The 155 Best Songs to Walk Down the Aisle To

There are loads of songs that play throughout your wedding day, from the tunes that welcome your guests before the ceremony to the absolute bangers that play throughout the night at your reception. Music helps set the scene, builds romance and excitement, and complements what is already an absolutely beautiful day.

When you think of wedding music, one of the first songs you might think of is the one you walk down the aisle to. And for good reason. It’s the song playing when the two of you meet eyes from each end of the aisle as your guests watch on. It’s a song you’ll both remember forever and will always hold a special place in your hearts.

Needless to say, it’s a pretty big decision. There are so many wonderful pieces of music out there, that you might not know where to start. Or, you might not have a clue about the sort of songs you can walk down the aisle to at all.

So, we’ve created this list of the best songs to accompany you down the aisle to help you make this crucial decision. We’ve included everything from the classics through to alternative contemporary hits, so you can walk down the aisle to a song that perfectly fits with you and your theme for the big day.

Why is choosing a wedding aisle song important?

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The song you walk down the aisle to is so much more than just background music. It sets the scene for one of the biggest moments of your life and helps establish the tone for the entire day. It’s usually one of the standout moments of any wedding, so you’re probably incredibly keen to make the right decision about which song you should have during your big moment.

In all honesty, there’s no right song to walk down the aisle to – only the song that’s right for you. But, what that means can vary from couple to couple. To help narrow it down for you, think about the following points and see how certain songs might fit into that.

  • How does the song reflect your love story? It might be the lyrics, the notes, the tune or something else.
  • How does the song fit with the tone of the ceremony? You might be going for traditional, joyful, religious, or have a specific theme.
  • Does the song have a strong emotional connection? Many songs you walk down the aisle to are about love, but it doesn’t necessarily need to be about love for it to work.
  • Does rhe song reflect your personality? Choosing a song is a great opportunity to have it express who you are.

How long should a wedding aisle song be?

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The length of the song you walk down the aisle to doesn’t need to be too long, but the minimum length will depend on the size of your venue.

Most songs are around three to four minutes long, which is usually long enough. But, if you have a large wedding and therefore a large venue, think about how long this walk might take and if your chosen song will be long enough.

You may also choose to have a separate song playing for the bridal party. If not, this time should also be considered when making your choice.

If you’re keen to use a shorter song, there’s no harm in making edits to make sure it’s more than long enough. Or, if there’s a particular section of a song you like, you could edit it down so your favourite part definitely features.

Can you walk down the aisle to a song with lyrics?

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Yes, it’s becoming more common for couples to choose a song with lyrics. So, if this is something you’d like to do, then you should definitely go for it! Traditionally, instrumental songs are used, but songs with lyrics can have a fantastic emotional connection and can ensure a memorable impact.

If you are going with a song with lyrics, make sure you fully understand the message behind them before making your choice. You ideally want something with a romantic or positive meaning, which reflects the joy of your big moment. For that reasons, you might not want to pick something that has a darker meaning or has swearing or something controversial in there. You want the focus of the moment to be on you, not on the music per se, after all!

Should you have live or prerecorded music to walk down the aisle to?

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Both live and prerecorded music can contribute to a beautiful and memorable wedding ceremony. There are advantages to both, of course.

Advantages of live music to walk down the aisle to:

  • Unique and memorable
  • Creates an intimate and personal atmosphere
  • Authentic and beautiful 
  • Flexible and adaptable

Advantages of pre-recorded music to walk down the aisle to:

  • Consistent and reliable
  • A wide variety of songs of any style and genre
  • Affordable
  • Less setup and coordination

Whichever you choose, it’s important to remember that there isn’t a right or wrong decision. It totally depends on your preferences, the venue and your budget, and which is most in keeping with your vision for the day.

155 best songs you can walk down the aisle to

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Are you keen to start hunting for the perfect song to walk down the aisle to at your wedding? Here are 155 of the best songs to choose from across several different genres, which should give you a great place to start.

Classical favourites

  1. Bridal Chorus (“Here Comes the Bride”) – Richard Wagner
  2. Canon in D – Johann Pachelbel
  3. Jesu, Joy of Man’s Desiring – Johann Sebastian Bach
  4. Meditation from Thaïs – Jules Massenet
  5. Water Music Suite: Air – George Frideric Handel
  6. Trumpet Voluntary – Jeremiah Clarke
  7. Air on the G String – Johann Sebastian Bach
  8. Largo (from Xerxes) – George Frideric Handel
  9. Rondeau – Jean-Joseph Mouret
  10. Spring (from The Four Seasons) – Antonio Vivaldi
  11. Wedding March – Felix Mendelssohn
  12. Clair de Lune – Claude Debussy
  13. Minuet in G Major – Johann Sebastian Bach
  14. Ave Maria – Franz Schubert
  15. Salut d’Amour – Edward Elgar
  16. The Swan – Camille Saint-Saëns
  17. Liebestraum No. 3 – Franz Liszt
  18. Nocturne in E-flat Major, Op. 9 No. 2 – Frédéric Chopin
  19. Panis Angelicus – César Franck
  20. Adagio in G Minor – Tomaso Albinoni
  21. Ode to Joy – Ludwig van Beethoven
  22. Prelude (from Cello Suite No. 1) – Johann Sebastian Bach
  23. Flower Duet – Léo Delibes
  24. Pavane – Gabriel Fauré
  25. Gymnopédie No. 1 – Erik Satie
  26. Traumerei – Robert Schumann
  27. Waltz of the Flowers – Pyotr Ilyich Tchaikovsky
  28. Dance of the Sugar Plum Fairy – Pyotr Ilyich Tchaikovsky
  29. Fantaisie-Impromptu – Frédéric Chopin
  30. Sheep May Safely Graze – Johann Sebastian Bach
  31. Lakmé: El Dúo de la Flor – Mado Robin
  32. Prelude in C Major – Johann Sebastian Bach
  33. Rhapsody on a Theme of Paganini – Sergei Rachmaninoff
  34. Boléro – Maurice Ravel
  35. Valse Sentimentale – Pyotr Ilyich Tchaikovsky

Modern classics and film scores

  1. The Ludlows – James Horner (Legends of the Fall)
  2. Across the Stars – John Williams (Star Wars)
  3. My Heart Will Go On (Instrumental) – James Horner (Titanic)
  4. Married Life – Michael Giacchino (Up)
  5. Glasgow Love Theme – Craig Armstrong (Love Actually)
  6. Love Theme from Romeo and Juliet – Nino Rota
  7. Pride and Prejudice Theme – Dario Marianelli
  8. Somewhere in Time – John Barry
  9. Theme from The Notebook – Aaron Zigman
  10. When You Wish Upon a Star – Cliff Edwards (Disney’s Pinocchio)

Religious songs

  1. Amazing Grace – Traditional
  2. Be Thou My Vision – Traditional
  3. How Great Thou Art – Carl Boberg
  4. Abide With Me – William Henry Monk
  5. In Christ Alone – Keith Getty & Stuart Townend
  6. The Lord Is My Shepherd – Traditional
  7. Great Is Thy Faithfulness – Thomas Chisholm
  8. Ave Verum Corpus – Wolfgang Amadeus Mozart
  9. On Eagle’s Wings – Michael Joncas
  10. Hallelujah Chorus – George Frideric Handel

Cultural songs

  1. Greensleeves – Traditional English
  2. Scarborough Fair – Traditional English
  3. Danny Boy – Traditional Irish
  4. Highland Cathedral – Traditional Scottish
  5. Hava Nagila – Traditional Jewish
  6. Shenandoah – Traditional American
  7. Erev Shel Shoshanim – Traditional Hebrew
  8. Arirang – Traditional Korean
  9. Kalinka – Traditional Russian
  10. Wedding Tarantella – Traditional Italian

Romantic songs with lyrics

  1. ‘A Thousand Years’ – Christina Perri

Key lyrics: ‘I have died every day waiting for you / Darling, don’t be afraid, I have loved you for a thousand years.’

  1. ‘At Last’ – Etta James

Key lyrics: ‘At last, my love has come along / My lonely days are over, and life is like a song.’

  1. ‘Make You Feel My Love’ – Adele

Key lyrics: ‘I could hold you for a million years / To make you feel my love.’

  1. ‘Unchained Melody’ – The Righteous Brothers

Key lyrics: ‘Oh, my love, my darling / I’ve hungered for your touch a long, lonely time.’

  1. ‘Perfect’ – Ed Sheeran

‘I found a love, to carry more than just my secrets / To carry love, to carry children of our own.’

  1. ‘Your Song’ – Elton John

Key lyrics: ‘I hope you don’t mind that I put down in words / How wonderful life is while you’re in the world.’

  1. ‘Can’t Help Falling in Love’ – Elvis Presley

Key lyrics: ‘Take my hand, take my whole life too / For I can’t help falling in love with you.’

  1. ‘I Choose You’ – Sara Bareilles

Key lyrics: ‘Tell the world that we finally got it all right / I choose you.’

  1. ‘Thinking Out Loud’ – Ed Sheeran

Key lyrics: ‘Take me into your loving arms / Kiss me under the light of a thousand stars.’

  1. ‘You Are the Reason’ – Calum Scott ft. Leona Lewis

Key lyrics: ‘I’d climb every mountain / And swim every ocean / Just to be with you.’

  1. ‘All of Me’ – John Legend

Key lyrics: ‘All of me loves all of you / Love your curves and all your edges, all your perfect imperfections.’

  1. ‘Marry Me’ – Train

Key lyrics: ‘Forever can never be long enough for me / To feel like I’ve had long enough with you.’

  1. ‘Everything’ – Michael Bublé

Key lyrics: ‘And in this crazy life, and through these crazy times / It’s you, it’s you, you make me sing.’

  1. ‘Speechless’ – Dan + Shay

Key lyrics: ‘You already know that you’re my weakness / After all this time, I’m just as nervous.’

  1. ‘Say You Won’t Let Go’ – James Arthur

Key lyrics: ‘I’m gonna love you ’til my lungs give out / I promise ’til death we part like in our vows.’

  1. ‘Lucky’ – Jason Mraz ft. Colbie Caillat

Key lyrics: ‘Lucky I’m in love with my best friend.’

  1. ‘How Long Will I Love You’ – Ellie Goulding

Key lyrics: ‘How long will I love you? / As long as stars are above you.’

  1. ‘I’m Yours’ – Jason Mraz

Key lyrics: ‘But I won’t hesitate no more, no more / It cannot wait, I’m yours.’

  1. ‘Love Someone’ – Lukas Graham

Key lyrics: ‘Cause you still look perfect as days go by / Even the worst ones, you make me smile / I’d stop the world if it gave us time.’

  1. ‘You’re Still the One’ – Shania Twain

Key lyrics: ‘You’re still the one I run to / The one that I belong to.’

Alternate versions of popular songs

  1. Can’t Help Falling in Love – Elvis Presley (Piano Version)
  2. A Thousand Years – Christina Perry (String Quartet)
  3. All of Me – John Legend (Violin Instrumental)
  4. Perfect – Ed Sheeran (Piano and Cello)
  5. Somewhere Over the Rainbow – Israel Kamakawiwoʻole (Ukulele and Violin)
  6. Marry Me – Train (Acoustic Guitar Version)
  7. Hallelujah – Leonard Cohen (Harp Instrumental)
  8. I Will Always Love You – Whitney Houston (Flute)
  9. Kiss Me – Sixpence None the Richer (Acoustic Guitar)
  10. Fields of Gold – Sting (Piano Cover)
  11. Imagine – John Lennon (Classical Piano Version)
  12. Chasing Cars – Snow Patrol (String Quartet)
  13. Here Comes the Sun – The Beatles (Classical Guitar)
  14. You Are the Reason – Calum Scott (Violin and Piano)
  15. Love Story – Taylor Swift (String Quartet)
  16. Thinking Out Loud – Ed Sheeran (Piano Solo)
  17. Sweet Child O’ Mine – Guns N’ Roses (Harp Instrumental)
  18. I Don’t Want to Miss a Thing – Aerosmith (Piano and Violin)
  19. Wonderful Tonight – Eric Clapton (Acoustic Instrumental)
  20. The Scientist – Coldplay (String Quartet)
  21. Shallow – A Star is Born soundtrack (Cello and Piano)
  22. True Colors – Cyndi Lauper (Classical Guitar)
  23. Forever Young – Alphaville (Violin Cover)
  24. Hoppipolla – Sigur Rós (Piano Cover)
  25. Yellow – Coldplay (Acoustic Version)

Operatic songs

  1. O Mio Babbino Caro – Giacomo Puccini
  2. Flower Duet – Léo Delibes
  3. Nessun Dorma – Giacomo Puccini
  4. The Prayer – Andrea Bocelli & Celine Dion
  5. Intermezzo from Cavalleria Rusticana – Pietro Mascagni
  6. Barcarolle – Jacques Offenbach
  7. La Donna è Mobile – Giuseppe Verdi
  8. Time to Say Goodbye – Andrea Bocelli & Sarah Brightman
  9. Marche Militaire – Franz Schubert
  10. Mon Coeur S’Ouvre à ta Voix – Camille Saint-Saëns

Alternative choices

  1. First Day of My Life – Bright Eyes

Key lyrics: ‘Yours was the first face that I saw / I think I was blind before I met you.’

  1. Sea of Love – Cat Power

Key lyrics: ‘Come with me, my love / To the sea, the sea of love.’

  1. Home – Edward Sharpe & The Magnetic Zeros

Key lyrics: ‘Home is wherever I’m with you.’

  1. Bloom – The Paper Kites

Key lyrics: ‘Can I be close to you?’

  1. Such Great Heights – Iron & Wine

Key lyrics: ‘They will see us waving from such great heights / Come down now, they’ll say.’

  1. The Only Exception – Paramore

Key lyrics: ‘You are the only exception.’

  1. Skinny Love – Bon Iver

Key lyrics: ‘And I told you to be patient / And I told you to be fine.’

  1. Flightless Bird, American Mouth – Iron & Wine

Key lyrics: ‘Have I found you? / Flightless bird, jealous, weeping.’

  1. Fade Into You – Mazzy Star

Key lyrics: ‘Fade into you / Strange you never knew.’

  1. Ho Hey – The Lumineers

Key lyrics: ‘I belong with you, you belong with me / You’re my sweetheart.’

  1. Heartbeats – José González

Key lyrics: ‘One night of magic rush / The start, a simple touch.’

  1. Yellow – Coldplay

Key lyrics: ‘Look at the stars, look how they shine for you.’

  1. Somewhere Only We Know – Keane

Key lyrics: ‘Oh, simple thing, where have you gone? / I’m getting tired, and I need someone to rely on.’

  1. I Will Follow You Into the Dark – Death Cab for Cutie

Key lyrics: ‘If heaven and hell decide that they both are satisfied / Illuminate the “no”s on their vacancy signs.’

  1. Sweet Disposition – The Temper Trap

Key lyrics: ‘A moment, a love, a dream, a laugh / A kiss, a cry, our rights, our wrongs.’

  1. There Is a Light That Never Goes Out – The Smiths

Key lyrics: ‘And if a double-decker bus crashes into us / To die by your side is such a heavenly way to die.’

  1. Lover – Taylor Swift

Key lyrics: ‘Can I go where you go? / Can we always be this close forever and ever?’

  1. Electric Feel – MGMT

Key lyrics: ‘You can feel it in your mind, oh, you can do it all the time / Plug it in and change the world.’

  1. I Wanna Be Yours – Arctic Monkeys

Key lyrics: ‘I wanna be your vacuum cleaner / Breathing in your dust.’

  1. Joy of My Life – Chris Stapleton

Key lyrics: ‘I tiptoed in the room / I know you got to have your rest / She says, Come lay beside me / I been waitin’ since you left.’

Indie songs

  1. Turning Page – Sleeping At Last

Key lyrics: ‘Every kiss is a cursive line / Every touch is a redefining phrase.’

  1. Holocene – Bon Iver

Key lyrics: ‘And at once, I knew I was not magnificent / High above the highway aisle.’

  1. You and Me – Lifehouse

Key lyrics: ‘’Cause it’s you and me / And all of the people with nothing to do / Nothing to lose.’

  1. All My Days – Alexi Murdoch

Key lyrics: ‘Well I have been searching all of my days / All of my days.’

  1. The Luckiest – Ben Folds

Key lyrics: ‘That I am / I am / I am / The luckiest.’

  1. Ends of the Earth – Lord Huron

Key lyrics: ‘To the ends of the earth, would you follow me? / There’s a world that was meant for our eyes to see.’

  1. Love Like This – Kodaline

Key lyrics: ‘Running through the heat, heartbeat / You shine like silver in the sunlight / You light up my cold heart.’

  1. You Make It Easy – Jason Aldean

Key lyrics: ‘And I swear, God made you for me.’

  1. I’ll Be – Edwin McCain

Key lyrics: ‘And I’ll be better when I’m older / I’ll be the greatest fan of your life.’

  1. Say You Love Me – Jessie Ware

Key lyrics: ‘Say you love me to my face / I need it more than your embrace.’

  1. Can’t Take My Eyes Off You – Lauryn Hill

Key lyrics: ‘You’re just too good to be true / Can’t take my eyes off of you.’

  1. She Is Love – Parachute

Key lyrics: ‘She is love, and she is all I need.’

  1. Let My Love Open the Door – Pete Townshend

Key lyrics: ‘Let my love open the door / To your heart.’

  1. Harvest Moon – Neil Young

Key lyrics: ‘When we were lovers / I loved you with all my heart.’

  1. Come Away With Me – Norah Jones

Key lyrics: ‘Come away with me / And I will write you a song.’

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The 200 Best Wedding First Dance Songs

Your wedding day is full of amazing music. From the song you walk down the aisle to, right through to the last song played at the disco at the end of a fun-filled night, there are so many songs that play throughout your special day.

But, there’s perhaps no song more important than the one that plays during your first dance. Your first dance is hugely symbolic and represents the two of you coming together as one. It’s also usually one of the first dances of the entire wedding reception, and is a sign that it’s time for everyone to get up and join you (after watching you and taking pictures while crying, of course).

But, what makes for a good first dance song? Should it be romantic and lovey-dovey, or can it be something upbeat and fun?

In this guide, we’ll run through everything that goes into the perfect wedding first dance song. We’ll also offer you 200 suggestions for the best first dance song, to help you make the all-important decision as to what you should choose for this massive moment in your big day.

What makes for the perfect first dance song?

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The perfect first dance song can be many things. But, the most important thing is that it’s special to the two of you. If you’re not quite sure what that looks like for you, here are a few things to think about:

  • Emotional significance: Does the song resonate with you? Was it perhaps something you both listened to while you were dating and as your romance blossomed?
  • Lyrics: Are the lyrics special and do they represent your relationship? Songs with lyrics about love are the most common type of first dance song.
  • Tempo and rhythm: The most common choice of first dance song is something slower and more romantic (but some couples have been known to have fun by dancing to something upbeat).
  • Danceability: Whether you’re an experienced dancer or not, does the song lend itself well to your dancing ability?
  • Timelessness or trendiness: Is the song something that’s timeless, or will it be forgotten about over time?
  • Length: Make sure the song isn’t too long, because you might get tired of dancing by the 34th verse of an epic ballad.

Can upbeat songs work as a first dance song?

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Yes, an upbeat song can 100% work as a great first dance song, and they have grown in popularity in recent years. It’s a brilliant way to add a little energy and uniqueness to your first dance, especially if you’re not a fan of slower romantic songs.

There are no rules that say your first dance has to be a slow one. The only thing to bear in mind is, do you have the dancing prowess needed to dance to a high-tempo song with your significant other? You don’t exactly have to be a couple who are set for the next series of Strictly, but you should be at least semi-confident to throw some solid moves while all your guests watch on. It’s also the perfect way to kick off the party and get everyone excited to start throwing some shapes of their own once you’ve had your special moment together.

What is the most popular first dance wedding song?

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The most popular first dance wedding song changes regularly, depending on what artists are topping the charts at the time and whether any older songs have come back into fashion.

In recent years, songs like ‘All of Me’ by John Legend, ‘You Are the Best Thing’ by Ray LaMontagne, ‘At Last’ by Etta James  and ‘Thinking Out Loud’ by Ed Sheeran have all been consistently popular.

In 2024, the most popular first dance songs were:

  1. ‘Can’t Help Falling In Love’ – Elvis Presley
  2. ‘Perfect’ – Ed Sheeran
  3. ‘Stand By Me’ – Ben E. King
  4. ‘The One’ – Kodaline
  5. ‘Lover’ – Taylor Swift

To discover what other songs were the most popular first dance choices at the moment, read our guide to the top first dance songs of 2024.

200 of the best wedding first dance songs

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Excited to choose the song you and your other half will dance to for the first time at your wedding? Here are 200 suggestions for romantic and meaningful songs, so the tune you have your first dance to can be something truly special.

80 romantic first dance songs

  1. ‘Perfect’ – Ed Sheeran

‘I found a love, to carry more than just my secrets / To carry love, to carry children of our own.’

 

  1. ‘At Last’ – Etta James

Key lyrics: ‘At last, my love has come along / My lonely days are over, and life is like a song.’

 

  1. ‘Make You Feel My Love’ – Adele

Key lyrics: ‘I could hold you for a million years / To make you feel my love.’

 

  1. ‘All of Me’ – John Legend

Key lyrics: ‘All of me loves all of you / Love your curves and all your edges, all your perfect imperfections.’

 

  1. ‘A Thousand Years’ – Christina Perri

Key lyrics: ‘I have died every day waiting for you / Darling, don’t be afraid, I have loved you for a thousand years.’

 

  1. ‘Can’t Help Falling in Love’ – Elvis Presley

Key lyrics: ‘Take my hand, take my whole life too / For I can’t help falling in love with you.’

 

  1. ‘Thinking Out Loud’ – Ed Sheeran

Key lyrics: ‘Take me into your loving arms / Kiss me under the light of a thousand stars.’

 

  1. ‘Unchained Melody’ – The Righteous Brothers

Key lyrics: ‘Oh, my love, my darling / I’ve hungered for your touch a long, lonely time.’

 

  1. ‘You Are the Best Thing’ – Ray LaMontagne

Key lyrics: ‘You are the best thing that’s ever been mine.’

 

  1. ‘I Won’t Give Up’ – Jason Mraz

Key lyrics: ‘I won’t give up on us / Even if the skies get rough.’

 

  1. ‘L-O-V-E’ – Nat King Cole

Key lyrics: ‘L is for the way you look at me / O is for the only one I see.’

 

  1. ‘Endless Love’ – Diana Ross & Lionel Richie

Key lyrics: ‘My love, there’s only you in my life / The only thing that’s bright.’

 

  1. ‘Your Song’ – Elton John

Key lyrics: ‘I hope you don’t mind that I put down in words / How wonderful life is while you’re in the world.’

 

  1. ‘The Way You Look Tonight’ – Frank Sinatra

Key lyrics: ‘Yes, you’re lovely, with your smile so warm / And your cheeks so soft.’

 

  1. ‘First Day of My Life’ – Bright Eyes

Key lyrics: ‘This is the first day of my life / I’m glad I didn’t die before I met you.’

 

  1. ‘From This Moment On’ – Shania Twain

Key lyrics: ‘From this moment, life has begun / From this moment, you are the one.’

 

  1. ‘My Person’ – Spencer Crandall

Key lyrics: ‘You’re my person, my heartbeat, my slow dance / My Sunday morning sipping coffee in bed.’

 

  1. ‘You & Me’ – Lifehouse

Key lyrics: ‘You and me and all other people / And I don’t know why I can’t keep my eyes off of you.’

 

  1. ‘Forever After All’ – Luke Combs

Key lyrics: ‘They say nothing lasts forever, but they ain’t seen us together.’

 

  1. ‘Everything’ – Michael Bublé

Key lyrics: ‘And in this crazy life, and through these crazy times / It’s you, it’s you, you make me sing.’

 

  1. ‘Come Away With Me’ – Norah Jones

Key lyrics: ‘Come away with me and we’ll kiss / On a mountaintop.’

 

  1. ‘Better Together’ – Jack Johnson

Key lyrics: ‘It’s always better when we’re together.’

 

  1. ‘Have I Told You Lately’ – Van Morrison

Key lyrics: ‘Have I told you lately that I love you? / Have I told you there’s no one else above you?’

 

  1. ‘I Get to Love You’ – Ruelle

Key lyrics: ‘I get to love you, it’s the best thing that I’ll ever do.’

 

  1. ‘All My Life’ – K-Ci & JoJo

Key lyrics: ‘All my life, I prayed for someone like you / And I thank God that I finally found you.’

 

  1. ‘The Luckiest’ – Ben Folds

Key lyrics: ‘What if I’d been born fifty years before you / In a house on the street where you live?’

 

  1. ‘Falling Like the Stars’ – James Arthur

Key lyrics: ‘I swear to God, when I come home / I’m gonna hold you so close.’

 

  1. ‘Stand by Me’ – Ben E. King

Key lyrics: ‘So darling, darling, stand by me / Oh, stand by me.’

 

  1. ‘To the Moon and Back’ – Luke Bryan

Key lyrics: ‘I love you to the moon and back / So glad you gave me your heart to have.’

 

  1. ‘Forever’ – Ben Harper

Key lyrics: ‘Not talking ’bout a year / No, not three or four / I don’t want that kind of forever in my life anymore.’

 

  1. ‘For You’ – Kenny Lattimore

Key lyrics: ‘For you, I give a lifetime of stability.’

 

  1. ‘By Your Side’ – Sade

Key lyrics: ‘You think I’d leave your side, baby? / You know me better than that.’

 

  1. ‘Speechless’ – Dan + Shay

Key lyrics: ‘You already know that you’re my weakness / After all this time, I’m just as nervous.’

 

  1. ‘Marry Me’ – Train

Key lyrics: ‘Forever can never be long enough for me / To feel like I’ve had long enough with you.’

 

  1. ‘I Choose You’ – Sara Bareilles

Key lyrics: ‘Tell the world that we finally got it all right / I choose you.’

 

  1. ‘Grow Old with Me’ – John Lennon

Key lyrics: ‘Grow old along with me / The best is yet to be.’

 

  1. ‘Breathe Again’ – Toni Braxton

Key lyrics: ‘If I never feel you in my arms again / If I never feel your tender kiss again.’

 

  1. ‘Yours’ – Russell Dickerson

Key lyrics: ‘I came to life when I first kissed you / The best me has his arms around you.’

 

  1. ‘Feels Like Home’ – Chantal Kreviazuk

Key lyrics: ‘It feels like home to me / It feels like I’m all the way back where I come from.’

 

  1. ‘Say You Won’t Let Go’ – James Arthur

Key lyrics: ‘I’m gonna love you ’til my lungs give out / I promise ’til death we part like in our vows.’

 

  1. ‘I Do’ – Colbie Caillat

Key lyrics: ‘You make me wanna say I do, I do, I do, do-do-do-do-do-do.’

 

  1. ‘How Long Will I Love You’ – Ellie Goulding

Key lyrics: ‘How long will I love you? / As long as stars are above you.’

 

  1. ‘Beyond’ – Leon Bridges

Key lyrics: ‘Will she have my kids? / Will she be my wife? / She might just be my everything and beyond.’

 

  1. ‘Here and Now’ – Luther Vandross

Key lyrics: ‘Here and now, I promise to love faithfully.’

 

  1. ‘I Believe in You and Me’ – Whitney Houston

Key lyrics: ‘I believe in dreams again / I believe that love will never end.’

 

  1. ‘Angel’ – Jack Johnson

Key lyrics: ‘I’ve got an angel / She doesn’t wear any wings.’

 

  1. ‘Tenerife Sea’ – Ed Sheeran

Key lyrics: ‘You look so beautiful in this light / Your silhouette over me.’

 

  1. ‘I’ll Be’ – Edwin McCain

Key lyrics: ‘I’ll be your crying shoulder / I’ll be love’s suicide.’

 

  1. ‘Lucky’ – Jason Mraz ft. Colbie Caillat

Key lyrics: ‘Lucky I’m in love with my best friend.’

 

  1. ‘So This Is Love’ – Ilene Woods

Key lyrics: ‘So this is love, so this is what makes life divine.’

 

  1. ‘When You Say Nothing at All’ – Alison Krauss

Key lyrics: ‘You say it best when you say nothing at all.’

 

  1. ‘Stay With You’ – John Legend

Key lyrics: ‘Through the ups and the downs / Yes, I’m gonna stay with you.’

 

  1. ‘God Gave Me You’ – Blake Shelton

Key lyrics: ‘God gave me you for the ups and downs / God gave me you for the days of doubt.’

 

  1. ‘Back at One’ – Brian McKnight

Key lyrics: ‘One, you’re like a dream come true / Two, just wanna be with you.’

 

  1. ‘You’re Still the One’ – Shania Twain

Key lyrics: ‘You’re still the one I run to / The one that I belong to.’

 

  1. ‘Dancing in the Moonlight’ – King Harvest

Key lyrics: ‘Everybody’s dancing in the moonlight.’

 

  1. ‘I Swear’ – All-4-One

Key lyrics: ‘I swear by the moon and the stars in the sky / I’ll be there.’

 

  1. ‘Kiss Me’ – Sixpence None the Richer

Key lyrics: ‘Kiss me beneath the milky twilight / Lead me out on the moonlit floor.’

 

  1. ‘Love Story’ – Taylor Swift

Key lyrics: ‘Romeo, take me somewhere we can be alone.’

 

  1. ‘Make It to Me’ – Sam Smith

Key lyrics: ‘You’re the one designed for me / A distant stranger that I will complete.’

 

  1. ‘How Do I Live’ – LeAnn Rimes

Key lyrics: ‘How do I live without you? / I want to know.’

 

  1. ‘This I Promise You’ – NSYNC

Key lyrics: ‘And I will take you in my arms / And hold you right where you belong.’

 

  1. ‘If I Ain’t Got You’ – Alicia Keys

Key lyrics: ‘Some people want diamond rings / But I don’t want anything if it ain’t you.’

 

  1. ‘When God Made You’ – NewSong & Natalie Grant

Key lyrics: ‘When God made you / He must have been thinking about me.’

 

  1. ‘Eternal Flame’ – The Bangles

Key lyrics: ‘Close your eyes, give me your hand, darling / Do you feel my heart beating?’

 

  1. ‘She Keeps Me Warm’ – Mary Lambert

Key lyrics: ‘She says I smell like safety and home.’

 

  1. ‘I Could Not Ask for More’ – Edwin McCain

Key lyrics: ‘I could not ask for more than this time together.’

 

  1. ‘Hero’ – Enrique Iglesias

Key lyrics: ‘I can be your hero, baby / I can kiss away the pain.’

 

  1. ‘Moon River’ – Audrey Hepburn

Key lyrics: ‘Two drifters, off to see the world / There’s such a lot of world to see.’

 

  1. ‘Wonderful Tonight’ – Eric Clapton

Key lyrics: ‘And then she asks me, ‘Do I look all right?’ / And I say, ‘Yes, you look wonderful tonight.”

 

  1. ‘Can’t Take My Eyes Off You’ – Frankie Valli

Key lyrics: ‘You’re just too good to be true / Can’t take my eyes off you.’

 

  1. ‘The Book of Love’ – Peter Gabriel

Key lyrics: ‘The book of love is long and boring / And written very long ago.’

 

  1. ‘Greatest Day’ – Take That

Key lyrics: ‘Today this could be, the greatest day of our lives.’

 

  1. ‘Let’s Stay Together’ – Al Green

Key lyrics: ‘Let’s stay together / Loving you whether times are good or bad.’

 

  1. ‘I Was Made for Loving You’ – Tori Kelly ft. Ed Sheeran

Key lyrics: ‘Even though we may be hopeless hearts just passing through / Every bone screams I don’t know what we should do.’

 

  1. ‘To Be Loved’ – Adele

Key lyrics: ‘I built a house for love to grow / I was so young that it was hard to know.’

 

  1. ‘Valentine’ – Jim Brickman ft. Martina McBride

Key lyrics: ‘You would still have my heart until the end of time.’

 

  1. ‘Loving You’ – Minnie Riperton

Key lyrics: ‘Loving you is easy ’cause you’re beautiful.’

 

  1. ‘When I Fall in Love’ – Nat King Cole

Key lyrics: ‘When I fall in love / It will be forever.’

 

  1. ‘Sweet Thing’ – Van Morrison

Key lyrics: ‘And you shall take me strongly in your arms again / And I will not remember that I even felt the pain.’

30 modern first dance songs

  1. ‘Lover’ – Taylor Swift

Key lyrics: ‘Can I go where you go? / Can we always be this close forever and ever?’

 

  1. ‘You’re Somebody Else’ – Flora Cash

Key lyrics: ‘Well, you look like yourself / But you’re somebody else, only it ain’t on the surface.’

 

  1. ‘Peaches’ – Justin Bieber ft. Daniel Caesar, Giveon

Key lyrics: ‘I wanna wrap my arms around you, baby, never let you go, oh.’

 

  1. ‘Better Half of Me’ – Tom Walker

Key lyrics: ‘And I’m still up at 4 AM / Is this ever gonna end? / Can I rely on you?’

 

  1. ‘Wild Love’ – James Bay

Key lyrics: ‘Don’t know what to say / I wanna see your face / And I know what it feels like to fall in love.’

 

  1. ‘We Found Love’ – Rihanna ft. Calvin Harris

Key lyrics: ‘We found love in a hopeless place.’

 

  1. ‘Run’ – Snow Patrol

Key lyrics: ‘Light up, light up / As if you have a choice.’

 

  1. ‘Shallow’ – Lady Gaga & Bradley Cooper

Key lyrics: ‘I’m off the deep end, watch as I dive in / I’ll never meet the ground.’

 

  1. ‘One Call Away’ – Charlie Puth

Key lyrics: ‘I’m only one call away / I’ll be there to save the day.’

 

  1. ‘You Are the Reason’ – Calum Scott ft. Leona Lewis

Key lyrics: ‘I’d climb every mountain / And swim every ocean / Just to be with you.’

 

  1. ‘Electric Love’ – BØRNS

Key lyrics: ‘Baby, you’re like lightning in a bottle / I can’t let you go now that I got it.’

 

  1. ‘Anyone’ – Justin Bieber

Key lyrics: ‘You are the only one I’ll ever love / If it’s not you, it’s not anyone.’

 

  1. ‘Speechless’ – Beyoncé

Key lyrics: ‘You’ve got me, you’ve got me, you’ve got me / Speechless.’

 

  1. ‘If the World Was Ending’ – JP Saxe ft. Julia Michaels

Key lyrics: ‘If the world was ending, you’d come over, right? / You’d come over and you’d stay the night.’

 

  1. ‘Always Remember Us This Way’ – Lady Gaga

Key lyrics: ‘So when I’m all choked up and I can’t find the words / Every time we say goodbye, baby, it hurts.’

 

  1. ‘Sweet Creature’ – Harry Styles

Key lyrics: ‘Sweet creature, sweet creature / Wherever I go, you bring me home.’

 

  1. ‘Sunflower’ – Post Malone

Key lyrics: ‘You’re a sunflower, I think your love would be too much.’

 

  1. ‘Golden Hour’ – JVKE

Key lyrics: ‘It’s your golden hour / You slow down time in your golden hour.’

 

  1. ‘Hold Me While You Wait’ – Lewis Capaldi

Key lyrics: ‘Hold me while you wait / I wish that I was good enough.’

 

  1. ‘This Year’s Love’ – David Gray

Key lyrics: ‘This year’s love had better last.’

 

  1. ‘Show Me Love’ – Alicia Keys

Key lyrics: ‘Show me love / Treat it like we freakin’ on the weekend, show me love.’

 

  1. ‘Blinding Lights’ – The Weeknd

Key lyrics: ‘I’m blinded by the lights / No, I can’t sleep until I feel your touch.’

 

  1. ‘Daylight’ – Taylor Swift

Key lyrics: ‘I don’t wanna look at anything else now that I saw you / I don’t wanna think of anything else now that I thought of you.’

 

  1. ‘Adore You’ – Harry Styles

Key lyrics: ‘Just let me adore you, oh honey.’

 

  1. ‘Into You’ – Ariana Grande

Key lyrics: ‘So, baby, come light me up, and maybe I’ll let you on it.’

 

  1. ‘Another Love’ – Tom Odell

Key lyrics: ‘I wanna take you somewhere so you know I care / But it’s so cold, and I don’t know where.’

 

  1. ‘Levitating’ – Dua Lipa

Key lyrics: ‘If you wanna run away with me, I know a galaxy and I can take you for a ride.’

 

  1. ‘Heartbeat’ – Shawn Mendes

Key lyrics: ‘You light me up inside like the 4th of July / Whenever you’re around, I always seem to smile.’

 

  1. ‘Forever After All’ – Luke Combs

Key lyrics: ‘They say nothing lasts forever, but they ain’t seen us together.’

 

  1. ‘Home’ – Edward Sharpe and the Magnetic Zeros

Key lyrics: ‘Home is wherever I’m with you.’

15 upbeat first dance songs

  1. ‘Happy’ – Pharrell Williams

Key lyrics: ‘Because I’m happy / Clap along if you feel like a room without a roof.’

 

  1. ‘Walking on Sunshine’ – Katrina and the Waves

Key lyrics: ‘I’m walking on sunshine, whoa-oh! / And don’t it feel good!’

 

  1. ‘Love on Top’ – Beyoncé

Key lyrics: ‘Baby, it’s you / You’re the one I love / You’re the one I need.’

 

  1. ‘Sugar’ – Maroon 5

Key lyrics: ‘Sugar, yes please / Won’t you come and put it down on me?’

 

  1. ‘Better Together’ – Jack Johnson

Key lyrics: ‘You and I, we’re better together / I could live without you, but I’d rather not.’

