The 155 Best Songs to Walk Down the Aisle To

There are loads of songs that play throughout your wedding day, from the tunes that welcome your guests before the ceremony to the absolute bangers that play throughout the night at your reception. Music helps set the scene, builds romance and excitement, and complements what is already an absolutely beautiful day.

When you think of wedding music, one of the first songs you might think of is the one you walk down the aisle to. And for good reason. It’s the song playing when the two of you meet eyes from each end of the aisle as your guests watch on. It’s a song you’ll both remember forever and will always hold a special place in your hearts.

Needless to say, it’s a pretty big decision. There are so many wonderful pieces of music out there, that you might not know where to start. Or, you might not have a clue about the sort of songs you can walk down the aisle to at all.

So, we’ve created this list of the best songs to accompany you down the aisle to help you make this crucial decision. We’ve included everything from the classics through to alternative contemporary hits, so you can walk down the aisle to a song that perfectly fits with you and your theme for the big day.

Why is choosing a wedding aisle song important?

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The song you walk down the aisle to is so much more than just background music. It sets the scene for one of the biggest moments of your life and helps establish the tone for the entire day. It’s usually one of the standout moments of any wedding, so you’re probably incredibly keen to make the right decision about which song you should have during your big moment.

In all honesty, there’s no right song to walk down the aisle to – only the song that’s right for you. But, what that means can vary from couple to couple. To help narrow it down for you, think about the following points and see how certain songs might fit into that.

  • How does the song reflect your love story? It might be the lyrics, the notes, the tune or something else.
  • How does the song fit with the tone of the ceremony? You might be going for traditional, joyful, religious, or have a specific theme.
  • Does the song have a strong emotional connection? Many songs you walk down the aisle to are about love, but it doesn’t necessarily need to be about love for it to work.
  • Does rhe song reflect your personality? Choosing a song is a great opportunity to have it express who you are.

How long should a wedding aisle song be?

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The length of the song you walk down the aisle to doesn’t need to be too long, but the minimum length will depend on the size of your venue.

Most songs are around three to four minutes long, which is usually long enough. But, if you have a large wedding and therefore a large venue, think about how long this walk might take and if your chosen song will be long enough.

You may also choose to have a separate song playing for the bridal party. If not, this time should also be considered when making your choice.

If you’re keen to use a shorter song, there’s no harm in making edits to make sure it’s more than long enough. Or, if there’s a particular section of a song you like, you could edit it down so your favourite part definitely features.

Can you walk down the aisle to a song with lyrics?

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Yes, it’s becoming more common for couples to choose a song with lyrics. So, if this is something you’d like to do, then you should definitely go for it! Traditionally, instrumental songs are used, but songs with lyrics can have a fantastic emotional connection and can ensure a memorable impact.

If you are going with a song with lyrics, make sure you fully understand the message behind them before making your choice. You ideally want something with a romantic or positive meaning, which reflects the joy of your big moment. For that reasons, you might not want to pick something that has a darker meaning or has swearing or something controversial in there. You want the focus of the moment to be on you, not on the music per se, after all!

Should you have live or prerecorded music to walk down the aisle to?

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Both live and prerecorded music can contribute to a beautiful and memorable wedding ceremony. There are advantages to both, of course.

Advantages of live music to walk down the aisle to:

  • Unique and memorable
  • Creates an intimate and personal atmosphere
  • Authentic and beautiful 
  • Flexible and adaptable

Advantages of pre-recorded music to walk down the aisle to:

  • Consistent and reliable
  • A wide variety of songs of any style and genre
  • Affordable
  • Less setup and coordination

Whichever you choose, it’s important to remember that there isn’t a right or wrong decision. It totally depends on your preferences, the venue and your budget, and which is most in keeping with your vision for the day.

155 best songs you can walk down the aisle to

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Are you keen to start hunting for the perfect song to walk down the aisle to at your wedding? Here are 155 of the best songs to choose from across several different genres, which should give you a great place to start.

Classical favourites

  1. Bridal Chorus (“Here Comes the Bride”) – Richard Wagner
  2. Canon in D – Johann Pachelbel
  3. Jesu, Joy of Man’s Desiring – Johann Sebastian Bach
  4. Meditation from Thaïs – Jules Massenet
  5. Water Music Suite: Air – George Frideric Handel
  6. Trumpet Voluntary – Jeremiah Clarke
  7. Air on the G String – Johann Sebastian Bach
  8. Largo (from Xerxes) – George Frideric Handel
  9. Rondeau – Jean-Joseph Mouret
  10. Spring (from The Four Seasons) – Antonio Vivaldi
  11. Wedding March – Felix Mendelssohn
  12. Clair de Lune – Claude Debussy
  13. Minuet in G Major – Johann Sebastian Bach
  14. Ave Maria – Franz Schubert
  15. Salut d’Amour – Edward Elgar
  16. The Swan – Camille Saint-Saëns
  17. Liebestraum No. 3 – Franz Liszt
  18. Nocturne in E-flat Major, Op. 9 No. 2 – Frédéric Chopin
  19. Panis Angelicus – César Franck
  20. Adagio in G Minor – Tomaso Albinoni
  21. Ode to Joy – Ludwig van Beethoven
  22. Prelude (from Cello Suite No. 1) – Johann Sebastian Bach
  23. Flower Duet – Léo Delibes
  24. Pavane – Gabriel Fauré
  25. Gymnopédie No. 1 – Erik Satie
  26. Traumerei – Robert Schumann
  27. Waltz of the Flowers – Pyotr Ilyich Tchaikovsky
  28. Dance of the Sugar Plum Fairy – Pyotr Ilyich Tchaikovsky
  29. Fantaisie-Impromptu – Frédéric Chopin
  30. Sheep May Safely Graze – Johann Sebastian Bach
  31. Lakmé: El Dúo de la Flor – Mado Robin
  32. Prelude in C Major – Johann Sebastian Bach
  33. Rhapsody on a Theme of Paganini – Sergei Rachmaninoff
  34. Boléro – Maurice Ravel
  35. Valse Sentimentale – Pyotr Ilyich Tchaikovsky

Modern classics and film scores

  1. The Ludlows – James Horner (Legends of the Fall)
  2. Across the Stars – John Williams (Star Wars)
  3. My Heart Will Go On (Instrumental) – James Horner (Titanic)
  4. Married Life – Michael Giacchino (Up)
  5. Glasgow Love Theme – Craig Armstrong (Love Actually)
  6. Love Theme from Romeo and Juliet – Nino Rota
  7. Pride and Prejudice Theme – Dario Marianelli
  8. Somewhere in Time – John Barry
  9. Theme from The Notebook – Aaron Zigman
  10. When You Wish Upon a Star – Cliff Edwards (Disney’s Pinocchio)

Religious songs

  1. Amazing Grace – Traditional
  2. Be Thou My Vision – Traditional
  3. How Great Thou Art – Carl Boberg
  4. Abide With Me – William Henry Monk
  5. In Christ Alone – Keith Getty & Stuart Townend
  6. The Lord Is My Shepherd – Traditional
  7. Great Is Thy Faithfulness – Thomas Chisholm
  8. Ave Verum Corpus – Wolfgang Amadeus Mozart
  9. On Eagle’s Wings – Michael Joncas
  10. Hallelujah Chorus – George Frideric Handel

Cultural songs

  1. Greensleeves – Traditional English
  2. Scarborough Fair – Traditional English
  3. Danny Boy – Traditional Irish
  4. Highland Cathedral – Traditional Scottish
  5. Hava Nagila – Traditional Jewish
  6. Shenandoah – Traditional American
  7. Erev Shel Shoshanim – Traditional Hebrew
  8. Arirang – Traditional Korean
  9. Kalinka – Traditional Russian
  10. Wedding Tarantella – Traditional Italian

Romantic songs with lyrics

  1. ‘A Thousand Years’ – Christina Perri

Key lyrics: ‘I have died every day waiting for you / Darling, don’t be afraid, I have loved you for a thousand years.’

  1. ‘At Last’ – Etta James

Key lyrics: ‘At last, my love has come along / My lonely days are over, and life is like a song.’

  1. ‘Make You Feel My Love’ – Adele

Key lyrics: ‘I could hold you for a million years / To make you feel my love.’

  1. ‘Unchained Melody’ – The Righteous Brothers

Key lyrics: ‘Oh, my love, my darling / I’ve hungered for your touch a long, lonely time.’

  1. ‘Perfect’ – Ed Sheeran

‘I found a love, to carry more than just my secrets / To carry love, to carry children of our own.’

  1. ‘Your Song’ – Elton John

Key lyrics: ‘I hope you don’t mind that I put down in words / How wonderful life is while you’re in the world.’

  1. ‘Can’t Help Falling in Love’ – Elvis Presley

Key lyrics: ‘Take my hand, take my whole life too / For I can’t help falling in love with you.’

  1. ‘I Choose You’ – Sara Bareilles

Key lyrics: ‘Tell the world that we finally got it all right / I choose you.’

  1. ‘Thinking Out Loud’ – Ed Sheeran

Key lyrics: ‘Take me into your loving arms / Kiss me under the light of a thousand stars.’

  1. ‘You Are the Reason’ – Calum Scott ft. Leona Lewis

Key lyrics: ‘I’d climb every mountain / And swim every ocean / Just to be with you.’

  1. ‘All of Me’ – John Legend

Key lyrics: ‘All of me loves all of you / Love your curves and all your edges, all your perfect imperfections.’

  1. ‘Marry Me’ – Train

Key lyrics: ‘Forever can never be long enough for me / To feel like I’ve had long enough with you.’

  1. ‘Everything’ – Michael Bublé

Key lyrics: ‘And in this crazy life, and through these crazy times / It’s you, it’s you, you make me sing.’

  1. ‘Speechless’ – Dan + Shay

Key lyrics: ‘You already know that you’re my weakness / After all this time, I’m just as nervous.’

  1. ‘Say You Won’t Let Go’ – James Arthur

Key lyrics: ‘I’m gonna love you ’til my lungs give out / I promise ’til death we part like in our vows.’

  1. ‘Lucky’ – Jason Mraz ft. Colbie Caillat

Key lyrics: ‘Lucky I’m in love with my best friend.’

  1. ‘How Long Will I Love You’ – Ellie Goulding

Key lyrics: ‘How long will I love you? / As long as stars are above you.’

  1. ‘I’m Yours’ – Jason Mraz

Key lyrics: ‘But I won’t hesitate no more, no more / It cannot wait, I’m yours.’

  1. ‘Love Someone’ – Lukas Graham

Key lyrics: ‘Cause you still look perfect as days go by / Even the worst ones, you make me smile / I’d stop the world if it gave us time.’

  1. ‘You’re Still the One’ – Shania Twain

Key lyrics: ‘You’re still the one I run to / The one that I belong to.’

Alternate versions of popular songs

  1. Can’t Help Falling in Love – Elvis Presley (Piano Version)
  2. A Thousand Years – Christina Perry (String Quartet)
  3. All of Me – John Legend (Violin Instrumental)
  4. Perfect – Ed Sheeran (Piano and Cello)
  5. Somewhere Over the Rainbow – Israel Kamakawiwoʻole (Ukulele and Violin)
  6. Marry Me – Train (Acoustic Guitar Version)
  7. Hallelujah – Leonard Cohen (Harp Instrumental)
  8. I Will Always Love You – Whitney Houston (Flute)
  9. Kiss Me – Sixpence None the Richer (Acoustic Guitar)
  10. Fields of Gold – Sting (Piano Cover)
  11. Imagine – John Lennon (Classical Piano Version)
  12. Chasing Cars – Snow Patrol (String Quartet)
  13. Here Comes the Sun – The Beatles (Classical Guitar)
  14. You Are the Reason – Calum Scott (Violin and Piano)
  15. Love Story – Taylor Swift (String Quartet)
  16. Thinking Out Loud – Ed Sheeran (Piano Solo)
  17. Sweet Child O’ Mine – Guns N’ Roses (Harp Instrumental)
  18. I Don’t Want to Miss a Thing – Aerosmith (Piano and Violin)
  19. Wonderful Tonight – Eric Clapton (Acoustic Instrumental)
  20. The Scientist – Coldplay (String Quartet)
  21. Shallow – A Star is Born soundtrack (Cello and Piano)
  22. True Colors – Cyndi Lauper (Classical Guitar)
  23. Forever Young – Alphaville (Violin Cover)
  24. Hoppipolla – Sigur Rós (Piano Cover)
  25. Yellow – Coldplay (Acoustic Version)

Operatic songs

  1. O Mio Babbino Caro – Giacomo Puccini
  2. Flower Duet – Léo Delibes
  3. Nessun Dorma – Giacomo Puccini
  4. The Prayer – Andrea Bocelli & Celine Dion
  5. Intermezzo from Cavalleria Rusticana – Pietro Mascagni
  6. Barcarolle – Jacques Offenbach
  7. La Donna è Mobile – Giuseppe Verdi
  8. Time to Say Goodbye – Andrea Bocelli & Sarah Brightman
  9. Marche Militaire – Franz Schubert
  10. Mon Coeur S’Ouvre à ta Voix – Camille Saint-Saëns

Alternative choices

  1. First Day of My Life – Bright Eyes

Key lyrics: ‘Yours was the first face that I saw / I think I was blind before I met you.’

  1. Sea of Love – Cat Power

Key lyrics: ‘Come with me, my love / To the sea, the sea of love.’

  1. Home – Edward Sharpe & The Magnetic Zeros

Key lyrics: ‘Home is wherever I’m with you.’

  1. Bloom – The Paper Kites

Key lyrics: ‘Can I be close to you?’

  1. Such Great Heights – Iron & Wine

Key lyrics: ‘They will see us waving from such great heights / Come down now, they’ll say.’

  1. The Only Exception – Paramore

Key lyrics: ‘You are the only exception.’

  1. Skinny Love – Bon Iver

Key lyrics: ‘And I told you to be patient / And I told you to be fine.’

  1. Flightless Bird, American Mouth – Iron & Wine

Key lyrics: ‘Have I found you? / Flightless bird, jealous, weeping.’

  1. Fade Into You – Mazzy Star

Key lyrics: ‘Fade into you / Strange you never knew.’

  1. Ho Hey – The Lumineers

Key lyrics: ‘I belong with you, you belong with me / You’re my sweetheart.’

  1. Heartbeats – José González

Key lyrics: ‘One night of magic rush / The start, a simple touch.’

  1. Yellow – Coldplay

Key lyrics: ‘Look at the stars, look how they shine for you.’

  1. Somewhere Only We Know – Keane

Key lyrics: ‘Oh, simple thing, where have you gone? / I’m getting tired, and I need someone to rely on.’

  1. I Will Follow You Into the Dark – Death Cab for Cutie

Key lyrics: ‘If heaven and hell decide that they both are satisfied / Illuminate the “no”s on their vacancy signs.’

  1. Sweet Disposition – The Temper Trap

Key lyrics: ‘A moment, a love, a dream, a laugh / A kiss, a cry, our rights, our wrongs.’

  1. There Is a Light That Never Goes Out – The Smiths

Key lyrics: ‘And if a double-decker bus crashes into us / To die by your side is such a heavenly way to die.’

  1. Lover – Taylor Swift

Key lyrics: ‘Can I go where you go? / Can we always be this close forever and ever?’

  1. Electric Feel – MGMT

Key lyrics: ‘You can feel it in your mind, oh, you can do it all the time / Plug it in and change the world.’

  1. I Wanna Be Yours – Arctic Monkeys

Key lyrics: ‘I wanna be your vacuum cleaner / Breathing in your dust.’

  1. Joy of My Life – Chris Stapleton

Key lyrics: ‘I tiptoed in the room / I know you got to have your rest / She says, Come lay beside me / I been waitin’ since you left.’

Indie songs

  1. Turning Page – Sleeping At Last

Key lyrics: ‘Every kiss is a cursive line / Every touch is a redefining phrase.’

  1. Holocene – Bon Iver

Key lyrics: ‘And at once, I knew I was not magnificent / High above the highway aisle.’

  1. You and Me – Lifehouse

Key lyrics: ‘’Cause it’s you and me / And all of the people with nothing to do / Nothing to lose.’

  1. All My Days – Alexi Murdoch

Key lyrics: ‘Well I have been searching all of my days / All of my days.’

  1. The Luckiest – Ben Folds

Key lyrics: ‘That I am / I am / I am / The luckiest.’

  1. Ends of the Earth – Lord Huron

Key lyrics: ‘To the ends of the earth, would you follow me? / There’s a world that was meant for our eyes to see.’

  1. Love Like This – Kodaline

Key lyrics: ‘Running through the heat, heartbeat / You shine like silver in the sunlight / You light up my cold heart.’

  1. You Make It Easy – Jason Aldean

Key lyrics: ‘And I swear, God made you for me.’

  1. I’ll Be – Edwin McCain

Key lyrics: ‘And I’ll be better when I’m older / I’ll be the greatest fan of your life.’

  1. Say You Love Me – Jessie Ware

Key lyrics: ‘Say you love me to my face / I need it more than your embrace.’

  1. Can’t Take My Eyes Off You – Lauryn Hill

Key lyrics: ‘You’re just too good to be true / Can’t take my eyes off of you.’

  1. She Is Love – Parachute

Key lyrics: ‘She is love, and she is all I need.’

  1. Let My Love Open the Door – Pete Townshend

Key lyrics: ‘Let my love open the door / To your heart.’

  1. Harvest Moon – Neil Young

Key lyrics: ‘When we were lovers / I loved you with all my heart.’

  1. Come Away With Me – Norah Jones

Key lyrics: ‘Come away with me / And I will write you a song.’

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The 200 Best Wedding First Dance Songs

Your wedding day is full of amazing music. From the song you walk down the aisle to, right through to the last song played at the disco at the end of a fun-filled night, there are so many songs that play throughout your special day.

But, there’s perhaps no song more important than the one that plays during your first dance. Your first dance is hugely symbolic and represents the two of you coming together as one. It’s also usually one of the first dances of the entire wedding reception, and is a sign that it’s time for everyone to get up and join you (after watching you and taking pictures while crying, of course).

But, what makes for a good first dance song? Should it be romantic and lovey-dovey, or can it be something upbeat and fun?

In this guide, we’ll run through everything that goes into the perfect wedding first dance song. We’ll also offer you 200 suggestions for the best first dance song, to help you make the all-important decision as to what you should choose for this massive moment in your big day.

What makes for the perfect first dance song?

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The perfect first dance song can be many things. But, the most important thing is that it’s special to the two of you. If you’re not quite sure what that looks like for you, here are a few things to think about:

  • Emotional significance: Does the song resonate with you? Was it perhaps something you both listened to while you were dating and as your romance blossomed?
  • Lyrics: Are the lyrics special and do they represent your relationship? Songs with lyrics about love are the most common type of first dance song.
  • Tempo and rhythm: The most common choice of first dance song is something slower and more romantic (but some couples have been known to have fun by dancing to something upbeat).
  • Danceability: Whether you’re an experienced dancer or not, does the song lend itself well to your dancing ability?
  • Timelessness or trendiness: Is the song something that’s timeless, or will it be forgotten about over time?
  • Length: Make sure the song isn’t too long, because you might get tired of dancing by the 34th verse of an epic ballad.

Can upbeat songs work as a first dance song?

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Yes, an upbeat song can 100% work as a great first dance song, and they have grown in popularity in recent years. It’s a brilliant way to add a little energy and uniqueness to your first dance, especially if you’re not a fan of slower romantic songs.

There are no rules that say your first dance has to be a slow one. The only thing to bear in mind is, do you have the dancing prowess needed to dance to a high-tempo song with your significant other? You don’t exactly have to be a couple who are set for the next series of Strictly, but you should be at least semi-confident to throw some solid moves while all your guests watch on. It’s also the perfect way to kick off the party and get everyone excited to start throwing some shapes of their own once you’ve had your special moment together.

What is the most popular first dance wedding song?

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The most popular first dance wedding song changes regularly, depending on what artists are topping the charts at the time and whether any older songs have come back into fashion.

In recent years, songs like ‘All of Me’ by John Legend, ‘You Are the Best Thing’ by Ray LaMontagne, ‘At Last’ by Etta James  and ‘Thinking Out Loud’ by Ed Sheeran have all been consistently popular.

In 2024, the most popular first dance songs were:

  1. ‘Can’t Help Falling In Love’ – Elvis Presley
  2. ‘Perfect’ – Ed Sheeran
  3. ‘Stand By Me’ – Ben E. King
  4. ‘The One’ – Kodaline
  5. ‘Lover’ – Taylor Swift

To discover what other songs were the most popular first dance choices at the moment, read our guide to the top first dance songs of 2024.

200 of the best wedding first dance songs

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Excited to choose the song you and your other half will dance to for the first time at your wedding? Here are 200 suggestions for romantic and meaningful songs, so the tune you have your first dance to can be something truly special.

80 romantic first dance songs

  1. ‘Perfect’ – Ed Sheeran

‘I found a love, to carry more than just my secrets / To carry love, to carry children of our own.’

 

  1. ‘At Last’ – Etta James

Key lyrics: ‘At last, my love has come along / My lonely days are over, and life is like a song.’

 

  1. ‘Make You Feel My Love’ – Adele

Key lyrics: ‘I could hold you for a million years / To make you feel my love.’

 

  1. ‘All of Me’ – John Legend

Key lyrics: ‘All of me loves all of you / Love your curves and all your edges, all your perfect imperfections.’

 

  1. ‘A Thousand Years’ – Christina Perri

Key lyrics: ‘I have died every day waiting for you / Darling, don’t be afraid, I have loved you for a thousand years.’

 

  1. ‘Can’t Help Falling in Love’ – Elvis Presley

Key lyrics: ‘Take my hand, take my whole life too / For I can’t help falling in love with you.’

 

  1. ‘Thinking Out Loud’ – Ed Sheeran

Key lyrics: ‘Take me into your loving arms / Kiss me under the light of a thousand stars.’

 

  1. ‘Unchained Melody’ – The Righteous Brothers

Key lyrics: ‘Oh, my love, my darling / I’ve hungered for your touch a long, lonely time.’

 

  1. ‘You Are the Best Thing’ – Ray LaMontagne

Key lyrics: ‘You are the best thing that’s ever been mine.’

 

  1. ‘I Won’t Give Up’ – Jason Mraz

Key lyrics: ‘I won’t give up on us / Even if the skies get rough.’

 

  1. ‘L-O-V-E’ – Nat King Cole

Key lyrics: ‘L is for the way you look at me / O is for the only one I see.’

 

  1. ‘Endless Love’ – Diana Ross & Lionel Richie

Key lyrics: ‘My love, there’s only you in my life / The only thing that’s bright.’

 

  1. ‘Your Song’ – Elton John

Key lyrics: ‘I hope you don’t mind that I put down in words / How wonderful life is while you’re in the world.’

 

  1. ‘The Way You Look Tonight’ – Frank Sinatra

Key lyrics: ‘Yes, you’re lovely, with your smile so warm / And your cheeks so soft.’

 

  1. ‘First Day of My Life’ – Bright Eyes

Key lyrics: ‘This is the first day of my life / I’m glad I didn’t die before I met you.’

 

  1. ‘From This Moment On’ – Shania Twain

Key lyrics: ‘From this moment, life has begun / From this moment, you are the one.’

 

  1. ‘My Person’ – Spencer Crandall

Key lyrics: ‘You’re my person, my heartbeat, my slow dance / My Sunday morning sipping coffee in bed.’

 

  1. ‘You & Me’ – Lifehouse

Key lyrics: ‘You and me and all other people / And I don’t know why I can’t keep my eyes off of you.’

 

  1. ‘Forever After All’ – Luke Combs

Key lyrics: ‘They say nothing lasts forever, but they ain’t seen us together.’

 

  1. ‘Everything’ – Michael Bublé

Key lyrics: ‘And in this crazy life, and through these crazy times / It’s you, it’s you, you make me sing.’

 

  1. ‘Come Away With Me’ – Norah Jones

Key lyrics: ‘Come away with me and we’ll kiss / On a mountaintop.’

 

  1. ‘Better Together’ – Jack Johnson

Key lyrics: ‘It’s always better when we’re together.’

 

  1. ‘Have I Told You Lately’ – Van Morrison

Key lyrics: ‘Have I told you lately that I love you? / Have I told you there’s no one else above you?’

 

  1. ‘I Get to Love You’ – Ruelle

Key lyrics: ‘I get to love you, it’s the best thing that I’ll ever do.’

 

  1. ‘All My Life’ – K-Ci & JoJo

Key lyrics: ‘All my life, I prayed for someone like you / And I thank God that I finally found you.’

 

  1. ‘The Luckiest’ – Ben Folds

Key lyrics: ‘What if I’d been born fifty years before you / In a house on the street where you live?’

 

  1. ‘Falling Like the Stars’ – James Arthur

Key lyrics: ‘I swear to God, when I come home / I’m gonna hold you so close.’

 

  1. ‘Stand by Me’ – Ben E. King

Key lyrics: ‘So darling, darling, stand by me / Oh, stand by me.’

 

  1. ‘To the Moon and Back’ – Luke Bryan

Key lyrics: ‘I love you to the moon and back / So glad you gave me your heart to have.’

 

  1. ‘Forever’ – Ben Harper

Key lyrics: ‘Not talking ’bout a year / No, not three or four / I don’t want that kind of forever in my life anymore.’

 

  1. ‘For You’ – Kenny Lattimore

Key lyrics: ‘For you, I give a lifetime of stability.’

 

  1. ‘By Your Side’ – Sade

Key lyrics: ‘You think I’d leave your side, baby? / You know me better than that.’

 

  1. ‘Speechless’ – Dan + Shay

Key lyrics: ‘You already know that you’re my weakness / After all this time, I’m just as nervous.’

 

  1. ‘Marry Me’ – Train

Key lyrics: ‘Forever can never be long enough for me / To feel like I’ve had long enough with you.’

 

  1. ‘I Choose You’ – Sara Bareilles

Key lyrics: ‘Tell the world that we finally got it all right / I choose you.’

 

  1. ‘Grow Old with Me’ – John Lennon

Key lyrics: ‘Grow old along with me / The best is yet to be.’

 

  1. ‘Breathe Again’ – Toni Braxton

Key lyrics: ‘If I never feel you in my arms again / If I never feel your tender kiss again.’

 

  1. ‘Yours’ – Russell Dickerson

Key lyrics: ‘I came to life when I first kissed you / The best me has his arms around you.’

 

  1. ‘Feels Like Home’ – Chantal Kreviazuk

Key lyrics: ‘It feels like home to me / It feels like I’m all the way back where I come from.’

 

  1. ‘Say You Won’t Let Go’ – James Arthur

Key lyrics: ‘I’m gonna love you ’til my lungs give out / I promise ’til death we part like in our vows.’

 

  1. ‘I Do’ – Colbie Caillat

Key lyrics: ‘You make me wanna say I do, I do, I do, do-do-do-do-do-do.’

 

  1. ‘How Long Will I Love You’ – Ellie Goulding

Key lyrics: ‘How long will I love you? / As long as stars are above you.’

 

  1. ‘Beyond’ – Leon Bridges

Key lyrics: ‘Will she have my kids? / Will she be my wife? / She might just be my everything and beyond.’

 

  1. ‘Here and Now’ – Luther Vandross

Key lyrics: ‘Here and now, I promise to love faithfully.’

 

  1. ‘I Believe in You and Me’ – Whitney Houston

Key lyrics: ‘I believe in dreams again / I believe that love will never end.’

 

  1. ‘Angel’ – Jack Johnson

Key lyrics: ‘I’ve got an angel / She doesn’t wear any wings.’

 

  1. ‘Tenerife Sea’ – Ed Sheeran

Key lyrics: ‘You look so beautiful in this light / Your silhouette over me.’

 

  1. ‘I’ll Be’ – Edwin McCain

Key lyrics: ‘I’ll be your crying shoulder / I’ll be love’s suicide.’

 

  1. ‘Lucky’ – Jason Mraz ft. Colbie Caillat

Key lyrics: ‘Lucky I’m in love with my best friend.’

 

  1. ‘So This Is Love’ – Ilene Woods

Key lyrics: ‘So this is love, so this is what makes life divine.’

 

  1. ‘When You Say Nothing at All’ – Alison Krauss

Key lyrics: ‘You say it best when you say nothing at all.’

 

  1. ‘Stay With You’ – John Legend

Key lyrics: ‘Through the ups and the downs / Yes, I’m gonna stay with you.’

 

  1. ‘God Gave Me You’ – Blake Shelton

Key lyrics: ‘God gave me you for the ups and downs / God gave me you for the days of doubt.’

 

  1. ‘Back at One’ – Brian McKnight

Key lyrics: ‘One, you’re like a dream come true / Two, just wanna be with you.’

 

  1. ‘You’re Still the One’ – Shania Twain

Key lyrics: ‘You’re still the one I run to / The one that I belong to.’

 

  1. ‘Dancing in the Moonlight’ – King Harvest

Key lyrics: ‘Everybody’s dancing in the moonlight.’

 

  1. ‘I Swear’ – All-4-One

Key lyrics: ‘I swear by the moon and the stars in the sky / I’ll be there.’

 

  1. ‘Kiss Me’ – Sixpence None the Richer

Key lyrics: ‘Kiss me beneath the milky twilight / Lead me out on the moonlit floor.’

 

  1. ‘Love Story’ – Taylor Swift

Key lyrics: ‘Romeo, take me somewhere we can be alone.’

 

  1. ‘Make It to Me’ – Sam Smith

Key lyrics: ‘You’re the one designed for me / A distant stranger that I will complete.’

 

  1. ‘How Do I Live’ – LeAnn Rimes

Key lyrics: ‘How do I live without you? / I want to know.’

 

  1. ‘This I Promise You’ – NSYNC

Key lyrics: ‘And I will take you in my arms / And hold you right where you belong.’

 

  1. ‘If I Ain’t Got You’ – Alicia Keys

Key lyrics: ‘Some people want diamond rings / But I don’t want anything if it ain’t you.’

 

  1. ‘When God Made You’ – NewSong & Natalie Grant

Key lyrics: ‘When God made you / He must have been thinking about me.’

 

  1. ‘Eternal Flame’ – The Bangles

Key lyrics: ‘Close your eyes, give me your hand, darling / Do you feel my heart beating?’

 

  1. ‘She Keeps Me Warm’ – Mary Lambert

Key lyrics: ‘She says I smell like safety and home.’

 

  1. ‘I Could Not Ask for More’ – Edwin McCain

Key lyrics: ‘I could not ask for more than this time together.’

 

  1. ‘Hero’ – Enrique Iglesias

Key lyrics: ‘I can be your hero, baby / I can kiss away the pain.’

 

  1. ‘Moon River’ – Audrey Hepburn

Key lyrics: ‘Two drifters, off to see the world / There’s such a lot of world to see.’

 

  1. ‘Wonderful Tonight’ – Eric Clapton

Key lyrics: ‘And then she asks me, ‘Do I look all right?’ / And I say, ‘Yes, you look wonderful tonight.”

 

  1. ‘Can’t Take My Eyes Off You’ – Frankie Valli

Key lyrics: ‘You’re just too good to be true / Can’t take my eyes off you.’

 

  1. ‘The Book of Love’ – Peter Gabriel

Key lyrics: ‘The book of love is long and boring / And written very long ago.’

 

  1. ‘Greatest Day’ – Take That

Key lyrics: ‘Today this could be, the greatest day of our lives.’

 

  1. ‘Let’s Stay Together’ – Al Green

Key lyrics: ‘Let’s stay together / Loving you whether times are good or bad.’

 

  1. ‘I Was Made for Loving You’ – Tori Kelly ft. Ed Sheeran

Key lyrics: ‘Even though we may be hopeless hearts just passing through / Every bone screams I don’t know what we should do.’

 

  1. ‘To Be Loved’ – Adele

Key lyrics: ‘I built a house for love to grow / I was so young that it was hard to know.’

 

  1. ‘Valentine’ – Jim Brickman ft. Martina McBride

Key lyrics: ‘You would still have my heart until the end of time.’

 

  1. ‘Loving You’ – Minnie Riperton

Key lyrics: ‘Loving you is easy ’cause you’re beautiful.’

 

  1. ‘When I Fall in Love’ – Nat King Cole

Key lyrics: ‘When I fall in love / It will be forever.’

 

  1. ‘Sweet Thing’ – Van Morrison

Key lyrics: ‘And you shall take me strongly in your arms again / And I will not remember that I even felt the pain.’

30 modern first dance songs

  1. ‘Lover’ – Taylor Swift

Key lyrics: ‘Can I go where you go? / Can we always be this close forever and ever?’

 

  1. ‘You’re Somebody Else’ – Flora Cash

Key lyrics: ‘Well, you look like yourself / But you’re somebody else, only it ain’t on the surface.’

 

  1. ‘Peaches’ – Justin Bieber ft. Daniel Caesar, Giveon

Key lyrics: ‘I wanna wrap my arms around you, baby, never let you go, oh.’

 

  1. ‘Better Half of Me’ – Tom Walker

Key lyrics: ‘And I’m still up at 4 AM / Is this ever gonna end? / Can I rely on you?’

 

  1. ‘Wild Love’ – James Bay

Key lyrics: ‘Don’t know what to say / I wanna see your face / And I know what it feels like to fall in love.’

 

  1. ‘We Found Love’ – Rihanna ft. Calvin Harris

Key lyrics: ‘We found love in a hopeless place.’

 

  1. ‘Run’ – Snow Patrol

Key lyrics: ‘Light up, light up / As if you have a choice.’

 

  1. ‘Shallow’ – Lady Gaga & Bradley Cooper

Key lyrics: ‘I’m off the deep end, watch as I dive in / I’ll never meet the ground.’

 

  1. ‘One Call Away’ – Charlie Puth

Key lyrics: ‘I’m only one call away / I’ll be there to save the day.’

 

  1. ‘You Are the Reason’ – Calum Scott ft. Leona Lewis

Key lyrics: ‘I’d climb every mountain / And swim every ocean / Just to be with you.’

 

  1. ‘Electric Love’ – BØRNS

Key lyrics: ‘Baby, you’re like lightning in a bottle / I can’t let you go now that I got it.’

 

  1. ‘Anyone’ – Justin Bieber

Key lyrics: ‘You are the only one I’ll ever love / If it’s not you, it’s not anyone.’

 

  1. ‘Speechless’ – Beyoncé

Key lyrics: ‘You’ve got me, you’ve got me, you’ve got me / Speechless.’

 

  1. ‘If the World Was Ending’ – JP Saxe ft. Julia Michaels

Key lyrics: ‘If the world was ending, you’d come over, right? / You’d come over and you’d stay the night.’

 

  1. ‘Always Remember Us This Way’ – Lady Gaga

Key lyrics: ‘So when I’m all choked up and I can’t find the words / Every time we say goodbye, baby, it hurts.’

 

  1. ‘Sweet Creature’ – Harry Styles

Key lyrics: ‘Sweet creature, sweet creature / Wherever I go, you bring me home.’

 

  1. ‘Sunflower’ – Post Malone

Key lyrics: ‘You’re a sunflower, I think your love would be too much.’

 

  1. ‘Golden Hour’ – JVKE

Key lyrics: ‘It’s your golden hour / You slow down time in your golden hour.’

 

  1. ‘Hold Me While You Wait’ – Lewis Capaldi

Key lyrics: ‘Hold me while you wait / I wish that I was good enough.’

 

  1. ‘This Year’s Love’ – David Gray

Key lyrics: ‘This year’s love had better last.’

 

  1. ‘Show Me Love’ – Alicia Keys

Key lyrics: ‘Show me love / Treat it like we freakin’ on the weekend, show me love.’

 

  1. ‘Blinding Lights’ – The Weeknd

Key lyrics: ‘I’m blinded by the lights / No, I can’t sleep until I feel your touch.’

 

  1. ‘Daylight’ – Taylor Swift

Key lyrics: ‘I don’t wanna look at anything else now that I saw you / I don’t wanna think of anything else now that I thought of you.’

 

  1. ‘Adore You’ – Harry Styles

Key lyrics: ‘Just let me adore you, oh honey.’

 

  1. ‘Into You’ – Ariana Grande

Key lyrics: ‘So, baby, come light me up, and maybe I’ll let you on it.’

