Top Tips For LGBTQ+ Weddings

Here at Bridebook, we’re on a mission to make the wedding planning journey as joyful as possible for all engaged couples. That means every couple, everywhere. Every couple should be able to share their love and commitment with the world in whatever way they want. But with so much advice still influenced by heteronormative wedding traditions, it can be hard to work out how your wedding is going to unfold. That’s why we’ve put together a few top tips to help you rip up the rulebook and plan the celebration of the century.

Finding Your Perfect Match

Photo © Tony Pullen Photographer (shot at Chapel House Estate)

First up, let’s talk finding your venue. For any couple, this is almost always one of the very first steps in the wedding planning process. So if you’re an LGBTQ+ couple looking for your perfect match, where should you start? Well, we can recommend Chapel House Estate in Kent, Ashdown Park Hotel & Country Club in East Sussex, The Wellbeing Farm in Greater Manchester, Tredudwell Manor in Cornwall and Ox Pasture Hall in North Yorkshire as just a few fabulous venues that foreground their support of the LGBTQ+ community.

But if none of those are for you, The Wellbeing Farm suggests paying close attention to “the way the staff speak to you and ask what you want in  your wedding. If they treat you like any other couple, then you know you’ve got a venue with your [best] interests at heart.” Your venue’s staff, as well as the rest of your wedding suppliers, will be a huge part of your big day – so it’s important to make sure you feel completely supported by them.

Ditching Tradition

Photo © Tony Pullen Photographer (shot at Chapel House Estate)

We’d also recommend finding a venue which, like Chapel House Estate and The Wellbeing Farm, is ready to be as flexible as possible when it comes to you as a couple and what you want for your wedding. After all, one of the best things about an LGBTQ+ wedding is the complete freedom you have to design your perfect day – so make sure to take advantage of this!

Want to put your own spin on some or all of the traditions of heterosexual weddings? Go for it! Why not make up your own names for the members of your wedding party – no “best man” or “maid of honour” needed! And if you want “traditional” wedding photography, you might want to think about finding a photographer who specialises in LGBTQ+ weddings. They’ll know exactly how to adapt all the poses for you and your partner – and, most importantly, be able to make you both feel at ease in front of the camera.

Equally, you could ditch all the traditions and do your own thing instead! At your reception, you might want to abandon traditional seating arrangements and mix up the order in which the speeches are given. And if you don’t feel like you need to be “given away”, consider walking down the aisle alone, with a friend – or even with your partner. The Wellbeing Farm told us about one wedding they hosted where “the couple vogued down the aisle to RuPaul and had a drag queen in the evening” – while at another, there were “Star Wars character walking around!”

Expert Top Tips

Photo © Tony Pullen Photographer (shot at Chapel House Estate)
Chapel House Estate firmly believes that “love is love, and everyone deserves the opportunity to marry their soulmate.” But they also recognise that “for LGBTQ + couples, wedding planning can be extra challenging”. That’s why it’s helpful to look out for suppliers that are true LGBTQ+ experts. So here are their top tips  on how to plan the perfect LGBTQ+ wedding.
 
  • Firstly, it’s important to find a venue that is welcoming to not only you but all your guests, so look to see if they have a diversity statement and check that the venue’s pictures are inclusive.
  • Ask yourselves if you want a small and intimate wedding or a large and lavish wedding and set a budget accordingly. 
  • Define what kind of wedding you want for example an outdoor orchard wedding at a venue with a back up plan – we are in England after all!
  • Decide whether you want to get married where all your friends have got married, or to be brave and marry at an undiscovered wedding venue.
  • Talk to vendors and book LGBTQ+ friendly suppliers and create a beautiful day with vendors you love spending time with.
  • Lastly, don’t be afraid to be creative with your wedding traditions. You can go traditional or get creative and add new elements that celebrates your love and commitment to each other.

Love Is Love

Photo © Tony Pullen Photographer (shot at Chapel House Estate)

For us here at Bridebook, we feel honoured to work in an industry that celebrates love – whatever form it comes in. And, as The Wellbeing Farm explains, this should be the case across the wedding industry where inclusivity is “not just relevant, it’s crucial. Ultimately, who gives a fig who loves who? Person A loves Person B, and they want to spend the rest of their lives with each other. Love doesn’t discriminate – so why should anyone else?”

We couldn’t have put it better ourselves. ❤️ 🧡 💛 💚 💙 💜

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Lily and Matthew – Real Wedding (Elegant Winter Wedding)

 

Faye and Adam Hughes in the church getting married
Lily and Matthew  – Real Wedding (Elegant Winter Wedding)

Lily and Matthew had an elegant winter wedding in East Yorkshire at Rise Hall, it was a beautiful day.

Lily and Matt’s wedding was held in late February and was a celebration of family. Staying at Rise Hall during their wedding made it so relaxed and this is reflective in the memories captured. Also the black and white colour scheme was classic and elegant. They had so much fun during their day!

Catering: Dine Catering events @dine.co.uk, @dinevenues @risehall

Cake Provider: Cakes by Mrs O [email protected] @cakesbymrso

Music: The Nashville Heat – [email protected] – www.facebook.com/thenashvilleheat www.thenashvilleheat.co.uk

Hairdresser: Flourish Hair dressing [email protected] @flourishhairdressing

Makeup Artist: RL Make Up and Beauty [email protected] @rebeccalouise_makeupandbeauty

Colours: Black, White and Gold| Styles: Classic, Country, Glamorous and Luxury

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Patchwork’s Top 10 Wedding Gift Ideas

Whether you’re planning to ask for the items you might expect from a traditional wedding gift list, charitable donations or cash contributions (the most popular option for couples right now), just remember – whatever you do, don’t say, “No gifts!”

(Unless you’re going for the world record for the biggest collection of salad servers. In which case, you do you!)

We promise, your guests will want to treat you! It’s your wedding day, after all. So help them be sure they’re giving you something that’ll make you both happy, whether that’s helping you go on the honeymoon of a lifetime, put in that brand new kitchen you’ve been dreaming about or enjoy a year of date nights together. With a cash gift registry, you can ask for literally anything – and you have the freedom to spend your money when, where and how you want!

To help you get started, we asked the team over at Patchwork Gift Registry for their expert insight into the latest wedding gift trends and what they’re expecting couples to ask for in 2022/23.

Patchwork Gift Registry's template for "A Year of Dates"  wedding gift list

1) It’s Date Night!

One of the biggest trends we saw in wedding gifting last year was couples asking guests to chip in for a “year of dates” instead of a traditional honeymoon – and it’s set to continue throughout 2022/23. With travel remaining tricky, many newlyweds are after some R&R a little closer to home. You might go for dinner at a Michelin-starred restaurant, have a laugh at a comedy night, organise bike hire for a day’s cycling in the country or get away from it all for a night at a spa hotel. Whatever you do, this is the wedding gift that keeps giving for a whole year!

Setting up a cash gift list for date nights gives you flexibility in when, where and how you spend your wedding gift money. Not to mention, you’ll get to enjoy some super special time together thanks to the love of your friends and family!

Patchwork Gift Registry's template for "A Home of Our Own" wedding gift list

2) Home Sweet Home

While more and more couples are already living together when they tie the knot, many are still dreaming of owning their first home together. Every penny counts when it comes to saving up for the deposit on a first home – so why not let your guests help out?

Let your guests know your plans and what it would mean to have their support. You might want to break down your cash registry into smaller chunks so your loved ones can fund something specific: £500 towards the roof, £200 on the front door, £20 for a new door knocker…

You’ll have the keys in no time – and once you do, you can invite them all round for dinner so they can admire (and enjoy!) their gift too!

3) A Few of Our Favourite Things

Another trend popular among couples keen to stay closer to home is a gift list made up of all their favourite things to do together. What’s especially great about this option is everything on the list can be enjoyed anywhere, at any time. Plus, they’re the things we don’t usually treat ourselves to… and your wedding is the perfect time to indulge!

What are some of our top ideas for a “favourite things” gift registry? We love a subscription box, whether that’s for craft beer, local cheese, organic veg or beautiful flowers. You could also ask for a couple’s massage, a “spa at home” experience or even personal training sessions. Or, if you’re a couple with kids, there’s always the greatest luxury of all – babysitting!

Patchwork Gift Registry's template for "Our Roof Garden" wedding gift list

4) Get Green Fingered!

Why not make your dreams of a gorgeous garden come true? Instead of traditional gifts, consider asking your guests to give you plants, trees or bulbs to plant and enjoy for years to come.

To make things extra special, guests could choose plants that contain their name, hold a special meaning for them or are in some way a reminder of your relationship. Another idea we love is for guests to chip in for an entertaining area in your outside space. You could add options for guests to help fund garden furniture, a barbecue, a hammock or a fire pit. Or ask for donations of help in the garden from your more green-fingered friends for a gift list that isn’t just about physical gifts but sharing time and skills too!

5) Home and Away

If you can’t decide between a much-needed honeymoon and treating yourselves to some new homeware, why not combine the two in a “home and away” gift list? Give guests the option to choose between contributing to your far-flung adventures or buying you some fluffy new towels – or both, of course!

Opting for a combination of honeymoon and homeware is perfect for couples who aren’t sure when they’ll be able to get away for a honeymoon – but would love some home comforts while they plan!

6) The Wedding Day!

So you really do have it all? Well, if you’ve got everything you need and the only thing you want is to finally tie the knot, a “friend-funded” wedding could be the perfect solution!

Recent events have caused many couples to postpone their weddings once, twice or even more. With deposits lost or other unexpected financial difficulties, some couples have struggled to get their celebrations back on track. But there’s good news! We’ve seen thoughtful friends and family come together to set up wedding registries where the wedding day itself is the gift.

Guests might chip in towards venue hire, pay the cost of catering, help fund the photographer or even buy the wedding cake! This is a truly special gift that allows couples to have the day they’ve been dreaming of – while involving everyone in a really meaningful way. It’s a gift that can be enjoyed by everyone and a chance to come together to create memories that will last forever.

Patchwork Gift Registry's template for "National Trust Lifetime Membership" wedding gift list

7) A Lifetime Membership

This is a gift that literally lasts a lifetime – and does good too! National Trust or English Heritage membership is a gift that keeps giving, offering you the chance to enjoy endless days out together. It’s your ticket to a lifetime filled with stately homes, fairytale castles, country garden strolls and cream teas! And you’ll be helping protect unforgettable places for future generations – so you and your guests can feel extra good about this zero-waste, eco-friendly gift.

At £2130 for an English Heritage lifetime membership and £2160 for a National Trust lifetime membership (both for two people), these are easily doable with a cash gift registry, allowing your friends and family to chip in towards the membership. You might even have some money left over for some new walking boots… and a lifetime supply of tea and cake!

Patchwork Gift Registry's template for "Our Wedding Art Fund" wedding gift list

8) Get Artsy

If you’re not short of stuff but still want to add something special to your home, you might like this idea! Invite your loved ones to join forces to fund a unique painting or sculpture by your favourite artist.

Art is timeless, and this is a gift that will last forever and stay with you always. In years to come, you’ll be able to look at your beautiful artwork and think of the family and friends who made it happen, no matter where you are. It’s a wonderful way to remember the day you all spent together, celebrating your marriage.

9) Go Green

Over the past few years, we’ve definitely seen a trend for couples wanting more eco-friendly, sustainable and pre-loved vintage gifts. But these aren’t so easy to put on a traditional gift list. Instead, a cash wedding registry is the best way to make sure you have the freedom and flexibility to source the one-of-a-kind pieces you’ve got your heart set on.

From ethically-sourced furnishing fabrics to reclaimed wooden future and recycled cotton bedlinens to antique treasures, the options are endless. A cash gift list lets you collect the money, then enjoy some sustainable shopping at your local flea market or vintage store. Plus, you’ll be saving on transportation costs and packaging too – so it’s an even greener way to gift!

Patchwork Gift Registry's template for "Doing up the kitchen fund" wedding gift list

10) The Home Makeover

A popular alternative this year to registries for honeymoons or “stuff” is the home makeover registry. Whether it’s the bathroom reno of your dreams or a quick kitchen refresh, why not get your family and friends to contribute? They can chip in for everything from the taps to the tiles (and even the plumber!). Once you’ve collected their contributions, you’ll have your budget and you can get going designing and planning your home updates. Then, when your project is complete, invite everyone around to admire their gift!

One last thing! Whatever you ask your guests to treat you to, remember that with Patchwork, you’ll be protecting the planet too. They’re the only wedding registry that gives back to the planet, with 50% of their sign-up fee going directly to environmental organisations.

Check out more of Patchwork’s wedding gift ideas and honeymoon fund templates on their website.

This article was created in partnership with Patchwork Wedding Registry.

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Wedding Speech Examples

Wedding speeches are a super important part of a wedding reception. They let the couple, family members and friends express their love, gratitude and well-wishes for the newlyweds. But if you’re not a confident public speaker, giving a wedding speech can be nerve-wracking for many people, which is why having a few examples up your sleeve can be a great starting-point. 

Here are some simple wedding speech examples that can help you deliver a heartfelt, memorable and enjoyable wedding speech. Feel free to use them as a template to inspire your own writing. 

And remember that these are just samples. Be sure to incorporate your own unique elements to personalise your speeches, which might mean having more gender-equal speeches compared to the traditional wedding speech line-up

Groom’s Speech & Bride’s Speech

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The groom’s speech and bride’s speech is a chance for the couple to thank their families, friends and wedding party for their support and to share their love for each other. Here’s a sample of a shared groom and bride speech:

“Good evening everyone, we are [bride’s name and groom’s name], the newlyweds. We want to take a moment to thank each and every one of you for being here to celebrate this special day with us. Our families, friends and wedding party have made this day truly unforgettable, and we are so grateful for your love and support.

We also want to thank our parents for their love and guidance, and for raising us to be the people we are today. We are honoured to have both of our families come together to celebrate this special day with us.

And last but not least, we want to express our love for each other. [Groom’s name], you are my best friend, my soulmate, and my partner in life. I am so grateful to have you by my side, and I look forward to a lifetime of love, adventure and happiness with you. [Bride’s name], you are beautiful, kind, and loving, and I feel so lucky to be able to call you my wife. I promise to always cherish and love you, no matter what life brings our way.

To our friends and family, thank you again for being here to share this special day with us. We are so grateful for your love and support, and we look forward to the memories we will create together.

Cheers to love, laughter and happily ever after. Cheers to all of us!”

