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Top 12 Best Man Speech Examples

He’s your best mate. Your partner in crime. You’re brothers in spirit, if not always in blood. And now, you’re his best man. Congratulations!

The honour of being the best man is a true testament to your friendship and the faith the groom puts in you. The best way to pay him back is to write a best man speech that will have everyone in stitches and teary-eyed at the same time. 

Writing a best man’s speech might not be easy for everyone. But there’s no need to panic! Whether you were born for the stage or a little more reserved, we’ve got the best man speech ideas and examples to help you get started. Prepare to craft the perfect speech to make your guests laugh, cry, and reminisce on your best friend’s big day.

What is the best man speech?

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The best man speech is a speech made by the best man during the wedding reception. It should be about 5 minutes long and include some anecdotes, jokes, and your favourite memories about the groom. These stories should highlight your friendship, adventures, and any lessons you’ve learned together. 

The best man’s speech is usually third in the order of speeches: first is the father of the bride’s speech; second is the groom’s speech; and third is the best man’s speech. It can be delivered after the main meal or between courses. This will give guests a break from the monotony of long speeches and capture the attention of everyone present.

What should you include in the best man speech?

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Here are some key elements you should consider including in your best man speech:

  • Thick as thieves. Engage the guests from the get-go with captivating stories about your time with the groom. It’s the perfect time to share your adventures and describe your escapades surrounded by the people who love your groom the most. It’s important to strike the right balance between sharing your craziest moments and not embarrassing the groom too much on their special day!
  • Share their story. You likely knew the groom before he met his partner bride. Try sharing some stories of how they met, when he decided to propose, or when he told you they were the one. These special, intimate moments will no doubt make the couple smile and pull at the guest’s heartstrings. 
  • A playful roast. Throw in a few light-hearted (and appropriate) jabs at the groom. Keep it clean; keep it playful. The goal is to make everyone laugh, including the groom himself. Balance the teasing with genuine admiration, support, and love, and you won’t go far wrong.
  • Toast the happy couple. Raise your glass and lead the crowd in a toast to the couple’s future health and happiness. It’s the perfect opportunity to end your speech on a high note and leave everyone feeling uplifted.

Best man speech structure

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Following a clear structure can help you feel more confident when writing a best man’s speech. Try using this structure to get you started: 

Introduction

The first part of your speech should be focused on introducing yourself and explaining your relationship to the groom. You’re his best man, but are you also his childhood best friend, partner in crime, brother, or new brother-in-law?

This is your opportunity to build rapport with your audience and share some light-hearted anecdotes about how you met or your journey so far. 

Acknowledge the happy couple

Once you’ve introduced yourself, it’s time to shift your focus to the happy couple. This is the perfect opportunity to highlight how beautiful the bride looks and how much you admire her positive qualities. Express how happy you are for the newlyweds, your excitement for their special day, and explain how the bride has positively influenced the groom’s life. 

Stories and anecdotes

The next portion of your speech should be concerned with sharing your favourite stories about the groom. These stories could showcase his character, quirks, and any memorable moments you’ve shared. 

Balance your jokes with sincerity, ensuring the stories reflect the groom’s best qualities, highlight your friendship, and don’t embarrass him too much in front of his new family!

Reflect on your friendship

This portion of your speech should talk about how you’ve supported one another through the trials of life. You should discuss how you met, the lessons you’ve learned together, and how much your friendship means to you.

Although these types of speech may not come naturally to all, today is a sentimental day and the perfect opportunity to express your gratitude for their friendship over all these years.  

Closing and toast

Now is the time to close your speech and raise a toast to the happy couple. Thank all the guests for attending, express gratitude to the couple’s parents, and end on a heartfelt note before raising your glass to the happy couple. Cheers, you did it!

Best man speech template

To help you navigate the complete breakdown of your speech, it can be helpful to have a visual guide to refer to. Check out our handy infographic below:

Best Man Speech Template
Use this best man template to guide your writing

Top tips for delivering a great best man speech  

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  1. Don’t stress. It’s natural to feel nervous when making a speech in front of a large group. However, keep in mind that you couldn’t ask for a better audience! The guests will have already listened to two speeches, are expecting yours, and are likely to have met you before. Take deep breaths, speak slowly and clearly, and maintain eye contact with the audience. Remember, everyone is there to support you, and the couple will appreciate your efforts regardless.
  2. Respect boundaries. Avoid sensitive or controversial topics that could offend or upset anyone in attendance. Some light-hearted roasting is appropriate, but stay away from any stories that may embarrass the couple or make them uncomfortable. If in doubt, check with the groom what stories he’s happy for you to use and disclose beforehand. This way, you can make sure he’s comfortable with the stories you’ll share while keeping your speech’s content a secret.
  3. Practice makes perfect. As with anything – practice makes perfect! Rehearse your speech multiple times before the big day. Try practising in front of a mirror, to trusted friends, or even record yourself making the speech to watch back. This will help you feel more comfortable, ensure a smooth delivery, and help you remember the key points you want to cover. If you’re still feeling anxious, check out our speech delivery skills to help you prepare for your best man’s speech.
  4. Toasting etiquette. This may be one of the first times you’re instigating a toast, so it’s important to have proper toasting etiquette. When raising a toast, ensure your glass is filled with the drink of your choice beforehand. This is traditionally champagne. However, prosecco or a non-alcoholic fizzy drink is also acceptable. Make eye contact with the couple and raise your glass towards them. Encourage others to join in by signalling or making a simple gesture.

Top 12 best man speech examples

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If you’re looking for some inspiration, check out our top 12 examples of great best man wedding speech ideas, from the short and simple, to the funny and personal! 

A lot of traditional best man speeches and examples will refer to a bride and groom, but you can simply change the references to the groom’s partner and the appropriate pronouns if you’re attending an LGBTQ+ wedding.

Example 1: Classic best man speech  

Introduction: Hello, hello, hello everyone. Is everyone having a good time? My name is [Your Name] and I have the incredible privilege of being [Groom’s Name]’s best man. 

Reflect on your friendship: Now, let’s start by saying, being [Groom’s Name]’s best man is no small honour— it’s huge. I mean, out of all the people he knows, all the people he could have chosen to stand up here and speak… he picked me. Which either means I’m the most qualified, or the least likely to tell his more embarrassing stories. Sorry to disappoint, mate!

[Groom’s Name] and I go way back. We met when we were 5, and from the very beginning, I knew he was someone special. Mainly because he beat me at Mario Kart and never let me forget it. But in all seriousness, growing up together has been one of the greatest gifts of my life.

Stories and anecdotes: When we were about 10, [Groom’s Name] was absolutely convinced he could teach me how to backflip into a pool. Spoiler alert: he could not. But he stuck by me, encouraging me every time I belly-flopped. And that about sums him up— always cheering others on, even when it’s pointless and a little bit reckless.

Acknowledge the happy couple: As we grew older, I watched [Groom’s Name] become the man he is today. He’s a loyal friend, a generous soul, and now, the luckiest guy in the room. Because let’s be real, [Bride’s Name], you are absolutely stunning, intelligent, and everything a man could hope for. The fact that you’ve chosen to marry him is proof that love is blind, but hey, we’ll take it! Joking aside, you two are perfect together. The way you look at each other, take care of each other, and love each other is a genuine inspiration to everyone here today.

Closing and toast: So, everyone— please will you join me in a toast to [Bride’s Name] and [Groom’s Name]. May your love continue to grow, may your adventures together be endless, and may [Groom’s Name] finally learn how to put his boxers in the washing basket. 

To love, laughter, and happily ever after! Cheers!

Example 2: Brother’s best man speech 

Introduction: Good evening, everyone! For those of you who don’t know me, my name is [Your Name], and I have the absolute pleasure of being [Groom’s Name]’s brother. And, as tradition dictates, his best man. Now, when I got the call to take on this prestigious role, I was thrilled. But let’s be honest, I probably would have started World War 3 if I hadn’t got it, so…

Stories and anecdotes: Growing up as [Groom’s Name]’s brother has been an experience, to say the least. He was always the one with the big ideas, the wild plans, and, occasionally, the questionable decisions. I remember when we were kids, [Groom’s Name] convinced me that Mum would be absolutely fine with it if we brought home these two fox cubs we found in the garden. I won’t lie, they were pretty difficult to wrangle. I think we lured them into the house with a bit of ham on some string in the end, but it didn’t take long for Mum to figure out what we were up to. Let’s just say, the foxes had a better chance of staying than we did that evening.

That’s [Groom’s Name] for you—always full of schemes, ideas, and a knack for turning an ordinary day into an unforgettable adventure (or complete chaos, as Mum called it).

Reflect on your friendship: But it wasn’t all mischief and madness. [Groom’s Name] has always had a big heart to match those big ideas. Like the time he spent an entire weekend building me a treehouse because I’d been grounded and couldn’t leave the garden—despite the fact it collapsed the moment I climbed into it. 

He’s the kind of brother who would go to the ends of the Earth for the people he cares about, even if you’re 80% sure he’s the reason you got grounded in the first place.

Acknowledge the happy couple: Now, let’s talk about [Bride’s Name]. From the moment you came into his life, it was like something shifted in him. Suddenly, this guy who used to leave the milk out and wear socks that didn’t match started showing signs of being… responsible. You’ve clearly had quite an effect on him, and for that, I owe you a massive thank you.

Closing and toast: So, as we raise our glasses tonight, let’s toast to [Bride’s Name] and [Groom’s Name]. Here’s to a lifetime of love, health, and adventures—hopefully without any foxes this time. May your lives be filled with joy, your home always be warm, and your ham always stay on the plate, where it belongs.

Example 3: Childhood best man speech 

Introduction: Ladies and gentlemen, boys and girls, and everyone in between—good evening! My name is [Your Name], and I’m so proud to be here today as [Groom’s Name]’s best man. When [Groom’s Name] asked me to take on this role, I was deeply honoured. But more importantly, I knew this was my golden opportunity to share a few of the greatest hits from our childhood. Get ready, this is going to be fun. 

Stories and anecdotes: Growing up with [Groom’s Name] was bonkers. There was always laughter, always chaos, and usually, one of us doing something we definitely shouldn’t have been doing. Take, for example, the time we decided it would be a brilliant idea to turn our bikes into “rocket bikes.” All it took was a couple of fireworks, some duct tape, and absolutely zero adult supervision. 

We were convinced we’d invented something revolutionary—right up until the moment the fireworks went off and [Groom’s Name] ended up in the neighbour’s rose bushes. Two ruined bikes and a lot of TCP later, we learnt a valuable lesson: leave rocket science to NASA. But honestly, that was the magic of growing up with [Groom’s Name]. Life was never boring, and there was always a story to tell—even if it involved a bit of pain and a lot of explaining to Mum.

Reflect on your friendship: But for all the wild plans, [Groom’s Name] has always been the guy who’d do anything for the people he loves. He’s got this knack for turning the smallest moments into adventures and making you feel like you’re part of something special. You really are the life and soul, and I’m grateful for every moment of our wacky childhood. 

Acknowledge the happy couple: But, of course, all good things must come to an end. Well, almost all good things—because one wild chapter of [Groom’s Name]’s life may be wrapping up, but today marks the beginning of an even better one with [Bride’s Name]. Now, I’ll admit, when I first heard about [Bride’s Name], I was a bit sceptical. Not because of her, but because I thought, “Who in their right mind would willingly sign up for [Groom’s Name]’s shenanigans?” But then I met you, [Bride’s Name], and it all made sense.

You’re kind, funny, and you’ve clearly got the patience of a saint. You not only see the best in [Groom’s Name], but somehow, you’ve managed to make him an even better version of himself. Together, you’re the perfect match, and I couldn’t be happier for you both. No one deserves this as much as you. 

Closing and toast: On that note, please charge your glasses to the new Mr and Mrs [Surname]. May your life be filled with love, laughter, and fireworks in all the right places.

Example 4: Twin’s best man speech

Introduction: Good afternoon, everyone. Are you all  having a good time? For those of you who don’t know me, my name is [Your Name], and I’m not only the best man, but the Groom’s twin brother.

Stories and anecdotes: Now, if there’s one thing you need to know about being a twin, it’s that it’s a bond unlike any other. Growing up, [Groom’s Name] and I were inseparable. Not by choice, of course—our parents tethered us together with those silly baby reins and dressed us alike until we were old enough to protest. But even after we finally got to pick our own clothes, we were still a team. We’ve shared everything—birthdays, inside jokes, and more than a few questionable decisions.

It probably goes without saying, but [Groom’s name] and I are completely identical. Right down to the freckles on our arms. I know you know where this is going, but Mum, Dad—we have a few confessions. 

  1. We swapped places for 5 out of 7 secondary school picture days. Even I don’t know who is who in the Year 10 one. 
  2. [Groom’s Name] broke up with my ex for me because I just couldn’t bring myself to do it. I honestly don’t think she noticed. 
  3. I took [Groom’s Name]’s driving test for him. To be fair, he’d failed twice already, and I thought, “How hard could it be?” Apparently, harder than I thought, because I failed too. 

But, that’s twins for you—always in it together, even when it’s a total disaster.

Reflect on your friendship: But beyond the mischief and the laughs, [Groom’s Name], you’ve always been my rock. We’ve shared every milestone, every challenge, and every triumph. You’ve been my best friend, my sounding board, and the one person I know I can count on, no matter what. Being your twin is the greatest privilege of my life, and I wouldn’t swap it for anything.

Acknowledge the happy couple: And then came [Bride’s Name]. I have to admit, when I first heard about you, [Bride’s Name], I wasn’t sure how anyone could handle [Groom’s Name]. But from the moment I met you, I knew you were perfect for him. You balance him out, keep him on track, and I think you might be the only person who can genuinely tell us apart… or so you say. 

You’ve brought out a side of [Groom’s Name] that I’ve never seen before—more thoughtful, more grounded, and, dare I say it, even more in love with life. Together, you’re an unstoppable team, and I couldn’t be happier to welcome you to the family. Though, fair warning: we might still try to rope you into a twin prank or two.

Closing and toast: So, as we raise our glasses, let’s toast to the incredible bond of love, laughter, and partnership. [Bride’s Name], thank you for making my brother the happiest he’s ever been. And [Groom’s Name], here’s to being the best twin, the best friend, and now, the best husband you can be.

Example 5: Nostalgic best man speech 

Introduction: Hi everyone, my name is [Your Name], and I’m lucky enough to be standing here today as [Groom’s Name]’s best man. For those of you who don’t know, [Groom’s Name] and I have been best friends since we were just a couple of kids running around in nursery, with scraped knees, a pocket full of Matchbox cars, and far too much energy.

Reflect on your friendship: Looking back, it’s hard to pinpoint the exact moment we became inseparable. Maybe it was the time we teamed up to build the tallest Lego tower the classroom had ever seen… until someone “accidentally” knocked it over (we never liked that girl). Or maybe it was when we discovered a mutual love for hiding from the teachers during nap time, convinced we were rebels. Whatever it was, it started something that’s lasted a lifetime.

Stories and anecdotes: Growing up together meant sharing all the milestones—big and small. I’ll never forget the time we started our first “business” selling conkers to other kids in the playground. We thought we were entrepreneurs, until the headteacher shut us down for “causing a distraction.” We re-grouped, obviously, and started swelling sweets at break time… but I’m pretty sure that’s what got us in internal exclusion, wasn’t it? Sorry if you didn’t know that, [Groom’s Mum’s Name]. We’re all learning things today.

But, the friendship was a lot more than being told off. In fact, [Groom’s Name] was the most sensitive friend I had. He’s the one I knew I could count on, even when things seemed hopeless. Like the time I lost my first football match and was inconsolable. [Groom’s Name] sat with me, telling me stories and insisting that I’d be the next Beckham—even though we both knew I couldn’t score a goal to save my life.

He’s the sort of person who makes you feel like you can do anything, who’s there when you need them most, and who can make you laugh even when you feel like crying. It’s no wonder that he’s found someone as incredible as [Bride’s Name] to share his life with.

Acknowledge the happy couple: [Bride’s Name], from the moment I met you, I knew you were something special. Not because of any big gesture or because you were clearly far too good for him, but because of the way you looked at [Groom’s Name]. It was as if you already saw the best parts of him—the kindness, the loyalty, the big heart that I’ve been lucky enough to know my whole life. You’re everything he could have hoped for and more, and I’m so proud of you both.

Closing and toast: So, as we raise our glasses, I’d like to toast to friendship, to love, and to the memories that shape who we are. [Bride’s Name], thank you for making my oldest friend happier than I’ve ever seen him. And [Groom’s Name], thank you for being the brother I chose all those years ago in nursery. To [Groom’s Name] and [Bride’s Name]!

Example 6: Uni days best man speech 

Introduction: Hi everyone, isn’t this an amazing day? For those of you I haven’t met yet, my name is [Your Name], and I have the immense privilege of being [Groom’s Name]’s best man. [Groom’s Name] is undoubtedly the closest thing I have to a brother, so I couldn’t be more thrilled to stand here today and celebrate this incredible moment with him and [Bride’s Name]. 

Reflect on your friendship: Now, [Groom’s Name] and I go way back, but some of my fondest memories are from our university days. Life was never dull with him around. Like the time he decided we should pull an all-nighter to prepare for exams—by which I mean playing FIFA until sunrise and deciding caffeine would somehow help us “absorb and process” information. Did we re-sit that one once… or was it twice? Twice for you, definitely. 

Acknowledge the happy couple: Something you might not know is that I played a small part in introducing [Groom’s Name] to [Bride’s Name]. I say “small,” but it was more like divine intervention. Picture this: a university party, a bit too much liquid courage on both sides, and me, ever the wingman, awkwardly blurting out to [Bride’s Name], “You have to meet my mate, [Groom’s Name]. He’s not bad looking once you’ve had a drink.”

Anyway, we turn around, and he’s casually vomiting into the mop bucket. Not his finest hour. But, somehow, [Bride’s Name] saw past that, and they went for a drink the following week. The rest, as they say, is history. 

Stories and anecdotes: From there, things only got better—well, mostly. [Groom’s Name] managed to charm [Bride’s Name] with his unique brand of humour, his questionable dance moves, and his uncanny ability to somehow always lose his wallet when it’s his turn to buy drinks. 

We went from being a dynamic duo—Nottingham’s answer to Ant and Dec—to [Bride’s Name] joining the team and upgrading us to a proper trio. And let’s be honest, it’s been all the better for it. [Bride’s Name] brought a touch of class, a lot of patience, and, most importantly, someone who could finally keep [Groom’s Name] in check—because goodness knows, I couldn’t do it on my own!