 

  1. ‘Another Love’ – Tom Odell

Key lyrics: ‘I wanna take you somewhere so you know I care / But it’s so cold, and I don’t know where.’

 

  1. ‘Levitating’ – Dua Lipa

Key lyrics: ‘If you wanna run away with me, I know a galaxy and I can take you for a ride.’

 

  1. ‘Heartbeat’ – Shawn Mendes

Key lyrics: ‘You light me up inside like the 4th of July / Whenever you’re around, I always seem to smile.’

 

  1. ‘Forever After All’ – Luke Combs

Key lyrics: ‘They say nothing lasts forever, but they ain’t seen us together.’

 

  1. ‘Home’ – Edward Sharpe and the Magnetic Zeros

Key lyrics: ‘Home is wherever I’m with you.’

15 upbeat first dance songs

  1. ‘Happy’ – Pharrell Williams

Key lyrics: ‘Because I’m happy / Clap along if you feel like a room without a roof.’

 

  1. ‘Walking on Sunshine’ – Katrina and the Waves

Key lyrics: ‘I’m walking on sunshine, whoa-oh! / And don’t it feel good!’

 

  1. ‘Love on Top’ – Beyoncé

Key lyrics: ‘Baby, it’s you / You’re the one I love / You’re the one I need.’

 

  1. ‘Sugar’ – Maroon 5

Key lyrics: ‘Sugar, yes please / Won’t you come and put it down on me?’

 

  1. ‘Better Together’ – Jack Johnson

Key lyrics: ‘You and I, we’re better together / I could live without you, but I’d rather not.’

 

  1. ‘Best Day of My Life’ – American Authors

Key lyrics: ‘This is gonna be the best day of my life / My life.’

 

  1. ‘I Wanna Dance with Somebody’ – Whitney Houston

Key lyrics: ‘I wanna dance with somebody / I wanna feel the heat with somebody.’

 

  1. ‘Shut Up and Dance’ – WALK THE MOON

Key lyrics: ‘Ooh, I want to dance with you / Oh, don’t you dare look back.’

 

  1. ‘Higher Love’ – Kygo ft. Whitney Houston

Key lyrics: ‘Bring me a higher love / Where’s that higher love I keep thinking of?’

 

  1. ‘Dog Days Are Over’ – Florence + The Machine

Key lyrics: ‘The dog days are over / The dog days are done / The horses are coming, so you better run.’

 

  1. ‘Feel So Close’ – Calvin Harris

Key lyrics: ‘I feel so close to you right now / It’s a force field.’

 

  1. ‘Good as Hell’ – Lizzo

Key lyrics: ‘I do my hair toss, check my nails / Baby, how you feelin’? / Feeling good as hell!’

 

  1. ‘Let’s Get Loud’ – Jennifer Lopez

Key lyrics: ‘Let’s get loud, let’s get loud / Turn the music up, let’s do it.’

 

  1. ‘Classic’ – MKTO

Key lyrics: ‘Keep it real to real in the way I feel / I could walk you down the aisle.’

 

  1. ‘Can’t Stop the Feeling!’ – Justin Timberlake

Key lyrics: ‘I got that sunshine in my pocket / Got that good soul in my feet.’

30 indie first dance songs

  1. ‘There Will Be Time’ – Mumford & Sons ft. Baaba Maal

Key lyrics: ‘In the cold light, I live to love and adore you / It’s all that I am, it’s all that I have.’

 

  1. ‘Bloom’ – The Paper Kites

Key lyrics: ‘Bloom, bloom, bloom, bloom, bloom / You are the light in the dark.’

 

  1. ‘Sea of Love’ – Cat Power

Key lyrics: ‘Come with me, my love / To the sea, the sea of love.’

 

  1. ‘Ho Hey’ – The Lumineers

Key lyrics: ‘I belong with you, you belong with me, you’re my sweetheart.’

 

  1. ‘You’ve Got the Love’ – Florence + The Machine

Key lyrics: ‘You’ve got the love, you’ve got the love / You’ve got the love, you’ve got the love.’

 

  1. ‘Flightless Bird, American Mouth’ – Iron & Wine

Key lyrics: ‘I was a quick wet boy / Diving too deep for coins / All of your straight lines.’

 

  1. ‘Grow Old With Me’ – Tom Odell

Key lyrics: ‘Grow old with me, let us share what we see / And we’ll share what we love.’

 

  1. ‘The One’ – Kodaline

Key lyrics: ‘I would die for you / But that’s just not enough.’

 

  1. ‘Turning Page’ – Sleeping at Last

Key lyrics: ‘And with your love, my hands are tied / In this world where we could collide.’

 

  1. ‘She Is Love’ – Parachute

Key lyrics: ‘She is love, and she is all I need.’

 

  1. ‘First Day of My Life’ – Bright Eyes

Key lyrics: ‘This is the first day of my life / I swear I was born right in the doorway.’

 

  1. ‘Yellow’ – Coldplay

Key lyrics: ‘Look at the stars, look how they shine for you / And everything you do, yeah, they were all yellow.’

 

  1. ‘Falling in Love at a Coffee Shop’ – Landon Pigg

Key lyrics: ‘I think I fell in love today, oh / I think I fell in love today.’

 

  1. ‘Skinny Love’ – Bon Iver

Key lyrics: ‘Come on skinny love, just last the year / Pour a little salt, we were never here.’

 

  1. ‘1234’ – Feist

Key lyrics: ‘1, 2, 3, 4, tell me that you love me more / Sleepless long nights, that is what my youth was for.’

 

  1. ‘Holocene’ – Bon Iver

Key lyrics: ‘And at once I knew I was not magnificent / Strayed above the highway aisle.’

 

  1. ‘Sweet Disposition’ – The Temper Trap

Key lyrics: ‘Sweet disposition / Never too soon, oh, oh / I’m just trying to find / A place for you.’

 

  1. ‘Big Jet Plane’ – Angus & Julia Stone

Key lyrics: ‘She said, ‘Hey, you, and you / Don’t you know that I am the one / Who can make you feel so blue?”

 

  1. ‘All I Want’ – Kodaline

Key lyrics: ‘All I want is nothing more / To hear you knocking at my door.’

 

  1. ‘Ophelia’ – The Lumineers

Key lyrics: ‘Oh, Ophelia, you’ve been on my mind / Girl, since the flood.’

 

  1. Chance’ – Angel Olsen

Key lyrics: ‘All that space in between where we stand / Could be our chance / Could be our chance.’

 

  1. ‘Roslyn’ – Bon Iver & St. Vincent

Key lyrics: ‘This is not the sound of a new man / or a crispy realisation / It’s the sound of the unlocking and the lift away.’

 

  1. ‘Work Song’ – Hozier

Key lyrics: ‘I will be the one to keep you warm / Hold your heart, keep it from the storm.’

 

  1. ‘Chasing Cars’ – Snow Patrol

Key lyrics: ‘If I lay here / If I just lay here / Would you lie with me and just forget the world?’

 

  1. ‘Love Like This’ – Kodaline

Key lyrics: ‘And I know that I will love you / And I know that you will love me.’

 

  1. ‘VCR’ – The xx

Key lyrics: ‘You don’t know me, but I know you / I don’t even want to / I don’t even want to tell you.’

 

  1. ‘Heroes’ – David Bowie (Acoustic Version)

Key lyrics: ‘We can be heroes, just for one day / We can be us, just for one day.’

 

  1. ‘In My Arms’ – Plumb

Key lyrics: ‘I will be your shelter, I will be your storm / I will make you shiver, I will keep you warm.’

 

  1. ‘Stolen’ – Dashboard Confessional

Key lyrics: ‘You have stolen my heart / And I don’t know what to do.’

 

  1. ‘Passenger Seat’ – Death Cab for Cutie

Key lyrics: ‘I’m in love with you / And I am, and I am / In love with you.’

15 unconventional first dance songs

  1. ‘I Want to Hold Your Hand’ – T.V. Carpio

Key lyrics: ‘Oh, please, say to me / You’ll let me be your man / And please, say to me / You’ll let me hold your hand.’

 

  1. ‘Creep’ – Radiohead (Acoustic Cover)

Key lyrics: ‘When you were here before, couldn’t look you in the eye / You’re just like an angel, your skin makes me cry.’

 

  1. ‘The Book of Love’ – Magnetic Fields

Key lyrics: ‘But I, I love it when you give me things / And you, you ought to give me wedding rings.’

 

  1. ‘You’re My Best Friend’ – Queen

Key lyrics: ‘Ooh, you make me live / Whatever this world can give to me / ‘Cause you’re all I see.’

 

  1. ‘Come As You Are’ – Nirvana (String Quartet Cover)

Key lyrics: ‘Come as you are, as you were / As I want you to be.’

 

  1. ‘Sweet Child O’ Mine’ – Guns N’ Roses

Key lyrics: ‘She’s got eyes of the bluest skies / As if they thought of rain / I hate to look into those eyes and see an ounce of pain.’

 

  1. ‘Take Me to Church’ – Hozier (Acoustic Version)

Key lyrics: ‘Take me to church / I’ll worship like a dog at the shrine of your lies / I’ll tell you my sins and you can sharpen your knife.’

 

  1. ‘The Only Exception’ – Paramore

Key lyrics: ‘And I am breaking / I’m not broken / And I’m not breaking / I’m not broken.’

 

  1. ‘Somebody That I Used to Know’ – Gotye ft. Kimbra

Key lyrics: ‘Now you’re just somebody that I used to know / Now you’re just somebody that I used to know.’

 

  1. ‘Space Oddity’ – David Bowie

Key lyrics: ‘This is Ground Control to Major Tom / You’ve really made the grade / And the papers want to know whose shirts you wear.’

 

  1. ‘Smells Like Teen Spirit’ – Nirvana

Key lyrics: ‘With the lights out, it’s less dangerous / Here we are now, entertain us / I feel stupid and contagious.’

 

  1. ‘Such Great Heights’ – Iron and Wine (a Postal Service cover)

Key lyrics: ‘They will see us waving from such great heights / Come down now, they’ll say / But everything looks perfect from far away.’

 

  1. ‘Young and Beautiful’ – Lana Del Rey

Key lyrics: ‘Will you still love me when I’m no longer young and beautiful?’

 

  1. ‘Everlong’ – Foo Fighters (Acoustic)

Key lyrics: ‘And I wonder / When I sing along with you / If everything could ever feel this real forever.’

 

  1. ‘Crashed the Wedding’ – Busted

Key lyrics: ‘True love lasts forever / And now we’re back together.’

30 classic first dance songs

  1. ‘Unforgettable’ – Nat King Cole

Key lyrics: ‘Unforgettable, that’s what you are / Unforgettable, though near or far.’

 

  1. ‘Fly Me to the Moon’ – Frank Sinatra

Key lyrics: ‘Fly me to the moon / Let me play among the stars / Let me see what spring is like on Jupiter and Mars.’

 

  1. ‘The Very Thought of You’ – Billie Holiday

Key lyrics: ‘The very thought of you / And I forget to do / The little ordinary things that everyone ought to do.’

 

  1. ‘And I Love You So’ – Perry Como

Key lyrics: ‘And I love you so / The people ask me how / How I’ve lived till now / I tell them I don’t know.’

 

  1. ‘Cheek to Cheek’ – Fred Astaire

Key lyrics: ‘Heaven, I’m in heaven / And my heart beats so that I can hardly speak.’

 

  1. ‘Dream a Little Dream of Me’ – Louis Armstrong & Ella Fitzgerald

Key lyrics: ‘Stars shining bright above you / Night breezes seem to whisper ‘I love you’.’

 

  1. ‘I’ve Got You Under My Skin’ – Frank Sinatra

Key lyrics: ‘I’ve got you under my skin / I’ve got you deep in the heart of me.’

 

  1. ‘For Once in My Life’ – Stevie Wonder

Key lyrics: ‘For once in my life, I have someone who needs me / Someone I’ve needed so long.’

 

  1. ‘My Girl’ – The Temptations

Key lyrics: ‘I’ve got sunshine on a cloudy day / When it’s cold outside, I’ve got the month of May.’

 

  1. ‘The Way You Look Tonight’ – Fred Astaire

Key lyrics: ‘Someday, when I’m awfully low / When the world is cold, I will feel a glow just thinking of you.’

 

  1. ‘What a Wonderful World’ – Louis Armstrong

Key lyrics: ‘I see trees of green, red roses too / I see them bloom for me and you.’

 

  1. ‘Let’s Face the Music and Dance’ – Nat King Cole

Key lyrics: ‘Let’s face the music and dance / Let’s face the music and dance.’

 

  1. ‘Isn’t It Romantic’ – Ella Fitzgerald

Key lyrics: ‘Isn’t it romantic? / Music in the night, a dream that can be heard.’

 

  1. ‘It Had to Be You’ – Harry Connick Jr.

Key lyrics: ‘It had to be you, it had to be you / I wandered around and finally found / The somebody who could make me be true.’

 

  1. ‘That’s Amore’ – Dean Martin

Key lyrics: ‘When the moon hits your eye like a big pizza pie, that’s amore.’

 

  1. ‘Only You’ – The Platters

Key lyrics: ‘Only you can make the darkness bright.’

 

  1. ‘That’s How Strong My Love Is’ – Otis Redding

Key lyrics: ‘That’s how strong my love is, baby, baby / That’s how strong my love is.’

 

  1. ‘You Belong to Me’ – Jo Stafford

Key lyrics: ‘See the pyramids along the Nile / Watch the sunrise on a tropic isle.’

 

  1. ‘Always’ – Irving Berlin

Key lyrics: ‘I’ll be loving you, always / With a love that’s true, always.’

 

  1. ‘Someone to Watch Over Me’ – Ella Fitzgerald

Key lyrics: ‘There’s a somebody I’m longing to see / I hope that he turns out to be / Someone to watch over me.’

 

  1. ‘True Love’ – Bing Crosby & Grace Kelly

Key lyrics: ‘True love, true love / Oh, true love, true love.’

 

  1. ‘Sway’ – Dean Martin

Key lyrics: ‘When marimba rhythms start to play / Dance with me, make me sway.’

 

  1. ‘A Kiss to Build a Dream On’ – Louis Armstrong

Key lyrics: ‘Give me a kiss to build a dream on / And my imagination will thrive upon that kiss.’

 

  1. ‘They Can’t Take That Away From Me’ – Frank Sinatra

Key lyrics: ‘The way you wear your hat / The way you sip your tea / The memory of all that.’

 

  1. ‘You Do Something to Me’ – Paul Weller

Key lyrics: ‘You do something to me, something that simply mystifies me.’

 

  1. ‘How Sweet It Is (To Be Loved by You)’ – Marvin Gaye

Key lyrics: ‘How sweet it is to be loved by you / How sweet it is to be loved by you.’

 

  1. ‘When a Man Loves a Woman’ – Percy Sledge

Key lyrics: ‘When a man loves a woman / Can’t keep his mind on nothin’ else.’

 

  1. ‘Stand by Me’ – Ben E. King

Key lyrics: ‘So darling, darling stand by me / Oh, stand by me.’

 

  1. ‘Chances Are’ – Johnny Mathis

Key lyrics: ‘Chances are, ’cause I wear a silly grin / The moment you come into view.’

 

  1. ‘I Only Have Eyes for You’ – The Flamingos

Key lyrics: ‘I only have eyes for you / The moon may be high / But I can’t see a thing in the sky.’

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The 175 Best Wedding Reception Songs

After the nerves and jitters of your ceremony and the formalities of your wedding breakfast, once it’s time for your wedding reception to start, you can finally let your hair down. Your wedding reception is an evening filled with fun, spending time with your newly enlarged family, eating and – of course – dancing.

And the best way to get your guests to join you on the dancefloor is with a banging playlist filled with classics, romantic hits, chart toppers and even a few cheesy numbers thrown in for good measure. And while it’s important to have a mix of songs playing at your wedding reception, you probably won’t want to just hit ‘random’. That’s why a carefully chosen playlist can ensure you throw a party no one will soon forget.

In this article, we’ll run through 175 of the best wedding reception songs to consider including in your playlist, from high-energy anthems to those so-bad-they’re-great crowd-pleasers.

What songs do you need at a wedding reception?

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There’s way more to your wedding reception than a disco, with a whole range of different types of songs playing, depending on the size and style you’ve gone for. Here are the most common types of songs you might expect to hear at a wedding reception:

  • Entrance song: A usually upbeat song that plays when the happy couple enters the reception venue for the first time.
  • First dance song: A romantic and slow-tempo song that the couple will have their first official dance to.
  • Parents’ dance: A slower song that plays as the couple dances with their parents, such as a father-daughter and mother-son dance.
  • Cultural songs: It may be appropriate to play songs that honour the families’ cultures and beliefs.
  • Party songs: When the disco starts, it’s time to throw some shapes to popular crowd-pleasers!
  • Closing song: Usually a funny or relevant song that lets your guests know the night has come to an end.

What makes for a good wedding reception song?

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A good wedding reception song helps to capture the feeling of love and celebration that fits with the tone of your overall wedding. You can choose from a mix of genres, eras, styles and artists, to make sure you have tunes that suit everyone’s tastes.

Here are a few characteristics that make for a great wedding reception song:

  • High energy: Make sure you have songs that everyone wants to dance to
  • Timeless: Songs that everyone instantly recognises and no doubt already loves.
  • Emotional: Songs focused on love and happiness will always go down well.
  • Relevance: Try to choose some songs with heartfelt and celebratory lyrics, or lyrics that you have a personal connection to.
  • Danceability: Of course, the songs have to have a beat everyone can dance to!
  • Variety: Choose different songs that will appeal to a wide variety of age groups. Yes, you might love hard rock, but can your 97-year-old grandma dance to it all night long?
  • Cultural significance: If you have songs that relate to your background or culture, it’s great to honour them by including some.

What sorts of genres should you include?

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What genres of music you choose to include at your wedding reception is really down to you, your tastes and the tone you’re going for. The important thing is to choose a wide variety of songs from lots of different genres. But, you also want to make sure the songs flow nicely from one to the next – though that’s for your DJ (if you have one) to worry about.

A well-rounded wedding reception playlist will include songs from genres like: 

  • Pop
  • Classic rock
  • R&B
  • Disco
  • Indie
  • Motown
  • Dance
  • Country
  • Hip-hop

This list is far from exhaustive. Whatever your musical tastes, there are absolutely ways to include them in your reception playlist. Have a chat with whoever is in charge of your music and let them know the sort of songs you’d like. 

How many songs do you need at your wedding reception?

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The number of songs that will play at your wedding reception depends entirely on the length of your evening.

As a rough guide, most songs are between three and four minutes in length, which means approximately 15 to 20 songs will play per hour. So, if your reception lasts two hours, up to 40 songs will play. If it’s four hours, up to 80 songs will play.

But, it’s always best to choose more than you need if you want to make sure your playlist is only full of your favourite tunes.

175 of the best songs to include in your wedding reception

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Choosing your wedding reception playlist can be a lot of fun, but with an almost endless number of songs out there, where on Earth do you start? To help you whittle things down, we’ve put together 175 of the best wedding reception songs, so you can throw the party of the century.

20 wedding entrance songs

  1. ‘Marry You’ – Bruno Mars

Key Lyrics: ‘It’s a beautiful night, we’re looking for something dumb to do.’

 

  1. ‘Bring ‘Em Out’ – T.I.

Key Lyrics: ‘Bring ’em out, bring ’em out, bring ’em out, bring ’em out!’

 

  1. ‘Can’t Stop the Feeling!’ – Justin Timberlake

Key Lyrics: ‘I got that sunshine in my pocket, got that good soul in my feet.’

 

  1. ‘Happy’ – Pharrell Williams

Key Lyrics: ‘Clap along if you feel like happiness is the truth.’

 

  1. ‘Signed, Sealed, Delivered (I’m Yours)’ – Stevie Wonder

Key Lyrics: ‘Here I am, signed, sealed, delivered, I’m yours.’

 

  1. ‘Let’s Get Married (Remix)’ – Jagged Edge ft. Run DMC

Key Lyrics: ‘Meet me at the altar in your white dress.’

 

  1. ‘This Will Be (An Everlasting Love)’ – Natalie Cole

Key Lyrics: ‘This will be an everlasting love for me.’

 

  1. ‘Feel So Close’ – Calvin Harris

Key Lyrics: ‘I feel so close to you right now, it’s a force field.’

 

  1. ‘We Found Love’ – Rihanna ft. Calvin Harris

Key Lyrics: ‘We found love in a hopeless place.’

 

  1. ‘I Gotta Feeling’ – Black Eyed Peas

Key Lyrics: ‘Tonight’s gonna be a good night.’

 

  1. ‘I’m Yours’ – Jason Mraz

Key lyrics: ‘I’m yours.’

 

  1. ‘Walking on Sunshine’ – Katrina and the Waves

Key Lyrics: ‘I’m walking on sunshine, whoa!’

 

  1. ‘Ain’t No Mountain High Enough’ – Marvin Gaye & Tammi Terrell

Key Lyrics: ‘Ain’t no mountain high enough, ain’t no valley low enough.’

 

  1. ‘All You Need is Love’ – The Beatles

Key Lyrics: ‘All you need is love, love, love is all you need.’

 

  1. ‘You Make My Dreams (Come True)’ – Hall & Oates

Key Lyrics: ‘You make my dreams come true.’

 

  1. ‘Dynamite’ – Taio Cruz

Key Lyrics: ‘I throw my hands up in the air sometimes, saying ‘ayo, gotta let go.”

 

  1. ‘Good Life’ – Kanye West ft. T-Pain

Key Lyrics: ‘Welcome to the good life.’

 

  1. ‘On Top of the World’ – Imagine Dragons

Key Lyrics: ‘I’m on top of the world, hey!’

 

  1. ‘Let’s Get It Started’ – Black Eyed Peas

Key Lyrics: ‘Let’s get it started in here.’

 

  1. ‘Beautiful Day’ – U2

Key Lyrics: ‘It’s a beautiful day, don’t let it get away.’

 

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  1. ‘Perfect’ – Ed Sheeran

Key Lyrics: ‘I found a love, to carry more than just my secrets.’

 

  1. ‘At Last’ – Etta James

Key Lyrics: ‘At last, my love has come along.’

 

  1. ‘All of Me’ – John Legend

Key Lyrics: ‘All of me loves all of you.’

 

  1. ‘Thinking Out Loud’ – Ed Sheeran

Key Lyrics: ‘Take me into your loving arms.’

 

  1. ‘You Are the Best Thing’ – Ray LaMontagne

Key Lyrics: ‘You are the best thing that ever happened to me.’

 

  1. ‘Say You Won’t Let Go’ – James Arthur

Key Lyrics: ‘I’m gonna love you till my lungs give out.’

 

  1. ‘Lucky’ – Jason Mraz & Colbie Caillat

Key Lyrics: ‘Lucky I’m in love with my best friend.’

 

  1. ‘Can’t Help Falling in Love’ – Elvis Presley

Key Lyrics: ‘Take my hand, take my whole life too.’

 

  1. ‘Beyond’ – Leon Bridges

Key Lyrics: ‘She might just be my everything and beyond.’

 

  1. ‘Speechless’ – Dan + Shay

Key Lyrics: ‘I’m speechless, staring at you standing there in that dress.’

 

  1. ‘Die a Happy Man’ – Thomas Rhett

Key Lyrics: ‘I could die a happy man.’

 

  1. ‘Better Together’ – Jack Johnson

Key Lyrics: ‘It’s always better when we’re together.’

 

  1. ‘Lover’ – Taylor Swift

Key Lyrics: ‘Can I go where you go?’

 

  1. ‘Everything’ – Michael Bublé

Key Lyrics: ‘You’re everything, everything to me.’

 

  1. ‘When You Say Nothing At All’ – Ronan Keating

Key Lyrics: ‘You say it best (you say it best) when you say nothing at all.’

 

  1. ‘From the Ground Up’ – Dan + Shay

Key Lyrics: ‘We’ll build this love from the ground up.’

 

  1. ‘I Get to Love You’ – Ruelle

Key Lyrics: ‘I get to love you, it’s the best thing I’ll ever do.’

 

  1. ‘Unchained Melody’ – The Righteous Brothers

Key Lyrics: ‘Oh, my love, my darling, I’ve hungered for your touch.’

 

  1. ‘Make You Feel My Love’ – Adele

Key Lyrics: ‘I could make you happy, make your dreams come true.’

 

  1. ‘Yours’ – Russell Dickerson

Key Lyrics: ‘I came to life when I first kissed you.’

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  1. ‘Shallow’ – Lady Gaga & Bradley Cooper

Key Lyrics: ‘I’m off the deep end, watch as I dive in / I’ll never meet the ground.’

 

  1. ‘By Your Side’ – Sade

    Key Lyrics: ‘Oh, when you’re cold, I’ll be there / Hold you tight to me (to me, yeah).’

 

  1. ‘If I Ain’t Got You’ – Alicia Keys

Key Lyrics: ‘Some people want it all, but I don’t want nothing at all / If it ain’t you, baby.’

 

  1. ‘Best Part’ – Daniel Caesar & H.E.R.

Key Lyrics: ‘You’re my water when I’m stuck in the desert / You’re the Tylenol I take when my head hurts.’

 

  1. ‘Adore You’ – Harry Styles

Key Lyrics: ‘Just let me adore you / Like it’s the only thing I’ll ever do.’

 

  1. ‘A Thousand Years’ – Christina Perri

Key Lyrics: ‘I have died every day waiting for you / Darling, don’t be afraid, I have loved you for a thousand years.’

 

  1. ‘Latch’ – Disclosure ft. Sam Smith

Key Lyrics: ‘Now I’ve got you in my space / I won’t let go of you.’

 

  1. ‘No One’ – Alicia Keys

Key Lyrics: ‘No one, no one, no one / Can get in the way of what I’m feeling.’

 

  1. ‘Come Away with Me’ – Norah Jones

Key Lyrics: ‘Come away with me and we’ll kiss on a mountaintop.’

 

  1. ‘You Send Me’ – Sam Cooke

Key Lyrics: ‘You send me / Honest you do, honest you do.’

 

  1. ‘Electric Feel’ – MGMT

Key Lyrics: ‘You can feel it in your mind, oh, you can do it all the time.’

 

  1. ‘Higher Love’ – Kygo & Whitney Houston

Key Lyrics: ‘Bring me a higher love / Where’s that higher love I keep thinking of?’

 

  1. ‘You’re Still the One’ – Shania Twain

Key Lyrics: ‘You’re still the one I run to / The one that I belong to.’

 

  1. ‘Back at One’ – Brian McKnight

Key Lyrics: ‘One, you’re like a dream come true / Two, just wanna be with you.’

 

  1. ‘Like I’m Gonna Lose You’ – Meghan Trainor & John Legend

Key Lyrics: ‘So I’m gonna love you like I’m gonna lose you.’

 

  1. ‘XO’ – Beyoncé

Key Lyrics: ‘In the darkest night, I’ll search through the crowd / Your face is all that I see.’

 

  1. ‘How Sweet It Is (To Be Loved by You)’ – James Taylor

Key Lyrics: ‘How sweet it is to be loved by you.’

 

  1. ‘Let’s Stay Together’ – Al Green

Key Lyrics: ‘Let’s stay together, loving you whether / Times are good or bad, happy or sad.’

 

  1. ‘Someone Like You’ – Van Morrison

Key Lyrics: ‘I’ve been searching my whole life through / For someone like you.’

 

  1. ‘Baby, I Love Your Way’ – Peter Frampton

Key Lyrics: ‘Ooh baby, I love your way, every day.’

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  1. ‘Uptown Funk’ – Mark Ronson ft. Bruno Mars

Key Lyrics: ‘Don’t believe me, just watch!’

 

  1. ‘Don’t Stop Believin” – Journey

Key Lyrics: ‘Don’t stop believin’ / Hold on to that feelin’.’

 

  1. ‘I Wanna Dance with Somebody’ – Whitney Houston

Key Lyrics: ‘Oh, I wanna dance with somebody / I wanna feel the heat with somebody.’

 

  1. ‘Shut Up and Dance’ – WALK THE MOON

Key Lyrics: ‘Oh, don’t you dare look back / Just keep your eyes on me.’

 

  1. ‘September’ – Earth, Wind & Fire

Key Lyrics: ‘Do you remember the 21st night of September?’

 

  1. ‘Livin’ on a Prayer’ – Bon Jovi

Key Lyrics: ‘Whoa, we’re halfway there / Whoa-oh, livin’ on a prayer.’

 

  1. ‘Yeah!’ – Usher ft. Lil Jon & Ludacris

Key Lyrics: ‘Yeah, yeah, shorty got down low, said, ‘Come and get me.”

 

  1. ‘Billie Jean’ – Michael Jackson

Key Lyrics: ‘Billie Jean is not my lover / She’s just a girl who claims that I am the one.’

 

  1. ‘Sweet Caroline’ – Neil Diamond

Key Lyrics: ‘Sweet Caroline / Good times never seemed so good.’

 

  1. ‘Dancing Queen’ – ABBA

Key Lyrics: ‘You are the dancing queen / Young and sweet, only seventeen.’

 

  1. ‘Footloose’ – Kenny Loggins

Key Lyrics: ‘Everybody cut footloose!’

 

  1. ‘Shake It Off’ – Taylor Swift

Key Lyrics: ‘The players gonna play, play, play, play, play / And the haters gonna hate, hate, hate, hate, hate.’

 

  1. ‘Crazy in Love’ – Beyoncé ft. Jay-Z

Key Lyrics: ‘Got me looking so crazy right now, your love’s got me looking so crazy right now.’

 

  1. ‘Hey Ya!’ – OutKast

Key Lyrics: ‘Shake it like a Polaroid picture!’

 

  1. ‘Super Freak’ – Rick James

Key Lyrics: ‘She’s a very kinky girl / The kind you don’t take home to mother.’

 

  1. ‘Wake Me Up’ – Avicii

Key Lyrics: ‘So wake me up when it’s all over / When I’m wiser and I’m older.’

 

  1. ‘Single Ladies (Put a Ring on It)’ – Beyoncé

Key Lyrics: ‘If you liked it, then you shoulda put a ring on it.’

 

  1. ‘We Are Family’ – Sister Sledge

Key Lyrics: ‘We are family / I got all my sisters with me.’

 

  1. ‘Party Rock Anthem’ – LMFAO

Key Lyrics: ‘Party rock is in the house tonight / Everybody just have a good time.’

 

  1. ‘Get Lucky’ – Daft Punk ft. Pharrell Williams

Key Lyrics: ‘We’re up all night to get lucky.’

 

  1. ‘Old Town Road’ – Lil Nas X ft. Billy Ray Cyrus

Key Lyrics: ‘Can’t nobody tell me nothing / You can’t tell me nothing.’

 

  1. ‘Hips Don’t Lie’ – Shakira ft. Wyclef Jean

Key Lyrics: ‘Oh, baby, when you talk like that, you make a woman go mad.’

 

  1. ’24K Magic’ – Bruno Mars

Key Lyrics: ‘Players, put your pinky rings up to the moon!’

 

  1. ‘Let’s Groove’ – Earth, Wind & Fire

Key Lyrics: ‘Let’s groove tonight / Share the spice of life.’

 

  1. ‘All Night Long’ – Lionel Richie

Key Lyrics: ‘We’re going to party, karamu, fiesta, forever.’

 

  1. ‘Rock Your Body’ – Justin Timberlake

Key Lyrics: ‘So rock your body right.’

 

  1. ‘Treasure’ – Bruno Mars

Key Lyrics: ‘Treasure, that is what you are / Honey, you’re my golden star.’

 

  1. ‘Jump Around’ – House of Pain

Key Lyrics: ‘Jump around! Jump around!’

 

  1. ‘Levitating’ – Dua Lipa

Key Lyrics: ‘I got you, moonlight, you’re my starlight.’

 

  1. ‘Senorita’ – Justin Timberlake

Key Lyrics: ‘Senorita, I feel for you / You deal with things that you don’t have to.’

 

  1. ‘We Will Rock You’ – Queen

Key Lyrics: ‘We will, we will rock you.’

 

  1. ‘Don’t Stop the Music’ – Rihanna

Key Lyrics: ‘Please don’t stop the music.’

 

  1. ‘Cupid Shuffle’ – Cupid

Key Lyrics: ‘To the right, to the right, to the right, to the right.’

 

  1. ‘Time of Our Lives’ – Pitbull & Ne-Yo

Key Lyrics: ‘I knew my rent was gonna be late about a week ago.’

 

  1. ‘I Love It’ – Icona Pop ft. Charli XCX

Key Lyrics: ‘I don’t care, I love it!’

 

  1. ‘My House’ – Flo Rida

Key Lyrics: ‘Welcome to my house / Baby, take control now.’

 

  1. ‘Wobble’ – V.I.C.

Key Lyrics: ‘Wobble baby, wobble baby, wobble baby, wobble.’

 

  1. ‘Wannabe’ – Spice Girls

Key Lyrics: ‘If you wanna be my lover, you gotta get with my friends.’

 

  1. ‘Toxic’ – Britney Spears

Key Lyrics: ‘With a taste of your lips, I’m on a ride.’

 

  1. ‘Blurred Lines’ – Robin Thicke ft. Pharrell & T.I.

Key Lyrics: ‘I hate these blurred lines.’

 

  1. ‘Girls Just Want to Have Fun’ – Cyndi Lauper

Key Lyrics: ‘When the working day is done, oh, girls just want to have fun.’

 

  1. ‘Shout’ – The Isley Brothers

Key Lyrics: ‘You know you make me wanna shout!’

 

  1. ‘Bad Romance’ – Lady Gaga

Key Lyrics: ‘I want your love and I want your revenge / You and me could write a bad romance.’

 

  1. ‘You Shook Me All Night Long’ – AC/DC

Key Lyrics: ‘You shook me all night long.’

 

  1. ‘Let’s Get Loud’ – Jennifer Lopez

Key Lyrics: ‘Let’s get loud, let’s get loud.’

 

  1. ‘Take On Me’ – A-ha

Key Lyrics: ‘Oh, I’ll be comin’ for your love, okay.’

 

  1. ‘Pour Some Sugar on Me’ – Def Leppard

Key Lyrics: ‘Pour some sugar on me / In the name of love.’

 

  1. ‘Gimme! Gimme! Gimme!’ – ABBA

Key Lyrics: ‘Gimme, gimme, gimme a man after midnight.’

 

  1. ‘Mr. Brightside’ – The Killers

Key Lyrics: ‘Jealousy, turning saints into the sea.’

 

  1. ‘Dancing with a Stranger’ – Sam Smith & Normani

Key Lyrics: ‘Look what you made me do, I’m with somebody new.’

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  1. ‘Respect’ – Aretha Franklin

Key Lyrics: ‘R-E-S-P-E-C-T, find out what it means to me.’

 

  1. ‘Brown Eyed Girl’ – Van Morrison

Key Lyrics: ‘You’re my brown-eyed girl.’

 

  1. ‘Twist and Shout’ – The Beatles

Key Lyrics: ‘Come on, come on, come on, baby now.’

 

  1. ‘Rock Around the Clock’ – Bill Haley & His Comets

Key Lyrics: ‘We’re gonna rock around the clock tonight.’

 

  1. ‘Celebration’ – Kool & the Gang

Key Lyrics: ‘Celebrate good times, come on!’

 

  1. ‘Jailhouse Rock’ – Elvis Presley

Key Lyrics: ‘Let’s rock, everybody, let’s rock.’

 

  1. ‘Great Balls of Fire’ – Jerry Lee Lewis

Key Lyrics: ‘Goodness, gracious, great balls of fire!’

 

  1. ‘Stayin’ Alive’ – Bee Gees

Key Lyrics: ‘Ah, ha, ha, ha, stayin’ alive, stayin’ alive.’

 

  1. ‘I Will Survive’ – Gloria Gaynor

Key Lyrics: ‘Oh no, not I, I will survive.’

 

  1. ‘Y.M.C.A.’ – Village People

Key Lyrics: ‘It’s fun to stay at the Y.M.C.A.’

 

  1. ‘We Are Family’ – Sister Sledge

Key Lyrics: ‘We are family, I got all my sisters with me.’

