If you’re thinking of proposing, you’ve come to the right place. It’s not just a case of dropping down on one knee – there a lots of moving parts to consider. So, whether you have a proposal in mind already, or are looking for inspiration, we’ve partnered with The Proposers to answer all your questions, from deciding when to pop the question to where to celebrate afterwards. Read on to learn from how to create a once-in-a-lifetime moment that you and your partner will treasure forever.
So, you’ve decided it’s time to pop the question – huge congratulations!
This is a very exciting moment in a relationship and quite a unique one as well. Whereas in a wedding you will both be planning together, a proposal is a perfect opportunity to plan a special surprise for your partner to show them just how much you care and to perfectly reflect on what you love about them as well as your relationship story thus far.
The holiday season is a perfect time to propose and one of the most popular as well, and we totally see why – the festive ambiance is all around, loved ones gather to celebrate and as a bonus point it leaves ample time to plan a beautiful summer wedding. We think there’s no better gift to give your partner than a stunning proposal this Christmas.
Below is The Proposers’ step-by-step guide to lead you all the way to ‘yes’:
As a preliminary step, we always recommend our couples discuss their future plans together, especially what they hope for in terms of getting married. Of course, this doesn’t need to give any of the proposal away – talk about generalities so that you know you are both on the same page. You can show them a TikTok that just ‘popped up’ on your feed or mention a recent colleague’s engagement as a prompt. It’s also a great opportunity to get a bit of information about what your partner may want for the proposal itself, what ring they’re dreaming of or if they want you to ask for permission from their parents – all useful details in taking the next steps.
It’s tradition to ask for your partner’s hand in marriage from their father or from both parents depending on preference. If this is something that’s important to your partner, it’s a lovely sentiment to do so. In person is often best, we find. Soon you’ll all be family, so it’s a great opportunity to show your appreciation. Your partner’s parents will certainly value the gesture as well.
Now that you have the go-ahead, it’s time to shop for the perfect ring! Hopefully at this point you’ll have an indication of what your partner loves. Usually a diamond is preferred, and if that’s the case, consider what metal they would favour (such as platinum or gold), the shape (princess, round, pear are some options) and learn about the 4 Cs (carat, cut, clarity, colour), so that you can go into purchasing confidently. To get the sizing right when your partner isn’t watching, measure a ring they currently have that they often place on that finger. Otherwise, check out Bridebook’s guide on how to secretly measure your partner’s ring finger.
Of course, a diamond isn’t mandatory these days. If you think your partner would prefer another gemstone or even a different gift such as a watch, these are all excellent options as well, so long as it’s what you think your partner would love. Again, check out Bridebook’s top 30 unique alternatives to engagement rings for more inspiration. Some modern couples like to design the ring together, in which case you can propose with a place ring just for the photos.
The good news is, there’s no right or wrong way to propose – the perfect ‘yes’ moment is totally dependent on who you are as a couple. Even so, we recommend considering the below when deciding how to ask.
Do you want a private proposal somewhere discreet, or public with the crowds cheering? Would your partner love a grand gesture with all the trimmings or something more small-scale and sentimental? Would they like friends or families to join or have it be just the both of you? The answers to the above will lend a hand when securing the perfect venue, which is essential in creating the desired atmosphere for those four all-important words.
Through our time planning proposals, we’ve had the fortune to work in many different settings, from privatising Disneyland just for the couple, to creating a flash mob in a central train station, and even closing a Cat Café for the day for a couple who loves felines. The venue of your proposal can be totally unique (like atop an epic landmark, such as a Swiss glacier), totally romantic (like a stunning hotel room with bouquets of roses all around), or tender and sweet (like the place you first met)!
Once you know the backdrop, consider what decoration you may want to enhance the ambience with. In the age of social media, it’s quite popular to have a display with lots of flowers and candles. While some locations can’t be decorated, particularly if you’re looking to propose in public, you can still get creative with other touches (as below).
No matter the setting, the details are really what makes a proposal meaningful. These are additional touches to really show your partner how much you care.
We always ask our clients about their love story, about activities or trips they’ve enjoyed with their partner, about their partner’s favourite things (like their hobbies, music, movies, colours) and about their dreams as a couple together. These points are helpful in understanding what makes your relationship unique, and can then be incorporated in creative ways into your engagement. From having your partner’s favourite song played in the background to toasting with a wine you enjoyed together on holiday – but this time with a personalised label with your proposal date – these touches will surely wow your partner!
Consider hiring a professional photographer to shoot your proposal. This is the perfect way to ensure you have stunning images to go alongside your engagement announcement and to share with loved ones (who will want a full run-down of how it all happened). We absolutely love the candid shots a photographer captures when our clients walk in to the proposal venue and the surprise is revealed. These are priceless, and having this moment to reminisce on forevermore is truly something worthwhile.
It’s also a good idea to think about booking in a professional videographer or musician to serenade if you’re looking at creating a larger scale production. These aren’t mandatory, but a great add-on if budget allows.
Once you’ve organised the running of the day, think of the specific moment itself. It will be extremely moving for your partner if you say a few meaningful words on such a momentous occasion. We recommend writing it down and committing it to memory so that you can remember everything you want to say in the moment.
When the day arrives, and after all the groundwork has been laid out, our favourite tip is to try to relax and enjoy as much as possible. You’ve planned this special proposal for your partner, which they will surely adore, but don’t forget that this is a big milestone for you as well. The more you are in the moment and take it all in, the more you can truly have the best time and celebrate together!
If you’d like help organising your big day – we’re here to assist! The Proposers are the first ever proposal company in the world. With over 13 years of experience and 5,000 ‘yes’ moments to date, we love everything proposals. We will be delighted to hold your hand through the planning process for a hassle- free, magical “will you marry me”! Whatever vision you might have, we’ll make it a reality.
The big day has been and gone. The vows have been read, the presents were opened, and the honeymoon has come to an end. However, there’s still a little more wedding joy to spread — the thank you cards!
Thank you cards are a great way to express your heartfelt appreciation and gratitude for all the love and support you received on your special day. You can use them to thank guests for wedding gifts, for their efforts in wedding planning, or even just for being part of your special day.
In this article, we cover what to write in a wedding thank you card, examples of wedding thank you card wording, and some top tips for writing wedding thank you messages.
A wedding thank you card is a card given by the newlyweds to their wedding guests. They’re usually given a few weeks after the wedding ceremony to thank the guests for attending, for any gifts they may have received, and to thank the wedding party for their support in organising the wedding.
Wedding thank you cards are a small but significant gesture to express gratitude to your close friends and family. They usually take a few hours to write but will leave a lasting impression on your guests. You don’t have to write wedding thank you cards. However, if you have time, they’re a lovely way to round off the big day and the months leading up to it.
While you don’t have to, it’s polite to still send a wedding card to anyone who:
Couldn’t attend the wedding, but sent a gift
Couldn’t attend the wedding, but gave you money
Couldn’t attend the wedding due to ill health, but would have otherwise
Couldn’t attend the wedding due to a bereavement, but would have otherwise
Sending a wedding card to someone who couldn’t attend the wedding for these reasons is a thoughtful and considerate gesture. It shows your appreciation for their wedding wishes, support, and understanding of their circumstances.
Wedding thank you cards don’t need to be long or detailed. All that matters is that you write from the heart. We recommend including:
A friendly greeting
Start with a friendly greeting. This can be something simple like:
Dear [Names]
To [Names]
But you could also try something a little more fun and creative:
To our favourite [your relationship to the guest or guests. For example, ‘To our favourite cousins’]
Dear [your surname] wedding survivors
Your choice of greeting sets the tone for your thank you card and can reflect your personality as a couple. So, feel free to be creative or stick to the classics, as long as it feels genuine to you.
A generic thank you message
You should then move on to thanking your guests for attending your wedding and giving you a gift (if they did).
The thank you message can be generic. For example:
Thank you so much for attending our big day
Thank you for making the effort to come to the wedding, and for your thoughtful gift
It’s important to thank guests properly if they give you a gift or money. Just be careful not to accidentally thank someone for a gift if they didn’t give one!
Top tip: As you’re opening your wedding presents, keep a list of who gave you each gift or if a card contained money or vouchers. This way, you can properly thank your guests in your cards.
A specific memory or acknowledgment
The next part of your wedding card should be personalised to the recipient of your card. It could be a special moment you shared on the wedding day, a personalised thank you for the gift they gave you, or even an anecdote from before the wedding.
For example, you could try something like:
It was lovely to have you at the wedding ceremony. Thank you especially for your help when my veil got caught on the chair!
Thank you so much for your generous gift. We’re really looking forward to using the new air fryer now that we’re back from our honeymoon.
I can’t thank you enough for all your support running up to the wedding day. It was a really stressful time and you were an absolute lifesaver.
A simple sign-off
Once you’ve finished the body of your card, you should sign off with a warm closing and your and your new spouse’s name. For example:
Again, thank you so much. Love, [Your names]
We really appreciate your support. Thanks again, [Your names]
Wedding thank you card message structure
Follow this general structure when composing your thank you message
We’re so grateful you came to celebrate our special day with us. We’ve known each other since school, so it wouldn’t have been the same without you. Plus, I can’t believe you travelled all the way from Scotland for us! I hope the drive back wasn’t too tiring.
Again, thank you. We really appreciate it. Love,
[Your names]
What to write in a thank you card to family
To [Names],
Thank you so much for coming to our special day and for bringing the little cousins along. It can’t be easy to look after three kids all day, but it meant the world to us for everyone to be there.
Thank you again for your lovely gift. The towels are beautiful, and we just love the light blue colour.
From,
[Your names]
What to write in a maid of honour’s thank you card
Dear [maid of honour’s name],
You’ve been my rock throughout this process. From the minute I told you I was engaged, you were right by my side and supported all my crazy ideas. Thank you for being the guardian of my special day. Your love and support mean everything to me.
Thank you again. I couldn’t have done it without you.
Love,
[Your name]
What to write in a bridesmaid’s thank you card
Dear [bridesmaid’s name],
You stood by my side as I took the biggest step of my life, and I can’t thank you enough. Thank you for all your help running up to the big day — I honestly couldn’t have done it without you.
With all my love,
[Your name]
What to write in a best man’s thank you card
Dear [best man‘s name],
Thank you for standing by my side on the most important day of my life, and for not telling anyone how much I cried. You’re my best friend, my partner in crime, and I couldn’t have done it without you.
Thank you again for the generous gift you left in the wedding card. It’ll go a long way towards the honeymoon, so thank you!
Hoping I can return the favour one day! From,
[Your name]
What to write in a groomsman’s thank you card
Dear [groomsman’s name],
What a night! Thank you so much for ushering the guests to their seats, for keeping my crazy auntie away from my uncle, and for all the free shots! It wouldn’t have been the same without you.
Handwritten cards have a personal touch that your guests are sure to appreciate. If your handwriting is difficult to read, simply take your time and write neatly.
Be timely
Send out your thank you cards within a few weeks of the wedding to show your appreciation. If you leave it any longer than this, you may struggle to remember specific details of the wedding or who gave you which gifts!
Enlist a helper
Writing thank you cards can take a few hours. However, if you have a helper, like your new spouse, you can get done in half the time.
Make a list
Keep a list of which cards you’ve written and sent and which ones you still need to complete. This will help you stay organised and on top of the task.
Knowing what to say in wedding thank you cards can be tricky. Plus, with so many people to thank, coming up with a personalised experience for each guest can feel overwhelming. But don’t worry — we’re here to help.
The easiest thing to do when writing a wedding card is to make it easy for yourself. Enlist a helper, personalise one or two lines to the guests’ experience, and keep a list of which cards you’ve sent and which you haven’t.
If you’re a guest looking for wedding card writing tips, check out our post on what to write in a wedding card. It includes top tips and a guide on writing etiquette, along with some great wedding card message examples.
Excitement for the new year is building, drinks are flowing freely and fireworks paint the night sky. Love is in the air and you and your partner couldn’t be happier together.
Sounds like a pretty ideal time for you to get down on one knee and ask them an important and monumental four-word question, don’t you think?
Asking your other half to marry you on New Year’s Eve is wonderfully symbolic, allowing you and your new fiance to tackle the new year as partners in crime. Not only that, but you’ll also have a brilliant time planning your wedding throughout the new year!
But, with your mind made up that you’re going to pop the question on New Year’s Eve, how should you go about it? What do you need to think about and what should you do during the build-up to the big night?
In this post, we’ll explore how to propose on New Year’s Eve, including why it’s such a great idea, what you should do to prepare and how you could tackle the night itself so your proposal goes down as perfectly as you imagined.
6 reasons why New Year’s Eve is a great day for a proposal
If you’re on the fence about proposing on New Year’s Eve and need a little convincing that it’s a great choice, then these six reasons should tip you in the right direction (that direction being down on one knee).
1. It has a huge symbolic meaning
New Year, new me is a popular saying and is all about making positive changes in your life. A new beginning can be perfectly represented by starting the year as an engaged couple and embarking on your journey towards marriage.
2. You’re already suited and booted
If you’re out for the evening, either at a party, a fireworks display or you’re enjoying a romantic meal, the two of you may already be dressed up nice and feeling good. That means you won’t raise any suspicions by booking somewhere nice and suggesting you and your partner should dress up and be extra fancy for the evening.
3. There are already fireworks set up and ready to go
After you’ve proposed and received your YES! you’ll be excited to celebrate into the night with your new fiance. The best thing about midnight on New Year’s Eve is that there are already plenty of fireworks displays set up around the country, whether they’re professional or private displays. So, take advantage of the impending fireworks and use them to enhance your proposal.
4. Share the moment with loved ones
New Year’s Eve is a popular time to spend time with loved ones, whether it’s family, friends or a combination of the two. If this is you, then ask your loved ones to lend a hand with the proposal. This could include spelling WILL YOU MARRY ME? out in sparklers and a timelapse camera, or making sure everyone’s ready to capture your amazing moment on film.
5. The drinks are on standby
What better way to celebrate your engagement than with a glass of bubbly? With a New Year’s Eve proposal, there’s a good chance there are already a few chilled bottles just waiting for the corks to pop.
6. It’s not as cliché as other days
It may be popular to get engaged on New Year’s Eve, but it’s by no means a cliché. That means you can enjoy getting down on one knee on a day that you’ll never forget, without it being as clichéd as the more traditionally romantic days of the year.
Yes, to make sure your New Year’s Eve proposal is every bit as magical as you could hope for, we recommend that you take a bit of time to plan exactly how you want to do it. There are a lot of moving parts around the end of the year, and unless you plan on being impulsive and proposing when the moment feels right, you’ll need to have all your ducks in a row first.
Because you’ve decided to propose on New Year’s Eve, you might also want to make sure you use this special time of year to your advantage. There might be parties, drinks, laughter, celebrations, fireworks, friends and family all at your disposal, so think about how you might want to include them in your big moment. There’s plenty going on over New Year’s, so think carefully about how you can fit all the puzzle pieces together to make sure you propose in the most memorable and romantic way possible.
What should you consider before proposing on New Year’s Eve?
We’ve already covered how memorable a New Year’s Eve proposal can be. But, before you get down on one knee and change you and your partner’s lives forever, there are a few things to consider.
Have you found an engagement ring your partner will love? Or, if you know they don’t want a ring, have you chosen an engagement ring alternative that’s personal to them?
Are you confident that your partner would love a New Year’s Eve proposal? It’s already a special time of year, so make sure you know that your partner is happy to share such a special date.
Have you already got New Year’s Eve plans and thought about how your dream proposal fits into that? If not, how will your partner feel if you try to change your plans?
Do you want to have a private and intimate proposal with just the two of you, or are you going to include your family and friends?
The New Year can already be a hectic and stressful time, so ensure your plans include time to relax and recharge after what is sure to be an emotionally charged moment.
If you’re planning on having a snowy proposal, just bear in mind that British weather is often unpredictable (and rather drizzly). Make sure you have a plan B in place to make sure your proposal isn’t rained off.
How to propose on New Year’s Eve: our foolproof step-by-step guide
New Year’s Eve is one of the most romantic and magical times of the year to ask your partner to marry you. As the seconds get closer to midnight and everyone gets ready to sing Auld Lang Syne, your proposal plan is about to come to fruition. So, to help you plan a New Year’s Eve proposal that gets you your YES, we’ve put together this guide.
Here are 10 steps you can follow so you have your New Year’s Eve YES and start the next year as one half of an engaged couple.
Step 1: Start planning in plenty of time
To make sure you have everything in place for the moment you get down on one knee, it’s important to start planning your proposal early. So, depending on how you’d like to pop the question, we’d recommend setting the wheels in motion in early December or November. Or, if you’d like to propose while on a trip, potentially even sooner.
As part of this, if you’re going to stick to traditions then you might want to talk to your partner’s parents to ask their permission. It might be a slightly outdated tradition these days, but many parents appreciate the gesture anyway. If you have a good relationship with them you’ll more than likely get a positive response and will make sure you continue building your relationship with your future in-laws.
Step 2: Choose your engagement ring (or alternative)
One of the most exciting parts of a proposal is when you finally surprise your partner by asking them the most incredible question. But, this can only work if you’re good at keeping secrets and don’t give the game away. That includes knowing who you can trust to keep it a secret as well, so only tell who you absolutely have to. If you propose around other people, half the fun is seeing their surprise reactions as well.
Step 4: Choose the ideal time
When it comes to proposing on New Year’s Eve, one of the hardest decisions you’ll make is at what time of day you should propose. Of course, you could propose in the morning or afternoon so you can share your amazing news throughout the day. But, most people who propose on New Year’s Eve wait until the evening, with many popping the question as the clocks strike midnight and the new year arrives. Of course, this all depends on your plans and where you’ll be at certain times throughout the day.
Step 5: Make sure you include elements of New Year’s Eve
Because you’re proposing on New Year’s Eve, make sure you make the most of it and include elements synonymous with such a special day. That could include champagne, fireworks, a party or using the countdown itself.
When it comes to proposing, do what you can to make it as unique and personal to you and your partner as possible. If you take an idea for a proposal, put your own spin on it or use what you know about your partner to make it as personal to them as you can.
Part of this includes thinking about what you’ll say once the moment to ask the question arrives. You might end up being so nervous you get tongue-tied, so it’s always worth thinking about what you want to say ahead of time. You might even want to write it down to help you get your thoughts out, then semi-commit them to memory.
Step 7: Make sure you have a plan B
As much as you might have planned your proposal, even the best-laid plans can go awry. So, if something happens that means your plans can’t go ahead, make sure you have a backup plan in place. That way, your New Year’s Eve engagement can still move forward so you can start the new year with a fiance. This step is extra important if your proposal idea counts on the weather behaving itself!
Step 8: Immortalise the moment
If your proposal plans mean you’re likely to be around people, why not give one or two of them (if you trust them not to give anything away) a heads-up so they can film your proposal and snap some pictures? Then you’ll have some wonderful memories and photos you can use when you announce your amazing news.
Step 9: Tell everyone
Thankfully, many of us still have a day or two off work after New Year’s Eve, so don’t always have to rush straight back to work. That means you can visit friends and family and tell them about how you’re now a happily engaged couple.
Step 10: Take some time to enjoy your new relationship status
After the chaos of Christmas and New Year’s, it’s important to take some time for just the two of you to bask in your newly engaged status. Enjoy your time together and celebrate. If you can, take a trip. Then, you can jump into the wild world of wedding planning with energy and enthusiasm!
The above guide should put you in a good place for nailing your New Year’s Eve proposal. But, to help steady those nerves and make sure everything goes exactly as you want it to, here are eight proposal tips to bear in mind.
Don’t just wing it – make sure you have a plan.
Try to theme your New Year’s Eve proposal around the big night itself so it’s not just something that could work on any other night of the year.
Make sure you talk to your partner so you fully understand that they’re happy to get engaged on a special day in the calendar like New Year’s Eve.
If you’re proposing at a party, use those around you to act as unofficial photographers and videographers so you can hold on to that moment forever.
Use the magic of New Year’s Eve to enhance your proposal, like fireworks and your Christmas decorations and lights.
The weather is unpredictable at the best of times, but doubly so on the last day of the year, so have a contingency plan if your proposal involves being outside.
If you’re planning a trip away, book it in plenty of time because hotels can soon fill up.
Spend the rest of your time off before heading back to work enjoying your new-found engaged status. Use the last couple of days before work resumes to tell friends and family the amazing news.
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You and your partner are at a New Year’s Eve party. You’re riding the high at the end of a fantastic festive season and as the clock nears midnight you feel in your pocket to make sure the ring’s still there. You’ve had a couple of drinks to steady your nerves as the big moment approaches.
The countdown begins… 10… 9… 8…7…
You get the ring out of your pocket.
6… 5… 4… 3…
You get down on one knee. Your partner is shocked, people around you gasp as the countdown reaches zero and everyone exclaims HAPPY NEW YEAR, but as you and your partner lock eyes, it’s like the two of you are the only ones in the room.
Will you marry me?
Then as you get your YES, incredible fireworks paint the sky with a flurry of wonderful colours and sounds.
What a stunning way to ask the love of your life to marry you and kick off the new year in the most incredible way imaginable. But, a New Year’s Eve party proposal is just one of the ways you can ask them to spend the rest of their life with you. There are plenty more memorable ways to make this New Year’s Eve one you’ll remember forever.
In this post, we’ll explore the many ways you can ask your partner to marry you on New Year’s Eve, and why the last day of the year makes for the perfect day to pop the question to your partner.
Yes, New Year’s Eve is one of the most popular days for couples to get engaged. With the start of the new year just hours away, it’s already a magical time for a celebration, with people getting together, drinks flowing and fireworks lighting up the sky. For many, it makes for the perfect backdrop to ask one of the biggest questions of all.