Closing and toast: So, as we raise our glasses, let’s toast to the real dynamic duo—[Bride’s Name] and [Groom’s Name]. Here’s to a lifetime of adventures, of laughter, and of teamwork. [Bride’s Name], thank you for making my best mate the happiest man in the room. And [Groom’s Name], thank you for proving that even mop bucket moments can lead to something extraordinary. Here’s to your next chapter. Down in one?!

Example 7: Epic bromance best man speech 

Introduction: Well, well, well… where do I begin? What a day this has been already. For those of you who don’t know me, I’m [Your Name], and I’ve had the honour of being [Groom’s Name]’s partner in crime, wingman, and, dare I say it, his second greatest love—after [Bride’s Name], of course. 

Stories and anecdotes: I never had a brother, but if I had, I can only hope that he’d have been as brilliant—and as ridiculously infuriating—as [Groom’s Name]. Over the years, we’ve shared everything: laughter, bad decisions, and more than a few late-night kebabs that were definitely a mistake the next morning.

Reflect on your friendship: One of my favourite memories has to be the time we went camping and decided to “live off the land.” For us, this involved trying to forage for berries, getting an upset tummy from drinking dirty lake water, and then calling for a pizza to be delivered directly to the tent. Until you’ve used ‘what3words’ to guide a spotty 17-year-old to your very questionable pop-up tent, you haven’t truly experienced the height of outdoor survival, in my opinion. Bear Grylls doesn’t know what he’s talking about. 

And let’s not forget the infamous karaoke night when [Groom’s Name] serenaded the entire pub with his rendition of “Wonderwall.” It was both the worst and best performance I’ve ever seen, and somehow, he convinced the audience to join in. That’s just who he is—charming, unstoppable, and, at times, completely ridiculous. Incidentally, that’s the night he told me he’d met [Bride’s Name].

Acknowledge the happy couple: Now, when I first met her, I knew immediately that things were about to change. [Groom’s Name] had met his match—someone who could keep up with his energy, laugh at his jokes (most of them, anyway), and somehow manage to make him a better version of himself. It wasn’t long before I realised that this wasn’t just a passing romance—this was it.

[Bride’s Name], you’ve not only brought out the best in [Groom’s Name], but you’ve also joined the bromance in the most brilliant way. You’ve made space for our nonsense, even encouraged it at times, and for that, I’m forever grateful. It’s clear to everyone here today that you’re not just his partner—you’re his perfect teammate. I graciously and wholeheartedly pass the torch to you. 

Closing and toast: So, as we raise our glasses, let’s toast to the ultimate partnership. To Mr and Mrs [Surname]. Wishing you the world and more—you deserve it.

Example 8: Ride or die best man speech 

Introduction: Go easy on me, everyone. I’m not usually one for speeches. For those of you who don’t know me, my name is [Your Name] and I’m [Groom’s Name]’s day one best mate. Our Mums made friends in the hospital because they both had nightmare, awkward babies. Paints a picture, doesn’t it? Anyway, fast forward a few years, and those two awkward babies became inseparable partners-in-crime.

Reflect on your friendship: [Groom’s Name] was the worst influence, and yet the best friend anyone could ask for. Growing up, if there was trouble to be found, you could bet [Groom’s Name] was leading the charge—with me not far behind, trying to talk him out of it (unsuccessfully, I might add). But the thing about [Groom’s Name] is that no matter how chaotic the situation, he could always get you out of it. He had that gift of the gab, you know? I think the kids now call it ‘rizz’.

Acknowledge the happy couple: I’m pretty sure that’s how he landed [Bride’s Name], in fact. Did you know that this happy couple met at a party where [Groom’s Name] confidently told [Bride’s Name] that he could beat anyone in the room at darts? Now, the problem here was that [Groom’s Name] is absolutely terrible at darts—like, “can’t hit the board to save his life” terrible. But somehow, through sheer charm (and maybe a little strategic sabotage), he managed to turn a humiliating loss into a date with [Bride’s Name].

I want lessons in how you navigated that, by the way, because I think we can all agree—[Bride’s Name] is completely out of his league. What a stunner, and the most beautiful bride we’ve ever seen. But in all seriousness, [Bride’s Name], you’re not just stunning—you’re smart, kind, and, let’s face it, a bit of a miracle worker. You’ve managed to keep [Groom’s Name] grounded, organised, and—most impressively—you’ve got him turning up on time to things. That’s nothing short of magic.

Watching you two together is like watching the perfect double act. [Groom’s Name] brings the chaos, and [Bride’s Name], you bring the calm. Together, you balance each other out in the most brilliant way, and it’s clear to everyone in this room that you’re a team built to last.

Closing and toast: Ladies and gentlemen, boys and girls, please raise a glass to the newly minted Mr and Mrs. [Surname]. May your life be filled with love, laughter, and genuine friendship. To Mr and Mrs. [Surname]!

Example 9: Funny best man speech

Introduction: Hello everyone. [Your Name] here, ready to deliver a blinding best man speech. Let’s get the formalities out of the way—I told [Groom’s Name] I wouldn’t sit down until everyone had had a laugh, so you may as well humour me now. [Pause for polite chuckles.] Lovely, thank you!

Stories and anecdotes: I’ve known [Groom’s Name] for 17 years, can you believe it? And in that time, he’s provided me with endless material for this speech. Honestly, I could stand here all night. But let’s keep it clean and simple, shall we? Take, for example, the time he decided he could teach himself to cook during university. One pan, 9 ingredients, no salt, and a smoke alarm later, I was seriously considering calling the fire brigade. And let’s not even get started on his “spaghetti nuggets.”

Equally, there was the time he decided he could master DIY after watching a couple of YouTube videos. Armed with an IKEA flat-pack shelf and far too much confidence, [Groom’s Name] managed to build something that looked like it belonged in the Tate Modern. Impressive, right? Wrong. It was meant to be a Billy Bookcase.

Reflect on your friendship: But that’s the thing about [Groom’s Name]. Even when his plans go sideways—and they often do—he somehow manages to turn it into a laugh. Whether it’s his dodgy karaoke performances, his insistence that he can beat anyone at pool (he can’t), or his legendary “one more pint” philosophy that has led us to some questionable situations, life with him is never boring.

Acknowledge the happy couple: And then along came [Bride’s Name]. Now, I’ll admit, I wasn’t sure how she’d fit into this whirlwind of chaos. But it turns out that she wasn’t just up for the challenge—she embraced it. [Bride’s Name], you’ve brought a whole new dimension to [Groom’s Name]’s life. You’ve somehow managed to make him more organised, more thoughtful, and—dare I say it—almost respectable.

But what’s even more impressive is that you haven’t tried to change him. You love him for exactly who he is—dodgy cooking, wonky shelves, and all. Together, you’ve become the ultimate duo, with [Bride’s Name] providing the calm and the cleverness, and [Groom’s Name] providing… let’s call it the “creative flair.”

Closing and toast: So, let’s raise a glass to [Bride’s Name] and [Groom’s Name], the perfect team. [Bride’s Name], thank you for making [Groom’s Name] the happiest bloke in the room and for laughing along with all of his antics. And [Groom’s Name], thank you for being the walking punchline we all know and love.

Here’s to a marriage full of love, laughter, and maybe a few more dodgy DIY projects along the way. To [Bride’s Name] and [Groom’s Name]—cheers!

Example 10: Supportive best man speech 

Introduction: Well here we are. The big day has finally arrived, and I hope you’re all enjoying yourselves (I certainly am)! For those of you I haven’t met yet, my name is [Your Name] and I have the honour of being [Groom’s Name]’s best man. 

Reflect on your friendship: Now, as best man, my job is to stand up here and tell you all about [Groom’s Name]. And trust me, there’s a lot to tell. We’ve been through thick and thin together—he’s my partner in crime, my go-to for a laugh, and, I’d never say this to his face, but a bit of a legend. 

I’ve known [Groom’s Name] for over 15 years, and over that time, he’s proven himself to be one of the most loyal, supportive, and downright entertaining people I’ve ever met. If you’re in need of a helping hand, [Groom’s Name] is your guy. Just don’t ask him for directions—because if our road trips are anything to go by, you’ll end up completely lost (but somehow still having the best time of your life…

Stories and anecdotes: And speaking of adventures, one of my favourite memories has to be the time he decided we should train for a marathon. Now, this was coming from a man whose idea of “training” was walking to the fridge and back. Needless to say, it didn’t end well. Two runs in, he declared we’d earned a “cheat week,” which somehow lasted six months. But that’s [Groom’s Name] for you—big plans, endless enthusiasm, and an uncanny ability to turn even the most mundane moments into something unforgettable.

Acknowledge the happy couple: And then along came [Bride’s Name]. Now, I’ll admit, when I first met her, I thought, “She’s far too clever to fall for [Groom’s Name].” But somehow, he managed it. And honestly, it’s not hard to see why. [Bride’s Name], you’ve brought out a side of [Groom’s Name] that I didn’t know existed—one that’s more thoughtful, more focused, and even a little bit grown-up.

But what’s even more amazing is how well you complement each other. Together, you’ve created a partnership that’s full of laughter, love, and just the right amount of chaos. [Bride’s Name], you’ve joined our little team and made it so much better.

Closing and toast: Ladies and gentlemen—as the final point of my speech, I’ll ask you to join me in a toast. To love, laughter, and being legally bound to your best mate for life. Look after each other…

Example 11: Short and sweet best man speech 

Introduction: Hey everyone. My name is [Your Name], and I have the incredible privilege of being [Groom’s Name]’s best man. I’m not one for speeches, and to be honest, I’ve been pretty nervous about making this. But, when your best mate asks you to stand up and say a few words on the biggest day of his life, you don’t say no, do you? So here we are. I’ll keep it short, I promise, because we all know the real highlight is the free bar.

Reflect on your friendship: I’ve known [Groom’s Name] for 9 years, and in that time, we’ve been through it all—dodgy haircuts, questionable life decisions, and more than a few first dates.

Some of those dates, I’m happy to report, were so bad they’re still a running joke between us. But then, thankfully, along came [Bride’s Name], and suddenly, the joke was on me—because for the first time, [Groom’s Name] was dating someone who actually made sense.

Acknowledge the happy couple: When I first met [Bride’s Name], my immediate thought was, “She’s way too good for him.” And, let’s face it, I was right. But somehow, he managed to charm her with his dad jokes, nerdy hobbies, and relentless optimism. It’s clear to everyone here that they’re a perfect match.

[Bride’s Name], you’ve done what I genuinely thought was impossible: you’ve made [Groom’s Name] a better man. He’s more thoughtful, more organised—sort of—and let’s not forget, more punctual. But most importantly, you make him happy, in a way I’ve never seen before. And honestly, that’s all any of us could ever ask for.

Closing and toast: [Bride’s Name], thank you for putting up with him, and [Groom’s Name], thank you for being the best mate I could have asked for. Here’s to the happy couple—cheers!

Example 12: Best man speech for a bride 

Introduction: I’m going to try and get through this without crying, but I’m not promising anything. Ladies and gentlemen, my name is [Your Name], and I have the absolute honour of being the Bride’s best man! I know I know—quirky. But our [Bride’s Name] has never been one to follow tradition.

Reflect on your friendship: And honestly, that’s one of the many things I love about her. [Bride’s Name] has always been unapologetically herself—bold, kind, and completely impossible to ignore (not that you’d ever want to). When she asked me to be her best man, I was floored. And not just because I now had to write a speech—but because it reminded me of how lucky I am to have her in my life.

I’ve known [Bride’s Name] for 22 years, and let me tell you, she’s the kind of person who changes your life just by being in it. From the moment we met, she made me feel seen, understood, and accepted in a way that few people ever have. She’s been my biggest cheerleader, my shoulder to cry on, and the first person to tell me when I’m being completely ridiculous (which is always).

Acknowledge the happy couple: And then along came [Groom’s Name]. Now, I’ll admit, I was very protective when I first met him. After all, [Bride’s Name] isn’t just my best friend—she’s family. But within minutes, it was clear he was something special. The way he looked at her, the way he listened to her, and the way he made her laugh—it was obvious that this wasn’t just some fling. This was the real deal.

[Groom’s Name], you’ve not only made [Bride’s Name] happier than I’ve ever seen her, but you’ve also been the person she deserves—kind, supportive, and absolutely smitten with her. And honestly, it’s been such a joy watching the two of you build a life together, full of love, laughter, and far too many shared snacks that you both pretend don’t count.

Closing and toast: So, as we raise our glasses, let’s toast to two of the best people I know. [Bride’s Name], thank you for being the friend and sister I never knew I needed. And [Groom’s Name], thank you for loving her the way she deserves—and for letting me keep her as my partner in crime, even if I have to share her now. To Mr and Mrs. [Surname]!

The bottom line on the best man speech

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The best man speech is the perfect opportunity to share stories of your adventures, honour the groom on his big day, and celebrate the newlyweds’ love. 

To write a killer speech, throw in a few (respectful) jokes, compliment the groom’s partner, and keep an upbeat pace. These tips will help you strike a balance between comedy and sincerity and ensure that you leave a lasting impression on their wedding day. 

Leave plenty of time to write your speech and look up plenty of best man speech examples. Whether you’re the groom’s brother, friend, or new brother-in-law, these top 12 best man speech examples are sure to inspire your writing.

If you’re still feeling stuck, sign up to Bridebook for some top tips, tricks, and inspiration for writing a brilliant Best Man’s speech. Best of luck! 

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Top 12 Father of the Bride Speech Examples

The father of the bride’s speech is the top Daddy duty on your little girl’s big day. It’s a much-anticipated, heartfelt, and tear-jerking speech filled with joy and bittersweet nostalgia.

But writing a great father of the bride speech can be tricky. How do you strike the right balance between wit and sentimentality? How do you keep your audience engaged after a long wedding service? How do you properly capture your love, pride, and hope for their future in one 5-7 minute speech? Don’t stress. We’ve got you covered.

In this post, we’ve captured everything you need to know about writing a heartfelt and funny wedding speech. We break down what you should include, the structure of the wedding speech, a few top tips, and those 12 all-important examples of brilliant father of the bride speeches.

Ready to get going? Let’s jump right in!

What is a father of the bride speech?

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A father of the bride speech is the speech made by the bride’s father during the wedding reception. It should be 5-7 minutes long and end with a heartfelt toast to the new couple.

The father’s wedding speech is a beautiful mix of happy memories, heartfelt advice, and funny anecdotes about the bride. Typically the father of the bride speech welcomes your new son-or daughter-in-law to the family, is an opportunity for a father to reflect on his relationship with his daughter, and offers some words of wisdom to the happy couple as they start this new journey together.

What should you include in a father of the bride speech?

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Here are some key elements you should consider including in your father of the bride speech:

  • All about the bride. Talk about how wonderful your daughter is. Tell her guests about your love for her, her amazing accomplishments, and fabulous qualities. Be sure to let them know she got it all from you!
  • Welcome the bride’s partner. This is the perfect opportunity to welcome your new son- or daughter-in-law to the family. Share positive thoughts about them, their character, and your hopes for their future together.
  • Anecdotes and memories. Remember when your daughter came home a little too merry from her first grown-up party? Or the time she went on holiday and didn’t take any knickers? This is the perfect opportunity to share funny, endearing, or slightly embarrassing memories with your daughter. But remember, the point isn’t to make a joke of her on her special day. Any stories you pick should ultimately highlight the special bond you share.
  • Some pearls of wisdom and advice. Offer some sage words of wisdom to the newlyweds. Draw from your life experience and share insights about love, marriage, and building a strong, lasting relationship.

Father of the bride speech structure

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When structuring your father of the bride speech, following a clear and organised framework can be helpful. Try using this structure to get you started:

Introduction

The first part of your speech should focus on introducing yourself and thanking everyone for attending. Your role is to ensure that everyone feels welcome and appreciated at the reception.

Take a moment to acknowledge and express gratitude to those who have travelled to attend and those who have supported the wedding, whether morally or financially.

The thank yous

You should then move on to thank those who have helped organise the wedding. Give a shout-out to the bridesmaids, the ushers, and other friends and family who have been involved.

It’s also a nice idea to thank the wedding planner (if they used one) and the staff working on the wedding day. They’re as much a part of making the big day happen as everyone else.

This is also a good opportunity to remember any family members who could not attend or are no longer with you. Keep it upbeat, but it’s a nice way to remember those you’ve lost who were a big part of your daughter’s upbringing.

The bride

Now is the time to discuss your special relationship with your daughter. It’s the perfect chance to talk about her childhood, accomplishments, and the little quirks that make her so special. Share any funny stories or special adventures you’ve shared. These anecdotes will add a touch of nostalgia and humor to your speech, creating a heartfelt connection with the audience.

End this portion of the speech with how proud you are of the person she’s become. Talk about her loving relationship with her new partner, and don’t forget to sprinkle in a genuine compliment about how stunning she looks on her wedding day – a moment that will surely make her smile even brighter.

The happy couple

You should then welcome your new son- or daughter-in-law and their parents to your family.

It’s a great time to talk about the groom and your experiences with them. You can reminisce about the first time you met, share funny moments you’ve shared together, or highlight some of their endearing traits. By including the groom in your speech, you’re showing your support and building a bridge of connection between families.

Some words of wisdom

You should then move on to sharing some pearls of wisdom with the newlyweds.

You can draw from your experiences and the lessons you’ve learned along the way. You can talk about love, commitment, their future, and building a strong family.

If it’s more appropriate, some carefully chosen quotes about love and marriage or a nice reading are also great options. Remember to deliver your words with clarity and calmness, whatever path you choose. This is the penultimate part of your speech; you want to round it off well.

The toast

You should then invite everyone to join you in a toast to the happy couple. Raise your glass, and present the couple with their new shared name. Congratulations, you did it!

Father of the bride speech template

To help you navigate the complete breakdown of your speech, it can be helpful to have a visual guide to refer to. Check out our handy infographic below:

Father of the Bride Speech Template
Use this father of the bride speech template to guide your writing

Top tips for delivering a brilliant father of the bride speech  

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  1. Know where you fit into the overall wedding speech order. The father of the bride traditionally gives the first speech at the wedding reception. That means you go before the groom’s speech and are the first family member to address the guest. How you deliver your speech will set the tone for the rest of the reception, so keep it upbeat, funny, and light-hearted.
  2. Don’t panic! Pre-speech jitters are natural. But remember, this is one of the best audiences you could be put in front of. Everyone there knows your daughter or her new partner, and everyone is there to celebrate and have a good time. Embrace the excitement and joy of the moment, and let that energy carry you through your speech.
  3. Let your own personality shine through. This is a unique opportunity to connect with the audience on a personal level using charm and wit. Inject your speech with your personal touch, sharing heartfelt stories, cherished memories, and insights only you can provide. Embrace your authentic self and let your love for your daughter be the guiding light in your words.
  4. Include a few jokes. Humor can lighten the mood, enhance feelings of joy, and engage the audience. Keep the jokes tasteful and relevant to the occasion. Share some light-hearted anecdotes or playful teasing about the bride or groom, keeping it in good spirits. It’s about making the audience smile and creating connections on this special day.