 

  1. ‘Sweet Home Alabama’ – Lynyrd Skynyrd

Key Lyrics: ‘Sweet home Alabama, where the skies are so blue.’

 

  1. ‘Build Me Up Buttercup’ – The Foundations

Key Lyrics: ‘Why do you build me up, buttercup, baby?’

 

  1. ‘Rehab’ – Amy Winehouse

    Key Lyrics: ‘Yes, I’ve been black, but when I come back, you’ll know, know, know.’

 

  1. ‘Proud Mary’ – Tina Turner

Key Lyrics: ‘Big wheels keep on turning.’

 

  1. ‘Good Times’ – Chic

Key Lyrics: ‘These are the good times.’

 

  1. ‘Summer of ’69’ – Bryan Adams

Key Lyrics: ‘Oh, when I look back now.’

 

  1. ‘I Want You Back’ – Jackson 5

Key Lyrics: ‘Oh baby, give me one more chance.’

 

  1. ‘I’m Coming Out’ – Diana Ross

Key Lyrics: ‘I’m coming out, I want the world to know.’

 

  1. ‘American Girl’ – Tom Petty and the Heartbreakers

Key Lyrics: ‘She was an American girl.’

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  1. ‘Unforgettable’ – Nat King Cole

Key Lyrics: ‘Unforgettable, that’s what you are / Unforgettable, though near or far.’

 

  1. ‘The Way You Look Tonight’ – Frank Sinatra

Key Lyrics: ‘Some day, when I’m awfully low / When the world is cold, I will feel a glow just thinking of you.’

 

  1. ‘My Girl’ – The Temptations

Key Lyrics: ‘I’ve got sunshine on a cloudy day / When it’s cold outside, I’ve got the month of May.’

 

  1. ‘What a Wonderful World’ – Louis Armstrong

Key Lyrics: ‘I see trees of green, red roses too / I see them bloom for me and you / And I think to myself, what a wonderful world.’

 

  1. ‘In the Mood’ – Glenn Miller

Key Lyrics: (Instrumental – known for its iconic swing melody and lively rhythm.)

 

  1. ‘Stand by Me’ – Ben E. King

Key Lyrics: ‘If the sky that we look upon should tumble and fall / Or the mountain should crumble to the sea / I won’t cry, I won’t cry, no, I won’t shed a tear.’

 

  1. ‘You Make Me Feel So Young’ – Frank Sinatra

Key Lyrics: ‘You make me feel so young / You make me feel like spring has sprung.’

 

  1. ‘Can’t Take My Eyes Off You’ – Frankie Valli

Key Lyrics: ‘You’re just too good to be true / Can’t take my eyes off of you.’

 

  1. ‘Fly Me to the Moon’ – Frank Sinatra

Key Lyrics: ‘Fly me to the moon, let me play among the stars / Let me see what spring is like on Jupiter and Mars.’

 

  1. ‘The Twist’ – Chubby Checker

Key Lyrics: ‘Come on baby, let’s do the twist / Take me by my little hand and go like this.’

 

  1. ‘Blue Suede Shoes’ – Elvis Presley

Key Lyrics: ‘Well, you can do anything but lay off of my blue suede shoes.’

 

  1. ‘Dancing in the Street’ – Martha and the Vandellas

Key Lyrics: ‘Calling out around the world, are you ready for a brand new beat? / Summer’s here and the time is right for dancing in the street.’

 

  1. ‘La Bamba’ – Ritchie Valens

Key Lyrics: ‘Para bailar la Bamba, se necesita una poca de gracia.’

 

  1. ‘I Only Have Eyes for You’ – The Flamingos

Key Lyrics: ‘Are the stars out tonight? / I don’t know if it’s cloudy or bright / ‘Cause I only have eyes for you.’

 

  1. ‘Runaround Sue’ – Dion

Key Lyrics: ‘Here’s my story, it’s sad but true / It’s about a girl that I once knew.’

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  1. ‘Another One Bites the Dust’ – Queen

Key Lyrics: ‘Another one bites the dust / And another one gone, and another one gone, another one bites the dust.’

 

  1. ‘Love Stinks’ – J. Geils Band

Key Lyrics: ‘You love her, but she loves him / And he loves somebody else, you just can’t win.’

 

  1. ‘Hit the Road Jack’ – Ray Charles

Key Lyrics: ‘Hit the road Jack, and don’t you come back no more, no more, no more, no more.’

 

  1. ‘Before He Cheats’ – Carrie Underwood

Key Lyrics: ‘I dug my key into the side of his pretty little souped-up four-wheel drive.’

 

  1. ‘Gold Digger’ – Kanye West ft. Jamie Foxx

Key Lyrics: ‘Now I ain’t sayin’ she a gold digger / But she ain’t messin’ with no broke…’

 

  1. ‘Highway to Hell’ – AC/DC

Key Lyrics: ‘I’m on the highway to hell.’

 

  1. ‘It Wasn’t Me’ – Shaggy

Key Lyrics: ‘But she caught me on the counter / It wasn’t me.’

 

  1. ‘Hot in Herre’ – Nelly

Key Lyrics: ‘It’s gettin’ hot in here, so take off all your clothes.’

 

  1. ‘Big Poppa’ – The Notorious B.I.G.

Key Lyrics: ‘I love it when you call me Big Poppa.’

 

  1. ‘Macarena’ – Los Del Río

Key Lyrics: ‘Heeey, macarena!’

 

  1. ‘I’m Too Sexy’ – Right Said Fred

Key Lyrics: ‘I’m too sexy for my shirt, too sexy for my shirt, so sexy it hurts.’

 

  1. ‘Who Let the Dogs Out’ – Baha Men

Key Lyrics: ‘Who let the dogs out? Woof, woof, woof, woof, woof.’

 

  1. ‘Getting jiggy wit It’ – Will Smith

    Key Lyrics: ‘On your mark, ready, set, let’s go / Dancefloor pro, I know you know.’

 

  1. ‘I’m Gonna Be (500 Miles)’ – The Proclaimers

Key Lyrics: ‘But I would walk 500 miles / And I would walk 500 more.’

 

  1. ‘Oops!… I Did It Again’ – Britney Spears

Key Lyrics: ‘Oops!… I did it again, I played with your heart, got lost in the game.’

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  1. ‘Electric Love’ – BØRNS

Key Lyrics: ‘Baby, you’re like lightning in a bottle / I can’t let you go now that I got it.’

 

  1. ‘Good as Hell’ – Lizzo

Key Lyrics: ‘If he don’t love you anymore / Just walk your fine self out the door.’

 

  1. ‘Love on Top’ – Beyoncé

Key Lyrics: ‘Baby, it’s you / You’re the one I love, you’re the one I need.’

 

  1. ‘Some Kind of Wonderful’ – Grand Funk Railroad

Key Lyrics: ‘When I hold her in my arms, you know she sets my soul on fire.’

 

  1. ‘Somebody To Love Me’ – Mark Ronson feat. Boy George

Key Lyrics: ‘I don’t wanna see you go / I want somebody to love me.’

 

  1. ‘I Wanna Be Your Lover’ – Prince

Key Lyrics: ‘I wanna be your lover, I wanna be the only one that makes you come running.’

 

  1. ‘Feel It Still’ – Portugal. The Man

Key Lyrics: ‘Ooh, I’m a rebel just for kicks now / I’ve been feelin’ it since 1966 now.’

 

  1. ‘My Type’ – Saint Motel

Key Lyrics: ‘You’re just my type / Oh, you got a pulse and you are breathing.’

 

  1. ‘Sh-Boom’ – The Chords

Key Lyrics: ‘Life could be a dream, if I could take you up in paradise up above.’

 

  1. ‘You & Me’ – Disclosure ft. Eliza Doolittle

Key Lyrics: ‘When I’m with you, it’s all good / It’s all good, all good.’

 

  1. ‘Little of Your Love’ – HAIM

Key Lyrics: ‘I need just a little of your love / I need just a little of your love.’

 

  1. ‘Ho Hey’ – The Lumineers

Key Lyrics: ‘I belong with you, you belong with me, you’re my sweetheart.’

 

  1. ‘Dancing in the Moonlight’ – King Harvest

Key Lyrics: ‘Dancing in the moonlight / Everybody’s feeling warm and bright.’

 

  1. ‘Out of My League’ – Fitz and The Tantrums

Key Lyrics: ‘From time to time I pinch myself / Because I think my girl mistakes me for somebody else.’

 

  1. ‘Firestone’ – Kygo ft. Conrad Sewell

Key Lyrics: ‘We light up the world / We were fire and stone.’

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The 200 Best Wedding Ceremony Songs

Music plays a huge role in your wedding. From the moment your day begins to the moment everyone stumbles home at the end of a long night celebrating, there aren’t many parts of your wedding when music isn’t playing in some capacity.

And this goes for your wedding ceremony, too. Of course, one of the most important pieces of music at your wedding is the music you walk down the aisle to. But, there are plenty of other songs that will play during the ceremony itself.

But, exactly what songs play at a wedding ceremony and what songs should you pick to feature in your big day? There’s almost an endless choice out there, so narrowing it down can be a pretty tricky decision.

In this article, we’re going to run through the 200 best wedding ceremony songs, to make sure your ceremony is memorable, romantic and full of your personalities.

When are songs played during your wedding ceremony?

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Songs play at various points throughout your wedding ceremony. They’ll play to welcome your guests into the venue while they find their seats and they’ll play as you and your new spouse leave alongside the applause of your elated guests. Music plays a big part in your celebrations and is woven into some of the most important moments.

Here are when songs are usually played during a wedding ceremony:

  • Prelude: Usually between 15 and 30 minutes before the ceremony begins as guests begin to enter and take their seats.
  • Processional: As the members of the wedding party enter. A separate song may then play as the bride walks down the aisle.
  • Hymns/religious songs: In a religious ceremony, hymns and songs may be performed at certain points.
  • Interludes: Music will often play as the couple signs the wedding register to provide background sound and entertain guests.
  • Recessional: Once the couple is declared married and they leave the ceremony, an upbeat song will usually accompany them.
  • Postlude: Music will often play as guests leave the ceremony venue.

How many songs do you need to choose for your wedding ceremony?

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The number of songs you need to choose depends on the length of your ceremony and at what points you would like music to play.

  • During the prelude, there will often be between 6 and 12 songs, depending on the length and how soon before the start of the ceremony you’d like the music to begin.
  • During the processional, there will be a maximum of two songs, including the song you walk down the aisle to.
  • If you have a religious ceremony, there are usually approximately two songs or hymns.
  • During an interlude, such as when you’re signing the register, there will be time for one or two songs.
  • During the recessional, one song will play.
  • During the postlude, one or two songs will play, as this is usually enough time for your guests to leave the ceremony venue after you.

In total, there are usually between 10 and 15 songs that will play during your wedding ceremony.

How to choose the perfect wedding ceremony songs

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Choosing the perfect wedding ceremony songs will depend on your taste and the style, formality and format of your wedding. Here are some things to think about to make sure you choose the best songs for your ceremony:

  • Think about the key moments in your ceremony when music will help add romance, emotion and entertainment for your guests.
  • Try to match your musical choices with the overall theme and style of your wedding. For example, with a movie-centric theme, you’ll likely want to choose music used in your favourite movies.
  • Think about the acoustics of your venue and how different genres of music will sound.
  • Try to choose music that reflects both your personalities and holds special meaning for you as a couple.
  • Ensure there’s variation when it comes to tempo and tone. Try and tell a story with a beginning, middle and end.
  • Consider your guests and what sort of songs they might like to listen to as well.
  • Test your choices together and make sure they complement each other.

200 of the best songs to include in your wedding ceremony

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When it comes to your wedding ceremony, you call the shots. And when it comes to the music at your ceremony, there are so many options available to you that it can be a rather daunting task to whittle  your choices down to just a handful.

That’s where we come in. Below, we’ve run down our picks for 200 of the best wedding ceremony songs to help ensure you have a memorable ceremony.

50 best guest arrival songs

Before the ceremony begins, music will play as your guests enter the venue and take their seats. The music that plays helps set the scene for what’s to come, so here are our picks for 50 of the best guest arrival songs.

Classic love songs

  1. ‘Can’t Help Falling in Love’ – Elvis Presley

Key lyrics: ‘Take my hand, take my whole life too / For I can’t help falling in love with you.’

 

  1. ‘Unchained Melody’ – The Righteous Brothers

Key lyrics: ‘Oh, my love, my darling / I’ve hungered for your touch.’

 

  1. ‘Endless Love’ – Diana Ross & Lionel Richie

Key lyrics: ‘My love, there’s only you in my life / The only thing that’s bright.’

 

  1. ‘At Last’ – Etta James

Key lyrics: ‘At last, my love has come along / My lonely days are over.’

 

  1. ‘The Way You Look Tonight’ – Frank Sinatra

Key lyrics: ‘With each word, your tenderness grows / Tearing my fear apart.’

Modern romantic songs

  1. ‘Perfect’ – Ed Sheeran

Key lyrics: ‘We were just kids when we fell in love / Not knowing what it was.’

 

  1. ‘All of Me’ – John Legend

Key lyrics: ‘Cause all of me loves all of you / Love your curves and all your edges.’

 

  1. ‘A Thousand Years’ – Christina Perri

Key lyrics: ‘I have died every day waiting for you / Darling, don’t be afraid.’

 

  1. ‘You Are the Reason’ – Calum Scott & Leona Lewis

Key lyrics: ‘I’d climb every mountain / And swim every ocean.’

 

  1. ‘Say You Won’t Let Go’ – James Arthur

Key lyrics: ‘I knew I loved you then, but you’d never know / ‘Cause I played it cool.’

Acoustic and indie songs

  1. ‘First Day of My Life’ – Bright Eyes

Key lyrics: ‘Yours was the first face that I saw / I think I was blind before I met you.’

 

  1. ‘Better Together’ – Jack Johnson

Key lyrics: ‘Love is the answer, at least for most of the questions in my heart.’

 

  1. ‘Home’ – Edward Sharpe & The Magnetic Zeros

Key lyrics: ‘Home, let me come home / Home is wherever I’m with you.’

 

  1. ‘I Choose You’ – Sara Bareilles

Key lyrics: ‘Tell the world that we finally got it all right / I choose you.’

 

  1. ‘Lucky’ – Jason Mraz & Colbie Caillat

Key lyrics: ‘Lucky I’m in love with my best friend / Lucky to have been where I have been.’

Instrumental songs

  1. ‘Meant to Be’ – Steve Petrunak
  2. ‘Canon in D’ – Johann Pachelbel
  3. ‘Moon River’ (Instrumental) – Henry Mancini
  4. ‘River Flows in You’ – Yiruma
  5. ‘Somewhere Over the Rainbow’ (Instrumental) – Israel Kamakawiwo’ole

Pop and contemporary hits

  1. ‘Halo’ – Beyoncé

Key lyrics: ‘I can see your halo / You know you’re my saving grace.’

 

  1. ‘Love on Top’ – Beyoncé

Key lyrics: ‘Baby, it’s you / You’re the one I love.’

 

  1. ‘Marry You’ – Bruno Mars

Key lyrics: ‘Hey baby, I think I wanna marry you.’

 

  1. ‘I’m Yours’ – Jason Mraz

Key lyrics: ‘Well, you done, done me in; you bet I felt it / I tried to be chill.’

 

  1. ‘Falling Like the Stars’ – James Arthur

Key lyrics: ‘I swear to God, when I come home / I’m gonna hold you like I’m never gonna let you go.’

Soul and R&B classics

  1. ‘Ain’t No Mountain High Enough’ – Marvin Gaye & Tammi Terrell

Key lyrics: ‘Ain’t no mountain high, ain’t no valley low, ain’t no river wide enough, baby.’

 

  1. ‘For Once in My Life’ – Stevie Wonder

Key lyrics: ‘For once in my life, I have someone who needs me.’

 

  1. ‘You Make My Dreams’ – Hall & Oates

Key lyrics: ‘What I want, you’ve got / And it might be hard to handle.’

 

  1. ‘This Will Be (An Everlasting Love)’ – Natalie Cole

Key lyrics: ‘This will be an everlasting love / This will be the one I’ve waited for.’

 

  1. ‘Let’s Stay Together’ – Al Green

Key lyrics: ‘I’m so in love with you / Whatever you want to do is alright with me.’

Feel-good songs

  1. ‘Here Comes the Sun’ – The Beatles

Key lyrics: ‘Here comes the sun, and I say / It’s alright.’

 

  1. ‘Count on Me’ – Bruno Mars

Key lyrics: ‘You can count on me like 1, 2, 3 / I’ll be there.’

 

  1. ‘Isn’t She Lovely’ – Stevie Wonder

Key lyrics: ‘Isn’t she lovely? Isn’t she wonderful?’

 

  1. ‘Happy’ – Pharrell Williams

Key lyrics: ‘Because I’m happy / Clap along if you feel like a room without a roof.’

 

  1. ‘Love Someone’ – Lukas Graham

Key lyrics: ‘Cause when you love someone / You open up your heart.’

Timeless instrumental classics

  1. ‘Arioso’ – J.S. Bach
  2. ‘Marry Me’ – United Guitar Players
  3. ‘Spring’ from The Four Seasons – Vivaldi
  4. ‘Air on the G String’ – J.S. Bach
  5. ‘Serenade’ – Franz Schubert

Soft rock and folk

  1. ‘Sweet Child O’ Mine’ – Guns N’ Roses

Key lyrics: ‘Where do we go? Where do we go now?’

 

  1. ‘Forever Young’ – Rod Stewart

Key lyrics: ‘May the good Lord be with you / Down every road you roam.’

 

  1. ‘Stand by Me’ – Ben E. King

Key lyrics: ‘So darling, darling stand by me / Oh, stand by me.’

 

  1. ‘Better Together’ – Luke Combs

Key lyrics: ‘Some things just go better together / And probably always will.’

 

  1. ‘Ho Hey’ – The Lumineers

Key lyrics: ‘I belong with you, you belong with me / You’re my sweetheart.’

Romantic songs

  1. ‘Kiss Me’ – Sixpence None the Richer

Key lyrics: ‘Kiss me beneath the milky twilight / Lead me out on the moonlit floor.’

 

  1. ‘The Luckiest’ – Ben Folds

Key lyrics: ‘I am the luckiest / What if I’d been born fifty years before you in a house on a street where you lived?’

 

  1. ‘Better Together’ – Us The Duo

    Key lyrics: ‘Mmm, it’s always better when we’re together.’

 

  1. ‘Can’t Take My Eyes Off You’ – Frankie Valli

Key lyrics: ‘You’re just too good to be true / Can’t take my eyes off of you.’

 

  1. ‘Real Love’ – The Beatles

Key lyrics: ‘Seems that all I really was doing was waiting for love.’

25 best wedding processional songs

Set the mood and let your guests know that your special moment is about to begin with a processional song that hits home as your nearest and dearest walk down the aisle. But what sort of vibes should you go for? Here are 25 of the best wedding processional songs for you to consider.

Romantic classics

  1. ‘Songbird’ – Fleetwood Mac

Key lyrics: ‘And I wish you all the love in the world / But most of all, I wish it from myself.’

 

  1. ‘Here, There and Everywhere’ – The Beatles

Key lyrics: ‘I want her everywhere / And if she’s beside me I know I need never care.’

 

  1. ‘Something’ – The Beatles

Key lyrics: ‘Something in the way she moves / Attracts me like no other lover.’

 

  1. ‘Unforgettable’ – Nat King Cole

Key lyrics: ‘That’s why, darling, it’s incredible / That someone so unforgettable thinks that I am unforgettable too.’

 

  1. ‘La Vie en Rose’ – Édith Piaf

Key lyrics: ‘When you kiss me, heaven sighs / And though I close my eyes, I see la vie en rose.’

Modern love songs

  1. ‘Beyond’ – Leon Bridges

Key lyrics: ‘I’m scared to death that she might be it / That the love is real, that the shoe might fit.’

 

  1. ‘Lover’ – Taylor Swift (Acoustic Version)

Key lyrics: ‘Can I go where you go? / Can we always be this close forever and ever?’

 

  1. ‘The One’ – Kodaline

Key lyrics: ‘You make my heart feel like it’s summer / When the rain is pouring down.’

 

  1. ‘Forever’ – Ben Harper

Key lyrics: ‘Not talking about a year, no, not three or four / I don’t want that kind of forever in my life anymore.’

 

  1. ‘Everything’ – Michael Bublé

Key lyrics: ‘And in this crazy life, and through these crazy times / It’s you, it’s you, you make me sing.’

Instrumental covers of pop songs

  1. ‘The Book of Love’ (Instrumental) – Peter Gabriel
  2. ‘You Are So Beautiful’ (Instrumental) – Joe Cocker
  3. ‘Wildest Dreams’ (Instrumental) – Taylor Swift
  4. ‘Yellow’ (Instrumental) – Coldplay
  5. ‘Latch’ (Acoustic Instrumental) – Sam Smith

Indie and folk

  1. ‘Home’ – Phillip Phillips

Key lyrics: ‘Just know you’re not alone / ‘Cause I’m gonna make this place your home.’

 

  1. ‘Bloom’ – The Paper Kites

Key lyrics: ‘Can I be close to you?’

 

  1. ‘Sea of Love’ – Cat Power

Key lyrics: ‘Come with me, my love / To the sea, the sea of love.’

 

  1. ‘Better Place’ – Rachel Platten

Key lyrics: ‘And the world’s a little bit brighter with you.’

 

  1. ‘I Get to Love You’ – Ruelle

Key lyrics: ‘I get to love you / It’s the best thing that I’ll ever do.’

Instrumental film soundtracks

  1. ‘Time’ – Hans Zimmer (from Inception)
  2. ‘A Million Dreams’ – The Piano Guys (from The Greatest Showman)
  3. ‘Dawn’ – Dario Marianelli (from Pride & Prejudice)
  4. ‘Portals’ – Alan Silvestri (from Avengers: Endgame)
  5. ‘Falling Slowly’ (Instrumental) – Glen Hansard & Markéta Irglová (from Once)

50 of the best songs to walk down the aisle to

The song you walk down the aisle to is probably the one song you’ll think about the most throughout your wedding planning process. It’s likely to be a song that you and your partner never ever forget and will always be something that raises a smile whenever you hear it.

Because this is such a big decision, it’s hard to narrow it down. Below are 50 songs you may want to walk down the aisle to, but for even more inspiration, read our complete guide to the best songs to walk down the aisle to.

Classical instrumentals

  1. ‘Canon in D’ – Johann Pachelbel
  2. ‘Clair de Lune’ – Claude Debussy
  3. ‘Ave Maria’ – Franz Schubert
  4. ‘Jesu, Joy of Man’s Desiring’ – J.S. Bach
  5. ‘Air on the G String’ – J.S. Bach
  6. ‘The Four Seasons: Winter’ – Antonio Vivaldi
  7. ‘Largo’ from Xerxes – Handel
  8. ‘Trumpet Voluntary’ – Jeremiah Clarke
  9. ‘Ode to Joy’ – Beethoven
  10. ‘Wedding March’ – Felix Mendelssohn

Modern instrumentals

  1. ‘Turning Page’ – Sleeping at Last
  2. ‘A Thousand Years’ (Instrumental) – Christina Perri
  3. ‘All of Me’ (Instrumental) – John Legend
  4. ‘Perfect’ (Instrumental) – Ed Sheeran
  5. ‘Can’t Help Falling in Love’ (Instrumental) – Elvis Presley
  6. ‘Marry Me’ (Instrumental) – Train
  7. ‘Here Comes the Sun’ (Instrumental) – The Beatles
  8. ‘Halo’ (Instrumental) – Beyoncé
  9. ‘Thinking Out Loud’ (Instrumental) – Ed Sheeran
  10. ‘Marry You’ Canon – Wedding Mashup

Acoustic versions of pop songs

  1. ‘I’m Yours’ (Acoustic) – Jason Mraz
  2. ‘Make You Feel My Love’ (Acoustic) – Adele
  3. ‘You Are the Reason’ (Instrumental) – Calum Scott
  4. ‘Stand by Me’ (Instrumental) – Ben E. King
  5. ‘Say You Won’t Let Go’ (Instrumental) – James Arthur
  6. ‘Love Story’ (Acoustic) – Taylor Swift
  7. ‘Ho Hey’ (Instrumental) – The Lumineers
  8. ‘Best Day of My Life’ (Acoustic) – American Authors
  9. ‘I Don’t Want to Miss a Thing’ (Instrumental) – Aerosmith
  10. ‘Can You Feel the Love Tonight’ (Instrumental) – Elton John

Indie instrumentals

  1. ‘Young and Beautiful’ – Lana Del Rey
  2. ‘To Build a Home’ (Instrumental) – The Cinematic Orchestra
  3. ‘First Day of My Life’ (Instrumental) – Bright Eyes
  4. ‘Your Hand in Mine’ – Explosions in the Sky
  5. ‘Reverie’ – Claude Debussy
  6. ‘The Ludlows’ – James Horner
  7. ‘Love Me Tender’ (Instrumental) – Elvis Presley
  8. ‘Somewhere Only We Know’ (Instrumental) – Keane
  9. ‘Heartbeats’ (Instrumental) – José González
  10. ‘Bittersweet Symphony’ (Instrumental) – The Verve

Movie soundtracks

  1. ‘Concerning Hobbits’ – Howard Shore (from The Lord of the Rings: The Fellowship of the Ring)
  2. ‘Glasgow Love Theme’ – Craig Armstrong (from Love Actually)
  3. ‘When You Wish Upon A Star’ (from Pinocchio)
  4. ‘Comptine d’un autre été’ – Yann Tiersen (from Amélie)
  5. ‘Bella’s Lullaby’ – Carter Burwell (from Twilight)
  6. ‘Now We Are Free’ – Hans Zimmer (from Gladiator)
  7. ‘My Heart Will Go On’ (Instrumental) – James Horner (from Titanic)
  8. ‘Hoppípolla’ – Sigur Rós
  9. ‘The Heart Asks Pleasure First’ – Michael Nyman (from The Piano)
  10. ‘Married Life’ – Michael Giacchino (from Up)

25 of the best hymns at a church wedding

If you’re having a religious ceremony, you may want to include some hymns or songs and encourage your guests to sing along. Here are 25 of the best hymns to include at a church wedding.

  1. ‘Love Divine, All Loves Excelling’

Key lyrics: ‘Love divine, all loves excelling / Joy of Heaven to earth come down.’

 

  1. ‘All Creatures of Our God and King’

Key lyrics: ‘All creatures of our God and King / Lift up your voice and with us sing.’

 

  1. ‘Praise, My Soul, the King of Heaven’

Key lyrics: ‘Praise, my soul, the King of Heaven / To His feet your tribute bring.’

 

  1. ‘Come Thou Fount of Every Blessing’

Key lyrics: ‘Come, Thou Fount of every blessing / Tune my heart to sing Thy grace.’

 

  1. ‘How Great Thou Art’

Key lyrics: ‘Then sings my soul, my Saviour God, to Thee / How great Thou art! How great Thou art!’

 

  1. ‘The King of Love My Shepherd Is’

Key lyrics: ‘The King of love my Shepherd is / Whose goodness faileth never.’

 

  1. ‘Bind Us Together, Lord’

Key lyrics: ‘Bind us together, Lord / Bind us together with cords that cannot be broken.’

 

  1. ‘Be Thou My Vision’

Key lyrics: ‘Be Thou my vision, O Lord of my heart / Naught be all else to me, save that Thou art.’

 

  1. ‘When Love Is Found’

Key lyrics: ‘When love is found and hope comes home / Sing and be glad that two are one.’

 

  1. ‘In Christ Alone’

Key lyrics: ‘In Christ alone my hope is found / He is my light, my strength, my song.’

 

  1. ‘Joyful, Joyful, We Adore Thee’

Key lyrics: ‘Joyful, joyful, we adore Thee / God of glory, Lord of love.’

 

  1. ‘Morning Has Broken’

Key lyrics: ‘Morning has broken, like the first morning / Blackbird has spoken, like the first bird.’

 

  1. ‘Give Me Joy in My Heart’

Key lyrics: ‘Give me joy in my heart, keep me praising / Keep me praising ’til the end of the day.’

 

  1. ‘All Things Bright and Beautiful’

Key lyrics: ‘All things bright and beautiful / All creatures great and small.’

 

  1. ‘Guide Me, O Thou Great Redeemer’

Key lyrics: ‘Guide me, O Thou great Redeemer / Pilgrim through this barren land.’

 

  1. ‘Great Is Thy Faithfulness’

Key lyrics: ‘Great is Thy faithfulness! O God my Father / There is no shadow of turning with Thee.’

 

  1. ‘Lord of All Hopefulness’

Key lyrics: ‘Lord of all hopefulness, Lord of all joy / Whose trust, ever childlike, no cares could destroy.’

 

  1. ‘Amazing Grace’

Key lyrics: ‘Amazing grace! How sweet the sound / That saved a wretch like me.’

 

  1. ‘O Perfect Love’

Key lyrics: ‘O perfect Love, all human thought transcending / Lowly we kneel in prayer before Thy throne.’

 

  1. ‘May the Mind of Christ My Saviour’

Key lyrics: ‘May the mind of Christ my Saviour / Live in me from day to day.’

 

  1. ‘Take My Life, and Let It Be’

Key lyrics: ‘Take my life, and let it be / Consecrated, Lord, to Thee.’

 

  1. ‘Come Down, O Love Divine’

Key lyrics: ‘Come down, O Love divine / Seek Thou this soul of mine.’

 

  1. ‘One More Step Along the World I Go’

Key lyrics: ‘One more step along the world I go / One more step along the world I go.’

 

  1. ‘For the Beauty of the Earth’

Key lyrics: ‘For the beauty of the earth, for the glory of the skies / For the love which from our birth, over and around us lies.’

 

  1. ‘Blest Be the Tie That Binds’

Key lyrics: ‘Blest be the tie that binds / Our hearts in Christian love.’

25 best songs while you sign the wedding register

While you and your partner sign the wedding register to make things official, you might like to play a song or two to keep your guests entertained. This can continue with the theme of romance, or could be a way to inject something a little more upbeat into your ceremony. Here are 25 of the best songs to play while you sign the wedding register.

  1. ‘What a Wonderful World’ – Louis Armstrong

Key lyrics: ‘And I think to myself / What a wonderful world.’

 

  1. ‘My Girl’ – The Temptations

Key lyrics: ‘My girl, my girl, my girl / Talkin’ ’bout my girl, my girl.’

 

  1. ‘That’s Amore’ – Dean Martin

Key lyrics: ‘Something in the way she moves / Attracts me like no other lover.’

 

  1. ‘L-O-V-E’ – Nat King Cole

Key lyrics: ‘L is for the way you look at me / O is for the only one I see.’

 

  1. ‘Just the Way You Are’ – Billy Joel

Key lyrics: ‘I said, ‘I love you just the way you are.’’

 

  1. ‘I Will Follow You Into the Dark’ – Death Cab for Cutie

Key lyrics: ‘When you dance down the street / With a cloud at your feet, you’re in love.’

 

  1. ‘Love is a Verb’ – John Mayer

Key lyrics: ‘Love is a verb / It ain’t a thing, it’s not something you hold.’

 

  1. ‘Hallelujah’ – Jeff Buckley

Key lyrics: ‘Well, your faith was strong but you needed proof / You saw her bathing on the roof / Her beauty and the moonlight overthrew you.’

 

  1. ‘Love Like This’ – Natasha Bedingfield

Key lyrics: ‘You got me feeling like I’m walking on sunshine / And it’s all because of you.’

 

  1. ‘I Will Always Love You’ – Dolly Parton

Key lyrics: ‘And I hope life treats you kind / And I hope you have all you’ve dreamed of.’

 

  1. ‘Meditation’ – Jules Massenet

Key lyrics: (Instrumental, but conveys deep emotion and romance through music.)

 

  1. ‘Nocturne in E-flat Major, Op. 9 No. 2’ – Frédéric Chopin

Key lyrics: (Instrumental, known for its beautiful, expressive melodies.)

 

  1. ‘A Moment Like This’ – Kelly Clarkson

Key lyrics: ‘Some people wait a lifetime for a moment like this.’

 

  1. ‘Arrival of the Birds’ – The Cinematic Orchestra

Key lyrics: (Instrumental, evoking feelings of beauty and hope.)

 

  1. ‘I Believe in a Thing Called Love’ – The Darkness

Key lyrics: ‘I believe in a thing called love / Just listen to the rhythm of my heart.’

 

  1. ‘Iris’ – Goo Goo Dolls

Key lyrics: ‘And I’d give up forever to touch you / ‘Cause I know that you feel me somehow.’

 

  1. ‘Adore You’ – Harry Styles

Key lyrics: ‘Just let me adore you, oh honey / I’d walk through fire for you.’

 

  1. ‘Everything Has Changed’ – Taylor Swift ft. Ed Sheeran

Key lyrics: ‘And all I know is you held the door / And you’ll be mine and I’ll be yours.’

 

  1. ‘Love Story’ – Taylor Swift

Key lyrics: ‘You’ll be the prince and I’ll be the princess / It’s a love story, baby, just say, ‘Yes.’’

 

  1. ‘Better Together’ – Jack Johnson

Key lyrics: ‘It’s always better when we’re together.’

 

  1. ‘Unconditionally’ – Katy Perry

Key lyrics: ‘There is no fear now / Let go and just be free.’

 

  1. ‘Smile’ – Uncle Kracker

Key lyrics: ‘You make me smile like the sun / Fall out of bed, sing like a bird.’

 

  1. ‘When You Say Nothing at All’ – Alison Krauss

Key lyrics: ‘The smile on your face lets me know that you need me / There’s a truth in your eyes saying you’ll never leave me.’

 

  1. ‘In Your Eyes’ – Peter Gabriel

Key lyrics: ‘In your eyes, the light, the heat / In your eyes, I am complete.’

 

  1. ‘Your Song’ – Elton John

Key lyrics: ‘And you can tell everybody this is your song / It may be quite simple, but now that it’s done.’

25 best wedding recessional songs

Once you and your other half have tied the knot, it’s time to let out a sigh of relief and switch things into party mode. So, while you and your new spouse leave the ceremony venue, you might want to switch things up with something upbeat and joyful. Here are 25 suggestions for the best wedding recessional songs.

  1. ‘Good Time’ – Owl City & Carly Rae Jepsen

Key lyrics: ‘It’s always a good time.’

 

  1. ‘Shout’ – The Isley Brothers

Key lyrics: ‘You know you make me wanna shout!’

 

  1. ‘Crazy in Love’ – Beyoncé ft. Jay-Z

Key lyrics: ‘Got me looking so crazy right now, your love’s got me looking so crazy right now.’

 

  1. ‘You’re Still the One’ – Shania Twain

Key lyrics: ‘Looks like we made it, look how far we’ve come, my baby.’

 

  1. ‘On Top of the World’ – Imagine Dragons

Key lyrics: ‘And it’s too late to start over / But it’s not too late to start again.’

 

  1. ‘Celebration’ – Kool & The Gang

Key lyrics: ‘Celebrate good times, come on!’

 

  1. ‘Someday’ – The Strokes

Key lyrics: ‘I see, alone we stand, together we fall apart / Yeah, I think I’ll be all right.’

 

  1. ‘I’ve Had the Time of My Life’ – Bill Medley & Jennifer Warnes

Key lyrics: ‘I’ve had the time of my life / And I owe it all to you.’

 

  1. ‘Let’s Get It On’ – Marvin Gaye

Key lyrics: ‘Let’s get it on / I’ve been really trying, baby.’

 

  1. ‘You Are the Best Thing’ – Ray LaMontagne

Key lyrics: ‘You are the best thing / Ever happened to me.’

 

  1. ‘Signed, Sealed, Delivered (I’m Yours)’ – Stevie Wonder

Key lyrics: ‘I’m signed, sealed, delivered, I’m yours.’

 

  1. ‘Hey Ya!’ – OutKast

Key lyrics: ‘My baby don’t mess around / Because she loves me so / And this I know fo sho (uh)’

 

  1. ‘Walking on Sunshine’ – Katrina and the Waves

Key lyrics: ‘I’m walking on sunshine, whoa-oh! / And don’t it feel good!’

