If you’ve started planning your wedding, you’ll already know that finding your perfect venue is one of the most important decisions you’ll need to make. So with that in mind, here’s our expert guide on how to find the right venue for you.
If you don’t know where to start, have a scroll through Bridebook’s Venue Search. We’ve got the biggest and best wedding venue directory in the UK, so it’s a sure-fire way to find “the one”!
In this video, Bridebook founder (and qualified wedding planner!) Hamish Shephard gives his tips on finding your wedding venue in three easy steps. Whether you’re after initial wedding venue ideas or wondering what questions to ask your wedding venue, this is the video for you.
1. Think about what you both want
This day is about you and your partner, and your venue should reflect that! Work together to find a venue that suits both of your tastes. Whether you choose a modern loft, a beach wedding or a grand country house (like Elmore Court, below), make sure it’s what you both want.
We know, it’s not our most romantic advice – but it is important. And we promise, you can find a gorgeous venue, even on the tightest of budgets! Sit down with your partner and work out how much you want to spend on your venue early on so you know what you’re working with. Need somewhere to start? Your Bridebook has a handy Budget Calculator which will let you know in seconds how much of your budget to spend on your venue.
Where you get married is one of your most important decisions. Between you and your partner, it’s likely there are friends and family spread out across the country (or even the globe!) so choosing the right location is key to making sure as many people as possible can attend. Keep travel connections in mind if you’ve got people coming from far and wide. If you have elderly relatives you’d love to be there, think about how far they can reasonably travel too.
4. Think about how much space you need
How long is your guest list? Who’s on your A List and who could you do without? Do you want 300 people in attendance or would you rather just have you, your partner and ten close friends? Thinking about how many people will be there and what you want to happen on the day is key to picking the right venue. You don’t want hundreds of people crammed into a space that’s too small for them and the ten-piece band you’ve booked… But you also don’t want fifteen people spread out across an enormous hall.
One of the most frequently overlooked elements of any wedding day is the lighting – but we can’t stress how important it is. After all, there’s no point in spending thousands on a gorgeous venue if no one can see it! Make sure to check out what lighting packages the venue offers and whether it will complement the space and work with your wedding theme. If you want a few pointers, our top tip would always be to stay well away from fluorescent and ultraviolet lighting (unless you’re having a glow in the dark wedding, of course!). And if all else fails, explore options for creating your own lighting.
On your big day, the number one thing you’ll want is for things to run smoothly from dawn until dusk. So do your research! Read reviews and get recommendations of potential venues to make sure you get five-star service.
7. Make a list of must-haves
Sit down with your partner and write a list of non-negotiables. These are your must-haves, the things you and your partner absolutely can’t do without on your wedding day. If you have your heart set on a particular caterer and a venue can’t accommodate that, they’re out. On the other hand, if you decide an ice sculpture is just the thing and they’re willing to make that happen, you might just have found your dream venue!
You won’t love every venue – but it might just be the venue you least expect that takes your breath away! Even if you think you know what you want, try to keep your mind open to new ideas, themes and locations. You might be surprised at what you find in our directory and how you feel when you visit it. Ever thought about tying the knot in a riverside cabin, at the zoo or in a gorgeous picturehouse?
9. Visit more than once
We can’t stress this enough. Always go and see your top venue choices at least two or three times before you make a decision. There’s no rush to sign on the dotted line, we promise. Take your time because your choice of venue affects every other choice you’ll make.
Okay, so this is something you’ll only know when you feel it. It’s a bit like getting butterflies… It’s the moment you step inside a venue and know it’s perfect. You can see yourself walking down the aisle, you can see yourself surrounded by your loved ones… That’s “the feeling” we’re talking about! And it means you’ve found your venue.
Hopefully, that’s helped get you well on your way to finding your perfect venue! Now you know the basics, you can use Bridebook’s Venue Search to start looking for “the one.” You can filter by name, capacity, type and style, as well as location. You can also use Bridebook for the rest of your wedding planning, including managing your budget, creating your guest list and booking the rest of your wedding team.
It really is the most wonderful time of the year isn’t it.
Crisp mornings, cosy knits and frosted fields have got us all dreaming of a white Christmas and for some, the cold snap may have ignited a desire to plan a winter wedding too – real or imaginary (we’re not here to judge).
But where are the best winter wedding venues hiding? Where in the UK could one find that film-like representation of a winter love scene? Thankfully, we’ve scoured the country to bring you a list of the most magical places.
So grab a mug of something hot and snuggle up by the fire to enjoy our 9 Christmas wedding venue favourites.
9 Christmas wedding venues you simply have to see to believe
The Granary Estates epitomise cosy English interiors and you have the option of choosing between two stunning barns linked by a glass walkway and boasting a private courtyard.
Choosing the large barn for your wedding means that there’s space for a large Christmas tree…
Whilst choosing the smaller space makes for a more cosy, warm and intimate festive affair.
Forego the sweet table and finger food and opt to toast marshmallows over an open fire as you party into the night.
This beautiful Georgian mansion looks magnificent dusted in snow…
With its huge sash windows and tall ceilings dripping with chandeliers, you’ll be able to enjoy a high society style wedding with views of frosted nature all around you.
When we think of weddings by the sea, we don’t instantly think of winter weddings by the sea. Brrrrr!
But a Christmas wedding at Ocean Kave looks decidedly dreamy…
Ocean Kave is a luxury coastal wedding venue situated in 60 acres of countryside on the North Devon Coast.
Their intimate, all-weather ceremony venue and purpose built reception suites mean that you could get married in the warmth to the sound of crashing waves and the sight of falling snow.
This stunning 5,000 acre estate in Suffolk is recognised as one of the most beautiful stately homes in Britain. And it isn’t difficult to see why.
Choose a romantic Winter Garden Wedding and you’ll be able to enjoy views of this incredible manor house and its landscape gardens, and keep warm at the same time.
If this list of winter wedding venues has left you wanting more, jingle all the way over to our wedding venues search page, or have a browse of some amazing wedding venues all over the country:
The greatest gift of all is love….however why shouldn’t you have some lovely new things for your home to go with all that happiness?!
Our friends at The Wedding Shop share their tried and tested tips to help you create your dream gift list.
FUTURE PROOF YOUR LIST
“When looking around your home it can be hard to see the need for a twelve piece dinner set or additional glassware. However, it’s good to remember that your gifts are bought by your loved ones to mark the start of your new married life together and will build the foundation for your future home. So, pick gifts that are going to stand the test of time and that you will cherish in years to come. You won’t regret it, even if your other half does grumble about storage space!” – Jade
ADD MORE THAN YOU THINK
“You will be so surprised at how generous your guests are, so make sure you have added enough so that your guests don’t run out of options to choose from. It is also good to pick gifts at different price points so that everyone can buy you something you’ll love, regardless of their budget.” – Alice
EMBRACE GROUP GIFTING
“Don’t be afraid to add something that you absolutely love but that comes with a large price tag, such as furniture or a piece of art. Group gifting lets your guests contribute as much as they wish towards a statement piece and if it doesn’t get fully purchased you can move your funds to make up the remaining cost.” – Lara
MAKE IT PERSONAL
“Guests like to know they are contributing to something special and personal to you. So the most important thing is to have fun choosing gifts that you absolutely love. Don’t feel you need to choose just practical gifts or gifts you think your guests want to buy. Your quirky picks are what makes your gift list completely unique to you.” – Melissa
COVER ALL BASES
“Even if you only really want cash, we suggest adding physical gifts to your list too. Guests always prefer the choice of both. Your list is the perfect opportunity to update and upgrade your tired home essentials, so there will always be something that you need. When it comes to creating your cash funds, be specific. Guest like to know exactly what their contributions are going towards and what you have planned for the cash.” – Ryma
Famous for its ties with The Beatles and RMS Titanic, Liverpool is a thriving Northern city, full of personality and soul. Are you looking for the perfect venue in or around Liverpool? Look no further!
Bridebook.co.uk has hunted down 25 of the best venues from in and around the city that are totally unique! Take a look at these magnificent places, or have a gander yourself by using our Wedding Venue Search tool and selecting your city.
This dazzling venue is often among the top wedding venues in the UK – and we can see why! Its glorious glass structure is filled with unique palms that will set off your photos like no other. Sefton Park Palm House is also right in the heart of Liverpool!
Are you and your partner avid Beatles fans? This is the place for you! The Beatles Story is an iconic attraction that can be made into the backdrop for your wedding day – imagine saying your vows in the super realistic replica of the Cavern Club!
In the rolling Lancashire countryside and less than an hour away from Liverpool, West Tower sits on eight acres of stunning land. Traditional on the outside and contemporary on the inside, this impressive country house is the perfect venue to suit all tastes.
Dating back to the 15th Century, this glamorous country house and it’s beautiful gardens in the walled estate can be exclusively yours for your unique wedding day. With a rich heritage and easy access to Liverpool, Knowsley Hall is an ideal choice for a stunning backdrop.
Right in the city centre lies the undiscovered gem of Alma De Cuba. The building is a former church that has a lengthy history dating back to 1788. Now a stylish restaurant and bar, you can hire these spectacular surroundings with bespoke service for your big day!
This 16th Century barn is set on 120 acres of country estate and is just 8 miles down the road from Liverpool. Original stone walls and exposed beams provide plenty of character, and spectacular rural views are on offer for you and your guests to enjoy at Crosby Hall.
Are you a huge Titanic fan, or really interested in it’s history? 30 James Street is the home of the Titanic, and you can now have your wedding in this iconic building. Offering picturesque views across the docklands and the Pier Head, this stunning venue has a classy, opulent feel with a nautical twist.
Inglewood lies within 38 acres of immaculate grounds and spectacular views across Cheshire. This grade II listed Edwardian manor boasts beautiful architecture, and not only can it accommodate outside summer weddings, but also ceremonies in front of the roaring fire during the height of winter.
SIREN Liverpool is a unique and versatile space in the city centre that can act as a blank canvas for you to create your perfect wedding theme. Make your dreams come true with this ultimately spacious venue.
Soughton Hall Hotel welcomes you with a breathtaking walled entrance and grand driveway. This spectacular venue gives off vibes of flawless luxury, and sits about 20 miles from Liverpool just inside the Welsh border. Can you imagine your romantic day here?
The infamous stage and auditorium at the exquisite Epstein Theatre could be your wedding venue! Built in 1913 and named in honour of the Beatles manager, the stunning decor will provide the perfect backdrop as you find your inner star and say your vows on stage!
Croxteth Hall is a historic Edwardian stately home just 20 minutes from the centre of Liverpool and it boasts an elegant oak-panelled dining room among other stunning settings in which to tie the knot. As the former home of the Earl of Sefton, you can feel on top of the world with this delightful country estate building as your venue.
The top deck of the beautiful Kathleen and May Schooner commands a striking view of the famous Liverpool Waterfront. Built in 1900 and restored in 2000, this unique venue is a stunning place to hold your wedding reception in the heart of Liverpool’s Albert Dock.
Always fancied being a King and Queen for your special day? Leasowe Castle Hotel is where you can feel like it! This fairytale venue boasts impressive sea views and is a truly luxurious setting just 20 minutes away from Liverpool.
Need some land for your own DIY wedding? Clawdd Offa Farm offers large areas of beautiful farmland with picturesque rural views across the Welsh border to hold your wedding day celebrations. You can hire the farm from Friday afternoon through to Sunday, so there’s no need to rush!
If you and your partner die hard Liverpool F.C. fans, then this is the venue for you! Anfield Stadium at Liverpool Football Club is equipped with an events team, first class catering and a beautiful set up for the celebration of your dreams.
Isla Gladstone Conservatory will stun your guests as you enter the dramatic surroundings of this converted Victorian glasshouse. The sun-flooded interior nestled in between rose gardens will bring plenty of enchantment to your big day!
Adjoined to the Titanic Hotel, the Rum Warehouse is a spacious building with a relaxed atmosphere, perfect for wining and dining with your loved ones. The restored 1950’s warehouse provides an ideal romantic setting for the larger wedding party up to 500 guests!
Less than 10 miles from the city, the 19th Century Thorton Manor is set within an impressive 120 acres. It provides grand rooms with elegant decor, a secret garden and a lakeside marquee for the ultimate rural manor house experience. Wowzers!
The Chester Fields allows you to dine alfresco with your nearest and dearest while enjoying spectacular views! This unique restaurant offers delicious menus and superb service to meet all of your requirements as you begin married life!
The stunning Grade II listed red brick building of Victoria Gallery & Museum sits in a peaceful location within the city of Liverpool. Expect vaulted ceilings, tasteful landscape and Victorian splendour in this gorgeous one-of-a-kind venue.
