying warm is layering — we all know this. But, layering also adds extra bulk, which can leave you feeling uncomfortable and heavy. To avoid this classic winter wardrobe dilemma, the trick is to layer strategically. 

Start with thin, fitted base layers, like thermal tops or leggings, which will keep you warm without adding bulk. From there, you can build up with pieces that still show off your shape (like a tailored jacket or a belted coat), so you can stay cosy without sacrificing style.

If you’re worried about looking too bulky, try layering with different textures and fabrics to add dimension to your outfit without the weight. For example, pair a sleek satin dress with a soft cashmere cardigan or a structured blazer, so you get that warmth without feeling like you’re buried under layers.

5. Take one thing off before you leave the house

Follow Coco Chanel’s sage advice and take off one accessory or a light layer before leaving the house. Whether it’s an extra piece of jewellery or that unnecessary scarf you threw on last minute, this little trick ensures your outfit feels polished, not cluttered. Less is often more, especially when you’re already layering up for warmth.

For more expert advice and guidance on what to wear to a winter wedding, be sure to check out our dedicated post. 

9 winter wedding outfit ideas 

Whether you need full outfit inspo or are looking for tips on how to accessorise, we’ve got you covered. Read on for 9 fun and unique outfit, accessory, and styling tips to help you ace dressing for a winter wedding. 

For brides

1. A lace-trimmed cape

Ditch the veil and opt for a lace-trimmed cape to nod to the traditional while keeping things unique. Capes are a fabulous addition to any wedding look, keeping you warm while adding a regal, fairytale vibe to your bridal look. Whether you go for a full-length cape or a shorter, shoulder-length one, the lace detailing will bring a touch of romance and elegance.

2. White jumpsuit with a statement coat

If traditional isn’t really your style or you want to mix things up, a chic white jumpsuit paired with a statement coat is the way to go. It’s modern, sleek, and gives off serious cool-girl vibes while still looking bridal. The beauty of a jumpsuit is that it’s comfortable and easy to move in, making it perfect for dancing the night away. Pair it with a bold coat to add drama and warmth. Think faux fur, a tailored wool number, or even something with a bit of sparkle.

3. Snowflake-inspired jewellery

Lean into the winter theme while still keeping things elegant with snowflake-inspired jewellery. It’s the perfect way to bring in a little seasonal magic while staying chic and timeless. 

Opt for silver or platinum jewellery to keep the frosty vibe going, or even add a touch of sparkle with diamonds or crystals.

Pro tip: Look out for snowflake jewellery that incorporates blue crystals like sapphires, aquamarine, or turquoise. This way, your jewellery can double as your ‘something blue’!

For grooms

4. Velvet dinner jacket and tartan trousers or pants

A winter wedding is the perfect opportunity to mix and match jazzy or unusual fabrics. Try pairing a velvet dinner jacket with tartan trousers or pants for a bold, stylish winter look. Look out for deep tones like burgundy, navy, or forest green to keep things seasonally appropriate. Make sure the tones of your jacket match the tones of the tartan for a cohesive look. For example, forest green with green tartan or a burgundy jacket with red tartan. 

It’s important to keep the rest of your look classic to avoid overwhelming the outfit. Pair your statement pieces with a white shirt, black tie, and neutral, polished shoes for a balanced look.

5. Leather gloves

Leather gloves are a practical yet stylish accessory that can elevate your winter wedding outfit. Not only will they keep your hands warm during outdoor moments, but they’ll also add a touch of sophistication to your look. Opt for classic black or brown leather gloves to complement your suit, or go bold with a pair in a deep jewel tone that matches your outfit. 

Pro tip: If the weather forecast is looking extra chilly, look out for gloves lined with wool, cashmere, or fur. They’ll keep your hands warm while maintaining a polished look. 

6. Winter-themed waistcoat and pocket square

If you’re planning an overtly winter-themed wedding, look out for a themed waistcoat and pocket square to really lean into the festive spirit. A waistcoat with subtle winter motifs like snowflakes, pine trees, reindeer, or even a subtle sparkle can add a fun yet elegant touch to your outfit. Pair it with a matching or coordinating pocket square to tie the whole look together. 

For guests

7. Velvet midi with ankle boots

This look is a classic for a reason. The perfect blend of elegance and comfort, a velvet midi dress in a deep jewel tone like emerald green, navy, or plum feels so luxurious and cosy. The rich texture of velvet is perfect for winter, giving you that sophisticated vibe without feeling too over-the-top.

Pair it with some sleek ankle boots, which not only keep your feet warm but also add a stylish, modern twist to the outfit. Go for heeled boots in leather or suede to really take the look up a notch and add that extra bit of flair.

8. A healthy dose of sparkle

Whether it’s glitter, sequins, or some shimmering accessories, a little sparkle goes a long way at a winter wedding. You can add a bit of glam to your outfit with statement earrings, a sparkly clutch, or even a glittery belt to cinch in your waist. Don’t be afraid to have fun with it. After all, winter weddings are the perfect excuse to add a touch of magic to your look.

9. Statement tights

Statement tights are the icing on the cake for an already polished look. Depending on the style, they can add a pop of colour, a fun twist, or a bit of texture to your outfit. Think polka dots, lace patterns, or even a little shimmer. 

They’re not only practical for keeping your legs warm, but also give your look that extra something special without going over the top. 

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Although you want to look fabulous, comfort is key when it comes to dressing for a winter wedding. It’s all about looking your best while simultaneously staying warm and feeling comfortable throughout the day. 

Winter weddings often mean beautiful but chilly outdoor moments, so practical layers, cosy footwear, and stylish accessories are your best friends. Whether you’re a guest, one of the nearlyweds, or part of the wedding party, making sure you’re comfortable while still looking chic will help you fully enjoy the magical day without worrying about the cold.

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9 Autumn Wedding Outfit Ideas

Autumn weddings have exploded in popularity in recent years. Not only are they incredibly romantic, but they can also be unseasonably warm, and the beautiful backdrop of coloured leaves makes them perfectly picturesque. 

If you’re looking to throw your very own autumn smash and aren’t sure what to wear, keep reading! We have 5 top tips to help you pick the perfect ‘fit, plus 9 ideas for brides, grooms, and guests.

What is an autumn wedding?

An autumn wedding can either be a wedding held in the autumn or a wedding with a cosy, pumpkin spice theme. Any weddings planned between mid-September and early November would be considered an autumn wedding. Anything after Guy Fawkes night — you’re in winter territory. 

Dressing for an autumn wedding is all about rich colours, cosy fabrics, and autumnal accents. Gold leaf hair accessories, tartan pocket squares, and statement velvet shoes are all perfectly in keeping with an autumn wedding. 

The most important thing to remember is to embrace the season. Think warmth, comfort, and those gorgeous autumn tones. Whether you’re a bride, groom, or guest, lean into the autumn vibe with layers, textures, and a splash of something festive like burnt orange or deep plum. Just enjoy the crisp air, cosy atmosphere, and let the beauty of the season work its magic

How to pick what to wear in 5 easy steps

Struggling with what to wear as an autumn wedding guest? Read on for our top tips to help you find the perfect outfit. 

1. Check the forecast

Autumn can be unpredictable, and the key to staying comfortable all day is to check the weather forecast beforehand. Cooler weather will call for more layers, while you can get away with lighter fabrics if it’s a warmer day. Either way, plan for a little chill in the air, just in case.

Understandably, weather forecasts can change quite dramatically from day to day. As a result, you might like to have two outfits prepared so you’re ready for whatever the day throws at you. Although it can be challenging to pick two outfits for a wedding, having a rainy-day backup means you can adjust last-minute without the stress.

2. Focus on layering

The key to autumn fashion is layers, layers, layers. Not only do they keep you warm, but they also add style and versatility to your look. 

Start with a chic base, like a sleek dress or tailored suit, then add a light cardigan, blazer, or even a stylish shawl. You can easily remove layers if the sun comes out, but you’ll be prepared for those crisp evening breezes

3. Beware of clashing

With multiple pieces comes extra potential for clashing, so it’s important to keep your colours and textures balanced. 

Stick to a cohesive palette — think warm autumnal tones like burgundy, olive, and mustard. If your outfit has bold patterns, keep accessories and layers more subdued to avoid overwhelming your look. 

Also, beware of clashing fabrics. Although they’ll keep you warm, heavier fabrics have a tendency to compete with each other if you’re not careful. Try to mix textures thoughtfully: pairing velvet with silk or wool with lighter knits can create a balanced, stylish look without feeling too bulky. The key is to let one fabric be the star while others complement it.

4. Statement shoes

An autumn wedding is the perfect time for statement shoes. Think classy Chelsea boots, suede loafers, or even bold block heels in a rich autumnal shade like burgundy or forest green. These shoes not only add a pop of personality to your outfit, but also keep you comfortable for all the mingling, standing, and dancing. Plus, they’re practical for navigating any outdoor terrain like grass or gravel.

5. Hidden hosiery

The pro tip to end all pro tips: a pair of sheer, nude-coloured tights can make all the difference on a chilly autumn day! Not only will they keep your legs a little warmer, but they’ll also give your outfit a polished, put-together look. If you’re wearing a dress or skirt, hidden hosiery is a subtle way to stay comfortable without compromising on style.

Equally, if it’s extra cold, consider wearing a pair of tights under your trousers or jumpsuit. This extra, hidden layer is sometimes just the little boost you need to stay warm without anyone knowing. It’s a simple trick that can make a big difference when temperatures drop. Plus, it won’t interfere with your look, so you can still rock your stylish jumpsuit or trousers while secretly staying cosy.

Extra pro tip: Tights are available in just about every tone now, so take the time to find the perfect match for your individual skin tone. The added time taken adds that extra bit of polish to your look, making your tights almost invisible while still giving you the warmth and comfort you need.

9 autumn wedding outfit ideas 

If you’re stuck on what to wear, check out these 9 ideas for the perfect autumn wedding outfit, from couples’ attire to guest outfits. Whether you’re looking for a full outfit or inspiration for a fun accessory, everything you need is below. 

For brides

1. Velvet elegance

There’s nothing classier than an all-white, velvet gown. Warm and luxurious, velvet is the perfect fabric for an autumn bride. It adds a touch of elegance while keeping you cosy. Opt for a fitted silhouette or a flowing, bohemian style. Either way, you’ll look stunning against the autumnal backdrop.

2. Capes instead of veils

Consider reserving veils for summer and spring brides. If you’re an autumn bride-to-be, a cape is a striking and eye-catching choice. 

Capes are perfect for adding drama and warmth to your bridal look. Whether you choose a lace, sheer, or velvet cape, it will not only keep you warm but also add a magical, ethereal vibe as you walk down the aisle. It’s a stunning alternative that feels right at home in an autumn setting.

3. Statement sleeves

Cover up with a statement sleeve. Regal and elegant, long statement sleeves are perfect for an autumnal wedding look. Whether you opt for billowy bishop sleeves, dramatic puffs, or delicate lace, these beautiful additions to any dress add both warmth and style.

Statement sleeves also give your dress a vintage or boho flair, depending on the design, making you stand out in all the right ways.

For grooms

4. Tweed vibes

Tweed is the perfect addition to an autumn wedding. Not only does the heavy fabric keep you warm, but the muted tones also perfectly match the season’s palette. Opt for a full tweed suit or mix and match with a tweed waistcoat or jacket paired with wool trousers. Earthy tones like brown, grey, or olive green will complement the autumn atmosphere and give you a stylish yet rustic vibe.

5. Tartan accents

Tartan is known for being wonderfully stylish and extra cosy — perfect for an autumn or autumn-themed wedding. Whether you go for a full tartan suit or just add some subtle touches like a tartan tie or pocket square, it’s a great way to bring in a bit of flair. Plus, it adds a nod to tradition, especially if you’re embracing Scottish roots or just love the classic look.

6. Seasonal boutonniere

Pick seasonal flowers like deep red roses, orange dahlias, or even some berries and greenery for a boutonniere that screams autumn. You can also go for something a little more rustic, like wheat, to tie in with that earthy, seasonal feel. It’s a small detail, but one that can really elevate your look and bring the whole outfit together.

Pro tip: The muted colours of dried flowers are effortlessly autumnal. Look into pampas grass, lavender, or even dried hydrangeas. They not only look amazing, but also add texture and a wild, untamed vibe that’s perfect for the season.

For guests

7. Textured tights

Mix up your look by adding a pair of textured tights to your autumn wedding outfit. Think cable-knit, ribbed, or even subtle patterns. These will not only keep you warm, but also give your look that extra bit of style and depth. Pair them with a cute dress and boots, and you’re set for that outdoor ceremony or cooler evening reception.

8. Go monochrome

Monochrome doesn’t necessarily mean black and white. Instead, monochrome can mean choosing one color and running with different shades of it throughout your outfit. Think all shades of green, from olive to sage, or a mix of rich burgundy tones. 

It’s a sleek, modern way to make a statement while staying in line with the autumnal theme. Plus, it’s an easy way to pull together a cohesive look without overthinking it. 

9. Leather jackets

Effortlessly edgy and deliciously undone, a leather jacket is the perfect outer layer for an autumn wedding guest outfit. It adds a touch of cool without compromising on style. Pair it with a flowy dress or smart tailored trousers, and you’ll strike the perfect balance between laid-back and polished. Plus, it’s a great option if the weather turns chilly in the evening.

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The key to dressing for an autumn wedding, whether you’re the couple themselves or a guest, is to embrace the season’s natural beauty while staying cosy and stylish. With the right mix of layers, textures, and seasonal touches, you’ll be all set for a day full of love, laughter, and crisp autumn air. 

Don’t be afraid of a rich autumn hue or plush fabrics like velvet, tweed, and leather. And always remember, comfort is key, so keep an eye on that weather forecast and plan for any sudden chills or sunny surprises.

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9 Summer Wedding Outfit Ideas

Summer is here, and with it comes long evenings, ice cold drinks, and a whole host of weddings. Whether you’re a nearlywed, a guest, or part of the wedding party, you’ll want to look your best while keeping cool in the summer sun.

But, it’s not always that easy. We know the Great British weather doesn’t always play ball. How do you find the balance between cool and covered up, ensuring you can show off your lovely tan while not catching a sunburn? Read on to learn all about summer wedding guest outfits, plus what to wear as a bride or groom. Whether you’re looking for outfit inspo or a guide for how to choose what to wear, you’ll find everything you need below. 

What is a summer wedding?

A summer wedding can either be a wedding with a summer theme or a wedding thrown in the height of summer. Weddings thrown between May and early September are generally considered to be summer weddings. However, if you plan on throwing a wedding abroad, you can have a summer wedding all year round!

Summer is a beautiful time to have your big day. The days will be long, the temperature will be toasty, and the sun will (probably) be shining. Having your wedding in the summer generally removes a lot of the logistical challenges of a spring, autumn, or winter wedding. But, it’s still important to be prepared, and your attire is one of the main things to consider. After all, you never know what the Great British weather will throw at you!

How to pick what to wear in 5 easy steps

If you’re concerned about summer showers or an unseasonable chill, try following these 5 easy steps to plan the perfect outfit. 

1. Think about the weather

First things first — what’s the forecast saying? The weather will be the most important element (pun not intended) to consider when picking your summer wedding guest outfit. 

The weather is generally at its warmest in late July or August, and while it’s important not to overheat, we recommend bringing light layers so you can stay out of the sun if you’d like to. A wide brimmed hat, light shawl, or even a light jacket can help shield you from the sun if things get a little too hot. 

If you check the weather forecast and it’s promising rain, consider bringing a small umbrella that matches your outfit, or even a chic, waterproof jacket that won’t clash with your look. It’s all about staying prepared for whatever the day throws at you without sacrificing style.

Oh, and don’t forget your sun cream. No matter the weather, it’s always a good idea to protect your skin. 

2. Think about the material

Although you may not pay much attention to it generally, strategically picking the material of your outfits is a game changer in the summer. Look out for cotton, linen, or lightweight silk fabrics. They’re breathable, cool, and perfect for staying comfortable in the heat. These materials allow air to flow through, preventing you from feeling sticky or sweaty, especially during those long summer events. 

Avoid synthetic fabrics like polyester, or anything heavy like wool or velvet, as they tend to trap heat and moisture, making things less pleasant as the day goes on.

3. Consider the dress code

Make sure you’ve double-checked the dress code before committing to an outfit. Weddings can range from formal black-tie to casual beach affairs, so knowing the vibe is crucial. If you’re not sure, don’t hesitate to ask the host. It’s always better to feel confident that you’re dressed just right for the occasion.

4. Think about the theme

Not all weddings have themes. However, if this one does, you’ll want to be sure you’re dressing to match it. Whether it’s low-key rustic, a boho beach theme, or even an overt underwater theme, matching your outfit to the theme helps you fit right in and adds to the overall experience.

Think about the colours, patterns, and style that best complement the setting. For a beach wedding, for example, light, flowy fabrics and earthy tones might work beautifully. For a more formal, black-tie event, you might opt for something sleek and elegant.

The key is to have fun with it! Just make sure you’re comfortable and confident while staying in line with the overall theme of the event. After all, weddings are all about celebrating and having a great time, so the more you blend in with the vibe, the more enjoyable your experience will be.

5. Try going second hand

Sustainability is very en vogue, and wearing something you already have or purchasing second hand is the modern way.

It’s best not to have a solid idea of what you want to wear if you’re going second-hand shopping, because you’re unlikely to find the ‘perfect’ outfit. Instead, try to go with an idea, a theme, a colour, or a general vibe you’re trying to achieve. This way, you’ll be more open to the unique pieces you come across. Plus, shopping second hand is all about the thrill of the hunt!

Alternatively, try second-hand shopping from the comfort of your own home with handy apps like Vinted, Depop, or eBay. They have a range of second-hand clothes (sometimes new, with tags!) in great condition for a fraction of the price. You can easily search by size, colour, or even brand, making it a little easier to find something that fits your vibe. And let’s be honest — there’s something super satisfying about snagging a bargain while doing your bit for the planet.

9 Summer Wedding Outfit Ideas

Check out our top 9 outfit ideas for summer wedding guests and spouses. Whether you need a full ‘fit or just some accessories, we’ve got you covered. 

For brides

1. Grecian-inspired gown

Stunning and regal, lean into that effortless goddess vibe with flowy fabrics and draped details. Perfect for an outdoor ceremony, opt for a dress made of soft white fabric, pinned or tied at your waist with a gold belt. Wear gold arm cuffs, gold earrings, and style your hair in a romantic half-up, half-down look. You’ll feel like a queen!

2. Wrist and ankle corsages

Skip the traditional flower crown and go for floral wrist and ankle corsages instead. They’re perfect for a carefree beach wedding and give off a fresh, boho vibe while keeping things simple and elegant.

Have your corsages made from the same flowers as your boutonniere and bouquet for a cohesive look. Opt for tropical flowers like calla lilies, birds of paradise, or beautiful sunflowers. Oh, and ditch the shoes! They’ll take away from the beauty of your tropical summery look. 

3. Backless dress with a statement bow

Bows are a huge trend for 2024, popping up everywhere from cake toppers to earrings to wedding dresses. Show off your summer tan with a stunning backless dress tied with a statement bow. 

The beauty of a backless dress is all in the drama — it’s elegant yet romantic, and perfect for a warm, sun-kissed day. Whether you go for sleek satin or a dramatic, oversized organza bow, you’ll look picture perfect from every angle.

For grooms

4. Tropical tie, pocket square, and waistcoat 

Mix up a classic suit with a little Club Tropicana flair by incorporating a tropical tie, pocket square, or waistcoat. Hey, you could even go for all three if you’re feeling funky!

This is the perfect way to bring a fun, summery twist to your wedding look without losing that polished vibe. Think palm prints, bright florals, or even a splash of bold colour that complements the theme of the wedding. 