 

  1. ‘Best Day of My Life’ – American Authors

Key lyrics: ‘This is gonna be the best day of my life / My life.’

 

  1. ‘I Wanna Dance with Somebody’ – Whitney Houston

Key lyrics: ‘I wanna dance with somebody / I wanna feel the heat with somebody.’

 

  1. ‘Shut Up and Dance’ – WALK THE MOON

Key lyrics: ‘Ooh, I want to dance with you / Oh, don’t you dare look back.’

 

  1. ‘Higher Love’ – Kygo ft. Whitney Houston

Key lyrics: ‘Bring me a higher love / Where’s that higher love I keep thinking of?’

 

  1. ‘Dog Days Are Over’ – Florence + The Machine

Key lyrics: ‘The dog days are over / The dog days are done / The horses are coming, so you better run.’

 

  1. ‘Feel So Close’ – Calvin Harris

Key lyrics: ‘I feel so close to you right now / It’s a force field.’

 

  1. ‘Good as Hell’ – Lizzo

Key lyrics: ‘I do my hair toss, check my nails / Baby, how you feelin’? / Feeling good as hell!’

 

  1. ‘Let’s Get Loud’ – Jennifer Lopez

Key lyrics: ‘Let’s get loud, let’s get loud / Turn the music up, let’s do it.’

 

  1. ‘Classic’ – MKTO

Key lyrics: ‘Keep it real to real in the way I feel / I could walk you down the aisle.’

 

  1. ‘Can’t Stop the Feeling!’ – Justin Timberlake

Key lyrics: ‘I got that sunshine in my pocket / Got that good soul in my feet.’

30 indie first dance songs

  1. ‘There Will Be Time’ – Mumford & Sons ft. Baaba Maal

Key lyrics: ‘In the cold light, I live to love and adore you / It’s all that I am, it’s all that I have.’

 

  1. ‘Bloom’ – The Paper Kites

Key lyrics: ‘Bloom, bloom, bloom, bloom, bloom / You are the light in the dark.’

 

  1. ‘Sea of Love’ – Cat Power

Key lyrics: ‘Come with me, my love / To the sea, the sea of love.’

 

  1. ‘Ho Hey’ – The Lumineers

Key lyrics: ‘I belong with you, you belong with me, you’re my sweetheart.’

 

  1. ‘You’ve Got the Love’ – Florence + The Machine

Key lyrics: ‘You’ve got the love, you’ve got the love / You’ve got the love, you’ve got the love.’

 

  1. ‘Flightless Bird, American Mouth’ – Iron & Wine

Key lyrics: ‘I was a quick wet boy / Diving too deep for coins / All of your straight lines.’

 

  1. ‘Grow Old With Me’ – Tom Odell

Key lyrics: ‘Grow old with me, let us share what we see / And we’ll share what we love.’

 

  1. ‘The One’ – Kodaline

Key lyrics: ‘I would die for you / But that’s just not enough.’

 

  1. ‘Turning Page’ – Sleeping at Last

Key lyrics: ‘And with your love, my hands are tied / In this world where we could collide.’

 

  1. ‘She Is Love’ – Parachute

Key lyrics: ‘She is love, and she is all I need.’

 

  1. ‘First Day of My Life’ – Bright Eyes

Key lyrics: ‘This is the first day of my life / I swear I was born right in the doorway.’

 

  1. ‘Yellow’ – Coldplay

Key lyrics: ‘Look at the stars, look how they shine for you / And everything you do, yeah, they were all yellow.’

 

  1. ‘Falling in Love at a Coffee Shop’ – Landon Pigg

Key lyrics: ‘I think I fell in love today, oh / I think I fell in love today.’

 

  1. ‘Skinny Love’ – Bon Iver

Key lyrics: ‘Come on skinny love, just last the year / Pour a little salt, we were never here.’

 

  1. ‘1234’ – Feist

Key lyrics: ‘1, 2, 3, 4, tell me that you love me more / Sleepless long nights, that is what my youth was for.’

 

  1. ‘Holocene’ – Bon Iver

Key lyrics: ‘And at once I knew I was not magnificent / Strayed above the highway aisle.’

 

  1. ‘Sweet Disposition’ – The Temper Trap

Key lyrics: ‘Sweet disposition / Never too soon, oh, oh / I’m just trying to find / A place for you.’

 

  1. ‘Big Jet Plane’ – Angus & Julia Stone

Key lyrics: ‘She said, ‘Hey, you, and you / Don’t you know that I am the one / Who can make you feel so blue?”

 

  1. ‘All I Want’ – Kodaline

Key lyrics: ‘All I want is nothing more / To hear you knocking at my door.’

 

  1. ‘Ophelia’ – The Lumineers

Key lyrics: ‘Oh, Ophelia, you’ve been on my mind / Girl, since the flood.’

 

  1. Chance’ – Angel Olsen

Key lyrics: ‘All that space in between where we stand / Could be our chance / Could be our chance.’

 

  1. ‘Roslyn’ – Bon Iver & St. Vincent

Key lyrics: ‘This is not the sound of a new man / or a crispy realisation / It’s the sound of the unlocking and the lift away.’

 

  1. ‘Work Song’ – Hozier

Key lyrics: ‘I will be the one to keep you warm / Hold your heart, keep it from the storm.’

 

  1. ‘Chasing Cars’ – Snow Patrol

Key lyrics: ‘If I lay here / If I just lay here / Would you lie with me and just forget the world?’

 

  1. ‘Love Like This’ – Kodaline

Key lyrics: ‘And I know that I will love you / And I know that you will love me.’

 

  1. ‘VCR’ – The xx

Key lyrics: ‘You don’t know me, but I know you / I don’t even want to / I don’t even want to tell you.’

 

  1. ‘Heroes’ – David Bowie (Acoustic Version)

Key lyrics: ‘We can be heroes, just for one day / We can be us, just for one day.’

 

  1. ‘In My Arms’ – Plumb

Key lyrics: ‘I will be your shelter, I will be your storm / I will make you shiver, I will keep you warm.’

 

  1. ‘Stolen’ – Dashboard Confessional

Key lyrics: ‘You have stolen my heart / And I don’t know what to do.’

 

  1. ‘Passenger Seat’ – Death Cab for Cutie

Key lyrics: ‘I’m in love with you / And I am, and I am / In love with you.’

15 unconventional first dance songs

  1. ‘I Want to Hold Your Hand’ – T.V. Carpio

Key lyrics: ‘Oh, please, say to me / You’ll let me be your man / And please, say to me / You’ll let me hold your hand.’

 

  1. ‘Creep’ – Radiohead (Acoustic Cover)

Key lyrics: ‘When you were here before, couldn’t look you in the eye / You’re just like an angel, your skin makes me cry.’

 

  1. ‘The Book of Love’ – Magnetic Fields

Key lyrics: ‘But I, I love it when you give me things / And you, you ought to give me wedding rings.’

 

  1. ‘You’re My Best Friend’ – Queen

Key lyrics: ‘Ooh, you make me live / Whatever this world can give to me / ‘Cause you’re all I see.’

 

  1. ‘Come As You Are’ – Nirvana (String Quartet Cover)

Key lyrics: ‘Come as you are, as you were / As I want you to be.’

 

  1. ‘Sweet Child O’ Mine’ – Guns N’ Roses

Key lyrics: ‘She’s got eyes of the bluest skies / As if they thought of rain / I hate to look into those eyes and see an ounce of pain.’

 

  1. ‘Take Me to Church’ – Hozier (Acoustic Version)

Key lyrics: ‘Take me to church / I’ll worship like a dog at the shrine of your lies / I’ll tell you my sins and you can sharpen your knife.’

 

  1. ‘The Only Exception’ – Paramore

Key lyrics: ‘And I am breaking / I’m not broken / And I’m not breaking / I’m not broken.’

 

  1. ‘Somebody That I Used to Know’ – Gotye ft. Kimbra

Key lyrics: ‘Now you’re just somebody that I used to know / Now you’re just somebody that I used to know.’

 

  1. ‘Space Oddity’ – David Bowie

Key lyrics: ‘This is Ground Control to Major Tom / You’ve really made the grade / And the papers want to know whose shirts you wear.’

 

  1. ‘Smells Like Teen Spirit’ – Nirvana

Key lyrics: ‘With the lights out, it’s less dangerous / Here we are now, entertain us / I feel stupid and contagious.’

 

  1. ‘Such Great Heights’ – Iron and Wine (a Postal Service cover)

Key lyrics: ‘They will see us waving from such great heights / Come down now, they’ll say / But everything looks perfect from far away.’

 

  1. ‘Young and Beautiful’ – Lana Del Rey

Key lyrics: ‘Will you still love me when I’m no longer young and beautiful?’

 

  1. ‘Everlong’ – Foo Fighters (Acoustic)

Key lyrics: ‘And I wonder / When I sing along with you / If everything could ever feel this real forever.’

 

  1. ‘Crashed the Wedding’ – Busted

Key lyrics: ‘True love lasts forever / And now we’re back together.’

30 classic first dance songs

  1. ‘Unforgettable’ – Nat King Cole

Key lyrics: ‘Unforgettable, that’s what you are / Unforgettable, though near or far.’

 

  1. ‘Fly Me to the Moon’ – Frank Sinatra

Key lyrics: ‘Fly me to the moon / Let me play among the stars / Let me see what spring is like on Jupiter and Mars.’

 

  1. ‘The Very Thought of You’ – Billie Holiday

Key lyrics: ‘The very thought of you / And I forget to do / The little ordinary things that everyone ought to do.’

 

  1. ‘And I Love You So’ – Perry Como

Key lyrics: ‘And I love you so / The people ask me how / How I’ve lived till now / I tell them I don’t know.’

 

  1. ‘Cheek to Cheek’ – Fred Astaire

Key lyrics: ‘Heaven, I’m in heaven / And my heart beats so that I can hardly speak.’

 

  1. ‘Dream a Little Dream of Me’ – Louis Armstrong & Ella Fitzgerald

Key lyrics: ‘Stars shining bright above you / Night breezes seem to whisper ‘I love you’.’

 

  1. ‘I’ve Got You Under My Skin’ – Frank Sinatra

Key lyrics: ‘I’ve got you under my skin / I’ve got you deep in the heart of me.’

 

  1. ‘For Once in My Life’ – Stevie Wonder

Key lyrics: ‘For once in my life, I have someone who needs me / Someone I’ve needed so long.’

 

  1. ‘My Girl’ – The Temptations

Key lyrics: ‘I’ve got sunshine on a cloudy day / When it’s cold outside, I’ve got the month of May.’

 

  1. ‘The Way You Look Tonight’ – Fred Astaire

Key lyrics: ‘Someday, when I’m awfully low / When the world is cold, I will feel a glow just thinking of you.’

 

  1. ‘What a Wonderful World’ – Louis Armstrong

Key lyrics: ‘I see trees of green, red roses too / I see them bloom for me and you.’

 

  1. ‘Let’s Face the Music and Dance’ – Nat King Cole

Key lyrics: ‘Let’s face the music and dance / Let’s face the music and dance.’

 

  1. ‘Isn’t It Romantic’ – Ella Fitzgerald

Key lyrics: ‘Isn’t it romantic? / Music in the night, a dream that can be heard.’

 

  1. ‘It Had to Be You’ – Harry Connick Jr.

Key lyrics: ‘It had to be you, it had to be you / I wandered around and finally found / The somebody who could make me be true.’

 

  1. ‘That’s Amore’ – Dean Martin

Key lyrics: ‘When the moon hits your eye like a big pizza pie, that’s amore.’

 

  1. ‘Only You’ – The Platters

Key lyrics: ‘Only you can make the darkness bright.’

 

  1. ‘That’s How Strong My Love Is’ – Otis Redding

Key lyrics: ‘That’s how strong my love is, baby, baby / That’s how strong my love is.’

 

  1. ‘You Belong to Me’ – Jo Stafford

Key lyrics: ‘See the pyramids along the Nile / Watch the sunrise on a tropic isle.’

 

  1. ‘Always’ – Irving Berlin

Key lyrics: ‘I’ll be loving you, always / With a love that’s true, always.’

 

  1. ‘Someone to Watch Over Me’ – Ella Fitzgerald

Key lyrics: ‘There’s a somebody I’m longing to see / I hope that he turns out to be / Someone to watch over me.’

 

  1. ‘True Love’ – Bing Crosby & Grace Kelly

Key lyrics: ‘True love, true love / Oh, true love, true love.’

 

  1. ‘Sway’ – Dean Martin

Key lyrics: ‘When marimba rhythms start to play / Dance with me, make me sway.’

 

  1. ‘A Kiss to Build a Dream On’ – Louis Armstrong

Key lyrics: ‘Give me a kiss to build a dream on / And my imagination will thrive upon that kiss.’

 

  1. ‘They Can’t Take That Away From Me’ – Frank Sinatra

Key lyrics: ‘The way you wear your hat / The way you sip your tea / The memory of all that.’

 

  1. ‘You Do Something to Me’ – Paul Weller

Key lyrics: ‘You do something to me, something that simply mystifies me.’

 

  1. ‘How Sweet It Is (To Be Loved by You)’ – Marvin Gaye

Key lyrics: ‘How sweet it is to be loved by you / How sweet it is to be loved by you.’

 

  1. ‘When a Man Loves a Woman’ – Percy Sledge

Key lyrics: ‘When a man loves a woman / Can’t keep his mind on nothin’ else.’

 

  1. ‘Stand by Me’ – Ben E. King

Key lyrics: ‘So darling, darling stand by me / Oh, stand by me.’

 

  1. ‘Chances Are’ – Johnny Mathis

Key lyrics: ‘Chances are, ’cause I wear a silly grin / The moment you come into view.’

 

  1. ‘I Only Have Eyes for You’ – The Flamingos

Key lyrics: ‘I only have eyes for you / The moon may be high / But I can’t see a thing in the sky.’

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The 175 Best Wedding Reception Songs

After the nerves and jitters of your ceremony and the formalities of your wedding breakfast, once it’s time for your wedding reception to start, you can finally let your hair down. Your wedding reception is an evening filled with fun, spending time with your newly enlarged family, eating and – of course – dancing.

And the best way to get your guests to join you on the dancefloor is with a banging playlist filled with classics, romantic hits, chart toppers and even a few cheesy numbers thrown in for good measure. And while it’s important to have a mix of songs playing at your wedding reception, you probably won’t want to just hit ‘random’. That’s why a carefully chosen playlist can ensure you throw a party no one will soon forget.

In this article, we’ll run through 175 of the best wedding reception songs to consider including in your playlist, from high-energy anthems to those so-bad-they’re-great crowd-pleasers.

What songs do you need at a wedding reception?

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There’s way more to your wedding reception than a disco, with a whole range of different types of songs playing, depending on the size and style you’ve gone for. Here are the most common types of songs you might expect to hear at a wedding reception:

  • Entrance song: A usually upbeat song that plays when the happy couple enters the reception venue for the first time.
  • First dance song: A romantic and slow-tempo song that the couple will have their first official dance to.
  • Parents’ dance: A slower song that plays as the couple dances with their parents, such as a father-daughter and mother-son dance.
  • Cultural songs: It may be appropriate to play songs that honour the families’ cultures and beliefs.
  • Party songs: When the disco starts, it’s time to throw some shapes to popular crowd-pleasers!
  • Closing song: Usually a funny or relevant song that lets your guests know the night has come to an end.

What makes for a good wedding reception song?

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A good wedding reception song helps to capture the feeling of love and celebration that fits with the tone of your overall wedding. You can choose from a mix of genres, eras, styles and artists, to make sure you have tunes that suit everyone’s tastes.

Here are a few characteristics that make for a great wedding reception song:

  • High energy: Make sure you have songs that everyone wants to dance to
  • Timeless: Songs that everyone instantly recognises and no doubt already loves.
  • Emotional: Songs focused on love and happiness will always go down well.
  • Relevance: Try to choose some songs with heartfelt and celebratory lyrics, or lyrics that you have a personal connection to.
  • Danceability: Of course, the songs have to have a beat everyone can dance to!
  • Variety: Choose different songs that will appeal to a wide variety of age groups. Yes, you might love hard rock, but can your 97-year-old grandma dance to it all night long?
  • Cultural significance: If you have songs that relate to your background or culture, it’s great to honour them by including some.

What sorts of genres should you include?

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What genres of music you choose to include at your wedding reception is really down to you, your tastes and the tone you’re going for. The important thing is to choose a wide variety of songs from lots of different genres. But, you also want to make sure the songs flow nicely from one to the next – though that’s for your DJ (if you have one) to worry about.

A well-rounded wedding reception playlist will include songs from genres like: 

  • Pop
  • Classic rock
  • R&B
  • Disco
  • Indie
  • Motown
  • Dance
  • Country
  • Hip-hop

This list is far from exhaustive. Whatever your musical tastes, there are absolutely ways to include them in your reception playlist. Have a chat with whoever is in charge of your music and let them know the sort of songs you’d like. 

How many songs do you need at your wedding reception?

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The number of songs that will play at your wedding reception depends entirely on the length of your evening.

As a rough guide, most songs are between three and four minutes in length, which means approximately 15 to 20 songs will play per hour. So, if your reception lasts two hours, up to 40 songs will play. If it’s four hours, up to 80 songs will play.

But, it’s always best to choose more than you need if you want to make sure your playlist is only full of your favourite tunes.

175 of the best songs to include in your wedding reception

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Choosing your wedding reception playlist can be a lot of fun, but with an almost endless number of songs out there, where on Earth do you start? To help you whittle things down, we’ve put together 175 of the best wedding reception songs, so you can throw the party of the century.

20 wedding entrance songs

  1. ‘Marry You’ – Bruno Mars

Key Lyrics: ‘It’s a beautiful night, we’re looking for something dumb to do.’

 

  1. ‘Bring ‘Em Out’ – T.I.

Key Lyrics: ‘Bring ’em out, bring ’em out, bring ’em out, bring ’em out!’

 

  1. ‘Can’t Stop the Feeling!’ – Justin Timberlake

Key Lyrics: ‘I got that sunshine in my pocket, got that good soul in my feet.’

 

  1. ‘Happy’ – Pharrell Williams

Key Lyrics: ‘Clap along if you feel like happiness is the truth.’

 

  1. ‘Signed, Sealed, Delivered (I’m Yours)’ – Stevie Wonder

Key Lyrics: ‘Here I am, signed, sealed, delivered, I’m yours.’

 

  1. ‘Let’s Get Married (Remix)’ – Jagged Edge ft. Run DMC

Key Lyrics: ‘Meet me at the altar in your white dress.’

 

  1. ‘This Will Be (An Everlasting Love)’ – Natalie Cole

Key Lyrics: ‘This will be an everlasting love for me.’

 

  1. ‘Feel So Close’ – Calvin Harris

Key Lyrics: ‘I feel so close to you right now, it’s a force field.’

 

  1. ‘We Found Love’ – Rihanna ft. Calvin Harris

Key Lyrics: ‘We found love in a hopeless place.’

 

  1. ‘I Gotta Feeling’ – Black Eyed Peas

Key Lyrics: ‘Tonight’s gonna be a good night.’

 

  1. ‘I’m Yours’ – Jason Mraz

Key lyrics: ‘I’m yours.’

 

  1. ‘Walking on Sunshine’ – Katrina and the Waves

Key Lyrics: ‘I’m walking on sunshine, whoa!’

 

  1. ‘Ain’t No Mountain High Enough’ – Marvin Gaye & Tammi Terrell

Key Lyrics: ‘Ain’t no mountain high enough, ain’t no valley low enough.’

 

  1. ‘All You Need is Love’ – The Beatles

Key Lyrics: ‘All you need is love, love, love is all you need.’

 

  1. ‘You Make My Dreams (Come True)’ – Hall & Oates

Key Lyrics: ‘You make my dreams come true.’

 

  1. ‘Dynamite’ – Taio Cruz

Key Lyrics: ‘I throw my hands up in the air sometimes, saying ‘ayo, gotta let go.”

 

  1. ‘Good Life’ – Kanye West ft. T-Pain

Key Lyrics: ‘Welcome to the good life.’

 

  1. ‘On Top of the World’ – Imagine Dragons

Key Lyrics: ‘I’m on top of the world, hey!’

 

  1. ‘Let’s Get It Started’ – Black Eyed Peas

Key Lyrics: ‘Let’s get it started in here.’

 

  1. ‘Beautiful Day’ – U2

Key Lyrics: ‘It’s a beautiful day, don’t let it get away.’

 

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  1. ‘Perfect’ – Ed Sheeran

Key Lyrics: ‘I found a love, to carry more than just my secrets.’

 

  1. ‘At Last’ – Etta James

Key Lyrics: ‘At last, my love has come along.’

 

  1. ‘All of Me’ – John Legend

Key Lyrics: ‘All of me loves all of you.’

 

  1. ‘Thinking Out Loud’ – Ed Sheeran

Key Lyrics: ‘Take me into your loving arms.’

 

  1. ‘You Are the Best Thing’ – Ray LaMontagne

Key Lyrics: ‘You are the best thing that ever happened to me.’

 

  1. ‘Say You Won’t Let Go’ – James Arthur

Key Lyrics: ‘I’m gonna love you till my lungs give out.’

 

  1. ‘Lucky’ – Jason Mraz & Colbie Caillat

Key Lyrics: ‘Lucky I’m in love with my best friend.’

 

  1. ‘Can’t Help Falling in Love’ – Elvis Presley

Key Lyrics: ‘Take my hand, take my whole life too.’

 

  1. ‘Beyond’ – Leon Bridges

Key Lyrics: ‘She might just be my everything and beyond.’

 

  1. ‘Speechless’ – Dan + Shay

Key Lyrics: ‘I’m speechless, staring at you standing there in that dress.’

 

  1. ‘Die a Happy Man’ – Thomas Rhett

Key Lyrics: ‘I could die a happy man.’

 

  1. ‘Better Together’ – Jack Johnson

Key Lyrics: ‘It’s always better when we’re together.’

 

  1. ‘Lover’ – Taylor Swift

Key Lyrics: ‘Can I go where you go?’

 

  1. ‘Everything’ – Michael Bublé

Key Lyrics: ‘You’re everything, everything to me.’

 

  1. ‘When You Say Nothing At All’ – Ronan Keating

Key Lyrics: ‘You say it best (you say it best) when you say nothing at all.’

 

  1. ‘From the Ground Up’ – Dan + Shay

Key Lyrics: ‘We’ll build this love from the ground up.’

 

  1. ‘I Get to Love You’ – Ruelle

Key Lyrics: ‘I get to love you, it’s the best thing I’ll ever do.’

 

  1. ‘Unchained Melody’ – The Righteous Brothers

Key Lyrics: ‘Oh, my love, my darling, I’ve hungered for your touch.’

 

  1. ‘Make You Feel My Love’ – Adele

Key Lyrics: ‘I could make you happy, make your dreams come true.’

 

  1. ‘Yours’ – Russell Dickerson

Key Lyrics: ‘I came to life when I first kissed you.’

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  1. ‘Shallow’ – Lady Gaga & Bradley Cooper

Key Lyrics: ‘I’m off the deep end, watch as I dive in / I’ll never meet the ground.’

 

  1. ‘By Your Side’ – Sade

    Key Lyrics: ‘Oh, when you’re cold, I’ll be there / Hold you tight to me (to me, yeah).’

 

  1. ‘If I Ain’t Got You’ – Alicia Keys

Key Lyrics: ‘Some people want it all, but I don’t want nothing at all / If it ain’t you, baby.’

 

  1. ‘Best Part’ – Daniel Caesar & H.E.R.

Key Lyrics: ‘You’re my water when I’m stuck in the desert / You’re the Tylenol I take when my head hurts.’

 

  1. ‘Adore You’ – Harry Styles

Key Lyrics: ‘Just let me adore you / Like it’s the only thing I’ll ever do.’

 

  1. ‘A Thousand Years’ – Christina Perri

Key Lyrics: ‘I have died every day waiting for you / Darling, don’t be afraid, I have loved you for a thousand years.’

 

  1. ‘Latch’ – Disclosure ft. Sam Smith

Key Lyrics: ‘Now I’ve got you in my space / I won’t let go of you.’

 

  1. ‘No One’ – Alicia Keys

Key Lyrics: ‘No one, no one, no one / Can get in the way of what I’m feeling.’

 

  1. ‘Come Away with Me’ – Norah Jones

Key Lyrics: ‘Come away with me and we’ll kiss on a mountaintop.’

 

  1. ‘You Send Me’ – Sam Cooke

Key Lyrics: ‘You send me / Honest you do, honest you do.’

 

  1. ‘Electric Feel’ – MGMT

Key Lyrics: ‘You can feel it in your mind, oh, you can do it all the time.’

 

  1. ‘Higher Love’ – Kygo & Whitney Houston

Key Lyrics: ‘Bring me a higher love / Where’s that higher love I keep thinking of?’

 

  1. ‘You’re Still the One’ – Shania Twain

Key Lyrics: ‘You’re still the one I run to / The one that I belong to.’

 

  1. ‘Back at One’ – Brian McKnight

Key Lyrics: ‘One, you’re like a dream come true / Two, just wanna be with you.’

 

  1. ‘Like I’m Gonna Lose You’ – Meghan Trainor & John Legend

Key Lyrics: ‘So I’m gonna love you like I’m gonna lose you.’

 

  1. ‘XO’ – Beyoncé

Key Lyrics: ‘In the darkest night, I’ll search through the crowd / Your face is all that I see.’

 

  1. ‘How Sweet It Is (To Be Loved by You)’ – James Taylor

Key Lyrics: ‘How sweet it is to be loved by you.’

 

  1. ‘Let’s Stay Together’ – Al Green

Key Lyrics: ‘Let’s stay together, loving you whether / Times are good or bad, happy or sad.’

 

  1. ‘Someone Like You’ – Van Morrison

Key Lyrics: ‘I’ve been searching my whole life through / For someone like you.’

 

  1. ‘Baby, I Love Your Way’ – Peter Frampton

Key Lyrics: ‘Ooh baby, I love your way, every day.’

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  1. ‘Uptown Funk’ – Mark Ronson ft. Bruno Mars

Key Lyrics: ‘Don’t believe me, just watch!’

 

  1. ‘Don’t Stop Believin” – Journey

Key Lyrics: ‘Don’t stop believin’ / Hold on to that feelin’.’

 

  1. ‘I Wanna Dance with Somebody’ – Whitney Houston

Key Lyrics: ‘Oh, I wanna dance with somebody / I wanna feel the heat with somebody.’

 

  1. ‘Shut Up and Dance’ – WALK THE MOON

Key Lyrics: ‘Oh, don’t you dare look back / Just keep your eyes on me.’

 

  1. ‘September’ – Earth, Wind & Fire

Key Lyrics: ‘Do you remember the 21st night of September?’

 

  1. ‘Livin’ on a Prayer’ – Bon Jovi

Key Lyrics: ‘Whoa, we’re halfway there / Whoa-oh, livin’ on a prayer.’

 

  1. ‘Yeah!’ – Usher ft. Lil Jon & Ludacris

Key Lyrics: ‘Yeah, yeah, shorty got down low, said, ‘Come and get me.”

 

  1. ‘Billie Jean’ – Michael Jackson

Key Lyrics: ‘Billie Jean is not my lover / She’s just a girl who claims that I am the one.’

 

  1. ‘Sweet Caroline’ – Neil Diamond

Key Lyrics: ‘Sweet Caroline / Good times never seemed so good.’

 

  1. ‘Dancing Queen’ – ABBA

Key Lyrics: ‘You are the dancing queen / Young and sweet, only seventeen.’

 

  1. ‘Footloose’ – Kenny Loggins

Key Lyrics: ‘Everybody cut footloose!’

 

  1. ‘Shake It Off’ – Taylor Swift

Key Lyrics: ‘The players gonna play, play, play, play, play / And the haters gonna hate, hate, hate, hate, hate.’

 

  1. ‘Crazy in Love’ – Beyoncé ft. Jay-Z

Key Lyrics: ‘Got me looking so crazy right now, your love’s got me looking so crazy right now.’

 

  1. ‘Hey Ya!’ – OutKast

Key Lyrics: ‘Shake it like a Polaroid picture!’

 

  1. ‘Super Freak’ – Rick James

Key Lyrics: ‘She’s a very kinky girl / The kind you don’t take home to mother.’

 

  1. ‘Wake Me Up’ – Avicii

Key Lyrics: ‘So wake me up when it’s all over / When I’m wiser and I’m older.’

 

  1. ‘Single Ladies (Put a Ring on It)’ – Beyoncé

Key Lyrics: ‘If you liked it, then you shoulda put a ring on it.’

 

  1. ‘We Are Family’ – Sister Sledge

Key Lyrics: ‘We are family / I got all my sisters with me.’

 

  1. ‘Party Rock Anthem’ – LMFAO

Key Lyrics: ‘Party rock is in the house tonight / Everybody just have a good time.’

 

  1. ‘Get Lucky’ – Daft Punk ft. Pharrell Williams

Key Lyrics: ‘We’re up all night to get lucky.’

 

  1. ‘Old Town Road’ – Lil Nas X ft. Billy Ray Cyrus

Key Lyrics: ‘Can’t nobody tell me nothing / You can’t tell me nothing.’

 

  1. ‘Hips Don’t Lie’ – Shakira ft. Wyclef Jean

Key Lyrics: ‘Oh, baby, when you talk like that, you make a woman go mad.’

 

  1. ’24K Magic’ – Bruno Mars

Key Lyrics: ‘Players, put your pinky rings up to the moon!’

 

  1. ‘Let’s Groove’ – Earth, Wind & Fire

Key Lyrics: ‘Let’s groove tonight / Share the spice of life.’

 

  1. ‘All Night Long’ – Lionel Richie

Key Lyrics: ‘We’re going to party, karamu, fiesta, forever.’

 

  1. ‘Rock Your Body’ – Justin Timberlake

Key Lyrics: ‘So rock your body right.’

 

  1. ‘Treasure’ – Bruno Mars

Key Lyrics: ‘Treasure, that is what you are / Honey, you’re my golden star.’

 

  1. ‘Jump Around’ – House of Pain

Key Lyrics: ‘Jump around! Jump around!’

 

  1. ‘Levitating’ – Dua Lipa

Key Lyrics: ‘I got you, moonlight, you’re my starlight.’

 

  1. ‘Senorita’ – Justin Timberlake

Key Lyrics: ‘Senorita, I feel for you / You deal with things that you don’t have to.’

 

  1. ‘We Will Rock You’ – Queen

Key Lyrics: ‘We will, we will rock you.’

 

  1. ‘Don’t Stop the Music’ – Rihanna

Key Lyrics: ‘Please don’t stop the music.’

 

  1. ‘Cupid Shuffle’ – Cupid

Key Lyrics: ‘To the right, to the right, to the right, to the right.’

 

  1. ‘Time of Our Lives’ – Pitbull & Ne-Yo

Key Lyrics: ‘I knew my rent was gonna be late about a week ago.’

 

  1. ‘I Love It’ – Icona Pop ft. Charli XCX

Key Lyrics: ‘I don’t care, I love it!’

 

  1. ‘My House’ – Flo Rida

Key Lyrics: ‘Welcome to my house / Baby, take control now.’

 

  1. ‘Wobble’ – V.I.C.

Key Lyrics: ‘Wobble baby, wobble baby, wobble baby, wobble.’

 

  1. ‘Wannabe’ – Spice Girls

Key Lyrics: ‘If you wanna be my lover, you gotta get with my friends.’

 

  1. ‘Toxic’ – Britney Spears

Key Lyrics: ‘With a taste of your lips, I’m on a ride.’

 

  1. ‘Blurred Lines’ – Robin Thicke ft. Pharrell & T.I.

Key Lyrics: ‘I hate these blurred lines.’

 

  1. ‘Girls Just Want to Have Fun’ – Cyndi Lauper

Key Lyrics: ‘When the working day is done, oh, girls just want to have fun.’

 

  1. ‘Shout’ – The Isley Brothers

Key Lyrics: ‘You know you make me wanna shout!’

 

  1. ‘Bad Romance’ – Lady Gaga

Key Lyrics: ‘I want your love and I want your revenge / You and me could write a bad romance.’

 

  1. ‘You Shook Me All Night Long’ – AC/DC

Key Lyrics: ‘You shook me all night long.’

 

  1. ‘Let’s Get Loud’ – Jennifer Lopez

Key Lyrics: ‘Let’s get loud, let’s get loud.’

 

  1. ‘Take On Me’ – A-ha

Key Lyrics: ‘Oh, I’ll be comin’ for your love, okay.’

 

  1. ‘Pour Some Sugar on Me’ – Def Leppard

Key Lyrics: ‘Pour some sugar on me / In the name of love.’

 

  1. ‘Gimme! Gimme! Gimme!’ – ABBA

Key Lyrics: ‘Gimme, gimme, gimme a man after midnight.’

 

  1. ‘Mr. Brightside’ – The Killers

Key Lyrics: ‘Jealousy, turning saints into the sea.’

 

  1. ‘Dancing with a Stranger’ – Sam Smith & Normani

Key Lyrics: ‘Look what you made me do, I’m with somebody new.’

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  1. ‘Respect’ – Aretha Franklin

Key Lyrics: ‘R-E-S-P-E-C-T, find out what it means to me.’

 

  1. ‘Brown Eyed Girl’ – Van Morrison

Key Lyrics: ‘You’re my brown-eyed girl.’

 

  1. ‘Twist and Shout’ – The Beatles

Key Lyrics: ‘Come on, come on, come on, baby now.’

 

  1. ‘Rock Around the Clock’ – Bill Haley & His Comets

Key Lyrics: ‘We’re gonna rock around the clock tonight.’

 

  1. ‘Celebration’ – Kool & the Gang

Key Lyrics: ‘Celebrate good times, come on!’

 

  1. ‘Jailhouse Rock’ – Elvis Presley

Key Lyrics: ‘Let’s rock, everybody, let’s rock.’

 

  1. ‘Great Balls of Fire’ – Jerry Lee Lewis

Key Lyrics: ‘Goodness, gracious, great balls of fire!’

 

  1. ‘Stayin’ Alive’ – Bee Gees

Key Lyrics: ‘Ah, ha, ha, ha, stayin’ alive, stayin’ alive.’

 

  1. ‘I Will Survive’ – Gloria Gaynor

Key Lyrics: ‘Oh no, not I, I will survive.’

 

  1. ‘Y.M.C.A.’ – Village People

Key Lyrics: ‘It’s fun to stay at the Y.M.C.A.’

 

  1. ‘We Are Family’ – Sister Sledge

Key Lyrics: ‘We are family, I got all my sisters with me.’

 

  1. ‘Sweet Home Alabama’ – Lynyrd Skynyrd

Key Lyrics: ‘Sweet home Alabama, where the skies are so blue.’

 

  1. ‘Build Me Up Buttercup’ – The Foundations

Key Lyrics: ‘Why do you build me up, buttercup, baby?’

 

  1. ‘Rehab’ – Amy Winehouse

    Key Lyrics: ‘Yes, I’ve been black, but when I come back, you’ll know, know, know.’

 

  1. ‘Proud Mary’ – Tina Turner

Key Lyrics: ‘Big wheels keep on turning.’

 

  1. ‘Good Times’ – Chic

Key Lyrics: ‘These are the good times.’

 

  1. ‘Summer of ’69’ – Bryan Adams

Key Lyrics: ‘Oh, when I look back now.’

 

  1. ‘I Want You Back’ – Jackson 5

Key Lyrics: ‘Oh baby, give me one more chance.’

 

  1. ‘I’m Coming Out’ – Diana Ross

Key Lyrics: ‘I’m coming out, I want the world to know.’

 

  1. ‘American Girl’ – Tom Petty and the Heartbreakers

Key Lyrics: ‘She was an American girl.’

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  1. ‘Unforgettable’ – Nat King Cole

Key Lyrics: ‘Unforgettable, that’s what you are / Unforgettable, though near or far.’

 

  1. ‘The Way You Look Tonight’ – Frank Sinatra

Key Lyrics: ‘Some day, when I’m awfully low / When the world is cold, I will feel a glow just thinking of you.’

 

  1. ‘My Girl’ – The Temptations

Key Lyrics: ‘I’ve got sunshine on a cloudy day / When it’s cold outside, I’ve got the month of May.’

 

  1. ‘What a Wonderful World’ – Louis Armstrong

Key Lyrics: ‘I see trees of green, red roses too / I see them bloom for me and you / And I think to myself, what a wonderful world.’

 

  1. ‘In the Mood’ – Glenn Miller

Key Lyrics: (Instrumental – known for its iconic swing melody and lively rhythm.)

 

  1. ‘Stand by Me’ – Ben E. King

Key Lyrics: ‘If the sky that we look upon should tumble and fall / Or the mountain should crumble to the sea / I won’t cry, I won’t cry, no, I won’t shed a tear.’

 

  1. ‘You Make Me Feel So Young’ – Frank Sinatra

Key Lyrics: ‘You make me feel so young / You make me feel like spring has sprung.’

 

  1. ‘Can’t Take My Eyes Off You’ – Frankie Valli

Key Lyrics: ‘You’re just too good to be true / Can’t take my eyes off of you.’

 

  1. ‘Fly Me to the Moon’ – Frank Sinatra

Key Lyrics: ‘Fly me to the moon, let me play among the stars / Let me see what spring is like on Jupiter and Mars.’

 

  1. ‘The Twist’ – Chubby Checker

Key Lyrics: ‘Come on baby, let’s do the twist / Take me by my little hand and go like this.’

 

  1. ‘Blue Suede Shoes’ – Elvis Presley

Key Lyrics: ‘Well, you can do anything but lay off of my blue suede shoes.’