 

  1. ‘We Are Family’ – Sister Sledge

Key lyrics: ‘We are family / I got all my sisters with me.’

 

  1. ‘ABC’ – The Jackson 5

Key lyrics: ‘A B C it’s easy as 1 2 3 / As simple as do re mi A B C / 1 2 3 baby you and me girl.’

 

  1. ‘Good Life’ – OneRepublic

Key lyrics: ‘Oh, this has gotta be the good life / This has gotta be the good life.’

 

  1. ‘Shut Up and Dance’ – WALK THE MOON

Key lyrics: ‘Shut up and dance with me / This woman is my destiny.’

 

  1. ‘Feel So Close’ – Calvin Harris

Key lyrics: ‘I feel so close to you right now / It’s a force field.’

 

  1. ‘Raise Your Glass’ – P!nk

Key lyrics: ‘So raise your glass if you are wrong / In all the right ways.’

 

  1. ‘Good Vibrations’ – The Beach Boys

Key lyrics: ‘I, I love the colourful clothes she wears / And the way the sunlight plays upon her hair.’

 

  1. ‘Happy Together’ – The Turtles

Key lyrics: ‘I can’t see me loving nobody but you / For all my life.’

 

  1. ‘Beautiful Day’ – U2

Key lyrics: ‘You thought you’d found a friend / To take you out of this place / Someone you could lend a hand / In return for grace.’

 

  1. ‘I Gotta Feeling’ – The Black Eyed Peas

Key lyrics: ‘I got a feeling (woohoo) that tonight’s gonna be a good night.’

 

  1. ‘Daydream Believer’ – The Monkees

Key lyrics: ‘Cheer up, sleepy Jean / Oh, what can it mean / To a daydream believer / And a homecoming queen.’

 

  1. ‘You’re My Best Friend’ – Queen

Key lyrics: ‘Oh, you’re the best friend that I ever had.’

Should you have live music at your wedding ceremony?

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Whether or not you decide to have live music at your wedding is entirely up to you, your preferences and your budget. Couples spend an average of £1,800 on their wedding music, which can be a large cost on top of everything else.

That being said, if you can and want to have live music at your wedding, it can certainly make things special and memorable. There’s nothing quite like a live harpist playing while you walk down the aisle, or having a live singer entertain your guests while you sign the register.

But, it all comes down to your budget, the logistics and the sort of music you’d like to include.

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The 150 Best Wedding Entrance Songs

So, the nerve-racking part is over. You and your brand new spouse have walked down the aisle, said ‘I do,’ and enjoyed taking part in your wedding photoshoot. Now, you’re about to enjoy an afternoon and evening of being wined and dined, listening to and delivering some speeches (okay, so maybe not all the nerve-racking stuff is over) and dancing the night away.

But, when the two of you arrive at your wedding breakfast or reception, what song will you choose to play as you make your official introduction as a married couple? In many ways, it’s just as important as the song you walk down the aisle to and the song you have your first dance to. It sets the tone for the entire evening and makes sure you enter with style and personality.

In this article, we’re going to give you 150 suggestions for the best wedding entrance songs, which could be anything from slow and romantic ballads to full-on dance numbers that get everyone clapping and cheering as they welcome you in.

Why is choosing an entrance song so important?

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When you arrive at your wedding breakfast or reception, it’s the first time you and your other half are being introduced as an officially married couple. That means you deserve to make a big entrance when all eyes are firmly on you. To do this, loads of couples choose a specific song to accompany them. This could be something that gets everyone in the party mood, something with lyrics that are special to you or something a little bit different. It can even be silly or funny; it’s really up to you.

It’s a great way to set the tone for the rest of your wedding day and get across you and your partner’s personalities. You may well be planning a fairly formal wedding ceremony, and the reception is when you can loosen up and start to have fun. And there’s no better way to do that than with a great song to kick things off!

How long should a wedding entrance song be?

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A wedding entrance song will typically play for around a minute, while you and your other half enter the venue and take your seats. That being said, if you’re having a larger wedding and therefore have a sizeable venue, it might be necessary for the song to play for a little longer than this. If so, make sure you don’t choose a song that’s too short. It might make things a little awkward if the DJ has to start the song again or scramble to find something to fill the silence!

If there’s something specific in a song that you love, you might want to start the song part way through or ask the DJ to play it a little ahead of when you want to make your entrance. That way, it’ll be perfectly timed for you to make your appearance during your favourite part.

How to make your wedding entrance memorable

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It’s not just your chosen song that goes towards making your wedding entrance memorable. There are plenty of ways to make sure your official entrance goes down with a bang and is entertaining, engaging and memorable.

Here are a few ways to make sure your wedding entrance is one that your guests won’t soon forget:

  • Plan a surprise element: This could be a choreographed dance routine, some unexpected guests or effects or something funny thrown in for good measure.
  • Incorporate lighting effects: Don’t just coordinate with your DJ on the music – see what they can do from a lighting perspective too.
  • Make things personal: Can you combine your entrance with your hobby? For example, if you’re known as a pair of movie geeks, you could walk in accompanied by your favourite film score.
  • Engage your guests: Don’t just walk or dance to your seats, find a way to engage your guests and make sure everyone is included.

What are the best wedding entrance songs?

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Ready to make the ultimate entrance at your wedding breakfast or reception? Here are our top 150 picks for the best wedding entrance songs to help you start your celebrations in style. We’ve also included some of the most famous lyrics from each song to help you make your selection.

50 classic choices for wedding entrance songs

For a vibe that’s catchy and quintessential with lyrics that truly hit home, here are 50 suggestions for classic wedding entrance songs.

  1. ‘At Last’ – Etta James

Key lyrics: ‘At last, my love has come along / My lonely days are over, and life is like a song.’

 

  1. ‘Marry You’ – Bruno Mars

Key lyrics: ‘Hey baby, I think I wanna marry you.’

 

  1. ‘Can’t Help Falling in Love’ – Elvis Presley

Key lyrics: ‘Take my hand, take my whole life too / For I can’t help falling in love with you.’

 

  1. ‘All of Me’ – John Legend

Key lyrics: ‘Cause all of me loves all of you.’

 

  1. ‘A Thousand Years’ – Christina Perri

Key lyrics: ‘I have loved you for a thousand years / I’ll love you for a thousand more.’

 

  1. ‘Signed, Sealed, Delivered (I’m Yours)’ – Stevie Wonder

Key lyrics: ‘Here I am, signed, sealed, delivered, I’m yours.’

 

  1. ‘You Are the Best Thing’ – Ray LaMontagne

Key lyrics: ‘You are the best thing that ever happened to me.’

 

  1. ‘I’m Yours’ – Jason Mraz

Key lyrics: ‘I’m yours.’

 

  1. ‘Lucky’ – Jason Mraz feat. Colbie Caillat

Key lyrics: ‘Lucky I’m in love with my best friend.’

 

  1. ‘I Choose You’ – Sara Bareilles

Key lyrics: ‘Tell the world that we finally got it all right / I choose you.’

 

  1. ‘How Sweet It Is (To Be Loved by You)’ – James Taylor

Key lyrics: ‘How sweet it is to be loved by you.’

 

  1. ‘Let’s Stay Together’ – Al Green

Key lyrics: ‘I, I’m so in love with you.’

 

  1. ‘Isn’t She Lovely’ – Stevie Wonder

Key lyrics: ‘Isn’t she lovely? Isn’t she wonderful?’

 

  1. ‘Better Together’ – Jack Johnson

Key lyrics: ‘It’s always better when we’re together.’

 

  1. ‘Endless Love’ – Diana Ross and Lionel Richie

Key lyrics: ‘My love, there’s only you in my life.’

 

  1. ‘I Don’t Want to Miss a Thing’ – Aerosmith

Key lyrics: ‘I don’t want to close my eyes, I don’t want to fall asleep.’

 

  1. ‘You’re My Best Friend’ – Queen

Key lyrics: ‘Ooh, you make me live, whatever this world can give.’

 

  1. ‘Wonderful Tonight’ – Eric Clapton

Key lyrics: ‘You look wonderful tonight.’

 

  1. ‘Crazy in Love’ – Beyoncé feat. Jay-Z

Key lyrics: ‘Got me looking so crazy in love.’

 

  1. ‘You Make My Dreams’ – Hall & Oates

Key lyrics: ‘You make my dreams come true.’

 

  1. ‘My Girl’ – The Temptations

Key lyrics: ‘I’ve got sunshine on a cloudy day.’

 

  1. ‘Can’t Take My Eyes Off You’ – Frankie Valli

Key lyrics: ‘You’re just too good to be true, can’t take my eyes off you.’

 

  1. ‘Unchained Melody’ – The Righteous Brothers

Key lyrics: ‘Oh, my love, my darling, I’ve hungered for your touch.’

 

  1. ‘You’re Still the One’ – Shania Twain

Key lyrics: ‘You’re still the one I run to, the one that I belong to.’

 

  1. ‘Stand by Me’ – Ben E. King

Key lyrics: ‘So darling, darling, stand by me.’

 

  1. ‘Everything’ – Michael Bublé

Key lyrics: ‘You’re every line, you’re every word, you’re everything.’

 

  1. ‘Can You Feel the Love Tonight’ – Elton John

Key lyrics: ‘Can you feel the love tonight? It is where we are.’

 

  1. ‘The Way You Look Tonight’ – Frank Sinatra

Key lyrics: ‘Some day, when I’m awfully low, when the world is cold, I will feel a glow just thinking of you.’

 

  1. ‘Kiss Me’ – Sixpence None the Richer

Key lyrics: ‘Kiss me beneath the milky twilight.’

 

  1. ‘My Love’ – Paul McCartney and Wings

Key lyrics: ‘My love does it good.’

 

  1. ‘L-O-V-E’ – Nat King Cole

Key lyrics:Two in love can make it, take my heart but please don’t break it. Love was made for me and you.’

 

  1. ‘Happy Together’ – The Turtles

Key lyrics: ‘I can’t see me lovin’ nobody but you for all my life.’

 

  1. ‘Here Comes the Sun’ – The Beatles

Key lyrics: ‘Here comes the sun, and I say, it’s all right.’

 

  1. ‘All You Need Is Love’ – The Beatles

Key lyrics: ‘All you need is love, love. Love is all you need.’

 

  1. ‘Falling Like the Stars’ – James Arthur

Key lyrics: ‘I swear to God, when I come home, I’m gonna hold you so close.’

 

  1. ‘I Got You Babe’ – Sonny and Cher

Key lyrics: ‘I got you, babe.’

 

  1. ‘I Wanna Dance with Somebody’ – Whitney Houston

Key lyrics: ‘Oh, I wanna dance with somebody, I wanna feel the heat with somebody.’

 

  1. ‘I Will Always Love You’ – Whitney Houston

Key lyrics: ‘And I will always love you.’

 

  1. ‘You’re the First, the Last, My Everything’ – Barry White

Key lyrics: ‘You’re my first, you’re my last, my everything.’

 

  1. ‘This Will Be (An Everlasting Love)’ – Natalie Cole

Key lyrics: ‘This will be an everlasting love.’

 

  1. ‘For Once in My Life’ – Stevie Wonder

Key lyrics: ‘For once in my life, I have someone who needs me.’

 

  1. ‘Love on Top’ – Beyoncé

Key lyrics: ‘Baby, it’s you, you’re the one I love.’

 

  1. ‘Make You Feel My Love’ – Adele

Key lyrics: ‘I could make you happy, make your dreams come true.’

 

  1. ‘Love Me Like You Do’ – Ellie Goulding

Key lyrics: ‘Love me like you do, la-la-love me like you do.’

 

  1. ‘Thinking Out Loud’ – Ed Sheeran

Key lyrics: ‘Darling, I will be loving you ’til we’re 70.’

 

  1. ‘Hero’ – Enrique Iglesias

Key lyrics: ‘I can be your hero, baby.’

 

  1. ‘I Just Called to Say I Love You’ – Stevie Wonder

Key lyrics: ‘I just called to say I love you.’

 

  1. ‘Halo’ – Beyoncé

Key lyrics: ‘I can feel your halo, halo, halo.’

 

  1. ‘Endless Love’ – Luther Vandross and Mariah Carey

Key lyrics: ‘My endless love.’

 

  1. ‘Wonderful World’ – Sam Cooke

Key lyrics: ‘Don’t know much about history, but I do know that I love you.’

50 modern and upbeat choices for wedding entrance songs

Something with a classical feel always makes for a great choice, but why not go for something with a more modern vibe? Here are 50 suggestions for something a little more contemporary.

  1. ‘Perfect’ – Ed Sheeran

Key lyrics: ‘I found a love to carry more than just my secrets, to carry love, to carry children of our own.’

 

  1. ‘Marry Me’ – Train

Key lyrics: ‘Forever can never be long enough for me, to feel like I’ve had long enough with you.’

 

  1. ‘Lover’ – Taylor Swift

Key lyrics: ‘Can I go where you go? / Can we always be this close forever and ever?’

 

  1. ‘Speechless’ – Dan + Shay

Key lyrics: ‘You already know that you’re my weakness / After all this time, I’m just as nervous.’

 

  1. ‘On Top of the World’ – Imagine Dragons

Key lyrics: ‘Cause I’m on top of the world (hey) /  I’m on top of the world (hey) / Waiting on this for a while now, paying my dues to the dirt.’

 

  1. ‘I Like Me Better’ – Lauv

Key lyrics: ‘I like me better when I’m with you.’

 

  1. ‘10,000 Hours’ – Dan + Shay feat. Justin Bieber

Key lyrics: ‘I’d spend ten thousand hours and ten thousand more, oh, if that’s what it takes to learn that sweetheart of yours.’

 

  1. ‘You Are the Reason’ – Calum Scott and Leona Lewis

Key lyrics: ‘I’d climb every mountain and swim every ocean just to be with you.’

 

  1. ‘Good as Hell’ – Lizzo

Key lyrics: ‘I do my hair toss, check my nails, baby how you feelin’?’

 

  1. ‘High Hopes’ – Panic! At The Disco

Key lyrics: ‘Had to have high, high hopes for a living.’

 

  1. ‘Can’t Stop the Feeling!’ – Justin Timberlake

Key lyrics: ‘I got that sunshine in my pocket, got that good soul in my feet.’

 

  1. ‘Electric Love’ – BØRNS

Key lyrics: ‘Baby, you’re like lightning in a bottle, I can’t let you go now that I got it.’

 

  1. ‘Best Day of My Life’ – American Authors

Key lyrics: ‘This is gonna be the best day of my life.’

 

  1. ‘Beautiful Crazy’ – Luke Combs

Key lyrics: ‘Beautiful, crazy, she can’t help but amaze me.’

 

  1. ‘Forever After All’ – Luke Combs

Key lyrics: ‘They say nothing lasts forever, but they ain’t seen us together.’

 

  1. ‘Butterflies’ – Kacey Musgraves

Key lyrics: ‘You give me butterflies.’

 

  1. ‘Sucker’ – Jonas Brothers

Key lyrics: ‘I’m a sucker for you.’

 

  1. ‘Stuck with U’ – Ariana Grande and Justin Bieber

Key lyrics: ‘I’m stuck with you, stuck with you, stuck with you.’

 

  1. ‘A Sky Full of Stars’ – Coldplay

Key lyrics: ‘Cause you’re a sky full of stars.’

 

  1. ‘No Place’ – Backstreet Boys

Key lyrics: ‘There ain’t no place, ain’t no place like you.’

 

  1. ‘Higher Love’ – Kygo and Whitney Houston

Key lyrics: ‘Think about it, there must be higher love.’

 

  1. ‘Love Someone’ – Lukas Graham

Key lyrics: ‘When you love someone, you open up your heart.’

 

  1. ‘I Choose You’ – Ryann Darling

Key lyrics: ‘I choose you in a hundred lifetimes, I’d choose you.’

 

  1. ‘This Feeling’ – The Chainsmokers feat. Kelsea Ballerini

Key lyrics: ‘They tell me think with my head, not that thing in my chest.’

 

  1. ‘Home’ – Phillip Phillips

Key lyrics: ‘Just know you’re not alone, cause I’m gonna make this place your home.’

 

  1. ‘Higher’ – Rihanna

Key lyrics: ‘You take me higher, higher than I’ve ever been.’

 

  1. ‘Good Old Days’ – Macklemore feat. Kesha

Key lyrics: ‘I wish somebody would have told me that someday, these will be the good old days.’

 

  1. ‘Honeymoon Avenue’ – Ariana Grande

Key lyrics: ‘Feels like we’re on a honeymoon, honeymoon, honeymoon.’

 

  1. ‘Love You Like I Used To’ – Russell Dickerson

Key lyrics: ‘I don’t love you like I used to, it gets better every time you kiss me like this.’

 

  1. ‘Happy’ – Pharrell Williams

Key lyrics: ‘Because I’m happy, clap along if you feel like a room without a roof.’

 

  1. ‘Rewrite the Stars’ – Zac Efron and Zendaya

Key lyrics: ‘What if we rewrite the stars? / Say you were made to be mine.’

 

  1. ‘Young and Beautiful’ – Lana Del Rey

Key lyrics: ‘Will you still love me when I’m no longer young and beautiful?’

 

  1. ‘Feel It Still’ – Portugal. The Man

Key lyrics: ‘Ooh woo, I’m a rebel just for kicks, now.’

 

  1. ‘Loving You Easy’ – Zac Brown Band

Key lyrics: ‘Loving you is easy.’

 

  1. ‘Just the Way You Are’ – Bruno Mars

Key lyrics: ‘When I see your face, there’s not a thing that I would change.’

 

  1. ‘Closer’ – The Chainsmokers feat. Halsey

Key lyrics: ‘So baby, pull me closer in the back seat of your Rover.’

 

  1. ‘Grow Old with Me’ – Tom Odell

Key lyrics: ‘Grow old with me, let us share what we see.’

 

  1. ‘Made for You’ – Jake Owen

Key lyrics: ‘Like a ship without a sea, or a song without a melody, I don’t know where I’d be or what I’d do.’

 

  1. ‘You & Me’ – James TW

Key lyrics: ‘It’s you and me, it’s always been.’

 

  1. ‘Tenerife Sea’ – Ed Sheeran

Key lyrics: ‘You look so beautiful in this light.’

 

  1. ‘XO’ – Beyoncé

Key lyrics: ‘In the darkest night, I’ll search through the crowd, your face is all that I see.’

 

  1. ‘One Call Away’ – Charlie Puth

Key lyrics: ‘I’m only one call away, I’ll be there to save the day.’

 

  1. ‘Best Part’ – Daniel Caesar feat. H.E.R.

Key lyrics: ‘You’re the coffee that I need in the morning, you’re my sunshine in the rain when it’s pouring.’

 

  1. ‘I Will Follow You’ – Toulouse

Key lyrics: ‘I will follow you way down wherever you may go.’

 

  1. ‘Say You Won’t Let Go’ – James Arthur

Key lyrics: ‘I’m so in love with you, and I hope you know.’

 

  1. ‘Adventure of a Lifetime’ – Coldplay

Key lyrics: ‘You make me feel like I’m alive again.’

 

  1. ‘Meant to Be’ – Bebe Rexha and Florida Georgia Line

Key lyrics: ‘If it’s meant to be, it’ll be, it’ll be, baby, just let it be.’

 

  1. ‘I Was Made for Loving You’ – Tori Kelly feat. Ed Sheeran

Key lyrics: ‘I was made for loving you, even though we may be hopeless hearts just passing through.’

 

  1. ‘Die a Happy Man’ – Thomas Rhett

Key lyrics: ‘If I never get to see the Northern lights, I could die a happy man.’

 

  1. ‘Treasure’ – Bruno Mars

Key lyrics: ‘Treasure, that is what you are, honey, you’re my golden star.’

15 funny choices for wedding entrance songs

If you’d like to give your guests a giggle as you and your other half walk in, there are lots of ways to do that too. Here are 15 funny wedding entrance songs to inject a little humour into your big entrance.

  1. ‘Another One Bites the Dust’ – Queen

Key lyrics: ‘Another one bites the dust, and another one gone, and another one gone.’

 

  1. ‘I’m Too Sexy’ – Right Said Fred

Key lyrics: ‘I’m too sexy for my shirt, too sexy for my shirt, so sexy it hurts.’

 

  1. ‘Eye of the Tiger’ – Survivor

Key lyrics: ‘It’s the eye of the tiger, it’s the thrill of the fight.’

 

  1. ‘U Can’t Touch This’ – MC Hammer

Key lyrics: ‘Stop! Hammer time.’

 

  1. ‘Let’s Get It On’ – Marvin Gaye

Key lyrics: ‘I’ve been really tryin’, baby, tryin’ to hold back this feeling for so long.’

 

  1. ‘Sexy and I Know It’ – LMFAO

Key lyrics: ‘Girl, look at that body, I work out!’

 

  1. ‘I Believe in a Thing Called Love’ – The Darkness

Key lyrics: ‘I believe in a thing called love, just listen to the rhythm of my heart.’

 

  1. ‘Girls Just Want to Have Fun’ – Cyndi Lauper

Key lyrics: ‘Oh, girls just wanna have fun.’

 

  1. ‘Walking on Sunshine’ – Katrina and the Waves

Key lyrics: ‘I’m walking on sunshine, whoa-oh! And don’t it feel good?’

 

  1. ‘Love on Top’ – Beyoncé

Key lyrics: ‘Baby, it’s you, you’re the one I love, you’re the one I need.’

 

  1. ‘Mambo No. 5’ – Lou Bega

Key lyrics: ‘A little bit of Monica in my life / A little bit of Erica by my side.’

 

  1. ‘Who Let The Dogs Out’ – Baha Men

Key lyrics: ‘Who let the dogs out? Who, who, who, who, who?’

 

  1. ‘I Got You (I Feel Good)’ – James Brown

Key lyrics: ‘I feel good, I knew that I would now.’

 

  1. ‘Wannabe’ – Spice Girls

Key lyrics: ‘If you wanna be my lover, you gotta get with my friends.’

 

  1. ‘That Don’t Impress Me Much’ – Shania Twain

Key lyrics: ‘Okay, so you’re Brad Pitt / That don’t impress me much.’

15 alternative choices for wedding entrance songs

If romantic, classic, modern or funny doesn’t quite fit with the feeling you’d like to convey when strutting your stuff in front of your guests, you could think a little further out of the box. Here are 15 suggestions for alternative choices for wedding entrance songs to be a little (or a lot) bit different.

  1. ‘Home’ – Edward Sharpe & The Magnetic Zeros

Key lyrics: ‘Home, let me come home, home is wherever I’m with you.’

 

  1. ‘Ho Hey’ – The Lumineers

Key lyrics: ‘I belong with you, you belong with me, you’re my sweetheart.’

 

  1. ‘First Day of My Life’ – Bright Eyes

Key lyrics: ‘This is the first day of my life, I’m glad I didn’t die before I met you.’

 

  1. ‘Such Great Heights’ – Iron and Wine

Key lyrics: ‘They will see us waving from such great heights, ‘come down now,’ they’ll say.’

 

  1. ‘Sea of Love’ – Cat Power

Key lyrics: ‘Come with me, my love, to the sea, the sea of love.’

 

  1. ‘Heartbeats’ – José González

Key lyrics: ‘One night of magic rush, the start of simple touch.’

 

  1. ‘There is a Light That Never Goes Out’ – The Smiths

Key lyrics: ‘To die by your side, well, the pleasure, the privilege is mine.’

 

  1. ‘You’re My Best Friend’ – The Once

Key lyrics: ‘Ooh, you make me live, whatever this world can give.’

 

  1. ‘Latch (Acoustic)’ – Sam Smith

Key lyrics: ‘Now I’ve got you in my space, I won’t let go of you.’

 

  1. ‘Falling Slowly’ – Glen Hansard & Markéta Irglová

Key lyrics: ‘Take this sinking boat and point it home, we’ve still got time.’

 

  1. ‘Dog Days Are Over’ – Florence + The Machine

Key lyrics: ‘The dog days are over, oh / The dog days are done / Can you hear the horses? / ‘Cause here they come.’

 

  1. ‘Forever’ – Ben Harper

Key lyrics: ‘Not talkin’ ’bout a year, no, not three or four/ I don’t want that kind of forever in my life anymore.’

 

  1. ‘You and Me’ – Lifehouse

Key lyrics: ‘You and me and all of the people, and I don’t know why I can’t keep my eyes off of you.’

 

  1. ‘Hysteric’ – Yeah Yeah Yeahs

Key lyrics: ‘You suddenly complete me, you suddenly complete me.’

 

  1. ‘Bloom’ – The Paper Kites

Key lyrics: ‘Can I be close to you?’

10 instrumental choices for wedding entrance songs

If lyrics it’s more about the emotions and feelings the music conjures up than the lyrics, you could go for an instrumental piece of music, which is often romantic and calming. Here are 10 ideas to give you some inspiration.

  1. ‘Canon in D’ – Johann Pachelbel

Timeless, elegant and whimsical, and makes for a romantic and gentle entrance.

 

  1. ‘River Flows in You’ – Yiruma

A powerful and romantic piece which is considered a masterpiece.

 

  1. ‘Clair de Lune’ – Claude Debussy

Dreamy, fantastical and instantly recognisable.

 

  1. ‘Married Life’ – Michael Giacchino

A piece that tugs at the old heart strings from the infamous opening scene of Pixar’s Up.

 

  1. ‘Somewhere Over the Rainbow (Instrumental)’ – Israel Kamakawiwo’ole

A gentle ukelele version of the Wizard of Oz classic.

 

  1. ‘Concerning Hobbits’  – Howard Shore

Light and bouncy, an instantly recognisable tune from The Lord of the Rings: Fellowship of the Ring.

 

  1. ‘Halo (Instrumental)’ – Beyoncé

A touching rendition of the Beyoncé classic.

 

  1. ‘All of Me (Instrumental)’ – John Legend

A lovely version of the John Legend favourite.

 

  1. ‘Arrival of the Birds’ – The Cinematic Orchestra

A swelling and cinematic tune that is easily recognisable.

 

  1. ‘Feather Theme’ – Alan Silvestri

A gentle cinematic favourite from Forrest Gump.

10 retro choices for wedding entrance songs

If you’d prefer something with a little retro flair, there are some great crowd-pleasers for you to consider. Here are 10 brilliant retro choices for wedding entrance songs.

  1. ‘You Make Me Feel Brand New’ – The Stylistics

Key lyric: ‘You make me feel brand new, I just want to be with you.’

 

  1. ‘Twist and Shout’ – The Isley Brothers

Key lyric: ‘Come on, come on, come on, come on, now! / Touch me, baby.’

 

  1. ‘Chapel of Love’ – The Dixie Cups

Key lyric: ‘Today’s the day we’ll say “I do” / And we’ll never be lonely anymore.’

 

  1. ‘What a Wonderful World’ – Louis Armstrong

Key lyric: ‘And I think to myself, what a wonderful world.’

 

  1. ‘Just the Way You Are’ – Billy Joel

Key lyric: ‘Don’t go changing to try and please me, you never let me down before.’

 

  1. ‘Something’ – The Beatles

Key lyric: ‘Something in the way she moves attracts me like no other lover.’

 

  1. ‘You Are the Sunshine of My Life’ – Stevie Wonder

Key lyric: ‘You are the sunshine of my life, that’s why I’ll always be around.’

 

  1. ‘I Will Always Love You’ – Dolly Parton

Key lyric: ‘And I hope life treats you kind, and I hope you have all you’ve dreamed of.’

 

  1. ‘Ain’t No Mountain High Enough’ – Marvin Gaye and Tammi Terrell

Key lyric: ‘Ain’t no mountain high enough, ain’t no valley low enough, ain’t no river wide enough.’

 

  1. ‘Always and Forever’ – Heatwave

Key lyric: ‘Always and forever, each moment with you is like a dream to me.’

How far in advance should you choose your wedding entrance song?

There are several important songs you’ll choose for inclusion in your wedding, including the song you walk down the aisle to and the song you have your first dance to. But, the song you enter your breakfast or reception to is also important, so should be given plenty of consideration.

For that reason, it’s not something you’ll want to leave to the last minute. Think about it at least six months ahead of the wedding and make your final decision at least two months before the big day. And, if you’re planning something special, you might even want to give it a little longer than that to make sure you have everything in place. Make sure you loop in your wedding band or DJ (and your wedding planner, if you have one), so they can help you plan your big moment.

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9 Winter Wedding Outfit Ideas

The natural sparkles of the winter season make it the perfect setting for a magical winter wedding. From snow-dusted churches, frozen lakes, or even a simple sprinkling of frost, winter weddings have a way of feeling extra special and romantic. But figuring out what to wear can be a bit of a challenge — how do you stay stylish while keeping warm in the chilly weather?

Whether you’re attending as a guest, standing at the altar, or walking down the aisle, winter weddings call for outfits that balance elegance with practicality. In this post, we’ll take a look at some fun and unique winter wedding looks to keep you looking fabulous and feeling comfortable all day long.

What is a winter wedding? 

A winter wedding can be either a celebration with a magical, snowy theme, or a wedding that takes place between mid-November and February. These months are known for their frosty weather, shorter days, and cosy vibes, making them perfect for a romantic, candlelit ceremony, or an intimate reception by a crackling fireplace. 

Whether you’re dreaming of twinkling lights, rich seasonal colours, or a festive feel, a winter wedding offers a unique charm and plenty of opportunities to get creative with your big day. But, dressing for a winter wedding can be tricky. How do you accommodate the weather without sacrificing style, looking cosy but chic in your winter coat?

The good news is that dressing for a winter wedding is easier than you may think. We all know that if layers aren’t done right, they can make you look bulky and feel frumpy. But, when done correctly, layers look chic and sophisticated. It’s all about choosing the right fabrics and accessories. Think elegant coats, scarves, and gloves that complement your outfit (rather than hide it!) 

How to pick what to wear in 5 easy steps 

If you’re feeling stuck, try following these 5 simple tips to plan the perfect winter wedding outfit. 

1. Try a statement coat

Whether it’s brightly coloured, a funky fabric, fur-trimmed, or you’re hopping on the leopard print trend, your coat can double as both a fashion piece and a practical layer to keep you warm. The best part? The coat is your outfit, meaning you don’t have to take it off all day (if you don’t want to!). 

2. Prioritise practical footwear

We know your open-toed shoes look amazing with your tea length dress. But, when it’s cold and possibly snowy, those gorgeous shoes might not be the best choice. Instead, prioritise footwear that’s both stylish and practical. Think chic ankle boots or closed-toe heels that can handle slippery paths and chilly temps. 

Plus, practical footwear means extra room for warm, cosy socks. Keeping your extremities (hands, feet, the top of your head etc.) warm tricks your body into thinking you’re warmer than you are, keeping you comfortable throughout the day.

Pro tip: You can always switch into those fabulous shoes for indoor moments if need be. 

3. Think beyond black

It’s a classic for a reason, right?

Well, yes and no. We know it can be tempting to dress in all black for a winter wedding. It’s effortlessly chic, easy to put together, and universally flattering. But, it can also feel a bit predictable. If you want to stand out in a sea of black, try thinking beyond the usual dark shades. 

Winter is the perfect time to experiment with rich, bold colours like deep emerald, royal blue, or burgundy. These jewel tones not only feel festive, but also add a touch of elegance and warmth to your outfit. Plus, they’ll pop beautifully against the neutral, wintry landscape.

4. Layer strategically

The key to staying warm is layering — we all know this. But, layering also adds extra bulk, which can leave you feeling uncomfortable and heavy. To avoid this classic winter wardrobe dilemma, the trick is to layer strategically. 

Start with thin, fitted base layers, like thermal tops or leggings, which will keep you warm without adding bulk. From there, you can build up with pieces that still show off your shape (like a tailored jacket or a belted coat), so you can stay cosy without sacrificing style.

If you’re worried about looking too bulky, try layering with different textures and fabrics to add dimension to your outfit without the weight. For example, pair a sleek satin dress with a soft cashmere cardigan or a structured blazer, so you get that warmth without feeling like you’re buried under layers.

5. Take one thing off before you leave the house

Follow Coco Chanel’s sage advice and take off one accessory or a light layer before leaving the house. Whether it’s an extra piece of jewellery or that unnecessary scarf you threw on last minute, this little trick ensures your outfit feels polished, not cluttered. Less is often more, especially when you’re already layering up for warmth.

For more expert advice and guidance on what to wear to a winter wedding, be sure to check out our dedicated post. 

9 winter wedding outfit ideas 

Whether you need full outfit inspo or are looking for tips on how to accessorise, we’ve got you covered. Read on for 9 fun and unique outfit, accessory, and styling tips to help you ace dressing for a winter wedding. 

For brides

1. A lace-trimmed cape

Ditch the veil and opt for a lace-trimmed cape to nod to the traditional while keeping things unique. Capes are a fabulous addition to any wedding look, keeping you warm while adding a regal, fairytale vibe to your bridal look. Whether you go for a full-length cape or a shorter, shoulder-length one, the lace detailing will bring a touch of romance and elegance.

2. White jumpsuit with a statement coat

If traditional isn’t really your style or you want to mix things up, a chic white jumpsuit paired with a statement coat is the way to go. It’s modern, sleek, and gives off serious cool-girl vibes while still looking bridal. The beauty of a jumpsuit is that it’s comfortable and easy to move in, making it perfect for dancing the night away. Pair it with a bold coat to add drama and warmth. Think faux fur, a tailored wool number, or even something with a bit of sparkle.

3. Snowflake-inspired jewellery

Lean into the winter theme while still keeping things elegant with snowflake-inspired jewellery. It’s the perfect way to bring in a little seasonal magic while staying chic and timeless. 

Opt for silver or platinum jewellery to keep the frosty vibe going, or even add a touch of sparkle with diamonds or crystals.

Pro tip: Look out for snowflake jewellery that incorporates blue crystals like sapphires, aquamarine, or turquoise. This way, your jewellery can double as your ‘something blue’!

For grooms

4. Velvet dinner jacket and tartan trousers or pants

A winter wedding is the perfect opportunity to mix and match jazzy or unusual fabrics. Try pairing a velvet dinner jacket with tartan trousers or pants for a bold, stylish winter look. Look out for deep tones like burgundy, navy, or forest green to keep things seasonally appropriate. Make sure the tones of your jacket match the tones of the tartan for a cohesive look. For example, forest green with green tartan or a burgundy jacket with red tartan. 

It’s important to keep the rest of your look classic to avoid overwhelming the outfit. Pair your statement pieces with a white shirt, black tie, and neutral, polished shoes for a balanced look.

5. Leather gloves

Leather gloves are a practical yet stylish accessory that can elevate your winter wedding outfit. Not only will they keep your hands warm during outdoor moments, but they’ll also add a touch of sophistication to your look. Opt for classic black or brown leather gloves to complement your suit, or go bold with a pair in a deep jewel tone that matches your outfit. 

Pro tip: If the weather forecast is looking extra chilly, look out for gloves lined with wool, cashmere, or fur. They’ll keep your hands warm while maintaining a polished look. 

6. Winter-themed waistcoat and pocket square

If you’re planning an overtly winter-themed wedding, look out for a themed waistcoat and pocket square to really lean into the festive spirit. A waistcoat with subtle winter motifs like snowflakes, pine trees, reindeer, or even a subtle sparkle can add a fun yet elegant touch to your outfit. Pair it with a matching or coordinating pocket square to tie the whole look together. 

For guests

7. Velvet midi with ankle boots

This look is a classic for a reason. The perfect blend of elegance and comfort, a velvet midi dress in a deep jewel tone like emerald green, navy, or plum feels so luxurious and cosy. The rich texture of velvet is perfect for winter, giving you that sophisticated vibe without feeling too over-the-top.

Pair it with some sleek ankle boots, which not only keep your feet warm but also add a stylish, modern twist to the outfit. Go for heeled boots in leather or suede to really take the look up a notch and add that extra bit of flair.

8. A healthy dose of sparkle

Whether it’s glitter, sequins, or some shimmering accessories, a little sparkle goes a long way at a winter wedding. You can add a bit of glam to your outfit with statement earrings, a sparkly clutch, or even a glittery belt to cinch in your waist. Don’t be afraid to have fun with it. After all, winter weddings are the perfect excuse to add a touch of magic to your look.