Situated in a rural area less than an hour from the city, Charnock Farm Restaurant breathes fresh air into wedding venues across the North. An exposed brick fireplace mixed with classy and contemporary decor makes this venue stand out from the crowd!
Liverpool Philharmonic Hall sees world-class acts pass through it’s doors regularly, so how about having your wedding there? Whether you’re wanting a huge celebration in the main hall or a simple set up in the bar, this venue can do it!
In the Cheshire countryside, Abbeywood Estate is a 45-acre family home that is dedicated to making your wedding day unique. The glorious gardens and stunning decor make it a truly romantic venue where your married life can start with a bang.
This magical wedding venue is located on it’s own private island in the heart of the Delamere Forest. Nunsmere Hall Hotel allows you to enjoy a luxurious and sophisticated wedding with a charming Italian sunken garden and panoramic views across the lake.
Still not found your dream venue? Or do you live outside of Liverpool and you’d like to extend your search? Do not fear! Use Bridebook.co.uk’s Wedding Venue Search and type in your preferred location, where you are sure to find the perfect venue for you.
The limits at Bridebook are endless – did you know we can also help you with your entire wedding planning process?! Fill in your guest list, budget and use our wedding checklist to make sure you remember everything on your special day.
Looking for your dream city wedding venue and can’t decide whether you’re after a contemporary or traditional setting? RSA House may just be the place for you, as this historic hidden gem combines Georgian splendour and rustic romance for your special day.
Imagine escaping from the hustle and bustle of London as you step into the tranquil surroundings of the breathtaking RSA House. On possibly the most special day of your life, the next few moments will be the most memorable as you walk through the doors and down the aisle in a grand Georgian room.
RSA House offers a variety of stunningly decorated rooms in which to host your wedding ceremony (and reception if you choose), but the spectacularly lavish Benjamin Franklin Room is a firm favourite. With its mixture of original architecture, a contemporary ambiance and a towering chandelier inspired by the man himself, it’s an unforgettable place to say ‘i do’ and take your first steps as a married couple.
Then head up the 300-year-old staircase (and pause for a snap) to your wedding breakfast, where a world of artistic wonder awaits you and your guests. The iconic Great Hall is brought alive with its dramatic artwork. The magnificent series of paintings “Progress of Human Knowledge and Culture” by James Barry, offers plenty of historical background and will become an incredible backdrop for your big day!
Now, to the wedding reception. The Vaults, with their exposed 18th Century brickwork and rustic ambiance, are a surprising contrast to the Georgian luster of the above rooms. These up-lit underground vaults are the perfect place to kick-off your wedding evening, with a combination of romantic air and party vibes. No need to limit your evening guests either, as the vaults can cater for up to 220 people without losing out on its feeling of exclusivity. You and your guests will have fun dancing the night away knowing that you’re in the best hands with the team at RSA House.
Key Features:
Exclusive use of the venue when you book for 100 guests.
RSA House is perfectly situated between the vibrant Covent Garden and Embankment, Central London. Enjoy great transport links here!
Weddings can be bespoke. Rooms and food to suit your requirements.
Nearby luxury accommodation can be sought at The Savoy, Corinthia and The Waldorf Hilton to name but a few of the best hotels in the area.
Wedding Coordinator, Rosalind, and the RSA House team have a strong wedding ethos: “We believe every wedding should be bespoke and encourage every couple to stamp their personality on their big day.”
RSA House can cater for a capacity of up to 140 guests for your ceremony or banquet, and up to 220 for your evening wedding reception. The venue’s packages start from £145+VAT per head, with an exquisite food selection from their specialist caterer H+J by Harbour and Jones.
Love this venue as much as we do? Book a show-round today by heading to their Bridebook profile and requesting more details.Trust us, the pictures just don’t it justice!
The UK is being graced with another royal wedding this year, and despite the shared venue, it is clear Eugenie and Jack are set to make their big day special and unique. Bridebook.co.uk, the UK’s no.1 wedding planning app used by 1 in 3 UK couples, is here to call the trends we expect to be started, and the price tags along with them. With over 5,340 glasses of champagne and 1,800 glasses of wine required to keep all their guests happy, it should come as no surprise that the wedding is expected to come in at a whopping £2,820,620. Whilst £2.8 million is more than 100 times the price of the average British wedding, it pales compared to Harry and Meghan’s wedding cost of £32 million, more than 10 times Eugenie’s
Not to be outdone by the modern standard set by Harry and Meghan, Eugenie and Jack are doing what very few before them are likely to have done: having a completely plastic free wedding. If that isn’t the epitome of a millennial, environmentally conscious wedding, we don’t know what is!
Eugenie and Jack’s wedding is sure to set plenty of it’s own trends, from the outstanding decision of going completely plastic free, to the autumnal themes it is sure to embrace. But if our expert-predicted costs are anything to go by, Eugenie and Jack are sure to not be outdone either, with the costs quickly racking up despite the slightly smaller scale of this event. Explore just how much Eugenie and Jack’s tastes add up, as well as the carefully curated ways Eugenie is establishing herself as a pioneering young royal.
Venue – £85,000 – £300,000
Just like Harry and Meghan, Eugenie and Jack will get married at St. George’s chapel and then have their party on Windsor grounds. Following the afternoon reception, hosted by the Queen at the castle, the guests will move on to the Royal Lodge, where Eugenie’s father, the Duke of York lives. Although Eugenie and Jack won’t have to worry about securing a venue, or paying for it, the crisp month of October will beg for a marquee to keep the guests warm and a fully-equipped catering tent. A luxury marquee to accommodate all the guests, as well as the additional tents for catering and loos, will cost upwards of £85,000. Alternatively, if Eugenie opts for the glass marquee style as Pippa Middleton did, she should expect it to cost upwards of £300,000.
Catering – £100,000 to £151,600
Luxury catering for 350 guests doesn’t come cheap! Add 1,200 members of the public, top that with a plastic-free motif, and the numbers stack up! Those little plastic spoons and forks that hold the lamb croquettes will be a big no-no at this wedding, and replacing them with plastic-free options will add up on the bill, particularly as the plastic-free trend is only just beginning to emerge in the wedding industry. We expect Eugenie’s highly publicised decision is sure to plastic-free much more accessible to all couples in the years to come.
Drinks – £84,500
If there’s one thing Eugenie and Jack will do better than Harry and Meghan, it’s the alcohol. Jack is the UK Ambassador for George Clooney’s Casamigos tequila, a previous club-owner (which is how he and Eugenie met) and his dream is to own a chain of pubs. As for Eugenie, her favourite drink is Vodka Soda. Together with her sister and Maid of Honour, Beatrice, the two make an invincible party duo, which means this wedding is going to be a very boozey occasion. And with 5,340 glasses of champagne and 1,800 glasses of wine needed to keep their guests happy during the champagne reception and dinner, there is sure to be a hefty weight to the bill!
Dress – £230,000
One secret that has been spilt by Princess Eugenie is that, contrary to Meghan, she has chosen a British designer to create her wedding dress. An environmental activist who is having a plastic-free wedding could only go with an environmentally outspoken designer. In this case, we predict Stella McCartney is designing this Princess’ wedding dress. The price tag for a bespoke Stella McCartney gown? Somewhere around a casual £200,000.
Floristry – £100,000
An eco-friendly wedding is a perfect chance to show off the beauty of the season’s British flowers. Hundreds of thousands of fresh flowers and herbs will decorate the church, Windsor Castle and marquees, likely with the notable caveat that they can be re-planted following the wedding to ensure minimal environmental impact. This a noble, yet pricey decision.
Photography & Videography – £17,000
If you’re throwing a Royal Wedding, photography and videography need to be beyond perfect, and that doesn’t come cheap! Fashion and Celebrity Photographer Alexis Lubomirski wowed everyone with his shots of Meghan and Harry’s engagement and wedding, if Eugenie and Jack want to keep up with the Duke and Duchess of Sussex, they will need to loosen their purse strings and find an A-list photographer to capture their happiest moments. Expect to see the ever increasingly popular documentary photography style prevailing, highlighting Eugenie and Jack as a young, fun and more laid back royal couple.
Cake – £5,600
If Eugenie and Jack plan on staying environmentally friendly with their cake and feeding all of their guests at least one slice, they will need a fresh, local and seasonal fruit 6-tier creation! Claire Ptak, the famous cake-maker who made Harry and Meghan’s wedding cake, is known for working with locally sourced ingredients, so she could be the top choice for these two, otherwise locally-based Melissa Woodland is a top pick. Cakes made with fresh seasonal fruit can’t be stored overnight, and this makes them more expensive than your average wedding cake.
Stationery – £30,000
The invitations for this Royal Wedding came with a special touch, a Nelson Mandela quote which is sure to keep the guests on their toes. To top it there is come beautiful calligraphy work and the family’s badge printed in gold ink, which, although not as significant as the quote, will weigh on the final price a lot more.
The quote, seen below, only further reinforces Eugenie and Jack’s determination to make this a truly significant day, led by their values and passions.
“What counts in life is not the mere fact that we have lived. It is what difference we have made to the lives of others that will determine the significance of the life we lead.” – NELSON MANDELA
Music & Entertainment – £25,000 – £55,000
From trumpets and bell ringers to the organist and choirs in the church, DJ’s and live bands, Eugenie and Jack’s Wedding will be filled with music! Lucky for them, they have some of the best voices and entertainers in the world attending the wedding! Namely, Robbie Williams, who’s daughter will be a flower-girl, James Blunt, Ellie Goulding, Ed Sheeran and more… Their friends might throw in a free song or two, but everything else will come with a price tag. Add to that the other entertainment Eugenie and Jack are sure to provide.
Wedding Rings – £6,000
For decades, it’s been a Royal Family tradition to use Welsh gold for the wedding ring of the bride. Welsh gold is extremely rare, and only a small portion of it is kept by the Queen in the royal vaults. Although traditionally Royal Family men don’t wear rings, Jack will likely follow in Harry’s footsteps and opt to wear a wedding band, which will require a little bit more of that precious Welsh gold.
Bridesmaid Outfits – £5,000
Anyone who’s been married or been a bridesmaid knows how expensive bridesmaid dresses can be. A bridesmaid dress for the Maid of Honour, Princess Beatrice, will be designer, and though she is known for sporting curiously affordable dresses, she will want to look lavish for her little sister’s big cold! Beatrice has already expressed how much of a modern bride Eugenie is, and we can’t wait to see how this will affect the style of the whole wedding, and of course, her Maid of Honour’s dress!
Church Fees – £170
Eugenie and Jack will be getting married at St. George’s Chapel, just like Harry and Meghan, but even if you’re getting married at your family’s church, you have to pay the fee! A minuscule cost compared to the others, but nevertheless, it adds up.
Groomswear – £6,050
The groom is sure to be as dashing, particularly dressed in the royal Saville Row tailor Huntsman’s best wedding attire. A bespoke tailcoat, waistcoat and trousers are sure to cost upwards from £4,400, with new shoes costing around £900. Add to that an outfit change, as is sure to be expected for both the bride and the groom, and you have another £3000 for bespoke black tie. Our tip to Jack? Sand the bottom of your new shoes to avoid slip ups on the dancefloor!
Hair & Makeup – £2,700
We’re sure Eugenie will be having only the best makeup artists and hair stylists on hand for her big day. Even with the natural makeup look that she is sure to opt for, getting personalised beauty done on the big day for the bride and her entire wedding team costs a pretty penny.
Wedding Favours – £1000
Expect to see Eugenie and Jack opting for wedding favours that reflect their firm environmental beliefs. Perhaps an eco-friendly gift from Balmoral, or even Windsor Great Park honey. Wedding favours always work best when they are something that reflect the couple, with no need to be flashy or expensive.
Toilets – £16,000
Don’t forget the toilets! Marquee weddings tend to cost more than weddings held indoors due to all of the extra facilities that need to be covered as well. For as many guests as Eugenie and Jack are having, and for the caliber that they will be, expect only the most formal temporary toilets. Pippa Middleton’s luxury toilets cost £4,000 for 350 guests. Eugenie and Jack are having a total of 1,200 guests, so it’s easy to see how this cost would add up.
Security – £2,000,000
It’s not a Royal Wedding without the highest security measures the country can provide! Though Eugenie and Jack’s carriage ride around Windsor will be considerably shorter than Harry and Meghan’s, there will still be a substantial cost in protecting the royal couple. From sniper coverage, to the latest anti-drone technology, expect the security costs to be upwards of £2 million.