 

  1. ‘Dancing in the Street’ – Martha and the Vandellas

Key Lyrics: ‘Calling out around the world, are you ready for a brand new beat? / Summer’s here and the time is right for dancing in the street.’

 

  1. ‘La Bamba’ – Ritchie Valens

Key Lyrics: ‘Para bailar la Bamba, se necesita una poca de gracia.’

 

  1. ‘I Only Have Eyes for You’ – The Flamingos

Key Lyrics: ‘Are the stars out tonight? / I don’t know if it’s cloudy or bright / ‘Cause I only have eyes for you.’

 

  1. ‘Runaround Sue’ – Dion

Key Lyrics: ‘Here’s my story, it’s sad but true / It’s about a girl that I once knew.’

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  1. ‘Another One Bites the Dust’ – Queen

Key Lyrics: ‘Another one bites the dust / And another one gone, and another one gone, another one bites the dust.’

 

  1. ‘Love Stinks’ – J. Geils Band

Key Lyrics: ‘You love her, but she loves him / And he loves somebody else, you just can’t win.’

 

  1. ‘Hit the Road Jack’ – Ray Charles

Key Lyrics: ‘Hit the road Jack, and don’t you come back no more, no more, no more, no more.’

 

  1. ‘Before He Cheats’ – Carrie Underwood

Key Lyrics: ‘I dug my key into the side of his pretty little souped-up four-wheel drive.’

 

  1. ‘Gold Digger’ – Kanye West ft. Jamie Foxx

Key Lyrics: ‘Now I ain’t sayin’ she a gold digger / But she ain’t messin’ with no broke…’

 

  1. ‘Highway to Hell’ – AC/DC

Key Lyrics: ‘I’m on the highway to hell.’

 

  1. ‘It Wasn’t Me’ – Shaggy

Key Lyrics: ‘But she caught me on the counter / It wasn’t me.’

 

  1. ‘Hot in Herre’ – Nelly

Key Lyrics: ‘It’s gettin’ hot in here, so take off all your clothes.’

 

  1. ‘Big Poppa’ – The Notorious B.I.G.

Key Lyrics: ‘I love it when you call me Big Poppa.’

 

  1. ‘Macarena’ – Los Del Río

Key Lyrics: ‘Heeey, macarena!’

 

  1. ‘I’m Too Sexy’ – Right Said Fred

Key Lyrics: ‘I’m too sexy for my shirt, too sexy for my shirt, so sexy it hurts.’

 

  1. ‘Who Let the Dogs Out’ – Baha Men

Key Lyrics: ‘Who let the dogs out? Woof, woof, woof, woof, woof.’

 

  1. ‘Getting jiggy wit It’ – Will Smith

    Key Lyrics: ‘On your mark, ready, set, let’s go / Dancefloor pro, I know you know.’

 

  1. ‘I’m Gonna Be (500 Miles)’ – The Proclaimers

Key Lyrics: ‘But I would walk 500 miles / And I would walk 500 more.’

 

  1. ‘Oops!… I Did It Again’ – Britney Spears

Key Lyrics: ‘Oops!… I did it again, I played with your heart, got lost in the game.’

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  1. ‘Electric Love’ – BØRNS

Key Lyrics: ‘Baby, you’re like lightning in a bottle / I can’t let you go now that I got it.’

 

  1. ‘Good as Hell’ – Lizzo

Key Lyrics: ‘If he don’t love you anymore / Just walk your fine self out the door.’

 

  1. ‘Love on Top’ – Beyoncé

Key Lyrics: ‘Baby, it’s you / You’re the one I love, you’re the one I need.’

 

  1. ‘Some Kind of Wonderful’ – Grand Funk Railroad

Key Lyrics: ‘When I hold her in my arms, you know she sets my soul on fire.’

 

  1. ‘Somebody To Love Me’ – Mark Ronson feat. Boy George

Key Lyrics: ‘I don’t wanna see you go / I want somebody to love me.’

 

  1. ‘I Wanna Be Your Lover’ – Prince

Key Lyrics: ‘I wanna be your lover, I wanna be the only one that makes you come running.’

 

  1. ‘Feel It Still’ – Portugal. The Man

Key Lyrics: ‘Ooh, I’m a rebel just for kicks now / I’ve been feelin’ it since 1966 now.’

 

  1. ‘My Type’ – Saint Motel

Key Lyrics: ‘You’re just my type / Oh, you got a pulse and you are breathing.’

 

  1. ‘Sh-Boom’ – The Chords

Key Lyrics: ‘Life could be a dream, if I could take you up in paradise up above.’

 

  1. ‘You & Me’ – Disclosure ft. Eliza Doolittle

Key Lyrics: ‘When I’m with you, it’s all good / It’s all good, all good.’

 

  1. ‘Little of Your Love’ – HAIM

Key Lyrics: ‘I need just a little of your love / I need just a little of your love.’

 

  1. ‘Ho Hey’ – The Lumineers

Key Lyrics: ‘I belong with you, you belong with me, you’re my sweetheart.’

 

  1. ‘Dancing in the Moonlight’ – King Harvest

Key Lyrics: ‘Dancing in the moonlight / Everybody’s feeling warm and bright.’

 

  1. ‘Out of My League’ – Fitz and The Tantrums

Key Lyrics: ‘From time to time I pinch myself / Because I think my girl mistakes me for somebody else.’

 

  1. ‘Firestone’ – Kygo ft. Conrad Sewell

Key Lyrics: ‘We light up the world / We were fire and stone.’

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The 200 Best Wedding Ceremony Songs

Music plays a huge role in your wedding. From the moment your day begins to the moment everyone stumbles home at the end of a long night celebrating, there aren’t many parts of your wedding when music isn’t playing in some capacity.

And this goes for your wedding ceremony, too. Of course, one of the most important pieces of music at your wedding is the music you walk down the aisle to. But, there are plenty of other songs that will play during the ceremony itself.

But, exactly what songs play at a wedding ceremony and what songs should you pick to feature in your big day? There’s almost an endless choice out there, so narrowing it down can be a pretty tricky decision.

In this article, we’re going to run through the 200 best wedding ceremony songs, to make sure your ceremony is memorable, romantic and full of your personalities.

When are songs played during your wedding ceremony?

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Songs play at various points throughout your wedding ceremony. They’ll play to welcome your guests into the venue while they find their seats and they’ll play as you and your new spouse leave alongside the applause of your elated guests. Music plays a big part in your celebrations and is woven into some of the most important moments.

Here are when songs are usually played during a wedding ceremony:

  • Prelude: Usually between 15 and 30 minutes before the ceremony begins as guests begin to enter and take their seats.
  • Processional: As the members of the wedding party enter. A separate song may then play as the bride walks down the aisle.
  • Hymns/religious songs: In a religious ceremony, hymns and songs may be performed at certain points.
  • Interludes: Music will often play as the couple signs the wedding register to provide background sound and entertain guests.
  • Recessional: Once the couple is declared married and they leave the ceremony, an upbeat song will usually accompany them.
  • Postlude: Music will often play as guests leave the ceremony venue.

How many songs do you need to choose for your wedding ceremony?

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The number of songs you need to choose depends on the length of your ceremony and at what points you would like music to play.

  • During the prelude, there will often be between 6 and 12 songs, depending on the length and how soon before the start of the ceremony you’d like the music to begin.
  • During the processional, there will be a maximum of two songs, including the song you walk down the aisle to.
  • If you have a religious ceremony, there are usually approximately two songs or hymns.
  • During an interlude, such as when you’re signing the register, there will be time for one or two songs.
  • During the recessional, one song will play.
  • During the postlude, one or two songs will play, as this is usually enough time for your guests to leave the ceremony venue after you.

In total, there are usually between 10 and 15 songs that will play during your wedding ceremony.

How to choose the perfect wedding ceremony songs

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Choosing the perfect wedding ceremony songs will depend on your taste and the style, formality and format of your wedding. Here are some things to think about to make sure you choose the best songs for your ceremony:

  • Think about the key moments in your ceremony when music will help add romance, emotion and entertainment for your guests.
  • Try to match your musical choices with the overall theme and style of your wedding. For example, with a movie-centric theme, you’ll likely want to choose music used in your favourite movies.
  • Think about the acoustics of your venue and how different genres of music will sound.
  • Try to choose music that reflects both your personalities and holds special meaning for you as a couple.
  • Ensure there’s variation when it comes to tempo and tone. Try and tell a story with a beginning, middle and end.
  • Consider your guests and what sort of songs they might like to listen to as well.
  • Test your choices together and make sure they complement each other.

200 of the best songs to include in your wedding ceremony

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When it comes to your wedding ceremony, you call the shots. And when it comes to the music at your ceremony, there are so many options available to you that it can be a rather daunting task to whittle  your choices down to just a handful.

That’s where we come in. Below, we’ve run down our picks for 200 of the best wedding ceremony songs to help ensure you have a memorable ceremony.

50 best guest arrival songs

Before the ceremony begins, music will play as your guests enter the venue and take their seats. The music that plays helps set the scene for what’s to come, so here are our picks for 50 of the best guest arrival songs.

Classic love songs

  1. ‘Can’t Help Falling in Love’ – Elvis Presley

Key lyrics: ‘Take my hand, take my whole life too / For I can’t help falling in love with you.’

 

  1. ‘Unchained Melody’ – The Righteous Brothers

Key lyrics: ‘Oh, my love, my darling / I’ve hungered for your touch.’

 

  1. ‘Endless Love’ – Diana Ross & Lionel Richie

Key lyrics: ‘My love, there’s only you in my life / The only thing that’s bright.’

 

  1. ‘At Last’ – Etta James

Key lyrics: ‘At last, my love has come along / My lonely days are over.’

 

  1. ‘The Way You Look Tonight’ – Frank Sinatra

Key lyrics: ‘With each word, your tenderness grows / Tearing my fear apart.’

Modern romantic songs

  1. ‘Perfect’ – Ed Sheeran

Key lyrics: ‘We were just kids when we fell in love / Not knowing what it was.’

 

  1. ‘All of Me’ – John Legend

Key lyrics: ‘Cause all of me loves all of you / Love your curves and all your edges.’

 

  1. ‘A Thousand Years’ – Christina Perri

Key lyrics: ‘I have died every day waiting for you / Darling, don’t be afraid.’

 

  1. ‘You Are the Reason’ – Calum Scott & Leona Lewis

Key lyrics: ‘I’d climb every mountain / And swim every ocean.’

 

  1. ‘Say You Won’t Let Go’ – James Arthur

Key lyrics: ‘I knew I loved you then, but you’d never know / ‘Cause I played it cool.’

Acoustic and indie songs

  1. ‘First Day of My Life’ – Bright Eyes

Key lyrics: ‘Yours was the first face that I saw / I think I was blind before I met you.’

 

  1. ‘Better Together’ – Jack Johnson

Key lyrics: ‘Love is the answer, at least for most of the questions in my heart.’

 

  1. ‘Home’ – Edward Sharpe & The Magnetic Zeros

Key lyrics: ‘Home, let me come home / Home is wherever I’m with you.’

 

  1. ‘I Choose You’ – Sara Bareilles

Key lyrics: ‘Tell the world that we finally got it all right / I choose you.’

 

  1. ‘Lucky’ – Jason Mraz & Colbie Caillat

Key lyrics: ‘Lucky I’m in love with my best friend / Lucky to have been where I have been.’

Instrumental songs

  1. ‘Meant to Be’ – Steve Petrunak
  2. ‘Canon in D’ – Johann Pachelbel
  3. ‘Moon River’ (Instrumental) – Henry Mancini
  4. ‘River Flows in You’ – Yiruma
  5. ‘Somewhere Over the Rainbow’ (Instrumental) – Israel Kamakawiwo’ole

Pop and contemporary hits

  1. ‘Halo’ – Beyoncé

Key lyrics: ‘I can see your halo / You know you’re my saving grace.’

 

  1. ‘Love on Top’ – Beyoncé

Key lyrics: ‘Baby, it’s you / You’re the one I love.’

 

  1. ‘Marry You’ – Bruno Mars

Key lyrics: ‘Hey baby, I think I wanna marry you.’

 

  1. ‘I’m Yours’ – Jason Mraz

Key lyrics: ‘Well, you done, done me in; you bet I felt it / I tried to be chill.’

 

  1. ‘Falling Like the Stars’ – James Arthur

Key lyrics: ‘I swear to God, when I come home / I’m gonna hold you like I’m never gonna let you go.’

Soul and R&B classics

  1. ‘Ain’t No Mountain High Enough’ – Marvin Gaye & Tammi Terrell

Key lyrics: ‘Ain’t no mountain high, ain’t no valley low, ain’t no river wide enough, baby.’

 

  1. ‘For Once in My Life’ – Stevie Wonder

Key lyrics: ‘For once in my life, I have someone who needs me.’

 

  1. ‘You Make My Dreams’ – Hall & Oates

Key lyrics: ‘What I want, you’ve got / And it might be hard to handle.’

 

  1. ‘This Will Be (An Everlasting Love)’ – Natalie Cole

Key lyrics: ‘This will be an everlasting love / This will be the one I’ve waited for.’

 

  1. ‘Let’s Stay Together’ – Al Green

Key lyrics: ‘I’m so in love with you / Whatever you want to do is alright with me.’

Feel-good songs

  1. ‘Here Comes the Sun’ – The Beatles

Key lyrics: ‘Here comes the sun, and I say / It’s alright.’

 

  1. ‘Count on Me’ – Bruno Mars

Key lyrics: ‘You can count on me like 1, 2, 3 / I’ll be there.’

 

  1. ‘Isn’t She Lovely’ – Stevie Wonder

Key lyrics: ‘Isn’t she lovely? Isn’t she wonderful?’

 

  1. ‘Happy’ – Pharrell Williams

Key lyrics: ‘Because I’m happy / Clap along if you feel like a room without a roof.’

 

  1. ‘Love Someone’ – Lukas Graham

Key lyrics: ‘Cause when you love someone / You open up your heart.’

Timeless instrumental classics

  1. ‘Arioso’ – J.S. Bach
  2. ‘Marry Me’ – United Guitar Players
  3. ‘Spring’ from The Four Seasons – Vivaldi
  4. ‘Air on the G String’ – J.S. Bach
  5. ‘Serenade’ – Franz Schubert

Soft rock and folk

  1. ‘Sweet Child O’ Mine’ – Guns N’ Roses

Key lyrics: ‘Where do we go? Where do we go now?’

 

  1. ‘Forever Young’ – Rod Stewart

Key lyrics: ‘May the good Lord be with you / Down every road you roam.’

 

  1. ‘Stand by Me’ – Ben E. King

Key lyrics: ‘So darling, darling stand by me / Oh, stand by me.’

 

  1. ‘Better Together’ – Luke Combs

Key lyrics: ‘Some things just go better together / And probably always will.’

 

  1. ‘Ho Hey’ – The Lumineers

Key lyrics: ‘I belong with you, you belong with me / You’re my sweetheart.’

Romantic songs

  1. ‘Kiss Me’ – Sixpence None the Richer

Key lyrics: ‘Kiss me beneath the milky twilight / Lead me out on the moonlit floor.’

 

  1. ‘The Luckiest’ – Ben Folds

Key lyrics: ‘I am the luckiest / What if I’d been born fifty years before you in a house on a street where you lived?’

 

  1. ‘Better Together’ – Us The Duo

    Key lyrics: ‘Mmm, it’s always better when we’re together.’

 

  1. ‘Can’t Take My Eyes Off You’ – Frankie Valli

Key lyrics: ‘You’re just too good to be true / Can’t take my eyes off of you.’

 

  1. ‘Real Love’ – The Beatles

Key lyrics: ‘Seems that all I really was doing was waiting for love.’

25 best wedding processional songs

Set the mood and let your guests know that your special moment is about to begin with a processional song that hits home as your nearest and dearest walk down the aisle. But what sort of vibes should you go for? Here are 25 of the best wedding processional songs for you to consider.

Romantic classics

  1. ‘Songbird’ – Fleetwood Mac

Key lyrics: ‘And I wish you all the love in the world / But most of all, I wish it from myself.’

 

  1. ‘Here, There and Everywhere’ – The Beatles

Key lyrics: ‘I want her everywhere / And if she’s beside me I know I need never care.’

 

  1. ‘Something’ – The Beatles

Key lyrics: ‘Something in the way she moves / Attracts me like no other lover.’

 

  1. ‘Unforgettable’ – Nat King Cole

Key lyrics: ‘That’s why, darling, it’s incredible / That someone so unforgettable thinks that I am unforgettable too.’

 

  1. ‘La Vie en Rose’ – Édith Piaf

Key lyrics: ‘When you kiss me, heaven sighs / And though I close my eyes, I see la vie en rose.’

Modern love songs

  1. ‘Beyond’ – Leon Bridges

Key lyrics: ‘I’m scared to death that she might be it / That the love is real, that the shoe might fit.’

 

  1. ‘Lover’ – Taylor Swift (Acoustic Version)

Key lyrics: ‘Can I go where you go? / Can we always be this close forever and ever?’

 

  1. ‘The One’ – Kodaline

Key lyrics: ‘You make my heart feel like it’s summer / When the rain is pouring down.’

 

  1. ‘Forever’ – Ben Harper

Key lyrics: ‘Not talking about a year, no, not three or four / I don’t want that kind of forever in my life anymore.’

 

  1. ‘Everything’ – Michael Bublé

Key lyrics: ‘And in this crazy life, and through these crazy times / It’s you, it’s you, you make me sing.’

Instrumental covers of pop songs

  1. ‘The Book of Love’ (Instrumental) – Peter Gabriel
  2. ‘You Are So Beautiful’ (Instrumental) – Joe Cocker
  3. ‘Wildest Dreams’ (Instrumental) – Taylor Swift
  4. ‘Yellow’ (Instrumental) – Coldplay
  5. ‘Latch’ (Acoustic Instrumental) – Sam Smith

Indie and folk

  1. ‘Home’ – Phillip Phillips

Key lyrics: ‘Just know you’re not alone / ‘Cause I’m gonna make this place your home.’

 

  1. ‘Bloom’ – The Paper Kites

Key lyrics: ‘Can I be close to you?’

 

  1. ‘Sea of Love’ – Cat Power

Key lyrics: ‘Come with me, my love / To the sea, the sea of love.’

 

  1. ‘Better Place’ – Rachel Platten

Key lyrics: ‘And the world’s a little bit brighter with you.’

 

  1. ‘I Get to Love You’ – Ruelle

Key lyrics: ‘I get to love you / It’s the best thing that I’ll ever do.’

Instrumental film soundtracks

  1. ‘Time’ – Hans Zimmer (from Inception)
  2. ‘A Million Dreams’ – The Piano Guys (from The Greatest Showman)
  3. ‘Dawn’ – Dario Marianelli (from Pride & Prejudice)
  4. ‘Portals’ – Alan Silvestri (from Avengers: Endgame)
  5. ‘Falling Slowly’ (Instrumental) – Glen Hansard & Markéta Irglová (from Once)

50 of the best songs to walk down the aisle to

The song you walk down the aisle to is probably the one song you’ll think about the most throughout your wedding planning process. It’s likely to be a song that you and your partner never ever forget and will always be something that raises a smile whenever you hear it.

Because this is such a big decision, it’s hard to narrow it down. Below are 50 songs you may want to walk down the aisle to, but for even more inspiration, read our complete guide to the best songs to walk down the aisle to.

Classical instrumentals

  1. ‘Canon in D’ – Johann Pachelbel
  2. ‘Clair de Lune’ – Claude Debussy
  3. ‘Ave Maria’ – Franz Schubert
  4. ‘Jesu, Joy of Man’s Desiring’ – J.S. Bach
  5. ‘Air on the G String’ – J.S. Bach
  6. ‘The Four Seasons: Winter’ – Antonio Vivaldi
  7. ‘Largo’ from Xerxes – Handel
  8. ‘Trumpet Voluntary’ – Jeremiah Clarke
  9. ‘Ode to Joy’ – Beethoven
  10. ‘Wedding March’ – Felix Mendelssohn

Modern instrumentals

  1. ‘Turning Page’ – Sleeping at Last
  2. ‘A Thousand Years’ (Instrumental) – Christina Perri
  3. ‘All of Me’ (Instrumental) – John Legend
  4. ‘Perfect’ (Instrumental) – Ed Sheeran
  5. ‘Can’t Help Falling in Love’ (Instrumental) – Elvis Presley
  6. ‘Marry Me’ (Instrumental) – Train
  7. ‘Here Comes the Sun’ (Instrumental) – The Beatles
  8. ‘Halo’ (Instrumental) – Beyoncé
  9. ‘Thinking Out Loud’ (Instrumental) – Ed Sheeran
  10. ‘Marry You’ Canon – Wedding Mashup

Acoustic versions of pop songs

  1. ‘I’m Yours’ (Acoustic) – Jason Mraz
  2. ‘Make You Feel My Love’ (Acoustic) – Adele
  3. ‘You Are the Reason’ (Instrumental) – Calum Scott
  4. ‘Stand by Me’ (Instrumental) – Ben E. King
  5. ‘Say You Won’t Let Go’ (Instrumental) – James Arthur
  6. ‘Love Story’ (Acoustic) – Taylor Swift
  7. ‘Ho Hey’ (Instrumental) – The Lumineers
  8. ‘Best Day of My Life’ (Acoustic) – American Authors
  9. ‘I Don’t Want to Miss a Thing’ (Instrumental) – Aerosmith
  10. ‘Can You Feel the Love Tonight’ (Instrumental) – Elton John

Indie instrumentals

  1. ‘Young and Beautiful’ – Lana Del Rey
  2. ‘To Build a Home’ (Instrumental) – The Cinematic Orchestra
  3. ‘First Day of My Life’ (Instrumental) – Bright Eyes
  4. ‘Your Hand in Mine’ – Explosions in the Sky
  5. ‘Reverie’ – Claude Debussy
  6. ‘The Ludlows’ – James Horner
  7. ‘Love Me Tender’ (Instrumental) – Elvis Presley
  8. ‘Somewhere Only We Know’ (Instrumental) – Keane
  9. ‘Heartbeats’ (Instrumental) – José González
  10. ‘Bittersweet Symphony’ (Instrumental) – The Verve

Movie soundtracks

  1. ‘Concerning Hobbits’ – Howard Shore (from The Lord of the Rings: The Fellowship of the Ring)
  2. ‘Glasgow Love Theme’ – Craig Armstrong (from Love Actually)
  3. ‘When You Wish Upon A Star’ (from Pinocchio)
  4. ‘Comptine d’un autre été’ – Yann Tiersen (from Amélie)
  5. ‘Bella’s Lullaby’ – Carter Burwell (from Twilight)
  6. ‘Now We Are Free’ – Hans Zimmer (from Gladiator)
  7. ‘My Heart Will Go On’ (Instrumental) – James Horner (from Titanic)
  8. ‘Hoppípolla’ – Sigur Rós
  9. ‘The Heart Asks Pleasure First’ – Michael Nyman (from The Piano)
  10. ‘Married Life’ – Michael Giacchino (from Up)

25 of the best hymns at a church wedding

If you’re having a religious ceremony, you may want to include some hymns or songs and encourage your guests to sing along. Here are 25 of the best hymns to include at a church wedding.

  1. ‘Love Divine, All Loves Excelling’

Key lyrics: ‘Love divine, all loves excelling / Joy of Heaven to earth come down.’

 

  1. ‘All Creatures of Our God and King’

Key lyrics: ‘All creatures of our God and King / Lift up your voice and with us sing.’

 

  1. ‘Praise, My Soul, the King of Heaven’

Key lyrics: ‘Praise, my soul, the King of Heaven / To His feet your tribute bring.’

 

  1. ‘Come Thou Fount of Every Blessing’

Key lyrics: ‘Come, Thou Fount of every blessing / Tune my heart to sing Thy grace.’

 

  1. ‘How Great Thou Art’

Key lyrics: ‘Then sings my soul, my Saviour God, to Thee / How great Thou art! How great Thou art!’

 

  1. ‘The King of Love My Shepherd Is’

Key lyrics: ‘The King of love my Shepherd is / Whose goodness faileth never.’

 

  1. ‘Bind Us Together, Lord’

Key lyrics: ‘Bind us together, Lord / Bind us together with cords that cannot be broken.’

 

  1. ‘Be Thou My Vision’

Key lyrics: ‘Be Thou my vision, O Lord of my heart / Naught be all else to me, save that Thou art.’

 

  1. ‘When Love Is Found’

Key lyrics: ‘When love is found and hope comes home / Sing and be glad that two are one.’

 

  1. ‘In Christ Alone’

Key lyrics: ‘In Christ alone my hope is found / He is my light, my strength, my song.’

 

  1. ‘Joyful, Joyful, We Adore Thee’

Key lyrics: ‘Joyful, joyful, we adore Thee / God of glory, Lord of love.’

 

  1. ‘Morning Has Broken’

Key lyrics: ‘Morning has broken, like the first morning / Blackbird has spoken, like the first bird.’

 

  1. ‘Give Me Joy in My Heart’

Key lyrics: ‘Give me joy in my heart, keep me praising / Keep me praising ’til the end of the day.’

 

  1. ‘All Things Bright and Beautiful’

Key lyrics: ‘All things bright and beautiful / All creatures great and small.’

 

  1. ‘Guide Me, O Thou Great Redeemer’

Key lyrics: ‘Guide me, O Thou great Redeemer / Pilgrim through this barren land.’

 

  1. ‘Great Is Thy Faithfulness’

Key lyrics: ‘Great is Thy faithfulness! O God my Father / There is no shadow of turning with Thee.’

 

  1. ‘Lord of All Hopefulness’

Key lyrics: ‘Lord of all hopefulness, Lord of all joy / Whose trust, ever childlike, no cares could destroy.’

 

  1. ‘Amazing Grace’

Key lyrics: ‘Amazing grace! How sweet the sound / That saved a wretch like me.’

 

  1. ‘O Perfect Love’

Key lyrics: ‘O perfect Love, all human thought transcending / Lowly we kneel in prayer before Thy throne.’

 

  1. ‘May the Mind of Christ My Saviour’

Key lyrics: ‘May the mind of Christ my Saviour / Live in me from day to day.’

 

  1. ‘Take My Life, and Let It Be’

Key lyrics: ‘Take my life, and let it be / Consecrated, Lord, to Thee.’

 

  1. ‘Come Down, O Love Divine’

Key lyrics: ‘Come down, O Love divine / Seek Thou this soul of mine.’

 

  1. ‘One More Step Along the World I Go’

Key lyrics: ‘One more step along the world I go / One more step along the world I go.’

 

  1. ‘For the Beauty of the Earth’

Key lyrics: ‘For the beauty of the earth, for the glory of the skies / For the love which from our birth, over and around us lies.’

 

  1. ‘Blest Be the Tie That Binds’

Key lyrics: ‘Blest be the tie that binds / Our hearts in Christian love.’

25 best songs while you sign the wedding register

While you and your partner sign the wedding register to make things official, you might like to play a song or two to keep your guests entertained. This can continue with the theme of romance, or could be a way to inject something a little more upbeat into your ceremony. Here are 25 of the best songs to play while you sign the wedding register.

  1. ‘What a Wonderful World’ – Louis Armstrong

Key lyrics: ‘And I think to myself / What a wonderful world.’

 

  1. ‘My Girl’ – The Temptations

Key lyrics: ‘My girl, my girl, my girl / Talkin’ ’bout my girl, my girl.’

 

  1. ‘That’s Amore’ – Dean Martin

Key lyrics: ‘Something in the way she moves / Attracts me like no other lover.’

 

  1. ‘L-O-V-E’ – Nat King Cole

Key lyrics: ‘L is for the way you look at me / O is for the only one I see.’

 

  1. ‘Just the Way You Are’ – Billy Joel

Key lyrics: ‘I said, ‘I love you just the way you are.’’

 

  1. ‘I Will Follow You Into the Dark’ – Death Cab for Cutie

Key lyrics: ‘When you dance down the street / With a cloud at your feet, you’re in love.’

 

  1. ‘Love is a Verb’ – John Mayer

Key lyrics: ‘Love is a verb / It ain’t a thing, it’s not something you hold.’

 

  1. ‘Hallelujah’ – Jeff Buckley

Key lyrics: ‘Well, your faith was strong but you needed proof / You saw her bathing on the roof / Her beauty and the moonlight overthrew you.’

 

  1. ‘Love Like This’ – Natasha Bedingfield

Key lyrics: ‘You got me feeling like I’m walking on sunshine / And it’s all because of you.’

 

  1. ‘I Will Always Love You’ – Dolly Parton

Key lyrics: ‘And I hope life treats you kind / And I hope you have all you’ve dreamed of.’

 

  1. ‘Meditation’ – Jules Massenet

Key lyrics: (Instrumental, but conveys deep emotion and romance through music.)

 

  1. ‘Nocturne in E-flat Major, Op. 9 No. 2’ – Frédéric Chopin

Key lyrics: (Instrumental, known for its beautiful, expressive melodies.)

 

  1. ‘A Moment Like This’ – Kelly Clarkson

Key lyrics: ‘Some people wait a lifetime for a moment like this.’

 

  1. ‘Arrival of the Birds’ – The Cinematic Orchestra

Key lyrics: (Instrumental, evoking feelings of beauty and hope.)

 

  1. ‘I Believe in a Thing Called Love’ – The Darkness

Key lyrics: ‘I believe in a thing called love / Just listen to the rhythm of my heart.’

 

  1. ‘Iris’ – Goo Goo Dolls

Key lyrics: ‘And I’d give up forever to touch you / ‘Cause I know that you feel me somehow.’

 

  1. ‘Adore You’ – Harry Styles

Key lyrics: ‘Just let me adore you, oh honey / I’d walk through fire for you.’

 

  1. ‘Everything Has Changed’ – Taylor Swift ft. Ed Sheeran

Key lyrics: ‘And all I know is you held the door / And you’ll be mine and I’ll be yours.’

 

  1. ‘Love Story’ – Taylor Swift

Key lyrics: ‘You’ll be the prince and I’ll be the princess / It’s a love story, baby, just say, ‘Yes.’’

 

  1. ‘Better Together’ – Jack Johnson

Key lyrics: ‘It’s always better when we’re together.’

 

  1. ‘Unconditionally’ – Katy Perry

Key lyrics: ‘There is no fear now / Let go and just be free.’

 

  1. ‘Smile’ – Uncle Kracker

Key lyrics: ‘You make me smile like the sun / Fall out of bed, sing like a bird.’

 

  1. ‘When You Say Nothing at All’ – Alison Krauss

Key lyrics: ‘The smile on your face lets me know that you need me / There’s a truth in your eyes saying you’ll never leave me.’

 

  1. ‘In Your Eyes’ – Peter Gabriel

Key lyrics: ‘In your eyes, the light, the heat / In your eyes, I am complete.’

 

  1. ‘Your Song’ – Elton John

Key lyrics: ‘And you can tell everybody this is your song / It may be quite simple, but now that it’s done.’

25 best wedding recessional songs

Once you and your other half have tied the knot, it’s time to let out a sigh of relief and switch things into party mode. So, while you and your new spouse leave the ceremony venue, you might want to switch things up with something upbeat and joyful. Here are 25 suggestions for the best wedding recessional songs.

  1. ‘Good Time’ – Owl City & Carly Rae Jepsen

Key lyrics: ‘It’s always a good time.’

 

  1. ‘Shout’ – The Isley Brothers

Key lyrics: ‘You know you make me wanna shout!’

 

  1. ‘Crazy in Love’ – Beyoncé ft. Jay-Z

Key lyrics: ‘Got me looking so crazy right now, your love’s got me looking so crazy right now.’

 

  1. ‘You’re Still the One’ – Shania Twain

Key lyrics: ‘Looks like we made it, look how far we’ve come, my baby.’

 

  1. ‘On Top of the World’ – Imagine Dragons

Key lyrics: ‘And it’s too late to start over / But it’s not too late to start again.’

 

  1. ‘Celebration’ – Kool & The Gang

Key lyrics: ‘Celebrate good times, come on!’

 

  1. ‘Someday’ – The Strokes

Key lyrics: ‘I see, alone we stand, together we fall apart / Yeah, I think I’ll be all right.’

 

  1. ‘I’ve Had the Time of My Life’ – Bill Medley & Jennifer Warnes

Key lyrics: ‘I’ve had the time of my life / And I owe it all to you.’

 

  1. ‘Let’s Get It On’ – Marvin Gaye

Key lyrics: ‘Let’s get it on / I’ve been really trying, baby.’

 

  1. ‘You Are the Best Thing’ – Ray LaMontagne

Key lyrics: ‘You are the best thing / Ever happened to me.’

 

  1. ‘Signed, Sealed, Delivered (I’m Yours)’ – Stevie Wonder

Key lyrics: ‘I’m signed, sealed, delivered, I’m yours.’

 

  1. ‘Hey Ya!’ – OutKast

Key lyrics: ‘My baby don’t mess around / Because she loves me so / And this I know fo sho (uh)’

 

  1. ‘Walking on Sunshine’ – Katrina and the Waves

Key lyrics: ‘I’m walking on sunshine, whoa-oh! / And don’t it feel good!’

 

  1. ‘We Are Family’ – Sister Sledge

Key lyrics: ‘We are family / I got all my sisters with me.’

 

  1. ‘ABC’ – The Jackson 5

Key lyrics: ‘A B C it’s easy as 1 2 3 / As simple as do re mi A B C / 1 2 3 baby you and me girl.’

 

  1. ‘Good Life’ – OneRepublic

Key lyrics: ‘Oh, this has gotta be the good life / This has gotta be the good life.’

 

  1. ‘Shut Up and Dance’ – WALK THE MOON

Key lyrics: ‘Shut up and dance with me / This woman is my destiny.’

 

  1. ‘Feel So Close’ – Calvin Harris

Key lyrics: ‘I feel so close to you right now / It’s a force field.’

 

  1. ‘Raise Your Glass’ – P!nk

Key lyrics: ‘So raise your glass if you are wrong / In all the right ways.’

 

  1. ‘Good Vibrations’ – The Beach Boys

Key lyrics: ‘I, I love the colourful clothes she wears / And the way the sunlight plays upon her hair.’

 

  1. ‘Happy Together’ – The Turtles

Key lyrics: ‘I can’t see me loving nobody but you / For all my life.’

 

  1. ‘Beautiful Day’ – U2

Key lyrics: ‘You thought you’d found a friend / To take you out of this place / Someone you could lend a hand / In return for grace.’

 

  1. ‘I Gotta Feeling’ – The Black Eyed Peas

Key lyrics: ‘I got a feeling (woohoo) that tonight’s gonna be a good night.’

 

  1. ‘Daydream Believer’ – The Monkees

Key lyrics: ‘Cheer up, sleepy Jean / Oh, what can it mean / To a daydream believer / And a homecoming queen.’

 

  1. ‘You’re My Best Friend’ – Queen

Key lyrics: ‘Oh, you’re the best friend that I ever had.’

Should you have live music at your wedding ceremony?

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Whether or not you decide to have live music at your wedding is entirely up to you, your preferences and your budget. Couples spend an average of £1,800 on their wedding music, which can be a large cost on top of everything else.

That being said, if you can and want to have live music at your wedding, it can certainly make things special and memorable. There’s nothing quite like a live harpist playing while you walk down the aisle, or having a live singer entertain your guests while you sign the register.

But, it all comes down to your budget, the logistics and the sort of music you’d like to include.

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The 150 Best Wedding Entrance Songs

So, the nerve-racking part is over. You and your brand new spouse have walked down the aisle, said ‘I do,’ and enjoyed taking part in your wedding photoshoot. Now, you’re about to enjoy an afternoon and evening of being wined and dined, listening to and delivering some speeches (okay, so maybe not all the nerve-racking stuff is over) and dancing the night away.

But, when the two of you arrive at your wedding breakfast or reception, what song will you choose to play as you make your official introduction as a married couple? In many ways, it’s just as important as the song you walk down the aisle to and the song you have your first dance to. It sets the tone for the entire evening and makes sure you enter with style and personality.

In this article, we’re going to give you 150 suggestions for the best wedding entrance songs, which could be anything from slow and romantic ballads to full-on dance numbers that get everyone clapping and cheering as they welcome you in.

Why is choosing an entrance song so important?

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When you arrive at your wedding breakfast or reception, it’s the first time you and your other half are being introduced as an officially married couple. That means you deserve to make a big entrance when all eyes are firmly on you. To do this, loads of couples choose a specific song to accompany them. This could be something that gets everyone in the party mood, something with lyrics that are special to you or something a little bit different. It can even be silly or funny; it’s really up to you.

It’s a great way to set the tone for the rest of your wedding day and get across you and your partner’s personalities. You may well be planning a fairly formal wedding ceremony, and the reception is when you can loosen up and start to have fun. And there’s no better way to do that than with a great song to kick things off!

How long should a wedding entrance song be?

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A wedding entrance song will typically play for around a minute, while you and your other half enter the venue and take your seats. That being said, if you’re having a larger wedding and therefore have a sizeable venue, it might be necessary for the song to play for a little longer than this. If so, make sure you don’t choose a song that’s too short. It might make things a little awkward if the DJ has to start the song again or scramble to find something to fill the silence!

If there’s something specific in a song that you love, you might want to start the song part way through or ask the DJ to play it a little ahead of when you want to make your entrance. That way, it’ll be perfectly timed for you to make your appearance during your favourite part.

How to make your wedding entrance memorable

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It’s not just your chosen song that goes towards making your wedding entrance memorable. There are plenty of ways to make sure your official entrance goes down with a bang and is entertaining, engaging and memorable.

