Nestled within 160 acres of enchanting countryside, Hedingham Castle offers a wedding setting like no other. With a beautifully restored 900-year-old Norman Keep, an elegant Georgian Mansion House, and luxurious on-site accommodation for up to 35 guests, this venue combines historical grandeur with modern elegance to create the perfect backdrop for your special day.
From the majestic Banqueting Hall to the picturesque lakes and gardens, Hedingham Castle is a dream venue for couples seeking romance, charm, and versatility. Read on to explore its unique spaces, discover its highlights, and find out why it could be the perfect choice for your wedding.
Sarah Pether, Weddings Manager at Hedingham Castle, shares her insights into what makes this venue so special and unique:
“The 900-year-old castle always takes couples by surprise when they come to view—it looks even more magnificent in real life! Guests are constantly wowed as they move through each part of the day: the castle for the ceremony, the Georgian House and lawns for drinks, and the Ballroom Marquee for dinner. It’s a completely unique venue that combines the best of both worlds: an iconic castle plus a country house and beautiful gardens. We are super flexible and each wedding is totally bespoke, from everything to the timings of the ceremony and catering to the decor and cocktail menus, so couples really can have the wedding of their dreams.”
The Castle’s iconic Banqueting Hall is a breathtaking location for your vows. With its soaring stone walls and historic charm, it creates a truly unforgettable atmosphere for up to 100 guests. Prefer an outdoor ceremony? The lush gardens and serene lakes offer idyllic al fresco options.
Versatile reception spaces
For grand celebrations, the elegant Ballroom Marquee, located in the gardens of the Georgian Mansion House, accommodates up to 150 guests and provides a beautiful, versatile space for dining and dancing. For more intimate receptions, the castle itself offers a magical setting for up to 70 guests.
Luxurious accommodation
Hedingham Castle caters to all your needs with on-site accommodation for up to 35 guests. The charming Garden Cottage is included for the couple to prepare and spend their first night, while the Royal Chamber—the only modern bedroom in a Norman Keep in the UK—provides a super unique and romantic option.
Flexible packages
From multi-day weekend weddings to intimate elopement packages, Hedingham Castle tailors its offerings to suit your vision. Not only that, but couples opting for a weekend wedding can also enjoy exclusive use from Friday to Sunday, allowing ample time to celebrate and relax with loved ones.
Hedingham Castle’s history meets modern sustainability, with the venue’s team being proud to identify as a Sustainability Hero. Sarah explains:
“We work hard to be as sustainable as possible. Both the castle and Georgian House are heated via a woodchip biomass boiler ,which is fuelled by sustainably felled trees from our woodland. This has cut our gas use by 90% in the last 10 years. The PV panels on the House roof also contribute significantly to the estate’s electricity requirements. We love nothing more than upcycling and repurposing items too—indeed, the planks that make up the floor on two storeys of the castle were once from Southend Pier! Nothing ever goes to waste at Hedingham.”
Sarah recalls that one of her most memorable moments at Hedingham Castle was the first ceremony-only she co-ordinated:
“In the first ceremony-only wedding I co-ordinated, no one sat down. The couple walked in, bish bash bosh, 7 minutes from start to end! We also once had a receiving line that took an hour for 60 guests—they were all huggers! It was wonderful to watch, and despite the salmon being ready, we were definitely not going to interrupt!”
The team at Hedingham Castle are real experts, and understand that the whole planning journey can feel a little intimidating. With their vast knowledge and advice, they’re sure to make the whole wedding planning process as joyful and stress-free every step of the way. In light of this, Sarah shares her best top tip for couples currently planning their wedding:
“Enjoy the whole experience: it’s not all about the day; you need to enjoy planning it too. Take 30 seconds when you sit down for dinner to look at those you love the most in one room, as it will likely never happen again. This advice was given to me on my own wedding day, and it’s so true, you remember it forever.”
Whether you dream of a grand celebration in a historic Norman Keep or an intimate elopement surrounded by romantic countryside, Hedingham Castle offers everything you need for a memorable and iconic wedding. With its exceptional spaces, dedicated team, and commitment to sustainability, this venue is ready to make your vision a reality, and guide you every step of the way.
For more information or to arrange a viewing, check out this venue’s Bridebook profile. Start planning your fairytale wedding today.
In this exclusive feature, we’re shining a spotlight on Blake Hall Weddings and Events Ltd. With its magnificent and lovingly restored 17th-century barns, beautiful surrounding gardens and stylish accommodation, it’s the perfect elegant and flexible setting for your big day. Plus, at this exclusive-use venue, you’ll be supported by a truly passionate and experienced team, who will be there to help and guide you every step of the way.
Blake Hall is only offered for exclusive use, and is licensed for civil ceremonies. Each space flows effortlessly into the next, offering stunning backdrops at every turn and plenty of space for up to 150 guests.
You can choose to say your vows inside the charming Hay Barn, or outdoors under the historic Old Saddlery, surrounded by the beauty of the Hall’s gardens.
After the ceremony, your guests are invited to mingle on the lawn and terrace or enjoy the spacious interior of the Hay Barn before moving into the Essex Barn for a memorable wedding breakfast and evening celebration.
For Rachel Capel Cure, managing Blake Hall was an unexpected calling, but one she couldn’t be prouder of. “The wedding industry found me by chance!” she explains. Originally a private banker, Rachel’s path changed when she and her husband took over Blake Hall, which has been in her husband’s family since 1789. Starting with just a rustic bar and dance floor, she embarked on a mission to transform the venue into a breathtaking wedding space.
“We took one job at a time and focused on what would enhance the venue,” Rachel says. “Over the next 10 years or so, we restored one building at a time, making the venue the successful and beautiful business that it is today”. Today, she leads a dedicated team and loves hosting weddings in her historic family home. “We are in the happiness industry,” she adds, “and I am so proud that so many lovely couples choose to get married in my home.”
Blake Hall is so much more than just a beautiful venue – it’s a family home. As Rachel Capel Cure, the venue’s sole director, explains, “It is not just our beautiful setting and gardens, the stunning 17th-century barns, and lovely cottages we offer for the night before and night of the wedding. It is so much more than that.” Every corner of Blake Hall is meticulously maintained, from the charming historic barns to the surrounding gardens, which are tended to with the same care as a family home. Many members of the team were married at Blake Hall before joining the staff, creating a warm and close-knit atmosphere where everyone is genuinely invested in making every wedding as perfect as possible.
The venue is known not only for its elegant spaces and picturesque surroundings but also for the impeccable service and outstanding dedication of its team. “The most common feedback we receive is just how amazing the team is and how well maintained the venue and gardens are, as well as how delicious the food is,” Rachel notes. From the moment a couple books their wedding, the team is there every step of the way, making their big day truly memorable and magical.
Blake Hall is proud to offer an experience that goes beyond just beautiful scenery. With a genuine commitment to sustainability, the venue is powered partly by solar energy, while rainwater is collected for the garden’s upkeep. Rachel explains, “We have made great moves to be environmentally friendly with the use of solar power to help heat the barns and storing rain water to irrigate the gardens, and are always looking for sustainable solutions wherever possible.”
Plus, the venue is proud to be a truly inclusive venue, welcoming and supporting every single couple, as well as their guests. Whatever your faith, race, gender or sexual orientation, you will be more than welcome at this fabulous venue.
After 17 years of hosting weddings, Rachel has witnessed countless unique and personal touches from couples. “Whether it’s a groom serenading his bride, a surprise ‘first look’ with the best man in a wedding dress, or a mother of the bride crafting a stunning cake, each wedding is wonderfully unique,” she shares. And occasionally, she’s even been invited as a guest. “Those experiences are always memorable and so special,” Rachel adds, reflecting on the level of connection and trust she has built with the couples who marry at Blake Hall.
Rachel’s number one tip for wedding planning? “Enjoy the entire experience,” she advises. “Remember that weddings are fun and full of happiness, and it is your wedding day, not your family’s or your bridesmaids’. Plan the wedding to reflect you as a couple with the little extra touches and trust us do the rest.”
Blake Hall is more than just a venue; it’s a place where family history, natural beauty, outstanding service, and unique, meaningful celebrations come together. The team looks forward to welcoming you and helping you create the wedding of your dreams. To begin planning your own unforgettable day in this magical setting, reach out to Blake Hall today to secure your booking.
Wedding bands may seem like a small part of your overall wedding day in and of itself. But, their symbolism, value and impact can’t be understated.
Unlike most other wedding details, this little ring stays with you long after the big day is over. It’s the piece you’ll look at every day, the one that will remind you of the vows you made, the adventures you’ve shared, and all the memories yet to come. So while it may be small, its meaning (and its place in your life) couldn’t be bigger.
Read on to learn everything you need to know about wedding bands. We cover everything from where to wear a wedding band, to the metals, finish, and style that go into each piece. Plus, we cover 5 top tips to help you pick the perfect ring, and some general care and maintenance tips to help it look its best. Good luck!
Your wedding band, or marriage ring, is the ring you receive on your wedding day from your spouse. It’s used as a symbol of commitment and love between you and your new partner.
Wedding bands are different to engagement rings. Engagement rings are usually more eye-catching, with a focus on gemstones like diamonds or intricate mental work. They’re also traditionally only worn by one partner. However, people of all relationship types and gender identities can of course wear engagement rings.
Wedding bands, on the other hand, are worn by both members of the couple and are usually simpler and more understated. They focus on durability and comfort for everyday wear, and are intended as a lasting reminder of your partnership. They’re worn daily and serve as a reminder of the vows you made, staying with you as a little piece of your wedding day for years to come.
Wedding bands are traditionally worn on the ring finger (fourth finger) of the left hand. If you wear any other rings on that hand, for example, an engagement ring, you should wear your wedding band underneath that ring. This ensures it’s as close to your heart as possible (and it’s the most traditional way to wear it).
However, in some cultures, people wear their wedding bands on the right hand. Equally, a lot of couples choose to wear their wedding band on their little finger, especially if they wear a signet ring.
Honestly, there’s no “right” way to wear a wedding band — it’s all about what feels right and special to you both.
Gold. Gold is a classic choice for a wedding band. It’s beautiful, durable, and comes in a few different shades to suit any style! You’ve got yellow gold, which has that warm, traditional feel; white gold, which is sleek and modern; and rose gold, which adds a romantic, blush-toned twist. Gold is also a versatile metal, so you can choose different levels of purity depending on how durable you want it to be. For example, 14, 16, or 18 karat.
White gold. We’ve separated white gold out from the above due to the specialist care it needs. White gold gets its gold appearance from a thin layer of rhodium plating, which gives it that bright, shiny, silver-like finish. Over time, the rhodium layer can wear off, especially if you wear your ring daily (which, let’s face it, most of us do!). To keep white gold looking its best, you’ll need to get it re-plated every few years. You should factor this maintenance into the overall cost of your ring.
Platinum. Platinum is a fantastic choice if you’re looking for something that’s naturally white, incredibly strong, and hypoallergenic. Unlike white gold, platinum doesn’t need any plating to keep its colour, so it’s low-maintenance while still offering a luxurious, bright finish. It’s also noticeably heavier than gold and much more durable. Perfect for those who are heavy-handed.
Silver. Silver gives you the same look as white gold and platinum at a fraction of the cost. While it’s not as durable as other metals, it’s a great choice if you’re looking for something stylish and budget-friendly. Bear in mind that to keep silver looking its best, it may need occasional polishing and maintenance.
Untraditional metals. Untraditional metals like titanium, iron, and tungsten are perfect if you’re after something a bit different with a modern edge. They all come with unique pros and cons, so be sure to thoroughly research these modern metals if you’re after something a little different.
Stones
Although traditional wedding bands are usually plain, many couples choose to add stones for a touch of sparkle or a bit of personality. Read on to learn more about having stones in your wedding band.
Diamonds. Diamonds are the classic go-to if you want a bit of sparkle in your wedding band. They’re incredibly durable and perfect for everyday wear. You could go with tiny diamonds set around the band for a subtle, elegant shimmer or a single diamond if you want a focal point that’s not too over-the-top.
Coloured gemstones. If you like a pop of colour with your bling, consider coloured gemstones! Sapphires, emeralds, rubies, and even birthstones are a beautiful way to add a personal touch to your wedding band. Just keep in mind that some gemstones are a bit softer than diamonds, so they might need a little extra care if you’re wearing your band every day.
Natural stones. Natural stones like turquoise, pearl, and moonstone can add a unique, earthy vibe to your wedding band. However, these stones are often substantially softer than diamonds or other coloured gemstones, so do your research and make sure you’re prepared for the maintenance to come.
Other natural materials. Lots of jewellers now offer services where they can capture other organic matter in resin and incorporate it into your wedding band for a truly one-of-a-kind piece. For example, sand from a favourite beach, a pressed flower from a memorable bouquet, or even a bit of wood from a meaningful forest. This option is perfect for couples who want to carry a piece of their shared history or a special memory with them every day.
Width
The width of your wedding ring is also important. This detail contributes a lot to the look, style, and feel of your ring, so it’s important to consider all your options when picking a width.
Thin. Thin bands are definitely the trend at the moment. They’re dainty, beautiful, and perfect for a minimalist look. Thin bands are great if you want something subtle that won’t overpower your engagement ring or if you’re just a fan of that delicate, barely-there vibe. However, thin bands aren’t as durable as thick rings, and can bend or even snap with everyday weather.
Medium width. A happy medium (pun not intended) between thin and thick bands, medium width bands offer the best of both worlds and a classic look. They’re substantial enough to feel sturdy and durable for everyday wear, yet not too bold or overpowering.
Thick. Chunky bands look best when worn alone or paired with a simple engagement ring. Thick bands are bold and eye-catching, perfect if you want a wedding band that stands out on its own. They’re also super durable and can handle everyday wear without worry, making them ideal for someone who leads an active lifestyle or works with their hands.
Style
The style of your wedding band will make a huge difference to the overall vibe of your ring, so it’s worth thinking about what really speaks to you. Consider the below when picking the style of your wedding band:
Traditional. Traditional wedding bands are the traditional, rounded wedding bands we know and love. They have a slight curve to the top and a smooth, polished finish that gives off an elegant, timeless feel. This style is perfect if you’re a fan of simplicity and want a ring that will look classic forever.
Slight. A slight wedding band is a more delicate version of the traditional style. It’s slim, dainty, and has just a hint of curve, perfect if you want something subtle but still classic. Slight bands are ideal if you’re after that “barely there” look or if you’re planning to stack multiple rings together.
Edge. Edge rings have a flatter, more modern style with a smooth top and a defined edge, giving them a sleek, contemporary look. This style is perfect if you want something a bit more structured but still understated.
Wish. If you’re lucky enough to have an oval, marquise, or just downright big engagement ring gemstone that doesn’t quite fit with a straight band, a wishbone or “wish” band might be your new best friend! These bands have a subtle V-shape or curve, allowing them to sit perfectly around your engagement ring, creating a lovely, cohesive look.
Curved. Slightly softer than a wish, curved wedding bands are designed to gently hug your engagement ring without a deep V shape. They’re ideal if your engagement ring has a setting that sits low or has a bit of an edge to it.
Art deco. Art deco rings are a dream if you love vintage glam and intricate designs. Think bold geometric patterns, milgrain details, and lots of character. Art deco bands often feature tiny stones or engraved patterns that give them a unique, glamorous look straight out of the Roaring Twenties. They’re perfect if you want something that feels like an heirloom or if you just love a bit of old-school charm with a modern twist. They come in lots of different shapes and styles, and look stunning either solo or paired with a simple engagement ring.
Twisted. A braided or ‘twisted’ wedding band style is known to present unity and togetherness — what could be more perfect for a wedding band? These rings usually have two or three strands intertwined, creating a look that’s both elegant and full of meaning. They add a touch of texture and look especially lovely with plain or slightly curved engagement rings.
Floral. If you’re looking for something whimsical and beautiful, a floral wedding band might be just the thing. Floral bands feature delicate engravings or embossed patterns of leaves, vines, or flowers, adding a romantic, nature-inspired touch to your ring. Floral bands can be intricate and detailed, or bold and colourful, making them a lovely choice for a standalone piece or a charming addition next to a simple engagement ring.
Filigree. Filigree bands are all about delicate, intricate metalwork that adds an old-world charm to your wedding band. Think swirling patterns, lace-like designs, and lots of tiny details that give your ring a vintage feel. Filigree is perfect if you love the look of something ornate and timeless. It’s like wearing a tiny piece of art on your finger.
Engraved. For an ultra personal touch, engraved bands are the way to go. You can add initials, a meaningful date, a short phrase, or even a tiny symbol that has special meaning to you and your partner. It’s like a little secret message you carry with you every day, acting as a constant reminder of your special day.
Finish
The finish of your wedding band is just that — the finishing touch that pulls everything together. Below is a list of the most popular finishes for wedding bands you might want to consider.
Polished. A polished finish is a traditional, smooth, high-shine finish that gives your band a classic, mirror-like look. It’s sleek, timeless, and definitely makes a statement.
Satin. The satin finish is a smooth, semi-matte finish that offers a soft, elegant glow without the full shine of a polished band. It’s a great middle ground if you like a bit of sheen but want something more understated. Plus, it tends to hide little scratches well, so is brilliant for those who are heavy-handed.
Matte. Matte finishes give your band a soft, velvety look without any reflection, so it feels effortlessly cool and sophisticated. It’s a modern and understated look, perfect for those who like something a little different.
Brushed. Brushed finishes have a subtle texture with fine, directional lines that give the band a satin-like look with a bit of extra character. It’s ideal if you want a little more depth and texture without going for a full matte.
Hammered. Hammered finishes bring a touch of rustic charm to your ring, with small, uneven dimples that create a unique, textured surface. Each “hammer” mark catches the light in a slightly different way, giving the metal a natural, organic look. This finish is perfect if you’re after something that feels handcrafted and one-of-a-kind. It’s rugged yet refined.
Keep these top tips in mind when you and your partner go wedding band shopping to find your perfect rings:
1) Keep your lifestyle in mind
Wearing your ring every day means it’ll impact every part of your lifestyle. If you’re an active person, or if you work a lot with your hands, you’ll want a ring that can stand up to the wear and tear.
Equally, if you’re a little heavy-handed, durable metals like platinum or titanium, or even a hammered or matte finish, can help keep scratches at bay. For something extra tough, consider a comfort-fit band. It’s made to feel smooth and easy on your finger, so you can wear it all day, every day, with no fuss.
2) Set a budget beforehand
Wedding bands can be pricey, especially ones made of platinum or white gold, or those with inset stones. Having a budget in mind before you start ring shopping can help you stay focused and avoid getting swept away by options that are outside your price range.
While some options can definitely add up, there are beautiful wedding bands out there for every budget. And don’t be afraid to try on a few styles slightly outside your range — you might just find “the one” that’s worth the splurge!
3) Think about future ring stacks
Eternity bands are traditionally given after the birth of a baby, to celebrate a milestone anniversary, or just because you feel like adding a little extra sparkle. If you’re already envisioning a ring stack for future occasions, go for a band that will play nicely with others. Thin, simple bands are perfect for building a stack, and they’ll let you add anniversary bands or other special rings over time.
4) Check the comfort
Sure — your wedding ring looks great on. But, can you pick up a handbag, use a pair of scissors, type on your keyboard, or even hold a pen without feeling like you need to take it off?
Comfort is key when it comes to a ring you’ll wear daily. Try doing a few everyday tasks while wearing it. Wiggle your fingers, make a fist, and see how it feels. This ring is going to be on 24/7, so you need to be happy with it.
5) Make it a date
Are there any other wedding activities you and your partner need to sort together? If so, you could make a fun day of this escapade, combining wedding band shopping with a few other to-dos. Check out that new coffee shop, go try on rings, and then pop by your cake tasting or suit fitting afterwards.
Or, if it’s a more relaxed day, finish off with a celebratory lunch or even a quick toast to ticking another thing off the wedding list! Turning it into a mini date makes it feel special, and it’s a lovely way to make memories out of these pre-wedding moments.
Don’t forget to take some cute photos along the way!
Caring for your wedding bands will depend largely on the type of metal, style, finish, and thickness of the band. Speak to your jeweller for specialist care information related to your specific rings.
General advice that applies to all rings can include:
1) Use a gentle soap and soft cloth to polish
If you wear something every day, you need to clean it — that’s a fact. A dirty ring can appear dull, scratched, and may even damage the ring over time.
Use a mild soap like baby shampoo or fairy liquid in conjunction with a soft bristled toothbrush and a soft cloth to polish. Be sure to wash the soap off with fresh, clean water, before drying and polishing gently.
2) Watch for perfume and hand cream build up
Perfume and hand cream can build up over time. But, not washing it off effectively may tarnish or damage your ring. Take your ring off once a month to give it a thorough clean. Consider washing it twice a month if you’re especially attentive with your hand cream or have a ring made of silver, white gold, or with precious stones.
3) Take it for an annual MOT
Taking your wedding ring for an annual once-over with your jeweller can help keep it looking as good as new and catch any potential issues before they become bigger problems.
Your jeweller can check for loose stones, worn prongs, and give it a professional clean and polish that at-home care just can’t match. Think of it as an investment towards keeping your band beautiful for the long haul. Plus, it’s always nice to see it shine like it did on day one.