Check out our top 10 groom speech examples and top 10 bride speech examples for more inspiration if you’re each giving individual speeches rather than a shared one. 

Father of the Bride Speech:

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A father of the bride speech is one of the most traditional and emotional speeches of the wedding. The father of the bride has the chance to both reflect on the love and relationship he has with his daughter and to welcome her new spouse into the family. Here’s a sample to inspire you:

“Good evening, everyone. Today is a very special day for me, as I stand here to give away my beautiful daughter [bride’s name]. She has grown into an amazing young woman, and I am so proud of the person she has become. [Groom’s name], I couldn’t have asked for a better match for my daughter. You are kind, caring and loving, and I am honoured to welcome you into our family. [Bride’s name], [groom’s name], I wish you a lifetime of happiness, love and adventure. To the newlyweds!”

Check out our top 10 father of the bride speech examples for more inspiration. 

Best Man Speech:

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The best man speech is a fun and light-hearted speech that’s often filled with anecdotes and humour. The best man has the chance to pay tribute to the groom and to share some memorable moments from their friendship. Here’s a sample:

“Good evening everyone, I am [your name], the best man, and the groom’s closest friend. I have known [groom’s name] for [number of years], and it has been an honour to stand by his side today as he marries the love of his life, [bride’s name]. [Groom’s name], you are one of the kindest, funniest and most genuine people I know, and I am so grateful to have you as my friend. [Bride’s name], you bring out the best in [groom’s name], and I know you will have a lifetime of happiness together. To the newlyweds, congratulations, and here’s to a lifetime of love and laughter!”

Check out our top 10 best man speech examples for more inspiration. 

Maid of Honour Speech:

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The maid of honour speech is usually given by the bride’s closest friend or sister, and can be a combination of humour and sentimentality. Here’s sample:

“Good evening everyone, I am [your name], the maid of honour and [bride’s name]’s best friend. I have known [bride’s name] since we were [age], and I have never seen her as happy as she is today. [Groom’s name], you have brought so much joy into [bride’s name]’s life, and I am grateful to have you as my friend as well. To the newlyweds, may your love continue to grow stronger with each passing day. Congratulations and best wishes!”

Check out our top 10 maid of honour examples for more inspiration. 

Mother of the Bride Speech:

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A mother of the bride speech, while not always a traditional element in the order of wedding speeches, is becoming gaining increasing popularity in modern celebrations. This beautiful moment lets the mother share her heartfelt sentiments, commemorate her daughter’s journey and extend a warm welcome to her daughter’s new spouse. Here’s a sample:

“Good evening everyone. Today holds great significance for me, as I stand before you to celebrate the union of my beloved daughter [bride’s name]. Watching her blossom into the remarkable woman she is today fills my heart with immense joy. [Groom’s name], from the moment you entered our lives, you’ve shown remarkable qualities of kindness, compassion and love. Welcoming you into our family is an honour beyond words. [Bride’s name], [groom’s name], may your lives be filled with boundless joy, enduring love and remarkable journeys together. To the newlyweds!”

Check out our top 10 mother of the bride speech examples for more inspiration. 

Plan your dream wedding on Bridebook

These are just a few examples of the different types of wedding speeches you may give on a wedding day. No matter what type of speech you choose, the most important thing is to be yourself, speak from the heart and let your love for the newlyweds shine through. Best of luck and have a wonderful time celebrating the love and happiness of the newlyweds.

Be sure to also check out our top tips from former actress and wedding speech writer Naomi Marghaleet, based on 30 years’ experience in the industry. 

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50 Creative Wedding Favour Ideas

Show your guests how much you love and appreciate them on your big day by offering them a small wedding token or favour. They’re a great way to add some beauty or fun to your tables, while also giving your friends and family a little something to remember the day by.

While, favours were limited to almonds for centuries, there are so many more options nowadays. Wedding favours come in all shapes and sizes, ready to match your unique theme, personality, or love story. You can have anything from cake pops and chocolate moustaches to succulents and wooden hearts. 

Whatever your theme and budget, we’ve got plenty of ideas that your guests will love. Keep reading for 50 unique wedding favour ideas, including suggestions for DIY favour options, couples on a budget, or even something a little more bougie!

What are wedding favours?

Wedding favours are small gifts from you and your partner for your wedding guests to thank them for coming. The favours tend to be placed next to each guest’s placemat at the wedding reception, but can also be given at any other time you’d prefer during the reception. 

Traditionally – and for many years – wedding favours were sugared almonds. Nowadays, these lovely little gifts can take on a variety of forms. However, they’re usually something small, edible, or practical that guests can enjoy and remember your special day by. Think little biscuits, bubble blowers, seed packets, or tealights. 

How much do wedding favours cost?

The cost of wedding favours entirely depends on what you pick. For example, you can find bubble blowers for as little as £1, while custom macaroons or decorated cake pops may be pricier. 

Generally speaking, you can expect to spend £2 to £5 on each wedding favour. Consider the size of your guest list and your overall wedding budget when trying to decide how much to spend. Naturally, the more guests you invite, the more your favours will cost in total. So for 100 guests, you’re looking at £200-£500. 

Does everyone have wedding favours?

No, not everyone has wedding favours. This is your day, and it’s totally up to you whether you provide them! Most guests will be thrilled to be invited to your wedding without receiving gifts and won’t expect it by any means. They’re a lovely touch, but don’t feel your guests will miss out if you don’t provide them. 

If you’re desperate to include favours but want to limit your spending, be sure to check out our dedicated post on how to save money on wedding favours.

50 great ideas for wedding favours

Check out this list of 50 unique, fun, and quirky wedding favour ideas. Whatever vibe you’re trying to create, there’s something for every couple and every budget on this list. 

DIY wedding favour ideas

1) Handwritten letters or thank you notes

Handwritten letters or thank you notes to each guest are personal, heartwarming, and inexpensive. These wedding favours allow you to express your gratitude to your guests in a unique way, all without breaking the bank.

  • Materials needed: Small envelopes, small pieces of paper, a pen. 
  • Cost: £0.50 a piece. 

2) Pressed flower bookmarks

Pressed flower bookmarks are another inexpensive DIY wedding favour idea. You can either press the flowers yourself or purchase pre-dried flowers online. Then, arrange the flowers on cardstock, laminate them, and cut them into bookmarks. These delicate and beautiful keepsakes are perfect for guests who love to read.

  • Materials needed: Cardstock, pressed flowers, laminating sheets, scissors.
  • Cost: Around £0.75 a piece, depending on whether you buy flowers or press your own wildflowers.

3) Personalised champagne bottles

This option is beautiful and personal, but it is one of the pricier options on this list simply due to the cost of champagne. However, mini bottles of champagne with custom labels or paint can make a sparkling statement as a wedding favour. You’ll need the bottle of champagne (obviously), glass paint, and paint brushes. Try painting each bottle with polka dots, guests’ names, flowers, or any other motif that suits your wedding theme. Give them plenty of time to dry, then place them on the tables next to guests’ place settings. 

  • Materials needed: Mini champagne bottles, glass paint, paint brushes, custom labels, ribbon.
  • Cost: £5-£25 a piece, depending on the brand of champagne.

4) Clay ornaments

Clay ornaments are a sweet and inexpensive option for wedding favours. You’ll need some air-dry clay, play stamps, something to cut the shapes out with (like a butter knife), and some string. You’ll also need a little water for smoothing edges, which we haven’t included in the cost below. 

Simply roll out the clay, cut out shapes like hearts or stars, and use stamps to imprint initials, dates, or designs. Let them dry completely, then thread a piece of string through each one for hanging.

  • Materials needed: Air-dry clay, stamps, knife or cookie cutters, string.
  • Cost: Around £1 a piece.

5) Message in a bottle

Message-in-a-bottle wedding favours are perfect for a quick thank you at a beach, outdoor, or whimsical themed weddings. You’ll need small glass bottles with corks, paper for the message, and a bit of twine or ribbon. Write a heartfelt thank you note, roll it up, and place it inside the bottle. Tie a small piece of twine or ribbon around the bottle neck for a charming touch.

  • Materials needed: Small glass bottles with corks, paper, twine or ribbon.
  • Cost: Around £1.50 a piece.

6) Friendship bracelets

Friendship bracelets are a sweet and nostalgic wedding favour that guests will cherish. You can make them in your wedding colours or incorporate beads with initials or small charms that match your wedding theme. You can either buy pre-made friendship bracelet kits or visit a haberdashery for a selection of beads, strings, and clasps. Either way, this is an inexpensive choice for DIY wedding favours. 

  • Materials needed: Beads, string, lobster claw clasps. 
  • Cost: Around £1.75 a piece.

7) Painted plant pots

Purchase some small terracotta plant pots from your local garden centre and some clay paint and paint brushes from a craft shop. Then, sit down with your soon-to-be-spouse, wedding party, or family and get painting! You’ll have fun creating unique designs, and your guests will love taking home a little piece of your creativity. Once the paint is dry, pop it next to guests’ place names for a sweet DIY wedding favour. 

  • Materials needed: Plant pots, paint, and paint brushes. 
  • Cost: Around £3 a piece.

8) Embroidered napkins

You can easily DIY these wedding favours if you have an embroidery machine or a passion for needlepoint. However, just note that it may be a little time-consuming. Embroider each napkin with your wedding date, a small design, or your guests’ initials. These personalised napkins will be a beautiful and practical keepsake for your guests to remember your special day by. 

  • Materials needed: Plain napkins, embroidery thread, embroidery hoop, needle or embroidery machine.
  • Cost: Around £2.50 a piece.

9) DIY lip balm

This DIY craft will need basic ingredients like beeswax, coconut oil, and essential oils for scent. Melt the beeswax and coconut oil together, add a few drops of your chosen essential oil, and pour the mixture into small lip balm containers. Let them cool and solidify, then add personalised labels or decorate the containers with ribbons. These homemade lip balms are not only practical, but also a lovely way to pamper your guests.

  • Materials needed: Beeswax, coconut oil, essential oils, small lip balm containers, labels, ribbons.
  • Cost: Around £2.50 each 

10) Aromatherapy spray

Although it might seem complicated, it’s easy to DIY your own aromatherapy spray. Bulk-buy some spray bottles online, then combine your favourite essential oil with some tap water for a refreshing room spritz. You’ll need around 10 drops per 200ml to make an impact. Try peppermint oil for an energising spray, lemon balm and lavender for a relaxing scent, or eucalyptus for a fresh, clean aroma. 

Add a personalised label and a ribbon to each bottle for an extra special touch. Your guests will love having a little piece of tranquillity to take home with them.

  • Materials needed: Spray bottles, essential oils, tap water, personalised labels, ribbon.
  • Cost: Around £1.75 a piece.

Budget-friendly wedding favour ideas

11) Hand-painted stones

Collect pebbles and stones of different shapes and sizes from your local river or beach. Then, you’ll need some acrylic paint, brushes, and a little creativity. Sit down with your soon-to-be spouse or your wedding party, and have fun painting designs, quotes, or even your wedding date on each stone. These can be used as paperweights, garden decorations, or just a lovely keepsake for your guests.

  • Materials needed: Pebbles or stones, acrylic paint, paint brushes, clear sealant like PVA glue.
  • Cost: Around £0.50 a piece.

12) Scratch cards

You can’t go wrong with a £1 scratch card for a cheap and fun wedding favour. Pop each scratch card into a small envelope or wrap it with a pretty ribbon and a note wishing your guests good luck. It adds a little excitement to the festivities, and who knows, maybe one of your guests will win big!

  • Materials needed: £1 scratch cards, small envelopes or ribbon, note cards.
  • Cost: Around £1.15 a piece.

13) Charity donations

Give £1 (or however much you’d like) in the name of each of your guests to a charity of your choice. Simply print out small cards explaining that a donation has been made on their behalf and place them at each table setting. This thoughtful favour not only shows your appreciation, but also supports a good cause.

  • Materials needed: Donation, small cards, printer or calligraphy pen.
  • Cost: Around £1 a piece.

14) Love Hearts

Love Hearts are a nostalgic sweet treat that everyone will enjoy. Buy them in bulk and package a few in small organza bags or boxes. Add a personalised tag with a thank you message and your wedding date. These sweets are not only affordable but also bring happy memories to your special day.

  • Materials needed: Love Heart sweets, organza bags or small boxes, personalised tags.
  • Cost: Around £0.50 a piece.

15) Bubble blowers

You can buy bubble blowers in bulk and personalise them with custom labels or ribbons. Place them at each table setting for a whimsical touch. Your guests will love creating a sea of bubbles, adding fun and magic to your celebration. Plus, they look great in photographs!

  • Materials needed: Bubble blowers, custom labels or ribbons.
  • Cost: Around £0.75 a piece.

16) Recipe cards

Share the love by sharing your favourite recipes. Print or handwrite your favourite recipes on decorative cardstock, and tie them together with a ribbon. Your guests will appreciate this personal touch and may even try out your special dishes at home.

  • Materials needed: Decorative cardstock, printer or pens, ribbon.
  • Cost: Around £0.30 a piece.

17) Flower seed paper

Flower seed paper is biodegradable paper with dried flower seeds embedded in it. When re-hydrated, the flowers will grow wherever the paper is planted. You can buy this paper online in bulk, or make your own using paper pulp and dried flower seeds. In this case, it’s much cheaper and easier to buy it online. 

Cut the paper into hearts, flowers, or any shape that matches your wedding theme, and write a note explaining how to plant it. When guests plant the paper, it will sprout into beautiful flowers, reminding them of your special day.

  • Materials needed: Flower seed paper, scissors, pens or printer for instructions.
  • Cost: Around £0.60 a piece.

18) Fortune tellers

Remember those fun fortune tellers you made in primary school? Well, now they’re a fun and interactive wedding favour! Create customised fortune tellers with fun predictions or sweet messages for your guests. You can use colourful paper and add little decorations to make them even more special. Place them at each table setting for a delightful trip down memory lane.

  • Materials needed: Colourful paper, pens, decorations like stickers or stamps.
  • Cost: Around £0.20 a piece.

19) Soap curls

Making soap curls is a great way to make a few bars of soap stretch to many guests. You’ll need some bars of soap, a vegetable peeler, organza bag, and some ribbon. Try buying a few different scented soaps to create a lovely mix of gorgeous fragrances. Use the peeler to create curls from the soap bars, and fill each organza bag with a handful of curls. Tie with a ribbon and add a personalised tag for a low-cost wedding favour. 