Our annual Wedding Report found that in the UK, more than a quarter (26%) of all proposals happen in December, and 31st December is one of the top 10 dates for someone to get down on one knee. The good news is, while it is popular, it’s not seen as a cliché like other dates, such as Valentine’s Day or 29th February. So, if you want to pop the question this New Year’s Eve, we think you should go for it!
Whether or not you should propose on New Year’s Eve is a decision only you can make. But, if you’re considering it, then there’s nothing quite like a New Year’s Eve proposal.
The start of a new year is a chance for a new beginning. If you’re keen for that new beginning to include a fiance standing at your side, then there’s no better time for it.
It’s worth making sure that your partner would be comfortable sharing such a special moment with a date that’s already significant in many peoples’ lives. If you’ve made the decision to propose, you’ve probably had conversations about a proposal with your partner, so you should have a good idea about what they’d like from one. If that includes a New Year’s Eve proposal, then great!
There’s also a potential stumbling block in the form of the cost of a proposal at that time of year. In the UK, the average cost of an engagement ring is £1,978, and with the costs of Christmas (as well as there being a long wait until January’s payday) these extra costs can be a dealbreaker. But, if you’ve saved for an engagement ring or you know your partner doesn’t want to wear one, then what’s stopping you?
For more information, read our guide to how to propose on New Year’s Eve so you can plan the most wonderful end-of-year proposal.
New Year’s Eve is a wonderful day to propose to your partner. Here are just some of the reasons why you should consider it if you’re still not quite sure it’s right for you:
New Year’s Eve is all about new beginnings, which can be beautifully realised with an engagement.
You’re likely to already be nicely dressed, which means asking your partner to get dressed up for a big night won’t be suspicious.
There will be plenty of fireworks at midnight.
It’s not a cliché like other romantic days of the year.
The drinks will be flowing.
You might be surrounded by loved ones who can share the moment with you.
Excited to pop the question to your partner and give them a New Year’s Eve the two of you will never forget? Below are 12 ideas for a magical New Year’s Eve proposal so you can get your YES and start the new year riding that engagement high.
1. Ask on a New Year’s Eve trip
While Christmas is often considered a holiday for spending time with family, New Year’s Eve can be whatever you want it to be. Just because Christmas is over it doesn’t mean you can’t have one more sneaky surprise up your sleeve in the form of a night or two away. That in itself is a wonderful way to welcome the new year, but throw in a proposal and you’ve got the makings of a night the two of you will treasure forever.
2. Use your Christmas tree
If you put up a Christmas tree and still have it up into the new year, why not include it in your proposal? After all, it’s beautiful and magical, so it would be a shame to waste it.
You could hide the engagement ring within the branches as a surprise New Year’s Eve gift, or rearrange the lights to spell out WILL YOU MARRY ME? You could even disguise the engagement ring as a Christmas decoration and have it hiding in plain sight throughout the whole festive period, right until the perfect moment in the last few hours of the year.
Or, finding one last gift below the tree is always guaranteed to shock and delight your partner.
For more Christmassy inspiration, read our post featuring 12 Christmas Day proposal ideas which share a lot of similarities with New Year’s Eve.
3. As the clock strikes midnight
A New Year’s countdown is always exciting as people eagerly await to bring in the New Year. It’s also a popular time for couples to tell each other how they feel and welcome in the new year with a kiss. Use this moment of romance to ask your partner to marry you and start the new year with the greatest feeling ever.
4. Create a photo album of the last year
Because it’s so easy to take digital photographs these days, the art of the physical photo album is fast becoming lost. But, why not put together an album featuring your memories over the past 12 months? Then, on the final page and secured there with delicate ribbon, a beautiful engagement ring.
Not only is it loving and thoughtful, but an engagement photo album is also poetic, as it means one of the first and last things you’ll do across your wedding journey is look through a photo album together.
5. Have a New Year’s Eve bash with loved ones
A New Year’s Eve party is a great way to celebrate with friends and family. Plus, if you ask your partner to marry you, it can quickly turn into an engagement party as the clock strikes midnight and you crack open a few bottles of fizz. If you give one or two party guests a heads up (just make sure they can keep a secret!) you’re also guaranteed to get the whole thing captured from multiple angles – perfect for announcing to wider family, friends and co-workers.
If you plan on proposing at a friend’s party, think about giving them a heads-up first. You don’t want to steal their thunder or interrupt something they had planned. Not that they’re likely to mind having this incredible moment at their party!
6. Recreate your first date
Since the two of you had your first date, you’ve more than likely looked back on that moment and thought about just how lucky you are to have come this far. To bookend this part of your relationship, why not recreate your very first date and retrace your steps? Then, the icing on the cake will be to get down on one knee and ask for their hand in marriage.
7. Crack out a customised bottle of champagne
There are many moments when a bottle of fizz always goes down a treat – and two of them just so happen to be during a New Year’s Eve celebration and the moment two people in love get engaged. So, why not use that to your advantage, and present your partner with a bottle of champagne that features a custom-printed label that simply says, WILL YOU MARRY ME? Then, once you’ve had your YES, crack that bad boy open and enjoy!
8. Share your New Year’s resolutions
Welcoming the new year is a time when many people make promises to themselves and others that they’ll make a change. You could find an intimate and warm setting, and ask your partner to share their resolutions with you. When it’s your turn to share your own, explain how you want to dedicate your life to making them happy – then, pop the question and wait for their response!
9. Find a rooftop location
Rooftop bars, locations and other venues offer stunning views over city skylines. This can be fabulous at any time of year, but on New Year’s Eve when the atmosphere’s electric and the sky is sprinkled with distant fireworks, it’s even better. It makes for a memorable place to pop the question.
10. Say it with snow
Okay, thanks to the unpredictability of British weather, this one might be a long shot. But, if the weather cooperates and there’s a flurry of last-minute snow, make the most of it and use it in your proposal.
There’s plenty you could do to have a wonderfully wintry proposal. You could build a snowman and hang the ring off the end of its carrot nose. You could write WILL YOU MARRY ME? in giant letters in the garden and casually ask your fiance to look out the window while you get down on one knee. Or, you could simply take a snowy walk to your favourite spot and propose surrounded by picture-perfect scenery.
11. Ask using a balloon
One thing that’s synonymous with celebrating is the good ol’ balloon, so using one to propose can make a huge statement. You might want to have a custom balloon made that asks your partner to be your partner in crime forever, or 15 balloons that feature one letter each lined up across the room to ask, WILL YOU MARRY ME? (don’t forget the question mark).
Another option is to tie the engagement ring to a piece of string hanging underneath the balloon. It’s cute and eye-catching, and the moment your partner spots the balloon they’ll know something special is about to happen.
12. Make the most of the fireworks
New Year’s Eve is a popular time for fireworks, so make the most of them by using them in your proposal. Once the clock strikes midnight, fireworks will light up the sky all around in a magical display of colour. This sounds like the perfect moment for a proposal to us.
Or, if you’re at a party and can rope in some guests to help, grab some sparklers and someone to take a timelapse photo, and spell out WILL YOU MARRY ME? Then, when your partner looks at the photo, they’ll see something that will make their jaw hit the floor.
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With lights adorning the tree, flames gently crackling in the fireplace and the smell of cinnamon and sweet treats in the air, Christmas is without doubt a magical time of year. It’s also a time for generosity and giving, which is why so many people propose to their partners on Christmas Day.
But, how should you propose on Christmas Day to make sure it’s as romantic, intimate and memorable as possible? What do you need to think about to make sure your festive proposal is as perfect as it can be?
In this post, we’ll share all the tips and considerations to think about for a Christmas Day proposal, including everything you need to prepare and what you should do on the day so it all goes to plan and you get the best gift of all this Christmas – a fiance!
In the UK, Christmas Day is by far the most popular day to get engaged. Our UK Wedding Report uncovered that a quarter (26%) of couples get engaged in December, and out of all the couples who married in 2022, the top four most popular dates they got engaged was Christmas Day.
Christmas has the romance and magic of Valentine’s Day but with less cliché. It’s a time when kindness and generosity are everywhere, and people spend a lot of time with their loved ones. Christmas also has a lot of emotional significance and traditions surrounding it, which a proposal can heighten to a whole new level.
If you love the festive season and want to create lasting memories that make it an even more special and magical time of year, a Christmas Day proposal is a wonderful way to ask your partner to spend the rest of your lives together.
Yes, just like with any proposal, you should take time to plan your Christmas Day proposal to make sure it’s extra special. Of course, you might want to be impulsive and make the call about how and when you’ll do it on the day itself, but that comes with more risk.
Think about your partner’s preferences and what they might appreciate. Because you’ve chosen to do a Christmas proposal, you should consider taking advantage of this special day to make it extra memorable, so try to incorporate Christmas additions into your plans. If your proposal would go down in exactly the same way if you did it on any other day, then why do it on Christmas? Use the festivities to your advantage to make it memorable and magical.
What to think about before proposing on Christmas Day
As highlighted above, Christmas is already a time of year that many people love for a variety of reasons. When planning your Christmas Day proposal, think about the following points to ensure everything goes down even better than you’d hope for:
Have you picked the perfect ring or engagement ring alternative if your partner isn’t into jewellery or wearing rings?
Would your partner appreciate a Christmas Day proposal and be happy to share this incredible moment in their life with a day that’s already so special?
What will be the best time of day for your proposal? Will a morning proposal work before you see wider family, or sometime in the evening when it gets all cosy and warm?
Do you want to involve family and friends in your proposal or do you want to keep things intimate between the two of you?
Christmas can be a stressful time of year, so make sure your plans include downtime before you ask the question so you and your partner can savour the moment.
Don’t rely too heavily on the weather as part of your proposal plans. As incredible as it would be to propose on a snowy hilltop, the unpredictable weather in the UK means there might be rain or heavy winds instead. Have a backup plan in case the weather doesn’t play ball.
How to propose on Christmas Day: a step-by-step guide
As we’ve already covered, Christmas Day is a wonderful time to propose to your other half. But, to make sure everything goes as expected, it’s important to put a plan together. You don’t need to write things down, create a spreadsheet or sketch out a map – but you should make sure you’re on top of everything so nothing’s overlooked or forgotten.
Below are 10 steps to follow so you can have the most incredible Christmas Day engagement.
Step 1: Plan ahead
Start your Christmas Day proposal prep in plenty of time. If you decide just a few days ahead of Christmas that you want to ask your partner to marry you on Christmas morning, you might not have time to sort everything out. If possible, start to get things ready in early December, or even November if possible, just to account for any hiccups along the way.
If you’re the traditional type, you might also want to speak to your partner’s parents before you pop the question. Asking permission is an old tradition now, but one that many parents still appreciate nevertheless. You more than likely won’t get any type of resistance, but the gesture will go a long way towards solidifying your relationship with your future in-laws.
Step 2: Choose what you’re going to propose with
If you and your partner have talked about what they’d want from a proposal, they probably also told you about what they want from a ring (or even if they want a ring at all). If they want a ring, make sure you try to find out their ring size before you head to the jewellers.
Step 3: Try to keep it a surprise
You may well have had countless discussions with your partner about getting engaged, so they may have an idea about what’s to come. This will be especially true if you’ve specifically talked about getting engaged at Christmas. But, do what you can to keep everything as close to your chest as possible so your proposal can be a big, welcome surprise.
Step 4: Decide the right time to propose
Christmas is a busy time, so it’s important to nail down when you think the right time to propose would be. If you do it in the morning, you’ll then have the whole of Christmas Day as an engaged couple. If you do it at night, it’ll be cosy and romantic. You also need to think about whether or not you want a public or private proposal, and if you want friends or family to be there the moment you get down on one knee.
Step 5: Think about the location
You know your partner best; where do you think they’d love for you to pop the question? At home as you’re opening presents from beneath the tree? At the dinner table before you tuck into your delicious Christmas lunch? Or might it be outside on a wintry walk, or at a family member’s house? Because a lot of places are closed on Christmas Day you won’t have quite as much choice as the rest of the year, but try to choose somewhere that has plenty of festive charm and an emotional connection.
Step 6: Make it extra Christmassy
One of the best things about getting engaged at Christmas is how fabulous and magical everything looks, from our carefully decorated trees at home to towns and cities awash with lights and colour. Make sure you use the beauty and fun of Christmas so your proposal stands out.
You don’t want an ‘off-the-shelf’ idea when it comes to proposing. Use what you know about your soon-to-be fiance, such as what they love and want from a proposal, and use as much as you can to personalise how you ask them. For example, if they love to crochet, why not present the ring in a small, crocheted Christmas stocking? Or include your pet in the proposal by looping the ring around its collar?
Think about what you’re going to say and how you’re going to say it. You might want to write down a few things you want to say and commit them to memory. Or, you could just say whatever feels right in at the moment. Whatever you do, make sure it’s personal, from the heart and true to yourself.
Step 8: Have a backup plan
As much as you’ve meticulously planned your Christmas Day proposal, there’s always the chance that something gets in the way. If that happens, make sure you have a plan B in place so you can still have your Christmas engagement. This is doubly important if you plan on proposing outside!
Step 9: Capture the moment
When the time comes for you to ask the biggest question you might ever ask someone, make sure you capture the moment so you can share it with your friends and family. Thankfully, smartphones have great cameras and microphones, so all it takes is for you to prop it somewhere discreet, hit record, and then wait for exactly the right moment to get down on one knee.
If you’re proposing in public or surrounded by loved ones, you could ask someone to record the moment or take pictures, which makes for a fantastic way to look back on your big moment.
Step 10: Share the news
One of the great things about getting engaged at Christmas is there’s a good chance that you’ve already organised to spend time with family and friends, so you have a ready-made opportunity to tell them your amazing news.
We’ve already covered how amazing it can be to get engaged at Christmas. If you’re planning to pop the question this festive season, below are 10 tips to consider so your engagement is magical and memorable.
Make sure you’re confident that your partner is happy to share their engagement day with something as widely celebrated as Christmas.
Consider a private, personal and intimate proposal to make it extra special and romantic.
Use the natural beauty of Christmas time to your advantage.
Include Christmas in your proposal somehow, such as by asking carollers to sing your partner’s favourite Christmas carol as you pop the question.
Don’t pin all your hopes on the weather behaving itself. The last time the UK had a widespread white Christmas was in 2010, so the chances of waking up to a blanket of snow are small.
Don’t propose at Christmas just because. Make sure it’s something both you and your partner want to happen.
Plan, plan, plan.
Plan a plan B.
Set your phone to record, ask a friend or family member to take photos, or even hire an official photographer to capture the moment (although this might be rather expensive, especially on Christmas Day).
Enjoy the Christmas period and bask in the feeling of having a fiance! Soon, you’ll be so deep in wedding planning that your engagement will feel like a distant memory.
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Love is in the air for your favourite co-worker, and you’ve been invited to the big day. Whether you’ve shared an office space for years or you’ve just begun to forge a professional bond, being invited to celebrate this momentous occasion cements your friendship and deepens the connection you share.
But what’s the etiquette when it comes to writing a wedding message to a colleague? Do you keep it light and fun like you would for a friend, or more formal in tone like you would for a family member? It can be tricky to strike a balance between fun and professional when writing to a work colleague.
But, don’t stress— we’re here to help! Read on to learn all about how to write a wedding card message for a colleague, including some example wedding quotes you could include, and top tips for writing wedding card wishes.
A wedding card message is a simple but effective way to convey your congratulations to the happy couple on their big day. You can also express your gratitude at having been invited, and share happy memories from the time you’ve known them.
It’s best to follow a simple format. For example, a simple introduction, a wedding congratulations message, and a polite sign-off. This way, your wedding card remains professional and respectful.
It’s best to keep it simple when writing a wedding card to a colleague. Try using the following format:
A simple greeting
Although you can end up becoming very close to your work colleagues, to avoid any awkwardness in the office, it’s best to keep wedding cards friendly but professional. As a result, a simple greeting is your best bet when writing a wedding card to a work colleague.
Try something short and sweet like:
To [COUPLE’S NAMES]
Dear [TITLES AND SURNAMES]
If you’re not sure what titles to use, we have a handy section on wedding card writing etiquette in our post on what to write in a wedding card.
Wedding wishes or congratulations
Your wedding wishes and congratulations can be a little more creative, but it’s still best to err on the side of caution and keep any messages respectful and kind. Feel free to add a personal touch to your wishes, share anecdotes, and express your genuine happiness for the couple.
If you’re stuck on what to write, try using:
What an incredible journey you’re both starting on. Thank you for inviting me to be part of your special day.
What a beautiful day you’ve both shared. I wish you a lifetime of love, health, and happiness together.
Or, if you’re feeling a little cheeky, you could try:
Thank you for the party of a lifetime. Monday is going to be such a comedown after this!
Congratulations on a beautiful day! May your love be as everlasting as the office coffee supply and your happiness as endless as a Friday afternoon.
A heartfelt sign-off
The last part of your wedding card should include a sign-off from you and your plus one (if you had one!)
As with your greeting, keep it simple. Try using the following sign-offs:
Thank you again for inviting me/us. From, [NAMES]
All the best, [NAMES]
Be mindful of tone
It’s best to keep a formal tone in a wedding card to a colleague. Even if you’re close with your colleague, you don’t want a bad joke or an informal message to offend them accidentally and make Monday awkward!
Instead, a message of sincere congratulations and best wishes is the safest and most considerate choice in a professional setting.
Wedding card message structure
Check out the infographic below to help guide your writing:
Follow this general structure when composing your message
If you’re struggling with what to say and what to write, you can’t go wrong with someone else’s words! Try using a wedding or love quote from a poem or song. The beauty of this method is that you can tailor the quote to the couple’s personal interests.
Try using the below examples to get you started:
Wedding quotes from songs
“All you need is love.” – The Beatles
“Two hearts in love need no words.” – Marceline Desbordes-Valmore
“Love and marriage, love and marriage, go together like a horse and carriage.” – Frank Sinatra, “Love and Marriage”
“Love is old, love is new, love is all, love is you (TWO!)” – The Beatles, “Because”
Wedding quotes from poems
“Love is an endless act of forgiveness. Forgiveness is the key to action and freedom.” – Maya Angelou
“Two souls with but a single thought; two hearts that beat as one.” – John Keats
“Love sought is good, but given unsought is better.” – William Shakespeare, Twelfth Night
“Love is most nearly itself when here and now cease to matter.” – T.S. Eliot
Wedding quotes from films
“The best love is the kind that awakens the soul; that makes us reach for more, that plants the fire in our hearts and brings peace to our minds.” – The Notebook
“What greater thing is there for two human souls than to feel that they are joined for life… to strengthen each other… to be at one with each other in silent unspeakable memories.” – The Notebook
“When you realise you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible.” – When Harry Met Sally
“Love, it never dies. It never goes away, it never fades, so long as you hang on to it.” – Moulin Rouge
Wedding pop culture quotes
“To infinity and beyond!” – Buzz Lightyear, Toy Story
“We are all a little weird, and life’s a little weird, and when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up with them and fall in mutual weirdness and call it love.” – Dr. Seuss
“True love stories never have endings.” – Richard Bach
“A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person.” – Mignon McLaughlin
It’s easy to tell when a card was written at the last minute, or worse in the car on the way there! Sit down a few days before the wedding with a cup of tea and write your wedding card.
Don’t overthink it
Remember the cup of tea we mentioned earlier? It couldn’t take longer to write your card than it takes to drink a tea. Don’t overthink what you’re writing in your card. Keep it short and speak from the heart.
Think about your relationship
Although some work colleagues start to feel like family, you may not always work together. You want to leave a positive impression on your work colleague by leaving a positive message in their wedding card. Don’t overstep the mark and try to be too friendly, or include unprofessional inside jokes. Instead, keep it simple, friendly, and chilled.
Say thank you
Congratulate your colleague on their special day and thank them for inviting you at the same time. It’s fast, efficient, and saves you from needing to send two cards!
A wedding card to a colleague is a great way to express your gratitude for having been invited, your warmth, and your best wishes for their special day. The tone should be more formal than in a card to a family member or friend. However, you could include a fun quote about love from their favourite song, film, or pop-culture moment if you’re feeling creative.
The best advice is to write the card a few days beforehand, not to overthink it, and to say thank you! However, if you’re still feeling stuck, check out our post on what to include in a wedding card. We have some handy wedding card examples and top tips on card writing.
Christmas is a wonderful time of year. It’s full of joy, generosity and love, and it’s when we come together with our families to give gifts and enjoy each other’s company.
And when you’re sat in front of a crackling fire, surrounded by hundreds of twinkling lights and all cuddled up watching Christmas movies, it’s also a super romantic time of year. That’s why it’s a hugely popular time for couples to get engaged. So, if you’re considering asking your partner to marry you this Christmas Day, go for it!
But, what’s the best way to propose on Christmas Day? How can you use the festive period to your advantage to pop the question in the most memorable and romantic way?
In this post, we’re going to give you 12 Christmas Day proposal ideas so you can ask your beloved to marry you and have a festive season you’ll never forget.
Yes, Christmas Day is an exceptionally popular month for couples to get engaged. Our annual UK Wedding Report found that in 2021, more than a quarter (26%) of all engagements took place in December. Out of all the couples who got married in 2022, the top four most popular dates those couples got engaged on was 25th December in 2021, 2020, 2019 and 2018.
This might sound surprising, especially when you think about how Valentine’s Day or New Year’s Eve have romantic and mystical connections. But, there’s just something about the magic and warmth of Christmas, as well as the feelings of love and generosity at that time of year, that draw those looking to pop the question to this one special day. As the song goes, it’s the most wonderful time of the year!
Just because Christmas Day is the most popular day for a proposal doesn’t mean it’s something to steer clear of. Clearly, there’s something special about getting engaged at Christmas that makes it so appealing.
