Month: March 2024

A lot of people consider the number 13 unlucky, and if you’re one of them, perhaps it’s time to start thinking otherwise. Reaching 13 years of marriage is anything but unlucky! Now that you’ve made it to a baker’s dozen, you and your partner are very clearly doing everything right, so it’s time to celebrate this wonderful milestone.

But, when it’s time to celebrate your 13th wedding anniversary, what sort of gift do you buy your other half? Do you go for the trusted and reliable box of chocolates, a bunch of flowers, an item of jewellery, or something else entirely?

Well, did you know that there are traditional and modern anniversary gifts which couples have been giving each other to mark their 13th anniversary for more than 100 years? There’s also a traditional gemstone and flower, which means if you’d like to give your partner a gift filled with history and meaning, you have a lot to choose from. It can elevate your gift and show your partner just how much you care by giving them something extra special and thoughtful.

In this guide, we’re going to take a look at all the 13th anniversary gift-giving traditions and explain the traditional and modern gifts, as well as the gemstone and flower. That way, you can give your partner a gift that lets them know exactly how you feel and puts you in their good books for the next 12 months!

For more information about all the different anniversary gift-giving traditions from 1 to 90 years, read our complete year-by-year wedding anniversary gift guide.

What are traditional and modern gifts for a 13th wedding anniversary?

For a gift packed with enough symbolism and meaning to show your partner how much you love them, you might want to treat them to a modern or traditional gift to mark your 13th anniversary. You don’t have to give them a gift linked to these traditions, but if you’re not sure what you could give them, these work as a fantastic starting point, with an overall theme of textiles.

Traditional 13th anniversary gift – Lace

The traditional 13th anniversary gift is lace, a luxurious and intricate material used in clothing and decorations. It symbolises the beauty of your relationship and how you need to take special care of it. With a bit of creative thinking, you can give your partner an amazing gift that utilises the theme in loads of different ways.

Modern 13th anniversary gift – Fur

The modern anniversary gift for 13 years of marriage is fur. By today’s standards, fur is a little outdated, but the good news is that there are plenty of faux fur options out there so you can still give your partner something memorable and linked to the theme. Fur represents warmth and comfort, which you no doubt have in abundance after 13 years together.

13th anniversary gemstone – Citrine

The traditional gemstone to give when celebrating your 13th anniversary is citrine, a yellowy-orange quartz that represents prosperity and success. It’s not one of the most commonly used stones in jewellery and accessories, but it definitely should be – it looks stunning and is a real showstopper.

13th anniversary flower – Chrysanthemum

The traditional 13th anniversary flower is the chrysanthemum, a big and beautiful bloom that comes in a huge variety of colours, including white, red, orange, pink and purple. It represents love, happiness and a long life, so is the ideal gift when celebrating such a fantastic milestone. Its iconic shape makes it a great addition to any floral arrangement.

How do you choose a gift for a 13th wedding anniversary?

If you believe that 13 is an unlucky number, you might be mulling over the perfect gift to banish those superstitious thoughts. What kind of gift could you possibly give your partner that tells them how you feel and lets them know that 13 can be a good and auspicious number after all? Here are a few things to consider when searching for the ideal gift.

• Are the traditional and modern 13th anniversary themes important to you? Textiles can be a rather difficult theme to navigate, especially if you’re not confident you could choose something that suits your partner’s style.
• Have you got an agreed budget? Lace and fur can either be affordable or expensive, but really high-quality gifts might be on the pricier side.
• Are you hoping to give your partner a personalised gift? Both the traditional and modern themes are pretty tough to personalise, so this could sway your decision.
• What kind of thing might your partner like to receive? If your partner has an interest in any of the traditional or modern gifts, it’ll make your choice easier. If they don’t, you might have to think outside the box.

Are you on the lookout for a gift for a special couple in your life who will soon be celebrating their 13th wedding anniversary? If so, you might wonder whether or not you can join in on the fun and give them a gift closely linked to the traditional or modern themes. The good news is that you absolutely can – giving them an on-theme gift shows just how much thought and care went into your generous gift.

50 ideas for a 13th wedding anniversary gift

If you’re on the hunt for a 13th wedding anniversary gift that ticks all the boxes, you might have to use all your creativity to find something unique and memorable. Well, that’s where we come in – we’ve put together this list of 50 13th wedding anniversary gift ideas to give you all the inspiration you need and give your partner the surprise of a lifetime on the big day.

10 traditional gifts for a 13th wedding anniversary

If you love the thought of giving your other half a gift closely linked to traditions, you’ll want to consider something made from or including lace. Lace is a super luxurious material, and actually offers you more choices than you might think. So, here are 10 lace-themed gifts to give you some inspiration.

1. Lace anniversary initials artwork

Lace isn’t always an easy gift to customise, but a lace anniversary initial artwork is just that. It’s a wonderfully unique gift which uses lace as a backdrop to your initials and which can be hung on the wall to always remind your partner of your lucky milestone.

2. A lace heart on a chain

Lace is beautiful and delicate but also striking and strong, and can be a fabulous addition to jewellery. A lace heart on a chain is a unique and romantic gift that your partner could wear with a bunch of different outfits for a whole host of occasions.

3. A white lace rose

One of the most recognisable symbols of love is the rose, so it always makes for a great gift. But how does that tie into the traditional theme for 13 years? Well, if a rose is made out of white lace, of course! A white lace rose is a lovely and thoughtful gesture which your partner can keep and display forever.

4. A pair of square lace earrings

If your partner’s a big fan of dangly earrings, spoil them on your anniversary with a pair of square lace earrings. They bring a modern flair to this traditional gift and are a subtle nod to your 13th anniversary which your partner can wear all the time.

5. Lace wall art

You could add a touch of stand-out art to your home and give your partner some Queen Annes lace wall art, a lovely atmospheric piece that is definitely linked to the traditional 13th anniversary theme.

6. A watch with a lace strap

Give your partner a lace-inspired gift they’ll never see coming with a watch with a lace strap. Not only is the strap lace but so is the face, with the bonus of it being fairly affordable too. 

7. Lace underwear

There’s no way we could put this list together and not suggest lace underwear, a great way to link the traditional theme back to your anniversary night!

8. A lace bat ornament

For a cute and spooky token gift, you could give your partner a lace bat ornament which glows in the dark. A super unique gift if your partner is a fan of horror (or flying mammals, for that matter).

9. An embroidered lace tablecloth

Lace is the perfect material out of which to make a tablecloth, which your other half could use every day or only crack out for special occasions. But we bet they’ll love this lace tablecloth so much that it’ll be out all the time.

10. A vintage lace photo frame

Why not print off your favourite wedding snap and frame it in a vintage lace photo frame, so your partner can reminisce about that special day you shared all those years ago?

10 modern gifts for a 13th wedding anniversary

If you’d prefer to give your partner a gift linked to the modern theme for your 13th anniversary, you might want to give them something that includes fur. In the 21st century, fur isn’t seen as all that modern anymore, but faux fur is most definitely in the spirit of the theme. So, it’s still an option open to everyone. Here are 10 suggestions for fur-inspired gifts to keep your partner cosy and warm on your anniversary.