The above figures have been calculated following an analysis of over 170,000 weddings via Bridebook.co.uk‘swedding planning tools and budget calculator, and a review of over 70,000 wedding industry suppliers’ price estimates listed on Bridebook.co.uk’s wedding venue and supplier directory. Bridebook.co.uk is currently being used by 1 in 3 UK couples planning their wedding, and therefore has an unparalleled understanding of the wedding planning process, as well as relationships with brides and wedding industry suppliers across the country.
Hamish Shephard, founder of Bridebook.co.uk, the UK’s leading wedding planning app, says:
“After Meghan and Harry’s wedding was the most viewed wedding in history, a second Royal wedding at Windsor is certainly going to attract another global audience.”
“With Eugenie and Jack both attendees at Harry and Meghan’s wedding at Windsor Castle earlier in the year, they will certainly want to differentiate their day to celebrate their individuality and have their personalities demonstrated throughout the wedding details.”
“After Meghan broke tradition by walking herself down the aisle, and by having a gospel choir and her now infamous preacher, Eugenie will be delighted to have the freedom to do exactly what she wants.”
“Whilst Meghan and Harry’s wedding was an international spectacular, Eugenie and Jack will be having a more homely occasion celebrating the best of Britain, but with an equally star studded guest list.”
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The ‘I do’s’. For many (we hope), the most important part of the day. That moment where you can tell your nearest and dearest why you love the person standing beside you. And yet, looking back, it seems that that moment was actually rather drab and samey. Cold churches, long ceremonies, a lack of individuality and personality.
Luckily for you, that has all changed. Here at Bridebook, we support individuality and having a wedding day the way you want it. That includes your ceremony. Introducing Jeanenne Powell, celebrant and wedding enthusiast from Inner World Outer Life. Today, Jeannene will be telling us a little more about how to create the ceremony you have always imagined.
So whether you want a ceremony in a field with bubbles, on a boat with a goat, or you want to stick to tradition and say ‘I do’ in the presence of our lord – we are here to support that decision.
Jeannene over to you…
With the modern-day softening of tradition around parents paying for a wedding seeing more spouses-to-be saving for the big day themselves, couples both young and old, first-timers and third timers are starting to take ownership of their wedding day. Drawing inspiration from wedding reality shows and social inspiration, they’re not only deciding the finest details for their reception but the actual ceremony too.
Although celebrant wedding ceremonies aren’t legally recognised in England, Wales and Ireland (but are in Scotland), there are easy to arrange provisions for the legal paperwork to be done at a registry office. This leaves you the freedom and flexibility to personalise what, where and how you celebrate your love, express your commitment and share your joy with those who matter most.
The Whats
Traditions and twists: If you want a traditional affair, that’s great. But if you want to make it your own, add a twist to it like your mum or both parents accompanying you down the aisle, or partners walking in together then a celebrant can help you achieve this. Vows too do not have to be reserved for the wedding pair, so have guests expressing their support as well. Couples are stamping their mark on old favourites and celebrants allow you the freedom to do this.
Mixing customs and cultures: Draw on your heritages to include wedding customs from various countries and cultures. Even with simple personal family traditions honouring your roots can make the ceremony a unique affair.
Spiritual or religious, a mixture or neither: If, like a vast majority of couples, you have different ways of finding meaning in life, there are ways to include both philosophies and spiritual outlooks on the day so neither are left out.
The wheres
Licensed and unlicensed locations: Any place is a possibility. Imagine exchanging rings whilst on a beach, in a woodland clearing, sailing down the river or standing under the stars. These and more all provide enchanting and stunning backdrops to your key wedding moment.
Wedding breaks: Instead of a wedding followed by a honeymoon, some couples are venturing away with friends and family for the weekend. Whether glamping, hiring a manor house or attending a festival together, these and more can all make the celebrant ceremony the highlight of a joyful, memorable and fun time shared by all.
Journeying abroad: Destination weddings are still as fashionable as ever, however, the related paperwork can be time-consuming and complex. Having the brief legalities done here, can make the overall organising far simpler. With your celebrant travelling to meet you and your guests at your destination, you can ease into having the full-blown celebration once arrived.
The hows
Have it your way: Whatever you decide to include, the ceremony can be tailored in a way to suit your style, personalities and tastes. Whether a small and intimate gathering or a large and luxurious event, a beautiful and elegant affair or unconventional and quirky occasion, what matters is that it holds significance for you both. Plus, unlike legal weddings, it can be a completely private affair.
Meet first: As with all your wedding suppliers, you get to choose who’s involved in making your ceremony special. Meeting with your potential celebrant before deciding will allow you to learn about their training, background and experience, so you’ll know if you really connect with them. This way you can feel confident they’re the right one to help design and deliver a ceremony that’s truly perfect, and unique, for the two of you.
So there you have some of the whats, wheres and hows. Having a celebrant ceremony is a really personalised thing. Not just the ceremony itself, but the whole experience of working with a professional celebrant over time, them getting to know the things which matter to you most and, on the day, having a friendly and familiar face welcome and guide you both successfully through all your nerves, anticipation and excitement.
Next time someone tells you “your day is about you”, just remember that goes for the ceremony too!
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You’ve searched far and wide and have finally found the perfect suit for the big day. There’s no feeling quite like putting on a perfectly tailored suit for the first time, and with confidence at an all-time high, it’s easy to get carried away and assume the job is done. However, the subtle nuances of savvy tailoring and styling are often what takes you from a slightly-above-average Joe to an unadulterated style savant.
So who better to dish their tips than the timeless Turnbull & Asser, who have dressed the likes of HRH The Prince of Wales, Charlie Chaplin, Sir Winston Churchill and James Bond! Enjoy as they break down the necessities to complete your wedding day look.
The Tie
Presuming you’ve opted for a single breasted three-piece, your tie becomes your statement piece. Whilst tradition dictates that a bowtie is the go-to, there are a few equally-smart-and-a-lot-less-fiddly options that will make you look the part. In this case, go for an ornate or herringbone silk tie in a Prince Albert knot for added depth. Head of Design Dean Gomilsek-Cole recommends this knot over a regular 4-in-hand as it provides greater length. Ensure it matches your wedding’s colour theme and that your shirt is plain – allowing the tie to have pride of place.
The Shirt
Take it from us when we say there are white shirts, and then there are white shirts. Our West Indian Sea Island Cotton bespoke shirt provides immeasurable quality and exceptional comfort. Double cuffs (or French cuffs) and a customisable collar will allow you to have, quite literally, the perfect shirt. You can’t go wrong with a classic T&A collar, but the beauty of bespoke is that you can create something to your exact shape and preference.
The Cufflinks
Subtlety reigns supreme when it comes to your cufflinks. They need to stay on the right side of elegance, removing excess flashiness. A monogrammed pair add a heightened touch of sophistication and will remain as keepsakes from the best day of your life. Win-win.
The Collar Stays
Behind every successful man, is a woman rolling her eyes. Behind every collar, are collar stays keeping everything intact. Arguably the most subtle of details, they play a pivotal role in ensuring one never looks unkempt. Whether it’s sterling silver or mother-of-pearl, it’s an absolute necessity for every quality shirt. We’d also suggest having an additional pair at hand, for emergency’s sake.
The Pocket Square
Go for a square that complements the tie, but avoid having a repeating pattern. Matching at times can look relatively lazy, and loses personality and flair. Your pocket square shouldn’t steal the show, however, but rather accentuate the tie. Opt for plain silk in an accent colour, or white with coloured piping.
The Socks
An exposed ankle is more of an established rule rather than a temporary trend nowadays, however, it forms a more casual take on sartorial. There’s a time and place for that and it’s most definitely not on your wedding day. We’d suggest a plain sock that works subtly with your outfit, ideally an off-black colourway. Avoid Colgate white at all times – the only man that could pull it off was Michael Jackson, and it should be kept that way.
Always remember, when it comes to the big day the aim is to look as handsome as possible, without ever taking attention away from the bride. Other than that, enjoy the day and all it brings, and to the next chapter that awaits!
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Fed up of trawling round boring venues that all end up moulding into one? It’s time for a venue change-up, and Bridebook.co.uk is here to help! We’ve found 25 of the best wedding venues near Newcastle that will put a spin on your big day.
Hopefully, you love these stunning venues as much as we do…but if you’re still not satisfied, take a look for yourself using our Wedding Venue Search tool.
Newcastle’s Assembly Rooms is a premier banqueting venue that offers a unique ambience and a classy way to dine on your wedding day. Just sit back, relax and take in the beautiful sights of this venue!
This classic Victorian Mansion House is a great choice if you require an elegant backdrop and impressive location for your wedding. Celebrate your nuptials in style, with this lavish venue!
The incredibly quirky As You Like It, just outside the city centre, really is a one-of-a-kind venue. This hidden gem strives to make your day extra special with heaps of imagination and maybe even a surprise or two.
4. Theatre Royal Newcastle
The recently restored Theatre Royal Newcastle are where dreams become reality! This incredible spaces has plenty of grace and class for your magical day – now it’s your turn to step into the spotlight!
Just a stone’s throw away from the city lies the oasis of Vallum Farm. This versatile venue offers rustic country features while still being uber-glam for your special day. Enjoy a laid-back barbecue or a fine dining experience at this incredible venue – where anything goes.
Surrounded by 300 acres of picturesque parkland, Mafton Hall Hotel is a magnificent building with lots of character. Head down the spectacular Great Hall staircase before saying ‘I Do’ in front of the feature fireplace. We couldn’t think of a more stunning ceremony moment!
If you’ve got a particular theme in mind, Event Northumbria is the blank canvas to create it! In the grounds of Northumbria University campus, this venue takes creativity to a whole new level with it’s range of flexible spaces and nearby location to the local registry office.
We fell in love with it’s name instantly…but now we love the venue! The Biscuit Factory is an art, craft and design gallery in a former Victorian warehouse, becoming a contemporary backdrop for your wedding. With a focus on culture and individuality, it is sure to be a hit!
9. Castlegate
In the heart of Newcastle, Castlegate offers the versatile space of the Turbine Hall, ideal for painting your perfect day as you dream it. It can comfortably accommodate larger weddings under it’s stunning structure, allowing you to invite everyone and not cut down the guestlist!
If you’re looking for something more intimate, Whalton Manor is a glorius venue set in a quaint countryside village just 30 minutes from Newcastle. The stone-built summer house and exquisite architecture are marvellous additions to your big day!
Lumley Castle Hotel has 600 years of history and boasts views over nine acres of parkland and the River Wear. The state rooms make a great set up for a grand dining experience, to make sure it is as spectacular on the inside as it is on the outside.
Art lovers – pay attention! Fancy hosting your most special day at an incredibly memorable venue, among Newcastle’s finest art? Laing Art Gallery is the place to choose if you want to say your vows next to your favourite works – your guests will be impressed too!
Situated 20 minutes away from the city, South Causey is a barn and wedding suite set up with a garden overlooking the Beamish Valley. The beautiful chapel-style Tanfield suite is the perfect place to begin your marriage, as this venue brings a warm and romantic vibe to the day of your dreams.
The Royal Station Hotel is a well-recognised building from the exterior, but have you seen inside? With a range of opulent suites to choose from, the world is your oyster with this magnificent venue.
Searching for an alternative venue with a quirkiness to it? The Quayside Exchange is ideal! Choose from the Grand Room, the Quayside Suite with nautical features, or the Vaulted Suite in the basement to sway your wedding theme whichever way you want to take it!
This one doesn’t need much explaining! If you’ve ever fancied being Queen of your own grand residence, Crook Hall is the place to be it! Enjoy spectacular landscapes of the Secret Walled Garden and a candlelit ceremony in the Medieval Hall.
This 13th Century friary in central Newcastle offers authentic features including stained-glass windows, chandeliers and rustic stone walls. The medieval Banquet Hall of Blackfriars Restaurant is an inncredible place to wine and dine your guests!
The former glasshouse and ‘Winter Gardens’ of Queen Elizabeth High School is a rather alternative wedding venue! It is airy and spacious with lots of natural light, plus you can enjoy the lush greenery even from indoors!
This venue needs no introduction! The stunning Healey Barn is a short drive away from the centre of Newcastle, combining Northumbrian countryside with rustic romance. Delightful!
Riverside views and breath-taking architecture means you have arrived at Sage Gateshead! This versatile venue is rated in the Independent’s top 50 venues from across the globe, and we totally understand why! Impressive.
The grand exterior of Jesmond Dene House and it’s wood-panelled Great Hall offers plenty of character to really add an edge to your special day. There are also lots of more intimate spaces too, as well as 40 bedrooms to accommodate your guests after your unforgettable event!