Top 12 father of the bride speech examples

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If you’re looking for some inspiration, check out our top 12 examples of great father of the bride speech ideas, from the simple and sentimental to the light-hearted and humorous. And remember that these are just examples. You can use them as templates for your own speech, but it’s important to speak from the heart, and add your own personal touch and unique family anecdotes.

A lot of traditional father of the bride speeches and examples will refer to a bride and groom, but you can simply change the references to your daughter’s partner and the appropriate pronouns if you’re attending an LGBTQ+ wedding.

Example 1: Classic father of the bride speech  

Introduction: Good afternoon, friends, family, and neighbours. I’m delighted to be here today at the wedding of my beautiful little girl, [Bride’s name]. 

The bride: I don’t need to tell any of you here just how special [Bride’s name] is. If you’re here, you already know. [Bride’s name] is just incredible. She has this magical way of lighting up a room, not just with her smile, but with her warmth, her humour, and that little spark of mischief that’s been keeping me on my toes since she was a kid. She’s so different to her brothers, full of crazy ideas and spirit. But, equally, she’s someone who’s always cared deeply about the people in her life, who’s never been afraid to chase her dreams, and who has this unstoppable determination to make the world a little brighter wherever she goes. 

I couldn’t be prouder to be here today in front of you all today, watching my little girl start this incredible new chapter of her life. Seeing her so happy, so confident, and so deeply loved— it’s every parent’s dream come true. 

The happy couple: I’d also like to speak to [Groom’s name]. From the moment you came into [Bride’s name]’s life, it was clear you were something special. You didn’t just love her, you understood her. You’ve brought out the best in her, supporting her in everything she does with your steadfast reassurance. You’re kind, patient, and with just enough wit to keep up with her, which is no simple feat. Genuinely, welcome to our family. I wouldn’t want anyone else.  

The thank yous: That ended up being a lot more emotional than I expected it to be! But, I mean every word from the bottom of my heart. 

Speaking of the bottom of my heart, I want to say a huge thank you to everyone who’s made today so special. To all the friends and family who’ve travelled to be here. It means the world to us to celebrate this incredible day with you. Weddings aren’t just about two people; they’re about the love and support of everyone around them, and looking out at all of you, it’s clear that [Bride’s name] and [Groom’s name] have a pretty amazing team in their corner.

Some words of wisdom: As the final point, I’ll tell you what my father told me on my wedding day: Marriage isn’t about big grand gestures, it’s about the small actions you take every day that make their life a little bit brighter. It’s about making them a cup of tea without being asked, sharing a laugh after a long day, and never forgetting to say “I love you”.

The toast: With that in mind, please raise your glasses to the newly minted Mr & Mrs [Surname].

Example 2: Light-hearted father of the bride speech 

Introduction: Hello, hello, hello everyone. Friends, family, strangers who’ve wandered in off the street. My name is [your name], and I’m the very proud father of the bride. Now, I say ‘proud,’ but let’s not forget ‘bewildered,’ because how exactly did we get here so fast? It feels like just yesterday that [Bride’s name] was running around in a tutu, insisting she could be a princess, a superhero, and a rock star all at once. Honestly, she kind of pulled it off…

The thank yous: Before we get going I’d like to say a few thank-yous. First, to all of you for being here today—whether you’ve come from near or far, or just turned up for the free food and wine, it means the world to us that you’re here to celebrate [Bride’s name] and [Groom’s name].

I’d also like to thank everyone who’s worked so hard to make today so special. From the beautiful decorations to the incredible food, everything has been perfect. Sincerely, thank you so much. 

The bride: Now, onto the star of the show. [Bride’s name], what can I say? You’re every father’s dream come true. Funny, clever, beautiful, and a dab hand at an oil change. You’ve always been full of surprises—whether it was your ability to beat your brothers at just about anything, or that phase where you insisted you were going to be a pirate and made us all call you Captain [Bride’s name] for a month. And honestly, seeing you today, so radiant and happy, I can’t help but think, “Yep, she’s still my little superstar.”

The happy couple: [Groom’s name], I know we like to have a joke together, but in all seriousness, I’m just as proud of you as I am of [Bride’s name]. From the moment you came into our family, I knew there couldn’t be anyone else for her. You’re the perfect balance to her crazy energy, and you’ve got a knack for keeping her grounded while still letting her shine. You respect her, you support her, and—most importantly—you know how to handle her competitive streak. Honestly, anyone who can survive a family game night with [Bride’s name] and still come back for more deserves a medal.

Some words of wisdom: And if I could just share a couple of pieces of advice for you both as you embark on this wonderful journey called marriage, here they are. Be each other’s rocks, the other person’s biggest cheerleader. Stand behind them when they need it, and hold their head up when they can’t. Oh, and never underestimate the importance of an spontaneous bunch of flowers. 

The toast: Everyone, please charge your glasses to the new, wonderful Mr and Mrs [Surname].

Example 3: Sentimental father of the bride speech 

Introduction: Hi everyone, thank you so much for coming. For those of you who don’t know me, my name is [your name] and I’m the very proud father of the bride. 

The thank yous: We’ll get the thanks yous out of the way before we all start crying (myself included). First, a huge thank you to everyone who’s travelled to be here today. Whether you came from just down the road or crossed oceans to join us, your presence means the world. This day wouldn’t be the same without each and every one of you. I’d also like to thank everyone who pulled together to make the day so special. From the food to the flowers and everything in between, the day wouldn’t have been possible without all your efforts. Thank you.

The bride: Parents spend a lot of time wondering what this day will be like. Who will they end up with, how will it all unfold, and what will I say when the time comes? Well, let me tell you, [Bride’s name], you’ve turned into someone more wonderful than I could have ever dreamed. I couldn’t be prouder of the person you’ve become. You’ve grown into someone who’s not only beautiful on the outside, but also kind, compassionate, and endlessly capable. Watching you navigate life with such grace and humour has been one of my greatest joys as a parent.

The happy couple: Now, let me talk about [Groom’s name]. From the first time we met, I could see what made you so special. You’re thoughtful, genuine, and you’ve got this steady calm about you that balances [Bride’s name] perfectly. You don’t just fit into our family—you’ve added to it in ways we didn’t even know we needed. It’s clear to everyone here that you adore [Bride’s name], and as her parent, I honestly couldn’t ask for more.

Some words of wisdom: I couldn’t be happier for you both. You’re starting this incredible journey together, and if there’s one thing I could share with you about marriage, it’s that the little things are what truly matter. It’s not the big gestures or the grand milestones. Although those are lovely, it’s the small, everyday acts of love and kindness that build a life together. The shared laughs, the quiet moments, and even the compromises about whose turn it is to take out the bins. Embrace every little moment. It’s an incredible journey. 

The toast: On that note… if you could all please raise your glasses to the couple of the decade, Mr and Mrs. [Surname]. 

Example 4: Quirky father of the bride speech 

Introduction: Welcome one, welcome all to the happiest day of [Bride’s name]’s life. My name is [your name] and I’m the very proud father of the bride. 

The bride: When I think back to watching my beautiful little girl grow up, I can’t help but smile at the sheer whirlwind of personality she brought into our lives. [Bride’s name] was never one to do things by halves. Whether it was her brief yet passionate career as a magician (apologies to the neighbour’s cat for that one) or her insistence that she could set up a lemonade stand and manage the family finances at the age of seven, she’s always been determined, creative, and just a little bit chaotic—in the best way possible. As a teenager, of course, she had a knack for keeping us on our toes. From her “unique” fashion phases (I still have no idea how neon zebra print became a thing in our house) to the time she decided she’d become a world-class ukulele player overnight, life with [Bride’s name] has been anything but boring. And honestly? I wouldn’t change a single second of it.

Today, seeing her standing here, all grown up and radiant, I can’t help but think she’s still that same adventurous, passionate soul—just with better taste in shoes. [Bride’s name], you’ve turned into the kind of person any parent would be proud to call their daughter: kind, funny, and with a heart as big as your ambition.

The happy couple: And then there’s [Groom’s name]. The first time I met him, I thought, “He seems normal enough… let’s see how long that lasts.” Turns out, it wasn’t an act—[Groom’s name] truly is as genuine and good-hearted as he seemed.

What I quickly realised is that [Groom’s name] not only loves [Bride’s name], but he also gets her. He understands her quirks, supports her dreams, and even seems to enjoy her impromptu ukulele serenades. He’s braver than most, I’ll give you that. You’ve become an integral part of our family, [Groom’s name], and for that, we’re truly grateful. Just one piece of advice: always double-check what she’s ordering online after midnight. Trust me on this.

Some words of wisdom: In all seriousness, my main advice would be that marriage is about being a team. It’s not just about love, though that’s a big part of it. It’s about partnership, patience, and biting your tongue when someone insists they definitely know how to assemble IKEA furniture without the instructions. It’s about finding joy in the little things like laughing at the same old jokes or getting their favourite biscuits in without asking. You’ll find your rhythm, I know you will.

The thank yous: As a final point from me, I’d like to extend a sincere thank you to everyone who made this day possible. To my wife, who graciously returned my cheque book to me, to the wedding planner, who managed to coordinate this beautiful chaos with the precision of a Swiss watch, and to everyone who played a part in making today so special. Genuinely, thank you. 

The toast: So, let’s wrap this up before I get too sentimental—or worse, attempt to tell a dad joke. Here’s to [Bride’s name] and [Groom’s name]: may your life together be full of laughter, love, and plenty of biscuits. Cheers!

Example 5: Poetic father of the bride speech 

Introduction: Ladies and gentlemen, allow me to introduce myself as the very proud father of [Bride’s name]. As I stand before you today, I find myself filled with a mix of emotions: pride, joy, a touch of nostalgia, and perhaps just a little disbelief at how quickly time has flown. It feels like only yesterday [Bride’s name] was my little girl, with wide eyes and big dreams, and now here she is, beautiful, radiant, and beginning the most wonderful chapter of her life. 

The bride: [Bride’s name], from the moment you came into my life, you brought a light that I never knew I was missing. Watching you grow has been one of my greatest privileges. Every laugh, every challenge, every triumph has been a gift. You’ve always been a dreamer, a doer, and someone who leaves the world a little better just by being in it. I couldn’t have been prouder today to give you away to [Groom’s name], who I know will steer you steady through the course of life. 

The happy couple: And then there’s [Groom’s name]. The first time I met him, I’ll admit, I had my questions (a father’s prerogative, after all). But it didn’t take long for me to see the depth of his character and the sincerity of his love for [Bride’s name]. He reminded me of the words of Jane Austen: “There is no charm equal to tenderness of heart.” [Groom’s name], you’ve shown us all your tender heart—not just in how you love [Bride’s name] but in how you’ve embraced our family. Truly, we are blessed to have you. 

The thank yous: Thank you to everyone who made this day so special. Your presence, presents, and kindness have not gone unnoticed.

Some words of wisdom: I wish you the very best on your journey through life together. Today I am blessed to be able to share my wisdom with you, and this is: Marriage is a delicate balance of independence and togetherness. Remember, communicate openly, forgive freely, a little space is no bad thing, and never lose sight of the friendship that brought you together in the first place. 

The toast: Ladies, gentlemen, and non-binary friends, please raise your glasses to the new Mr. and Mrs. [Surname].

Example 6: Thoughtful father of the bride speech 

Introduction: Friends, family, esteemed guests… Welcome, to the wonderful wedding of [Bride’s name], my little girl, and [Groom’s name]. I cannot tell you how proud I am to be here today, representing my wonderful daughter on the happiest day of her life. 

The thank yous: We’ll get the thank yous out of the way before I lose the ability to speak, no doubt. First off, thank you to everyone who’s made the effort to be here today. Whether you’ve travelled miles or just popped over from down the road, your presence means everything to us. This day wouldn’t be the same without the love and laughter you’ve all brought into this room.

A special thank you to everyone who’s worked so hard behind the scenes to make today so beautiful—the flowers, the food, the music—it’s all been perfect, hasn’t it? And a big thank you to [Groom’s name]’s family for welcoming [Bride’s name] into your hearts. Knowing she’s joining such a kind and supportive family makes this day even more special.

The bride: Now, let’s talk about [Bride’s name]. Where do I even begin? From the moment she came into my life, she turned my world upside down in the best possible way. She’s always been a little spark of joy, full of energy, mischief, and, let’s be honest, more than a few strong opinions. Growing up, she kept me on my toes—from her wild ideas about turning the garden shed into a “pet sanctuary” to her unwavering belief that glitter made everything better (and our carpets still haven’t recovered). But through it all, she’s shown a kindness and determination that I’ve always admired.

[Bride’s name], seeing you today, all grown up and glowing with happiness, I can’t help but feel a little emotional. You’ve become such an incredible person—strong, compassionate, and with a laugh that lights up the room. You’ve always been my little girl, but today, I’m handing you over to someone who I know will cherish and support you as much as I do.

The happy couple: [Groom’s name], let me just say, you’ve set the bar pretty high. The first time I met you, I could tell you were someone special. You weren’t just polite and charming; you had this calm confidence about you that told me you were here for the long haul. It’s been clear from the start how much you love [Bride’s name], but what’s even more important to me is how you understand her. You get her quirks, her passions, and her occasional stubborn streak (good luck with that, by the way). In all seriousness, I couldn’t wish for a better son-in-law, so thank you. 

Some words of wisdom: If I can offer you one piece of advice, it’s this: don’t sweat the small stuff. Marriage isn’t about perfection—it’s about showing up every day for each other, even when life gets messy. Be each other’s biggest supporters, keep laughing together, and don’t let anyone or anything come between you. You’re an unshakeable team, and I know you’ll do just fine. 

The toast: Ladies and gentlemen, please raise your glasses to the health, wealth, and happiness of the new Mr and Mrs. [Surname].

Example 7: Personal father of the bride speech 

Introduction: Well… what a day this has already been. Can you believe we’re here? Because I certainly can’t. Where has my little girl gone? My little girl who used to run around the house with mismatched socks and a million questions… I can’t help but reflect on how we got to this moment. 

The thank yous: Before we get going, I’d like to say a huge thank you to everyone who made this day possible. From the bar staff to the priest and everyone in between, this day has been truly magical. Fit for a princess, truly. 

The bride: Now, my [Bride’s name]. My little girl. You’ve grown into the most incredible woman—kind, smart, and strong—and yet, in my eyes, you’ll always be that little whirlwind of energy, full of curiosity and laughter. Watching you today, glowing, looking so happy, it’s hard not to feel a lump in my throat (and not just because of the speech nerves, I promise!). 

You’ve taken every stage of your life in your stride, and today is no different. Seeing the love between you and [Groom’s name], it’s clear you’ve met your match. He makes your eyes sparkle and your laugh just a little louder. That’s all a dad could ever want for his daughter, to find someone who treasures her as much as we do.

The happy couple: To [Groom’s name], welcome to the family, mate. You’ve passed the ultimate test: her mother likes you. But truly, you’ve not only won her heart but ours as well. Seeing how happy you make her—it’s all we’ve ever wanted for her. As I stand here looking at you both, I can see the perfect balance you bring to each other. [Bride’s name], you’ve found someone who loves and respects you for the amazing person you are, and [Groom’s name], you’ve got yourself a partner who will stand by your side no matter what life throws at you. Together, you’re a force to be reckoned with, and I have no doubt that the future holds incredible things for you both.

Some words of wisdom: It won’t always be smooth sailing, of course. Marriage isn’t. But if you keep steering your ship with love, patience, and a good sense of humour, you’ll always find your way back to calm waters.

The toast: To Mr. and Mrs [Surname]. Wishing you a lifetime of love, laughter, and maybe a little bit of chaos because let’s face it, it keeps things interesting. Here’s to your happily ever after!

Example 8: Humorous father of the bride speech 

Introduction: Time for the main event! I’m joking, of course. I know you’re all here for the cake. My name is [your name], and I’m the very proud, if a little emotional, father of the bride, and it’s my absolute pleasure to stand here today and say a few words. 

The bride: Now, I have to start by saying how stunning [Bride’s name] looks today. Absolutely radiant, isn’t she? It’s hard to believe this is the same person who used to think that tidying her room meant shoving everything under the bed or into that chair—you know the one. The one where clothes go to die.

Growing up, [Bride’s name] was always the queen of organised chaos. Shoes in the fridge? Sure. Homework on the dog? Why not? But somehow, she always managed to keep it together, even if her surroundings didn’t. And you know what? That’s one of the things I love most about her. She’s not perfect—thank goodness, because none of us are—but she’s real, she’s genuine, and she’s got a heart as big as this room.

The happy couple: Now, let’s talk about the other star of the show—[Groom’s name]. From the moment I met you, I could see how much you loved [Bride’s name]. It’s in the way you look at her, the way you laugh at her jokes—even the bad ones—and how you’re always there to lift her up. You’re the kind of person every parent hopes their child will find: someone who will cherish, respect, and challenge them. So, thank you for loving [Bride’s name] the way you do.

The thank yous: Thank you to all of you, too. Everyone who has travelled from afar, everyone who helped make this day as special as it is. From the venue staff to the florist, and of course, the catering team, who ensured we’ve all been very well fed. Your efforts have not gone unnoticed, so thank you.

Some words of wisdom: But the biggest thanks of all go to [Bride’s name] and [Groom’s name]. Not just for giving us an excuse to dress up and eat cake, but for reminding us all what love and partnership look like. You’ve brought all of us together today, and I think we can all agree—it’s been a pretty spectacular day.

The toast: So, let’s raise a glass to the happy couple: may your lives be filled with love, laughter, and maybe a tiny bit of tidiness (but only if it doesn’t cramp your style). To [Bride’s name] and [Groom’s name]! Cheers!

Example 9: Heartfelt father of the bride speech 

Introduction: Testing, testing… No, I’m joking. I know it’s on. Welcome, everyone to this special day. My name is [your name], and I’m the bride’s father. Honestly, I couldn’t be prouder to say that. What a moment this is in a father’s life.