Whether or not you choose to propose on Christmas Day depends on you, your preferences, your plans for the day and your budget. Christmas is notoriously an expensive time of year, and with the average cost of an engagement ring being £1,978, you might not have the funds to spare for a festive proposal.
Proposals are usually romantic and intimate, and the hustle and bustle of a family Christmas can sometimes get in the way of one-on-one time. If you know you’re going to have your aunt and uncle around with their six kids, a proposal might not be quite as romantic as it would be if there weren’t excitable little ones running around.
It also depends on how you and your partner feel about Christmas. If you love Christmas, you might not want to share the date you got engaged with something as widely celebrated as Christmas. Or, perhaps that’s what makes it so special for you.
Whatever you choose to do, just make sure it’s right for you and your soon-to-be fiance.
For more information, read our post on how to propose on Christmas Day so you can make sure your magical proposal goes down without a hitch.
Why is Christmas Day such a great day for a proposal?
If you’re on the fence about proposing on Christmas Day, there are a bunch of reasons why it makes for such a brilliant day to ask one of the biggest questions of your life. Just some of the reasons why Christmas Day is a great day to propose on are:
It’s a magical time of year when people get together and give each other gifts. Why not make one of those gifts a sparkly ring, and the recipient the person you want to spend the rest of your life with?
Despite being the most popular date to get engaged on, it’s often not seen as cliché like Valentine’s Day or 29th February.
A lot of people have time off around Christmas, which gives you time to make sure everything’s perfect.
You might spend a lot of time around family and friends, which gives you a great opportunity to tell everyone your amazing news in person.
Christmas is hugely romantic with plenty of cosy nights in, amazing food and a drink or two to set the scene.
Is there anything more suitable for a proposal than a wintry walk across a snowy landscape? The weather might not always do what we want it to, but just imagine the photos if it did!
12 romantic Christmas Day proposal ideas
Get inspired by our top 12 Christmas Day proposal ideas
1. Pull a one-of-a-kind cracker
A popular Christmas tradition happens around the dinner table up and down the UK, in the form of pulling crackers to reveal a cheesy joke, a paper hat and a BANG! Except, why not ensure your entire Christmas goes with a bang by concealing an engagement ring inside your partner’s cracker? A few little cuts to weaken your side of the cracker will make sure your partner wins, then when they dig their hand inside to find the toy, they’ll receive a lot more than they were expecting.
2. Customise your partner’s advent calendar
If your partner has an advent calendar and loves tucking into a chocolate or little treat every day throughout December, why not customise your advent calendar this year so the 25th door has something extra special inside, in the form of a beautiful engagement ring? You could even build up to the big reveal and hide something personal or romantic behind every door throughout the month.
3. A Christmas pudding surprise
Traditionally, a sixpence used to be hidden inside a Christmas pudding, and whoever found it would have luck and happiness for the next year. Why not put a spin on this festive tradition and, instead of a sixpence, craftily conceal an engagement ring inside your partner’s pud instead? Just make sure it’s not too well hidden, because they might crack a tooth on a diamond if they don’t realise it’s there.
If your partner isn’t a fan of Christmas puds, a ring can just as easily be hidden in a mince pie, chocolate log or sherry trifle instead! Just make sure you have a cloth so you can give the ring a bit of a wipe before they put it on, or better yet hide the ring in a small, clear bag.
4. Get down on one knee in the snow
Christmas morning is a brilliant time for a walk. You’ve opened a few gifts, the potatoes are roasting in the oven and there’s a crisp layer of frost clinging to the leaves outside. Sounds like the perfect time to head out to your favourite spot to propose.
5. Use a custom Christmas card
You and your partner might exchange cards that have soppy messages inside and lots of hearts, but why not reserve another card to give to them on Christmas Day? Imagine their shock when they open the card and on the front it says, ‘Will you marry me?’ Then, they look up at you and you’re getting down on one knee with a ring in your hands. Bliss.
6. Use mistletoe to your advantage
Using mistletoe to grab a cheeky kiss with your partner is not exactly unheard of. But, you could ramp things up and, instead of just an ordinary kiss, you could use it as an opportunity to pop the question. They’ll never see it coming!
7. Hide an engagement ring inside a bauble
When the time comes to put up your Christmas tree, why not hide your engagement ring in plain sight inside a bauble? That way, your partner will spend weeks with the ring right there, but with no clue what you’re about to do. Then, when the moment’s just right, hand it over to them and change both your lives forever.
8. A present inside a present inside a present…
This one is really annoying, but if the two of you have a playful relationship it can be a lot of fun. Wrap the ring box in boxes that get progressively bigger, so to get to the centre they have to unwrap present after present. It’s funny and frustrating, but once they get to the ring that’ll all be forgotten and it’ll definitely be worth it.
9. Ask them with Christmas lights
You could wake up early on Christmas morning and sneak downstairs in true Father Christmas style so you can make use of some spare fairy lights. If you tape or pin them carefully to the wall, you can spell out WILL YOU MARRY ME? in beautiful, twinkling lettering. Think of it a bit light Stranger Things, but a lot more romantic.
10. Get kids or pets to help
If you have kids or pets, recruit them as Santa’s little helpers and include them in your proposal. You could slip a baby grow onto a little one that says something like. ‘Mummy, will you marry Daddy?’ or loop a ring around a bow that’s tied around your beloved dog’s collar.
11. Spell it out with Christmas cookies or cake
There’s nothing quite like Christmas cake, cookies or gingerbread men at Christmas. With some extra icing and a talent for decoration, you could ask your partner to marry you spelled out on a festive treat.
12. Christmas morning breakfast in bed
A surprise breakfast in bed is a lovely way to wake up on Christmas morning, but you know what can make pastries, fresh fruit and orange juice even nicer before opening some gifts? A lovely engagement ring sitting right there on the napkins.
Alternatively, many couples gift each other a stocking at Christmas, which is a lovely way to give each other smaller presents that they may open in bed. As part of this, include the engagement ring at the bottom of your partner’s stocking to give them an unforgettable start to Christmas.
If you propose early, you can then spend the whole of Christmas day as an engaged couple!
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If you’ve recently made the decision that you’re ready to propose to your partner, there will probably be a million questions zipping around inside your mind. When is the best time to propose? How do you propose? Will you get down on one knee? What type of ring should you propose with?
Another question you’ll no doubt have is how do you find out the size of your partner’s ring finger without them figuring out that you’re going to propose? It’s unlikely that your sleight of hand skills rival that of a magician, so how are you supposed to find out the right ring size without giving the whole game away?
Well, thankfully, there are plenty of ways you can craftily and covertly discover the size of your partner’s ring finger while making sure they’re none the wiser.
In this guide, we’ll run down the ways you can use your wit and creativity to find out the right size to choose. That way, you can plan the perfect proposal without worrying about whether or not it’ll be a surprise or the ring will slip right off their finger!
Do you need to be secretive when planning a proposal?
Many people like to be as secretive as possible when planning their proposal to make sure their partner is shocked, surprised and delighted when they get down on one knee to ask them one of the biggest questions of their lives.
But, whether you choose to do this or not depends entirely on you and your future fiance. When the time comes for you to propose, you’ve probably had marriage- and proposal-related conversations, so you’ll know a thing or two about what your partner would like. If they’ve expressed how they’d like a proposal to be a surprise, then you might want to do everything you can to keep it all on the down low – and that starts by secretly finding out the size of their ring finger.
But, it may also depend on your budget and the time you have before your planned proposal. If you have time, you can afford to play the long game. If you only have a couple of weeks, you might not have the time to be as low-key as you’d like.
Is it hard to work out the size of your partner’s ring finger?
With a little patience and creativity, it’s completely possible to find out your partner’s ring finger without making them gasp with excitement every time you bend down to tie your shoe.
If you’ve talked a lot about getting engaged recently, then you’re suddenly asking them about their ring size, they might start to wonder. If time’s on your side, you can find out their ring finger and then give it a few months before proposing, which should be enough time for them to have pushed those conversations to the back of their mind.
Do you need to find out your partner’s ring size to propose?
No, if you can’t find out your partner’s exact ring size before you propose, it’s not the end of the world. But, if you can, you’ll want to do what you can to make sure it fits. After you’ve got down on one knee and your partner has said ‘Yes!’ one of the first things high on your list of things to do after your engagement is tell your friends and family. To do that, your new fiance will no doubt want to flash their new ring around like it’s going out of fashion (it won’t of course), which they can only do if it fits nicely.
But don’t worry, if it doesn’t fit perfectly you can take the ring to a jewellers to be resized. Some jewellers even include this as a perk when you buy an engagement ring from them. But, it might take a few weeks before you get it back unless you pay a premium.
Is it better to propose with a ring that’s too small or too big?
If you really are struggling to nail down your partner’s ring size, it’s best to go slightly larger than slightly smaller. Because, just imagine if you get down on one knee, ask ‘Will you marry me?’ then you slip the ring on their finger and it won’t go past their first knuckle. Devastating.
If a ring is slightly too big, it will at least go on their finger at the all-important moment. Your fiance can then wear a ring stopper or adjuster to make sure it doesn’t slip off their finger and get lost (but, it is worth insuring an engagement ring just in case).
Then, once you’ve shared the news about your engagement with your loved ones (and taken those all-important engagement photos for social media) you can have your partner’s ring finger properly sized and send the ring to be resized.
10 ways to secretly measure your partner’s ring finger
Excited to propose to your partner but want to be as secretive and low-key as possible to keep it all a surprise? Here are 10 ways to measure your partner’s ring finger while making sure you don’t spoil the surprise.
1. Have a peek at your partner’s existing rings
Dig through your partner’s jewellery box to find a ring they might usually wear. If they don’t wear a ring on the ring finger of their left hand, do they wear one on the same finger on their right hand? Both fingers will be very similar in size, if not identical. If they wear a ring on this finger, perfect! Just measure the diameter, draw around the inside of the ring on a piece of paper, or use a ring sizer (they cost about £5 on Amazon). Then all you have to do is give this information to the jeweller when browsing for rings and they’ll do the rest.
2. Take your partner’s ring to a jewellers
If you’ve found one of your partner’s rings which you think is the right size, simply take it along to your local jewellers and they can accurately measure it for you (so long as your partner won’t realise it’s missing for a day or so). It doesn’t even need to be the store you intend to buy the ring from, but they’ll have the equipment needed to accurately measure it. Then, take the ring back and leave it where you found it. The perfect crime!
3. Use a ring sizer
As mentioned above, buying a ring sizer off Amazon can be super cheap, with many decent ones costing around £5. It may be another expense (on top of the £1,978 average couples spend on engagement rings in the UK) but it can mean you avoid having to pay to have the ring resized later on.
If your partner is a heavy sleeper (or you can be really quiet) wait for them to nod off then crack out your new purchase. It might take a few goes, but you can test different ring sizes on their ring finger to find the perfect size. Then, they’ll be kept in the dark but you can choose the perfect ring in the perfect size.
4. Use string, a pen and a tape measure
If you can’t get hold of a ring sizer, you can take the same steps as above but use a piece of string, a pen and a tape measure instead.
Once your partner’s asleep, wrap some string around their finger and use a pen to put a mark on the string where it meets in the middle. Just make sure you don’t wrap it too tight or too loose. You can then measure the distance between the two pen marks, or take it to a jewellers to measure for you.
5. Ask friends or family to get involved
If you have close friends or family who you think would be willing to help you out (and you trust not to give away the secret), there are ways they can find out your partner’s ring size for you. First, you could ask them to offer your partner their ring to try on. If it first perfectly the first time, great! If it’s a little too tight or too loose, you could go up a size or two.
Another way is to ask one of their friends to arrange a shopping trip. As part of that, they could go into a jewellers for a spot of browsing, then measure their ring fingers for fun. Your partner might have a giggle about it, completely oblivious to the fact that their friend or family member is in on it.
Or, why not simply ask someone else to ask your partner what their ring size is? If they’ve spent time browsing jewellery in the past, there’s every chance they measured their ring finger just to see. Then, all they have to do is pass this information on to you. Just be aware that if they measured their finger a long time ago, there’s every chance it will have changed.
6. Just ask… but playfully
If you’re at the stage when you’re considering proposing, you and your partner have no doubt discussed getting married. Maybe it’s even something you talk about regularly. Next time it comes up, and if you think you can get away with it, why not simply ask in a matter-of-fact way? ‘Do you even know your ring size, anyway?’ They might know and decide to tell you, saving you a tricky job.
7. Say you’re buying a ring for someone else
If there’s someone in your family with a birthday on the horizon, why not suggest buying them a ring as a gift? Take your partner along with you for their advice, and ask them to model the ring to help you make your decision. If you do it right, and you’re not too obvious, it can be a subtle way to discover their ring size.
8. Play the long game with a promise ring
Before they get engaged, many couples use a promise ring to symbolise their love and commitment to each other. A promise ring is usually worn on the ring finger, which is a brilliant way you can find out their size. When you buy your promise rings, make a note of the size so you can come back to it later.
Or, why not go shopping for promise rings and measure both of your ring fingers? Make an excuse about not finding the perfect rings and you’ll try again another day. Then, go back to the jewellers and buy an engagement ring which is exactly the right size.
9. Compare with your own fingers
This one isn’t ideal, but try comparing your ring finger to your partner’s. If they’re similar in size, you might be able to get away with measuring your own at the jewellers. You could even see if any of your partner’s rings fit your own ring finger. It’s not perfect, but it’s better than simply guessing if you can’t get away with any other method.
10. Show an experienced jeweller a picture of your partner’s hand
This is another less-than-perfect way to find out your partner’s ring size, but still better than nothing. That being said, some experienced and talented jewellers can make a fairly accurate, educated guess about the size of someone’s ring finger purely by eye. Even better if you can take a photograph with something of a standard size next to their hand so they can get a good sense of scale. Just don’t expect your jeweller to get it exactly right.
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Your engagement party is your chance to set your creativity loose and have some fun before you get stuck into the nitty gritty world of wedding planning. Couples are often a lot more relaxed when it comes to planning an engagement party as they’re often not quite as formal as the wedding itself, which means you have the opportunity to go to town and throw any type of bash you like.
As part of that, you can be as imaginative and as unique as you like with your engagement party decorations. Whether you want to go all out and immerse your guests in a different world, or keep things subtle with a few floral notes and balloons, you’re free to do whatever you want.
But where do you start? What should you think about before adding items to your online shopping basket? What decor is considered an engagement party must-have? In this post, we’ll go over everything you need to know when decorating your engagement party to make sure you have everything you need for the perfect celebration.
Whether or not you have decor at your engagement party is purely down to you, your preferences and tastes, and your budget. The engagement party is just one expense of many during the journey towards your wedding, so you might want to keep the costs related to your engagement party on the smaller side. After all, the average cost of a wedding is £19,184, which is a heck of a lot of money for most people.
But, it’s not like you’re hosting just another party. It’s your engagement party – an excuse to push the boat out a little and make it something your guests will remember.
It also depends on the theme of your party. If you’re going hard on the theme, like Mardi Gras or Casino night, you’ll need plenty of decorations to get the immersion you’re going for. If you’re going for a style or theme that’s a little more relaxed, like a garden barbecue or beach party, you can get away with using far fewer decorations – or even none at all. Do what’s best for you, your preferences and the money you have to spare – and think a little bit about the overall experience of your guests too.
What should you think about before buying your engagement party decorations?
Once you’ve decided to throw an engagement party it can be super easy to start buying everything you can think of that has Mr, Mrs, We’re engaged, or I said yes! on it. If this is you, and you’re sat waiting for the Amazon delivery driver as you read this, that’s absolutely fine. But, before you get too carried away, there are a few things you should think about first.
What’s the theme of your engagement party?
Your chosen theme will be one of the main driving factors behind the decorations you buy. For example, if you order a lovely floral welcome sign but then decide to have a Hollywood red carpet-themed party, you might start to wonder if you should have switched the floral sign for one themed to a vanity mirror.
What’s the budget for your engagement party?
With your upcoming wedding, you probably won’t want to spend too much on your engagement party – and that includes your decor. When it comes to weddings, couples spend an average of £1,000 on professionally-sourced decor, so you might not want to spend anything close to this for your engagement party. Whatever budget you set aside, make sure you know what you have before you make your first purchase.
Where are you hosting your engagement party?
The amount of decor you go for is also influenced by your chosen venue. If you’re hosting a party at home or the home of a relative, you can probably get away with having just a few simple decorations. If you have a set theme and you’ve hired a venue, you might want to dedicate a portion of your budget to decor so that the theme comes across clearly. The bigger the venue, the more you’re likely to spend on decorations.
Depending on the theme of your engagement party, there are loads of different decorations you could pick up, whether it’s something for the tables, something to hang on the walls or ceilings, or something unique and eye-catching that makes for a great photo opportunity.
But, regardless of your theme and whether or not you have a lot of budget to play with, some decorations are considered essential by many couples. Below are eight decorations that are perfect for every engagement party.
Party balloons. Nothing screams party time quite like balloons. The best part is, balloons come in a variety of shapes, sizes and colours, and can feature designs personalised to you and your theme.
Welcome sign. Greet your guests to your party with a welcome sign that lets them know they’ve come to the right place.
Centrepieces and name cards. If you’re hosting a meal or have any kind of table plan, table centrepieces and name cards are a must-have. You’ll also want a chalkboard or easel so your guests know exactly where to sit.
Unique lighting. Create a warm and welcoming ambience with unique lighting, such as candles, fairy lights or lanterns.
Flowers. You might not want to fill your venue with them, but one or two flower arrangements remind your guests they’re there to celebrate your love.
Banners. Banners let everyone know you’re getting married and are fairly affordable. If banners don’t suit your theme, some lovely bunting will also do the trick.
Confetti/petals. Add a little more of a romantic feel with some confetti or petals.
Guest book. Make sure you have a guest book so your friends and family can leave you messages of congratulations.
Depending on your chosen venue, or whether or not your engagement party (either in part or completely) takes part outside, you should carefully consider what kind of lighting you want to use at your engagement party.
Rainbow lights. In the right setting, colourful lighting can work very nicely. After all, it would be weird to have an 80s disco theme and not have a thousand colours lighting up the dancefloor.
Candles/lanterns. Choose soft, warm lighting to create a warm and romantic atmosphere. Candles and lanterns will cast dancing shadows as they gently flicker, while candelabras make for great table centrepieces (and you can pick up candles to put in them for next to nothing.
A bonfire. If you’re outside and in a safe location, a bonfire will create a brilliant atmosphere with the added bonus of your guests being able to make s’mores.
Fairy lights. Fairy lights are useful for adding a touch of magic and whimsy – the great thing is, battery-powered fairy lights are also fairly inexpensive. You might also get away with busting out the Christmas lights to wrap around doorframes or the edge of a table.
Spotlights/projections. If you want to go all out, spotlights are brilliant for making a statement and will light the outside of your venue for all to see. Similarly, projections can turn the outside of your home into whatever you like – make it rain confetti, turn it into a living Van Gogh painting or simply play a movie to keep the kids entertained.
Can you make your own engagement party decorations?
Yes, making your own engagement party decorations might take a little time and effort, but it can help you save a lot of money and still give you fantastic, personalised decor. If you and your partner are crafty, it’s a great way to spend time together while you chat about your plans for the engagement party and beyond.
5 DIY engagement party decoration ideas
Here are just a few ideas for engagement party decor you can make yourself, even if you’re not particularly arty.
Banners and signage made from a chalkboard, wood or card. If you’re not comfortable using paint, stencils are cheap and offer a professional finish.
Paper flowers are dead easy and quick to make and there are plenty of video tutorials available on YouTube. Any type of origami makes for a unique decoration, and you should be able to find designs related to you and your interests.
A nest of fairy lights inside a jar or vase takes almost no effort but looks fantastic.
Dig through old photos or print off a few at home to create a collage of memories.
Table numbers made using découpage are simple and look great even if you don’t have any experience.
When you’re ready to buy and make decorations for your engagement party, make sure you think about the below tips to make the most of your budget and have a fabulously on-theme bash.
Choose your theme but don’t feel the need to stick to it too strictly. Even a loose theme can work wonders.
Set your budget and don’t be tempted to overspend. Think about the end goal: hosting an amazing wedding with everything and everyone you want.
Make what you can yourself to save even just a little bit of money.
One or two floral arrangements in a carefully selected spot can have a big impact and save you the need to spend hundreds on flowers.
Ask family and friends if they have any old decorations stored in the attic or away in a drawer somewhere that they wouldn’t mind you borrowing.
Bigger doesn’t always mean better. You might want to go big for your engagement party, but why not save it for the wedding itself?
Make sure you test any lighting you have before the night of the party. The last thing you want is duff bulbs, dead batteries or blown fuses as your guests start to arrive.
If you’ve hired a venue, ask them what kind of decor they might have that you can utilise. Consider hiring a venue with its own natural beauty to keep any decor costs to a minimum.
Don’t be afraid to ask for help – when it comes to your wedding, plenty of people can find a way to lend a hand.
Introduce personalisations in cost-effective ways, such as using decor with your initials rather than your whole name. They’ll be easier to find and likely a lot cheaper too.
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From the moment you get engaged, you’ll be just about ready to burst with excitement and tell everyone you know as quickly as you can. You’ll be so excited, you may even be tempted to scream it from the rooftops (don’t worry, that’s one idea that doesn’t feature on our list).
The easiest thing to do is start calling and texting everyone – and while everyone will no doubt be excited to hear your news, there are ways you can go about it to add a little pizzazz to your major bit of news. From roping in your pet to hiring a flash mob, there are loads of unique, creative and fun ways you can tell the world about your engagement.
So, in this post, we’re going to do exactly that. We’ll cover the best time to announce your engagement and offer you plenty of ideas for how you can go about the big reveal.