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Music plays a huge role in your wedding. From the moment your day begins to the moment everyone stumbles home at the end of a long night celebrating, there aren’t many parts of your wedding when music isn’t playing in some capacity.
And this goes for your wedding ceremony, too. Of course, one of the most important pieces of music at your wedding is the music you walk down the aisle to. But, there are plenty of other songs that will play during the ceremony itself.
But, exactly what songs play at a wedding ceremony and what songs should you pick to feature in your big day? There’s almost an endless choice out there, so narrowing it down can be a pretty tricky decision.
In this article, we’re going to run through the 200 best wedding ceremony songs, to make sure your ceremony is memorable, romantic and full of your personalities.
When are songs played during your wedding ceremony?
Songs play at various points throughout your wedding ceremony. They’ll play to welcome your guests into the venue while they find their seats and they’ll play as you and your new spouse leave alongside the applause of your elated guests. Music plays a big part in your celebrations and is woven into some of the most important moments.
Here are when songs are usually played during a wedding ceremony:
Prelude: Usually between 15 and 30 minutes before the ceremony begins as guests begin to enter and take their seats.
Processional: As the members of the wedding party enter. A separate song may then play as the bride walks down the aisle.
Hymns/religious songs: In a religious ceremony, hymns and songs may be performed at certain points.
Interludes: Music will often play as the couple signs the wedding register to provide background sound and entertain guests.
Recessional: Once the couple is declared married and they leave the ceremony, an upbeat song will usually accompany them.
Postlude: Music will often play as guests leave the ceremony venue.
How many songs do you need to choose for your wedding ceremony?
The number of songs you need to choose depends on the length of your ceremony and at what points you would like music to play.
During the prelude, there will often be between 6 and 12 songs, depending on the length and how soon before the start of the ceremony you’d like the music to begin.
During the processional, there will be a maximum of two songs, including the song you walk down the aisle to.
If you have a religious ceremony, there are usually approximately two songs or hymns.
During an interlude, such as when you’re signing the register, there will be time for one or two songs.
During the recessional, one song will play.
During the postlude, one or two songs will play, as this is usually enough time for your guests to leave the ceremony venue after you.
In total, there are usually between 10 and 15 songs that will play during your wedding ceremony.
Choosing the perfect wedding ceremony songs will depend on your taste and the style, formality and format of your wedding. Here are some things to think about to make sure you choose the best songs for your ceremony:
Think about the key moments in your ceremony when music will help add romance, emotion and entertainment for your guests.
Try to match your musical choices with the overall theme and style of your wedding. For example, with a movie-centric theme, you’ll likely want to choose music used in your favourite movies.
Think about the acoustics of your venue and how different genres of music will sound.
Try to choose music that reflects both your personalities and holds special meaning for you as a couple.
Ensure there’s variation when it comes to tempo and tone. Try and tell a story with a beginning, middle and end.
Consider your guests and what sort of songs they might like to listen to as well.
Test your choices together and make sure they complement each other.
200 of the best songs to include in your wedding ceremony
When it comes to your wedding ceremony, you call the shots. And when it comes to the music at your ceremony, there are so many options available to you that it can be a rather daunting task to whittle your choices down to just a handful.
That’s where we come in. Below, we’ve run down our picks for 200 of the best wedding ceremony songs to help ensure you have a memorable ceremony.
50 best guest arrival songs
Before the ceremony begins, music will play as your guests enter the venue and take their seats. The music that plays helps set the scene for what’s to come, so here are our picks for 50 of the best guest arrival songs.
Key lyrics: ‘Seems that all I really was doing was waiting for love.’
25 best wedding processional songs
Set the mood and let your guests know that your special moment is about to begin with a processional song that hits home as your nearest and dearest walk down the aisle. But what sort of vibes should you go for? Here are 25 of the best wedding processional songs for you to consider.
The song you walk down the aisle to is probably the one song you’ll think about the most throughout your wedding planning process. It’s likely to be a song that you and your partner never ever forget and will always be something that raises a smile whenever you hear it.
Because this is such a big decision, it’s hard to narrow it down. Below are 50 songs you may want to walk down the aisle to, but for even more inspiration, read our complete guide to the best songs to walk down the aisle to.
If you’re having a religious ceremony, you may want to include some hymns or songs and encourage your guests to sing along. Here are 25 of the best hymns to include at a church wedding.
Key lyrics: ‘Blest be the tie that binds / Our hearts in Christian love.’
25 best songs while you sign the wedding register
While you and your partner sign the wedding register to make things official, you might like to play a song or two to keep your guests entertained. This can continue with the theme of romance, or could be a way to inject something a little more upbeat into your ceremony. Here are 25 of the best songs to play while you sign the wedding register.
Key lyrics: ‘And you can tell everybody this is your song / It may be quite simple, but now that it’s done.’
25 best wedding recessional songs
Once you and your other half have tied the knot, it’s time to let out a sigh of relief and switch things into party mode. So, while you and your new spouse leave the ceremony venue, you might want to switch things up with something upbeat and joyful. Here are 25 suggestions for the best wedding recessional songs.
Whether or not you decide to have live music at your wedding is entirely up to you, your preferences and your budget. Couples spend an average of £1,800 on their wedding music, which can be a large cost on top of everything else.
That being said, if you can and want to have live music at your wedding, it can certainly make things special and memorable. There’s nothing quite like a live harpist playing while you walk down the aisle, or having a live singer entertain your guests while you sign the register.
But, it all comes down to your budget, the logistics and the sort of music you’d like to include.
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In honour of Black History Month, we wanted to take a moment to celebrate the incredible contributions of Black-owned wedding suppliers who are reshaping the industry with creativity and a deep commitment to inclusivity here in the UK. Each of these business owners has had a unique journey, fuelled by their passion for their craft and the desire to make weddings truly reflective of the diverse love stories they have the privilege to be part of. These individuals don’t just plan, decorate, or cater weddings—they embody a vision that transcends cultural, societal, and personal barriers.
Reece, of Gold Tier Events, identified a gap in the events market and took the leap to start his own business, driven by a passion for creating bespoke experiences for his clients. His approach celebrates love in all its forms, whether recalibrating games for wheelchair users or adapting to other different needs. Reece’s commitment to tailoring every detail ensures that each wedding reflects the couple’s vision, no matter their background or needs.
Mercedes, founder of 4YaParty Weddings and Events, turned her battle with disability and depression into a thriving eco-conscious wedding décor business. Mercedes decorates stunning weddings across South London and Kent, with a focus on sustainability. Whether reflecting the couple’s culture through their food choices or transforming spaces to align with traditional or modern aesthetics, Mercedes pours her heart into every event. Despite having faced challenges with prejudice, she remains determined, creating opportunities for herself and using her success to continue inspiring others.
Afia, of AMFENA, specialises in creating stunning modern floral designs for weddings, events, and brands. Afia’s journey began with a DIY wedding project that uncovered her creative talent. Now, as a founder of AFMENA, she brings modern and personalised floral arrangements to weddings, often incorporating cultural symbols like African prints for table runners or utilising orchids with symbolic meaning to Chinese culture to honour her clients’ backgrounds. Known for her warm, professional approach, Afia’s floral designs celebrate cultures, beautifully tailoring each arrangement to reflect the unique story and heritage of her clients.
Shalana Serafina, a talented wedding singer, believes in celebrating the diversity of love through music. Whether performing in Icelandic or adapting her repertoire to embrace a couple’s cultural traditions, Shalana ensures each wedding is as personal as it is beautiful. Her journey from stage performer to wedding singer was driven by a desire to share her passion for music in the most intimate of settings—weddings, where love and joy shine brightest.
China, of The Wedding Society, is an expert in creating breathtaking fusion weddings. Blending cultural traditions in a way that honours both families, China has perfected the art of showcasing the unique heritages of her couples. China’s approach brings two worlds together in a celebration of love, food, and culture.
With a background in fashion and a love for cake design, Selina, of Sweet Sils Cakes, brings her creative talents to the wedding industry. She customises her cakes to meet the dietary and cultural needs of her clients, ensuring that everyone—from those needing gluten-free options to lovers of traditional Caribbean fruit cakes—has a delicious and personalised experience.
Chloe, of Chloe Mykel Make-Up, turned her love for beauty into a flourishing career. Recognising her talent for make-up artistry and being of mixed white and black Caribbean heritage herself, Chloe understands the significance of make-up that honours each bride’s unique identity. She takes pride in ensuring every client feels incredible in their own skin, overcoming past negative experiences with other artists. Chloe’s approach is all about ensuring her brides shine on their special day, both inside and out, as a true reflection of who they are.
Rebecca, of Splendid Swan Wedding Stationery, is a master of turning personal stories into beautiful illustrated stationery. Whether it is incorporating national symbols like the English Rose and South African King Protea, or creating detailed Indian wedding programmes, Rebecca’s bespoke designs reflect each couple’s unique heritage and style. Her ability to adapt her processes to meet clients’ needs, such as offering additional support to those with dyslexia or ADHD, speaks volumes about her dedication to inclusivity.
Anesha, of Anesha’s Art of Cakes, blends the rich culinary traditions of her East Indian Trinidadian roots with her passion for artistry. From creating gourmet global flavours to designing cakes that reflect a couple’s love for both culture and rock music, Anesha’s creations are a feast for both the eyes and the palate. She has even gone the extra mile to learn sign language to ensure a couple with hearing impairments could communicate their vision fully, showcasing her dedication to inclusivity and personalised service.
Dionne, of Dionne Clark Music, is a celebrated wedding vocalist, known for her moving performances at over 100 weddings annually. Her journey started from a young age where she fell in love with performing and ultimately led to her dedicating her career to making each wedding day memorable. At each event, she aims to honour her couples authentically, making her inclusion on their wedding day truly something that represents them, whatever that may be. Being a musician, she implements this through the incorporations of musical genres that the couples choose and love, creating a soundtrack to the day that resonates deeply with her clients.
Tessa, of A Touch of Nevaeh, is renowned for her luxury wedding and event planning. She enjoys curating multicultural weddings, one of her fondest memories being an event where an Afghan bride and Nigerian groom honoured both their heritages with multiple outfit changes and a blend of cultural traditions. Tessa values inclusivity and ensures that all voices—especially those of elders as well—are heard in the wedding planning process, creating meaningful and harmonious celebrations.
These exceptional suppliers are not only talented in their respective fields, but they are also advocates for inclusivity and diversity in the UK. Their commitment to celebrating love in all its forms, while overcoming personal and societal challenges, showcases the beauty of Black businesses in the wedding industry. Let us continue to support, uplift, and celebrate these voices, not only during Black History Month but every day and all throughout the year.
So, the nerve-racking part is over. You and your brand new spouse have walked down the aisle, said ‘I do,’ and enjoyed taking part in your wedding photoshoot. Now, you’re about to enjoy an afternoon and evening of being wined and dined, listening to and delivering some speeches (okay, so maybe not all the nerve-racking stuff is over) and dancing the night away.
But, when the two of you arrive at your wedding breakfast or reception, what song will you choose to play as you make your official introduction as a married couple? In many ways, it’s just as important as the song you walk down the aisle to and the song you have your first dance to. It sets the tone for the entire evening and makes sure you enter with style and personality.
In this article, we’re going to give you 150 suggestions for the best wedding entrance songs, which could be anything from slow and romantic ballads to full-on dance numbers that get everyone clapping and cheering as they welcome you in.
When you arrive at your wedding breakfast or reception, it’s the first time you and your other half are being introduced as an officially married couple. That means you deserve to make a big entrance when all eyes are firmly on you. To do this, loads of couples choose a specific song to accompany them. This could be something that gets everyone in the party mood, something with lyrics that are special to you or something a little bit different. It can even be silly or funny; it’s really up to you.
It’s a great way to set the tone for the rest of your wedding day and get across you and your partner’s personalities. You may well be planning a fairly formal wedding ceremony, and the reception is when you can loosen up and start to have fun. And there’s no better way to do that than with a great song to kick things off!
A wedding entrance song will typically play for around a minute, while you and your other half enter the venue and take your seats. That being said, if you’re having a larger wedding and therefore have a sizeable venue, it might be necessary for the song to play for a little longer than this. If so, make sure you don’t choose a song that’s too short. It might make things a little awkward if the DJ has to start the song again or scramble to find something to fill the silence!
If there’s something specific in a song that you love, you might want to start the song part way through or ask the DJ to play it a little ahead of when you want to make your entrance. That way, it’ll be perfectly timed for you to make your appearance during your favourite part.
It’s not just your chosen song that goes towards making your wedding entrance memorable. There are plenty of ways to make sure your official entrance goes down with a bang and is entertaining, engaging and memorable.
Here are a few ways to make sure your wedding entrance is one that your guests won’t soon forget:
Plan a surprise element: This could be a choreographed dance routine, some unexpected guests or effects or something funny thrown in for good measure.
Incorporate lighting effects: Don’t just coordinate with your DJ on the music – see what they can do from a lighting perspective too.
Make things personal: Can you combine your entrance with your hobby? For example, if you’re known as a pair of movie geeks, you could walk in accompanied by your favourite film score.
Engage your guests: Don’t just walk or dance to your seats, find a way to engage your guests and make sure everyone is included.
Ready to make the ultimate entrance at your wedding breakfast or reception? Here are our top 150 picks for the best wedding entrance songs to help you start your celebrations in style. We’ve also included some of the most famous lyrics from each song to help you make your selection.
50 classic choices for wedding entrance songs
For a vibe that’s catchy and quintessential with lyrics that truly hit home, here are 50 suggestions for classic wedding entrance songs.
Key lyrics: ‘Don’t know much about history, but I do know that I love you.’
50 modern and upbeat choices for wedding entrance songs
Something with a classical feel always makes for a great choice, but why not go for something with a more modern vibe? Here are 50 suggestions for something a little more contemporary.
Key lyrics: ‘Treasure, that is what you are, honey, you’re my golden star.’
15 funny choices for wedding entrance songs
If you’d like to give your guests a giggle as you and your other half walk in, there are lots of ways to do that too. Here are 15 funny wedding entrance songs to inject a little humour into your big entrance.
Key lyrics: ‘Okay, so you’re Brad Pitt / That don’t impress me much.’
15 alternative choices for wedding entrance songs
If romantic, classic, modern or funny doesn’t quite fit with the feeling you’d like to convey when strutting your stuff in front of your guests, you could think a little further out of the box. Here are 15 suggestions for alternative choices for wedding entrance songs to be a little (or a lot) bit different.
10 instrumental choices for wedding entrance songs
If lyrics it’s more about the emotions and feelings the music conjures up than the lyrics, you could go for an instrumental piece of music, which is often romantic and calming. Here are 10 ideas to give you some inspiration.
If you’d prefer something with a little retro flair, there are some great crowd-pleasers for you to consider. Here are 10 brilliant retro choices for wedding entrance songs.
Key lyric: ‘Always and forever, each moment with you is like a dream to me.’
How far in advance should you choose your wedding entrance song?
There are several important songs you’ll choose for inclusion in your wedding, including the song you walk down the aisle to and the song you have your first dance to. But, the song you enter your breakfast or reception to is also important, so should be given plenty of consideration.
For that reason, it’s not something you’ll want to leave to the last minute. Think about it at least six months ahead of the wedding and make your final decision at least two months before the big day. And, if you’re planning something special, you might even want to give it a little longer than that to make sure you have everything in place. Make sure you loop in your wedding band or DJ (and your wedding planner, if you have one), so they can help you plan your big moment.
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You’re engaged! Yay! Cue the “Have you thought about a date?”, “What a beautiful ring”, and “Have you thought about what dress you might like?” questions.
Hey, we get it. People are curious, and your wedding dress and bridal look is one of the most important outfits of your life. It’s the focal point of your big day, and let’s be honest — it’s probably the part you’re most excited about! But with so many options out there, it can be a bit overwhelming.
Don’t stress, though! Whether you’re dreaming of a classic ball gown, a sleek and modern fit, or something totally unique, this guide has got you covered. So, grab a coffee, get cosy, and let’s break down all the dreamy details to help you find the one. Consider this your ultimate guide to wedding dress styles.
Picking your wedding dress is a process. It involves planning, researching, talking, experimenting, and most importantly, trying on! Try following these 5 top tips to help pick your perfect wedding dress.
Bridal dress shops tend to cater to specific groups. For example, high-end boutiques are more likely to carry designer, one-off, or custom-made gowns, while more budget-friendly shops might focus on simpler, ready-to-wear options.
In addition, you might find that shops specialise in a certain style or vibe. For example, lace specialists, ball gown specialists, or sleek, modern specialists.
Knowing what a shop specialises in can save you time and help you zero in on the places that have what you’re after. A browse online or a phone call to ask about the kinds of dresses they carry is a good place to start.
You can also check out fabulous bridal boutiques right here on Bridebook, and effortlessly filter by whatever you’re looking for, whether that’s a high-end boutique or bespoke dressmaker, or somewhere that does hats and accessories.
2. Consider the venue and the vibe
You can wear whatever you want on your big day, of course. But the venue and vibe of your big day should be a factor when considering your wedding dress.
For example, if you’re getting married on the beach, a lightweight, flowy gown might be more practical than a heavy ball gown. Or if you’re in a grand, traditional venue, something with a bit more structure and elegance might feel more fitting. Think about the mood of your wedding day, and pick a dress that complements it.
If you’ve got something specific in mind, don’t be afraid to steer away from the theme. But, basing your wedding dress on the overall theme or vibe can help bring everything together and make the whole day feel cohesive.
3. Sit, dance, hug
Don’t skip the sit, dance, hug test when picking your wedding dress. Sure, it looks great standing up in front of the mirror. But can you sit comfortably, throw all the shapes you want to, and hug your loved ones with ease? You want a dress that lets you enjoy every moment of your big day, from the ceremony to the dance floor.
4. Don’t obsess about sizing
It may seem like something small, but try to forget about the size on the label. Just because you’re usually size x, doesn’t necessarily mean you will be in your wedding dress.
The material on a wedding dress is thick, and sizing often runs a bit differently than everyday clothes. It’s totally normal for wedding dress sizes to vary, sometimes by a size or two up or down. So don’t stress if the number is higher or lower than expected — it’s all about how the dress fits and feels.
Ultimately, no one is going to run into your dressing room and see the size on the label. Focus on finding the style that makes you feel beautiful and confident instead of fixating on the tag.
5. Be open-minded
While it’s a good idea to go into wedding dress appointments with an idea of what you might like, it’s also important to keep an open mind. You might have your heart set on a mermaid style, but end up falling for a classic ball gown, or vice versa. Wedding dress shopping is full of surprises, and sometimes the dress that makes you feel the most amazing isn’t what you originally pictured.
Try on a few different silhouettes, fabrics, and details. You might be shocked at how much you love something unexpected! And remember, even if you don’t say “yes” to every dress you try on, each one helps you get closer to what you truly want. Embrace the journey, stay flexible, and trust that the right dress will find you.
Let’s break down all the different necklines you might try when wedding dress shopping. Experiment with different styles to see what feels best for you.
Sweetheart. A sweetheart is your classic strapless, heart-shaped bustline. Beautiful and iconic, you’ll often find this paired with a fitted bodice or a full skirt for that timeless, romantic look.
Straight across. Similar to a sweetheart but slightly more modern, the straight across, strapless style is sleek and elegant, offering a clean line across the chest. It’s ideal for brides who want a minimalist look that still feels classic.
V-neck. A V-neckline has a plunging shape that elongates the neck and adds a touch of sophistication. It’s a versatile option that works beautifully on fitted dresses or flowing A-lines, and it can be as daring or modest as you like.
Off-the-shoulder. An off-the-shoulder neckline is perfect for brides looking to show off their shoulders and collarbones. It’s both timeless and trendy, adding a hint of romance to any gown style.
Asymmetric. Asymmetric usually means one-shouldered or diagonally across the chest and brings a modern, edgy twist to bridalwear. It beautifully frames the shoulders and can add balance to gowns with bold silhouettes or simple, sleek lines.
Queen Anne. The Queen Anne neckline is known for a high collar at the back and a sweetheart or scoop shape in the front. It combines coverage with a hint of romance, making it perfect for brides who want a classic, elegant look. The Queen Anne neckline often works beautifully with lace or intricate detailing, adding a touch of old-world charm to any gown style.
Halter. The halter neckline is a stylish choice that wraps around the neck, leaving the shoulders bare and drawing attention to the arms and upper back. It works well with both fitted and flowing gowns and is ideal for beach or outdoor weddings.
High neck. A high neck offers an elegant, sophisticated look with more coverage around the chest and neckline. Often adorned with lace, beading, or intricate embroidery, the high neck brings a vintage or regal feel to a wedding dress, perfect for brides looking for a timeless, classy style.
Boat neck. Classy and elegant, the boat neck sits wide across the collarbones, creating a beautiful, soft frame for the shoulders and neck. It’s perfect for brides looking for a sophisticated, Audrey Hepburn-inspired style.