The thank yous: Before we get started, I’d like to say a huge thank you to everyone who made this magical day possible. From the venue staff to the florist, the caterers, and everyone who worked behind the scenes. You’ve all helped create a day that’s nothing short of perfect.

The bride: [Bride’s name], you look absolutely stunning today. I mean, you always look lovely to me, but today you’ve outdone yourself. Watching you grow up has been one of the greatest privileges of my life. From the little girl with scraped knees and a fearless spirit to the incredible woman sitting here now… It’s been quite a journey, hasn’t it? And I couldn’t have been prouder to hold your hand throughout.

The happy couple: Until, of course, you met [Groom’s name]. From the moment we first met him, it was obvious he was something special. He’s got that steady, grounded way about him that balances out your whirlwind energy perfectly. And I’ve seen the way he looks at you, with so much love and admiration…. It’s all I could have ever hoped for you. 

Some words of wisdom: Looking at the two of you, I’m filled with so much hope for the life you’re about to build together. If I can, I’d love to give you a little advice: Always dance in the kitchen. Even if there’s no music. Especially if there’s no music. Those silly, unexpected moments will remind you why you chose each other. Don’t just love each other—like each other. Be friends, partners in crime, and the person the other one wants to call with the good news, the bad news, and the “you won’t believe what just happened!”

And finally, remember that it’s the little things that matter most. Not the big gestures, but the everyday kindnesses. Like letting the other have the last slice of pizza, even when you really, really want it. Those are the things that build a lifetime together.

The toast: Ladies and gentlemen, please join me in a toast to the new Mr and Mrs [Surname]. I couldn’t think of anyone who deserves this more. 

Example 10: Candid father of the bride speech 

Introduction: Hello, everyone. Welcome to the wedding of [Bride’s name] and [Groom’s name]. What a beautiful day this has been so far—and what an emotional one, too. I’ve been doing my best to hold it together, but seeing my little girl all grown up and starting this incredible new chapter… Well, let’s just say it’s a good thing I didn’t wear mascara.

The bride: [Bride’s name]. I love you. I know I don’t say that enough, but I could say it a million times and it still wouldn’t have been enough. As your dad, it’s been my greatest privilege to walk alongside you, to cheer you on, to wipe the occasional tear (and maybe cause a few when I said no to a hamster). Watching you grow into the woman you are today—strong, funny, and with a heart so big it barely fits in this room—has been nothing short of amazing.

There’s a bond between a father and his daughter that’s hard to put into words. It’s love, pride, and the occasional panic when you first ask for the car keys. But it’s also unshakable, no matter how far life takes you. And while today marks a new chapter in your life, know this: you’ll always be my little girl. Always.

The happy couple: [Groom’s name], thank you. I couldn’t think of anyone more deserving of her love. You and I both know that [Bride’s name] isn’t just any woman. She’s a force of nature. She’s clever, compassionate, and a little stubborn at times. But that’s part of what makes her so remarkable. And seeing the way you love her, not despite those qualities but because of them, fills me with so much joy.

From the moment I saw the way you looked at her, I knew. You weren’t just a boyfriend or a fiancé, you were her partner in every sense of the word. You’ve brought a calm, steady presence into her whirlwind world, and for that, I’ll always be grateful.

Some words of wisdom: So, to wrap this up—because I know no one wants to see me cry—I just want to say this: Marriage is a journey, and like all great journeys, it’s made up of small, everyday moments. Make those moments count. Laugh often, forgive easily, and never stop holding hands.

The thank yous: Thank you to everyone who helped out with today. What a fabulous day it’s been so far. 

The toast: Let’s raise a glass to [Bride’s name] and [Groom’s name]. [Bride’s name], you’ve always been my little girl, and while today you’re taking on a new title, “wife”, you’ll never lose that special place in my heart. And [Groom’s name], thank you for loving her the way she deserves. Together, you two are unstoppable, and I can’t wait to see the incredible life you’ll build.

Here’s to a lifetime of love, laughter, and the little moments that make it all worthwhile. May you always find joy in each other, even when the socks don’t match and the Wi-Fi’s gone down. To [Bride’s name] and [Groom’s name]—cheers!

Example 11: Short and sweet father of the bride speech 

Introduction: Hello, ladies and gentlemen. Are you all having a good time? My name is [your name] and I’m the bride’s father. I’m not one for speeches, so if it’s ok with you, I’ll keep it short and sweet. 

The thank yous: A huge thank you to everyone who has made this wonderful day possible. It’s already been a day to remember, and I can’t wait for tonight to see everyone’s dodgy dance moves. Whether you travelled from afar, cooked the whole menu, or even just turned up ready to celebrate, thank you. It means the world to all of us, and I know it means the world to [Bride’s name] and [Groom’s name].

The bride: [Bride’s name]. Look at you. My little girl, and now all grown up. I couldn’t be prouder of the person you’ve become. From day dot, you’ve been an absolute superstar, full of life, laughter, and just a little stubbornness. You’re more than I ever could have dreamed of, and you are truly my greatest achievement. 

The happy couple: [Groom’s name], what can I say? You’re the perfect match for my daughter. You make her laugh, you support her dreams, and most importantly, you seem to have mastered the art of letting her win an argument now and then. That’s a skill that will serve you well! Welcome to the family—it’s a slightly chaotic but very loving one, and we’re thrilled to have you in it.

Some words of wisdom: Life will throw its surprises at you—both wonderful and challenging—but if you tackle them together, with a bit of patience and a lot of humour, you’ll be just fine. Oh, and remember, [Groom’s name], the answer to “Does this dress make me look…?” is always no.

The toast: So, let’s raise a glass to [Bride’s name] and [Groom’s name]. May your life be filled with love, laughter, and just enough surprises to keep things interesting. And may you always find your way back to each other, even if someone’s gone and nicked the last slice of cake.

Example 12: Gender-neutral father of the bride speech 

Introduction: Welcome, welcome, welcome everyone to the wonderful wedding of [Child’s name] and [Partner’s name]. Isn’t this a spectacular day? I couldn’t be prouder to be stood here today as [Child’s name]’s father, celebrating this incredible moment with all of you. Honestly, what a privilege it is to be part of such a special day, surrounded by so much love, joy, and probably a fair bit of prosecco.

The thank yous: First off, let me say a massive thank you to everyone who’s helped make today what it is. From the stunning venue to the delicious food and the flowers that I definitely can’t name but know look amazing—what an effort. And to all of you, thank you for showing up with your best outfits and your biggest smiles. It’s a real testament to how much love [Child’s name] and [Partner’s name] inspire.

The happy couple: Now, let’s talk about the stars of the show: [Child’s name] and [Partner’s name]. You two are a perfect match, like tea and biscuits or a Friday night and a takeaway. Watching your relationship grow has been like watching the best kind of rom-com—one that’s full of laughter, a bit of bickering over what to watch on Netflix, and a whole lot of love.

[Child’s name], I’ve always known you were destined for something extraordinary. You’ve always had this spark, this way of lighting up a room and making people feel instantly at ease. And then you met [Partner’s name]. From the moment I saw you two together, it was clear—this wasn’t just a spark. This was a full-on firework display.

[Partner’s name], thank you for loving my child as deeply as you do. You’ve not just joined our family—you’ve completed it.

Some words of wisdom: So, here’s a bit of advice from someone who’s been around the block a few times: Life is unpredictable. There will be highs, there will be lows, and there will definitely be arguments over who left the milk out. But if you keep choosing each other—every single day—you’ll weather anything that comes your way.

And don’t forget to keep laughing, even when the dishwasher’s broken, or someone’s forgotten to replace the loo roll. Laughter is the glue that holds it all together.

The toast: So, let’s raise a glass to [Child’s name] and [Partner’s name]. May your days be full of joy, your nights full of laughter, and your love for each other only grow stronger. And may you always find a reason to celebrate— big or small, rain or shine. To the happy couple— cheers!

Start planning your father of the bride speech today!

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The father of the bride speech is one of the most anticipated parts of the wedding reception. It’s your chance to tell the world how amazing your little girl is and how proud you are of her.

Make sure you leave plenty of time to plan your wedding speech. This way, you know you’ll be happy with the content and have plenty of time to practice. Follow a time-honoured structure, throw in a few jokes, and let your personality shine through. You’ve got this!

If you’re still feeling nervous, we can support you in writing a brilliant father of the bride speech. Whether you want to keep it simple or make it funny and heartfelt, we have plenty of wedding speech ideas to give you inspiration. Sign up to Bridebook today and write a cracking speech!

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How Much Does a Wedding Cost? The 2023 UK Average

Want to know how much the average wedding costs this year? Introducing our UK Wedding Report 2023: our annual wedding industry study revealing year-on-year changes. This year, we surveyed almost 4,000 married and engaged couples, representing a mix of regions and demographics, to find out what couples like you are spending on. Time to start planning your own wedding budget…

Average Cost of a Wedding in the UK

2022 was the year of the Corona Comeback. The lifting of pandemic restrictions saw the highest wedding spend ever! Average wedding spend grew by 15% to an all-time high, rising by £2,500 year-on-year to £19,184 (£24,069 including the ring and honeymoon). It goes to show that couples are prioritising their marriage, and not letting the economic climate impact their wedding spending.

Average Wedding Costs by Supplier Category

Average wedding spend increased in almost every category between 2021 and 2022. The most significant increase was in venue cost (£7,944 average, an increase of 20% vs 2021). We’ve put together a wedding cost breakdown below! These are the average supplier costs for UK weddings:

  • Average cost of a wedding venue – £7,944
  • Average cost of catering – £5,103 (with an average of 88 guests)
  • Average cost of a photographer – £1,357
  • Average cost of a videographer – £1,354
  • Average cost of hair and makeup – £657
  • Average cost of a florist – £1,114
  • Average cost of a wedding cake – £376
  • Average cost of a wedding dress – £1,424

If you’re looking to save money on your suppliers, savvy wedding planning is a must! Our top tip is to enquire to several suppliers to do more price comparisons.

Total Wedding Costs by Region

Couples spent nearly £10K (or 50%) more to marry in London (£29,085) compared to the national average (£19,184). That’s even more than marrying outside the UK, where the average cost is £25,525. Yorkshire and the Humber is the region with the lowest cost (£16,103), making it the most budget-friendly option. So, if you’re looking to save money, the location of your wedding matters!

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Total Wedding Costs by Day of the Week

Weekend weddings are the most expensive, with Saturday weddings costing £20,141 on average. Tuesday is the least costly option (costing £16,804 on average). So, if you’re on a budget and looking for a cheaper alternative, consider a midweek wedding. This can make a huge difference!

  • Monday – £17,327
  • Tuesday – £16,804
  • Wednesday – £17,505
  • Thursday – £17,898
  • Friday – £18,401
  • Saturday – £20,141
  • Sunday – £19,715
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Total Wedding Costs by Month of the Year

Wedding costs tend to be higher in the from June through September, with June weddings costing the most (£21,287). Costs are lowest in the winter, with February being the cheapest month to get married (£15,826), which is ideal if you’re trying to save on your wedding spending.

  • January – £16,179
  • February – £15,826
  • March – £19,200
  • April – £18,733
  • May – £18,174
  • June – £21,287
  • July – £20,369
  • August – £19,403
  • September – £20,620
  • October – £18,913
  • November – £17,270
  • December – £17,659
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Total Wedding Costs by Guest Count

It probably comes as no surprise that wedding spending is heavily influenced by the number of guests attending. The more guests you invite, the more your wedding will cost. Catering accounts for just over 1/5 of this. So, if you’re looking to cut costs, consider having fewer guests to feed!

  • 50 or fewer guests – £12,757
  • 51-100 guests – £18,757
  • 101-150 guests – £23,308
  • 151 or more guests – £29,709
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Top Wedding Spending Splurges

We found that couples are most likely to splurge on their honeymoon, followed by the wedding dress, venue and photographer. With beach honeymoons remaining the most popular honeymoon style (47% of couples married in 2022 chose a beach honeymoon), this is hardly surprising. The honeymoon splurge is heavily linked to the post-pandemic wedding boom and the fact that travel is back on the map. 2/3 of couples married in 2022 planned a honeymoon abroad, which represents a significant jump from 2021, when only 1/4 planned to go abroad.

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So, if you’re hoping to have a wedding in 2023, you’re looking at an average spend of £19,184, up £2,500 year-on-year. The average cost may be more or less depending on the region, day of the week, month of the year, and any optional splurges (for example, on a honeymoon overseas). For a more thorough category-by-category breakdown of the cost of UK wedding suppliers, check out our article on the ultimate wedding budget breakdown. And for a budget breakdown that’s tailored for you, look no further than Bridebook’s one-of-a-kind personalised wedding budget planner.

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Wedding Speech Examples

Wedding speeches are a super important part of a wedding reception. They let the couple, family members and friends express their love, gratitude and well-wishes for the newlyweds. But if you’re not a confident public speaker, giving a wedding speech can be nerve-wracking for many people, which is why having a few examples up your sleeve can be a great starting-point. 

Here are some simple wedding speech examples that can help you deliver a heartfelt, memorable and enjoyable wedding speech. Feel free to use them as a template to inspire your own writing. 

And remember that these are just samples. Be sure to incorporate your own unique elements to personalise your speeches, which might mean having more gender-equal speeches compared to the traditional wedding speech line-up. 

Groom’s Speech & Bride’s Speech

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The groom’s speech and bride’s speech is a chance for the couple to thank their families, friends and wedding party for their support and to share their love for each other. Here’s a sample of a shared groom and bride speech:

“Good evening everyone, we are [bride’s name and groom’s name], the newlyweds. We want to take a moment to thank each and every one of you for being here to celebrate this special day with us. Our families, friends and wedding party have made this day truly unforgettable, and we are so grateful for your love and support.

We also want to thank our parents for their love and guidance, and for raising us to be the people we are today. We are honoured to have both of our families come together to celebrate this special day with us.

And last but not least, we want to express our love for each other. [Groom’s name], you are my best friend, my soulmate, and my partner in life. I am so grateful to have you by my side, and I look forward to a lifetime of love, adventure and happiness with you. [Bride’s name], you are beautiful, kind, and loving, and I feel so lucky to be able to call you my wife. I promise to always cherish and love you, no matter what life brings our way.

To our friends and family, thank you again for being here to share this special day with us. We are so grateful for your love and support, and we look forward to the memories we will create together.

Cheers to love, laughter and happily ever after. Cheers to all of us!”

Check out our top 10 groom speech examples and top 10 bride speech examples for more inspiration if you’re each giving individual speeches rather than a shared one. 

Father of the Bride Speech:

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A father of the bride speech is one of the most traditional and emotional speeches of the wedding. The father of the bride has the chance to both reflect on the love and relationship he has with his daughter and to welcome her new spouse into the family. Here’s a sample to inspire you:

“Good evening, everyone. Today is a very special day for me, as I stand here to give away my beautiful daughter [bride’s name]. She has grown into an amazing young woman, and I am so proud of the person she has become. [Groom’s name], I couldn’t have asked for a better match for my daughter. You are kind, caring and loving, and I am honoured to welcome you into our family. [Bride’s name], [groom’s name], I wish you a lifetime of happiness, love and adventure. To the newlyweds!”

Check out our top 10 father of the bride speech examples for more inspiration. 

Best Man Speech:

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The best man speech is a fun and light-hearted speech that’s often filled with anecdotes and humour. The best man has the chance to pay tribute to the groom and to share some memorable moments from their friendship. Here’s a sample:

“Good evening everyone, I am [your name], the best man, and the groom’s closest friend. I have known [groom’s name] for [number of years], and it has been an honour to stand by his side today as he marries the love of his life, [bride’s name]. [Groom’s name], you are one of the kindest, funniest and most genuine people I know, and I am so grateful to have you as my friend. [Bride’s name], you bring out the best in [groom’s name], and I know you will have a lifetime of happiness together. To the newlyweds, congratulations, and here’s to a lifetime of love and laughter!”

Check out our top 10 best man speech examples for more inspiration. 

Maid of Honour Speech:

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The maid of honour speech is usually given by the bride’s closest friend or sister, and can be a combination of humour and sentimentality. Here’s sample:

“Good evening everyone, I am [your name], the maid of honour and [bride’s name]’s best friend. I have known [bride’s name] since we were [age], and I have never seen her as happy as she is today. [Groom’s name], you have brought so much joy into [bride’s name]’s life, and I am grateful to have you as my friend as well. To the newlyweds, may your love continue to grow stronger with each passing day. Congratulations and best wishes!”

Check out our top 10 maid of honour examples for more inspiration. 

Mother of the Bride Speech:

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A mother of the bride speech, while not always a traditional element in the order of wedding speeches, is becoming gaining increasing popularity in modern celebrations. This beautiful moment lets the mother share her heartfelt sentiments, commemorate her daughter’s journey and extend a warm welcome to her daughter’s new spouse. Here’s a sample:

“Good evening everyone. Today holds great significance for me, as I stand before you to celebrate the union of my beloved daughter [bride’s name]. Watching her blossom into the remarkable woman she is today fills my heart with immense joy. [Groom’s name], from the moment you entered our lives, you’ve shown remarkable qualities of kindness, compassion and love. Welcoming you into our family is an honour beyond words. [Bride’s name], [groom’s name], may your lives be filled with boundless joy, enduring love and remarkable journeys together. To the newlyweds!”

Check out our top 10 mother of the bride speech examples for more inspiration. 

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These are just a few examples of the different types of wedding speeches you may give on a wedding day. No matter what type of speech you choose, the most important thing is to be yourself, speak from the heart and let your love for the newlyweds shine through. Best of luck and have a wonderful time celebrating the love and happiness of the newlyweds.

Be sure to also check out our top tips from former actress and wedding speech writer Naomi Marghaleet, based on 30 years’ experience in the industry. 

And for even more wedding tips and tricks, sign up to Bridebook today. We’ve got plenty of articles to help you with your wedding planning and celebrations. 

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Advice From The Experts: Choosing Your Perfect Wedding Photographer

Choosing your wedding photographer is one of the most important decisions you’ll make in the run-up to your big day. They’ll make your memories last forever – so you’ll want to make sure you find the person who’s going to capture your day perfectly. But with so many photographers, styles and packages out there, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed. That’s why we’ve called in the experts to give you their advice on finding your perfect match!

(Cover image from Paul Swift Photography)

Damien Burcher Photography

Where should couples look for wedding photographers?

“Sites like Bridebook, where you can find loads of photographers under one roof, are really helpful. But try Google or Pinterest too. Search for terms your dream photographer might be using, such as ‘light and airy wedding photographer in London’ and see who pops up.”