Here are a few ways to make sure your wedding entrance is one that your guests won’t soon forget:

  • Plan a surprise element: This could be a choreographed dance routine, some unexpected guests or effects or something funny thrown in for good measure.
  • Incorporate lighting effects: Don’t just coordinate with your DJ on the music – see what they can do from a lighting perspective too.
  • Make things personal: Can you combine your entrance with your hobby? For example, if you’re known as a pair of movie geeks, you could walk in accompanied by your favourite film score.
  • Engage your guests: Don’t just walk or dance to your seats, find a way to engage your guests and make sure everyone is included.

What are the best wedding entrance songs?

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Ready to make the ultimate entrance at your wedding breakfast or reception? Here are our top 150 picks for the best wedding entrance songs to help you start your celebrations in style. We’ve also included some of the most famous lyrics from each song to help you make your selection.

50 classic choices for wedding entrance songs

For a vibe that’s catchy and quintessential with lyrics that truly hit home, here are 50 suggestions for classic wedding entrance songs.

  1. ‘At Last’ – Etta James

Key lyrics: ‘At last, my love has come along / My lonely days are over, and life is like a song.’

 

  1. ‘Marry You’ – Bruno Mars

Key lyrics: ‘Hey baby, I think I wanna marry you.’

 

  1. ‘Can’t Help Falling in Love’ – Elvis Presley

Key lyrics: ‘Take my hand, take my whole life too / For I can’t help falling in love with you.’

 

  1. ‘All of Me’ – John Legend

Key lyrics: ‘Cause all of me loves all of you.’

 

  1. ‘A Thousand Years’ – Christina Perri

Key lyrics: ‘I have loved you for a thousand years / I’ll love you for a thousand more.’

 

  1. ‘Signed, Sealed, Delivered (I’m Yours)’ – Stevie Wonder

Key lyrics: ‘Here I am, signed, sealed, delivered, I’m yours.’

 

  1. ‘You Are the Best Thing’ – Ray LaMontagne

Key lyrics: ‘You are the best thing that ever happened to me.’

 

  1. ‘I’m Yours’ – Jason Mraz

Key lyrics: ‘I’m yours.’

 

  1. ‘Lucky’ – Jason Mraz feat. Colbie Caillat

Key lyrics: ‘Lucky I’m in love with my best friend.’

 

  1. ‘I Choose You’ – Sara Bareilles

Key lyrics: ‘Tell the world that we finally got it all right / I choose you.’

 

  1. ‘How Sweet It Is (To Be Loved by You)’ – James Taylor

Key lyrics: ‘How sweet it is to be loved by you.’

 

  1. ‘Let’s Stay Together’ – Al Green

Key lyrics: ‘I, I’m so in love with you.’

 

  1. ‘Isn’t She Lovely’ – Stevie Wonder

Key lyrics: ‘Isn’t she lovely? Isn’t she wonderful?’

 

  1. ‘Better Together’ – Jack Johnson

Key lyrics: ‘It’s always better when we’re together.’

 

  1. ‘Endless Love’ – Diana Ross and Lionel Richie

Key lyrics: ‘My love, there’s only you in my life.’

 

  1. ‘I Don’t Want to Miss a Thing’ – Aerosmith

Key lyrics: ‘I don’t want to close my eyes, I don’t want to fall asleep.’

 

  1. ‘You’re My Best Friend’ – Queen

Key lyrics: ‘Ooh, you make me live, whatever this world can give.’

 

  1. ‘Wonderful Tonight’ – Eric Clapton

Key lyrics: ‘You look wonderful tonight.’

 

  1. ‘Crazy in Love’ – Beyoncé feat. Jay-Z

Key lyrics: ‘Got me looking so crazy in love.’

 

  1. ‘You Make My Dreams’ – Hall & Oates

Key lyrics: ‘You make my dreams come true.’

 

  1. ‘My Girl’ – The Temptations

Key lyrics: ‘I’ve got sunshine on a cloudy day.’

 

  1. ‘Can’t Take My Eyes Off You’ – Frankie Valli

Key lyrics: ‘You’re just too good to be true, can’t take my eyes off you.’

 

  1. ‘Unchained Melody’ – The Righteous Brothers

Key lyrics: ‘Oh, my love, my darling, I’ve hungered for your touch.’

 

  1. ‘You’re Still the One’ – Shania Twain

Key lyrics: ‘You’re still the one I run to, the one that I belong to.’

 

  1. ‘Stand by Me’ – Ben E. King

Key lyrics: ‘So darling, darling, stand by me.’

 

  1. ‘Everything’ – Michael Bublé

Key lyrics: ‘You’re every line, you’re every word, you’re everything.’

 

  1. ‘Can You Feel the Love Tonight’ – Elton John

Key lyrics: ‘Can you feel the love tonight? It is where we are.’

 

  1. ‘The Way You Look Tonight’ – Frank Sinatra

Key lyrics: ‘Some day, when I’m awfully low, when the world is cold, I will feel a glow just thinking of you.’

 

  1. ‘Kiss Me’ – Sixpence None the Richer

Key lyrics: ‘Kiss me beneath the milky twilight.’

 

  1. ‘My Love’ – Paul McCartney and Wings

Key lyrics: ‘My love does it good.’

 

  1. ‘L-O-V-E’ – Nat King Cole

Key lyrics:Two in love can make it, take my heart but please don’t break it. Love was made for me and you.’

 

  1. ‘Happy Together’ – The Turtles

Key lyrics: ‘I can’t see me lovin’ nobody but you for all my life.’

 

  1. ‘Here Comes the Sun’ – The Beatles

Key lyrics: ‘Here comes the sun, and I say, it’s all right.’

 

  1. ‘All You Need Is Love’ – The Beatles

Key lyrics: ‘All you need is love, love. Love is all you need.’

 

  1. ‘Falling Like the Stars’ – James Arthur

Key lyrics: ‘I swear to God, when I come home, I’m gonna hold you so close.’

 

  1. ‘I Got You Babe’ – Sonny and Cher

Key lyrics: ‘I got you, babe.’

 

  1. ‘I Wanna Dance with Somebody’ – Whitney Houston

Key lyrics: ‘Oh, I wanna dance with somebody, I wanna feel the heat with somebody.’

 

  1. ‘I Will Always Love You’ – Whitney Houston

Key lyrics: ‘And I will always love you.’

 

  1. ‘You’re the First, the Last, My Everything’ – Barry White

Key lyrics: ‘You’re my first, you’re my last, my everything.’

 

  1. ‘This Will Be (An Everlasting Love)’ – Natalie Cole

Key lyrics: ‘This will be an everlasting love.’

 

  1. ‘For Once in My Life’ – Stevie Wonder

Key lyrics: ‘For once in my life, I have someone who needs me.’

 

  1. ‘Love on Top’ – Beyoncé

Key lyrics: ‘Baby, it’s you, you’re the one I love.’

 

  1. ‘Make You Feel My Love’ – Adele

Key lyrics: ‘I could make you happy, make your dreams come true.’

 

  1. ‘Love Me Like You Do’ – Ellie Goulding

Key lyrics: ‘Love me like you do, la-la-love me like you do.’

 

  1. ‘Thinking Out Loud’ – Ed Sheeran

Key lyrics: ‘Darling, I will be loving you ’til we’re 70.’

 

  1. ‘Hero’ – Enrique Iglesias

Key lyrics: ‘I can be your hero, baby.’

 

  1. ‘I Just Called to Say I Love You’ – Stevie Wonder

Key lyrics: ‘I just called to say I love you.’

 

  1. ‘Halo’ – Beyoncé

Key lyrics: ‘I can feel your halo, halo, halo.’

 

  1. ‘Endless Love’ – Luther Vandross and Mariah Carey

Key lyrics: ‘My endless love.’

 

  1. ‘Wonderful World’ – Sam Cooke

Key lyrics: ‘Don’t know much about history, but I do know that I love you.’

50 modern and upbeat choices for wedding entrance songs

Something with a classical feel always makes for a great choice, but why not go for something with a more modern vibe? Here are 50 suggestions for something a little more contemporary.

  1. ‘Perfect’ – Ed Sheeran

Key lyrics: ‘I found a love to carry more than just my secrets, to carry love, to carry children of our own.’

 

  1. ‘Marry Me’ – Train

Key lyrics: ‘Forever can never be long enough for me, to feel like I’ve had long enough with you.’

 

  1. ‘Lover’ – Taylor Swift

Key lyrics: ‘Can I go where you go? / Can we always be this close forever and ever?’

 

  1. ‘Speechless’ – Dan + Shay

Key lyrics: ‘You already know that you’re my weakness / After all this time, I’m just as nervous.’

 

  1. ‘On Top of the World’ – Imagine Dragons

Key lyrics: ‘Cause I’m on top of the world (hey) /  I’m on top of the world (hey) / Waiting on this for a while now, paying my dues to the dirt.’

 

  1. ‘I Like Me Better’ – Lauv

Key lyrics: ‘I like me better when I’m with you.’

 

  1. ‘10,000 Hours’ – Dan + Shay feat. Justin Bieber

Key lyrics: ‘I’d spend ten thousand hours and ten thousand more, oh, if that’s what it takes to learn that sweetheart of yours.’

 

  1. ‘You Are the Reason’ – Calum Scott and Leona Lewis

Key lyrics: ‘I’d climb every mountain and swim every ocean just to be with you.’

 

  1. ‘Good as Hell’ – Lizzo

Key lyrics: ‘I do my hair toss, check my nails, baby how you feelin’?’

 

  1. ‘High Hopes’ – Panic! At The Disco

Key lyrics: ‘Had to have high, high hopes for a living.’

 

  1. ‘Can’t Stop the Feeling!’ – Justin Timberlake

Key lyrics: ‘I got that sunshine in my pocket, got that good soul in my feet.’

 

  1. ‘Electric Love’ – BØRNS

Key lyrics: ‘Baby, you’re like lightning in a bottle, I can’t let you go now that I got it.’

 

  1. ‘Best Day of My Life’ – American Authors

Key lyrics: ‘This is gonna be the best day of my life.’

 

  1. ‘Beautiful Crazy’ – Luke Combs

Key lyrics: ‘Beautiful, crazy, she can’t help but amaze me.’

 

  1. ‘Forever After All’ – Luke Combs

Key lyrics: ‘They say nothing lasts forever, but they ain’t seen us together.’

 

  1. ‘Butterflies’ – Kacey Musgraves

Key lyrics: ‘You give me butterflies.’

 

  1. ‘Sucker’ – Jonas Brothers

Key lyrics: ‘I’m a sucker for you.’

 

  1. ‘Stuck with U’ – Ariana Grande and Justin Bieber

Key lyrics: ‘I’m stuck with you, stuck with you, stuck with you.’

 

  1. ‘A Sky Full of Stars’ – Coldplay

Key lyrics: ‘Cause you’re a sky full of stars.’

 

  1. ‘No Place’ – Backstreet Boys

Key lyrics: ‘There ain’t no place, ain’t no place like you.’

 

  1. ‘Higher Love’ – Kygo and Whitney Houston

Key lyrics: ‘Think about it, there must be higher love.’

 

  1. ‘Love Someone’ – Lukas Graham

Key lyrics: ‘When you love someone, you open up your heart.’

 

  1. ‘I Choose You’ – Ryann Darling

Key lyrics: ‘I choose you in a hundred lifetimes, I’d choose you.’

 

  1. ‘This Feeling’ – The Chainsmokers feat. Kelsea Ballerini

Key lyrics: ‘They tell me think with my head, not that thing in my chest.’

 

  1. ‘Home’ – Phillip Phillips

Key lyrics: ‘Just know you’re not alone, cause I’m gonna make this place your home.’

 

  1. ‘Higher’ – Rihanna

Key lyrics: ‘You take me higher, higher than I’ve ever been.’

 

  1. ‘Good Old Days’ – Macklemore feat. Kesha

Key lyrics: ‘I wish somebody would have told me that someday, these will be the good old days.’

 

  1. ‘Honeymoon Avenue’ – Ariana Grande

Key lyrics: ‘Feels like we’re on a honeymoon, honeymoon, honeymoon.’

 

  1. ‘Love You Like I Used To’ – Russell Dickerson

Key lyrics: ‘I don’t love you like I used to, it gets better every time you kiss me like this.’

 

  1. ‘Happy’ – Pharrell Williams

Key lyrics: ‘Because I’m happy, clap along if you feel like a room without a roof.’

 

  1. ‘Rewrite the Stars’ – Zac Efron and Zendaya

Key lyrics: ‘What if we rewrite the stars? / Say you were made to be mine.’

 

  1. ‘Young and Beautiful’ – Lana Del Rey

Key lyrics: ‘Will you still love me when I’m no longer young and beautiful?’

 

  1. ‘Feel It Still’ – Portugal. The Man

Key lyrics: ‘Ooh woo, I’m a rebel just for kicks, now.’

 

  1. ‘Loving You Easy’ – Zac Brown Band

Key lyrics: ‘Loving you is easy.’

 

  1. ‘Just the Way You Are’ – Bruno Mars

Key lyrics: ‘When I see your face, there’s not a thing that I would change.’

 

  1. ‘Closer’ – The Chainsmokers feat. Halsey

Key lyrics: ‘So baby, pull me closer in the back seat of your Rover.’

 

  1. ‘Grow Old with Me’ – Tom Odell

Key lyrics: ‘Grow old with me, let us share what we see.’

 

  1. ‘Made for You’ – Jake Owen

Key lyrics: ‘Like a ship without a sea, or a song without a melody, I don’t know where I’d be or what I’d do.’

 

  1. ‘You & Me’ – James TW

Key lyrics: ‘It’s you and me, it’s always been.’

 

  1. ‘Tenerife Sea’ – Ed Sheeran

Key lyrics: ‘You look so beautiful in this light.’

 

  1. ‘XO’ – Beyoncé

Key lyrics: ‘In the darkest night, I’ll search through the crowd, your face is all that I see.’

 

  1. ‘One Call Away’ – Charlie Puth

Key lyrics: ‘I’m only one call away, I’ll be there to save the day.’

 

  1. ‘Best Part’ – Daniel Caesar feat. H.E.R.

Key lyrics: ‘You’re the coffee that I need in the morning, you’re my sunshine in the rain when it’s pouring.’

 

  1. ‘I Will Follow You’ – Toulouse

Key lyrics: ‘I will follow you way down wherever you may go.’

 

  1. ‘Say You Won’t Let Go’ – James Arthur

Key lyrics: ‘I’m so in love with you, and I hope you know.’

 

  1. ‘Adventure of a Lifetime’ – Coldplay

Key lyrics: ‘You make me feel like I’m alive again.’

 

  1. ‘Meant to Be’ – Bebe Rexha and Florida Georgia Line

Key lyrics: ‘If it’s meant to be, it’ll be, it’ll be, baby, just let it be.’

 

  1. ‘I Was Made for Loving You’ – Tori Kelly feat. Ed Sheeran

Key lyrics: ‘I was made for loving you, even though we may be hopeless hearts just passing through.’

 

  1. ‘Die a Happy Man’ – Thomas Rhett

Key lyrics: ‘If I never get to see the Northern lights, I could die a happy man.’

 

  1. ‘Treasure’ – Bruno Mars

Key lyrics: ‘Treasure, that is what you are, honey, you’re my golden star.’

15 funny choices for wedding entrance songs

If you’d like to give your guests a giggle as you and your other half walk in, there are lots of ways to do that too. Here are 15 funny wedding entrance songs to inject a little humour into your big entrance.

  1. ‘Another One Bites the Dust’ – Queen

Key lyrics: ‘Another one bites the dust, and another one gone, and another one gone.’

 

  1. ‘I’m Too Sexy’ – Right Said Fred

Key lyrics: ‘I’m too sexy for my shirt, too sexy for my shirt, so sexy it hurts.’

 

  1. ‘Eye of the Tiger’ – Survivor

Key lyrics: ‘It’s the eye of the tiger, it’s the thrill of the fight.’

 

  1. ‘U Can’t Touch This’ – MC Hammer

Key lyrics: ‘Stop! Hammer time.’

 

  1. ‘Let’s Get It On’ – Marvin Gaye

Key lyrics: ‘I’ve been really tryin’, baby, tryin’ to hold back this feeling for so long.’

 

  1. ‘Sexy and I Know It’ – LMFAO

Key lyrics: ‘Girl, look at that body, I work out!’

 

  1. ‘I Believe in a Thing Called Love’ – The Darkness

Key lyrics: ‘I believe in a thing called love, just listen to the rhythm of my heart.’

 

  1. ‘Girls Just Want to Have Fun’ – Cyndi Lauper

Key lyrics: ‘Oh, girls just wanna have fun.’

 

  1. ‘Walking on Sunshine’ – Katrina and the Waves

Key lyrics: ‘I’m walking on sunshine, whoa-oh! And don’t it feel good?’

 

  1. ‘Love on Top’ – Beyoncé

Key lyrics: ‘Baby, it’s you, you’re the one I love, you’re the one I need.’

 

  1. ‘Mambo No. 5’ – Lou Bega

Key lyrics: ‘A little bit of Monica in my life / A little bit of Erica by my side.’

 

  1. ‘Who Let The Dogs Out’ – Baha Men

Key lyrics: ‘Who let the dogs out? Who, who, who, who, who?’

 

  1. ‘I Got You (I Feel Good)’ – James Brown

Key lyrics: ‘I feel good, I knew that I would now.’

 

  1. ‘Wannabe’ – Spice Girls

Key lyrics: ‘If you wanna be my lover, you gotta get with my friends.’

 

  1. ‘That Don’t Impress Me Much’ – Shania Twain

Key lyrics: ‘Okay, so you’re Brad Pitt / That don’t impress me much.’

15 alternative choices for wedding entrance songs

If romantic, classic, modern or funny doesn’t quite fit with the feeling you’d like to convey when strutting your stuff in front of your guests, you could think a little further out of the box. Here are 15 suggestions for alternative choices for wedding entrance songs to be a little (or a lot) bit different.

  1. ‘Home’ – Edward Sharpe & The Magnetic Zeros

Key lyrics: ‘Home, let me come home, home is wherever I’m with you.’

 

  1. ‘Ho Hey’ – The Lumineers

Key lyrics: ‘I belong with you, you belong with me, you’re my sweetheart.’

 

  1. ‘First Day of My Life’ – Bright Eyes

Key lyrics: ‘This is the first day of my life, I’m glad I didn’t die before I met you.’

 

  1. ‘Such Great Heights’ – Iron and Wine

Key lyrics: ‘They will see us waving from such great heights, ‘come down now,’ they’ll say.’

 

  1. ‘Sea of Love’ – Cat Power

Key lyrics: ‘Come with me, my love, to the sea, the sea of love.’

 

  1. ‘Heartbeats’ – José González

Key lyrics: ‘One night of magic rush, the start of simple touch.’

 

  1. ‘There is a Light That Never Goes Out’ – The Smiths

Key lyrics: ‘To die by your side, well, the pleasure, the privilege is mine.’

 

  1. ‘You’re My Best Friend’ – The Once

Key lyrics: ‘Ooh, you make me live, whatever this world can give.’

 

  1. ‘Latch (Acoustic)’ – Sam Smith

Key lyrics: ‘Now I’ve got you in my space, I won’t let go of you.’

 

  1. ‘Falling Slowly’ – Glen Hansard & Markéta Irglová

Key lyrics: ‘Take this sinking boat and point it home, we’ve still got time.’

 

  1. ‘Dog Days Are Over’ – Florence + The Machine

Key lyrics: ‘The dog days are over, oh / The dog days are done / Can you hear the horses? / ‘Cause here they come.’

 

  1. ‘Forever’ – Ben Harper

Key lyrics: ‘Not talkin’ ’bout a year, no, not three or four/ I don’t want that kind of forever in my life anymore.’

 

  1. ‘You and Me’ – Lifehouse

Key lyrics: ‘You and me and all of the people, and I don’t know why I can’t keep my eyes off of you.’

 

  1. ‘Hysteric’ – Yeah Yeah Yeahs

Key lyrics: ‘You suddenly complete me, you suddenly complete me.’

 

  1. ‘Bloom’ – The Paper Kites

Key lyrics: ‘Can I be close to you?’

10 instrumental choices for wedding entrance songs

If lyrics it’s more about the emotions and feelings the music conjures up than the lyrics, you could go for an instrumental piece of music, which is often romantic and calming. Here are 10 ideas to give you some inspiration.

  1. ‘Canon in D’ – Johann Pachelbel

Timeless, elegant and whimsical, and makes for a romantic and gentle entrance.

 

  1. ‘River Flows in You’ – Yiruma

A powerful and romantic piece which is considered a masterpiece.

 

  1. ‘Clair de Lune’ – Claude Debussy

Dreamy, fantastical and instantly recognisable.

 

  1. ‘Married Life’ – Michael Giacchino

A piece that tugs at the old heart strings from the infamous opening scene of Pixar’s Up.

 

  1. ‘Somewhere Over the Rainbow (Instrumental)’ – Israel Kamakawiwo’ole

A gentle ukelele version of the Wizard of Oz classic.

 

  1. ‘Concerning Hobbits’  – Howard Shore

Light and bouncy, an instantly recognisable tune from The Lord of the Rings: Fellowship of the Ring.

 

  1. ‘Halo (Instrumental)’ – Beyoncé

A touching rendition of the Beyoncé classic.

 

  1. ‘All of Me (Instrumental)’ – John Legend

A lovely version of the John Legend favourite.

 

  1. ‘Arrival of the Birds’ – The Cinematic Orchestra

A swelling and cinematic tune that is easily recognisable.

 

  1. ‘Feather Theme’ – Alan Silvestri

A gentle cinematic favourite from Forrest Gump.

10 retro choices for wedding entrance songs

If you’d prefer something with a little retro flair, there are some great crowd-pleasers for you to consider. Here are 10 brilliant retro choices for wedding entrance songs.

  1. ‘You Make Me Feel Brand New’ – The Stylistics

Key lyric: ‘You make me feel brand new, I just want to be with you.’

 

  1. ‘Twist and Shout’ – The Isley Brothers

Key lyric: ‘Come on, come on, come on, come on, now! / Touch me, baby.’

 

  1. ‘Chapel of Love’ – The Dixie Cups

Key lyric: ‘Today’s the day we’ll say “I do” / And we’ll never be lonely anymore.’

 

  1. ‘What a Wonderful World’ – Louis Armstrong

Key lyric: ‘And I think to myself, what a wonderful world.’

 

  1. ‘Just the Way You Are’ – Billy Joel

Key lyric: ‘Don’t go changing to try and please me, you never let me down before.’

 

  1. ‘Something’ – The Beatles

Key lyric: ‘Something in the way she moves attracts me like no other lover.’

 

  1. ‘You Are the Sunshine of My Life’ – Stevie Wonder

Key lyric: ‘You are the sunshine of my life, that’s why I’ll always be around.’

 

  1. ‘I Will Always Love You’ – Dolly Parton

Key lyric: ‘And I hope life treats you kind, and I hope you have all you’ve dreamed of.’

 

  1. ‘Ain’t No Mountain High Enough’ – Marvin Gaye and Tammi Terrell

Key lyric: ‘Ain’t no mountain high enough, ain’t no valley low enough, ain’t no river wide enough.’

 

  1. ‘Always and Forever’ – Heatwave

Key lyric: ‘Always and forever, each moment with you is like a dream to me.’

How far in advance should you choose your wedding entrance song?

There are several important songs you’ll choose for inclusion in your wedding, including the song you walk down the aisle to and the song you have your first dance to. But, the song you enter your breakfast or reception to is also important, so should be given plenty of consideration.

For that reason, it’s not something you’ll want to leave to the last minute. Think about it at least six months ahead of the wedding and make your final decision at least two months before the big day. And, if you’re planning something special, you might even want to give it a little longer than that to make sure you have everything in place. Make sure you loop in your wedding band or DJ (and your wedding planner, if you have one), so they can help you plan your big moment.

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50 Creative Wedding Table Number Ideas

Wedding table numbers are a quick and easy way to help your guests find their seats at a wedding reception. But, just because they’re quick and easy, it doesn’t mean they have to be boring! 

With a little creativity, your table numbers can become a charming part of your wedding decor, reflecting your personality and adding to the overall theme of your big day. From natural and floral designs to DIY projects and travel-inspired ideas, we’ve compiled a list of 50 unique and creative wedding table number ideas to inspire you and delight your guests. Let’s get started!

What are wedding table numbers? 

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Wedding table numbers are the numbers you put on your wedding tables during your wedding reception. Each table should have a unique number and your wedding table numbers should correspond to the numbers on your wedding table plan

You can have wedding table numbers as well as wedding table names. For example, ‘Table 1 – Strawberry, Table 2 – Blackberry…’ and so on. But, you should always have either a table number or a table name. Otherwise, you’ll leave your guests scratching their heads as to where they should sit! 

50 wedding table number ideas

Looking for some fun wedding table number ideas? Check out these 50 ideas for unique and creative wedding table numbers. 

Natural & floral wedding table numbers

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1) Tree slice wooden table number

This is a simple and natural wedding table number idea. Simply custom wooden discs out of a tree branch (if you have the equipment), or visit a local carpenter to see if they have any they can sell to you. You can also buy them in bulk online.

Once you’ve got hold of the discs, simply write your table numbers on the disk in permanent marker, paint, or woodburning tools for a rustic look. 

2) Flower pot table numbers

Flower pot table numbers are another great way to incorporate nature into your big day. It’ll require a little forward planning, as you’ll need to plant the flowers in the plant pots ahead of time and let them grow. Once grown, simply write your table numbers on the plant pots in paint or acrylic marker and place them in the middle of your tables. 

3) Pressed flowers in acrylic

Pressed flowers in acrylic combine the beauty of natural table numbers with the long-wearing of acrylic table numbers. Again, you’ll need to do some work beforehand— either purchase pressed flowers online or press your own flowers using fresh flowers and a heavy book.

You can then set the pressed flowers in resin and either carve the table number into the resin or form the table number out of the flowers. These table numbers will not only add a touch of natural elegance to your wedding decor but also serve as a lasting keepsake for you and your guests.

4) Herb pot table numbers

Herb pot table numbers are similar to flower pot wedding numbers in that you’ll need time for the herbs to grow. Write the table number on the side of the herb pot and place them in the middle of your wedding tables. The herbs will fill the room with a beautiful, earthy scent, and guests can even flavour their food with them if you include something tasty like mint, basil, or rosemary.

5) Wooden block table numbers

These simple table numbers are always a winner if you’re looking for something low fuss. Simply purchase or make wooden blocks and paint the numbers on them. Choose a colour that complements your wedding colours for a cohesive look. These wooden blocks can be stacked or placed alongside other table decor for a simple look.

6) Driftwood table numbers

If you prefer the natural, weathered look of driftwood, try collecting different-sized pieces of driftwood from your local beach or coastline. You can either write your wedding table numbers on the driftwood or assemble the driftwood into the shape of the numbers for an impressive look. 

7) Collected pebble table numbers

Collected pebbles give a lovely, earthy feel to your table settings. Gather smooth pebbles from a beach or garden, and use a white paint pen to write the table numbers on them. Arrange them in a small pile or place them in a shallow dish for a natural look. You could also scatter them around your centrepieces if you prefer a more cohesive look.

8) Seashell table numbers

Seashells give a similar vibe to collected pebbles, bringing a natural and earthy feel to the big day. You can either use large shells with table numbers painted on them, or a collection of smaller shells with a wedding table number holder in the middle. Print each wedding table number on a piece of card and fit in the middle of your arrangement of shells. This will ensure a clear table number for your guests while still maintaining the pretty, coastal feel you’re going for. 

9) Dried leaves in acrylic

Similar to dried flowers in acrylic, dried leaves in acrylic combine natural elements with a modern twist. Collect some beautiful autumn leaves, press them, and set them in clear resin. Carve or paint the table numbers on the acrylic blocks for a unique and lasting table number display.

10) Leaf cutouts

If you like the look of nature but don’t want to deal with too much admin before the wedding (you’re already doing enough, right?) you could have paper wedding table numbers cut in the shape of different natural shapes. For example, flowers, leaves, or seashells.  Simply have a printer create your table numbers, paint or write the numbers on these cutouts, and place them on your tables for a simple but effective look. 

DIY wedding table numbers

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11) Bottle corks

Save all the bottle corks from your favourite wine, Champagne, and Prosecco bottles to act as stands for your wedding table numbers. Simply slice a slit into the side of each cork and slide in a card with your table number written on it. This is a charming and eco-friendly way to display your table numbers while adding a personal touch from your celebratory moments. 

Pro tip: If your corks were from celebratory bottles, consider writing what you were celebrating on the cork for that extra personal touch! 

12) Twine wedding table numbers

This wedding table number is cute, rustic, and crafty. Cut your wedding table numbers out of a piece of cardboard and wrap the twine around them. Secure the ends with glue and display the numbers on small stands or lean them against your wedding table centrepieces for a charming rustic look.

13) Polaroid photos

This is a sweet and personal way to share your happy memories while letting your guests know where they’re sitting. It will, of course, require a little forward planning. But, a year is plenty of time to snap some sweet pictures during beach days, meals out, and family parties. Print your favourites and write the table numbers on them, then place them in small frames or holders on each table.

14) Large puzzle pieces

Large puzzle pieces are a cute and fun way to display your wedding table numbers. You can either make these yourself or have them printed on thick cardstock. Either way, you’ll need a wedding table number holder to display them. Each table gets a different piece of the puzzle, and together they can form a larger picture or message, adding a playful and interactive element to your reception.

15) Mirrored wedding table numbers

Mirrors have become a popular choice for wedding table numbers in recent years. You can find small mirrors online, in charity shops, or specialist wedding decor shops. You’ll then need to write the table numbers on the mirrors using a paint pen or vinyl decals. This creates a chic and elegant look which reflects light beautifully and adds a touch of glamour to your tables.

16) Mason jars with floating candles

This is a simple but effective way to display your wedding table numbers. You’ll need mason jars (or jam jars for a British twist), floating candles, and water. Fill the jars with water, add the floating candles, and attach a tag or card with the table number. When lit, these jars create a warm and inviting ambiance, perfect for an intimate or rustic wedding.

17) Mini chalkboards

If you’re looking for something simple, cheap, and fun, mini chalkboards could be the way forward. You can buy readymade mini chalkboards online or collect a range of different-sized picture frames from charity shops, secondhand shops, and more. Paint the glass of these frames with black chalkboard paint and allow to thoroughly dry. Once this is done, write your table names or numbers in chalk pens or standard chalk. You can even add fun doodles like stick figures, musical notes, flowers, and hearts for extra fun. Prop the chalkboards up on the wedding tables so guests can easily see them. 

18) Decorated lanterns

You can easily create wedding table numbers using lanterns by placing a small card with the table number inside the lantern. Decorate the lantern with flowers, greenery, or fairy lights to match your wedding theme. This not only provides a clear table number but also adds a charming and warm glow to your table settings.

19) Message in a bottle

If you’re going for a nautical vibe, this message in a bottle is a fun, DIY wedding table number idea. Collect some wine, beer, Champagne, or spirit bottles (whatever you’d prefer) and clean them thoroughly. Write your table numbers on pieces of parchment paper, roll them up, and slide them into the bottles. You can decorate the bottles with twine, shells, or sand to enhance the nautical theme. Guests will see your table numbers as soon as they walk in, and they’re sure to set the scene for your special day. 

20) Family photos

Inject some family fun and nostalgia into your wedding day using old family photos. Find or print photos of family members from different generations and write the table numbers on the photo frames. This not only serves as a unique table number display but also as a lovely tribute to your loved ones.  

Use a greyscale effect for the photos to give them a timeless, elegant look. Frame the photos in vintage-style frames to enhance the nostalgic feel. This special touch will surely be a conversation starter and make your guests feel even more connected to your special day.

Travel & wanderlust-inspired wedding table numbers

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21) Mini globes

Mini globes are a great way to display your wedding table numbers. You can find mini globes in toy shops, online, or at travel shops. Write the table numbers directly on the globes or attach small number tags. This idea is perfect for anyone with a sense of adventure or wanderlust. 

22) Postcards

It’s a good idea to plan ahead with this one if you want it to be authentic. Pick up a few postcards from your travels over the years. Alternatively, try Googling ‘Postcards from [x] country’ to recreate your favourite holidays or dream travel destinations. Write the table numbers on the postcards and display them in stands or frames.

23) Map cutouts

Remember the old OS maps you got in school? Try cutting out prominent sections of an OS map to use as your table numbers. These could be places that are special in your relationship like where you met, your first home, or the location of your first date. 

All you need to do is glue or attach the map cutouts onto cardstock or small wooden plaques, and write the table numbers on them. This not only serves as a unique table number display but also as a nostalgic touch that highlights important moments in your relationship.

24) Paper aeroplanes

If you want to bring a touch of whimsy and wanderlust to your wedding day, try using hand-folded paper aeroplanes as your wedding table numbers. Use different coloured paper or decorate the planes with travel-related stamps and stickers. Write the table numbers on the wings or body of the plane, and display them in stands or let them rest on the table. This adds a fun, playful element to your decor.

25) Luggage tags

If you have a collection of luggage tags from your travels, this could be your chance to put them to good use.  Simply write or print the table numbers on the tags and attach them to small stands or place them flat on the tables. If you don’t have enough luggage tags, you can also buy blank tags and personalise them with your wedding colours and travel-themed designs.

26) Vintage cameras

If you’re a fan of the classic beauty of vintage cameras, use them as part of your table decor. Place a vintage camera on each table with a small card or tag displaying the table number attached. Surround the camera with a few travel-related props like old photos, maps, or postcards for an added touch of wanderlust.

27) Mini hot air balloons

This one will need a bit of prep time, but there’s no denying the beauty of hot air balloons and their connection to the love of travel. You can create these pretty easily with small balloons, some string, and small baskets. It’s best to use helium to inflate the balloons to ensure they float and look like real hot air balloons. 

Attach the table numbers to the baskets and use the hot air balloons as whimsical centrepieces. Decorate with flowers, ribbons, or other elements that match your wedding theme.

28) Destination signs

Signposts with arrows pointing to different cities or countries, with the table number incorporated into the sign, make for a fun and thematic table number display. You’ll need wooden boards or cardboard to create the arrows and a post to attach them to. Paint the arrows in different colours and write the names of the destinations and the table numbers on them. This setup not only guides your guests to their tables but also adds a creative and adventurous touch to your wedding decor.

29) Plane tickets

We know hardly anywhere gives out plane tickets anymore. But, if you’ve been able to collect a few, consider reusing them as your wedding table numbers. All you need to do is write or print the table numbers on the tickets and place them in small frames or stands on each table. If you don’t have real plane tickets, you can create your own by designing and printing them on cardstock, adding a fun and personal touch to your travel-themed wedding.

30) Passports

Create your own custom passport pages using cardstock and some creative design skills. You can design the inside pages to include the table numbers along with fun facts about the destination or personal stories related to your travels. Use small booklets to create these passports and place them on each table as a unique and interactive way to guide your guests to their seats.

Hobbies & interest-themed wedding table numbers

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31) Vinyl records

Everyone loves the beauty of vinyl records, and using them as part of your wedding table numbers is a great way to show your love of music. Attach a label with the table number to the centre of each record. Display them on stands or as part of the centrepiece.

Kick up the personalisation by using vinyl records from your own collection (if you trust your guests, of course).

32) Footballs

If you’re a lover of the beautiful game, try using different styles of footballs as table numbers. You can write the table numbers directly on the balls or attach tags. You’ll need to either place them in stands or incorporate them into the centrepieces to ensure their stability. You don’t want your centrepieces rolling away! 

33) Terrazzo tiles

If you love the look of terrazzo tiles or are just a big fan of pottery in general, consider using terrazzo tiles as part of your wedding table numbers. You can easily write the table numbers on the tiles with a paint pen or attach small number tags. Display them on small easels or stands for a chic and modern touch.

34) Crystal wedding table numbers

Crystal wedding table numbers will not only look beautiful, but will also bring the healing energy and positive vibes of crystals to your wedding. Use large crystals like quartz, amethyst, or citrine and attach small tags with the table numbers. Place them on stands or incorporate them into the centrepieces for an elegant, mystical touch.

Pro tip: If you’re naming your tables after crystals, consider matching the crystal table number with the name of the table. For example, if a table is named “Rose Quartz,” use a rose quartz crystal for the table number. This creates a cohesive and enchanting theme that your guests will love. You could also add a small card explaining the meaning and properties of each crystal, adding an informative and personal touch to your decor.

35) Embroidered wedding table numbers

If embroidery or needlework is your hobby of choice, you could easily create your wedding table numbers using your talents. You’ll need fabric, embroidery hoops, and thread. Embroider each table number onto a piece of fabric and stretch it in an embroidery hoop. Display these embroidered hoops on stands or prop them up as part of your table centrepieces. 

36) Hand-painted wedding table numbers 

If you prefer painting, drawing, or sketching, consider creating your own table numbers on tiny canvases. You’ll need small canvases, easels, and your favourite art supplies. Paint or draw the table numbers, and feel free to add any designs or patterns that match your wedding theme. You can display your miniature masterpieces on easels, propped up against the table decor, or even hanging from small stands. This adds a personal, artistic flair to each table and allows you to showcase your creativity.

37) Scrapbook wedding table numbers

Scrapbooking is perfect for anyone who loves to preserve memories and get creative with paper crafts. Create personalised scrapbook pages for each table number using photos, decorative paper, stickers, and other embellishments. You can include pictures of you and your partner, favourite quotes, or even snippets of your love story. It’s a beautiful and personal way to show your guests your love story. 