Fancy saying your vows under a T-Rex? Want your guests to dine among the Living Planet creatures? The Great North Museum is a spectacular way to entertain your guests and keep them talking about your wedding for several weeks after!
This is undoubtedly a rather quirky venue…but it really could make your wedding! This Gothic-style Victorian Institute building has a choice of spectacular rooms that are versatile enough for you to put your spin on it.
Within 200 acres of magnificent parkland, High House Farm Brewery boasts views of Hadrian’s Wall and is ideal for a rustic, rural theme. Bails of hay will complete the look for your ultimately bespoke wedding!
Only 10 miles away from the city centre, Horton Grange Hotel is situated in an area of oasis! Perfectly landscaped gardens, charming period features and a relaxing ambience come with this Grade II listed stately home.
So, that’s our top 25 picks for interesting and quirky venues near the city of Newcastle! If you’re looking elsewhere in the UK, use Bridebook.co.uk’s Wedding Venue Search and type in your preferred location.
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Crowned as the happiest place to live in the UK and full of culture and vibrance, the seaside city of Brighton is a popular one! If you’re lucky enough to live in or around Brighton and are searching for the perfect wedding venue in the area, you’re in the right place!
Bridebook.co.uk has hunted down 25 of the most unique places to get wed, so you can sit back and enjoy the rest of your planning process! If you’re still stuck, use our Wedding Venue Search tool and marvel in wonder as you find your ideal venue.
In central Brighton, Fabrica is a one-of-a-kind venue with an unusual interior and striking exterior. Used as a contemporary art gallery, this unique space has a stained glass feature wall and gorgeous wooden balcony panels. Do with it what you will, as this exclusive use venue can be shaped into any theme you desire!
If you’re hunting for the wow factor, this venue is surely the one! All Saints Chapel in nearby Eastbourne offers intricate decor and breathtakingly high ceilings. The grade I listed chapel was built in 1874 and would be the most stunning backdrop for your romantic day.
Just an hour away from Brighton, Gate Street Barn lies on a working organic farm with beautiful landscaped gardens. It was built using wood from oak trees that were lost on the farm during a hurricane, so this venue has plenty of history and character to add to your special day.
Have a grand wedding ceremony in the stunning grounds of this beautiful castle for the ultimate romantic setting. Lewes Castle is an incredibly historical venue that has been standing for 1,000 years and is surrounded by the picturesque South Downs countryside.
On the outskirts of Brighton, Preston Manor is an exquisite manor house with an air of elegance and grandeur. This Edwardian building makes quite the intimate setting for your wedding day celebrations, where you can enjoy fine dining and sweeping views across Preston Park.
Thinking of a country wedding? Laughton Barns is the perfect venue for you! Expect rustic features such as gothic chandeliers and exposed beams, and the barns have been built with local oak, brick and stone. With panoramic views of the South Downs, this could be your ultimate country wedding setting!
The quirky elements of West Street Loft will make your wedding unforgettable! With plenty of space to decorate, and even a cinema screen to utilise during speeches, the relaxed and bohemian feel to this venue stands out from the rest.
Pekes Manor Estate is set within the natural beauty of the East Sussex Weald just a 40 minute drive away from Brighton city. Full of character and original wooden features, this Tudor house is sure to stun every single one of your guests!
Opened in 1910, this iconic art house cinema is now available for your unique wedding! Duke of York’s Picturehouse is a kooky venue that is perfect for film and cinema fans, while still creating the ultimate romantic feel that any Bride and Groom would require!
Pangdean Old Barn boasts magnificent oak-framed surroundings and rustic features for your big day. Built in 1720 and since having been excellently restored, the barn of this working farm provides a spectacular backdrop as you exchange vows.
Busbridge Lakes is a stunning marquee wedding reception venue with 3 lakes and it’s own private valley on site. Set in the grounds of a Heritage garden, this mesmorising place will stun guests young and old as they marvel at the sights.
The exotically beautiful building of The Royal Pavilion shows off it’s early 1800’s splendour with intricate Indian architecture and exotic interiors. It is situated in the heart of cultural Brighton – imagine the photo opportunities in front of this magnificent monument!
Amidst 70 acres of panoramic farmland, Blackstock Country Estate offers two lovingly restored barns to be the scenic backdrop for your big day. At just over 20 miles from Brighton, this beautifully rustic venue is also conveniently located close to the local church.
A mixture of historical features and contemporary additions make The Star Inn Alfriston a timeless choice of wedding backdrops. This newly refurbished setting is in the heart of a small Tudor village close to Brighton and can accommodate any size of wedding party!
Steeped in history, this elegant 18th Century manor house is one-of-a-kind. Stanmer House boasts 5,000 hectares of scenic grounds, opulent decor and luxurious chandeliers to give you the classy feel you require as you celebrate with loved ones.
So you’ve dreamt up your wedding theme, and now you need somewhere to make it happen…that’s where Yoghurt Rooms comes in! Make your dreams become reality on this stunning oak-framed blank canvas and let your imagination run wild as you sit back and enjoy the scenic surroundings.
The Old Ship Hotel is definitely a quirky choice of venue, with 450 years of history within it’s walls on the Brighton coast. The charismatic wine cellars hold more intimate weddings, while the Paganini Ballroom can hold up to 180 guests in a grand setting.
Peelings Manor Barns is a unique venue perfect for a DIY wedding! The charming features of this barn warmly welcome you Sussex, while remaining fairly basic to allow you to put your own spin on it. Bring on the festival themed weddings!
The grade II listed Elizabethan manor house belonging to Broyle Place is surrounded by ancient oaks and ponds. In the heart of rural Sussex, this venue offers a touch of sophistication to your magical summer wedding.
The winding lanes of the Sussex countryside lead up to Brookfield Barn, a newly built structure with contemporary features yet retaining a rustic feel. The sunny terrace, atmospheric lighting and wood burning stoves are lovely touches to this cosy setting.
With plenty of gorgeous rooms to choose from in this Georgian manor house, the world is your oyster! Gildredge Manor has a large focus on luxury and creating the ultimate bespoke experience for each bride and groom that come through the doors.
Overlooking the seafront of Brighton and Hove, Grade I listed Angel House is the only Historic Regency Town house wedding venue in the area. It holds the finest and most elegant decor with sweeping sea views to enjoy, which makes it stand out from the crowd!
Getting married in the Old Police Cells Museum…seems like a kooky idea! Located in the basement of Brighton Town Hall, this unusual museum puts a major spin on weddings – and you might even learn a thing or two as you celebrate!
A short 30 mile journey out of the city takes you to Dorset House Barn, which is nestled within 40 acres in a quaint village. Expect stunning river views, a Medieval walled garden, and a unique ampitheatre for outdoor blessings. Just perfect!
Barnsgate Manor offers a romantic venue with panoramic views over the forest of the South Downs. With a combination of stone structures and wooden panelled walls, this venue is sure to be a fantastic backdrop for your unforgettable day.
If you’ve still not found your dream venue or you live elsewhere in the UK, extend your search by using Bridebook.co.uk’s Wedding Venue Search tool and type in your preferred location. You might only be a few clicks away from your fairytale venue!
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Leeds is one of the leading bustling and vibrant cities in the North, so it’s no wonder why so many people are looking to get married there! Are you looking for a venue with a difference in or around the city?
Bridebook.co.uk has found 25 of the best nearby wedding venues in Leeds that are stunning, heaps of fun, or just plain kooky! Take a look at these incredible places, or hunt for yourself using our Wedding Venue Search tool.
This beautiful gothic revival castle really is a venue to behold! Allerton Castle provides a stunning backdrop for your fairytale wedding day as you walk down the aisle in the Gothic Great Hall.
The Engine Shed is an utterly unique venue that really has the wow factor! This Grade II listed building is set over two magnificent floors and can become the blank canvas for your special day.
Set in the ruins of the Barden Tower and surrounded by picturesque hills and rivers, The Priest’s House is a stunning venue for your intimate wedding celebrations. Check out the stone interiors!
Lineham Farm is a country chic venue in a secluded area with surrounding woodlands to host your idyllic day. The farmhouse dates back to the 17th Century and has retained all the charm and character that you could wish for!
The 14th Century Hospitium is a gorgeous wedding venue with medieval stone walls and plenty of character included! Less than an hour away from the centre of Leeds, this versatile building is overlooked by the ruins of St Mary’s Abbey – a photo opportunity not to be missed!
The beautiful Jacobean Manor that is Holdsworth House Hotel dates back to 1633 and is brimming with history. Sunny courtyards, interesting architecture and pretty gardens can be found on site, as this venue comes to life on your very special day!
Just a stone’s throw away from Leeds lies Wharfedale Grange, the perfect spot to pitch your wedding tent! With this versatile area of farmland, you can do what you wish and watch your dream day come to fruition.
This old Yorkshire stone farmhouse has been lovingly converted to form the intimate Box Tree Restaurant. With tons of character, three Michelin stars, and just a half an hour journey from the city, this unique venue is the perfect place for your wedding breakfast.
The Majestic Hotel boasts elegance, grandeur and is definitely majestic to say the least! Situated in nearby Harrogate with 8 acres of beautiful gardens, this Victorian hotel is the ideal place to host a very majestic wedding!
Skipbridge Country Weddings is a green field venue complete with natural surroundings and even farm animals! It has homely cottages on site and plenty of space for camping or glamping, so you can truly make your wedding weekend a fab experience for all guests.
Stun your guests by having your wedding on a train platform at the National Railway Museum! This impressive and spacious venue will pull out all the stops (literally!) to guide you in your journey to married life.
The warm feel of East Riddlesden Hall will comfort you and your partner as you step into the Grade II listed barn. Dance the night away under exposed oak beams and fairy lights less than an hour from the centre of Leeds.
Amongst peaceful woodlands and the beauty of rural Yorkshire, Hazlewood Castle is a venue for a king and queen. Say your vows in the medieval chapel and let this historical setting make your wedding day dreams come true.
The unforgettable vibe of The Faversham is the perfect place to celebrate with your nearest and dearest. On the edge of Leeds City Centre, this venue offers a bespoke service within unique walls – especially the beautiful conservatory!
In the developing industrial area of Leeds sits New Craven Hall, a modern and vibrant wedding venue, perfect for a unique celebration. The New Craven Hall team offers a completely bespoke service, which means you can make all of your wedding day dreams come true.
This converted stone barn in rural West Yorkshire has become the beautiful Chilli Barn, an intimate wedding venue. Surrounded by endless meadows and woodland, the decor shows off character features with a modern touch.
The stunningly restored barns of Priory Cottages are undoubtedly a very special place to say your ‘I Do’s. Set in the idyllic countryside, this venue has a perfect mix of romance and enchantment to suit every couple that passes through it’s doors.
With it’s very own lake in a scenic valley of rolling parkland, Waterton Park Hotel & Spa is the ultimate setting for your special day. Gorgeous accommodation awaits you…but be sure to get a photo on the bridge first!
Seeking some luxury just outside of Leeds? Denton Hall offers charming 18th Century decor, crystal chandeliers and spectacular views across Yorkshire – have it as your very own exclusive country house for the entire weekend!
The peaceful grounds of Northorpe Hall Barn warmly welcome you to this alluring venue. Exposed wooden beams and stone walls enclose you and your guests and you celebrate your special day – and the best bit is that any profits from your day helps fund local projects for young people in need.
Just 30 minutes away from Leeds, Heaton Mount lies between a winding driveway and immaculate lawns. Dating back to 1864, this Italianate mansion boasts exquisite decor and breath-taking views for you and your guests.
The fairytale setting of The Sun Pavilion was built in the 1930’s but has recently been restored to become an utterly unique venue. It hosts an Art Deco glass dome and is home to stunning views over Harrogate’s Valley Gardens, to really bring the natural beauty indoors!
This 200-year-old barn, situated just 10 miles down the road from central Leeds, could be the ultimate romantic backdrop for your big day. The Old Barn at Esholt sits in a quaint location with plenty of character features to feast your eyes upon!
This spectacular country mansion with 11 acres of stunning ground has become Goldsborough Hall. The oak-panelled Jacobean library and beautifully designed drawing rooms are the ideal places to host your wedding celebrations.
The Queens venue offers a stylish backdrop overflowing with glamour for a totally classy wedding day. Right in the centre of Leeds, you will have spectacular views across the city from the terraced balcony of this beautiful building, as well as a bespoke service that will serve the largest or most intimate of wedding parties.
Cookridge Hall is the perfect backdrop for your big day. Located in North Leeds this beautiful grade II listed old hall was built in 1721 and set amongst an 18 hole golf course. If you are looking for a scenic wedding venue, look no further!