Illusion. An illusion neckline gives the appearance of a strapless or low-cut style while adding extra coverage through a layer of sheer or lace fabric. Often decorated with lace appliqué, beading, or embroidery, the illusion neckline is perfect for brides who want drama paired with modesty.
Scoop. A scoop neck is the perfect neckline for brides looking for a soft, rounded shape that flatters all body types. This gentle U-shaped neckline adds a touch of sweetness and works well with almost any dress style, from fitted mermaid gowns to flowing A-lines. It’s a versatile choice that feels both classic and romantic.
Square. Similar to a scoop neck, the square neck is a structured and elegant option with a straight, clean line that frames the collarbone and shoulders beautifully. This neckline has a classic, almost regal feel, and works well with fitted or A-line dresses.
Once you’ve got the neck down, it’s time to decide on skirt style. Whether it’s sleek and sophisticated or ethereal and princessy, there’s a skirt to suit everyone.
A-line. An A-line skirt is a staple of bridal fashion, offering a classic silhouette that gradually flares out from the waist, resembling the shape of an uppercase “A.” It’s universally flattering, works with various fabrics, and is ideal for brides wanting a bit of volume without the drama of a full ball gown.
Mermaid. Mermaid skirts are a show-stopping choice for brides who want to show off their curves and make a dramatic entrance. This style hugs you from the bodice down to the knees and then flares out, creating a gorgeous hourglass shape. It’s perfect for a glam, red-carpet vibe and works beautifully with rich fabrics like satin and lace.
Ball gown. It’s a classic for a reason. Ball gown style wedding dresses are the ultimate in fairy-tale bridal fashion. With a fitted bodice and a full, voluminous skirt that flares out from the waist, this style gives you that dreamy “princess” look that so many brides covet.
Fit-and-flare. Fit-and-flare skirts give you that mermaid-inspired silhouette but with a little more breathing room. Fitted through the bodice and hips, the skirt begins to subtly flare out around mid-thigh. This style is great for brides who love a hint of drama but want a bit more flexibility for moving and dancing.
Slip. This one has grown in popularity in recent years. The slip dress offers a sleek, minimalist style that skims the body with a soft, close-fitting silhouette. Made from lightweight fabrics like silk or satin, a slip skirt gives off that “barely-there” look, perfect for modern brides who want something chic and understated.
Sheath. For a no-fuss, refined look, the sheath skirt is a great choice. This narrow, close-to-the-body style follows your natural lines from top to bottom, creating an effortlessly chic silhouette. If you’re looking for something polished but low-key, the sheath might be just the one.
Column. Column style skirts are sleek, sophisticated, and perfect for brides who want an elongated, minimalist look. This narrow silhouette gently skims the body without much flare, creating a clean, streamlined shape. They’re comfortable, easy to move in, and ideal for laid-back weddings.
Tea-length. Who doesn’t love a 50s-inspired tea-length gown? This skirt will hit you just above your ankles, and leans into the playful, vintage vibe for brides wanting a touch of retro charm. Lightweight fabrics like tulle, lace, or satin make it breezy and comfortable, ideal for garden weddings, beach ceremonies, or any themed wedding.
Empire. Another staple of bridal couture, empire waisted gowns are all about elegance and grace. The skirt flows from just under the bust, creating a long, flowing silhouette that gently skims the body. This style is perfect for brides looking for a romantic, ethereal feel and a comfortable fit.
Mini. Ultra trendy, mini dresses are all the rage for city or casual weddings. This bold, fun style is perfect for brides who want something fresh and playful, and it’s a fantastic option for showing off killer shoes. Equally, the “double wedding dress” trend is really popular right now. This is where brides change into a second, more casual dress for their evening receptions. Mini dresses are a popular choice for this.
Tulip. Tulip skirts have a unique, petal-like wrap design that overlaps in the front, giving a romantic but modern look. It’s super flattering and adds a little twist to the usual styles. This one’s gorgeous in drapey fabrics like silk or crepe and is a fun pick for garden or chic city weddings.
Midi. Hitting at mid-shin length, midi skirts strike the perfect balance between elegance and playfulness. This style gives you a bit of the classic tea-length vibe but with a more modern twist.
High-low. High-low skirts are skirts that are either a mini or midi length in the front, dropping to a longer length in the back, creating a dramatic and playful look. High-low skirts are fantastic for brides who want something a bit out-of-the-box, and they work beautifully for weddings of all styles. Plus, they make dancing a breeze!
Drop-waist. Effortlessly regal, a drop-waist skirt elongates the torso by starting lower on the hips before flaring out, creating a sophisticated, vintage-inspired silhouette. This style is perfect for brides who want something different but with a touch of old-school glamour.
The 14 Wedding Dress Silhouette Styles
Check out our handy infographic above on all the different wedding dress skirt and silhouette styles. Pick the one that looks and feels right for you!
And remember that many bridal boutiques will let you mix and match the neckline and skirt styles to create a bridal look that’s as unique as you are.
Then you don’t have to! This is your day, and you can wear whatever makes you feel most special and comfortable. If you’re looking for some fun and funky alternatives to wearing a wedding dress, check out the following 7 ideas:
1. Modern jumpsuit
Jumpsuits are becoming a fast favourite of non-traditional brides, combining style and comfort in one chic package. Whether it’s sleek satin, lace, or something embellished, a bridal jumpsuit brings a modern, edgy vibe and lets you dance the night away without a fuss. Plus, they look amazing in photos.
2. Kaftan
Kaftans are floaty and fabulous. If you’re looking for something ethereal and bohemian, a kaftan could be your perfect match. With its flowy silhouette and relaxed fit, a kaftan brings a dreamy, laid-back elegance that’s perfect for beach or garden weddings. Plus, you can find them with gorgeous embroidery, beading, or lace details to keep things feeling special.
3. Pant suit
Similar to a jumpsuit, pant suits are a power move for brides who want to look sharp, stylish, and effortlessly cool. Whether you go for a sleek white suit or add a twist with pastels or even sparkles, a pant suit lets you own the day with sophistication and comfort.
4. Playsuit with detachable skirt
A playsuit with a detachable skirt is a fun way to get two looks in one. Start with the full-skirted, flowy vibe for your ceremony, and then simply detach the skirt to reveal a cute, playful playsuit underneath for the reception. It’s a fantastic option if you want that classic bridal entrance but are ready to dance and move without any restrictions later on. It’s the best of both worlds.
5. Tuxedo
Sharp and sleek, tuxedos are a bold choice that makes an unforgettable statement. Opt for a classic white or ivory tux for a chic, bridal feel, or go all out with a tailored black tux for that timeless, ultra-stylish vibe. Add a pair of heels or statement flats, and you’ve got a look that’s both powerful and elegant — perfect for the modern bride who wants to break away from tradition!
6. Bustier and silk trousers
If you want a look that screams glamour, a bustier with silk trousers is the way to go! This combo brings a luxe, red-carpet feel, mixing the feminine elegance of a fitted bustier with the chic sophistication of flowy silk pants. It’s perfect for brides who want something modern and a bit daring while still feeling ‘bridal’. Pair with statement earrings or a bold lip, and you’ll be turning heads all night
7. Sequin jumpsuit
Sometimes you need a little razzle dazzle, and there’s no better excuse than your wedding day. Try a sequin jumpsuit for a look that’s all sparkle, all night! This bold choice lets you shine and brings a party vibe that’s perfect for a bride who loves to stand out. Go for full sequins or a subtler sparkle with embellishments, and add a pair of fabulous heels or funky accessories to complete the look.
The eternal question — to veil or not to veil? Veils are a beautiful and classic part of the bridal look, but they’re absolutely optional.
Traditionally, veils were used to ward off evil and protect the bride on her big day. However, today, they’re really just about adding a bit of magic and drama to your look. If a veil isn’t your thing, there are so many other options to consider that can make your style feel just as special.
Nathalie Neuilly, founder of Dressarte Paris, shares her expert insights as an experienced dressmaker: “We often do custom veils adding custom messages, initials etc. But it’s true that more than 75% of our brides decide to go without veils. Instead they prefer to add fresh flowers when styling their hair, or upcycle their mum’s veil and create a custom accessory.”
For a whimsical or boho vibe, a flower crown can be a beautiful touch. Or, if you want a bit of sparkle, try a crystal-studded headband, tiara, or hair vine for that extra touch of glamour without the full veil.
If you’re loving the idea of a grand entrance but want something a little different, a bridal cape or capelet might be perfect. Long, flowing capes can give you that veil-like effect with a unique twist and can be easily removed after the ceremony. They’re a gorgeous way to bring a bit of elegance and flair to your outfit. Plus, they’re ideal for keeping you warm during an autumn or winter wedding.
The right accessories are the cherry on top of the cake to your bridal look. Think of them as the finishing touches that bring your entire look together. Accessories can add a bit of sparkle, a touch of elegance, or even a pop of personality — whatever makes you feel like the best version of yourself.
Remember, your accessories should always enhance and add to your outfit and never distract from it.
Gloves
Gloves add an elegant touch to any outfit, but especially to a wedding dress. Whether you go silk, satin, or even lace, gloves can give your bridal look a hint of vintage glamour or modern sophistication. Short gloves have a playful, retro feel, while elbow-length or opera gloves add an air of classic elegance. Perfect for brides who want that extra bit of drama and style.
Shawl or bolero
Stave off the chill with a shawl or bolero. Just enough to cover your shoulders without adding extra bulk, shawls and boleros add both warmth and style to your bridal look. Choose a lace or silk shawl for a soft, romantic touch, or go for a faux fur bolero if you want something cosy with a bit of glam.
Jewellery
Aside from the obvious wedding and engagement ring, jewellery can make or break your bridal look. Whether you go for elegant pearls, sparkling diamonds, or something a little more unique, jewellery is your chance to add a bit of you to your bridal style! Think about pieces that’ll bring a little extra magic and, if you’re buying something new, pick something you’ll wear time and time again.
Pro tip: Your wedding jewellery is the perfect way to incorporate your ‘Something old, something new, something borrowed, something blue’. Wear a bracelet you wore to your prom, borrow a necklace from your mum, or add a touch of blue with a delicate sapphire ring or even a dainty anklet.
Garter
A staple of bridal wedding attire, a garter is a fun, cheeky little addition that’s both traditional and a bit playful. You can go classic with lace, add a hint of blue for that “something blue,” or even find one with a little sparkle. It’s one of those hidden accessories just for you (and maybe a fun toss later on, if that’s your style!).
Your wedding is one of the most important and memorable days of your life, so finding the perfect dress or outfit is all about making sure you feel your absolute best. This guide has covered everything from dress styles and silhouettes to unique alternatives and accessories. Whether you’re leaning towards a classic ball gown, a sleek jumpsuit, or even a sparkling sequin number, remember that your look should make you feel like the star of the show.
Wedding dress shopping can be a bit of a journey, filled with surprises and maybe a few unexpected “wow” moments. So, take your time, enjoy every try-on, and don’t stress if the process takes a bit longer than expected. After all, it’s all part of the fun!
And don’t forget to browse wedding dresses and boutiques near you here on Bridebook. Whatever your style and budget, there’s something for everyone!
Nestled in the heart of the West Midlands countryside, Bredenbury Court Barns stands as a beacon of rustic elegance and charm. Featuring a carefully restored 1920s Orangery turned elegant ceremony barn, plus a rustic oak barn overlooking three counties of countryside, it promises an wedding celebration like no other. Join us as we explore the venue’s highlights and spaces in this exclusive feature, and hear directly from the team what makes it so special.
Ashleigh, Bredenbury’s Marketing & Operations Manager, summarises the venue’s highlights as follows: “Think ‘rustic barn charm’ meets ‘modern elegance’, with some wonderful key features like no daytime corkage, a dedicated Event Manager, on-site accommodation and incredible views over the Malvern Hills. Our couples are everything to us, and we love hearing all about their wedding plans and helping bring those plans to life!”
The team at Bredenbury Court Barns are proud award winners, having been featured in OK! Magazine, Worcester News and Hereford Times after being named in the UK Top 3 Most Popular Wedding Venues in 2021, 2022 and 2023.
Plus, their Events Team won the Wedding Industry Experts Awards 2014 and the Regional Wedding Industry Awards 2015 and 2016.
They also won the Matrimony Awards for Best County Venue in 2022, so you know you’ll be in the hands of experts when you plan your big day with them!
At Bredenbury Court Barns, the magic begins with its stunning blend of historical and contemporary design. Imagine the charm of a restored 1920s Orangery, complete with gorgeous Crittal-style windows offering a picturesque view of the surrounding countryside and grazing livestock. This serene setting provides an ideal backdrop for your wedding ceremony, where you can walk down the aisle surrounded by elegance and tranquility.
Celebrate your union in style with the venue’s versatile spaces. During the warmer months, guests can enjoy the expansive gardens and terraces, soaking in the breathtaking rural views. As the seasons change, the warm and atmospheric Orangery and Atrium offer a cosy, intimate setting for winter weddings, so you can look forward to a magical ambience all year round.
As you and your guests transition to the reception, the fabulously contemporary Oak Barn awaits. With its incredible glass walls and sweeping views extending over 12 miles to the Malvern Hills, this barn is a spectacular setting for your wedding breakfast and evening celebrations alike. The Oak Barn caters to both intimate gatherings of 40 guests and larger celebrations of up to 180 (by arrangement), making it a flexible choice for any wedding size.
Bredenbury Court Barns also offers on-site accommodation and access to nearby B&Bs, ensuring a comfortable stay for both you and your guests. The Beauty Booth and Stag Retreat provide perfect spaces for the bride and groom to prepare for their big day, while the West Gardens and Garden and Sun Terrace offer serene spots to take in the surrounding beauty.
From the moment you arrive, the multi-award-winning wedding team at Bredenbury Court Barns is dedicated to making your day truly special. With high-end service and delectable catering from Jenkinsons, you’ll be treated to an exceptional dining experience as you celebrate with your loved ones.
Ashleigh, Bredenbury’s Marketing & Operations Manager, likes to say that “The wedding industry found me”. Her journey into the wedding industry began while she was still in university, working as a Wedding Coordinator. She quickly realised that this was where her true passion lay. Upon graduating, she embraced a full-time role at Bredenbury Court Barns and its sister venue, Dodford Manor. For Ashleigh, an extrovert who thrives on connection, there’s nothing more rewarding than being “a part of a couple’s journey on what will most likely be the most important day in their lives”. She couldn’t imagine doing anything else!
For Ashleigh, there have been so many memorable weddings at Bredenbury: “I once co-ordinated a wedding where the couple loved Star Wars, so they had storm troopers walk the bride down the aisle. We’ve had Chinese Dragons, Fire Dancers, bird ceremonies, silent disco’s and some jaw dropping magicians who had us all in awe!” This goes to show the level of personalisation that’s possible.
Ashleigh also shares her best expert advice for couples planning their wedding, which we think is invaluable: “If you are a really detailed-orientated person, put everything down in as much detail as you would like in the weeks before and send it to the venue. After that, relax and enjoy the run up! Especially on the day, soak up every moment being with your new husband/wife and your favourite people and leave all the organisational and smaller things to your suppliers. Don’t worry if something doesn’t quite go to plan; trust your suppliers and enjoy the bigger picture, every moment is precious!”
Bredenbury Court Barns is more than just a venue – it’s a place where laughter, love, and unforgettable memories are made. Whether you’re hosting a gloriously grand celebration or a more intimate affair, this charming barn setting provides the perfect backdrop for a day you and your guests will treasure forever.
The team at Bredenbury Court Barns looks forward to welcoming you and helping you create the wedding of your dreams. So what are you waiting for? Enquire with them today and secure your booking!
24 years is such an amazing milestone in your marriage and a testament to the incredible work you’ve put into your relationship. And we bet that, after spending almost a quarter of a century together, you’re more in love today than ever before. In just one year, the two of you will get to celebrate your silver wedding anniversary, an extra special milestone you’ll only get to celebrate once.
But, while you may have one eye cast on the future, it’s also important that you don’t forget about your upcoming 24th anniversary. Just like with your silver anniversary, there are traditional and modern gifts, as well as a traditional flower and gemstone, so you can make your 24th just as special as your 25th.
The traditional and modern gifts carry important meanings that help you let your partner know exactly how you feel. Many couples like to give these gifts to mark their anniversaries as they can be far more unique than typical anniversary favourites like chocolates and roses… not that there’s anything wrong with those, of course! You don’t need to stick to these gifts, but it’s a lovely way to do something a bit different.
In this article, we’re going to run through all the traditional and modern 24th anniversary gifts, so you know how to choose the best gift for your anniversary. We’ll also give you 50 ideas to give you some inspiration if you like the thought of sticking to one of the themes but you’re not quite sure where to start. It’s the perfect way to make your 24th anniversary one you’ll never forget.
What are traditional and modern gifts for a 24th wedding anniversary?
The traditional and modern 24th wedding anniversary gifts
There are four different traditional and modern gifts associated with your 24th wedding anniversary, meaning you have loads of choices if you’re not quite sure how to treat your other half. These gifts have been given by couples to each other for more than 100 years, and are chock full of symbolism and meaning. With so many options available, you’re bound to be able to find something they’ll love.
Traditional 24th anniversary gift – Opal
The traditional 24th anniversary gift is opal, a beautiful gemstone that comes in a huge range of iridescent colours. Opal represents hope, love and trust, which makes it an absolutely wonderful sentiment for marking 24 years of marriage.
Opal is lovely when set in jewellery and accessories, and because of the different colours, it’s easy to find something that suits your partner’s tastes. It also means that, if you’re keen to give your partner jewellery, you have twice as much choice as other anniversaries, because there’s a traditional gemstone along with opal.
Modern 24th anniversary gift – Musical instrument
The modern 24th anniversary gift is something rather unexpected, but fabulous nonetheless: a musical instrument. This is because music represents the passion and emotion the two of your share, which makes it a unique and exciting theme. Even if your partner has never expressed interest in learning an instrument, there are still plenty of ways you can have fun with it.
24th anniversary gemstone – Tanzanite
If you’d like to give your partner the traditional gemstone for your 24th anniversary, you might want to choose something that contains tanzanite. Tanzanite is a beautiful purplish stone and is said to be even rarer than diamond. That can make it expensive, but you can still find some tanzanite jewellery with a reasonable price tag.
Tanzanite symbolises clarity and tranquillity, which you no doubt feel plenty of after spending 24 happy years with the love of your life.
24th anniversary flower – Lavender
For something more floral, you might want to give your partner the traditional 24th anniversary flower, which is lavender. Lavender is often found in gardens up and down the UK and is easily recognisable thanks to its sweet floral scent. It represents love and healing, so something inspired by lavender makes for a great choice when marking 24 years.
How do you choose a gift for a 24th wedding anniversary?
With so many choices available, it can be tough knowing what’s perfect when choosing a 24th anniversary gift with which to spoil your other half. Two of the gifts are gemstones, one is a common garden flower and one is the rather out-there musical instrument. So, while there might be a lot of choices, they’re not necessarily something you’d typically choose for your other half. Here are a few things to consider when deciding what sort of gift to give:
Are you set on sticking to the traditional and modern anniversary themes? If so, then you’ll need to have a long, hard think about how you can align one or more of the themes to the sort of thing your partner enjoys.
Have you agreed on a budget? Gemstones and musical instruments can often be pricey, so try to choose something that means you don’t go over budget.
Are you interested in giving a personalised gift? If personalisation is important to you, the 24th anniversary gift themes might be a little tricky to personalise.
Has your partner asked for something in particular? If they have, it might be a challenge to make sure what they’ve asked for aligns with the anniversary themes.
Is a special couple in your life about to celebrate 24 years of marriage? If they are, you might be thinking about whether or not you can join in with the traditional and modern gift-giving themes – well, the answer is yes! These themes aren’t exclusive to the couple, so if you have the perfect gift in mind you should absolutely join in. Not only will they no doubt love your gift, but they’ll also appreciate the extra effort and thought that went into the meaning behind it.
50 ideas for a 24th wedding anniversary gift
It can be a challenge knowing exactly what to give your partner to mark your 24th anniversary, especially as you may already have a few ideas up your sleeve for your silver wedding anniversary next year. Well, if you’re keen to stick to one of the themes but need a few ideas, don’t worry – we’ve got you covered. Below, we’ve got 50 gift selections across all types of budgets and themes, so you can give your other half a gift packed with love and meaning.
10 traditional gifts for a 24th wedding anniversary
If you’d like to give your partner the traditional 24th wedding anniversary gift, you’ll want to give them something that contains opal. Opal is a wonderfully exotic-looking gemstone, which both makes for a fabulous addition to all kinds of jewellery or accessories and often accommodates a wide range of budgets. Here are 10 ideas to get you started on your hunt for the most opulent opal gift.
1. A pair of opal earrings
Thanks to the range of colours it comes in, opal makes for a brilliant gemstone to include in earrings. So, a pair of opal earrings is definitely a great choice, as there’s bound to be something that suits your other half’s preferences. They’re also not too expensive, so are great for smaller budgets.
2. An opal Pandora charm
If your other half has a Pandora charm bracelet, a charm is always going to be a go-to choice of gift for special occasions. But, for an addition to their bracelet that has extra special meaning, an opal Pandora charm is as stunning as it is thoughtful.