Once you’re engaged, you’ll be hit with dozens of things to do as you embark on the road towards your wedding. But, the first thing you and your new fiance should talk about after getting engaged is how you might want to reveal the news to your friends and family. Once you’ve figured that out, you can work on the when.
For example, if you can’t wait any longer and you have to tell them now, then a phone call is more than okay. But, if you’re into a bit of showmanship, you can hold onto the news for a few more days and plan something a little more unique.
Whatever you plan to do, we always recommend that your closest family should be among those you tell first. Then, wider family and friends, including those you want to be part of your wedding squad.
Sure, you could just pop around to your parents’ house and flash them your brand-new ring. You could send a casual announcement via emoji in the group chat. You could give your Nan a ring and tell her the great news.
But where’s the fun in that?
Okay, so there’s no wrong or bad way to tell your loved ones that you’re engaged. But how you decide to drop the news is entirely up to you. If you want to make your announcement one that people will remember forever, there are plenty of ways you can do that too.
So, here are 20 unique ways you can announce your engagement.
Many couples love to mark their engagement by organising a photoshoot. That may not be the most creative idea ever, but it’s what you do on the shoot that you can have fun with. Why not visit a castle or a fun fair or make pottery together like in Ghost? Your engagement photos are a great way to showcase your personalities and drop some hints about the theme of your future wedding.
For many of us, our pets are a huge part of our family, so including them in your engagement announcement helps keep them part of the celebrations. Whether it’s including them in a snap you upload to social media or asking them to bring your parents a note that says, ‘Mum and Dad are getting married’, there are plenty of ways you can rope in your pet. If you have a pet snake, why not let it model your engagement ring for some truly ssspecial photographs?
Many people get tattoos to mark special memories, interests and loves. Why not get the date you got engaged as matching tattoos, then casually show friends and family your new ink? Tattoos would also look great if you decided to get engagement photos taken, with a couple of close-up shots to show them off.
Involving loved ones in your announcement can be a lot of fun. For example, why not ask your best man to come with you to tell your parents, but dressed in a smart suit so you can drop the news when someone asks why he’s overdressed? If the two of you already have kids, a t-shirt that says ‘future page boy’ or ‘future flower girl’ can be a cute way for the grandkids to reveal the news to Nan and Grandad.
5. Give family a personalised Christmas decoration
If you got engaged around Christmas, why not give close family a personalised Christmas ornament that announces your engagement? That way, it’s a gift and a lovely piece of news all in one!
If you got engaged in a public space, then chances are someone got the proposal on film. You may have even asked someone to record it ahead of time. Why not post the video to social media and watch the likes roll in?
You might even want to take some inspiration from celebrity proposals, with loads of big names sharing the moment they got down on one knee for the whole world to see.
We’ve all seen photos of hands proudly showing off a shiny new rock. Why not do the reverse of that and share a photo of your hand without the ring, with the caption ‘something is missing from this photo’. It’ll get people wondering what it is, then BOOM – post a follow-up picture saying FOUND IT, complete with the ring in full view.
If you and your family are fans of game nights, why not put together a personalised quiz? Make each of the questions about you and how you met, and have the answers spell out something like ‘WE’RE ENGAGED’ as the icing on the cake.
If you’re up for a cheesy announcement, why not get matching t-shirts or jumpers that say ‘she said yes’ and ‘I said yes’, or that simply say ‘husband’ or ‘wife’ on them? You could even get them as matching pyjamas for extra cosiness.
Instead of outright telling your loved ones you’re engaged, why not drip-feed them information and drop hints so they can work it out for themselves? Share a snap of the two of you enjoying a coffee together – is that the sparkle of a ring next to the mug? No, it can’t be… it is!
Instead of an engagement photoshoot, why not commission your favourite artist to draw or paint the two of you with the engagement ring taking centre stage? Not only can you use it as part of your announcement, but it’ll be a lovely piece you can hang up in your living room afterwards.
Engagement parties are fairly common, but they’re traditionally thrown by the bride’s family. Why not ignore tradition and throw a bash so you can tell all your family and friends the great news together? Just imagine balloons and bunting hanging from the walls revealing, ‘she said yes’, or a cake with two sugarcraft figures on top, with one getting down on one knee to propose to the other. We guarantee you won’t have to buy your own drinks all night.
If you have a smartphone, you have everything you need to create a cinematic announcement. You could piece shots together to create a trailer for a fake movie, which then ends with a wedding COMING SOON. You could even upload it to YouTube or TikTok, or if you’re feeling particularly brave, ask your local cinema to show it before a private film screening where you invite your family and friends.
There’s nothing quite as romantic as announcing you’re engaged, and what better way to deliver that message than via one of the most romantic forms of communication? A lovely handwritten note will also make for a wonderful little keepsake for your loved ones.
If you have a little budget to spare (which might not be likely with a wedding to plan) or you’re friends with some theatre types, an extravagant flash mob is a brilliant and energetic way to let people know you’re engaged.
If you consider yourself a writer, why not get a head start on your love story and write a romantic tale about two people who met, fell in love and got engaged? Sites like Amazon KDP make it easy to self-publish a book. You could even create a unique cover and have cheap copies printed to hand out to family and friends.
If you don’t think your creative writing skills can stretch to a short story, why not have a go at writing a Haiku? A Haiku is a short-form poem with just three lines, where the first and last line have five syllables and the second has seven syllables. Something like this is all it takes (feel free to use this one if you’re struggling to write your own!):
This one’s a classic, but a photo with the two of you and the ring on show will always go down well. It’s also one of the only times you can take a single photo and not have to caption it to tell a story. You can let the ring do all the talking as your friends and family go crazy the moment it hits social media or the group chat.
If you’re not one to shy away from getting yourself out there, there’s no better way to tell your family (and a large part of your local community) the news than by hiring an advertising billboard. For around £350, you could be the talk of the whole town by letting everyone know the two of you are getting married!
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Your wedding day is one of the greatest moments in your life. It’s a celebration of love and commitment, and finding the perfect venue sets the tone for the entire event. While grand ballrooms and fancy destinations have their appeal, there’s something magical about choosing a smaller, more local wedding venue. In this post, we explore the benefits of choosing an intimate setting for your big day, from affordability to on-site accommodation.
One of the biggest advantages of choosing a smaller, local wedding venue is the cost. These venues often offer competitive pricing compared to larger, grander venues. With a more modest guest capacity, you can trim down your guest list to include only your closest family and friends, which can save a considerable amount on catering, decor and other expenses.
Smaller wedding venues create an intimate and cosy atmosphere that larger venues can struggle to replicate. Imagine exchanging your vows surrounded by the people who mean the most to you, without the vastness of a cavernous hall. The closeness of your loved ones creates a warm and inviting ambiance, ensuring that every moment feels personal and special.
Local venues often cater to fewer events at a time, allowing their staff to dedicate more time and attention to your big day. You’ll likely receive more personalised service and flexibility in tailoring the arrangements to suit your preferences. Smaller venues can accommodate specific requests that larger wedding venues may find more challenging to fulfil.
Many smaller, local wedding venues are nestled in picturesque settings, boasting breathtaking outdoor spaces. From charming gardens to quaint courtyards, these venues offer natural backdrops that enhance the beauty of your ceremony and wedding photos.
Opting for a smaller venue with on-site accommodation can hugely simplify your wedding day logistics. It provides a convenient solution for both you and your guests, removing the need for transportation to and from separate locations. Plus, it extends the celebration, allowing you to spend more quality time with your loved ones over the wedding weekend.
By choosing a smaller, local wedding venue, you contribute to the community and support local businesses. These venues are often family-owned or run by passionate individuals dedicated to creating a memorable experience for couples tying the knot. Your wedding becomes an opportunity to give back to the neighbourhood and make a positive impact.
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Don’t underestimate the charm and advantages of smaller, local wedding venues. From cost savings to a more intimate and personalised experience, these venues offer unique perks that can make your special day even more memorable. Take your time to explore the options in your area, and you may just find a hidden gem that captures the spirit of your love story.
If you’re looking for some top wedding planning tips, there’s nothing like the expertise from a real wedding professional. We spoke to Yasmin Downing, the passionate florist behind Yasmin Downing Floral Design, who specialises in combining modern elements with timeless tradition to create the perfect aesthetic. In her own words: “Since opening a dried flower business during the pandemic, I found my life’s passion in floristry. Having been mentored 1:1 by Master Florists, whilst building a portfolio working on real-life weddings, photoshoots, commercial projects and television, I have brought my skills and experience to a professional level.” Yasmin has also appeared on the BBC’s Ultimate Wedding Planner as one of eight aspiring contestants.
This can avoid awkward “I forgot Uncle Pete” moments and also covers you if you have a boisterous groom who breaks his buttonhole before your photos (Yasmin has actually had this happen!).
2. Have an “emergency” kit
Your wedding emergency kit should include all the things you won’t know you’ll need until you need them (check out our bridal SOS kit post for more information). Yasmin suggests:
White cotton
Chewing gum
Needle
Toothpick
Elastic bands
Flower pins
Floss
Hairband
Bobby pin
Painkillers
Nail glue
Lash glue
Tweezers
Plasters
3. Think about your shoes
If you’re going to be wearing high heels on your wedding day, and taking them off isn’t an option for you, Yasmin recommends taking a couple of paracetamol to pre-empt the pain.
4. Cover yourself in SPF
If you’re like the majority of couples who opt for a spring or summer wedding, be sure to cover yourself in SPF 50. This will make sure you don’t end up pink by 3 PM, Yasmin explains.
5. Protect your skin from clothing marks
Remember to protect your skin from anything that might mark your skin, Yasmin suggests. This includes any socks, bra or wrist hairbands that can dig into your skin.
6. Burn your ribbon ends
If you’ve having satin ribbon on your bouquets, Yasmin recommends burning the end of the ribbon to get a nice polished edge. This will prevent it from fraying throughout the day.
7. Opt for seasonal blooms
Choose flowers that are in season to keep your budget down. Out of season florals have to be imported, Yasmin explains, which can significantly bump up the cost.
8. Consider your dressing area
Ensure that where you get ready is big enough for your whole party. Get lots of mirrors ready as there will be a few of you trying to check yourselves out. Yasmin suggests you pick somewhere with easy parking and access. You don’t want to spend the morning directing people to your location!
9. Factor in a break
Yasmin recommends that you plan in a 20-minute “break” from the day so you and your new spouse can have a moment away from everyone to simply reflect and take it in.
10. Put you and your partner first
Remember that at the end of the day the only thing that truly matters is you and your partner. In Yasmin’s own words: ‘Don’t give a sh*t about ensuring your guests are happy all day. There’s booze and food, so they’ll be fine. Just make sure the two of you are having a great time.”
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Your big day is approaching – the happiest day of your life! You’ve organised the wedding favours, your bridesmaids are suited and booted, and you’ve got your something old, new, borrowed, and blue. All the “i”s are dotted, and all the “t”s are crossed. Just one thing remains – are you going to make a speech?
While untraditional when compared to a father of the bride’s speech or the groom’s speech, the bride’s speech can be a real tear-jerker. It’s a moment of pure happiness when the bride gets to share her thoughts, gratitude, and love with everyone gathered to witness your special day.
In this post, we explore what the bride should include in their wedding speech, the structure of a great speech, and some top tips to help you nail your delivery. Listen up, future brides! This one’s for you.
The bride’s speech is a heartfelt and personal speech made by the bride during their wedding reception. It’s the perfect opportunity to thank your bridal party, parents, and guests for their support leading up to the wedding and throughout your life.
The bride’s speech is non-traditional, but future brides should seriously consider incorporating a bride’s speech into the wedding speech order. It’s a chance to not only express gratitude but also to share your own journey, hopes, and dreams with those who have gathered to celebrate your special day.
When writing your bride’s speech, you might want to consider including the following key elements:
Acknowledge your partner. This is the perfect opportunity to address your new spouse. Let them know how happy you are to have them by your side, reflect on your journey together, and express excitement for the future ahead of you.
The stresses of wedding planning. Although planning a wedding can be stressful, it’s all over now! Share a few funny anecdotes or stumbling blocks when wedding planning, or even tell the guests about any plans that went totally haywire! It all worked out in the end, so no harm done.
A recap of your vows. Although you’ve just delivered them, consider giving a recap on your vows to remind your new spouse about your promises and dedications. Share your dreams for your shared future and remind them how loved they will be every day.
Thank your guests. Express your deep gratitude to all your friends, family, and loved ones for joining you on your special day. These people have watched your love story from the very start, and this day marks an important milestone in your journey. Their presence here is a testament to the love and support that surrounds you both as you step into this new chapter of your lives.
The great thing about the bride’s speech is that it isn’t bound by tradition. There are no expectations or traditional framework, which means you can put your own special spin on the speech and create a heartfelt moment that reflects who you are as a person and as a couple.
However, following a loose structure can help you feel more confident. Try using the below speech structure to help you get started:
Introduction
The first step of a speech is to greet all your guests with a warm welcome. Thank them all for attending your special day, for listening attentively to all the speeches, and for waiting so patiently for the wedding breakfast!
Share your gratitude
Take a moment to thank everyone who played a role in your journey – your family, friends, and of course your partner and the suppliers who made your big day possible. Share why each person is important to you and how they’ve contributed to your love story as well as the wedding itself.
Stories about wedding planning
Wedding planning is challenging – there’s no doubt about it. However, now that’s firmly in the rearview mirror, it’s the perfect time to share any funny stories or anecdotes you encountered while planning the big day. Share any hiccups with a pinch of irony and a big smile and thank your bridal party for their support through every twist and turn.
Thank your bridesmaids and maid of honour
This is the perfect segue into thanking your bridesmaids and maid of honour for their unwavering support during this process. Thank them for being your pillars of strength, for keeping you smiling, and sharing a laugh with you throughout the process.
Acknowledge your work
Don’t forget to acknowledge all the hard work you’ve done, too! Planning a wedding is a huge achievement, and you should be proud of yourself for all the hard work you’ve put in. Give yourself a well-deserved pat on the back, and take pride in the beautiful day you’ve created.
Toast
Finally, it’s time for a toast! Ask your guests to raise their glasses to you and your new spouse. Here’s to health, love, and happiness. Cheers!
Bride’s speech template
To help you navigate the complete breakdown of your speech, it can be helpful to have a visual guide to refer to. Check out our handy infographic below:
Use this bride speech template to guide your writing
Speak clearly, slowly, and confidently. Don’t rush through the speech due to nerves or skip over parts you’ve rehearsed. Instead, take a deep breath, look around the room as you speak, and give the audience time to absorb your words.
Body language
Pay attention to your body language and gestures while delivering your speech. Stand up straight with your shoulders back, maintain eye contact, smile, and use hand gestures as you talk to emphasise your points and make you appear more confident.
Practice makes perfect
Rehearse your speech multiple times. Practice with trusted friends, in front of the mirror, or even record yourself to watch back if necessary. Don’t be afraid to ask for feedback to help you improve.
As difficult as it may be to relax, remember – everyone there knows you and loves you. You’re in front of the best audience you possibly could be, so take a deep breath, savour the moment, and let your words flow naturally as you tell all your guests how much you’re enjoying your big day. You’ve got this!
If you’re looking for some inspiration, check out our top 10 examples of great bridal speech ideas! And remember that these are just examples. You can use them as templates for your own speech, but it’s important to speak from the heart, and add your own personal touch and unique family anecdotes.
Speech Example 1: Our Shared Journey
Introduction: “Hello everyone! I’m [your name], and I can’t express how grateful [partner’s name] and I are to have you all here celebrating this incredible day with us.”
Share your gratitude: “Before we dive into the fun stories, I want to thank each and every one of you. Our families, friends, and loved ones – you’ve been our pillars of strength, and your presence today means the world to us.”
Stories about wedding planning: “Now, let’s talk about wedding planning. They say it’s a rollercoaster, but I’m pretty sure rollercoasters don’t come with seating charts! I’ll never forget the day I spent hours debating between rose gold and blush napkins, only for [partner’s name] to tell me they looked the same. But hey, at least I’m now a napkin colour expert!”
Thank your bridesmaids and maid of honour: “I’m blessed to have the most incredible bridesmaids and my rockstar maid of honour, [maid of honour’s name]. From helping me pick out dresses to calming me down during those last-minute jitters, you’ve made this journey unforgettable.”
Acknowledge your work: “And speaking of journeys, planning this wedding has been a ride. I never thought I’d be a wedding-planner-in-training, but here I am, a proud graduate! And [partner’s name], thank you for being my partner through every decision, debate, and DIY disaster.”
Toast: “So, here’s to us – to the journey we’ve taken, the love we’ve built, and the adventure that lies ahead. May our laughter be never-ending, our love ever-growing, and our napkin colour choices always clear. Cheers!”
Speech Example 2: Love Beyond Borders
Introduction: “Hello, everyone! I’m [your name], and I’m overjoyed to see all your smiling faces here as we celebrate the love between [partner’s name] and me.”
Share your gratitude: “Thank you for being a part of our story, for witnessing our journey, and for surrounding us with your warmth and love.”
Stories about wedding planning: “Wedding planning brought us laughter, tears, and even a few hilarious mishaps. Who knew that choosing between wedding cake flavors could be so challenging? But, in the end, it’s been a beautiful adventure we wouldn’t trade for the world.”
Thank your bridesmaids and maid of honour: “My wonderful bridesmaids and my incredible maid of honour, [maid of honour’s name], have been my backbone throughout this journey. From dress fittings to dance rehearsals, you’ve made every moment unforgettable.”
Acknowledge your work: “Planning a wedding is like building a puzzle – every piece has its place. And [partner’s name], you’ve been my partner in every decision and late-night DIY project. You’re the reason why our wedding is not just a day, but a reflection of our love.”
Toast: “To the pieces that make up our beautiful puzzle – our families, friends, and all the memories we’ve created. Here’s to us, to love that knows no borders, and to the chapters we’re about to write together. Cheers!”
Speech Example 3: The Adventure of Us
Introduction: “Hello, everyone! I’m [your name], and it fills my heart with joy to see you all gathered here to celebrate the love story of [partner’s name] and me.”
Share your gratitude: “Thank you for being here, for supporting us, and for being a part of this incredible journey. Your presence makes our day even more special.”
Stories about wedding planning: “Wedding planning, they say, is a glimpse into married life – compromise, laughter, and a few unexpected surprises. Like the time we couldn’t agree on the playlist and had a dance-off to decide. [Partner’s name] won that one, but I’ve got the moves for our next adventure!”
Thank your bridesmaids and maid of honour: “My bridesmaids and my amazing maid of honour, [maid of honour’s name], have been my cheerleaders throughout this journey. From helping me pick the perfect dress to reminding me to breathe when things got hectic, you’ve been my unwavering support.”
Acknowledge your work: “Planning this wedding was like creating a masterpiece – every detail contributing to a bigger picture. And [partner’s name], you’ve been my partner through it all, and in building a life full of adventures.”
Toast: “Here’s to us, to the beautiful masterpiece we’ve created, and to the adventures that lie ahead. May our journey be filled with love, laughter, and unforgettable moments. Cheers!”
Speech Example 4: The Magic of Love
Introduction: “Good evening, everyone! I’m [your name], and I’m thrilled to stand before you on this magical day celebrating the love between [partner’s name] and me.”
Share your gratitude: “Thank you all for joining us, for being a part of our lives, and for your endless love and support. Your presence warms our hearts.”
Stories about wedding planning: “Wedding planning is like weaving a tapestry – a beautiful blend of colours, emotions, and a touch of chaos. Like the time [partner’s name] and I tried to create the perfect seating chart, which was like solving an elaborate puzzle with missing pieces. But in the end, our tapestry is beautifully woven.”
Thank your bridesmaids and maid of honour: “My bridesmaids and my incredible maid of honour, [maid of honour’s name], have been my guiding stars during this journey. Their laughter, advice, and late-night chats made every step of the way unforgettable.”
Acknowledge your work: “Planning this wedding was a labour of love, and it’s a reflection of the love [partner’s name] and I share. We’ve worked side by side, blending our dreams into a reality that’s even more beautiful than we imagined.”
Toast: “So here’s to us, to the magical journey we’ve embarked upon, and to the love that shines brighter than any star. May our days be filled with laughter, our nights with sweet dreams, and our hearts forever entwined. Cheers!”
Speech Example 5: Love Through the Seasons
Introduction: “Hello, everyone! I’m [your name], and it’s an honour to stand before you as we celebrate the love story between [partner’s name] and me.”
Share your gratitude: “Thank you for being here, for supporting us through the seasons of life, and for being a part of this special day that marks the start of a new chapter.”
Stories about wedding planning: “Wedding planning has been like navigating through the changing seasons – moments of excitement, challenges, and the promise of something beautiful to come. Like the time [partner’s name] and I debated whether to have an outdoor or indoor ceremony, only to choose both and experience the magic of both worlds.”
Thank your bridesmaids and maid of honour: “My bridesmaids and my amazing maid of honour, [maid of honour’s name], have been my rocks throughout this journey. They’ve weathered every planning storm with me, ensuring that every step was filled with laughter and joy.”
Acknowledge your work: “Planning this wedding was a labour of love, a reflection of the journey [partner’s name] and I have taken together. We’ve nurtured this dream side by side, building a foundation that’s as strong as our love.”
Toast: “So here’s to us, to the changing seasons of life and the love that remains constant. May our journey be filled with warmth, laughter, and the promise of beautiful days ahead. Cheers!”
Speech Example 6: Grand Adventure
Introduction: “Good evening, everyone! I’m [your name], and I’m so excited to stand before you today to celebrate the love between [partner’s name] and me.”
Share your gratitude: “Thank you all for being here, for adding your love and warmth to this day, and for being part of our grand adventure.”