Have your special day at this stylish and incredibly romantic wedding venue in Leeds. Woodlands weddings are designed just for you in one of the best wedding venues in Leeds!
If you’re still unsure about which wedding venue to choose or you’re looking elsewhere in the UK, Bridebook is here! Use Bridebook.co.uk’s Wedding Venue Search and type in your preferred location, and we’re sure you will find ‘the one’!
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Birmingham, famed for its Bulls, Balti and Black Sabbath but also home to some of the most beautiful wedding venues in the UK…
Are you looking for a venue with a difference near Birmingham? Bridebook.co.uk has found 25 venues in and around the city that are stunning, fun, or a little bit quirky! Take a look at these incredible places, or hunt for yourself using our Wedding Venue Search tool.
1. Packington Moor
Just outside of Birmingham and surrounded by acres of woodland and countryside, Packington Moor makes jaws drop. This authentic stone barn with rustic beams gives off a light and airy feel for a perfect wedding.
This stunningly quirky venue holds productions throughout the year…and also weddings! Birmingham Repertory Theatre is ideal for couples who want a hint of dramatics included in their wedding day. Let’s get the show started!
The Kitchen Garden Cafe is a totally unique place to host your special day. It is an eco-friendly gem in the centre of Birmingham which offers heaps of charm for your wedding setting.
Inside the majestic exterior of Hampton Manor Hotel, you will find stylish and contemporary decor with a deep history at the heart of the venue. Surrounded by lush gardens, and only half an hour from the city of Birmingham, this venue is a rather grand oasis.
5. Bawdon Lodge Farm
In Charnwood Forest lies Bawdon Lodge Farm, the perfect place to set up a magical tipi or marquee wedding. Event professionals will be on hand to help your dreams become reality in this countryside haven.
This stunningly quirky idea is great if you want to create an unforgettable experience. Deckerdence is a double decker bus that creates the centrepiece to your marquee and, with an onboard bar, you’ll have your guests’ attention within seconds!
Hagley Hall is an incredible Georgian Palladian manor house on the border of the West Midlands. With its magnificent state rooms and acres of parkland, this venue is brilliant for your bespoke wedding.
These gorgeous 18th Century barns are just 20 minutes from Birmingham and have striking high-ceilings for a dramatic look. Shustoke Farm Barns is made up of several red-brick buildings that you can use as you wish for your special celebrations.
Fancy saying ‘I Do’ among the flowers? This is your chance! Birmingham Botanical Gardens offers fascinating landscapes and 3 beautiful event spaces that are sure to please all of your guests.
With an incredibly distinct exterior, Gorcott Hall is a 16th Century, Grade II listed Tudor building. Inside, the character continues with timber beams and open fireplaces to add loads of warmth to your big day.
New Hall dates back to the 13th Century, showing off its glorious exterior and wonderful grounds. The oak panelled rooms and sunny terraces welcome you to New Hall Hotel & Spa, which is fit for a King and Queen!
A combination of contemporary style with original features is present in the outstanding setting of Redhouse Barn. Within 5 acres of Worcestershire countryside, this one-of-a-kind venue is bound to impress.
The 18th Century manor house of Swinfen Hall Hotel is a sanctuary of interior decor, ornamental gardens and has a deer park in the grounds. Perfect for feeling like a princess on your wedding day.
Make your wedding day unforgettable by choosing Dudley Zoo & Castle as your special location. With a renovated sensory garden, 40 acres of beautiful grounds, and over 1,000 animals from across the globe, you can’t go wrong with this venue.
Nestled in the Worcestershire countryside, Bordesley Park‘s 16th Century manor house is the perfect setting for a fun and relaxed wedding day. Stunning decor, lush gardens, a luxury marquee and even a trampoline are included to take away the stress from your day.
The beautiful surroundings of Aston Wood Golf Club make this wedding setting totally unique. This venue can cater for intimate celebrations in the oak-panelled dining room offering delicious catering and impecable wedding service.
In rural Worcestershire, you will find the grand structure of The Elms. This beautiful Queen Anne manor house provides elegant lounges and stunning decor in every room to add the icing to your cake on your special day.
The contemporary setting of Mythe Barn is based in an idyllic location just outside the hustle and bustle of Birmingham. From ceremonies in the Oak Barn to wedding breakfasts in the Grain Store and outdoor courtyard celebrations, this venue is a special one.
Sat on the edge of woodland in the Staffordshire countryside, the character and romance of this venue will complete your magical day. Pendrell Hall offers crisp, stylish interiors, The Morning Room – a haven of wooden features perfect for ceremonies, and 3 bridal suites to choose from.
Rich in history and full of regal charm, Stoneleigh Abbey is an incredible fairytale venue just 25 miles from Birmingham. It brings elegant rooms with timeless features and the famous Saloon which Queen Victoria once dined at!
Wootton Park is a barn style venue overlooking a lake and island for the most stunning photo opportunities. The landscaped gardens and 16th Century farmhouse in their own secluded valley are yours to do with what you wish on your big day.
In nearby Staffordshire, the very lavish Alrewas Hayes venue will put a spin on your wedding day. Boasting traditional rooms with period features and the luxury Lakeside Marquee, anything is possible here.
This beautiful Grade I listed Georgian mansion is also a renowned art gallery and is surrounded by 120 acres of picturesque parkland. Compton Verney offers the striking Adam Hall, perfect for ceremonies and wedding breakfasts on your special day.
A stone’s throw away from the city of Birmingham lies Grand Station. The decadent and timely nature of this venue’s function rooms will stun your guests and give you the grandeur you require for your special entrance.
If you fancy something a little more quirky, Erasmus Darwin House is for you! With 250 years of history and doubling as a museum, this venue will add heaps of charm and character to your Birmingham-based wedding.
Still unsure about which wedding venue to choose? Are you looking elsewhere in the UK? Help is at hand! Use Bridebook.co.uk’s Wedding Venue Search and type in your preferred location.
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The UK’s divorce rate is at its lowest level for nearly 50 years. Couples now enter marriage knowing their partner and relationship better than ever before leading to marriages becoming increasingly strong and lasting.
Wedding planning app and website Bridebook.co.uk has surveyed 4,000 recently married couples and discovered a change in this generation’s perception of marriage:
Results show that couples are getting married considerably older than the last generation (average bride or groom is 8 years older than in the 1970s) and the majorityalready live together (89% of couples). They have long relationships before marrying (4.9 years on average) and have had previous serious relationships before ‘finding the one’ (2 previous serious relationships on average). Marriage has become a consensual independent decision free from external pressure (84% discussed marriage before the proposal, 83% felt no pressure to marry) – it is an ‘opt in’ personal choice. The number of weddings has started to rise (2.7% annual growth in latest figures) after a steady and dramatic decline in the past 50 years and the number of divorces is at its lowest level since 1971 as people are more secure in their relationships prior to marriage than ever before. Commitment as a concept has become refreshingly relaxed in comparison to previous generations.
Key findings: TIMEFRAMES OF MARRIAGE
The average age of a single woman getting married in 1971 was 22.6 years old, now it is 30.8 years old.
The average age of a single man getting married in 1971 was 24.6 years old, now it is 32.7 years old.
The average couple were in a relationship for 4.9 years before getting married. This breaks down as –
Dated for 1.4 years (17 months) before moving in together.
Then lived together for 1.83 years (22 months) before getting engaged.
Then were engaged for 1.67 years (20 months) before getting married.
The total average time living together before marriage totals to a whole 3.5 years.
The average number of serious relationships each member of the couple had before marriage = 2.
Key findings: MARRIAGE’S INCREASE IN VALUE
– 95% of couples would recommend getting married.
– 91% of couples choose to get married to demonstrate commitment. Only 2% due to social pressure, 2% financial, 2% convenience.
– 85% of couples say marriage makes a relationship stronger.
– 83% never felt any pressure to get married. 92% feel there is less pressure to get married today than parents’ generation.
– 73% stated that they value marriage more now than they did as a child.
Key findings: VIEW OF RELIGION IN MARRIAGE
– Whilst 41% of couples got married in a church, 52% of couples claim to be “Not at all religious”.
– Only 8% of couples cited religious reasons as one of the primary reasons for getting married (91% cited demonstration of commitment, 30% cited planning to have children).
– 57% of couples who chose to get married in a church chose due to “Sticking to traditions” and 22% due to “Parental expectations”.
Key findings: CHANGES TO RELATIONSHIP SINCE MARRIAGE
– 80% feel that since getting married the level of commitment has increased (3% decreased).
– 60% feel that since getting married the level of happiness has increased (5% decreased).
– 57% feel that since getting married the level of trust has increased (4% decreased).
– 56% feel that since getting married the level of love has increased (4% decreased).
– 41% feel that since getting married they share a better mental wellbeing (4% worse).
– 33% feel that since getting married they have a better sexual relationship (11% worse).
Key findings: OTHER
– 46% of couples have a child within 2 years of getting married.
– 26% of couples hadn’t broken up in their relationship before marrying.
– 82% would consider marriage counselling if the need arose.
– 83% don’t believe you have to be married before having kids.
Hamish Shephard, founder of Bridebook.co.uk, says:
“It is fantastic to see how the marriage is evolving with today’s modern couples for the positive. Marriages are becoming stronger than ever, relationships happier and more committed than ever, and couples more independent and consensual in their decisions than ever.”
“Whilst living together before getting married, having serious relationships out of wedlock, or getting married when you are older were previously frowned upon, for the modern couple these can clearly be very positive steps to finding “the one” and having a fantastic long-lasting marriage”.
“Weddings are now focused on the celebration of a couples’ life-long commitment to one another, rather than the start of a new life together, and hence have become bigger and bigger occasions.”
“We have reached a tipping point where the divorce rate will likely be on the decline for the foreseeable future as marriage increasingly becomes the fully informed independent choice of couples wishing to demonstrate their commitment to one another without the pressure seen in previous generations.”
For further information, interviews and images please contact Harriet or Sarah-Jane at Harriet Hunt Communications
Whether you’ve recently started to plan your wedding or you’re right in the thick of it, you probably noticed something fairly quickly – weddings can be costly. In 2024, the average cost of a wedding is £20,775, and that’s before you’ve even got to the honeymoon or considered the cost of the engagement ring. So if you’re trying to figure out how to plan your dream wedding and stay firmly within your budget, you’ve come to the right place.
In this post, we’re going to take a deep dive into how to save money on a wedding and offer you plenty of tips to make sure you don’t go over your wedding budget.
Before we go over the many ways you can save money on your wedding, make sure you have a solid idea as to what you want to (realistically) spend. To give you a helping hand, you can use Bridebook’s useful wedding budget calculator.
Throwing a lavish and expensive wedding is a fabulous way to spend your big day, but it’s important not to get too carried away. Have a chat with your partner about what’s really important for both of you and create a list that categorises the must-haves and the nice-to-haves so you know what can be cut if you get a little too close to the top end of your budget.
Planning a wedding is a lot of fun, but it can also be a stressful time. That stress, combined with spending a great deal of money, can be create challenges. Remember to be open and honest with your partner and try not to get your heart set on something before you’ve booked it. The last thing you want is to be disappointed if something doesn’t quite work out how you hoped.
What’s the average cost of a wedding in 2024?
Average UK Wedding Costs: With and Without the Engagement Ring and Honeymoon
As uncovered in our ultimate wedding budget breakdown, the average cost of a wedding in 2024 is £20,775, not including the ring and a potential honeymoon. When you factor the engagement ring and honeymoon into your budget, the average cost rises to £25,952, which is a huge amount of money to spend.
It’s important to remember that this is just an average, and the actual cost of your wedding will depend on many factors, including the cost of the venue, number of guests, time of year, and even how many tiers there are on your cake.
Of course, you don’t have to spend this amount, or anything close to it – couples have weddings which range from costing less than £1,000 to costing £100,000 or more. If you budget wisely, make some careful decisions and plan ahead, you can make significant savings while still ensuring you have your dream wedding.
What are the best tools for saving money on your wedding?
When the time comes to start planning your wedding in earnest, the excitement can take hold and before you know it you’re creating spreadsheets, browsing Instagram hashtags and Pinterest stores, and your Google search history is nothing but venues and flower shops. But before you dive into the deep end, why not consider a tool to help you save time, money and effort?
We recommend using Bridebook’s state-of-the-art wedding budget tool to keep track of your expenses and make sure everything is taken care of. We also have a wedding planning app so you don’t have to keep a stack of notebooks with you or carry your laptop around when you meet vendors – you’ll have everything you need right there on your phone.
Can you save money on your wedding by inviting fewer guests?