– Queen Bea Wedding Photography

“Search Google for “wedding photographers” and you’ll be shown more than ninety million results… so that’s probably not much use! Post on Facebook and ask, “Anyone recommend a wedding photographer?” It’ll probably be the most popular post you’ve ever made! Again, this isn’t much use – there’ll be hundreds of photographers to choose from. Instead, use the wedding industry itself, such as wedding shows, venue recommendations and online wedding industry leaders like Bridebook.”

– John Price Wedding Photography

Andi Watson Photography

What can help couples make a decision between different wedding photographers?

“Look for a full day of wedding shots by your potential photographer. It’s easy to be impressed by one or two ‘wow shots’ – but if the rest of the day isn’t consistent, you may be disappointed. Always ask to see galleries of the full day, ideally with a wedding similar to yours: a winter wedding or a barn wedding, for example. Another major point to consider is their experience. Particularly if it’s a winter wedding or a rainy day, finding a photographer with experience and knowledge of darker locations is very beneficial. You shouldn’t have to miss out on anything because of the weather!”

– Laura Rachel Wedding Photography

“If you prefer to meet people in person, go to a big wedding fair. You can suss out a photographer’s vibe and check out physical copies of their work. They’re also a lot of fun!”

– Queen Bea Wedding Photography

What should couples avoid when booking a wedding photographer?

“Try not to penny-pinch when it comes to your photography budget as you always get what you pay for. The average price of an experienced wedding photographer is £1500. If you can’t afford the photographer you like, ask what this includes. You could ask to have fewer hours or to have digital images only. This will likely bring the price down and you still get to have a professional, well experienced photographer.”

– John Price Wedding Photographer

John Price Photography

How can couples make sure they get every shot they want?

“A pre-wedding meeting is a must – approximately six to eight weeks before the wedding date. A good wedding photographer knows what the most important moments are, but this is your chance to mention anything you’re particularly after. There’s no way to specify every single image you’d like throughout the day, but most photographers love getting a list of family photos you’d like to have (including specific pairings of people).”

– Paul Swift Photography

“Preparation! Don’t wait until the wedding day – or worse, afterwards! – to realise there was a key shot missed. Do your research and work with your photographer to create a group photo list and a list of any must-have shots. If there’s a special ring tied to the bouquet, tell your photographer! And ask your photographer if there’s enough time for all your requests – you don’t want to be rushing on your wedding day.”

– Laura Rachel Photography

“We encourage our clients to create a Pinterest board of wedding photos they love. This way, we can see what style of image resonates with our couples and what’s important to them.”

– Andi Watson Photography

How can camera-shy couples feel more comfortable being photographed?

“Have a pre-wedding shoot. On top of receiving a great set of images, a pre-wedding shoot is a great way to build trust and friendship between the couple and the photographer. The couple gets to experience what it’s like to be photographed together and become more comfortable being photographed. In turn, the photographer is also able to see the couple’s personalities and how they react to the camera. I really can’t recommend a pre-wedding shoot enough.”

– Paul Swift Photography

“The engagement shoot is a great opportunity to get to know your photographer – which makes getting your photo taken far easier if you’re at all camera shy! – and it’s also a good time to walk about the venue together and discuss ideas.”

– Andi Watson Photography

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Do you have any other top tips for couples looking for a wedding photographer?

“Consider two photographers. Having a second shooter is getting more and more common in wedding photography. It’s takes a considerable amount of effort to photograph an entire wedding solo, so you might want to ask your favoured photographer if they can offer a second photographer too. The price of an additional photographer at your wedding will have a great return on investment as it allows your main photographer to really focus on quality while the second shooter can concentrate on grabbing candid shots.”

– Paul Swift Photography

“Book the style of photography you want – not what’s trendy, what the photographer wants, what all your friends used or what your dad or auntie think you should have. If you want something less traditional, with more colour and fun, go for it! At the end of the day, it’s your wedding – and a day you don’t get to repeat. Don’t have any regrets!”

– Queen Bea Photography

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How can I plan my wedding during lockdown? 8 things you can do to ensure you have the smoothest wedding planning experience.

Getting engaged is one of the most exciting moments of your life, tears of joy won’t stop streaming, and you can’t stop gazing at your newly bejeweled finger. But once this initial excitement begins to wear off, a sudden rush of “what now!?” begins to kick in. Don’t worry – Bridebook are here to help. 

Wedding planning can be daunting even at the best of times, and the current government restrictions to curb the spread of Coronavirus may have you feeling you can’t get started with your planning. At Bridebook, we’d like to help you navigate this stressful time by discussing 8 things that you CAN do right now to ensure the smoothest wedding planning experience.

1. Designate a wedding planning day

Couple sitting in living room with laptop

It is time to get organised! Making decisions early is the best way to ensure the smoothest wedding planning process. Dedicating one day a week can be the perfect way to ensure that tasks get ticked off and other priorities (like Netflixin’ your favourite show!) do not get in the way.

Knowing where to begin with planning your big day can be overwhelming. Our personalised Wedding Planning Checklist is here to help guide you through the entire planning process. Based on your wedding date, your bespoke Checklist will let you know when to complete each task including pricing guides and suggestions along the way.

2. Reflection

It’s important to sit down with your partner and think about what you both want from your wedding. Will it be a small and intimate occasion or an extravagant party with hundreds of guests? Make sure you reflect and think hard about what is most important to the both of you, as a couple. 

Start researching and looking for inspiration. You can then add any picture or ideas, from perfect playlists, to funny speech ideas to your Bridebook Scrapbook.

3. Budget

Screenshot of Bridebook app Budget Tool

Once you have reflected on the kind of wedding you both want, you need to decide how much you are willing and able to spend. Let Bridebook do the hard work for you! With data from over 500,000 weddings, our super powerful Wedding Budget Tool helps you keep track right from the beginning. Simply enter your total budget and we will tell you how much you should spend on every expense from start to finish. 

4. Guest List

Making decisions on your guest list can be a complicated process, from deciding who to invite, to keeping note of guest information along the way.

Bridebook’s Wedding Guest List Tool allows you to easily keep track of your invites, RSVPs and total attending guests. Your Guest List is split into two – one for you and one for your partner – but you can also create as many custom lists as you like! For example, ‘work friends’ or ‘childhood friends’. Your Guest List is ready to help you track all the nitty gritty details: you can track plus ones, dietary requirements, addresses and more.

5. Booking Your Venue

Countryside Venue with glowing lanterns

Finding the perfect wedding venue is one of the most important tasks on your checklist, and one which may seem near impossible in the midst of a global pandemic. However, thanks to the power of technology and innovative wedding venue teams, this is completely possible!

Bridebook has thousands of exceptional wedding venues with many of them offering virtual tours and show rounds. Get comfortable, open a bottle of wine and explore the delights of stunning venues across the country from your very own living room. When you enquire with venues, make sure to ask if they can offer a virtual show round – some are even using Facetime! We’d also advise you to keep an eye out for venues listing 360 tours. 

6. Booking Suppliers

Again, this is something super fun which you can enjoy within the comfort of your own home. Keep reaching out to suppliers, as many are offering virtual services such as delivering tasting samples or pre-recorded videos – whilst unconventional, this can absolutely become a fun night-in with your partner.

Invite your friends and family to a Zoom call where you watch a number of wedding bands until you find your perfect match. How about ordering in some sample cake boxes for taste testing with your partner? Or even get creative and create your ideal wedding make-up, by following different tutorials available online.

7. The Little Things

Two hands holding a paper crafted heart

Make the most of these dark cold months by getting on top of all the small tasks which will make your wedding wonderful. There are so many little things that you will need for your big day and now is the time to start a list. This might be thinking about gifts for your bridesmaids and page boys or wedding favours for guests. You could even get into some DIY and make some crafts yourself such as name cards, signs or photo boards for the day itself.

8. Enjoy your Engagement!

Weddings are incredibly special. It is important to enjoy this experience, together. Take some well deserved time off before you are rushed back to the speed of ‘normality’. Go for long walks, cook some delicious food, read a few books and most of all embrace having the love of your life by your side!

Looking for some more wedding planning tips? Check out our other wedding articles below.

How to plan your wedding remotely

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Why having a weekday wedding can be the best decision you make

Top tips for having a 15 person wedding (or ceremini)

Amazing deals and discounts for couples

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5 reasons you should try out wedding venue virtual tours

1. Save time

Engaged couple browsing wedding venue virtual tours on their laptop on their sofa in their living room

Virtual tours are so simple! And you can view them right from Bridebook. You can do as many virtual tours as it takes to visit one venue in person. This means you can take a look around a few more to find the one that’s perfect for you.

No need to agree on a shortlist of five venues that you’ll visit in one weekend. Check out 10 in one afternoon. All from the comfort of your sofa!

Wrapped up warm with a big mug of hot chocolate. Now that’s how we like to plan weddings. ☕

2. Save money

Engaged couple at home looking at saving money by browsing wedding venue virtual tours at home

Weddings can be expensive. So it’s fantastic when you find the little shortcuts that save you some money. Check out our article on saving tips here.

Well, virtual tours can be a money saver too! Try virtual tours and save the money you would have spent on petrol or public transport. Then you can splash out on those little extras on your special day, guilt free. Sounds like a win-win to us!

3. Get excited

Married couple standing in front of Hodsock Priory wedding venue in Nottinghamshire, UK

We know things are tough at the moment. Like, really tough. And sometimes, we just need to think ahead and get excited about what life will be like once this pandemic is over.

A bit of escapism is good for everyone and what better way than planning the best party of your life! Get your partner, grab a glass of wine and block out an evening. It’s time for fantasising about your dream venue. 🏰

For more day-to-day escapism, follow us on Instagram, where it’s positive vibes only from us.

4. Get ahead

Inside of the beautiful Micklefield Hall wedding venue in Hertfordshire, UK

Lockdowns have been hard. But when this is all over, people are going to be in serious need of a party.

We’re going to have more weddings than ever before. People have been postponing their big day for over a year now and some of the most popular dates are filling up fast.

By taking a virtual tour, you can feel more confident about putting down a deposit to secure a date. A lot of venues are being more flexible with deposits in the current circumstances, so do ask and see what they can do for you!

By securing your date, you can put your feet up and rest easy, while others scramble to get their preferred date once the unlocking starts.

5. Get inspired

Inside of the stunning and inspiring Gildings Barns wedding venue in Surrey, UK

Doing a virtual tour can help you picture your own wedding more easily. Often, this can generate ideas for couples about how they want their day to run and what else they might need to plan.

Looking at the lawn area might inspire you to have a cocktail hour before dinner to make the most of the location. Or perhaps that old school dancefloor might just tip the balance in favour of that DJ you’d been checking out.

Planning a wedding is hard. There are just so many options! Doing a virtual venue tour is the perfect way to picture you and your partner on your big day.

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I DO, I DO, I DO! BRIDEBOOK PARTNERS WITH SEARCYS, ONE OF THE LEADING RESTAURANT AND VENUE BRANDS IN THE UK

Bridebook are excited to announce the launch of our partnership with Searcys, which is in residence at some of UK’s most iconic venues including Blenheim Palace, The Pump Room in Bath, The Gherkin, St Pancras International and many more. 

Searcys partners with Bridebook

Rodney Payne, Searcys Regional Director comments, “Searcys started out as a weddings and events caterer back in 1847, and we are proud to have been serving our customers with finesse and personality since then. We are honoured to have been trusted with over 340 weddings over the past three years, including hosting micro-weddings during an incredibly challenging 2020. We look forward to welcoming our beautiful couples back into our iconic venues, when safe to do so. Our team is delighted to offer them additional support through the incredible tools from Bridebook – to plan, budget and organise their special day without a glitch.”

As a business we are aware that the last 12 months have been exceptionally difficult for the industry, therefore it has been incredible to see brands like Searcys innovate and adapt to offer solutions to recently engaged couples. During the start of our partnership with Searcys they have adapted to offer beautifully designed micro weddings at their venues, as well as recipes and useful tips for couples staying in to mark occasions through their ‘Staying in with Searcys’. Their most recent exclusive offer for our couples was free cases of Champagne for all future confirmed bookings. 

You can now find Searcys wedding venues, from the stunning Gherkin to the historic Honourable Artillery Company (The HAC), from exquisite 10-11 Carlton House Terrace to iconic St Pancras Brasserie and Champagne bar by Searcys, on the Bridebook app and the website. 

We look forward to seeing how this partnership develops in the future.

Amazing Deals and Discounts for Couples

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Deals & Discounts

2020 has been a challenging time for couples planning their weddings and with the holidays coming up, Bridebook has proudly partnered with a range of different companies to offer some amazing deals and discounts to our couples.

Check out all the great deals and discounts below…

1. e-there – 25% off self-stream packages

We know that planning your wedding this year has been harder than ever, especially when it comes to knowing how many loved ones will be able to join you.

So we’ve teamed up with award-winning streaming platform, E-There. Enabling you to live stream and record your special day, you can share your happiest memories with those who matter most, no matter what.

We’ve got a special discount just for Bridebook couples. Use code Bridebook25 to get 25% off self-stream packages!

Self-stream your wedding now!

2. Virgin Wines – 50% off on 12 Luxurious Wines

We’ve teamed up with our friends at Virgin Wines to offer our couples a generous HALF PRICE saving on 12 luxurious wines from around the world.

Boasting silky-smooth Gran Reserva, crisp and refreshing Sauvignon Blanc, fruit-filled Malbec and more, these wines are normally worth up to £11.99 a bottle, but are yours for just £5.49 each – complete with free express delivery direct to your door!

This offer also acts as the perfect introduction to Virgin Wines’ WineBank service, which allows you to earn 20% interest on the money you save, giving you big discounts on the wines you want… and all with free express delivery as standard.

12 Bottle Luxury Selection – Just £65.88 (was £131.88) – Plus free express delivery

Save 50% off Luxurious Wines now!

Terms and conditions: Also available as an all-red or all-white wine selection. New customers only. UK Delivery only. You must be 18 years of age or over to buy alcohol. Full terms and conditions.

3. Stillwhite – 10% Discount to selling your wedding dress

Is your wedding dress collecting dust in the back of your closet? Then it might be time to give it another life!

Stillwhite are the world’s largest online wedding dress marketplace, and they’re helping brides to sell their wedding dresses.

There are no ongoing fees, and there’s zero commission on the sale. Simply pay a one-time listing fee (£17 Standard or £27 Premium) to list your dress until it’s sold. Our Bridebook brides get a 10% discount on their one-time listing fee!

Check out the marketplace now!

Are you yet to find your dream wedding dress? Well Stillwhite can help here too, they’re helping future brides to buy their special dress at a fraction of the retail price.

By choosing Stillwhite, not only are you saving money but you’re also doing your part for the planet by opting for sustainable, second-hand fashion!

Browse amazing wedding dresses now!

4. Papier – 25% off wedding stationery packages

Papier are one of UK’s largest stationery retailers and offer incredible and unique wedding stationery packages, perfect for you!

Papier collaborate with amazing artists, illustrators and calligraphers to bring you unique wedding stationery collections that you won’t find anywhere else.

Get 25% off wedding stationary packages now!

5. NameSwitch – 10% off changing your name

 If you got married recently and are still considering changing your name, we’d love to introduce you to our friends over at NameSwitch. They make the whole process super quick and smooth, and have some amazing packages available.

We’ve got you covered with these 10% off discount codes:

  • For the digital ePackage use: BBDIGITAL
  • For the Print Package use: BBPRINT

Change Your Name Now!

Partners we love

We have also partnered with some incredible companies, offering some amazing services that we know you’ll love just as much as us. Below are some of our favourite partners…

Marriage Gift List – Unlimited Choice Wedding Gift List Service

We know how exciting but stressful organising a wedding can be, so Marriage Gift List are here to offer a helping hand and make things that little bit easier. They are the perfect wedding gift list, giving you easy access to pick and choose gifts from any online store. 

The choice is yours and it’s free to use! At Marriage Gift List, you get exactly what you ask for, at the price that you find, and with no additional fees.

Create your free gift list now!

Want to find out more about Marriage Gift List? Check out our Marriage Gift List article.

Marriage Gift List setting up the gift list example

Patchwork – The gift list innovators

Patchwork is a global platform that lets friends contribute cash, time and skills towards a group gift or event. For engaged couples, Patchwork offer 2 incredible services:

1. Wedding Gift Registry

Patchwork allows couples to create an alternative wedding gift registry, allowing your guests to collectively fund and chip in towards that one amazing gift you really want. Whether it’s a weekend in Paris, or a beautiful piece of art, with Patchwork wedding guests come together to fund one big gift – piece by piece. 

Create your Wedding Registry now!

2. Honeymoon Fund

Patchwork allows couples to show wedding guests their dream honeymoon as a collection of images. So family and friends can choose exactly which part of the trip to treat them to – £200 for a night in a stunning hotel, £50 for dinner or £10 for cocktails on the beach.

Create your Honeymoon Fund now!

Want to find out more about Patchwork? Check out our Patchwork article now!

Patchwork wedding registry art fund

Marriage Gift List – Unlimited Choice Wedding Gift List Service

Marriage Gift List gift list example of John and Amy's wedding

Organising a wedding can be both exciting and stressful, so Marriage Gift List are here to make things that little bit easier by offering a helping hand. They give you easy access to pick and choose gifts from any online store. 

The choice is yours and it’s free to use! At Marriage Gift List, you are getting exactly what you ask for, at the price that you find, with no additional fees.

How does it work?

  1. Register – Sign up for free to start your personalised gift list.
  2. Create your gift list – Add gifts from any online store you’d like to create your dream wedding gift list.
  3. Share with guests – Share your unique gift list link with your guests
  4. Receive your gifts – Have your gifts delivered or receive them on your big day!

It really is that easy! Create your free gift list now!

Marriage Gift List setting up the gift list example

Why choose Marriage Gift List?

  • Unlimited choices – you can add any gift from any online retailer you’d like for free!
  • Access to any online store
  • 100% free – no additional or hidden fees!
  • Get exactly what you ask for, at the price you find
  • Assign your own list manager to help guests
  • Fully customisable
  • Add experience days
  • Charity options
  • Add subscriptions
  • Guests can leave messages with a purchase
  • ‘Thank You’ manager (to help you send your ‘thank you’ cards)

With all these amazing features, check out Marriage Gift List now!

Marriage Gift List Tutorial Videos

Below are 2 quick tutorial videos to show you how simple and easy it is to use Marriage Gift List, ensuring the whole experience is stress-free for both you and your guests..

Getting started for couples:

How to purchase a gift:

So what are you waiting for? Create your free wedding gift list now!