Stories about wedding planning: “Wedding planning is like embarking on a grand adventure – full of excitement, surprises, and a few detours along the way. Like the time [partner’s name] and I accidentally ordered twice as many flowers as we needed and ended up with a garden in our living room. But at least it smelled amazing!”
Thank your bridesmaids and maid of honour: “My bridesmaids and my wonderful maid of honour, [maid of honour’s name], have been my partners in this adventure. They’ve navigated through dress fittings, cake tastings, and the occasional panic attack with me, making every moment unforgettable.”
Acknowledge your work: “Planning this wedding was hard work, for sure, but there was also so much joy along the way. Every decision, every detail, is a testament to our love and partnership.”
Toast: “To us, to the adventure we’re embarking upon, and to the love that’s stronger than any challenge. May our days be filled with laughter, our nights with dreams, and our hearts united as one. Cheers!”
Speech Example 7: Love’s Tapestry
Introduction: “Hello, everyone! I’m [your name], and it’s a privilege to stand here among you, celebrating the love story between [partner’s name] and me.”
Share your gratitude: “Thank you for being here, for adding your joy and love to this celebration, and for making this day even more special.”
Stories about wedding planning: “Wedding planning has been a journey of weaving together moments of joy, laughter, and a few surprises. Like the time [partner’s name] and I spent hours debating the perfect shade of blue for the decorations, only to realise there are more shades than stars in the sky.”
Thank your bridesmaids and maid of honour: “My bridesmaids and my incredible maid of honour, [maid of honour’s name], have been the threads that have woven this tapestry of love. They’ve stood by me through every decision, every challenge, making the journey unforgettable.”
Acknowledge your work: “Planning this wedding has been a labour of love, a reflection of the journey [partner’s name] and I have taken together. Together, we’ve created a masterpiece that’s a testament to our love and commitment.”
Toast: “To us, to the beautiful tapestry of love we’ve created, and to the journey that’s just beginning. May our days be filled with laughter, our hearts with love, and our lives forever intertwined. Cheers!”
Speech Example 8: Love’s Symphony
Introduction: “Hello, everyone! I’m [your name], and I’m thrilled to stand before you, sharing the incredible journey of love between [partner’s name] and me.”
Share your gratitude: “Thank you for being here, for lending your smiles and cheers to this day, and for being part of our symphony of love.”
Stories about wedding planning: “Wedding planning is like composing a symphony – each note representing a moment of joy, a challenge overcome, and a memory to cherish. Like the time [partner’s name] and I tried to pick the perfect song for our first dance, only to realise that we had more favorite songs than dance moves!”
Thank your bridesmaids and maid of honour: “My bridesmaids and my wonderful maid of honour, [maid of honour’s name], have been the harmonies in this symphony of love. They’ve sung along with me through every decision, every laugh, and every heartfelt moment.”
Acknowledge your work: “Planning this wedding was a labour of love, a reflection of the journey [partner’s name] and I have taken together. Each detail, each choice, tells the story of our love.”
Toast: “To us, to the symphony of love we’ve created, and to the melody of our lives intertwining. May our days be filled with music, our hearts with joy, and our love forever harmonious. Cheers!”
Speech Example 9: Love’s Canvas
Introduction: “Good evening, everyone! I’m [your name], and I’m honour to stand before you, sharing the canvas of love that [partner’s name] and I have painted together.”
Share your gratitude: “Thank you for being here, for contributing your love and presence to this beautiful day, and for being a part of our masterpiece.”
Stories about wedding planning: “Wedding planning is like painting a canvas – each brushstroke representing a moment of joy, a challenge, and a touch of humour. Like the time [partner’s name] and I debated between a cake with fondant or buttercream, even though we really cared more about the taste than the look!”
Thank your bridesmaids and maid of honour: “My bridesmaids and my incredible maid of honour, [maid of honour’s name], have been my paintbrushes in this masterpiece of love. They’ve added colour, vibrancy, and laughter to every step of the journey.”
Acknowledge your work: “Planning this wedding was as exciting as it was rewarding. We’ve painted every detail with the hues of our love and commitment.”
Toast: “To us, to the canvas of love we’ve created, and to the beauty that lies in our future. May our days be filled with colour, our hearts with joy, and our love forever vibrant. Cheers!”
Speech Example 10: Love’s Adventure Awaits
Introduction: “Hello, everyone! I’m [your name], and I’m excited to share the incredible adventure of love between [partner’s name] and me.”
Share your gratitude: “Thank you for gracing us with your presence, for being a part of our story, and for adding your love and joy to this special day.”
Stories about wedding planning: “Wedding planning is like embarking on an adventure – filled with twists, turns, and the promise of a beautiful destination. Like the time [partner’s name] and I tried to choose between a traditional wedding cake or a dessert bar, only to decide that dessert is dessert, and we love it all!”
Thank your bridesmaids and maid of honour: “My bridesmaids and my amazing maid of honour, [maid of honour’s name], have been my fellow adventurers in this journey. They’ve climbed every planning mountain, crossed every decision river, and made every step unforgettable.”
Acknowledge your work: “Planning this wedding has been an adventure worth undertaking. We’ve navigated through every decision, every detail, and every dream side by side.”
Toast: “To us, to the adventure of love that awaits, and to the joy that comes from sharing life’s journey. May our days be filled with laughter, our hearts with love, and our love story an inspiration to all. Cheers!”
Although unconventional, the bride’s speech can be a beautiful and tear-jerking part of your wedding day. They offer a wonderful opportunity for brides to share their thoughts, emotions, and gratitude with their loved ones.
The bride’s speech isn’t a traditional part of the order of speeches at a wedding. As a result, there are no expectations as to what you should include or the structure of your speech. It’s your time to shine and show your unique personality and beautiful love story. Whether you opt for a speech packed with jokes, sentimental stories, or a mix of both, the key is to speak from the heart and let everyone know how you feel about your new spouse.
So, take a deep breath, hold your partner’s hand, and step into the spotlight. Stand up straight, speak slowly and clearly, and practice, practice, practice, before your big day. Whether you focus on heartfelt thank-yous or personal stories, this speech will be a wonderful and memorable part of your big day. It’s a gift that will resonate long after the last toast, so make sure you give it the care and attention you’ve given every other part of your big day.
But, if you’re still feeling nervous, Bridebook can be your guide in writing a cracking bride’s speech. Ditch the stresses and embrace the excitement of crafting a speech that truly reflects your love story. You’ve got this!
Looking for some expert wedding planning advice from a real wedding professional? We spoke to Jack Quenby, a wedding DJ and host from Leicestershire, managing director of Jackstar Weddings. His team was proud to be recognised as one of the East Midlands’ best wedding DJs at the 2023 Wedding Industry Awards. Jack has also appeared on the BBC’s Ultimate Wedding Planner as one of eight aspiring contestants.
Jack’s top 5 wedding planning tips
Jack and Louise Quenby at the 2023 Wedding Industry Awards
1. Start early
Too often couples will get engaged and think there’s no rush to getting started with the planning. Even if you’re thinking about getting married in a couple of years, this isn’t very long in the wedding industry. The best suppliers and venues get booked up early and the sooner you start budgeting and putting plans in place the better chance you have of getting all the things you’re dreaming of.
2. Create a detailed timeline
Being organised ahead of the day is the best way to avoid stress and burn out. Work back from the big day and plan in when certain elements need to be finalised. When it comes to the day itself it really pays to have a strong timeline in place and to make sure your wedding team (bridesmaids and groomsmen) know who needs to do what and when. This will take some of the pressure off you on the day but will help to keep things on track if the timeline starts to slip.
3. Use the best suppliers
It goes without saying you should opt for the most experienced suppliers you can afford. Without a doubt your choice of suppliers will have the biggest impact on the day. Not only with how much you can relax, feeling confident in their abilities, but also how well your guests are looked after. If you don’t have a wedding planner the next best thing is an experienced wedding host who can help keep things on track and make sure you can enjoy every moment with your guests.
4. Think about your guests’ experience
Building on the last two points, when you’re putting together your timeline and selecting your suppliers think about the impact on the guests. I often hear from engaged couples who have been bored guests at weddings and hate the idea of that happening on their day. For each step in your timeline think about where the guests will be, what they’ll be doing and who will be there to look after them.
5. Take time for yourselves and don’t stress
So often this gets overlooked. Of course it’s your day and it’s all about you, but being the centre of attention for the whole day can be quite exhausting! It’s a great idea to plan in a few breaks where you and your partner can take five, recharge and savour those amazing feelings. If you’ve followed the previous tips hopefully you’ll be able to avoid getting too stressed on the day even if things don’t go exactly as planned. If you have everything organised and looked after by an experienced team there’s nothing you can’t overcome.
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When it comes to planning a wedding, dozens of different people, places and professionals come together to create a wonderful celebration. However, with so many moving parts, there’s a risk that one or two things may not go quite as planned. Usually, these things are small and can be replaced or fixed fairly quickly – but what happens when they’re not so small?
Thankfully, wedding insurance is available to give you peace of mind and protect you should anything unforeseen happen, which means you won’t lose your money or your chance to throw your dream wedding. But how much does wedding insurance cost and is it worth it?
In this post, we’re going to explore everything to do with the cost of wedding insurance, including the average amount couples pay, what’s included with wedding insurance and when the best time to secure coverage is.
Wedding insurance is the insurance you can buy to cover your wedding. This means, in the event that something happens either before your wedding or on the day itself, you won’t lose out on your money.
So, if something is cancelled due to financial failure, damaged, lost or stolen, or you or a close family member is injured or taken ill, you won’t have to worry about losing out on potentially thousands of pounds.
As there are so many variations available, the average amount spent by couples on wedding insurance in the UK is between £150 – £180. However, there are basic policies available for as low as £27. Similarly, more expensive policies may set you back around £500 but will offer a far more comprehensive level of coverage.
The average cost of a wedding in the UK is £20,775, so if you’re interested in insurance you’ll probably want a policy that includes cancellation cover that exceeds this amount. That means your policy may cost somewhere in the region of £98 for £20,000 cover; however, this is just an approximation and depends on your chosen insurer and your individual needs.
Yes, wedding insurance is a single, one-off payment. Most policies will cover you for up to two and a half years (30 months) and aren’t long-term and renewable like you might get with other policies, such as car or home insurance.
There are plenty of insurance companies that provide wedding insurance, and we would recommend getting several quotes before choosing your policy. Thankfully, comparison websites, like Money Supermarket, offer the option to gather different quotes all in one go.
What is covered by a wedding insurance policy depends entirely on the insurer and the policy you go for. When securing quotes, make sure you know exactly what the policy will include and what is covered – the last thing you want is any unwelcome surprises in the unlikely event you need to make a claim.
Thankfully, a wedding insurance policy will cover most of the large expenses associated with your wedding, including your venue, catering and transport. However, before assuming it’s covered, we recommend you check with your chosen insurer. Your policy will likely include:
Problems with the venue, such as if they were to cancel your booking due to bankruptcy or go out of business.
Issues with a vendor you’ve made a booking with, such as a caterer or florist going out of business last minute or not showing up at all.
Having to cancel due to death, illness or an accident.
Having to cancel due to redundancy.
Having to cancel in the event that adverse weather means more than half of your guests can’t make it.
Critical items that have been lost, stolen or damaged, including your rings and dress.
Faults with the photos or video, or if the photographer doesn’t turn up on the day.
The good news is that a number of insurance providers, like Wedinsure, now offer policies that cover your wedding if it’s taking place abroad, which is peace of mind if you’ve chosen to go for a destination wedding.
Unfortunately, should either of you change your mind at the last minute (not that it will happen, of course) and cancel your wedding, your insurance won’t cover you. Other reasons for cancelling a wedding that aren’t covered include:
If an item that isn’t key to the wedding is lost, stolen or damaged (for example, table numbers).
Having to cancel your wedding because you realise you’re not able to afford it.
Having to cancel due to a preexisting medical condition.
Poor weather, such as rain.
Marquees – these require their own insurance (though most insurers will provide marquee cover).
That being said, some insurers will cover you for some of the above possibilities, though they may charge a premium. Check with your insurer before taking out a policy to make sure it covers everything you need.
If you’re getting married abroad, your travel insurance may cover you for certain items, such as your wedding attire or gifts, but you should check the single-item limit on your policy to make sure what those limits are.
Does wedding insurance cover an expensive wedding?
You can buy wedding insurance to cover any wedding, regardless of how much it might cost. However, the more money you spend on your wedding, the more you’ll have to spend on your policy.
No, unfortunately, your honeymoon isn’t covered by wedding insurance. While related to your wedding, it’s still viewed as a holiday, so you’ll need to make sure you have the appropriate travel insurance policy in place. That means another cost to bear in mind when budgeting for your wedding.
What other types of insurance do you need with your wedding?
On top of wedding insurance, there are other types of wedding-related insurance you may want to consider.
If you’re hiring a marquee for your wedding, the majority of basic wedding insurance policies don’t include cover for this. However, there will be a marquee insurance extension that you can add to your policy for an additional cost.
Another addition you might want to consider is public liability insurance. This will cover you in the event that a third party is hurt or killed and a claim against you is made. Plus, many venues require public liability cover as part of the contract. Of course, this is massively unlikely, however, just to be safe the majority of couples choose to have public liability insurance if it isn’t already covered by their wedding insurance policy. But, don’t consider this a good enough reason not to go for it, because every wedding and set of circumstances are different.
You can buy wedding insurance up to 30 months before your wedding. Whether you secure your wedding insurance a year before your wedding or a week before, the price won’t change, so it’s important to buy it as early as possible (and before it’s too late).
Wedinsure suggests that you purchase wedding insurance as soon as you have a date and before you start paying deposits. The last thing you want to do is pay out hundreds of pounds only to lose it if your chosen vendor goes out of business.
If your wedding is small and intimate (for example, you’re getting married at a registry office), then you may not need to buy wedding insurance. But, if your wedding is much larger, and therefore you’re spending a lot of money, you should absolutely make securing wedding insurance a top priority.
Not only that, but some venue and supplier contracts may have requirements or recommendations around getting insurance, which you’ll need to take into account.
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For an extra touch of personalisation, you may choose to hire a celebrant for your big day. A wedding celebrant is a professional who will officiate your wedding by getting to know you to ensure your ceremony is customised and deeply personal to you and your spouse-to-be. Many couples choose to hire a celebrant for multi-faith weddings or if they don’t have any religious beliefs at all.
If you’re excited to hire a celebrant so your wedding ceremony is unique to you, but you’re not sure your budget can stretch that far, there are ways you can hire a celebrant for less.
In this post, we’re going to explore how you can save money on a wedding celebrant and still have a fabulous and highly personalised wedding ceremony.
Your celebrant may seem only to officiate your wedding, which at the most might take 45 minutes to an hour on the day itself. But there’s so much more to the service a celebrant provides.
To achieve the level of personalisation that comes with hiring a celebrant, many hours of preparation are needed. This includes meeting with you to discuss what you’re looking for. During this time they’ll also ask you questions about your relationship with your partner and your history together. This then enables them to write a carefully written script for your big day.
On top of this, a reputable celebrant will have years of training and experience behind them. That way, you can be confident that they’ll be able to officiate your wedding and meet exactly what you’re looking for.
It’s important to remember that a celebrant and a registrar aren’t the same. A celebrant can’t legally marry you, whereas a registrar can. So, if you’re looking to hire a celebrant, you’ll also need to bear in mind the costs involved with booking a registrar to make sure everything’s legal – and this will set you back around £300.
Whether or not you hire a celebrant for your wedding is entirely up to you, your tastes and your budget. If you’re not interested in a religious or spiritual wedding, or you and your partner have different beliefs, a celebrant is a wonderful way for someone to officiate your wedding.
Or, you may simply want a professional celebrant to ensure you have a ceremony that’s completely unlike any wedding you and your guests have ever been to.
If you want to hire a celebrant to officiate your wedding, but you’re on a strict budget, there are ways you can pay less. Below are 10 ways you can save money on a wedding celebrant. For even more ways to cut costs, you can also read our ultimate guide on how to save money on your wedding.
When searching for a celebrant, make sure you meet with several so you can get a full understanding of what’s available. You might gel with the first celebrant you speak to, but meeting with a few will help you choose one that ticks all your boxes. Plus, getting a range of quotes will make it easier to find one that’s more in keeping with your budget.
Before gathering quotes, make sure you and your spouse-to-be sit down and discuss what you want to get out of hiring a celebrant. Do you want them to be funny? Mention religion? Do you want readings, or poetry, or references to your cultures and backgrounds? If you go into a meeting with a celebrant with a list of what you’re looking for, you’ll be in a better position to know whether that celebrant can provide it, which could save you money in the long run.
Ask family and friends for recommendations for any celebrants they may have hired or met at a wedding in the past. Referrals are a great way of securing a discount. Here at Bridebook, we work with a huge range of celebrants, with many offering discounts that are exclusive to us!
Wedding celebrants are in high demand, which means that during peak times they’ll often have higher rates. To keep costs down (as well as costs related to your entire wedding) consider getting married during off-peak dates.
Celebrants can be booked months, if not years, in advance, so to avoid disappointment you should book early. Plus, the later you leave it, the more you may end up paying. We’d recommend booking your celebrant as soon as you can to secure the best possible rate.
As we’ve already mentioned, you’ll meet with your celebrant – possibly two or even three times – to discuss your wedding so they can get to know you and craft your personalised ceremony. This means there are travel costs, as well as additional costs for their time.
Why not ask your celebrant if they’ll consider meeting with you virtually instead? Platforms like Zoom and Google Meet are great for chatting, so you can still build a rapport with your celebrant while avoiding time-consuming journeys.
One of the easiest ways to secure a discount is simply by asking. Many celebrants will advertise their rates and the cost for certain packages, but these amounts aren’t necessarily set in stone. Don’t expect a huge discount, but when you’re paying hundreds, a 5% or 10% discount can still make a difference.
Because celebrants only officiate your wedding, you also need a qualified registrar for your marriage to be legally binding. For that reason, you could ask a close family member or friend to officiate your wedding instead. Not only will this add yet another level of personalisation to your wedding, but it’ll also mean you don’t have to pay for their services (aside from perhaps a well-earned drink or two).
Asking a friend or loved one to officiate a wedding is becoming increasingly popular in the UK. It’s a great option for couples who want that personal touch without breaking the bank. Just make sure your friend of family member can deal with that kind of pressure on such an important occasion. Also recognise that the quality and level of service is unlikely to match that of a professional celebrant.
Why not consider hiring a wedding celebrant who doesn’t have as much experience as others? Generally, the more experience a celebrant has, the more they’re likely to charge. So, if you choose a celebrant who’s recently qualified and hasn’t officiated many weddings, they’re far more likely to offer competitive rates.
If you can look past their inexperience, you’ll still more than likely have a wonderful wedding thanks to their passion and eagerness to impress.
Planning a wedding is a long, time-consuming and expensive process. It requires hours of research, travelling to meet vendors to discuss requirements, and sometimes tricky negotiations. It’s a fun and exciting process, but it can also be difficult and stressful. That’s why many couples decide to relieve themselves of the pressure and enlist the guidance and expertise of a wedding planner.
While that’s a huge amount to pay for something that you could in theory do yourself, there are plenty of reasons why a wedding planner is a must-have for many brides- and grooms-to-be. So, if this is you, how can you save money on a wedding planner so they fit within your budget?
In this post, we’re going to explore the many ways you can save money and make the most of the skills and experience provided by a wedding planner.
With many couples paying thousands for the services of a wedding planner, you might wonder why they’re able to charge so much. Below are just some of the reasons why a wedding planner can be so expensive:
Time – If you’ve already started planning your wedding, you’ll be all too familiar with how much time it takes. A professional wedding planner pours hours and hours of their time into planning a wedding that is perfect for you.
Experience – Wedding planners who have been in the game a long time will have plenty of experience, so will know what to do, where to go and what to say.
Expertise – Along with their experience, a wedding planner will have a ton of expertise, which means nothing you throw at them will be too much.
Connections – If they’ve been in the business a while, a wedding planner will have a whole host of connections to help them get preferential deals.
Personalisation – A planner will work closely with you to make sure they know exactly what you want every step of the way. They’ll also make sure you know what’s happening and when, so you’re involved in every decision.
On top of these, wedding planners also have overheads that need to be covered, including insurance, admin costs, office space, staff costs, technology costs and more.
There are three main reasons why couples choose to hire a wedding planner, and why the seemingly lofty cost is totally worth it to them:
They don’t have the time to plan their wedding themselves
They don’t have the necessary knowledge and expertise
They want to save money
We’ve already explained how wedding planners use their time, knowledge and expertise to plan a wedding that is personal to you and in keeping with your tastes and style. However, it’s also important to highlight that hiring a wedding planner will save you money. According to qualified wedding planner and wedding expert, Hamish Shephard, you could save as much as 20% of what you might otherwise have paid. That means, while you may use 10% of your budget on a wedding planner, you’re likely to save this and more in the long run.
The cost-saving benefits of hiring a wedding planner are obvious, but if you’re on a budget it might be hard to justify spending so much on a service you could do yourself. Luckily, there are plenty of ways to save money on a wedding planner, so you can pay less but still make the most of their expertise. Check out the 10 tips below and read our complete guide on how to save money on your wedding.
A wedding planner provides the most effective service if you hire them before you start planning your big day. So, if you plan on recruiting a planner, don’t jump the gun and book a venue first – in doing so you might have lost out on a discount or deal that means you’re paying more than you need to.
2. Don’t hire the first wedding planner you speak to
Though hiring your wedding planner early is important, make sure you don’t jump in too quickly. Take the time to speak to several wedding planners and weigh up your options. Some may charge you a percentage of your budget; others may ask for a flat fee; and others may charge an hourly rate. Put together a list of planners, their quotes and the service they provide so you can make an informed choice.