  • Materials needed: Bars of soap, vegetable peeler, organza bags, ribbon, personalised tags.
  • Cost: Around £0.50 a piece depending on the soap you buy.  

20) Extra confetti

If you still have a lot of confetti left over, consider bagging up the confetti in organza bags and giving it to your guests as an extra little treat. This is a simple and inexpensive way to repurpose your leftover wedding supplies. Your guests can take the confetti home as a keepsake or use it to celebrate another special occasion. Plus, it adds a touch of fun and festivity to your wedding favours.

  • Materials needed: Confetti, organza bags, ribbon.
  • Cost: Minimal, since you’re repurposing leftover supplies.

Edible wedding favour ideas

21) Fortune cookies

Fortune cookies are a fun and delicious wedding favour. You can buy them online or from your local Asian food shop for as little as £1 per cookie — you may even be able to get them for less than this if you bulk buy! Set one down in front of each guest’s place settings. Not only will they tide your guests over before their starter, but they’ll also add an element of surprise and fun to your wedding. 

Each guest can break open their cookie to reveal a unique fortune or a sweet message, making it a great icebreaker and conversation starter.

  • Materials needed: Fortune cookies.
  • Cost: Around £1 a piece.

22) Homemade jam 

Feel like getting your Betty Crocker on? Consider making your guests some delicious homemade jam. Choose your favourite fruit, or even a combination of fruits, and spend an afternoon cooking up a batch. 

Pour the jam into small jars and add a personalised label with your names and wedding date. Tie a pretty ribbon around each jar for a charming, rustic touch. Your guests will love this sweet and thoughtful treat, which they can then enjoy at home long after your special day.

Pro tip: Don’t expect your jam to be perfect the first time. You’ll need to practise your jam making before making your wedding favours to ensure you get the recipe just right. 

  • Materials needed: Fresh fruit, sugar, pectin, small jars, labels, ribbon.
  • Cost: Around £1.50 a piece if you use your own fruit.

23) Homemade biscuits

Again, if you’re a bit of a baking whizz, consider baking homemade biscuits for your guests. Choose a classic recipe like shortbread or chocolate chip, or get creative with your favourite flavours. Package the biscuits in small bags or boxes, and add a personalised label with a thank you message. Your guests will appreciate the homemade touch and enjoy these tasty treats.

Pro tip: Bake a test batch before the big day to make sure they turn out just right, and enlist some help for the baking marathon closer to the wedding date.

  • Materials needed: Baking ingredients, bags or boxes, personalised labels.
  • Cost: Around £0.75 a piece.

24) Cake pops

You can easily make cake pops at home, once you have the know-how. You’ll need to either buy a box cake mix or make a cake from scratch;. Bake as usual, then once cooled, crumble into fine crumbs. 

Mix the crumbs with ready-made buttercream icing until you get a dough-like consistency, then roll into small balls. Insert a lollipop stick into each ball and dip them into melted chocolate or candy coating. 

Decorate with sprinkles, nuts, or drizzle with more chocolate. Let them set, and package them in clear bags tied with a ribbon. They’re tasty, cute, and easy to personalise — perfect for a whimsical or garden party themed wedding!

  • Materials needed: Cake mix or ingredients for a cake, frosting, lollipop sticks, melted chocolate or candy coating, sprinkles or nuts, clear bags, ribbon.
  • Cost: Around £0.75 a piece.

25) Popcorn bags

Popcorn is delicious, filling, and cheap to make. All you’ll need are some popcorn kernels, a neutral cooking oil, and a bit of salt. Pop the kernels in a large pot or popcorn maker, then season to taste. You can also get creative with flavours —think caramel, cinnamon sugar, cheese, or even a spicy mix. 

Once your popcorn is ready, fill small paper bags or boxes with the tasty treat. Add a personalised label or tag, and you’ve got a fun and crunchy wedding favour that guests will love.

  • Materials needed: Popcorn kernels, cooking oil, seasoning, small paper bags or boxes, labels or tags.
  • Cost: Around £0.30 a piece.

26) Your favourite sweets

Your wedding day is all about you and your soon-to-be spouse, so the natural

choice for a wedding favour is your favourite sweet treat. Whether they’re M&Ms, seaside rock, or cinder toffee, it’s easy (and cheap) to share these little bites of joy with your guests. 

Buy your favourite sweets in bulk and package them in small bags or jars. Add a personalised label or tag with a thank you message and your wedding date. This sweet and simple favour will be a hit with everyone.

  • Materials needed: Favourite sweets, small bags or jars, labels or tags.
  • Cost: Varies depending on the sweet, but typically around £0.50-£1 a piece.

27) S’mores kits

Although s’mores are a traditionally American snack, they’re gaining popularity across the pond. Create individual s’mores kits for your guests by packaging digestive biscuits, chocolate squares, and marshmallows in small boxes or bags. Add a personalised tag with a fun message like “S’more love to you!” or “A ‘roast’ to our love!”.

These kits are perfect for a cosy, rustic wedding, and can be enjoyed around a bonfire or at home.

  • Materials needed: Digestive biscuits, chocolate squares, marshmallows, small boxes or bags, labels or tags.
  • Cost: Around £1 a piece. 

28) Macarons

Macarons are a sweet, elegant treat that can add a touch of sophistication to your wedding favours. These delicate French cookies come in a variety of flavours and colours, making them easy to match with your wedding theme.

You can, of course, make your own if you fancy yourself a bit of a pastry chef. We recommend practising beforehand to ensure they turn out just right. Making macarons can be a bit tricky, but with some patience and a few trial runs, you can master the art.

Once baked or bought, package a few macarons in a small box or bag, and add a personalised tag or label to make them extra special. They are sure to be a hit with your guests, offering a delightful taste of luxury.

  • Materials needed: Macarons, small boxes or bags, labels or tags.
  • Cost: Around £2 a piece.

29) Tea blends

Whether you’re a fan of a classic cuppa, prefer a fruity blend, or enjoy the fresh taste of a peppermint tea, custom tea blends can make for a wonderful wedding favour. You could either keep it classic or buy a variety of loose leaf teas and mix your own special blends. 

Package the tea in small tins or sachets, and add a personalised label with brewing instructions and a thank you message. Your guests will love this thoughtful and soothing gift, perfect for relaxing and remembering your special day.

Bear in mind that loose leaf tea is typically cheaper and fresher than tea bags, but not all your guests will have a tea strainer. 

  • Materials needed: Loose leaf tea, small tins or sachets, labels or tags.
  • Cost: Around £1 a piece.

30) Mini olive oil bottles

Little bottles of olive oil will add a Mediterranean touch to your wedding favours. Choose a high-quality extra virgin olive oil, and pour it into small glass bottles. You can infuse the oil with herbs like rosemary or garlic for added flavour. 

Add a personalised label and tie a sprig of fresh herbs around the neck of each bottle with a ribbon. These elegant and practical favours will remind your guests of your beautiful day every time they cook.

  • Materials needed: Extra virgin olive oil, small glass bottles, herbs for infusion, labels, ribbon.
  • Cost: Around £3.50 a piece.

Keepsake wedding favour ideas

31) Custom fridge magnets

Have custom fridge magnets made with the date of your wedding, your shared initials, or a sweet snap from your engagement shoot. Every time your guests open their fridge, they’ll be reminded of the wonderful time they had at your wedding. 

You can find plenty of online services that create personalised magnets, or if you’re feeling crafty, you can make your own with magnet sheets and a bit of creativity. These magnets are not only practical, but also a lovely way for your guests to remember your special day.

  • Materials needed: Custom fridge magnets.
  • Cost: Around £1 a piece if ordered online, less if DIY.

32) Custom keyrings

Similarly to the custom fridge magnets, you can have custom keyrings made with your wedding date, initials, or a meaningful symbol. Keyrings are something your guests can carry with them daily, keeping the memory of your special day close at hand. 

You can choose from a variety of materials like metal, wood, or acrylic, and there are many online services that offer custom designs. If you enjoy DIY projects, you can create your own keyrings with a personal touch, but it’s usually easier and cheaper to purchase these online. 

  • Materials needed: Custom keyrings.
  • Cost: Around £1.50 a piece.

33) Custom plant markers

If you’re expecting some green-fingered guests, consider offering custom plant markers as your wedding favours. Plant markers are designed to help gardeners remember what they planted where. 

You can either have these made online or make them yourself out of lollipop sticks and waterproof paint pens. Add a personal touch by including your names and wedding date, or a cute garden-related pun. 

  • Materials needed: Plant markers or lollipop sticks, waterproof pens.
  • Cost: Around £0.50 a piece if DIY, more if purchased online.

34) Engraved compacts

Engraving your guest’s names on compact mirrors is a chic and personal way to thank them for being a part of your special day. These small mirrors are not only practical, but also make for a beautiful keepsake. 

You can find services online that offer engraving, or if you’re into DIY projects, you can buy an engraving tool and do it yourself. This is a perfect favour for a glamorous or vintage-themed wedding.

  • Materials needed: Compact mirrors, engraving service or tool.
  • Cost: Around £3 a piece.

35) Personalised trinket tray

You can make personalised trinket trays out of air-dry clay, acrylic paint, and simple glaze like PVA glue. Consider engraving the clay dishes with your initials, the date of your wedding, or a small design that fits your theme. Keep the design simple to ensure you can recreate it a number of times. 

Once the clay has dried and set, paint and glaze the trays for a polished look. These trinket trays are perfect for holding jewellery or small keepsakes and will be a delightful reminder of your special day for your guests.

  • Materials needed: Air-dry clay, acrylic paint, PVA glue or glaze, engraving tools.
  • Cost: Around £1.50 a piece if DIY, more if purchased.

36) Leather wrist bands

Leather wrist bands are ideal for outdoor, rustic, or boho-themed weddings. You can personalise these bands with your wedding date, initials, or a short yet meaningful phrase. There are kits available for DIY leather stamping, or you can find online services that will customise them for you. These stylish and functional favours will be a hit with your guests and can be worn as a memento of your special day.

  • Materials needed: Leather strips, stamping tools, or custom service.
  • Cost: Around £2 a piece.

37) Personalised fans

If you’re getting married on the beach, abroad, or in the height of summer, personalised fans are a fantastic and practical wedding favour idea. You can have them customised with your wedding date, names, or a sweet message. 

Not only will they help keep your guests cool, but they’ll also serve as a lovely keepsake from your special day. Choose from a variety of styles and materials, such as paper, silk, or bamboo, to match your wedding theme.

  • Materials needed: Fans, custom printing service.
  • Cost: Around £1.50 a piece.

38) Burnt wooden discs

These wedding favours are natural, rustic, and will double as place settings. Use small wooden discs and burn your guests’ names, your wedding date, or a meaningful symbol onto them. You can use a wood-burning tool for this DIY project, or find a service that will do the custom burning for you. These discs can be used as coasters, ornaments, or keepsakes, adding a warm, personal touch to your celebration.

  • Materials needed: Wooden discs, wood-burning tool, or customisation service.
  • Cost: Around £1 a piece if DIY, more if purchased.

39) Acrylic paperweights

You can either make your own acrylic paperweights by purchasing clear acrylic moulds and casting resin, or buy custom-made ones online. Personalise them with your wedding date, initials, or a small decorative item embedded inside. These paperweights are practical, stylish, and make for a beautiful keepsake that your guests will appreciate.

  • Materials needed: Acrylic moulds, casting resin, decorative items, customisation service.
  • Cost: Around £2 a piece if DIY, more if purchased.

40) Personalised travel mugs

This wedding favour is a little pricier compared to the other options on our list,  but they’re a practical and memorable gift that your guests will use daily. Personalised travel mugs can be customised with your wedding date, names, or a special message. They’re perfect for both eco-conscious guests and those who are always on the go. 

It’s likely these personalised wedding favours will need to be created online (unless you have some very specialist equipment hanging around!). Choose from a variety of styles, colours, and materials to match your wedding theme. These mugs will keep your guests’ beverages hot or cold while reminding them of your special day.

  • Materials needed: Travel mugs, custom printing service.
  • Cost: Around £15 a piece.

Nature-themed wedding favours

41) Mini succulents

If you want to give your guests something different but still cute and memorable, mini succulents could be right up your street. They’re easy to care for, will bring a pop of colour to your big day, and are a quirky option for wedding favours. Plus, they symbolise growth and new beginnings, which is perfect for a wedding celebration. 

You can personalise the pots with your names, wedding date, or a sweet message, and add a decorative touch with some colourful ribbon or paint. 

  • Materials needed: Mini succulents, small pots, paint or ribbons, tags.
  • Cost: Around £1.50 a piece.

42) Lavender sachets

You can easily create your own calming lavender sachets by filling some organza bags with dried or fresh lavender petals. Simply collect some lavender flowers, rub them between your hands to help the petals fall off, and collect them into little bags or pouches. Tie each one with a ribbon and a personalised note for the perfect DIY wedding favour. 

  • Materials needed: Lavender flowers, organza bag, ribbons.
  • Cost: Around £1.50 a piece.

43) Pinecone bird feeders

Head to your local forest and collect some large pinecones. You’ll need to do this in the late summer or early autumn, so this DIY wedding favour idea is best for those planning an autumn or winter wedding.

Once you’ve collected the pinecones, coat them with peanut butter and roll them in birdseed. Tie a loop of string around the top so your guests can easily hang them in their gardens. Not only do these bird feeders look charming, but they also help local wildlife.

  • Materials needed: Pinecones, peanut butter, birdseed, string.
  • Cost: Around £0.50 a piece.

44) Bee-friendly flower bombs

Similar to dried flower seeds, bee-friendly flower bombs are a fun way to give back to nature. These small balls of seed and soil can be tossed into a garden or plant pot to grow flowers for a pop of colour and to support bee populations.

To make them, mix soil and wildflower seeds, add a bit of clay to hold the mixture together, and form into small balls. Let them dry, and package in a cute bag or box with planting instructions. 

  • Materials needed: Wildflower seeds, soil, clay, bags or boxes.
  • Cost: Around £0.75 a piece.

45) Bamboo straws

Reusable straws are an eco-friendly and practical wedding favour that your guests can get to using straight away. They’re perfect for reducing plastic waste and are a fun addition to your wedding day. You can find bamboo straws online for a small cost and either leave them plain or personalise them with some ribbon or engravings. 

It’s worth noting you probably won’t be able to DIY these unless you have highly specialised equipment. It’s best to just buy them! 

  • Materials needed: Bamboo straws.
  • Cost: Around £1 each depending on the store.