3. A pair of opal cufflinks
Does your partner occasionally wear suits and hasn’t had a new set of cufflinks in a while? Then you can’t go wrong with a pair of opal cufflinks, which have an alluring sparkle that helps them really stand out.
4. An opal watch
For a watch that dazzles every time your partner checks the time, an opal watch makes for a unique and eye-catching choice. There are several designs available and it can be worn every day or saved for special occasions.
5. A framed opal heart
For a sweet and thoughtful gesture that can be hung on the wall for all to see, a framed opal heart is the perfect way to tell your other half how you feel on your special day.
6. An opal pendant
Make sure your partner turns some heads with a beautiful opal pendant. This stunning stone is like looking into a portal into another world and can be worn with all kinds of outfits to draw everything together.
7. An opal bracelet
With shimmering opals that look like they could have been plucked from the depths of the ocean, this opal bracelet is absolutely stunning and is sure to go down very well on your anniversary.
8. A beautiful opal ring
Opal isn’t one of the most commonly used stones in rings, but it really should be. This beautiful opal ring is filled with positivity and you can choose from a silver, gold or rose gold band.
9. An opal pen
The pen to top all other pens… this opal pen is absolutely wonderful with a one-of-a-kind design that really makes it stand out. The ultimate in luxury.
10. An opal necklace
Treat your other half to a shimmering iridescent opal necklace, with a polished silver frame that means it can be worn with all different outfits and style choices.
10 modern gifts for a 24th wedding anniversary
The modern gift for celebrating 24 years is a musical instrument. This is possibly one of the most unique gift themes you’ll have encountered in your marriage so far, which can seem a little unusual – especially if your partner doesn’t have a musical bone in their body. But, with a little creativity, it can be a brilliant gift that they’ll love, whether they can play a tune on it or not. Here are 10 suggestions so you can make beautiful music together on your anniversary.
1. An acoustic guitar
Okay, so our first suggestion just has to be an acoustic guitar, one of the most popular musical instruments out there. This is perfect if your partner has always threatened to learn the guitar but never quite got around to it. You could also send them a few links to some online video tutorials to help them get started.
2. Personalised piano bar runner and coaster set
Does your other half enjoy the odd drink at home? Or maybe you even have a home bar so the two of you can spend time entertaining family and friends? If so, then this personalised piano bar runner and coaster set could just be the ideal anniversary gift.
3. Guitar wall art
If your partner loves guitars, then this guitar wall art is stylish and cool, and looks great whether hung on the wall inside the home or outside.
4. A musical violin mug
There’s nothing quite like a novelty mug, and they don’t get much more perfect than this musical violin mug. There are musical notes all over the surface, but where it really stands out is the handle – which is a brilliantly sculpted violin!
5. Electric guitar necklace and earring set
Does your partner play the electric guitar, or have a lot of love for the rock bands of yesteryear? If that’s the case, then this electric guitar necklace and earring set could just be the best anniversary gift they could get this year.
6. A LEGO grand piano
What could be better than spending time with your partner on your anniversary? Well, you could spend time building a LEGO grand piano, which would then make for a great piece to display. LEGO is no longer exclusive to kids!
7. Personalised musician figurine
For something unique and cheesy but 100% on theme, you could give your other half a personalised musician figurine, which features them as a cartoon version of themselves rocking out with a guitar.
8. An antique musical instrument
Does your partner love the thought of owning a musical instrument but not really the thought of playing it? An antique musical instrument might just be what they’re after and can work as a brilliant display piece in your home.
9. Glass of wine music
Add a musical touch to your partner’s evening glass of wine with a glass of wine music glass. There’s a full octave of musical notes in every glass – from D to C as your partner sips. A lovely way to add a touch of fun when sharing a drink.
10. An opal guitar pick
If your partner plays the guitar, we have the perfect gift for you: an opal guitar pick. This gift combines two of the 24th anniversary gift themes, which gives it double the symbolism and meaning.
5 affordable gifts for a 24th wedding anniversary
With your silver wedding anniversary next year, you might not be too keen on the idea of spending a lot of money this year. But, at the same time, you’ll more than likely want to let your partner know how special they are and how much they mean to you. The great news is, you can give your partner an on-theme token gift while making sure you keep your spending low. That way, your gift can have all of the meaning while saving you a bit of cash. It’s a win-win!
1. An Opal Fruits-themed anniversary card
If you plan on giving your partner a card, you could combine it with a creative use of the traditional theme and give them an Opal Fruits-themed anniversary card. Okay, sure, they’re called Starburst now, but it totally counts.
2. A pair of opal stud earrings
Not all opals have to be pricey, so you can still give your partner some cute jewellery on your anniversary. Like with this pair of opal stud earrings, which is available in a selection of different sizes and colours.
3. An opal sleeping cat
For the cat lover in your life, this opal sleeping cat is cute, iridescent and definitely fits the 24th anniversary theme. It’s also pretty affordable, making it a lovely token gift.
4. A custom guitar pick
Whether your partner plays the guitar or not, this custom guitar pick is a thoughtful little keepsake that they’ll definitely want to hold onto forever.
5. Personalised guitar wall art
Combine your partner’s favourite things to create this fabulous piece of personalised guitar wall art. It can be customised in loads of different ways, so it can fit with any taste or decor.
5 DIY gifts for a 24th wedding anniversary
Many couples choose to make each other gifts for their anniversary, whether it’s a meal, a date box or a love letter. But, there are also ways to make DIY gifts that are specifically tied to the 24th anniversary themes, to make them even more considerate. Here are five suggestions below to give you some ideas.
1. A DIY music box
With a DIY music box, you can create unique 15-note masterpieces to feed into it and have them delicately played back. You could either recreate your partner’s favourite piece of music, or create your own music that tells them how much you adore them. It’s sweet and thoughtful.
2. A DIY ukulele
With a DIY ukulele kit, you can put together a fantastic little ukulele, which you’re then free to decorate in any way you see fit.
3. A DIY model piano
To create something truly unique, this DIY model piano kit gives you everything you need to build an adorable little model that looks great on a desk or shelf.
4. A DIY opal dreamcatcher
If you pick up some incredible raw opal, you can create a DIY opal dreamcatcher to make sure your partner always has sweet dreams. With a video tutorial, you can give this one a go yourself without the need for expensive equipment.
5. DIY raw opal jewellery
With some simple jewellery-making tools, some wire and a raw opal, you can make the most incredible DIY raw opal jewellery, to give your partner something truly unique to wear. There are plenty of wire wrapping video tutorials available to help get you started.
5 experience or activity gifts for a 24th wedding anniversary
One of the best gifts you can give on your anniversary is something which lets you and your other half spend time together. This might be going out for dinner or a romantic walk, or you could tie it into one of the 24th anniversary themes. Here are five suggestions for ways you can have a truly memorable anniversary.
1. A musical instrument-making course
There’s no better way to spend time doing something new than by taking part in a musical instrument-making course. In fact, it’s such an unexpected gift, we bet you didn’t even realise it was a thing!
2. A trip to see the London Symphony Orchestra
When musical instruments come together, they’re capable of making something incredible. Spend time with your partner listening to the London Symphony Orchestra, who regularly put on performances across the UK.
3. Musical instrument lessons
For every partner who has always wished they’d given piano or guitar lessons a go, now is the perfect opportunity! Musical instrument lessons are even something the two of you could do together. Just search your local areas for tutors and reach out to see if they’d be happy to give you private lessons.
4. An opal cutting and setting workshop
Opals really are stunning, and they’re the perfect addition to countless types of jewellery. An opal cutting and setting workshop lets you design your very own piece of opal jewellery, so your partner can have a unique piece to call their own which has been made by their own fair hands.
5. A lavender wellbeing experience
The scent and aura of lavender do wonders for creating a calming and soothing atmosphere. So, indulge in a spot of rest and relaxation on your anniversary with a lavender wellbeing experience, to help melt away your partner’s tensions and stress.
10 24th anniversary gifts that contain tanzanite
The traditional 24th anniversary gemstone is tanzanite, a brilliantly violet-shaded gemstone that is super luxurious. Because tanzanite can be exceptionally rare, some jewellery and accessories set with it can be pricey, while others can be more affordable. Here are 10 suggestions for gifts containing the stunning tanzanite:
Earrings
A ring
A necklace
A bracelet
A broach
A locket
A watch
An anklet
A hairpin
Cufflinks
Because of how beautiful and sought-after it is, tanzanite is often not too difficult to find at jewellers. Both high street chains and independent retailers will usually have a nice selection of tanzanite pieces, which may well suit your budget. At Bridebook, we also work closely with a wide range of jewellers, many of whom have amazing tanzanite jewellery. It’s worth browsing what they offer to see if they have anything your partner would love.
5 floral-inspired gifts for a 24th wedding anniversary
For something with a relaxing scent, the traditional flower for marking 24 years of marriage is lavender. Lavender is a common addition to gardens across the UK, but can also add beautiful purple notes and hints of floral loveliness to bouquets. If your partner would love to receive something linked to lavender, here are five ideas you might want to consider.
1. A dried lavender and acroclinium bunch
Dried lavender looks and smells stunning, and will live a heck of a long time – in fact, it’ll last way beyond even your 25th wedding anniversary. A dried lavender and acroclinium bunch is a lovely little long-lasting gift.
2. A lavender aromatherapy set
Lavender is fantastic for promoting rest and relaxation, so to really spoil your partner, a lavender aromatherapy set will help them switch off, unwind and forget all their troubles for a while.
3. An engraved lavender vase
Lavender looks great in a vase, but it also looks great on a vase. An engraved lavender vase is the perfect gift, which your partner can bring out every time they get flowers. And you get extra brownie points if you give them this vase with a floral arrangement already in it, ideally one which stars lavender,
4. A lavender candle
Create an atmosphere on your anniversary night that’s part relaxing and part romantic with a heavenly lavender botanical candle.
5. A silver lavender pendant
Lavender may smell amazing, but it also looks amazing. It has an iconic look, which translates brilliantly to jewellery, like with this silver lavender pendant. A great choice if your partner loves unique jewellery.
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If I’m being completely honest, I never dreamed of getting married.
I was never the little girl who planned every detail of her big day or who walked around with a pillowcase on their head. In fact, it was quite the opposite. I had very serious conversations with ex-boyfriends where I told them, “You have to be ok with me never wanting to get married. It’s just who I am”. I thought weddings were a waste of money, a loss of independence, and, quite frankly, a loss of identity.
But, that didn’t deter the all-knowing, ever present nay-sayers in my life. They loved telling me how it would all change when I met ‘the one’, that I’d soon see the error of my ways, and that ‘they were just like me at my age’.
Naturally I knew better. I knew I would never change my mind, and that I would happily live my life as Miss Independent and never be defeated by a bad man or an American stick insect. I was happy being Miss Jones forever.
Then I met Tom, and he was everything you read about in books. He’s kind, sweet, clever, funny, and undoubtedly the very best half of me. I can’t imagine my life without Tom in it, so when he asked me to marry him in the same place we had our first date, there was only one answer.
Wedding planning has been a dream I never want to wake up from. I keep telling friends I don’t want it to end, in spite of the end being our actual wedding day! I’m truly trying to make the most of this time, soaking up every aspect, and letting my “too much” gene run riot.
This brings us happily to how I planned our engagement party. It was surprisingly easier than I thought, and probably took around two months of intermittent planning around my busy full-time job as an HR professional and part-time job as a rabbit parent. Let’s jump into the steps I took, all my considerations, and, of course, the cost!
Step 1: The venue
Location: Our house
Cost: Free
I wanted to keep our engagement party as budget-friendly as possible, considering we now have a wedding to pay for! I reached out to a few locations who were asking upwards for £2,000 just to rent their venue, not inclusive of food or drinks. This didn’t feel reasonable or feasible to us for what was meant to be quite an informal affair.
Luckily, we (and that’s a royal we, to clarify, because I didn’t do anything) have just finished renovating our first home. We have a lovely open plan kitchen/dining room with big bright windows which lead out onto our patio. It’s the perfect spot for hosting, and we were so excited to be able to show off our new house to our family and friends. Plus, it’s free (if we forget about the mortgage!).
I wanted a pinky, rose-goldy, girly theme for the engagement party (sorry Tom!). I explored a few different options for party supplies, but I liked the style of Ginger Ray’s products and appreciated that their website was sorted according to party type, theme, and colour scheme. This made it easy to navigate all the rose-gold and pink options, and helped me envision what the big day would look like.
I opted for 2x pink balloon arch kits (on sale for £10 each), an ‘Engaged’ balloon banner, a pre-inflated pack of helium balloons in the shape of champagne bottles and stars, “Mr & Mrs” Confetti and a variety of paper cups, plates, and napkins. Overall it came to £120, which I split with my partner.
Considering I have no experience, I’m pretty pleased with how things turned out. I built the balloon arch myself, using glue dots to stick the balloons to the wall. The ‘Engaged’ balloon banner was easy to work with, and I was able to scatter the confetti around haphazardly. I built the balloon arch the night before and it still looked perfect the next day.
Guests should always leave a party well-fed and well-watered, so I was passionate that I wanted good food and lots of it. We worked with Millie’s Grazing, a grazing table company covering the North West and North Wales. Jas (not Millie!) was a pleasure to work with, setting up over the course of 1.5-2 hours and chatting with me and Tom the whole time. Jas and I chatted in the weeks leading up to the party about dietary requirements, preferences, and what kind of space she would need for the most effective display.
We set up the table in the main party room so guests could see it as soon as they walked in. We catered for 40 people with a guest list of around 50, and there was plenty of food for everybody. Many even went back for a second plate! Everyone commented on how delicious the food was, and the display was an absolute show-stopper. I can’t recommend Jas enough. In fact, we liked her so much that we’re using her for the evening buffet of our wedding!
Side note: As much as we loved it, this was undoubtedly the biggest expense of our engagement party. If you aren’t planning to have a caterer, your engagement party will be much more reasonably priced.
Step 4: The sweets
We had: Single tiered cake and iced biscuits
Cost: Around £50
It’s difficult for me to say exactly how much this section costs, as I made the cake and iced the biscuits myself. As an avid baker, I had a lot of the ingredients and equipment already, meaning the upfront cost of these treats was relatively low. However, I estimate it would cost around £50 to buy all the equipment and ingredients needed from new.
I’m not willing to pay for anything I can do myself, so when I was quoted £80 for a cake and £160 for 80 iced biscuits, I thought to myself, “Not a chance”. I baked the cake myself on a Thursday, did a crumb coat on the Friday, and iced the cake Saturday morning before the guests arrived. It was a 3-layered victoria sponge, sandwiched with strawberry jam and covered in Betty Crocker’s vanilla buttercream. I reserved a tub of buttercream to mix with pink food colouring, and piped small rosettes along the outside edge of the cake and where the cake meets the silver cake board. I also iced our names on top, and stored it in the fridge until it was ready to serve. I don’t have a photo of the cake because it was quickly devoured before I got the chance to take it!
The biscuits were a hack I saw from TikTok. I bought 60 M&S butter biscuits and searched ‘M&S personalised Icing Cutter’ on Etsy. I was able to buy a personalised icing cutter with our initials and the date we got engaged on for around £8. I paid a little extra for fast shipping. Once it arrived, I cut out little discs of fondant icing, stamped them with the Etsy stamp, and attached them to the biscuits with a thin layer of strawberry jam. I dusted them with some edible gold lustre I purchased on Amazon, and voilà! Everyone commented on how professional they looked, and I think I may now have an accidental side-hustle as a biscuit maker for my friend’s events!
Step 5: The drinks
We had: Prosecco, beer, and soft drinks
Cost: Around £120
You can’t go wrong with prosecco, beer, and soft drinks. It really does offer something for everyone and keeps things simple. I sent Tom on a mission to Aldi the morning of the party to buy 10 bottles of prosecco, some boxes of bottled beer, and fizzy drinks like Fanta & Coke (or whatever the Aldi equivalent is). I’d estimate we paid around £120 for all the drinks, and they were nice to have, but a lot of guests (especially the younger ones) weren’t expecting to be given free drinks. I’d say 80% of guests showed up with what they intended to drink, so if you’re on a budget, you can probably skip this step.
Step 6: The fit
Tom wore: White t-shirt, open button-up shirt, shorts, and white trainers
Cost: Nothing, as they were already in his wardrobe
Medi wore: Vinted Meshki dress, white bow heels, pearl headband
Cost: £60 for the dress, £12.99 for the headband, shoes were a gift
Now we move on to the all-important outfit! I cannot recommend Vinted enough as a means for finding second-hand wedding gear. Looking at Meshki’s website, my dress should have been £120 new, but I was able to snag it for just under £60 including postage. I bought my dress from a lovely lady who wore it in the evening of her wedding and no longer had a need for it. I also plan to wear this dress on the evening of my wedding, and then I might sell it on again à la Sisterhood of The Travelling Meshki Dress.
The shoes were a (very generous) gift from my partner. They were my dream wedding shoes and I couldn’t be more grateful for them. I plan to wear them on my hen parties, the evening of our wedding, and any bridal activities that demand heels.
My hairband was a simple pearl headband I found on ASOS. I just googled ‘Pearl headband’ and scrolled until I found one I liked. I’ve worn it a few times since so it’s definitely a versatile piece.
Tom’s outfit was the definition of smart casual crossed with boujee garden party. He didn’t buy a new outfit for the party, so don’t feel like you need to!
Step 7: The invites
What we did: Texted people
Cost: Free!
Ok, ok. I know it’s not the most aesthetic, but it really was the quickest and easiest way to get the message across. We’d already created our wedding guest list (thanks to Bridebook’s handy wedding guest list tool!), so we already had an idea of who we’d invite to our engagement party. We simply let them know the date, time, rough dress code, and let them know how excited we were to celebrate with them.
Step 8: The music
What we did: Speaker & Spotify
Cost: Free!
Cheap and cheerful, we moved the speaker from our television into the party room and connected our phone via Bluetooth. We played a generic ‘Summer Songs’ playlist to get the party started, and as the night progressed, we switched to a mix of dance songs and 90s bangers. The best part was that everyone could add their favourite songs to the queue, making it a more fun and personalised experience.
And there you have it! That was our engagement party. We spent around £1,000 to bring it all together, but you could reduce the cost massively by making your own food or choosing more low-key decor. The key takeaway here is that it’s entirely possible to create a beautiful and memorable event on a budget, with a little bit of creativity and resourcefulness.
Now the engagement part is over, we’ve moved on to wedding planning. Wish us luck!
Are you dreaming of a serene coastal wedding, surrounded by the gentle sound of lapping waves and the sand between your toes? You’re in the right place. In case you couldn’t tell, we love weddings, and beach weddings are among our favourites! The natural beauty of the seaside creates an idyllic backdrop for your special day, whether you’re planning an intimate gathering or a grand celebration.
From choosing the perfect beach wedding venue to adding those personal touches that make your day uniquely yours, we’ve got you covered. We’ll guide you through every step of the process, ensuring your beach wedding is as smooth and stress-free as possible.
Ready to start planning your dream beach wedding? Let’s dive (pun not intended) in and create a seaside celebration that you and your guests will cherish forever. Here’s how to make your coastal wedding dreams a reality.
A beach wedding is a wedding ceremony or reception held on the sandy shores of your favourite beach. Beach weddings are beautiful, low-key, and perfect for couples who want a relaxed atmosphere on their big day.
The great thing about beach weddings is they’re brilliantly versatile. They can be as casual as a barefoot ceremony, with just a few close friends and family, or as elaborate as a decorated event with all the trimmings.
Yes, you can get legally married on a beach, provided that the beach is part of a legally licensed wedding venue. But, if you’d like to get married in a more rural location, or you aren’t sure whether your venue is licensed, you could always get legally married before the ceremony, then have a blessing on the beach before moving on to a celebration at another location. This way, you can enjoy the scenic beauty of the beach for your ceremony without worrying about the legalities.
Beach and destination weddings are extremely popular among today’s couples. According to Bridebook’s 2024 Engagement Report, a whopping 32% of couples are planning their wedding outside the UK. Italy and Greece are the most popular destinations, with 24% of those couples looking to get married in Italy, and another 20% looking to get hitched in Greece. Spain and Cyprus are also high on the list, with France, Vegas, and Mexico making honourable mentions.
Although some of these destination weddings may be taking place in historic chateaus, beautiful villas, or charming local chapels, many of these couples will be opting for relaxed beach weddings on golden sands.
Ready to start planning your dream beach wedding? Here are some tips to help you create a perfect seaside celebration.
Step 1: Sign up to Bridebook
First things first — you need to sign up to Bridebook.
Bridebook is your one-stop-shop for all things wedding planning. From the handy guest list planner to preferential rates on vendors, our easy-to-use app has everything you need to plan your dream wedding. Sign up for your free account today and start exploring all the tools and resources available to make your beach wedding planning a breeze!
Step 2: Set a budget
Although it isn’t as glamorous as shopping for a dress or designing your invitations, setting a budget is a key part of wedding planning. Your budget will determine every aspect of your wedding, from the venue to the flowers to the food. We know it’s tempting not to keep track of spending, but small purchases add up quickly, and it’s important to keep an eye on your budget to avoid any surprises.