38) Book page table numbers

Bookworms can also feel represented on their big day by using classic, vintage, or hardback books as their wedding table numbers. All you need to do is find books which mean something special to you, or which fit your wedding theme. You can either write the table numbers directly on the book pages or create custom bookmarks with the table numbers. Display the books open on stands or as part of your centrepieces for a literary touch that will delight your guests.

39) Pottery pieces

Similarly to terrazzo, pottery is a simple and beautiful way to display your wedding table numbers. You can either use a range of ceramics or pieces of broken, unglazed pottery if you prefer an earthy look. All you need to do is write the table numbers on the pottery pieces with a paint pen or attach number tags. Arrange these pieces creatively on the tables or place them in small stands for a rustic and artistic touch.

40) Landscape photography

If you’re into photography and have amassed a collection of beautiful photographs, consider using your wedding day as your own personal showcase! Your landscape photographs will make perfect wedding table numbers. All you need to do is print your best shots, write the table numbers on the back or bottom corner, and display them in frames or stands on each table. This not only adds a personal touch to your decor but also allows your guests to enjoy your artistic talent.

Pretty & whimsical wedding table numbers

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41) Jam jar snow globes

If you’re hosting a winter themed wedding, making your own jam jar snow globe table numbers will be the perfect addition to your tablescape. First and foremost, you’ll need as many jam jars as you have wedding tables. Make sure they’re clean, dry, and have all the labels removed. Then, fill each jar with water, glycerin, and glitter. Securely attach small figurines or decorations inside the lid, and screw the lid back on tightly. Attach the table numbers to the lids or as tags hanging from the jars. When shaken, the jars will create a beautiful snow globe effect, adding a magical touch to your tables.

42) Wishing trees

Use small, potted trees like bonsai or other miniature trees to act as wishing trees. Attach the table numbers to the pots or as hanging tags from the branches. Encourage guests to write their well-wishes on small tags and hang them on the branches, creating a whimsical and interactive table centrepiece that will be filled with love by the end of the evening. 

Pro tip: Put all the tags into a clean jam jar and save them for your first anniversary. On this special day, sit with your spouse, open a bottle of wine, and read through everyone’s well-wishes. What a beautiful and special way to spend your first anniversary! 

43) Feathers

Feathers will make for a beautiful and whimsical addition to your wedding table numbers. Use large, colourful feathers and attach small tags with the table numbers written on them. You can place the feathers in vases, weave them into floral arrangements, or lay them flat on the table for a soft, elegant look.

44) Origami animals

If you have a creative streak, folding your own origami animals to add as wedding table numbers is a fun and personal idea. You’ll need lots of colourful origami paper, a hard surface to work on, and a lot of patience. Consider getting a helper in if you have a lot of tables to fold for. Write the table numbers on small tags and attach them to the origami animals, or use them as part of your centrepieces. 

45) Tea light holders

Tea light holders are a simple and pretty way to display your wedding table numbers. All you’ll need is small glass holders, tea lights, and a bit of creativity. You can use glass paint to write the numbers directly on the holders or attach small number tags to them. When the candles are lit, they will cast a warm, inviting glow that highlights the table numbers beautifully.

46) Paper lanterns

If you’re looking for something bright and colourful but still whimsical, try using paper lanterns as your wedding table numbers. You can paint or write the table numbers directly on the lanterns, or attach small number tags to them. Hang them above each table or use them as part of your centrepieces for a festive and enchanting touch. 

47) Decorative plates

Decorative plates are easy to find at secondhand shops, charity shops, or specialist pottery shops. You could either use a collection of the same decorative plates or mix and match for a more eclectic look. Write or paint the table numbers on the plates and display them on stands or directly on the tables.

48) Watercolour cards

If you prefer the pretty look of soft watercolours and feel like getting your craft on, try creating your own watercolour paint cards. Purchase watercolour paper and paints in your wedding colours. Paint soft, abstract backgrounds on the cards, and once dry, write the table numbers over the top with a calligraphy pen or marker. Display the cards in small stands or clip them to floral arrangements for a delicate, artistic touch.

49) Flower wreaths

Flower wreaths are a pretty and whimsical way to display your wedding table numbers. You could either make these yourself using dried flowers or have your wedding florist create them. Attach the table numbers to the centre of each wreath and hang them on small stands or prop them up against the centrepieces.

50) Crystal balls

If you’re looking for a fun and quirky wedding table number, try using crystal balls. They may be a little trickier than most to get hold of — you’ll likely need to look in new age stores or online to find them. Place the crystal balls on small stands and attach number tags to them. Encourage your guests to look into the crystal ball and see if they can predict the future! 

The bottom line on wedding table numbers

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Planning your wedding is a magical journey, and your table numbers can add that extra sprinkle of creativity and personality to your special day. From whimsical snow globes to nostalgic family photos, there’s no limit to how you can infuse your style into every detail. Whether you’re inspired by natural beauty, DIY crafts, travel adventures, or long-standing, beloved hobbies, there’s a perfect table number idea waiting for you.

Remember, these little touches not only help guide your guests but also tell your unique love story. So, have fun, get creative, and let your imagination run wild. Your wedding day is all about celebrating your love in a way that’s as special and unique as you are. Happy planning!

For a helping hand with your wedding table numbers (and names!), be sure to check out our amazing professional wedding stationers right here on Bridebook! From stunning stationery suites to table plans to bespoke creations, you’re sure to find a design and style that aligns with your wedding vision!

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The Top Table: Who Sits Where at a Wedding?

When it comes to wedding receptions, the top table is the star of the show. It’s the front and centre stage where the most important people in your life will share in the joy of your special day. 

Traditionally, the bride, groom, bride’s parents, groom’s parents, the best man, and the maid of honour sit at the top table. The bride and groom sit in the middle, their respective best man and maid of honour sit next to them, and then the parents sit next to them. 

But who says we have to stick to tradition? Keep reading for a comprehensive guide to who sits where at the wedding top table, including 11 ideas for non-traditional wedding top table layouts. 

What is a top table at a wedding?

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The top table at a wedding is the main table at the wedding reception. This is where the bride and groom sit along with their closest family and friends. It’s usually positioned in a prominent location so that everyone can see the happy couple and their nearest and dearest. 

Wedding top tables can be any shape and size. There are traditional seating patterns for wedding top tables. But, it’s your special day, and the most important thing is that you have those around you whom you love and trust the most. So, pick whoever you want to sit at the top table and follow an arrangement that feels right for you. 

Who sits at the top table at a wedding?

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Traditionally, the bride, groom, bride’s parents, groom’s parents, the best man, and the maid of honour sit at the top table at a wedding. The bride and groom sit in the middle, their respective best man and maid of honour sit next to them, and then the parents sit next to them, often in the following order:

  • On the bride’s side: maid of honour, bride’s mum, bride’s dad, or any other gendered parent.
  • On the groom’s side: best man, groom’s mum, groom’s dad, or any other gendered parent.
Wedding traditional top table seating arrangement
Traditional top table plan: bride and groom’s families on either side

Alternatively, sometimes the traditional wedding table order might alternate the respective relations of the bride and groom as follows:

  • On the bride’s side: best man, groom’s mum, bride’s dad, or any other gendered parent.
  • On the groom’s side: maid of honour, groom’s dad, bride’s mum, or any other gendered parent.
Wedding traditional top table seating arrangement
Traditional top table plan: bride and groom’s families on different sides

Whatever arrangement your decide, this is your big day, and you can ask anyone you’d like to sit at the top table with you. Some people only want their besties by their side, while others prefer the company of siblings. Whatever you choose, your happiness is what matters most.

It’s also important to note that this is only the traditional arrangement. In these progressive times, modern couples are rewriting the rules to better reflect their personal identities and values. Each couple may have their own unique arrangement, especially for LGBTQ+ couples or those who wish to embrace gender-neutral or inclusive practices. 

11 traditional and creative wedding top table plans

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Looking for some more unusual top table seating plans? Check out these 11 top table seating arrangements to help you get started. 

1) Traditional top table layout

A beautifully decorated wedding table adorned with white drapes and illuminated with small lights. The table is set with plates of food, drinks, and napkin holders, with high, white cushioned chairs behind it. The background features soft, glowing curtains.

The traditional top table layout is where the bride and groom sit in the middle of the table and their nearest and dearest surround them in a specific order,

As above, the best man and maid of honour sit next to the bride and groom, followed by their respective parents. This layout puts the couple at the heart of the celebration, flanked by those who have supported them the most.

2) Sweetheart top table layout

An elegantly decorated sweetheart table with a white tablecloth is set up in a luxurious venue. The table features floral arrangements, greenery, and a "Mr & Mrs" sign. In the background, there are mirrors, chandeliers, and wall sconces adding to the sophisticated ambiance.

If you’re looking for something a little more intimate, the sweetheart wedding table is the perfect choice.

The sweetheart wedding table is a table for just the bride and groom. There are no distractions, no chattering family — just you and your new spouse sharing this magical moment. 

3) Wedding party top table layout 

A large group of people seated at a long, outdoor dining table adorned with colorful flowers and tableware, raising their glasses in a celebratory toast. The setting is surrounded by trees, creating a festive and enchanting atmosphere.

If you’d rather bring the party to the top table, consider having your parents sit at a table designated for the family and invite your whole wedding party to sit at the top table. Friends are the family you choose, after all!

You may want to have your maid of honour and best man sat next to you, for the sake of tradition. Alternatively, mix it up and intersperse your bridesmaids and groomsmen along the table, creating a lively and dynamic atmosphere. This layout allows you to be surrounded by your closest friends, ensuring a fun and celebratory vibe at the heart of the reception.

4) Cuties only top table layout

Three young children are seated at a table during a formal wedding event. The children are engaged with colorful toys and a few snacks. The child on the left is wearing a vest and looking to the side, while the other two children focus on their toys.

Hold up, hold up — cuties only at this table, please!

This table has the flower girls and page boys sitting at the top table with you. If your kids are involved in your wedding, you have a niece or nephew you’re especially close to, or simply just want to give them a lasting memory, this is the perfect layout.

Imagine their little faces lighting up when they realise they get to sit with the newlyweds! Not only does this make the day extra special for them, but it also adds an adorable touch to your reception.

5) For the speeches

A group of people are seated around a decorated table on a boat. The table has food, flowers, and drinks. A man in a white shirt is standing, speaking while raising a glass, with balloons in the background. The setting is bright and festive with a seaside view.

Keep things practical and only have people seated at the top table who are making a wedding speech. This gives you flexibility over who sits with you and ensures those delivering speeches are easily accessible. Plus, it can streamline the reception and keep everyone’s attention focused where it needs to be during those heartfelt moments.

6) Keep it old-school

A bride and an older woman, possibly her mother or grandmother, share a tender moment. Both are seated and leaning their heads together with their eyes closed, smiling. The bride wears a white dress, veil, and pearls, while the older woman wears a light-coloured dress.

Invite your grandparents to sit at your top table and share the magical memories for your special day with them. This layout honours their place in your life and adds a touch of nostalgia and warmth to the celebration. Plus, the photos will be adorable. 

7) Nearest and dearest

Invite your mum, dad, favourite cousin, or best uncle to sit at the top table with you and revel in the support of your nearest and dearest. 

We know a traditional top table will be heavily family-dominated. But, incorporating the family members who mean the most to you will not only honour the role they’ve played in your life, but  also create a warm, intimate, and unique atmosphere at the heart of your reception. 

8) Siblings only table

A bride in a white wedding dress and veil is sitting on an ornate couch with a bouquet of orange flowers beside her. Two women in blue dresses stand beside her, one with her hands on the bride’s shoulder, all smiling and looking joyful.

They’ve been your best friend since day one, they know you better than anyone else, and they loved you even during those awkward teenage years. Why wouldn’t you want these special people at your top table? We’re talking about siblings.

Of course, we respect that everyone has a different relationship with their siblings. But, if your brothers and/or sisters have been your confidants, cheerleaders, and partners in crime, having a siblings-only top table could be the perfect way to honour those unique bonds.

9) Best friends for life

A joyful bride and her three bridesmaids sit laughing and smiling on a wooden deck by the ocean. The bride holds a drink and one bridesmaid playfully lifts her leg, while another holds a bouquet of flowers. They are all dressed in light-coloured gowns.

Invite your besties to share the special memories and sit at the top table with you and your new spouse. If you have multiple best men or maids of honour, or simply couldn’t imagine your day without your besties by your side, consider opting for this fun and unusual top table layout. 

10) Musical chairs 

Aerial view of a group of people seated at a long outdoor table, sharing a meal. The table is set with plates, cutlery, various dishes, and flowers. The gathering takes place on a grassy lawn, with sunlight casting shadows around the scene.

If you don’t love the idea of a top table but still want to enjoy the company of your closest friends and family throughout the reception, consider a ‘musical chairs’ approach.

With this setup, you and your spouse move around to different tables during the meal, spending time with various groups of guests. This way, you can personally connect with more people and ensure everyone feels included in your special day.

Have a few extra, empty seats set up at each wedding table and then make your way around each table during the wedding reception. You and your new spouse could either go together, or tag team to make sure you hit every table. If you’d prefer the second option, try to carve out a little time in the middle with them to ensure you don’t miss out on their company during your wedding reception. 

Pro tip: You’ll need to clear this one with your caterers and wedding venue. As much as we’re sure they’d be happy to accommodate, it’s best to give them the heads up so they aren’t chasing you around with your beef wellington! 

11) No top table/inclusive seating arrangement

A joyful outdoor wedding celebration with guests dancing and clapping. The bride, in a white dress and floral headpiece, dances with a young child in her arms. The sun sets in the background, casting a warm glow over the festive scene.

FOMO got you down? Skip the top table altogether and opt for a more inclusive seating arrangement where you and your new spouse can mingle freely with your guests. We recommend having designated seats on specific wedding tables, but leaving plenty of time between wedding breakfast courses to ensure you can mingle around the room and spend time with your guests. 

This ‘top table seating arrangement’ encourages a more relaxed and interactive atmosphere, allowing you to connect personally with more people throughout the celebration. 

The bottom line on top table setting plans

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The top table of a wedding reception is the focal point of the celebration. It’s where the most important people in your life gather to share in your joy, and usually includes the bride, groom, both of your parents, the best man, and the maid of honour. However, there’s no need to stick strictly to tradition if you’d prefer something more fun or unusual. 

From intimate sweetheart tables to adorable cutie pie tables for the little ones, there are countless ways to make your top table uniquely yours. If you’re looking for flexibility, consider seating only those giving speeches at the top table, or if you want to keep it old-school and sentimental, invite your grandparents to share in the magic of the day. 

Whatever you choose to do, the most important thing is that your top table reflects your personality, relationships, and includes those who have supported and continue to support you most. Incorporate your nearest and dearest into your wedding reception and you’re sure to have a day filled with laughs and happy memories.

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60 Best Wedding Table Name Ideas

You’ve planned your menu, completed your table centrepieces, and sorted your place cards. There’s just one thing left to do — name your tables!

Naming your wedding tables may seem like a small detail, but it can have a big impact on the overall theme and feel of your wedding reception. Of course, you can just number your wedding tables, but where’s the fun in that?

If you’re struggling to name your wedding tables, don’t stress. We’re here to help! We’ve compiled a list of the 60 best wedding table name ideas to get your creative juices flowing and spark your imagination. From nature-inspired themes to nods to your favourite movies, there’s something for every couple. 

So, whether you’re dreaming of romantic beaches, enchanted forests, or vintage classics, you’ll find the perfect table names to suit your style. Let’s get started and explore the best names for your wedding reception tables!

What are wedding table names?

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Wedding table names are the names you give to your wedding tables to differentiate them and add a personal touch to your reception decor. They can help your guests find their seats more easily, help your serving staff work efficiently, and add a fun touch to the overall ambience. 

Naming your wedding tables after a theme gives a feeling of cohesion to the wedding reception, and if it fits in with your wedding theme then all the better! You can name your wedding tables after your favourite beaches, with inside jokes from your favourite film franchise, or even after the flowers in your wedding bouquet. The only limit to naming wedding tables is your imagination. 

How do you name tables at a wedding?

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We recommend naming your wedding tables after places, films, or songs that are significant to you and your partner. If creativity and meaning are important to you, don’t pick a name just because it sounds good, or use something generic like numbers. This is your chance to pick a beautiful and personal name for each table that will add to the vibe and ambience of your big day.

What should you name the top table at a  wedding?

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The top table is traditionally the table where the bride and groom sit, so it’s natural that you should give this table your favourite wedding table name.

How can you make table names for a wedding?

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You can easily make your own wedding table names out of materials that fit your wedding theme, such as wooden signs, chalkboards, or elegant cardstock. You can also get creative with calligraphy, printed designs, or even unique objects that represent each table name.

Your wedding table name should sit in the middle of the rest of your wedding table decor or near your centrepieces.  Just make sure that the names are clearly visible and easy for guests to find their seats.

Alternatively, for a professional touch, consider working with an experienced stationer or designer, who can help you bring your table name ideas to life!

Name ideas for wedding tables

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Keep reading for 60 fun and creative name ideas for wedding tables. 

Nature-themed wedding table names

  1. The four seasons. If you only have four tables, consider naming your tables after the 4 seasons. You could even theme your wedding centrepieces and table decor around these names to really drive home the theme. 
  2. Flowers. Consider naming your tables after your favourite blooms. Whether it’s roses, daisies, orchids, or Britain’s beautiful wildflowers, you’ll be hard-pressed to run out of table names if you name them after flowers. 
  3. Seas and oceans. If you have less than 7 tables and are looking for a nautical theme, consider naming your tables after one of the 7 seas. Atlantic, Pacific, Indian, Arctic, Southern, Mediterranean, and Caribbean – each table named after one of these majestic bodies of water will transport your guests to far-off shores and infuse your reception with maritime charm.
  4. Constellations. If you love stars, the night sky, or astronomy, consider naming your wedding tables after some well-known stars and constellations. Whether it’s Carina, Orion, Lyra, or Ursa Major, the sky’s the limit with this creative naming framework. 
  5. Hills and mountains. You could either name your tables after the UK’s famous mountains and hills, or go further afield and name them after mountains from around the world. Think Ben Nevis, Snowdon (Yr Wyddfa), and Scafell Pike. Alternatively, use Mt. Everest, Mt. Kilimanjaro, or the Himalayas. 
  6. Trees and forests. There are an abundance of natural forests and trees in the UK you could name your tables after. If you prefer the idea of using trees, try Oak, Sycamore, or Maple. If you’d like to use forests, try the New Forest, Sherwood Forest, or the Forest of Dean. 

Location-themed wedding table names

  1. Landmarks. Try naming your tables after famous landmarks. Think the Eiffel Tower, The Colosseum, or the Great Wall of China. Bonus points if they have a special significance to you and your partner. 
  2. Beaches. Naming your wedding tables after beaches is a great choice if you’re from an island or a seaside town, planning a destination wedding, or simply love visiting the beach. You could try using famous beaches like Llanddwyn on the Isle of Anglesey, Brighton beach, or Copacabana in Rio de Janeiro.
  3. Cities. If you prefer hustle and bustle, try naming your tables after cities in the UK or after capital cities around the world. You could use London, Edinburgh, and Dublin for a local feel, or go for Tokyo, Copenhagen, or Melbourne for an international flavour. 
  4. Your travels. If you and your partner love travelling and taking holidays, you could name your wedding tables after the places you’ve visited. Consider using the cities you stayed in or naming your travels after the adventures you had while you were there. Think ‘Snorkelling in Tenerife’ or ‘Onsen in Japan’.
  5. Sentimental places. Recall the names of the towns you grew up in, the places you went to university, or the locations of significant milestones in your relationship. Whether it’s the quaint cafe where you had your first date, the park where you shared your first kiss, or the spot where you got engaged, naming tables after these sentimental places will add a deeply personal and nostalgic touch to your wedding.
  6. Famous streets. If you like the idea of using location-themed wedding table names, but don’t feel especially attached to any place, famous street names are a great option. You could use Penny Lane, Broadway, Abbey Road, or Champs-Élysées depending on the vibe you’re trying to create. 

Film-themed wedding table names

  1. Classic cinema films. You could name your wedding tables after your favourite old films or classic films. For example, Casablanca, the Wizard of Oz, or Singin’ in the Rain. 
  2. Old Hollywood icons. Using old Hollywood icons like Fred & Ginger, Audrey Hepburn, Marilyn Monroe, or Charlie Chaplain will bring a touch of glamour and nostalgia to your big day. 
  3. Famous movie quotes. Name tables after iconic movie quotes that hold special meaning to you as a couple. For example, ‘May the Force Be with You,’ ‘I’ll Have What She’s Having,’ or ‘To Infinity and Beyond.’
  4. Your favourite film characters. Try naming tables after characters from your favourite film. For example, Groot, Gamora, and Nebula. This will add a personal touch to your reception and may give your guests a new favourite film! 
  5. Famous film couples. Name tables after iconic on-screen sweethearts who reflect your and your partner’s love story. For example, Romeo & Juliet, Jack & Rose, Mickey & Minnie, or Noah & Allie. 
  6. Famous film props. If you want to name your wedding tables after your favourite film but would prefer to use a more subtle naming scheme, consider using film props. For example, consider naming your tables Ruby Slippers, Golden Cap, or Toto’s Basket to show your love for the Wizard of Oz. 

Music-themed wedding table names

  1. Song titles. Use your favourite song titles to inspire your wedding table names. Try using romantic songs or songs that describe your feelings for your partner for an added touch of romance. For example, Golden Hour, Unforgettable, or Can’t Help Falling In Love.
  2. Your favourite bands and/or singers. You could also use the names of your favourite bands or singers to name your wedding tables. You could name any tables with your own guests after your favourite singers, and tables with your partner’s guests after their favourite singers. This will help you stay organised when creating your seating plans. 
  3. Music icons. Try naming your wedding tables after classic music icons. This will inject a sense of nostalgia and reverence into your wedding reception. You could use Aretha Franklin, Elvis, The Beatles, or David Bowie depending on your preference. 
  4. Album titles. Use the names of your favourite albums or vinyls to name your wedding tables. You could use Rumours, Dark Side of the Moon, Abbey Road, Thriller, or Purple Rain.
  5. Musical terms. If you’re part of a band, choir, or studied Music theory at university, this could be the perfect choice for your wedding tables. You could use Harmony, Melody, Rhythm, or Tempo to name a few. 
  6. Song lyrics.You could also use song lyrics that represent your and your partner’s relationship to name your tables. For example, ‘Love is All You Need,’ ‘You Are My Sunshine,’ ‘You’re Still the One,’ or ‘I Will Always Love You.’ 

Seasonal wedding table names

  1. The four seasons. You could simply name your tables Spring, Summer, Autumn, and Winter if you’re looking for simple seasonal-themed names. 
  2. Spring-themed wedding table names. Spring-themed wedding table names could include April Showers, Blossom, Daffodil, or Butterfly Garden. 
  3. Summer-themed wedding table names. Summer-themed wedding table names could include Ice Cream, Sandy Toes, Ocean Waves, or Sunny Daze. 
  4. Autumn-themed wedding table names. You could try Falling Leaves, Toadstool, or Pumpkin Spice as cute, seasonal autumn table names. 
  5. Winter-themed wedding table names. Winter-themed wedding table names could include Jack Frost, Snowflake, Mittens, or Hot Chocolate. 
  6. Christmas-themed wedding table names. For a Christmas-themed wedding, you can infuse the festive spirit into your table names. Try using Santa’s Workshop, Jingle Bells, Candy Cane, or North Pole. 

Religious wedding table names

  1. Bible verses. Name tables after meaningful Bible verses that hold significance to you as a couple, such as 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 ‘Love is patient, love is kind…’, Genesis 2:24 ‘Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh…’, or Ephesians 5:25 ‘Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church…’.
  2. Saints. You could also name your wedding tables after well-known saints from your religion. For example, Saint Francis, Saint Teresa, Saint Jude, or Saint Cecilia.
  3. Spiritual virtues. Try naming your wedding tables after the different virtues emphasised in your faith. For example, ‘Faith,’ ‘Hope,’ ‘Love,’ ‘Peace,’ or ‘Joy.’ This will infuse your wedding celebration with the values and principles that guide your faith, reminding you and your guests of the spiritual foundation of your union.
  4. Angels. You could also try naming wedding tables after the different Angels named in religious texts. For example, Gabriel, Michael, Raphael, or Uriel. 
  5. Your favourite hymns. Use your favourite hymns as inspiration for naming your wedding tables. Consider hymns that hold special meaning to you and your partner. For example, ‘Amazing Grace,’ ‘How Great Thou Art,’ or ‘Be Thou My Vision.’
  6. Well-known religious figures. You could also name your wedding tables after well-known biblical figures. Try to use figures who are prominent in your religion. For example, Moses, Mohammed, Ruth, Mary, or Jesus. 

Disney wedding table names

  1. Beloved characters. Name your wedding tables after your favourite classic characters. Think Mickey, Minnie, Goofy, and Pluto. You could even have the theme of each table revolve around these characters. Think bows for Minnie, ears for Mickey, or bright colours to capture the motifs of each character.  
  2. Disney parks. You could name your wedding tables after your favourite Disney parks. For example, Disneyland Paris, Disney World, Tokyo Disney, and more. This is ideal whether you’re planning a Disney wedding specifically, or just love visiting the parks. If you’ve been lucky enough to visit a few parks, consider using your personal holiday snaps from each one as wedding table decor! 
  3. Your favourite films. Name your wedding tables after all your favourite films. Whether you’re a fan of the classic princess films, prefer new classics like Encanto and Tangled, or have fallen in love with the live action films, you’ll never be short of movie names with Disney’s library of titles. 
  4. Famous Disney quotes. Try naming your wedding tables after famous Disney love quotes. You could keep them short and sweet with ‘Some people are worth melting for’, or use slightly longer quotes like ‘Find who you love through true love’s kiss’.
  5. Disney couples. You could also use the names of famous Disney couples for your wedding table names. For example, Ariel & Eric, Beauty & The Beast, Cinderella & Prince Charming, or Anna & Elsa. 
  6. Film locations. Name your wedding tables after the locations of Disney films. For example, the magical kingdom of Arandelle, the Hundred Acre Wood, or the bustling city of Agrabah. 

Harry Potter inspired wedding table names

  1. Book names. You could name your wedding tables after the Harry Potter books so long as you have less than 7 tables. We recommend using a shortened version of the titles to save your guests a little time when finding their seats. For example, ‘Philosopher’s Stone’ instead of ‘Harry Potter and the Philosopher’s Stone’.  
  2. Your favourite Hogwarts characters. Name your wedding tables after beloved characters and pets from the franchise. For example, Harry Potter, Hedwig, Crookshanks, Draco Malfoy, and more. 
  3. The Hogwarts Houses. If you only have 4 tables, consider naming them Gryffindor, Ravenclaw, Hufflepuff, and Slytherin. Have fun sorting your guests into their respective houses when planning your table plan!
  4. The Hogwarts ghosts. If you prefer the eerie charm of Hogwarts’ spectral inhabitants, you could name your wedding tables after the ghosts that haunt the corridors of the castle. For example, Nearly Headless Nick, the Bloody Baron, the Grey Lady, or the Fat Friar. 
  5. Concepts from the books. Weave your love for the Harry Potter books through your wedding reception with this subtle naming scheme. You could use concepts from the book like the Room of Requirement, the Marauder’s Map, or Dumbledore’s Army. 
  6. Book locations. You could also name your wedding tables after different locations in the books. For example, Hogsmeade, Diagon Alley, the Forbidden Forest, or Grimmauld Place. 

Quirky wedding table names

  1. Your favourite superheroes. If you’re a fan of old comic books, superhero films, or cartoon characters, consider naming your wedding tables after your favourite superheroes. You could use Superman, Catwoman, Spiderman, or Poison Ivy depending on your preferences. 
  2. Literary characters. Name your wedding tables after characters from your favourite book. You could name all your tables with characters from the same book, or mix and match characters from different books to better represent your interests. For example, consider Sherlock Holmes, John Watson, Jo March, or Katniss Everdeen.
  3. Your favourite sweets. If you or your partner have a sweet tooth, try naming your wedding tables after your favourite sweet treats. For example, humbugs, lemon sherberts, sherbert dib-dabs, or gobstoppers. You could even add small jars of your favourite sweets to the middle or each table for a sweet centrepiece! 
  4. Fairytale creatures. Unicorn, Fairy, Nymph, and Warlock are all beautiful and whimsical names for your wedding tables. 
  5. Mythological figures. If you love the stories of Ancient Greece or other mythological traditions, consider naming your wedding tables after figures from mythology. You could use names like Zeus, Athena, Poseidon, or Aphrodite for a Greek mythology theme. Alternatively, explore Norse mythology with names like Odin, Thor, Freya, or Loki.
  6. Famous musicals. Naming your wedding tables after famous musicals is a great way to express your love for the performing arts and add a touch of theatrical flair to your celebration. Consider naming tables after beloved musicals, such as ‘Phantom of the Opera,’ ‘Les Misérables,’ ‘The Sound of Music,’ or ‘Hamilton.’ You could also choose specific songs or characters from these musicals to inspire your table names, such as ‘Defying Gravity,’ ‘Maria and Captain,’ or ‘Rise Up.’ 

Unique wedding table names

  1. Wedding table names in different languages. If you, your partner or any of your guests speak other languages like Spanish, French, German, or Arabic, consider naming your tables in these beautiful languages. You could use romantic or meaningful words and phrases in these languages to add an international flair to your wedding reception. For example Amor (Love), Sueño (Dream), and Esperanza (Hope) in Spanish, or Joie (Joy), Bonheur (Happiness), and Étoile (Star) in French. 
  2. Love languages. Do you and your partner speak regularly about your love language? If so, consider naming your wedding tables after the 5 love languages. You could use Affection, Words of Affirmation, and Acts of Service to spread the conversation about love languages throughout your reception. 
  3. Vintage cars. If you’re a fan of vintage cars, greaser culture, or classic automobiles, naming your wedding tables after iconic vintage cars can add a touch of retro charm to your celebration. You could use names like Cadillac, Corvette, Thunderbird, or even the classic Mini Cooper! 
  4. Famous paintings. Incorporate your love of art into your big day by naming your wedding tables after some well-known paintings. Try the Mona Lisa, Starry Night, and The Kiss to get you started. 
  5. Jewels/gemstones. Bring a little sparkle to your reception by naming your wedding tables after gemstones or semi-precious stones. You could use Ruby, Diamond, and Sapphire for a little glamour, or Turquoise, Jasper, and Jade if you prefer something more natural. 
  6. Classic cocktails. Name your wedding tables after your and your partner’s favourite cocktails. You could use an Espresso Martini, Cuba Libre, or a classic Woo Woo to get you started. 

The bottom line of wedding table names

Carefully naming your wedding tables may seem like a small detail, but the names of your tables can have a big impact on the overall vibe and ambience of your wedding reception. You can name your wedding tables after your favourite places, son titles, fictional characters, and more. The most important thing is that it ties in with your overall wedding theme and reflects your personality as a couple. Avoid generic or uninspired names like ‘Table 1’ or ‘Table A’ – this is your chance to get creative and make your wedding truly memorable. 

So, if you’re unsure where to start, we hope you take inspiration from this list of 60 wedding table name ideas. Whether you’re looking for something fun, creative, unique, quirky, or even a nod to your religious service, we’ve covered all your bases. Happy wedding planning, and happy naming!

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Venue Showcase: Cherish Every Moment at Lillibrooke Manor and Barns

Welcome to Lillibrooke Manor and Barns, a picturesque historical estate nestled in the heart of Berkshire. Steeped in charm and elegance, this exclusive-use venue offers a luxuriously romantic yet rustic setting for couples to celebrate their love story in the most flexible way possible. From the lovingly restored barns to the enchanting Manor House, every corner of Lillibrooke Manor exudes romance and sophistication. Join us as we explore the beauty and versatility of this stunning venue, where love stories unfold amidst history and grandeur.

Highlights of the venue

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At Lillibrooke Manor and Barns, couples are offered complete flexibility to bring their unique wedding vision to life. Whether you envision an intimate gathering or a grand celebration, the venue provides a variety of beautiful barns and outdoor spaces for ceremonies and receptions of every kind. From the quintessentially English Cloister Garden to the romantic Small Barn with its country-church atmosphere, the possibilities are endless. Most notably, Lilibrooke boasts one of the largest barns in the South of England.

Key facilities and accommodation

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You can choose from a variety of beautiful barns for your ceremony and reception, and use the gorgeous grounds and gardens in whatever way you wish.

  • When the weather permits, their quintessentially English Cloister Garden is a picturesque space for having an outdoor wedding ceremony.
  • For indoors, their Small Barn has a country-church atmosphere, which makes for a beautiful one-of-a-kind romantic setting and accommodates up to 130 guests.
  • Their magnificent Great Barn is a dazzling space with a high-beamed ceiling and iron chandeliers which opens into a secluded garden with an outdoor kitchen. This Grade II listed barn is one of the largest in the south of England. It has a bar, dancefloor and boasts a capacity to entertain up to 220 of loved ones.
  • The adjoining hexagonal Engine House is a perfect space for drinks receptions, chillout area, children’s activities – the options are limitless!

Award-winning expertise

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At Lillibrooke Manor and Barns, the award-winning team is dedicated to ensuring that every moment of your wedding day is perfect and unforgettable. From seamless coordination to exquisite culinary creations, the experts are committed to bringing each couple’s unique vision to life. Led by Head Chef Krimo Merrir, the extraordinary culinary team delights guests’ taste buds with a day of delicious food, tailored to preferences and dietary requirements.

The venue is also proud of its awards and industry recognition, including:

  • Best of Bridebook Country Champion 2022
  • Platinum Certificate of Excellence: Bridebook Wedding Awards 2019
  • Association of British Wedding Businesses: Founding Mmeber
  • Featured in Your Berks, Bucks and Oxon Wedding

Memorable moments at Lilibrooke

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Gemma Thomas, who works within the venue’s Sales & Events team, shares the following when it comes to recalling the most memorable or standout moments at Lilibrooke : “We don’t have favourites! All weddings are unique and brilliant in our view. We have had such a variety of themes, from circus, fairs and festival to glamorous black tie. That’s why we say “your day your way”. We mean it! So if you want Bridgerton or vintage, boho or garden party, you’ll be at the right place when you book Lillibrooke Manor and Barns.”

The venue also shares their top tips for couples planning their wedding, and we couldn’t have said it better ourselves: “Don’t get lost in all the details and stress of planning a wedding, and instead, make sure to prioritise what truly makes you happy and will make your day feel special to you as a couple.” 

Spring and autumn showcases

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Couples are invited to join Lillibrooke Manor and Barns for their upcoming spring and autumn showcase events, where they can explore the beauty of the venue firsthand. Meander through the grounds, envisioning the perfect wedding day amidst the splendour of the Grade II listed estate. The doors will be open for couples to discover the magic for themselves and make plans for their big day.

  • Spring Showcase Event: 14th April 2024
  • Autumn Showcase Event: 13th October 2024

Head on over to their own events page to find out more and secure your spot. 

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Treasure every moment of your big day at Lillibrooke Manor and Barns, where history meets romance in the heart of Berkshire. Contact the venue today to begin your journey of creating lifelong memories amidst the timeless beauty of this fabulous exclusive-use venue. Your dream wedding and love story await!

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How to Plan a Disney Wedding

You’ve found your happily ever after, and now it’s time to tie the knot in the happiest place on earth. If you’re stuck choosing between getting married at Disneyland or Disney World, umming and ahhing over Dole Whip or Mickey Waffle puddings, or simply want to add an extra touch of pixie dust to your special day, this is the article for you. 

This post explores everything you need to know about planning your dream Disney wedding at one of their magical locations. From the locations and venues to flowers and those special finishing touches, everything you need to know about your dream Disney wedding is right here!

What is a Disney wedding?    

A Disney wedding is a wedding that happens at one of Disney’s magical locations. They’re known for their attention to detail, magical backdrops, and personal touches that make every Disney wedding completely unique. Plus, where else can you invite the big mouse himself to be a special guest on your big day?

If you grew up watching Disney, had a magical holiday at one of the parks, or even just want a genuine prince or princess experience on your big day, a Disney wedding could be the perfect choice for you.

What is a Disney themed wedding?

A Disney themed wedding is slightly different to a Disney wedding in that it doesn’t necessarily have to happen at a Disney resort. Instead, you can take all the magic, special touches, and pixie dust and transfer it to a location of your choice. This is perfect for couples who want to incorporate their love for Disney into their wedding day but may not be able to have their ceremony at a Disney resort.

With a Disney-themed wedding, you have the flexibility to choose any venue that suits your style and preferences, whether it’s a ballroom, a stately home, a beach, a forest, or even your own garden. The key is to infuse every aspect of your wedding with the enchantment and wonder of Disney, from the decor and entertainment to the attire and menu. 

The flexibility (and reduced cost) of a Disney themed wedding is the happy medium many newlyweds are looking for. Learn more about Disney themed weddings here. 

Step 1: Pick your dream venue

First thing’s first — you need to decide which magical location will be the backdrop for your special day. You have four locations to choose from:

The location you chose will depend on your preferences, budget, and desired atmosphere. There are multiple venues at each location, so there’s plenty of flexibility around dates. We’ve included a few details about some of our favourite venues at each location, but be sure to do your own research to find the place that’s right for you. 

Disney World Florida Weddings

With 48 venues to choose from, you’re sure to find the perfect setting for your dream Disney wedding at Disney World Florida. Here are just a few of our favourite venues at this magical location:

Best for a budget: Tree Of Life, Animal Kingdom

The Tree Of Life in Animal Kingdom is one of the most breathtaking locations in the park, and it’s perfect for those doing a Disney wedding on a budget! With a venue fee of $4,500 and a brunch pricing of $140 per person, you can plan a morning wedding for 50 people for $11,500. Plus, you’ll then have all day to explore the park with your guests, creating unforgettable memories together.