5. Monochrome suit

You can’t go wrong with a classic monochrome look. 

But, don’t make the mistake of thinking monochrome means you need to wear a drab colour. Monochrome can mean crisp white, soft cream, or even a bold teal or hot pink. Whatever your preference, matching your outfit colours from top to toe is a sure fire way to look put together on your big day.

Remember, the key is consistency. Matching your shirt, tie, and accessories to your suit colour creates a polished, put-together vibe that’s hard to beat. Having said this, don’t be afraid to mix up texture if you want to add some dimension to your outfit. Try pairing a satin tie against a matte suit, or mix subtle patterns, like stripes or checks in the same colour family for a unique but cohesive look. 

6. Vest and rolled up sleeves

Keep it casual with this laid-back but dapper look by rocking a vest with rolled-up sleeves. This is perfect for a summer wedding where you want to look sharp but keep things cool and comfortable. Ditching the jacket gives you a relaxed vibe while still keeping you looking stylish. A fitted vest paired with a crisp button-down shirt (sleeves rolled up, obviously) hits the sweet spot between formal and casual.

You can even add a bit of flair with a patterned or colourful vest, or keep it classic with a neutral shade. Throw in some suspenders for a vintage touch, or go with a bold tie or pocket square for a little pop of colour. 

For guests

7. Pastel co-ord

Poppy and trendy, a pastel co-ord is a safe and beautiful choice for a summer wedding. The delicate pastel colour fits in with any colour scheme, and keeps you looking effortlessly chic. 

The beauty of a co-ord is that you can choose any pieces that fit your personal style. Whether it’s a skirt and fitted blouse, a shirt and cruisers, or even a dress and a blazer, there’s so much room to mix and match.  Go for a matching set if you want a polished, coordinated vibe, or mix different textures and cuts to add a bit of edge.

8. Tailored pants and a flowy shirt

It’s a classic for a reason, and you can’t go wrong with the timeless combo. The structure of the tailored pants with the natural flow of the shirt creates a perfect balance of style and comfort. It’s an outfit that works for just about any type of wedding, whether it’s a formal indoor affair or a laid-back garden ceremony.

The beauty of this simple outfit is that you can wear pretty neutral colours and then add pops of fun and colour with interesting accessories. Think a fun clutch, statement earrings or even a bold pair of shoes to really make the outfit pop. You can keep the base of your outfit understated and let your accessories do the talking, adding that personal touch to stand out in the crowd.

9. Ombre maxi dress

Say hello to summer in the most relaxed and stylish way with a beautiful ombre maxi dress. Whether it’s cream to pink, green to teal, or yellow to orange, the colour fade gives off a fun, summery vibe without feeling too over-the-top. Plus, the flowy design is super comfy for a long day of celebrating.

You can keep it simple with some cute sandals or wedges, and since the dress does most of the work, you don’t need to go OTT with accessories. A delicate necklace or a few bangles will do the trick. 

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Bright and beautiful, summer weddings are all about good weather, good company, and good vibes. Although sunshine is likely, it isn’t guaranteed and you should plan your outfit with this in mind. 

So, check the forecast, consider the dress code, and , if possible, try to buy second hand. Don’t forget to have a backup plan for those unexpected weather surprises, and layer up on that sun cream. Come rain or come shine, this wedding is happening, and you’re going to look amazing! 

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9 Spring Wedding Outfit Ideas

They’re fun, flirty, and floral — who doesn’t love a spring wedding?

In spite of their beauty, dressing for a spring wedding is all about hedging your bets. Spring weather can be unpredictable, so it’s important to prepare for anything. If you’re stuck on what to wear, don’t worry. We’re here to help! Read on for 5 top tips to help you plan your spring guest wedding attire, including 9 examples of our favourite spring wedding outfits!

What is a spring wedding?

A spring wedding can either be a wedding thrown in the spring or a wedding with a spring theme. Any weddings thrown between the months of March and May are considered a spring wedding, with the fresh spring blooms and longer evenings putting everyone in a celebratory mood. 

While spring is beautiful, it does bring its share of logistical challenges. For example, do you dress for the unseasonable chill, anticipate sun, or land somewhere in between? And let’s not forget the possibility of those surprise spring showers! 

The key is to plan your outfits with flexibility in mind. Think layers, wraps or shawls, and maybe even a stylish umbrella or two just in case. 

How to pick what to wear in 5 easy steps

Read on to learn our 5 sure-fire tips for how to choose what to wear to a spring wedding. 

1. Think about the weather

Spring can be pretty unpredictable, and the formidable British weather will be one of your biggest considerations when trying to pick what to wear. 

The best thing to do is hedge your bets. While you should definitely look at the weather forecast, don’t take it as gospel, and be ready for anything. We recommend you layer up, bring sensible shoes, wear versatile fabrics, and carry an umbrella just in case. You can always shed layers if the sun makes an appearance, but equally, you’ll still have the opportunity to wrap up in case of April showers.

It’s the best way to ensure you can enjoy the whole day, without the stress of worrying about being too hot, too cold, or caught in the rain.

2. Think about the venue

Another key consideration is the venue. Whether you’re indoors or outdoors, city or rural, all these factors will impact your outfit choice. If it’s an outdoor garden wedding, think about practical footwear. Avoid heels and opt for wedges or flats to avoid that awkward sinking feeling. For a chic city venue, you might want to go a bit more formal with your attire, but still, keep those layers handy.

It’s also important to consider all aspects of the wedding. For example, if the ceremony is indoors but there’s an outdoor reception, aim for something that strikes a balance — stylish yet comfortable enough to handle both environments. Rural locations might mean navigating uneven terrain, so be sure to pick footwear that can handle it, and maybe bring a wrap or jacket for those breezy country evenings.

Considering the venue will not only help you look the part but also keep you comfortable throughout the day.

3. Consider the dress code

Guest dress codes are becoming increasingly common in modern weddings. If the happy couple have a specific vibe or theme that they’re trying to curate, it’s good practice to respect their vision. 

Whether the invitation calls for black tie, cocktail attire, or something more laid-back, sticking to the dress code ensures you’ll fit right in with the celebration’s overall style. Plus, it takes the guesswork out of deciding what to wear! If you’re unsure about the specifics, don’t hesitate to ask the couple for some clarification.

4. Think about yourself

When we say think about yourself, we mean think about what you’re most comfortable in. There’s no point weathering a flashy, frilly jumpsuit when you’re more at home in comfy trousers and a nice shirt. While it’s important to dress up and respect the importance of the day, it’s also important that you’re true to yourself and feel confident in what you’re wearing. After all, you’ll enjoy the day so much more if you’re comfortable in your own skin (and outfit!). 

If you’re not a fan of high heels, go for stylish flats or low wedges. If bold prints aren’t your thing, opt for classic, timeless colours that make you feel good. 

The trick is to strike a balance between respecting the occasion and being yourself. Remember, confidence is the best accessory you can wear, so be yourself!

5. Consider what you already have

Sustainability is king, and there’s no point buying a whole new outfit when there’s something lovely hanging in your wardrobe. Take a moment to check out what you already own — you might be surprised at how many gems you’ve forgotten about!

A well-loved dress or sharp suit that makes you feel amazing may well be a better choice than something brand new. You can always freshen up an old favourite with different accessories or a new pair of shoes to give it a fresh look.

Not only is reusing what you already have great for the environment, but it also takes the pressure off finding something new and spending extra cash. Plus, wearing an outfit you already know and love means you’ll feel even more comfortable and confident on the big day. It’s a win-win!

So, before you rush out to shop, take a peek in your wardrobe. Sometimes the best option is already right there waiting for you.

9 Spring Wedding Outfit Ideas

Still stuck on what to wear? No problem. We’ve rounded up 9 of our favourite ideas for spring wedding outfits and accessories to help inspire you. 

For brides

1. Flower crown

Ditch the classic veil and opt for a big, blooming flower crown that matches your bouquet and table flowers. Not only will it add a sense of cohesion to your outfit, but it will also give you that fresh, ethereal vibe that’s perfect for a spring wedding.

If you’re dead set on wearing a veil, you can easily combine the two. Simply clip your veil onto the back of your flower crown and style your hair around this statement piece. 

2. Sheer lace sleeves

Stave off the spring chill by incorporating delicate sheer lace sleeves into your gown. They’ll add a touch of elegance while still feeling light and airy — perfect for that unpredictable spring weather. Plus, lace sleeves can really enhance the romantic, whimsical feel of your look.

If sleeves aren’t really your thing, you can achieve the same look with a bolero or sheer lace shrug. This will give you all the benefits of sheer lace sleeves, with the added flexibility of being able to take it off. 

3. Tons of tulle

Nothing says spring like tulle! Tulle is the perfect fabric to create a whimsical, fairytale feel that’s perfect for spring. 

Whether it’s a full tulle skirt or delicate layers cascading down the train of your dress, tulle adds a sense of lightness and movement that’s perfect for a spring wedding. Plus, it’s oh-so-photogenic! 

If you want to go all out, consider a multi-layered tulle gown for extra drama, or keep it subtle with a tulle veil for that delicate, airy effect.

For grooms

4. A coloured suit

We don’t mean bright orange or yellow (unless, of course, that’s your vibe!). Instead, we’re talking pastel pink, muted green, or navy blue to embrace the fresh feel of spring without going overboard. 

A pastel pink or muted green suit is a great way to make a subtle statement, while navy blue offers a more traditional option with a seasonal twist. Pair it with a crisp white shirt and a floral tie or pocket square, and you’re all set to stand out in a stylish yet understated way.

5. Floral waistcoat, pocket square, or tie

Adding a floral pop to an otherwise classic suit is a fun and creative way to bring in the spirit of spring without going over the top. Whether it’s soft pastel blooms or a bold floral pattern, these small touches will make your outfit feel fresh and in tune with the season.

Try to match the colours of the waistcoat, pocket square, or tie to that of the bride’s bouquet or the overall wedding theme. This will offer a cohesive look while showing attention to detail, making you look effortlessly coordinated. It’s the little things that matter, after all!

6. Bright boutonniere 

It’s a classic for a reason — you can’t go wrong with a classic boutonniere. But, have you considered adding a pop of colour to your boutonniere? Choose a bright, bold bloom that ties into the wedding’s spring palette. 

Think vibrant yellows, soft pinks, or even a striking blue to stand out. Alternatively, match your boutonniere to the bride’s flowers, the bridesmaids’ flowers, or the other groomsmen. Whether you contrast or complement, nothing says spring like flowers!

For guests

7. Floral wrap dress

“Florals? For spring? …Groundbreaking”

A floral wrap dress is the blueprint for spring wedding guest attire. But, sometimes things are a classic for a reason. A wrap dress is simple, flattering, and looks great on people of all shapes, sizes, and heights. Pair it with strappy sandals or wedges, and you’ve got an effortless, elegant look that’s perfect for a spring wedding. 

What’s more, the wrap style ensures comfort all day. Whether you’re sitting through the ceremony or boogie-ing down at the reception, a wrap dress brings versatility to your look. 

8. Bold blazers

A bold blazer can add a pop of colour or a touch of personality to any outfit. If you’re going to opt for this style, we recommend wearing a simple outfit and letting the blazer do the talking. For example, a plain dress in a neutral colour (except for white, obviously), trousers and a nice shirt, or a sleek jumpsuit can be instantly elevated with a bold blazer. 

Think bright colours like coral, mustard, or even a pastel green to embrace that spring vibe. It’s an easy way to add a statement piece to your look while staying chic and wedding-appropriate. Plus, a blazer can also come in handy when the evening gets a bit cooler — practical and stylish!

9. Pastel everything

Pastels are another spring staple, and you really can’t go wrong by incorporating them into your outfit. Whether it’s a soft blush dress, a light lavender jumpsuit, or mint green accessories, pastels bring that fresh, breezy spring vibe that’s perfect for a wedding. Pair pastel shades with neutral tones or mix and match different pastel colours for a playful yet elegant look.

Plan your perfect spring fling with Bridebook

Spring weddings are all about fresh starts, vibrant blooms, and celebrating love in full bloom. Whether you’re a bride, groom, or guest, dressing for a spring wedding means embracing the season’s unpredictability while looking fabulous. The key is to strike a balance between style and practicality. Think layers, versatile fabrics, and, of course, a fun pop of colour!

If you’re stuck for ideas, our free and easy-to-use app is the place to start. With user-friendly tools and a ton of inspiration, sign up to Bridebook to plan the perfect spring wedding without the stress.

From finding the best venues and vendors to organising your guest list and managing your budget, Bridebook has everything you need at your fingertips. Plus, you’ll get access to expert advice and tons of inspiration to help bring your spring wedding vision to life. Sign up today and plan your dream spring fling!

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Wedding Guest Hairstyle Ideas & Etiquette

Your hair is your crowning glory, and you want it to look its best on special days like weddings. But, what do you do when your ends are split, flyaways won’t tame, and your usual go-to hairstyle feels tired and uninspired? Don’t worry — we’re here to help save your style and have your Cinderella moment. 

Styling your hair for a wedding can be daunting, especially if you aren’t the most confident with hairspray and styling tools. However, some of the most beautiful styles are the simplest. So, whether you’re looking for a sophisticated updo with minimal fuss or chic and romantic waves that exude timeless charm, you’re in the right place. This post will walk you through 45 ideas for hairstyles for wedding guests, including what to do with long, short, and curly hair. 

What is a wedding guest hairstyle?

A wedding guest hairstyle is a formal or semi-formal hairstyle that guests can create to attend a wedding ceremony. There’s no difference between a normal formal hairstyle and a formal hairstyle for a wedding. However, a wedding guest’s hairstyle often takes into account the specific ambiance and theme of the wedding, as well as the attire chosen by the guests.

Hairstyles for a wedding as a guest

If you’re looking for some inspiration for wedding guest hairstyles, look no further. Keep reading for a how-to on 45 easy-to-achieve styles. 

Formal weddings

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Formal weddings usually demand the most sophisticated or elaborate hairstyles of all wedding themes. However, there are ways you can simplify the hairdo: 

For long hair

Long, formal hairstyles for a wedding as a guest include:

  • Romantic waves. Use a hair curler, hot rollers, or a hair waver with a deep barrel to help you achieve romantic waves. Tame your flyaways with a little hair oil and keep it in place with a light hairspray. 
  • Elegant updo. Pull your long hair back into an elegant updo. You’ll need some decorative hair clips or grips to hold it in place, and some hairspray to tame flyaways. Try pulling a few face-framing strands out of the updo to soften your face. Updos are especially pretty if you have a Bardot-style top or off-the-shoulder dress. 
  • Half-up half-down. Gather the top section of your hair into a twist, braid, or bun, leaving the rest of your hair down in loose waves or curls. This style is great for highlighting hair length or thickness. Try curling the bottom half of your hair or adding a flick to the ends for extra glamour. 

For short hair

Short, formal hairstyles for a wedding as a guest include:

  • A textured pixie. This style embraces your hair’s natural texture and is easy to manage throughout the day. Add volume and dimension by adding hairspray at the roots and tousling the hair with texturising spray or wax. Consider adding a side-swept fringe or face-framing strands to highlight your natural beauty. 
  • Side swept waves. Use a deep-barrel waver or curler to add some texture to your hair. Be sure to curl your hair away from your face, then gently brush through the curls with your fingers to loosen them. Sweep your hair to the side or over your ear, and finish with a spritz of hairspray to hold the style in place.
  • Sleek bob. Slick your hair down with hair gel or paste for an editorial look. This style is best for above-ear haircuts. Any longer than this, and you run the risk of your hair looking greasy. 

For curly hair 

Curly, formal hairstyles for a wedding as a guest include:

  • A curly crown. Braid a section of hair on each side of your head, then cross them over at the back and secure with kirby grips or a bobble. Leave the rest of your curls loose, or style them into soft waves for a whimsical finish. Use your favourite curly hair products to ensure your waves look their best.
  • A curly pony. Gather your curls into a high or low ponytail and secure with a decorative bobble. Pull out some curls to frame your face for a soft and romantic look, and use a curl-refreshing spray to revive any droopy curls throughout the day.
  • Defined curls with hair accessories. Follow your usual curly hair routine to make your curls look their best, then add a fun accessory like hair clips, a fascinator, or a hairband to elevate your style. Try using products like mousse, curl cream, and even hair gel, depending on your hair’s texture. This will define your curls and keep their volume throughout the day. 

City weddings

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City weddings are all the rage now, and for good reason! They offer a unique blend of urban charm and modern sophistication. When it comes to hairstyles for city weddings, you want something chic, polished, and effortlessly stylish. Here are some trendy options to consider:

For long hair

Long hairstyles for wedding guests include:

  • Sleek low bun. Smooth your hair back into a sleek ponytail, then twist it into a neat bun at the nape of your neck. Slick your parting down with hair gel or hairspray for a slicked-back look. Use kirby grips to secure any loose strands, and finish with hairspray for a polished look.
  • A high ponytail. Brush your hair up and backwards into a high ponytail. Secure with a bobble, and use a fine-toothed comb to smooth any bumps on your crown or nape. Use texture spray on the pony to add volume and hairspray for extra shine. 
  • Tousled with a statement accessory. Use heated rollers or a deep-barrel waver to add texture to your hair. Use wax or hairspray or tousle your hair for an undone style, then add a statement accessory like a fascinator, hair grips, or headband in a bright colour.  

For short hair

Short hairstyles for wedding guests include:

  • Textured mohawk braid. Create a French braid along the centre of your head, starting from the forehead and working towards the nape of your neck. Leave the sides of your short hair loose, or add some texture with texturising spray for added dimension. This edgy yet stylish hairstyle is perfect for city weddings and is sure to make a lasting impression.
  • Asymmetric bob. If you’re feeling bold, try cutting your short hair into an asymmetric bob à la 2007 Rhianna. It will add instant flair and personality to your outfit. However, it’s more permanent than these other suggestions, so make sure you’re confident before taking the plunge. 
  • Sleek crop. Slick your short hair down and behind your ears for a classy, editorial look. The shorter the hair, the chicer this looks, so don’t be afraid to go bold. Use gel or hairspray for a high shine effect, or wax or pomade for a matt style. 

For curly hair 

Curly hairstyles for wedding guests include:

  • Twisted half-up half-down. It can be difficult to get curly hair to lay flat, so leaning into the ‘undone’ style is a great way to disguise the chaos. Try creating two twists on the side of your head by wrapping two pieces of hair around one another. Pull these around the back of your head until they meet, and secure with a decorative hair clip or bobble. Let the rest of your curls fall loose and style as needed. Pull a few face-framing sections out of the twists for a romantic style. 
  • Curly side ponytail. A side pony is a great way to tame your hair while embracing your natural texture. Pull all your hair onto one side of your head and secure it in a low ponytail just below your ear. Try using a decorative or bejewelled bobble for extra glamour. 
  • Curly French twist. A French twist is a timeless and elegant hairstyle. However, they’re not always the easiest style to achieve. Be sure to put in lots of practice before the big day if you’d like to wear this style. Sweep your curls to one side of your head and twist them upwards, securing them with kirby grips to create a classic French twist. Leave a few curls loose around your face to soften the look and frame your face. If you’re already a pro at creating a French twist, you can leave a few curls out on the top to highlight your beautiful hair texture. 

Boho weddings

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Boho weddings are known for their relaxed, free-spirited atmosphere, so any hairstyles you choose as a wedding guest should reflect this style. 