Bridebook’s built-in budget planning tool is perfect for helping you keep on track with spending. This handy tool will break your overall budget down into common spending categories like the venue, catering, cake, dress, rings and more, before asking you to record what you’ve actually spent and letting you know where you’re up to on your budget. You can also customise every aspect of your budget. For example, if you’re getting your cake for free because your friend is making it, or if you’re using family heirlooms for your wedding bands. It’s easy to plan exactly what you’re going to spend and your current outgoings with Bridebook.
Step 3: Set a date
The next step is to pick your date. Beach weddings are best planned in the late spring or early summer. This will give you the best chance of enjoying the beautiful weather without it being too warm.
Be sure to check the local weather if you’re planning a destination wedding. Make sure your chosen date aligns with the best weather forecasts for that country. For example, countries like the Maldives or the Caribbean have rainy seasons, whichyou’ll want to avoid. Choosing a date during the off-peak season can also be a good idea, as it might be less crowded and potentially more affordable.
Picking your date means you have something to work towards and can start making concrete plans. With a set date, you can begin booking your venue, sending out save-the-dates, and coordinating with vendors. Having a timeline for your preparations will keep everything on track and ensure your big day is just perfect.
Step 4: Consider going abroad
If you haven’t already started looking at destination weddings, now’s the time to consider where you might want to say “I do.” Destination weddings can be incredibly special, offering you and your guests a mini-holiday as part of the celebration and giving you the perfect opportunity to plan a mini-moon.
Popular destinations for beach weddings include Greece, Italy, and Spain. However, you can get married in any country with a coastline. Plus, you can usually get more for your money abroad, meaning you can have a truly spectacular wedding without breaking the bank.
While planning a beach or destination wedding is exciting, it’s important to consider the logistics to ensure everything goes smoothly. For example, remote locations may not be accessible to guests who use wheelchairs or are on crutches. Equally, a destination wedding may not be accessible to grandparents or older family members.
You also need to think about the cost aspect. Although you can get more for your money abroad in terms of the celebration, some guests may not be able to afford the plane ticket or cost of accommodation.
If your heart is set on going abroad, consider throwing a smaller, post-wedding celebration when you come home for all the guests who couldn’t make your big day. This ensures everyone feels included in your big day, regardless of their ability to travel.
Step 6: Start your planning
Once you’ve ticked off the major decisions, it’s time to dive into the fun details. Check out these creative beach-themed wedding ideas to get your creative juices flowing:
Beach wedding catering
Beach wedding catering should make the most of the local flavours of wherever you’re getting married. For example, if you’re getting married on a UK beach, consider using local mussels, local fish, leeks, or other root vegetables as part of your meal. Equally, if you’re getting married in Italy, consider using fresh pasta, local cheeses, olives, and tomatoes to create a delicious, authentic menu. Incorporating local flavours not only makes your meal memorable but also supports the local economy!
Beach wedding colours
When it comes to your wedding colour scheme, white, light pastel tones, light earth tones, and pale blues or seafoam green are all great options for a beautiful beach wedding. These colours blend seamlessly with the natural surroundings and add a touch of elegance to your seaside celebration. Think of incorporating these shades into your decorations, flowers, bridesmaid dresses, and even your wedding cake, for a harmonious look.
Beach wedding attire
Think light, floaty fabrics, flat shoes, and casual, yet elegant styles. Flowy dresses, linen suits, and sandals or even barefoot options are perfect for a beach setting. Make sure to let your guests know the dress code so they can dress comfortably for the sand and sun.
Beach wedding decorations
Try to incorporate the natural beauty of the coastline into your beach wedding decor. Think driftwood, seaglass, seashells, and even small potted plants or succulents. You can also use lanterns, fairy lights, and candles to create a magical ambiance as the sun sets. Personalised touches like engraved seashells or beach-themed place cards can add a unique flair.
Beach wedding favours
Although wedding favours aren’t always expected, offering beach-themed wedding favours can be a nice touch to show your appreciation to your guests. Consider giving out small bottles of sand from the beach where you’re getting married, personalised flip-flops, or beach towels. Eco-friendly options like reusable tote bags, bamboo utensils, or handmade soaps can also make thoughtful and practical favours.
Beach wedding invites
Lean into the coastal aesthetic with your invitations by using beach-themed designs. Think about incorporating elements like seashells, starfish, and waves in your invites. You can use textured paper to mimic the feel of sand or opt for pastel colours that reflect the serene beach atmosphere. Adding a touch of whimsy with a message in a bottle or a nautical map can make your invitations truly memorable.
Beach wedding cake
Beachy wedding cakes are all about incorporating elements of the sea and shore. Think about cakes adorned with edible seashells, starfish, and coral. You could opt for a simple yet elegant cake with a watercolour finish in shades of blue and green, mimicking the ocean waves. A naked cake with fresh tropical fruits and flowers can also add a delightful and natural touch.
Step 7: Have a foolproof backup plan
No matter how confident you are that your wedding will be filled with sunshine, it’s crucial to have a backup plan. The UK has famously unpredictable weather, and you can’t count on destination weddings being perfectly sunny either. Renting a tent or canopy can provide shelter from unexpected rain or intense sun. Additionally, having an indoor venue nearby as a contingency can ensure that your celebration goes off without a hitch, come rain or shine.
Step 8: Sit back and relax!
The final step is to sit back and relax. You’ve done it! The hard part is out of the way and now you have your lovely wedding day to look forward to. Take time to yourself, try to switch off from wedding planning, and maybe schedule a few beach walks? You’ve earned it!
Beach weddings are a beautiful but low-key way to celebrate your love. It’s easy to keep them chilled and laid-back, or dress them up to be a truly fabulous affair. Whatever your preference, you’ll want to have Bridebook on your side.
Bridebook is your free, all-in-one wedding planning tool. With Bridebook, you can effortlessly organise every aspect of your wedding, from managing your guest list to finding the perfect beach wedding venues. Sign up today and start planning your dream beach wedding with ease!
Nestled in the heart of the Herefordshire countryside, Glewstone Court Country House offers an enchanting setting for your wedding, seamlessly blending timeless elegance with rustic charm. This Grade II listed Georgian manor, surrounded by two acres of meticulously manicured grounds, provides a picturesque backdrop for your celebration, no matter the season. In this exclusive feature, we chat to Joel Lambert-Muzio, Glewstone Court’s expert Head of Sales, to discover exactly what makes this venue so special.
Choosing Glewstone Court, as Joel explains, “means joining a family that is passionate about making your special day unforgettable, offering personalised touches and immaculate attention to detail that only a family-owned business can provide. We have planned weddings for numerous international weddings taking place at Glewstone Court, including couples from New York over to Australia! This shows the high level of attention to detail and the impeccable communication we have to ensure these overseas weddings are executed perfectly.”
Exclusive use
Glewstone Court offers the exclusivity that ensures that your wedding day is uniquely yours. The entire manor and its grounds are available for private hire, providing an intimate and personal setting for your celebration. Whether you are planning an intimate wedding ceremony, or a large wedding reception or want a marquee on the lawns, Glewstone Court can accommodate your vision.
Joel emphasises that the venue’s exclusivity is one of its standout features: “The exclusive use of the venue means couples can enjoy the beauty and history of the manor in complete privacy. The picturesque grounds, complete with a 500-year-old Cedar of Lebanon overlooking the apple orchards at the bottom of our lawn, provide a stunning backdrop for both indoor and outdoor ceremonies. Our bespoke services include mouthwatering menus featuring locally sourced produce and everything is customisable, so you can tweak anything to your taste. We also have drinks packages, all tailored to your unique vision.”
“One of our standout features is the luxurious Gainsborough Honeymoon Suite, with its grand size and floods of natural light. It is the perfect place to get ready in luxurious style before making your way down to say your I dos.”
Multi-day celebrations
For couples wishing to extend their celebration, Glewstone Court offers multi-day venue hire. This option allows for a relaxed pre-wedding gathering, where guests can truly enjoy the beautiful surroundings and connect before the big day. Plus, the estate’s talented chef can prepare a delightful family-style dinner, which enhances the sense of intimacy and joy among your closest friends and family.
Spring & Summer: Glewstone Court truly shines in the warmer months. Couples can exchange vows under the sprawling branches of the estate’s 500-year-old Cedar of Lebanon or celebrate with a champagne reception in the charming Mediterranean-inspired courtyard. The verdant lawns and blooming gardens offer a tranquil and picturesque environment for your special day.
Autumn & Winter: As the seasons change, Glewstone Court transforms into an enchanting, cosy retreat. Imagine a wedding surrounded by the warm glow of candlelight and the comforting crackle of log fires. The manor’s luxurious interiors, adorned with seasonal decorations, create a magical and intimate atmosphere perfect for autumn and winter weddings.
Glewstone Court is a top wedding venue embracing LGBTQ+ inclusivity: “We are proud to honour love in all its beautiful forms. We believe every love story deserves a stunning setting. Our exclusive country house offers the perfect backdrop for your special day, surrounded by picturesque gardens and luxurious elegance. Love is love, and we can’t wait to be part of your journey.”
Joel has a unique journey into the wedding industry. With a BA Honours Degree in Performing Arts, Joel initially pursued a career in hospitality, which naturally led him into the enchanting world of weddings. It was his own engagement and wedding planning that cemented his passion for this industry specifically.
Joel continues: “I began my professional journey in a sales and marketing company, starting from the bottom and working my way up to Head of Sales. This role involved managing sales and marketing for multiple venues, including Glewstone Court. Over my three and a half years working with Glewstone Court, both as part of the external company and now directly, I developed a deep connection with the venue. Glewstone Court was always my favourite client; I fell in love with the venue, family and ethos of Glewstone Court immediately.
“What I love most about working in the wedding industry is the blend of personal connections and professional challenges. I cherish the relationships I’ve built with my colleagues and the thrill of meeting couples as they search for their dream venue. It’s incredibly fulfilling to contribute to such a significant day in people’s lives, and I am grateful to be a part of their journey at Glewstone Court.”
Joel shares his top tips for couples planning their wedding: “The best expert advice I can give to any couple planning their wedding day is to remember that this is your wedding day and to have exactly what makes you happy. Don’t spend time worrying about what your guests want, they will love absolutely everything you choose and will just be happy they are there to celebrate with you. If they won’t be, ask yourself if they should make the guest list!”
“During the wedding day itself, I have two tips for couples to think about. Firstly, remember that you are not hosts on your wedding day, you are the guests of honour and everyone is all here for you. Secondly, try to set up a code word with either your wedding coordinator or your photographer that means “GET ME OUT OF HERE” for those moments when you might feel overwhelmed, and have an excuse to go somewhere. This way, you can slip away somewhere quiet for two minutes with your new husband/wife and have a breather, high-five yourselves for the amazing day you are having and then go back out there and celebrate!”
Most memorable moments at Glewstone Court
Joel shares one of his most memorable wedding moments at Glewstone Court: “Just recently, we had a wedding with a secret planned. Once all of the guests had departed or gone upstairs to rest their dancing feet after a long day of celebrations and an event full of dancing in the evening, the bride and groom stayed up for just a bit longer, to have a secret moment together and reenact their first dance on their own, just the two of them, in candlelight with the lights off. They finished off with a glass of their favourite champagne to celebrate before heading off to bed. What a beautiful moment they shared together.”
In short, Glewstone Court Country House offers couples the perfect blend of historical charm, natural beauty, modern luxury and bespoke, personalised service, making it an ideal choice if you’re looking to create lifelong memories. With its breathtaking scenery and unparalleled family-run ethos, Glewstone Court ensures that every wedding is a unique and joyous celebration. So what are you waiting for? Get in touch and secure your booking today!
We can’t blame you for wanting to plan a rustic themed wedding. Rustic is, after all, the most popular wedding theme of 2024! It’s down to earth, casual, and embrace the perfectly imperfect beauty of nature. But, with so many decorations, cake types, venues, and even attire that can constitute a rustic wedding theme, it can feel a little overwhelming to know what to pick.
Don’t worry — we’re here to help. We’ve collated our 50 favourite ideas for creating a rustic wedding theme. From cakes to decorations to dream venues, keep reading to learn everything you need to know about rustic wedding decor.
A rustic wedding is a wedding inspired by the simplicity and beauty of nature. Think lots of rugged textures, natural colours, and DIY friendly crafts.
A rustic wedding is all about bringing a touch of the great outdoors into your special day. Whether you opt for an understated elegance with delicate wildflowers and subtle earth tones or go all out with vintage farm tables, hay bales, and burlap accents, a rustic wedding means embracing the perfect imperfection of nature.
Let’s take a look at the 50 best ideas for throwing a laid-back, rustic wedding. We’ve broken our suggestions up into 5 categories: venue, attire, entertainment, cake, wedding favours, and decor.
This way, you can easily mix and match the elements to create the rustic wedding of your dreams. Whether you’re going for a full-blown, boho dream, or just want to add a touch of natural whimsy to your big day, there’s something for everyone in this comprehensive list.
An old or converted barn is a classic choice for a rustic wedding venue. They’re usually fairly easy to find, are surrounded by beautiful landscapes, and easy to dress up and customise to match your personal style. Whether you prefer fairy lights, hanging banners, reams of flowers, or antique lanterns, the possibilities are endless.
But, be mindful of the limitations of this type of wedding venue. Barns were never (originally) intended to be wedding venues, so they’ll likely be lacking in important amenities like running water, electricity, and the all important toilets! Be sure to discuss these aspects with your venue manager before you take the plunge.
2) A forest clearing
Planning a forest wedding can be a truly enchanting experience, and planning your wedding in a forest clearing can bring a unique sense of magic and whimsy to your big day. Imagine getting married in your very own hundred acre wood, or a beautiful scene from a Midsummer Night’s dream.
Decorate with twinkling fairy lights, colourful lanterns, wildflowers, natural wood arches, and more to enhance the natural beauty of the surroundings.
3) Your back garden
If you have a big enough space, consider throwing your wedding reception in your back garden. You’ll need a marquee to stave off any bad weather, but imagine how relaxed and personal your wedding will feel in a space that holds so many memories.
You can set up cosy seating areas with mismatched chairs and vintage furniture, string up some fairy lights, and create a DIY bar with your favourite drinks. Plus, having your wedding at home allows you to save on venue costs and splurge on other aspects of your day!
4) A farm
The great news for any farmer’s sons or daughters is that farm weddings are very in vogue! Luckily, farms are also available for rent, so there’s no need to pull the plug on your dream farm wedding if your family are city dwellers.
Farms are a great blank canvas for whatever kind of rustic wedding you’re trying to create. Whether you’d like your guests to bask in the beauty of rolling fields, or simply enjoy the charm of a cosy barn, the possibilities are endless. You could even have a petting zoo as your cocktail hour entertainment. Your guests will have a whale of a time with miniature goats, sheep, horses, puppies, rabbits or even guinea pigs!
5) A vineyard
Vineyards are another great option for a rustic wedding venue, offering a romantic and picturesque setting with rolling grapevines and abundant hills.
Vineyards are a beautiful setting in themselves. But, to enhance the rustic charm, consider adding touches like hand-painted wooden signs, wine cork place card holders, and grapevine wreaths.
Equally, you can’t miss out on the opportunity to offer a fun and interactive wine tasting experience as part of your entertainment.
6) A campsite
If you love camping holidays, met on an outdoor excursion, or just want a wedding that’s a bit different, consider having your celebration at a campsite. Campsites are usually hooked up with a range of handy amenities, and they may be able to offer rental of different tents, yurts, and bars for a comfortable and unique wedding experience.
Throwing a campsite wedding is the perfect opportunity to lean into the rugged but playful charm of camping holidays. Think s’mores stations, lantern-lit pathways, and cosy bonfires where guests can gather and share stories. No need to worry about hotel rooms — have your guests camp overnight in glamping tents, campervans, or yurts. Complete with plush bedding and fairy lights to make your guests feel pampered.
7) Festival grounds
If you love the idea of a campsite themed wedding, but want to add a touch of festival flair, consider holding your wedding at festival grounds. Imagine creating your own mini music festival for your special day! Decorate with colourful bunting, boho-chic tents, and vibrant flower crowns for your guests. You can set up multiple stages for live bands or DJs, have food trucks serving delicious treats, and even include fun activities like face painting or a Ferris wheel.
Create cosy chill-out zones with hammocks, bean bags, and fairy lights where guests can relax and enjoy the atmosphere. Incorporate elements like art installations, interactive games, and a bonfire for evening gatherings.
Pro tip: Give your event an authentic festival name! Consider using your new, shared name or a fun mashup of your names to create something truly unique. For example, ‘Smith-Fest 2024’ or ‘Johnstone-bury’
8) A botanical garden
The beauty of getting married at a botanical garden is that you’re surrounded by lush greenery and vibrant blooms, meaning you can repurpose some of your floral budget towards other expenses. It’s a beautiful, picturesque, and natural place to celebrate your love.
You can enhance the garden’s beauty with simple decorations like fairy lights, mason or jam jar candles, and wooden signs. Opt for natural and organic elements that complement the garden’s charm, like burlap table runners, potted plant centrepieces, and floral wreaths. You could also offer tours of the garden as part of the entertainment, or set up a sweet afternoon tea station for guests to graze while you’re taking photos.
9) An old chapel
Old chapels will always be a popular option for wedding ceremonies. But, if you find somewhere especially beautiful, consider holding both your ceremony and reception there. It’s a great way to fully immerse your guests in the historic and romantic ambiance of your big day.
Lean into the semi-gothic decor by using long, banquet-style tables adorned with lace runners, antique candelabras, and fresh flowers. The acoustics in chapels are usually amazing, so consider having a live choir or classical musicians to enhance the experience.
10) An orchard
Orchards are another great option for a rustic outdoor wedding. The beauty of nature will speak for itself, and you can decorate with rustic elements like wooden crates, burlap table runners, and mason jar candles. You can set up long banquet tables under the trees, adorned with simple floral arrangements and vintage tableware. String fairy lights and lanterns through the branches to create a magical, twinkling atmosphere as the sun sets.
For a truly memorable experience, consider incorporating the orchard’s produce into your wedding menu. Serve fresh fruit platters, homemade pies, and cider where possible. You could even have a fun, interactive cider-making station for guests to enjoy.
Brides can’t go wrong with a floaty, lace-layered wedding dress. Opt for a champagne or pink-toned dress for a subtle twist on the classic white. Pair it with a floral crown made of wildflowers to embrace the natural beauty of the setting. Complete the look with dainty, vintage-inspired jewellery and a pair of charming cowgirl boots for that perfect blend of elegance and rustic charm.
12) Floral crowns
Flower crowns are the perfect whimsical, rustic addition to any wedding attire. You can either have a fresh flower crown made by your florist or craft one yourself using artificial flowers for a longer-lasting keepsake. Pair the floral crown with loose, flowing hair or a romantic updo to enhance the bohemian feel. This delicate accessory adds a touch of enchantment and ties in beautifully with the natural surroundings.
13) Tea-length dress
Tea length dresses are a sweet and playful option for a rustic wedding. Falling between the knee and ankle, these dresses offer a vintage charm and are perfect for showing off a great pair of shoes, like those cowgirl boots or cute ballet flats. A tea-length dress with layers of tulle and lace can create a fun, twirl-worthy look that’s perfect for dancing the night away.
14) Lace suit
If you aren’t a dress kind of person or simply prefer something a bit different, a lace suit can be a stunning and unique choice. Opt for a tailored lace blazer and matching trousers in a soft ivory or pastel shade. Pair it with a delicate camisole underneath and complete the look with some elegant, understated jewellery. This ensemble not only offers comfort but also brings a modern twist to rustic wedding attire.
For grooms
15) Tweed suit
A tweed suit offers a timeless, rugged look that fits right in with a rustic wedding theme. Choose earthy tones like brown or olive green, and consider adding a floral tie or a bow tie for a touch of whimsy. Don’t forget the brown leather shoes or boots to pull the whole look together. For an extra dash of personality, roll up the sleeves and skip the jacket for the reception.
16) Suspenders and bow tie
Suspenders and bow ties can add a fun and quirky touch to your attire. Pair them with dress shirts and chinos in coordinating colours. Brown leather shoes or boots will keep the look cohesive. Consider adding personalised boutonnieres made of greenery and small flowers for a special touch.
For guests
17) Earth-toned suits
Earth-toned suits include shades like tan, olive, and brown, offering a warm and natural look that fits perfectly with a rustic theme. Pair these suits with crisp white shirts and matching ties or bow ties. Add a touch of personality with patterned pocket squares or boutonnieres made of wildflowers and greenery. Brown leather shoes or boots complete the ensemble, ensuring guests look sharp yet in tune with the natural surroundings.
18) Floral dresses
Guests can embrace the rustic theme by wearing floral dresses in soft, earthy tones. Flowy maxi dresses or midi skirts paired with lace tops work wonderfully. Add a light cardigan or shawl for cooler evenings, and complete the look with comfortable sandals or cowgirl boots. A small clutch and simple jewellery will finish off the outfit nicely.