46) Beeswax wraps

Beeswax wraps are an eco-friendly alternative to cling film, allowing guests to keep their food fresh while protecting the environment. You can either make these yourself using cotton fabric, beeswax pellets, and an iron, or buy pre-made ones and personalise them with your wedding details. 

These wraps are reusable and washable, making them a practical and sustainable gift. Package them with a small tag explaining how to use and care for the wraps, and your guests will appreciate the thoughtful and green gesture.

  • Materials needed: Cotton fabric, beeswax pellets, iron (if DIY), tags.
  • Cost: Around £1.50 a piece if DIY, more if purchased.

47) Homemade clay plant pots

We spoke earlier about painting your own plant pots, but what about making your own plant pots for a truly unique wedding favour? Start with air-dry clay, which is easy to mould and doesn’t require a kiln. Shape the clay into small pots and personalise them by engraving your initials, wedding date, or a special design while the clay is still soft. Once the pots have dried, you can paint them in your wedding colours or leave them with a natural, rustic look. 

  • Materials needed: Air-dry clay, clay tools for shaping and engraving, paint (optional), small succulents or herbs.
  • Cost: Around £2 a piece if DIY.

48) Pressed flower coasters

Buy pre-pressed flowers online or collect rural wildflowers for hand pressing if you’re feeling crafty. You’ll also need to buy some cork coaster bottoms online. If you do choose to hand-press your flowers, make sure they’re completely dried out before proceeding to the next step!

You can then arrange the pressed flowers on the coasters in beautiful patterns and seal them with a clear, heat-resistant resin. This will not only protect the flowers but also give the coasters a glossy, professional finish. Add a personalised touch by including your names and wedding date on each coaster. 

  • Materials needed: Pressed flowers, cork coaster bottoms, clear resin, personalised labels or markers.
  • Cost: Around £2.50 a piece if DIY. Slightly more if you purchase flowers, slightly less if you collect and press your own. 

49) Wooden utensil sets

You can find reusable wooden cutlery and utensils online, making them a practical and eco-friendly wedding favour. Look for sets that include a spoon, fork, knife, and perhaps even a set of chopsticks. These utensils can be personalised with your wedding date, names, or a short message. 

To make the gift even more special, package each set in a cloth bag or wrap them with a ribbon. Your guests will appreciate this thoughtful and sustainable favour that they can use for picnics, camping trips, or everyday meals.

  • Materials needed: Wooden utensil sets, cloth bags or ribbons, personalised tags or engraving tools.
  • Cost: Around £4 a piece if purchased in bulk.

50) Shell jewellery

Throwing a beach wedding, summer wedding, or otherwise love the ocean? Consider offering shell jewellery as a unique and beautiful wedding favour. You can create stunning pieces using shells collected from your favourite beach or purchased online. 

Make necklaces, bracelets, or earrings by attaching the shells to simple chains, cords, or earring hooks. Personalise each piece with a small tag that includes your wedding date and a heartfelt message. They’re super cute, super personal, and carry all the charm of the sea. 

  • Materials needed: Shells, chains, cords, earring hooks, PVA glue or gloss.
  • Cost: Around £4 a piece if you collect the shells. The cost will largely depend on the quality of the metal used.

The bottom line on wedding favours

Wedding favours are a fun way to let your guests know how much you appreciate their presence on your big day. While they’re not expected, they are traditional, and they add a personal touch that can make your celebration even more memorable. Whether you choose DIY options or purchase them, the key is to select favours that reflect your personality and the theme of your big day. 

There are a ton of wedding favour options on this list to suit every wedding theme, colour scheme, and budget. Whatever you choose to do, have fun with it, get creative, and enjoy the process of giving a little something back to your friends and family. Oh, and be sure to track the cost on Bridebook’s handy budget tool. You wouldn’t want to get carried away, after all!

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100+ Inspiring Love Quotes for Your Wedding Day

A wedding speech, or wedding message, should always be written from the heart and in your own words. However, if you’re struggling for some inspiration or your words are playing hard-to-get, there’s nothing wrong with taking a few snippets of genius from someone else. You can do this by infusing your speech or message with love quotes or wedding day quotes. 

Love and marriage quotes give ​​profound insights into the beauty and complexities of relationships. They add a touch of timeless wisdom and eloquence to your speech or message, acting as the cherry on top of the cake.

Ready for some inspiration? Check out this post of 110 love quotes for your wedding day. Whether you’re looking for some general love quotes, a heartwarming Disney quote, a quote from a song, or one from a specific book or film — we’ve got you covered.

What makes a good love quote?

A good love quote is anything that touches your heart. If it resonates with your love story, has a specific significance to you and your partner, or simply summarises how you feel perfectly, then it’s a good love quote. 

Our advice is to read lots of different love quotes from different sources. There will be one or two that fill your heart with love or just capture your feelings perfectly. You’ll know them when you read them, and they’re the ones you should pick. 

How can I incorporate quotes about love in my speech or message?

We recommend that you pepper love quotes into your wedding speech, vows, or readings. Due to the short nature of most quotes, they’re not suitable to take the place of wedding vows or readings like love poems can. However, you can sprinkle them throughout a pre-written wedding speech or vows.

Try opening or closing your wedding message with a quote for maximum impact. For example, you could end with something like: “Thank you for listening to my speech today. I’d like to sum everything up with the immortal words of Nicholas Sparks, ‘I am who I am because of you. You are every reason, every hope, and every dream I’ve ever had’. Thank you.”

General love quotes

  1. “Love is friendship that has caught on fire” — Ann Lander
  2. “Love is a force more formidable than any other” — Barbara de Angelis
  3. “Love is bigger than a tsunami, stronger than any fear” — Bethany Hamilto
  4. “Romance is the glamour which turns the dust of everyday life into a golden haze” — Elinor Glyn
  5. “You never lose by loving. You always lose by holding back” — Barbara de Angelis
  6. “To love is to receive a glimpse of heaven” — Karen Sunde
  7. “I love you” begins by I, but it ends up by you — Charles de Leusse
  8. “To lose balance sometimes for love is part of living a balanced life” — Elizabeth Gilbert
  9. “For small creatures such as we, the vastness is bearable only through love” — Carl Sagan
  10. “Our love cannot be measured, it just is” — John Paul Stevens

Inspirational love quotes

  1. “Where there is love there is life” — Mahatma Gandhi
  2. “Love recognizes no barriers. It jumps hurdles, leaps fences, penetrates walls to arrive at its destination full of hope” — Maya Angelou
  3. “Every heart sings a song, incomplete, until another heart whispers back. Those who wish to sing always find a song. At the touch of a lover, everyone becomes a poet” — Plato
  4. “Love is composed of a single soul inhabiting two bodies” — Aristotle
  5. “The best and most beautiful things in this world cannot be seen or even heard, but must be felt with the heart” — Helen Keller
  6. “Love does not consist in gazing at each other, but in looking outward together in the same direction” -— Antoine de Saint-Exupéry
  7. “Love is the only force capable of transforming an enemy into a friend” — Martin Luther King Jr.
  8. “The best thing to hold onto in life is each other” — Audrey Hepburn
  9. “Love and compassion are necessities, not luxuries. Without them, humanity cannot survive” — Dalai Lama
  10. “Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength while loving someone deeply gives you courage” — Lao Tzu

Love quotes by famous people

  1. “I would rather spend one lifetime with you than face all the ages of this world alone” — J.R.R. Tolkien
  2. “The real lover is a man who can thrill you by kissing your forehead or smiling into your eyes or just staring into space” — Marilyn Monroe
  3. “You know it’s love when all you want is that person to be happy, even if you’re not part of their happiness” — Julia Roberts
  4. “The best thing to hold onto in life is each other” — Audrey Hepburn
  5. “My blind eyes are desperately waiting for the sight of you” — Richard Burton, in a letter to Elizabeth Taylor
  6. “I would find you in any lifetime” — Kanye West
  7. “My most brilliant achievement was my ability to be able to persuade my wife to marry me” — Winston Churchill
  8. “I think the perfection of love is that it’s not perfect.” — Emma Stone
  9. “Love is a promise, love is a souvenir, once given never forgotten, never let it disappear” — John Lennon
  10. “Love is a verb. It’s an action requiring your involvement and your active participation” — John Legend

Love quotes from Disney films

  1. “I’d rather die tomorrow than live a hundred years without knowing you” — John Smith, Pocahontas
  2. “It’s there, I know it is, because when I look at you, I can feel it. And I look at you, and I’m home” — Dory, Finding Nemo
  3. “Some people are worth melting for” — Olaf, Frozen
  4. “All at once everything looks different, now that I see you” — Rapunzel and Flynn Rider, Tangled
  5. “People do crazy things when they’re in love.” — Meg, Hercules
  6. “You are my greatest adventure.” — Mr. Incredible, The Incredibles
  7. “To infinity and beyond!” — Buzz Lightyear, Toy Story
  8. “Love is not an emotion, it’s a choice” — Maui, Moana
  9. “I wouldn’t have nothing if I didn’t have you.” — Mike Wazowski, Monsters, Inc. 
  10. My dream wouldn’t be complete without you in it” – Princess Tiana, The Princess and the Frog

Love quotes from songs

  1. “Love is old, love is new. Love is all, love is you” — The Beatles, Because
  2. “With our love, we could save the world, if they only knew” — The Beatles, Within You Without You
  3. “I could make you happy, make your dreams come true. Nothing that I wouldn’t do. Go to the ends of the Earth for you” — Adele, Make You Feel My Love
  4. “You’re still the one I run to, the one that I belong to, you’re still the one I want for life” — Shania Twain, You’re Still The One
  5. “Cause all you need is love, love. Love is all you need” — The Beatles, Love Is All You Need
  6. “I belong with you, you belong with me, you’re my sweetheart” — The Lumineers, Ho Hey
  7. “You’re the closest to heaven that I’ll ever be, and I don’t wanna go home right now.” — Goo Goo Dolls, Iris
  8. “Take my hand, take my whole life too, for I can’t help falling in love with you” — Elvis Presley, Can’t Help Falling in Love
  9. “You’re my end and my beginning, even when I lose, I’m winning” — John Legend, All of Me
  10. “And isn’t it just so pretty to think all along there was some invisible string tying you to me?” —  Taylor Swift, Invisible String

Love quotes from plays, theatre shows, and musicals 

  1. “Love all, trust a few, do wrong to none” — William Shakespeare, All’s Well That Ends Well
  2. “Love looks not with the eyes, but with the mind, and therefore is winged Cupid painted blind”  — William Shakespeare, A Midsummer Night’s Dream
  3. “Say you’ll share with me one love, one lifetime. Let me lead you from your solitude. Say you need me with you, here beside you. Anywhere you go, let me go too” — The Phantom (Erik), The Phantom of the Opera
  4. “She loves me and to my amazement, I love it, knowing that she loves me” — Georg Nowack, She Loves Me
  5. “Tonight, tonight, I’ll see my love tonight. And for us, stars will stop where they are” — Tony, West Side Story
  6. “Love will stand when all else falls” — Moses, The Prince of Egypt
  7. “Love is like oxygen. Love is a many-splendored thing. Love lifts us up where we belong” — Christian, Moulin Rouge
  8. “I saw you and the world went away” — Tony, West Side Story
  9. “When someone needs you, you love them so” — Nancy, Oliver!
  10. “Can it be us and only us? And what came before won’t count anymore or matter” — Evan Hansen, Dear Evan Hansen

Love quotes from books

  1. “I wish you to know that you have been the last dream of my soul” — Charles Dickens, A Tale of Two Cities
  2. “If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day so I never have to live without you” — A. A. Milne, Winnie The Pooh
  3. “I know I am in love with you because my reality is finally better than my dreams” — Dr. Seuss
  4. “You don’t love someone because they’re perfect, you love them in spite of the fact that they’re not” — Jodi Picoult, My Sister’s Keeper
  5. “I love her, and that’s the beginning and end of everything” — F. Scott Fitzgerald, The Great Gatsby
  6. “I fell in love the way you fall asleep: slowly, and then all at once” — John Green, The Fault in Our Stars
  7. “I am who I am because of you. You are every reason, every hope, and every dream I’ve ever had” — Nicholas Sparks, The Notebook
  8. “Whatever our souls are made of, his and mine are the same” — Emily Brontë, Wuthering Heights
  9. “You are my heart, my life, my one and only thought” — Arthur Conan Doyle, The White Company
  10. “Love is how you stay alive, even after you are gone” — Mitch Albom, Tuesdays with Morrie

Love quotes from poetry

  1. “To love and be loved is to feel the sun from both sides” — David Viscott
  2. “Love is an irresistible desire to be irresistibly desired” — Robert Frost
  3. “How do I love thee? Let me count the ways” — Elizabeth Barrett Browning
  4. “I love you without knowing how, or when, or from where. I love you straightforwardly, without complexities or pride” — Pablo Neruda
  5. “If I had a flower for every time I thought of you, I could walk in my garden forever” — Alfred Lord Tennyson
  6. “Love is an endless mystery, for it has nothing else to explain it” — Rabindranath Tagore
  7. “You are my sun, my moon, and all my stars” — E.E. Cummings
  8. “If my lover were a comet hung in air, I would braid my leaping body in his hair” — Djuna Barnes
  9. “Love is not consolation. It is light” — Friedrich Nietzsche
  10. “Love is the only reality and it is not a mere sentiment. It is the ultimate truth that lies at the heart of creation” — Rabindranath Tagore

Love quotes from films

  1. “You had me at ‘hello'” — Dorothy Boyd, Jerry Maguire
  2. “Storm clouds may gather and stars may collide, but I love you until the end of time” — Christian, Moulin Rouge
  3. “What I’m trying to say, very inarticulately, is that, um, in fact, perhaps despite appearances, I like you, very much. Just as you are” — Mark Darcy, Bridget Jones’s Diary
  4. “To me, you are perfect” — Mark, Love Actually
  5. “I’m not a smart man, but I know what love is” — Forrest Gump, Forrest Gump
  6. “I think I’d miss you even if we never met” — Kat Ellis, The Wedding Date
  7. “A marriage is a promise. With the ceremony and ring, you’re saying to one another, ‘Every experience I am going to have, I want to experience with you'” — Diane Keaton, The Big Wedding
  8. “You’re my air” — Dre, Brown Sugar
  9. “So it’s not gonna be easy. It’s gonna be really hard, and we’re gonna have to work at this every day. But I wanna do that because I want you. I want all of you, forever. You and me. Every day” — Noah Calhoun, The Notebook