A little about Marriage Gift List

How was Marriage Gift List started?

When Cameron Runcie, Marriage Gift List’s founder was planning his wedding with his partner, they tried multiple gift lists, but there wasn’t one that could offer the flexibility to pick exactly what they wanted at a fair price. 

Some gift lists forced guests to pay up to twice as much, and others just didn’t have the gifts that they wanted. 

So they built Marriage Gift List, where you are getting exactly what you ask for at the price that you find, with no additional fees.”

So how does Marriage Gift List make money? 

Marriage Gift List earn commissions on purchases made via their website links and these commission payments help them increase the functionality of the website and keep it free to use for couples and guests.

Marriage Gift List are a unique wedding gift list, offering unlimited choice of any gift from any online retailer for free!

Visit Marriage Gift List now!

Patchwork – the gift list innovators

“The gift list innovators, Patchwork removes the stigma of asking for cash.” ELLE.

Patchwork wedding registry art fund

Who are Patchwork?

Patchwork is a global platform that lets friends contribute cash, time and skills towards a group gift or event. You can use Patchwork to organise all sorts of celebratory occasions from weddings and baby showers to surprise birthday parties. 

You can use the platform to collectively fund all kinds of unique gifts and experiences, from honeymoons to handbags, campervans to cookery classes and bikes to beehives.

Common ways to use the Patchwork platform:

As a Wedding Gift Registry:

Patchwork allows couples to create an alternative wedding gift registry to allow your guests to collectively fund and chip in towards that one gift you really want. Whether it’s a piece of art or a weekend in Paris, with Patchwork wedding guests come together to fund one big gift – piece by piece. 

Create your Wedding Registry now!

Patchwork wedding registry art fund

As a Honeymoon Fund:

Patchwork enables couples to show wedding guests their dream honeymoon as a collection of images. So friends and family can choose which part of the trip to treat them to – £200 for a night in a hotel, £50 for dinner or £5 for beers on the beach.

Create your Honeymoon Fund now!

Patchwork unique honeymoon in paradise fund

To ask friends to help make and do:

Patchwork is used by thousands of couples planning DIY weddings:

  1. The organiser sets up a Patchwork to show all the things they need help to fund, make or do (from buying beer to making cakes, doing the decorations or promising to DJ)
  2. Then everyone chooses whether to contribute cash, time or skills to help make it happen.

Why use Patchwork?

With customisable templates and gorgeous image gallery, it’s easy to set up your Patchwork gift page and the Pinterest-style layout and mobile friendly shopping experience makes it easy and fun for friends to contribute too.

100,000 people (and counting) already love and trust Patchwork. Here’s why:

  • Your friends can give you money (or contribute their time, or their skills) and feel great about doing it.
  • We don’t try to sell you anything. You can spend the money you receive when, where and how you like.
  • You can collect funds in any currency from friends and family wherever they are in the world.
Patchwork Maldives honeymoon fund

Why Patchwork is so unique?

Fund, make, do

Patchwork is the only gift list in the world that lets people register not just things they want friends and family to fund but also things people can make and do. 

For example, a couple using Patchwork as a honeymoon fund can ask friends and family to treat them to a night in an Airbnb for £100 or pay for a coconut on the beach for £1. But they can also ask people to make them a travel playlist as a present, lend them a rucksack, teach them some Spanish or drive them to the airport. 

Collect gift money direct

Patchwork is independent of all retailers and so it’s entirely flexible. Patchwork also doesn’t hold customer funds. Instead the creator of a patchwork receives cash gifts (in their chosen currency) directly via PayPal or Stripe so they can pay for gift items or experiences when, where and how they like.

So what are you waiting for? Visit Patchwork now!

Or create your unique Wedding Gift Registry now!

Or create your unique Honeymoon Fund now!

Patchwork Aruba honeymoon fund

Post-Quarantine Wedding Trends

After weeks of being inside, forced apart from our nearest and dearest, weddings seem like a lifetime away. And yet, the day will come when life will be full of loved ones, laughter and celebration once more. We can expect some significant effects on weddings to come later this year and into 2021.

The 2021 wedding season will not be without its challenges. With 64% of 2020 weddings expected to be pushed-back, 2021 is set to be a busy one.  Couples will have to make quick decisions on dates, to get first dibs on the date they want.  Guests can expect many more clashes, and midweek weddings than ever, making things a little more challenging. On the bright side, we’ll have a way to use up all of those saved holiday days…

Post-coronavirus, we can expect that weddings will be bigger, bolder, and even more full of meaning. Everyone is longing for the days of confetti, cake, and bubbly, and we have the scoop on the trends you can expect to see post-lockdown.

 

Digital Guests: 

One thing that has come from this period of change and online socialising is the normalisation of online meeting services, such as zoom. Travel restrictions may persist for some time, and we expect two-thirds of weddings post-lockdown to have at least some guests attending virtually. For elderly relatives, as well as friends and family living in far-flung destinations, digital access will be a great way for them to still be able to attend these special moments, even if just remotely. 

man smiling with gadgets

 

Courageous Fashion Choices:

After what feels like months of wearing the same pair of leggings and jumpers, everyone will be jumping at the chance to dress up and look their best.  We can expect adventurous guest fashion, with brighter, more fashion-forward dresses and bolder jewellery choices. 

It won’t just be guests making bold statements; we are seeing a 50% increase in the popularity of statement veils (probably thanks to Mrs. Bieber). We can expect to see many more brides making this trend their own, embroidering their veils with meaningful quotes or even initials. Alongside an increase in statement veils, we are also seeing a rise in catwalk-inspired statement sleeves and pearl-embellished dresses, seen at the likes of Dior and Chanel.

Classic Blue was announced as the Pantone colour of the year, so expect a great revival in the something blue, something borrowed tradition, featuring this beautiful shade. Think blue in newly trending hair barrettes, jewelry and even the bases of high heels!

Post-credit-crunch, boho brides were on the rise, and this trend is set to explode once more. Many 2021 brides will be going for the ethereal look, with wearable florals, and bridal crowns taking center stage.

bride with flower crown

 

Creative Wedding Decor:

If you thought wedding creativity had reached its peak, just you wait. With more time than ever to d think about wedding details, we can expect a move away from some more traditional elements to more creative and modern takes on decor.  Some creative couples will be changing up the traditional seating charts, instead painting table lists on flower-filled glass boxes. Floral hoops have also been growing in popularity, with growing in popularity by 80% this year, alongside hanging floral decorations and flower-filled aisles.

Post quarantine, there will be a revival of the Do-it-yourself Bride and Groom. Around three-quarters of weddings will include some DIY elements, as couples cut costs where they can (and have more time on their hands!), with DIY-couples saving a combined £20million. We are looking forward to personalised table settings, wedding favours, and decor, such as photo displays. 

DIY floral arrangement

 

Wedding Food Trends:

With so many couples caring more than ever about sustainability and the environment, it is no wonder that there has been a shift to a focus on menu seasonality, as well as plastic and waste reduction.  With many couples aiming to create as little environmental impact as possible, the increase in zero-plastic and reduced-waste weddings could save more than 15,000 tonnes of wedding waste from ending up in landfills (that’s 100 blue whales!). From invitations made of recycled paper,  vegan menus and leftover composting, we can safely assume that the sustainable wedding trend is here to stay and will explode in 2021.  We imagine many couples will be donating leftover flowers to local hospitals and hospices, which hopefully will be a trend that will stick.

As for the sweet stuff,  we predict a shift away from the traditional and pricy wedding cakes that often remain uneaten, to more exciting offerings. Unique grab and go dessert displays, such as doughnut walls will come into their own (there are almost 100,000 posts under the hashtag #donutwall on Instagram!).

Weddings are all about individuality and celebrating who the couple truly is. We are expecting food and drink that pay homage to the backgrounds of the couple, whether that is custom messages in fortune cookies or cocktails made with a type of Slovakian cherry liquor.  More and more couples will be selecting super-personal menus, such as family favourite desserts, or cocktails named after people and places that mean something to the couple and their families.

 

Party Central:

After the storm of COVID, when weddings begin again, they are set to go on till the early hours. Where there is partying, there is midnight feasting. Guests can expect to be sustained with anything from sweet treat grazing tables, to late-night pasta pots to keep them dancing the night away.

Missing happy hour has become a national tragedy, and it’s coming back in a big way – think serve-yourself prosecco taps, experimental cocktails, and boozy popsicles like frozen rose, mimosas, and mojitos making their way onto a dancefloor near you. 

It’s only natural that with happy hour, comes confidence in dance ability. Learning a Tiktok dance became a quarantine right of passage, and newly married couples will be eager to show off their new fancy footwork. Be prepared for some seriously questionable, but hilarious first dances. 

Post-Quarantine Wedding Trends

 

Registry Remix:

Many couples feel that this period has put things into perspective, as well as made many questioning what gifts they can live without. Cutlery and crystal bowls are a nice memento, but lots of couples are forgoing the regular registry list, asking for experiences, not things. More will be asking for starter funds for a new home, a pet, or for their honeymoons. Charity registries will also become the norm, with more and more couples wanting to donate to a cause they feel passionate about.

 

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16 Green Wedding Ideas To Make Your Wedding Eco-Friendly

We love weddings. Like, really love them. (Can you tell?) But even we have to admit that they can be pretty wasteful affairs. Planning a sustainable wedding might sound daunting, but we promise it’s not as tricky as you might expect – so have a think about whether or not you can find a place for something green (and something borrowed!) alongside your something blue. Here are our top tips to get you started.

Bride walking in field wearing re-use wedding dress

Resell your wedding dress or suit

Of all the items of clothing you own, we bet that whatever you wear on your wedding day will have the most sentimental value. But if you can bear to part with it, consider selling it on or handing it down to someone else. It’s an easy way to make a little cash back while reducing your wedding’s impact.

Want 10% off when you sell your wedding dress? Head over to Stillwhite, the world’s largest second-hand wedding dress marketplace.

Opt for online invitations

Your wedding stationery is one aspect of your wedding you just can’t cut. At the end of the day, your guests need to know where to go! But there are loads of eco-friendly alternatives that don’t end up with piles of wasted paper. For example, there’s no reason that e-invites can’t be just as gorgeous as traditional stationery! Why not email your guests a link to a personalised video of you and your other half or set up an awesome wedding website?

Orsett Hall Hotel and Restaurant wedding venue

Choose a venue close to home

Having an eco-friendly wedding doesn’t necessarily mean getting married on a farm or in a field! Travel can be one of the most significant contributors to a wedding’s carbon footprint so if you want to go green, try to pick a venue that’s within easy reach of you and your guests. You might want to think about choosing somewhere that’s accessible by public transport too.

Organise a wedding coach for your guests

If lots of your guests are coming to your venue from the same place, you could organise a wedding coach to take them all there and back in one go. It’s an easy way to make sure everyone turns up on time too!

Set up carpooling

Encourage your guests to travel together where possible and help them sort out carpooling arrangements. Ask your guests to let you know if they’ll have a free spot in their car when they RSVP, then match them up with another guest in need of a lift. It’ll likely save your guests a little on fuel costs too!

Groomsmen wearing wedding suits

Buy any clothing second-hand

Remember, it’s not just you and your other half who will be buying an outfit for the wedding. Everyone in the wedding party from the best man to the flower girl will most likely be wearing something special. A great way to be a little greener – and to save a few pennies! – is to opt for pre-loved items from a vintage boutique or charity shop. Another alternative is to explore hiring any dresses or suits needed for the wedding party. After all, they’ll probably only wear them once!

Avoid single-use items

Like your wedding invitations, little details like place cards and table numbers can quickly end up meaning mountains of paper, card and plastic left over after your big day. One easy option is to look for recyclable or biodegradable materials when choosing your designs. If you have a little more cash to spare, another idea we love is doubling up your place cards with your wedding favours so that your guests have a keepsake to take away with them, rather than something to be thrown away.

But our favourite idea? Edible place cards. Order cookies with your guests’ names written on them in icing. We can guarantee there’ll be nothing left at the end of your big day!

Make conscious jewellery choices

We know, we know – it’s hardly the most romantic thing to think about, but it’s important to be conscious of the impact your wedding and engagement rings can have on the planet and its people. Diamonds and other gems are often sourced unsustainably and unethically, as are many precious metals. To avoid participating in a potentially problematic trade, make sure to look for conflict-free materials, investigate vintage or recycled options or look into lab-grown options.

Celebrate by candlelight

Your electricity bill might be the last thing on your mind on your wedding day – and rightly so, in our opinion! – but considering energy-saving strategies is an easy way to make your big day a little more sustainable. Try turning off unnecessary lights and lighting your venue with candles instead. On top of being eco-friendly, it’ll create a gorgeous, romantic atmosphere! Just make sure you check that your venue’s happy with open flames.

Make up artist putting sustainable make up on bride to be on wedding day

Use sustainable makeup

Why not switch out some of your products for cruelty-free, zero-waste or locally produced alternatives? We’d never recommend trying something new for the first time on your wedding day so this is definitely one you’ll want to plan ahead. If you’re having your makeup done professionally, ask your makeup artist whether they use any sustainable products or quiz any makeup-loving friends on their cruelty-free recommendations.

Stay seasonal

Flowers play a big role in almost every wedding and aren’t something we’d ever recommend skipping out on! But they can have an undeniable impact on your wedding’s carbon footprint, whether that’s because of how they’re disposed of or how they’re imported. Our top tip is to prioritise flowers that are a) local and b) seasonal where possible. It’s a often fab way to save some pennies too as your flowers have less far to travel.

Vegetable and cheese tower served on table

Go veggie (or vegan!)

Whether you go completely vegan or just opt to reduce the number of meat dishes on offer, exploring eco-friendly options for your catering is an easy way to go green. And don’t worry – it’s not 2003! Going veggie doesn’t mean limiting yourself to mediocre mushroom risottos and sad stuffed peppers. Nowadays, there are loads of caterers offering fabulous vegan and veggie options. If you do still want to serve meat, try to prioritise local and organic produce where possible to decrease your wedding’s environmental impact.

Avoid flower foam

An easy eco win is to check if your florist uses flower foam in their designs. This foam is much like single-use plastic and can be harmful to humans and animals through prolonged contact, especially if it seeps into water supplies. Our advice would be to avoid flower foam where possible and look for eco-friendly alternatives.

Buy biodegradable

Buying decorations made out of biodegradable materials is an easy way to lower the environmental impact of your wedding. This is especially important when it comes to wedding staples like confetti, as well as balloons and lanterns.

Confetti is one of the biggest offenders when it comes to the environmental impact of weddings. Fortunately, there’s loads of biodegradable options out there, as well as more traditional eco-friendly options like rose petals or rice. For extra green points, you could even gather flowers from your own garden (or a friend’s) and dry the petals yourself.

And, as much as we love them, balloons and lanterns are potentially very harmful to the environment if not disposed of correctly. If you do want a lantern display, be careful to look for biodegradable materials and be careful of where you release them.

Amazing wedding decoration hired out in barn wedding venue

Hire what you can

Not only are wedding decorations often un-environmental, they’re also expensive! Why not hire your decorations? You can be sure they’ll be reused time and time again while also saving some cash yourself. Plus, hiring your decorations often means being able to afford higher quality pieces, adding a little luxury to your day!

People celebrating at wedding party with biodegradable confetti in the air

Go for gifts that keep giving!

While we always love a wedding favour, they’re not at all a necessity! Being invited to your wedding is gift enough for your guests! So why not think about making a charity donation with the money you save? If you really do want to buy favours, you could explore options that let your guests make a positive impact on the environment themselves. For example, you might gift them with a packet of seeds to grow their own flowers.

There you have it – some amazing green wedding ideas for a gorgeous, environmentally-friendly wedding!

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Love Quotes to Inspire Your Wedding Vows

We have been told that love happens gradually, that falling in love is like listening to the tune of a lullaby or a slow song, tender and beautiful. We have been told that love is supposed to be there all along while you blindly engage in different pursuits.

But one day, you realize that you have been hit by love, the sudden urge to make somebody yours. The tune to your favourite song, the shade of your t-shirt, the colour of their skin; everything matches with the hues of your heart that cannot stop falling for them.

Love is bliss, and expressing it is heaven. Therefore, we bring you some romantic love quotes to let your partner know how deeply in head over heels you are smitten with them. 