19) Cowgirl boots
Cowgirl or cowboy boots are a fantastic addition to any rustic wedding outfit. They add a touch of country charm and are the ideal, practical choice for an outdoor wedding. Pair them with dresses, skirts, or even dress pants for a stylish yet comfortable look.
20) Layering
If you’re really stuck on what to wear, you can’t go wrong with layering. Layering different textures and pieces not only adds depth to your outfit, but also ensures you stay comfortable throughout the day and night. Think about combining a lightweight cardigan over a lace dress or pairing a flannel shirt with a vest and suspenders. Adding a denim or leather jacket can also bring a bit of edge and versatility, allowing you to adapt your look as the weather changes.
Accessorise with statement jewellery, like a chunky bracelet or a beaded necklace, to add a personal touch. Scarves and shawls in natural fabrics can also be great additions, providing warmth and style as the evening cools down.
Embrace your inner cowboy or cowgirl by hosting a lively barn dance. Hire a live country band and have a caller lead your guests through fun line dances and square dances. This interactive and energetic activity will get everyone up on their feet and enjoying the country spirit. Just remember to pop it, lock it, and polka dot it!
22) Axe throwing
Trust us — you’ll need a professional team to organise this entertainment for you. When done safely, axe throwing can be a thrilling and fun activity that adds an adventurous twist to your wedding day. Your guests will love testing their skills and cheering each other on. It’s a unique way to bring a bit of excitement and competition to your celebration.
23) Petting zoo
Bring in a mini petting zoo with friendly farm animals like goats, sheep, and rabbits for guests to enjoy. This adorable addition will be especially popular with kids and animal lovers, offering a sweet and memorable addition to any wedding reception. Who wouldn’t want to cuddle a little lamb or a fluffy bunny on your wedding day? If you chose this entertainment, we guarantee people will talk about your wedding for years to come.
24) Giant board games
You can’t go wrong with giant, wooden board games. Think Connect 4, Hoopla, Bat and Ball, or even giant Jenga. These oversized games are perfect for breaking the ice and adding a playful element to your wedding. They’ll keep guests of all ages entertained and create plenty of laughter and friendly competition. Plus, you can leave them outside during the food to double as evening entertainment!
25) Karaoke
Turn a corner of your venue into a funky karaoke lounge. Set up with microphones, a projector screen, and even some Strictly Come Dancing style voting cards. Provide a wide selection of songs and let everyone showcase their vocal talents for a fun and entertaining evening. You might even discover some hidden talent among your friends and family!
26) S’mores station
Create a campfire area where guests can roast marshmallows and make s’mores. This classic campfire treat adds a nostalgic touch and is perfect for a cosy, relaxed evening. Set up a small s’mores station nearby with sweet additions so guests can customise their s’mores. Think salted caramel, crushed candy canes, peanut butter, or even slices of fresh fruit.
Provide an assortment of different chocolates like milk, dark, and white, as well as digestive biscuits, graham crackers (if you can get hold of them), and other fun alternatives like chocolate chip cookies. Delicious!
27) Farm-themed photo booth
Wedding photo booths are a classic choice for wedding entertainment. Set up a photo booth with rustic-themed props like cowboy hats, vintage frames, and burlap banners. Guests can take fun and quirky photos to remember your special day, and you’ll have a collection of candid moments to cherish.
Horse riding is the perfect way to add a touch of adventure to your wedding reception. You’ll need a small paddock area, some horse riding teachers, and, of course, some horses. For those who are new to riding, the instructors can offer guided rides or short lessons, ensuring everyone feels comfortable and safe. To make it even more special, consider decorating the horses with flower garlands or rustic-themed accessories that match your wedding decor.
If anyone is too nervous to try riding, they can always take some photos with the ponies or feed them a handful of carrots in exchange for a cuddle!
29) Nature walks
Guided nature walks work best in venues with a bit of history. Think vineyards, botanical gardens, or scenic estates. Arrange for knowledgeable guides to lead your guests through the beautiful surroundings, sharing interesting facts and stories about the area. This is a wonderful way for guests to relax and enjoy the natural beauty of your venue while learning something new.
30) Flower arranging
If you’d prefer a creative and hands-on activity, set up a flower arranging station. Provide a variety of fresh, seasonal blooms, and let guests create their own beautiful bouquets or floral crowns. This not only adds a fun, interactive element to your wedding but also gives your guests a lovely keepsake to take home.
Naked cakes are cakes that don’t have any icing on top or on the sides. This means they showcase their beautiful tiers and allows you to really taste whatever is sandwiching the cakes together. Decorate with fresh flowers, berries, and maybe a dusting of powdered sugar for a simple, elegant look that feels right at home in a rustic setting.
32) Semi-naked cake
A semi-naked cake is similar to a naked cake, except it may have a thin layer of buttercream on the sides and on-top. Almost like a crumb-coat, it adds a subtle layer of sweetness to the cake while still allowing the natural beauty of the layers to peek through.
33) Fruit-topped cake
A fruit-topped cake is cake of any flavour and icing style, topped with fresh, seasonal fruits like figs, berries, and grapes. This not only adds vibrant colours, but also gives your guests a burst of natural sweetness. It’s a simple yet stunning way to make your cake look beautiful and taste delicious.
34) Muffin tower
If you aren’t a fan of sliced cake, consider serving lots of mini muffins instead of one large cake. The beauty of offering lots of small cakes is that you can offer a variety of flavours to suit everyone’s tastes. Arrange them on a tiered stand for a charming display. You can decorate each muffin with rustic elements like edible flowers, fresh berries, or a dusting of powdered sugar.
Pro tip: You can still have one large cake so you can go through the transition of cutting the cake. Set your large cake at the top of the tier and arrange the muffins around the large cake in a cascading style. Find an XL cake tower for a truly show-stopping display.
35) Pie tower
Similarly to muffins, if you aren’t a fan of traditional wedding cakes, pies can be a fun and unusual alternative. Offer a variety of flavours like apple, cherry, peach, and lemon meringue, and arrange them on a tiered stand for a delightful display. Alternatively, go savoury — offer pork pies, cheese and onions pies, or dabble in a sausage roll. Each guest can enjoy a slice of their favourite pie, adding a cosy, homestyle, and potentially savoury touch to your wedding dessert table.
36) Cheese board selection
Cheese boards are a great way to incorporate your love of savoury foods into your wedding reception. Set up an elaborate cheese board with a range of cheeses, crackers, jams, chutneys, fresh fruits, and celery. You could also add some honey, olive oil, and rustic bread for an extra touch of indulgence.
37) Carrot cake
You can’t go wrong with a delicious, moist carrot cake. It’s a classic choice for a rustic wedding with its warm, homey feel. Decorate with nuts, edible flowers, or even cute carrot decorations for a fun and tasty treat that everyone will love.
38) Edible flower cake
Edible flower cakes can be any flavour base cake with any flavour icing. But, they are decorated with beautiful, edible flowers that add a touch of nature and elegance. These flowers can be pressed into the icing or scattered on top, creating a stunning, garden-like effect that fits perfectly with a rustic theme.
39) Herb-decorated cake
Use fresh herbs like rosemary, thyme, and lavender to decorate your cake. These fragrant and earthy additions provide a unique touch and enhance the rustic charm of your wedding. Plus, they’ll make the whole area around the cake smell moreish and delicious.
40) Drip cake
A drip cake is usually a naked or semi-naked cake with a rim of chocolate ganache, melted chocolate, salted caramel, or some other thick, sweet pudding dripped down the sides in a haphazard style. This creates a visually stunning and mouth-watering look that’s both elegant and playful. You can top it off with edible flowers, fresh fruits, or even macarons to add a colourful and fun element. Drip cakes are perfect for adding a touch of whimsy to your rustic wedding, making each slice a delicious work of art.
Nothing says rustic like a real-life, mini cornucopia! Find some medium-sized, woven baskets and fill them with bread, fresh vegetables, fruit, dipping oils, and more for an authentic look. The beauty of this decor is that guests can graze on it before their meals are served, making it both functional and decorative.
42) Eucalyptus leaves
Eucalyptus leaves embody all the principles of a rustic wedding. They’re a beautiful sage green, are fresh, natural, and easy to DIY. Plus, they can be used in a range of different ways throughout your wedding decor. Try draping over tables, wrapping them around your bouquet, or using them as accents in your centrepieces. You can even scatter eucalyptus leaves down the aisle for a fresh, fragrant walkway!
43) Vintage lanterns
Vintage lanterns are a beautiful and eclectic way to decorate your rustic wedding venue. You can find a range of vintage lanterns at antique shops, vintage shops, and charity shops. Fill them with candles or fairy lights to create a warm, cosy glow. Place them on tables, hang them from trees, or line pathways with them for a magical effect.
44) Burlap table runners
Burlap table runners are a staple of rustic wedding decor. They’re perfect on both long or round tables, and add an earthy, textured element to your decor. Pair them with lace or doilies for a touch of vintage charm, and top with simple centrepieces like mason jars filled with wildflowers or candles to complete the look.
45) Wooden discs & mason jars
You can’t go wrong with wooden discs and mason jars. They’re a classic and foolproof option for rustic wedding table decor because they bring a natural, down-to-earth vibe to your tables. Place the wooden discs as bases for your centrepieces and top them with mason jars filled with wildflowers, candles, or fairy lights. Wrap the jars in burlap or twine to complete the look.
46) Barrel tables
If you’re struggling to find outdoor furniture, consider making some tables out of old wine or whiskey barrels. These are much easier to get hold of as they’re often sold second hand as junk. They’re the perfect height for sitting or standing, and you can even make quick chairs out of them by adding a wooden board on top. Decorate with a simple tablecloth or leave them bare for an authentic rustic look.
47) Wildflower bouquets
Collect a bunch of local wildflowers and arrange them haphazardly in a jam or mason jar. You only need a few for an authentic, rustic look, and you can spruce up the jars with ribbon, twine, or burlap. Try to use flowers that are seasonal to your wedding month. This way, you’ll be reminded of your special day every time you see them.
48) Homemade favours
Try making your own homemade wedding favours to give you guests on your special day. Depending on what you have available, this could be homemade honey, homemade jam, little fortune tellers, shortbread, or even handcrafted soaps. Personalise each favour with a label or tag that includes your names and wedding date, and package them in rustic materials like burlap or greaseproof paper.
49) Vintage books
Collect a range of vintage books from second-hand shops or antique shops. Look for books with beautiful, ornate covers, or consider using cloth, leather or hard-bound books. Stack them on your tables as charming centrepieces, or use them to add some extra height and flair to your decor displays.
To give them an even more rustic feel, tie them together with twine or colourful ribbons. You could even mix in a few sprigs of lavender or small flowers for a delightful, whimsical touch. These vintage books will not only look beautiful, but also spark curiosity and conversation among your guests. Try including a few of your favourites for a personal touch!
50) Pinecones and fauna
Pinecones and fauna are a simple and cost-effective way to decorate your wedding venue in a rustic style. Scatter pine cones along tables or use them as part of your centrepieces. You can also fill glass jars or wooden bowls with pinecones for a natural, earthy look. For a touch of colour, consider mixing in some seasonal foliage or dried flowers.
Pro tip: Pinecones make great place card holders, too. Simply cut a small slit in the top and slide in a name card. It’s a charming and practical detail that fits perfectly with a rustic theme.
The beauty of rustic weddings is their focus on DIY decor and the undone beauty of nature. Don’t be afraid to leave your burlap frayed, your cake uniced, or wear a sweet tea length gown with wellies. A rustic wedding is all about you and letting your personal style shine through.
That said, the customisability of a rustic wedding can make planning a little overwhelming. With so many options to choose from, it can be tricky to know which one is right. Luckily, Bridebook is here to help!
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23 years of marriage is such an incredible milestone to reach! In some cultures, the number 23 is said to be lucky and bring happiness and growth, which means it’s absolutely something that deserves to be celebrated. Not many couples make it to this stage, so it shows just how much the two of you love and care for each other – a real testament to how much you’ve worked on your marriage.
But, what sort of gift should you give your partner to mark your 23rd wedding anniversary? You’re only a couple of years away from your silver wedding anniversary, but that’s not to say you can’t give your other half something that’s filled with just as much symbolism and meaning as you may in two years’ time.
Just as silver is synonymous with your 25th anniversary, there are also traditional and modern gifts associated with your 23rd wedding anniversary. So, if you want to give your partner something that lets them know exactly how important they are to you, you can do just that. There’s also a traditional flower and gemstone, which means you have plenty to choose from to make a real statement on the big day.
But, what exactly are the traditional and modern gifts to give on your 23rd anniversary? In this article, we’re going to dive into all the gift-giving rules surrounding this special time, and let you know exactly what they mean. That way, you can elevate your gift and make your anniversary one your partner won’t forget any time soon.
We’ll also give you 50 gift suggestions related to the traditional and modern gifts, as well as the traditional gemstone and flower, to help you make your 23rd anniversary as memorable as possible.
What are traditional and modern gifts for a 23rd wedding anniversary?
The traditional and modern 23rd wedding anniversary gifts
The traditional and modern 23rd anniversary gifts have been given for more than a century. There wasn’t originally a traditional 23rd anniversary gif, as after hitting 20 years the traditional gifts only went up every five years. So, once the modern anniversary gifts were created, these were unofficially adopted by the traditional gifts too. That means there’s a little less choice than there are with most earlier anniversaries, but the meaning behind them is no less special.
Traditional 23rd anniversary gift – Silver plate
The traditional 23rd anniversary gift is silver plate. When something is silver-plated it usually means it’s a cheaper metal, such as copper or brass, which has been coated in a thin layer of silver. This turns something ordinary into something extraordinary.
In a unique way, this can symbolise your marriage. On your own, you and your partner are of course wonderful as individuals, but together, you become something extra special. This also represents the strength and resilience of your marriage, as silver plating helps with the longevity of an item.
Plus, coating something in silver makes it rather luxurious, so it makes for a brilliant choice of gift to mark 23 years and offers you lots of options.
Modern 23rd anniversary gift – Silver plate
The original 23rd anniversary gift was the modern choice and is again silver plate. It’s a similar theme to what will come as part of your 25th wedding anniversary, but silver-plated gifts can be rather different from other types of silver gifts. This is also the only anniversary where silver plate is a gift theme, so now’s your only opportunity to give your partner something silver-plated if sticking to the anniversary themes is important to you.
23rd anniversary gemstone – Topaz
The traditional gemstone for celebrating 23 years of marriage is topaz, specifically imperial topaz, which is a fairly rare and fairly expensive stone. While topaz comes in a variety of colours, imperial topaz is a warm, autumnal shade of reddish-orange, which means it looks rather striking when set in jewellery or accessories.
Imperial topaz symbolises creativity and manifestation, which means it’s a lucky stone to give someone who’s trying to achieve something. Because it’s expensive, it isn’t ideal for smaller budgets, but there are still ways to choose something featuring a more affordable type of topaz instead.
23rd anniversary flower – Nil (aka morning glory)
The traditional 23rd anniversary is nil, also known as morning glory. This lovely purplish-blue flower grows within luscious green plants with big leaves. Because it’s more bush-like than bouquet-like, it doesn’t really feature in floral arrangements, but makes for a wonderful addition to a garden or planted in a pot.
Nil symbolises beauty and spirituality, and in Japan, is a commonly used funeral flower, as it also represents rebirth. But, it looks gorgeous and makes for a touching gift to mark your anniversary.
How do you choose a gift for a 23rd wedding anniversary?
You may not have realised that there are traditional and modern gifts associated with your 23rd anniversary, so maybe you’re holding off until your 25th in a couple of years. That means you might have been in two minds about the sort of gift to get your partner other than something classic and reliable like a bouquet of roses or a box of chocolates. Well, before you make your decision, there are a few things to bear in mind:
Is giving your partner a gift linked to one of the themes important? If it is, there are three 23rd anniversary themes to choose from, two of which haven’t made an appearance before as an anniversary theme.
Have you got a set budget? Silver plate and imperial topaz can be rather pricey, which might mean they don’t align with your budget.
Is personalisation important to you? It’s popular for couples to give each other personalised gifts on their anniversary, and that’s not always possible with every theme – including silver-plated gifts.
Has your other half asked for a specific gift? They might have given some hints or asked for something outright, which means you may struggle to give them something that fits with the traditional or modern themes.
Is a couple close to you about to celebrate 23 years of happily married life? If they are, then you might be on the hunt for something to mark the occasion, which means considering a gift that fits with one of the traditional or modern themes. Thankfully, if you are keen to give them something linked to a 23rd anniversary theme, then you’re more than welcome to. The rules aren’t exclusive to the couple themselves, so if you’ve got an idea for a gift, you’re free to give them whatever you like.
50 ideas for a 23rd wedding anniversary gift
If it’s not long until you and your partner celebrate your 23rd wedding anniversary, you might be in the middle of searching for the perfect gift to let them know exactly how you feel. You by no means have to stick to one of the traditional or modern themes, but it can show just how much thought and effort has gone into it. It also means you think outside the box and don’t rely on tried and tested gifts and give them something they won’t see coming.
So, to make your 23rd anniversary a memorable one, here are 50 gift ideas that fit the traditional and modern themes.
20 traditional and modern gifts for a 23rd wedding anniversary
The traditional and modern gift for celebrating 23 years of marriage is the same, which is the luxurious and sometimes slightly extravagant silver plate. Silver plate adds a touch of class to your gift, which means it can sometimes be a little expensive. But, the meaning behind it is touching, so if it fits with what you’re looking for, we think you should go for it. If you’re not sure where to start, here are 20 ideas for silver-plated gifts you can give to celebrate your 23rd anniversary.
1. A silver-plated necklace
For something cute, dainty and thoughtful, you can’t go wrong with a silver-plated necklace. They look every bit as beautiful as sterling silver necklaces, but are actually far more affordable – which is a huge bonus!
2. A silver-plated photo frame
Your wedding may have been 23 years ago, but we bet you have amazing memories of that wonderful day. You could print off one of your favourite wedding snaps and put it in a silver-plated photo frame, which your partner can display proudly.
3. A compact silver plated-pocket mirror
Pocket mirrors are a little old-fashioned by today’s standards, but we think it’s about time they made a comeback. So, a silver-plated pocket mirror is on theme and will help your partner be a trendsetter!
4. A silver-plated watch
Watches look great in silver, and the neutral colour means a silver-plated watch goes well with any kind of outfit and suits all types of occasions.
5. A silver-plated ballpoint pen
If your partner uses a pen for work or occasionally has to sign important documents, you can make sure they do it in style with a silver-plated ballpoint pen.
6. A silver-plated rhino figurine
Is your partner’s favourite animal the majestic rhinoceros? If so, they’ll absolutely love this silver-plated rhino figurine, which is small and sweet and makes for a lovely gift.
7. A silver-plated condiment set
Perfect for making meal times a little more grandiose whenever you’re entertaining. Instead of cracking out the ketchup or bringing out the brown sauce, your partner can serve up your sauces in this silver-plated condiment set.
8. A personalised silver-plated carousel money box
If your partner has a charm bracelet or similar and loves filling it with unique and fun charms personal to them, a silver-plated charm offers you the perfect way to give them a gift they’ll really appreciate.
10. A silver-plated bracelet
Give your partner a gift with a touch of sparkle, with a silver-plated bracelet. There are plenty of styles and designs available so you should easily find something that suits your partner’s tastes.
11. A silver-plated tea caddy
There’s no finer way to keep tea to hand than with a silver-plated tea caddy. It’s perfect for any lover of loose-leaf tea.
12. A personalised silver-plated rose
Roses are known the world over as a symbol of love. Combine that with silver, and a personalised silver-plated rose might just be everything you need for the best anniversary gift ever.
13. A silver-plated tea set
Help your partner feel like royalty every time they make a cuppa with a silver-plated tea set. Either that or they’ll love it too much to ever want to use it!
14. A pair of silver-plated earrings
Silver-plated earrings are a brilliant choice of gift. They’re small and affordable and come in a huge range of styles, so you’re bound to find something your partner will always want to wear.
15. Vera Wang silver-plated toasting flutes
Plan on raising a glass on your anniversary with a cheeky bottle of bubbles? Then there’s no better way to do it than with a pair of Vera Wang silver-plated toasting flutes – romantic and luxurious.
16. A silver-plated trinket box
To help your partner keep all their jewellery and accessories safe in one place, a silver-plated trinket box has intricate details and would sit nicely on any dresser.
17. A silver-plated wall mirror
With a modern design, this silver-plated wall mirror will add a touch of character to a bedroom or bathroom.
18. An antique silver plated tray
Do you often entertain or have family over? For a real talking point, give your partner an antique silver-plated tray so they can serve up tea and biscuits in real style.
19. A pair of personalised silver plated cufflinks
Cufflinks always make for a thoughtful and useful gift, especially if your other half frequently wears a suit. So, this pair of personalised silver-plated cufflinks could just be the gift you’re after.
20. A silver plated bangle
Make sure your partner makes a real statement with a silver-plated bangle. It has a unique melting design and will really complement almost any type of outfit.