9. Statement tights

Statement tights are the icing on the cake for an already polished look. Depending on the style, they can add a pop of colour, a fun twist, or a bit of texture to your outfit. Think polka dots, lace patterns, or even a little shimmer. 

They’re not only practical for keeping your legs warm, but also give your look that extra something special without going over the top. 

Plan a magical winter wedding with Bridebook 

Although you want to look fabulous, comfort is key when it comes to dressing for a winter wedding. It’s all about looking your best while simultaneously staying warm and feeling comfortable throughout the day. 

Winter weddings often mean beautiful but chilly outdoor moments, so practical layers, cosy footwear, and stylish accessories are your best friends. Whether you’re a guest, one of the nearlyweds, or part of the wedding party, making sure you’re comfortable while still looking chic will help you fully enjoy the magical day without worrying about the cold.

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9 Autumn Wedding Outfit Ideas

Autumn weddings have exploded in popularity in recent years. Not only are they incredibly romantic, but they can also be unseasonably warm, and the beautiful backdrop of coloured leaves makes them perfectly picturesque. 

If you’re looking to throw your very own autumn smash and aren’t sure what to wear, keep reading! We have 5 top tips to help you pick the perfect ‘fit, plus 9 ideas for brides, grooms, and guests.

What is an autumn wedding?

An autumn wedding can either be a wedding held in the autumn or a wedding with a cosy, pumpkin spice theme. Any weddings planned between mid-September and early November would be considered an autumn wedding. Anything after Guy Fawkes night — you’re in winter territory. 

Dressing for an autumn wedding is all about rich colours, cosy fabrics, and autumnal accents. Gold leaf hair accessories, tartan pocket squares, and statement velvet shoes are all perfectly in keeping with an autumn wedding. 

The most important thing to remember is to embrace the season. Think warmth, comfort, and those gorgeous autumn tones. Whether you’re a bride, groom, or guest, lean into the autumn vibe with layers, textures, and a splash of something festive like burnt orange or deep plum. Just enjoy the crisp air, cosy atmosphere, and let the beauty of the season work its magic

How to pick what to wear in 5 easy steps

Struggling with what to wear as an autumn wedding guest? Read on for our top tips to help you find the perfect outfit. 

1. Check the forecast

Autumn can be unpredictable, and the key to staying comfortable all day is to check the weather forecast beforehand. Cooler weather will call for more layers, while you can get away with lighter fabrics if it’s a warmer day. Either way, plan for a little chill in the air, just in case.

Understandably, weather forecasts can change quite dramatically from day to day. As a result, you might like to have two outfits prepared so you’re ready for whatever the day throws at you. Although it can be challenging to pick two outfits for a wedding, having a rainy-day backup means you can adjust last-minute without the stress.

2. Focus on layering

The key to autumn fashion is layers, layers, layers. Not only do they keep you warm, but they also add style and versatility to your look. 

Start with a chic base, like a sleek dress or tailored suit, then add a light cardigan, blazer, or even a stylish shawl. You can easily remove layers if the sun comes out, but you’ll be prepared for those crisp evening breezes

3. Beware of clashing

With multiple pieces comes extra potential for clashing, so it’s important to keep your colours and textures balanced. 

Stick to a cohesive palette — think warm autumnal tones like burgundy, olive, and mustard. If your outfit has bold patterns, keep accessories and layers more subdued to avoid overwhelming your look. 

Also, beware of clashing fabrics. Although they’ll keep you warm, heavier fabrics have a tendency to compete with each other if you’re not careful. Try to mix textures thoughtfully: pairing velvet with silk or wool with lighter knits can create a balanced, stylish look without feeling too bulky. The key is to let one fabric be the star while others complement it.

4. Statement shoes

An autumn wedding is the perfect time for statement shoes. Think classy Chelsea boots, suede loafers, or even bold block heels in a rich autumnal shade like burgundy or forest green. These shoes not only add a pop of personality to your outfit, but also keep you comfortable for all the mingling, standing, and dancing. Plus, they’re practical for navigating any outdoor terrain like grass or gravel.

5. Hidden hosiery

The pro tip to end all pro tips: a pair of sheer, nude-coloured tights can make all the difference on a chilly autumn day! Not only will they keep your legs a little warmer, but they’ll also give your outfit a polished, put-together look. If you’re wearing a dress or skirt, hidden hosiery is a subtle way to stay comfortable without compromising on style.

Equally, if it’s extra cold, consider wearing a pair of tights under your trousers or jumpsuit. This extra, hidden layer is sometimes just the little boost you need to stay warm without anyone knowing. It’s a simple trick that can make a big difference when temperatures drop. Plus, it won’t interfere with your look, so you can still rock your stylish jumpsuit or trousers while secretly staying cosy.

Extra pro tip: Tights are available in just about every tone now, so take the time to find the perfect match for your individual skin tone. The added time taken adds that extra bit of polish to your look, making your tights almost invisible while still giving you the warmth and comfort you need.

9 autumn wedding outfit ideas 

If you’re stuck on what to wear, check out these 9 ideas for the perfect autumn wedding outfit, from couples’ attire to guest outfits. Whether you’re looking for a full outfit or inspiration for a fun accessory, everything you need is below. 

For brides

1. Velvet elegance

There’s nothing classier than an all-white, velvet gown. Warm and luxurious, velvet is the perfect fabric for an autumn bride. It adds a touch of elegance while keeping you cosy. Opt for a fitted silhouette or a flowing, bohemian style. Either way, you’ll look stunning against the autumnal backdrop.

2. Capes instead of veils

Consider reserving veils for summer and spring brides. If you’re an autumn bride-to-be, a cape is a striking and eye-catching choice. 

Capes are perfect for adding drama and warmth to your bridal look. Whether you choose a lace, sheer, or velvet cape, it will not only keep you warm but also add a magical, ethereal vibe as you walk down the aisle. It’s a stunning alternative that feels right at home in an autumn setting.

3. Statement sleeves

Cover up with a statement sleeve. Regal and elegant, long statement sleeves are perfect for an autumnal wedding look. Whether you opt for billowy bishop sleeves, dramatic puffs, or delicate lace, these beautiful additions to any dress add both warmth and style.

Statement sleeves also give your dress a vintage or boho flair, depending on the design, making you stand out in all the right ways.

For grooms

4. Tweed vibes

Tweed is the perfect addition to an autumn wedding. Not only does the heavy fabric keep you warm, but the muted tones also perfectly match the season’s palette. Opt for a full tweed suit or mix and match with a tweed waistcoat or jacket paired with wool trousers. Earthy tones like brown, grey, or olive green will complement the autumn atmosphere and give you a stylish yet rustic vibe.

5. Tartan accents

Tartan is known for being wonderfully stylish and extra cosy — perfect for an autumn or autumn-themed wedding. Whether you go for a full tartan suit or just add some subtle touches like a tartan tie or pocket square, it’s a great way to bring in a bit of flair. Plus, it adds a nod to tradition, especially if you’re embracing Scottish roots or just love the classic look.

6. Seasonal boutonniere

Pick seasonal flowers like deep red roses, orange dahlias, or even some berries and greenery for a boutonniere that screams autumn. You can also go for something a little more rustic, like wheat, to tie in with that earthy, seasonal feel. It’s a small detail, but one that can really elevate your look and bring the whole outfit together.

Pro tip: The muted colours of dried flowers are effortlessly autumnal. Look into pampas grass, lavender, or even dried hydrangeas. They not only look amazing, but also add texture and a wild, untamed vibe that’s perfect for the season.

For guests

7. Textured tights

Mix up your look by adding a pair of textured tights to your autumn wedding outfit. Think cable-knit, ribbed, or even subtle patterns. These will not only keep you warm, but also give your look that extra bit of style and depth. Pair them with a cute dress and boots, and you’re set for that outdoor ceremony or cooler evening reception.

8. Go monochrome

Monochrome doesn’t necessarily mean black and white. Instead, monochrome can mean choosing one color and running with different shades of it throughout your outfit. Think all shades of green, from olive to sage, or a mix of rich burgundy tones. 

It’s a sleek, modern way to make a statement while staying in line with the autumnal theme. Plus, it’s an easy way to pull together a cohesive look without overthinking it. 

9. Leather jackets

Effortlessly edgy and deliciously undone, a leather jacket is the perfect outer layer for an autumn wedding guest outfit. It adds a touch of cool without compromising on style. Pair it with a flowy dress or smart tailored trousers, and you’ll strike the perfect balance between laid-back and polished. Plus, it’s a great option if the weather turns chilly in the evening.

Plan a cosy autumn wedding with Bridebook

The key to dressing for an autumn wedding, whether you’re the couple themselves or a guest, is to embrace the season’s natural beauty while staying cosy and stylish. With the right mix of layers, textures, and seasonal touches, you’ll be all set for a day full of love, laughter, and crisp autumn air. 

Don’t be afraid of a rich autumn hue or plush fabrics like velvet, tweed, and leather. And always remember, comfort is key, so keep an eye on that weather forecast and plan for any sudden chills or sunny surprises.

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9 Summer Wedding Outfit Ideas

Summer is here, and with it comes long evenings, ice cold drinks, and a whole host of weddings. Whether you’re a nearlywed, a guest, or part of the wedding party, you’ll want to look your best while keeping cool in the summer sun.

But, it’s not always that easy. We know the Great British weather doesn’t always play ball. How do you find the balance between cool and covered up, ensuring you can show off your lovely tan while not catching a sunburn? Read on to learn all about summer wedding guest outfits, plus what to wear as a bride or groom. Whether you’re looking for outfit inspo or a guide for how to choose what to wear, you’ll find everything you need below. 

What is a summer wedding?

A summer wedding can either be a wedding with a summer theme or a wedding thrown in the height of summer. Weddings thrown between May and early September are generally considered to be summer weddings. However, if you plan on throwing a wedding abroad, you can have a summer wedding all year round!

Summer is a beautiful time to have your big day. The days will be long, the temperature will be toasty, and the sun will (probably) be shining. Having your wedding in the summer generally removes a lot of the logistical challenges of a spring, autumn, or winter wedding. But, it’s still important to be prepared, and your attire is one of the main things to consider. After all, you never know what the Great British weather will throw at you!

How to pick what to wear in 5 easy steps

If you’re concerned about summer showers or an unseasonable chill, try following these 5 easy steps to plan the perfect outfit. 

1. Think about the weather

First things first — what’s the forecast saying? The weather will be the most important element (pun not intended) to consider when picking your summer wedding guest outfit. 

The weather is generally at its warmest in late July or August, and while it’s important not to overheat, we recommend bringing light layers so you can stay out of the sun if you’d like to. A wide brimmed hat, light shawl, or even a light jacket can help shield you from the sun if things get a little too hot. 

If you check the weather forecast and it’s promising rain, consider bringing a small umbrella that matches your outfit, or even a chic, waterproof jacket that won’t clash with your look. It’s all about staying prepared for whatever the day throws at you without sacrificing style.

Oh, and don’t forget your sun cream. No matter the weather, it’s always a good idea to protect your skin. 

2. Think about the material

Although you may not pay much attention to it generally, strategically picking the material of your outfits is a game changer in the summer. Look out for cotton, linen, or lightweight silk fabrics. They’re breathable, cool, and perfect for staying comfortable in the heat. These materials allow air to flow through, preventing you from feeling sticky or sweaty, especially during those long summer events. 

Avoid synthetic fabrics like polyester, or anything heavy like wool or velvet, as they tend to trap heat and moisture, making things less pleasant as the day goes on.

3. Consider the dress code

Make sure you’ve double-checked the dress code before committing to an outfit. Weddings can range from formal black-tie to casual beach affairs, so knowing the vibe is crucial. If you’re not sure, don’t hesitate to ask the host. It’s always better to feel confident that you’re dressed just right for the occasion.

4. Think about the theme

Not all weddings have themes. However, if this one does, you’ll want to be sure you’re dressing to match it. Whether it’s low-key rustic, a boho beach theme, or even an overt underwater theme, matching your outfit to the theme helps you fit right in and adds to the overall experience.

Think about the colours, patterns, and style that best complement the setting. For a beach wedding, for example, light, flowy fabrics and earthy tones might work beautifully. For a more formal, black-tie event, you might opt for something sleek and elegant.

The key is to have fun with it! Just make sure you’re comfortable and confident while staying in line with the overall theme of the event. After all, weddings are all about celebrating and having a great time, so the more you blend in with the vibe, the more enjoyable your experience will be.

5. Try going second hand

Sustainability is very en vogue, and wearing something you already have or purchasing second hand is the modern way.

It’s best not to have a solid idea of what you want to wear if you’re going second-hand shopping, because you’re unlikely to find the ‘perfect’ outfit. Instead, try to go with an idea, a theme, a colour, or a general vibe you’re trying to achieve. This way, you’ll be more open to the unique pieces you come across. Plus, shopping second hand is all about the thrill of the hunt!

Alternatively, try second-hand shopping from the comfort of your own home with handy apps like Vinted, Depop, or eBay. They have a range of second-hand clothes (sometimes new, with tags!) in great condition for a fraction of the price. You can easily search by size, colour, or even brand, making it a little easier to find something that fits your vibe. And let’s be honest — there’s something super satisfying about snagging a bargain while doing your bit for the planet.

9 Summer Wedding Outfit Ideas

Check out our top 9 outfit ideas for summer wedding guests and spouses. Whether you need a full ‘fit or just some accessories, we’ve got you covered. 

For brides

1. Grecian-inspired gown

Stunning and regal, lean into that effortless goddess vibe with flowy fabrics and draped details. Perfect for an outdoor ceremony, opt for a dress made of soft white fabric, pinned or tied at your waist with a gold belt. Wear gold arm cuffs, gold earrings, and style your hair in a romantic half-up, half-down look. You’ll feel like a queen!

2. Wrist and ankle corsages

Skip the traditional flower crown and go for floral wrist and ankle corsages instead. They’re perfect for a carefree beach wedding and give off a fresh, boho vibe while keeping things simple and elegant.

Have your corsages made from the same flowers as your boutonniere and bouquet for a cohesive look. Opt for tropical flowers like calla lilies, birds of paradise, or beautiful sunflowers. Oh, and ditch the shoes! They’ll take away from the beauty of your tropical summery look. 

3. Backless dress with a statement bow

Bows are a huge trend for 2024, popping up everywhere from cake toppers to earrings to wedding dresses. Show off your summer tan with a stunning backless dress tied with a statement bow. 

The beauty of a backless dress is all in the drama — it’s elegant yet romantic, and perfect for a warm, sun-kissed day. Whether you go for sleek satin or a dramatic, oversized organza bow, you’ll look picture perfect from every angle.

For grooms

4. Tropical tie, pocket square, and waistcoat 

Mix up a classic suit with a little Club Tropicana flair by incorporating a tropical tie, pocket square, or waistcoat. Hey, you could even go for all three if you’re feeling funky!

This is the perfect way to bring a fun, summery twist to your wedding look without losing that polished vibe. Think palm prints, bright florals, or even a splash of bold colour that complements the theme of the wedding. 

5. Monochrome suit

You can’t go wrong with a classic monochrome look. 

But, don’t make the mistake of thinking monochrome means you need to wear a drab colour. Monochrome can mean crisp white, soft cream, or even a bold teal or hot pink. Whatever your preference, matching your outfit colours from top to toe is a sure fire way to look put together on your big day.

Remember, the key is consistency. Matching your shirt, tie, and accessories to your suit colour creates a polished, put-together vibe that’s hard to beat. Having said this, don’t be afraid to mix up texture if you want to add some dimension to your outfit. Try pairing a satin tie against a matte suit, or mix subtle patterns, like stripes or checks in the same colour family for a unique but cohesive look. 

6. Vest and rolled up sleeves

Keep it casual with this laid-back but dapper look by rocking a vest with rolled-up sleeves. This is perfect for a summer wedding where you want to look sharp but keep things cool and comfortable. Ditching the jacket gives you a relaxed vibe while still keeping you looking stylish. A fitted vest paired with a crisp button-down shirt (sleeves rolled up, obviously) hits the sweet spot between formal and casual.

You can even add a bit of flair with a patterned or colourful vest, or keep it classic with a neutral shade. Throw in some suspenders for a vintage touch, or go with a bold tie or pocket square for a little pop of colour. 

For guests

7. Pastel co-ord

Poppy and trendy, a pastel co-ord is a safe and beautiful choice for a summer wedding. The delicate pastel colour fits in with any colour scheme, and keeps you looking effortlessly chic. 

The beauty of a co-ord is that you can choose any pieces that fit your personal style. Whether it’s a skirt and fitted blouse, a shirt and cruisers, or even a dress and a blazer, there’s so much room to mix and match.  Go for a matching set if you want a polished, coordinated vibe, or mix different textures and cuts to add a bit of edge.

8. Tailored pants and a flowy shirt

It’s a classic for a reason, and you can’t go wrong with the timeless combo. The structure of the tailored pants with the natural flow of the shirt creates a perfect balance of style and comfort. It’s an outfit that works for just about any type of wedding, whether it’s a formal indoor affair or a laid-back garden ceremony.

The beauty of this simple outfit is that you can wear pretty neutral colours and then add pops of fun and colour with interesting accessories. Think a fun clutch, statement earrings or even a bold pair of shoes to really make the outfit pop. You can keep the base of your outfit understated and let your accessories do the talking, adding that personal touch to stand out in the crowd.

9. Ombre maxi dress

Say hello to summer in the most relaxed and stylish way with a beautiful ombre maxi dress. Whether it’s cream to pink, green to teal, or yellow to orange, the colour fade gives off a fun, summery vibe without feeling too over-the-top. Plus, the flowy design is super comfy for a long day of celebrating.

You can keep it simple with some cute sandals or wedges, and since the dress does most of the work, you don’t need to go OTT with accessories. A delicate necklace or a few bangles will do the trick. 

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Bright and beautiful, summer weddings are all about good weather, good company, and good vibes. Although sunshine is likely, it isn’t guaranteed and you should plan your outfit with this in mind. 

So, check the forecast, consider the dress code, and , if possible, try to buy second hand. Don’t forget to have a backup plan for those unexpected weather surprises, and layer up on that sun cream. Come rain or come shine, this wedding is happening, and you’re going to look amazing! 

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9 Spring Wedding Outfit Ideas

They’re fun, flirty, and floral — who doesn’t love a spring wedding?

In spite of their beauty, dressing for a spring wedding is all about hedging your bets. Spring weather can be unpredictable, so it’s important to prepare for anything. If you’re stuck on what to wear, don’t worry. We’re here to help! Read on for 5 top tips to help you plan your spring guest wedding attire, including 9 examples of our favourite spring wedding outfits!

What is a spring wedding?

A spring wedding can either be a wedding thrown in the spring or a wedding with a spring theme. Any weddings thrown between the months of March and May are considered a spring wedding, with the fresh spring blooms and longer evenings putting everyone in a celebratory mood. 

While spring is beautiful, it does bring its share of logistical challenges. For example, do you dress for the unseasonable chill, anticipate sun, or land somewhere in between? And let’s not forget the possibility of those surprise spring showers! 

The key is to plan your outfits with flexibility in mind. Think layers, wraps or shawls, and maybe even a stylish umbrella or two just in case. 

How to pick what to wear in 5 easy steps

Read on to learn our 5 sure-fire tips for how to choose what to wear to a spring wedding. 

1. Think about the weather

Spring can be pretty unpredictable, and the formidable British weather will be one of your biggest considerations when trying to pick what to wear. 

The best thing to do is hedge your bets. While you should definitely look at the weather forecast, don’t take it as gospel, and be ready for anything. We recommend you layer up, bring sensible shoes, wear versatile fabrics, and carry an umbrella just in case. You can always shed layers if the sun makes an appearance, but equally, you’ll still have the opportunity to wrap up in case of April showers.

It’s the best way to ensure you can enjoy the whole day, without the stress of worrying about being too hot, too cold, or caught in the rain.

2. Think about the venue

Another key consideration is the venue. Whether you’re indoors or outdoors, city or rural, all these factors will impact your outfit choice. If it’s an outdoor garden wedding, think about practical footwear. Avoid heels and opt for wedges or flats to avoid that awkward sinking feeling. For a chic city venue, you might want to go a bit more formal with your attire, but still, keep those layers handy.

It’s also important to consider all aspects of the wedding. For example, if the ceremony is indoors but there’s an outdoor reception, aim for something that strikes a balance — stylish yet comfortable enough to handle both environments. Rural locations might mean navigating uneven terrain, so be sure to pick footwear that can handle it, and maybe bring a wrap or jacket for those breezy country evenings.

Considering the venue will not only help you look the part but also keep you comfortable throughout the day.

3. Consider the dress code

Guest dress codes are becoming increasingly common in modern weddings. If the happy couple have a specific vibe or theme that they’re trying to curate, it’s good practice to respect their vision. 

Whether the invitation calls for black tie, cocktail attire, or something more laid-back, sticking to the dress code ensures you’ll fit right in with the celebration’s overall style. Plus, it takes the guesswork out of deciding what to wear! If you’re unsure about the specifics, don’t hesitate to ask the couple for some clarification.

4. Think about yourself

When we say think about yourself, we mean think about what you’re most comfortable in. There’s no point weathering a flashy, frilly jumpsuit when you’re more at home in comfy trousers and a nice shirt. While it’s important to dress up and respect the importance of the day, it’s also important that you’re true to yourself and feel confident in what you’re wearing. After all, you’ll enjoy the day so much more if you’re comfortable in your own skin (and outfit!). 

If you’re not a fan of high heels, go for stylish flats or low wedges. If bold prints aren’t your thing, opt for classic, timeless colours that make you feel good. 

The trick is to strike a balance between respecting the occasion and being yourself. Remember, confidence is the best accessory you can wear, so be yourself!

5. Consider what you already have

Sustainability is king, and there’s no point buying a whole new outfit when there’s something lovely hanging in your wardrobe. Take a moment to check out what you already own — you might be surprised at how many gems you’ve forgotten about!

A well-loved dress or sharp suit that makes you feel amazing may well be a better choice than something brand new. You can always freshen up an old favourite with different accessories or a new pair of shoes to give it a fresh look.

Not only is reusing what you already have great for the environment, but it also takes the pressure off finding something new and spending extra cash. Plus, wearing an outfit you already know and love means you’ll feel even more comfortable and confident on the big day. It’s a win-win!

So, before you rush out to shop, take a peek in your wardrobe. Sometimes the best option is already right there waiting for you.

9 Spring Wedding Outfit Ideas

Still stuck on what to wear? No problem. We’ve rounded up 9 of our favourite ideas for spring wedding outfits and accessories to help inspire you. 

For brides

1. Flower crown

Ditch the classic veil and opt for a big, blooming flower crown that matches your bouquet and table flowers. Not only will it add a sense of cohesion to your outfit, but it will also give you that fresh, ethereal vibe that’s perfect for a spring wedding.

If you’re dead set on wearing a veil, you can easily combine the two. Simply clip your veil onto the back of your flower crown and style your hair around this statement piece. 

2. Sheer lace sleeves

Stave off the spring chill by incorporating delicate sheer lace sleeves into your gown. They’ll add a touch of elegance while still feeling light and airy — perfect for that unpredictable spring weather. Plus, lace sleeves can really enhance the romantic, whimsical feel of your look.

If sleeves aren’t really your thing, you can achieve the same look with a bolero or sheer lace shrug. This will give you all the benefits of sheer lace sleeves, with the added flexibility of being able to take it off. 

3. Tons of tulle

Nothing says spring like tulle! Tulle is the perfect fabric to create a whimsical, fairytale feel that’s perfect for spring. 

Whether it’s a full tulle skirt or delicate layers cascading down the train of your dress, tulle adds a sense of lightness and movement that’s perfect for a spring wedding. Plus, it’s oh-so-photogenic! 

If you want to go all out, consider a multi-layered tulle gown for extra drama, or keep it subtle with a tulle veil for that delicate, airy effect.

For grooms

4. A coloured suit

We don’t mean bright orange or yellow (unless, of course, that’s your vibe!). Instead, we’re talking pastel pink, muted green, or navy blue to embrace the fresh feel of spring without going overboard. 

A pastel pink or muted green suit is a great way to make a subtle statement, while navy blue offers a more traditional option with a seasonal twist. Pair it with a crisp white shirt and a floral tie or pocket square, and you’re all set to stand out in a stylish yet understated way.

5. Floral waistcoat, pocket square, or tie

Adding a floral pop to an otherwise classic suit is a fun and creative way to bring in the spirit of spring without going over the top. Whether it’s soft pastel blooms or a bold floral pattern, these small touches will make your outfit feel fresh and in tune with the season.

Try to match the colours of the waistcoat, pocket square, or tie to that of the bride’s bouquet or the overall wedding theme. This will offer a cohesive look while showing attention to detail, making you look effortlessly coordinated. It’s the little things that matter, after all!

6. Bright boutonniere 

It’s a classic for a reason — you can’t go wrong with a classic boutonniere. But, have you considered adding a pop of colour to your boutonniere? Choose a bright, bold bloom that ties into the wedding’s spring palette. 

Think vibrant yellows, soft pinks, or even a striking blue to stand out. Alternatively, match your boutonniere to the bride’s flowers, the bridesmaids’ flowers, or the other groomsmen. Whether you contrast or complement, nothing says spring like flowers!

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7. Floral wrap dress

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A floral wrap dress is the blueprint for spring wedding guest attire. But, sometimes things are a classic for a reason. A wrap dress is simple, flattering, and looks great on people of all shapes, sizes, and heights. Pair it with strappy sandals or wedges, and you’ve got an effortless, elegant look that’s perfect for a spring wedding. 

What’s more, the wrap style ensures comfort all day. Whether you’re sitting through the ceremony or boogie-ing down at the reception, a wrap dress brings versatility to your look. 

8. Bold blazers

A bold blazer can add a pop of colour or a touch of personality to any outfit. If you’re going to opt for this style, we recommend wearing a simple outfit and letting the blazer do the talking. For example, a plain dress in a neutral colour (except for white, obviously), trousers and a nice shirt, or a sleek jumpsuit can be instantly elevated with a bold blazer. 

Think bright colours like coral, mustard, or even a pastel green to embrace that spring vibe. It’s an easy way to add a statement piece to your look while staying chic and wedding-appropriate. Plus, a blazer can also come in handy when the evening gets a bit cooler — practical and stylish!

9. Pastel everything

Pastels are another spring staple, and you really can’t go wrong by incorporating them into your outfit. Whether it’s a soft blush dress, a light lavender jumpsuit, or mint green accessories, pastels bring that fresh, breezy spring vibe that’s perfect for a wedding. Pair pastel shades with neutral tones or mix and match different pastel colours for a playful yet elegant look.

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28 Best Wedding Seating Plan Ideas

Picture the scene — you’re in the sprint mode of wedding planning. The dresses are fitted, the champagne is on ice, and everyone has finally RSVP’d. There are only a few things left to do, and one of them is create a wedding table plan

A wedding table plan is a guide to help your guests find their seat on the big day. It’s a key part of your wedding admin that will keep your sit-down meal organised and stress-free. To help you out, here are some of our favourite creative and charming seating chart ideas to make your special day even more memorable. 

What is a wedding seating plan?

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A wedding table plan is a chart that you place at the entrance of a wedding reception. It is typically displayed on a board or frame and shows where each guest will sit during the reception.

A wedding seating chart should include table names, numbers, and the names of the people sitting on each table. Don’t worry too much about getting guests’ names in the right order — that’s what place cards are for!

28 best wedding seating plan ideas

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Lets jump into the top 28 best wedding seating charts. 

1) Mirror, mirror

Try writing your table plan on a vintage mirror using paint pens or markers. This will give a chic and elegant look, and vintage mirrors are usually pretty easy to get hold of at secondhand shops. It not only looks beautiful but also adds a touch of glamour to your decor. Plus, it makes the perfect photo op for your guests!

2) Fly your flag

Have your guests’ names and table numbers printed on a range of colourful flags. You can then hang these flags from the roof of your venue for a festive atmosphere. Flags are a great way to display a wedding seating chart as they’re bold, colourful, and easy to read. 

3) Cheeky chalkboard

Chalkboards are a pretty but rustic way to display your wedding table plan. You can either grab a pre-made chalkboard or paint a vintage frame or canvas with chalkboard paint. All these materials are readily available in craft or DIY stores. 

Once this is complete you can write your table number and/or table names, along with the names of your guests, on the chalkboard using actual chalk or a chalkboard pen. Add a few doodles around for a sweet and whimsical vibe. 

4) Rustic scrolls

If you’re looking for a classic and rustic wedding table plan, try using scrolls. You’ll need long rolls of parchment and a fountain pen or other type of ink for a classic finish. Roll out the parchment and write out the seating arrangements in elegant script. Hang the scrolls from a display or let them rest on a table for a timeless touch.

5) A classic bookshelf

If you’re a fan of classic literature or just love the smell of old books, consider making an old bookshelf into your wedding table plan. You’ll need a collection of books from a charity or secondhand shop, as well as a large bookcase to pull this off. 

Write the table number or name directly onto the spine of a vintage book and place it on the top shelf of a bookshelf. Then, write the name of the guests sitting on each table on the spine of the other books and pile them up on the below book shelves. Make sure the guest name books align with the table number or table name book on the top shelf, so it’s easy for guests to find their names and see where they’re sitting. This setup not only adds a literary charm to your wedding but also gives guests an interactive and delightful way to find their seats.

6) Vintage records

If you love music, vintage records, or are simply trying to bring an eclectic charm to your big day, vintage records are the wedding seating chart for you. Gather a collection of vinyl records from  car boots sales, vintage shops, or charity shops. 

Write the table numbers or names in the centre of each record where the label is. You can use paint pens or printed labels for a neat look. Then, list the names of the guests assigned to each table around the outer edge of the record. Display them on a stand, easel, or hang them on a wall for everyone to see. 

7) Hang the banners

If you’re going for a regal theme, this could be the perfect touch. 

Similarly to coloured flags, you could have your table names or table numbers, and the names of your guests, printed on large hanging banners. Choose elegant fabrics like velvet or silk and have the information printed or embroidered on the banners. Hang them from the ceiling, beams, or a custom frame at the entrance of your reception area. This dramatic display is sure to impress your guests and set the tone for a grand celebration.

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8) Polaroid photos

This one may take a little forward planning or some quick thinking on the day, but it’s a fun way to let your guests know where they’re sitting.

You’ll need a polaroid camera and a board with your table names or numbers on it. During the cocktail hour, send a member of the wedding party around to take photos of all your guests. Once developed, pin or clip the photos onto the display board under the relevant table name or number. 

Guests will have a whale of a time trying to find their picture and discovering where they’re seated. Bonus – the photos you take can double as part of your wedding guest book later!

9) Beautiful bouquets

Consider reusing the bridesmaids’ bouquets as part of your seating chart display. Place each bouquet in a vase and attach a card with the table number and guests’ names to it. This not only looks lovely but also keeps the flowers fresh and vibrant throughout the evening.

Consider giving each bridesmaid a different bouquet of flowers and naming your table numbers after the relevant flowers for added cohesion. For example, if the bride is carrying roses, the top table could be called ‘Roses’. Equally, if the bridesmaids are carrying daisies, tulips, and dahlias, you can name the corresponding tables ‘Daisies’, ‘Tulips’, and ‘Dahlias’.

For more creative wedding table name ideas like this, check out our dedicated post.

10) Perfect pottery

Collect a mix of different pottery vases, jugs, flutes, and other glazed pottery from secondhand shops, antique shops,and charity shops. Use each piece of pottery to represent a different table.

Write the table numbers on tags or directly onto the pottery using a paint pen. Then, place small cards with guests’ names around the pottery. Arrange them on a display table near the entrance of your reception area. If you can find a collection of similar pottery, you could use similar pots as wedding table centrepieces. This will give a sense of cohesion and helps guests find their table easily. 

11) A pack of cards

If you’re a fan of a card game or simply love the Americana look of playing cards, this could be the seating chart for you. Alternatively this style is perfect for an Alice in Wonderland themed wedding or any other whimsical theme. 

You’ll need a board or a beam with your wedding table names written on them. You should then write guests’ names on your playing cards. You can then hang or stick them under the corresponding table names so guests can find their seats. 

12) Natural stones

If you prefer a more natural wedding seating chart, consider collecting some stones of different shapes and sizes from your local beach or river. Collect a range of colours, textures, and sizes. Clean the stones and write guests’ names and table numbers on them using a paint pen. Arrange the stones on a display table, grouped by table numbers. 

Alternatively, try creating the layout of your tables using the stones available. Use large stones to represent tables and smaller stones to represent chairs. Dot the smaller stones around the larger ones and use a pen to note where guests should sit. Of course, this will only work if you have round tables, but it’s a beautiful and natural way to create a wedding table plan. 

13) Lock and key

This one will need a little forward planning, and will work best for smaller wedding parties. However, if you’re looking for something more interactive, this wedding table plan could be the key (pun fully intended).

Assign each lock to a guest and ensure you label the corresponding key with the guest’s name. Then, create a display of locks attached to a board or frame. The locks should sit under the headings of table numbers or names which will let guests know where they’re sitting. Hang the keys on a separate board, place them in a decorative bowl for guests to find, or hand them out as guests arrive at the wedding.

When it’s time to sit down, guests will need to match their key to the correct lock. Once they unlock their lock, they’ll discover their table number. This fun and interactive seating chart will not only help guests find their seats but also provide a great icebreaker and conversation starter.

14) Cork board

Cheap and cheerful, a cork board wedding table plan is a simple but effective way to display your seating chart. Buy a large cork board and pin cards with guests’ names and table numbers onto it. You can decorate the board with ribbons, flowers, or even fairy lights to match your wedding theme. It’s easy to set up and allows for last-minute changes if needed. Plus, it’s a classic and versatile option that fits any wedding style.

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15) Music sheets

If music has played a big part in your relationship or you simply love the whimsical and classic look of sheet music, consider using this as your wedding table plan. 

Gather vintage music sheets and write the table numbers and guest names on them. You can either hand write them, have a calligrapher use metallic ink, or print the names onto the sheets for a more polished look. Display them on a board, frame them, or hang them from strings for a romantic and elegant touch. Try arranging fairy lights around the sheets or wires to complete the whimsical look.

16) Pretty seashells

If you’re having a destination wedding, or a beach or summer wedding, seashells are a beautiful way to let guests know where they’re sitting. Try collecting shells of different shapes, sizes, and colours for an eclectic look, and arrange them in a way that matches the layout of your tables.

The great thing about using shells is that you can easily find ones that match the shape of your tables. For example, you can use large scallop shells to represent round tables or long razor clam shells for rectangular tables. Use smaller shells to represent each seat and write the names of guests next to their corresponding spots.

To set up your seating chart, arrange the shells on a large tray filled with sand or a board covered with burlap or another natural, beach-themed fabric. Add some starfish, sea glass, and other beachy decorations for an extra touch of charm. This setup will not only fit perfectly with your theme but also bring a natural element to your wedding decor.

17) Film strips

Another classic way to create a wedding table plan is to use old film strips. This is perfect if you’re throwing a classic Hollywood or other vintage themed wedding. You’ll either need to purchase classic film strips or use your own from the times we had physical cameras (remember that?). 

Write the table numbers on the strips using a metallic pen and then add the names of your guests underneath each table number. Hang the film strips vertically on a large frame or board. You can use small clips or pins to secure them. For a more dramatic effect, drape the strips from an old film reel. Decorate the area around your seating chart with classic Hollywood props like clapperboards, vintage cameras, and marquee lights to finish the look. 

18) Puzzle pieces

If you want an interactive wedding seating chart, a puzzle piece wedding plan could be the one for you. Find a large, blank puzzle in a games shop or have a custom puzzle made with enough pieces for each of your guests. Write the table numbers on the puzzle pieces. Then, add the names of your guests to the corresponding pieces and hand them out during the cocktail reception.  

As with the lock and key idea, this will work better for smaller wedding parties. Otherwise, you may find yourselves at a pinch point when it comes to seating the guests!

19) Keep it clear

If you prefer the look of minimalist wedding seating charts, try having your table numbers or names, and corresponding guest names, printed on a perspex or acrylic board. This clear, modern look is sleek and elegant, fitting seamlessly into any wedding theme. Place the clear board on an easel or frame it with fairy lights for a subtle yet sophisticated display. The transparent nature of the board allows it to blend with any decor while still standing out as a beautiful piece on its own.