1. A faux Alaskan husky throw

If you’ve ever petted or had cuddles with a husky, you’ll be all too familiar with just how snuggly and soft they are. The same can be said for a faux Alaskan husky throw, except it’s even more snuggly because it’s heated and can keep you and your partner at the ideal temperature during those quiet nights in.

2. A cosy jumper

Give your partner a gift that keeps them comfortable and warm wherever they go with a Sarah Regensburger cosy jumper. It’s not only hand-knitted, but also super stylish and modern with its cropped look. 

3. Toasty slipper socks

If your partner’s tootsies have a habit of feeling a little bit like ice cubes, help warm them up with a pair of cable-lined slipper socks. Not only will they have toasty feet forevermore, but they’ll look great at the same time.

4. Faux Shearling Mid Jacket

For a slice of retro charm, a Faux Shearling Mid Jacket is a wonderfully on-theme gift that will keep your other half comfortable and cool (looking cool, that is) during those winter months.

5. A pair of knitted gloves

Whether your partner enjoys hitting the slopes for a touch of winter sport exhilaration, or you’d like to give them something to keep frostbite away during those extra nippy spells, a pair of knitted gloves is a thoughtful and practical gift closely linked to the modern theme.

6. Textile wall art

A relief flowers no2 canvas is every bit as unique as it is eye-catching. It makes for a fantastically on-theme gift that your partner will want to display to remind them of your special anniversary.

7. A warm fleece blanket

For something your partner can display on the bed, snuggle beneath on the sofa or wrap inside while sitting at their desk, a warm fleece blanket will keep them as cosy as if you were forever in their arms. A romantic and toasty treat.

8. A Shearer hot water bottle

When the temperature starts to drop, your other half can stay warm with a Shearer hot water bottle, which is luxuriously soft and comforting.

9. Sheepskin slipper boots

Smart, stylish, comfortable, cosy, warm… and there are plenty more ways to describe Sheepskin slipper boots. They’re a lot like a nice snuggly hug for your partner’s feet.

10. A deliciously comfortable snood knitting kit

If your partner loves getting crafty, a snood knitting kit provides them with everything they need to create their very own super comfy snood, which also looks amazing. Perfect if your partner has always talked about wanting to learn how to knit.

5 affordable gifts for a 13th wedding anniversary

Giving your partner a gift linked closely to the traditional or modern themes might be something you’re keen to do to mark your 13th anniversary, but you might also not want to spend too much. Some of the traditional and modern gifts can be rather pricey – but not all. So, here are five ideas for affordable gifts so you can give your partner an on-theme treat but not blow your entire budget.

1. A lace bookmark

Is your partner a major bookworm? If so, one thoughtful, useful and brilliantly appropriate gift for your 13th anniversary is a lace bookmark, which also just so happens to be affordable.

2. A lace dreamcatcher

To ward off bad dreams and help encourage a peaceful night’s sleep, a lace dreamcatcher hangs above the bed and is said to only allow good dreams to pass through. A lovely gift if your partner believes in these ancient traditions.

3. A silk tie

If your partner spends time wearing a suit for work, or you have a lot of social events on the horizon that call for a suit and tie, you could give your partner a silk tie. They’re bright, colourful and full of character, and will help your partner stand out from the crowd.

4. Bamboo socks

They might not quite be fur, but bamboo socks are thick, comfortable and warm. They also help prevent blisters, so they’re a great choice if you and your partner like to spend time enjoying long walks together. 

5. A lace photo frame border

Add a touch of real lace to any photo frame with a lace photo frame border, and elevate the frame to become a fantastically on-theme gift.

5 DIY gifts for a 13th wedding anniversary

What’s better than giving your partner a gift to mark your anniversary? How about a gift made with love and dedication using your own two hands! DIY gifts are a brilliant way to show your other half just how much you care, and there are plenty of ways to get stuck in even if you don’t have much experience with arts and crafts or you don’t have any specialist tools. Here are five DIY gift ideas to give you some inspiration.

1. DIY lace flowers

If you can get your hands on some old lace, with just a few common bits and bobs you might well have at home already, you can create some super simple lace flowers. In no time at all, you can create a unique bouquet that will last forever. Check out a video tutorial for everything you need to get started.

2. A DIY lace bowl

All you need is some lace, a balloon and some glue/fabric stiffener, and you have everything you need to produce a lace bowl. It’s easy peasy and you can even use it to give your partner their main gift so it ties everything into the traditional theme. Follow the simple steps in this video tutorial.

3. A DIY lace leaf

A lace leaf doesn’t take weeks, days or even hours of practice to master – especially if you use a video tutorial. Once you have a few leaves created you can use them to decorate a card, gift wrapping, a cake or anything else you can think of.

4. DIY textile wall art

Use textiles to create your very own piece of wall art and tie a creative and unique piece of art into the modern theme. It may sound complicated at first glance, but it really isn’t in practice, and allows you to be as adventurous as you like. Watch this video tutorial for everything you need.

5. DIY fabric gift bag

If you know exactly what you want to give you partner, but you’d like to use the modern theme, you could create your very own fabric gift bag and tie it all together. There are plenty of video tutorials out there to give you some ideas.

5 experience or activity gifts for a 13th wedding anniversary

To make sure your 13th anniversary is far from unlucky, you could spend time with your other half enjoying an activity or experience together. You might assume that lace and fur don’t lead to many fun activities, but it’s a great way to take part in something unique and exciting or learn a new skill. So, here are five suggestions to spend your anniversary taking part in something different.

1. Textile mill guided tour

Discover all about how textiles are made with a guided tour of a working textile mill. You and your partner will get to see first-hand how Yorkshire fur has been produced in this Huddersfield-based factory for decades.

2. A textile workshop

Textiles are incredibly versatile, and there’s a lot you can do with them just by unleashing your creativity. A textile workshop is suitable for beginners and provides you with everything you need for you and your partner to become expert designers (well, almost).

3. A lacemaking course

Lace is delicate and beautiful, but it’s actually a pretty accessible craft to learn, even if you’re a beginner. A lacemaking course is a fun way to spend time learning this forgotten skill.

4. Nottingham lace market tour

Nottingham was once the beating heart of Britain’s lace industry, but many of its factories and warehouses have since closed. A lace market tour guides you around some of the well-known sites that helped shape the industry in the city.

5. A Parisian textile tour

If you fancy going a little further afield than Nottingham, another city famous for its lace is Paris. So, you might want to whisk your partner away to enjoy some pastries, museums and a textile tour of Paris. This is definitely not an unlucky way to spend your 13th wedding anniversary.