Bear in mind that there’s a $15,000 minimum spend, meaning you’ll need to make up the $3,500 extra with flowers, photography, and optional extras. 

Showstopping: The Grand Floridian Ballroom

The Grand Floridian Ballroom combines Victorian elegance with the magic of Disney for a wedding reception that’s truly show stopping. Be warned, this is definitely one of the priciest options for a Disney wedding. But, with crystal chandeliers, ornate brass lamps, and beautifully manicured English rose gardens, this opulent venue is worth every penny. 

The most magical: Magic Kingdom Park

Get married in the middle of the happiest place on earth with an after hours Magic Kingdom park wedding. With a spectacular view of Cinderella’s castle and surrounded by happy park goers, this venue is perfect for those who want a true Disney experience. 

Princess vibes: East Plaza Gardens

If you’re looking for something a little more princessy than a Magic Kingdom Park wedding, try East Plaza gardens. With another beautiful view of Cinderella castle, this location is slightly more secluded but surrounded by the most beautiful pink flowers and lush greenery, creating a romantic and fairytale wedding atmosphere. This location is sure to make you feel like royalty as you embark on your happily ever after. 

Low-key Disney: Destino Plaza, Coronado Springs

If you want the magic of a Disney wedding while still keeping it low-key and classy, Destino Plaza at Coronado Springs could be the place for you. Looking out over the beautiful Golden Lake, Destino Plaza is the perfect mix of elegance and Disney charm. With its Mediterranean-inspired architecture, lush landscaping, and tranquil waterfront setting, Destino Plaza offers a serene backdrop for your wedding day that could easily not be a Disney venue. 

Disneyland California Weddings

If you’re a fan of the OG, a wedding at Disneyland California could be right for you. Check out some of our favourite venues at this beautiful and classic location. 

Best for a budget: Wedding Garden, The Grand Californian

The Grand Californian Wedding garden has a venue hire price of $4,000 and is perfect for couples looking to have a Disney wedding on a budget. With its lush greenery, charming gazebo, and picturesque surroundings, the Wedding Garden at The Grand Californian offers a romantic setting for your special day without breaking the bank.

Showstopping: Small World Mall

We know, we know — it’s not everyone’s favourite ride. But, it’s quintessential Disney and a truly showstopping backdrop for your I dos. If you’re looking for something unique and unforgettable, consider the It’s A Small World Ride for your special day. 

The most magical: Rose Court Garden

The Rose Court Garden at the Disneyland Hotel boasts over 500 beautiful rose bushes, dreamy hedgerows, and a lush canopy of trees over your head. Plus, the bride (or groom!) can choose to arrive at the ceremony in Cinderella’s crystal carriage! What could be more magical?

Princess vibes: Sleeping Beauty Castle Forecourt

With Sleeping Beauty’s beautiful castle behind you, a classical harpist playing your song selections, and your pre-reception in front of King Arthur’s Carousel, this truly is a once- in- a lifetime celebration. Plan your ceremony at night for extra magic and watch the castle light up with dazzling fireworks, creating a magical backdrop for your princess-inspired wedding. 

The Sleeping Beauty Castle Forecourt offers the perfect blend of romance, elegance, and Disney charm, making it the ultimate venue for couples seeking the royal treatment. 

Low-key Disney: The Grand Californian Hotel Ballroom

If you want a non-Disney, Disney wedding, consider the Grand Californian Hotel Ballroom. With its sophisticated decor, spacious layout, and versatile design, this ballroom provides a neutral canvas for couples to create their dream wedding atmosphere. Plus, it’s nestled right in the heart of Disneyland Resort, making it a convenient location for post-wedding park exploration, firework watching, or simply soaking in the magical ambiance of the resort.  

Disney Resorts Hawai’i Weddings

If you want to live your Lilo and Stitch dream, Disney’s paradise resort, Aulani in Hawai’i, is the perfect tropical backdrop for your big day. Check out some of our favourite venues for twilight, beachy, or showstopping weddings:

Beach vibes: ‘Ama ‘Ama Patio

The ‘Ama ‘Ama open- air venue can accommodate up to 60 guests and has beautiful views of the Atlantic ocean. This venue really leans into the tropical vibes, offering a flower- lined aisle, stunning water features, and tropical palm trees overhead. If you dream of being Moana on your big day, this is the choice for you. 

Showstopping: Kaiona Ballroom

The Kaiona Ballroom is an iconic wedding venue. Named for a local mountain goddess who helps lost souls find their way home, what better place to begin your journey as a married couple? Situated on the stunning grounds of Disney Resorts Hawai’i, the Kaiona Ballroom is a truly enchanting setting with gorgeous chandeliers, royal regalia throughout, and beautiful feather leis. 

Twilight ceremony: Kula Wai

Kula Wai is a tranquil retreat with an attached Disney spa. It’s beautiful during the day, but if you’re looking for a twilight wedding, Kula Wai is truly spectacular. Kula Wai can accommodate up to 20 guests and the wedding ceremony takes place between two whirlpool spas that are illuminated at night. You can hang twinkling lights, beautiful crystals, or flowers from the trees for that finishing touch, and even have your guests enjoy the spa facilities after the ceremony. If you’re looking for something truly special, this is the place for you.

Low-key Disney: All The Hawai’i Venues

All of the Hawai’i venues are pretty low-key Disney. You may find a hidden Mickey here or there, but if you’re looking for a Disney ceremony that could easily not be Disney, the Hawai’i resorts are the place for you. 

Disney Cruise Weddings

There are 4 Disney cruise liners that offer Disney weddings on board. These are the Disney magic, Disney Wonder, Disney Dream, and Disney Fantasy. 

The beauty of a Disney Cruise weddings is that you can either get married on board or at one of their port destinations. For example, couples on Disney Cruise Line Bahamian or Caribbean cruise vacations can choose to get married at Castaway Cay in the Bahamas. Alternatively, you could get married on board in the Atrium, on the deck, or in the outlook lounge. All these venues will look and feel slightly different based on which cruise liner you choose. Be sure to work closely with your Disney wedding planner to ensure that every detail is tailored to your preferences and vision.

Step 2: Enlist your Disney Wedding Team

Planning a Disney wedding means you need to engage with your Disney Wedding Team. They’re the gatekeepers to the wedding of your dreams and will work with you to create a magical and unforgettable experience. Enlisting a Disney Wedding Team is an essential step in the planning process, as these planners have the expertise, resources, and attention to detail to bring your vision to life.

You’ll need to input your contact details into the Disney Wedding website and a wedding planner will be in touch shortly. Think of them as the fairy godmothers who will make all your wedding dreams come true!

Step 3: Pick your dining package

With the support of your Disney wedding planner, you’ll need to pick a dining package. There are usually 3 options for dining packages and they’re related to the time of day that you have your ceremony. For example, brunch comes in at $140 per person, lunch is $180 per person, and dinner is $240 per person. There’s an additional 6.5% sales tax added on top of this, and a 25% gratuity as is expected in the US. 

Each venue has different options for their menus, which fit the theme of the locations. There’d is also an option for a buffet style menu, canapes, and the option to have your wedding cake made on site. This will increase the cost of your wedding, but means you won’t have to organise a separate wedding cake, saving you precious time and effort in the run up to your big day. 

Step 4: Add the finishing touches

Every Disney wedding has a minimum spend, and most of this will be made up in the finishing touches. You Disney wedding planner can help you with:

    • Flowers. Including bouquets, button holes, and decorative flowers
    • Photographers and videographers.
    • Extra decor.
    • Entertainment. Including bands, DJs, dancers, Disney characters, and more. 
    • Transportation. This includes classic cars, carriages, and more. 

Work closely with your wedding planner to put together a day that reflects your and your partner. If you have a specific idea in mind, a film you’d like to recreate, or a theme you want to incorporate, don’t hesitate to share it with your wedding planner. They’ll wave their magic wands and work with you to bring your vision to life. Their job is to make sure every detail is exactly how you dreamed it would be, so don’t be afraid to share your most special memories with them. 

Step 5: Everything else

This is the final step in planning your dream Disney wedding: to plan everything that Disney wedding planners can’t help you with. For example, your dress, suits, hair, makeup, and other personal details that are unique to you and your partner. While Disney wedding planners are great at planning the overall event and managing the logistics, it’s up to you to take care of the personal touches that will make your wedding day truly special.

Check out our step-by-step wedding planning guide to find out more. 

Make your dreams come true with a Disney wedding

Whether you grew up going to Disney, have always loved the films, or just want to feel like a prince or princess on your special day, a Disney wedding could be the perfect choice for you. These fairytales don’t come cheap, but they offer an unparalleled level of magic, luxury, and attention to detail that’s sure to make your wedding day truly unforgettable. This day is once in a lifetime, after all!

The key steps in planning your dream Disney wedding are to pick a location, work closely with your wedding planner, and embrace the magic of Disney every step of the way. Don’t be afraid to let your imagination run wild. It’s your wedding planner’s job to make all your dreams come true!

So, whether it’s recreating a scene from your favourite film, inviting your favourite characters to the big day, or even adding a touch of magic with fireworks or light effects, the possibilities are endless when it comes to planning a Disney wedding. It’s time to share a whole new world with your partner, and a Disney wedding is the perfect way to kick off this Disney dream. 

Frequently Asked Questions

Can you ask someone to marry you at Disney?

You absolutely can! Popular locations include in front of Cinderella or Sleeping Beauty’s castle, in front of the Epcot Ball in Florida, or right in the middle of Main Street USA. Look out for a PhotoPass photographer to professionally capture your special moment!

How many people get married at Disney?

Around 4,000 people a year get married at Disney locations all over the world. 

How many guests can you have at a Disney wedding?

The number of guests you can invite ranges based on the size of the venue. You can invite anywhere from 2 to 300 guests at the large wedding pavilion. Just make sure you save room for the guests of honour — Mickey and Minnie!

What characters can you have at a Disney wedding?

All of them, if you’d like! The most popular guests are Mickey and Minnie, of course. But you can also have Donald, Daisy, Pluto, Goofy, Chip, Dale, and many more.

Can you renew your vows at Disney World?

Yes, you absolutely can! Disney wedding planners will also be involved with this, but plenty of people renew their vows in intimate ceremonies at the Disney parks. 

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Venue Showcase: Culinary Delights at The Cadogan Arms

Nestled in the heart of Chelsea’s vibrant King’s Road, just a stone’s throw from Chelsea Old Town Hall, The Cadogan Arms beckons couples to embark on a journey of love and celebration alongside a culinary adventure. A long-awaited reopening in 2021 saw the much-loved Chelsea institution restored to its former glory with an ambitious renovation that pays homage to two centuries spent serving the local community. As a fully licensed wedding venue, it offers an exquisite setting for weddings, civil ceremonies, receptions and other pre or post wedding celebrations. Let’s delve into the allure of this enchanting venue and discover why it could be the perfect choice for your special day.

Culinary delights

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First and foremost, under the guidance of Culinary Director James Knappett, The Cadogan Arms boasts an exceptional food offering which celebrates provenance, seasonality and traceability. From reworked pub classics to contemporary dishes embodying the Best of British, along with a carefully curated wine list, every bite and every sip will be a culinary delight. Whether it’s the traditional wedding breakfast, dinner or bar snacks, your taste buds are in for a treat. Plus, their menus are customisable to accommodate the majority of dietary requirements, so you’re sure to find something which suits your needs. 

In light of their culinary excellence and service, The Cadogan Arms are proud award winners, having won both press features and industry awards:

  • Your London Wedding Magazine
  • Country & Town House – The Best Places to Eat in Chelsea
  • Luxury London – The Best Restaurants in Kensington & Chelsea
  • The Infatuation – London’s Best Private Dining Rooms
  • Metro – The UK’s Prettiest Pubs
  • Condé Nast Traveller – The Best Pubs in London for Food
  • Michelin Guide – Best Dining Pubs in London
  • SheerLuxe- 19 Cosiest Pubs in London
  • Top 50 Gastropubs 2024 – Awarded Number 40
  • CAMRA Pub Design Awards

Opulent spaces

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The Cadogan Arms is sure to enchant your guests with its elegant ground floor bar, opulent dining room and dedicated private events space, The Rose Room. Whether you envision an intimate gathering or a grand celebration, this venue offers versatile spaces to accommodate your wedding festivities. From canapé and cocktail receptions in the bar area to formal sit-down meals in a private dining room, every moment will be infused with elegance and charm. Downstairs, The Rose Room is equipped with a horseshoe bar and space for up to 50 guests, with food and drink packages available to suit your preferences. 

Memorable celebrations

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Newly appointed as a licensed wedding venue in September 2023, The Cadogan Arms is honoured and perfectly equipped to be part of your special day. Whether you’re exchanging vows in a romantic ceremony or dancing the night away with loved ones, every moment at this venue will be filled with joy and celebration.

Personalised service

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The team at The Cadogan Arms fully understands the importance of a personal touch. From the moment you step through their doors, you’ll be greeted with genuine warmth and hospitality, and their dedicated Events Coordinator will be by your side throughout the planning process, ensuring that every detail is meticulously crafted to reflect your unique vision. This venue prides itself on being LGBTQIA+ and neurodiverse friendly, and on their hospitality in general. 

When asked about the wedding industry specifically, their Events Coordinator Isabel Kaleva explains, “I love it because it’s all about making people’s day special”. Isabel recalls that one of their most memorable weddings was a 60s Mod themed wedding: “The décor was incredible.” This gives an indication into the level of personalisation and customisation that could be possible for you too. Whatever vision you have, their team will work to make it a reality. 

Secure your booking now

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At The Cadogan Arms, a range of options are available to suit your needs, from exclusive hire through to private and semi-private hire. Get ready to step into a world of elegance and charm, where love stories come to life amidst the enchanting ambience of Chelsea’s King’s Road. Enquire now and their events team will get back to you as soon as possible. Your dream wedding awaits!

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Venue Showcase: The Timeless Elegance of The Old Hall Ely

We’re shining a light on The Old Hall Ely, an exclusive-use destination wedding venue which epitomises timeless elegance and romantic grandeur. We also talk to Becca Haswell, the venue’s Events & Sales Administrator, to get her unique insights and expert advice. Nestled amidst immaculate grounds and boasting classic interiors, this family-owned Jacobean Manor House offers the perfect backdrop for an enchanting wedding celebration. Get ready to make magical memories that will stand the test of time for all involved. 

Highlights of the venue

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As a family-owned venue since 1830, now headed by Alison Morbey and her daughter Antonia, this is a venue where warmth and romance meet grandeur and luxury. In the words of Becca Haswell, the venue’s Events & Sales Administrator, it’s this unique combination which makes The Old Hall Ely so special. It’s a venue which holds many fond memories of the happy childhood spent by the Morbey family. For example, Becca explains that the house bar originally belonged to the children of the family, and that every detail, from the colour of the walls to the light fixtures and the garden trees, is all beautifully selected by Alison Morbey herself, who still works at the venue every day.  

The Old Hall Ely are also award winners, most notably:
 
  • Platinum Bridebook Award 2023
  • Top 100 in the KAYAK Travel Awards 2021
  • Tripadvisor Travelers’ Choice Excellence Award 2021
  • Muddy Stilettos ‘Best Wedding Venue’ Suffolk & Cambs Award Winner 2021

A manor of grandeur

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The Jacobean Manor House stands as a rare beacon of timeless beauty, surrounded by manicured gardens overlooking three stunning ornamental lakes and the majestic Ely Cathedral. It’s an exclusive-use venue, so you can enjoy access to the entire Manor House, as well as its 16 hotel rooms and immaculate grounds, for both the day and night of your wedding. You can further elevate your experience by staying the night before your big day as well, adding an extra touch of luxury and extending your celebrations. 

Seasonal splendour

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The Old Hall Ely is captivating in every season, offering a picturesque backdrop for your wedding day. From blooming gardens in spring to summer soirées on their patios and terraces, and emotive autumn skies to winter wonderlands with roaring fires and twenty Christmas trees, the venue transforms into a magical setting regardless of the weather or season. Whether indoor or outdoor, The Old Hall Ely exudes both charm and beauty at every turn.

Exceptional service

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As a family-owned venue, service is at the heart of the experience. Their dedicated team of event managers ensures your wedding day is stress-free and unique, allowing you to savour every moment of your celebration. They’re committed to going above and beyond to make sure that planning your big day is a magical and exciting experience. On top of that, their team of exceptional chefs will collaborate with you to craft the perfect menu, tailored exactly to your tastes.

Meet the team behind the venue

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Prior to working at The Old Hall Ely, Becca Haswell had no previous experience within the wedding industry specifically, but has since fallen completely in love with it. In her own words, “How could you not love to work at a beautiful wedding venue and be surrounded by happy people celebrating one of the most important days of someone’s life? The best part is being part of the journey, from seeing an excited couple first arrive at their private show round, to then watching them walk down the aisle.”

When asked about her most memorable wedding, Becca explains, “The most exciting part is that every wedding is so different and it is so lovely to see. From brides and bridesmaids arriving in helicopters to a carousel in the garden, to roaming bands to the perfect sparkler shots on our beautiful Cathedral Terrace.

Becca’s best piece of expert advice to engaged couples planning their big day is simple but often overlooked: “Enjoy the journey. So many people focus on the destination and forget that getting there is half the fun. All the meetings, shopping, tastings, choices – enjoy it!” We couldn’t have said it better themselves. 
 

Secure your booking now

Get ready to step into a world of timeless elegance and romance, where every detail is meticulously crafted to ensure your wedding day is nothing short of extraordinary. Contact The Old Hall Ely today to book this remarkable venue and embark on a journey of a lifetime that you’ll never forget.

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Venue Showcase: The Serenity and Splendour of Water’s Edge at Ewen

In this exclusive showcase, we’re spotlighting Water’s Edge at Ewen, a sanctuary of serenity and splendour nestled amidst picturesque spring-fed lakes and captivating scenery. As you embark on the journey of a lifetime together, allow us to introduce you to a venue where dreams effortlessly transform into reality. Expertly led by manager Will Hewer, Water’s Edge at Ewen invites you to step into a fabulous realm where flexibility meets luxury, promising an unforgettable celebration that reflects your unique love story.

Highlights of the venue

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Water’s Edge at Ewen offers couples a stylish, unique Cotswold location to celebrate their big day.  In the words of manager Will Hewer, “our stunning outdoor spaces are a huge stand-out feature, from our spring-fed lakes and rivers to centuries-old oak trees nestled amongst the nature and endless lawns and woodlands”. Plus, unlike most other venues, you can settle into the venue the afternoon before your wedding, so you can invite your bridal party in for food and drinks and get the celebrations started earlier. 

The team at Water’s Edge at Ewen are proud award winners and sustainability heroes too, and identify as LGBTQIA+ friendly and as Asian Experts (specialising in both Asian catering generally and also Halal catering). 

Enchanting spaces and experiences

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Water’s Edge unfolds across two impressive storeys, showcasing a charming L-shaped barn design. On the ground floor, the main party space awaits, featuring a gorgeous dining room with an inviting open fireplace. Adjacent to this room, a spacious bar and lounge area set the stage for mingling and creating memories. To add to the magical ambience, guests can enjoy the culinary artistry of the in-house chef team in the open theatre-style kitchen. Outdoors, spring-fed lakes provide an exquisite backdrop for leisurely the sipping of cocktails, setting the scene for an enchanting celebration like no other.

Reception spaces and facilities

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The festivities commence in the barn’s bar area, where a meticulously crafted panelled bar serves as the room’s focal point. Guests can enjoy a selection of fine locally-sourced Cotswold ales, traditional champagne and signature cocktails tailored to satisfy every taste. A panelled dining room accommodates up to 110 seated guests, with the option to add a marquee for additional guests. As the sun sets and twilight descends, the dining room transforms into an inviting dancefloor, ensuring the celebrations continue in style.

Culinary delights and delicacies 

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Prepare your taste buds for a one-of-a-kind culinary journey expertly crafted by Water’s Edge’s accomplished in-house chef team in their theatre-style kitchen. The menus are thoughtfully designed around each couple’s unique preferences, using locally-sourced, seasonal ingredients. From sumptuous sharing platters and delectable grilled feasts to indulgent feasting menus, the options are tailored to create a culinary experience that reflects each couple’s individual style. After nightfall, a delightful and super fun ‘Munchies’ menu awaits, featuring luxurious cheese toasties, stone-baked pizzas and locally-sourced gourmet hot dogs.

Luxurious accommodation and bedrooms

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Water’s Edge offers three beautifully appointed bedrooms, including an exquisite couple suite. Complete with a charming roll-top bath, a separate dressing room, a contemporary en-suite and a lavish super-king-size luxury padded bed, the accommodation provides a luxurious retreat for both you and your guests.

Meet the venue’s manager

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Will Hewer has worked in hospitality since the tender age of 15, and has always been hooked working on events. Moving into the wedding industry was, for him, always a natural progression, given that Water’s Edge is a family business, previously managed and operated by both his parents.
 
When asked to share his most memorable wedding, he declares, “There are too many to mention. At Water’s Edge at Ewen we provide a blank canvas for couples to create their own, unique and magical wedding.” His advice to engaged couples planning their wedding is simple. “Enjoy the process. It will be over so quickly! Also don’t be afraid to speak to venues – we have a wealth of information and wisdom – when looking at other suppliers and top tips.”

Secure your booking today   

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If you’re dreaming of a picturesque wedding nestled amidst outstanding natural beauty, serving up the finest culinary delights and providing the most luxurious accommodation, Water’s Edge at Ewen is the wedding venue for you. As the manager himself puts it, this is a venue which will bend to your desires, “ensuring your vision blossoms into reality.” Get ready to craft some truly magical memories together and secure your booking today!

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14 Romantic Valentine’s Day Proposal Ideas

Valentine’s Day, the day of love, is almost upon us, and what better way to celebrate it than by asking the person you love most to spend the rest of their life with you? Much like Christmas Day, Valentine’s Day has its own enchanting aura, making it a perfect time for a one-of-a-kind romantic proposal. If you’re contemplating a special Valentine’s Day proposal, we’ve got you covered with 14 heartwarming ideas to make this day truly unique, along with some inspiring set-up visuals from The Proposers, the world’s first ever proposal company. 

Is Valentine’s Day a popular day for proposals?

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Absolutely! While the festive period and New Year’s Eve are widely popular for engagements throughout the UK, Valentine’s Day very follows closely behind. According to our latest Engagement Report, based on feedback from over 3,500 currently engaged couples, the 14th of February is the fourth most popular date for proposals. The magical atmosphere, celebration of love, and the special moments shared on this day make it an ideal backdrop for a proposal.

Should you propose on Valentine’s Day?

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Much like a Christmas Day proposal, deciding to propose on Valentine’s Day depends on your personal preferences, wedding plans and budget. With love and connection at its very heart, Valentine’s Day can be a particularly magical and romantic setting for a proposal.

However, it’s essential to consider your partner’s feelings about this particular day and how they would most like to celebrate such a significant moment. If your partner adores Valentine’s Day and appreciates the heavily romantic atmosphere, a proposal on this day could be incredibly meaningful. On the other hand, if your partner would prefer a more low-key and non-traditional setting, you might want to choose a different day to ensure your proposal aligns with their vision. You know your partner best of all, so it’s totally your call to make!

Why Valentine’s Day is ideal for a proposal 

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Valentine’s Day is a celebration of love, which makes it a dreamy choice for a wedding. Its emphasis on romance and connection, along with its traditional love-related symbols, make it stand out as the day of love. 

  1. Symbolic day of love: Valentine’s Day is universally recognised as a day to celebrate love and romance, especially with a partner, making it a particularly appropriate occasion for a proposal. 

  2. Romantic atmosphere: The day is infused with romance, from love hearts and red roses, to candlelit dinners and champagne bottles, providing a backdrop that will naturally enhance the magic of the moment.

  3. Time together: Many couples like to spend quality time together on Valentine’s Day, providing an ideal opportunity to create lasting memories.

  4. Intimate celebrations: Unlike larger public holidays, Valentine’s Day is usually a more intimate celebration, allowing for a more personal and focused proposal.

14 Romantic Valentine’s Day proposal ideas

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When it comes to incorporating sweet and romantic ideas into your proposal, there’s a fine line between classy and cliché! Less is often more! That’s why we’ve put together 14 unique romantic wedding ideas inspired by Valentine’s Day, featuring gorgeous visual inspiration from The Proposers. Which are your favourites?

1. Message in a Bottle

Craft a heartfelt message expressing your love and commitment to your partner. Roll up the paper, tie it up with ribbon in a cute decorative bottle, and present it to your partner as a symbolic gesture of your enduring love.

2. Hot air balloon ride 

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Soar to new heights by proposing during a magical hot air balloon ride, surrounded by breathtaking views and the tranquility of the sky. Check out this heartwarming sunrise proposal arranged by The Proposers for inspiration. 

3. Proposal under the stars

Set up a cosy outdoor space with blankets and pillows, creating a fabulous starlit setting for your proposal. The celestial backdrop will be sure to add a touch of magic to the moment as you pop the question. 

4. Enchanted private garden proposal

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Arrange for a private garden experience, complete with fairy lights and flowers, where you pop the question surrounded by the beauty of nature. The Proposers’ Sky Garden Proposal Package is a particularly fun and vibrant option along these lines, combining tropical rainforest backdrop with breathtaking city views.

5. Personalised love story book

Create a special customised love storybook that recounts your journey with your partner, culminating in a heartfelt proposal at the end of the book.

6. Valentine’s Day scavenger hunt

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Plan an interactive scavenger hunt that takes your partner on a journey through significant locations in your relationship, with the final destination being the spot where you propose. If you’re London-based, The Proposers’ Treasure Hunt Proposal Package is for you, complete with a tour around London’s most famous landmarks and personalised clues. 

7. Customised jigsaw puzzle proposal

Create a custom jigsaw puzzle with a picture of both of you, and as your partner completes it, it will spell out ‘Will You Marry Me?’

8. Candlelit dinner at home

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Prepare a romantic dinner at home with candlelight, soft music, and a surprise proposal, creating an intimate and personal atmosphere. This is a great option if you’re partner isn’t too big on grand gestures but still enjoys sweet romantic vibes. 

9. Magical beach sunset proposal 

Head to the beach for a romantic sunset beach proposal. The serene sound of the waves and the breathtaking view will add a touch of magic to your special moment. Consider incorporating a candle-lit walkway or spelling out ‘Will You Marry Me’ in flickering candles in the sand. Check out The Proposer’s work creating the dreamiest secluded beach proposal for inspiration. 

10. Romantic movie night in

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Set up a garden or living room movie night featuring your favourite rom coms. Strategically pause the movie to pop the question and turn your love story into a real-life romantic movie. 

11. Fairy tale castle proposal

Arrange for a proposal in a charming historic castle setting amidst the allure of fairy tales and happily ever afters. If this sounds enchanting to you, The Proposers’ can help you plan the dreamiest Fairy Tale Castle Proposal in the English countryside, complete with romantic candles, fairy lights, and a musician to serenade you. No Valentine’s Day proposal could be more romantic!

12. Hotel bedroom surprise proposal

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You might already be treating your partner to an overnight stay in a fancy hotel this Valentine’s Day, but why not combine it with your proposal? The Proposers can help you transform any hotel bedroom space into the perfect backdrop for a ‘yes’ moment that will blow your partner away.

13. Heart-shaped fireworks

Nothing screams Valentine’s Day quite like love hearts, so why not organise a private fireworks display, with the grand finale forming a heart in the night sky as you ask the most important question of your life. 

14. Private dinner cruise proposal 

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If your partner’s into boats or riverside vistas, book a private dinner cruise and propose against the backdrop of city lights reflecting on the water for a truly romantic and unforgettable Valentine’s Day proposal.

Plan your proposal today!

For help planning your perfect proposal, The Proposers are your dream team! With over 13 years of experience and 5,000 ‘yes’ moments to date, they’ll guide you every step of the way so you can transform your vision into reality. 

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The Ultimate Guide to Wedding Dress Codes

Trying to decide what to wear to a wedding can be tricky. Thankfully, wedding dress codes can help you narrow down your wedding attire as a guest.

But what do they all mean? White tie, black tie, semi-formal, destination? Deciphering a wedding dress code can feel like navigating a maze. 

Don’t worry — we’re here to help. Check out our ultimate guide to wedding dress codes. Read on to unpack the 13 most popular wedding dress codes. This includes options for female, male, and non-binary or gender-neutral guests. Ready to get started? Let’s jump in. 

What is a wedding dress code?

Decoding Wedding Dress Codes
Decoding wedding dress codes: the ultimate guide for wedding guests

A wedding dress code is the dress code guidelines that the nearly-weds would like their guests to follow. This can either be a recommendation, for example, ‘There are lots of cobblestones at our venue, so we recommend no high heels!’ or a more stringent request, for example, ‘Please wear black tie only.’ 

Following the dress code will ensure you fit in with the nearly-weds’ vision and match the aesthetics of the day. It will also make sure you feel comfortable and enjoy the celebration to the fullest. 

Do I have to follow a wedding dress code?

You don’t have to, but it’s recommended. It’s a simple way to show your appreciation to the couple for inviting you and show that you want to contribute to their big day. It’s a small gesture, but it goes a long way. Plus, it’ll ensure you’re comfortable throughout the day. 

The ultimate guide to wedding dress code

Ready to jump into the ultimate guide to wedding dress codes? Let’s get started. 

White-tie

White-tie wedding clothing for guests is the fanciest of the fancy. It is formal, traditional, and usually reserved for the most sophisticated of occasions — perfect for a wedding. 

White-tie ladies

Ladies’ white tie attire includes a full evening dress or evening gown, elbow-length gloves, heeled shoes, elegant jewellery, and a clutch bag. Your gloves should be a matching or complementary colour to your dress. Alternatively, you can never go wrong with white gloves. 

White-tie men

Men should wear a black tailcoat with satin peak lapels, a waistcoat, a crisp white shirt, suit trousers, a bow tie, and a top hat. You should accessorise with cufflinks, a pocket square, and a pocket watch if you have one. 

In terms of suit colour, stick to black. However, a very dark navy or purple may also be appropriate.  

White-tie gender-neutral or non-binary

While traditional white-tie attire has been historically associated with specific gender norms, modern interpretations of formal dress codes are more inclusive.

A well-tailored suit is a great gender-neutral white-tie option. You could consider having a suit made and tailored to fit you perfectly and maintain an androgynous silhouette. This also means you have more freedom with the style and fabric. For example, you could pick a dark purple velvet or a suit lined with a beautiful pattern like paisley. 

Black-tie

A black-tie dress code is a formal dress code a step down from white-tie. It’s associated with elegant, upscale weddings and other formal events.

Black-tie ladies

Ladies should wear a floor-length gown and heeled shoes for a black tie dress code. You can forgo gloves for black-tie. However, your outfit should convey a sense of formality and sophistication. You should accessorise with elegant jewellery and a clutch bag or wristlet. 

Black-tie men

Men should wear a tailored tuxedo, black formal trousers, a crisp shirt, a bow tie, and a cummerbund in a complementary colour. You should accessorise with cufflinks and a pocket square.  

Black-tie gender-neutral or non-binary

A tailored tuxedo is another solid choice for gender-neutral black tie attire. Choose a crisp shirt, a tailored suit jacket, a vest or cummerbund, tailored trousers, smart shoes, and polished accessories for a gender-neutral and formal outfit. 

Formal or black-tie optional

Formal or black-tie optional is a dress code that gives guests more flexibility in what they wear to the big day. This dress code indicates that guests can wear black-tie if they choose. However, so long as they dress formally, they’ll fit in with the aesthetic of the day. 

Formal or black-tie ladies

Ladies have the option to wear a full-length gown or a stylish cocktail dress. Accessories and jewellery should be classy, and you can opt for a low heel if you’d prefer. Fascinators or hats are also appropriate for formal or black-tie optional events.

Formal or black-tie men

Men can choose to wear a formal dark suit or take it up a notch with a classic black-tie ensemble. This includes a tuxedo, formal shirt, and optional accessories like a bow tie or cummerbund.

Formal or black-tie gender-neutral or non-binary

A tailored suit is a great option for formal or black tie optional events. However, you could also opt for a stylish jumpsuit, a classy wrap dress, or even well-coordinated separates like a flowy blouse and trousers. Keep accessories refined and sophisticated for a polished overall look. For example, dangling earrings, a long necklace, an antique pocket watch, or a clutch handbag are all great options to complete your look. 

Cocktail

A cocktail dress code is a semi-formal style of dress typically chosen for events that fall between casual and formal. This dress code suggests a level of sophistication and style without the formality of black-tie attire. 

The best thing about cocktail attire is that you can really have fun with it. You can dress in a brighter colour than you may have picked for black-tie, can include sparkles, or even use flashy fabrics like satin. This will add a touch of glamour to your look. 

Cocktail ladies

Ladies have a ton of options for cocktail attire. From beautiful wrap dresses or a-line to a classic fit-and-flare, you really can wear whatever makes you feel comfortable. We recommend choosing a knee length cocktail dress or midi dress to match the occasion and wearing heeled shoes. 

Accessories can include statement earrings, a stylish belt, or a pretty bag to complete the look. 

Cocktail men

Men should opt for a classic suit in a dark colour for a cocktail wedding dress code. However, a cocktail dress code is the perfect opportunity to experiment with unusual suit colours and textures. If you aren’t comfortable in a suit, you could consider a well-fitted blazer paired with stylish trousers and a contrasting shirt. 

Experiment with accessories like colourful pocket squares, bold ties, or even stylish cufflinks to inject personality into your outfit.

Cocktail gender-neutral or non-binary

The flexibility of cocktail wear means it’s a great choice for gender-neutral guests. You could wear a stylish jumpsuit, a co-ordinated skirt set, or even a tailored suit in a colourful fabric. Keep accessories light and neutral so as not to distract from your outfit. 

Semi-formal or dressy casual

Semi-formal or dressy casual is a dress code that falls between casual and formal wedding guest attire. It is more sophisticated than everyday casual wear but doesn’t require the formality of black-tie or cocktail wear. 

Semi-formal or dressy casual ladies

Semi-formal or dressy casual means you can opt for a flowy dress, smart separates, a pretty wrap dress, or just about anything that makes you look polished and put together. You can wear heels or flats, and accessories should be tasteful and appropriate. For example, a nice watch, clutch bag, or jewellery set. 

Semi-formal or dressy casual men

Men should choose a well-fitted dress shirt in a solid colour or subtle pattern with dress pants in a complementary colour. You could also wear a blazer or sports jacket if the weather is chilly and accessorise with a smart tie and cufflinks. 

Semi-formal or dressy casual gender-neutral or non-binary

You can’t go wrong with tailored separates, a stylish jumpsuit, or a button-down shirt with chinos. Flat, dressy shoes are the most appropriate. Avoid overly casual sneakers or sandals.

Casual

Casual wedding guest attire is more relaxed than semi-formal or formal options but still requires thoughtful consideration. The level of casualness can vary, so it’s important to take cues from the wedding invitation, venue, and time of day. Casual weddings usually happen in the summer, so it’s important to dress to keep the sun off. 

Casual ladies

Try a sundress, a flowy maxi dress, or a casual skater dress in light or pastel colours for a casual wedding dress code. Floral prints or simple patterns work well for a daytime wedding. In terms of shoes, try a low heel, sandals, or pretty dress shoes. Accessories should be light and designed to keep the sun off your face if the wedding is outdoors. For example, a hat or visor. You could also try a woven bag for a summery touch. 

Casual men

It’s perfectly acceptable to wear a polo shirt, casual button-down, or a smart shirt for a casual wedding. Pair with chinos, loafers or boat shoes, and a stylish watch and belt, and you’re good to go!

Casual gender-neutral or non-binary

Try pairing a loose-fitting shirt with dress pants, chinos, or a flowy skirt for the perfect, versatile gender-neutral wedding attire as a guest. Pair this outfit with slip-on shoes, loafers, or even clean, stylish trainers to strike a balance between comfort and sophistication. 

Seasonal

Seasonal wedding guest attire will depend largely on the season. For example, you would dress differently for a spring wedding than you would an autumn wedding. 

Seasonal ladies

Spring or summer

Light fabrics, bright colours, and flowery dresses are all great options for spring or summer weddings. You could also try a summer suit or casual separates for a polished yet relaxed look. You can pair these with clean trainers or pumps and delicate accessories. 

Patterned summer dresses tend to have a lot of white in them, so be mindful of this when selecting wedding clothing for guests. Guests should avoid wearing white wherever possible so they don’t overshadow the bride. 

Autumn or winter

Wrap dresses, tasteful suits, or coordinated separates are all great options for an autumn or winter wedding. You’ll need a matching jacket to keep off the chill and sensible shoes to keep your feet warm. Stick to jewel tones, dark colours, and fur where appropriate.  

Seasonal men

Spring or summer

Lightweight suits in breathable fabrics like cotton or linen are excellent options for a spring or summer wedding. Choose a suit in pastel shades, neutrals, or bright colours to capture the essence of the season. Pair it with a crisp dress shirt, a complementary tie, and slip-on shoes for a modern but relaxed look. 

Autumn or winter

You can’t go wrong with a classic dark suit for an autumn or winter wedding. Heavy materials like wool or velvet can add extra warmth, and brogue or Oxford-style shoes are perfect for keeping your feet warm. You’ll need a longer coat to stave off the cold. However, these look quite fashionable. 

Accessorise with a watch, cufflinks, and a coordinating pocket square for a classy, put-together look.

Seasonal gender-neutral or non-binary

Spring or summer

Wide-leg trousers, a flowy top, and clean trainers give a modern but sophisticated wedding look. Stick to neutrals, pastels, or light colours to complement the fresh and vibrant atmosphere of a modern wedding.