20) Ceramic tiles

For a quirky and eclectic look, try collecting a range of ceramic tiles from craft fairs, vintage shops, or specialist ceramic shops. Write the table numbers and guests’ names on each tile using a paint pen or have them custom printed. Arrange the tiles on a large board or table near the entrance of your reception area. You can also use tile stands or easels to display them upright.

If you feel like getting a bit crafty, you could always sit down with your spouse-to-be and decorate your own ceramic tiles! This can be a fun and personal activity to do together before the big day. You can paint designs, write quotes, or add little doodles that reflect your relationship and the theme of your wedding. What’s more, you can hang onto the tiles after your special day as a lovely keepsake. 

21) Doodle-bug

Looking for something sweet and personal? Have cartoons or doodles created of each of your guests as they RSVP. You could either draw these yourself or have a specialist wedding artist create the doodles. Once created, hang the doodles on a display board or string them up with clothespins under guests’ respective tables. Your guests will be obsessed with their cute doodles. And, bonus, they double as wedding favours! 

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22) Dreamcatchers

Dreamcatchers are perfect if you’re trying to achieve a boho feel. You can either use a few, large dream catchers or use a collection of smaller ones if you prefer the look. Try to match the colours of your dreamcatchers to the colours of your wedding for a cohesive look.

Use the different dreamcatchers to represent the different tables. Print the names of guests on small pieces of paper and tie them to the feathers. Hang the dreamcatchers on a frame, a tree branch, or from the ceiling at the entrance of your reception area. This whimsical setup is perfect for budding flower children or those trying to achieve a laid-back, boho feel. 

23) Coconut shy

If you’re trying to impart all the fun of the fair onto your guests, a coconut shy wedding seating chart is a great idea. Plus, once guests have found their seats, it can form part of your afternoon entertainment! 

You’ll need to set up your coconut shy using wooden crates, poles, and, of course, coconuts. Try painting the poles with bright colours to lean into the funfair vibe. Each box should have the table name or number written on them, and you can write the guests’ names on the coconuts using paint pens. 

24) Keep it simple

If these examples seem a bit much, there’s nothing wrong with keeping things simple. You can have a pretty board or sign made at most printing shops, which will still look elegant and organised. All you’ll need is your wedding table names and a list of guests beneath them. You can have them decorated with your wedding colours, names, or pretty flowers to add interest. However, simplicity can be just as beautiful and effective. 

25) Cherry blossom trees

A staple of wedding table decor, cherry blossom trees are a beautiful and eye-catching way to display your wedding seating plan. Have either fake or real potted cherry blossoms placed at the entrance of your wedding reception. Each tree should represent a different table, and you can hang your guests’ names from the branches. You could also add fairy lights, contrasting flowers, or small lanterns to enhance the look. 

26) Envelope walls

Envelope walls are cute, colourful, and clearly show guests where they should be sitting. All you’ll need is a large board of canvas, a collection of colourful envelopes, and some slips with table numbers on them. Write your guests’ names on the envelopes and place the corresponding table number slips in the envelope. Trust us, it works better this way round, rather than table numbers on the envelope and names in the slips. This way, your guests will quickly and easily find their names, pull out the slip, and know exactly where to go.

27) Vintage postcards

If you’re a fan of the vintage aesthetic or want to add a touch of nostalgia to your wedding, using vintage postcards as your seating chart is a charming idea. Collect postcards from your favourite holiday locations, your home towns, or places that are special to you and your partner. Write the guests’ names and table numbers on the back of each postcard, then hang them up on a display board or clothes line to lean into the rustic feel. You can add extra travel-themed decor like mini globes, vintage suitcases, or old stamps to complete the look.

28) Constellation chart

For a truly out-of-this-world idea, why not use constellations for your seating chart? Perfect for stargazers or those with a love for the cosmos, this unique setup will have your guests starry-eyed. This one will take a little creativity, but it should be easy enough to create. You’ll need a large board, some dark blue paint, and metallic pens to create the constellations. Each constellation should represent a table, and the stars should be your guests. To enhance the cosmic theme, add small fairy lights around the board to mimic the stars. You can also sprinkle some glitter for extra sparkle and place telescopes or star charts nearby for decoration.

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Although they may feel like wedding admin, wedding seating plans are key to helping your guests find their seats quickly and easily. Whether you opt for a simple printed board or go all out with interactive elements like puzzle pieces or coconut shies, the most important thing is that it reflects your style and makes your guests feel special.

Remember, this is your day, and your seating chart is another opportunity to add a personal touch. So, have fun with it! Experiment with different ideas, involve your partner in the process, and don’t be afraid to think outside the box. Your guests will appreciate the effort you put into making sure they have a great time at your wedding. Time to get your craft on and create a beautiful wedding seating plan. 

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How to Create a Wedding Seating Plan: Etiquette & Top Tips

Creating a wedding seating plan may seem simple at first glance. But, then you remember Auntie Jane has fallen out with Uncle Jim, Cousin Louis has sprained his ankle in football training, and your uni mates are notorious for their loud banter. Suddenly, it seems like you need a degree in diplomacy to get everyone seated just right.

Don’t stress! Crafting the perfect seating arrangement is a blend of strategic planning and thoughtful consideration, and we’re here to guide you through. Here’s a handy post to help you navigate the process and ensure everyone enjoys their time at your wedding!

What is a wedding seating plan?

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A wedding seating plan is a chart that explains where everyone will sit at a wedding reception. It’s usually presented on a board or frame near the entrance of the reception area and helps guests easily find their seats. 

The seating plan should include table numbers, the layout of tables (including the top table), and the names of guests assigned to each table. Planning and presenting a wedding seating plan will help guests find their seats easily and make sure there are no hold ups to serving the wedding breakfast.

Try to be strategic in how you create your wedding seating plan. For example, there’s no point sitting two people that don’t get along next to each other — it’ll only make things awkward! Equally, sitting two very shy people next to each other isn’t a great idea either. Try mixing up the seating plans by balancing outgoing guests with quieter ones to keep conversations lively and comfortable. 

Before creating your wedding seating plan

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There are a few things you need to consider before creating your perfect wedding seating plan. Here are three simple steps to tick off first.

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Three simple steps before creating your wedding seating plan

1) Create a guest list

You’ll need a guest list of everyone you intend to invite before you begin planning your wedding seating plan. It’s best if people RSVP to the wedding first. However, if you’re starting early, creating a guest list will help you estimate the number of tables you’ll need and how you can group your wedding guests. For example, do you want to seat people by friendship groups, families, or have a complete mix?

2) Determine your table sizes and shapes

Table size and shape will play a big role in how you arrange your seating plan. Round tables encourage conversation among everyone at the table, while rectangular tables can accommodate more people and fit neatly into different spaces. Knowing your table dimensions will help you plan how many guests can comfortably sit at each table and how to arrange them in the venue.

You’ll also need to consider the size of your venue and the shape of the reception room. Make sure there’s enough space for guests to move around easily, especially for the hospitality team to serve and for people to get up and dance. You should also consider whether wheelchair users or disabled guests will be able to manoeuvre through the gaps. They may need a little more space than others, a clear path to the toilet, or other adjustments to their seating. Keep things inclusive by asking these guests what they need ahead of time and accommodating any adjustments.

The room layout should also take into account any focal points of the evening. For example, the dance floor, stage, or cake table. If you’re struggling to piece it together based on the shape of the room, reach out to the venue staff to see what they recommend or what other guests have done. 

3) Gather DIY/crafting materials 

There are a ton of different DIY wedding seating plans you can create, and it’s a good idea to gather your crafting materials before you start planning your seating plan. This will ensure you have everything you need on hand and can dive right into the creative process without any interruptions.

Think about grabbing some felt tips, sticky notes, and maybe even some pretty ribbons or stickers to add a personal touch. Having all your materials ready will make the whole process smoother and a lot more fun. If you’re looking for inspiration, check out our top wedding seating plan ideas

Creating the perfect wedding seating plan

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Ready to start your wedding table plan? Here’s a list of all the things you’ll need to consider. Follow our step-by-step guide below. 

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6 steps to creating the perfect wedding seating plan

1) Pick either a physical or digital seating plan 

Wedding table planning can be either physical or digital.

  • If you prefer a physical planning tool, grab some poster board, sticky notes, and a few colourful markers. Using sticky notes means you can easily move guests around until you find the perfect arrangement. Plus, it’s a fun, hands-on way to visualise your seating plan.
  • If digital is more your style, you can create a simple spreadsheet. This method is great for making quick adjustments, sorting guests, and easily sharing the plan with others involved in the planning process. Plus, you can use different colours and tabs to organise groups and tables effectively.

2) Seat the top table first

We recommend you start with the top table when creating your wedding seating plan. The top table is the focal point of the wedding reception and is usually where the newlyweds, their families, and some of the wedding party sit. Top tables come in all shapes and sizes, so decide what arrangement works best for you. Whether it’s a long rectangular table, a sweetheart table, or even if you’d rather have a ‘musical chairs’ style top table, planning your top table first will give you a jumping off point for the rest of your tables. 

3) Keep your wedding party close

Once you’ve determined who’s sitting at your top table, the second table you plan should be the wedding party. If you’re having a lot of bridesmaids and groomsmen, plus flower girls and a page boy, it may be difficult to sit them all at the top table. However, you should try to keep them close so they can easily fulfil their roles and be a part of the main action. Position their tables nearby so they can feel included and smooth things over as needed. 

4) Scatter the single guests

If you aren’t extending ‘plus-ones’ to your single guests, it’s a good idea to scatter the singles throughout your wedding tables. It takes confidence to come to a wedding alone, and creating a singles table can make people feel isolated. Instead, mix them in with other guests where they can meet new people and be part of the fun.

5) Consider a kids’ table

Sitting all the kids together is a cute and practical idea. Try setting up a special kids’ table with colouring books, goody bags and sweet bowls, and serve kid-friendly food like pasta or chicken nuggets. This way, the little ones can enjoy themselves and make new friends while the parents relax. Plus, it helps keep the noise and chaos contained to one area, making it easier for everyone to have a good time.

6) Create the rest of the tables

Once you’ve planned your top table, wedding party, and decided how you’ll seat singles and kids, you can begin planning the rest of the tables. 

It’s a good idea to group guests thoughtfully based on who gets along well and who might enjoy each other’s company. Think about common interests, friendships, and family connections. Try seating a few people from each group together to ensure people feel comfortable, and keep families and couples together wherever possible. 

You should also try to balance the tables so there’s a good mix of personalities, which can lead to lively and enjoyable conversations. Sit shy people with kind, outgoing people to help bring them out of their shell, and seat the party animals together so they can enjoy themselves without overwhelming the quieter guests.

Equally, if there are any ongoing family feuds or current friendship fallouts, it’s best to seat them separately to avoid arguments. 

Top tips for a successful wedding table plan

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Don’t forget these top tips when planning your wedding seating plan!

1) Use coloured Post-it notes

If you’re creating a physical wedding seating plan, using coloured Post-it notes can help you outline your seating plan before you commit it with markers. Assign different colours to various groups (such as family, friends, and work colleagues) to make it easy to see who’s sitting where and to move people around as needed.

2) Start early

As soon as you receive an RSVP, pop the guests on your table plan. You can, of course, move them around once you receive more RSVPs. However, putting guests on your table plan as soon as they’ve confirmed they’re coming will help you stay organised and reduce last minute stress. 

3) Consider accessibility

Consider accessibility and the needs of your guests when planning your wedding seating plan. For example, don’t seat guests in a wheelchair all the way at the back, don’t seat those who wear hearing aids in the centre of a busy table, and seat parents within eyesight of the kids’ table for their peace of mind. 

4) Be flexible

Fallouts happen, and last-minute changes are sometimes unavoidable. Be prepared to adjust your seating plan if necessary. Having a flexible mindset will help you handle any changes smoothly and make sure everyone is comfortable.

Frequently Asked Questions

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1) Do you put surnames on a wedding seating plan?

You don’t have to, but it can help guests with common names differentiate between themselves and other guests. For example, if you have 3 Chloes attending, or 2 Jacks, including their surname can avoid confusion and ensure everyone finds their seat easily. It can also give an air of formality to your wedding seating plan, so go ahead and include them if you’re going for a high-brow affair.

2) Where do the bride and groom sit at a wedding reception?

The bride and groom typically sit on the top table during a wedding reception. However, the most important thing is that you do what feels right to you and your spouse. If that means sitting with all your guests to avoid FOMO — do it!

3) Do the parents of the bride and groom sit together?

The bride’s partners will usually sit at the top table next to the bride, while the groom’s parents will sit next to the groom. But, again, this is your day, and we appreciate that everyone’s family has a different dynamic. If your parents are divorced, have remarried, and you’d prefer to have your grandparents at the top table, that’s fine. Do whatever works for you on your special day!

4) Is there an app to create a guest list?

You can use our free Bridebook app to create a handy guest list for your wedding seating plan. It’s easy to add guests, plus-ones, and notes for each guest. You can also differentiate between day and night guests, as well as track RSVPs and meal choices. Sign up for free today!

The bottom line on wedding seating plans

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Wedding seating plans are key to helping your guests find their seats during your wedding reception. By taking the time to thoughtfully arrange your seating, you can make sure everyone has a great time and feels comfortable. Remember to start early, be flexible, and consider the needs and relationships of your guests.

The goal is to make your wedding reception an enjoyable experience for everyone, and helping your guests quickly find their seats is part of that.  Whether you use a physical or digital plan, the most important thing is that planning is fun and organised. Happy planning!

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What to Write in a Wedding Guest Book

Who doesn’t love a wedding? If you’re here, you’ve been lucky enough to be invited as a guest to someone’s special day. That means, at some point, you’re likely to find yourself standing in front of the guest book, pen in hand, wondering what to write. Don’t worry — we’ve all been there! 

Whether you’re a seasoned wedding attendee or a first-timer, knowing what to write in a wedding guest book can sometimes feel like a daunting task. In this guide, we’re going to break down the art of crafting the perfect wedding guest book message, from heartfelt sentiments to light-hearted jokes. So, if you’re ready to leave your mark and make the happy couple smile every time they flip through their guest book, let’s dive in and discover how to write a message that will be cherished for years to come!

What is a wedding guest book message?

A wedding guest book message is a special, funny, or heartfelt message written by wedding guests in a guest book. There’s no blueprint for wedding guest book messages, so feel free to express your genuine thoughts and emotions. 

Whether you choose to share a favourite memory, offer words of wisdom, or simply convey your congratulations, your message will serve as a treasured keepsake for the newlyweds. 

What to write in a wedding guest book

If you’re struggling with what to write in a wedding guest book, keep reading! We’ve included some example messages and top tips for nailing the tone. 

What to write for a funny wedding guest book message 

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Injecting a touch of humour into your wedding guest book message is always appreciated, especially if the couple shares your fun-loving spirit.  

Try using the following examples as inspiration for your message:

  • Cheers to a lifetime of binge-watching Netflix together! May your marriage be as strong as your Wi-Fi.
  • Congrats on finding your lobster! Hoping your marriage will be as heartwarming as Ross and Rachel’s, but with fewer ‘breaks’ and more ‘I got off the planes.’
  • Congratulations on tying the knot! Remember, there’s no problem that can’t be solved by a good cup of tea. Here’s to strong, milky, and no sugar forever.

Top tips

  • There’s a line between funny and offensive. Keep the jokes light-hearted and clean. After all, the newlyweds’ families or colleagues may flick through the book during the evening!
  • Balance humour and sincerity. While the goal is to make the couple laugh, don’t forget also to convey your genuine congratulations and well-wishes. Follow up any jokes with a sincere message to ensure your message is warm and well received.
  • Keep it short. No one wants your rendition of War and Peace in their guest book. Keep it short, and keep it sweet. 

What to write in a wedding guest book from parents

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A guest book message from parents should be sweet and sincere, reflecting the love and pride you feel towards your baby on their special day.

If you’re looking for some inspiration, try using the following messages: 

  • Our hearts are overflowing with pride on your special day. Seeing the love you share fills us with immense happiness. May your journey together be blessed with endless love, laughter, and beautiful memories.
  • What a day! Seeing you two up there, so in love, it just warms our hearts. We’re over the moon to welcome [spouse’s name] into our family. Here’s to a lifetime of love, laughter, and maybe a few family game nights.
  • We’re bursting with pride and joy watching you two tie the knot. Your love is contagious, and we’re thrilled to be a part of your journey. Wishing you endless adventures, cosy nights in, and all the happiness in the world. 

Top tips

  • Share the love. Even if you aren’t a lovey-dovey family, a wedding is the time to tell your child just how proud you are of them for making this commitment. 
  • Be supportive. Let your child know you’re always there for them, no matter what. Offer words of encouragement and reassurance as they embark on this new chapter of their lives.
  • Offer your advice. Offer some words of wisdom to your child that you believe will be valuable for their married life together. Whether about communication, compromise, or navigating challenges, sharing your insights can be incredibly meaningful for your child and their partner.

Heartfelt and classic guest book messages

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Whether you’re a friend, colleague, or distant family member, you can’t go wrong with a heartfelt congratulations message.

Try using the following examples for a classic wedding guest book message:

  • Today marks the beginning of an unforgettable adventure the two of you will share. May it be filled with love, laughter, and unforgettable moments. A huge congratulations, once again.
  • You did it! What an incredible day. Thank you so much for asking us to be a part of it.
  • We couldn’t be prouder of you both for taking this next step in life. Here’s to late-night pizza runs, spontaneous road trips, and a lifetime of true love.

Top tips

  • Personalise your message. Try including a specific detail or memory from the time you’ve known the happy couple. Bonus points if the memory relates to both of them!
  • Keep it timeless. Consider avoiding any jokes or references to current affairs. It’s unlikely anyone will remember what was in the news today in 10 years. 
  • Write from the heart. Ultimately, the most important tip is to write from the heart. Let your genuine love and affection for the couple guide your words, and your message will surely be appreciated and cherished.

Words of wisdom or marriage advice

Sharing your words of wisdom or pearls of advice is a great way to show support to the newlyweds as they embark on this new adventure together. Here are some phrases or ideas to consider: 

  • Always remember the love that brought you together today. Through thick and thin, may your bond grow stronger with each passing day. Congratulations again on your beautiful day. 
  • Congratulations on tying the knot. Remember — never stop prioritising your relationship. Life can get busy and hectic, but it’s important to make time for each other. 
  • Marriage is about finding balance and making decisions together as a couple. Listen to each other, and remember that you’re a team. It’s you vs. the problem, not you vs. them. 

Top tips

  • Share from your own experiences. You don’t have to be an expert on love or marriage to give valuable advice. Draw from your own experiences in relationships, whether it’s lessons learned from your own dating history, observations of successful couples around you, or insights gained from challenges you’ve faced. 
  • Keep it positive. While it’s important to offer practical advice, focus on delivering your message in a positive way. No one wants to hear about the negative side of marriage on their big day! Emphasise the strength of love, the need to overcome challenges together, and the joy that comes from building a life with someone. 
  • Be encouraging. Offer words of encouragement and support to the newlyweds as they embark on this exciting journey together. Let them know that you believe in their love and their ability to overcome any obstacles that may come their way.

Creative wedding guest book messages 

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Creative wedding guest book messages are a great way to add a special touch to your guest book entry and make it stand out. Draw on inspiration from the couple’s favourite films, song lyrics, or shared hobbies.  

Here are some ideas to help spark your creativity:

  • Wishing you a ‘hakuna matata’ kind of love — no worries, just bliss! Congrats!
  • Congratulations on taking centre stage in the great production of love. Time for your grand finale — the reception! Break a leg, lovebirds!
  • May your marriage be filled with passion, devotion, and unwavering commitment. Congratulations on becoming a real-life Noah and Allie!

Top tips

  • Don’t over-egg the pudding. While it’s important to ensure the couple understands your reference, there’s no need to go over the top. Subtle references are often more effective and appreciated. 
  • Don’t overthink it. Try not to get so caught up in trying to be creative that you forget to write a message at all. Trust your instincts and write from the heart.
  • Have fun with it. Enjoy the process of writing your creative guest book message! Put on your thinking cap and have fun crafting a heartfelt and memorable message for the newlyweds.

Quotes or poems about love

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If you’re stuck for words, using a short quote or poem is a great way to convey your well-wishes to the newlyweds. The best love quotes or love poems to use are the ones that are meaningful to you or the couple. However, if the poem you like is too long or you’re struggling to come up with something on the spot, try using one of our favourite quotes:

  • “Two souls with but a single thought, two hearts that beat as one.” – John Keats
  • “In all the world, there is no heart for me like yours. In all the world, there is no love for you like mine.” – Maya Angelou
  • “Love is like the wind, you can’t see it, but you can feel it.” – Nicholas Sparks

Top tips

  • Prepare your quote ahead of time. If you know you want to use a quote in a wedding guest book, it’s a good idea to prepare it ahead of time. Save it in a note on your phone or keep it on a scrap of paper in your pocket so you can reference it during the reception. 
  • Be mindful of the space. Consider the size of the space available in the guest book when picking your quote or poem. Opt for shorter quotes or select a few of the most meaningful lines to ensure they fit neatly in the guest book.
  • Consider the theme of the wedding. If the couple is having a themed wedding, consider matching your quote to that theme. For example, an Alice in Wonderland-themed wedding could mean you use a quote from the film or classic books. 

The bottom line on wedding guest book messages

Coming up with a unique and creative wedding guest book message can be tricky. However, with a little thought and a dash of inspiration, you can craft a message that perfectly captures the spirit of the occasion, your appreciation for being invited, and your congratulations. Plus, it’s your opportunity to give the happy couple some friendly advice as they start on this incredible journey.  

Remember to personalise your message, draw from your own experiences, and above all, let your sincerity shine through. If you’re really struggling with what to write, you can always fall back on a handy quote or poem. Keep that in your back pocket (literally!) for when inspiration escapes you. 

Frequently Asked Questions

What do you write in a wedding guest book?

So long as your message is sincere and heartfelt, you can write whatever you’d like in a wedding guest book. Try writing a message of congratulations, a piece of heartfelt advice, a special quote, or even a short poem if you’re lost for words. 

What do you write on the first page of a guest book?

The first page of a wedding guest book should be filled in by the newlyweds. It should include a welcome message for all guests in attendance, a brief explanation of the purpose of the guest book, and guidelines for messages (if any). 

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20 Wedding Guest Book Ideas

Wedding guest books are the perfect way to capture your guest’s presence and sentiments during your big day. After all, you’ll be too busy having the most important day of your life to remember all their kind words and advice!

Although wedding guest books are beautiful and traditional, there’s nothing wrong with wanting something a bit extra for your special day. If you’re looking for low-key but alternative wedding guest book ideas, look for further. We’ve compiled a list of the top 20 traditional but elevated wedding guest book ideas.  

If you’re a guest, be sure to also check out our post on what to write in a wedding guest book for ideas on what to include when sharing your well-wishes.

What is a wedding guest book?

Traditionally, a wedding guest book is a bound book where guests can record their names and well-wishes during your wedding ceremony. Books are traditionally bound in satin or cloth, and will usually have the newlyweds’ names and wedding date printed on the front.

However, in recent years, there’s been a demand for alternatives to wedding guest books. Couples are looking for something unusual or quirky that matches their personality. So, if you really want to go off the beaten track, check out our post on 35 unique wedding guest book alternatives. If that’s a bit too funky for you, there’s nothing wrong with keeping things traditional but still special. 

20 elevated guest book ideas

If you’re looking for a timeless but elevated alternative to a wedding guest book, look no further. Check out these 20 wedding guest book ideas to help commemorate your big day. 

Simple but elevated

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1) A velvet guest book

Instead of the traditional satin or cloth-bound books, consider opting for a velvet cover. This beautiful option will add a touch of glamour and decadence to your guest book. Plus, it’s perfect for an autumn or winter wedding. 

2) A leather-bound guest book

If you’re a fan of folklore or fairy tales, consider opting for a leather-bound guest book. If you add a few natural accents like pressed flowers, twine, or twigs, you’ll have your very own Lord of The Rings inspired guest book! Perfect for a whimsical, Celtic, or forest wedding  

3) A meaningful colour

Elevating your guest book can be as simple as matching the book to your wedding colours. For example, try picking a cloth or satin cover that matches the bridesmaid’s dresses, the colours in your bouquet, or even the colour of the groom’s eyes. So long as the colour is meaningful to you — that’s all that matters. 

4) Keep it classy

If you prefer to keep things simple and classy, opt for a white satin wedding book with gold accents. There’s nothing wrong with going classic, and white satin is as classic as it gets for a wedding day. 

5) Go minimalist

A minimalist wedding guest book can exude sophistication and elegance without overwhelming your wedding aesthetic. Choose a sleek and understated design, such as a slim hardcover notebook or a clean-lined acrylic guest book. Remember — less is more. 

A picture is worth a thousand words

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6) Use one of your photo albums

If you’re a fan of creating photo albums, consider bringing one of your special books along to the wedding. Try to find one that captures the essence of your relationship with a good spread of holiday snaps, Christmas photos, and embarrassing party pictures. Ask guests to sign their names and well-wishes next to your authentic memories, creating a beautiful blend of past and present.

7) Snap a polaroid

Instant cameras have become incredibly popular in recent years, and lots of your friends will probably have Polaroid or other instant cameras. Ask them to bring them along to the wedding and have guests snap candid photos of themselves throughout the reception. Compile them into a photo album and ask guests to sign their names and leave well-wishes. 

This creates a fun and interactive guest book filled with spontaneous moments and heartfelt messages, capturing the joy and love shared on your special day in real time.

8) Embrace your favourite places

Create an especially made photo album full of landscape shots of your favourite places. Pepper some easter eggs from your relationship throughout the pages for a fun personal twist. For example, the location of your first date, where your partner popped the question, and even the exterior of the wedding venue. Ask guests to sign their names in the album and venture some guesses as to what each location means to you as a couple.

Don’t worry if you aren’t a great photographer — there are tons of pictures you can include from various sources. For example, stock photos, online image libraries, or even postcards. You can also enlist the help of friends and family members who may have taken photos of your favourite places during visits or holidays. 

9) Do a group photo

If you don’t want guests to be bogged down by writing in a guest book, consider enlisting the help of your photographer to take one large group picture of the wedding party. 

If the photographer has the technology to print the photo quickly, place it down on a large mat or canvas and ask guests to sign their names and leave messages around the photo. 

10) Photo booth 

Photo booths are a popular choice for wedding entertainment, and they also make for a fantastic guest book alternative. Set up a photo booth with fun props and backdrops, allowing guests to take silly and memorable pictures throughout the reception. 

Set up a table nearby with glue, pens, and stickers. Ask guests to stick their photo reel in a scrapbook, customise the page, and write a silly message next to it. If you’re looking for a fun and creative wedding guest book alternative, this is the idea for you. 

Go thrifty

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11) Reuse your welcome sign

90% of the time, wedding welcome signs go to waste after the big day. However, if you’re an eco-warrior or just feel like being a bit thrifty, you can reuse your welcome sign into a fun wedding guest book alternative. 

Place some markers or paint pens near the sign and encourage guests to write their names, messages, and doodles on the board as a memory of the wedding reception. It’s a simple yet impactful way to reduce waste and create a lasting keepsake. 

12) Reuse vintage books

Collect vintage books from car boot sales, charity shops, and second-hand book shops for this sustainable wedding guest book idea. You may even have a few old books lying around at home!

Bring a pile of old books to your wedding reception and ask guests to write their names and messages inside the cover, the margins, or even on the front cover if you’d prefer. It’s the perfect way to give a new lease of life to these old works of art while adding a touch of vintage charm to your special day. 

13) Go digital

Asking guests to snap their own pictures on their phones or cameras is a zero-waste way to create a wedding guest book. Find a website that allows you to create your own QR code which guests can scan to upload their photos and messages directly to a digital guest book. 

Once created, simply print the QR code on cards and place them on each table, along with instructions for guests. They can then use their smartphones to scan the code and upload their photos and messages, creating a digital guest book filled with candid moments (and slightly blurry moments) from the wedding reception. 

14) Unplug the reception

Some people prefer an ‘unplugged wedding’, where guests are asked not to use smartphones or take their own pictures. Instead, you could pay extra and have your wedding photographer hang around into the night to take unforgettable shots of the reception. 

This way, you can be fully present in the moment without worrying about capturing every detail yourself, all for a guest book you may never read again. Plus, with a professional wedding photographer on hand, you’re guaranteed to have stunning, high-quality photos which capture the essence and emotion of your special day. 

15) Reuse a tablecloth

If you’re a fan of textiles or crafting, consider repurposing a tablecloth as your wedding guest book. Choose a plain or lightly patterned tablecloth that complements your wedding theme and colours. Lay it out on a table with fabric markers or paint pens nearby. Encourage guests to leave their signatures, well wishes, and doodles directly onto the tablecloth.

Get creative

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16) Paint-by-numbers

If your guests like to get creative, create a custom paint-by-numbers canvas featuring a meaningful picture of you and your new spouse. Set up the canvas at your wedding reception with paint colours, paintbrushes, and pens. Encourage guests to colour the numbered section of the canvas, following the paint-by-numbers guidelines. As they paint, guests can also sign their names or write messages in the margins or on the back of the canvas.

After the wedding, you’ll have a one-of-a-kind piece of artwork created by your friends and family. Hang the finished painting in your home as a cherished reminder of your special day. 

17) Make your mark with thumbprints

Set up ink pads near your wedding guest book and ask guests to sign their name and add a fun thumbprint in ink. Each guest can press their thumb onto the ink pad and then onto the guest book next to their name, leaving behind a unique thumbprint.

You could even match the ink to your wedding colours for a cohesive and stylish look! 

18) A self portrait

Set up pens, pencils, or felt tips near your guest book and ask guests to sign their names and draw a little self-portrait of themselves in their wedding gear. This will add a playful and personal touch to your wedding keepsake. Whether they’re a regular Picasso or all they can manage is a stick figure, each self-portrait will be a fun memory and a charming reflection of your loved ones’ individuality.

19) Keep it classy with calligraphy

If your guests are especially creative, you could ask them to sign their name using calligraphy ink. Beware that calligraphy ink can be a bit tricky to handle, so providing practice sheets or guidance may be helpful. However, if your guests are up for the challenge, their beautifully penned signatures will add an elegant and sophisticated touch to your guest book.

20) Ask for advice

Ask your guests to not only sign their name in your guest book, but to add their personal wedding advice or words of wisdom. Whether it’s a quick tip, heartfelt piece of relationship advice, or even just words of encouragement, each contribution will add depth and meaning to your guest book.

The bottom line on wedding guest book ideas

Wedding guest book ideas can be as simple or as complicated as you’d like. While the style of your wedding guest book may not feel like a big decision, remember it’s the little details that will make your wedding truly unforgettable. 

So, whether you opt for a traditional guest book, a creative alternative, or a combination of both, the key is to create a keepsake that captures the love, joy, and memories of your wedding day. Pick something that feels authentically you and that you’ll be excited to look back on in years to come. 

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35 Unique Wedding Guest Book Alternatives

Wedding guest books are a traditional and beautiful way to capture your guests’ thoughts, feelings, and advice on your special day. But you’re here because you don’t want a guest book like everyone else’s. You’re here because you want something creative, unique, and different. Let’s not beat around the bush — join us as we explore 35 unique wedding guest book ideas and break down exactly how you can make these funky and fresh keepsakes a reality on your big day!

And if you’re not sure what kind of message to write in a wedding guest book, be sure to check out our dedicated post. 

What is a wedding guest book?

A traditional wedding guest book is a bound book with blank pages which wedding guests can fill with signatures, well-wishes, and advice during the wedding reception. It’s kept as a keepsake by the newlyweds and serves as a happy reminder of everyone who attended their wedding. 

A unique wedding guest book is anything but traditional. You can mix it up with photos, doodles, and interactive elements. If you’re quirky, different, or a fan of the unusual, a unique wedding guest book alternative could be right up your street. 

35 wedding guest book alternatives 

If you’re looking for classic but creative alternative guest books for weddings, check out this list of 35 fun ideas!

Paper-based guest book ideas

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These types of guest books blend the classic aspect of book-signing with a creative twist. 

1) Thumbprint tree guest book

A thumbprint tree guest book is a creative and unique way to remember who attended your wedding. Instead of guests simply signing their names, they use ink pads to leave their thumbprints on the tree branches. Each thumbprint represents a leaf on the tree, and guests can then use pens to sign their names next to their prints.

Consider using two ink pads in complementary colours or colours that match your wedding decor. 

2) Message in a bottle guest book

Message in a bottle guest books invite guests to write their names, special memories, and advice on pre-cut cards before storing them in a glass bottle. Guests should then cork the bottle to prevent any peeking on the big day itself. The happy couple can then uncork each bottle after the wedding and enjoy the well-wishes.

Although this is a beautiful wedding guest book alternative, storing these bottles may take up a lot of space in your cupboard. Consider displaying the messages in a scrapbook after the wedding to prevent clutter.

We also recommend that you source glass bottles from charity shops, pubs, recycled wine bottles, and more. This will help keep the cost down and ensure your collection of bottles is varied and eclectic, adding to the whimsy of your display. 

3) Recipe card guest book

This wedding guest book alternative asks guests to share their favourite recipes with the happy couple. You can then combine the recipe cards into a personalised cookbook to help nourish married life. 

Each guest is provided with a blank recipe card upon which they can write out the instructions for their favourite meals, puddings, and snacks. If you’re going to use this style of wedding guest book, we recommend letting your guests know beforehand. Few are likely to know the recipes for their favourite dish off the top of their heads, and you might end up with a lot of recipes for ‘Spag bol’ or ‘Tuna pasta’! 

4) Postcard guest book

A postcard guest book is a beautiful way to incorporate your special memories and photographs into your big day. Simply collect your favourite digital photos of you and your partner, make them into postcards, and ask guests to sign the back of the postcard. They can also add a special memory, a piece of advice, or some well-wishes. This is great for couples who love travelling or who are holding a destination wedding

Make sure you have enough postcards for each guest in attendance, and consider providing a pretty display or postbox where guests can drop their completed cards. 

5) Advice cards guest book

You’re embarking on one of the biggest journeys of your life, and the advice of your friends, family, and other guests will be invaluable. Create advice cards which guests can fill out with their pearls of wisdom, words of encouragement, and heartfelt guidance. These cards can range from lighthearted tips for a happy marriage to more profound reflections on love and commitment.

Set up a designated table at your venue with a stack of advice cards, pens, and fun stickers. You should also have a decorative box where guests can deposit their cards.

Once the wedding day is all said and done, you can sit down with your new spouse and re-live the magic by reading everyone’s sage advice. 

6) Wishing tree guest book

A wishing tree is similar to an advice card guest book, where guests write their wishes for your married life on pre-made wishing cards. These cards will need a space for guests’ names, their messages, and a piece of string so you can tie the card to your tree.  You can then tie them to either a real or synthetic tree and present it as a beautiful centerpiece at your wedding reception. 

This will also make for a beautiful conversation piece in your home and serve as a constant reminder of your special day. 

7) Message bunting or garland

Lean into a tea party or garden party theme with wedding guest book bunting. Have your guests sign a paper or fabric triangle and attach them to a string, creating a decorative bunting. These triangles can be pre-cut in various sizes and colours to match your wedding theme or colour scheme.

Throughout the event, the bunting will gradually fill up with heartfelt messages from your guests, creating a beautiful and interactive display that adds to the ambiance of your whimsical wedding

Creative guest books ideas

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Creative wedding guest book alternatives are perfect for arty couples who want to add a personal touch to their wedding day. These 7 creative guest book alternatives may require a little forward planning, but they’ll be a special and memorable part of your day. 

8) Vinyl record guest book

If you’re big music buffs, having your guests sign a copy of your favourite vinyl or a portable vinyl case is a unique and meaningful guest book alternative. Guests can leave their signatures and well-wishes directly on the record’s surface, turning it into a lovely memento of your special day that you can display in your home.