10 13th anniversary gifts that contain citrine

If you’d like to treat your partner to a new item of jewellery or accessory set with the traditional 13th anniversary gemstone, citrine, your partner is in for a treat. Citrine isn’t all that common, but thanks to its yellow and orange colours it’s highly desirable. Whether your partner loves gold, silver, platinum or any other precious metal, you shouldn’t have to look too far to find them something they’ll love. Here are 10 suggestions for jewellery to consider that contains citrine:

1. Earrings
2. A ring
3. A necklace
4. A bracelet
5. A broach
6. A locket
7. A watch
8. An anklet
9. A hairpin
10. Cufflinks

Citrine is a relatively rare gemstone, but despite this, it can be fairly affordable. So, even if you have a limited budget, finding a lovely piece of citrine jewellery is more than achievable. Most high street and independent jewellers should have a selection for you to browse. At Bridebook, we also work with a range of brilliant jewellers, plenty of which have citrine jewellery in stock right now. Take a look and we bet you’ll spot something to suit your partner’s tastes.

5 floral-inspired gifts for a 13th wedding anniversary

For something as stunning as your other half, you could give them a gift linked to the traditional 13th anniversary flower, the chrysanthemum. Chrysanthemums are blooming lovely and come in a range of different colours that make them a must-have addition to any floral arrangement. Their distinct shape also makes them a great inspiration for patterns and designs, so even if your partner isn’t a big fan of bouquets, you’re still bound to find something they’ll appreciate.

1. A bouquet of chrysanthemums

Thanks to their incredible size and vivid array of colours, chrysanthemums make for a stunning addition to any flower arrangement. They also work just as well when they’re the star of the show, so a bouquet of chrysanthemums should be high on your list of considerations.

2. A chrysanthemum flower soap gift box

For a romantic anniversary night, draw your partner a hot, welcoming bath and give them a chrysanthemum flower soap gift box, which smells fruity and sweet and looks almost as good as the real thing.

3. A tiny chrysanthemum in a bottle

Present your partner with an adorable chrysanthemum-inspired keepsake with a tiny chrysanthemum in a bottle. You can even pair it with a personalised label so your partner always has a token gift to hold on to and remember your 13th anniversary by.

4. A chrysanthemum glass

Why not toast to 13 incredible years after giving your other half a chrysanthemum glass? This sleek and stylish curved tumbler can be used for everything from your partner’s morning orange juice to their evening glass of wine.

5. A chrysanthemum necklace pendant

A neat and subtle nod that your partner can always wear whatever the occasion, a chrysanthemum necklace pendant is both symbolic and looks lovely.

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If you’re about to celebrate your 14th wedding anniversary, it’s an incredibly exciting milestone in your marriage. 14 years is a long time to spend with someone, and you no doubt know everything there is to know about your partner. As part of your celebrations, you might be looking to give your other half a gift that’s special enough to reflect this fabulous milestone. But, what on earth can you give them that’s worthy of 14 years of marriage? 

Well, did you know that there are traditional and modern 14th anniversary gifts? These gifts are extra special because they’re filled with historical meaning, which can elevate them above other types of gifts. There is also a traditional flower and traditional gemstone, so if you are keen to give your partner a blooming beautiful bouquet or piece of sparkly jewellery, you can do so and make sure it’s filled with symbolic meaning.

These traditional and modern gifts have been given by couples for over a century, so they’re definitely something to consider during your hunt for the ideal gift. In this article, we’ll dive into these gifts, including the traditional flower and gemstone, and offer you loads of suggestions if it’s something you’d like to do. That means you can give your partner a gift that’s got plenty of history behind it and tells them exactly how you feel.

For more information about different anniversary gifts and traditions from all the different milestones from 1 to 90 years, read our complete year-by-year wedding anniversary gift guide.

What are traditional and modern gifts for a 14th wedding anniversary?

Both traditional and modern gifts have been given by couples to each other for more than 100 years, which means, by today’s standards, they’re potentially a little outdated compared to how we view things now. But, it’s what the gifts stand for that’s important, and with a little creativity, you can still give gifts linked to both the traditional and modern themes.

Traditional 14th anniversary gift – Ivory

The traditional 14th anniversary gift is ivory, the material from which elephant tusks are made. Ivory is incredibly durable, and is traditionally a symbol of elegance and beauty. However, not only is ivory morally wrong, as collecting it results in the death of elephants, but it’s also illegal. As a cruelty-free and legal alternative, an ivory-coloured or elephant-inspired gift is a great way to honour this gift without having to worry about the moral or ethical implications.

Modern 14th anniversary gift – Gold jewellery

The modern 14th anniversary gift is gold jewellery. Gold jewellery symbolises wealth and prosperity, which reflects the love shared by you and your partner. Gold jewellery can be a little pricey, so may be out of your budget, but there are ways to give your partner a little taste of gold jewellery without breaking the bank.

14th anniversary gemstone – Opal

The traditional 14th anniversary gemstone is opal. Opal is an absolutely stunning gemstone, which comes in an array of incredible colours and is often multi-coloured. It represents hope and truth, which is a lovely way to honour 14 years of marriage. Because of the assortment of colours opal can be found in, it’s a versatile addition to a wide variety of jewellery and accessories.

14th anniversary flower – Orchid

For a floral treat for your partner, you could give them the traditional 14th anniversary flower: the orchid. Orchids are delicate, exotic and beautiful flowers which are stunning as part of an arrangement or planted in a pot. They do take a little bit of work to care for, but it’s absolutely worth it, and is still totally accessible for beginner horticulturalists. Orchids represent love and beauty, as well as fertility – so if you have a couple of kids by now, an orchid would be rather appropriate!

How do you choose a gift for a 14th wedding anniversary?

For your 14th anniversary, you might rack your brain to think of the perfect gift for your partner. Next year is a big milestone with your 15th wedding anniversary, which makes it an extra special one. But, you can still make your 14th special and memorable too. Here are a few things to consider before deciding what to get your other half.

• Are you happy giving your partner something linked to the traditional or modern 14th anniversary themes? Ivory and gold jewellery aren’t necessarily the most accessible of themes, but if you love the sentiment behind them there are ways to be creative with them.
• What’s your agreed budget, if you have one? Ivory can be a theme that can be interpreted in different ways, but gold jewellery not so much, which means it can be rather pricey.
• Are you keen to give your partner a gift which is personalised? Both the traditional and modern gifts can be tricky to personalise, but not impossible.
• What sort of gift might your partner hope to receive? For example, have they hinted at gold jewellery or even something linked to ivory or elephants?

Do you know a couple who will soon be celebrating their 14th wedding anniversary? If so, you might be wondering if you can buy them a gift which is closely linked to the traditional and modern 14th anniversary themes. Well, the simple answer is, of course you can! Gifts related to the themes are open to everyone, so if you have an idea for the perfect gift then give away! We’re sure they’ll not only love it, but appreciate the thought and meaning behind your gift too.

50 ideas for a 14th wedding anniversary gift

Are you excited to give your partner a 14th anniversary gift closely linked to the traditional or modern themes, but not quite sure where to start? After all, how can you choose unique gold jewellery or a gift linked to ivory? There are plenty of options out there, you might just have to think outside the box a little! So, here are 50 ideas for 14th anniversary gifts so you can give your other half something they’ll never forget.