A full wedding planning service will be the most expensive option – and that’s because it’s the most thorough and time-consuming. But, most wedding planners will also offer a partial planning service. A partial service helps you with planning specific aspects of your wedding, such as the venue and catering. That way, you can get help with some of the more challenging and expensive parts of the planning process, then do the rest – like the flowers, decor and transport – yourself.
Or, as your big day gets ever closer and the list of jobs keeps mounting up, you could hire a planner for a partial service to help you keep on top of things. Speak to potential planners to find out what they can do for you as part of a partial planning service.
4. Ask friends for recommendations…or hire a friend
Ask your married friends and family for recommendations. Word-of-mouth referrals are a great way to secure a discount and find a planner who’s reliable and brilliant at their job. Even a discount of just 5% or 10% is a huge saving when you’re dealing with expensive rates.
Another great option is to hire a friend to help you plan certain aspects. Sometimes, your friends can be just as excited about your wedding as you are, and involving them in the planning process is a great way to include them. Just try not to task them with all the more difficult or time-consuming jobs, and make sure you thank them with a voucher or bunch of flowers on the big day itself.
Don’t be shy about asking a wedding planner for a discount. Once you’ve met with a planner and discussed what you’re looking for, if they like you and are excited about your vision, they may be happy to discuss lowering their rates. After all, if you don’t ask, you don’t get.
While your wedding planner can take care of the difficult parts, you can make a start on other parts of wedding prep and save money in doing so. For example, you could get ahead on designing your wedding invitations or crafting paper flowers for table decorations.
While you’re hiring your wedding planner to fulfil your and your spouse-to-be’s vision for your big day, it’s important to be flexible, because flexibility is a great way to save money. For example, your planner will know that a midweek wedding is far more affordable than a weekend wedding, so being open to their suggestions will probably save you a ton of money.
The more experienced, skilled, knowledgeable and reputable a wedding planner is, the more in demand they’ll be and the more they’ll be able to charge.
That means, if you hire a wedding planner with less experience, their rates will be more competitive and more likely to be in line with your budget. The only risk is that they might not have the same expertise or connections as others who have been in the industry for longer.
If you go down this route, look out for relevant qualifications like an event planning or hospitality diploma. Though they’re not a legal requirement when it comes to wedding planning, they’ll give you more confidence that your planner knows what they’re doing, even if they have less experience.
When you hire a wedding planner, you’ll spend a lot of time with them as they get to know you and what you want to be included in your big day. Many wedding planners will want to do this in person, but this can take time, especially if there’s travel involved.
To save on travel time and costs, ask your planner if they’re happy to connect virtually instead. Using Zoom or Google Meet is a quick and convenient way to meet and still build a rapport.
To get the most out of your wedding planner, and therefore the best value for money, the most important thing you can do is trust them. Your wedding planner will have planned dozens – if not hundreds – of weddings and will know the industry through and through. The last thing you want to do is have a strained relationship with them, so trust the process and let them do what they do best. This will enable them to do a fabulous job and save you plenty of money.
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The great thing about the groom’s speech is that it’s generally one of the easiest to write. You don’t need to stress about making everyone laugh like the best man or worry about whether your words are heartfelt enough, like the father of the bride. Instead, the groom’s speech is a lovely thank you note to everyone who has helped you plan the wedding.
As the groom, it’s a chance for you to express your love, gratitude, and appreciation to all the amazing people who have gathered to celebrate this joyous occasion. It’s a time to honour your beautiful bride, thank your parents, and embrace the opportunity to let everyone know how grateful you are for their continued support.
In this article, we’ve captured everything you need to know about writing the best groom speech ever. We have 10 brilliant groom speech examples for inspiration, a breakdown of the structure of the speech, and a list of all the little bits and bobs you may need to consider. Let’s get going!
The groom’s speech is a heartfelt speech made by the groom during a wedding reception. It should be no more than 10 minutes long and usually goes second in the order of speeches, coming after the father of the bride speech but before the best man’s speech.
Consider this your opportunity to let your friends and family know how grateful you are for their support. You can also share stories and memories and thank all those who have played a significant role in the journey leading up to the wedding day.
In fact, the groom’s speech is usually positioned as a thank-you note to everyone involved in planning your wedding. For example, your parents, the bride’s parents, ushers, bridesmaids, the best man, the maid of honour, your wedding planner, and the wedding venue staff. It’s also a great opportunity to thank anyone who has supported your relationship thus far and a chance to tell some heartwarming stories about how you and your partner met.
Here are some key elements you should consider including in your groom’s speech:
Thank your family. They’ve guided you through life, helped you become who you are today, and probably contributed to the wedding somehow. It’s time to thank your parents for their support over the years. In addition, you should extend your gratitude to your new in-laws. Let them know how grateful you are to them for raising such a wonderful partner, welcoming you into their family, and for their continued guidance.
The meet-cute. Share some sweet stories and anecdotes about how you met your partner when you knew they were the one, and any adventures you’ve shared along the way. You could also share any laughs you’ve had leading up to the wedding day and maybe sprinkle in a few inside jokes. Just remember, keep it respectful and appropriate for all guests!
Compliment your new spouse. What better day to highlight how beautiful and special your partner bride is than on their big day? It’s time to let everyone know exactly what made you fall in love with them, their impact on your life, and the joy they bring you. Include all these topics and watch their smile light up the room.
A toast. Bottoms up! Finish your speech by encouraging your friends and guests to join you in a toast. Here’s to love and the incredible journey that lies ahead.
Groom’s speech structure
Although the groom’s speech can follow any structure you feel is best, we recommend sticking to the following framework. This way, you can feel confident that you’ve covered all your bases and delivered a well-rounded speech.
Introduction
The introduction sets the tone for your speech, so it’s important to start with confidence. Take this time to welcome and engage your audience, as well as acknowledge everyone’s effort in attending the wedding. Express your gratitude, and let everyone know they look great. Keep it short and move on to the bulk of the speech.
Top tip: To guarantee a big cheer, start with “On behalf of me and my wife…”. It’s a winner every time!
Thank your family
Take a moment to express heartfelt appreciation to your family. Begin with your parents, thanking them for their unconditional love, guidance, and support throughout your life.
Recognise the sacrifices they have made along the way and for any help they have offered in wedding planning.
You can then move on to thanking your new in-laws. Emphasise the love and acceptance they have shown you, how they have supported your relationship, and their role in bringing you and your partner together. And, if appropriate, thank them for their child’s hand in marriage!
Thank the bridal party and groomsmen
Show appreciation for your best man, maid of honour, and the rest of the bridal party. Highlight their support, dedication, and efforts in making your wedding day special. You can also express your gratitude for their friendship, unwavering support, and their role in your special day.
Express your gratitude to the guests
Take a moment to express gratitude to all the guests for their presence and role in your lives. Highlight what their support means to you and the happiness they bring to the occasion.
Take extra time to thank anyone who has travelled long distances or made an extra effort to be there. Let them know how much you appreciate the efforts and how much it means to have them with you.
Thank the staff
Acknowledge the efforts of the staff, vendors, and wedding planners who have worked tirelessly to make your wedding day run smoothly. Show appreciation for their professionalism and attention to detail. After all, the day wouldn’t be possible without them!
Compliment your partner
Finally, express your love and admiration for your new spouse. Share heartfelt compliments that highlight their beauty, grace and the qualities that make them so special to you. Be specific and genuine in your praise. There won’t be a dry eye in the house!
Time for a toast
As you wrap up your speech, it’s time to invite your guests to raise their glasses and join you in a toast. Here’s to a lifetime of love, laughter, and happiness. Chin chin!
Groom’s speech template
To help you navigate the complete breakdown of your speech, it can be helpful to have a visual guide to refer to. Check out our handy infographic below:
Use this groom speech template to guide your writing
Although it’s an emotional day, keep the tone of your speech happy and upbeat. Save the tear-jerking stories for the father of the bride or best man speeches. Your speech should be focused on light-hearted gratitude.
Keep it clean!
Although light-hearted humor and anecdotes are appropriate in a groom’s speech, ensure your humor is tasteful and doesn’t overshadow the heartfelt moments! Remember, your new spouse is in front of all their family and friends, so they may not want to share any intimate or embarrassing stories. If you’re unsure whether your partner will be comfortable with the stories you’re sharing, consider running any stories you plan to use past them first.
Confidence is key
A few nerves are to be expected. However, this is your time to shine, and you should do it proudly. Stand tall, speak clearly, and make eye contact with the audience. Project confidence and belief in your words. Remember, the audience is filled with your family and friends who are gathered to have a good time and are all rooting for you!
If you’re looking for some inspiration, check out our top 10 examples of great wedding speech ideas, from the simple and sentimental to the light-hearted and humorous. And remember that these are just examples. You can use them as templates for your own speech, but it’s important to speak from the heart, and add your own personal touch and unique family anecdotes.
A lot of traditional father of the bride speeches and examples will refer to a bride and groom, but you can simply change the references to your daughter’s partner and the appropriate pronouns if you’re attending an LGBTQ+ wedding.
Speech Example 1: The Heartfelt Appreciation
Introduction: “Ladies and gentlemen, family, and friends, thank you all for being here to celebrate this special day with [partner’s name] and me. Your presence means the world to us, and we are truly grateful for your love and support.”
Thank your family: “I want to begin by expressing my deepest gratitude to my parents, [parents’ names]. Thank you for your unwavering love, guidance, and for always believing in me. You have shaped me into the man I am today, and I am forever grateful. And I extend my heartfelt thanks to my incredible new in-laws, [in-laws’ names]. Thank you for welcoming me into your family with open arms and showering us with your love and acceptance. I am truly blessed to have gained such wonderful additions to my life.”
Thank the bridal party and groomsmen: “I want to take a moment to thank my incredible best man, [best man’s name], and our wonderful groomsmen. Your friendship and support have been invaluable throughout this journey, and I am lucky to have you by my side. Thank you for standing with me today.”
Express gratitude to the guests: “To all our family and friends, thank you for being here to celebrate our love. Your presence fills our hearts with joy, and we are grateful for the love and support you have shown us. We are honoured to share this special day with all of you.”
Thank the staff: “A special thank you goes out to the amazing staff, vendors, and wedding planners who have worked tirelessly to make this day perfect. Your attention to detail and professionalism have made our wedding day unforgettable. We are incredibly grateful for all that you’ve done.”
Compliment your partner: “And now, to the love of my life, [partner’s name]. Words cannot express the depth of my love for you. You are my rock, my best friend, and my partner in all of life’s adventures. Your beauty, both inside and out, continues to amaze me every day. I am the luckiest person in the world to call you my wife.”
Time for a toast: “Ladies and gentlemen, please raise your glasses as we toast to a lifetime of love, laughter, and happiness for [partner’s name] and me. May our love continue to grow and shine brighter with each passing day. Bottoms up!”
Speech Example 2: The Light-hearted Banter
Introduction: “Good evening, everyone! I must say, standing here in front of you all, I feel a mix of excitement and nerves. But hey, that’s nothing compared to the excitement of marrying the amazing person standing beside me, [partner’s name]!”
Thank your family: “I want to start by thanking my parents, [parents’ names], for their endless love and support. You have always been there for me, guiding me through life’s ups and downs. I wouldn’t be the person I am today without you. And now I will extend my sincere thanks to my incredible new family, [in-laws’ names]. Your kindness, generosity, and open hearts have made me feel like I’ve always been a part of this beautiful family. I am truly grateful for the love and support you have shown us.”
Thank the bridal party and groomsmen: “A big shout-out to my best man, [best man’s name], and our incredible groomsmen. You guys have been with me through thick and thin, and I couldn’t have asked for a better crew. Thank you for all the unforgettable memories and for keeping me sane throughout this wedding planning madness.”
Express gratitude to the guests: “To all our friends and family gathered here today, thank you for being a part of this joyous celebration. Your presence fills our hearts with warmth and happiness. We are truly blessed to have such amazing people in our lives.”
Thank the staff: “Let’s not forget to give a round of applause to the fantastic staff who have worked their socks off to make this day possible. From the venue coordinators to the catering team, your hard work and attention to detail have exceeded our expectations. Thank you for making our dream wedding a reality.”
Compliment your partner: “And now, to the woman who has stolen my heart, [partner’s name]. You are a true blessing in my life. Your kindness, intelligence, and sense of humour brighten every moment we spend together. I am so grateful for the love and happiness you bring into my life.”
Time for a toast: “Ladies and gentlemen, please join me in raising a glass to the incredible love and future of [partner’s name] and me. May our journey together be filled with laughter, adventures, and a lifetime of shared happiness. Cheers!”
Speech Example 3: The Emotional Touch
Introduction: “Good evening, everyone. Today is a day filled with immense joy and gratitude as I stand here as the luckiest man in the world, ready to embark on a new chapter of my life with the love of my life, [partner’s name].”
Thank your family: “I want to take this moment to express my deepest gratitude to my parents, [parents’ names]. Your love, support, and guidance have shaped me into the person I am today. I am forever grateful for the values you instilled in me and for the love you have shown me throughout my life. And to my incredible new in-laws, [in-laws’ names], I want to express my deepest appreciation for welcoming me into your family. Your love, warmth, and genuine care have made me feel like I’ve found a second home.”
Thank the bridal party and groomsmen: “To my best man, [best man’s name], and our incredible groomsmen, thank you for standing by my side on this special day. Your friendship and endless support mean the world to me. I am so grateful for the memories we have shared and for the bond we have formed.”
Express gratitude to the guests: “To all our beloved friends and family gathered here today, thank you for your presence and for celebrating our love. Your love, encouragement, and support have been a constant source of strength and inspiration. We are blessed to have you in our lives.”
Thank the staff: “A special thank you goes to the dedicated staff and vendors who have worked tirelessly to make this day unforgettable. Your professionalism, attention to detail, and hard work have made our wedding dreams come true. We are forever grateful for your contributions.”
Compliment your partner: “And now, to the woman who has captured my heart, [partner’s name]. You are my rock, my best friend, and my biggest supporter. Your love and unwavering belief in me have brought immeasurable joy into my life. I am grateful for your beautiful soul, your compassion, and the way you make every day brighter.”
Time for a toast: “Ladies and gentlemen, please join me in raising a glass to the love and happiness of [partner’s name] and me. May our love continue to grow and flourish, and may our journey together be filled with laughter, adventures, and endless love. Bottoms up!”
Speech Example 4: The Humorous Twist
Introduction: “Ladies and gentlemen, family, and friends, thank you for being here today to celebrate this incredible milestone in my life. I must say, I’m feeling a mix of excitement and relief that I managed to tie my tie correctly. It’s a big day for me!”
Thank your family: “I want to begin by expressing my deepest gratitude to my parents, [parents’ names]. Thank you for your constant support, for always believing in me even when I doubted myself, and for teaching me the importance of love and commitment. And let’s not forget a special thank you to my fantastic new in-laws, [in-laws’ names]. From the first time we met, your clever banter and quick comebacks kept me on my toes. It’s a true pleasure to be part of a family with such a sharp sense of humor. Thank you for the laughter, the wit, and the warm welcome into your incredible clan.”
Thank the bridal party and groomsmen: “A big shout-out to my incredible best man, [best man’s name], and our awesome groomsmen. You guys have been with me through all the highs and all the lows, and I can’t thank you enough for being my sidekicks in life’s adventures. I’m honoured to have you by my side.”
Express gratitude to the guests: “To all our amazing guests, thank you for being here and sharing in the joy of this special day. Your presence makes this celebration even more memorable, and we are truly grateful for the love and support you have shown us.”
Thank the staff: “Let’s also take a moment to appreciate the hardworking staff and vendors who have made this wedding day unforgettable. From the venue team to the caterers, thank you for going above and beyond to make everything run smoothly. You’re the real MVPs!”
Compliment your partner: “And now, to the person who has stolen my heart, my beautiful [partner’s name]. You are my everything. Your love, warmth, and infectious laughter bring so much happiness into my life. I’m grateful for the adventures we’ve shared and the ones that lie ahead.”
Time for a toast: “Ladies and gentlemen, please raise your glasses as we toast to the incredible love and future of [partner’s name] and me. May our love be a never-ending source of laughter, support, and growth. Here’s to a lifetime of happiness and shared dreams. Cheers!”
Speech Example 5: The Poetic Reflection
Introduction: “Good evening, everyone. Today, I stand before you with a heart full of gratitude and love. This is a day that marks the beginning of a beautiful journey, and I’m honoured to share it with all of you.”
Thank your family: “I want to start by thanking my parents, [parents’ names]. Your unconditional love and unwavering support have shaped me into the person I am today. Thank you for your guidance, sacrifices, and for always believing in me. My heartfelt thanks also go to my wonderful new in-laws, [in-laws’ Names]. You have welcomed me into your family with open arms and treated me as one of your own from the very beginning.”
Thank the bridal party and groomsmen: “A special shout-out to my amazing best man, [best man’s name], and our remarkable groomsmen. You guys have been there for me through thick and thin, and I’m grateful for the friendship and memories we’ve created together.”
Express gratitude to the guests: “To all our cherished guests, thank you for gracing us with your presence on this joyous occasion. Your love and support mean the world to us, and we are beyond grateful to have you here as we celebrate our love.”
Thank the staff: “I also want to extend my gratitude to the hardworking staff and vendors who have made this day possible. Your dedication and attention to detail have transformed our vision into reality. Thank you for creating such a magical atmosphere.”
Compliment your partner: “And now, to my incredible partner, [bride’s name]. Your beauty, both inside and out, continues to amaze me every day. Your love and undying belief in me have given me strength and courage. I’m blessed to have you by my side.”
Time for a toast: “Ladies and gentlemen, please join me in raising a glass to the extraordinary love and future of [partner’s name] and me. May our journey be filled with love, adventure, and the fulfillment of all our dreams. So let’s all raise a glass!”
Speech Example 6: The Joyful Adventure
Introduction: “Good evening, ladies and gentlemen! First and foremost, let me take a moment to express my gratitude for being here today on this wonderful day of celebration. Thank you all for joining us!”
Thank your family: “I want to start by thanking my parents, [parents’ names]. You have been my guiding lights, and my biggest cheerleaders. Thank you for your amazing love and support throughout the years. “I also want to express my deepest appreciation to my amazing new family, [in-laws’ names]. From the moment we met, you embraced me with open hearts and made me feel like a cherished member of the family. Your love, support, and guidance mean the world to me, and I am truly blessed to call you my in-laws as I embark on this new adventure with your daughter.”
Thank the bridal party and groomsmen: “To my wonderful best man, [best man’s name], and our fantastic groomsmen, thank you for being my partners in mischief and for standing by my side. Your friendship and laughter have made this journey all the more memorable.”
Express gratitude to the guests: “To all our incredible guests, thank you for gracing us with your presence today. Your love, well wishes, and dance moves are what make this celebration truly special. Let’s continue to create unforgettable memories together.”
Thank the staff: “A special shout-out to the incredible staff who have made this wedding day a seamless experience. From the event coordinators to the DJ who knows just the right tunes to keep the party going, you have all been instrumental in creating an unforgettable night.”
Compliment your partner: “And now, to the love of my life, [partner’s name]. From the moment we met, you have filled my days with laughter, love, and countless adventures. Your beauty, both inside and out, leaves me in awe. I’m so lucky to call you my partner.”
Time for a toast: “Ladies and gentlemen, please raise your glasses as we toast to the extraordinary love and future of [partner’s name] and me. May our days be filled with laughter, our hearts with love, and our lives with endless joy. Cheers!”
Speech Example 7: The Sentimental Journey
Introduction: “Good evening, everyone. Today, as I stand here before all of you, I can’t help but be overwhelmed with emotions. This day represents the culmination of an incredible journey, and I’m honoured to share it with each and every one of you.”
Thank your family: “I want to start by expressing my deepest gratitude to my parents, [parents’ names]. You have given me the most incredible gift of love and support, and I will forever cherish the values you have instilled in me. And I am filled with gratitude for my exceptional new family, [In-Laws’ Names]. Your love, acceptance, and genuine kindness have made me feel like a beloved member of the family from the very beginning.”
Thank the bridal party and groomsmen: “To my phenomenal best man, [best man’s name], and our incredible groomsmen, thank you for being my pillars of strength and for standing by my side throughout this entire process. Your friendship means the world to me.”
Express gratitude to the guests: “To all our beloved guests, thank you for gracing us with your presence on this beautiful day. Your presence and well wishes have filled our hearts with immense joy and love. We are blessed to have you in our lives.”
Thank the staff: “A heartfelt thank you to the dedicated staff and vendors who have worked tirelessly to make this wedding a truly magical experience. Your attention to detail and professionalism have exceeded our expectations. We are forever grateful.”
Compliment your partner: “And now, to the love of my life, [partner’s name]. Your presence in my life has brought an indescribable happiness that words can’t fully capture. Your love, strength, and unconditional support have made me a better person. I’m beyond fortunate to call you mine.”
Time for a toast: “Ladies and gentlemen, please join me in raising a glass to the extraordinary love and future of [partner’s name] and me. May our journey be filled with endless love, cherished moments, and the realization of all our dreams. Cheers to us!”
Speech Example 8: The Inspirational Touch
Introduction: “Good evening, everyone! Today is a day filled with love, joy, and celebration. I stand before you as a grateful man, ready to embark on this incredible journey with my soulmate by my side.”
Thank your family: “I want to start by expressing my deepest appreciation to my parents, [parents’ names]. Your unconditional love, guidance, and sacrifices have shaped me into the person I am today. I am forever grateful for the values you have instilled in me. I am truly grateful to my wonderful new family, [in-laws’ Names]. From the moment I met you, you embraced me with open arms and made me feel like part of the family. Your love, support, and acceptance have touched my heart deeply, and I am honoured to be a part of this loving family.”