For long hair

  • Half-up half-down with a top knot. Adding a top knot to this classic style adds a touch of whimsy which is perfect for a boho wedding. Part around the crown of your head and brush upwards. A great tip is to create two faux partings in line with the arches of your eyebrows. Twirl the hair gathered into a top knot and secure with either kirby grips or a bobble, depending on the thickness of your hair. Allow the rest of your hair to flow freely. 
  • Side-swept fishtail braid. Fishtail braids can be tricky to achieve, but once you’ve nailed them they’re a beautiful yet relaxed hairstyle for any wedding. Sweep your hair to one side and start braiding a fishtail braid, incorporating small sections of hair into the middle of the braid as you go. Secure the end with a bobble and gently pull on the sides of the braid to loosen it and add volume. Finish with a few spritzes of hairspray to hold the style in place. 
  • Waterfall braid. Waterfall braids are, again, quite an advanced style. However, once mastered, everyone will be asking for your hairstyle tips! Begin by taking a small section of hair near your temple and dividing it into three strands like a regular braid. Cross the top strand over the middle, then the bottom strand over the middle. On the next cross, drop the top strand and pick up a new section of hair from above the dropped strand to replace it. Continue braiding in this manner, dropping and picking up new sections of hair from above the braid as you go. Secure the end of the braid with a small bobble or a kirby grip, depending on your hair thickness. YouTube is your friend with this one — check out some inspiring and handy tutorials to grasp the exact technique. 

For short hair

  • A textured pixie. A textured pixie works well for a boho wedding. Embrace your natural texture and scrunch your hair with sea salt spray or texturising powder for an effortless finish. You can even add hair accessories like floral clips to emphasise the laid-back feel.
  • A headband or scarf. Choose a headband or scarf with a bold and colourful pattern or floral design to complement the boho aesthetic of the wedding. Place the headband or tie the scarf around your head, leaving your short hair loose and tousled for a casual and carefree look. This will instantly elevate your hairstyle and add a touch of bohemian charm to your overall look.
  • Twisted low pony. This one will depend on the length of your short hair. However, a twisted pony is a great way to keep your hair off your face while maintaining a boho style. Gather your hair into a low ponytail at the nape of your neck and secure it with a bobble. Then, twist the ponytail loosely and wrap it around the base to create a low twisted bun. Secure the bun with kirby grips and leave a few strands loose for a soft and effortless look. 

For curly hair 

  • A boho bun. Gather all of your curls into a loose bun at the nape of your neck and secure it with kirby grips. Leave a few curls loose around your face and at the nape of your neck for a relaxed look. 
  • Curly updo. This timeless hairstyle is perfect for curly hair at a boho wedding. Twist small sections of your curls and pin them at the back of your head, creating a loose and tousled updo. Leave a few curls loose around your face and at the nape of your neck for a romantic vibe. You can also add floral hair pins or accessories to enhance the style.
  • Keep it natural. Boho style is all about embracing your natural beauty and being carefree. What could be more carefree than wearing your natural texture? Follow your usual curly hair routine to help your curls look their best and rock the boho vibes. 

Rustic weddings

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Rustic weddings are characterised by their simplicity and natural elements, so you should focus on reflecting this energy in your hairstyles.  

For long hair

  • Flower crown with loose waves. Create soft, natural-looking waves using a curler or large barrel round brush. Once your waves are set, place a flower crown on top of your head, positioning it slightly over your forehead for a bohemian touch. The colours in your flower crown should complement your outfit. 
  • Volumised curls. Create bouncy curls throughout your hair using a curler or hot rollers. Be sure the barrel of the rollers is wide for more volume. Spray a little hairspray or texturising powder at your roots to increase volume. This is best done on second-day or slightly dirty hair, and will give your hair more texture and longevity. 
  • Rope braid. Rope braids are significantly easier to achieve than a waterfall or fishtail braid. Pull your hair to one side and separate it into two sections. Twist these sections around themselves, and then around one another to create a rope braid. Twisting the hair around itself first prevents the rope braid from unravelling throughout the day. Secure with a thin bobble. 

For short hair

  • Vintage-inspired pin curls. Create small pin curls throughout your short hair using a curling iron or hot rollers, then secure them with kirby grips or small hair clips. Once their hair has completely cooled, you should remove the pins. Your curls should stay in place depending on the length of your hair. If you like the way your hair looks with pins, use decorative kirby grips like pearl or diamante pins along the sides of your curls for a touch of old Hollywood elegance. 
  • Soft waves. Soft waves are the perfect style if you’re going for a romantic or feminine vibe. You can use a curler or waver, but it’s much easier to create soft waves on short hair using a thin straightener. Pull the hair tight between the plates and turn the straightener from side to side to create a loose wave. Set with a little hairspray for longevity. 
  • Fringe French braid. This one will take a little practice, but you can French braid your longer layers and fringe into a pretty style. Secure behind the ear with a decorative clip, and you’re good to go. It’s easier to French braid slightly dirty hair, so try using some dry shampoo if your hair is freshly washed. 

For curly hair

  • Natural curls with twine details. This style is perfect if you’re a natural curlyhead. Complete your usual curly hair routine to make your curls bouncy and hydrated, then add small rope braids sporadically throughout your hair. Secure them with a small bobble and beads for a laid-back look. 
  • Loose curls with a braided headband. Take two sections of hair from above your temples and braid them. The braid should face upwards and away from your face to prevent any bumps in your style. The braid should be about an inch in thickness, so take more or less hair depending on your hair density. Wrap your braids over the top of your head until they reach the opposite side of your head and secure with kirby grips. Allow the rest of your hair to flow free and loose.
  • A side braid with flowers. Sweep your curly hair to one side. Create a three-strand braid and secure it with a thin bobble. Decorate your braids with fresh flowers of your choosing. Daisies or small sprigs of babies’ breath look especially beautiful at a wedding. 

Destination weddings

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Destination weddings are weddings that happen abroad. While beaches and coastlines are popular choices for destination weddings, they’re not the only options available. Destination weddings can take place in a variety of breathtaking settings, including picturesque vineyards, historic castles, or lush gardens. Be sure to match your hairstyle to the location for a cohesive look. 

For long hair

  • Beachy waves. Create loose, beachy waves throughout your hair using a curler or a deep-barrel waver or iron. Accessorise with accents from the destination. For example, small seashell clips or hairpins for a beach, flowers for a woodland wedding, or leaves for a vineyard.
  • Messy bun with twists. Begin by gathering your hair into a high ponytail and loosely twisting it into a bun, securing it with kirby grips. Leave a few strands loose around the face to soften the look and add texture. Incorporate small twisted sections of hair into the bun for added dimension and visual interest.
  • Braided high ponytail. A high ponytail is a great way to keep your hair off your face and keep yourself cool, and incorporating a braid adds interest to the style. Start by dividing a straight section from the front of your hairline to the crown. French braid this section and secure it with a clip or small bobble. Brush the rest of your hair into a high ponytail and secure with a thicker bobble. Add a little hairspray to tame flyaways and some texture spray to your pony for a volumised look. 

For short hair

  • Hair jewellery. Hair jewellery adds a glamorous touch for castle weddings or a whimsical touch to woodland weddings. You can incorporate hair jewellery into any style, so consider using any of the above hairstyles and adding accessories as you see fit. 
  • Curly bob. Curly bobs are great for vineyard or beach weddings. Use a curler with a slim barrel to achieve a pretty, curly look. Finish with hairspray for longevity and add a sparkly hairband or flowers depending on the location. 
  • Textured lob. It’s easy to achieve volume and texture with a lob (long bob), as this hairstyle isn’t weighed down by excess length. Add texture and movement to your lob by tousling it with sea salt or texturising spray. Alternatively, you can create loose waves with a hair curler or waver, then spritz with hairspray for a lived-in look.

For curly hair 

  • Curly Dutch braid updo. Begin by creating a Dutch braid along one side of your head, incorporating sections of curly hair as you braid. Continue braiding until you reach the nape of your neck, then secure the braid with kirby grips or a bobble. Gather the remaining curly hair into a low bun and secure with kirby grips. Leave some curls loose around your face for a soft look and add some pretty accessories or hair jewellery for a finishing touch.  
  • Double low buns. Split your hair down the middle and secure into two low bunches. Twist your hair around themselves until you create two low double buns. Secure with a bobble and then add some pretty ribbons for a feminine touch. 
  • Braided updo. Begin by creating multiple small braids throughout your curly hair, varying the size and placement for a textured and whimsical look. Gather the braids into a loose bun or updo at the back of your head, securing them with kirby grips or a bobble. Allow some curls to cascade down your back for an elegant and glamorous look.

The bottom line on hairstyles for wedding guests

Remember, though your hairstyle is important when you’re a wedding guest, it’s not the be-all and end-all. The best hairstyles for wedding guests are the ones that make you feel beautiful and authentic. Follow the dress code, keep a mini hairspray in your bag, and you’ll fit right in with the vibe of the big day.

In the end, it’s not just about the hairstyle you wear, but also the confidence and happiness you bring to the celebration. Don’t be afraid to add a touch of personal flair to your hairdo, whether it’s a delicate hair accessory, flaunting your natural texture, or sneaking a subtle braid into your updo. If you’re feeling nervous or aren’t especially skilled when it comes to hairstyles, remember that the most beautiful accessory you can wear is your genuine smile!

Frequently Asked Questions

Can I wear a hat as a wedding guest?

You can wear a hat as a wedding guest so long as the dress code allows it. However, you’ll likely need to remove your hat any time you enter a building, meaning you’ll still need to style your hair underneath. So don’t think you can hide a bad hair day with the use of a tactful hat!

Can I wear my hair down as a wedding guest?

Wearing your hair down is a beautiful and timeless choice for wedding guest hairstyles — especially if you have long or thick hair. Consider beachy waves, romantic curls, or even a half-up half-down. 

Can I wear hair accessories as a wedding guest?

Accessories are to hair as herbs and spices are to a tasty meal — they should be used in moderation. Less is more when it comes to hair clips, headbands, or fascinators. Opt for one statement piece or a few subtle accents to complement your hairstyle without overpowering it. Remember, balance is key to achieving a polished and elegant appearance. 

Can I do my own hair as a wedding guest?

Doing your own hair is a great way to save money and ensure that your hairstyle perfectly reflects your personal style. With a little bit of practise and the right products, you can achieve a look that’s both stunning and uniquely you. 

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The Ultimate Wedding Planning Day Out: The National Wedding Show

Calling all engaged couples planning their dream wedding! Get ready for the ultimate wedding planning day out at The National Wedding Show, the largest and longest running wedding show in the UK. With its unparalleled array of features and attractions, this event promises to be an unforgettable experience for anyone embarking on the journey towards their big day.

What is The National Wedding Show?

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For over 25 years, The National Wedding Show has been the go-to destination for couples embarking on their wedding planning journey. With thousands of visitors attending each season, this renowned event continues to set the standard for wedding shows across the UK. This spring, the show returns to the NEC in Birmingham (1st-3rd March) and the ExCeL in London (23rd-24th March), promising an unrivalled day out for engaged couples.

Meet Leading Wedding Suppliers, All Under One Roof

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Imagine being able to meet hundreds of leading wedding suppliers all in one place. At The National Wedding Show, that dream becomes a reality. From florists to photographers, and cake designers to venue stylists, this show brings together the best in the business, making it a one-stop shopping destination for engaged couples everywhere. Say goodbye to endless hours of online searches and instead, immerse yourself in a world of wedding inspiration and possibilities.

The Latest Wedding Trends and Inspiration

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One of the most exciting aspects of attending The National Wedding Show is the opportunity to discover the latest wedding trends and find inspiration for your own special day. Whether you’re drawn to classic elegance or modern chic, there’s something for every taste and style. From breathtaking floral arrangements to innovative decor ideas, you’ll leave feeling inspired and ready to bring your vision to life. 

Unforgettable Attractions and Experiences

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The National Wedding Show isn’t just about shopping; it’s an immersive experience brimming with unforgettable attractions and experiences. Prepare to be dazzled by the glamorous Catwalk shows featuring bridal, menswear, bridesmaid, and mother of the bride attire, and gain invaluable insights and advice from leading wedding experts at the WEDTalk Theatre. Don’t forget to make a pit stop at the Champagne Bar and VIP Lounge for a moment of indulgence amidst the excitement.

Exciting New Features for Spring 2024

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This spring, The National Wedding Show is pulling out all the stops with an array of exciting new features. Visitors can enjoy flower arranging workshops, mini-makeovers, puppy yoga (because who doesn’t love puppies?), bespoke wedding advice clinics, and even live musical performances from celebrity guests. With so much to see and do, you’ll want to make sure you plan your day accordingly to make the most of everything on offer.

VIP Experience

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For those looking for an extra special experience,  VIP tickets are available. VIP guests will enjoy fast-track entry, unlimited access to the VIP Lounge, a complimentary alcoholic drink to toast to their special day, and a VIP goody bag filled with treats and surprises, not to mention reserved Catwalk seating.

Exclusive Bridebook Ticket Offer

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Get standard tickets for £16.50 and VIP tickets for £32.50 at nationalweddingshow.co.uk with this exclusive discount code: BRIDEBOOK.

With its unbeatable lineup of top suppliers, exciting features, and luxury VIP experiences, The National Wedding Show is the ultimate destination for couples planning their big day. Don’t miss out on this fabulous event – secure your tickets now and take the first step towards creating the wedding of your dreams.

What to Wear to a Wedding Reception

Wedding season is fast approaching, which means it’s time to don your glad rags and head to the dancefloor! But, first thing’s first — what are you going to wear?

Whether you’re the best friend, a distant relative, or the plus-one, figuring out what to wear to the wedding reception can be tough. You’ll need to navigate the realms of style, etiquette, and personal flair to create an outfit that’s uniquely you. It’s no small feat!

So, if you’re wondering what to wear to a wedding reception, keep reading! We have specific guidance on formal, casual, and cocktail wedding reception attire to help you feel comfortable and confident as you celebrate the big day. 

What is a wedding reception?

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A wedding reception is the evening portion of a wedding day. It’s usually framed as a party to celebrate the happy couple’s big day and as a display of hospitality to those who attended and supported the wedding. Think of it as the grand finale of the special day!

It’s common for someone who isn’t immediate family or a close friend of the newlyweds to be invited to the reception only. You may also be invited as a plus-one or an extended part of the couple’s social circle. While the ceremony is more intimate, the reception opens its arms wider, inviting a wider group of guests to share in the love and happiness.

What do you wear to a wedding reception?

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If you’re feeling stuck on what to wear to a wedding reception, check out the following guidance. Formal, cocktail, or casual are three safe bets when dressing for an evening wedding reception. 

What is formal attire for a wedding reception?

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Formal attire is the epitome of elegance and sophistication. It’s all about fitting in with the beauty of the big day and making an impression.

Ladies

Ladies should wear a floor-length gown, a tea-length dress, or even a classy jumpsuit. Rich fabrics like silk, velvet, or satin are all beautiful options, and you should opt for dark colours or jewel tones. If you’re a fan of glitz and glamour, a little bit of sparkle doesn’t go amiss at a formal wedding reception!

Enhance your outfit with sparkling jewellery, a stylish clutch, and satin gloves for a touch of elegance. Remember, formal dressing isn’t just about the dress, but about the outfit as a whole. 

Men

Men can’t go wrong with a well-tailored suit in a dark colour. Pair with a crisp shirt, a contrasting tie, and polished dress shoes to complete the ensemble. Black, charcoal, and deep navy are all acceptable suit colours, and shirts should be white or pale blue. 

Accessorise with cufflinks, a pocket square, and a dress watch. You should look clean and well-groomed, with clean nails and a well-maintained beard (if you have one). It’s also a good idea to get a haircut a week or so before the wedding. This way, you’ll look tidy without worrying about itchy hairs ruining the day. 

Gender-neutral or non-binary

A jumpsuit, tailored suit, or formal separates are all great gender-neutral or non-binary options. The most important thing is striking the balance between formality and being true to your own style. Don’t feel the need to wear a suit if you’d never usually wear one; likewise, don’t wear a jumpsuit if you’re going to be uncomfortable all day. Instead, opt for an ensemble that makes you feel confident and fabulous, ensuring you can fully enjoy the celebration.

A great tip is to express yourself with accessories. For example, if you’re more flamboyant, opt for chandelier earrings to offset a classic suit look. Alternatively, consider going bright with your makeup while opting for a jumpsuit in a dark or jewel tone. This will help you infuse your personal style into your outfit while still respecting the formality of the occasion. 

Shoes should be classic and comfortable to ensure you can dance the night away without issue. 

What is casual wear for a wedding reception?

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Casual wear usually means a more relaxed or informal dress code. Similar to ‘come as you are,’ casual dress codes are all about feeling comfortable while still dressing appropriately for a family party. 

Ladies

Ladies can wear sundresses, midi dresses, or a nice top with flowy trousers. You could also wear a pretty blouse with dressy shorts or a casual jumpsuit if that’s more your style. Bring a light cardigan or denim jacket to keep off the chill. 

Accessories should be understated, and you can wear clean trainers, sandals, or other flat shoes.  Try an effortless hairstyle like a side braid or loose waves to tie into the laid-back style. 

Men

Try pairing a button-down shirt or polo shirt with some smart chinos for a polished but casual look. You could also include a casual blazer or smart jumper if the weather promises a chill. Complete the ensemble with stylish yet comfortable footwear. Loafers, slip-on shoes, or clean trainers are all great options for a casual look. 

Stick to pale, neutral colours and subtle patterns for a timeless look. 

Gender-neutral or non-binary

Casual separates are a good gender-neutral or non-binary option. For example, a stylish blouse with flowy trousers, a tunic top with leggings, a smart shirt with chinos — the choices are endless. Mix-and-match however feels right to you and accessorise accordingly. Consider a belt, a dress watch, and understated jewellery. 

Remember that fashion is a form of self-expression. Choose an outfit that’s true to you and reflects your personality. Wear it with confidence and you’ll look fabulous.

What is cocktail attire for a wedding reception?

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Cocktail attire is a great balance between casual and formal attire. It allows guests to dress to impress while still maintaining a sense of ease and approachability. Here’s a detailed guide on what cocktail attire entails for women, men, and non-binary guests.

Ladies

You can’t go wrong with a little black dress for cocktail wear. However, if this isn’t your style, a midi-length bodycon dress, a dressy jumpsuit, or a knee-length cocktail dress are also great options. Statement jewellery, a clutch, and a fascinator can all elevate your outfit and add a touch of glamour. 

We recommend wearing heeled shoes or dressy flats to a cocktail reception. These shoes will not only complement your outfit but also add a polished touch to your overall appearance. 

Men

Men can either wear a tailored suit or a shirt, tie, and dressy trousers. Black, navy, and charcoal are all great options. However, you can also opt for something jazzier with cocktail wear. For example, dark purple, dark green, or even burgundy can be both stylish and unusual. 

Choose polished dress shoes such as Oxfords or loafers. Match the shoe colour to your suit for a cohesive appearance.

Add refined details with a pocket square, tie bar, cufflinks, and a dress watch. These accessories contribute to an overall sophisticated look and tie in well to the cocktail theme.

Gender-neutral or non-binary

Cocktail wedding receptions offer flexibility when it comes to guest outfits. So long as they’re dressy, fashionable, and well-groomed, almost anything goes! This is great for non-binary or gender-neutral guests who want to express themselves through their clothing. 

Opt for a tailored suit, a jazzy jumpsuit, or fashionable separates for a look that reflects your personality. Experiment with a range of colours, from classic neutrals to vibrant hues, depending on your mood and the season. Cocktail receptions often allow for a broader colour palette.

You can wear whatever shoes complement your outfit. Whether it’s heeled boots, dressy sandals, or even polished Oxfords, the most important thing is that you’re both comfortable and well-presented. 