10 traditional gifts for a 14th wedding anniversary

For a gift with traditional flair, you might want to consider giving your partner a gift associated with ivory. Now, ivory is of course illegal today, but that doesn’t mean you can’t find an on-theme gift. Instead of ivory itself, you could find your partner a gift associated with the colour ivory or something related to elephants. Here are 10 suggestions to give you a little inspiration.

1. An ivory grey photo frame

Ivory is a massively appealing and versatile colour thanks to how neutral it is, so it’ll go with almost any style or colour scheme. So, you could print off your favourite wedding photo from 14 years ago and stick it in an ivory grey photo frame, which your partner could hang on the wall, put on a sideboard, or proudly display on their desk.

2. An ivory white silk scarf

Because ivory goes with almost any other colour, it’s perfect for most fashion items and accessories. That’s why an ivory white silk scarf is often a safe gift to give, because no matter what kind of thing your partner likes to wear, ivory will often complement it well.

3. An incredible elephant sculpture

Elephants are beautiful animals, which is another reason why ivory poachers are so cruel. One gift that truly celebrates these gentle giants is an elephant sculpture, which can be displayed in your home as an eye-catching centrepiece.

4. A personalised elephant wall plaque

For a cute piece of personalisation, you might want to choose a personalised elephant wall plaque. If you have a growing family, you can choose the number of elephants to include on it, and each of their names to accompany them. You can also choose the wording in the central star to wish your beloved a happy anniversary.

5. Elephants in love ceramic figures

An adorable gift that perfectly sums up the love you and your partner share is a pair of elephants in love ceramic figures. With their trunks entwined, it symbolises how the two of you are one and always there for each other.

6. An ivory-coloured bouquet

Ivory makes for a gorgeous colour when it comes to flowers, and an ivory dreams bouquet will truly make an impact on your anniversary. The subtle ivory really comes to life against the lusciousness of the green foliage.

7. Imitation ivory combs

In the olden days, the upper classes would often have combs made from ivory. Call back to those times with imitation ivory combs, which look just like the real thing but are far kinder to elephants.

8. An elephant crochet craft kit

They say an elephant never forgets, and your partner won’t forget your anniversary any time soon with an elephant crochet craft kit. They’ll be able to create their very own adorable little elephant to treasure forever.

9. An ivory paper rose

For a gift as showstopping as it is delicate, an ivory paper rose has all the beauty of a real rose but is guaranteed never to wilt. The ultimate symbol of love combined with the important meaning of ivory on your 14th anniversary.

10. An ivory leather clutch bag

If the two of you are heading out to celebrate on your anniversary, you might want to treat your partner to an ivory leather clutch bag, which is super smart and stylish and will go with almost any type of outfit.

10 modern gifts for a 14th wedding anniversary

If you’re not quite sold on the idea of ivory, you could give your partner the modern 14th anniversary gift, which is gold jewellery. While other themes allow for a lot of outside-the-box thinking and creativity, gold jewellery is exactly what it says on the tin. But, there are a lot of different types of gold jewellery out there to choose from, so whatever your partner likes, you’re bound to find something that appeals to them and their tastes. Here are just 10 you might like to consider:

5 affordable gifts for a 14th wedding anniversary

Anniversary gifts can be pricey, especially if you decide to stick to the traditional or modern gifts such as gold jewellery. But, just because you want to give your partner something filled with meaning doesn’t mean you have to pay loads for the privilege. In fact, you can still get your other half a thoughtful 14th anniversary gift without breaking the bank. Here are five suggestions for brilliant token gifts which are still full of romantic symbolism.

1. A porcelain elephant in a matchbox

For the sweetest, pocket-sized gesture of love that’s packed full of historical 14th anniversary sentiment, a porcelain elephant in a matchbox is adorable and hard to beat, with the added bonus of being super affordable too.

2. An elephant-themed greetings card

If you’re considering getting your partner a gift, then chances are you’re also thinking about getting them a card. Why not bring that traditional gift-giving meaning into that with an elephant-themed greeting card? It’s a great way to personalise their card and make it specific to your 14th anniversary.

3. Gold sun anniversary card

If gold is more your partner’s thing, a gold sun anniversary card is a smart way to combine their card with the modern gift. It also means they’ll have a small keepsake of your 14th anniversary to hold onto forever.

4. A gold sunbeam ring

Gold jewellery can often be quite pricey, which means it’s not always an option if you’re on a budget. However, a gold stainless steel sunbeam ring totally counts and is a great way to give your partner an affordable gift which has all the historical meaning behind it.

5. A faux IKEA orchid

If you think your partner would love an orchid, but they’re not confident with keeping plants alive and you don’t want to risk, it a faux orchid from IKEA could be everything you’re looking for! And it looks great, so win-win.

5 DIY gifts for a 14th wedding anniversary

Nothing says romance quite like a homemade anniversary gift, which you can tie into the themes and show just how much effort you’ve put into it. But, we hear you ask, how on earth are you supposed to make a gift linked to ivory or gold jewellery? Well, you might be surprised – there are plenty of things you can do to make your partner something with your own two hands. Here are five creative ideas for DIY 14th anniversary gifts.

1. DIY ivory fabric bunting

We decorate for loads of different occasions, from holidays to birthdays – so why not apply the same effort to your anniversary? And there’s no better way to decorate than with homemade anniversary bunting using ivory fabric. Fabric is fairly affordable, and a video tutorial will tell you everything you need to know to make it yourself.

2. A DIY ivory headband

With a little ivory fabric and some elastic, you might be able to cobble together a few bits from around the house to make your partner a DIY ivory headband. Headbands are in fashion at the moment, so not only will it be thoughtful and on-theme, but your partner can wear it proudly too. Check out tutorial for all the steps on how to sew a headband.

3. A DIY gold wire sculpture

Even if you don’t have any experience, with a little patience and time, you can create a striking DIY gold wire sculpture. You might need a couple of tools, but gold wire is very affordable and can be both rewarding and easy to work with. Watch a video tutorial for information on how to get started.

4. DIY gold wire jewellery

If you have some gold wire (and if you don’t, you can pick some up cheaply) there are loads of things you can do with it, including making gold wire jewellery. You can make everything from earrings to bracelets, and it’s straightforward to pick up. Browse Pinterest for some great wire jewellery ideas.

5. DIY gold jewellery

Want a crack at making jewellery but you’re not sure your partner will like wire jewellery? A jewellery-making kit provides you with all the tools and materials you need to make a wide variety of jewellery with plenty of gold accessories to include.

5 experience or activity gifts for a 14th wedding anniversary

Not that you need an excuse to spend time with the love of your life, but your anniversary is the perfect time to whisk your partner away to experience something new, fun or exciting together. And, there are plenty of experience or activity gifts which tie directly into the traditional and modern 14th anniversary themes. Here are five ideas to give you the most memorable anniversary ever.