Thank the bridal party and groomsmen: “To my amazing best man, [best man’s name], and our wonderful groomsmen, thank you for your constant support, laughter, and friendship. You have stood by my side through all of life’s wild adventures, and I’m honored to have you as my chosen family.”
Express gratitude to the guests: “I would like to extend my heartfelt thanks to all our esteemed guests. Your presence here today is a testament to the love and support you have shown us. We are deeply touched by your presence and grateful for the memories we will create together.”
Thank the staff: “A special shout-out to the incredible staff and vendors who have worked to the bone to make this day a literal dream come true. Your attention to detail, professionalism, and dedication have made this celebration truly exceptional. Thank you for going above and beyond.”
Compliment your partner: “And now, to the love of my life, [partner’s name]. You have brought light into my world, and I’m grateful for every moment we’ve shared. Your beauty, both inside and out, captivates me. I promise to cherish and protect our love for all my days.”
Time for a toast: “Ladies and gentlemen, please raise your glasses as we toast to the incredible love and future of [partner’s name] and me. May our love be a guiding light, leading us to a lifetime of happiness, adventure, and unbreakable bonds. Cheers to us!”
Speech Example 9: The Heartfelt Tribute
Introduction: “Good evening, everyone. Today is a day of immense joy and gratitude as we gather here to celebrate the union of two souls deeply in love. Thank you for joining us on this momentous occasion.”
Thank your family: “I want to take a moment to express my deepest appreciation to my parents, [parents’ names]. Your unconditional love, guidance, and support have been the foundation of my life. I’m forever grateful for everything you have done for me. “My heartfelt thanks go to my incredible new in-laws, [in-laws’ names]. Your love, warmth, and genuine acceptance have made me feel like I’ve always been a part of this beautiful family. I am grateful for the memories we’ve shared, and for bringing [partner’s name] into my life.”
Thank the bridal party and groomsmen: “To my brilliant best man, [best man’s name], and our outstanding groomsmen, thank you for being my brothers, confidants, and partners in crime. Your friendship has been an invaluable gift, and I’m honored to have you by my side on this special day.”
Express gratitude to the guests: “To all our beloved guests, thank you for gracing us with your presence and for sharing in the love and joy of this moment. Your presence fills our hearts with warmth, and we are so grateful for the love and support you have shown us.”
Thank the staff: “A special thank you to the remarkable staff and vendors who have worked tirelessly behind the scenes to make this day perfect. Your professionalism, creativity, and attention to detail have transformed our vision into reality. We are in awe of your talents.”
Compliment your partner: “And now, to my beautiful soulmate, [bride’s name]. You are my rock, my inspiration, and my best friend. Your love has transformed my life in ways I never thought possible. I’m forever grateful for your unwavering support and the endless joy you bring into my world.”
Time for a toast: “Ladies and gentlemen, please raise your glasses as we toast to the extraordinary love and future of [bride’s name] and me. May our journey be filled with boundless love, adventure, and beautiful memories. Here’s to a lifetime of love and happiness. Cheers!”
Speech Example 10: The Light-hearted Celebration
Introduction: “Hello, everyone! Today is a day of celebration, laughter, and love. Thank you all for being here as we embark on this incredible journey together. Let’s make some unforgettable memories!”
Thank your family: “I want to begin by expressing my heartfelt gratitude to my parents, [parents’ names]. You have been my biggest cheerleaders and a constant source of love and support. I wouldn’t be the person I am today without you. To my amazing new family, [in-laws’ names], I want to express my sincere appreciation for welcoming me into your lives. Your love, kindness, and genuine hospitality have made me feel like a beloved member of the family. Thank you for letting me love your incredible daughter.”
Thank the bridal party and groomsmen: “To my phenomenal best man, [best man’s name], and our incredible groomsmen, thank you for adding laughter, adventure, and a whole lot of fun to my life. I’m grateful for the memories we’ve created and the ones we’ll continue to make.”
Express gratitude to the guests: “Thank you to all our wonderful guests for being here and sharing in the joy of this special day. Your presence makes this celebration even more memorable, and we appreciate the love and warmth you bring to our lives.”
Thank the staff: “A special shout-out to the amazing staff and vendors who have bent over backwards to make this wedding day a fantastic experience. From the delicious food to the beautiful decorations, you have made this day truly extraordinary.”
Compliment your partner: “And now, to my incredible partner in crime, [partner’s name]. Your smile lights up my world, and your love fills my heart with happiness. I’m honoured to call you my wife and excited for all the adventures that await us.”
Time for a toast: “Ladies and gentlemen, please raise your glasses as we toast to the love and future of [partner’s name] and me. May our lives be filled with endless laughter, joy, and shared dreams! Now let’s make this the best celebration ever!”
The groom’s speech is your opportunity to thank everyone around you for their involvement and support with your wedding.
Take the time to personalise your speech, infuse it with genuine compliments, and practice, practice, practice! Strike a balance between sincerity and light-heartedness, and let the love and happiness that fills your special day shine through. Remember: keep it upbeat, keep it clean, and deliver it with confidence.
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He’s your best mate. Your partner in crime. You’re brothers in spirit, if not always in blood. And now, you’re his best man. Congratulations!
The honour of being the best man is a true testament to your friendship and the faith the groom puts in you. The best way to pay him back is to write a best man speech that will have everyone in stitches and teary-eyed at the same time.
Writing a best man’s speech might not be easy for everyone. But there’s no need to panic! Whether you were born for the stage or a little more reserved, we’ve got the best man speech ideas and examples to help you get started. Prepare to craft the perfect speech to make your guests laugh, cry, and reminisce on your best friend’s big day.
The best man speech is a speech made by the best man during the wedding reception. It should be about 5 minutes long and include some anecdotes, jokes, and your favourite memories about the groom. These stories should highlight your friendship, adventures, and any lessons you’ve learned together.
The best man’s speech is usually third in the order of speeches: first is the father of the bride’s speech; second is the groom’s speech; and third is the best man’s speech. It can be delivered after the main meal or between courses. This will give guests a break from the monotony of long speeches and capture the attention of everyone present.
Here are some key elements you should consider including in your best man speech:
Thick as thieves. Engage the guests from the get-go with captivating stories about your time with the groom. It’s the perfect time to share your adventures and describe your escapades surrounded by the people who love your groom the most. It’s important to strike the right balance between sharing your craziest moments and not embarrassing the groom too much on their special day!
Share their story. You likely knew the groom before he met his partner bride. Try sharing some stories of how they met, when he decided to propose, or when he told you they were the one. These special, intimate moments will no doubt make the couple smile and pull at the guest’s heartstrings.
A playful roast. Throw in a few light-hearted (and appropriate) jabs at the groom. Keep it clean; keep it playful. The goal is to make everyone laugh, including the groom himself. Balance the teasing with genuine admiration, support, and love, and you won’t go far wrong.
Toast the happy couple. Raise your glass and lead the crowd in a toast to the couple’s future health and happiness. It’s the perfect opportunity to end your speech on a high note and leave everyone feeling uplifted.
Following a clear structure can help you feel more confident when writing a best man’s speech. Try using this structure to get you started:
Introduction
The first part of your speech should be focused on introducing yourself and explaining your relationship to the groom. You’re his best man, but are you also his childhood best friend, partner in crime, brother, or new brother-in-law?
This is your opportunity to build rapport with your audience and share some light-hearted anecdotes about how you met or your journey so far.
Acknowledge the happy couple
Once you’ve introduced yourself, it’s time to shift your focus to the happy couple. This is the perfect opportunity to highlight how beautiful the bride looks and how much you admire her positive qualities. Express how happy you are for the newlyweds, your excitement for their special day, and explain how the bride has positively influenced the groom’s life.
Stories and anecdotes
The next portion of your speech should be concerned with sharing your favourite stories about the groom. These stories could showcase his character, quirks, and any memorable moments you’ve shared.
Balance your jokes with sincerity, ensuring the stories reflect the groom’s best qualities, highlight your friendship, and don’t embarrass him too much in front of his new family!
Reflect on your friendship
This portion of your speech should talk about how you’ve supported one another through the trials of life. You should discuss how you met, the lessons you’ve learned together, and how much your friendship means to you.
Although these types of speech may not come naturally to all, today is a sentimental day and the perfect opportunity to express your gratitude for their friendship over all these years.
Closing and toast
Now is the time to close your speech and raise a toast to the happy couple. Thank all the guests for attending, express gratitude to the couple’s parents, and end on a heartfelt note before raising your glass to the happy couple. Cheers, you did it!
Best man speech template
To help you navigate the complete breakdown of your speech, it can be helpful to have a visual guide to refer to. Check out our handy infographic below:
Don’t stress. It’s natural to feel nervous when making a speech in front of a large group. However, keep in mind that you couldn’t ask for a better audience! The guests will have already listened to two speeches, are expecting yours, and are likely to have met you before. Take deep breaths, speak slowly and clearly, and maintain eye contact with the audience. Remember, everyone is there to support you, and the couple will appreciate your efforts regardless.
Respect boundaries. Avoid sensitive or controversial topics that could offend or upset anyone in attendance. Some light-hearted roasting is appropriate, but stay away from any stories that may embarrass the couple or make them uncomfortable. If in doubt, check with the groom what stories he’s happy for you to use and disclose beforehand. This way, you can make sure he’s comfortable with the stories you’ll share while keeping your speech’s content a secret.
Practice makes perfect. As with anything – practice makes perfect! Rehearse your speech multiple times before the big day. Try practising in front of a mirror, to trusted friends, or even record yourself making the speech to watch back. This will help you feel more comfortable, ensure a smooth delivery, and help you remember the key points you want to cover. If you’re still feeling anxious, check out our speech delivery skills to help you prepare for your best man’s speech.
Toasting etiquette. This may be one of the first times you’re instigating a toast, so it’s important to have proper toasting etiquette. When raising a toast, ensure your glass is filled with the drink of your choice beforehand. This is traditionally champagne. However, prosecco or a non-alcoholic fizzy drink is also acceptable. Make eye contact with the couple and raise your glass towards them. Encourage others to join in by signalling or making a simple gesture.
If you’re looking for some inspiration, check out our top 10 examples of great best man wedding speech ideas, from the short and simple, to the funny and personal!
A lot of traditional best man speeches and examples will refer to a bride and groom, but you can simply change the references to the groom’s partner and the appropriate pronouns if you’re attending an LGBTQ+ wedding.
Speech Example 1: Best Friend’s Journey
Introduction: “Good evening, everyone! For those who don’t know me, I’m [your name], and I have the honor of standing here as [groom’s name]’s best man. We’ve been through thick and thin together, from childhood adventures to navigating the ups and downs of adulthood.”
Acknowledge the happy couple: “But today is all about celebrating the love between [groom’s name] and [partner’s name]. I’ve never seen [groom’s name] happier than when he met [partner’s name]. Their love is truly special, and I couldn’t be happier for them.”
Stories and anecdotes: “Now, let me share a couple of stories about [groom’s name]. I remember when we were kids, [groom’s name] always had an uncanny ability to get into mischief. Whether it was pranks or daring adventures, we were partners in crime. And that mischievous spirit has never left him.”
Reflect on your friendship: “As we grew older, our friendship deepened. [Groom’s name] has always been there for me, offering a helping hand and a listening ear. We’ve supported each other through heartbreaks, career challenges, and everything in between. [Groom’s name], I am truly grateful to have you as my best friend.”
Closing and toast: “In closing, I want to raise a toast to [couple’s names]. May your journey together be filled with love, laughter, and endless adventures. Cheers to the newlyweds!”
Speech Example 2: The Brother’s Tribute
Introduction: “Good evening, ladies and gentlemen! As [groom’s name]’s brother and best man, I have the privilege of sharing some stories about the man of the hour. Growing up together, I’ve witnessed his transformation from a mischievous little brother to the amazing man he is today.”
Acknowledge the happy couple: “But today is not just about [groom’s name]. It’s about celebrating the love he has found with [partner’s name]. [Partner’s name], thank you for bringing so much happiness into [groom’s name]’s life. You are truly his perfect match, and we are thrilled to have you as part of our family.”
Stories and anecdotes: “Now, let’s get to the fun part. I could tell countless stories about [groom’s name], but let me share a classic one. Remember that time when we tried to build a treehouse and ended up getting stuck? It was a true test of our problem-solving skills, and [groom’s name] never fails to surprise me with his resourcefulness.”
Reflect on your friendship: “Our bond as brothers goes beyond shared memories and adventures. [Groom’s name] has been my rock, my confidant, and my partner in crime. We’ve faced triumphs and trials together, and I am grateful for his unwavering support and friendship.”
Closing and toast: “To [couples’ names], may your love be as strong as the bond between brothers, and may your journey be filled with love, joy, and endless happiness. Here’s to a lifetime of love and laughter. Cheers!”
Speech Example 3: The Childhood Shenanigans
Introduction: “Good evening, everyone! I stand before you as [groom’s name]’s best man, and it is an honor to share some stories about our lifelong friendship. From playground adventures to adulthood, we’ve been partners in crime every step of the way.”
Acknowledge the happy couple: “But tonight, we gather to celebrate [groom’s name]’s love story with [partner’s name]. Seeing the way they light up each other’s lives is truly inspiring. [Partner’s name], thank you for loving [groom’s name] unconditionally and bringing so much joy into his life.”
Stories and anecdotes: “Let me take you back to our childhood when [groom’s name] had this uncanny ability to charm everyone around him. I remember one time we got into a little trouble at school, and [groom’s name] managed to talk our way out of it with his smooth talking and infectious smile.”
Reflect on your friendship: “Our friendship has been a constant source of support, laughter, and growth. We’ve weathered storms and celebrated milestones together. [Groom’s name], thank you for always being there for me, and I’m honored to stand by your side on this special day.”
Closing and toast: “Let us raise our glasses to [couples’ name]. May your journey together be filled with laughter, adventure, and an abundance of love. Cheers to the newlyweds!”
Speech Example 4: The Unbreakable Bond
Introduction: “Good evening, ladies and gentlemen! As [groom’s name]’s best man, it is both an honor and a privilege to stand before you today. We’ve been through countless adventures, embarrassing moments, and unforgettable experiences that have solidified our bond.”
Acknowledge the happy couple: “But today, we gather to celebrate the love between [couples’ names]. Their love is truly remarkable, and it’s an honor to witness the joy they bring to each other’s lives. [Partner’s name], thank you for loving [groom’s name] with all your heart.”
Stories and anecdotes: “Let me share a story that perfectly encapsulates [groom’s name]’s adventurous spirit. We once decided to go skydiving, and as the plane ascended, [groom’s name] turned to me and said, ‘What’s the worst that could happen?’ Needless to say, we survived, but it’s moments like these that remind me of his fearlessness.”
Reflect on your friendship: “Our friendship is built on trust, laughter, and shared experiences. Through thick and thin, we’ve been each other’s support system, offering a listening ear and a shoulder to lean on. [Groom’s name], I am grateful to have you as a best friend.”
Closing and toast: “To [couples’ names], may your love be as unbreakable as the bond between best friends. May your journey be filled with joy, laughter, and endless adventures. Cheers to the newlyweds!”
Speech Example 5: The Lifelong Journey
Introduction: “Good evening, everyone! I am honored to stand here as [groom’s name]’s best man and share some heartfelt words about our incredible journey together. From the moment we met, our friendship has been filled with laughter, support, and unforgettable moments.”
Acknowledge the happy couple: “But tonight, we gather not only to celebrate our friendship but also to celebrate the love between [couples’ names]. Their love story is a testament to the power of true love and compatibility. [Partner’s name], thank you for bringing so much happiness into [groom’s name]’s life.”
Stories and anecdotes: “Let me take you back to a hilarious memory that perfectly captures [Groom’s Name]’s wit and charm. We were on a road trip, and when we got lost, [Groom’s Name] convinced us that he had a perfect sense of direction, only to end up at the wrong destination. We laughed it off and turned it into an adventure.”
Reflect on your friendship: “Our friendship has stood the test of time, and I couldn’t be more grateful. [groom’s name] has been there for me during my highest highs and lowest lows. We’ve shared dreams, goals, and late-night conversations that have shaped who we are today.”
Closing and toast: “To [couples’ names], may your journey together be filled with love, happiness, and endless adventures. As you embark on this new chapter, know that you have a friend for life in each other. Cheers to the newlyweds!”
Speech Example 6: The Dynamic Duo
Introduction: “Good evening, ladies and gentlemen! As [groom’s name]’s best man, it’s an absolute pleasure to share some stories about our unforgettable adventures and the unbreakable bond we share.”
Acknowledge the happy couple: “But tonight, we’re not only celebrating [groom’s name]’s journey but also the love between him and [partner’s name]. [Partner’s name], thank you for accepting [groom’s name] and becoming an integral part of our dynamic duo.”
Stories and anecdotes: “Let me share a story that perfectly captures our mischievous side. We once decided to crash a karaoke night, and let’s just say our rendition of a classic hit cleared the room in record time. We may not be the next American Idol, but we sure know how to have a good time.”
Reflect on your friendship: “Throughout the years, [groom’s name] has been more than a friend to me – he’s been a brother. We’ve supported each other through thick and thin, celebrated victories, and picked each other up during the tough times. [Groom’s name], thank you for always having my back.”
Closing and toast: “To [couples’ names], may your journey together be filled with laughter, love, and endless adventures. May you continue to be the dynamic duo that lights up every room you enter. Cheers to the newlyweds!”
Speech Example 7: The Epic Bromance
Introduction: “Good evening, everyone! I stand before you as [groom’s name]’s best man and partner-in-crime. Our bromance has weathered the test of time, and today, I have the honor of sharing some memorable moments with all of you.”
Acknowledge the happy couple: “But tonight, we’re not just celebrating our epic bromance. We’re here to celebrate the love between [couples’ names]. [Partner’s name], thank you for bringing out the best in [groom’s name] and being the one who truly completes him.”
Stories and anecdotes: “Now, let me take you back to a legendary moment that embodies our bromance. We once decided to participate in a hot chili eating contest, thinking we were invincible. Let’s just say the aftermath was not pretty, but it’s a story we laugh about to this day.”
Reflect on your friendship: “[Groom’s name] has been more than a best friend; he’s been a brother to me. We’ve laughed, cried, and conquered challenges together. His unwavering support and loyalty have been a constant source of inspiration in my life.”
Closing and toast: “To [couples’ names], may your journey together be filled with love, adventure, and the same epic bromance you’ve shared with each other. Here’s to a lifetime of happiness and unforgettable moments. Cheers to the newlyweds!”
Speech 8: Ride or Die
Introduction: “Good evening, everyone! As [groom’s name]’s best man, I have the pleasure of sharing some stories about our incredible bond. We’ve been through it all together, and today, I want to celebrate that bond and the love between [couples’ names].”
Acknowledge the happy couple: “But first, let’s raise a toast to the lovebirds. [Partner’s name], thank you for not only capturing [groom’s name]’s heart but also for accepting us, his loyal friends, into your life. Your love for each other is inspiring, and we couldn’t be happier for you.”
Stories and anecdotes: “Let me take you back to a wild adventure that epitomises our ride-or-die mentality. We once decided to embark on a spontaneous road trip with no destination in mind. It may not have been the most well-planned journey, but the memories we created along the way are priceless.”
Reflect on your friendship: “Our friendship is built on trust, loyalty, and a shared love for spontaneity. [Groom’s name] has always been the one person I can count on, no matter the circumstances. He’s been there through the highs and lows, reminding me that we’re in this together.”
Closing and toast: “To [couples’ names], may your journey together be filled with unwavering love, unforgettable adventures, and the same ride-or-die friendship that has brought us all here today. Cheers to the newlyweds!”
Speech 9: The Comedy Duo
Introduction: “Ladies and gentlemen, good evening! As [groom’s name]’s best man, I have the pleasure of sharing some hilarious moments that capture the essence of our friendship. Laughter has been the foundation of our bond, and tonight, I want to celebrate that laughter and the love between [couples’ names].”
Acknowledge the happy couple: “But before we dive into the comedy, let’s take a moment to celebrate the lovebirds. [Partner’s name], thank you for embracing [groom’s name]’s sense of humor and bringing even more laughter into his life. Your love story is like a romantic comedy we all want to watch.”
Stories and anecdotes: “Let me transport you to a moment of pure comedy gold. We once decided to take an impromptu dance class, thinking we were the next Fred Astaire and Ginger Rogers. Let’s just say we were far from graceful, but the laughter we shared was priceless.”
Reflect on your friendship: “Our friendship has been a constant source of fun and joy. [Groom’s name] has the incredible ability to make any situation hilarious, and his infectious laughter is contagious. I’m grateful for the countless memories we’ve created together.”
Closing and toast: “To [couples’ names], may your journey together be filled with endless laughter and joyful moments. May you continue to be each other’s comedic partners for life. Cheers to the newlyweds!”
Speech Example 10: The Supportive Sidekick
Introduction: “Good evening, everyone! As [groom’s name]’s best man, it is an absolute honor to be by his side on this special day. We’ve been each other’s support system, cheerleaders, and partners in crime, and today, I want to celebrate our friendship and the love between [couples’ names].”
Acknowledge the happy couple: “But first, let us raise a toast to the happy couple. [Partner’s name], thank you for being the love of [groom’s name]’s life and for being the perfect match for him. Your unwavering support and belief in him have made him a better person.”
Stories and anecdotes: “Let me take you back to a moment when [groom’s name] showed incredible courage and determination. We decided to go skydiving together, and as the plane door opened at 10,000 feet, I could see the mix of excitement and nervousness on [groom’s name]’s face. But he took a deep breath, stepped out into the open sky, and embraced the exhilarating freefall. It was a testament to his courage and willingness to embrace new experiences.”