When you’re getting married, we understand that it’s a big deal and you’ll probably want to invite every family member, friend, colleague and acquaintance you have. However, having a set number of guests will ensure you keep the guest list limited, which will save you on the venue, catering and invitation costs. It may be tempting to invite everyone you know to come and celebrate with you, but doing so will increase the cost of your wedding and could push it beyond your budget.
To put it into perspective, the average couple spends around £200 per guest – that means, if you’re ruthless with your guest list and invite 100 guests instead of 150, you’ll save over £10,000. If you’re not prepared to make cuts quite that drastic, even just cutting back your guest list by five could save you around £1,000.
A twilight wedding is a wedding that starts later in the day and is a great way to lower the cost of your wedding. It not only means you’re using your venue for a shorter amount of time, but you also bypass the expensive wedding breakfast and you pay vendors and staff for fewer hours as well.
For example, Friern Manor Country House Hotel offers a twilight wedding package starting at £3,500 for 70 guests, compared to £7,995 for a traditional wedding – that’s half the price! That means you can have all the celebrations of every other wedding, only condensed into a shorter amount of time. It’s the perfect way to make massive savings on your wedding if you’re happy to have the ceremony take place later in the day.
If you’re planning a wedding on a budget or just looking to save a bit of cash, knowing how to break down your budget will be one of the most important parts of your overall wedding planning, but how to stick to it? In this video course, Bridebook founder (and qualified wedding planner) Hamish Shephard explains how to plan a wedding on a budget, sharing his expert money-saving tips on everything from your wedding venue to your catering and more.
If you haven’t set the date yet, you can find huge savings by avoiding the busy seasons, certain days of the week and popular locations. So, if you’re happy to not have a Saturday wedding in the middle of summer, slap bang in the middle of London, you could save thousands. For example:
Choose a midweek wedding. You’ll save on almost every wedding supplier by joining the 50% of couples who hold their big day on any day other than a Saturday, which is the most popular day to get married. To maximise your savings, the cheapest day to get married is a Tuesday. Suppliers are usually happy to offer reduced rates on days that otherwise wouldn’t be booked.
Consider areas outside London. Couples are now spending over £15,000 (or 77%) more to marry in the capital. So, like other savvy couples, why not consider having your wedding somewhere outside of the capital (both Wales, and Yorkshire and the Humber, are the cheapest regions to get married in)? Plus, not only is a wedding away from your hometown a great way to save money, it increases the feeling of magic, mystery and adventure.
Have a winter wedding. Try to avoid peak wedding season, which is between June and September, when costs are the highest. Costs are lowest in the winter, with January and February being the cheapest months in which to tie the knot (24% less than the UK average). So, if you don’t mind it being cold outside, it could be a great choice. And on the off-chance there’s frost or snow, it’ll give you the opportunity to take unique wedding photos.
It’s also worth bearing in mind that many venues offer discounts and special ‘late availability’ packages in off-peak wedding seasons or to fill a space left by a cancellation. This can make even the most premium ones a far more affordable option if you’re happy with a bit of last-minute planning and organising. A great example is Holdsworth House Hotel, an idyllic wedding venue with 32 bedrooms, charming courtyards and enchanting gardens.
If there’s one thing people remember about weddings, it’s the quality (and quantity) of the food. Whether you go for a four-course breakfast or an all-you-can-eat buffet featuring around-the-world cuisine, food is guaranteed to excite your guests. For that reason, you won’t want to cut corners when it comes to your food, but there are still some creative ways to save money while not compromising on quality. But, with couples spending around £5,700 on wedding catering, it can account for around a quarter of your entire wedding budget.
As we’ve already highlighted, you can slash these costs by cutting the number of guests you invite, as there will be fewer mouths to feed. Your friend’s boyfriend of two months? Sure, you like them, but do you like them enough to pay £62 per head for them to eat a three-course meal? Cutting out a table of eight will save an average of almost £500 on food and drink (as well as saving you in table numbers and stationery). Not to mention that cutting your guest list might also give you the ability to choose a smaller, more affordable wedding venue.
If you’re keen on having a lot of people there, why not invite them to the evening reception? That way, no one will get offended about not being invited, and you’ll save money by not having to feed as many guests at the wedding breakfast. Alternatively, why not skip the expensive wedding breakfast altogether and have a breakfast buffet instead? A buffet drastically reduces costs by only requiring limited staff, plus it offers guests a wider choice.
Many people enjoy a drink or two at a wedding, and the most obvious way to save money is by not offering an open bar. Save over £2,000 by offering a paid bar. This requires your guests to pay for their drinks themselves, and stops everyone from accidentally over-indulging. Plus, guests won’t expect an open bar, with two out of three couples opting to let their guests pay for their own drinks.
Another way to save money is by choosing a more affordable fizz for the toasts. Champagne may be a luxurious choice, but cheaper alternatives like prosecco, sparkling wine or Cava will still go down just as well.
You may also be able to hire your own mobile bar instead of going with what the venue offers. One of our vendors, Near and Far Mobile Bar Ltd, is an excellent option as they set up their mobile bar at the venue, provide staff and bartending service, and offer pre-wedding consultation. Whoever you hire, just make sure they have a license. Or, you could choose to provide your own bubbly. Just bear in mind that the venue may charge a corkage fee. This can sometimes be more expensive than going with what the venue offers.
Below are just a few tips for helping strip those costs right back, while still ensuring you get wonderful professional photographs.
Consider an express package. Instead of having the photographer spend the whole day with you, ask if they offer two or three-hour packages, where they come and take shots of the venue, the bridal party and your close friends and family. Opting for fewer hours is the best way to reduce costs, but does mean forgoing pictures of you cutting the cake and your first dance at the evening reception. Some photographers also provide a second camera person and opting out of this service can significantly lower the cost.
Hire a local photographer. Local photographers will usually charge you far less than those who have to travel far and charge additional fees for those miles. Here at Bridebook, we have a huge range of fantastic photographers, so you’re sure to find one who operates where you’re hosting your wedding.
Go digital. If you forgo professionally printed albums as 9 out of 10 couples now do, you could save £250+. Most modern photography packages include a link to your own online gallery, where you can browse and enjoy all your favourite shots at your leisure. You can then always use a photo-developing service, such as Snapfish, to print your photographs for a fraction of the cost later on.
While the majority of couples choose to have a photographer shoot at their wedding, a third of couples also choose to hire a videographer to document and capture their big day in a candid and natural way, with the costs in line with that of a photographer. If capturing your wedding on video is important to you, there are plenty of ways to save money on a videographer too.
One way to save money on a wedding videographer is by hiring a professional who might not have as much experience as others. An up-and-coming videographer, who is new to the business, will have plenty of enthusiasm and passion, but not quite as much of a portfolio. They may also not have a range of expensive kit, such as drones or 4K cameras, but should still be able to produce a beautiful video for a price that fits within your budget.
You may also be able to save money by asking not to have any complex editing or cinematography, which can add a lot of time to post-production.
One of the expenses that might take you by surprise is the price of your wedding flowers, at an average cost of around £1,100. This is due to florists having to source different flowers, create elaborate artistic displays, and transport them to the venue, which all requires time, dedication, skill and expertise. That being said, there are ways you can save money on wedding flowers which mean you can have a luscious wedding filled with flora while sticking within your budget.
Many wedding florists have years, if not decades, of experience providing flowers for hundreds of weddings. That means they’re equipped to work with any budget – including yours. Speak to your chosen florist, tell them what you’re looking for and trust them. As with all wedding vendors, communication is key.
Here are a few money-saving tips for choosing wedding flowers:
Choose flowers with big heads. Not only do they look gorgeous, but generally, the bigger the flowerhead, the fewer stems you need to fill out an arrangement, which can cost a lot less than having multiple small-headed flowers.
Go for flowers that are in season. While it may be tempting to ask for roses at your spring wedding, they’ll cost a lot more then than they would during late summer or autumn, because they wouldn’t be in season. Choosing flowers that are in season will naturally help keep costs down.
Choose a naturally beautiful venue. Go for an outdoor wedding with plenty of surrounding greenery, so you won’t have to pay for additional decor. Great outdoor venues can include vineyards, parks and private gardens.
Opt for foliage over flowers. Greenery is super popular right now and many couples prefer to go with garlands to adorn their tables or drape over the altar. The best part is, foliage is typically way more affordable.
Wedding decor peppers your personality across your big day, but depending on your theme, the costs can quickly add up. The average cost of professionally sourced wedding decor is £1,500, but there are plenty of ways to save money if you’re willing to compromise, such as by creating DIY decorations or sourcing them from specialist vendors. If you’re happy not to have personalised decorations, you can slash this amount to just a couple hundred pounds. Check out our blog post on how to save money on wedding decor for more inspiration.
Another expense is the cost of marquee hire, which averages around £4,200. This depends on the size and type of marquee you go for, so if you’re not set on either of these, you can make significant savings by having a more basic marquee type. Another way to save money on a wedding marquee is by avoiding peak times, such as Saturdays and/or the summer months, as prices can be much higher during the busiest and most popular periods.
Your wedding cake is most likely the most expensive dessert you’ll ever buy, with the average cost at around £400 – £500. After all, it’s not just hugely symbolic: you’re paying for an edible work of art. Yet just like the cake itself, there are layers to the cost. The larger your wedding party, the bigger the cake will be, and the more expensive it will be too. If you do have a lot of guests, a cake with a less complex or intricate design will help keep costs down. You could also consider a dummy layer that replaces a layer of cake with polystyrene – not as tasty, but generally cheaper (though this isn’t always the case).
Due to the skill and time needed to make them, fondant and sugar flowers will typically cost more, so you can save money by forgoing them where possible. A lovely and cost-effective option (not to mention fashionable) is a naked cake with fresh flowers or fruit. Not only does a naked cake require less buttercream and fewer time-consuming decorations, but it still looks and tastes amazing.
Wedding cupcakes are another cute option and usually cost around £4 per guest; they’re generally easier to make and decorate, look adorable in pictures, and are often cheaper than a showstopping multi-tiered wedding cake.
For entertainment, it ultimately depends on your wedding theme. To keep costs down, consider creating a DIY kid’s table if children are coming to your wedding. A collection of colouring books, crayons and a box of Lego will save you £500+ that you would have to spend on a kids’ entertainer.
When it comes to music, if you’re interested in a live act, unless you want Tylor Swift at your wedding, a solo singer will generally be far more affordable than a band, simply because you’re paying one performer instead of four or five. Similarly, a DJ is often a more budget-friendly option and is almost guaranteed to be a crowd-pleaser. You can actually save up to £900 by choosing a DJ over a live band (though a band will offer that unique touch to your evening reception).
Firstly, you can reach out to bridalwear boutiques and ask if they have any upcoming sales or bridal dresses at discounted prices. There’s every chance that in a week or two, there may be a sale that slashes the price of many of their dresses, saving you a bundle. And, it may be an awkward conversation, but asking your bridesmaids to pay for their own dresses could save you £300+.
Most bridal shops sell sample dresses in styles they’re either discontinuing or no longer want to sell at discounted prices. These are dresses you and other brides-to-be try on in the shops, but if you can look past this you can make significant savings. You can also opt for high-fashion brands – ASOS, Chi Chi London and Little Mistress all sell wedding dresses at super affordable prices (just note that these are unlikely to match the quality and service of a bridalwear boutique).
The amount of gorgeous second-hand dresses out there shouldn’t be underestimated, and you can save as much as £750 by finding a vintage or pre-loved dress. Plus, only 5% of brides buy a second-hand dress, which means you won’t face much competition if you opt for something pre-loved.
To save money on a veil, why not have it as your ‘something borrowed’ and ask a family member if you could use theirs? If you’re willing to compromise, you may also have other accessories at home already, including a belt and bowtie, or jewellery and handbag, which may already work with your wedding outfit.
It’s also worth checking the depths of your shoe cupboard to see if you have some shoes that will work. Just remember to give them a polish to make them extra shiny. And remember that, again, you might have to compromise on the exact look and quality you originally envisioned . Check out our dedicated post to discover more ways to save money on wedding accessories.
The thought of walking down the aisle, all eyes on you, is both exciting and probably a little nerve-wracking. But, when you look amazing, it can help you feel confident enough to melt those nerves away. This is one of the many reasons why hiring a professional to take care of your hair and makeup is important to so many brides and, in most cases, totally worth it – that and it’s one less thing for you to worry about on the day. But, with couples spending an average of £690 on hair and makeup (as well as other pre-wedding rituals) cutting costs where possible can be a lifesaver for budget-conscious couples.