Married couple in love at night

Beautiful Love quotes 

  • “One word frees us of all the weight and pain of life: That word is love.” -Sophocles.
  • “For small creatures such as we the vastness is bearable only through love.” – Carl Sagan. 
  • “If I had a flower for every time I thought of you… I could walk through my garden forever.” – Alfred Tennyson.
  • “You know when you’re in love when you can’t fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams.” – Dr. Seuss.
  • “Love is the condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own.” – Robert A. Heinlein, Stranger in a Strange Land. 
  • “But the heart’s not like a box that gets filled up. It expands in size the more you love.” –’Her,’ the movie. 
  • “There is no remedy for love, but to love more.” – Thoreau.
  • “There’s only one thing that cuts through all our realities, and that’s love—the bridge between all our differences.” – The L Word.
  • “Some love stories aren’t epic novels. Some are short stories, but that doesn’t make them any less filled with love.” – Sex and the City.
  • “All, everything that I understand, I understand only because I love.” – Leo Tolstoy, War, and Peace. 
  • “Give in to love, or live in fear.” – Rent.
  • “Because through love, we feel the intensity of our connection to everything and everyone. And at the core, we are all the same. We’re all one.” – Loving Annabelle.
Married couple in love standing next to each other with sunset in background

Funny Love Quotes

  • “I love being married. It’s so great to find one special person you want to annoy for the rest of your life.” -Rita Rudner.
  • “Love is the same as like, except you feel sexier.” – Judith Viorst.
  • “Marriage is our last, best chance to grow up.” – Joseph Barth.
  • “Love is a two-way street constantly under construction.” – Carroll Bryant.
  • “Love is a snowmobile racing across the tundra, and then suddenly it flips over, pinning you underneath. At night, the ice weasels come.” – Matt Groening, The Big Book of Hell.
  • “All you need is love. But a little chocolate now and then doesn’t hurt.” – Charles M. Schulz.
  • “I love being married. It’s so great to find that one special person you want to annoy for the rest of your life.” – Rita Rudner.
  • “Love is something sent from heaven to worry the hell out of you.” – Dolly Parton.
  • “I just happened to be nowhere near your neighborhood.” – Singles.
  • “I’m afraid once your heart is involved, it all comes out in moron.” – Gilmore Girls.
  • “Falling in love is not at all the most stupid thing that people do, but gravitation cannot be held responsible for it.” – Albert Einstein.
  • “Real love amounts to withholding the truth, even when you’re offered the perfect opportunity to hurt someone’s feelings.” – David Sedaris.
Couple in love sitting in field laughing

Cute Love Quotes

  • “Love is a friendship set to music.” – Joseph Campbell.
  • “Love is a single soul inhabiting two bodies.” – Aristotle.
  • “I think I’d miss you even if we never met.” – The Wedding Date. 
  • “When you’re a kid, you assume your parents are soulmates. My kids are going to be right about that.” – The Office. 
  • “So excuse me forgetting but these things, I do you see, I’ve forgotten if they’re green or they’re blue. Anyway, the thing is, what I really mean yours are the sweetest eyes I’ve ever seen.” – Elton John, “Your Song.”
  • “Nobody has ever measured, not even poets, how much the heart can hold.”– Zelda Fitzgerald.
  • “Two people in love, alone, isolated from the world, that’s beautiful.” – Milan Kundera.
  • “True love stories never have endings.” – Richard Bach.
  • “The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched—they must be felt with the heart.” – Helen Keller.
  • “Deep within us — no matter who we are — there lives a feeling of wanting to be lovable, of wanting to be the kind of person that others like to be with. And the greatest thing we can do is to let people know that they are loved and capable of loving.” – Fred Rogers
  • “The greatest thing you’ll ever learn is just to love and be loved in return.” – Nat King Cole, “Nature Boy” lyrics. 
Cute couple in love holding hands on date at restaurant

 Quotes About Marriage

  • “A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person.”- Mignon McLaughlin.
  • “The minute I heard my first love story, I started looking for you, not knowing how blind that was. Lovers don’t finally meet somewhere. They’re in each other all along.” – Rumi
  • “To be fully seen by somebody, then, and be loved anyhow – this is a human offering that can border on miraculous.”– Elizabeth Gilbert, Committed: A Skeptic Makes Peace with Marriage.
  • “If I get married, I want to be very married.” – Audrey Hepburn. 
  • “I love you without knowing how, or when, or from where. I love you simply, without problems or pride: I love you in this way because I do not know any other way of loving but this, in which there is no I or you, so intimate that your hand upon my chest is my hand, so intimate than when I fall asleep your eyes close.” – Pablo Neruda, 100 Love Sonnets. 
  • “Love recognizes no barriers. It jumps hurdles, leaps fences, penetrates walls to arrive at its destination full of hope.”– Maya Angelou.
  • “I am nothing special, of this, I am sure. I am a common man with common thoughts, and I’ve led a common life. There are no monuments dedicated to me, and my name will soon be forgotten, but I’ve loved another with all my heart and soul, and to me, this has always been enough.”– Nicholas Sparks, The Notebook.
  • “If I had a flower for every time I thought of you… I could walk through my garden forever.”– Alfred Tennyson.
  • “Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength while loving someone deeply gives you courage.”– Lao Tzu.
  • “We’re all a little weird. And life is a little weird. And when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up with them and fall into mutually satisfying weirdness – and call it love – true love.”– Robert Fulghum, True Love.
Married couple standing in field at sunset

 Love Quotes from Literature

  • “Each time you happen to me all over again.” – The Age of Innocence, Edith Wharton
  • “Grow old along with me! The best is yet to be.” Rabbi Ben Ezra – Robert Browning.
  • “I’ve never had a moment’s doubt. I love you. I believe in you completely; you are my dearest one. My reason for Life.” Atonement – Ian McEwan
  • “Who, being loved, is poor?” —Oscar Wilde, A Woman of No Importance
  • “Perhaps, after all, the romance did not come into one’s life with pomp and blare, like a gay knight riding down; perhaps it crept to one’s side like an old friend through quiet ways; perhaps it revealed itself in seeming prose until some sudden shaft of illumination flung athwart its pages betrayed the rhythm and the music, perhaps… perhaps… love unfolded naturally out of a beautiful friendship, as a golden-hearted rose slipping from its green sheath.” — Lucy Maud Montgomery, Anne of Avonlea.
  • “To love or have loved, that is enough. Ask nothing further. There is no other pearl to be found in the dark folds of life.” —Victor Hugo, Les Misérables.
  • “When you love something, it loves you back in whatever way it has to love.” —John Knowles, A Separate Peace.
  • “A love story is not about those who lose their heart but about those who find that sullen inhabitant who, when it is stumbled upon, means the body can fool no one, can fool nothing— not the wisdom of sleep or the habit of social graces. It is a consuming of oneself and the past.” —Michael Ondaatje, The English Patient.
  • “We love the things we love for what they are.” —Robert Frost, Hyla Brook.
  • “The way her body existed only where he touched her. The rest of her was smoke.” —Arundhati Roy, The God of Small Things.
  • “In love, there are two things—bodies and words.” —Joyce Carol Oates.
  • “I have learned not to worry about love; but to honor its coming with all my heart.” —Alice Walker.
  • “All, everything that I understand, I understand only because I love.” —Leo Tolstoy, War, and Peace. 
Couple in love sitting together on blanket

The best thing that we can do in life is love. Love should come to humans as easy as breathing. Therefore, with these famous love quotes, let your partner know how much you mean to them. Which is your favourite quote on love?

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16 Best DIY Wedding Ideas

Beautifully decorated wedding venue with white flowers

Many of you might be thinking of hiring a wedding planner to plan your wedding and get your wedding venue decorated. But Wait! There’s another fantastic way in which you can get a stylish wedding touch on your own.

Yes, you’ve read it correctly, you can do it on your own, and that’s why we’re here with the best DIY wedding decoration ideas that will truly amaze your guests. 

So, if you both fall under the umbrella of budget-friendly or décor-savvy couples who want to tackle the decoration process independently, then prepare to be the best temporary wedding planner your wedding ceremony will ever see!

From Bride & Groom Bucket List to Photo Family Tree, the 16 best DIY Wedding Ideas mentioned below will genuinely embrace your wedding ceremony’s beauty.

1. Use Bridebook’s Free Wedding Planning App

Bridebook free wedding planning app

Become your own wedding planner with the Bridebook app. Search for wedding venues, and all the wedding suppliers you need like caterers, photographers, florists and so much more! 

Stay organised with your Wedding Checklist, manage all your guests with the Wedding Guest list tool, and manage your costs with the personalised Budget Planner. You can also invite as many collaborators as you’d like to join you on your wedding planning journey.

So what are you waiting for? Sign up and download the free Bridebook Wedding Planning App now!

2.  Bride & Groom Bucket List

Similar to the guestbook, another popular and unique idea is the Bride & Groom Bucket List. It is super fun and also relatively easy to create. In this list, you can add all the things that you and your partner can do together to strengthen your love and bond. 

This will be a fun and creative idea for you and your partner and will surely give you some fantastic ideas for activities to do during your wedding.

3.  Ribbon Tied Chairs

Pink and blue ribbons tied to wedding chairs at beautiful beach wedding

Another unique way to add style to your wedding is by making the chairs look more impressive – tie beautiful ribbons around the back of the chairs. 

Chair décor is one of the most overlooked details at the wedding, and the right embellishments or the wedding chair décor ideas will genuinely create a dramatic look for your special day.

4.  Blackboard Wedding Program

While planning a wedding, it is vital to have a program so that the guests can have an idea of what will be happening in the entire wedding ceremony. For this, you can be creative enough by using a blackboard or a chalkboard to chalk out the complete wedding program.

5.  Paper Lanterns

Beautiful paper lanterns hung at ceiling of barn wedding venue

Paper lanterns are beautiful enough that they will truly embrace your wedding décor. 

The paper made lanterns will spark the inspiration to create your own one of a kind environment for your wedding day without breaking the bank. Paper lanterns are easy to make, which will combine lighting with table décor.

6. Self Portrait Guest Book

Ditch the photo guest book and just ask your artistic guests and relatives to draw self-portraits. You can allow space to your guests to fill it in with their amazing artwork and signatures, and the coloured Sharpies add to the fun.

7.  Hanging Flowers

Lovely pink, white and yellow hanging flowers hung from ceiling of wedding venue above the wedding chairs

The hanging flowers or the flower chandeliers work amazingly to add beauty to your wedding. Wedding trends may come and go, but the trend of hanging flowers will remain the same. 

Hanging flowers of different colors or the flower chandeliers will surely give your wedding a garden-fresh feel that your guests will truly love.

8.   Pineapple Vase Centrepieces

With so many ideas of centrepieces, you can ditch all of them and give a try to the most trendy Pineapple Vase Centrepiece. 

Hallowed pineapples will make a perfect and eye-catching Whimsical Pineapple vase that will truly capture your guests’ interest. The Pineapple Vase Centrepieces will look the best with the tropical flower blends.

9.  Custom Balloons

Blue and white custom balloons near the ceiling of wedding venue

The colorful custom balloons will liven up your wedding event and will surely give a fantastic look to your wedding. 

The various sizes, shapes, and colors of custom balloons are available easily online. You can get customized according to your need with cute pictures or cheeky slogans.

10.   Bow Tie Napkins

Bow Tie Napkins are truly loved by all, and they give a cute and unique touch to the wedding décor ideas. 

Instead of placing the napkins generally on the table, you can create a bow-tie shape of the napkins that will embrace the beauty of the table and will indeed prove to be a great tablescape at your wedding.

11.  Flower Walls

White flower wall with married couple standing in front of flower wall

Floral Floral on the wall, they are the prettiest of them all! Flowers are a crucial part of the wedding, and right from the dainty wedding elements to the boisterous decorations, the presence of flowers embraces the entire wedding look.

A plethora of colorful flowers bunched together into a wall will look surreal and will take your wedding pictures to the next level.

12.  Giant Paper Flowers

The giant paper flowers look amazing when they are part of a backdrop installation. Make a lot of giant paper flowers of different colors, and then combine all of them to be a part of the backdrop installation. This will give an eye-popping look to your wedding decoration.

13.   Woodland Floral Centrepieces

Woodland floral centrepiece at wedding table

As said earlier that flowers are an essential part without which the wedding décor is incomplete. So here we are with another flower décor idea that involves Woodland Inspired Floral Centrepieces. 

If you plan a rustic themed wedding, you can ditch the flower vases and display flowers in old tree logs that will give a unique touch of earthy vibes to your wedding.

14.   Blanket Wedding Aisle

Your grand entrance right down the aisle is one of the most unique and special moments during your wedding. 

There are amazing aisle runners out there, but you can be creative enough by using colourful blankets as an innovative alternative to aisle runners. It will surely fit perfectly in any of the wedding themes.

15.   Customised Lawn Games

To add some kind of fun and spark to your wedding, you can arrange some customised lawn games for your guests to keep your guests engaged. With the best wedding lawn games, you can keep guests of all ages entertained at an outdoor wedding. 

So, if you have a large lawn to work with, then it may be fun to set up multiple games so that everyone who wants to play can get a chance.

16.   Photo Family Tree

Last but not least, a photo family tree is a great way to enhance the look of your wedding décor. 

For this, you just need pictures of your family and your couple’s photos, some decoration elements like ribbons, lights, and maybe even a tree. And then you can decorate the tree and hang the pictures on it with ribbon. This will look pretty amazing.

So, how did you find these fantastic DIY Wedding Decoration Ideas? Aren’t they amazing? These DIY wedding ideas are budget-friendly, and they will let you create a whole new stylish look at your wedding without costing you much.

So what are you waiting for? Just grab the required items that you will need and start preparing for creating an excellent DIY wedding decoration.

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15 Romantic Marriage Proposal Ideas

Proposing to your partner might seem an easy task, but sometimes you’re not sure exactly how to get down on one knee. Proposing to your partner is a special moment that neither of you will ever forget..

To make this memorable moment extra unique, we are here with 15 romantic marriage proposal ideas that will make your partner fall in love with you again.

1. Re-create your first date proposal

Boyfriend and girlfriend recreating their first date at a restaurant with the boyfriend about to propose to his girlfriend

Do you remember the place where you both met for the first time? A restaurant, a bar, or a movie? 

All you need to do is recreate your first date, this will bring up all the lovely memories back. You both can have a conversation about all the happy and beautiful memories of your relationship. Then you can get down on your knee with a ring in your hand and romantically propose to your partner.

2. Summit proposal

Just imagine proposing to your partner on the top of the mountain with a stunning all-round view. Isn’t it amazing?

Plan a trip to your favourite mountainous destination with your partner and plan a proposal. If you and your partner love the joy of conquering the summit, then make that moment worth remembering and even more memorable by proposing to them there in your unique way.

3. Hot air balloon proposal

15 Romantic Marriage Proposal Ideas

As “Love is in the Air” then why not propose to your partner in a romantic hot air balloon ride.

This engagement idea is becoming ever so popular, and for a good reason. Just book a hot air balloon ride to make the moment of proposing that much more romantic and beautiful. This will be a proposal neither of you will ever forget – just make sure your partner is not too afraid of heights.

4. Friends and family proposal

If you and your partner are close to both your family and friends, then why not include them in your life’s special moment?

Proposing to your life partner with all your friends and family members will be a great way to include your loved ones in your happy moment. This will make you and your partner feel extra special, and will be an engagement your friends and family will not stop talking about.

5. Pets and kids proposal

As you are planning for a romantic proposal and have pets or kids in your house, why shouldn’t they be a part of this beautiful moment?

How cute will it look to see a proposing message like “Will You Marry Me?” around a dog’s collar? Or a child holding a board with another romantic proposal message. Your partner will surely love this. And you can make this moment an extra special one by going down on your knee with a ring and proposing to them.

6. Holiday proposal

Couple relaxing on swing on holiday

Are you and your partner fond travellers? If yes, then you should take your partner on holiday to a romantic destination and make that moment worth remembering.

Plan a trip to a destination that you both wanted to visit together, or one that’s extra special to you both, and don’t forget to carry the ring with you. You can then plan various ways of proposing to them like going for a candlelight dinner, a walk on the beach, or watching a sunrise or sunset.

7. Scavenger hunt proposal

You can bring joy and excitement while proposing to your partner by playing a treasure or scavenger hunt game – talk about a unique engagement proposal idea.

Just hide the clues of your proposal message in and around the house and ask your partner to find the clues. After finding all the clues, they will be ending up forming a complete proposal message, creating a charming and memorable moment.

8. Skywriting proposal

One of the most surprising ways to propose your partner is the skywriting proposal, which can make them feel amazed.

All you need to do is to hire a skywriter and ask them to write your proposal message with a plane in the clouds, an unforgettable moment for both of you.

9. Camping proposal

Dome camping tents and campers overlooking mountain ranges at sunrise

Proposing to your partner in a tent under the night sky will leave a surreal and fantastic memory.

Pitch up a tent under the night sky and spend quality time with your partner by sharing some of your favourite memories, watching the stars, or anything romantic to help set the mood. Then when the moment is right, pull out the ring and propose.

10. Favourite movie proposal

Are you and your partner both movie lovers? If yes, then why not choose the movie engagement idea?

Plan a movie date with your partner to watch you or your partner’s favourite romantic movie and don’t forget to carry a ring with you. While watching the movie together, wait for a romantic scene to come, then you can take out the ring and propose. This will surely surprise them and make your movie date a perfect one.

11. Favourite love song proposal

One loving way of proposing to your partner is to propose with a song playing in the background.

You can plan out a date with them, then you can play their favourite love song in the background or if you have a great voice, why not serenade your partner? Then when the time is right, go down on your knees with a ring in your hand and propose.

12. Foodie proposal

Couple at eating delicious lunch in cafe

Are you or your partner food lovers? If yes, then a foodie proposal is perfect for you both.

First choose their favourite food; then you can write down your proposal message on a paper or card and then place it in their food. If you’re an excellent cook, why not make it even more special and cook the meal yourself? Example: proposal message on the icing of a chocolate cake or a note inside a fortune cookie.

13. Boat Proposal

One of the most romantic engagement ideas is  proposing to your partner out on the water.

Go for a boat ride with your partner and plan to propose to them there as it will be the most romantic, intimate, and perfect place to ask them for marriage. This boat ride will surely be memorable for both of you.

14. Crossword puzzle proposal

Proposing to your partner with a crossword puzzle is one of the most unique, surprising and fun marriage proposal ideas.

You need to contact any of the puzzles editors to form a crossword puzzle that delivers a proposal message to your partner. Or else you can create your own crossword puzzle online for proposing.

15. Skydiving proposal

Man and woman in overalls skydiving over countryside

Last but not least, a skydiving proposal is one of the most memorable engagement ideas ever. 

With nature as your perfect setting, this idea is one they will surely remember for the rest of their life. Ready the question that’s largely printed on the destination so that they notice it the second you reach the ground. What’s even better? Go with printing a large banner so that they can notice it while both of you are in the air together.

This was all about the best 15 romantic marriage proposal ideas that will add more love and memories in your love life. You can choose any of these ways of proposing to your partner and making that extra special moment an unforgettable one.

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7 At-Home Date Ideas

We all love date night: It’s the getting ready in anticipation, looking up restaurant reviews, arguing over what film to see, and who’s booking the seats.

We know that you might be missing these special nights out, but in the age of social distancing it’s time to get a little bit more creative with your date nights at home. 

There really is no better time than the present to shake things up and even save yourselves some serious dollar in the process. Lucky for you, we’ve come up with some quarantine-approved, stay-at-home date nights that you and your partner can try out. You are most welcome. 

1. For the Cant-Sit-Still Couple

Have you been talking about taking those salsa lessons or tango classes for ages, but never managed to do it for fear of falling in the middle of a rumba?  Well, now’s the perfect time to learn with zero fear of embarrassment. DanceDojo has free salsa lessons with video tutorials on salsa steps, turns, and combinations. This could be the perfect time to perfect that fancy footwork for the first dance at your wedding!

couple dancing in black and white

2. For the Aspiring Mixologists

Who said you can’t have an at-home happy hour? There’s no need to go to the shops for this one, why not see who can come up with the best cocktail from items you already have in the fridge. If winging it isn’t your style (or you don’t want to waste any precious liquor), the make me a cocktail website will tell you what classic cocktails you can make with what you already have.

3. For the Comfortable Couple:

No judgment from us if you don’t feel like changing out of your cosiest clothes (who can blame you). But why not make movie night a little more special, and camp out in your living room. Setting up a blanket fort will automatically make you feel like mischievous children, in the best possible way. Just grab some pillows, some extra blankets and you’ve got yourself a cozy hideaway. Bonus points for whoever brings the fairy lights and extra snacks. 