Reflect on your friendship: “Our friendship has stood the test of time and distance. [Groom’s name] has been my rock, always there to lend a listening ear, offer advice, and provide unwavering support. He’s taught me the value of friendship and loyalty.”
Closing and toast: “To [couples’ names], may your journey together be filled with love, support, and countless shared adventures. May you continue to be each other’s biggest supporters and find strength in your love. Cheers to the newlyweds!”
The best man speech is the perfect opportunity to share stories of your adventures, honour the groom on his big day, and celebrate the newlyweds’ love.
To write a killer speech, throw in a few (respectful) jokes, compliment the groom’s partner, and keep an upbeat pace. These tips will help you strike a balance between comedy and sincerity and ensure that you leave a lasting impression on their wedding day.
Leave plenty of time to write your speech and look up plenty of best man speech examples. Whether you’re the groom’s brother, friend, or new brother-in-law, these top 10 best man speech examples are sure to inspire your writing.
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The father of the bride’s speech is the top Daddy duty on your little girl’s big day. It’s a much-anticipated, heartfelt, and tear-jerking speech filled with joy and bittersweet nostalgia.
But writing a great father of the bride speech can be tricky. How do you strike the right balance between wit and sentimentality? How do you keep your audience engaged after a long wedding service? How do you properly capture your love, pride, and hope for their future in one 5-7 minute speech? Don’t stress. We’ve got you covered.
In this post, we’ve captured everything you need to know about writing a heartfelt and funny wedding speech. We break down what you should include, the structure of the wedding speech, a few top tips, and those 10 all-important examples of brilliant father of the bride speeches.
A father of the bride speech is the speech made by the bride’s father during the wedding reception. It should be 5-7 minutes long and end with a heartfelt toast to the new couple.
The father’s wedding speech is a beautiful mix of happy memories, heartfelt advice, and funny anecdotes about the bride. Typically the father of the bride speech welcomes your new son-or daughter-in-law to the family, is an opportunity for a father to reflect on his relationship with his daughter, and offers some words of wisdom to the happy couple as they start this new journey together.
What should you include in a father of the bride speech?
Here are some key elements you should consider including in your father of the bride speech:
All about the bride. Talk about how wonderful your daughter is. Tell her guests about your love for her, her amazing accomplishments, and fabulous qualities. Be sure to let them know she got it all from you!
Welcome the bride’s partner. This is the perfect opportunity to welcome your new son- or daughter-in-law to the family. Share positive thoughts about them, their character, and your hopes for their future together.
Anecdotes and memories. Remember when your daughter came home a little too merry from her first grown-up party? Or the time she went on holiday and didn’t take any knickers? This is the perfect opportunity to share funny, endearing, or slightly embarrassing memories with your daughter. But remember, the point isn’t to make a joke of her on her special day. Any stories you pick should ultimately highlight the special bond you share.
Some pearls of wisdom and advice. Offer some sage words of wisdom to the newlyweds. Draw from your life experience and share insights about love, marriage, and building a strong, lasting relationship.
When structuring your father of the bride speech, following a clear and organised framework can be helpful. Try using this structure to get you started:
Introduction
The first part of your speech should focus on introducing yourself and thanking everyone for attending. Your role is to ensure that everyone feels welcome and appreciated at the reception.
Take a moment to acknowledge and express gratitude to those who have travelled to attend and those who have supported the wedding, whether morally or financially.
The thank yous
You should then move on to thank those who have helped organise the wedding. Give a shout-out to the bridesmaids, the ushers, and other friends and family who have been involved.
It’s also a nice idea to thank the wedding planner (if they used one) and the staff working on the wedding day. They’re as much a part of making the big day happen as everyone else.
This is also a good opportunity to remember any family members who could not attend or are no longer with you. Keep it upbeat, but it’s a nice way to remember those you’ve lost who were a big part of your daughter’s upbringing.
The bride
Now is the time to discuss your special relationship with your daughter. It’s the perfect chance to talk about her childhood, accomplishments, and the little quirks that make her so special. Share any funny stories or special adventures you’ve shared. These anecdotes will add a touch of nostalgia and humor to your speech, creating a heartfelt connection with the audience.
End this portion of the speech with how proud you are of the person she’s become. Talk about her loving relationship with her new partner, and don’t forget to sprinkle in a genuine compliment about how stunning she looks on her wedding day – a moment that will surely make her smile even brighter.
The happy couple
You should then welcome your new son- or daughter-in-law and their parents to your family.
It’s a great time to talk about the groom and your experiences with them. You can reminisce about the first time you met, share funny moments you’ve shared together, or highlight some of their endearing traits. By including the groom in your speech, you’re showing your support and building a bridge of connection between families.
Some words of wisdom
You should then move on to sharing some pearls of wisdom with the newlyweds.
You can draw from your experiences and the lessons you’ve learned along the way. You can talk about love, commitment, their future, and building a strong family.
If it’s more appropriate, some carefully chosen quotes about love and marriage or a nice reading are also great options. Remember to deliver your words with clarity and calmness, whatever path you choose. This is the penultimate part of your speech; you want to round it off well.
The toast
You should then invite everyone to join you in a toast to the happy couple. Raise your glass, and present the couple with their new shared name. Congratulations, you did it!
Father of the bride speech template
To help you navigate the complete breakdown of your speech, it can be helpful to have a visual guide to refer to. Check out our handy infographic below:
Use this father of the bride speech template to guide your writing
Top tips for delivering a brilliant father of the bride speech
Know where you fit into the overall wedding speech order. The father of the bride traditionally gives the first speech at the wedding reception. That means you go before the groom’s speech and are the first family member to address the guest. How you deliver your speech will set the tone for the rest of the reception, so keep it upbeat, funny, and light-hearted.
Don’t panic! Pre-speech jitters are natural. But remember, this is one of the best audiences you could be put in front of. Everyone there knows your daughter or her new partner, and everyone is there to celebrate and have a good time. Embrace the excitement and joy of the moment, and let that energy carry you through your speech.
Let your own personality shine through. This is a unique opportunity to connect with the audience on a personal level using charm and wit. Inject your speech with your personal touch, sharing heartfelt stories, cherished memories, and insights only you can provide. Embrace your authentic self and let your love for your daughter be the guiding light in your words.
Include a few jokes. Humor can lighten the mood, enhance feelings of joy, and engage the audience. Keep the jokes tasteful and relevant to the occasion. Share some light-hearted anecdotes or playful teasing about the bride or groom, keeping it in good spirits. It’s about making the audience smile and creating connections on this special day.
If you’re looking for some inspiration, check out our top 10 examples of great father of the bride speech ideas, from the simple and sentimental to the light-hearted and humorous. And remember that these are just examples. You can use them as templates for your own speech, but it’s important to speak from the heart, and add your own personal touch and unique family anecdotes.
A lot of traditional father of the bride speeches and examples will refer to a bride and groom, but you can simply change the references to your daughter’s partner and the appropriate pronouns if you’re attending an LGBTQ+ wedding.
Speech Example 1: The Classic Touch
Introduction: “Good evening, ladies and gentlemen. I am [your name], the proud father of the bride. On behalf of my partner, [partner’s name], and our entire family, I want to extend a warm welcome and express our deepest gratitude for joining us on this joyous occasion.”
The thank yous: “We would like to take a moment to thank all of you who have travelled from near and far to be here today. Your presence means the world to us. We are also incredibly grateful to our friends and family who have contributed their time, support, and resources to make this day possible.”
The bride: “As I stand here today, I can’t help but reflect on the beautiful journey my daughter, [bride’s name], has taken. From the first time she wrapped her tiny fingers around mine to the accomplished woman she has become, it has been an honor to witness her growth. [Bride’s name], you radiate love and happiness, and I’m so proud to call you my daughter.”
The happy couple: “Now, let me welcome our new son-in-law, [groom’s name], and his wonderful parents [parents’ names]. From the moment we met [groom’s name], we knew he was the perfect match for [daughter’s name]. His kindness, sense of humor, and unwavering love for her have brought us immeasurable joy. We are thrilled to officially welcome him into our family.”
Some words of wisdom: “As you begin this new chapter together, my wish for you is to always cherish and respect one another. Remember to communicate openly, be each other’s biggest cheerleaders, and embrace the journey that lies ahead. May your love continue to grow stronger with each passing day.”
The toast: “Please join me in raising a glass to [couple’s names]. May your lives be filled with an abundance of love, laughter, and countless beautiful memories. To the newlyweds!”
Speech Example 2: The Light-hearted Twist
Introduction: “Good evening, everyone! For those who don’t know me, I’m [your name], the proud father of the bride. Before we dive into the heartfelt moments, let’s take a moment to appreciate the fact that my jokes will be the second-best thing tonight. The first, of course, being my daughter, [bride’s name]!”
The thank yous: “I want to express my deepest gratitude to each and every one of you for gracing us with your presence today. We truly appreciate your love and support. A special thank you goes to our wedding planner, [planner’s name], for transforming our vision into reality, and to the incredible staff who have worked tirelessly to make this day unforgettable.”
The bride: “[Bride’s name], my sweet daughter, it feels like just yesterday you were teaching me how to change nappies. Today, I stand here in awe of the remarkable woman you’ve become. Your determination, kindness, and ability to put up with my terrible jokes are truly admirable. You look absolutely stunning, and I couldn’t be prouder of you.”
The happy couple: “Now, let’s welcome the man who has stolen [bride’s name] heart and made her laugh louder than I ever could…[groom’s name]! From the first time we met, I knew [groom’s name] was the one for our girl. His genuine heart, contagious smile, and endless dad joke repertoire instantly won me over. [Groom’s name], welcome to our more than slightly eccentric family!”
Some words of wisdom: “As you embark on this incredible journey together, remember that laughter is the secret ingredient to a happy marriage. Life will throw challenges your way, but facing them with humor and a dash of silliness will make them more bearable. Keep making each other laugh, and your love will always shine bright.”
The toast: “Ladies and gentlemen, please raise your glasses as we celebrate the union of [couples’ names]. May your lives be filled with never-ending laughter, adventure, and joy. To the bride and groom!”
Speech Example 3: The Sentimental Tribute
Introduction: “Good evening, everyone. I’m [your name], the father of the bride. Today, we gather to celebrate love, family, and the beautiful journey that lies ahead. Thank you all for joining us on this momentous occasion.”
The thank yous: “Before we proceed, I want to express our heartfelt appreciation to each of you for being here today. Your love, support, and presence mean the world to us. We are also immensely grateful to the incredible team of suppliers who have worked tirelessly to create this magical day.”
The bride: “As I look at my radiant daughter, [bride’s name], I am reminded of all the cherished memories we have shared. From tea parties to late-night heart-to-heart conversations, she has filled my life with immeasurable joy. Samantha, you are not only a beautiful bride but also a remarkable woman, and I am so proud to be your father.”
The happy couple: “Now, let’s welcome [groom’s name], the man who has captured [bride’s name]’s heart. From the moment I met [groom’s name], I knew he was someone truly special. His unwavering love, loyalty, and devotion to [bride’s name] are evident in every interaction. [Groom’s name], today, we gain a son, and I couldn’t be happier.”
Some words of wisdom: “As you begin this incredible journey together, my advice to you is to always choose love. Cherish one another, celebrate your shared dreams, and support each other through life’s ups and downs. May your love continue to grow and flourish, and may your marriage be filled with endless happiness.”
The toast: “Please raise your glasses as we toast to the happiness and love of [couples’ names]. May your hearts always beat as one, and may your lives be filled with infinite love, laughter, and beautiful memories. To the newlyweds!”
Speech Example 4: The Quirky Antics
Introduction: “Good evening, everyone! I’m [your name], and I have the incredible honor of being the father of the bride. I must warn you, though, my sense of humor can be a bit questionable. So, brace yourselves for a few dad jokes along the way!”
The thank yous: “I want to take a moment to express my heartfelt gratitude to each of you for joining us today. Your presence here is a testament to the love and support our families and friends have showered upon us. We also extend our appreciation to the catering staff for keeping our bellies full and the dance floor energetic!”
The bride: “My beautiful daughter, [bride’s name], has always been full of surprises. From her knack for disappearing in supermarkets to her endless passion for art, she has brought laughter and adventure into our lives. [Bride’s name], you are a brilliant artist and an extraordinary woman. Seeing you as a radiant bride today fills my heart with overwhelming pride.”
The happy couple: “Let’s give a warm welcome to [bride’s name] partner in crime, [groom’s name], and his amazing parents, [parents’ names]. [Groom’s name], I have watched you and [bride’s name] create countless memories together – some hilarious, others heartwarming. Your shared sense of humor and love for adventure make you a perfect match. Welcome to our wonderfully wacky family!”
Some words of wisdom: “As you embark on this exciting journey of married life, my advice is to never stop embracing your inner child. Laugh together, play pranks, and find joy in the little things. May your marriage be filled with endless laughter, happiness, and a dash of mischief.”
The toast: “Please raise your glasses high as we toast to the incredible bond of [couples’ names]. May your lives be blessed with a lifetime of laughter, love, and whimsical adventures. Cheers to the newlyweds!”
Speech Example 5: The Poetic Musings
Introduction: “Greetings, dear friends and family. I am James, the proud father of the bride, and it is an absolute delight to see you all gathered here today to celebrate the love between our families.”
The thank yous: “Before we proceed, I want to express our deepest gratitude to everyone who has played a part in making this day truly magical. From our extended family to the dedicated team of suppliers, your contributions have made this celebration possible.”
The bride: “As I stand here, my heart swells with love and admiration for my daughter, [bride’s name]. From the day she was born, I knew she was destined for greatness. [Bride’s name], you have blossomed into a strong, compassionate woman, and witnessing your growth has been the greatest privilege of my life.”
The happy couple: “Let us warmly welcome [bride’s name] partner in life, [groom’s name], and his wonderful parents, [parents’ names]. [Groom’s name], from the moment we met, your kind heart and unwavering devotion to [bride’s name] have touched our souls. We are overjoyed to welcome you into our family with open arms.”
Some words of wisdom: “As you embark on this remarkable journey together, my dear [couples’ names], I offer you this advice: nurture your love like a garden. Plant the seeds of trust, water it with patience, and watch it bloom into a beautiful oasis of love and happiness.”
The toast: “Ladies and gentlemen, let us raise our glasses in celebration of [couples’ names]. May your love be as timeless as the stars, as pure as a morning sunrise, and as enduring as the ocean waves. To the happily married couple!”
Speech Example 6: The Thoughtful Reflection
Introduction: “Good evening, everyone. I am [your name], the father of the bride, and it warms my heart to see all of your smiling faces as we gather here to celebrate love and family.”
The thank yous: “Before we continue, I would like to express our sincere gratitude to each and every one of you for joining us today. Your presence is a true testament to the love and support our families have received throughout the years.”
The bride: “As I look at my daughter, [bride’s name], standing before me today, I am reminded of the beautiful journey we have shared. From her first steps to her achievements as a confident, compassionate woman, every moment has been a blessing. [Bride’s name], you are the embodiment of grace and strength, and I am incredibly proud to be your father.”
The happy couple: “Please join me in welcoming [groom’s name], the man who has captured [bride’s name] heart and become an integral part of our family. [Groom’s name], your love for [bride’s name] shines through in everything you do. Your kindness, intelligence, and unwavering support have touched us deeply. Welcome to our family, [groom’s name].”
Some words of wisdom: “As you begin this new chapter together, I offer you this advice: never underestimate the power of small acts of kindness. Embrace empathy, forgiveness, and patience in your journey. Remember that a single act of love can have a ripple effect, changing lives and bringing light to the world.”
The toast: “Let us raise our glasses high as we toast to the love, commitment, and future happiness of [couples’ names]. May your hearts always be filled with love, and may your path be blessed with joy, understanding, and a lifetime of shared dreams. To the newlyweds!”
Speech Example 7: The Personal Reflection
Introduction: “Good evening, everyone. I am [your name], the father of the bride, and it fills my heart with joy to see all of you gathered here today to celebrate this remarkable moment.”
The thank yous: “Before we continue, I want to express our deepest gratitude to each and every one of you for being here. Your presence is a testament to the love and support we have received throughout this journey.”
The bride: “My daughter, [bride’s name], has always been a ray of sunshine in our lives. From her infectious laughter to her unwavering determination, she has brought immense happiness into our family. [Bride’s name], your strength, resilience, and beautiful spirit make me immensely proud to call you my daughter.”
The happy couple: “Let us warmly welcome [groom’s name], the man who has swept [bride]s name] off her feet and into a world of love and adventure. [Groom’s name], from the first moment I saw the sparkle in [bride’s name]’s eyes whenever she was with you, I knew you were the one. Your kindness, integrity, and love for [bride’s name] are truly extraordinary.”
Some words of wisdom: “As you embark on this journey together, my wish for you is to never lose sight of the importance of cherishing one another. Treasure every moment, celebrate your successes, and support each other through life’s challenges. May your love be the guiding light that illuminates your path.”
The toast: “Please raise your glasses as we toast to [couples’ names], two souls destined to be together. May your love continue to grow and flourish, and may your journey be filled with unending joy, love, and shared dreams. To the happily married couple!”
Speech Example 8: The Humorous One
Introduction: “Hello, everyone! I’m [your name], the proud father of the bride, and I must say, it’s an incredible honor to stand before you all today. Now, don’t worry – I promise to keep my speech sweet and simple, and certainly shorter than the time it takes for my daughter to get ready!”
The thank yous: “Before we proceed with the fun, let’s take a moment to express our gratitude. Thank you all for joining us on this special day. Your presence means the world to us, and we appreciate the love and support you’ve shown our family.”
The bride: “Today, I have the pleasure of talking about my daughter, [bride’s name]. From her mischievous pranks as a child to her caring and determined nature as an adult, she has always kept us on our toes. [Bride’s name], your free spirit and zest for life inspire me every day. You look lovely and I couldn’t be prouder.
The happy couple: “Now, let’s give a warm welcome to [bride’s name]’s partner in crime, [groom’s name], and his amazing parents, [parents’ names]. Ethan, from the first time I met you, I knew you were the perfect match for our adventurous girl. Your shared love for hiking, pizza, and terrible puns solidified my belief in true love. Welcome to our quirky family!”
Some words of wisdom: “As you embark on this crazy rollercoaster called marriage, remember to embrace the silly moments, laugh at each other’s quirks, and never take yourselves too seriously. May your marriage be filled with laughter, inside jokes, and an endless supply of funny GIFs.”
The toast: “Ladies and gentlemen, please raise your glasses as we toast to the love, laughter, and happily ever after of [couples’ names]. May your lives be a series of amusing anecdotes and unforgettable adventures. Cheers to the newlyweds!”
Speech Example 9: The Heartfelt Journey
Introduction: “Good evening, everyone! I am [your name], the proud father of the bride, and it fills my heart with joy to welcome you all here today as we celebrate the love between [couples’ names].”
The thank yous: “Before we continue, I want to express our deepest gratitude to all of you for being a part of this joyous occasion. Your presence and support mean the world to us, and we are grateful for the love that surrounds our families.”
The bride: “Today, I stand before you with overwhelming pride as I talk about my daughter, [bride’s name]. From her first steps to her academic achievements, she has always impressed us with her determination and compassion. [Bride’s name], you are an extraordinary woman, and seeing you as a beautiful bride today fills my heart with immense joy.”
The happy couple: “Let us warmly welcome [groom’s name] into our family. From the moment I met him, I knew he was the perfect match for [bride’s name]. His intelligence, kindness, and unwavering support have made our daughter’s life even more radiant. [Groom’s name], thank you for loving [bride’s name] and bringing such happiness into her life.”
Some words of wisdom: “As you begin this incredible journey together, remember that a strong marriage is built on love, trust, and communication. Cherish and respect one another, be each other’s biggest supporters, and face the challenges of life as a team. May your love grow deeper and stronger with each passing day.”
The toast: “Please raise your glasses high as we toast to the happiness and love of [couples’ names]. May your days be filled with endless love, laughter, and shared dreams. To the newlyweds!”
Speech Example 10: The Genuine Connection
Introduction: “Ladies and gentlemen, good evening. I am [your name], the proud father of the bride, and I want to thank you all for joining us today to celebrate the love between [couples’ names]. Your presence here is deeply appreciated.”
The thank yous: “Before we continue, I would like to extend my heartfelt gratitude to everyone who has contributed to this beautiful day. From the family and friends who have travelled far to be here to the dedicated wedding team who have made everything run smoothly, thank you all.”
The bride: “As I stand here today, reminiscing about the beautiful moments we’ve shared, I can’t help but feel an overwhelming sense of pride for my daughter, [bride’s name]. From her first steps to her accomplishments as a talented writer, [bride’s name] has always radiated warmth, creativity, and love. [Bride’s name], you are a shining light in our lives, and I couldn’t be prouder.”
The happy couple: “Let’s take a moment to welcome [groom’s name] into our family. From the first time I met him, I knew he was a kind-hearted, genuine person. His love for [bride’s name] is evident in every glance, every smile they share. [Bride’s name], thank you for bringing happiness and love into [bride’s name]’s life. We are over the moon to have you as part of our family.”
Some words of wisdom: “As you embark on this incredible journey together, my wish for you is to always cherish the small moments. Life is made up of a million tiny fragments, and it’s in those fragments that love thrives. Embrace each other’s quirks, be each other’s confidants, and build a home filled with love, laughter, and endless memories.”
The toast: “Let us raise our glasses high to celebrate the love and future of [couples’ names]. May your lives be filled with happiness, love, and countless shared adventures. Cheers to the newlyweds!”
Start planning your father of the bride speech today!
The father of the bride speech is one of the most anticipated parts of the wedding reception. It’s your chance to tell the world how amazing your little girl is and how proud you are of her.
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