Love quotes from TV shows

  1. “It’s you. It’s always been you” — Fitz Grant, Scandal
  2. “You make me happier than I ever thought I could be, and if you let me, I will spend the rest of my life trying to make you feel the same way” — Chandler Bing, Friends
  3. “You’re my one in five billion” — Fox Mulder, The X-Files
  4. “Some love stories aren’t epic novels. Some are short stories, but that doesn’t make them any less filled with love” — Carrie Bradshaw, Sex and the City
  5. “I love our story. Sure, it’s messy, but it’s the story that got us here” — Ted Mosby, How I Met Your Mother
  6. “I love you, in a really, really big pretend-to-like-your-taste-in-music, let-you-eat-the-last-piece-of-cheesecake, hold-a-radio-over-my-head-outside-your-window, unfortunate way that makes me hate you, love you” -— Meredith Grey, Grey’s Anatomy
  7. “I love you and I like you” — Leslie Knope, Parks and Recreation
  8. “I love you more than words, and I am a big fan of words” — Buffy Summers, Buffy the Vampire Slayer
  9. “You are the love of my life. Everything I have and everything I am is yours” — Chuck Bass, Gossip Girl
  10. “I love you even when you’re sick and look disgusting” — Jim Halpert, The Office

Love quotes from the Bible

  1. “We love because He first loved us” — 1 John 4:19
  2. “Be devoted to one another in love. Honour one another above yourselves” — Romans 12:10
  3. “Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonour others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs” — 1 Corinthians 13:4-5
  4. “Let all that you do be done in love” — 1 Corinthians 16:14
  5. “Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins” — 1 Peter 4:8
  6. And so we know and rely on the love God has for us. God is love. Whoever lives in love lives in God, and God in them. This is how love is made complete among us so that we will have confidence on the day of judgement: In this world we are like Jesus. There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear, because fear has to do with punishment. The one who fears is not made perfect in love” — 1 John 4:16-18
  7. As the Father has loved me, so have I loved you. Now remain in my love. If you keep my commands, you will remain in my love, just as I have kept my Father’s commands and remain in his love” — John 15:9-10
  8. Do everything in love” — 1 Corinthians 16:14
  9. Above all, be loving. This ties everything together perfectly” — Colossians 3:14
  10. Love must be sincere. Hate what is evil; cling to what is good. Be devoted to one another in love. Honour one another above yourselves” — Romans 12:9-10

The bottom line on wedding love quotes 

Love quotes are a timeless way to express your feelings and show your partner what your big day means to you. Or, if you’re a guest, they’re a lovely way to share well-wishes with the couple and inspire them about their marriage. 

Don’t think you’re being un-original or cliché by using these quotes. Instead, use them to inspire your wedding speech or message and connect your personal vows to a broader, shared understanding of love. Everyone loves hearing familiar quotes in a speech, and you could even use it as an inside joke with your new spouse or guests. For example, using a quote from your favourite book, film, or TV show will no doubt put a smile on their face. 

So, feel free to use love and marriage quotes in your wedding speech or message. Embrace the timeless nature of the phrases and pepper them throughout your speech or message like the seasoning in a good dish.

If you need some more guidance, read our post featuring 15 romantic and inspiring love poems, or browse our wedding speech examples to help you craft the perfect wedding speech. 

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24 Most Popular Wedding Flowers and their Meanings

Choosing wedding flowers can be tricky. If you are struggling to choose your flowers, it may be worth considering what the blooms mean.

To help you decide, we’ve picked out some popular wedding flowers and explained their meaning.

Rose

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The rose is a traditional wedding flower, so it couldn’t be left off this list!

Roses symbolise love, yet depending on their colour, other meanings come in too. Red roses symbolise love and desire, whereas white roses are purity and innocence.

Calla Lily

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Calla lilies came from Africa and are usually in season for spring or summer weddings.

Calla lilies have a mild fragrance and represent beauty. Bouquets made of only calla lilies are stunning, but they can be a sturdy support for other bouquets too.

Tulip

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Tulips are in season in spring, and so find their way into bouquets and venue décor up and down the country.

Like roses, tulips come in bold and beautiful colours, each with a different meaning. Red tulips symbolise a declaration of love that is perfect for your altar décor, and yellow mean sunshine.

Hydrangea

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Hydrangeas have large clusters of delicate petals and are a great way to add bulk to a bouquet.

The hydrangea can express gratitude, and so is ideal for bridesmaid bouquets.

Sweet Peas

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The sweet pea has a homey vibe, thanks to its rich scent and a range of tones to match with any wedding colour scheme.

This flower is a firm favourite and will be right at home in the bouquet of a bride planning a country wedding.

Peony

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Legend has it that Paeon, the Greek physician of the Gods, used a peony root to heal Pluto. Jealousy led to an attempt on Paeon’s life, and to save him, Pluto transformed him into a peony. This legend has led to the peony having a meaning of compassion.

Carnation

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Carnations fell out of favour, but they are making a comeback again in the bouquets of brides.

The humble carnation symbolises both love and pride. But avoid striped carnations as they can mean refusal!

Chrysanthemum

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Chrysanthemums represent optimism, joy, and a long life. These very meanings are what makes it a great addition to a bridal bouquet!

An added benefit of the chrysanthemum is that they are affordable and in great supply all year round.

Anemone

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The anemone is one of those flowers that can fit into a range of colour schemes. These flowers come in a range of shades, including purples, pinks, reds, and ivory.

Anemone comes from the Greek word for “windflower” and symbolises anticipation.

Daffodil

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Daffodils are vibrant and tell a tale of the coming of spring.

Beyond this, daffodils symbolise chivalry. A single daffodil means unrequited love, making it a great buttonhole for the groom.

Baby’s Breath

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The cloud-like petals of baby’s breath mean this bloom is a popular filler for bouquets and decor. The tiny white flowers can be used on their own in delicate flower crowns for your flower girls.

Baby’s breath symbolises innocence, and they are inexpensive all year round.

Delphinium

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Delphinium comes from the Greek word “delphis”, translating as dolphin. If you pluck a single flower from the tallest part of the plant, it looks like a dolphin leaping out.

These blooms have a subtle scent, and the purple colour looks at home in summer centrepieces.

Heather

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Heather flowers symbolise good luck and protection. Queen Victoria popularised the heather as meaning good luck in England. As a result, it is common to include a sprig of white heather in a bride’s bouquet for luck.

Anthurium

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Anthuriums symbolise hospitality, abundance, and happiness, which are perfect for your wedding day! Their delicate heart shape will fit right in with your bouquet.

These flowers come in vibrant shades, or, for a more subtle approach, you can opt for a delicate green bloom.

Cornflower

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Cornflowers symbolise prosperity and friendship. Cornflowers usually have a gorgeous blue hue, but they are also available in white or pink.

The subtle tones make them a great addition to bridal or bridesmaid bouquets.

Dahlia

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Dahlias are a perfect wedding flower. These blooms mean commitment and an ever-lasting bond, and their bold bloom is elegant too.

When they are in season, you cannot go wrong with adding dahlias to your bouquet.

Magnolia

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In Chinese culture, the magnolia tree symbolises purity and nobility. The blooms have been used for healing and are thought to have been around for 20 million years!

Today, the flower symbolises perseverance, dignity, and a love of nature.

Sunflower

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Sunflowers are a big, bold, and vibrant choice often used as a focal flower in a summer bouquet. The sunflower represents purity, adoration, and dedicated love.

The sunflower looks even better when paired with the delicate blooms of baby’s breath or daisies.

Freesia

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The delicate freesia represents innocence and thoughtfulness.

The freesia can add a dash of colour to a bouquet, both for brides and bridesmaids. The delicate blooms are available in yellow, ivory, purple, and a stunning burnt orange.

Daisy

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Daisies mean innocence and purity. We all remember playing outside when we were young and making daisy chains. The happy memories make them a great addition to a bouquet!

Gerbera

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The gerbera is a member of the daisy family, but it tends to be much bolder and brighter than its more delicate cousin.

The gerbera has rows of overlapping petals and are often found in bold and beautiful colours. Their colours and a name that means cheerfulness make this is a popular bouquet choice.

Lilac

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If your partner is your childhood sweetheart, lilac could be a great to your bridal bouquet. The delicate blooms of lilac come in purple and white, and they symbolise first love.

Local lilacs can be found in spring, but brides can usually get access to imported lilacs all year round.

Orchid

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The exotic beauty of the orchid makes it an in-demand addition to a bouquet. But, unless you are careful with your seasons, it can end up being quite expensive.

The orchid represents thoughtfulness and charm, adding a dramatic touch to your bouquet.

Zinnia

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Gardeners love the zinnia because it attracts butterflies. For couples, the gorgeous colours, and meaning of lasting affection is enough to seal the deal.

Opt for a bold touch by adding a bright orange steam to a centrepiece or add a statement bloom to a bouquet.

Happy planning!

Check out some of our other top tips to help you plan your wedding stress-free.

Advice From The Experts: Choosing Your Perfect Wedding Photographer

Choosing your wedding photographer is one of the most important decisions you’ll make in the run-up to your big day. They’ll make your memories last forever – so you’ll want to make sure you find the person who’s going to capture your day perfectly. But with so many photographers, styles and packages out there, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed. That’s why we’ve called in the experts to give you their advice on finding your perfect match!

(Cover image from Paul Swift Photography)

Damien Burcher Photography

Where should couples look for wedding photographers?

“Sites like Bridebook, where you can find loads of photographers under one roof, are really helpful. But try Google or Pinterest too. Search for terms your dream photographer might be using, such as ‘light and airy wedding photographer in London’ and see who pops up.”

Queen Bea Wedding Photography

“Search Google for “wedding photographers” and you’ll be shown more than ninety million results… so that’s probably not much use! Post on Facebook and ask, “Anyone recommend a wedding photographer?” It’ll probably be the most popular post you’ve ever made! Again, this isn’t much use – there’ll be hundreds of photographers to choose from. Instead, use the wedding industry itself, such as wedding shows, venue recommendations and online wedding industry leaders like Bridebook.”

John Price Wedding Photography

Andi Watson Photography

What can help couples make a decision between different wedding photographers?

“Look for a full day of wedding shots by your potential photographer. It’s easy to be impressed by one or two ‘wow shots’ – but if the rest of the day isn’t consistent, you may be disappointed. Always ask to see galleries of the full day, ideally with a wedding similar to yours: a winter wedding or a barn wedding, for example. Another major point to consider is their experience. Particularly if it’s a winter wedding or a rainy day, finding a photographer with experience and knowledge of darker locations is very beneficial. You shouldn’t have to miss out on anything because of the weather!”

Laura Rachel Wedding Photography

“If you prefer to meet people in person, go to a big wedding fair. You can suss out a photographer’s vibe and check out physical copies of their work. They’re also a lot of fun!”

Queen Bea Wedding Photography

What should couples avoid when booking a wedding photographer?

“Try not to penny-pinch when it comes to your photography budget as you always get what you pay for. The average price of an experienced wedding photographer is £1500. If you can’t afford the photographer you like, ask what this includes. You could ask to have fewer hours or to have digital images only. This will likely bring the price down and you still get to have a professional, well experienced photographer.”

John Price Wedding Photographer

John Price Photography

How can couples make sure they get every shot they want?

“A pre-wedding meeting is a must – approximately six to eight weeks before the wedding date. A good wedding photographer knows what the most important moments are, but this is your chance to mention anything you’re particularly after. There’s no way to specify every single image you’d like throughout the day, but most photographers love getting a list of family photos you’d like to have (including specific pairings of people).”

Paul Swift Photography

“Preparation! Don’t wait until the wedding day – or worse, afterwards! – to realise there was a key shot missed. Do your research and work with your photographer to create a group photo list and a list of any must-have shots. If there’s a special ring tied to the bouquet, tell your photographer! And ask your photographer if there’s enough time for all your requests – you don’t want to be rushing on your wedding day.”

Laura Rachel Photography

“We encourage our clients to create a Pinterest board of wedding photos they love. This way, we can see what style of image resonates with our couples and what’s important to them.”

Andi Watson Photography

How can camera-shy couples feel more comfortable being photographed?

“Have a pre-wedding shoot. On top of receiving a great set of images, a pre-wedding shoot is a great way to build trust and friendship between the couple and the photographer. The couple gets to experience what it’s like to be photographed together and become more comfortable being photographed. In turn, the photographer is also able to see the couple’s personalities and how they react to the camera. I really can’t recommend a pre-wedding shoot enough.”

Paul Swift Photography

“The engagement shoot is a great opportunity to get to know your photographer – which makes getting your photo taken far easier if you’re at all camera shy! – and it’s also a good time to walk about the venue together and discuss ideas.”

Andi Watson Photography

Queen Bea Photography

Do you have any other top tips for couples looking for a wedding photographer?

“Consider two photographers. Having a second shooter is getting more and more common in wedding photography. It’s takes a considerable amount of effort to photograph an entire wedding solo, so you might want to ask your favoured photographer if they can offer a second photographer too. The price of an additional photographer at your wedding will have a great return on investment as it allows your main photographer to really focus on quality while the second shooter can concentrate on grabbing candid shots.”

Paul Swift Photography

“Book the style of photography you want – not what’s trendy, what the photographer wants, what all your friends used or what your dad or auntie think you should have. If you want something less traditional, with more colour and fun, go for it! At the end of the day, it’s your wedding – and a day you don’t get to repeat. Don’t have any regrets!”

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The Current COVID Wedding Rules in England

UPDATED: 14th June 2021

N.B. The following applies to weddings in England only. We are expecting official confirmation from the government tomorrow which will be updated here.

Finally, we can give you the news that we’ve all been waiting for – big weddings are back! The government has announced today that while other restrictions will remain in place, weddings with more than 30 guests will be able to go ahead in England from 21st June! Your patience and resilience through all of this have been incredible and we are so excited to watch you celebrate, even if there will still be some more restrictions in place than we had hoped for.

We know it can be tricky to work out exactly what these restrictions are and what is just guidance, but hopefully, we can help. Below are the latest rules, as reported by the Deputy Political Editor at The Telegraph. This should give some additional clarity about what is and isn’t allowed from 21st June.