1. Meet an elephant at Whipsnade Zoo

We know that it’s important for you and your love to spend quality time together on your anniversary, but there’s no harm in the two of you also sharing that time with an elephant. Whipsnade Zoo offers a meet the elephants experience so you can make some new friends on your big day!

2. Elephant keeper experience

If you think your partner would like to do more than simply meet an elephant, and has always fancied having a go at caring for them, an elephant keeper experience at Noah’s Ark Zoo Farm is sure to be an anniversary gift they’ll never forget.

3. Go on a safari

For a wild adventure which lets you see animals from all over the world (including elephants, of course) without having to leave the UK, you could treat your other half to a trip to Woburn Safari Park. Then, for the icing on the cake, a meal in a pub in nearby Woburn village will be a great end to the day (which could include a cake for dessert… literally the icing on the cake).

4. A jewellery-making experience

Has your partner ever talked about how much they’d like to try jewellery making? Now is the perfect opportunity, with a jewellery-making experience. You can both have a go at making jewellery yourself under the guidance of an expert.

5. Tour Britain’s only Roman gold mine

The UK isn’t exactly known for its gold mines, but, did you know that West Wales is home to Britain’s only Roman gold mine? Take a tour of Dolaucothi Gold Mines and learn all about how the Romans mined gold right here in the UK.

10 14th anniversary gifts that contain opal

The traditional 14th anniversary gemstone is opal, a blindingly brilliant stone which comes in so many different colours that it’s practically impossible to find two that are the same. What isn’t impossible, however, is finding one that your partner will love. Because of their versatility, opals are great when set in all different types of jewellery made from almost every different precious metal there is. If you think your other half might love jewellery set with opal, you might want to consider any one of the following 10 ideas:

1. Earrings
2. A ring
3. A necklace
4. A bracelet
5. A broach
6. A locket
7. A watch
8. An anklet
9. A hairpin
10. Cufflinks

Opals are a fairly common stone, so they can be relatively affordable. That said, some of the more valuable opals, such as black opal, can be incredibly expensive. So, opal is a great stone to suit a wide range of budgets. You shouldn’t have many issues finding opal jewellery at most high street and independent jewellers. At Bridebook, we’ve partnered with a huge number of jewellers who have their own selections of opal jewellery, so check them out and take a look to see if they have something that suits your partner’s tastes.

5 floral-inspired gifts for a 14th wedding anniversary

Flowers are always a great gift to give on your anniversary, and are sure to put you in your partner’s good books. But, to make sure your floral gift has more meaning behind it than any other bouquet you might choose, the traditional flower for your 14th anniversary is the orchid. Orchids are stunning and fill a room with elegance and life, and their striking look can inspire other gifts. Below are five orchid-themed gifts to consider giving your partner on your anniversary.

1. A white heart orchid

Giving your partner an orchid is one thing, but a white heart orchid from M&S features an orchid shaped like a heart, with a heart token hanging from the centre. It’s the ultimate symbol of love made from the ultimate flower for celebrating 14 years.

2. A rose gold orchid necklace

Orchids are iconic blooms and work wonderfully well when included in jewellery. A rose gold orchid necklace combines two 14th anniversary gifts in the form of the traditional flower and modern gift, which makes it a double-hitter for your big milestone.

3. A crocheted orchid

If your partner loves orchids but struggles to keep them alive, a crocheted orchid looks almost as good as the real thing, except it’ll never die and will always remain as vibrant as the day you give it to your partner.

4. A freesia and orchid-scented candle

Help create a romantic atmosphere on the evening of your anniversary with a freesia and orchid-scented candle, which smells gloriously floral and sweet and will last around 42 hours.

5. LEGO orchids

Do you and your partner love building LEGO sets together? If so, a brilliant choice of anniversary gift is a LEGO orchid set, which is fun and satisfying to build and looks almost as good as the real thing when finished.

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12 is a very spiritual number and is often linked to the heavens because there are 12 months and zodiac signs – to many, this makes it rather lucky. And we bet you consider yourself exceptionally lucky to be celebrating your 12th wedding anniversary! 12 whole years with the love of your life is something that deserves to be celebrated, which means you might be keen to give your partner a gift they’ll always remember.

Did you know there are traditional and modern 12th anniversary gifts, as well as a traditional flower and gemstone? These gifts have been given by couples to each other for over 100 years, and they have special meanings associated with them that elevate them above other types of gifts. Not that other gifts are wrong and shouldn’t be given – far from it – but traditional and modern gifts have a wonderful history which you may like to include in your celebrations.

In this guide, we’re going to explore the traditional and modern gifts associated with your 12th wedding anniversary so you know exactly the type of gift to buy that contains extra special symbolic meaning. We’ll also give you 50 ideas related to the themes to kickstart your creativity and help you find your partner the perfect gift and mark a dozen years together in style.

To discover more about all the different anniversary gift-giving traditions from 1 to 90 years, read our complete year-by-year wedding anniversary gift guide.

What are traditional and modern gifts for a 12th wedding anniversary?

12 years is a long time to spend with someone, so a gift packed with thought and meaning is a brilliant way to let them know just how much you care. Depending on the type of gift you’d like to give and your partner’s preferences, you have a wide range of different options to make your anniversary one to remember.

Traditional 12th anniversary gift – Silk

The traditional 12th anniversary gift is silk, a luxurious, smooth and highly-desirable material used for making a wide range of clothes and accessories. You might think this limits the type of gift you can give, but with a little creativity, there are loads of ways to incorporate silk into your anniversary. Silk represents how your marriage has become interwoven and strong, as well as how you enjoy the odd luxurious indulgence. It sounds pretty perfect to us!

Modern 12th anniversary gift – Pearl

If you’d rather go for the modern 12th anniversary gift, you might want to give your partner something containing pearl. Pearl is a lovely iridescent creamy white stone made by oysters and mussels, though artificial pearls can look just as lovely. Pearls represent strength and purity, on top of looking beautiful set in different types of jewellery.

12th anniversary gemstone – Jade

The traditional 12th anniversary gemstone is jade, a fabulous stone that comes in many different shades of green, and sometimes also in white, black and orange. It represents eternity and harmony, and we’re sure there must be plenty of harmony in your marriage – how else would you be about to celebrate your 12th anniversary, after all?

12th anniversary flower – Peony

For something a little more floral, you could give your partner the traditional 12th anniversary flower, which is the peony. Peonies are lovely big blooms that come in various shades of red, purple, pink and white, and sometimes even yellow. They symbolise happiness, romance and a contented marriage, so could there really be a more brilliant bloom to give your partner to mark your anniversary?

How do you choose a gift for a 12th wedding anniversary?