The most obvious way to significantly save money on wedding hair and makeup is by biting the bullet and doing it yourself, or asking your bridesmaids to take on the responsibility. This could save you up to £330+, but comes with its own set of risks (which we set out in our article on demystifying bridal beauty costs). If the DIY approach isn’t ideal, you could instead consider hiring a makeup assistant , who won’t be as experienced as a hair or makeup artist but will still have worked closely with one at plenty of weddings.
Another cost-saving option is to travel to your stylist or beautician on the morning of your wedding, rather than having them come to you at your venue. This could potentially halve the amount you spend on beauty. Just note that you won’t get the same level of on-the-day care and attention, including last-minute touch-ups and veil adjustments, which might be stressful).
While not generally quite as pricey as a wedding dress, today’s couples spend an average of £700-900 on suits for their wedding. While a bespoke, tailored suit might be appealing, high-street retailers offer a great range of wedding suits for around £150 if you’re on a tight budget. You may also find a great suit or tuxedo at a local second-hand store or charity shop, but bear in mind you’ll likely need to have it altered to fit you perfectly (which will bump up the costs).
Another option to slash the price of a suit is through renting, which can cost as little as £50 per suit. Plus, if all the groomsmen rent their tuxes or suits from the same place, there’s a good chance the groom’s suit will be free, or at least discounted. And even if this isn’t an advertised offer, it’s always worth asking.
Your wedding ring is the one piece of jewellery you’ll rarely take off, so will be with you through thick and thin – which is why couples spend an average of £1,000 on their wedding rings. However, it is possible to save money on wedding rings by not relying on expensive metals such as gold and platinum, instead opting for something such as silver or titanium, which could lower the cost to as little as £50 per ring (and still be durable over years of wear and tear).
You may also want to seriously think about whether or not you want to choose wedding rings with set diamonds or other precious stones. While it may look incredible, it will be far more expensive than if you were to choose a plain band. Also, the thicker the band is, the more expensive it will be, so consider choosing a band that is on the thinner side to reduce the cost.
With Pinterest full of gorgeous and creative wedding invitation ideas, it’s hard to forgo a beautiful professionally-designed invitation in favour of a less aesthetic amateur one. But, you don’t necessarily have to do that to save money. Choose the invitation style of your dreams and go digital, and give your guests the option to RSVP digitally too. This will massively reduce the cost of your wedding stationery, on which couples spend an average of £400.
Almost a third of today’s couples don’t use paper stationery, such as menus and invitations, so consider joining them! Save money on wedding stationery by using sites like Paperless Post, or design your own beautiful digital invitations to email to your guests and save almost £300. At the wedding, a decorative chalkboard can explain the menu and agenda for the day – beautiful and often cheaper than paper (plus you can box it away as a keepsake post-wedding).
A registry office wedding is already one of the most affordable choices when it comes to a wedding on a budget, costing an average of £1,342. However, it’s possible to save even more money on a registry office wedding if you opt for the basic ceremony only, which means it could cost you as little as £57 (not including the £35 it costs for each of you to give notice).
It can also be cheaper to get married during quieter periods, so make sure you avoid peak times such as Saturday afternoons or the height of summer.
Hiring a wedding planner may sound like another cost you could do without – after all, the average cost of a wedding planner is £2,436, or about 10% of your overall budget. But, wedding planners can actually help you save money in the long run by ensuring you stay within your budget. Not only that, but being in the industry means that wedding planners also have plenty of contacts and connections and can help you land the best deals, discounts and savings as a result, and they’re expert negotiators as well.
One way to save money on a wedding planner is by hiring them to do a partial wedding planning service, which means they come in with a few months to go before your wedding to make sure everything is as it should be. It’s a far more affordable service, but obviously not as thorough as if you were to hire them at the very start of your planning journey.
A wedding celebrant is a wonderful way to personalise your ceremony, particularly if you’re not looking for a religious wedding or you’re a couple with mixed faiths. However, because a celebrant can’t legally marry you, there are further costs due to the need to also hire a registrar. And, with the average cost of a celebrant being £500, this can be an important cost to consider.
To save money on a wedding celebrant, consider compromising on the level of service involved. Ask if they’ll consider not meeting with you ahead of the wedding, and if they’re happy to rely on a questionnaire to personalise your ceremony. Similarly, many celebrants will want to speak to your family and friends about your relationship; cutting out this service may help to lower the price. Just be aware that you may not get as bespoke or thorough a service.
Go down the DIY route. DIY favours can really reduce your costs, and if you’re happy with them not being super personalised, you could get the cost down to less than £1 each.
Consider cheap sweet treats. Edible favours are usually a more budget-friendly choice, such as retro sweets, biscuits, or even homemade jam.
Keep packaging simple and practical. The simpler the design, the more affordable the packaging will generally be.
Donate to a charity. A charity donation made on behalf of your guests allows you to control how much you spend, and makes for a thoughtful and generous gesture.
Depending on your plans, you could spend a good chunk of the first half of your wedding day being driven from A to B to C and back to B again. For that reason, wedding transport can be expensive, with couples spending an average of £700 on the vehicle and driver of their choice.
To save money on wedding transport, consider hiring a venue that allows you to have the ceremony, breakfast, reception and accommodation all in one, so you only need to pay for an hour or so of time. Or, if you know someone with a classic car or something with some oomph under the bonnet, call in a favour in exchange for an invite and a night of free drinks.
Your honeymoon is your chance to relax and unwind after a year or more of full-on wedding planning. The honeymoon is non-negotiable for many couples and is one of the biggest splurges, costing an average of £4,300.
It can be tempting to book your honeymoon early to help you budget, but if you’re flexible with where you’re happy to go, you could grab a bargain by booking a last-minute deal a week or two before your wedding.
But if you have your sights set on somewhere in particular, reduce costs by travelling on off-peak days: Wednesdays and Thursdays are usually the cheapest for international flights. It also goes without saying that during busier times, such as school holidays or the summer months, it’s often expensive to travel. If your wedding is booked on such an occasion, why not postpone your honeymoon by just a couple of weeks and save money by travelling off-peak?
The cost of wedding insurance might feel like an unnecessary expense – as low as £30 for the most basic cover, to £100 -£180 on average, to up to £20,000 – but it can save you thousands down the line in the unlikely event something goes wrong.
You can save money on your wedding insurance by only choosing a basic policy, such as a policy which doesn’t include public liability. If you also forgo a marquee, you won’t need to add a marquee insurance extension to your policy, further bringing the cost right down.
Despite being a specialist type of insurance, comparison sites such as Money Supermarket let you compare quotes from various providers so you can secure the best policy. Just double-check that your chosen insurer includes everything you need and provides you with the right level of coverage.
Spending the ‘right’ amount of money on a wedding gift is something that plagues the mind of many wedding guests, but the cost of a wedding gift can vary dramatically based on several factors, including your relationship with the couple and whether or not you’re in a couple yourself.
But, there are ways to save money on a wedding gift. Why not club together with other guests, turning what would be several smaller gifts into a single larger one?
If the couple has a gift registry, it should include gift suggestions to suit a range of budgets. Don’t buy your gift from the first retailer you find it in – if you shop around you might be able to find a bargain, or at the very least something very similar with a far more affordable price tag.
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There you have our top tips to help you save money on your wedding. For more information, check out our individual savings pages for even more ways to cut down your spending and make your wedding budget go further.
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Once you’ve finalised your Guest List – and we mean finalised, not nearly finalised – it’s time to send it to your venue and your caterers so they can prepare accordingly. We’d tend to advise against sending your Guest List before it’s fully finalised as you’ll end up sending revised version after revised version, and that risks leaving you (as well as your suppliers!) confused.
How Can You Make Sure You Have All This Information?
Well, there’s one easy way to keep track of all this information – it’s your Bridebook’s handy Guest List Tool! You can use it to keep track of your RSVPs, +1s and any extra information like dietary requirements and access needs too.
If you haven’t sent out your invitations yet, make sure to include a clear RSVP deadline. As a rule, set your RSVP deadline at least six weeks before your big day. We also recommend that couples always check with their venue, caterer and other suppliers if they will need confirmation of numbers earlier than this and adjust accordingly.
If you’ve already sent out your invitations and your RSVP deadline is fast approaching (or has even already gone by), don’t be shy! Reach out to any guests who haven’t yet RSVP’d to confirm whether or not they’ll be attending.
With these tricks up your sleeve, you’ll have your Guest List finalised in no time – and then it’s back to the fun stuff! Did someone say cake tasting…?
We know, we know – you don’t even want to think about it! And trust us, we’d much rather focus on the fun stuff too. But it’s got to be done – so let’s talk clear-up.
Who’s Going To Clear Up?
In an ideal world, you and your partner will be involved as little as possible in the clear-up – and if you can, we say delegate! If you’ve booked your wedding as a package (ie. including catering, decorations, etc.), the day after your wedding is likely to be a lot more straightforward as your venue may well take care of almost everything for you. You can also ask your suppliers what they offer in terms of clear-up – florists, for example, will likely come to collect any reusable elements from their displays. But if you’ve gone the DIY route, it’ll be on you. In that case, get your wedding party to take care of as much as possible so you and your partner can enjoy your first days as newlyweds… instead of spending them litter-picking.
How Are They Going To Clear Up?
Once you’ve confirmed who’ll be taking care of the clear-up, make sure they have everything they need. This includes things like bin bags and boxes – but it also includes transport. You’ll almost certainly want to make sure they have access to a car so that anything that needs to be stored elsewhere can be easily removed.
What Needs Clearing Up?
A few days in advance of your wedding, make a list of everything that will need to be cleared up – especially if you’re handing over responsibility for the clear-up to someone else. Start off by thinking about your decor, including decorations, signage, floral arrangements and table decorations. Equipment also falls into this category – sound systems, lighting and so on. Next, if you’ve rented any of your clothing, you’ll want to make sure you know when and where it needs to be returned, and whether it needs to be dry-cleaned in advance. Finally, work out what you’ll do with leftover food and drink.
Where Are You Going To Put It?
Start off by splitting everything into four categories: keep, collect, recycle/donate, bin. If you’ve arranged for your wedding party to take care of the clear-up, make sure to communicate to them what falls into each category. You don’t want keepsakes thrown in the bin – but you also don’t want to come back from your minimoon to find you have to recycle a hundred table settings. If you’d rather do it yourself, a good alternative is to arrange for everything to be temporarily stored somewhere until you have time to deal with it.
Searching tirelessly for the perfect wedding venue near Greater Manchester? Bridebook.co.uk has compiled a list of the top 25 venues in and around the city to help you out! Take a look at these incredible places, or hunt for yourself by viewing all our wedding venues in Manchester.
In the centre of Manchester sits Halle St Peter’s, an incredible grade II listed church that has been recently reformed. High ceilings and original features will impress your guests as they enter this venue – a stunning backdrop for your wedding day.
Wonderful grounds and a chic interior welcome you Ashfield House Hotel. This exclusive venue is the canvas for you to put your own spin on your wedding day, making your biggest dreams become reality!
Dating back to 1421, Chetham’s is made up of medieval buildings with heaps of character. As you say your vows among oak-panelled walls and take photos in the breath-taking library, your wedding day will be immersed in history and charm at this venue.
Fun, quirky and magical are the three words often used to describe this venue. Complete with bails of hay, authentic farm items and llamas and donkeys to pose with during your photos, The Wellbeing Farm has it all.
Amazing Art Nouveau architecture brings class and style to your wedding day in the form of Belle Epoque. Only a short journey away from Manchester, the stunning interiors and Italian glass mosaic floors of this venue are the perfect surroundings for your wedding.
This stunningly epic grade II listed building is completely one of a kind. The Great Nave within The Monastery is filled with history and offers spectacularly majestic surroundings for you and your guests to enjoy.
The Ashes boasts a stone courtyard, 50 acres of lush grounds and original interior brickwork. It’s easy to forget you’re just outside of Manchester when you see the picturesque pond and stunning surroundings of this venue.
Nestled away behind Didsbury Park, this Victorian villa is full of charm. The relaxing atmosphere of it’s gardens will be the perfect setting for you wedding day.
Set in the Peak District just outside of Manchester, Upper House stands tall over tranquil gardens and magnificent woodlands. Steeped in history and with a medieval banqueting hall ready to wow your guests, your wedding will be a success with this hidden gem.
This family-run beauty is nestled within Styal Golf Course and provides the blank canvas for you to work upon with your wedding theme. Styal Lodge uses gorgeous wood panelling and natural light to breathe fresh air into your wedding.
The incredible 15th Century Manor House of Mitton Hall combines historical features and a contemporary feel. Oak panelled rooms make the interior cosy, while adding a touch of class to your wedding.