The bottom line on dressing for a wedding reception

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No matter the dress code, the key to dressing for a wedding reception is to balance comfort with style. There’s nothing worse than the night being ruined because of blisters or tight trousers. Instead, opt for an outfit that fits well, suits the dress code, and reflects your personality. This way, you can fully immerse yourself in the celebration without worrying about wardrobe malfunctions. 

If you’re looking for further inspiration, check out our post on the ultimate guide to wedding dress codes. With over 13 popular dress codes to choose from, you’re sure to find something that fits the bill. 

Frequently Asked Questions

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What do brides wear to a wedding reception?

It’s becoming increasingly fashionable for brides to change into a ‘party dress’ during their wedding reception. These dresses are usually shorter and made with less fabric than a traditional wedding dress. This means your wedding dress will stay perfect, and you can dance the night away without all the skirts and petticoats weighing you down. 

Do you have to dress up for a wedding reception?

You don’t necessarily have to, but it is nice to. Even casual wedding dress codes often call for a slightly more polished and put-together look than everyday attire. While the level of formality can vary depending on the couple’s preferences and the specified dress code, dressing up for a wedding reception is a thoughtful way to honour the happy couple and the significance of the big day.

What is the best colour to wear to a wedding reception?

There’s no one ‘best’ colour to wear to a wedding reception. The best colour will completely depend on your preferences, the formality of the occasion, and the wedding colour scheme. However, generally, pale colours, pastels, and neutrals are good for summer weddings, while darker colours or jewel tones are preferable for winter weddings. 

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What to Wear to a Winter Wedding

What could be more beautiful than getting married amidst frozen lakes, snowy paths, and robins peppering the trees? Winter wonderland weddings create a stunning backdrop for the big day and infuse the celebration with a feeling of enchantment and romance. It’s like a real-life fairy tale!

Although beautiful, winter weddings can cause some issues for guests. Trying to strike the balance between being stylish and staying warm can be a challenge. Plus, there’s always the risk of changing temperatures. 

If you’re wondering what to wear to a winter wedding, you’re in the right place! Read on to learn how to balance style and warmth in this inclusive winter wedding dress guide. 

What is a winter wedding?     

Bride and groom in a snowy wintry setting

A winter wedding is a wedding planned between the months of December and February. People may choose to get married in the winter for a variety of reasons:

  • The season holds a special significance to the couple
  • The beautiful scenery
  • The delicious food
  • The cosy aesthetic
  • The dark nights are perfect for fireworks
  • It’s unique 
  • It’s memorable
  • It’s cheaper

Winter weddings are usually held inside to ensure the comfort of both the couple and the guests. However, in some circumstances, winter weddings may be held outside. For example, if you’re abroad or love the idea of getting married in front of a frozen lake. 

What do you wear to a winter wedding?

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This section includes some general guidance on what to wear to a winter wedding. However, we also have further information about what to wear to a winter wedding in specific situations. For example, an Indian winter wedding, a winter beach wedding, a winter barn wedding, and more. Read on to learn all about how to dress for a winter wedding.

Ladies 

Dresses, jumpsuits, tailored suits, and stylish separates are all great options to wear to a winter wedding. The benefit of wearing a dress is that you can also wear thermal tights, which will keep you warm while maintaining a polished look.

We recommend that you opt for heavier fabrics like velvet, wool, or satin. These will both stave off the cold and add a touch of luxury to your outfit. Dark colours or jewel tones are best. For example, plum, dark green, or dark blue. Avoid black, which can look harsh. 

Add winter accessories like a faux fur stole, a stylish cape, gloves, or a cosy wrap to stay warm while making a fashion statement.

You might not be able to see if there are cobblestones leading up to the venue, so opt for footwear that is suitable for the potential challenges of navigating through snow or colder weather. Try closed-toe shoes, ankle boots, or a low heel to keep your feet warm. You should also bring a wool overcoat. 

Gentlemen

We recommend that men focus on strategic layering, as a suit and coat may not be enough to keep you warm all day. Start with a suit in rich tones like charcoal, navy, or deep burgundy. These colours not only complement the winter season but also exude sophistication. You could also opt for wool or tweed if you’d like something a bit different.

We also recommend you wear a waistcoat, vest, or some other layer beyond your suit. Adding layers allows for flexibility in adjusting to varying temperatures. You’ll also need a long wool coat and a stylish scarf to keep you cosy. Consider a fabric like cashmere for a touch of class. 

Choose thicker dress socks in a colour that complements your suit. This not only adds a layer of warmth but also ensures a cohesive and put-together appearance. Shoes should be practical and weather-appropriate. 

Non-binary or gender-neutral guests

Non-binary or gender-neutral guests attending a winter wedding have a variety of stylish and comfortable options. For example, you could try a jumpsuit, a tailored suit, or even separates if that’s more your style. 

Opt for neutral colours, winter tones, or even explore textured fabrics that evoke the seasonal spirit. Rich burgundies, deep greens, classic Christmas reds, or tartan can be versatile. We always recommend bringing a tailored coat to keep you warm and accessorising with the cold in mind. For example, gloves, scarves, and even potentially earmuffs. 

Shoes should be comfortable and outfit-appropriate. Try boots, dress shoes, or even clean, modern trainers to complement the overall look.

What to wear to a barn wedding in the winter

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A barn wedding brings a sense of rustic charm to the big day. With hay bales to sit on and potential animals to stroke, there will be a sense of magic and whimsy in the air. However, it’s important to remember that barns can be draughty and likely won’t enjoy the wonders of central heating. Be sure to dress accordingly. 

Ladies 

A long-sleeved dress or jumpsuit will keep you warm in cooler temperatures and keep off the chill. A jumpsuit has the added benefit of allowing you to line dance without worrying about what your skirt is doing! Consider fabrics like velvet, wool, or heavier materials that provide both style and insulation. Add a shawl, cardigan, or a denim jacket over your outfit to finish the look. This will help you fit in with the rustic nature of a barn wedding while keeping you toasty and warm. 

Choose practical footwear suitable for a rustic setting. Ankle boots or closed-toe shoes with a low heel can help navigate uneven terrain while keeping your feet warm. You could even wear cowgirl boots if you’d like!

Gentlemen

Men should consider a wool or tweed suit, a long coat, and fun cowboy boots. You could opt for a flannel or checked shirt. However, if you want to wear this, then your suit should ideally be in a neutral tone so you don’t look too busy. 

Add appropriate accessories like leather gloves, a stylish scarf, or a cap to enhance your winter barn wedding look. These items can add warmth and a touch of personality. Stetson or Western hats may also be an option. However, for etiquette reasons, hats may need to be removed when inside, so if you’re going to be inside all day, consider first whether there’s any point in wearing a hat. 

Non-binary or gender-neutral guests

Gender-neutral or non-binary guests will look great in a tailored check suit. This should be in a heavier fabric to keep them warm and paired with a neutral, long-sleeved shirt. 

Alternatively, try utilising layers and separates to create a look that’s uniquely you. Mix textures and patterns for a personalised touch while staying warm in a barn setting.

Choose comfortable boots or closed-toe shoes suitable for walking on uneven surfaces. Gender-neutral options may include Chelsea boots, loafers, or stylish Oxfords. Jewellery should be kept to a minimum to maintain your rustic look. 

What to wear to an Indian wedding in the winter

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Ladies 

Indian wedding celebrations are beautiful and colourful wedding ceremonies filled with love and culture. Traditional ladies’ wedding attire includes sarees, Anarkali suits, or lehenga. 

Whatever style you choose, we recommend that you pick heavy fabrics in rich colours like burgundy, emerald green, or royal blue. The heavier fabric will provide warmth, and intricate embroidery or embellishments can add a touch of glamour. Pair with a matching dupatta for an elegant ensemble.

We also recommend that you keep your feet warm with closed-toe heels or embellished flats that complement your outfit. Complete the look with statement jewellery like chandelier earrings, a maang tikka, and bangles.

Gentlemen

Men should opt for a sherwani, a Bandhgala suit, or a Jodhpuri suit in rich, winter-appropriate fabrics like velvet or brocade. Darker colours such as maroon, navy, or bottle green work well for the season and will contribute to the rich, colourful tapestry of an Indian wedding ceremony.

Pair your outfit with traditional Indian footwear like mojris or juttis. Make sure they’re comfortable — Indian weddings can involve a lot of standing and dancing! Depending on the couple’s religion, you may also be asked to wear a turban as a sign of respect. The families will be more than happy to help you if you’re struggling with how to do this. You can also find a wealth of information and guidance on YouTube. 

Non-binary or gender-neutral guests

Indian wedding attire is traditionally gendered. However, there’s no reason you can’t put together an outfit that reflects your gender identity while respecting this rich culture. 

Consider wearing a fusion outfit that combines traditional and modern elements. For example, you can combine a jacket with Indian embroidery worn over trousers or a skirt. Alternatively, an Anarkali suit, traditionally worn by women, can be adapted for non-binary individuals. Choose one with a floor-length top and pair it with palazzo pants for a more gender-neutral look. 

Statement jewellery like bangles, a long necklace, or chandelier earrings can help pull your outfit together. Make sure your shoes are comfortable and match your outfit.  

What to wear to a Church wedding in the winter

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Ladies 

A dress, tailored suit, or matching separates are all great options for a church winter wedding. You should also bring a shawl or wrap coat to keep off the chill, and consider wearing a hat to tie the look together.

The most important thing about dressing for a church wedding is that your outfit should be modest. This is easily done in the winter. The general rules are that you can’t show your knees, shoulders, or too much of your chest. 

Gentlemen

Men can’t go wrong with a classic suit and tie combination. Dark colours like black, charcoal, or navy are safe and sophisticated suit choices. Pair it with a crisp dress shirt and a tie that complements the overall colour scheme.

Non-binary or gender-neutral guests

Gender-neutral guests can wear a tailored suit, jumpsuit, or a dress shirt with tailored trousers. You could layer up with a waistcoat or vest to add warmth and interest, and add a long or trench coat in a neutral colour. This will create a polished and put-together look.

Shoes should be formal and comfortable. Consider loafers, Chelsea boots, or heeled boots, depending on your personal style. 

What to wear to a beach wedding in the winter

Guests partying on the beach wearing warm clothes

If you’re attending a beach wedding in the winter, it’s likely to be abroad. As a result, you should consider the climate and weather of that country when picking your beach winter wedding clothes. 

Ladies 

Beach weddings are known for their laid-back feel — lean into it with a Boho-chic outfit. For example, flowy skirts, off-the-shoulder tops, maxi dresses, or other loose-fitting dresses can create a relaxed yet stylish look. Flat and comfortable shoes will help you navigate a sandy beach, while accessories should be focused on keeping the sun off your face (think shades and sunhats). 

You should also bring a light jacket or shawl just in case there’s a chill in the winter. 

Gentlemen

You’ll likely be far too hot in a full suit at a beach winter wedding. Instead, wear a lightweight linen or cotton shirt in a beachy colour. Short-sleeved or rolled-up sleeves can keep you cool during the day. Pair your shirt with chinos, suit trousers, or loose-fitting linen trousers for a laid-back look. Wearing loafers or boat shoes will help you stay comfortable and casual. 

Non-binary or gender-neutral guests

Opt for a flowy jumpsuit, lightweight suit, or mix-and-match separates that show your unique style. The beauty of a beach wedding is that it’s laid back, so you have the freedom to experiment with your outfit and find something that makes you feel comfortable. 

Embrace a colour palette inspired by the coastal surroundings — think soft blues, sandy neutrals, or even fun, tropical patterns. Remember to choose comfortable and beach-appropriate footwear. These include strappy sandals, espadrilles, or clean trainers.

What to wear to a Christmas wedding

Bride and groom in an outdoor wintry setting with festive red garland and bouquet

A wedding at or around Christmas is the perfect blend of romance and festive cheer. If you’re not sure what to wear to one, keep reading!

Ladies 

A Christmas wedding is a great opportunity to don your most glamorous outfits. Try a floor length velvet gown, a sequin midi-dress, or a classic wrap dress in a festive pattern or solid colour. Accentuate your outfit with festive accessories like a statement clutch, bold earrings, or a faux fur stole for an extra touch of glamour.

Gentlemen

You can’t go wrong with a well-tailored suit for a Christmas wedding. Consider adding some festive touches to make you stand out. For example, a festive tie, tartan pocket square, or Christmas-themed socks to add the perfect touch of festive cheer to your outfit.

Non-binary or gender-neutral guests

Non-binary or gender-neutral guests can wear a festive jumpsuit, well-tailored suit, mix-and-match separates, or a flowy dress or tunic in festive colours or patterns. These comfortable and stylish looks will ensure that you feel confident and authentic while celebrating the joy of a Christmas wedding. 

The bottom line on dressing for a winter wedding

Knowing what to wear to a winter wedding can be tricky. You need to consider the weather, the dress code, the venue, and your own personal style. Trying to blend all these elements into one cohesive outfit with the added benefit of keeping you warm can be a real headache. 

However, with a considered approach and a little bit of guidance, you can easily create a look that not only feels authentic to you but also shields you from potentially harsh winter weather. You can’t go wrong with a long dress and tights, a tailored suit, or a fun and festive jumpsuit. 

If you’re still feeling stuck, try our post on the ultimate guide to wedding dress codes. You’ll find guides on what to wear for the 13 most popular wedding dress codes, including how to add your own fun spin on your wedding guest outfit.

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The Ultimate Guide to Wedding Dress Codes

Trying to decide what to wear to a wedding can be tricky. Thankfully, wedding dress codes can help you narrow down your wedding attire as a guest.

But what do they all mean? White tie, black tie, semi-formal, destination? Deciphering a wedding dress code can feel like navigating a maze. 

Don’t worry — we’re here to help. Check out our ultimate guide to wedding dress codes. Read on to unpack the 13 most popular wedding dress codes. This includes options for female, male, and non-binary or gender-neutral guests. Ready to get started? Let’s jump in. 

What is a wedding dress code?

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A wedding dress code is the dress code guidelines that the nearly-weds would like their guests to follow. This can either be a recommendation, for example, ‘There are lots of cobblestones at our venue, so we recommend no high heels!’ or a more stringent request, for example, ‘Please wear black tie only.’ 

Following the dress code will ensure you fit in with the nearly-weds’ vision and match the aesthetics of the day. It will also make sure you feel comfortable and enjoy the celebration to the fullest. 

Do I have to follow a wedding dress code?

You don’t have to, but it’s recommended. It’s a simple way to show your appreciation to the couple for inviting you and show that you want to contribute to their big day. It’s a small gesture, but it goes a long way. Plus, it’ll ensure you’re comfortable throughout the day. 

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White-tie

White-tie wedding clothing for guests is the fanciest of the fancy. It is formal, traditional, and usually reserved for the most sophisticated of occasions — perfect for a wedding. 

White-tie ladies

Ladies’ white tie attire includes a full evening dress or evening gown, elbow-length gloves, heeled shoes, elegant jewellery, and a clutch bag. Your gloves should be a matching or complementary colour to your dress. Alternatively, you can never go wrong with white gloves. 

White-tie men

Men should wear a black tailcoat with satin peak lapels, a waistcoat, a crisp white shirt, suit trousers, a bow tie, and a top hat. You should accessorise with cufflinks, a pocket square, and a pocket watch if you have one. 

In terms of suit colour, stick to black. However, a very dark navy or purple may also be appropriate.  

White-tie gender-neutral or non-binary

While traditional white-tie attire has been historically associated with specific gender norms, modern interpretations of formal dress codes are more inclusive.

A well-tailored suit is a great gender-neutral white-tie option. You could consider having a suit made and tailored to fit you perfectly and maintain an androgynous silhouette. This also means you have more freedom with the style and fabric. For example, you could pick a dark purple velvet or a suit lined with a beautiful pattern like paisley. 

Black-tie

A black-tie dress code is a formal dress code a step down from white-tie. It’s associated with elegant, upscale weddings and other formal events.

Black-tie ladies

Ladies should wear a floor-length gown and heeled shoes for a black tie dress code. You can forgo gloves for black-tie. However, your outfit should convey a sense of formality and sophistication. You should accessorise with elegant jewellery and a clutch bag or wristlet. 

Black-tie men

Men should wear a tailored tuxedo, black formal trousers, a crisp shirt, a bow tie, and a cummerbund in a complementary colour. You should accessorise with cufflinks and a pocket square.  

Black-tie gender-neutral or non-binary

A tailored tuxedo is another solid choice for gender-neutral black tie attire. Choose a crisp shirt, a tailored suit jacket, a vest or cummerbund, tailored trousers, smart shoes, and polished accessories for a gender-neutral and formal outfit. 

Formal or black-tie optional

Formal or black-tie optional is a dress code that gives guests more flexibility in what they wear to the big day. This dress code indicates that guests can wear black-tie if they choose. However, so long as they dress formally, they’ll fit in with the aesthetic of the day. 

Formal or black-tie ladies

Ladies have the option to wear a full-length gown or a stylish cocktail dress. Accessories and jewellery should be classy, and you can opt for a low heel if you’d prefer. Fascinators or hats are also appropriate for formal or black-tie optional events.

Formal or black-tie men

Men can choose to wear a formal dark suit or take it up a notch with a classic black-tie ensemble. This includes a tuxedo, formal shirt, and optional accessories like a bow tie or cummerbund.

Formal or black-tie gender-neutral or non-binary

A tailored suit is a great option for formal or black tie optional events. However, you could also opt for a stylish jumpsuit, a classy wrap dress, or even well-coordinated separates like a flowy blouse and trousers. Keep accessories refined and sophisticated for a polished overall look. For example, dangling earrings, a long necklace, an antique pocket watch, or a clutch handbag are all great options to complete your look. 

Cocktail

A cocktail dress code is a semi-formal style of dress typically chosen for events that fall between casual and formal. This dress code suggests a level of sophistication and style without the formality of black-tie attire. 

The best thing about cocktail attire is that you can really have fun with it. You can dress in a brighter colour than you may have picked for black-tie, can include sparkles, or even use flashy fabrics like satin. This will add a touch of glamour to your look. 

Cocktail ladies

Ladies have a ton of options for cocktail attire. From beautiful wrap dresses or a-line to a classic fit-and-flare, you really can wear whatever makes you feel comfortable. We recommend choosing a knee length cocktail dress or midi dress to match the occasion and wearing heeled shoes. 

Accessories can include statement earrings, a stylish belt, or a pretty bag to complete the look. 

Cocktail men

Men should opt for a classic suit in a dark colour for a cocktail wedding dress code. However, a cocktail dress code is the perfect opportunity to experiment with unusual suit colours and textures. If you aren’t comfortable in a suit, you could consider a well-fitted blazer paired with stylish trousers and a contrasting shirt. 

Experiment with accessories like colourful pocket squares, bold ties, or even stylish cufflinks to inject personality into your outfit.

Cocktail gender-neutral or non-binary

The flexibility of cocktail wear means it’s a great choice for gender-neutral guests. You could wear a stylish jumpsuit, a co-ordinated skirt set, or even a tailored suit in a colourful fabric. Keep accessories light and neutral so as not to distract from your outfit. 

Semi-formal or dressy casual

Semi-formal or dressy casual is a dress code that falls between casual and formal wedding guest attire. It is more sophisticated than everyday casual wear but doesn’t require the formality of black-tie or cocktail wear. 

Semi-formal or dressy casual ladies

Semi-formal or dressy casual means you can opt for a flowy dress, smart separates, a pretty wrap dress, or just about anything that makes you look polished and put together. You can wear heels or flats, and accessories should be tasteful and appropriate. For example, a nice watch, clutch bag, or jewellery set. 

Semi-formal or dressy casual men

Men should choose a well-fitted dress shirt in a solid colour or subtle pattern with dress pants in a complementary colour. You could also wear a blazer or sports jacket if the weather is chilly and accessorise with a smart tie and cufflinks. 