9) Guest book bench

Having your guests carve their name into a bench for your garden is a unique and nostalgic take on a traditional guest book. Choose a bench made of robust wood, and you’ll have a one-of-a-kind piece of furniture that is both a functional addition to your garden and holds special significance from your big day. 

If you’re not confident in your guests’ ability to carve their names legibly, consider hiring a professional carpenter to pre-engrave the bench with spaces where guests can inscribe their names or leave messages. This ensures a uniform and polished look while still allowing for personalisation from your guests. 

10) Message board

A message board is a fun way to display your guests’ well-wishes while adding an interactive element to your wedding reception. Instead of a traditional guest book, put out some brightly coloured markers and invite your guests to write their messages on a giant poster board. If you like colourful and chaotic, this is the wedding guest book alternative for you. 

Pro tip: Put your wedding guest book in a prominent place during your wedding reception. For example, near the entrance, the gift table, or the bar. This will prompt guests to sign your book and ensure it isn’t overlooked during the celebration.  

11) Wishing well guest book

First things first: you’ll need a wishing well for a wishing well guest book. This can be a (clean) bin made to look like a well, a pretty container, or even a large, covered bowl for smaller receptions. Provide guests with small cards or pieces of paper where they can write down their wishes for you as a couple.

Encourage guests to drop their wishes into the well throughout the reception. Watching the well fill up with special messages from your loved ones adds a touch of magic to your celebration and creates a visual representation of the support surrounding you on your special day.

After the wedding, you can gather all the wishes from the well and keep them in a special keepsake box or album.

12) Scrapbook station

If your guests are especially crafty or enjoy expressing their creativity, a scrapbook station can be the perfect addition to your wedding reception. Set up a designated area with a variety of scrapbooking supplies like photos, glue, pens, glitter, washi tape, and more. 

Encourage guests to unleash their inner artist by creating personalised scrapbook pages for the newlyweds. They can include well-wishes, drawings, or even small photos taken during the wedding festivities.

This interactive activity provides guests with a fun and engaging way to participate in your special day, and results in a unique and heartfelt keepsake for you and your partner to treasure for years to come. Just make sure no one closes the book before the glue is dry! What a disaster. 

13) Jenga guest book

Buy a wooden Jenga set with giant blocks and ask your guests to write their names and well-wishes on each side of the blocks in permanent marker. Your guests can then play this timeless game during cocktail hour, and you can be reminded of everyone’s love and well-wishes every time you play together as a couple. 

14) Wine label guest book

This is a at option for those who enjoy a tipple. Ask your guests to bring their favourite bottle of wine to the wedding reception, and then ask guests to write their congratulations directly onto the labels using metallic or permanent markers. This guest book alternative will require a little more planning, but it’s a great option for nearly-weds who don’t plan on asking for wedding gifts. 

Photo guest book ideas

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A picture is worth a thousand words, so a photo album must be the greatest guest book of all, right? Try these fun alternatives if you’re looking to shake up a regular photo guest book. 

15) Polaroid guest book

Polaroid guest books are an instant and fun way to capture those who attended your wedding. Simply set up an area with a few Polaroid or other instant cameras, some fun props, pens, and a photo album, and have guests snap pictures of themselves in the moment. Place the instantly developed pictures into the album and ask guests to write a few words of congratulations or well-wishes next to their photo. 

16) Photo booth

Photo booths are another great and instant way to capture your guest’s likenesses while adding a touch of entertainment to your wedding reception. For a DIY approach, set up a designated area with a backdrop, props, and a digital camera. Encourage guests to step inside and strike a pose, creating fun and memorable snaps which they can pop into your photo album as a token of the special day. 

Alternatively, you can hire photo booths that will send you a link or QR code to any photos taken in the booth on your wedding day. Guests can also follow this link to download their photos as keepsakes of the big day. 

17) Doodle or sketch guest book

You can hire incredibly talented artists to create sketches, doodles, or drawings of your guests in their wedding attire on your special day. The drawings can be more lifelike or cartoony depending on the style of the artist, and either way will add a unique and personal touch to your wedding festivities. Guests will be super excited to have their portraits created on the spot, and to receive a one-of-a-kind keepsake by which to remember your wedding day.

The artist should have the tools and means to create a duplicate of each drawing, meaning guests can take one home, while you can store a copy in your own album as a memento from your special day. 

18) Selfie station guest book

This is similar to a photobooth, but the selfie-station nature makes it even more interactive and personal. Set up a designated area with a backdrop, props, and a selfie stick or two. Encourage guests to snap their own selfies or group photos throughout the reception, capturing candid moments and silly poses.

Consider adding a cohesive prop to add some uniformity to this chaotic guestbook. For example, ask guests to wear the same pair of sunglasses, use the same sign, or wear the same themed accessory in all the photos to tie the album together. 

19) Photobook app

You can download photobook apps where guests can follow a link or scan a QR code to upload their personal pictures from the wedding. This is a candid and stress-free way to create a guest book. Plus, it’s nice to see your big day through the eyes of your friends and guests. 

These apps will usually allow you to print a physical copy of your guest book for a small charge so you can have a tangible keepsake to cherish for years to come.

20) Mugshot wall

This is a tongue-in-cheek way to add some humour and entertainment to your wedding reception. Set up a designated area with a backdrop that resembles a police lineup, complete with height markers and numbers.

Encourage guests to strike a pose and have their “mugshots” taken by a photographer or with a selfie station. Guests can get creative with props such as fake handcuffs, police hats, or “Wanted” signs. After the photos are taken, display them on a wall or bulletin board for all to see. Guests can have a laugh as they browse the lineup of silly and playful mugshots.

To turn it into a guestbook, provide markers or chalk so guests can write a brief message next to their photo, adding a personal touch to their “arrest record.”

21) Giant polaroid frame

This was a popular photo style a few years ago, and it’s still a charming addition to any wedding celebration. Set up a large polaroid frame prop, either made of lightweight wood or cardboard, in a prominent area of your venue. You can also encourage guests to pass it around the dance floor for a fun twist on traditional guest book photos. 

Encourage guests to step inside the frame and strike a pose, capturing candid and memorable moments with their friends and loved ones. Snap a photo with an instant camera, pop it in a photo album, and encourage guests to sign their name and some words of wisdom for a fun guest book wedding alternative!

Collectible guest books

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Collectible guest books involve either customising or creating collectible items to help remember your big day. Collectible guest books are a great option for maximalists or anyone who wants a tangible reminder of the big day.

22) Wishing stone guest book

Wishing stones are large, smooth pebbles upon which guests can write their blessings using permanent markers or paint pens. These stones can then be displayed in your home or garden as a unique and meaningful keepsake from your wedding day.

Be sure to put a bowl near the wishing stone so guests can easily differentiate between decorated and non-decorated stones. 

23) Customised ornaments

If you’re having a winter or festive wedding, you could ask guests to create a customised ornament or decorative bauble as their guest book entry. Provide plain ornaments along with an assortment of decorating materials such as paint, glitter, ribbons, and pens.

Guests can let loose their creativity by personalising their ornaments with their names, congratulations, or even a special message for the newlyweds. Whether they opt for elegant designs, beautiful words, or quirky illustrations, each ornament will be a unique reflection of the guest who created it.

After the wedding, you can hang these custom ornaments on a special tree or display them in your home during the festive season.

24) Miniature canvas paintings

Ever heard of a paint and sip? Paint and sip events are popular gatherings where participants enjoy painting while sipping on beverages. For your wedding, you can adapt this concept by providing miniature canvas paintings as a guest book alternative.

Set up a painting station at your reception venue with small canvases, paintbrushes, and a variety of paint colours. Encourage guests to unleash their inner artists by creating miniature masterpieces which reflect their personalities or convey their well-wishes for the newlyweds. You could ask them to recreate their favourite part of the day, paint a portrait of themselves, or to even just paint a simple heart for those who aren’t too creative. 

As guests complete their paintings, they can sign their names or write messages on the back of the canvases. This adds a personal touch to each artwork and transforms them into unique and meaningful keepsakes. You can then display these canvases on a shelf in your home. 

25) Customised playing cards

If you’d like to keep your wedding guest book low-key, consider asking guests to sign a pack of playing cards for a fun and practical twist on the traditional guest book. Simply provide a deck of playing cards and a permanent marker, and encourage guests to sign their names, write messages, or doodle on the cards.

Guests can take their time to personalise their chosen card, whether it’s the Ace of Hearts or the Queen of Spades, adding a touch of whimsy and personality to their contributions.

Once all the cards are signed, you can gather them together and keep them in a special box or pouch as a memento of your wedding day.

26) Customised guitar picks

If you’re musically inclined, consider asking guests to sign guitar picks as an alternative to a traditional wedding guest book. Guests can personalise their guitar picks with their names, thoughts on love, or even drawings that reflect their personalities or your wedding theme. 

Don’t use the guitar picks to actually play an instrument. Instead, collect them in a dedicated photo album or shadow box display. This will mean you can keep them safe and enjoy them for years to come. 

27) Time capsule 

If you’re having a back garden wedding, you could consider creating a time capsule of the big day with all your guests. Ask everyone to write a piece of advice or a happy memory from the day on a piece of card, enclose it in a time capsule, and then bury it in the ground. 

Agree to open it again in a specific amount of time. For example, 5, 10, or 15 years. You’ll need to own the land or have permission to bury the time capsule at your wedding reception, which is why we only recommend this for back garden weddings. 

Opening the time capsule after a designated period of time will allow you to reflect on how your lives have changed and grown since your wedding day. It’s a beautiful opportunity to reconnect with your loved ones and reminisce about the love and joy that surrounded you on that momentous occasion.

28) Customised ceramic tiles 

If you’re redecorating, or a fan of home decor, consider having customised ceramic tiles as a unique and decorative guest book alternative. Provide plain ceramic tiles along with paint markers or pens in various colours.

During the wedding reception, invite guests to decorate their own ceramic tile with their names, well-wishes, or drawings that reflect their personalities or your wedding theme. Whether they’re budding artists or simply enjoy expressing themselves creatively, guests will appreciate the opportunity to contribute to this personalised guest book.

Once the tiles are decorated, allow them to dry completely before sealing them with a clear coat to preserve the designs.

Interactive guest books ideas

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Interactive guest books are an alternative to traditional guest books in that they encourage guests to play and engage with them. Check out the following interactive guest book ideas. 

29) Audio guest book

Now this will be a real talking point for your wedding! An audio guest book offers a twist on the traditional guest book, allowing guests to record their own personalised audio messages or well-wishes for the newlyweds.
 
Consider setting up a recording station where guests can leave their heartfelt messages, anecdotes, or words of advice. This unique guest book idea captures the authentic voices and emotions of your loved ones on the big day, providing a fabulous and interactive keepsake to revisit for years to come.

30) Jigsaw puzzle guest book

You can buy blank or custom-made jigsaw puzzles online. Consider using a photo from your engagement shoot or a couple’s selfie to create a personalised jigsaw puzzle guest book. Encourage guests to write a message on the back of the jigsaw pieces to add a personal touch to your jigsaw puzzle.  

Make sure that the pieces are quite big so people can write freely, and that there are enough pieces for everyone to leave a message!

31) Typewriter guest book

If you can find a vintage typewriter, consider setting it up at your wedding so guests can write a sweet message or offer sincere wedding advice in a classic way. This is a beautiful, unique, and nostalgic way to engage your guests and capture their sentiments. Try hunting around resale sites, antique shops, or asking around trusted friends. You might be surprised who has an old typewriter just gathering dust!

After the wedding, you can collect the typed messages and compile them into a guest book or keepsake album. 

32) Chessboard guest book

If you’re a fan of chess, try asking guests to write a message within the individual chess board squares. This unconventional guest book idea combines your love for chess with the sentiments of your guests, creating a one-of-a-kind keepsake that reflects your personality and interests as a couple. If you pick an especially beautiful board, you can keep it out as a home decoration or display it in a shadow box as a unique piece of art. 

You’ll need either a glass paint pen or a permanent marker to ensure the messages don’t rub off. Consider glazing the board with resin or clear epoxy to protect the messages. 

33) Personalised board games

If you and your partner share a love of board games, consider asking guests to customise a blank board game for you.

The technicalities of this will depend on your favourite types of board game. However, if it’s a game like Monopoly, you can ask guests to name the properties, customise chance cards, and even create unique playing pieces that represent different aspects of your relationship or interests.

For example, guests could name the properties after where you met, got engaged, or plan to honeymoon. They could customise the chance cards with inside jokes, personal anecdotes, or words of wisdom. Additionally, they could design player tokens to resemble symbols that hold significance to you as a couple, such as your favourite animals, hobbies, or shared passions.

34) Wedding bingo

Wedding bingo is a fun and slightly cheeky game where guests are provided with bingo cards featuring various wedding-related scenarios, traditions, or events. Throughout the wedding reception, guests mark off the squares on their bingo cards as they observe or participate in these activities. Make one of the squares ‘write a message on the back of this card’ for an automatic point and a fun way to collect guest book messages!

The scenarios included on the bingo cards can range from spotting the bride and groom kissing, catching the bouquet, or witnessing a dance floor mishap. Guests can play individually or in teams, competing to be the first to complete a row or fill their entire bingo card.

Whoever fills their bingo card first should win a prize like a bottle of champagne, but you can also have prizes for whoever fills a line first or achieves a certain pattern on their card, like a heart. Collect all the cards at the end of the night and organise them into a photo album for a unique and fun guest book idea.

35) Date night jar

Ask guests to fill in an advice card with their name and a date night idea for your new life as newlyweds. You can then put all the cards into a jar or postbox to enjoy in the future. This thoughtful and practical guest book alternative encourages guests to share their wisdom and creativity while providing the couple with a treasure trove of date night ideas for their married life.

The bottom line on wedding guest book ideas

Although a classic wedding guestbook is charming and beautiful, infusing your personality, hobbies, and personal love story into your big day makes it all the more special. However, with so much to think about running up to the wedding day, it’s easy to overlook more creative or unique wedding guest book ideas. 

So, take a moment to step back from the hustle and bustle of wedding planning and consider how you can make your guest book truly reflective of you as a couple. There’s nothing wrong with using a classic wedding book or a more low-key idea. However, if you’re looking for something unique or creative, try any of these 35 guest book alternatives for a wedding. Whether you fancy creating a beautiful keepsake or having a more candid reflection of your big day, there’s something for everything in this comprehensive list. 

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Wedding Guest Hairstyle Ideas & Etiquette

Your hair is your crowning glory, and you want it to look its best on special days like weddings. But, what do you do when your ends are split, flyaways won’t tame, and your usual go-to hairstyle feels tired and uninspired? Don’t worry — we’re here to help save your style and have your Cinderella moment. 

Styling your hair for a wedding can be daunting, especially if you aren’t the most confident with hairspray and styling tools. However, some of the most beautiful styles are the simplest. So, whether you’re looking for a sophisticated updo with minimal fuss or chic and romantic waves that exude timeless charm, you’re in the right place. This post will walk you through 45 ideas for hairstyles for wedding guests, including what to do with long, short, and curly hair. 

What is a wedding guest hairstyle?

A wedding guest hairstyle is a formal or semi-formal hairstyle that guests can create to attend a wedding ceremony. There’s no difference between a normal formal hairstyle and a formal hairstyle for a wedding. However, a wedding guest’s hairstyle often takes into account the specific ambiance and theme of the wedding, as well as the attire chosen by the guests.

Hairstyles for a wedding as a guest

If you’re looking for some inspiration for wedding guest hairstyles, look no further. Keep reading for a how-to on 45 easy-to-achieve styles. 

Formal weddings

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Formal weddings usually demand the most sophisticated or elaborate hairstyles of all wedding themes. However, there are ways you can simplify the hairdo: 

For long hair

Long, formal hairstyles for a wedding as a guest include:

  • Romantic waves. Use a hair curler, hot rollers, or a hair waver with a deep barrel to help you achieve romantic waves. Tame your flyaways with a little hair oil and keep it in place with a light hairspray. 
  • Elegant updo. Pull your long hair back into an elegant updo. You’ll need some decorative hair clips or grips to hold it in place, and some hairspray to tame flyaways. Try pulling a few face-framing strands out of the updo to soften your face. Updos are especially pretty if you have a Bardot-style top or off-the-shoulder dress. 
  • Half-up half-down. Gather the top section of your hair into a twist, braid, or bun, leaving the rest of your hair down in loose waves or curls. This style is great for highlighting hair length or thickness. Try curling the bottom half of your hair or adding a flick to the ends for extra glamour. 

For short hair

Short, formal hairstyles for a wedding as a guest include:

  • A textured pixie. This style embraces your hair’s natural texture and is easy to manage throughout the day. Add volume and dimension by adding hairspray at the roots and tousling the hair with texturising spray or wax. Consider adding a side-swept fringe or face-framing strands to highlight your natural beauty. 
  • Side swept waves. Use a deep-barrel waver or curler to add some texture to your hair. Be sure to curl your hair away from your face, then gently brush through the curls with your fingers to loosen them. Sweep your hair to the side or over your ear, and finish with a spritz of hairspray to hold the style in place.
  • Sleek bob. Slick your hair down with hair gel or paste for an editorial look. This style is best for above-ear haircuts. Any longer than this, and you run the risk of your hair looking greasy. 

For curly hair 

Curly, formal hairstyles for a wedding as a guest include:

  • A curly crown. Braid a section of hair on each side of your head, then cross them over at the back and secure with kirby grips or a bobble. Leave the rest of your curls loose, or style them into soft waves for a whimsical finish. Use your favourite curly hair products to ensure your waves look their best.
  • A curly pony. Gather your curls into a high or low ponytail and secure with a decorative bobble. Pull out some curls to frame your face for a soft and romantic look, and use a curl-refreshing spray to revive any droopy curls throughout the day.
  • Defined curls with hair accessories. Follow your usual curly hair routine to make your curls look their best, then add a fun accessory like hair clips, a fascinator, or a hairband to elevate your style. Try using products like mousse, curl cream, and even hair gel, depending on your hair’s texture. This will define your curls and keep their volume throughout the day. 

City weddings

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City weddings are all the rage now, and for good reason! They offer a unique blend of urban charm and modern sophistication. When it comes to hairstyles for city weddings, you want something chic, polished, and effortlessly stylish. Here are some trendy options to consider:

For long hair

Long hairstyles for wedding guests include:

  • Sleek low bun. Smooth your hair back into a sleek ponytail, then twist it into a neat bun at the nape of your neck. Slick your parting down with hair gel or hairspray for a slicked-back look. Use kirby grips to secure any loose strands, and finish with hairspray for a polished look.
  • A high ponytail. Brush your hair up and backwards into a high ponytail. Secure with a bobble, and use a fine-toothed comb to smooth any bumps on your crown or nape. Use texture spray on the pony to add volume and hairspray for extra shine. 
  • Tousled with a statement accessory. Use heated rollers or a deep-barrel waver to add texture to your hair. Use wax or hairspray or tousle your hair for an undone style, then add a statement accessory like a fascinator, hair grips, or headband in a bright colour.  

For short hair

Short hairstyles for wedding guests include:

  • Textured mohawk braid. Create a French braid along the centre of your head, starting from the forehead and working towards the nape of your neck. Leave the sides of your short hair loose, or add some texture with texturising spray for added dimension. This edgy yet stylish hairstyle is perfect for city weddings and is sure to make a lasting impression.
  • Asymmetric bob. If you’re feeling bold, try cutting your short hair into an asymmetric bob à la 2007 Rhianna. It will add instant flair and personality to your outfit. However, it’s more permanent than these other suggestions, so make sure you’re confident before taking the plunge. 
  • Sleek crop. Slick your short hair down and behind your ears for a classy, editorial look. The shorter the hair, the chicer this looks, so don’t be afraid to go bold. Use gel or hairspray for a high shine effect, or wax or pomade for a matt style. 

For curly hair 

Curly hairstyles for wedding guests include:

  • Twisted half-up half-down. It can be difficult to get curly hair to lay flat, so leaning into the ‘undone’ style is a great way to disguise the chaos. Try creating two twists on the side of your head by wrapping two pieces of hair around one another. Pull these around the back of your head until they meet, and secure with a decorative hair clip or bobble. Let the rest of your curls fall loose and style as needed. Pull a few face-framing sections out of the twists for a romantic style. 
  • Curly side ponytail. A side pony is a great way to tame your hair while embracing your natural texture. Pull all your hair onto one side of your head and secure it in a low ponytail just below your ear. Try using a decorative or bejewelled bobble for extra glamour. 
  • Curly French twist. A French twist is a timeless and elegant hairstyle. However, they’re not always the easiest style to achieve. Be sure to put in lots of practice before the big day if you’d like to wear this style. Sweep your curls to one side of your head and twist them upwards, securing them with kirby grips to create a classic French twist. Leave a few curls loose around your face to soften the look and frame your face. If you’re already a pro at creating a French twist, you can leave a few curls out on the top to highlight your beautiful hair texture. 

Boho weddings

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Boho weddings are known for their relaxed, free-spirited atmosphere, so any hairstyles you choose as a wedding guest should reflect this style. 

For long hair

  • Half-up half-down with a top knot. Adding a top knot to this classic style adds a touch of whimsy which is perfect for a boho wedding. Part around the crown of your head and brush upwards. A great tip is to create two faux partings in line with the arches of your eyebrows. Twirl the hair gathered into a top knot and secure with either kirby grips or a bobble, depending on the thickness of your hair. Allow the rest of your hair to flow freely. 
  • Side-swept fishtail braid. Fishtail braids can be tricky to achieve, but once you’ve nailed them they’re a beautiful yet relaxed hairstyle for any wedding. Sweep your hair to one side and start braiding a fishtail braid, incorporating small sections of hair into the middle of the braid as you go. Secure the end with a bobble and gently pull on the sides of the braid to loosen it and add volume. Finish with a few spritzes of hairspray to hold the style in place. 
  • Waterfall braid. Waterfall braids are, again, quite an advanced style. However, once mastered, everyone will be asking for your hairstyle tips! Begin by taking a small section of hair near your temple and dividing it into three strands like a regular braid. Cross the top strand over the middle, then the bottom strand over the middle. On the next cross, drop the top strand and pick up a new section of hair from above the dropped strand to replace it. Continue braiding in this manner, dropping and picking up new sections of hair from above the braid as you go. Secure the end of the braid with a small bobble or a kirby grip, depending on your hair thickness. YouTube is your friend with this one — check out some inspiring and handy tutorials to grasp the exact technique. 

For short hair

  • A textured pixie. A textured pixie works well for a boho wedding. Embrace your natural texture and scrunch your hair with sea salt spray or texturising powder for an effortless finish. You can even add hair accessories like floral clips to emphasise the laid-back feel.
  • A headband or scarf. Choose a headband or scarf with a bold and colourful pattern or floral design to complement the boho aesthetic of the wedding. Place the headband or tie the scarf around your head, leaving your short hair loose and tousled for a casual and carefree look. This will instantly elevate your hairstyle and add a touch of bohemian charm to your overall look.
  • Twisted low pony. This one will depend on the length of your short hair. However, a twisted pony is a great way to keep your hair off your face while maintaining a boho style. Gather your hair into a low ponytail at the nape of your neck and secure it with a bobble. Then, twist the ponytail loosely and wrap it around the base to create a low twisted bun. Secure the bun with kirby grips and leave a few strands loose for a soft and effortless look. 

For curly hair 

  • A boho bun. Gather all of your curls into a loose bun at the nape of your neck and secure it with kirby grips. Leave a few curls loose around your face and at the nape of your neck for a relaxed look. 
  • Curly updo. This timeless hairstyle is perfect for curly hair at a boho wedding. Twist small sections of your curls and pin them at the back of your head, creating a loose and tousled updo. Leave a few curls loose around your face and at the nape of your neck for a romantic vibe. You can also add floral hair pins or accessories to enhance the style.
  • Keep it natural. Boho style is all about embracing your natural beauty and being carefree. What could be more carefree than wearing your natural texture? Follow your usual curly hair routine to help your curls look their best and rock the boho vibes. 

Rustic weddings

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Rustic weddings are characterised by their simplicity and natural elements, so you should focus on reflecting this energy in your hairstyles.  

For long hair

  • Flower crown with loose waves. Create soft, natural-looking waves using a curler or large barrel round brush. Once your waves are set, place a flower crown on top of your head, positioning it slightly over your forehead for a bohemian touch. The colours in your flower crown should complement your outfit. 
  • Volumised curls. Create bouncy curls throughout your hair using a curler or hot rollers. Be sure the barrel of the rollers is wide for more volume. Spray a little hairspray or texturising powder at your roots to increase volume. This is best done on second-day or slightly dirty hair, and will give your hair more texture and longevity. 
  • Rope braid. Rope braids are significantly easier to achieve than a waterfall or fishtail braid. Pull your hair to one side and separate it into two sections. Twist these sections around themselves, and then around one another to create a rope braid. Twisting the hair around itself first prevents the rope braid from unravelling throughout the day. Secure with a thin bobble. 

For short hair

  • Vintage-inspired pin curls. Create small pin curls throughout your short hair using a curling iron or hot rollers, then secure them with kirby grips or small hair clips. Once their hair has completely cooled, you should remove the pins. Your curls should stay in place depending on the length of your hair. If you like the way your hair looks with pins, use decorative kirby grips like pearl or diamante pins along the sides of your curls for a touch of old Hollywood elegance. 
  • Soft waves. Soft waves are the perfect style if you’re going for a romantic or feminine vibe. You can use a curler or waver, but it’s much easier to create soft waves on short hair using a thin straightener. Pull the hair tight between the plates and turn the straightener from side to side to create a loose wave. Set with a little hairspray for longevity. 
  • Fringe French braid. This one will take a little practice, but you can French braid your longer layers and fringe into a pretty style. Secure behind the ear with a decorative clip, and you’re good to go. It’s easier to French braid slightly dirty hair, so try using some dry shampoo if your hair is freshly washed. 

For curly hair

  • Natural curls with twine details. This style is perfect if you’re a natural curlyhead. Complete your usual curly hair routine to make your curls bouncy and hydrated, then add small rope braids sporadically throughout your hair. Secure them with a small bobble and beads for a laid-back look. 
  • Loose curls with a braided headband. Take two sections of hair from above your temples and braid them. The braid should face upwards and away from your face to prevent any bumps in your style. The braid should be about an inch in thickness, so take more or less hair depending on your hair density. Wrap your braids over the top of your head until they reach the opposite side of your head and secure with kirby grips. Allow the rest of your hair to flow free and loose.
  • A side braid with flowers. Sweep your curly hair to one side. Create a three-strand braid and secure it with a thin bobble. Decorate your braids with fresh flowers of your choosing. Daisies or small sprigs of babies’ breath look especially beautiful at a wedding. 

Destination weddings

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Destination weddings are weddings that happen abroad. While beaches and coastlines are popular choices for destination weddings, they’re not the only options available. Destination weddings can take place in a variety of breathtaking settings, including picturesque vineyards, historic castles, or lush gardens. Be sure to match your hairstyle to the location for a cohesive look. 

For long hair

  • Beachy waves. Create loose, beachy waves throughout your hair using a curler or a deep-barrel waver or iron. Accessorise with accents from the destination. For example, small seashell clips or hairpins for a beach, flowers for a woodland wedding, or leaves for a vineyard.
  • Messy bun with twists. Begin by gathering your hair into a high ponytail and loosely twisting it into a bun, securing it with kirby grips. Leave a few strands loose around the face to soften the look and add texture. Incorporate small twisted sections of hair into the bun for added dimension and visual interest.
  • Braided high ponytail. A high ponytail is a great way to keep your hair off your face and keep yourself cool, and incorporating a braid adds interest to the style. Start by dividing a straight section from the front of your hairline to the crown. French braid this section and secure it with a clip or small bobble. Brush the rest of your hair into a high ponytail and secure with a thicker bobble. Add a little hairspray to tame flyaways and some texture spray to your pony for a volumised look. 

For short hair

  • Hair jewellery. Hair jewellery adds a glamorous touch for castle weddings or a whimsical touch to woodland weddings. You can incorporate hair jewellery into any style, so consider using any of the above hairstyles and adding accessories as you see fit. 
  • Curly bob. Curly bobs are great for vineyard or beach weddings. Use a curler with a slim barrel to achieve a pretty, curly look. Finish with hairspray for longevity and add a sparkly hairband or flowers depending on the location. 
  • Textured lob. It’s easy to achieve volume and texture with a lob (long bob), as this hairstyle isn’t weighed down by excess length. Add texture and movement to your lob by tousling it with sea salt or texturising spray. Alternatively, you can create loose waves with a hair curler or waver, then spritz with hairspray for a lived-in look.

For curly hair 

  • Curly Dutch braid updo. Begin by creating a Dutch braid along one side of your head, incorporating sections of curly hair as you braid. Continue braiding until you reach the nape of your neck, then secure the braid with kirby grips or a bobble. Gather the remaining curly hair into a low bun and secure with kirby grips. Leave some curls loose around your face for a soft look and add some pretty accessories or hair jewellery for a finishing touch.  
  • Double low buns. Split your hair down the middle and secure into two low bunches. Twist your hair around themselves until you create two low double buns. Secure with a bobble and then add some pretty ribbons for a feminine touch. 
  • Braided updo. Begin by creating multiple small braids throughout your curly hair, varying the size and placement for a textured and whimsical look. Gather the braids into a loose bun or updo at the back of your head, securing them with kirby grips or a bobble. Allow some curls to cascade down your back for an elegant and glamorous look.

The bottom line on hairstyles for wedding guests

Remember, though your hairstyle is important when you’re a wedding guest, it’s not the be-all and end-all. The best hairstyles for wedding guests are the ones that make you feel beautiful and authentic. Follow the dress code, keep a mini hairspray in your bag, and you’ll fit right in with the vibe of the big day.

In the end, it’s not just about the hairstyle you wear, but also the confidence and happiness you bring to the celebration. Don’t be afraid to add a touch of personal flair to your hairdo, whether it’s a delicate hair accessory, flaunting your natural texture, or sneaking a subtle braid into your updo. If you’re feeling nervous or aren’t especially skilled when it comes to hairstyles, remember that the most beautiful accessory you can wear is your genuine smile!

Frequently Asked Questions

Can I wear a hat as a wedding guest?

You can wear a hat as a wedding guest so long as the dress code allows it. However, you’ll likely need to remove your hat any time you enter a building, meaning you’ll still need to style your hair underneath. So don’t think you can hide a bad hair day with the use of a tactful hat!

Can I wear my hair down as a wedding guest?

Wearing your hair down is a beautiful and timeless choice for wedding guest hairstyles — especially if you have long or thick hair. Consider beachy waves, romantic curls, or even a half-up half-down. 

Can I wear hair accessories as a wedding guest?

Accessories are to hair as herbs and spices are to a tasty meal — they should be used in moderation. Less is more when it comes to hair clips, headbands, or fascinators. Opt for one statement piece or a few subtle accents to complement your hairstyle without overpowering it. Remember, balance is key to achieving a polished and elegant appearance. 

Can I do my own hair as a wedding guest?

Doing your own hair is a great way to save money and ensure that your hairstyle perfectly reflects your personal style. With a little bit of practise and the right products, you can achieve a look that’s both stunning and uniquely you. 

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How Many Guests Should I Invite to My Wedding?

The size of your guest list will dictate every part of your big day, from the venue and vendors, to even the overall atmosphere. Plus, the more guests you invite, the bigger your budget needs to be. As a result, it’s natural to question how many people you genuinely need at your wedding.

While it’s understandable to want to share your special day with as many loved ones as possible, it’s essential to weigh the costs associated with accommodating a larger guest list against your overall wedding vision. Take the time to prioritise your must-have guests and consider alternative ways to celebrate with those who may not be able to attend the main event. 

If you’re struggling with how many people you should invite, keep reading! This helpful guide will highlight what’s considered to be a small, medium, or big wedding, as well as typical headcounts for a variety of ceremonies. 

What is a wedding guest list?

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A wedding guest list is a list of all the people you plan to invite to your wedding. It isn’t necessarily a list of all the people who will come to your wedding. That will depend on whether they RSVP. Some couples plan for this and over-invite by around 10-15%. However, this runs the risk of everyone wanting to come, and your big day ends up bigger than you’d ever imagined!

Planning your wedding guest list is likely to go through several phases. This includes drafting, cutting, re-drafting, and re-cutting. If you’re struggling with getting started, check out our post on how to write a wedding guest list, including some handy tips on who needs to be there and who you can leave off! 

How many guests should I invite for a small wedding?

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There’s no hard definition of what constitutes a small wedding. But, generally speaking, a small wedding is one where the guest list is fewer than 50 people.

If you’re thinking about having a small wedding, there are several benefits: 

  • It’s more intimate. You’ll actually be able to spend 1-on-1 time with everyone you’ve invited, making your special day even more meaningful and memorable. An intimate celebration can also be a lot less pressure than a large extravaganza. 
  • It’s more cost-effective. A smaller guest list means you can book a smaller venue, pay less for catering, and purchase fewer invitations. This means you can spend more money on the things that really matter to you, like flowers, the cake, your dress, or a higher-quality suit. In fact, couples who host 50 guests or less spend 42% less on their weddings than the national UK average
  • It’s less formal. Small weddings tend to be less formal and more relaxed than larger weddings. Couples may opt for casual attire, simplified ceremony formats, and informal dining arrangements to better reflect their personal style and preferences.

On the other hand, there are some drawbacks:

  • Tough decisions. Unless you’re from a small family, you might have to make some pretty difficult decisions to get your guest list below 50. This might include not inviting friends, colleagues, or even some extended family members. Be sure to communicate this tactfully with your partner to prevent guest list arguments
  • Vendor limits. Some vendors and wedding venues have a minimum headcount, and having a smaller wedding may not reach these limits. Be sure to check whether your dream venue has minimum guest requirements before finalising your guest list with them

How many guests should I invite for a mid-size wedding?

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A medium-sized wedding is generally considered to be between 50 and 100 guests. It’s the size that many couples opt for, as you get the best of both. 

The benefits of a medium-sized wedding include:

  • Balanced atmosphere. A medium-sized wedding offers a balance between intimacy and energy. With a moderate number of guests, there’s still a sense of closeness and connection while also providing enough people to create a lively and celebratory atmosphere.
  • Diverse guest list. A bigger guest list means more space to invite friends, extended family, and neighbours or colleagues. This allows for a mix of social circles and relationships, fostering a sense of community and inclusivity.
  • Better vibes. More people means more party. Guests will bounce off one another’s energy for a vibrant celebration. 

Naturally, there are some disadvantages, too:

  • Guest list management. Increasing your guest list also means you need to consider complex family dynamics and navigate friendship fall-outs. This can prove challenging when it comes to seating arrangements. 
  • Higher cost considerations. More guests will mean increased catering, venue, and wedding invitation costs. Be sure to budget accordingly for a larger guest list!

How many guests should I invite for a large wedding?

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A big wedding is considered to be anything over 100 guests. Large weddings give you the opportunity to invite everyone you love to celebrate your fairy tale day. 

The benefits of a big wedding include:

  • A great atmosphere. Most people are in a great mood at a wedding, and that energy will spur you on through your big day. The vibe at a big wedding is like nothing else, and is guaranteed to make for the party of a lifetime!
  • A chance to meet one another. A big wedding is the perfect opportunity for families and friends to come together and celebrate love. They’re all one big family now, after all, so it’s time they got to know each other. 
  • A memorable experience. A big wedding will leave an especially lasting impression on both you and your guests. The scale and grandeur of the event are sure to become talking-points, and create unforgettable memories. 

Aside from the increased cost of a large wedding, drawbacks include: 

  • Attention spread more thinly. With more guests to greet and interact with, you may find it challenging to spend quality time with each individual guest. This can result in guests feeling less personally connected to the day.
  • Noise and crowd control. While more guests contribute to a lively atmosphere, they can also lead to increased noise levels and potential overcrowding, especially in smaller venues. You may need to implement strategies to manage noise levels and ensure the comfort of all your guests.

How does the headcount affect the cost of a wedding?

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We’ve already touched on this above, but the number of guests you invite can significantly influence wedding spending. The more guests you invite, the more your wedding will cost. This rise is mainly due to catering costs. More guests naturally means more mouths to feed. Here are the average costs you can expect to pay depending on the size of your wedding. For more information on average UK wedding costs in general, check our our dedicated article. 