Step into the limelight in this fabulously unique venue. The art deco glamour of The Plaza auditorium will transform your wedding into an unforgettable event, and you even get your own private film screening with popcorn provided!
Magnificent high ceilings and stunning architecture make Whitworth Hall a truly incredible place to tie the knot. In the heart of Manchester, the gothic grandeur of this building is all you need to stun your guests.
This rustic barn is a charming backdrop for your wedding day. Beautiful beams and natural light give The Oak Tree of Peover a magical and contemporary touch to the Cheshire countryside.
This stately home is truly magnificent venue that shows off beautiful architecture inside and out. The Adlington Hall & Gardens is set within the countryside close to Manchester and boasts incredible interior design. Wow!
The Saddleworth Hotel is a venue full of chic interiors and luxurious features. Based a short drive away from the centre of Manchester, the perfectly preened gardens and spectacular views are the ideal wedding backdrop.
A Medieval-inspired period barn and striking exteriors belong to Sandhole Oak Barn, set in the rolling Cheshire countryside. Say ‘I Do’ in the Oak Clock Tower, and then party the night away in the impressive grounds.
One of the most quirky ideas near Manchester is a wedding day trip with Canal Boat Cruises. The wedding boat ‘Romance’ is transformed into a venue for your special day, and you and your guests can even help to open and close the locks on your journey!
Heaton House Farm is a former dairy farm with sandstone barns and a rustic exterior. As you step inside, style and contemporary chic make a glorious backdrop for your very special day.
A truly unique wedding day can happen in front of your very eyes within The Manchester Museum. You and your guests can walk among the dinosaurs during your wedding for the ultimate step back in time.
The classic and historic decor of Capesthorne Hall will give your wedding day an edge of class. With breath-taking views across the countryside and grand interiors, this venue is the ideal setting when becoming Mr and Mrs!
Owen House Wedding Barn is a bespoke wedding venue dedicated to give you a truly unique wedding experience. The converted barn still has original features and plenty of rustic charm to offer for your photo opportunities!
This spectacular venue is surrounded by acres of woodland and lush greenery to enjoy on your big day. Sparth House Hotel is equipped with luxurious features and a personalised service to help you relax on your wedding day!
If you’re still undecided about your wedding venue or you’re looking elsewhere in the UK, use Bridebook.co.uk’s Wedding Venue Search and type in your preferred location.
Feeling stressed about the plans for your big day? Bridebook.co.uk can help you out and make the planning process much easier. Fill in your guest list, budget and use our wedding checklist to make sure you don’t forget a thing in the lead up to your special day!
Alice and Brad were all smiles at their totally chilled Bridgnorth wedding with amazing garden party reception in Autumn 2016. Rather than hosting a traditional wedding breakfast after the church ceremony, Alice and Brad chose to invite guests back to the family home for a huge garden party and buffet into the night! Music on the day included a performance from Megan Reece, a finalist on The Voice in 2016!
Venue: Marquee at bride’s family home in Bridgnorth, Shropshire
Words from the beautiful bride, Alice, describing the lovely wedding:
“Just full of love, from the ceremony to the amount of people there and the reception back at our family home. Everyone just got on no matter their age or background (people from uni, school, parents friends, grandparents friends, my friends, Brads friends) and had a good time filled with laugher, love and good food, drink and dancing.”
Talented photographer, Nick Brightman, recalls how relaxed and memorable the wedding was:
“One of the most chilled weddings that I’ve been to. After the church wedding all the guests walked back through Bridgnorth High Town for a party at the Bride’s family home complete with performance from a finalist from The Voice!”
Congratulations to Alice & Brad and thank you Nick Brightman Photography for sharing these beautiful images of this relaxed wedding!
Cutting down your wedding guest list can feel like you’re Hercules battling the Hydra – cut one person, and two more grow back in their place! But it has to be done, whether it’s because you need to save a few bucks or because they just! won’t! fit! in your venue. Remember, a bigger guest list means a bigger budget… or choosing between a champagne reception and serving your uncle’s homebrew!
The moment when you and your partner combine lists and discover the number is bigger than you ever imagined is always a dark day. To avoid disappointment for either of you – and the ruthless cull that has to follow – try using our Guest List Tool. It’ll do all the adding up, sorting and tracking, meaning you both stay on top of numbers.
Sadly, as brilliant as our Guest List Tool is, it can’t fight your battles for you. (Not yet, anyway. We wish!) So if you think your other half is being unreasonable (or maybe you just need to get something off your chest!), we’ve got some tips to help you navigate the tricky terrain of the wedding guest list.
“Your parents have a longer list… But they’re not paying as much as mine!”
Straight in at the deep end! We can almost guarantee that both sets of parents will want to invite a long list of their friends, regardless of whether or not you like them…or whether they can pay towards the extra cost. As a rule of thumb, we’d say that if they’re not immediate family or your other half hasn’t seen them in the past ten years, you have a right to question them.
“I don’t want children!” (*pause* “At the wedding, not with you!”)
Now, this is a decision that lots of couples struggle to make personally, never mind between the two of them. But if a child-free wedding is what you want, you should be reassured that you’re not a bad person for requesting this. You’re also not the only one – lots of couples do. Not only is it an easy way to cut costs and numbers (and, dare we say, stress levels), but it might even be more welcome among your guests than you’d expect! After all, it gives parents a proper night off to enjoy themselves.
“You don’t even like your work friends!”
Work friends are tricky. The key question to start with is whether they’re friends your partner happened to make through work…or if they really are work friends. Either way, it’s worth considering that not only can a blanket ban rub your fiancé up the wrong way, it might well make for an awkward office atmosphere for them post-honeymoon. Why not compromise and invite a handful of them to the drinks and dancing, if not the ceremony? That way, everyone’s happy… But you’re still not paying full whack!
“Why are you inviting your ex?”
We’d never want to make assumptions but this can be a ticking time bomb. Now, if you’re one of those lucky few who’s genuinely on good terms with their ex (and importantly, whose partner is on good terms with them too!), more power to you. Invite away! But there are no prizes for inviting an ex out of awkwardness or some kind of weird obligation – so if you don’t have a good reason to (e.g. you’re actually still close friends), we’d give it a miss. Remember, you’ll also be risking a fair few awkward conversations: “So, how do you know the happy couple?” “Oh, erm…” Our advice? Only invite exes in exceptional circumstances.
“It doesn’t feel like our wedding anymore!”
Managing a wedding can feel like a balancing act. Yes, you want the details to be perfect and to keep everyone happy… But you still need to think about the big picture (and vice versa!). This is never more apparent than when you’re putting together your guest list. Sure, maybe those extra six guests from Mum and Dad’s timeshare won’t actually feel like such a big deal on your big day… But if it’s overwhelming you right now, you need to let your parents know.
“Shall we just bloody elope?”
Every couple will have this moment… And you know what, some of you might decide you should! But take a minute and pour another glass of wine before making any hasty decisions. We promise that nine-and-a-half times out of ten, it’ll be worth it in the end!
“We’ll have to not invite some of your family.”
Chances are, one of you will have a significantly larger family than the other. To deal with this, try to assign rough portions of your guest list to each one of you early on so that you both know what you’re working with. You might do this equally and split the list into quarters: one for each of your families and one for each of your extras. Or you might decide to reflect on the size of your respective families: if your partner has a much bigger family than you (but is still close to them!), you could decide to give them a third for their relatives and yourself a quarter. Either way, your boundaries will be a bit more obvious – and so will overstepping them!
“We can’t not invite them – they’ve just got engaged.”
This is where you need to be firm with your decision. Lay down the law and stick to it – avoid any grey areas or sneaky exceptions. For example, many couples have a “No Ring, No Bling” policy, meaning a guest can only bring a plus one if they’re married or engaged. That said, given that many people choose not to marry nowadays, another way to keep your guest list a little leaner is by making decisions based on how long a couple have been together.
“Well, they invited us to their wedding…”
Look. Weddings aren’t tit for tat, and you should never feel obligated to invite someone to yours, just because they invited you to theirs. Planning a wedding is too hard (and too expensive!) for that. This is the bottom line: invite the people you want to spend the best day of your life with… And ideally, no one else!
“We’re treating our friends like they’re numbers!”
Maybe you are, but the reality is that this is what all couples have to do eventually. At one stage or another, you’ll start to feel like all your wedding guests have a pound sign hanging above their heads. Planning a wedding is a balancing act. Inevitably, you start to think about how one less guest means getting back their equivalent in booze, flowers or cake. But before you make any hasty decisions, think about how much that person means to you. This feeling won’t last forever – you’ll forget it as soon as they’re there at your big day. We promise, they’re worth every penny… But if you really don’t feel like they are, then it might be time to make a cut!
“It’s still! Too! Big!”
If you feel like you’ve done everything you can and your guest list is still just too big, it’s time to get pragmatic. Sit down with your partner and split your guest list into the A List and the B List. Sound cruel? Not at all! Many couples even plan ahead and print two sets of RSVP cards with different dates: an earlier date for the A List and a later date for the B List (to be sent out after the A List have said they can’t make it). A word of warning though: try not to let the B List know they’re the B List. Cher might get away with it in ‘Clueless’… But there’s no guarantee that you will too!
Got another guest list dilemma you want solved? Check out our Instagram, TikTok and YouTube channels. We might have already answered your question – and if not, drop us a line in the comments. But we reckon once you’ve sorted out these ones, you’ll be pretty much good to go. Send those invitations out – and once your RSVPs come flooding in, keep track of them with our state-of-the-art Guest List Tool. Then it’s onto budget blow-outs…
Most people think of a wedding as a lavish party with friends and family, centred around a couple in love. For an introvert, however, being the centre of attention can be scary – even on their special day. If you’re an introvert (or marrying one), we’ve put together a few easy tips to follow to ease your stress as you plan your wedding.
Low-Key is Lovely
Some people want loud music, heartfelt speeches, and lots of guests at their wedding. But if you don’t, that is completely ok! A small, intimate event with the most important people in your life is more than fine.
Remember, this is your day. Plan your wedding around your priorities. If you want a small guestlist, go for it! If you want a casual backyard BBQ, fire up the grill. Your happiness (and your spouse’s) is what matters most.
Know Your Strengths (and Weaknesses)
Introverts often feel overwhelmed in social settings, which can make planning a wedding (one big social event) very stressful. But you have innate strengths that can make planning easier than you might have realised.
For example, many introverts are great at making plans and organising. This skill is a godsend when you’re planning a wedding – armed with our wedding planning tools, you can take over the world. With so many elements to keep tabs on, an organised mind can keep everything running smoothly from day one, which everyone will appreciate.
However, don’t be afraid to delegate tasks to other people if they aren’t your cup of tea. Do you hate negotiating? Send your future spouse or a member of the main wedding party to book vendors for you. Not only will this take some stress off you, but playing to the strengths of your family and friends will help your wedding be even better.
Don’t Let Facebook Freak You Out
From the minute you post that engagement ring pic, your social media feed will be flooded with well-wishes, advice, and questions about the day. Seeing the notifications stack up can be overwhelming, but take a breath and you’ll be fine. Remember, you don’t have to reply to every single message. Thank the people who congratulate you, but don’t worry about all the questions and suggestions. They can wait! Also, ask a family member or member of your party to handle your social media on the big day, so you can live in the moment. There’s a time and place for social media, and your wedding day doesn’t need to be it!
Do a First Look
Some brides feel particularly anxious as they walk down the aisle. It doesn’t matter that they’re in a gorgeous dress, heading towards the love of their life. The fact remains that – gulp – all eyes are on them.
One way to alleviate that stress is to have a “first look” with your spouse before the ceremony begins. This private moment between the couple (and occasionally the photographer) can remind both partners what that day is all about: each other. With that in mind, even the most introverted bride can walk down the aisle a little more care-free.
Make Sure There’s “Me Time”
There is no doubt that planning a wedding is stressful. From the day you say “yes” to the day you say “I do”, you’ll be busy with seating charts, invitations, decorations, and a whole lot more. You’ll also be celebrating a lot; bridal showers, engagement parties, and hen dos are all par for the course for a wife-to-be. Somewhat raucous stags are expected for the husbands-to-be, too.
All of this can leave an introvert exhausted. That’s why it is very important that you schedule time to recharge throughout the wedding planning process. In fact, you should even carve out some “me time” on your wedding day, to help calm your nerves and make the day much more enjoyable.
And Remember…
Not every wedding needs to be a huge event. Even the most quiet introverts can have a beautiful, memorable ceremony that they will remember forever – as long as they plan accordingly. If you stick to your guns and plan the wedding that you know will make you happy, you’ll find that everyone else will be happy with you.