Semi-formal or dressy casual gender-neutral or non-binary

You can’t go wrong with tailored separates, a stylish jumpsuit, or a button-down shirt with chinos. Flat, dressy shoes are the most appropriate. Avoid overly casual sneakers or sandals.

Casual

Casual wedding guest attire is more relaxed than semi-formal or formal options but still requires thoughtful consideration. The level of casualness can vary, so it’s important to take cues from the wedding invitation, venue, and time of day. Casual weddings usually happen in the summer, so it’s important to dress to keep the sun off. 

Casual ladies

Try a sundress, a flowy maxi dress, or a casual skater dress in light or pastel colours for a casual wedding dress code. Floral prints or simple patterns work well for a daytime wedding. In terms of shoes, try a low heel, sandals, or pretty dress shoes. Accessories should be light and designed to keep the sun off your face if the wedding is outdoors. For example, a hat or visor. You could also try a woven bag for a summery touch. 

Casual men

It’s perfectly acceptable to wear a polo shirt, casual button-down, or a smart shirt for a casual wedding. Pair with chinos, loafers or boat shoes, and a stylish watch and belt, and you’re good to go!

Casual gender-neutral or non-binary

Try pairing a loose-fitting shirt with dress pants, chinos, or a flowy skirt for the perfect, versatile gender-neutral wedding attire as a guest. Pair this outfit with slip-on shoes, loafers, or even clean, stylish trainers to strike a balance between comfort and sophistication. 

Seasonal

Seasonal wedding guest attire will depend largely on the season. For example, you would dress differently for a spring wedding than you would an autumn wedding. 

Seasonal ladies

Spring or summer

Light fabrics, bright colours, and flowery dresses are all great options for spring or summer weddings. You could also try a summer suit or casual separates for a polished yet relaxed look. You can pair these with clean trainers or pumps and delicate accessories. 

Patterned summer dresses tend to have a lot of white in them, so be mindful of this when selecting wedding clothing for guests. Guests should avoid wearing white wherever possible so they don’t overshadow the bride. 

Autumn or winter

Wrap dresses, tasteful suits, or coordinated separates are all great options for an autumn or winter wedding. You’ll need a matching jacket to keep off the chill and sensible shoes to keep your feet warm. Stick to jewel tones, dark colours, and fur where appropriate.  

Seasonal men

Spring or summer

Lightweight suits in breathable fabrics like cotton or linen are excellent options for a spring or summer wedding. Choose a suit in pastel shades, neutrals, or bright colours to capture the essence of the season. Pair it with a crisp dress shirt, a complementary tie, and slip-on shoes for a modern but relaxed look. 

Autumn or winter

You can’t go wrong with a classic dark suit for an autumn or winter wedding. Heavy materials like wool or velvet can add extra warmth, and brogue or Oxford-style shoes are perfect for keeping your feet warm. You’ll need a longer coat to stave off the cold. However, these look quite fashionable. 

Accessorise with a watch, cufflinks, and a coordinating pocket square for a classy, put-together look.

Seasonal gender-neutral or non-binary

Spring or summer

Wide-leg trousers, a flowy top, and clean trainers give a modern but sophisticated wedding look. Stick to neutrals, pastels, or light colours to complement the fresh and vibrant atmosphere of a modern wedding.

Autumn or winter

Swap the lightweight fabric for warmer materials like wool or velvet. Wide-leg trousers in a deep, autumnal colour such as burgundy, forest green, or chocolate brown can add a touch of seasonal elegance. Pair them with a long-sleeved, flowy top in a coordinating hue or a rich jewel tone.

Layering becomes essential in cooler weather, so consider adding a tailored blazer or a stylish coat that complements the colour scheme.

Tropical or destination

Tropical or destination weddings bring relaxed vibes, patterned clothing, and casual footwear. Check the weather before you travel and pack accordingly!

Tropical or destination ladies

Flowy sundresses, maxi dresses, or jumpsuits are all perfect choices for ladies attending a tropical or destination wedding. These styles not only capture the laid-back and breezy ambiance of the location but also provide comfort in warmer climates.

Try a bright colour or tropical print to really lean into the aesthetic of a destination wedding. Footwear should be practical yet stylish. Consider strappy sandals, espadrilles, or even elegant flip-flops for beach weddings. Going barefoot, especially for beach ceremonies, can also be a charming and authentic choice.

Tropical or destination men

Lightweight and breathable clothing options are perfect for a destination wedding. Consider pairing these with tailored shorts or chinos for a laid-back look. Tropical prints, vibrant colours, and pastel hues add a playful touch to your ensemble.

Footwear should be comfortable and practical. Try loafers, boat shoes, or even stylish sandals to complement the tropical setting. 

Tropical or destination gender-neutral or non-binary

A flowy jumpsuit, wide-legged pants, or any clothes with a relaxed fit will contribute to the laid-back feel of a tropical or destination wedding. Neutral, light, or bright colours are all great choices for a beach or outdoor wedding. 

Footwear can include comfortable options like espadrilles, slip-on shoes, or sandals. Ensure they are suitable for the terrain and venue, especially if it’s an outdoor setting.

Come as you are

A ‘come as you are’ dress code means that guests are free to wear whatever makes them feel good, whether it’s casual, semi-formal, or even formal attire. The best thing about ‘come as you are’ is that you often don’t have to buy anything new. Instead, you can reuse items already in your wardrobe and save your money!  

Come as you are ladies

Although ‘come as you are’ indicates a laid-back affair, you should still try your best to look nice and respect the formality of the big day. You can’t go wrong with a knee-length dress, low heels, and tasteful accessories. 

Come as you are men

Try combining a crisp shirt with dress trousers and a complementary tie for a classic but sophisticated look. A well-fitted blazer or a tailored suit jacket can add a touch of refinement to the ensemble, elevating it to a more formal level. 

Come as you are gender-neutral or non-binary

‘Come as you are’ for gender-neutral or non-binary individuals is an inclusive and open invitation that prioritises self-expression and comfort over traditional gender norms. Feel free to express yourself authentically with your favourite outfit, jewellery, and shoes. 

Vintage or retro

A vintage or retro-themed wedding is the opportunity to channel the timeless elegance of a time gone by. The invitation should specify the vintage era the nearly-weds are going for. For example, 60s, 70s, or 80s. However, if it doesn’t, consider the overall aesthetic of the venue, the couple’s personalities, or any subtle clues in the invitation that might hint at the desired era. 

Vintage or retro ladies

Classic silhouettes like A-line or tea length are perfect for adding a vintage flair to your outfit. You should consider patterns like polka dots, check, or even bright, solid colours paired with black accessories. Pearls, gloves, and a small fascinator can also help add a vintage touch to your outfit. 

Vintage or retro men

Choose suits that reflect the fashion trends of the era. For example, slim-cut suits with narrow lapels for the 60s, or wide-legged trousers and bold patterns for the 70s. Hair was a big thing for men in years gone by, so try embracing a Grease-style hair-do for the 50s or a neatly combed style for the 40s. Skinheads were popular in the 80s and 90s. However, this may be drastic for just one day!

Vintage or retro gender-neutral or non-binary

Opt for gender-neutral or androgynous clothing styles that were prevalent in the chosen vintage era. For example, tailored suits with versatile silhouettes, jumpsuits, long skirts, and a-line dresses all work well for a classic, retro look.

Cultural attire

Dressing in cultural attire is the perfect opportunity to learn more about the culture of the nearly-weds. However, it’s important to draw the line between being respectful and appropriating the culture. 

Your specific dress will depend entirely on the culture of the bride and/or groom. For example, you’d dress differently for a Korean wedding than you would for a Middle Eastern wedding. 

If you have any questions about what you should wear to a cultural wedding, we recommend discussing it with the couple directly. As it’s their culture, they’ll be able to advise you on what would be appropriate to wear and how you should style yourself. 

Art Deco

Art Deco is a distinct and vintage fashion style known for its sleek, modern, and glamorous aesthetic. Think the roaring 20s or The Great Gatsby, and you won’t go far wrong. 

Art deco ladies

Choose dresses with distinctive Art Deco patterns like geometric shapes, chevrons, or zig zags. Sequins, fringe, dropped waists, and beadwork are also characteristic of classic 20s styles. 

Avoid wearing heels. Instead, opt for ballet flats or Mary-Jane style shoes. Accessories should be bold and flashy. Think headbands, chandelier earrings, beaded clutch bags, and long bead necklaces. 

Art deco men

Tailored suits with contrasting colour combinations were a classic choice for 1920s dressing. Think black and white, navy and cream, or deep jewel tones. You could also incorporate geometric patterns into your clothing for added flair. For example, patterned ties, pocket squares, or vests with Art Deco-inspired designs.

Art deco gender-neutral or non-binary

Choose tailored suits with a modern, androgynous cut. Look for suits that feature clean lines and a sleek silhouette. Experiment with two-piece or three-piece suits in contrasting colours, embracing the bold and geometric style of Art Deco. 

Alternatively, a glitzy jumpsuit or long, flapper-style dress with fringe can provide an equally stunning and gender-neutral interpretation of the Art Deco aesthetic.

Colour-coded

It’s becoming more common for couples to request guests stick to a specific colour scheme, rather than setting a specific dress code. This gives guests the opportunity to express their personal style while contributing to a cohesive wedding aesthetic. 

Colour-coded ladies

How you decide to apply the colour-coding request is completely up to you. For example, if the theme is blue, you could opt for a blue dress, blue shoes, a blue handbag, or even blue jewellery.

Colour-coded men

Again, if the dress code is blue, you could wear a blue suit, blue shirt, blue shoes, or a blue tie. We recommend you don’t dress entirely in blue. Instead, try picking one central blue item and building a complementary outfit around this. For example, blue trousers with a complementary shirt.

Colour coded gender-neutral or non-binary

Try a tailored suit, jumpsuit, wrap dress, or mix and match ensemble in the designated colour. You can also match your makeup, jewellery, or accessories to the colour scheme for an inclusive look. 

The bottom line on wedding dress codes

Although wedding dress codes give guidelines for wedding clothing for guests, there’s still a lot of flexibility within these parameters. Instead, think of them as a framework within which you can showcase your unique style, ensuring you both honour the couple’s vision and feel authentically yourself.

Within the defined parameters of formal, semi-formal, casual, or themed attire, there’s room for personal expression. Whether it’s choosing a gown that perfectly complements the colour scheme or adding a touch of flair with unique accessories, you have the freedom to tailor your outfit to reflect your personality.

Remember, the essence of dressing for a wedding is to celebrate love, joy, and the union of two individuals. So, whether you’re donning a classic black-tie ensemble or opting for a more casual look, the key is to feel comfortable, confident, and ready to revel in the festivities.

And if you’re still struggling to figure out the perfect wedding ensemble, check out our handy guide on what to wear to a wedding as a guest. 

Frequently Asked Questions

What is the best dress code for a wedding?

The best dress code for a wedding is whatever best represents you and your partner. If you’re laid back, try a ‘come as you are’ dress code. If you’d like to throw a more formal affair, opt for black- or white-tie. 

How do I choose a wedding dress code?

Choosing a wedding dress code comprises a lot of aspects. This includes your vision, the formality of the event, the venue, and any theme you had in mind. Take an inventory of the energy you’d like to feel on the day and translate that into your dress code. 

Is it OK to wear black to a wedding?

It is acceptable to wear black to a wedding, especially if it’s a modern wedding, a black tie wedding, or a colour-coded wedding. However, we recommend that you avoid wearing black for spring or summer weddings, outdoor weddings, or destination weddings. 

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What to Wear to a Wedding as a Guest? Dos, Don’ts and Top Tips

You’ve been invited to a wedding! Yay, free cake!

…But wait. What are you going to wear?

For as long as there have been weddings, there have been wedding guests struggling to know what to wear. Do you go traditional, simple, or show-stopping? Should you match your partner or go for complementary colours? And what’s the deal with hats? It’s enough to make anyone consider ‘losing’ their RSVP.

But, don’t worry — we’re here to help. From decoding wedding dress codes to navigating the fine line between fashionable and flashy, we’ll help you curate a look that not only complements the celebration but also shows off your personal style. Read on to learn the best colour to wear to a wedding, a breakdown of popular dress codes, and some top tips on wedding guest dressing. Happy styling!

What should I wear to a wedding as a guest?

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The most important thing about wedding outfits for guests is that they don’t upstage the bride and groom. That means no ball gowns, no top hats*, and definitely no white. 

The key is to find that sweet spot between expressing your style and adhering to the dress code set by the couple. You’ll also need to consider the weather and the location of the wedding. For example, a beach wedding in the summer will call for completely different attire from an autumnal forest wedding.

As a rule of thumb, you can’t go wrong with semi-formal. That means a knee-length cocktail dress, a tailored suit, or a chic jumpsuit. 

*Top hats are a standard part of white-tie dress codes. However, white tie is rarely used. As a general rule, no top hats unless explicitly stated on the invitation. 

What sort of wedding guest outfits are there?

What to Wear to a Wedding As a Guest Dos, Don’ts and Top Tips
What to wear to a wedding as a guest: inspiration for all seasons

Winter wedding guest outfit

Winter wedding guests face the delightful challenge of balancing style with the practicality of staying warm. As the temperatures drop, it’s an opportunity to embrace luxurious fabrics, rich colours, and cosy layers to create a standout ensemble.

Consider a long-sleeve cocktail dress in a jewel tone or something with a little bit of sparkle. If you aren’t a fan of dresses, you can’t go wrong with a well-tailored suit and a long coat that staves off the cold. 

Close-toed shoes are always recommended, and you could try bringing a wrap or faux fur stole for both warmth and flair.

Summer wedding guest outfit

Summer weddings are all about being light and floaty. If you’re a fan of a dress, try a flowy chiffon number or a sundress in a cheerful print. Otherwise, try a light-coloured suit like pale blue or grey paired with a crisp, short-sleeved shirt. This strikes the perfect balance between formal and laid-back. 

Loafers or dressy sandals are a great choice for footwear.

Plus-size wedding guest dresses

Plus-size guests will look fabulous in wrap or fit-and-flare style dresses. Don’t shy away from bold colours for a dramatic yet feminine look. 

Slingback shoes are also a great option for those with wider feet as they provide comfort and style. 

Mature ladies’ dresses for wedding guests

Mature ladies might want to opt for an a-line dress or even a tea-length gown for a sophisticated look. When selecting colours, consider timeless options like classic navy or sophisticated neutrals. These hues are not only elegant but also super versatile, allowing you to pair your dress with a range of accessories and outerwear for different seasons.

Petite wedding guest dresses

Empire waist dresses are a great choice for petite guests as they can make you look taller. You could also try a high-low hem which adds length where you need it, or try a suit tailored to your petite frame. 

Maternity wedding guest dress

Maxi dresses are a great option for maternity wedding attire. The long, flowing silhouette provides ample room for your growing belly, allowing you to move with ease. If you’re not a dress kind of person, maternity jumpsuits are a modern and trendy choice. 

Look for styles with an adjustable waist or a wrap design for flexibility, and make sure you can get in and out of it comfortably in a toilet cubicle. You may need a few practice runs before the big day!   

What is the best colour to wear to a wedding?

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The best colour to wear to a wedding will depend on the season and the couple’s requests. For example:

Spring or summer wedding

Light or bright colours are perfect for a spring or summer wedding. Think pastels, mint green, coral, turquoise, or pink. 

Autumn or winter wedding

Keep your tones dark or muted for an autumn or winter wedding. Think navy, burnt orange, purple, mauve, or dark green. Jewel tones are always trendy and can add an air of sophistication to your outfit.

Match the dress code

It’s become increasingly popular for the couple to specify what colours they’d like the guests to wear. For example, you might see:

  • “We’d like everyone to dress in pastel colours” for a whimsical wedding.
  • “Please could everyone wear different shades of blue” if someone has a specific colour scheme in mind.
  • “We’d appreciate it if everyone could dress in black” for an ultra-chic wedding.

Don’t wear white as a guest

Unless specifically stated on the invitation that the couple would like you to wear white — just don’t do it. Most people consider it disrespectful. 

It’s best to steer clear of different shades of white too. That includes ivory, bone, cream, and other similar tones.

What if my dress has a white base but a pattern over the top?

White dresses with flowers, birds, or another pattern over the top might be acceptable if the dress is more than 60% pattern and the white base isn’t the predominant colour. If you’re certain you want to wear this dress, we’d recommend getting the bride’s approval first. 

What is the dress code for a wedding?

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You may see one of the following dress codes listed on your wedding invitation:

  • Black tie. Black tie usually means a tuxedo, elegant evening gown, or a cocktail dress. 
  • Formal. A formal dress code will mean a suit, knee-length dress, or cocktail dress. 
  • Beach formal. Try suit trousers with a button-down shirt and no tie, or a floaty maxi or midi-length dress. 
  • Casual. Casual can mean many things. However, you can’t go wrong with suit trousers and a short-sleeve button-down shirt. You could also wear a sundress or a blouse and skirt. 

If no dress code is listed, it’s best to dress semi-formal, which means a well-fitted suit or a pretty,  knee-length dress.

What is the most popular dress code for a wedding?

Most people tend to opt for semi-formal. This keeps everyone looking smart while still allowing the guests to be comfortable. 

Where to buy clothes for wedding guests

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Whether you’re bougie-on-a-budget or have a little more to spend, you’re sure to find beautiful options in these online shops.

Less than £50

Vinted

Vinted is a second-hand clothes-selling app where you can find beautiful dresses for as little as £1! You can search for specific brands, sizes, colours, materials, and more. Many clothes are brand new with tags, and those that aren’t are in great condition. Plus, buying second-hand clothes is way more sustainable than purchasing brand-new clothes. 

Asos

Asos is the perfect shopping destination for wedding dresses. You can set a budget using the ‘price range’ filter, and even sort dresses from lowest to highest price. You can also filter for size, colour, length, brand, and body fit. 

Zara

Zara has a mix of pricier and low-cost dresses. This European brand exudes sophistication with its unique contemporary style, and you can filter dresses by size, colour, and style. However, taller guests may struggle with the length of Zara’s dresses.

Quiz

Quiz is a beautiful option if you prefer traditionally feminine styles. Packed with flouncy and fluttery styles, Quiz offers great clothes for wedding guests at reasonable prices.  

£50-100

Abercrombie & Fitch

Abercrombie & Fitch has a whole section of their website dedicated to helping you be the ‘Best Dressed Guest’. Their dresses are beautiful, high quality, and suit a wide range of body types with their petite, regular, and tall sizing. 

John Lewis

The John Lewis department store stocks a range of beautiful brands; it’s the perfect destination if you’re not sure what you’re looking for. If you’re lucky enough to live near a John Lewis store, they offer a complimentary personal shopping service to help you find your dream wedding guest dress. 

Next

Next is another retailer that carries a range of brands. The website is easy to navigate, and you can easily filter by price, size, colour, and occasion. 

Over £100

Ted Baker

Ted Baker is another store known for its ultra-feminine styles. Although they’re a little on the pricey side, they have regular sales, and the quality is second to none. 

Karen Millen

Karen Millen is known for its high-quality and beautiful wedding guest dresses. You’ll never be outdone in a Karen Millen gown. Their wide range of dresses will suit many different body types and personal styles.  

Monsoon

Monsoon has been a staple of wedding guest dress shopping for years. Renowned for its bohemian-inspired designs, this brand effortlessly captures the essence of romantic and whimsical fashion. 

Top tips for wedding guest attire

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Watch those shoes

We know they look fabulous, but wearing ultra-high heels or brand-new leather shoes on a wedding day is a recipe for disaster. Tall heels will tire your feet out and prevent you from dancing, and brand-new shoes are likely to rub and cause blisters.

Instead, opt for shoes you know you’ll be comfortable in. Try wearing a lower pair of heels that you can dance all night in or wearing an already broken-in pair of brogues.