Autumn or winter

Swap the lightweight fabric for warmer materials like wool or velvet. Wide-leg trousers in a deep, autumnal colour such as burgundy, forest green, or chocolate brown can add a touch of seasonal elegance. Pair them with a long-sleeved, flowy top in a coordinating hue or a rich jewel tone.

Layering becomes essential in cooler weather, so consider adding a tailored blazer or a stylish coat that complements the colour scheme.

Tropical or destination

Tropical or destination weddings bring relaxed vibes, patterned clothing, and casual footwear. Check the weather before you travel and pack accordingly!

Tropical or destination ladies

Flowy sundresses, maxi dresses, or jumpsuits are all perfect choices for ladies attending a tropical or destination wedding. These styles not only capture the laid-back and breezy ambiance of the location but also provide comfort in warmer climates.

Try a bright colour or tropical print to really lean into the aesthetic of a destination wedding. Footwear should be practical yet stylish. Consider strappy sandals, espadrilles, or even elegant flip-flops for beach weddings. Going barefoot, especially for beach ceremonies, can also be a charming and authentic choice.

Tropical or destination men

Lightweight and breathable clothing options are perfect for a destination wedding. Consider pairing these with tailored shorts or chinos for a laid-back look. Tropical prints, vibrant colours, and pastel hues add a playful touch to your ensemble.

Footwear should be comfortable and practical. Try loafers, boat shoes, or even stylish sandals to complement the tropical setting. 

Tropical or destination gender-neutral or non-binary

A flowy jumpsuit, wide-legged pants, or any clothes with a relaxed fit will contribute to the laid-back feel of a tropical or destination wedding. Neutral, light, or bright colours are all great choices for a beach or outdoor wedding. 

Footwear can include comfortable options like espadrilles, slip-on shoes, or sandals. Ensure they are suitable for the terrain and venue, especially if it’s an outdoor setting.

Come as you are

A ‘come as you are’ dress code means that guests are free to wear whatever makes them feel good, whether it’s casual, semi-formal, or even formal attire. The best thing about ‘come as you are’ is that you often don’t have to buy anything new. Instead, you can reuse items already in your wardrobe and save your money!  

Come as you are ladies

Although ‘come as you are’ indicates a laid-back affair, you should still try your best to look nice and respect the formality of the big day. You can’t go wrong with a knee-length dress, low heels, and tasteful accessories. 

Come as you are men

Try combining a crisp shirt with dress trousers and a complementary tie for a classic but sophisticated look. A well-fitted blazer or a tailored suit jacket can add a touch of refinement to the ensemble, elevating it to a more formal level. 

Come as you are gender-neutral or non-binary

‘Come as you are’ for gender-neutral or non-binary individuals is an inclusive and open invitation that prioritises self-expression and comfort over traditional gender norms. Feel free to express yourself authentically with your favourite outfit, jewellery, and shoes. 

Vintage or retro

A vintage or retro-themed wedding is the opportunity to channel the timeless elegance of a time gone by. The invitation should specify the vintage era the nearly-weds are going for. For example, 60s, 70s, or 80s. However, if it doesn’t, consider the overall aesthetic of the venue, the couple’s personalities, or any subtle clues in the invitation that might hint at the desired era. 

Vintage or retro ladies

Classic silhouettes like A-line or tea length are perfect for adding a vintage flair to your outfit. You should consider patterns like polka dots, check, or even bright, solid colours paired with black accessories. Pearls, gloves, and a small fascinator can also help add a vintage touch to your outfit. 

Vintage or retro men

Choose suits that reflect the fashion trends of the era. For example, slim-cut suits with narrow lapels for the 60s, or wide-legged trousers and bold patterns for the 70s. Hair was a big thing for men in years gone by, so try embracing a Grease-style hair-do for the 50s or a neatly combed style for the 40s. Skinheads were popular in the 80s and 90s. However, this may be drastic for just one day!

Vintage or retro gender-neutral or non-binary

Opt for gender-neutral or androgynous clothing styles that were prevalent in the chosen vintage era. For example, tailored suits with versatile silhouettes, jumpsuits, long skirts, and a-line dresses all work well for a classic, retro look.

Cultural attire

Dressing in cultural attire is the perfect opportunity to learn more about the culture of the nearly-weds. However, it’s important to draw the line between being respectful and appropriating the culture. 

Your specific dress will depend entirely on the culture of the bride and/or groom. For example, you’d dress differently for a Korean wedding than you would for a Middle Eastern wedding. 

If you have any questions about what you should wear to a cultural wedding, we recommend discussing it with the couple directly. As it’s their culture, they’ll be able to advise you on what would be appropriate to wear and how you should style yourself. 

Art Deco

Art Deco is a distinct and vintage fashion style known for its sleek, modern, and glamorous aesthetic. Think the roaring 20s or The Great Gatsby, and you won’t go far wrong. 

Art deco ladies

Choose dresses with distinctive Art Deco patterns like geometric shapes, chevrons, or zig zags. Sequins, fringe, dropped waists, and beadwork are also characteristic of classic 20s styles. 

Avoid wearing heels. Instead, opt for ballet flats or Mary-Jane style shoes. Accessories should be bold and flashy. Think headbands, chandelier earrings, beaded clutch bags, and long bead necklaces. 

Art deco men

Tailored suits with contrasting colour combinations were a classic choice for 1920s dressing. Think black and white, navy and cream, or deep jewel tones. You could also incorporate geometric patterns into your clothing for added flair. For example, patterned ties, pocket squares, or vests with Art Deco-inspired designs.

Art deco gender-neutral or non-binary

Choose tailored suits with a modern, androgynous cut. Look for suits that feature clean lines and a sleek silhouette. Experiment with two-piece or three-piece suits in contrasting colours, embracing the bold and geometric style of Art Deco. 

Alternatively, a glitzy jumpsuit or long, flapper-style dress with fringe can provide an equally stunning and gender-neutral interpretation of the Art Deco aesthetic.

Colour-coded

It’s becoming more common for couples to request guests stick to a specific colour scheme, rather than setting a specific dress code. This gives guests the opportunity to express their personal style while contributing to a cohesive wedding aesthetic. 

Colour-coded ladies

How you decide to apply the colour-coding request is completely up to you. For example, if the theme is blue, you could opt for a blue dress, blue shoes, a blue handbag, or even blue jewellery.

Colour-coded men

Again, if the dress code is blue, you could wear a blue suit, blue shirt, blue shoes, or a blue tie. We recommend you don’t dress entirely in blue. Instead, try picking one central blue item and building a complementary outfit around this. For example, blue trousers with a complementary shirt.

Colour coded gender-neutral or non-binary

Try a tailored suit, jumpsuit, wrap dress, or mix and match ensemble in the designated colour. You can also match your makeup, jewellery, or accessories to the colour scheme for an inclusive look. 

The bottom line on wedding dress codes

Although wedding dress codes give guidelines for wedding clothing for guests, there’s still a lot of flexibility within these parameters. Instead, think of them as a framework within which you can showcase your unique style, ensuring you both honour the couple’s vision and feel authentically yourself.

Within the defined parameters of formal, semi-formal, casual, or themed attire, there’s room for personal expression. Whether it’s choosing a gown that perfectly complements the colour scheme or adding a touch of flair with unique accessories, you have the freedom to tailor your outfit to reflect your personality.

Remember, the essence of dressing for a wedding is to celebrate love, joy, and the union of two individuals. So, whether you’re donning a classic black-tie ensemble or opting for a more casual look, the key is to feel comfortable, confident, and ready to revel in the festivities.

And if you’re still struggling to figure out the perfect wedding ensemble, check out our handy guide on what to wear to a wedding as a guest

Frequently Asked Questions

What is the best dress code for a wedding?

The best dress code for a wedding is whatever best represents you and your partner. If you’re laid back, try a ‘come as you are’ dress code. If you’d like to throw a more formal affair, opt for black- or white-tie. 

How do I choose a wedding dress code?

Choosing a wedding dress code comprises a lot of aspects. This includes your vision, the formality of the event, the venue, and any theme you had in mind. Take an inventory of the energy you’d like to feel on the day and translate that into your dress code. 

Is it OK to wear black to a wedding?

It is acceptable to wear black to a wedding, especially if it’s a modern wedding, a black tie wedding, or a colour-coded wedding. However, we recommend that you avoid wearing black for spring or summer weddings, outdoor weddings, or destination weddings. 

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The Ultimate Guide to Renewing Your Wedding Vows

True love, like a fine wine, only gets better with time, and what better way to savour its richness than by renewing your wedding vows? 

Whether you’re celebrating a milestone anniversary, overcoming life’s challenges, or simply wanting to step forward together with a renewed sense of commitment, renewing your vows is a beautiful and symbolic way to reaffirm your love and recognise the journey you’ve shared with your partner. 

If you’re not sure where to start, check out our ultimate guide to renewing your wedding vows. We discuss everything you need to know about marriage vow renewal. This includes the practicalities, what to wear, and how to go about planning your special day 2.0!

What is a vow renewal?

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Renewing your wedding vows is a ceremony where already-married couples reaffirm their commitment to one another by reading vows. Think of it as a top-up to your wedding ceremony.

Couples can choose to re-read their original vows or come up with completely new vows. This is nice if it’s been a long time since your original wedding day or if you’ve overcome significant challenges together that you want to recognise. 

Renewing your vows is the opportunity to reflect on the journey you’ve shared, celebrate the growth in your relationship, and express your enduring love for each other.

Why do couples renew their vows?

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There are a number of reasons couples might choose to renew their vows. These include:

1) To celebrate a milestone

Couples might renew their vows to celebrate a special anniversary or milestone. For example, after 10, 25, or 40 years of marriage, or the birth of a child. 

2) To celebrate overcoming challenges

Couples who have faced significant challenges in their relationship may want to renew their vows as a symbol that they’re moving past these challenges together. For example, illness, financial difficulties, or other obstacles. 

3) Reaffirming commitment

Sometimes, the chaos of everyday life gets in the way, and couples can become distant. Vow renewal can act as a powerful reminder of the commitment they’ve made to one another and help reignite the spark between them. 

4) To have the wedding of their dreams

Some people just can’t wait to get married. As a result, they may have tied the knot young and might not have been able to afford the wedding they always wanted. A vow renewal provides another opportunity for couples to plan and experience their dream wedding. 

5) To include more family

Families grow and develop over time, and couples might choose to renew their vows to include those who couldn’t be there the first time around. For example, children, step-siblings or parents, or even a new brother or sister-in-law. 

6) Just because

There’s no better reason to renew your vows than simply because you want to. Couples may choose to renew their vows as a celebration of the everyday moments, the laughter shared, and the small victories that sometimes go forgotten but contribute immensely to their shared journey. 

When do couples renew their vows?

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The great thing about vow renewals is that there’s no set time or rules for when a couple can renew their vows. In fact, couples can choose to renew their vows as frequently as they’d like.

However, generally, couples don’t renew their vows until they’ve been married for a few years and have weathered the initial stages of marriage. This gives them the chance to deepen their connection, accumulate shared experiences, and navigate the ups and downs of marriage before renewing their commitment. 

How much does it cost to renew your vows?

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The good news is that there’s no strict need to shell out for the ceremony itself. That’s because legally you aren’t obliged to hire an officiant when renewing your vows. But, if you fancy, you could invite a priest, rabbi, celebrant or even judge to add a sense of occasion to your ceremony. If you would prefer a more personal touch, having a friend or family member officiate is also a great option. 

That said, you may have to pay to rent a space for the ceremony. This cost will depend entirely on how elaborate you want your vow renewal to be. For a simple ceremony in your local place of worship or town hall, you can expect to pay a modest fee only. However, something more elaborate in a boutique hotel or grand stately home will understandably come with a higher price tag.

Just like with a wedding ceremony, there are lots of things you can do to keep the cost down if a full-blown celebration is what you’re after. Check out our wedding saving tips for how to save on everything from your venue to your florist. 

What should you wear to a vow renewal

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Good news — you can wear whatever you’d like to a vow renewal! However, if you’re looking for some guidelines, try following the below tips:

Things to know for spouses

    • White isn’t a must. Don’t feel the need to wear white if you don’t want to. Instead, you should feel free to wear any colour that suits you, represents your relationship, or matches the theme of your ceremony. Pastels and neutrals are both popular options for vow renewals.
    • Accessorise thoughtfully. Try incorporating aspects of your original wedding day into your vow renewal through thoughtful accessories. For example, sewing a small part of your veil inside your renewal outfit, wearing the same cufflinks, or even the same perfume or aftershave can all bring back memories of your special day. 
    • Dress for the weather. Nothing will ruin your special day 2.0 like not being prepared for wind or rain. Make sure your outfit is suitable for the predicted weather conditions, and keep a spare umbrella to hand (just in case!).

Things to know for guests

    • Consider your footwear carefully. As great as they look, try not to wear heels that are too high or wear brand-new shoes. Both will cause you discomfort throughout the day and might distract you from fully enjoying the celebration.
    • Check the dress code. The dress code should be listed on the invitation, so make sure you respect the wishes of the celebrants. If no dress code is listed, you can’t go wrong with semi-formal.
    • Coordinate with your partner. Vow renewals are a great opportunity for a cute couple pic. To stand out (without overshadowing the married couple) consider matching your partner’s tie to your dress colour or wearing matching suits.

Where should you renew your vows?

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The good news is that you can renew your vows anywhere you like. Potential options include locations that are also popular wedding destinations. 

  • A beach or seaside 
  • A destination/overseas location
  • In your own home or garden
  • At a historical location
  • In a church, temple or mosque
  • In an art gallery
  • In the forest or a woodland 

You’ll need to consider the cost, practicality, and size of each venue before making your decision. For example, planning a forest wedding when both you and your partner suffer from hay fever probably isn’t the best idea. 

How to plan a vow renewal

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Ready to start planning your vow renewal? How exciting! Try following these 7 steps to help you plan your perfect vow renewal ceremony. 

1) Pick your date

First things first — you need to set the date. Consider meaningful dates such as your original wedding anniversary or a relationship milestone. Take into account factors like the season, weather, and any personal or cultural preferences. Once you have your date set, you can move on with the rest of your planning. 

2) Choose your location

The next step is picking where you’ll hold your ceremony. This will act as the backdrop to your whole day, so choose a location that not only resonates with your love story but also sets the tone for your celebration. Whether it’s somewhere that’s sentimental to you, a formal affair, or even just your favourite beach — all that matters is that it’s special to you and your spouse. 

3) Decide what you’re going to DIY

Not only does DIY’ing parts of your vow renewal ceremony help keep costs down, but it also adds a personal touch that makes your celebration uniquely yours. 

Check out some of our posts on creating DIY elements for your wedding celebration, which you can apply to your vow renewal ceremony too:

4) Pick your vendors

Once you’ve decided what you’re doing yourself, it’s time to pick which vendors you’d like to work with. You’ll most likely want a photographer and a celebrant at the very least. However, you may also want a caterer, cake maker, florist, entertainment, stationery provider, or even a wedding coordinator, depending on how elaborate your celebration is. 

5) Send your invitations 

The next step is to send your invitations to your guests. You’ll need to include details like the date, time, location, and dress code. It’s also a good idea to include a run down of the day so attendees can dress accordingly. For example, will there be a sit-down meal or a cocktail hour, or will the ceremony be on the beach? These are all important details that your guests need to be made aware of. 

6) Pick your outfit

The next step is to pick your outfit. As above, you can wear whatever you’d like to your vow renewal ceremony. Our recommendations are that you consider the weather and dress with the formality of the occasion in mind. 

7) Optional: Buy your rings

Some couples like to upgrade their wedding band or engagement ring for a vow renewal. Alternatively, you might like to treat your spouse to an eternity ring to wear with their wedding and engagement rings. If you’re not ‘ring people’, you could try a watch, a nice bracelet, or even a necklace. Check out our post on 30 unique alternatives to engagement rings for a little more inspiration. 

Examples of traditional vow renewal wording

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When planning what to say in your wedding vow renewal ceremony and how to word your vows, you can take inspiration from your own original wedding vows, whether you repeat the same ones, or lightly adapt them. We’ve got dedicated articles on the above to help you get started:

Plan your vow renewal with Bridebook

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Vow renewals are a beautiful way to reaffirm your love for your partner and celebrate the journey you’ve shared and continue to share. It’s a chance to reflect on the highs and lows and the laughter and tears, and to express your enduring commitment in a new or continued chapter of your love story. 

So, whether you’re commemorating a significant milestone or simply embracing the joy of the present, vow renewals offer a unique opportunity to deepen your connection and rediscover the magic that brought you together. 

However, trying to keep on top of everything can be tricky. If you’re struggling to stay organised, we’ve got all the tools and tips you might need to plan your big day 2.0 right here at Bridebook. 

FAQs

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Do I need to be given away at a vow renewal?

No, you don’t have to be given away. However, it can be a nice gesture to express your feelings and show appreciation to a special person in your life. Plus, it’s always nice to have someone to hang on to as you walk down the aisle (again!).

Do I need a licence to renew my vows?

No, renewing your vows doesn’t typically require a licence. Since the ceremony doesn’t establish a new legal marital status, there’s no need for a specific licence. However, depending on where you’re holding your renewal, you may need a permit to hold an event at the location. 

Do I need to wear a wedding dress to renew my vows?

No, you don’t have to wear a wedding dress to renew your vows. In fact, you can wear anything you want on your special day 2.0 We recommend that you dress appropriately for the weather and consider the formality of the occasion. 

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What Are the Traditional Wedding Vows?

Wedding vows are one of the most important but often overlooked parts of the wedding day. Because they only last 3-5 minutes, people tend to forget about them! This can lead to stress, anxiety, or even a last-minute scramble to come up with meaningful words. But, not to worry — we’re here to turn that potential stress into a breeze of beauty and tradition. 

Infused with love and a symbol of commitment, traditional wedding vows are the perfect way to say ‘I do.’ These beautiful words have stood the test of time, helping generations before us express a love that lasts a lifetime. But, which classic wedding vows should you choose? It can be confusing with so many denominations to choose from. 

To help you out, we’ve created a list of classic wedding vows for 22 different denominations! So whether you’re connected to nature, are of Christian or Islamic background, or even if you’re interested in mix-and-matching — we have your back! 

What are the traditional wedding vows?

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Traditional wedding vows are the most common types of wedding vows read during a wedding ceremony. In Western countries, classic wedding vows include phrases like “I, [Name], take you, [Partner’s Name], to be my lawfully wedded [wife/husband/life partner]”. 

Traditional wedding vows are deeply rooted in religious and cultural traditions. They are read as a sign of commitment to one another and, in some religions, serve as a symbolic contract before the eyes of God. 

Do I have to be religious to use traditional wedding vows?

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No, you don’t have to be religious to use traditional wedding vows. 

However, you should ideally have a connection to the religion or practice if you want to use the traditional wedding vows of that denomination. This shows respect for the culture and the heritage from which the vows originate. 

For example, if your grandmother was Jewish but you haven’t personally practised Judaism, incorporating traditional Jewish wedding vows could be a meaningful way to honour her and the cultural background she cherished. However, having no connection to Judaism and wanting to use their vows may be considered disrespectful.

If you’re adamant you want to use the vows of a specific denomination but have no connection to the faith or culture, consider writing your own vows inspired by the words of that language! This should help you find a happy medium between what you want and being respectful.

22 traditional wedding verses

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Check out this list of traditional wedding vows for 22 different denominations. 

Christian wedding vows

Christian wedding vows are generally considered to be the standard wedding vows in Western countries. They’re slightly different from Catholic vows in that they aren’t preceded by any questions. 

Traditional Christian wedding vows are:

I, [Name], take you, [Name]

To be my wife/husband/life partner,

To have and to hold

From this day forward;

For better, for worse,

For richer, for poorer,

In sickness and in health,

To love and to cherish,

Till death us do part,

According to God’s holy law.

In the presence of God, I make this vow.

Top Tip: If you’re looking to include a Bible verse in your wedding speech or mix up your wedding vows, check out our post on the 25 best Bible verses for a wedding ceremony. This will help you personalise your wedding vows while still staying true to your religion. 

Catholic wedding vows

Catholic wedding vows are usually preceded by three questions from the priest. These questions are called The Order of Celebrating Matrimony. 

The priest will say, [Name] and [Name], have you come here to enter into Marriage without coercion, freely and wholeheartedly?

To which the couple must reply that they have. 

Are you prepared, as you follow the path of Marriage, to love and honour each other for as long as you both shall live?’

To which the couple must reply that they will.                   

Are you prepared to accept children lovingly from God and to bring them up according to the law of Christ and his Church?

To which the couple must reply that they will. They can then move on to the traditional Catholic wedding vows

The Priest will then say:

Since it is your intention to enter into the covenant of Holy Matrimony, join your right hands, and declare your consent before God and his Church.

Groom: I, [Name], take you, [Name], to be my wife/life partner. I promise to be true to you in good times and in bad, in sickness and in health. I will love you and honour you all the days of my life.

Bride: I, [Name], take you, [Name], to be my husband/life partner. I promise to be faithful to you in good times and in bad, in sickness and in health, to love you and to honour you all the days of my life.

Anglican wedding vows

Similar to Catholic wedding vows, traditional Anglican wedding vows start off with a question from the celebrant. This is called the interrogation, and reads as follows:

Into this union [Name] and [Name] now come to be joined. If any of you can show just cause why they may not be lawfully wed, speak now, or else forever hold your peace.

There is usually a pause (and some giggles) as you wait for someone to speak. 

If no one does, the Priest or celebrant moves on to say:

I charge you both, here in the presence of God and the witness of this company, that if either of you know any reason why you may not be married lawfully and in accordance with God’s Word, do now confess it.

The Priest or celebrant then says to the bride:

[Name], will you have this man to be your husband/life partner, to live together with them in the covenant of marriage? Will you love them, comfort them, honour and keep them, in sickness and in health; and, forsaking all others, be faithful unto them as long as you both shall live?

The bride then says: 

I will.

The Priest or celebrant says to the groom:

[Name], will you have this person to be your wife/life partner; to live together with them in the covenant of marriage? Will you love them, comfort them, honour and keep them, in sickness and in health; and, forsaking all others, be faithful unto them as long as you both shall live?

The groom then answers:

I will.

The Priest or celebrant addresses the guests, saying:

Will all of you witnessing these promises do all in your power to uphold these two persons in their marriage?

The congregation responds:

We will.

Methodist wedding vows

Traditionally, Methodist weddings will have shorter vows than other branches of Christianity. 

Many Methodists use the following vows:

I, [Name], take thee [Name], to be my wife/husband/life partner, to have and to hold,

from this day forward, for better – for worse, for richer – for poorer,

in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, till death do us part,

and thereto I pledge thee my faith.

However, some prefer an even shorter vow reading. This is called the United Methodist Declaration of Consent:  

I take you, [Name], to be my wife/husband/life partner from this day forward, to join with you and share all that is to come, and I promise to be faithful to you of God and this congregation to declare your intent.

Lutheran wedding vows

Similar to Methodist vows, traditional Lutheran wedding vows are on the shorter side compared to standard Christian or Catholic wedding vows. Classic wedding vows include:

In the presence of God our Father, the Lord Jesus Christ, the Holy Spirit, and this community, I, [Name], take you, [Name], to be my wife/husband/life partner; to have and to hold from this day forward, in joy and in sorrow, in plenty and in want, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, as long as we both shall live. This is my solemn vow.

You could also use:

I, [Name], take you, [Name], to be my wife/husband/life partner from this day forward, to join with you and share all that is to come, and I promise to be faithful to you until death parts us.

Baptist wedding vows

As with other Christian wedding vows, Baptist wedding vows usually include promises of love, commitment, and partnership. However, there is usually more freedom to craft your own marriage promises in Baptist wedding ceremonies. You should work closely with your Priest or celebrant to craft vows that uniquely represent you as a couple. 

Traditional Baptist wedding vows are usually pretty short and read as follows:

Will you have [Name] to be your wife/husband/life partner? Will you love them, comfort and keep them, and forsaking all others remain true to them, as long as you both shall live?”

The couple then respond:

I will.

Alternatively, you could create your own wedding vows to read on your special day. 

Presbyterian wedding vows

Traditional Presbyterian wedding vows follow a similar structure to other Christian wedding vows. However, as with Baptist weddings, couples in a Presbyterian wedding may have the option to include personal promises or vows. 

If you’re looking for a jumping-off point, try following this classic structure. First, the celebrant will say:

[Name], wilt thou have this woman/man/person to be thy wife/husband/life partner, and wilt thou pledge thy faith to them, in all love and honour, in all duty and service, in all faith and tenderness, to live with them, and cherish them, according to the ordinance of God, in the holy bond of marriage?

Bride/groom/life partner: I will.

Quaker wedding vows

In keeping with Quaker traditions, Quaker wedding ceremonies are usually a silent affair. The partners and their guests will meet for a silent worship. This means the couple and guests gather in silence, waiting for divine guidance. The couple will rise to exchange their vows when they feel moved to do so.

When they do, they will usually say something like:

In the presence of God and these our friends, I, [Name], take thee, [Name], to be my wife/husband/life partner, promising with Divine assistance to be unto thee a loving and faithful spouse, until it shall please the Lord by death to separate us.

Episcopalian wedding vows

Traditional Episcopalian wedding vows may vary slightly depending on the specific texts used in the church. However, they generally follow this traditional structure:

I, [Name], take you, [Name], to be my wedded [wife/husband/life partner], to have and to hold from this day forward, for better for worse, for richer for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, till death us do part, according to God’s holy ordinance; and thereto I pledge you my faith.

Jehovah’s Witness wedding vows

Jehovah’s Witnesses usually have simple wedding ceremonies followed by a small gathering of friends afterwards. The main feature of these weddings is not the vows, but instead the wedding talk. This is a religious reading, which is usually around 30 minutes long and read by a Priest or faith leader. 

If the bride and groom would like to exchange vows, they usually read the following:

Priest: [Name], do you take [Name] to be your wife/life partner, to love and cherish, according to God’s Holy Word?

Groom: Yes, I do.

Priest: [Name], do you take [Name] to be your husband/life partner, to love and submit to, according to God’s Holy Word?

Bride: Yes, I do.

Unitarian wedding vows

The Unitarians are a more liberal branch of Christianity. As a result, there are no set traditions or constraints for Unitarian weddings. Instead, Unitarian weddings are focused on the joining of two souls regardless of religious background, gender, or beliefs. 

Unitarian wedding ceremonies are usually completely bespoke — the Priest or celebrant works with the couple to create a service that suits them. This means you are encouraged to write your own wedding vows for the ceremony. 

If you’re really stuck, try following this format. First, the celebrant will say: 

Do you, [Name], take [Name] to be your lawfully wedded spouse, to love and to cherish, to honour and respect, in times of joy and in times of challenge, forsaking all others and holding only unto them?

Bride/groom/life partner: I do.

Celebrant: And do you, [Name], take [Name] to be your lawfully wedded spouse, to love and to cherish, to honour and respect, in times of joy and in times of challenge, forsaking all others and holding only unto them?

Bride/groom/life partner: I do.

Interfaith wedding vows

Interfaith weddings are where two people from different religions or cultures come together to hold a wedding that represents them. Interfaith weddings highlight the beauty of finding common ground while honouring differences. 

They are usually a blend of the couple’s favourite traditions and customs from their individual cultures or religions. They not only unite the couple, but also foster a broader sense of understanding and appreciation among their families and communities. 

As a result, there are no traditional wedding vows for interfaith weddings. Instead, each couple can use the traditional wedding vows from their respective backgrounds to create a beautiful and unique ceremony that represents them as a couple. 

Apache wedding vows

Apache weddings are usually called Apache blessings and are a beautiful and poetic way for those from the Native American community to celebrate their love. 

It’s important to note that these words are often attributed to the Apache people, but their actual origin and cultural authenticity have been debated.

The traditional Apache wedding blessing is as follows:

Now you will feel no rain,

For each of you will be the shelter to the other.

Now you will feel no cold,

For each of you will be the warmth of the other.

Now there is no more loneliness,

For each of you will be the companion to the other.

Now you are two bodies,

But there is only one life before you.

Go now to your dwelling place

To enter into the days of your togetherness.

And may your days be good and long upon the Earth.

Buddhist wedding vows

Buddhist wedding ceremonies can vary widely based on cultural and regional traditions. As a result, there’s no standardised set of traditional Buddhist wedding vows. Instead, Buddhist wedding vows often revolve around the principles of Buddhism. For example, mutual respect, understanding, and commitment. 

Consider using something like:

As we enter into this union, I vow to honour and respect you, to support and cherish you in times of joy and sorrow. I promise to cultivate patience, understanding, and compassion as we walk the path of life together. May our union be guided by the principles of the Buddha, and may we find joy and contentment in each other’s presence. Just as the lotus rises above the muddy waters, may our love bloom amidst the challenges of life. I take refuge in the Three Jewels and commit to nurturing our spiritual growth and understanding.

However, if you’re looking for something shorter, you may also consider:

I, [Name], take you [Name] to be my faithful wife/husband/life partner, and my one true love. I will cherish our friendship and love you today, tomorrow, and forever. I will trust you and honour you. I will laugh with you and cry with you. Through sickness and health.

Jewish wedding vows

Jewish wedding ceremonies have some of the oldest wedding vows in human history. As a result, Jewish celebrations are steeped in rich traditions that have been passed down through generations. They draw on inspiration from ancient texts like the Torah and emphasise the importance of building a home based on shared values and mutual support.  

Jewish wedding vows are generally split into the Kiddushin, or the Sanctification, and then the Sheva B’rachot, or the Seven Blessings. There are also other celebrations during a Jewish wedding like the Nissiun, the ring exchange, a reading from the Song of Solomon, and the breaking of glass. 

This Kiddushin is as follows:

Rabbi: [Name], do you take [Name] to be your wife/life partner, to honour, cherish, and protect them, and to live with them in a committed and loving partnership?

Groom/life partner: I do.

Rabbi: [Name], do you take [Name] to be your husband/life partner, to honour, cherish, and support them, and to live with them in a committed and loving partnership?

Bride/life partner: I do.

After the Kiddushin there is the Nissiun, which is where the Rabbi reads the marriage contract. After this there is a ring exchange, followed by the Seven Blessings:

Rabbi: Blessed are You, Adonai our God, Ruler of the universe, who has created joy and gladness, bride and groom, mirth, song, delight, and rejoicing. May there soon be heard in the cities of Judah and the streets of Jerusalem the sound of joy and the sound of gladness, the voice of the groom and the voice of the bride.

After this, there is a reading from the Song of Solomon and the breaking of glass. 

Muslim wedding vows

Muslim or Islamic marriage vows reflect the Muslim wedding contract. This is called the Nikah and includes specific statements made by the couple to one another. The bride traditionally reads her vows first.

I, [Name], offer you myself in marriage and in accordance with the instructions of the Holy Qur’an and the Holy Prophet, peace and blessing be upon him. I pledge, in honesty and with sincerity, to be for you an obedient and faithful wife/life partner.

The other partner responds: I, [Name], in accordance with the instructions of the Holy Qur’an and the Holy Prophet, peace and blessing be upon him. I pledge, in honesty and sincerity, to be for you a faithful and helpful husband/life partner.

The Imam or prayer leader then completes the vows with: 

May Allah bless this union and grant [Name] and [Name] a happy and prosperous life together.

Hindu wedding vows

Similar to Jewish weddings, Hindu wedding ceremonies are steeped in history and have a great cultural significance to the religion. Hindu marriage vows are an integral part of the wedding ceremony and symbolise the sacred bond that the couple is entering into. 

There are four parts to a Hindu wedding ceremony, with the vows or pledge (called Sankalpa) being led by a Pandit or Pujari. The Sankalpa is as follows. First, the Pandit will say:

In the presence of the sacred fire, the deities, and our families, do you, [Name], take [Name] as your lawfully wedded wife/life partner? Will you cherish and protect her, and fulfil your responsibilities as a husband?

Groom/life partner: I do.

Pandit: And do you, [Name], take [Name] as your lawfully wedded husband/life partner? Will you be a devoted wife and fulfil your responsibilities in this sacred union?

Bride/life partner: I do. 

Sikh wedding vows

Sikh weddings are also called Anand Karaj ceremonies and include a reading from the Guru Granth Sahib, the holy scripture of Sikhism. Traditional Sikh weddings don’t include a vow exchange.

However, if you’re looking to incorporate wedding vows into your Sikh wedding ceremony, it’s essential to approach it with respect for Sikh traditions and customs.

Pagan wedding vows

Pagan wedding vows are a great choice for anyone with a strong connection to nature, who practises neo-paganism, or who is looking for a more spiritual wedding ceremony.

Pagan wedding vows are often deeply personal and can vary widely based on individual beliefs, preferences, and the specific traditions followed. As a result, there are no traditional Pagan wedding vows. Instead, the couple take part in handfasting ceremony vows.

Handfasting is a tradition where the couple’s hands are bound together with coloured cord. The colour of the cord has different symbolic meanings. For example:

  • Red. Red attracts strength, courage, and fertility.
  • Orange. Orange offers encouragement, attraction, and kindness.
  • Blue. Blue brings patience, understanding, and loyalty.

While the service leader ties the couple’s hand together, they may say something like:

As a symbol of your unity, you shall now bind your hands together. These cords represent the ties that bind your hearts and souls. Will you honour and uphold one another through all the twists and turns that life may bring?

Partners (together): We will.

Celtic wedding vows

The Celts are people of Scottish, Irish, Welsh, and Cornish heritage. If you want to honour your ancestry by incorporating Celtic elements into your wedding ceremony, use these vows to draw on the rich cultural and spiritual traditions of the Celts.

The Celts also use a handfasting ceremony to symbolise the binding of two lives together in love and commitment. However, they traditionally use different wedding vows. You could either use:

You are blood of my blood, bone of my bone. I give you my body, that we might be one. I give you my spirit, until our life is done.

Or:

You are the star of each night,

You are the brightness of every morning,

You are the story of each guest,

You are the report of every land.

No evil shall befall you, on hill nor bank,

In field or valley, on mountain or in glen.

Neither above, nor below, neither in sea,

Nor on shore, in skies above,

Nor in the depths.

You are the kernel of my heart,

You are the face of my sun,

You are the harp of my music,

You are the crown of my company.

Druidry wedding vows

Druid weddings are similar to Celtic or Pagan weddings in that they often draw inspiration from nature and ancient traditions. They also tend to be more personalised to the couple’s unique spiritual beliefs and values. 

Druid weddings embrace the idea that each couple’s love is a unique and sacred expression, meaning couples are encouraged to write their own marriage vows.

Non-denominational wedding vows

A non-denominational wedding is a wedding that doesn’t fit into any other specific category. This means you can pick and choose the traditions you want to follow, creating a day that’s as unique and special as your love story. 

So, whether you draw inspiration from various cultural traditions, blend modern and classic elements, or create entirely new rituals, the freedom to personalise your ceremony is one of the defining features of a non-denominational wedding.

The bottom line on traditional wedding vows

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If you’re looking for stress-free wedding vows, traditional marriage vows are the way to go. They’re beautiful, timeless, and have been used for hundreds of years to help people express their love. Plus, using traditional wedding vows means you’re sure you cover all your bases in terms of marriage promises. 

But, if you are looking for something a little more bespoke, don’t be afraid to mix it up. Custom marriage vows are becoming more and more common, and there’s nothing wrong with deviating from tradition so long as it feels true to your relationship.

If you’re looking to infuse some personalisation into your traditional vows, get inspired by our 15 romantic and inspiring love poems to get you started. Alternatively, if you want to write your own vows from scratch, try our ultimate guide on how to write wedding vows

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How Long Should Wedding Vows Be?

Hey, lovebirds. Are you looking for a guide on how long your wedding vows should be? Then you’re in the right place!

Getting the length of your vows right can be tricky. We know you want to tell the world how much you love your partner. But, we recommend you save that for the wedding speeches and keep your wedding vows short, sweet, and to the point. Aim for an average of 2 to 3 minutes. This allows you to express your love without making your guests feel like they’ve settled in for a feature-length film.

This article explores exactly how long your vows should be, the benefits of writing your own wedding vows, and common pitfalls that can trip you up during the writing process. Keep reading to learn how to write wedding vows and nail the perfect length for your marriage promises.

What are wedding vows?

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Wedding vows are the promises you make to your spouse-to-be on your special day. Vows are read during the wedding ceremony and are traditionally first read by the groom. However, your wedding ceremony should be a reflection of your relationship, and you can read your vows in whatever order you’d prefer.  

How long should wedding vows be?

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Wedding vows should last at least 1 minute but no longer than 4 minutes per person. Ideally, wedding vows should last between 2 and 3 minutes per person. This gives a total of 6 minutes on average. 

If you have a lot to say, you can go as long as 4 minutes. Any longer than this and you run the risk of losing your guests’ attention. Keeping them within the recommended time frame ensures that your words are impactful without becoming overwhelming.

Should I write my own wedding vows?

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Writing your own wedding vows can be a great choice. Check out all the benefits of writing personalised wedding vows:

  • You have full control. Writing your own vows means you have full control over the content, length, and structure of your vows. Want to keep it short and sweet? Go for it! Feel like pouring your heart out with a longer expression of love? Totally your call.
  • Memorable for you and your guests. Writing your own wedding vows will make the ceremony more memorable for your partner and guests. Try injecting a funny anecdote, special memory, or personalised story into your vows to make your spouse-to-be smile. 
  • A symbol of your commitment to your partner. Writing your own vows isn’t easy— it would be much quicker to stick to the standard script. But, by pouring your thoughts and emotions onto paper, you’re demonstrating a level of care and commitment that goes beyond the traditional.
  • Keepsakes for the future. Keep all the drafts of your wedding vows. It doesn’t matter if they were scribbled on the pack of a coaster or written in a special notebook. The different drafts of your wedding vows can be a unique and beautiful keepsake to gift to your spouse. They show your thought process in the lead-up to the wedding and are a tangible representation of the effort you put into your special day. 