Choosing the perfect gift to give to your partner on your anniversary can be a tricky one. Silk has romantic connotations, pearl is stunning and desirable, jade is super eye-catching and peonies have a wonderful meaning… in all honesty, all four are a great choice. Here are a few things to consider when trying to narrow down your decision:

• Do you want to stick to the traditional or modern themes? Every gift is lovely, so you’re spoilt for choice when it comes to ways to spoil your other half.
• Have you agreed on a set budget? While all four gift choices are amazing, they can be rather pricey, which means they might not be great if you have a smaller budget.
• Do you want to give them something personalised? While some of the traditional and modern gifts can be personalised, none of them are easily personalisable, so this may sway your decision.
• What kind of thing does your partner like? Your partner might not be a big fan of silk, pearls, jade or peonies, which might make your decision trickier. Or they might not like any, which might make it even harder.

If you have someone in your life who’s about to celebrate their 12th anniversary, you might wonder whether or not you can join in with the traditional or modern gift-giving fun. Thankfully, these are only guidelines, so you can definitely give a couple a gift linked to the 12th anniversary themes. In fact, it’s bound to go down well, as it shows how much effort you’ve put into giving them a thoughtful gift!

50 ideas for a 12th wedding anniversary gift

If you know you’d love to give your partner an anniversary gift filled with romance and special meaning, you have plenty of choices available. But, if you’re not quite sure where to start or you need a little help choosing something that contains silk or pearls, we’re here to help. Here are 50 on-theme 12th anniversary gifts to give you some inspiration.

10 traditional gifts for a 12th wedding anniversary

The traditional gift for celebrating 12 wonderful years of marriage is silk, a luxurious material that’s smooth and fancy. You might already have one or two silk-centric ideas, but here are 10 more so you can make sure you’ve covered all bases.

1. Luxury silk pyjamas

Silk is an incredibly comfortable material – some say it feels like you’re not even wearing anything at all. That’s why luxury silk pyjamas are such an amazing anniversary gift and are available in so many different styles.

2. A silk flower arrangement

Silk is a delicate and soft material that just so happens to be strong and durable too. It’s the perfect material for making faux flowers that will never wilt, to give your partner a long-lasting reminder of your 12th anniversary. Silk flower arrangements are just as beautiful as the real deal and don’t need to be watered.

3. A pair of unique silk cufflinks

If your partner is long overdue for a new pair of cufflinks that they can wear to work or on special occasions, then a pair of silk cufflinks is unique and a way to always remember this special milestone.

4. A smart silk tie

Maybe cufflinks aren’t your partner’s thing, but there are often occasions when wearing a tie is needed. So, you could treat your other half to a smart silk tie, which looks great whether worn for a fancy meal out, a wedding, a business meeting… or any other occasion they might wear a tie for.

5. A stylish silk handkerchief

Handkerchiefs have fallen out of style a little bit, but it’s about time they were brought back! And a silk handkerchief is just the way to do it, so your partner is always prepared if they have a spillage or poorly-timed sneeze.

6. A Tiffany & Co. silk bracelet

Tiffany & Co. is a well-known and luxurious brand, and if you want to treat your partner, they offer something which fits with the traditional theme. A Tiffany & Co. silk bracelet is a subtle but stunning piece of jewellery that really is special.

7. Silk lingerie

Silk is a super sexy fabric, so it’s perfect for lingerie. Treat your partner (or yourself!) to some silk lingerie and have an anniversary day (and night!) to remember.

8. Silk bed linen

For the most comfortable night’s sleep you could imagine, silk bed linen is smooth, warm and so very luxurious. It’ll let you sink into bed every night feeling like you’re in a posh hotel.

9. A gorgeous silk scarf

Silk is a great material for making scarves because it’s soft and warm, and we just couldn’t put this list together without including silk scarves. There are loads of different designs and styles available, and they’re not the most expensive thing in the world either.

10. A silk gift set

Do you want to give your partner a silk-themed gift but can’t decide on one item? You could go for a silk gift set – a collection containing an eye mask, scrunchie and pillowcase to help your partner have a comfortable and satisfying night’s sleep.

10 modern gifts for a 12th wedding anniversary

If you’d prefer to give your partner a gift with more modern flair, you could choose the modern 12th anniversary gift – pearl. Yes, pearl is a wonderful addition to jewellery, but you’re not just limited to jewellery and accessories. Here are 10 suggestions for anniversary gifts containing pearl.

1. A freshwater mother of pearl frame

It’s been 12 amazing years since the two of you tied the knot, and while you’re a little older and wiser now, you no doubt love to look back on that day. So, why not do that by printing off your favourite wedding snap and framing it in a freshwater mother of pearl frame?

2. A pair of pearl stud earrings

Pearls are both bold and subtle at the same time – an amazing combination which makes them perfect for jewellery. So, wow your partner with a pair of pearl stud earrings, which go with loads of different outfits and styles.

3. A personalised framed pearl heart

For something on-theme you can hang on the wall for all to see, a personalised framed pearl heart uses pearls and pearl-coloured accessories to form the symbol of love. You can also feature a custom message to include the date of your wedding or your 12th anniversary.

4. Mother of pearl gin

If you don’t think your partner would want to wear or frame their pearls, maybe they’d like to drink them instead. Manchester Gin partnered with a Michelin-star restaurant to create its unique mother of pearl gin, which is distilled using oyster shells. Don’t worry, it definitely doesn’t taste fishy, but it’s lovely to drink when enjoying a fish dish!

5. A silver pearl cluster necklace

Marge Simpson is a famous wearer of a pearl necklace, but they don’t all look like that. For example, the silver pearl cluster necklace is a lovely piece which can be worn for a wide range of occasions, and is definitely not like Marge’s (not that there’s anything wrong with that – she looks lovely too).

6. A freshwater pearl bracelet

For a really classic piece of pearl jewellery, a freshwater pearl bracelet is elegant and subtle, so your partner can wear it whether they’re going to a fancy do or just for a night out to the pub.

7. A silver and pearl brooch

If your partner regularly dresses up, a silver and pearl brooch is a brilliant way for them to add a little class to their outfit. It’s not something they’re likely to wear all the time, but when it’s time to come out they’ll have that reminder of your 12th anniversary.

8. A silver mother of pearl locket

If you’d like to give your partner a pearl-related gift that’s personalised, you really can’t go wrong with a silver mother of pearl locket. Inside, you can house two photographs, so include whatever your partner loves most – your kids, your pets, your favourite travel destination… maybe even yourself!

9. A dainty pearl ring

With the right design, a pearl ring can look fantastic and not be too obtrusive. A Loopla pearl ring is exactly that, and is sure to look lovely alongside other rings your partner might wear.

10. Blossom pearl hair pins

If your partner likes to wear their hair up, a set of three blossom pearl hair pins is a fabulous and stylish way to do just that. It’s a great gift if the two of you are due to hit up a few weddings this year, and they go well with a variety of different outfits.

5 affordable gifts for a 12th wedding anniversary

Neither silk nor pearls are the most expensive gifts in the world, but they’re not exactly cheap either. You may want to give your partner a gift associated with the traditional or modern gifts, but more as a token gesture, so that means not spending too much money. Thankfully, there are ways to do that. Here are five suggestions for affordable 12th anniversary gifts, so you can give your other half something packed with meaning that doesn’t cost the Earth.