If you’re adamant you want to wear high heels, consider bringing a lower heel to change into later on. Your feet will thank you in the morning. 

Be mindful of culture

Weddings with a religious element may ask you to cover up before you enter the church, temple, or mosque. You generally need to have your knees and shoulders covered to enter a religious building, and may even be asked to remove your shoes or cover your hair. Although this may not be your preference, it’s important to respect the couple’s wishes. 

Consider the weather 

Check the weather on the morning of the wedding, and always have a backup outfit in mind. If there’s a chance of rain, consider bringing a foldable umbrella or a stylish raincoat that complements your outfit. For unexpected temperature changes, having a shawl or light jacket can make a significant difference.

If in doubt… double-check

If you’re not sure whether an outfit is in line with the couple’s requests — ask them. 

It’s perfectly acceptable to reach out to the bride, groom, or someone close to them to clarify any questions you may have about the dress code. This not only ensures that you’re on the right track, but also demonstrates your consideration and respect for their wishes. 

The bottom line on being the best dressed wedding guest

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Picking the perfect wedding guest outfit can be stressful. Between the cost, dress code considerations, and endless style options, the task may seem daunting. However, with a bit of planning and time spent internet shopping, you’ll be the belle of the ball. 

We recommend you closely adhere to the wedding dress code, dress for comfort and not just style, and double-check with the couple if you’re unsure. Happy shopping!

FAQs

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Do you have to wear heels to a wedding as a guest?

No, you don’t have to. The most important thing is that you’re comfortable.

While high heels add an air of elegance to any outfit, they are by no means mandatory. 

What should you not wear as a wedding guest?

You shouldn’t wear T-shirts, vest tops, football shirts, jeans, dirty trainers, flip flops, or other casual clothes to a wedding unless specifically asked to. This is the most special day of the bride and groom’s lives — make an effort for them!

Can anyone attend a wedding as a guest?

Anyone can attend a wedding ceremony in a registry office or religious building. However, you shouldn’t attend a reception you’re not invited to. It’s impolite. 

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Bridebook Engagement Trends Report: 13 Key Wedding Trends for 2024 and Beyond

If you’re curious about what the key wedding trends will be for 2024 and beyond, you’ve come to the right place. Our Engagement Report provides unparalleled insights into the ever-changing landscape of weddings. Based on feedback from over 3,500 engaged couples planning weddings for 2024 and beyond, the report sheds light on the evolving preferences and trends that shape today’s weddings. Read on to get the low-down on the biggest trends for the year ahead, along with some expert insights from Fran Everist, Director of Sales and Marketing at Hedsor House in Buckingshamshire, on what’s popular with today’s couples, and why.

As the average amount couples spend on their wedding continues to rise in recent years, and as Gen Z couples come of age, we’re seeing plenty of new wedding trends emerge. From changing proposal dynamics and evolving style trends, to prioritising personalisation and guest experience to blending tradition with innovation, to embracing both sustainability and technology, 2024 weddings promise to be a unique tapestry of meaningful connections and stand-out experiences. Today’s couples are redefining traditional norms to create bespoke celebrations that reflect their diverse tastes and interests. Here are our top 13 trends to watch…

1. Gen Z is coming of age

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According to our survey, the average length of dating before engagement stands at 4.7 years, with 30-year-olds dating for 4+ years most likely to plan an engagement. And yet, in a notable shift, 23% of engaged couples are now part of Gen Z, a 12% increase from those married in 2022.

Gen Z, who are currently represented by those aged 11-26, are known for being digital natives with short attention spans (8 seconds!). They’re visually and video-led, and value social proof, authenticity, personalisation, and sustainability.

Younger couples, particularly 20-somethings, favour outdoor proposals specifically, and 27% choose to pop the question while on holiday. Family involvement is highest among Gen Z couples, with 49% seeking parental blessings in advance.

Perhaps surprisingly in today’s digital landscape, 61-71% of all couples don’t film or photograph their proposals. However, 67% share their engagement on social media within one day.

2. Couples are discussing marriage in advance

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Our Engagement Report reveals a significant difference in how Gen Z couples approach engagements. A notable 53% of 20-somethings discuss plans for marriage in advance of the engagement, compared to 32% of 40-somethings, which suggests transparency and shared decision-making are a key priority for younger couples specifically.

Commenting on this trend, Hamish Shephard, Bridebook’s founder and qualified wedding planner, notes, “Gen Z is redefining the narrative of engagements. Their decisions reflect a generation that values considered, meaningful connections, with an emphasis on taking the time to build a solid foundation before making lifelong commitments. Gen Z is clearly challenging traditional norms, clearly valuing open communication and partnership. The modern couple is breaking away from stereotypical gender roles, viewing marriage as a shared and collaborative journey.”

3. Pets are getting wedding invites, while parents’ friends are out

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Less than half of today’s couples will invite their parents’ friends. Our Engagement Report reveals that only 42% of Gen Z, 38% of Millennials and 27% of Gen X will invite them.

On the other hand, nearly 1-in-5 (21%) of Gen Z couples will include pets on their guest list. So it’s good news for your furry friends, though not quite so good news for your parents’ friends! Fran Everist tells us that Hedsor House has “seen a big leap in the numbers of couples bringing their dogs to their wedding. Take-up of our Canine Concierge service has trebled in the last year, with couples very much seeing their dogs as an essential part of the family. Pet donkeys, llamas and cats have also made it onto the guest list!”

On the subject of guest lists, half of couples will also allow children at their weddings, with older Gen X couples being the most likely to include children. When it comes to children at weddings, Fran Everist adds that while this does not yet relate to Gen Z couples, Millennials also “seem to be increasingly having  the house and children first, and the wedding afterwards.”

4. TikTok as a wedding planning tool

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A notable 41% of Gen Z couples are using TikTok for wedding purposes, the highest among all segments. This represents a huge jump from 11% of all engaged couples in 2021, and not only suggests a preference for digital expression, but also highlights the profound impact that social media platforms can have on shaping the narrative of modern weddings.”

Hamish remarks, “As true digital natives, Gen Z couples are rewriting traditional approaches to wedding planning. We’re seeing a drive towards fostering a sense of community and inspiring others to embrace new and creative wedding trends.”

5. The rise of AI

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Today’s couples are embracing technology, with 7% using AI for music playlists and 5% turning to generative content for speeches, invitations and vows.

This again highlights that as weddings become both more personalised and tech-savvy, couples are embracing innovative tools to craft a truly unique celebration.

6. Sustainability takes centre stage

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Today’s couples are increasingly incorporating sustainability tactics into the weddings, from favouring lab-grown diamonds to upcycled decor and paper-free invitations. They also enjoy second-hand, meaningful items, especially jewellery:

  • 47% will have plant-based confetti, the most popular eco-friendly activity.
  • Preference for ethical jewellery has more than doubled from 6% to 14%.
  • Preference for pre-loved attire has also more than doubled from 7% to 16%.
  • Upcycled decor and paper-free invitations have risen by almost 10% since 2022.
  • 22% use second-hand items (such as grandmother’s ring, or family heirloom jewellery).
  • Many are considering selling their wedding decor and fashion items.

Gen Z are revealed to be most committed to sustainability, and are the group that is most likely to resell their wedding items, from decor to bridesmaid’s outfits and their wedding dress (21% of Gen Z will consider selling their wedding dress compared to 18% of Millennials).

Commenting on this trend, Fran Everist notes that “Hedsor House, which launched the very first carbon-neutral wedding package last year, is seeing a gradual shift in couples wanting more sustainable choices. Whether it’s swapping cut flowers in favour of faux blooms, or wanting their wedding breakfast to be locally sourced, couples are making meaningful changes to their day.”

7. Unique speciality catering is what it’s all about (especially pizza)

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Unique specialty catering gains popularity as couples look for new and different ways to entertain guests and create bespoke experiences. Couples want that stand-out, ‘wow’ factor.

Most notably, 16% of engaged couples want food trucks at their wedding. Of these planning for food trucks, nearly three-quarters (71%) will have a pizza van specifically. So if you’re fancying a fun and more laid-back catering option for your wedding next year, you won’t be alone! And this culinary customisation extends beyond savoury food: 1-in-4 (25%) couples plan to have pick ’n’ mix sweet stations, while 1-in-5 will have signature cocktails as the most popular specialty drink.

Fran Everist associates this trend with the rise of outdoor weddings, as more and more couples look for “relaxed dining options which mirror the vibe. Hedsor House is seeing an increase in requests for BBQs, hog roasts and street food. The classic English Afternoon Tea is also a growing favourite for those looking for elegance and insta-appeal.”

8. Champagne still rules as the top wedding drink

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Classic bubbly remains the favourite celebratory drink among today’s couples. Champagne will be served at 1-in-5 (21%) weddings in 2024. On the other hand, beer proves to be an unpopular wedding drink, with only 4% of couples planning to serve it.

Not many couples are going teetotal next year. Only 4% will have a completely alcohol-free wedding, while 3% will have a deliberately low-alcohol wedding. So it’s all about the bubbles!

9. Rustic vibes and green tones will reign supreme, while themed weddings gain in popularity 

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Rustic vibes will dominate 2024 weddings, with greens reigning as the top wedding colour. Unique gemstones like emerald and moss agate gain popularity as 39% of Millennials and Gen Z couples plan rustic-style weddings, including having a barn or farmhouse as their wedding venue. A rustic wedding is a more informal style of wedding than is traditional. It’s one which draw inspiration from the countryside, incorporating elements of nature, vintage decor, DIY touches and warm, earthy tones, and ties in nicely with today’s couples’ commitment to sustainability and environmentalism.

Couples are clearly being drawn to the authenticity and intimacy that rustic aesthetics provide, and want to create a wedding atmosphere that feels both timeless and personally meaningful. 2024 weddings will celebrate individuality and depart from the conventional. Move over luxury glam or elegance! Next year is all about natural charm grounded in charm and simplicity.

Fran Everist notes that Hedsor House is seeing “couples increasingly wanting to marry outside which is very much about wanting to enjoy the unique country setting.”

Among Gen Z in particular, themed weddings are also in, with 6% of these couples planning a themed wedding. Popular themed wedding styles include Disney, Lord of the Rings, Harry Potter, Halloween, celestial, festival and throwbacks like the 80s or TV sitcoms or movies. 

Fran Everist agrees that “couples are increasingly bringing their unique personality to their nuptials. Hedsor House has seen a rise in themed weddings with Harry Potter, Pokémon and Mario Kart being recent examples.”

10. Top first dance songs combine the classic with the contemporary

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The top 25 first dance songs of 2024 feature legendary classics alongside contemporary hits, with Elvis Presley reigning supreme amidst male vocal ballads and country songs.

The no.1 first dance song of the year is an old favourite, “Can’t Help Falling In Love”, by Elvis Presley – no doubt seeing a revival following the 2022 biopic ‘Elvis’ – while Ed Sheeran, Shania Twain and Elton John each hold two songs in the top 25.

Male vocal ballads are trending as well. In particular, James Arthur, Lewis Capaldi, Biffy Clyro and Clinton Kane are firm favourites for 2024 first dance songs.

Country music songs are gaining popularity, with Luke Combs and Lonestar ranking the highest.

11. Weddings will be fun and games

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Weddings aren’t just the greatest parties of all time. They’re fabulous, showstopping spectacles, and a chance to enjoy unique experiences with the ones you love. Given today’s couples preference for unique, bespoke celebrations, it’s no wonder that couples are going beyond classic wedding music entertainment, like bands and DJs, opting to explore fun and quirky non-music entertainment too.

Couples getting married in 2024 don’t want stiff formal affairs, but are instead embracing informal playfulness. Most notably, our Engagement Report reveals that 23% of engaged couples want garden games to feature at their weddings. Think horseshoes, giant Jenga, lawn bowling, and croquet, and even old sports day classics like egg and spoon and sack or space hopper races. 

In general, couples are looking to showcase a wide variety of entertainment. 19% will have fireworks, while 8% enjoy the idea of secret singers or singing waiters. Other interesting wedding entertainment options for 2024 include magic mirrors, a live portrait artist or caricaturist, axe throwing, and even mini golf/crazy golf. Couples are embracing anything and everything. The point is to put fun at the heart of their wedding, and to really prioritise guest experience.

Commenting on this trend towards spectacular and unique wedding entertainment, Fran Everist observes that “fireworks continue to be very popular at Hedsor House, and classic English lawn games like croquet are on the rise as couples embrace the outdoor country house vibe.”

And to hold on to these unique memories, 1-in-10 (11%) will have an audio guestbook. What a great way to bring guests’ experience to life, beyond the more traditional written notes.

12. Out with (some of) the old

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In the realm of wedding traditions, the ‘first look’ trend remains en vogue. More specifically, 22% of Gen Z couples enjoy this trend, the highest among all generational groups. Some other traditions are standing the test of time. For example, walking down the aisle by one or both parents, exchanging rings and vows, first dance, wedding speeches, and cake-cutting.

Yet other old wedding traditions are on their way out. Half of couples won’t have confetti or rice thrown at their wedding (Fran Everist comments that bubbles and sparklers are popular alternatives these days), and only half of couples will offer wedding favours to their guests.

Tossing the bouquet and carrying the bride over the threshold represent some of the least used traditions in today’s weddings. Couples are instead tossing away tradition, and turning to social media instead – specifically viral TikTok trends – and we’ll only see more of this moving into 2024.

Weddings in 2024 will clearly be an interesting tapestry of tradition and innovation, showcasing the diverse tastes and values of today’s progressive couples, who on the one hand continue to uphold traditions that remain relevant to them, but who equally aren’t afraid of creating bespoke experiences that to fit their unique vision and values.

13. Multi-day weddings and bigger is better

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When it comes to wedding lengths and timings, our Engagement Report shows that younger couples are favouring longer multi-day affairs, with 36% of Millennials and 34% of Gen Z planning weddings spanning more than one day to truly celebrate in style. Who can blame them? After all, why have just a single wedding day when you can have a wedding weekend! The younger generation clearly want to stretch out the celebrations as much as possible and make the most out of their weddings, following the American trend of having a rehearsal dinner the night before.

Fran Everist agrees that “multi-day weddings are definitely on the rise, whether that’s at weekends, or during the week. Rather than the inconvenience and expense of going abroad for destination weddings, many couples are choosing to create more relaxed UK experiences with extended celebrations. Morning-after brunches and night-before BBQs are often highlights; couples enjoy using all of the venue’s spaces for different aspects of their experience, including the grounds.”

This relates to a wider cultural shift among the youth of today. After the years of enforced isolation at the hands of the pandemic, followed by the war in Europe and the cost of living crisis, those who can afford it want to party, and bigger is better than ever. It’s all about the energy and all about the fun. And here at Bridebook, where creating joy underpins everything we do, we’re all for it.

The bottom line on 2024 wedding trends

There you have our top 13 trends of next year! With the influential rise of Gen Z weddings, 2024 weddings are poised to be a fusion of tradition and innovation and, above all, celebrate each couple’s joy through hyper-personalisation. Weddings have changed a lot in recent years, and are set to change even more before next year is out, while still clinging on to what makes them so special. Which of these new trends will you be incorporating into your own big day?

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Which Finger Does an Engagement Ring Go On?

When your fiance gets down on one knee and asks you the question, which finger do you present them with so they can give you your gorgeous new ring? Or if you’re the one proposing, how do you know which is the right finger? The last thing you want to do at that moment is place the ring on the wrong one.

When it comes to which finger is the right one for an engagement ring, there are actually a lot of questions that surround it. Why is that finger on that hand commonly used in some countries but not others? Why is it usually that finger? Do you have to wear the wedding ring on the same finger as the engagement ring or can they be worn separately?

The great thing is, just like your marriage itself, there are no set rules when it comes to your engagement ring. But there are traditions you might want to stick to. So how do you know what’s right for you?

In this post, we’re going to take a look at everything to do with wearing an engagement ring. We’ll go over the history, which countries traditionally wear an engagement ring on different hands and what you can do if you’re just not that into wearing a wedding ring.

What is meant by a ‘ring finger’?

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The ring finger is the name given to the finger where you would traditionally wear your wedding and/or engagement ring, which is the finger beside your little finger on your left hand (in the UK). So commonly are rings worn on this finger that it has been named with this in mind. There’s even evidence of hieroglyphics wearing a ring on this finger to symbolise love and marriage.

In ancient times, it was believed that this finger had a vein that ran directly to the heart. That way, when both halves of a couple wear a ring it forever connects the two hearts. While we know a lot more about the human body these days, this wedding tradition is easily the one that has withstood the tests of time the longest.

Which hand do you wear an engagement ring on?

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In the UK, it’s traditional to wear an engagement ring on the left hand. This is the same as the wedding ring once you and your partner get married. That being said, which hand you traditionally wear an engagement ring on can vary depending on where you are in the world.

Which countries wear an engagement ring on their left hand?

Countries where people wear wedding and engagement rings on their left hand include:

  • UK
  • USA
  • Austria
  • France
  • Germany
  • Sweden
  • Czech Republic
  • Romania
  • Portugal
  • Turkey
  • Ireland

Which countries wear an engagement ring on their right hand?

Countries where people wear wedding and engagement rings on their right hand include:

  • Spain
  • Russia
  • Switzerland
  • Greece
  • India
  • Norway
  • Denmark
  • Colombia
  • Bulgaria
  • Belgium
  • Poland

Which is the right finger to wear an engagement ring on?

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As we’ve already covered, the right finger to wear your engagement ring on is the ring finger on either your left or right hand (depending on where you live). But, the right finger for you is something else entirely.

Can you wear an engagement ring on any finger?

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Yes, you can wear your engagement ring on any finger you choose – you might even want to wear it on your thumb if that’s something that appeals to you. Wearing a ring on the ring finger has been a tradition since ancient Greek and Roman times, but traditions aren’t for everyone – if that includes you, then just wear your ring on any finger you like.

Do you wear your engagement ring on the same hand and finger as your wedding ring?

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Many people choose to wear their engagement ring on the same hand and finger as their wedding ring, but again, whether you choose to do this or not is entirely up to you. There are plenty of variations you can go for, such as:

  • Wear your engagement ring and wedding ring on the same finger
  • Wear your engagement ring and wedding ring on the same hand but on different fingers
  • Wear your engagement ring on the ring finger of your left hand and wedding ring on the ring finger of your right hand (or vice versa)

You might even choose to wear both rings on different hands and on different fingers. Whatever you feel comfortable with and makes you happy is exactly the combination you should go for.

Can you wear your engagement ring and wedding ring every day?

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Many couples choose to wear their wedding rings and engagement rings every day as it helps them feel close to their partner even when they’re apart. 

Couples spend an average of £1,000 on their wedding rings and £1,978 on an engagement ring. This is often more than enough to ensure a high-quality metal, such as platinum or gold, which is super durable and can withstand lots of wear and tear. Over time your rings will suffer minor scuffs and scrapes – unfortunately, it’s unavoidable with any type of jewellery you might wear. If this is a concern, you might not want to wear them constantly, but for many, it’s worth it to ensure they always have that close connection to their spouse.

One thing some couples do is take off their rings when they get home and store them somewhere safe until they’re ready to leave the house again. This can slow some of the wear and tear – just make sure you always keep your rings in the same spot so you don’t have a moment of panic when you forget where you put them.

What if you have a promise ring?

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If you have a promise ring, should you wear this alongside your engagement ring and wedding ring? There are two common options for couples who have promise rings:

  • Switch the promise ring for the engagement ring
  • Wear each ring on the same finger
  • Wear the promise ring on a different finger

There’s nothing wrong with wearing all three rings on the same finger, but if you have too many rings (especially if they’re thick or have larger stones) you may find it gets a little crowded. It’s not exactly comfortable if you have a ring too close to the knuckle, so whatever you choose to do make sure you can bend your finger and it’s not too restrictive.