Pro tip: Frame every version of your wedding vows in side-by-side frames. You can then gift them to your spouse for your paper wedding anniversary (that’s your first anniversary – learn more in our wedding anniversary gift guide). 

Common mistakes when writing your own wedding vows

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Writing your own wedding vows or marriage promises can be tricky. Be careful to avoid these 4 common pitfalls:

1. Not leaving enough time for edits

We’ve all been there – we’ve left our coursework or homework until the day before the deadline. But your wedding vows are more than just words on paper. Rushing through the writing process may mean you miss out on important memories or sentiments that dilute the meaning of your vows.

We recommend starting work on your vows at least two weeks before the big day. Once completed, set your first draft aside for a week or so. Think about anything but your vows during this time. Once your mind feels fresh, come back to your vows and begin to edit them. Cut anything that feels forced or impersonal. You can also add extra anecdotes, inside jokes, or quotes if the vows feel too sparse. Check out our post of 100+ love quotes to inspire you.

2. Being too personal

Striking the balance between expressing your love without oversharing can be a delicate balance when writing your vows. It’s natural to want to tell your guests just how much you love your partner, but it’s important to remember that all their family, friends, and possibly work colleagues are present. 

Focus on highlighting your partner’s best qualities, the excitement leading up to this day, and how blessed you feel to share your life with this person. Throw in a few anecdotes or inside jokes for good measure, and you’ve got a recipe for beautiful vows that hit just the right mark. 

3. Taking too long

As mentioned earlier, taking too long to read your vows will risk losing the attention of and emotional connection with both your partner and your audience. Although vows are an important and lovely part of the wedding ceremony, it’s important that your words are heartfelt and sincere. Keep them short, sweet, and to the point. 

Try to stick to the 2-minute mark for your wedding vows. You can increase it to 4 minutes at a push, but we don’t recommend going on any longer than this. 

4. Not practising as you go

Practising as you go is a great way to sound out phrases or sentences in your vows. If something doesn’t quite sound right or flow smoothly, practising as you go allows you to make quick adjustments. This can reduce the overall editing process and help you get to your final product more quickly. 

Write your own wedding vows today with Bridebook

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Writing your own vows gives you full control over the length, contents, and structure of your wedding promises. It’s the perfect opportunity to inject your personality and unique love story into your big day.

Wedding vows should be an average of 2 minutes in length. They should be at least 1 minute long, but no longer than 4 minutes. Focus on quality over quantity and make sure that what you say resonates with your partner. 

If you’re feeling stuck, check out some of our posts on wedding vows and speeches. You’re sure to find inspiration in these 15 romantic and inspiring love poems. Or, if you’re looking for something more religious, try using snippets from our 25 best Bible readings post. 

FAQs

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Is 3 minutes too long for wedding vows?

Like baby bear’s porridge, 3 minutes is just right for wedding vows. It gives you enough time to say everything you want to say without overwhelming your audience. 

How do you end a wedding vow?

We recommend ending your wedding vows with a sweet sentiment. Try something simple like, “I love you” or “I can’t wait to start the rest of our lives together”, or something silly like, “I guess we’re pretty serious then?”

Who says their wedding vows first?

The groom traditionally reads his vows first. However, you can mix this up however you’d like in a modern wedding. 

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Bridebook Engagement Trends Report: 13 Key Wedding Trends for 2024 and Beyond

If you’re curious about what the key wedding trends will be for 2024 and beyond, you’ve come to the right place. Our Engagement Report provides unparalleled insights into the ever-changing landscape of weddings. Based on feedback from over 3,500 engaged couples planning weddings for 2024 and beyond, the report sheds light on the evolving preferences and trends that shape today’s weddings. Read on to get the low-down on the biggest trends for the year ahead, along with some expert insights from Fran Everist, Director of Sales and Marketing at Hedsor House in Buckingshamshire, on what’s popular with today’s couples, and why.

As the average amount couples spend on their wedding continues to rise in recent years, and as Gen Z couples come of age, we’re seeing plenty of new wedding trends emerge. From changing proposal dynamics and evolving style trends, to prioritising personalisation and guest experience to blending tradition with innovation, to embracing both sustainability and technology, 2024 weddings promise to be a unique tapestry of meaningful connections and stand-out experiences. Today’s couples are redefining traditional norms to create bespoke celebrations that reflect their diverse tastes and interests. Here are our top 13 trends to watch…

1. Gen Z is coming of age

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According to our survey, the average length of dating before engagement stands at 4.7 years, with 30-year-olds dating for 4+ years most likely to plan an engagement. And yet, in a notable shift, 23% of engaged couples are now part of Gen Z, a 12% increase from those married in 2022.

Gen Z, who are currently represented by those aged 11-26, are known for being digital natives with short attention spans (8 seconds!). They’re visually and video-led, and value social proof, authenticity, personalisation, and sustainability.

Younger couples, particularly 20-somethings, favour outdoor proposals specifically, and 27% choose to pop the question while on holiday. Family involvement is highest among Gen Z couples, with 49% seeking parental blessings in advance.

Perhaps surprisingly in today’s digital landscape, 61-71% of all couples don’t film or photograph their proposals. However, 67% share their engagement on social media within one day.

2. Couples are discussing marriage in advance

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Our Engagement Report reveals a significant difference in how Gen Z couples approach engagements. A notable 53% of 20-somethings discuss plans for marriage in advance of the engagement, compared to 32% of 40-somethings, which suggests transparency and shared decision-making are a key priority for younger couples specifically.

Commenting on this trend, Hamish Shephard, Bridebook’s founder and qualified wedding planner, notes, “Gen Z is redefining the narrative of engagements. Their decisions reflect a generation that values considered, meaningful connections, with an emphasis on taking the time to build a solid foundation before making lifelong commitments. Gen Z is clearly challenging traditional norms, clearly valuing open communication and partnership. The modern couple is breaking away from stereotypical gender roles, viewing marriage as a shared and collaborative journey.”

3. Pets are getting wedding invites, while parents’ friends are out

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Less than half of today’s couples will invite their parents’ friends. Our Engagement Report reveals that only 42% of Gen Z, 38% of Millennials and 27% of Gen X will invite them.

On the other hand, nearly 1-in-5 (21%) of Gen Z couples will include pets on their guest list. So it’s good news for your furry friends, though not quite so good news for your parents’ friends! Fran Everist tells us that Hedsor House has “seen a big leap in the numbers of couples bringing their dogs to their wedding. Take-up of our Canine Concierge service has trebled in the last year, with couples very much seeing their dogs as an essential part of the family. Pet donkeys, llamas and cats have also made it onto the guest list!”

On the subject of guest lists, half of couples will also allow children at their weddings, with older Gen X couples being the most likely to include children. When it comes to children at weddings, Fran Everist adds that while this does not yet relate to Gen Z couples, Millennials also “seem to be increasingly having  the house and children first, and the wedding afterwards.”

4. TikTok as a wedding planning tool

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A notable 41% of Gen Z couples are using TikTok for wedding purposes, the highest among all segments. This represents a huge jump from 11% of all engaged couples in 2021, and not only suggests a preference for digital expression, but also highlights the profound impact that social media platforms can have on shaping the narrative of modern weddings.”

Hamish remarks, “As true digital natives, Gen Z couples are rewriting traditional approaches to wedding planning. We’re seeing a drive towards fostering a sense of community and inspiring others to embrace new and creative wedding trends.”

5. The rise of AI

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Today’s couples are embracing technology, with 7% using AI for music playlists and 5% turning to generative content for speeches, invitations and vows.

This again highlights that as weddings become both more personalised and tech-savvy, couples are embracing innovative tools to craft a truly unique celebration.

6. Sustainability takes centre stage

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Today’s couples are increasingly incorporating sustainability tactics into the weddings, from favouring lab-grown diamonds to upcycled decor and paper-free invitations. They also enjoy second-hand, meaningful items, especially jewellery:

  • 47% will have plant-based confetti, the most popular eco-friendly activity.
  • Preference for ethical jewellery has more than doubled from 6% to 14%.
  • Preference for pre-loved attire has also more than doubled from 7% to 16%.
  • Upcycled decor and paper-free invitations have risen by almost 10% since 2022.
  • 22% use second-hand items (such as grandmother’s ring, or family heirloom jewellery).
  • Many are considering selling their wedding decor and fashion items.

Gen Z are revealed to be most committed to sustainability, and are the group that is most likely to resell their wedding items, from decor to bridesmaid’s outfits and their wedding dress (21% of Gen Z will consider selling their wedding dress compared to 18% of Millennials).

Commenting on this trend, Fran Everist notes that “Hedsor House, which launched the very first carbon-neutral wedding package last year, is seeing a gradual shift in couples wanting more sustainable choices. Whether it’s swapping cut flowers in favour of faux blooms, or wanting their wedding breakfast to be locally sourced, couples are making meaningful changes to their day.”

7. Unique speciality catering is what it’s all about (especially pizza)

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Unique specialty catering gains popularity as couples look for new and different ways to entertain guests and create bespoke experiences. Couples want that stand-out, ‘wow’ factor.

Most notably, 16% of engaged couples want food trucks at their wedding. Of these planning for food trucks, nearly three-quarters (71%) will have a pizza van specifically. So if you’re fancying a fun and more laid-back catering option for your wedding next year, you won’t be alone! And this culinary customisation extends beyond savoury food: 1-in-4 (25%) couples plan to have pick ’n’ mix sweet stations, while 1-in-5 will have signature cocktails as the most popular specialty drink.

Fran Everist associates this trend with the rise of outdoor weddings, as more and more couples look for “relaxed dining options which mirror the vibe. Hedsor House is seeing an increase in requests for BBQs, hog roasts and street food. The classic English Afternoon Tea is also a growing favourite for those looking for elegance and insta-appeal.”

8. Champagne still rules as the top wedding drink

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Classic bubbly remains the favourite celebratory drink among today’s couples. Champagne will be served at 1-in-5 (21%) weddings in 2024. On the other hand, beer proves to be an unpopular wedding drink, with only 4% of couples planning to serve it.

Not many couples are going teetotal next year. Only 4% will have a completely alcohol-free wedding, while 3% will have a deliberately low-alcohol wedding. So it’s all about the bubbles!

9. Rustic vibes and green tones will reign supreme, while themed weddings gain in popularity 

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Rustic vibes will dominate 2024 weddings, with greens reigning as the top wedding colour. Unique gemstones like emerald and moss agate gain popularity as 39% of Millennials and Gen Z couples plan rustic-style weddings, including having a barn or farmhouse as their wedding venue. A rustic wedding is a more informal style of wedding than is traditional. It’s one which draw inspiration from the countryside, incorporating elements of nature, vintage decor, DIY touches and warm, earthy tones, and ties in nicely with today’s couples’ commitment to sustainability and environmentalism.

Couples are clearly being drawn to the authenticity and intimacy that rustic aesthetics provide, and want to create a wedding atmosphere that feels both timeless and personally meaningful. 2024 weddings will celebrate individuality and depart from the conventional. Move over luxury glam or elegance! Next year is all about natural charm grounded in charm and simplicity.

Fran Everist notes that Hedsor House is seeing “couples increasingly wanting to marry outside which is very much about wanting to enjoy the unique country setting.”

Among Gen Z in particular, themed weddings are also in, with 6% of these couples planning a themed wedding. Popular themed wedding styles include Disney, Lord of the Rings, Harry Potter, Halloween, celestial, festival and throwbacks like the 80s or TV sitcoms or movies. 

Fran Everist agrees that “couples are increasingly bringing their unique personality to their nuptials. Hedsor House has seen a rise in themed weddings with Harry Potter, Pokémon and Mario Kart being recent examples.”

10. Top first dance songs combine the classic with the contemporary

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The top 25 first dance songs of 2024 feature legendary classics alongside contemporary hits, with Elvis Presley reigning supreme amidst male vocal ballads and country songs.

The no.1 first dance song of the year is an old favourite, “Can’t Help Falling In Love”, by Elvis Presley – no doubt seeing a revival following the 2022 biopic ‘Elvis’ – while Ed Sheeran, Shania Twain and Elton John each hold two songs in the top 25.

Male vocal ballads are trending as well. In particular, James Arthur, Lewis Capaldi, Biffy Clyro and Clinton Kane are firm favourites for 2024 first dance songs.

Country music songs are gaining popularity, with Luke Combs and Lonestar ranking the highest.

11. Weddings will be fun and games

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Weddings aren’t just the greatest parties of all time. They’re fabulous, showstopping spectacles, and a chance to enjoy unique experiences with the ones you love. Given today’s couples preference for unique, bespoke celebrations, it’s no wonder that couples are going beyond classic wedding music entertainment, like bands and DJs, opting to explore fun and quirky non-music entertainment too.

Couples getting married in 2024 don’t want stiff formal affairs, but are instead embracing informal playfulness. Most notably, our Engagement Report reveals that 23% of engaged couples want garden games to feature at their weddings. Think horseshoes, giant Jenga, lawn bowling, and croquet, and even old sports day classics like egg and spoon and sack or space hopper races. 

In general, couples are looking to showcase a wide variety of entertainment. 19% will have fireworks, while 8% enjoy the idea of secret singers or singing waiters. Other interesting wedding entertainment options for 2024 include magic mirrors, a live portrait artist or caricaturist, axe throwing, and even mini golf/crazy golf. Couples are embracing anything and everything. The point is to put fun at the heart of their wedding, and to really prioritise guest experience.

Commenting on this trend towards spectacular and unique wedding entertainment, Fran Everist observes that “fireworks continue to be very popular at Hedsor House, and classic English lawn games like croquet are on the rise as couples embrace the outdoor country house vibe.”

And to hold on to these unique memories, 1-in-10 (11%) will have an audio guestbook. What a great way to bring guests’ experience to life, beyond the more traditional written notes.

12. Out with (some of) the old

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In the realm of wedding traditions, the ‘first look’ trend remains en vogue. More specifically, 22% of Gen Z couples enjoy this trend, the highest among all generational groups. Some other traditions are standing the test of time. For example, walking down the aisle by one or both parents, exchanging rings and vows, first dance, wedding speeches, and cake-cutting.

Yet other old wedding traditions are on their way out. Half of couples won’t have confetti or rice thrown at their wedding (Fran Everist comments that bubbles and sparklers are popular alternatives these days), and only half of couples will offer wedding favours to their guests.

Tossing the bouquet and carrying the bride over the threshold represent some of the least used traditions in today’s weddings. Couples are instead tossing away tradition, and turning to social media instead – specifically viral TikTok trends – and we’ll only see more of this moving into 2024.

Weddings in 2024 will clearly be an interesting tapestry of tradition and innovation, showcasing the diverse tastes and values of today’s progressive couples, who on the one hand continue to uphold traditions that remain relevant to them, but who equally aren’t afraid of creating bespoke experiences that to fit their unique vision and values.

13. Multi-day weddings and bigger is better

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When it comes to wedding lengths and timings, our Engagement Report shows that younger couples are favouring longer multi-day affairs, with 36% of Millennials and 34% of Gen Z planning weddings spanning more than one day to truly celebrate in style. Who can blame them? After all, why have just a single wedding day when you can have a wedding weekend! The younger generation clearly want to stretch out the celebrations as much as possible and make the most out of their weddings, following the American trend of having a rehearsal dinner the night before.

Fran Everist agrees that “multi-day weddings are definitely on the rise, whether that’s at weekends, or during the week. Rather than the inconvenience and expense of going abroad for destination weddings, many couples are choosing to create more relaxed UK experiences with extended celebrations. Morning-after brunches and night-before BBQs are often highlights; couples enjoy using all of the venue’s spaces for different aspects of their experience, including the grounds.”

This relates to a wider cultural shift among the youth of today. After the years of enforced isolation at the hands of the pandemic, followed by the war in Europe and the cost of living crisis, those who can afford it want to party, and bigger is better than ever. It’s all about the energy and all about the fun. And here at Bridebook, where creating joy underpins everything we do, we’re all for it.

The bottom line on 2024 wedding trends

There you have our top 13 trends of next year! With the influential rise of Gen Z weddings, 2024 weddings are poised to be a fusion of tradition and innovation and, above all, celebrate each couple’s joy through hyper-personalisation. Weddings have changed a lot in recent years, and are set to change even more before next year is out, while still clinging on to what makes them so special. Which of these new trends will you be incorporating into your own big day?

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How to Plan a Wedding: Our Step-By-Step Wedding Planning Guide

Getting married is such a fun and exciting time. After the thrill of getting engaged and enjoying your new-found status as someone with a fiance, it’ll soon be time to knuckle down and plan the biggest party of your life.

When it comes to wedding planning, there’s so much to think about. There’s the venue, theme, flowers, food, ceremony, your guest list, what gifts you should buy the wedding party, what time everything starts… the list goes on and on. There’s so much to think about, research and decide on, that it can be difficult knowing where to even begin. If you’ve never done it before, you’ll no doubt have a ton of questions about how to plan a wedding. It’s only natural: there are a lot of pieces that have to come together to produce the perfect wedding for you.

That’s where we come in. At Bridebook, we’re wedding planning experts, so we know exactly what goes into organising every different type of wedding there is. So, in this guide, we’re going to dive into every stage of planning a wedding, from the moment you get engaged right through to the moment you say, I do! That way, you’ll know what you need to do to have the wedding of your dreams.

Is planning a wedding difficult?

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Planning a wedding can be a long process with lots of different moving parts. It takes effort and commitment but doesn’t necessarily have to be difficult. There’s so much to think about, that if you don’t go in prepared, it can make planning a wedding feel more difficult than it has to be. But like with anything, with solid strategies, teamwork and communication, it can be a fun and rewarding process.

How long does it take to plan a wedding?

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Planning a wedding takes as long as it needs to. Yes, this is a wishy-washy answer, but it’s true. It also heavily depends on the size and scale of your wedding, and how ambitious you want it to be. In theory, you could organise a beautiful registry office wedding in less than a month. You might even be able to plan a wonderful traditional wedding in as little as a few months, but the grander and more personalised you’d like your wedding to be, the longer it’ll take to plan. It’s also worth bearing in mind that popular venues and vendors can be booked up as much as two years in advance.

If you’re having a religious wedding ceremony, this can also determine when you can get married. For example, if you want a Catholic wedding ceremony, you have to give at least six months’ notice before you can get married.

If you do want to get married in the near future but you haven’t even made a start on the planning, think about just how much work goes into organising a wedding – so much so, it takes most couples one to two years to plan one. You’ll have to research, design, speak to, book or pay for your:

  • Timeline
  • Ceremony
  • Budget
  • Guestlist
  • Venue
  • Reception
  • Officiants
  • Vendors
  • Hair and beauty
  • Attire
  • Decor
  • Catering
  • Rings
  • Marriage license
  • Accommodation
  • Gifts and favours
  • Stationery
  • Honeymoon

Plus a heck of a lot more. If you think you can plan that much stuff in just a few months, then go for it. It’s more than achievable if you’re happy having a smaller wedding, like a registry office ceremony, but larger, more traditional or religious weddings will be quite a stretch. But, never say never – just be prepared to get stuck in.

How soon should you start planning your wedding?

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This can be a difficult question to answer, because it depends on how much time you have between now and your perfect wedding date. In an ideal world, you’ll want to allow at least two years to plan your wedding, as this is generally enough time to allow you to find and book your dream venue and vendors – especially if you want to go for something popular with other couples.

Depending on your circumstances, you may want to get married on a specific date, which may well be a year or less away. If this is the case, you’ll absolutely be able to do it, but it might mean you’ll have to work a little harder to find a venue and professionals who still have availability, especially if your chosen date falls on a Friday, Saturday or Sunday.

If you’re having a smaller, more intimate wedding, then you’ll find it easier to organise a wedding in a shorter timeframe. The general rule is, the larger the wedding, the more time you should allow for the planning. If you can, give yourself plenty of time, so you don’t need to rush, you can spread out some of the costs, and you’ll have a wider choice when it comes to venues and vendors.

Think about hiring a wedding planner

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Before you begin planning your wedding, and definitely before you make any bookings or pay any deposits, talk to your partner about whether or not you’d like to hire a wedding planner.

Wedding planners are skilled professionals who have the time, knowledge and experience needed to plan a fabulous wedding that matches exactly what you’re looking for. They have connections and relationships, as well as great negotiating skills to secure dates and grab bargains. They can be an invaluable asset to you, especially if you’re not sure how much time you’ll have to spare.

The only downside is, wedding planners can be expensive. The average cost of a wedding planner in the UK is £1,891, which is roughly 10% of the average cost of wedding. This may sound like a lot, especially if you’re already spending close to 20 grand, but wedding planners know all the tricks of the trade to save couples money. They may even save you more money than their fee, which can make them absolutely worth the cost.

Because of that, if you are going to hire a wedding planner, you need to make the call early on. If you hire them at some point down the line, after you’ve already signed contracts and paid deposits, then you won’t get the full value that they could bring.

So, if you are keen to take advantage of a wedding planner’s time and expertise, make sure you hire them at the start of your wedding planning journey so you get the most value.

How to plan your wedding in 31 steps

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Planning a wedding can be a long and tiring, but also super fun and rewarding, experience. There’s so much to remember, that it’s hard to know where to start. Do you jump straight in and find your venue? Do you set your date first? Or perhaps something else?

Here at Bridebook, we’ve helped more than two million couples plan their perfect wedding, so we know a thing or two about what to do, when to do it, and where to start. So, follow the 31 steps below so you can plan your big day in style and have the wedding you’ve always envisioned in your head.

1. Set your maximum budget

It’s no secret that weddings are expensive, and if you don’t watch what you spend things can very quickly spiral out of control. As we’ve already highlighted, weddings in the UK cost an average of £19,184, which is a rather big chunk of change. But, many couples spend far less than this – and some spend far more. Either way, it’s important to know how much budget you have to play with so you can keep on top of your finances.

Before you spend a penny on your wedding, you must must must work out your budget. Only then will you know the size, scale and scope you can go for. To do this, you can use our handy wedding budget tool, which you can use to look at your own finances and how they align with the hopes you have for your wedding. Only once you have an accurate idea about how much money you have to spend on your wedding can you start to make plans – otherwise you risk overspending and getting yourself into a tricky situation.

That being said, there are ways to cut costs so you can still have the wedding of your dreams even with a limited budget. Read our ultimate guide to saving money on your wedding for more information.

2. Speak to family about help paying for your wedding

As part of working out your total wedding budget, if you plan on asking family for help paying for your wedding you’ll want to speak to them at the start of the process. If this is something you’d like to do, know that you’re not alone – our 2023 Wedding Report found that a third of couples ask family for help paying for this and that. But, to make sure you and your family are on the same page, it’s something you’ll need to be open and honest about as soon as possible.

Not only does it give your family time to save money if they need to, it also ensures you can factor it into your budget. This makes managing your money much easier. If you’re not sure how to broach this tricky subject with your loved ones, read our blog post on how to ask your parents for help paying for your wedding.

3. Think about your ideal wedding date

One of the most common questions you’ll get as an engaged couple is when’s the big day? or have you set yourself a date yet? It’s all asked out of love, of course, because everyone’s so excited for you! But, it’s also one of the most important decisions you’ll make – without a date, you can’t book all the exciting things that will make up your wedding.

You might decide to get married on a specific date, such as the anniversary of when you met. Or, you might let cost be a deciding factor, with our 2023 Wedding Report revealing that Tuesdays in winter are among the cheapest dates for a wedding. Or, you might let availability decide, such as if your favourite venue only has certain dates left to book.

Whenever you choose to get married, once you have your date set in stone you can begin planning everything else around it.

4. Think about wedding styles, themes and colour schemes

Since the moment you got engaged, you’ve probably spent many hours watching videos, reading magazines, browsing Pinterest, scrolling through Instagram… we could go on. By this stage, you may have a few ideas about how you’d like your wedding to look and feel, but now’s the time to get serious. Sit down with your partner and discuss the styles, themes and colours you’d like to feature across your day. Once you have that, you can start getting more specific and research vendors who fit with your vision.

5. Consider buying wedding insurance

Weddings are expensive and involve bringing a lot of different vendors and professionals together. That also means there are a lot of moving parts that can potentially go wrong. They probably won’t, but there’s always that small chance.

So, before you spend any money, it’s recommended that you consider wedding insurance. However unlikely it is that something unexpected will happen, you’re dropping so much money on your wedding that it’s not worth the risk. Most wedding insurance policies are valid for 24 months, so if your wedding is less than two years away you’ll need to wait until your date falls within this timeframe.

6. Make a wedding checklist

Many weddings have a lot of crossover, so when it comes to planning there are a lot of similar steps – that’s what makes a guide like this one so accessible to couples with different aspirations for their wedding. But, you’ll no doubt have things you want that are unique to you on top of all the other stuff as well.

That’s why you need to put together a wedding checklist, otherwise, things risk getting overlooked, forgotten, pushed back, missed… and that can lead to frustrations and panic.

One easy and convenient way to put a checklist together is with our super useful wedding planning checklist tool, which you can access via desktop and take with you on your phone so you can add to it and check things off as you go. If you make sure everything’s on your list, you’ll know exactly what needs to be done and when so nothing gets left behind.

For more detailed information, read our guide to creating the ultimate wedding planning checklist.

7. Find your perfect venue

Browsing (and possibly even visiting) venues is no doubt something you’ve already been excitedly doing on the sly, but now you can dive right in. Your venue is usually the single biggest expense at your wedding, and is often one of the most competitive to find, which is why it’s important to do so early. After all, you can’t start booking other vendors until you know you have a venue secured for your date.

Once you’ve found your ideal venue, get your name on the booking form and pay your deposit to book it. And that’s when things will really start to feel real!

8. Start work on your guest list

Once you know the budget you have to play with and you’ve secured your venue, you can start to work out who you’d like to invite to your wedding. The bigger your budget, the more guests you’re likely to be in a position to invite. If you have a smaller budget, you’ll have to make some tough calls on who might not make the cut. Just make sure you invite everyone who came to your engagement party (if you had one) and anyone you want to be part of the wedding party… obviously.

To make the process easier and avoid any disagreements, read our post featuring 11 wedding guest list arguments all couples have (and how to resolve them).

9. Choose your wedding caterer

The food is often one of the highlights of any wedding for the guests (apart from watching their loved ones get married of course). It also means you get to have a little fun, do some research and perhaps even take part in a few tasting sessions.  Creating a wedding menu is definitely not a job you’ll want to skip over!

With so much choice available out there, it can also be a tough decision. So, you’ll want to make a start early on in the planning process. This is especially important if you’re choosing a caterer who’s highly regarded or popular, so don’t delay.

10. Send out save-the-dates to your guests

With your date now set in stone, you can start telling people about your big day. If your wedding is still more than a year away, you can do this by sending save-the-dates to everyone on your guest list. This just makes sure that everyone keeps your wedding date free and they don’t book a holiday or agree to something else that day. You can have a lot of fun designing your save-the-dates, so let your creativity go wild – you can have anything from fridge magnets to coasters or anything else you can think of.

11. Hire your other vendors

Now that you have your venue and (hopefully) catering sorted, you can move on to the many other vendors who’ll come together to create the wedding of your dreams. This will likely include your:

  • Photographer
  • Videographer
  • Musicians and/or DJ
  • Entertainment
  • Florist
  • Transportation
  • Cake maker
  • Hair and beauty artist (including for a trial)

And more! Much like with the venue and caterer, any popular and in-demand suppliers will be snapped up for your date pretty quickly, so if there’s someone you know you’d love to hire for your wedding then make sure you get in there as quickly as you can.

12. Make sure there’s accommodation for your guests

If you’re getting married somewhere with accommodation, like a hotel, it’s usually standard practice for the hotel to block out a certain number of rooms that only your guests can book. Keep in regular contact with them to make sure you always have rooms available, so that when your initial block of rooms is filled more become available. If you’re getting married in a hotel with a limited number of rooms, they may automatically reserve every room for your wedding, but you’ll want to double-check this with them.

13. Choose your wedding dress

Finding your perfect wedding dress is no mean feat, which is why you should give yourself plenty of time. On top of that, even when you do find the perfect dress, you’ll probably need to arrange for alterations at least once.

If you’re choosing a dress off the rack, you can probably turn things around quite quickly. If you’re having a dress made by a seamstress, however, there’ll likely be a lengthy wait – as much as six months or more – especially if you choose a design that’s complex or intricate.

If you’re on the hunt for a dress but conscious about how much you might spend, read our blog post on how to save money on a wedding dress.

14. Build a wedding website (if you’ve chosen to have one)

A wedding website is a handy tool to have, as it works as a great resource so your guests can RSVP, view your gift register and find out more about the date, time and place of your wedding.

For more information, read the guest post from Squarespace on our blog about how to create the perfect wedding website.

15. Create a gift register

Your guests will be keen to congratulate you on your marriage by giving you a little something. The trouble is, if you don’t have a gift register then some guests might accidentally double (or triple) up. A gift register can prevent this from happening and also means you’re more likely to end up with gifts you want or need. Or, if you don’t need anything, you could simply ask for money – that’s ok too. A gift register just tells your guests what they need to know if they want to get you something. It’s not an urgent step when planning your wedding, but if you start it early enough you can keep adding to it as you realise there’s something you might like.

For a little inspiration on where to get started, read our 50 wedding gift list ideas for every budget.

16. Shop for your bridesmaids’ dresses

With your wedding dress bought (or at the very least ordered), you can start browsing for dresses the rest of your squad will wear. You’ll want to make sure they tie in nicely with your theme, colour scheme and your own outfits so they all complement each other. This might mean a long search, or you might get lucky and find something quickly – hope for the latter but plan for the former.

Who pays for the dresses can be a tricky subject, so it’s worth discussing this with your bridesmaids before you head out dress shopping. For more information, read our post on what your bridesmaids should and shouldn’t pay for.

17. Book the rehearsal dinner venue (if you’re having one)

Not many couples in the UK choose to have a rehearsal dinner, but it’s slowly becoming a popular trend. If you’ve decided to have a rehearsal dinner, make sure you book a venue that’s large enough in plenty of time. Like with the wedding itself, the more guests you want to invite, the more challenging you’ll find it to secure a venue, especially if you leave it quite late.

18. Choose your suit and buy your shoes

Just like with the dress, the search for the perfect suit or tuxedo can also take some time. Even if you don’t consider yourself picky, finding a suit that fits your requirements might take a fair few visits to a fair few shops. All we’re saying is, don’t leave it too late.

As part of this, find yourself a nice pair of shoes. You’ll spend a lot of your wedding day on your feet, so bear this in mind when trying them on!

19. Make arrangements for things you want to hire

Did you know you can hire things for your wedding as a great way to save money? If you have a tight budget, or you simply want to save a few bob so you can spend it elsewhere, you can hire anything from suits to a marquee. Just make sure you reserve what you want to hire in plenty of time, as they can go fast – especially around the busy wedding season.

Also, make sure you pay close attention to the return date, because if you miss it you might end up with some hefty fees!

20. Hire an officiant, registrar or celebrant (if you’re having one)

If you’re having a religious ceremony, you’ll likely know who’s going to officiate your wedding, as it’s something you’ll have discussed at the time you booked it with the leader of your local place of worship. However, with some religious ceremonies (and some other types of ceremonies as well) it may be down to you to hire a registrar to make sure your marriage is legally binding. If so, speak to your local register office to get the ball rolling on this (which will cost you a small fee).

A great way to add a huge amount of personalisation to your wedding ceremony is through hiring a celebrant, which you’ll also want to arrange around the same time if this is something you’ve chosen to do. Remember, you can have a registrar officiate your wedding without a celebrant, but you can’t have a celebrant officiate your wedding without a registrar. It’s all to do with very serious legal reasons, you see.

21. Finalise, print (or write) and send your invitations

You should now be in a great position to send out your wedding invitations. The main information to include on your invitations are the date, time and location, but couples often choose to include information on the food, wedding website and gift register (if they have them), and any other relevant details.

With that, you can print or write your invitations and pop them in the post. 

22. Buy your wedding rings

If you’re exchanging wedding rings at your wedding ceremony, don’t leave it too late to buy them. Yes, many couples choose to go with the good ol’ reliable wedding band, but it can sometimes be a little more complicated than that. You also need to factor in the time it’ll take to have them resized if necessary.

For a little inspo, read our guide to choosing the right wedding ring for you.

23. Work out the groomsmen, page boy and flower girl’s attire

If you’re buying the outfits that your groomsmen, page boy and flower girl will wear, incorporate them into your wedding shopping trips with several months to spare. They might not seem quite as important as your or your bridesmaids’ outfits, but they’re still key considerations that take time.

24. Design your wedding favours

As a gesture of thanks for your guests coming to your wedding, you might want to give them a token gift which you leave on the table ahead of the wedding breakfast. It’s another way for you to get as creative as you can, but also not spend too much money. Something as small as a pack of sweets is usually fine – your guests won’t be expecting much.

For a few suggestions, read our post featuring 29 ideas for wedding favours.

25. Choose your hymns and/or readings

Now that your wedding’s fast approaching, you’ll want to iron out some of the details of your ceremony, such as the hymns and/or readings you’d like to be included. If you’re having a registry office wedding ceremony, you can’t include any references to God or religion, but in other types of wedding, you have free rein to include what you like, whether that’s a non-religious reading, or a traditional Bible reading

If you’re asking a friend or family member to perform a reading, ask them at least a couple of months before the wedding, so they can prepare themselves and maybe even have a practice run or two.

26. Write your wedding vows (if you’ve chosen to write them)

Another tough call you’ll have to make about your ceremony is what type of vows you’ll want to include. Every wedding in the UK has to include contracting and declaratory words, but unless you’re bound by tradition in a religious ceremony, you usually have flexibility when it comes to your vows.

If you’re writing your own vows, make a start on them with at least a few weeks to go, so you have plenty of time to add to them, cut from them and make general tweaks and changes. Getting exactly how you feel down on paper can actually be harder than it sounds.

If you don’t want to write your own vows, you may choose to memorise them, repeat them from the officiant, or simply say the famous words, I do. Speak to your officiant to discuss your options in more detail to help you decide which is right for you.

27. Choose gifts for your wedding party

Many couples choose to give members of the wedding party gifts as a sign of appreciation for playing a role in their wedding ceremony. It’s common for couples to give gifts to the bride and groom’s mums as well as the bridesmaids and maid of honour. Some couples also choose to give a little something to the page boy, flower girl, best man and groomsmen. If you choose to give them something, it doesn’t have to be much – some flowers or a bottle of wine will do (apart from the page boy and flower girl, of course – you might be best off getting them a toy instead).

Gifts don’t need to be custom or bespoke, so can be picked up relatively late in your wedding planning journey.

28. Finalise your wedding playlist

A great way to personalise your wedding is through your choice of music. By now you should have hired all the musicians and/or DJs you’ll have performing at your wedding, but as the big day approaches you can make a few decisions about the specific music you’d like them to play.

From the music at the ceremony to the cheesy disco tracks you’ll be throwing shapes to late into the night, make sure you let the appropriate vendors and professionals know exactly what music you’d like them to play and when. You’ve no doubt got your first dance song already picked out!

29. Make sure the decor and stationery are ready

To match your theme, style and colour scheme, you can fill your venues with decorations and stationery to make them align closer to your vision. This could be anything from huge floral centrepieces to the tiniest of napkin holders. If you want something at your wedding, make sure it’s ready by putting them together over time.

Popular items of decor and stationery include:

  • Pillow for the page boy
  • Basket and petals for the flower girls
  • Table numbers
  • Place names
  • Centrepieces
  • Guestbook
  • Cake stand
  • Cake topper
  • Welcome sign
  • Card or gift bag/box

30. Design your seating plan and write the name cards

Once you’ve received all your RSVPs (if you’re waiting on a few stragglers feel free to give them a nudge) you can finalise your seating plan. Once you’ve worked it all out, you can have it designed and printed so it’s ready to display at the venue.

At the same time, you can make a start on the name cards, or send them to a pro who can do it for you with some swish calligraphy skills.

31. Make sure you have a plan B in place

Just like how we mentioned right at the start of this list that things might go wrong (it’s not likely, but it might)? Well, as well as securing wedding insurance, you might want to think up a plan B, particularly for any plans that might come with a little risk. For example, if you plan to hold the ceremony outside, even if your wedding takes place in the middle of July, you’ll want to have a plan B in place in the event a storm rolls in right at the wrong moment.

It’s always better to have a backup plan and not use it than it is to run around looking for a quick fix when you should be enjoying the build-up to your wedding.

What else do you need to plan ahead of your wedding?

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Remember that checklist we encouraged you to make? Now’s the time to consult that and make sure everything specific to you has been covered. You can use our handy wedding checklist tool and it’ll do a lot of the work for you.

Not that it’s strictly part of planning a wedding, but many couples like to enjoy a night or two away from their partners during the buildup to the wedding for a stag and/or hen do. This can be anything that your heart (and budget) allows. It could be anything from a night out clubbing to a weekend off in Europe. It could even be a night in playing board games – whatever floats your boat (you could also spend it on a boat!).

Similarly, a popular non-negotiable for couples is a honeymoon. Our 2023 Wedding Report found that the average amount spent on a honeymoon is £4,200, so among the hustle and bustle of planning your wedding, you might want to set some time aside to think about whether you’d like to go away after the wedding for a honeymoon. Or, perhaps a minimoon will be a little kinder to your budget, followed by a honeymoon a few months later?

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