Married couple inside a tent

4. For the Theatre-lovers:

For those of you missing out on theatre trips, Filmed on stage is bringing the theatre to you. Access hundreds of plays and musicals, from Comedies to Shakespeare, at your fingertips. You can even watch that sold-out National Theatre play you’ve been trying to get tickets to for months. Feel free to crack open an interval ice cream (and it won’t cost you £6!). 

5. For the Jetsetters:

We know you might have had trips cancelled, but rather than setting your screensaver to that picturesque beach, why not have an around the world evening-in? Curb your wanderlust by bringing Tokyo to your living room by watching Lost in Translation, ordering sushi and singing out-of-tune karaoke. Or head to the Italian Riviera by watching a classic Italian film (Il Paradiso is our pick), making a delicious bolognese and drinking a bottle (or two) together.

couple having dinner with candles

6. For the Cultural Couple:

One of the perks of 2000 museums and galleries being online at Google Arts & Culture is that finally, they’re open 24 hours! So why not find your way to the Musée d’Orsay in Paris (without thousands of people blocking your view), or head to the Guggenheim in New York. Alongside art collections, there are tours of famous sites and landmarks such as the Taj Mahal, the Colosseum and the Bolshoi Theatre. Now is a better time than any to learn your Monet from your Manet and your Dalí from your Degas.

7. For Romantic Reminiscing:

We could all do with a little extra romance right now, so go back to the beginning of your relationship, when the words social distancing had never been uttered. Light some candles, look through your old photos together and go through the New York Times’ 36 questions to make you fall in love. We promise you will laugh, cry and remember things you had completely forgotten about each other. Take this time to slow down and be present with the person you love most.

couple in romantic setting

What’s the Best Day to Get Married On?

When the time comes to sit down and properly start planning your wedding, one of the very first questions you’ll face is ‘what day of the week shall we get married?’ Your first instinct will likely be on a weekend – but, you’ll have to compete with thousands of couples who’ll have exactly the same thought process.

But, is a weekend the best time to have your wedding? What about midweek? And which month, or even season, would make for the best choice?

There isn’t a one-size-fits-all answer, but there may be a one-day-fits-budget answer that could make your decision a little easier.

In this post, we’re going to dive into the busy world of how to choose which day you should get married. We’ll explore the considerations to keep at the forefront of your mind, the most popular dates and days to have a wedding, and why a midweek wedding might just be the best decision you make.

What are the most popular dates to get married on?

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As discovered in our 2023 UK Wedding Report, the top 10 most popular dates to get married are:

  1. 19th August
  2. 26th August
  3. 9th September
  4. 16th September
  5. 23rd September
  6. 12th August
  7. 8th July
  8. 2nd September
  9. 20th May
  10. 7th October

As you can see, most of these dates are during the summer months, which is when you might expect the weather to behave itself – although this is in the UK after all, where nothing is guaranteed when it comes to the weather.

However, there is something that each of these dates has in common, which we’ll come on to next.

What’s the most popular day of the week to get married on?

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The most popular day of the week to get married is Saturday. Because of this, everything from venues and caterers to photographers and transport generally has higher rates on a Saturday than any other day of the week.

However, for the first time, less than half (48%) of weddings in 2023 took place on a Saturday, according to our 2024 Wedding Report. This is a continuation of the trend in recent years away from Saturday weddings.

Why is Saturday the most popular day of the week to get married on?

The most obvious reason why Saturday is still the most popular day couples choose for their wedding is because it’s when most of your guests will be free from work and school commitments. Around two-thirds of employees don’t work weekends, which means the majority of your guests won’t have to book annual leave to come to your big day. Plus, they’re more likely to let their hair down and enjoy themselves if they don’t have to get up early for work the next day – this goes double for any guests who may have travelled a long way to be there.

What’s the cheapest day to get married on?

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The cheapest day to get married on is a Tuesday, with the average Tuesday wedding costing £16,273, compared to the overall average of £20,775. This is also over £6,000 cheaper than the average Saturday wedding, which costs £22,290.

Despite being the cheapest, Tuesday is actually the least popular day to get married, with only 4% of couples tying the knot on the second day of the week.

For more tips and tricks on cutting wedding-related costs, read our comprehensive guide on how to save money on your wedding.

Why is Tuesday the cheapest day to get married?

Just like how Saturdays are the most popular day for a wedding because most of your guests are off work and school, Tuesdays are the least popular in part because the reverse of this is true. Unless they work shifts, your guests are likely to be at work or school on a Tuesday, and because it’s not on either side of the weekend like a Friday or Monday, guests might not be so keen to take a day’s annual leave. Then there’s the additional travel time for guests who don’t live close by, which might mean another day or two of holiday.

What’s the best season for a wedding?

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In 2023, just 7% of weddings took place during the first three months of the year. As the weather got warmer so did couples’ love for a wedding, with a fifth having their big day in April, May or June. Then another 41% had summer or early autumn weddings in July, August or September, and the final quarter tied the knot in October, November or December.

From this, it’s obvious that couples prefer to get married during the warmer spring, summer and autumn months, with more than two-thirds of all weddings taking place between April and September. Because of this, these months will be among the most expensive within which to get married. That said, autumn weddings are rising in popularity, with October especially now being sought-after (16% of weddings in 2023 took place in October). 

What do superstitions say about the best and worst months for a wedding?

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If you believe in superstitions, there are some to consider before choosing your date, because some think that certain months are luckier to get married in than others.

When it comes to bad luck, there’s a rhyme that states, ‘Marry in May and you’ll rue the day’ which dates back to Pagan fertility rituals. Among its most famous believers was Queen Victoria, who supposedly banned her children from getting married in May. Clearly, not many modern couples believe this superstition, with May currently being the fourth most popular month for weddings.

If you’re seeking some good luck, here are some of our favourites to bear in mind:

  • Marry when the year is new and he’ll be loving, kind and true.
  • Marry in April when you can, and joy for maiden and for man.
  • Marry in September’s shrine, your living will be rich and fine.

What’s the luckiest day of the week for a wedding?

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Now that you know some of the superstitions surrounding months, what about the days of the week? Well, there are Gaelic superstitions that state:

Marry on Monday for wealth,

Tuesday for health,

Wednesday the best day of all,

Thursday for crosses,

Friday for losses,

and Saturday no day at all.

You may not be a big believer in superstitions, but even if you’re not, it can’t hurt to err on the side of caution, right? Besides, would a Tuesday wedding in September be so bad? It would certainly be cheaper, if nothing else.

Should you get married on an important date, like Christmas Day or New Year’s Eve?

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Christmas Day is the most popular day to get engaged on, followed by Christmas Eve and New Year’s Eve. But, what if you want to get married on a date like this and have a shared celebration with your friends and family?

The first thing to be aware of is that not all of the guests you invite will want to give up a special date, so don’t be surprised if you get a few Xs on your RSVPs. Travel and accommodation can also be tricky, not to mention expensive during holiday periods.

It can also be extremely expensive for you if you choose to have a Christmas Day or New Year’s Eve wedding. Staff may be paid double or triple rates, and this is already a popular date in the hospitality industry anyway, which means it might be difficult securing your chosen venue.

If you’re keen to have a wedding that falls on a holiday date, then there’s absolutely nothing wrong with this. But, just be prepared to pay a little more for the privilege.

What else should you bear in mind when booking your wedding date?

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While it will usually be cheaper to get married between October and March, we get that this might not always be an option. You might be tied to school holidays, weekends or other specific times of the year, which means you have a limited choice for when to book your wedding.

If this is you, then we recommend booking your venue as far in advance as possible to ensure you secure your chosen date. And when we say far in advance, we mean it – popular venues at busy times of the year can book up several years into the future, so get in there as soon as you can and throw down your deposit.

Browse our huge range of wedding venues to find your perfect venue, with many offering exclusive seasonal discounts.

8 reasons why you should consider having a midweek wedding

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If you’re still not sure about a midweek wedding, here are eight reasons why you should consider getting married on a school night.

1. You can get married sooner

As we already highlighted, Saturday is a popular day to get married. That means the most popular venues are booked up for weekend dates years in advance. It might also mean that you or your guests have already committed to attending someone else’s wedding on almost every Saturday this summer or next summer.

So if you want to get married in your dream venue and you want your best friend to make it, you might be looking at two or three years until the dates (and the stars) align for you to have a weekend wedding at your number one choice of venue.

But, if you book your wedding on a weekday, you’ll have far fewer availability worries to think about. No need for this to turn into a five-year engagement. Being more flexible with your date opens up a much wider variety of options, meaning you’re more likely to get your dream venue and avoid clashes with other weddings.

2. You can secure the best suppliers (and pay less)

Not only do venues get booked up early on weekends, but so do all your other suppliers. You’re much more likely to get your dream team with a weekday wedding. Many suppliers will also lower their prices during the week so you might even be able to push the boat out and get a truly top-notch photographer, caterer or florist that you otherwise wouldn’t be able to afford. With a weekday wedding, you’re much more likely to get exactly what you want and have a far smaller bill at the end of it.

3. You’ll save yourself from stress

Planning a wedding can sometimes be stressful – especially when things don’t go to plan, such as your favourite photographer or caterer becoming unavailable because another couple snapped them up. Because far fewer couples get married midweek, you’ll have less competition, which means you’ll save yourself from stressful planning-related scheduling conflicts.

4. You can have your loved ones there

Despite all the perks that can come with a weekday wedding, one concern that many couples have is that their loved ones won’t be able to make it. While this is a possibility, we’d always expect those most important to you to do everything they can to be there for your big day. After all, it’s only one day of holiday (or two if they have to travel).

That said, you should think about your guest list when making this decision. If you’re planning a weekday wedding and your parents are teachers, for example, you’ll want to prioritise school holidays to make sure they can make it. But at the end of the day, your nearest and dearest will want to show up for you – and a weekday wedding won’t stop them.

5. You can keep things intimate

If you don’t want a blowout bash, a weekday wedding can be a great opportunity for a more relaxed and intimate affair. Without the fuss that can come with a huge weekend do, you can just have your nearest and dearest around you and get to spend more time talking to the people you care about the most. If you know there are people you’ll have to invite but don’t really want to, a weekday wedding is also a cheeky way to make it less likely they’ll show up.

6. You can save your guests some money

While you might think a weekday wedding would make it harder for guests to attend, it can actually solve a lot of problems for them. By holding your wedding on a weekday, it means better availability for travel and cheaper accommodation for your guests.

7. You can keep the party going

Another benefit of a weekday wedding is you can spread the celebration out and extend the fun, particularly if you host your wedding on a Monday, Friday or around a bank holiday. After all, you only get married once – make the most of it. Organise a cocktail party the night before or a relaxed brunch the morning after.

You could even go old school and decide to jet off on your honeymoon straight after the wedding. Travelling midweek can mean huge savings on flights and accommodation, leaving you with more cash to splash elsewhere.

8. You’ll support local businesses

Because so few wedding vendors provide their services to midweek weddings, they may find themselves with empty calendars between Mondays and Thursdays. By planning something for the start of the week, you’re doing your part to support smaller local businesses.

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How to plan your wedding remotely

While we all continue to do our bit for the NHS by staying indoors, a lot of us are finding ourselves with a lot of spare time on our hands and with spirits that need some lifting.

If you’re recently engaged, now is the perfect time to start getting excited about planning for your big day.

Here at Bridebook, we know that it may seem a little daunting to plan your wedding from your living room, but with this expert guide, you’ll be getting started soon.

Getting started

Knowing where to start can be the trickiest part of planning a wedding, but with our handy wedding checklist, it couldn’t be easier. Simply start by working your way through the individual tasks and you’ll be rolling in no time!

Invite your partner to collaborate with you so that you can start assigning tasks to each other. At Bridebook, we strongly believe that wedding planning should be a joint effort, so get them involved if they aren’t already! 

Feel free to start browsing for inspiration at this stage too. The hashtags #wedding and #weddinginspo on Pinterest and Instagram are particularly #stunning.

Agreeing your budget

It’s good to sit down with your partner and talk about what you both want from your wedding: a small and intimate affair with close friends and family or a lavish party with hundreds of guests?

Once you’ve worked out what you both want, you need to decide how much you are willing to spend for your big day. With that in mind, let Bridebook do the hard work for you! With data from the 500,000 weddings we’ve helped to plan, we’ll help crunch those numbers. Just enter your total budget and we’ll tell you how much you should be spending on each item, from your venue to your cake.

Booking your Venue

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Booking your venue is often the most exciting part of the wedding planning process, but it might seem a bit tricky to do from your sofa. But don’t fret! There are now loads of ways that you can use modern technology to get a feel for your venue without the need to visit.

Use Bridebook’s search tool to browse through thousands of venues that meet your specific needs and quickly narrow down by shortlisting your favourites. Look through our extensive picture galleries and read the reviews from our previous couples to start getting a feel for the place.

Next, get brochures from your favourites and reach out to see what remote viewings they can offer. Lots of venues are now offering virtual tours or videos that can help you get a better picture of your perfect wedding: all from the comfort of your own home.

Booking your suppliers

Again, Bridebook’s search tool comes in handy here, allowing you to look through all of our wedding suppliers in your preferred area and explore their photos and reviews.

Your venue can also be a great help here too. They will often have a list of preferred suppliers for their venue, which can help you narrow down your choices. This way you can be sure that the supplier knows the space well and that the venue trusts them to do a great job.

Managing your guests

Deciding who to invite to your big day can be a challenge for any couple, but with Bridebook’s guestlist tool, it’ll be a breeze.

Add all of your potential guests (or import them straight from your contacts to make it even simpler!), then choose if they are coming for the day, evening, or on the waitlist for now.

Then use our Guest Info Collector to gather their email and physical addresses, so that you can send them their save the dates and keep them updated throughout the planning process.

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Start building your gift list

Getting married is not just about throwing a party, it’s also about the rest of your life too and a gift list can be a great part of helping you prepare for that.

Start thinking about what you want from your gift list: a gift registry, a honeymoon fund, or perhaps asking your loved ones to contribute to a charitable cause that’s close to your heart.

Check out our comparison of the various gift list options to see what best suits your needs.

Then, start adding your dream gifts, knowing that they’ll be with you sooner than you think!

Enjoy it

Weddings are very special. There is no better reason on earth to throw an epic party than two people falling in love. And the world is certainly going to need some incredible parties soon… and you are going to be at the very centre of them.

Make sure to take stock and enjoy planning this amazing event with your loved one, your friends and your family (virtually) by your side.

Covid 19 Wedding Advice For Couples

Hamish Shephard, CEO of Bridebook and owner of Hedsor House shares his Covid-19 advice for couples with weddings in March, April & May 2020.

Dear couples,

With the news from the government solidifying the ‘stay at home’ message, I know that you are concerned about what this means for your weddings in the coming days, weeks, and months.

Below we have outlined our advice based on the information that we currently have, based on feedback from couples, venues, other industry profiles, insurance companies, legal advice, and government recommendations. Of course, there will be nuances, and this will not apply to every single couple. Nonetheless, we hope that it is helpful for a large number of couples planning weddings in the coming months.

We know that the situation is far from ideal, but remember that one day it will be over, and you WILL get married to your partner in a wedding filled with love. However, at this time, we all need to be realistic, understanding and flexible.

Remember, also, that your venue and suppliers are going through an extremely stressful time too, trying to protect their livelihoods, while ensuring they do what is right for their couples. It is a time for all of us to come together and be understanding of a very difficult situation for everyone.


If your wedding date is in the next few months (March – May):

Our strong recommendation is that you should work with your venue and suppliers to postpone your wedding as soon as possible. This is the right decision on the basis of public health, your financial interest, and for the overall success of your wedding. If your wedding is scheduled any time between now and the end of May, your wedding will certainly be affected and may not be able to go ahead at all. Making postponement arrangements now with your venue will put you in the best position to find a date that works for you, and keep most of the plans and financial commitments that you already have in place. Priority no.1 is to talk through your options with your wedding insurer, if you have cover.

We next suggest you speak to your venue to discuss alternative date options, and then discuss with your partner and key guests which dates work best for everyone. Keep an open mind with off-peak seasons and non-Saturday wedding dates, as they will undoubtedly become desirable for the many couples rescheduling their weddings. Venues typically have greater availability in Autumn and Winter, and the industry as a whole already sees a trend for couples booking Thursday, Friday and Sunday weddings. These dates are going to be the solutions for many couples, and you should start considering them now.

It is important to recognise that your venue is likely having an extremely stressful time too. They are likely a small team, dealing with a huge amount of change and many very anxious customers. They will be doing their best handling these unprecedented challenges, which significantly threaten their livelihoods, so work with them and give them your support. They likely need support at this very tough time as much as you do.

If you are still considering going ahead with your wedding, please remember that the risk of losing your deposit or other financial commitments will be greater if you don’t make plans to rearrange your wedding date. Given that the government have now stopped public gatherings, your wedding will likely need to be cancelled or affected in a drastic way and it is not always clear who will be financially responsible for these cancellations. Since these are unprecedented times and there are so many unknowns, we suggest acting now rather than waiting with fingers crossed. There is a very real possibility that your wedding will not be able to go ahead as planned, and the costs may not be covered by your or the venue’s insurance policy.


If your wedding is planned for the Summer (Jun-Aug):

While your wedding may not be in immediate jeopardy, it has the potential to be disrupted, especially if you have overseas or elderly/vulnerable guests. Making a contingency plan now will give you the greatest opportunity to control the outcome and costs, and find a wedding date that works for you without the ongoing stress and anxiety of a potential cancellation or disruption. We recommend starting to have conversations with your partner now about alternatives that will work for you including the possibility of postponing your wedding or contingency plans if some guests are unable to attend. You don’t need to make any immediate decisions right now, but you should be having the relevant conversations. Remember to be patient with your venues and suppliers, as they are having to shuffle weddings that are supposed to take place in the coming weeks too.


If your wedding is in September 2020 or beyond:

Our advice at the moment is to keep monitoring the situation closely. Keep an eye on the latest information and consider thinking about basic contingency plans, should you need them. At the moment, we are hopeful that September weddings and beyond will go ahead as planned, but of course we need to monitor the situation closely.

Once again, I want to express my utmost sympathy with all of you going through this incredibly tough situation. Now is the time for you and your partner to stick together closer than ever and Bridebook will be there to support you too. Remember, this will be over and your big day will come.

Best wishes and keep safe,

Hamish

Here at Bridebook, we believe strongly in the power of community during times like these, so we have set up a Facebook group for anyone involved in planning a wedding. Join here for some practical tips from our team of experts, as well as friendly support from others in a similar situation.