1. A silk anniversary card

If you’re thinking about getting your partner a gift for your anniversary, then you’re possibly also thinking about giving them a card. Why not combine your card with the traditional gift and give them a silk anniversary card? They’ll love the meaning behind it and it’s an affordable way to be extra thoughtful.

2. Pearl on Blu Ray (or streaming)

For something extra thrilling on your anniversary, you could treat your partner to a movie night and watch the horror movie Pearl! It’s far from romantic, but it’s a great excuse to cuddle up close and hide behind a pillow together. Pearl is available on Blu Ray and streaming platforms.

3. A pair of freshwater pearl dangle earrings

Not all pearl jewellery is expensive, and a pair of freshwater pearl dangle earrings proves just that. They come in gold and silver and the pearls are available in white and pink.

4. A silk scrunchie

Get in your partner’s good books with a silk hair scrunchie. Not only is it small and affordable, but it’s perfectly on theme and super practical!

5. A pair of mother of pearl cufflinks

If your partner often wears shirts, we bet there’s a good chance they haven’t had a new pair of cufflinks in a while. So, you could treat them to a pair of mother of pearl cufflinks, which are subtle enough to be worn for any occasion.

5 DIY gifts for a 12th wedding anniversary

A brilliant way to show your partner how much you care is by making them an anniversary gift. But, how can you link something you make yourself with the traditional or modern themes? You don’t actually need to be a trained jewellery maker or needleworker to make something out of pearls or silk – just a little bit of creativity. Here are five suggestions that will hopefully give you a few ideas. 

1. DIY pearl beaded keyring

To make your partner a lovely DIY pearl beaded keyring, you only need a few bits, including thread, beads/pearls and a needle. It also takes a little patience, but if you have the willpower you can make something your partner will definitely appreciate. There are video tutorials available to help you get started.

2. DIY pearl necklace

Why not go one step further and make your partner a pearl necklace? It requires a few simple tools and some wire, but if you follow a video tutorial we bet you can make something fabulous.

3. DIY silk flowers

For a bouquet your partner won’t forget in a hurry – because they’re never going to wilt – why not have a go at making some DIY silk flowers? You don’t need anything fancy, and the results can be brilliant. Check out a video tutorial for tips on how to get started.

4. A DIY silk handkerchief

If you have some old silk lying around, you could make use of it by turning it into a DIY silk handkerchief for your partner. This one requires a bit of sewing, so if you have the know-how, it shouldn’t take you too long. There are guides detailing how to make a silk handkerchief online, so see what you can come up with!

5. A homemade silk painting

Silk paintings aren’t just beautiful to look at; they can also be a lot of fun to create yourself. If you’ve never dabbled in painting before, this is rather like jumping in at the deep end, but if you fancy giving it a go, check out a silk painting beginner course for some help.

5 experience or activity gifts for a 12th wedding anniversary

Of course, you could give your partner a physical gift on your anniversary. Whatever you give them will no doubt be well received and they’ll love it. But, one way to make your anniversary memorable and unique is by giving them an experience or activity – especially if it’s linked to the traditional or modern gifts. Here are five ideas so you can make your 12th anniversary one your partner will never forget.

1. A silk weaving experience

Silk weaving has been around for almost 6,000 years, and many silk mills still use similar techniques to this day. Spend your anniversary taking part in a silk weaving workshop, to find out all about this incredible skill and make your very own purse.

2. A silk painting experience

Instead of creating a silk painting to give to your partner ahead of your anniversary, you might want to spend that time painting together instead. A silk painting experience is a wonderfully creative and fulfilling way to spend time together, with something you can keep forever at the end of it.

3. A visit to the Silk Museum

You and your partner can find out all about hundreds of years of British textile history with a visit to the Silk Museum in Cheshire. Walk through this authentic silk mill and see actual historical machinery in action.

4. A pearl bracelet workshop

If jewellery is more up your partner’s alley, you could spend time at a pearl bracelet workshop, which provides you with all the materials, tools and information so you can make an incredible, handmade pearl bracelet.

5. Pick a pearl experience

Pearls are formed in oysters and mussels, so you could enjoy a pick a pearl experience, which allows you to select your own oyster, reveal your pearl through shucking, grade your pearl and set it in a piece of jewellery. Then, your partner will have a truly one-of-a-kind accessory they can treasure forever.

10 12th anniversary gifts that contain jade

When you’re celebrating your 12th anniversary, the traditional gemstone to give to your partner is jade. Jade is a fabulous stone that comes in loads of different shades of green and is an imperial gem, which means it was used in different ceremonial objects throughout history. It’s still often used in different types of jewellery today, including those made with gold, silver, platinum and other metals. It can vary in price, with the best-quality jade being rare, and therefore expensive. But, if you’re keen to give your partner something containing jade, there’s a good chance you’ll find something that suits a range of budgets. Here are 10 items to consider that contain jade:

1. Earrings
2. A ring
3. A necklace
4. A bracelet
5. A broach
6. A locket
7. A watch
8. An anklet
9. A hairpin
10. Cufflinks

Jade can be an incredibly popular gemstone, and many high street and independent jewellers will have a range of jade jewellery, so you shouldn’t have to look too far to find something perfect for your other half. At Bridebook, we also work closely with loads of different jewellers, who also have plenty of great pieces, so you shouldn’t have any trouble finding something beautiful.

5 floral-inspired gifts for a 12th wedding anniversary

The traditional flower for celebrating 12 years of marriage is the wonderful peony, an enormous blooming flower which flowers from late spring into the summer. It comes in an array of romantic colours and is a fantastic addition to any floral arrangement. But, it’s also a great inspiration for other gifts, so you’re spoilt for choice when it comes to gifts linked to peonies. Here are five suggestions to help you choose something perfectly peony.

1. A bunch of peonies

How could we not kick off this list by including a good ol’ fashioned bunch of peonies? Their big blooms make them a wonderful flower to include in a bouquet, especially when they’re the star of the show. 

2. Peony stud earrings

For all of the beauty but none of the pollen, peony stud earrings are cute and luxurious. They also include a pearl in the centre, which makes them have double the meaning. We’re not sure you could find a more well-rounded and meaningful gift for your 12th anniversary!

3. Personalised paper peonies

For a wonderfully personalised peony-inspired gift, you could go for a personalised paper peony that’s hand-crafted. The best part is that you can include text on every petal, which could be anything from your wedding vows to the lyrics of your favourite song. It’s something your partner could hold on to forever.

4. A White Company peony candle

Create a warm and welcoming atmosphere on your anniversary with a White Company peony candle. With a deliciously floral scent, it’s soft and soothing, and allows you to set the scene on your anniversary night.

5. A peony table lamp

Light up your partner’s life with a peony table lamp, which we bet they’ll never see coming. The glass cylinder is etched with delicate patterns and casts a warm and cosy light. Lovely for those quiet nights in.

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You and your partner are now in your second decade together as a married couple. Your 10th wedding anniversary may already feel like such a long time ago, but now that you’re getting ready to celebrate 11 years of married bliss, you have another excuse to spoil your other half rotten all over again.