  • 50 or fewer guests – £12,006
  • 51-100 guests – £20,340
  • 101-150 guests – £25,175
  • 151 or more guests – £37,431

How many guests are typical for…

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An elopement 

Couples don’t typically invite guests to an elopement. 

In fact, the point of an elopement is to be spontaneous, romantic, and private, so guests aren’t usually necessary or even desired. However, you may wish to invite one or two guests to act as witnesses or share in the celebration afterward.

Some couples also like to organise a party after they return from their elopement. This party is the opportunity to celebrate your marriage with family and friends who couldn’t come to the elopement itself. You can invite as many people as you’d like to this party.

A registry office wedding

For a registry office wedding to be legally-binding, you need to have at least two people present to act as your witnesses. They can be friends, family, or anyone with a significant role in your life. They must also be over 16 and understand English to qualify as witnesses. 

A Church/religious wedding

The size of a church wedding will be dictated by the size of the church, at least for the ceremony itself. Larger churches may accommodate hundreds of guests, while smaller churches may have more limited seating available.

Indian wedding

Indian weddings tend to be large, elaborate affairs that involve extensive guest lists and multiple days of celebrations. It’s not uncommon for Indian weddings to have hundreds or even thousands of guests in attendance. 

Family and community are central to Indian culture, so weddings often serve as opportunities to bring together relatives, friends, and acquaintances from near and far to celebrate the happy couple. 

Destination wedding

Destination weddings tend to have fewer guests due to the increased cost of flying abroad. This smaller guest count allows for a more relaxed and personal atmosphere, where couples can spend quality time with each guest and create unforgettable memories in a beautiful and exotic setting. 

The bottom line on wedding guest count

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There’s really no perfect wedding size. The most important thing is that the people who truly matter to you are there and that your guest list fits within your budget. So, whether you’re planning a larger-than-life Indian wedding, a low-key intimate gathering, or a romantic elopement, focus on surrounding yourself with the love and support of those who mean the most to you. 

If you’re struggling to visualise your guest list and aren’t sure where to begin, or have already sent out your invites but aren’t sure how to manage it all, try Bridebook’s free Guest List tool. Sign up today to make your wedding guest management a breeze and plan the celebration of your dreams!

Frequently Asked Questions

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How many people are usually invited to a wedding?

The typical wedding has between 50 and 100 guests. However, this depends on the size of your venue, your budget, and the type of wedding you’re throwing. For example, the average Indian wedding will have a lot more guests than the average registry office ceremony.  

What is a good number of guests for a wedding?

A good number is whatever number suits your budget and priorities. Try to avoid the temptation to inflate your guest list for the sake of meeting an arbitrary number. As long as your list has everyone you love on it and fits in your budget, it’s a good number.  

Is a 100 person wedding small?

A wedding of over 100 people is typically considered to be a big wedding rather than a small one. However, it may be considered small in certain cultures where weddings are more of a social event, for example, Indian weddings. 

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How to Make a Wedding Guest List (Who to Invite & Who Not To)

While it might seem straightforward at first, anyone who’s written a wedding guest list will tell you it’s far from easy. You can’t invite Peter without Paul, you can’t sit Auntie Jean with Uncle John, and you certainly can’t forget about all those distant relatives you haven’t seen in years but sill feel obligated to invite. As the list grows longer, so do the complexities, considerations, and budget! 

But it doesn’t have to be doom and gloom. In fact, writing your wedding guest list is a great chance to reflect on all the special memories you’ve shared throughout the years. When you’re ready to put pen to paper, Bridebook has your back. 

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Check out this guide to who you should invite, who you shouldn’t, and even a checklist to make sure you’ve covered all your bases. Plus, we’ll show you a free tool to help make guest list planning a breeze! Ready to get started? Let’s dive in!

What is a wedding guest list?

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A wedding guest list is a list of all the people you intend to invite to your wedding. It is a crucial part of wedding planning as it helps you determine factors like venue size, catering needs, and overall budget. 

Your wedding guest list will also set the tone for the big day. For example, is it an intimate event, a family-only affair, or a roaring celebration with everyone you love? Your wedding guest list plays a significant role in shaping the atmosphere and experience of your special day, making it a crucial element to get right.

Who should you invite to your wedding?

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The most important thing to remember is that this is your wedding, and you can invite whoever you want. Don’t feel obliged to invite people you barely know or don’t genuinely care about just to please others. Your wedding day is a celebration of your love story, and the guest list should reflect the people who have played a meaningful role in shaping that narrative. Surround yourself with those who bring joy, love, and support to your life, and your wedding day will truly reflect the happiness you share as a couple. 

Follow your heart, trust your instincts, and create a guest list that feels authentic to you as a couple. 

If you’re looking for more specific guidelines, consider inviting the below people. 

Family 

Family is the cornerstone of your wedding guest list. You should invite your immediate family as standard. This includes your parents, step-parents, siblings, step-siblings, and grandparents. Consider inviting your cousins, aunts, uncles, and other close relatives if there’s space.

If you aren’t close to your family or there are strained relationships, you should invite your chosen family to support you on your big day. These include your closest friends, support network, or whoever raised you, like foster or adoptive parents. 

What about my distant relatives?

Distant relatives include those who may not be as closely connected to your everyday life but still hold a familial tie. For example, great aunts and uncles, second or third cousins, or relatives you rarely see. If you have space, it’s nice to invite them, but don’t feel too guilty if your budget is tight. 

Friends

It’s lovely to have friends at your wedding where possible. Friends provide moral support, calm your nerves, and can help bring the party on your big day. Try to stick to long-term friends or anyone you’ve shared a special bond with. There’s nothing worse than looking back at wedding pictures and seeing a sea of faces you’ve fallen out with!

What about colleagues and neighbours?

Colleagues

You can invite colleagues if you’d like. While some may have crossed the barrier into your long-term friend group, for the most part, they’ll be casual acquaintances. If you’re adamant you’d like them there, consider inviting them to the evening reception only. That way, you can include them in the celebration without overwhelming your guest list or budget. 

Neighbours

Again, most neighbours are casual acquaintances with whom you exchange Christmas cards and the occasional hello. However, if you’re especially close with some of your neighbours, consider inviting them to the reception. Again, inviting them to the wedding day will up your budget and venue capacity, so offering invitations to  just the reception may be a more practical option. 

Who shouldn’t you invite to your wedding?

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You don’t have to invite anyone to your wedding you don’t want to.

Seriously.

You don’t have to invite anyone to your wedding you don’t want to. 

It’s your special day and your guest list — you have every right to choose who you want to share this special occasion with. Whether it’s distant relatives you barely know, old friends you’ve drifted apart from, or acquaintances you’re not particularly close with, you have the final say on who receives an invitation.

If you’re looking for explicit guidance on who you can leave out, keep reading. 

Plus-ones

Plus-ones are companions your guests can bring to your wedding. They are usually extended to guests who won’t know anyone else at the wedding or are in a committed relationship. They provide guests with a familiar face and someone to chat with throughout the day. 

However, extending a plus-one to multiple guests can get expensive. If you’re concerned about cost or headcount, consider holding a socialising event before the wedding so all your invited guests can get to know each other. Alternatively, you could invite anyone you’d usually extend a plus-one to on your hen or stag do. This will break the ice and limit the need for plus-ones in the first place.

People who invited you to their wedding

Don’t feel obliged to invite someone to your wedding just because they invited you to theirs. Although it’s nice to repay the favour, don’t feel forced if you’re tight on numbers or you don’t feel a strong bond with them. 

Friends’ kids

Deciding whether you want kids at your wedding is probably one of the first ‘guest list’ conversations you’ll have with your fiance. It’s a decision that depends on your style, vibe, and even the venue you’ve chosen. While some couples embrace the energy and joy that children bring to weddings, others prefer a more grown-up atmosphere without the worry of stepping on tiny toes.

There’s no right or wrong answer to whether you should invite kids to your wedding. On one hand, they’ll bring a lovely energy to the day and add an extra layer of sweetness to the celebration. On the other hand, they increase the headcount and change logistical considerations. 

Whatever you decide, it’s important you communicate your choice clearly and respectfully to your guests. Highlight on your wedding invitations whether children are invited, and be prepared to defend your position if necessary. 

People you don’t really like

This is a bit awkward, but not everyone is going to be your cup of tea. Your wedding day is a celebration of love, joy, and meaningful connections —so why invite someone who doesn’t bring any of those vibes into your life?

Sure, there might be societal pressures or familial expectations nudging you to extend an invitation to certain individuals, but remember — this is your day. You deserve to surround yourself with people who uplift, support, and genuinely share in your happiness.

So, if someone on your list makes your stomach churn instead of your heart flutter, leaving them off the guest list is fine. You’re not obligated to include anyone who doesn’t contribute positively to your life or relationship.

How to make a wedding guest list 

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Ready to start crafting your guest list? Try following these 8 easy steps to craft the perfect first draft of your wedding guest list.

1. Consider your venue

Your chosen venue is the biggest constraint on your wedding guest list. You’ll need to consider things like:

  • How many people can the venue hold? 
  • Can it hold more people in the evening than a sit-down dinner?
  • Is the venue wheelchair friendly?
  • What are the seating arrangements?

All these questions will help you determine the maximum number of guests you can invite, and understanding your venue’s layout will help you make informed decisions about your guest list.

2. Consider your budget

Your budget is the second biggest constraint on your guest list. With the average catering cost coming in at £30-£50 a head, you need to be mindful of your budget when creating your wedding guest list. 

Decide how much you’re willing and able to spend per guest, considering the catering cost and how it fits into your overall expenses. Once you’ve determined your budget and allocated a portion to catering, calculate how many guests you can afford to invite within that budget.

3. Start with family

Once you have a rough estimate of numbers, you can start crafting your guest list. We recommend starting with family. Whether it’s blood, adoptive, step, or chosen, your family should be the first people on your guest list.  

Start by listing immediate family members, including parents, step-parents, siblings, step-siblings, and grandparents. Then, consider extending the invitation to extended family members such as aunts, uncles, and cousins. Remember to include both sides of the family to ensure fairness and inclusivity.

Additionally, don’t forget about other important family members, such as godparents, nieces, nephews, and close family friends who feel like family. Including these people can add warmth and meaning to your celebration.

4. Move on to close friends

The next step is to consider your close friends. These people have been there for you through thick and thin, so it’s natural you’d want them there on your special day. Start by listing your best friends and moving on to friends from different stages of life. For example, school, university, or close work friends. 

Don’t forget about your partner’s close friends as well. This day is about both of you, so it’s important to include their closest friends too. Consider their inner circle of friends and those who have been significant in their life journey. They’re your besties now too, after all!

5. Consider plus-ones

Once you’ve determined exactly who you want on the big day, it’s time to consider your guests. Is there anyone coming who doesn’t know anyone else, or who might feel shy without personal support? If so, you may want to consider extending a plus-one. This will help them to feel comfortable and included on the big day. 

6.  Think about your parent’s guests

Although it’s important to be firm on only inviting people you want there, it’s polite to loop your parents into the guest list planning

Start by having a conversation with your parents about their guest list preferences. They may have close friends, relatives, or acquaintances they would like to include in the celebration. Listen to their suggestions and take them into consideration when finalising your guest list.

But, remember – while it’s polite to consider your parents’ guests, you’re not obligated to invite everyone they suggest. For example, there’s no point in inviting someone you’ve never met before! 

Communicate openly and respectfully with your parents about any concerns or limitations you may have regarding the guest list. If you really don’t want someone there – say so. Your mum and dad will understand. 

7. Whittle your list down

Congratulations! You’ve completed your first draft.

Now it’s time to put it down and walk away for a few weeks. You need to clear your mind from all thoughts about your guest list. Focus on other parts of wedding planning, on household chores, or even practise a bit of self-care. 

When you’re ready to come back to your guest list, it’s time to start cutting. It may seem brutal, but cutting down your guest list is necessary to ensure your wedding remains within your budget, venue capacity, and desired atmosphere. While removing names from your list may seem daunting or even heartbreaking, prioritising your closest family and friends will result in a more meaningful celebration.

Cut anyone from your list that you’re no longer close with or that you haven’t spoken to in the last year. We recommend you whittle down friends before you start on family. But you can of course reduce your guest list however you see fit.  

8. Communicate with your guests

Once you’ve finalised your guest list with your wedding venue, you’ll need to communicate your decisions to your guests. Be clear and upfront about who is invited and who isn’t, especially when it comes to plus-ones or children. If you’re facing challenges with your guest list, for example, capacity limitations or budget constraints, be honest with your guests. 

Remember, you don’t have to outright tell people that they’re not invited to your wedding. You only need to tell people who might have expected an invite just to give them a heads-up. Think about how you’d like to be told that you’re not invited to a wedding and act accordingly. 

Once you’ve told the necessary people, you can start making and sending out your wedding invitations

Can I make a wedding guest list using Excel?

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You can, but it might be a bit clunky. 

At the very least, you’ll need separate columns for each guest’s:

  • First and last names
  • Names of any plus-ones
  • Home address
  • Phone number
  • Dietary requirements
  • RSVP sent
  • RSVP returned

Even if you’re an Excel whiz, you might struggle to create a user-friendly and intuitive spreadsheet to help you track your guest lists. Plus, let’s be honest, who wants to deal with Excel when you could be taste-testing cakes or picking out flowers? Using a dedicated wedding planning tool can streamline the process and save you from the headache of managing a complex spreadsheet.  

Instead, try using Bridebook’s free Guest List planner. This tool has everything you need to quickly and easily create a wedding guest list. You can bulk add guests, categorise them by day or evening guests, keep track of your RSVPs, and make use of separate sections for notes, dietary requirements, and what table number they’ll be sitting at. What’s more, Bridebook’s wedding planning tool is completely free! Sign up today and kick-start your wedding planning. 

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The ultimate wedding guest checklist

A printable wedding guest checklist infographic with tick boxes to help couples get started on their guest management
Get started on your wedding guest list

Use this wedding guest checklist to help make sure you’ve invited all the most important people to your big day:

Family

  • Mums/step-mums/adoptive mums
  • Dads/step-dads/adoptive dads
  • Brothers/sisters/siblings
  • Grandparents
  • Aunts/uncles
  • Cousins

Friends

  • Childhood friends
  • School friends
  • University friends
  • Work friends
  • Friends from clubs/activities 
  • People you speak to every day (Pro tip: scan your messaging apps)

Others

  • Work colleagues
  • Neighbours
  • Plus-ones
  • Friends’ kids

Top tips for creating your wedding guest list

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Start early

It’s never too early to start making your wedding guest list. Crafting your guest list early means you can begin the process with a clear mind and without feeling rushed. Plus, it will help you budget properly and give you a steer on venue size. 

Be prepared to make tough decisions

It’s not going to be nice, but when it comes down to it, you need to be prepared to cut your guest list down to a manageable size. Be prepared to make tough decisions about who to include and who to exclude. 

Make the list with your partner

Include your partner throughout the process. This will not only speed things up, but also reduce arguments and make sure you’re on the same page when it comes to who should and shouldn’t get an invite. Sit down together and discuss your priorities, such as which family members and friends are must-invites and which ones you can afford to leave off the list. This collaborative approach will help prevent disagreements or misunderstandings later on in the process. 

Consider if you really need plus-ones

Plus-ones are nice to have, but do your guests really need them? Most people are happy and sociable at a wedding. Even if some of your guests don’t know anyone at the start of the wedding, they certainly will by the end. Ultimately, extending plus-ones to your guests depends on space and budget. Don’t invite people you barely know for the sake of being considerate, especially if your budget is tight. 

Manage your wedding guests on Bridebook 

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Writing your wedding guest list is both a science and an art. It’s about finding the right balance between inviting everyone you love and staying within budget. By following the steps outlined in this guide, from prioritising family and close friends to looping your parents into the process, you can create a list that represents your relationship and ensures your big day is just as special as you imagined. 

Remember, it’s okay to make tough decisions and trim the list down to a manageable size. Quality over quantity is key when it comes to creating an intimate and meaningful celebration. And don’t forget to communicate your decisions clearly to your guests, ensuring that everyone feels included and informed.

If you want to make managing your guests a breeze, try Bridebook’s free Guest List tool. Sign up today for your free account and plan the wedding of your dreams!

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What to Wear to a Wedding Reception

Wedding season is fast approaching, which means it’s time to don your glad rags and head to the dancefloor! But, first thing’s first — what are you going to wear?

Whether you’re the best friend, a distant relative, or the plus-one, figuring out what to wear to the wedding reception can be tough. You’ll need to navigate the realms of style, etiquette, and personal flair to create an outfit that’s uniquely you. It’s no small feat!

So, if you’re wondering what to wear to a wedding reception, keep reading! We have specific guidance on formal, casual, and cocktail wedding reception attire to help you feel comfortable and confident as you celebrate the big day. 

What is a wedding reception?

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A wedding reception is the evening portion of a wedding day. It’s usually framed as a party to celebrate the happy couple’s big day and as a display of hospitality to those who attended and supported the wedding. Think of it as the grand finale of the special day!

It’s common for someone who isn’t immediate family or a close friend of the newlyweds to be invited to the reception only. You may also be invited as a plus-one or an extended part of the couple’s social circle. While the ceremony is more intimate, the reception opens its arms wider, inviting a wider group of guests to share in the love and happiness.

What do you wear to a wedding reception?

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If you’re feeling stuck on what to wear to a wedding reception, check out the following guidance. Formal, cocktail, or casual are three safe bets when dressing for an evening wedding reception. 

What is formal attire for a wedding reception?

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Formal attire is the epitome of elegance and sophistication. It’s all about fitting in with the beauty of the big day and making an impression.

Ladies

Ladies should wear a floor-length gown, a tea-length dress, or even a classy jumpsuit. Rich fabrics like silk, velvet, or satin are all beautiful options, and you should opt for dark colours or jewel tones. If you’re a fan of glitz and glamour, a little bit of sparkle doesn’t go amiss at a formal wedding reception!

Enhance your outfit with sparkling jewellery, a stylish clutch, and satin gloves for a touch of elegance. Remember, formal dressing isn’t just about the dress, but about the outfit as a whole. 

Men

Men can’t go wrong with a well-tailored suit in a dark colour. Pair with a crisp shirt, a contrasting tie, and polished dress shoes to complete the ensemble. Black, charcoal, and deep navy are all acceptable suit colours, and shirts should be white or pale blue. 

Accessorise with cufflinks, a pocket square, and a dress watch. You should look clean and well-groomed, with clean nails and a well-maintained beard (if you have one). It’s also a good idea to get a haircut a week or so before the wedding. This way, you’ll look tidy without worrying about itchy hairs ruining the day. 

Gender-neutral or non-binary

A jumpsuit, tailored suit, or formal separates are all great gender-neutral or non-binary options. The most important thing is striking the balance between formality and being true to your own style. Don’t feel the need to wear a suit if you’d never usually wear one; likewise, don’t wear a jumpsuit if you’re going to be uncomfortable all day. Instead, opt for an ensemble that makes you feel confident and fabulous, ensuring you can fully enjoy the celebration.

A great tip is to express yourself with accessories. For example, if you’re more flamboyant, opt for chandelier earrings to offset a classic suit look. Alternatively, consider going bright with your makeup while opting for a jumpsuit in a dark or jewel tone. This will help you infuse your personal style into your outfit while still respecting the formality of the occasion. 

Shoes should be classic and comfortable to ensure you can dance the night away without issue. 

What is casual wear for a wedding reception?

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Casual wear usually means a more relaxed or informal dress code. Similar to ‘come as you are,’ casual dress codes are all about feeling comfortable while still dressing appropriately for a family party. 

Ladies

Ladies can wear sundresses, midi dresses, or a nice top with flowy trousers. You could also wear a pretty blouse with dressy shorts or a casual jumpsuit if that’s more your style. Bring a light cardigan or denim jacket to keep off the chill. 

Accessories should be understated, and you can wear clean trainers, sandals, or other flat shoes.  Try an effortless hairstyle like a side braid or loose waves to tie into the laid-back style. 

Men

Try pairing a button-down shirt or polo shirt with some smart chinos for a polished but casual look. You could also include a casual blazer or smart jumper if the weather promises a chill. Complete the ensemble with stylish yet comfortable footwear. Loafers, slip-on shoes, or clean trainers are all great options for a casual look. 

Stick to pale, neutral colours and subtle patterns for a timeless look. 

Gender-neutral or non-binary

Casual separates are a good gender-neutral or non-binary option. For example, a stylish blouse with flowy trousers, a tunic top with leggings, a smart shirt with chinos — the choices are endless. Mix-and-match however feels right to you and accessorise accordingly. Consider a belt, a dress watch, and understated jewellery. 

Remember that fashion is a form of self-expression. Choose an outfit that’s true to you and reflects your personality. Wear it with confidence and you’ll look fabulous.

What is cocktail attire for a wedding reception?

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Cocktail attire is a great balance between casual and formal attire. It allows guests to dress to impress while still maintaining a sense of ease and approachability. Here’s a detailed guide on what cocktail attire entails for women, men, and non-binary guests.

Ladies

You can’t go wrong with a little black dress for cocktail wear. However, if this isn’t your style, a midi-length bodycon dress, a dressy jumpsuit, or a knee-length cocktail dress are also great options. Statement jewellery, a clutch, and a fascinator can all elevate your outfit and add a touch of glamour. 

We recommend wearing heeled shoes or dressy flats to a cocktail reception. These shoes will not only complement your outfit but also add a polished touch to your overall appearance. 

Men

Men can either wear a tailored suit or a shirt, tie, and dressy trousers. Black, navy, and charcoal are all great options. However, you can also opt for something jazzier with cocktail wear. For example, dark purple, dark green, or even burgundy can be both stylish and unusual. 

Choose polished dress shoes such as Oxfords or loafers. Match the shoe colour to your suit for a cohesive appearance.

Add refined details with a pocket square, tie bar, cufflinks, and a dress watch. These accessories contribute to an overall sophisticated look and tie in well to the cocktail theme.

Gender-neutral or non-binary

Cocktail wedding receptions offer flexibility when it comes to guest outfits. So long as they’re dressy, fashionable, and well-groomed, almost anything goes! This is great for non-binary or gender-neutral guests who want to express themselves through their clothing. 

Opt for a tailored suit, a jazzy jumpsuit, or fashionable separates for a look that reflects your personality. Experiment with a range of colours, from classic neutrals to vibrant hues, depending on your mood and the season. Cocktail receptions often allow for a broader colour palette.

You can wear whatever shoes complement your outfit. Whether it’s heeled boots, dressy sandals, or even polished Oxfords, the most important thing is that you’re both comfortable and well-presented. 

The bottom line on dressing for a wedding reception

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No matter the dress code, the key to dressing for a wedding reception is to balance comfort with style. There’s nothing worse than the night being ruined because of blisters or tight trousers. Instead, opt for an outfit that fits well, suits the dress code, and reflects your personality. This way, you can fully immerse yourself in the celebration without worrying about wardrobe malfunctions. 

If you’re looking for further inspiration, check out our post on the ultimate guide to wedding dress codes. With over 13 popular dress codes to choose from, you’re sure to find something that fits the bill. 

Frequently Asked Questions

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What do brides wear to a wedding reception?

It’s becoming increasingly fashionable for brides to change into a ‘party dress’ during their wedding reception. These dresses are usually shorter and made with less fabric than a traditional wedding dress. This means your wedding dress will stay perfect, and you can dance the night away without all the skirts and petticoats weighing you down. 

Do you have to dress up for a wedding reception?

You don’t necessarily have to, but it is nice to. Even casual wedding dress codes often call for a slightly more polished and put-together look than everyday attire. While the level of formality can vary depending on the couple’s preferences and the specified dress code, dressing up for a wedding reception is a thoughtful way to honour the happy couple and the significance of the big day.

What is the best colour to wear to a wedding reception?

There’s no one ‘best’ colour to wear to a wedding reception. The best colour will completely depend on your preferences, the formality of the occasion, and the wedding colour scheme. However, generally, pale colours, pastels, and neutrals are good for summer weddings, while darker colours or jewel tones are preferable for winter weddings

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What to Wear to a Winter Wedding

What could be more beautiful than getting married amidst frozen lakes, snowy paths, and robins peppering the trees? Winter wonderland weddings create a stunning backdrop for the big day and infuse the celebration with a feeling of enchantment and romance. It’s like a real-life fairy tale!

Although beautiful, winter weddings can cause some issues for guests. Trying to strike the balance between being stylish and staying warm can be a challenge. Plus, there’s always the risk of changing temperatures. 

If you’re wondering what to wear to a winter wedding, you’re in the right place! Read on to learn how to balance style and warmth in this inclusive winter wedding dress guide. 

What is a winter wedding?     

Bride and groom in a snowy wintry setting

A winter wedding is a wedding planned between the months of December and February. People may choose to get married in the winter for a variety of reasons:

  • The season holds a special significance to the couple
  • The beautiful scenery
  • The delicious food
  • The cosy aesthetic
  • The dark nights are perfect for fireworks
  • It’s unique 
  • It’s memorable
  • It’s cheaper

Winter weddings are usually held inside to ensure the comfort of both the couple and the guests. However, in some circumstances, winter weddings may be held outside. For example, if you’re abroad or love the idea of getting married in front of a frozen lake. 

What do you wear to a winter wedding?

Bride and groom tying the knot in a winter wedding wearing a warm cardigan and scarf

This section includes some general guidance on what to wear to a winter wedding. However, we also have further information about what to wear to a winter wedding in specific situations. For example, an Indian winter wedding, a winter beach wedding, a winter barn wedding, and more. Read on to learn all about how to dress for a winter wedding.

Ladies 

Dresses, jumpsuits, tailored suits, and stylish separates are all great options to wear to a winter wedding. The benefit of wearing a dress is that you can also wear thermal tights, which will keep you warm while maintaining a polished look.

We recommend that you opt for heavier fabrics like velvet, wool, or satin. These will both stave off the cold and add a touch of luxury to your outfit. Dark colours or jewel tones are best. For example, plum, dark green, or dark blue. Avoid black, which can look harsh. 

Add winter accessories like a faux fur stole, a stylish cape, gloves, or a cosy wrap to stay warm while making a fashion statement.

You might not be able to see if there are cobblestones leading up to the venue, so opt for footwear that is suitable for the potential challenges of navigating through snow or colder weather. Try closed-toe shoes, ankle boots, or a low heel to keep your feet warm. You should also bring a wool overcoat. 

Gentlemen

We recommend that men focus on strategic layering, as a suit and coat may not be enough to keep you warm all day. Start with a suit in rich tones like charcoal, navy, or deep burgundy. These colours not only complement the winter season but also exude sophistication. You could also opt for wool or tweed if you’d like something a bit different.

We also recommend you wear a waistcoat, vest, or some other layer beyond your suit. Adding layers allows for flexibility in adjusting to varying temperatures. You’ll also need a long wool coat and a stylish scarf to keep you cosy. Consider a fabric like cashmere for a touch of class. 

Choose thicker dress socks in a colour that complements your suit. This not only adds a layer of warmth but also ensures a cohesive and put-together appearance. Shoes should be practical and weather-appropriate. 

Non-binary or gender-neutral guests

Non-binary or gender-neutral guests attending a winter wedding have a variety of stylish and comfortable options. For example, you could try a jumpsuit, a tailored suit, or even separates if that’s more your style. 

Opt for neutral colours, winter tones, or even explore textured fabrics that evoke the seasonal spirit. Rich burgundies, deep greens, classic Christmas reds, or tartan can be versatile. We always recommend bringing a tailored coat to keep you warm and accessorising with the cold in mind. For example, gloves, scarves, and even potentially earmuffs. 

Shoes should be comfortable and outfit-appropriate. Try boots, dress shoes, or even clean, modern trainers to complement the overall look.

What to wear to a barn wedding in the winter

Rustic barn wedding with bride and groom wearing warm outfits

A barn wedding brings a sense of rustic charm to the big day. With hay bales to sit on and potential animals to stroke, there will be a sense of magic and whimsy in the air. However, it’s important to remember that barns can be draughty and likely won’t enjoy the wonders of central heating. Be sure to dress accordingly. 

Ladies 

A long-sleeved dress or jumpsuit will keep you warm in cooler temperatures and keep off the chill. A jumpsuit has the added benefit of allowing you to line dance without worrying about what your skirt is doing! Consider fabrics like velvet, wool, or heavier materials that provide both style and insulation. Add a shawl, cardigan, or a denim jacket over your outfit to finish the look. This will help you fit in with the rustic nature of a barn wedding while keeping you toasty and warm. 

Choose practical footwear suitable for a rustic setting. Ankle boots or closed-toe shoes with a low heel can help navigate uneven terrain while keeping your feet warm. You could even wear cowgirl boots if you’d like!

Gentlemen

Men should consider a wool or tweed suit, a long coat, and fun cowboy boots. You could opt for a flannel or checked shirt. However, if you want to wear this, then your suit should ideally be in a neutral tone so you don’t look too busy. 

Add appropriate accessories like leather gloves, a stylish scarf, or a cap to enhance your winter barn wedding look. These items can add warmth and a touch of personality. Stetson or Western hats may also be an option. However, for etiquette reasons, hats may need to be removed when inside, so if you’re going to be inside all day, consider first whether there’s any point in wearing a hat. 

Non-binary or gender-neutral guests

Gender-neutral or non-binary guests will look great in a tailored check suit. This should be in a heavier fabric to keep them warm and paired with a neutral, long-sleeved shirt. 

Alternatively, try utilising layers and separates to create a look that’s uniquely you. Mix textures and patterns for a personalised touch while staying warm in a barn setting.

Choose comfortable boots or closed-toe shoes suitable for walking on uneven surfaces. Gender-neutral options may include Chelsea boots, loafers, or stylish Oxfords. Jewellery should be kept to a minimum to maintain your rustic look. 

What to wear to an Indian wedding in the winter

Indian bride getting ready and putting on earrings

Ladies 

Indian wedding celebrations are beautiful and colourful wedding ceremonies filled with love and culture. Traditional ladies’ wedding attire includes sarees, Anarkali suits, or lehenga. 

Whatever style you choose, we recommend that you pick heavy fabrics in rich colours like burgundy, emerald green, or royal blue. The heavier fabric will provide warmth, and intricate embroidery or embellishments can add a touch of glamour. Pair with a matching dupatta for an elegant ensemble.

We also recommend that you keep your feet warm with closed-toe heels or embellished flats that complement your outfit. Complete the look with statement jewellery like chandelier earrings, a maang tikka, and bangles.

Gentlemen

Men should opt for a sherwani, a Bandhgala suit, or a Jodhpuri suit in rich, winter-appropriate fabrics like velvet or brocade. Darker colours such as maroon, navy, or bottle green work well for the season and will contribute to the rich, colourful tapestry of an Indian wedding ceremony.

Pair your outfit with traditional Indian footwear like mojris or juttis. Make sure they’re comfortable — Indian weddings can involve a lot of standing and dancing! Depending on the couple’s religion, you may also be asked to wear a turban as a sign of respect. The families will be more than happy to help you if you’re struggling with how to do this. You can also find a wealth of information and guidance on YouTube. 

Non-binary or gender-neutral guests

Indian wedding attire is traditionally gendered. However, there’s no reason you can’t put together an outfit that reflects your gender identity while respecting this rich culture. 

Consider wearing a fusion outfit that combines traditional and modern elements. For example, you can combine a jacket with Indian embroidery worn over trousers or a skirt. Alternatively, an Anarkali suit, traditionally worn by women, can be adapted for non-binary individuals. Choose one with a floor-length top and pair it with palazzo pants for a more gender-neutral look. 

Statement jewellery like bangles, a long necklace, or chandelier earrings can help pull your outfit together. Make sure your shoes are comfortable and match your outfit.  

What to wear to a Church wedding in the winter

Church wedding ceremony with bride and groom at the altar

Ladies 

A dress, tailored suit, or matching separates are all great options for a church winter wedding. You should also bring a shawl or wrap coat to keep off the chill, and consider wearing a hat to tie the look together.

The most important thing about dressing for a church wedding is that your outfit should be modest. This is easily done in the winter. The general rules are that you can’t show your knees, shoulders, or too much of your chest. 

Gentlemen

Men can’t go wrong with a classic suit and tie combination. Dark colours like black, charcoal, or navy are safe and sophisticated suit choices. Pair it with a crisp dress shirt and a tie that complements the overall colour scheme.

Non-binary or gender-neutral guests

Gender-neutral guests can wear a tailored suit, jumpsuit, or a dress shirt with tailored trousers. You could layer up with a waistcoat or vest to add warmth and interest, and add a long or trench coat in a neutral colour. This will create a polished and put-together look.

Shoes should be formal and comfortable. Consider loafers, Chelsea boots, or heeled boots, depending on your personal style. 

What to wear to a beach wedding in the winter

Guests partying on the beach wearing warm clothes

If you’re attending a beach wedding in the winter, it’s likely to be abroad. As a result, you should consider the climate and weather of that country when picking your beach winter wedding clothes. 

Ladies 

Beach weddings are known for their laid-back feel — lean into it with a Boho-chic outfit. For example, flowy skirts, off-the-shoulder tops, maxi dresses, or other loose-fitting dresses can create a relaxed yet stylish look. Flat and comfortable shoes will help you navigate a sandy beach, while accessories should be focused on keeping the sun off your face (think shades and sunhats). 

You should also bring a light jacket or shawl just in case there’s a chill in the winter. 

Gentlemen

You’ll likely be far too hot in a full suit at a beach winter wedding. Instead, wear a lightweight linen or cotton shirt in a beachy colour. Short-sleeved or rolled-up sleeves can keep you cool during the day. Pair your shirt with chinos, suit trousers, or loose-fitting linen trousers for a laid-back look. Wearing loafers or boat shoes will help you stay comfortable and casual. 

Non-binary or gender-neutral guests

Opt for a flowy jumpsuit, lightweight suit, or mix-and-match separates that show your unique style. The beauty of a beach wedding is that it’s laid back, so you have the freedom to experiment with your outfit and find something that makes you feel comfortable. 

Embrace a colour palette inspired by the coastal surroundings — think soft blues, sandy neutrals, or even fun, tropical patterns. Remember to choose comfortable and beach-appropriate footwear. These include strappy sandals, espadrilles, or clean trainers.

What to wear to a Christmas wedding

Bride and groom in an outdoor wintry setting with festive red garland and bouquet

A wedding at or around Christmas is the perfect blend of romance and festive cheer. If you’re not sure what to wear to one, keep reading!

Ladies 

A Christmas wedding is a great opportunity to don your most glamorous outfits. Try a floor length velvet gown, a sequin midi-dress, or a classic wrap dress in a festive pattern or solid colour. Accentuate your outfit with festive accessories like a statement clutch, bold earrings, or a faux fur stole for an extra touch of glamour.

Gentlemen

You can’t go wrong with a well-tailored suit for a Christmas wedding. Consider adding some festive touches to make you stand out. For example, a festive tie, tartan pocket square, or Christmas-themed socks to add the perfect touch of festive cheer to your outfit.

Non-binary or gender-neutral guests

Non-binary or gender-neutral guests can wear a festive jumpsuit, well-tailored suit, mix-and-match separates, or a flowy dress or tunic in festive colours or patterns. These comfortable and stylish looks will ensure that you feel confident and authentic while celebrating the joy of a Christmas wedding. 

The bottom line on dressing for a winter wedding

Knowing what to wear to a winter wedding can be tricky. You need to consider the weather, the dress code, the venue, and your own personal style. Trying to blend all these elements into one cohesive outfit with the added benefit of keeping you warm can be a real headache. 

However, with a considered approach and a little bit of guidance, you can easily create a look that not only feels authentic to you but also shields you from potentially harsh winter weather. You can’t go wrong with a long dress and tights, a tailored suit, or a fun and festive jumpsuit. 

If you’re still feeling stuck, try our post on the ultimate guide to wedding dress codes. You’ll find guides on what to wear for the 13 most popular wedding dress codes, including how to add your own fun spin on your wedding guest outfit.

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  1. Go to the Bridebook accommodation portal.
  2. Do a search with your wedding dates and venue with 1 room.
  3. Share the link with all your guests to make sure they can find a great place to stay close to your venue at the best rates. 

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