Can you wear your engagement ring and wedding ring on different fingers?

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Yes, however you like to wear your engagement ring and wedding ring is entirely up to you. While the tradition is to wear them together on the ring finger, that doesn’t mean it’s something you have to stick to. Wearing a ring is hugely personal, and what it represents is between you and your partner. So what if someone looks at your hand and doesn’t realise you’re married or engaged just because you wear your rings on different fingers? You do you and don’t let anyone else influence your decision.

Which ring goes on first, the engagement ring or the wedding ring?

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Traditionally, once you’re married you would wear your wedding ring first, then your engagement ring. That way, your wedding ring is closer to your heart.

But, just like with every tradition we’ve covered in this article, it’s not something you should feel obliged to stick to.

Do you have to wear an engagement ring or wedding ring to get married?

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No, there’s no kind of law that states you have to wear a ring when you’re married. It’s a symbolic gesture that shows your love and commitment to one another. But, if you don’t like to wear rings, you don’t have the budget or you’re not a fan of jewellery in general, it’s absolutely fine if you choose not to wear a wedding or engagement ring at all.

If you’re not sure you want to wear a ring, read our post on wedding ring alternatives for a little inspiration.

How do you measure your ring finger?

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To make sure your wedding and engagement rings are the right size and fit comfortably on your finger, it’s important to get the finger you intend to wear your ring on measured. This has to be done accurately if you want to prevent your ring from being too tight or, even worse, slipping off and getting lost.

There are several ways you can measure your ring finger:

  • Wrap a piece of string or tape around your finger and mark where it meets with a pen, which you can then measure with a ruler.
  • You can buy a ring sizer for around £5 from Amazon.
  • Your local jewellery store can do this for you.
  • Use a printable ring sizer.

What do jewellery experts say about which finger to wear your engagement ring and wedding ring on?

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When it comes to choosing the finger for your engagement ring and wedding ring, we spoke to Ruby McGonigle from Lebrusan Studio, a leading London-based ethical jewellery designer. Ruby recommends the following flexible approach:

“Your sentimental rings don’t need to mirror your partner’s in metal or design, nor do they need to be worn on your left ring finger. Many European nations – including Norway, Germany, Denmark, Latvia, Poland and Spain – look to the right hand as the ideal spot for the engagement ring and wedding band. This is because it’s used for oaths and vows, inherently symbolising honour and trust.

Though many people enjoy wearing their engagement rings and wedding bands together on the same finger in a unique stack, there’s no rule that states this is a must. Your engagement ring, wedding band and commitment rings are precious pieces of jewellery, and if you don’t fancy forcing them to share space then the freedom is yours to wear them however and whenever you like! For practical reasons, some opt only to wear their engagement ring on special occasions. Others might wish to secure it a special everyday spot over on the right ring finger once the wedding band comes along. Some might not wear their rings on their fingers at all, but instead hang them with pride on a necklace.

All in all, just like your unique love story, the choice is all yours.”

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How Much Do Bridesmaid Dresses Cost?

Asking friends and family to be your bridesmaids is fun and exciting. They get to be a part of your big day and are close by as you get ready, cheering you on as the nerves set in.

If you’ve been asked to be a bridesmaid, it’s equally as exciting. Taking part in the wedding of a loved one is a brilliant honour. It also means there’s a shopping trip in your future so you and the other bridesmaids – as well as the bride herself, of course – can try on some beautiful dresses.

Hopefully, when the time comes to go dress shopping, you know who’s going to pay for what. Is the bride and her family picking up the bill, or have the bridesmaids been told they’ll need to pay for their dresses? Either is fine, but making sure everyone knows what’s expected of them early on is important.

And it’s important to remember that the cost of bridesmaid dresses can vary from relatively reasonable to super expensive. But, how much of your wedding budget do you need to set aside? In this post, we’re going to explore how much bridesmaid dresses cost, including the factors that sway the price, the cost of alterations and whether you can buy bridesmaid dresses on the high street.

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What’s the average cost of a bridesmaid dress?

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In the UK, bridesmaid dresses cost anything from £80 – £500, so it all depends on your overall budget. With the average cost of a wedding being a rather lofty £20,775, it might be hard to justify choosing dresses at the higher end of the scale, especially if you have four or five bridesmaids. Similarly, if you’re asking your bridesmaids to pay for their dresses, you might want to choose a style or design that has a modest price tag. Something around the £80 – £150 mark should strike a great balance between beauty and affordability.

Why are bridesmaid dresses so expensive?

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Bridesmaid dresses can be rather expensive, especially if you choose a well-known brand or designer, or choose to shop at a boutique wedding retailer. It is, of course, common for anything wedding-related to come with a premium price tag, as this is more likely to guarantee that your day is extra special. 

Bridesmaid dresses are usually made using quality materials and have intricate details. Beading and embroidery take time, as well as any customisations that might be needed to tie them into the bride’s dress.

For some helpful money-saving tips, read our guide to saving money on bridesmaid dresses.

What factors affect the cost of a bridesmaid dress?

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Many factors can affect how much you might pay for bridesmaid dresses, whether you shop at a high-street retailer or an independent boutique.

  • The fabrics you choose can have a huge influence, for example, silk and lace are far more expensive than cotton and polyester.
  • More elaborate and detailed designs will be pricier than simple designs.
  • The more well-known and established your chosen brands and designers are, the more expensive the dresses will be.
  • Customisations can be pricey, so you’ll have to pay more if you’re looking for lots of changes.
  • Retailers in London, particularly boutiques and independents, will generally be more expensive than those outside the capital.
  • If you use a seamstress, a more skilled and experienced professional will cost more than one at the start of their career.
  • If you buy four or five dresses it will, of course, cost more than if you were to buy one or two. But, you might find the cost per dress is less the more you buy.
  • Don’t be surprised if the cost is higher if you have a tight timescale, so make sure you don’t leave anything till the last minute.
  • Renting your bridesmaid dresses is often more affordable, but comes with more limitations and limited customisation options.

To learn more, read our introduction to bridesmaid dresses.

Who pays for bridesmaid dresses?

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Whether or not you choose to pay for your bridesmaid dresses depends entirely on you, your budget, your bridesmaid budgets and the style and cost of the dresses you have in mind.

If you’re setting ‘rules’, then you may want to ensure you have the budget to cover your bridesmaid dresses. If you’re not precious about what they wear, then it’s common to ask your bridesmaids to pay for their dresses themselves.

For more information on wedding etiquette, read our guide on what your bridesmaids should and shouldn’t pay for.

How much do bridesmaid dress alterations cost?

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Because bridesmaid dresses are usually less complex and intricate than a wedding dress, bridesmaid dress alterations costs are usually far more reasonable. Depending on the level of work required, you can probably expect to pay around £30 – £40 per dress. But, heavy alterations might cost double this or more. It all depends on what’s needed and the amount of time the alterations will take.

How much do bridesmaid accessories and shoes cost?

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Generally, even if the bride and her family are paying for the dresses, the bridesmaids will be expected to provide their own shoes and accessories. On saying that, the bride may give her bridesmaids a token gift as a thank you on the morning of the big day, which could be a small piece of jewellery to wear and keep.

Bridesmaid shoes don’t need to be expensive. Any type of flats or simple heels will do the trick. Just remember that everyone will spend a lot of time on their feet, so comfort is key. A nice pair of mid-heel dress sandals or ballet flats will cost around £30 – £60. For accessories and jewellery, you may want to buy something special for the occasion, but you’ll more than likely already have something that will fit with your new dress.

How much does bridesmaid hair and makeup cost?

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On your wedding day, you’ll likely hire a hair and makeup professional to make you look glamorous and take the pressure away from yourself. As part of that, you might want to bring your bridal party together so that those close to you can look just as stunning – especially your bridesmaids.

If you’re able to secure a package, hair and makeup per bridesmaid (including a trial) will cost around £85. If the artist you hire has an assistant, you may be able to get a lower rate if the assistant takes care of the bridesmaids while the artist takes care of you.

For more information, read our guide to the price of wedding beauty.

Can you buy bridesmaid dresses on the high street?

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If you have a strict budget, there are plenty of high-street retailers that offer a wonderful selection of bridesmaid dresses. For example, M&S has a range of bridesmaid dresses to suit all styles, tastes and budgets, but are still beautiful and elegant. You’re likely to find wonderful dresses for around £65, which is way below what you might pay from boutique retailers. It’s always worth browsing the high street – you never know what treasures you might find.

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30 Unique Alternatives to Engagement Rings

Proposing to your partner is one of the biggest moments of your life, and the thing that might be on your mind is whether or not to propose with an engagement ring. Of course, an engagement ring is traditionally given when someone proposes; however, just like the way you propose, what you propose with can also be completely unique to you.

Whether your partner doesn’t wear rings, already wears a ring on every finger, or it simply doesn’t suit their style, what you present when you get down on one knee (if you do get down on one knee at all) is up to you. When the time comes for you to propose, you’ll probably have a solid idea as to what your soon-to-be-fiance would like.

So, if you’re looking for some inspiration for engagement ring alternatives, you’ve come to the right place. In this post, we’re going to dive into why you shouldn’t feel obliged to propose with an engagement ring, and offer you 30 suggestions for ways you can propose if a diamond ring isn’t your partner’s thing. That way, you can propose in a way that’s unique and personal to the two of you.

Why has it become a tradition to propose with an engagement ring?

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Engagement rings have been a tradition since ancient Egyptian and Greek times, but it was the Romans who made giving an engagement ring a legal requirement and made it popular. Of course, an engagement ring is far from something you’re legally obliged to give in the 21st century, but the tradition of giving a ring to your partner when asking them to marry you has remained.

That being said, many traditions come and go, or a tradition may not fit with your tastes, style, beliefs or budget. If this is you, then it’s great news that you no longer have to buy an engagement ring for your future fiance!

How much do engagement rings cost?

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In the UK, the average amount spent on an engagement ring is £1,978. There are certain traditional amounts that some say you should spend on a ring – anything from one to three months’ salary are popular. But, this is very rarely the case and is something you shouldn’t feel the need to stick to if you’re proposing with an engagement ring.

Read our ultimate wedding budget breakdown for a complete guide to how much every part of your wedding might cost.

What engagement rings will never go out of style?

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Want to propose with an engagement ring but also ensure the ring you choose never goes out of style? Below are just a few timeless engagement rings that have been popular for decades, and are set to be placed on ring fingers for many more decades to come.

  • Solitaire diamond rings – The solitaire diamond ring (any ring with a single diamond) has long been the classic engagement ring. It draws complete focus to the big rock in the centre, with round-cut diamonds being the go-to (but most expensive) choice.
  • Diamond halo ring – A twist on the solitaire diamond ring, which still features a large diamond, but is surrounded by a halo of small stones to accentuate its beauty.
  • Trilogy ring – A trilogy ring features three stones, which could be three of the same stone (such as three diamonds) or two different stones (such as two diamonds on either side of a central sapphire).
  • Emerald cut diamond – Emerald cut diamonds have a striking rectangular shape, which always makes them popular. They’re also not as expensive as round-cut diamonds due to less of the diamond being wasted during cutting.
  • White gold and platinum rings – The popularity of yellow gold jewellery comes and goes, but white gold and platinum remain consistently popular.

Can you propose without an engagement ring?

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Yes, you can propose without an engagement ring. The most important thing you need to offer in a proposal is your love and commitment to your partner. However, make sure you’re confident that you know what your partner would like to receive when being proposed to. If their dream is to wear a diamond engagement ring, then popping the question without one may come as a bit of a shock.

What’s an alternative to an engagement ring?

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An alternative to an engagement ring is something you give to your partner other than the traditional engagement ring as a symbol of your love and commitment to them. It could be anything, from a different type of jewellery to a tattoo.

Why you might choose an alternative is a personal decision. It could be because the two of you aren’t interested in the usual traditions, your partner doesn’t like to wear rings, or your wedding budget can’t stretch to include an engagement ring.

Can anything be an engagement ring?

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Yes, absolutely anything can work as an alternative to a traditional diamond engagement ring. It could be another ring, a different piece of jewellery like a necklace, or anything your partner might love and appreciate. In season three of The Simpsons, Homer proposed to Marge using an onion ring! This obviously isn’t a long-term solution, but it shows just how creative you can be with your proposal.

30 alternatives to an engagement ring

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If you and your partner aren’t interested in the tradition of wearing an engagement ring, there are plenty of alternatives you can choose instead. Below are just 30 suggestions for what you can give your partner when you ask them to marry you.

10 rings that are great alternative engagement rings

  1. Birthstone ring – A ring that features the birthstone of your partner, or one that features both of your birthstones.
  2. A handmade ring – A ring made by a craftsperson and sold at a craft fair or online retailer such as Etsy.
  3. Lab-grown stones – Lab-grown stones are environmentally- and budget-friendly.
  4. Simple band – A precious metal band, much like a wedding ring, is a fantastic choice.
  5. Promise ring – A promise ring can be given before an engagement ring, which the two of you might choose together.
  6. Eternity ring – Traditionally given after a specific relationship milestone, but remember, traditions can definitely be broken.
  7. Family heirloom – A ring that’s been handed down from a relative could be a wonderful engagement ring alternative.
  8. A vintage ring – Vintage stores and charity shops can be a treasure trove for unique alternatives.
  9. Wooden ring – A rustic and eco-friendly choice.
  10. Engraved band – Super personal and thoughtful.

10 pieces of jewellery that are great alternative engagement rings

Instead of a ring, you could propose with a different piece of jewellery. It could be something personal to you, which you could customise further by choosing relevant birthstones, preferences or engravings.

  1. Necklace
  2. Bracelet
  3. Charm bracelet
  4. Brooch
  5. Earrings
  6. Watch
  7. Ankle bracelet
  8. Cufflinks
  9. Body jewellery
  10. Locket

10 alternative engagement ring ideas that aren’t jewellery

For something truly different, why not ditch jewellery altogether and go for something completely out of the box?

  1. Tattoos – If you’re into body art, an engagement tattoo combines your lives.
  2. Handfasting – Usually performed at a wedding ceremony, but can be a symbolic gesture the two of you could do at an engagement.
  3. Handwritten letter – A handwritten letter can help you communicate just how strongly you feel about your partner, which you can give to them during the proposal.
  4. Journal – Similar to a letter, a journal is something you write over time and shows how your love has grown. Another idea is a book of promises, which is a book filled with the promises you’re making to your loved one and how you intend to keep them.
  5. Wedding fund contribution – Instead of an engagement ring (which can be expensive), agree to put that money into the start of your wedding fund. Or, why not donate to your partner’s favourite charity?
  6. Custom artwork – This could be anything from a watercolour painting to a pencil drawing, either by yourself or an artist you both admire.
  7. Plant a tree – What better symbol to start your commitment together than by planting a tree the two of you can watch grow for decades to come?
  8. Keepsake box – Choose a box the two of you can fill with memories.
  9. Proposal video – A video of your memories that ends with you popping the question.
  10. Celebrity video – Websites such as Cameo allow you to ask celebrities to record a personalised video message, which makes for a unique and exciting way to involve your partner’s favourite actor or musician in your proposal.

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How Much Does an Engagement Ring Cost? The Average Couples Spend in 2024

Once you’ve decided to propose to your partner and the excitement starts to build, the first big question you’ll face (before you pop the question) is how much should you spend on an engagement ring?

Should you spend the traditional amount? Does your budget stretch that far? If not, are there still beautiful engagement rings out there that fit how much you’re able to pay? What type of metal should you choose? How big does the diamond need to be? Do you need a diamond at all?

In this post, we’ll answer all these questions and more. We’ll explore how much engagement rings cost, including the average amount spent, why they’re so expensive and what you can do to find the perfect ring so all you need to worry about is when and where you’ll get down on one knee.

What’s the average cost of an engagement ring?

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In the UK, the average amount spent on an engagement ring is £2,089. Because this is simply an average, many rings will cost far more than this – but, many will also cost much less, and still be drop-dead gorgeous. Especially when slipped on your new fiance’s ring finger.

For more information about the average cost of weddings in the UK, read our ultimate wedding budget breakdown.

What should you traditionally spend on an engagement ring?

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Depending on who you ask, there are a couple of different thoughts about how much you should traditionally spend on an engagement ring – and both revolve around how much you earn:

  • One month’s salary
  • Three month’s salary

If you’ve read that and thought about how much you earn compared to your monthly bills and how much you have currently sat in your savings account, then don’t worry. These may be traditional, but that doesn’t mean either has to be followed.

In the UK, the average salary is £29,588. So, if you stuck to either of these traditional amounts, one month’s salary would be £2,466 and three months’ salary would be £7,397. You could buy an engagement ring with a stone big enough to sink a cruise ship with either of these. But, as you can see, neither amount is the same as the average spend – so this isn’t something you should feel obliged to stick to.

Why are engagement rings so expensive?

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Engagement rings express how you feel about the person you love, and asking them to marry you is a promise to commit yourself to them for the rest of your life. As such, a gesture like that requires a ring that’s beautiful and meaningful enough to reflect what it represents.

As well as the massive sentimental value, engagement rings are often expensive because of many other reasons:

  • Precious metal: Engagement rings are often made using rare and valuable precious metals, such as gold, platinum and palladium. The prices for these often fluctuate based on market conditions, but are usually exceptionally high.
  • Precious stones: One of the most striking features of an engagement ring is the precious stones set in the centre, with the most popular being a diamond. Depending on the cut, carat weight, clarity and colour of the diamond, the cost can start high but get astronomically high (we’re talking millions).
  • Brand: Designer and luxury brands are popular choices for engagement rings, which can add to the cost.
  • Customisation: Personalised additions, such as unique designs or engravings, can bump up the cost of an engagement ring.

Do you have to spend the traditional amount on an engagement ring?

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No, you don’t have to spend the traditional amount on an engagement ring. The average amount spent may be £2,089, but that means many, many rings are bought for way less than this. Of course, it does also mean rings are bought for a lot more, too, like the $60 million pink star. Thankfully, not many people expect their partners to propose with a ring featuring a rock like that.

When the time comes to propose, you and your partner might have already had a few discussions about budgets, styles, preferences and expectations. Your partner will know what you can afford and wouldn’t want you to rack up credit card debt just so you can spend the traditional amount on an engagement ring.

Besides, it’s the thought, meaning and commitment behind an engagement ring that gives it its true value.

Do you have to buy a diamond engagement ring?

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Just because diamonds are the most popular stone for a classic engagement ring, it doesn’t mean the ring you choose must have a diamond. There are many ring designs out there that make for wonderful engagement rings, but feature different precious stones, such as amethyst, turquoise, emerald, ruby or sapphire. If you do want to propose with a ring that features a diamond, you could choose a trilogy design, with a small central diamond with a less expensive stone on either side. That way, you can still give your partner a diamond ring, but with a unique design that doesn’t cost as much.

How much should you spend on an engagement ring?

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The short answer to this question is that you should only spend as much on an engagement ring as you’re comfortable with. How much you spend doesn’t reflect the amount of love you feel. If that were the case, you’d probably want to spend millions. At the same time, you also might want to spend more than the bare minimum, because it is, after all, one of the most significant purchases you’ll ever make.

Before deciding how much you should spend, consider the following points:

  • How much you can spare – If you’ve considered proposing for a while, you may have saved some money towards a ring. If it’s something you’ve recently thought about, you might not. What can you comfortably afford without going into debt?
  • Your partner’s expectations – What does your partner want in a ring? Something small and subtle, or a big, emerald-cut diamond? That will have a big impact on what you need to budget for.
  • Your long-term goals – How will buying the ring impact your savings, and in turn your aspirations? Will it mean you’ll have to save longer to get married or buy your dream house together? 