5 affordable gifts for a 23rd wedding anniversary
Silver-plated gifts aren’t necessarily going to be everyone’s cup of tea. If this is your partner, or you’re not sure they’d be hugely into something silver-plated, then it might be a bit of a risk. As a result, you may not want to spend much money, and instead choose to give them something linked to the theme that’s cheap and more of a token gesture. But where do you start? Thankfully, there are some very affordable silvery gifts that are pretty much perfect. So, here are five affordable gifts for celebrating your 23rd wedding anniversary.
1. A personalised silver keyring
For an anniversary gift that your partner can carry with them wherever they go, you could give them a personalised silver keyring, which is small, thoughtful and – most importantly – affordable.
2. A silver candle and diffuser plate
If your partner loves to fill your home with the sweet and floral scents produced by diffusers and candles, then this silver candle and diffuser plate keeps them neat and catches any spills.
3. Silver star stud earrings
If you know where to look, you can find silver jewellery that will suit all kinds of budgets – including these silver star stud earrings, which are super cute and super affordable.
4. A sterling silver ring
For a thoughtful and affordable token gift, you really can’t go wrong with this sterling silver ring.
5. A sterling silver heart bracelet
Treat your partner to something romantic and oh-so-delicate with a sterling silver heart bracelet, which is just lovely and will definitely go with loads of different styles and outfits.
5 DIY gifts for a 23rd wedding anniversary
One way to show your partner how much you love them and give them a gift like no other is by making it yourself. This extra personal touch is thoughtful and fun and can be an exciting project to take on during the build-up to your anniversary. But, what kind of thing can you make linked to one of the themes? Unless you have the tools and know-how, silversmithing is likely not an option… unless you use a bit of creativity. So, here are five DIY gift ideas for your 23rd anniversary.
1. DIY silver jewellery with a jewellery-making kit
No one knows your partner as well as you, including the types of jewellery they love to wear. So, why not get a silver jewellery-making kit and make them the most incredible piece of bespoke jewellery ever?
2. A silver wire DIY heart pendant
Silver wire is pretty cheap to buy and is incredibly versatile. And one thing you can make using silver is a DIY heart pendant, which you can have a go at even if you don’t have much crafting experience. Watch a video tutorial for tips on how to make one for your other half.
3. Silver wire earrings
Another great way to use silver wire is by making silver wire earrings. You’ll need one or two jewellery-making tools, but they’re not very expensive (and also have multiple other uses). Check out a video tutorial for the info on everything you need.
4. Silver wire snowman decoration
If your anniversary takes place around the festive period, a wire snowman is surprisingly simple to make! And of course, a video tutorial tells you how to make one.
5. A silver wire Celtic knot bracelet
One last suggestion for using silver wire. If you have experience making intricate things before, you might like to take on the challenge of a silver wire Celtic knot bracelet, which really is beautiful. If you fancy being brave and trying it, here’s a video tutorial for you.
5 experience or activity gifts for a 23rd wedding anniversary
Your anniversary is all about you and your partner, so it’s likely that spending quality time together is high on your list of priorities. Sure, you could go to a nice restaurant or a romantic walk, but why not tie your anniversary into one of the themes and make it truly unique? If that sounds good, but you’re not quite sure how to do that, we have five more suggestions here.
1. A silver mountain experience
You could pay a visit to the Silver Mountain Experience, a silver-lead mine full of Welsh myths and fantasies, which offers you a truly adventurous anniversary.
2. A trip to Silver Glen
To the east of Stirling, in Scotland, is the Silver Glen, which once held the richest deposit of silver in the UK. You won’t find much there now, of course, but it’s a beautiful part of the UK in which to mark your anniversary.
3. A silver Merlin annual pass
Do you and your other half have a roller coaster relationship? And by that, we mean literally! A silver Merlin Annual Pass gives you year-round access to thrills and spills at theme parks and attractions up and down the country.
4. A silversmithing experience
For a chance to do something truly different on your anniversary, you and your partner could go on a silversmithing experience, and learn how to make your own items out of real silver.
5. A silver West End experience voucher
Does your idea of a great date night involve catching a musical? If so, then a silver West End experience voucher lets you grab tickets to a variety of shows and have a night to remember.
10 23rd anniversary gifts that contain topaz
Imperial topaz is a gorgeously warm stone with an absolutely lovely meaning. It’s quite rare, so can be rather expensive, but there are loads of options out there, which makes it a fabulous choice as an anniversary gift. There are also other types of topaz that come in different colours if the autumnal shades aren’t really your partner’s thing. Here are 10 suggestions for gifts containing the mighty topaz:
Earrings
A ring
A necklace
A bracelet
A broach
A locket
A watch
An anklet
A hairpin
Cufflinks
Topaz is a very popular stone, so it shouldn’t be too difficult to find jewellery and accessories that are set with one. Imperial topaz, on the other hand, can be rare, but it’s still not impossible. Check out your local high-street and independent jewellers to see what they have available. Alternatively, here at Bridebook, we work closely with a range of fabulous jewellers, and many have beautiful topaz jewellery. You’ll no doubt find something your partner will adore.
5 floral-inspired gifts for a 23rd wedding anniversary
For a sure-fire hit of a gift, you could always give your partner flowers to mark your anniversary. The traditional flower for your 23rd anniversary is nil, otherwise known as morning glory, a luscious green bushy plant with vivid purplish-blue flowers. It’s not really a flower that appears in floral arrangements, but there are still loads of gifts to consider. Here are five suggestions for your petal-loving partner.
1. A morning glory plant
Morning glory thrives in pots and gardens in the UK, so a morning glory plant is ideal if your partner has an affinity for filling your garden with life and colour.
Charm bracelets are perfect because there’s almost an endless variety of charms you give on special occasions like this. That includes this morning glory dangle charm, which gives you a romantic and thoughtful way to mark your big day.
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September is a lovely month for a honeymoon. The summer crowds have dwindled, creating a more serene and intimate atmosphere for newlyweds. The weather is often pleasantly mild, making it perfect for exploring new places without the peak season hustle. Many destinations around the world offer a unique blend of relaxation, adventure, and romance during this time. If you’re planning a honeymoon in September, consider these enchanting destinations that promise a memorable and magical start to your journey together
Romance by the Aegean Sea: Santorini, Greece
Santorini is a postcard-perfect destination known for its stunning sunsets, white-washed buildings, and crystal-clear waters. September is ideal for visiting as the island is less crowded, and the weather is still warm. Spend your days exploring charming villages like Oia and Fira, enjoy delicious Greek cuisine, and take a sunset cruise around the caldera. The island’s breathtaking views and serene atmosphere make it a truly dreamy honeymoon destination.
Cultural Gem: Kyoto, Japan
Kyoto offers a mix of traditional Japanese culture and modern charm. September is a beautiful time to visit as the weather is mild, and the autumn leaves begin to change, creating a picturesque landscape. Visit historic temples like Kinkaku-ji (Golden Pavilion), stroll through the bamboo groves of Arashiyama, and enjoy a traditional tea ceremony. Kyoto’s tranquil gardens and rich history provide a peaceful and romantic setting for your honeymoon.
Coastal Charm and Luxury: Amalfi Coast, Italy
The Amalfi Coast is synonymous with romance, luxury, and breathtaking scenery. September is a wonderful time to visit as the weather is perfect for exploring the coastal towns without the peak summer crowds. Enjoy a leisurely drive along the coastal road, visit the charming town of Positano, and indulge in delicious Italian cuisine. A boat trip to the island of Capri is a must, where you can explore the Blue Grotto and soak up the sun on pristine beaches.
Beautiful Adventures: Queenstown, New Zealand
For couples who love both adventure and stunning landscapes, Queenstown is the place to be. Known as the adventure capital of New Zealand, Queenstown offers activities like bungee jumping, jet boating, and hiking. In September, you can still enjoy some winter sports as the ski season extends into what is their early spring. For a more relaxed experience, take a scenic cruise on Lake Wakatipu, explore the nearby wineries, or simply enjoy the breathtaking views from your luxury accommodation.
Tropical Paradise: Seychelles
If you’re dreaming of a tropical honeymoon, Seychelles is a perfect choice. With its pristine beaches, clear turquoise waters, and lush greenery, Seychelles offers a secluded and romantic getaway. September is an excellent time to visit as it’s the shoulder season, meaning fewer tourists and pleasant weather. Spend your days lounging on the beaches of Mahé, Praslin, and La Digue, snorkelling in the vibrant coral reefs, and enjoying private picnics on secluded islands.
European Charm, but in North America: Quebec City
Quebec City is a charming destination that offers a taste of Europe in North America. September brings cool, crisp air and the beginnings of vibrant autumn foliage, creating a beautiful backdrop for your honeymoon. Stroll through the cobblestone streets of Old Quebec, visit historic sites like the Château Frontenac, and enjoy gourmet dining at one of the city’s many fine restaurants. A visit to Montmorency Falls and a day trip to Île d’Orléans add to the romantic experience.
Tranquil Luxury: Bora Bora, French Polynesia
Bora Bora is the epitome of a luxurious honeymoon destination. Known for its stunning overwater bungalows, crystal-clear lagoon, and vibrant marine life, Bora Bora offers an unforgettable experience. September is a great time to visit as the weather is dry and sunny. Enjoy water activities like snorkelling, scuba diving, and paddleboarding, or simply relax on your private deck and soak up the breathtaking views. A sunset cruise and a romantic dinner on the beach add to the magical experience.
Unique Landscapes and Hot Air Balloons: Cappadocia, Turkey
Cappadocia is a destination like no other, known for its unique rock formations, cave dwellings, and hot air balloon rides. September offers pleasant weather, making it an ideal time to explore this fascinating region. Take a sunrise hot air balloon ride for a bird’s-eye view of the stunning landscape, explore the ancient cave churches in the Göreme Open-Air Museum, and stay in a luxury cave hotel for a unique and romantic experience.
Historical Charm: Edinburgh, Scotland
Edinburgh is a city full of history, culture, and charm. September is a lovely time to visit as the weather is mild, and the city is less crowded. Explore the historic Edinburgh Castle, stroll down the Royal Mile, and take a hike up Arthur’s Seat for panoramic views of the city. Enjoy a romantic dinner at one of the city’s fine dining restaurants, and don’t miss a visit to the picturesque Dean Village and the beautiful Royal Botanic Garden.
September is an exceptional month for a honeymoon, providing a range of destinations that cater to all interests. Whether you dream of basking in the sun on a pristine tropical beach or seeking thrilling adventures in majestic mountains you will find the perfect destination to start your new life together.
Plan Your Perfect Honeymoon
If you’re drawn to the charm and romance of historic and beautiful cities, this month is perfect for wandering through cobblestone streets, discovering hidden gems in museums and galleries, and savouring local delicacies in quaint cafés.
Begin your forever in one of these incredible locations. Whether you seek peace and quiet or excitement and adventure, September’s honeymoon destinations promise an unforgettable start to your married life.
August is an ideal month for a honeymoon – the sun is shining, the days are long, and many destinations are in their prime. Whether you’re dreaming of sandy beaches, an active city break, or tranquil countryside, there are countless places to make your romantic honeymoon getaway truly special.
Here’s our list of the best honeymoon destinations in August which promise to create once-in-a-lifetime memories.
Medieval Charm: Dubrovnik, Croatia
Dubrovnik, known as the “Pearl of the Adriatic,” is a stunning choice for a honeymoon. In August, this Croatian gem will give you warm weather, perfect for exploring this historic town and its beautiful coastline. Wander through the ancient city walls, explore the cobbled streets of the Old Town, and relax on the beaches of the nearby Elafiti Islands. A sunset kayak tour or a romantic dinner with a view of the Adriatic Sea will make your honeymoon truly special.
Tropical Paradise: Maui, Hawaii
Maui is a fantastic destination for couples looking for a tropical paradise. August is a great time to visit, with warm weather and calm waters. Relax on the beaches of Kaanapali and Wailea, snorkel with sea turtles at Molokini Crater, and drive along the scenic Road to Hana. Don’t miss a sunrise at Haleakalā National Park or a romantic luau under the stars. Maui’s natural beauty and laid-back vibe make it an ideal honeymoon destination.
History, Culture and Entertainment: Edinburgh, Scotland
Edinburgh in August is a city buzzing with life, thanks to the famous Edinburgh Fringe Festival. This historic city offers a perfect blend of history, culture, and entertainment. Explore the medieval streets of the Old Town, visit the majestic Edinburgh Castle, and take a stroll up Arthur’s Seat for panoramic views. Enjoy world-class performances during the festival and soak up the atmosphere in this incredible Scottish city.
Scenic Adventure: Queenstown, New Zealand
For couples seeking adventure and an out-of-the-ordinary honeymoon, Queenstown is an excellent choice. August is winter in New Zealand, offering opportunities for skiing, snowboarding, and other winter sports. Enjoy breathtaking views of the Southern Alps, take a scenic cruise on Lake Wakatipu, and explore its charming town. For a unique experience, try bungee jumping or a helicopter tour. Queenstown’s mix of adventure and natural beauty makes it a truly exciting honeymoon destination.
Countryside Charm: Provence, France
Provence is the epitome of romance, with its villages, vineyards, and fragrant lavender fields. August is the perfect time to visit, as the lavender is in full bloom, creating a stunning and striking purple landscape, perfect for those honeymoon snaps. Wander through the charming streets of Aix-en-Provence, sample local wines in the vineyards of Châteauneuf-du-Pape, and enjoy a leisurely picnic in a lavender field. Provence’s beauty and relaxed pace make it an ideal destination for a romantic honeymoon.
Coastal Beauty: Amalfi Coast, Italy
For couples looking to experience the best of Italy, the Amalfi Coast is a dream come true. This stunning coastal region is known for its dramatic cliffs, charming towns, and delicious cuisine. August is a wonderful time to visit, with warm temperatures and plenty of sunshine. Explore the colourful streets of Positano, take a boat trip to the island of Capri, and indulge in fresh seafood and local wine. The Amalfi Coast’s Italian charm makes it a perfect honeymoon spot for you and your beloved.
Majestic Mountains and Lakes: Banff, Canada
Banff in Alberta, Canada, is a perfect honeymoon destination for those looking to get back to nature. August offers warm weather and clear skies, ideal for exploring the majestic Rocky Mountains. Hike the scenic trails, paddle on the turquoise waters of Lake Louise, and relax in the soothing Banff Upper Hot Springs. The quaint town of Banff offers charming shops, cafés, and restaurants, making it a perfect mix of adventure and relaxation.
Tropical Paradise: Bali, Indonesia
Bali is a tropical paradise that offers something for every type of couple. August is a great time to visit, with warm weather and less rainfall. Relax on the beautiful beaches of Nusa Dua, explore the heart of Ubud, and enjoy a romantic dinner on the beach in Seminyak. Bali’s combination of natural beauty, culture, and luxurious resorts makes it a perfect honeymoon destination in August.
Serene Retreat: Lake Bled, Slovenia
For a fairytale-like honeymoon, Lake Bled in Slovenia is hard to beat. This picturesque lake, with its emerald-green waters and charming island church, is incredibly romantic. August’s pleasant weather is ideal for rowing across the lake, hiking up to Bled Castle, or simply enjoying a summertime bike ride around the lake’s perimeter. Don’t miss tasting the famous Bled cream cake while soaking up the stunning views and making the most of this peaceful honeymoon retreat.
Plan Your Perfect Honeymoon
Whether you’re seeking adventure, relaxation, culture, or natural beauty, there’s sure to be a destination on this list that will make your honeymoon in August truly special. And remember, the most important part of any honeymoon is the time spent together, creating memories that will last a lifetime.
June. The month where the summer sun truly starts to shine and love is in the air. If you’re tying the knot and looking to jet off on a honeymoon in June, you’re in for a treat. With so many fantastic destinations to choose from, it can be a bit overwhelming to pick the perfect spot. We’ve done the legwork for you and compiled a list of the best honeymoon destinations in June that will make your romantic getaway truly unforgettable. So, crab a cuppa, sit back, and let’s dive in.
The Land of Fire and Ice: Iceland
For couples who crave adventure and a touch of the extraordinary, Iceland is a top pick. June is a fantastic time to visit as the days are long, giving you ample time to explore the stunning landscapes. You can relax in the soothing waters of the Blue Lagoon or take a romantic stroll along the black sand beaches. Don’t miss the chance to drive the Golden Circle or take a dip in a secluded hot spring. Iceland is a place where nature’s raw beauty takes centre stage, making it an unforgettable honeymoon destination.
Fairytale Adventure: Edinburgh, Scotland
June is an ideal time to explore the historic and rich city of Edinburgh. The weather is mild, the days are long, and the city is alive with festivals and events. Wander through the medieval streets of the Old Town, hike up Arthur’s Seat for panoramic views, and explore the magnificent Edinburgh Castle. For a touch of romance, take a stroll through the Royal Botanic Garden or enjoy a cosy evening in one of the city’s many traditional pubs. Edinburgh’s charm and history make it a captivating choice for a summer honeymoon.
Old-world Charm: Quebec City, Canada
This charming city oozes old-world charm with its cobblestone streets, quaint cafés, and historic architecture. June is a delightful time to visit, with pleasant weather perfect for wandering hand in hand. Explore the picturesque Old Town, take a leisurely cruise along the St. Lawrence River, and indulge in some delectable French cuisine. The romance of Quebec City is sure to sweep you off your feet.
Tropical Paradise: Bora Bora, French Polynesia
For those who envision their honeymoon as a tropical paradise, Bora Bora is a dream come true. This island in French Polynesia is the epitome of luxury and relaxation. Imagine overwater bungalows, crystal-clear turquoise waters, and coral reefs teeming with marine life. June offers idyllic weather, making it perfect for snorkelling and diving. A sunset cruise around the island or a private dinner on the beach will add a touch of magic to your romantic escape.
Island Escape: The Azores, Portugal
The Azores, a group of nine volcanic islands in the Atlantic Ocean, offer a unique and lesser-known honeymoon destination. June is a fantastic time to visit, with pleasant temperatures and blooming hydrangeas adding bursts of colour to the landscape. The Azores are perfect for couples who love nature and adventure. You can go whale watching, hike through forests, or relax in natural hot springs. The islands also boast crater lakes and wild coastlines, providing plenty of opportunities for romantic moments.
Pearl of the Adriatic: Dubrovnik, Croatia
Dubrovnik is a gem waiting to be discovered. June offers warm weather without the peak season crowds, making it an ideal time to visit. Walk along the ancient city walls, explore the historic Old Town, and take a cable car ride for breathtaking views of the Adriatic Sea. For a touch of luxury, consider a private boat tour around the nearby Elafiti Islands. Dubrovnik’s natural beauty makes it a perfect honeymoon destination, not to mention the best place to ‘geek out’ if you happen to be a Game of Thrones fan!
Serene Retreat: Lake Bled, Slovenia
For a fairytale-like honeymoon, Lake Bled in Slovenia is hard to beat. This picturesque lake, with its emerald-green waters and charming island church, is incredibly romantic, especially in the summer months. June’s pleasant weather is ideal for rowing across the lake, hiking up to Bled Castle, or simply enjoying a leisurely bike ride around the lake’s perimeter. Don’t miss tasting the famous Bled cream cake while soaking up the stunning views.
A Wine Lover’s Paradise: Napa Valley, USA
If you and your partner are wine enthusiasts, Napa Valley in California is the place to be. June is a beautiful time to visit, with vineyards in full bloom and plenty of sunshine. Spend your days touring world-class wineries, indulging in gourmet meals, and relaxing in luxurious spa resorts. A hot air balloon ride over the valley offers a unique perspective and a touch of adventure. Napa Valley’s blend of relaxation and indulgence makes it an ideal honeymoon destination.
Where Nature Meets Culture: Reykjavik, Iceland
While we’ve already mentioned Iceland, Reykjavik deserves a special mention for those who want a mix of urban and natural experiences. The capital city offers a vibrant arts scene, charming little cafés, and lively nightlife. From Reykjavik, you can easily access some of Iceland’s most stunning natural attractions, such as the Golden Circle, the Blue Lagoon, and the South Coast waterfalls. A honeymoon in Reykjavik allows you to experience the best of both worlds – the charm of a small city and the awe-inspiring beauty of Iceland’s wilderness.
Romantic Escape into Nature: The Scottish Highlands
For a honeymoon that combines storybook landscapes with cosy retreats, the Scottish Highlands are a fantastic choice. June’s mild weather makes it perfect for exploring the dramatic scenery, from towering mountains to serene lochs. Stay in a quaint bed and breakfast or a luxurious castle hotel, and enjoy activities such as hiking, whisky tasting, and boat trips on Loch Ness. The Highlands’ stunning natural beauty and rich history provide a perfect backdrop for a romantic getaway.
Plan Your Perfect Honeymoon
Choosing the perfect honeymoon destination is all about finding a place that resonates with you as a couple. Whether you’re seeking adventure, relaxation, culture, or natural beauty, there’s a destination on this list that will make your honeymoon in June extra special. Remember, the best part of any honeymoon is the time spent together and creating memories that will last a lifetime. So, pack your bags, embrace the adventure, and get ready for the trip of a lifetime.