From June 21st:

Allowed:

  • Unlimited attendees at wedding ceremonies and receptions, so long as they can be accommodated in a COVID-secure way
  • Musical entertainment, with a group of up to six performers allowed inside, and up to 30 performers allowed outdoors
  • The wedding couple’s first dance
  • Speeches, with the Government guidance urging that these take place outdoors or in a well-ventilated area where possible. Public address systems, such as microphones are preferable to raised voices.
  • Cutting of the cake
  • Guestbooks and camera stations are allowed, however, contact should be minimised, with hand sanitisation stations encouraged before and after use

Not Allowed:

  • Indoor dancing
  • Stand up drinks receptions at outdoor or indoor wedding venues

Advised Against:

  • Dancing outdoors
  • Communal singing, which includes hymns
  • Reusable service booklets and devotional materials. Single-use alternatives that can be binned should be used instead
  • Cash donations, with alternative online giving encouraged instead

Obligatory:

  • Facemasks must be worn indoors during wedding ceremonies and receptions, except for when eating and drinking
  • Table service for food and drink, with no more than six guests per table
  • Risk assessments are mandatory for all wedding venues, as well as guests celebrating on private land if more than 30 people are attending

Make sure you download the Bridebook app and update your wedding location and date. This will ensure you get breaking news that is relevant to your wedding, whenever it is announced. To get the latest updates follow #whataboutweddings and The UK Wedding Taskforce on Instagram.

10 Questions To Ask Your Wedding Videographer

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By David Christopher Photography

If you’ve decided you’re keen for a videographer, then let’s make sure you find one that is perfect for you. Like your photographer, they are going to be working in close proximity to you on one of the most important days of your life, so you want to make sure you like their style and them! Catching your wedding day on film is an amazing memento and one you will get teary over for years to come!  Before you hire one, let’s make sure you ask the right questions and find the best one for you…

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1) How long have you been filming weddings?

You will want to make sure that the person you hire is experienced enough to convey the atmosphere and emotions of the day on film – creating something Oscar worthy!

2) How would you describe your style?

Styles primarily divide into documentary (filming as the day unfolds) or cinematic (weaving the episodes of your wedding into a story). Both are absolutely great to look at, so choose whichever style you like best! Also discuss whether your video will be music based or dispersed with speech and wooping from guests – again this is completely your preference!

3) Have you worked with our photographer before?

Would you be open to meeting with them if not? The photographer and videographer work very closely on the wedding day and therefore need to get along and know how the other operates.

4) Have you worked at our reception venue before? If not, would you be up for visiting it with us – would this cost extra?

If your videographer is familiar with your wedding venue, they will know the best angles to film from and the best lighting opportunities.

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5) What kind of equipment do you use?

This may seem like a silly question if you don’t know a lot about cameras, however, this will give you an idea about how large the video equipment is, how the microphones will work and what sort of lighting the videographer intends to use.

6) How long do we have to wait to see the final result?

While you can get the raw footage, or the highlights video fairly soon after the wedding, the full film may take up to six months in editing, so make sure you’re happy with this.

7) What will the final result be?

One 10 minute video? Or a feature length with all of the full length speeches?

8) Can I choose the music for the film?

Many videographers are more than happy to do that, so have a discussion with them and have a list of favourite tunes at the ready. If they can’t use your exact song selection they might come up with great alternatives along the same vibe.

9) Who will own the copyright?

This is important as any additional copy will have to be paid for separately.

10) How many copies of the film do I get? And how much does it cost if we want to buy extras?

If you want to distribute the video to all your relatives abroad, you may want to find out how much an extra video costs before you make any promises!

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The Latest COVID Wedding News

Update: The Times has reported that the government will (finally!) lift the 30-person limit on weddings, even if the easing of other lockdown restrictions is delayed beyond June 21.

We will be keeping you all up to date if there are any changes to the rollout of weddings, so you’ll never miss the latest news. Download the Bridebook app today so that you are first to hear of any changes to policy that may affect your wedding.

Whilst restrictions are set to end on the 21st of June, weddings are still likely to be a little different for the next couple of years. The “new normal” will probably still affect a few things at your wedding. And while there may be no major fixed rules, we want to give you some tips on how to navigate through the early days after restrictions end.

Below are our top tips for planning a post-COVID wedding.

1. Keep up to date with latest government restrictions

Firstly, make sure that you know the particular COVID rules in your given area. Remember that there are often slight differences in policy between England, Scotland, Wales, and Northern Ireland. Keep up to date with everything here.

Also, while the government has said that there won’t be different rules for different regions, this policy may change. Particularly, if pockets of the countries see mini-outbreaks. Again, make sure you know the rules for your wedding location and your hometown. This way you won’t get caught out with any last-minute changes.

2. Make contingency plans for guests coming from abroad

One thing that definitely won’t be back to normal straightaway on 21st June is international travel. With new variants and differing vaccination rates, some restrictions on travel are sure to remain for a while.

As a result, we recommend making some contingency plans for any guests who are planning to come from abroad. Keep up to date with which countries are on which lists (red, amber, green). This will ensure you know which guests may need to quarantine and who may need to order tests for early release from quarantine. 

Travel rules are likely to remain in flux for some time yet, so do think about how you will mitigate this. Will you still go ahead with some live streaming options? A lot of venues now have this capability so do ask ahead of time. Similarly, we have seen some couples use computer tablets at tables for guests who are abroad and can’t make it to the ceremony.

Have a chat with your partner and work out what will work for you and your day.

3. Check your honeymoon destination

Since travel restrictions are likely to continue, you will also need to keep an eye on the rules for your honeymoon destination. Again, keep up to date with the latest for your particular country at the government-specific site.

Know what the quarantine rules are so that you can book the required time off and make sure you have your tests done well in advance.

Remember to do the same if you are having your hen do or stag do abroad, particularly if your bridesmaids or groomsmen aren’t quite as on-the-ball as you.

4. Keep your guests feeling safe

Even when restrictions end, some guests may still be nervous. It has been a really tough 18 months and some people want to take things a bit more cautiously than others. And that’s fine.

Make sure you know which of your guests might need a little more reassurance in advance. You can then provide badges for people who want to signal to others that they would like to keep their distance a bit more. 

You could seat them nearer to open doors or windows to get more ventilation. Simply increasing the number of sanitisation stations around the venue can put some people at ease.

Similarly, if you are a bit nervous about having your wedding straight after restrictions end, let your guests know what you expect from them. This way there won’t be any surprises on the day.

5. Talk to your venue about their safety measures

The staff at wedding venues want you and your guests to feel as safe as possible on your big day.

Many venues now have protocols for making a venue more COVID-secure. This can include greater distancing at tables, one-way systems around the property, and increased ventilation. As we mentioned above, many also have the ability to livestream parts of the event.

Chat to your venue to let them know what things you need on your particular day and they are likely to be very accommodating.

6. Download the Bridebook app

The Bridebook app is where you can get the latest and most up to date news for weddings. If things change, this is where you’ll find out first.

Update your date and let us know where you’ve booked your venue. Then we can provide you with the most relevant information for your specific wedding date and location.

7. Have fun!

Restrictions are due to end on 21st June, so there should be no major rules at your wedding outside of travel restrictions. Instead, it will be up to you to find the right balance for you and your guests. But remember, it has been an incredibly tough 18 months and one that we know people can’t wait to put behind them. People have never been in bigger need of a great party. Your wedding will be a celebration that will live long in the memory. So be safe, but enjoy it! You deserve the best day of your life.

FAQs: The Latest Wedding Rules in England Explained

England is currently in Stage 3 of unlocking, but what does this actually mean for your wedding?

We know that navigating through all of these regulations can be really tricky, so we are here to help. Our team has reviewed the current government advice and pulled together a list of the top FAQs so you can double-check you’re following all the guidelines for your big day.

A summary of the current guidelines: Weddings and civil partnerships can take place either indoors or outdoors at a Covid secure venue from May 17th.  The reception can include a seated meal and entertainment. Ceremonies and receptions are allowed in private gardens but not inside private homes. Stage 3 is expected to last until 20th June.  

Who is included within the 30 people? Up to 30 people can attend the wedding reception, not including any working staff. This 30 does however include children of any age. 

What counts as a Covid-secure venue? A venue that has completed a COVID specific risk assessment. We recommend you talk to your local authority or venue to find out more. 

Do guests need to wear masks? Face coverings are required by law indoors across the UK. Therefore, masks must be worn throughout the ceremony with the exception of the couple and officiant. Guests can remove face coverings when eating or drinking. 

Do guests need to be socially distanced? There is no longer a requirement to seat guests at socially distanced tables. There is a ‘greater emphasis’ on personal responsibility and people are encouraged to ‘exercise caution’ where necessary. Ultimately, this decision will be up to you. 

Is live music allowed at the reception? Indoor performances can take place but outdoor performances are ‘preferable’. Professional performers should make sure they adhere to the Performing Arts Guidance. Amateur choirs, bands and musicians can perform in a group of up to 6 indoors and up to 30 outdoors. 

Can there be dancing? Dancing is ‘advised against’ except for the couple’s first dance and dance floors must remain closed. Any close contact is deemed a personal choice. 

Is congregational singing allowed?  Communal singing should not take place indoors or outdoors at Step 3.

What counts as outdoors? An outdoor reception can be partially sheltered, however, 50% of the walled area must remain open. 

Can there be more than 6 guests at each table? This is down to a personal choice, but we recommend you check in with those attending, especially if some of your guests are vulnerable. 

Is confetti allowed? Confetti isn’t specifically mentioned in the guidance. However, activities such as cake cutting and game playing can take place provided appropriate measures are in place. There is much more detail within the document for specific cultural and religious features. We recommend you read up on this for more detail. 

Can we have features such as guest books and photo booths? As above, these are allowed but appropriate measures are encouraged, for example, adding multiple hand sanitisation stations.

Can we have a drinks reception? A standing drinks reception cannot take place. In line with the current guidance, food and drink must be ordered and consumed whilst seated. 

Are we allowed to stay overnight? In Step 3 of the roadmap, hotels are allowed to be open. Provided that your venue is legally allowed to be open during this step, you will be able to stay overnight.

What is next for weddings? 

We are so excited for champagne to be flowing, cakes to be cut and cheesy tunes to be pumping. The end of these restrictions is so near and we can’t wait to watch you (finally!) have your moment. We know how tough it’s been to watch your original date pass by, but your day is so close and trust us, it’ll be worth every second of the waiting. 

Here at Bridebook, we are pretty positive that restriction-free weddings will be allowed after June 21st. With the roadmap going according to plan and a strong vaccination rollout, we feel incredibly confident that you’ll be able to say “I do” in the way you dreamed of very soon. Keep your eyes peeled for new information, we promise we’ll update you as soon as we can.

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Venue Showcase: Ashmolean Museum

Set amongst the cityscape of Oxford’s dreaming spires, the Ashmolean Museum is a magnificent venue for your wedding, civil partnership or celebration.

A wedding venue like no other. Founded in 1683 the Ashmolean is the oldest public Museum in the world. Displaying half a million years of art and history, the spaces provide a stunning backdrop for a very special occasion. All our galleries are licenced which means we can offer intimate ceremonies at any time through to impressive evening receptions, dinners and dances combined with outstanding hospitality and entertainment.

Venue Showcase: Ashmolean Museum

Tell us a little bit about yourself

I love everything about weddings, and I am currently planning my own special day, so I can empathise with couples in a very real way. I realised my passion for event and wedding planning very early on when I helped four of my older siblings plan their weddings. Coming from an Asian cultural background I grew up surrounded by the excitement and buzz of large family gatherings and weddings, involving a series of celebratory events that can sometimes stretch out for a period of two weeks before the actual wedding day!

Weddings are such incredible events, from the moment we first connect with couples, to when they make their vows and onto the reception – there is just nothing like them.

What an emotional rollercoaster this past year has been! I have had to postpone our wedding date three times now and I know first-hand how overwhelming this feels. Not only have couples had to navigate through the financial implications on paid deposits, they’ve had all their enjoyment curtailed by all the stops and starts with (re)arranging. It also became very clear that couples were not only having to process their own emotions but were also having to manage questions and disappointment from families and friends.

In my spare time, I love to travel and read up on the latest archaeological discoveries! I studied Archaeology so any chance I get to visit and immerse myself into different cultures, I just have to grab it! I am a big foodie and I love experimenting with our in-house chefs on how we can push the boundaries to create an exceptional new culinary experience.

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What drew you to the wedding world?

My role at the Ashmolean combines two of my passions; history and delivering incredible bespoke events to each couple. When I moved back to the UK from Israel and had the opportunity to return to the museum it was a dream come true. I was in awe of the weddings hosted at the Ashmolean so when there was an opening in the team I jumped at the chance. To me there is something absolutely enchanting about getting married in a city like Oxford, so steeped in tradition, and there is something even more magical about getting married amongst half a million years of human history.

No two couples are the same and so none of the Ashmolean’s weddings are the same either. The team and I pride ourselves in carefully curating each wedding so it is a truly unique reflection of each couple. My favourite part of being a wedding event manager is getting to know the couple and finding elements from our enriching and stunning art and archaeology collections that can be incorporated to personalise their day. The team and I strive to carefully tailor each wedding so that guests feel every element is a reflection of the couple’s love story, from the galleries we use through to the catering that reflects their backgrounds, flavours and favourite dishes from their childhood.

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What do you think makes The Ashmolean Museum unique?

The Ashmolean is the oldest public museum in the world. Displaying half a million years of art and history, the spaces provide a stunning backdrop for a very special occasion. All our galleries are licensed which means we can offer intimate ceremonies at any time through to impressive evening receptions, dinners and dances combined with outstanding hospitality and entertainment.

What sets us above and beyond other venues is our exceptional attention to the guests’ experience. Our friendly and professional team of wedding event assistants have been trained to deliver the highest quality of customer service, so wedding guests feel special and well looked-after by our team during their time with us. The team are also knowledgeable about our world-class collections and are able to entertain guests on the incredible objects and pieces of art around them. They are great at revealing the sensational and fun or quirky facts not mentioned on the labels!

Planning a wedding can be one of the most stressful times in a couple’s life. As the dedicated wedding manager, I work with the couple and their family to make the experience stress-free and enjoyable. I support them through the emotions they feel during the process and offer them my professional experience and practical guidance to help plan their special day.

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How do you get to know your couples before the big day?

The Ashmolean boasts a team of passionate and experienced event and wedding managers. They are dedicated to playing their part in making your wedding or celebration truly memorable.

We have regular meetings with our couples so we know what makes them tick; this is vital so we can ensure that weddings go smoothly. I cannot emphasise enough how important it is to listen to what couples envision for their day. It is only through listening that we are able to pick up on a common thread or theme and get to the heart of the emotion and aesthetics they are trying to portray for their day. Once we have that we can suggest creative ideas and themes that incorporate this beautifully.