What do the experts say you should spend on an engagement ring?

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Wedding planning expert and founder of Bridebook, Hamish Shephard, shares his opinion on the price of an engagement ring:

“Buying an engagement ring is a huge deal. It’s the start of your journey towards marriage and acts as a symbol of your love for your future spouse. 

Once upon a time, there was an expectation that you’d have to spend thousands on an engagement ring. But, for many considering popping the question today, this simply isn’t an option – especially as the cost of the average wedding pushes £20,000. Beginning your engagement and your subsequent wedding planning journey in debt because you felt obliged to spend a certain amount on a ring isn’t going to give you the strongest financial starting block. Only spend what you feel comfortable spending, because the most important thing about an engagement ring isn’t the carats or the cut of the diamond – it’s the commitment you’re making to that other person.”

How to find the perfect engagement ring for your budget?

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Ready to find the perfect engagement ring but don’t want to break the bank? Below are a few tips to help you get started. Then, once the time comes to start planning your wedding, we have plenty more wedding-related cost-cutting information in our ultimate guide to saving money on your wedding.

  • Carefully consider your finances and set a strict budget. Don’t be tempted to go over this budget – the perfect ring will be out there for what you can comfortably afford.
  • Be open to alternative stones, such as sapphires or emeralds, which are still gorgeous but not as expensive as diamonds.
  • Remember that bigger isn’t always better. It might be tempting to go with a huge central diamond, but the clarity, carat and colour may not make a diamond the best choice when it comes to value. Smaller but higher-quality diamonds can have better fire and sparkle than one that’s larger.
  • Think about your choice of precious metal. The stone is often the star of the show, so can you choose a ring with a more affordable precious metal to compensate? For example, gold is more affordable than platinum, but still a wonderful choice.
  • Browse online jewellers. Because they have fewer overheads, you can often find bargains from online retailers. Just make sure you know their returns policy in case you don’t love it quite as much once you see it in person.
  • Try to subtly find out your partner’s ring size before buying. Taking a ring to be resized later will add to the cost, so buying the right size from the start will prevent unnecessary expenses.
  • Buy during sales. Jewellers frequently have sales and offer discounts, so wait for the sale season before making your purchase.
  • Ask for a discount. There’s nothing wrong with haggling, even at high-street jewellers. With tactful bartering, you might be able to get around 10% off.

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How to Save Money on Wedding Rings

Once you and your partner are married, your wedding rings will likely become your most consistently worn pieces of jewellery. Because of this – and what they symbolise – couples tend to spend quite a bit of money on finding exactly the right wedding rings.

In the UK, couples spend an average of £1,000 on wedding rings – and this doesn’t include the cost of an engagement ring, either. While it’s important to find the right rings for you and your spouse-to-be, it can be difficult to find the money when you also consider that the average overall cost of a wedding is £19,184.

But, there are things you can do to bring this cost down while making sure you have the perfect pair of wedding rings. Because, of course, you don’t want to compromise when it comes to choosing such an important piece of jewellery – one you’ll each keep for the rest of your lives.

In this post, we’ll explore the many ways you can save money and still have wedding rings that you and your spouse-to-be can wear proudly every day.

Why are wedding rings so expensive?

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Because you’ll wear your wedding ring so often (many rarely take their wedding ring off at all) it has to be incredibly durable. The last thing you want is for your ring to become damaged and misshapen after just a few months of wear. That durability comes at a price, and the more hardy a precious metal is, the more expensive it also tends to be.

For example, two popular choices of metal to use in wedding rings are platinum and gold. Both are more on the more expensive side – with costs starting at around £350 for one ring – but they can easily withstand daily wear and tear. Of course, over time scuffs and scratches will slowly develop, but it will take much longer than if you were to get rings that are made from a much softer and less durable metal.

Some couples will also choose to get wedding rings that are more than a simple band. Customisations, precious stones and engravings all increase the cost, meaning you’ll pay more than you would with a plain wedding band.

Do you need to buy wedding rings?

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Traditionally, wedding rings play a major role in a wedding ceremony, with the exchanging of rings representing a couple’s love and commitment to one another. However, the good news is that there are no requirements that state that rings must be exchanged for you to be legally married. So, if wedding rings aren’t your thing, or they simply don’t fit your budget, then you shouldn’t feel compelled to include them.

Instead, you and your partner could exchange another type of jewellery, flowers or write your own vows. In fact, you don’t need to exchange anything at all for the ceremony to be beautiful and romantic. The best thing about getting married is, it’s your day, so you can dictate exactly how it goes.

How much should you spend on a wedding ring?

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One of the questions that couples struggle with is ‘How much should you spend on a wedding ring?’ However, there is no right or wrong answer to this question – only what’s right for you.

If you have a large budget, you may want to spend £1,200 on a pair of platinum wedding bands that are strong and durable. If your budget is tight, you can buy a pair of silver wedding rings for as little as £150. Or, for something a little more middle-of-the-road, you could choose two 9-carat gold rings for around £500.

Ultimately, how much you spend on your wedding rings is down to your preferences and your budget, so try not to pay attention to how much you think you should spend.

12 ways to save money on wedding rings

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If you and your spouse-to-be are excited to exchange rings but not so excited about the cost, there are ways to ensure you don’t have to spend even close to the UK average. Remember, averages are simply that – an average – so that means many couples spend way below that.

Below are twelve ways you can save money on wedding rings while still having the rings of your dreams. Or, check out our comprehensive guide on how to save money on your wedding for more ways to cut costs for your big day.

1. Browse for wedding rings online

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Just because you can’t see or try on rings in person, don’t be put off the idea of buying your wedding rings online. No, you won’t be able to get a feel for a ring when browsing a website, but because online jewellers don’t have to pay expensive retail unit costs, they’re in a position to sell wedding rings at a lower cost.

Make sure you get your ring fingers measured properly before placing any order, as getting your rings resized will counteract any savings you might make. Plus, double-check the returns policy of a website before you place an order just in case your rings aren’t quite as beautiful in person as they looked in photographs.

2. Try to avoid buying rings on finance

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Some jewellers like to tempt excited couples by selling wedding rings with the option of paying monthly. This might seem tempting, but high interest rates could mean you pay way over the odds in the long run. If you can, pay for your wedding rings outright and don’t be suckered into any upsells that they may try to flog you at the checkout.

3. Consider not having expensive stones

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Some couples like a little extra bling in their wedding rings so it closely matches the engagement ring. There’s nothing wrong with this, of course, but if this is something you’re interested in then be prepared to pay a lot more than the average. Precious stones will seriously bump up how much you pay and aren’t generally the go-to choice when it comes to wedding rings. To keep costs down, forgo the stones, or if you are keen on extra bling, go for something a little less expensive than diamonds.

4. Choose a simple design

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When it comes to choosing a design for your wedding rings, the world is your oyster. But, to keep costs down, the simpler a design is, the cheaper the rings are likely to be.

5. Shop around

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When the time comes to start browsing for wedding rings, it can be easy to fall in love with a particular design that leaves you blinkered. Even if you find what you think are the perfect rings, don’t stop looking. Chances are, if you’re patient and you shop around, you’ll find the same rings – or better – at another jeweller that just so happens to offer them at a lower price. Keep your options open and don’t buy your rings without considering all options first.

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6. Choose a less expensive precious metal

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When it comes to your rings, there are a ton of options available to you. One of the biggest choices you’ll make is which precious metal to go for. Some of the most expensive include platinum, and a plain wedding band could set you back as much as £1,100 for one. At the opposite end of the spectrum, a silver wedding ring will likely cost you around £150 for the pair – however, they won’t be as durable and will likely scuff or become misshapen more easily.

Why not meet in the middle and choose a pair of gold or white gold rings? A pair of 9-carat gold rings could cost you less than £500 and will look great and still be fairly durable.

7. Don’t choose any customisations

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A popular addition to wedding rings is customisations, such as engraving or etchings. This could be anything from the name of your new spouse to the date of your wedding, or even a quote or phrase that is super meaningful to you. However, customisations like this certainly aren’t free and will add at least a hundred quid to the price tag, but this can vary depending on the number of characters you’d like to include.

If you have your heart set on customised rings, though, many jewellers offer exclusive Bridebook discounts and offers, such as Mrs Bo Jangles, who offers 5% off and free engraving on certain pieces.

8. Choose a thinner band

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Wedding bands can vary in thickness, offering you a large range of choices. However, the thicker the band is, the more metal it needs, and therefore the more it’ll cost. You probably won’t want to go too thin, but avoiding thicker bands will help to keep the costs more manageable.

9.  Choose a metal used in your engagement ring

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This isn’t something that you’ll be able to retroactively control, but consider choosing wedding rings that are made from the same metal as your engagement ring. If you have two different metals they’ll wear at different rates, and can even damage each other due to them constantly coming into contact with each other. That means, over the years, you may end up having to have your rings repaired or redipped more often. This isn’t so much a cost you’ll have to worry about right now, but more of a long-term consideration that your future self may thank you for.

10. Consider something pre-loved

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Don’t just browse high-street jewellers on your quest to find the perfect rings; there are a plethora of second-hand retailers and antique stores out there that just might have a few hidden treasures. You might not have much luck in charity shops, but vintage and antique retailers will have jewellery cabinets that can be far more budget-friendly than if you were to buy something brand new.

Another option to consider is browsing second-hand sites like Gumtree and eBay. If you can get past the mysterious history of jewellery bought from sites like these, you might just be able to grab yourself a massive bargain.

11. Don’t be afraid to negotiate

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Not everyone is blessed with natural negotiation skills, but there’s no harm in asking for a discount. Just because a particular piece of jewellery has a price tag beside it in the window, it doesn’t mean that’s definitely what you have to pay. Jewellery store employees often receive a commission on sales, and if they know you’re a serious buyer they should be open to offering you a discount.

If you’re a cash buyer, let them know, as this may help. If you’re lucky, you might be able to wangle as much as 10 – 15% off the asking price for a pair of wedding rings.

12. Browse craft fairs

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Craft fairs can be a fantastic place to pick up unique and bespoke wedding rings that are handmade by talented craftspeople. Not only that, but you might also be able to find yourself a huge bargain. Check out Prima for information on the best upcoming craft shows in 2023.

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How to Save Money on Wedding Music

The soundtrack to your wedding is one that you’ll remember forever. From the soft and soothing music as the two of you lock eyes for the first time on the big day, to the crowd-pleasing bangers your guests will dance to throughout the night, music plays a huge part in a wedding.

And that’s one of the reasons why wedding music can be so pricey. The average amount couples spend on wedding music is £1,800, which is a huge chunk of the £20,775 spent on the average wedding in the UK.

But, with music being such a vital part of your wedding, it might be a non-negotiable for you and your spouse-to-be. Thankfully, there are plenty of ways you can save money if you’re on a more restrictive budget.

In this post, we’re going to take a look at how you can save money on music at your wedding while still making sure your day hits all the right notes.

Why is wedding music so expensive?

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Music literally plays such a big part in your wedding day. There’s music playing as your guests arrive, at the ceremony itself, welcoming guests to the breakfast, and of course long into the night. So, the costs quickly add up.

On top of this, when you’re hiring musicians and DJs, you also have to bear in mind that you’re paying for their skill and professionalism, their expensive equipment and setup fees, their travel and time, and often, in the case of wedding-specific professionals, their experience at working weddings . And of course, the more musicians you’re paying, the more expensive it’s going to be.

These costs are in addition to any non-musical entertainment you may also wish to have (such as magicians and lawn games), so saving money on your music can help you to have a wide range of entertainers at your wedding.

10 ways to save money on wedding music

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If music is important to you and you know it’s something that has to play a vital role in your day, then it doesn’t necessarily have to cost a ton. Below are 10 ways you can save money on wedding music.

1. Choose a DJ over a band

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A great wedding band can set you back by more than £1,000, which is quite a big chunk of change. However, a DJ is generally half the cost and sometimes even less, and therefore kinder on your budget. If you’re still umming and ahhing, check out our post on how to choose between a band and a DJ. 

2. Choose a solo artist

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If live music is important to you, the most affordable option in most cases is to hire a solo artist. Remember, while a band will generally set you back four figures, a solo singer will typically cost a similar amount to a DJ. Depending on what you’re going for, they may also play an instrument, such as a guitar or piano, or have pre-recorded backing music. 

3. Hire a band with fewer members

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The main reason a band tends to be so expensive is simply because there are more musicians who need to be paid, as well as instruments and equipment. When you hire a band, generally speaking, the more members there are, the more expensive it’ll be. So, to lower costs, why not choose a band with three or four members, rather than five or six? In this case, less is less!

The same applies to classical musicians, with a harpist or cellist usually being more affordable than a string quartet (though this isn’t a hard-and-fast rule). 

4. Go the DIY route

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It might not be the most glamorous way to entertain your guests, but it’s possible to do your music yourself if keeping costs low is your no. 1 priority. All you need is a decent sound system, which your chosen venue might already have, and a smartphone with the right adapter. Then, with a few well-chosen Spotify playlists, you can ensure your wedding has music playing non-stop into the night.

As ever with the DIY approach, bear in mind going down this route comes with its own risks. A professional won’t just provide top-quality, professional-sounding music, but also provide the best possible service so you can just relax and enjoy the biggest party of your life. If something goes wrong with your own music, you’ll be the one who’ll have to sort it out, and be ready with a backup plan. 

5. Ask music students

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If there’s a performing arts school or conservatoire close to your chosen venue, why not approach them and ask whether there are music students available to perform at your wedding? Not only will it save you money, but students are enthusiastic and are sure to put on a great performance.

6. Hire local musicians

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Remember that it’s expensive to travel. If you’re hiring a band which has to travel 100 miles to reach your venue, then that’s going to add a huge amount to their rates both in travel and potentially in accommodation costs too. To keep costs down, make sure you hire local musicians and check how far their catchment area stretches before committing to booking them. 

To find bands and DJs close to you, check out our huge selection of wedding musicians. From bands to DJs and more, you’re sure to find the one for you!

7. Consider times carefully

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Be mindful that the longer you require a musician, the more you’ll have to pay. For example, if you hire a string quartet, you could ask them to play to welcome your guests, during the ceremony and during the breakfast. That means they’ll play for several hours, which can get rather expensive if you’re on a tight budget. To cut down costs, consider having them play before and during the ceremony, then switch to pre-recorded music later on. 

8. Have an off-peak wedding

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Wedding vendors across the board will usually charge premium rates during busy periods, such as during the summer months and at weekends – this includes musicians and DJs. Instead of a Saturday wedding in August, why not think about having it on a Tuesday in December instead? You’ll save money not only on your music, but also on everything from your venue to your catering.

9. Ask a musical acquaintance

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Have you got a sister who can hold a note or a group of mates who formed a band in sixth form? Recruit them to perform at your wedding! It’ll be great for them to be involved, you’ll save money and you’ll have loads of fun too.

Just make sure that they’re happy to perform and that their standards are high… and try not to rely on them TOO heavily (remember they’re not professionals, and so you can’t expect the same quality of performance and service). You could put together a cracking playlist for the gaps in between and after, or as a possible plan B. You could give your mates a thoughtful gift to thank them for putting on a show, or perhaps a drink or two to give them a little Dutch courage.

10. Don’t have live music at the ceremony

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Live music at your ceremony can turn a beautiful wedding into one that is truly memorable. However, that can come at a cost. To save money, pre-recorded music can be still be effective at creating a welcoming and romantic atmosphere – it just won’t be quite as unique. But, it’s important to remember that, first and foremost, your guests aren’t coming to your wedding to listen to live music – they’re coming to watch someone they love get married to the love of their life. 

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Mel & Andy’s Whimsical Alice in Wonderland Themed Wedding

Childhood memories are precious, and often hold a special place in our hearts. What if you could relive those cherished moments on your wedding day? A themed wedding inspired by your childhood can transport you and your guests back in time, creating a magical and unforgettable experience. Get inspired by Mel and Andy’s whimsical Alice in Wonderland themed wedding, complete with quirky DIY touches and a host of unique, interactive activities.

The Inspiration & Wedding Planning

Since I was a kid, I have been obsessed with Alice in Wonderland. I have about 20-25 copies of the book, two Alice in Wonderland tattoos, and always wanted an Alice in Wonderland wedding!

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Thankfully, my husband was happy to let me have my dream wedding – he went with all my crazy ideas and helped make everything. Our wedding ceremony was a White Rabbit theme; our wedding breakfast was a Mad Hatter’s tea party; and our evening party was a Red Queen theme.

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The Venue

Our venue was Nunsmere Hall in Northwich, Cheshire, and we picked it because it was a gorgeous country house which we felt fit the theme.

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My husband and I set up everything in the wedding breakfast the night before and it took hours! My mum and I then stayed over at Nunsmere Hall Hotel the night before together.

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Our wedding coordinator was Erin at Nunsmere Hall, and she was the best ever! She saw our vision and was as excited as we were. We have her Hufflepuff flowers on the wedding day as a thank you (made my friend Amee at A Thousand Years Bouquets). We also gave my mum, my mother-in-law and hairdresser Alice in Wonderland flowers, and pocket watches to my three dads.

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Our wedding decorator was Marie at Butterfly Events (who work with Nunsmere Hall), and our DJ was from Hipswing (who also work with Nunsmere Hall).

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The Decor

We wanted our wedding to be created by ourselves. I was the painter, Andy was the craftsman. I painted six giant paintings from the original Tenniel drawings in the original book, while Andy crafted a this way/that way sign, which I then painted, as well as stands for my paintings and signs, and our own photo memory board. We made all of our own themed invites and table names too.

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We collected tea cups, tea pots, plates etc. for our table decorations. It took two years to collect enough items to make our wonky table decorations, which were covered in card and flowers and keys. Most of our decorations came from charity shops. Our centerpieces for the wedding breakfast were all homemade, and took us about nine months to complete in little stages.

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Dress, Accessories & Bridal Bouquet

I originally wanted a blue wedding dress, but couldn’t find one I liked or that was in my budget! So I had my bridesmaids in blue tea dresses instead.

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My bouquet was handmade by my friend Amee at A Thousand Years Bouquets (she can be found on Facebook). They are made of an old copy of Alice in Wonderland and blue card. She is amazing!

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My wedding shoes were Alice in Wonderland converse-style, which I bought from ShoeArtCottage on Etsy. I also had Alice in Wonderland socks, which were a gift.

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I had my nails done by Karen at Shanti Beauty in Crewe, Cheshire. They were French nails, but my ring fingers were blue with bows on them. Andy bought me stopwatch earrings for the day, and I bought him his cufflinks. I had his tie and pocket square made from blue Alice in Wonderland fabric by my friend Stewart. My bracelet and necklace were from Pandora, and featured all of the Alice in Wonderland collection, which my mum and stepdad had bought me as gifts on the day.

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The Activities

My hen do was at the Rabbit Hole Team Room in Stoke. It was an Alice in Wonderland afternoon tea that my best friend and chief bridesmaid Vickie arranged.

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Two of my dads walked me down the aisle, and Andy wrote the best speech and had everyone laughing. He wrote me a poem in his speech, too, and it was just beautiful.

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We had a chessboard dance floor and provided games like Jenga, and cards for the evening party. We made our own photo booth frame, which we used our own camera for, with props to go with it.

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We had a sweet table with “Eat Me” jars on it, which my two dads arranged for us. Our wedding favours were little shots of gin in “Drink Me” bottles, and “Eat Me” cookies shaped like mushrooms.

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Mel and Andy’s Suppliers

Dreaming of planning your own childhood-inspired themed wedding? Then take a leaf out of Mel and Andy’s book, and start putting together your own unique ideas – the possibilities are endless!

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