Planning a honeymoon can be one of the most exciting parts of getting married. After all the wedding festivities, it’s time to relax, unwind, and celebrate your love in a beautiful location. If you’re tying the knot in spring and looking for the best honeymoon destinations in May, you’re in luck. This time of year offers fantastic weather in many parts of the world, making it ideal for a romantic getaway. Here are some of our top picks to consider for your honeymoon in May.
Romantic Haven: Santorini, Greece
Santorini is often at the top of the list for honeymooners, and for good reason. With its stunning sunsets, white-washed buildings, and crystal-clear waters, it’s a picture-perfect destination. In May, the island is warm but not overly hot, and it’s less crowded than during the peak summer months.
Spend your days exploring the traditional villages of Oia and Fira, lounging on the unique black sand beaches, or sailing around the caldera. Don’t forget to enjoy a romantic dinner at one of the many cliffside restaurants, where you can watch the sun set over the Aegean Sea.
Cultural Escape: Kyoto, Japan
For couples who appreciate culture and history combined, Kyoto is the perfect destination. May is a wonderful time to visit as the weather is pleasant and the city is in full bloom. You’ll find beautiful gardens, ancient temples, and traditional tea houses.
Take a leisurely stroll through the Arashiyama Bamboo Grove, visit the stunning Kinkaku-ji (Golden Pavilion), and experience a traditional tea ceremony. Kyoto’s gentle atmosphere provides a perfect backdrop for newlyweds looking to relax and enjoy each other’s company.
Coastal Getaway: Amalfi Coast, Italy
The Amalfi Coast is synonymous with romance. With its dramatic cliffs, colourful villages, and delicious Italian cuisine, it’s no wonder couples flock here for their honeymoon. In May, the weather is warm and sunny, making it perfect for exploring the coast by car or boat.
Visit the charming towns of Positano and Ravello, indulge in fresh seafood, and take a boat trip to the island of Capri. Whether you’re lounging on the beach or sipping limoncello at a seaside café, the Amalfi Coast offers a dreamy setting for your honeymoon.
Tropical Paradise: Bali, Indonesia
If you’re looking for a tropical paradise, Bali is an excellent choice. In May, the island enjoys its dry season, with plenty of sunshine and warm temperatures. Bali offers a mix of beautiful beaches and a respectful culture, making it ideal for a diverse honeymoon experience.
Stay in a luxurious villa with a private pool, explore the rice terraces in Ubud, and visit the iconic temples like Tanah Lot and Uluwatu. Don’t miss out on a traditional Balinese massage to truly unwind and relax.
Island Retreat: Seychelles
For those dreaming of a secluded island getaway, Seychelles is hard to beat. This archipelago in the Indian Ocean boasts pristine beaches, crystal-clear waters, and luxurious resorts. May is a great time to visit as the weather is warm and the islands are less crowded.
Enjoy snorkelling and diving in the vibrant coral reefs, take a boat trip to the uninhabited islands, and simply relax on the soft, white sand beaches. The natural beauty of Seychelles provides a perfect backdrop for romance and relaxation.
Scenic Adventure: New Zealand
For adventure-loving couples, New Zealand offers an amazing honeymoon destination. In May, the country is heading into autumn, providing mild weather and stunning scenery. The diverse landscapes, from fjords to mountains, make for an unforgettable trip.
Explore the picturesque South Island, take a cruise through Milford Sound, and visit the charming town of Queenstown. Whether you’re hiking, bungee jumping, or simply soaking in the hot springs, New Zealand offers endless opportunities for adventure and romance.
Countryside Charm: Provence, France
If you’re looking for a romantic escape filled with charm and tranquillity, Provence is a fantastic choice. In May, the region is in full bloom, with fields of lavender and sunflowers creating a picturesque landscape.
Explore the tiny villages, visit local markets, and enjoy delicious Provençal food. Take a leisurely bike ride through the countryside or relax with a glass of rosé at a vineyard. Provence’s laid-back vibe makes it an ideal honeymoon destination.
Beach Luxury: The Maldives
The Maldives is synonymous with luxury, romance… and honeymoons. With its overwater bungalows, crystal-clear lagoons, and stunning sunsets, it’s a dream destination for many couples. May is a great time to visit as it’s the beginning of the dry season, offering warm weather and calm seas.
Spend your days snorkelling, diving, or simply lounging by the water. Enjoy a private dinner on the beach, indulge in spa treatments, and take a sunset cruise. The Maldives is the perfect setting for a romantic and relaxing honeymoon.
Mediterranean Vistas: Cinque Terre, Italy
Cinque Terre, a string of five villages along the Italian Riviera, is the most charming and colourful destination for a honeymoon. In May, the weather is pleasant, and the crowds are smaller, allowing you to explore at your own pace.
Hike the scenic trails that connect the villages, enjoy fresh seafood at a local trattoria, and take in the breathtaking views of the Mediterranean Sea. Cinque Terre’s unique beauty makes it a wonderful place to celebrate your love.
Magical Memories: Cape Town, South Africa
For a honeymoon that combines city excitement with natural wonder, Cape Town is a fantastic choice. May marks the beginning of autumn, offering mild weather and fewer tourists. The city boasts stunning beaches, a great party scene, and the iconic Table Mountain.
Explore the V&A Waterfront, take a cable car up Table Mountain, and visit the beautiful Kirstenbosch Botanical Gardens. Don’t miss a trip to the nearby Cape Winelands for wine tasting and gourmet dining. Cape Town’s diverse attractions provide a perfect mix of adventure and relaxation.
Plan Your Perfect Honeymoon
Choosing the right honeymoon destination in May can set the tone for the start to your married life. Whether you’re looking for adventure, relaxation, culture, or luxury, these honeymoon destinations offer something special for every couple. So, pack your bags, grab your passport, and get ready to create beautiful memories with your loved one in one of these fantastic honeymoon spots.
So, you’ve decided you want a rustic themed wedding. What a beautiful choice! Rustic weddings are unique, elegant, and super relaxed. They lean heavily into the outdoorsy, DIY, perfectly undone style of the countryside, making them great for couples who love nature, cherish simplicity, and want a laid-back atmosphere.
From the moment you start planning, you’ll find that rustic weddings are all about embracing natural beauty, adding heartfelt touches, and doing all the things that feel uniquely you. Read on to learn how to plan your very own rustic wedding, including how to budget, how to gather inspo, and how to nail your planning.
A rustic themed wedding is a wedding that embraces the natural charm of the countryside. It’s all about creating a warm, welcoming atmosphere with elements that feel organic and effortlessly elegant. Think burlap fabric, barrels for tables, a sage green colour scheme, and lots of flowers.
Rustic weddings are perfect for anyone looking for a whimsical, low-key, and authentic wedding ceremony. Plus, from the decor to the cake to the wedding invites, almost every aspect of a rustic wedding is easy to DIY (so long as you have the skills!).
Rustic themed weddings are the most popular wedding theme of all! According to our 2024 UK Engagement Report, based on feedback from over 3,500 engaged couples, rustic vibes are the most popular wedding theme of 2024, with trending natural greens and burnt orange leading the way for wedding decor colours. Specifically, 38% of Millennials and 40% of Gen Z are currently planning a rustic style wedding. Couples are clearly being drawn to the authenticity and intimacy that rustic aesthetics provide, and want to create a wedding atmosphere that feels both timeless and personally meaningful.
First things first — start your planning journey with Bridebook.
Bridebook is your free, all-in-one wedding planning tool that you can access from a smartphone or laptop. Bridebook has everything you need to plan the wedding of your dreams, including a budget tracker, a guest list planner, a scrapbook for collating fun inspo pics or vendors’ names, plus lists of all your favourite venues, vendors and wedding services. With Bridebook, you can stay organised and stress-free throughout your entire planning journey.
Step 2: Set your budget
Alright, let’s get the not-so-fun stuff out of the way first: the budget.
Your wedding budget touches every part of your big day, so you need to know what you’re working with. Sit down with your partner, your parents, and anyone else who’s making a significant financial contribution to your wedding. Decide what you believe a reasonable budget to be, and then add a slight buffer to account for any extra spending. We suggest a buffer of 10% to ensure you can have the day of your dreams. So, say your budget is £20,000, consider putting an extra £2,000 aside just in case.
We recommend setting your budget before you start planning your big day. This way, you won’t fall in love with a concept, venue, or dress before knowing its price point and accidentally break your heart. Trust us — set the budget first.
Step 3: Set a date
The next step is to set a date. Setting a date for your wedding gives you something to work towards and makes the whole process feel real. It can also help you when planning the finances as venues, caterers, entertainment and other suppliers are all typically more expensive on weekends or in ‘high season’ (May through to October). You can save a few pennies by getting married in the shoulder seasons (such as January, February, March and November) or on weekdays. Bear this in mind when planning your dates.
Step 4: Start gathering inspo
Once the admin is out of the way you can start the fun stuff — the planning!
Before you start booking anything or start viewing venues, we recommend that you start a wedding Pinterest board or use the ‘scrapbook’ section of the Bridebook app to keep track of any inspirational photos, colour schemes, or vendors you like the look of.
Saving all your inspiration pictures in one place will help you get a feel for your rustic wedding theme. Are you going for more of a whimsical rustic feel, an elegant marquee wedding, or a proper countryside knees up? Whatever you choose, having a clear vision will guide your decisions throughout the planning process.
Step 5: Start the planning
There’s lots to consider when it comes to planning your rustic wedding. We recommend starting with the ‘big ticket’ items and moving on to the smaller items as you work through the planning process. Your big ticket items include the venue, the catering, and the entertainment. These three aspects will set the tone for your entire wedding and will likely take up a significant portion of your budget.
It’s important to start with the venue first, as this will be the backdrop to your big day. There are four main options when it comes to rustic wedding venues. Think barn or farmhouse, a beautiful vineyard for an elegant destination wedding, or a marquee in an outdoor setting for a more relaxed vibe.
Rustic wedding venues weren’t traditionally designed to be wedding venues. That means they may be lacking in facilities and amenities. Be sure to check with your venue what amenities they offer before booking. No questions are silly questions! Imagine assuming a rustic barn has toilet facilities and then on their big day they’re nowhere to be found! Check everything, and ensure that the extra cost of hiring necessary facilities fits your vision and budget.
Visit a few venues and picture your big day there. Trust your gut and choose the one that feels just right. If you need a helping hand in your search, check out the top rustic wedding venues in your area here on Bridebook. These venues all specialise in weddings, and make for the perfect rustic wedding setting.
The beauty of a rustic wedding is its versatility. You can make the most simple themes and decor look beautiful in a rustic setting, and it allows you to infuse your personal style and creativity into every detail.
Here are a few ideas to get you started. There are plenty to choose from:
Whimsical rustic. Think fairy lights, gypsophila (aka baby’s breath), soft pastel colours, and vintage touches. This theme is dreamy and romantic, perfect for creating a magical atmosphere.
Western chic. Embrace your inner cowgirl with hay bales, cowboy boots, and wildflowers. This theme is perfect for a laid-back, fun celebration.
British countryside. Welcome to the rolling hills of the Great British countryside. Think wellies, afternoon tea, scrumpy cider, classic Land Rovers, Union Jacks, and lots of hunter green everywhere.
Boho vibe. Go for a bohemian vibe with macramé, earthy tones, and lots of greenery. This theme is relaxed and natural, ideal for free-spirited couples.
Vintage charm. Incorporate antique decor, lace, old clocks, and old-fashioned charm. This theme adds a touch of nostalgia and elegance to your big day.
When it comes to rustic themed wedding catering, the focus should be on comfort, warmth, and an inviting sense of community. Rustic weddings often celebrate farm-to-table freshness, hearty meals, and a communal dining experience that brings everyone together. Here are some super cute rustic catering ideas to make your wedding feast extra special:
Family-style dining. Family-style dining is a perfect fit for a rustic wedding. Large platters of delicious, home-cooked food are placed on each table, encouraging guests to serve themselves and each other. Think of options like roasted meats, seasonal vegetables, and fresh, crusty bread.
Farm-to-table freshness. A key element of rustic catering is using fresh, locally-sourced ingredients. Work with your caterer to create a menu that showcases the best of what’s in season. This could include a vibrant salad with garden-fresh greens, a selection of cheeses from a nearby dairy, or ripe, local fruits.
Comforting classics. Rustic weddings often embrace a sense of nostalgia, and what better way to evoke that than with comfort food? Think of dishes that warm the heart and soul: creamy mashed potatoes, succulent pot roast, or a hearty stew. These dishes can be elevated with gourmet twists or kept simple and traditional, depending on your personal taste.
Appetisers and grazing stations. Lead with a selection of rustic appetisers or a beautifully curated grazing station. Wooden boards laden with artisanal cheeses, cured meats, rustic bread, olives, and fruits make for an inviting and visually appealing spread. You could also offer mini versions of rustic favourites like bite-sized meat pies, bruschetta with fresh tomato and basil, or savory tarts.
Outdoor BBQs and roasts. For a more casual and interactive dining experience, consider hosting an outdoor barbecue or roast. You could opt for a whole hog roast, grilled vegetables, or even a DIY burger bar with all the fixings. This style of catering adds an element of fun and engagement to your reception.
Sweet endings. Consider a dessert table featuring a variety of treats such as homemade pies, tarts, and cakes. Seasonal fruit crisps and cobblers can also make a yummy addition. For something unique, set up a s’mores station where guests can roast marshmallows and assemble their own gooey treats.
Complement your rustic menu with beverage choices that reflect the theme. Offer a selection of locally brewed beers, artisanal ciders, or a signature cocktail inspired by seasonal ingredients. Mason jars filled with lemonade or a rustic punch can add to the charm. For wine lovers, feature a variety of wines from local vineyards. Providing a range of drink options ensures that there’s something to satisfy every guest’s palate.
The way your food is presented and served can greatly enhance the rustic atmosphere. Consider using wooden platters, vintage crockery, or enamelware to serve your dishes. Simple yet elegant table settings with burlap runners and wildflower centrepieces can further enhance the rustic feel. Encourage your caterer to incorporate these elements into their service style to create a cohesive and charming dining experience.
Wedding entertainment is usually provided in the early afternoon or during cocktail hour. It keeps conversation flowing and helps guests get through that interim period without becoming too bored!
For a rustic wedding, consider charming activities that fit the relaxed, natural vibe. Here are just a handful of cute rustic themed ideas:
Lawn games (for example, egg and spoon races)
Hayride or wagon ride
A live folk band/ceilidh band
Outdoor cinema/movie screening
Themed photobooth
Farm animals/petting zoo
Bonfire with s’mores station
A DIY craft station herb/flower crown making)
Once you’ve ticked these big ticket items off your list, you can start pulling together everything else. This includes the cake, wedding invitations, the decor, and, of course, what you’re going to wear!
The type of wedding cake you choose will depend on your tastes and budget. The beauty of a rustic wedding is that lots of different styles can fit the theme of this wedding, so you’re free to choose whatever cake you and your partner like best.
You could consider:
Naked cakes. These are very fashionable at the moment and are great for those who don’t like anything too sweet. Naked cakes are cakes with minimal icing that let the sandwich layers peek through. They can be decorated with fresh fruits, flowers, or greenery for a charming, rustic look.
Buttercream icing. Smooth or textured buttercream icing can be adorned with fresh flowers, berries, or even herbs to complement your theme. Perfect for anyone with a sweet tooth or for couples going for a more classic look.
Cupcakes or muffins. If you prefer the look and style of cupcakes or muffins, you can have a range of little cakes displayed on cake stands. This not only looks adorable but also allows for a variety of flavours to please all your guests. Plus, it’s easy for guests to grab and enjoy.
Your favourite food. Not a fan of cakes? No problem! Consider having a cheese stand, a tower of doughnuts, or even a pork pie stand if that tickles your fancy! This is your big day, which means you can have whatever you want in place of a traditional wedding cake, if you want to!
Rustic wedding themed invites are the first impression guests will have of your big day, so it’s important you set the scene right from the beginning. Your wedding invitations should reflect your chosen colour scheme, include all the key information about your big day, and a hint at the rustic charm that awaits.
You can either make your wedding invitations yourself or have an expert stationer craft them for you. Either way, you’ll need to have an idea of the kind of style you’d like. You could use any combination of the following elements to create a beautiful, rustic themed wedding invitation.
Floral or botanical designs. Incorporate delicate floral designs or botanical prints that reflect your rustic theme. Think wildflowers, greenery, or even watercolour illustrations to add a touch of whimsy.
Vintage wood and lace. A classic combination. A wooden background design with a lace overlay can create a beautiful, vintage-inspired invite.
Eco-friendly/recycled. Consider using recycled or seed paper for your invitations. Seed paper can be planted by your guests to grow wildflowers, making it a lovely and eco-friendly keepsake.
Handwritten calligraphy. Handwritten or calligraphy-style fonts add a personal and elegant touch to your invitations. You can even add a personal note or message for that extra special touch.
Rustic elements. Incorporate a medley of charming rustic elements such as burlap, twine, or even small wooden charms to embellish your invites. These little details can tie your whole theme together.
The beauty of a rustic wedding is that just about anything can become rustic wedding decor. Whether you love a mason jar, can’t get enough burlap, or love the look of hay bale sofas, you can have it all with a rustic wedding reception.
Here are just a few ideas to help get you started:
Mason or jam jars. Use them as vases, candle holders, or even drinking glasses. Decorate them with lace, burlap, or twine for an added rustic touch.
Wooden elements. Try using barrels, wooden crates, wooden discs, and signs to add warmth and a country feel. You can use wooden barrels as tables, a cake stand, or standing bars, while wooden discs act as great table number markers.
Burlap and lace features. The decor opportunities are endless with these two popular materials. You can use them as anything from table runners to chair sashes to bouquet wraps, or however else you see fit.
Hay bales. Use hay bales as seating for an outdoor ceremony or reception, or for a marquee. Push them together to create sofas and tables, then cover them with cosy blankets or quilts for comfort.
Fairy lights. Create a magical atmosphere with twinkling fairy lights draped around your venue. They add a touch of romance and enchantment to any rustic setting, especially once the sun starts to go down.
Wildflowers. Use wildflowers in your bouquets, centrepieces, and decor to add a natural, effortless beauty to your wedding. Who doesn’t love a good foxglove?
Rustic wedding dresses are usually lacy, floaty, and effortlessly elegant. Don’t shy away from ivory or even slightly pinker tones for a beautiful and ethereal look. Picture yourself in a gown that moves gracefully with the breeze, speckled with delicate lace or perhaps even some whimsical floral embroidery.
For attire other than wedding dresses, think about relaxed, yet stylish attire. In particular, tweed suits, suspenders, or vests paired with a crisp white shirt can create a charming and cohesive look. Warm earthy tones such as brown, green, orange or navy can complement the rustic theme perfectly.
Looking for an extra something special? Sew a small, meaningful patch inside your dress or suit jacket. This could be a piece of fabric from a loved one’s clothing, a tiny embroidered message, or a little blue bow. It’s sweet, sentimental, and can make your wedding attire even more special.
Step 6: Capture the moments
Once you’ve considered the major and minor elements of your big day, be sure to book your photographer, videographer, and any content creators you’d like to capture your special moments as soon as you can. The type of photography and videography you choose can make a significant impact on how you and your guests remember your wedding. But, the type you choose will depend largely on the type of vibe you’re trying to create, as well as your overall budget.
If you want a classic and professional look, a photographer is the obvious choice. If you want to re-live every moment, opt for a videographer in addition. If you want something low-key and relaxed, a content creator who captures snaps and videos for your social media could be the choice for you.
If you’re on the hunt for wedding photographers and videographers, be sure to check out their profiles here on Bridebook, which provide a high-quality, accessible, and up-to-date showcase of their work. You can filter by any style that fits your vision, from modern and natural to artistic and alternative.
When exploring options, look for styles that resonate with you and match your wedding theme. Here are some tips to help you make the right choice:
Research and review. Check out their portfolios and read reviews from other couples. This will give you a sense of their style and reliability.
Meet and greet. Arrange a meeting or video call to discuss your vision and see if you connect with them. A good rapport with your photographer or videographer is crucial, to make sure you’re totally comfortable on the day.
Share your vision. Be clear about what moments and details you want to be captured. Whether it’s the emotional first look, the exchange of vows, or candid shots of guests enjoying themselves, make sure they understand your priorities.
Get a mix. If your budget allows, consider hiring both a photographer and a videographer. They can capture different aspects of your day, giving you a comprehensive collection of memories.
Discuss available packages. Most professionals offer packages that include engagement shoots, wedding albums, and highlight reels. Consider all the options and choose what works best for you and your budget.
Step 7: Sit back and relax
Once this final box is ticked, it’s time to sit back and relax. Revel in this interim period, knowing the happiest day of your life is just a stone’s throw away. Take some time to enjoy being engaged, maybe plan a few date nights, and keep reminding yourselves why you’re doing this in the first place.
The bottom line on planning a rustic wedding
Rustic weddings are a beautiful, low-key way to celebrate your love. They offer a charming blend of natural beauty, personal touches, and a relaxed atmosphere that makes everyone feel at home. They’re beautifully customisable, easy to DIY, and are perfect for couples who want to reflect their love of the countryside.
So, set your budget, gather your inspo pictures, and start your planning. Oh, and don’t forget to sign up to Bridebook — it really is a lifesaver!