My favourite part is getting to know the couple and their unique love story and weaving in galleries and collections that are relevant to their story. With a treasure trove of the most beautiful old master paintings and ancient objects we are spoiled with choice. For example, we had one couple where the groom had a Scottish background and the bride a Coptic Egyptian background. To make the day unique to them we incorporated a blessing ceremony in the Egyptian galleries followed by a bagpiper leading guests from the ceremony gallery, all the way up to the wedding breakfast via the museum’s impressive cascading staircase! We also worked closely with the couple to offer a tantalising menu that reflected the couple’s favourite Scottish and Egyptian dishes. In the past we have offered ‘night at the museum’ tours, taking guests to view collections from areas of the world the couple had travelled to.

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What do you think makes for the perfect wedding?

Chemistry. Chemistry between the couple of course, but also between the guests and all the different suppliers. There are so many moving parts that need to be on point on your special day and having suppliers that have great rapport with one another makes everything work smoothly.

Over the years we have developed relationships with trusted suppliers to support events at the museum. This means we can offer our clients a curated list of suppliers and creatives who share our values and meet our high standards. Their familiarity with our event spaces means they can work with your ideas and bring them to life in the museum.

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What’s the most memorable wedding you’ve had at Ashmolean Museum?

We had a couple where the groom’s family were from Germany and the bride’s were from Japan. Both families flew in for the occasion and arrived in the city of Oxford for the week of the wedding. As this was the first time many of the extended families had met, we thought what better way to introduce their guests to one another and ‘break the ice,’ than to host an informal rehearsal dinner in our rooftop dining room. We treated the group to a fun and engaging ‘night at the museum’ tour, incorporating highlights from our Germanic and Japanese collections. Later that week for the actual wedding day, both couples incorporated traditional wedding customs from both sides including having a Japanese tea ceremony in the museum’s very own Japanese tea house.

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Why should a couple book Ashmolean Museum?

The Ashmolean has been telling stories since 1683 and we want you to add yours to our collection. We understand that every wedding is different which is why our expert team are on hand to tailor your day. An experienced team supported by an exclusive catering partner and handpicked suppliers will bring your dream celebration to life. Whether you decide to make a grand entrance, have an intimate exchange of vows in the presence of a few loved ones, dine like royalty or party the night away, the Ashmolean offers the most magnificent backdrop to your occasion.

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What is your #1 wedding planning tip for couples?

Stay true and authentic to who you both are and trust your instinct! Just because something looks incredible and is currently in vogue doesn’t mean it is right for you. Each couple is different and what may suit one will not be appropriate for another. So, as much as someone tries to convince you that you ‘need’ a particular wedding item, theme, dress, flowers etc., remember to check in with yourself on whether that actually is your taste and a reflection of you. In a world of Instagram, Pinterest boards and wedding blogs, it is easy to get carried away with following the latest trend and before you know it, your wedding starts to look like someone else’s day. Social media platforms and blogs can be great to get a feel for what you resonate with and it’s fantastic to find wedding suppliers that match your tastes. It is also very easy to fall down an endless rabbit hole and lose a sense of what is most important about your special day. Which is the both of you, who you are and celebrating your love and commitment to one another, in a fashion that is true to your union.

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What’s the best photo spot at Ashmolean Museum?

The Forecourt – The imposing façade will not fail to impress your guests as they arrive at the museum. The iconic portico and neo classical architecture offer a fantastic opportunity for photographs. It’s also a great space for a welcome drinks reception on a summer evening and is one of the few historic venues in Oxford to permit biodegradable confetti outside. All under the watchful eye of the Greek god Apollo, who perches on the centre of the pediment of the entrance. It is only fitting that wedding guests are welcomed beneath a statue of Apollo as the western tradition of having a wedding band placed on the left hand ring finger came from the Romans, who inherited it from the ancient Greeks. This finger was referred to as Apollo’s finger as he was associated with marriage. The Greeks believed there was a vein that ran from this finger straight to the heart.

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What part of your business are you most proud of? 

Our ability to adapt. We were one of the first venues in the UK to be COVID-secure and offer hybrid weddings. Not only offering live streaming but embracing the challenges presented by social restrictions, looking at creative ways to work with suppliers and couples on how to re-imagine their wedding whilst keeping it special and memorable, within the guidelines.

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How do you feel technology is changing the industry?

It is a very innovative and exciting time to be an event professional and we love to be the first to incorporate new technologies to enhance our clients’ experience. At the Ashmolean we know how important your wedding is and understand that for many reasons some guests may not be able to be with you on the day. Now everyone can take part. We can help you to share this special time with your friends and family, wherever they are in the world. Our discrete and professional live streaming service is the perfect way to include all your loved ones and to ensure that they don’t miss a moment. They can join in the excitement and emotion as if they were with you in the room. The final bonus is that couples get a copy of the stream to keep forever; a wonderful way to save the memory of your perfect day! We have the experience, so leave it to us to arrange it with our technology partner.

Hybrid weddings are definitely here to stay! We have worked with our couples to consider how they can enhance the experience of their guests who are tuning into the live stream so they feel involved in the day. Our caterers can even arrange to send virtual guests a wedding meal, bottle of fizz or slice of wedding cake to enjoy during the ceremony to enhance their interaction with the couple and attending wedding guests, even sharing messages and photos with the couple live during the reception.

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What is the one piece of advice you would give to couples that are currently struggling amidst the COVID-19 crisis?

Keep the faith. The recent announcements on the easing of lockdown measures are very encouraging. As a bride-to-be I have experienced the stress, random panic attacks and the worry that important family members won’t be able to take part in the day, but I am hopeful that normality is coming back very soon.

It is very easy to get swept away with all the wedding planning and trying to make your wedding day reflect a certain vision you have always had. But it is important to remember that just because you always thought you wanted a certain type of wedding years ago, once you strip all of that back, the only thing that really matters is that you get to express your love and enduring commitment to the one you love.

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What do you love about Bridebook?

Bridebook have been fantastic to us – they named us as one of Britain’s top venues which gave a welcome boost to the team. Their account management has been second to none. Kane, who is our main contact, has been very supportive during this period.

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Final Comments

If you want to experience the magic that the Ashmolean has to offer, we would love to hear from you. We will also be hosting future virtual wedding fairs, where our most trusted and hand-picked wedding suppliers will be giving you their top tips when planning a wedding. Our first one was a huge success; you can watch the highlight video here.

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Venue Showcase: Ashridge House

Searching for a dream wedding venue? Look no further! Take advantage of what this stunning historic venue has to offer, from beautiful views to a magnificent sweeping staircase.

We talked to Natalie, the Events Marketing Manager at Ashridge House, to find out more about this magical venue.

Tell us about yourself!

I am a mum to two boys (my main job!), I have worked in the wedding business for five years and in my free time I like to be creative and bake brownies. I have started writing a children’s book, and am going to try and illustrate it when the story is finished. If it’s terrible I will put it in a drawer and never show anyone!

What drew you to the wedding world?

It happened by accident! I was working in the events industry with corporate clients and when I joined the Ashridge House team, weddings are a key part of the Ashridge DNA. The whole team loves the wedding industry and it is easy to see why, it’s wonderful to work with our lovely couples and create a bespoke day filled with forever memories. It truly is an honour to be part of such a special moment at the beginning of our couples married life.

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What do you think makes Ashridge House unique?

Ashridge House is very special, the site dates back to 1283 and Ashridge was a former royal residence to King Henry VIII and home to his daughter Princess Elizabeth. However what makes Ashridge House truly special is the dedicated team here and our ethos to welcome our couples and make them feel comfortable so they feel Ashridge House is their home away from home. The beautiful gardens and grounds at Ashridge House are the jewel of the estate and gives our couples a sense of serenity (we have 190 acres of private gardens for our couples to explore!), and no matter what the season, the grounds always look spectacular thanks to our dedicated gardens team. We have a fantastic food and beverage team who work closely with our couples to ensure they have the perfect wedding breakfast with their family and loved ones to enjoy, the team here also love a challenge and will find a solution for any requests. Every wedding is different and the team here love to be as creative as possible to deliver the most beautiful and bespoke day for our couples.

How do you get to know your couples before the big day?

After the initial show arounds, we invite our couples to visit Ashridge House to meet their wedding coordinator and start planning their day. Couples will also meet their suppliers onsite and have their menu tasting here so ideally they will have visited Ashridge House many times before their big day, and will feel at home and relaxed before their wedding day.

What do you think makes for the perfect wedding?

When everyone is smiling and your couple are lost in the moment together.

What is your #1 wedding planning tip for couples?

Try and make the planning fun and part of your wedding journey, get your girlfriends involved and make your planning days a celebration, and enjoy some fizz afterwards!

What do you love about Bridebook?

I love their personal service, J’uanita has helped Ashridge House navigate through these challenging times and is a font of all knowledge!

What’s the most memorable wedding you’ve had at Ashridge House?

Every wedding is memorable and each couple becomes part of our history and DNA. We had a beautiful Russian ballerina bride and she arranged for ballet dancers to perform on the staircase in the Grand Hall during the ceremony, that was magical and breath-taking!

Why should a couple book Ashridge House?

The weddings and events team at Ashridge House go above and beyond to help our couples achieve the wedding of their dreams. We work together with our couples and build trust so that on the day, they can relax and enjoy one of the most important days of their life.

What’s the best photo spot at Ashridge House?

That’s a difficult question as all the grounds are lovely, I love Laburnum Walk, Rhododendron Walk and The Rosary!

What part of your business are you most proud of?

I am really proud of the events team and how they have adapted over the last 12 months, for example we now have personalised virtual showarounds and are hosting a virtual wedding showcase on Sunday 21st March 2021. The team have adapted and pivoted in response to the ever changing times.

How do you feel technology is changing the industry?

Technology has been vital to the weddings industry especially over the pandemic, we have been able to stay in touch with all our couples over Zoom and reassure them we are still here and will help them move their date if needed.

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What is the one piece of advice you would give to couples that are currently struggling amidst the COVID-19 crisis?

Share moments of joy. And even in the hard times, try and find reasons to laugh together. Love wins always!

A huge thank you to Natalie for answering our questions. Check out Ashridge House on Bridebook! They have an exciting Virtual Wedding Fair coming up soon click ‘here‘ to find out more.

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Bridebook is proud to announce their partnership with Papier, one of the leading wedding stationery brands in the UK

Bridebook is proud to announce their partnership with Papier, one of the leading wedding stationery brands in the UK

Let’s talk wedding stationery – the perfect way to set the tone of your special day, get creative and, most importantly, let your loved ones know that your wedding is soon approaching!

Bridebook is excited to announce we have partnered with Papier, one of the leading wedding stationery brands in the industry, to help our couples design their perfect stationery.

Papier is unique as they collaborate with talented artists and illustrators to bring our couples all the designs they will need for their big (or little) day – from save the dates & invitations to menus, guest books, thank you cards & more. 

Sophie Agar, Brand Director at Papier comments, “At Papier, we believe that stationery is a very special part of your wedding story. We’re so excited to be working with Bridebook to share our collections with you all.

Wedding stationery can be personalised at Papier and is expertly printed on sustainably sourced paper in England. Choose from different paper thicknesses, finishes such as gold or silver foiling, and order samples to see how your designs look and feel. Papier’s friendly experts are on hand to help with any questions.  

Browse Papier’s wedding stationery options:  

Save the Dates

Set the tone for your wedding with Papier’s save the dates. Illustrated, foiled and photo designs can be paired with matching invitations and are available with or without envelopes. Prefer to send a digital save the date? Papier can help with that too.

Wedding Invitations

Calligraphy, floral, classic, modern – Papier has invitations to suit every couple’s style. All sets come with optional matching info cards, RSVP cards, pre-addressed RSVP envelopes & you can also get all your guests’ addresses printed on the envelopes to save you valuable time!

On the Day Designs

Add the finishing touches with orders of service, table plans, guest books, menus and place names. They’ll tie the details of your day together and give your guests little keepsakes to hold onto after the event.  

Happy Planning!

Ready to order your wedding stationery for your big day? Send your request to Papier ‘Wedding stationery

If you’d like more advice on wedding stationery, below are some useful articles:

 

Venue Showcase: Saltcote Place

Thinking about the wedding of your dreams? This magical venue has far reaching views, formal gardens, and exclusive use.

We talked to Paul, the Owner at Saltcote Place, to find out more about this unique venue.

Tell us about yourself!

We have over 10 years experience of planning both exceptional and intimate Celebrations. Weddings are an indulgent hobby we really enjoy. We choose to host enough Celebrations to keep the building well maintained and not so many that it loses the magic. We never do back to back and rarely do a wedding a week preferring to enjoy the engagement with our couples. It takes on average 18 months from initial enquiry to the big day, this gives us all time to enjoy pizzas and a few glasses of wine as we get to know each other as well as the inlaws and outlaws. The end result we often hear is “it’s like getting married at our mates place” that’s the objective, as a result we have made some wonderful friendships. In our private lives have other interests in property, commerce and software.

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What drew you to the wedding world?

It’s amazing that anyone can have this much fun at your own home.

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What do you think makes Saltcote Place unique?

It’s personal, we don’t pay sales people to be nice to our Guests, we take that pleasure ourselves.

How do you get to know your couples before the big day?

Pizza, Pasta, meals out and the occasional glass of wine. It’s not a conference or a works party – a Wedding is a Celebration of two families seeing the ones they love step out on a magical journey. We make sure in-laws and out-laws also come and see the venue so they feel as comfortable as the couple. This approach ensures everyone feels comfortable, these feelings end up with all of the guests knowing they are not attending a faceless hotel, the owners are engaged and it’s personal with nothing too much trouble. This personal approach is reflected in our TripAdvisor reviews where we have been Number 1 in the UK, No3 in the World and Number 1 locally for 11 years.

What do you think makes for the perfect wedding?

Respect, great communications, a detailed plan that’s shared and understood by all parties including suppliers with regard to setup and exit times.

What is your #1 wedding planning tip for couples?

Relax – if you write down your plan in a shared space it will be perfect.

What do you love about Bridebook?

We recommend all of our couples use the app to simplify the planning process.

What’s the most memorable wedding you’ve had at Leez Priory?

A Princess from Ghana, the cultural differences, the colours and music and two wonderful families focussed on a magical celebration. Another equally magical celebration involved Aunty Vera who corralled the bridesmaids for a few days before the big day using prosecco and music to get the party started, from the after party brunch the day after and a few days staying locally made these Weddings memorable for the best possible reasons.

Why should a couple book Saltcote Place?

Bespoke Celebrations without a package in sight. Packages belong to the post office.

What’s the best photo spot at Saltcote Place?

At the end of the garden you can see the curve of the earth and see for about 30 unobstructed miles.

What part of your business are you most proud of?

The friendships we have as a result of Weddings.

How do you feel technology is changing the industry?

Collaboration tools ensure there is only one Hymn sheet lead by the Couple guided by a partner and involving all suppliers.

What is the one piece of advice you would give to couples that are currently struggling amidst the COVID-19 crisis?

Never lose sight of what brought you together, be prepared to be flexible and to roll over if needed. We have rolled one couple over since 2018 and hope to see them get married in 2021. We have not increased their price.

A huge thank you to Paul for answering our questions. Check out Saltcote Place on Bridebook!

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Venue Showcase: Thief Hall

Thief Hall is your perfect blank canvas wedding barn venue in North Yorkshire. Put your own unique stamp on your wedding day by choosing your caterers, entertainment, additional décor and anything you like with absolutely no restrictions.

You gain access to the venue the day before your wedding celebration from 10 am until the day after, offering you both the chance to relax with family, guests, and friends, making your three day wedding ceremony truly magical!

Jessica, the manager at Thief Hall, gives us a taste of what can be expected from this stunning wedding venue.

Tell us a little bit about yourself

My husband and I renovated Thief Hall in 2007 and opened in 2009, we have two children, Clara and James and just love family holidays together.

What drew you to the wedding world?

We started Thief Hall with 4 holiday cottages and it just evolved from a marquee venue to barn now sleeping up to 60 guests.

What do you think makes Thief Hall unique?

The views outshine most places in the UK and our supporting staff with no rules ethos makes you and your guests feel so comfortable.

How do you get to know your couples before the big day?

We are here 24/7 for all of our couples.

What do you think makes for the perfect wedding?

Making the whole weekend so special and about the couple 100%.

What’s the most memorable wedding you’ve had at Thief Hall?

We had an amazing woodland wedding with Lucy and Matt including a marreeokee.

Why should a couple book Thief Hall?

No rules, no finish times, no noise restrictions and yet 100% support over your three days.

What is your #1 wedding planning tip for couples?

Organise your timeline before booking your church or registrars

What’s the best photo spot at Thief Hall?

There are so many from woodlands to road and sunsets to beat most

What part of your business are you most proud of? 

How we strive to improve and grow

How do you feel technology is changing the industry?

Virtual viewings and weddings fairs are really working for us

What is the one piece of advice you would give to couples that are currently struggling amidst the COVID-19 crisis?

Remember why you are getting married, love will win!!

What do you love about Bridebook?

The continued support, our account manager Kane is super!

 

A huge thank you to Jessica for answering our questions. Check out Theif Hall on Bridebook!

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How can I plan my wedding during lockdown? 8 things you can do to ensure you have the smoothest wedding planning experience.

Getting engaged is one of the most exciting moments of your life, tears of joy won’t stop streaming, and you can’t stop gazing at your newly bejeweled finger. But once this initial excitement begins to wear off, a sudden rush of “what now!?” begins to kick in. Don’t worry – Bridebook are here to help. 

Wedding planning can be daunting even at the best of times, and the current government restrictions to curb the spread of Coronavirus may have you feeling you can’t get started with your planning. At Bridebook, we’d like to help you navigate this stressful time by discussing 8 things that you CAN do right now to ensure the smoothest wedding planning experience.

1. Designate a wedding planning day

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It is time to get organised! Making decisions early is the best way to ensure the smoothest wedding planning process. Dedicating one day a week can be the perfect way to ensure that tasks get ticked off and other priorities (like Netflixin’ your favourite show!) do not get in the way.

Knowing where to begin with planning your big day can be overwhelming. Our personalised Wedding Planning Checklist is here to help guide you through the entire planning process. Based on your wedding date, your bespoke Checklist will let you know when to complete each task including pricing guides and suggestions along the way.

2. Reflection

It’s important to sit down with your partner and think about what you both want from your wedding. Will it be a small and intimate occasion or an extravagant party with hundreds of guests? Make sure you reflect and think hard about what is most important to the both of you, as a couple. 

Start researching and looking for inspiration. You can then add any picture or ideas, from perfect playlists, to funny speech ideas to your Bridebook Scrapbook.

3. Budget

Screenshot of Bridebook app Budget Tool

Once you have reflected on the kind of wedding you both want, you need to decide how much you are willing and able to spend. Let Bridebook do the hard work for you! With data from over 500,000 weddings, our super powerful Wedding Budget Tool helps you keep track right from the beginning. Simply enter your total budget and we will tell you how much you should spend on every expense from start to finish. 

4. Guest List

Making decisions on your guest list can be a complicated process, from deciding who to invite, to keeping note of guest information along the way.

Bridebook’s Wedding Guest List Tool allows you to easily keep track of your invites, RSVPs and total attending guests. Your Guest List is split into two – one for you and one for your partner – but you can also create as many custom lists as you like! For example, ‘work friends’ or ‘childhood friends’. Your Guest List is ready to help you track all the nitty gritty details: you can track plus ones, dietary requirements, addresses and more.

5. Booking Your Venue

Countryside Venue with glowing lanterns

Finding the perfect wedding venue is one of the most important tasks on your checklist, and one which may seem near impossible in the midst of a global pandemic. However, thanks to the power of technology and innovative wedding venue teams, this is completely possible!

Bridebook has thousands of exceptional wedding venues with many of them offering virtual tours and show rounds. Get comfortable, open a bottle of wine and explore the delights of stunning venues across the country from your very own living room. When you enquire with venues, make sure to ask if they can offer a virtual show round – some are even using Facetime! We’d also advise you to keep an eye out for venues listing 360 tours. 

6. Booking Suppliers

Again, this is something super fun which you can enjoy within the comfort of your own home. Keep reaching out to suppliers, as many are offering virtual services such as delivering tasting samples or pre-recorded videos – whilst unconventional, this can absolutely become a fun night-in with your partner.

Invite your friends and family to a Zoom call where you watch a number of wedding bands until you find your perfect match. How about ordering in some sample cake boxes for taste testing with your partner? Or even get creative and create your ideal wedding make-up, by following different tutorials available online.

7. The Little Things

Two hands holding a paper crafted heart

Make the most of these dark cold months by getting on top of all the small tasks which will make your wedding wonderful. There are so many little things that you will need for your big day and now is the time to start a list. This might be thinking about gifts for your bridesmaids and page boys or wedding favours for guests. You could even get into some DIY and make some crafts yourself such as name cards, signs or photo boards for the day itself.

8. Enjoy your Engagement!

Weddings are incredibly special. It is important to enjoy this experience, together. Take some well deserved time off before you are rushed back to the speed of ‘normality’. Go for long walks, cook some delicious food, read a few books and most of all embrace having the love of your life by your side!

Looking for some more wedding planning tips? Check out our other wedding articles below.

How to plan your wedding remotely

Post-quarantine wedding trends

Why having a weekday wedding can be the best decision you make

Top tips for having a 15 person wedding (or ceremini)

Amazing deals and discounts for couples

Happy Planning!

5 reasons you should try out wedding venue virtual tours

1. Save time

Engaged couple browsing wedding venue virtual tours on their laptop on their sofa in their living room

Virtual tours are so simple! And you can view them right from Bridebook. You can do as many virtual tours as it takes to visit one venue in person. This means you can take a look around a few more to find the one that’s perfect for you.

No need to agree on a shortlist of five venues that you’ll visit in one weekend. Check out 10 in one afternoon. All from the comfort of your sofa!

Wrapped up warm with a big mug of hot chocolate. Now that’s how we like to plan weddings. ☕

2. Save money

Engaged couple at home looking at saving money by browsing wedding venue virtual tours at home

Weddings can be expensive. So it’s fantastic when you find the little shortcuts that save you some money. Check out our article on saving tips here.

Well, virtual tours can be a money saver too! Try virtual tours and save the money you would have spent on petrol or public transport. Then you can splash out on those little extras on your special day, guilt free. Sounds like a win-win to us!

3. Get excited

Married couple standing in front of Hodsock Priory wedding venue in Nottinghamshire, UK

We know things are tough at the moment. Like, really tough. And sometimes, we just need to think ahead and get excited about what life will be like once this pandemic is over.

A bit of escapism is good for everyone and what better way than planning the best party of your life! Get your partner, grab a glass of wine and block out an evening. It’s time for fantasising about your dream venue. 🏰

For more day-to-day escapism, follow us on Instagram, where it’s positive vibes only from us.

4. Get ahead

Inside of the beautiful Micklefield Hall wedding venue in Hertfordshire, UK

Lockdowns have been hard. But when this is all over, people are going to be in serious need of a party.

We’re going to have more weddings than ever before. People have been postponing their big day for over a year now and some of the most popular dates are filling up fast.

By taking a virtual tour, you can feel more confident about putting down a deposit to secure a date. A lot of venues are being more flexible with deposits in the current circumstances, so do ask and see what they can do for you!

By securing your date, you can put your feet up and rest easy, while others scramble to get their preferred date once the unlocking starts.

5. Get inspired

Inside of the stunning and inspiring Gildings Barns wedding venue in Surrey, UK

Doing a virtual tour can help you picture your own wedding more easily. Often, this can generate ideas for couples about how they want their day to run and what else they might need to plan.

Looking at the lawn area might inspire you to have a cocktail hour before dinner to make the most of the location. Or perhaps that old school dancefloor might just tip the balance in favour of that DJ you’d been checking out.

Planning a wedding is hard. There are just so many options! Doing a virtual venue tour is the perfect way to picture you and your partner on your big day.

Haven’t found your dream wedding venue yet? Browse some incredible wedding venues all over the country:

Or have a look at some of our other wedding venue articles:

Amazing Deals and Discounts for Couples

Woman being very happy by sea at sunet

Deals & Discounts

2020 has been a challenging time for couples planning their weddings and with the holidays coming up, Bridebook has proudly partnered with a range of different companies to offer some amazing deals and discounts to our couples.

Check out all the great deals and discounts below…

1. e-there – 25% off self-stream packages

We know that planning your wedding this year has been harder than ever, especially when it comes to knowing how many loved ones will be able to join you.

So we’ve teamed up with award-winning streaming platform, E-There. Enabling you to live stream and record your special day, you can share your happiest memories with those who matter most, no matter what.

We’ve got a special discount just for Bridebook couples. Use code Bridebook25 to get 25% off self-stream packages!

Self-stream your wedding now!

2. Virgin Wines – 50% off on 12 Luxurious Wines

We’ve teamed up with our friends at Virgin Wines to offer our couples a generous HALF PRICE saving on 12 luxurious wines from around the world.

Boasting silky-smooth Gran Reserva, crisp and refreshing Sauvignon Blanc, fruit-filled Malbec and more, these wines are normally worth up to £11.99 a bottle, but are yours for just £5.49 each – complete with free express delivery direct to your door!

This offer also acts as the perfect introduction to Virgin Wines’ WineBank service, which allows you to earn 20% interest on the money you save, giving you big discounts on the wines you want… and all with free express delivery as standard.

12 Bottle Luxury SelectionJust £65.88 (was £131.88) – Plus free express delivery

Save 50% off Luxurious Wines now!

Terms and conditions: Also available as an all-red or all-white wine selection. New customers only. UK Delivery only. You must be 18 years of age or over to buy alcohol. Full terms and conditions.

3. Stillwhite – 10% Discount to selling your wedding dress

Is your wedding dress collecting dust in the back of your closet? Then it might be time to give it another life!

Stillwhite are the world’s largest online wedding dress marketplace, and they’re helping brides to sell their wedding dresses.

There are no ongoing fees, and there’s zero commission on the sale. Simply pay a one-time listing fee (£17 Standard or £27 Premium) to list your dress until it’s sold. Our Bridebook brides get a 10% discount on their one-time listing fee!

Check out the marketplace now!

Are you yet to find your dream wedding dress? Well Stillwhite can help here too, they’re helping future brides to buy their special dress at a fraction of the retail price.

By choosing Stillwhite, not only are you saving money but you’re also doing your part for the planet by opting for sustainable, second-hand fashion!

Browse amazing wedding dresses now!

4. Papier – 25% off wedding stationery packages

Papier are one of UK’s largest stationery retailers and offer incredible and unique wedding stationery packages, perfect for you!

Papier collaborate with amazing artists, illustrators and calligraphers to bring you unique wedding stationery collections that you won’t find anywhere else.

Get 25% off wedding stationary packages now!

5. NameSwitch – 10% off changing your name

 If you got married recently and are still considering changing your name, we’d love to introduce you to our friends over at NameSwitch. They make the whole process super quick and smooth, and have some amazing packages available.

We’ve got you covered with these 10% off discount codes:

  • For the digital ePackage use: BBDIGITAL
  • For the Print Package use: BBPRINT

Change Your Name Now!

Partners we love

We have also partnered with some incredible companies, offering some amazing services that we know you’ll love just as much as us. Below are some of our favourite partners…

Marriage Gift List – Unlimited Choice Wedding Gift List Service

We know how exciting but stressful organising a wedding can be, so Marriage Gift List are here to offer a helping hand and make things that little bit easier. They are the perfect wedding gift list, giving you easy access to pick and choose gifts from any online store. 

The choice is yours and it’s free to use! At Marriage Gift List, you get exactly what you ask for, at the price that you find, and with no additional fees.

Create your free gift list now!

Want to find out more about Marriage Gift List? Check out our Marriage Gift List article.

Patchwork – The gift list innovators

Patchwork is a global platform that lets friends contribute cash, time and skills towards a group gift or event. For engaged couples, Patchwork offer 2 incredible services:

1. Wedding Gift Registry

Patchwork allows couples to create an alternative wedding gift registry, allowing your guests to collectively fund and chip in towards that one amazing gift you really want. Whether it’s a weekend in Paris, or a beautiful piece of art, with Patchwork wedding guests come together to fund one big gift – piece by piece. 

Create your Wedding Registry now!

2. Honeymoon Fund

Patchwork allows couples to show wedding guests their dream honeymoon as a collection of images. So family and friends can choose exactly which part of the trip to treat them to – £200 for a night in a stunning hotel, £50 for dinner or £10 for cocktails on the beach.

Create your Honeymoon Fund now!

Want to find out more about Patchwork? Check out our Patchwork article now!