But what should you get your spouse when the two of you are celebrating your 11th wedding anniversary? Last year, you may have chosen to follow traditions and give your partner something around the theme of diamonds, but did you know that your 11th anniversary also has a traditional and modern gift, as well as a traditional flower and gemstone too?

So, if you’re keen to give your partner a gift filled with love and special meaning, you have plenty of options to choose from. In this guide, we’re going to explore all the traditions surrounding gift-giving when it comes to celebrating your 11th anniversary. We’ll let you know what the traditional and modern gifts are, and give you 50 suggestions to help you find something your partner will love.

For more information about all the anniversary gift-giving traditions from your first anniversary through to your 90th, read our complete year-by-year wedding anniversary gift guide.

What are traditional and modern gifts for an 11th wedding anniversary?

You might already have a few ideas for what kind of gift you want to give your partner to mark your anniversary, but a traditional or modern gift can have a deeper level of symbolism that makes it extra special. People have been giving both traditional and modern gifts to their partners for more than 100 years, and which you choose to go with is up to you – and any can be super romantic and meaningful.

Traditional 11th anniversary gift – Steel

The traditional gift when celebrating your 11th wedding anniversary is steel. Okay, so steel might not seem like a particularly obvious choice, especially as it’s often reserved for fairly industrial use. But, steel is incredibly strong and durable, so it’s actually poignant when you think about how it sums up your marriage. If you use your creativity, steel can also make for a touching and beautiful gift.

Modern 11th anniversary gift – Costume jewellery

The modern 11th anniversary gift is costume jewellery, otherwise known as fashion jewellery. It’s often big, bold and relatively inexpensive, especially when compared to fine jewellery, because it doesn’t tend to feature pricey precious metals or gemstones. But don’t let that put you off – it symbolises the fun and playfulness you have in your marriage.

11th anniversary gemstone – Turquoise

If you’d love to get your other half some jewellery but you’d prefer it to contain a real gemstone or precious metal, then the traditional 11th anniversary gemstone is turquoise. This lovely (as the name suggests) turquoise-coloured stone represents protection and luck, which you clearly have by the bucket load after spending more than a decade with the love of your life.

11th anniversary flower – Tulip

The traditional 11th anniversary flower is the tulip, which couldn’t be a more perfect flower when celebrating your anniversary. Not only are tulips wonderful springtime flowers, but they represent perfect, deep love. And, after 11 years of marriage, we imagine that’s exactly what you feel for your other half. Plus, it looks fantastic either as part of an arrangement or as the star of the show in a bouquet.

How do you choose a gift for an 11th wedding anniversary?

When it comes to choosing the ideal 11th anniversary gift, you could have a few ideas in your mind already. Do you go for the typical anniversary gift, like chocolates and flowers, or do you think outside the box? Or, you might want to choose a gift packed with special meaning – the choice is practically endless.

Here are a few points to bear in mind when trying to think about the perfect 11th anniversary gift for your partner:

• Are you keen to stick with the traditional or modern themes? They’re not exactly easy to work with – it can be easy to assume that steel doesn’t scream romance.
• Do you have a set budget? Some costume jewellery can be relatively inexpensive, but it depends what your partner likes. Some steel gifts can also vary greatly in cost.
• Are you hoping to choose something personalised? Steel is a great option if you want to give your partner a custom gift, while costume jewellery can be a little more difficult to personalise.
• What sort of thing does your partner love? Unless you’re super lucky, your other half might not have expressed much interest in steel or costume jewellery, but they could have dropped a few heavy hints about something else.

Is a couple you adore about to celebrate their 11th anniversary, and are you wondering whether or not you can join in on the traditions and get them a gift associated with steel or costume jewellery? The great thing is, these ‘rules’ aren’t just for the couple themselves – if you want to give them something that ties into the themes then you’re more than free to do so. They’re bound to love and appreciate your gift and the extra meaning behind it.

50 ideas for an 11th wedding anniversary gift

As you near your 11th anniversary, you might wonder just how you can top what you gave your partner to mark your 10th anniversary. The good news is, even though the traditional and modern gifts aren’t quite as extravagant as diamond, they’re still jam-packed with just as much symbolism and meaning. So, if you’re looking to give your partner a gift linked to one of the themes, here are 50 suggestions to get your creativity flowing and help you find the perfect gift.

10 traditional gifts for an 11th wedding anniversary

If you’re interested in giving your partner a traditional 11th anniversary gift, you’ll need to choose something closely associated with steel. Steel isn’t a common gift to give someone (unless they just so happen to be a big fan of Sheffield-based industry), but if you think a little out of the box, you can find something wonderful that they’re bound to love.

1. An engraved steel dessert spoon

Does your partner have a sweet tooth or do you love to entertain? A personalised engraved dessert spoon is a fantastic one-of-a-kind gift that you can use every time you entertain or fancy a sweet treat. It also has the bonus of being super affordable.

2. A steel rose

The rose is a symbol of love recognised the world over. The trouble is, they wilt after a few days and your floral gift is no more – that is, unless you give your other half a steel rose. That way, it can sit in the garden forever and be a permanent reminder of your 11th anniversary.

3. A steel black cat garden ornament

If your partner loves cats – particularly black cats – then a steel black cat figure can stand on your garden fence and strut its stuff like it owns the place. A great anniversary gift for the cat lover in your life.

4. A steel figures ornament

For something truly unique and full of character, a steel love figure is a real showstopper. There are also plenty of different styles depending on what your partner might enjoy – something romantic, something silly, or something a little bit more risqué. 

5. Engraved stainless steel ice cubes

It’s always worth sharing a drink with your partner to toast your anniversary. So, whether you want to share a Coke or a whiskey on your special day, engraved stainless steel ice cubes are more than fitting for the occasion.

6. A personalised steel thermos flask

If your partner spends a lot of time outdoors or travels frequently for work, a personalised steel thermos flask works on so many levels. Not only will it help quench their thirst on their travels, but it’s a personalised reminder of your anniversary which they can take with them on their adventures.

7. An “I steel love” you personalised keyring

There’s nothing quite like a good pun, and an I steel love you personalised keyring is cute, charming and funny. It’s a lovely little token gift that your other half can always keep close by.

8. A stainless steel and wooden bracelet

Traditionally, steel isn’t often used in jewellery, but in the right hands, it can be a phenomenal material. And with a stainless steel and wooden bracelet, it’s definitely in the right hands. It also sort of crosses into modern gift territory as well, meaning it’s a gift with double the meaning.

9. Stainless steel word art

For a brilliant piece of personalisation to hang on the wall, a piece of stainless steel word art lets you create custom artwork on mirrored stainless steel. It’s a brilliant and hugely personalised gift that you can use to remember the life you’ve built together.

10. A stainless steel wine tumbler

If your partner loves a glass of wine but isn’t a fan of traditional glasses, a stainless steel wine tumbler keeps wine – and any other drink for that matter – at the ideal temperature. It also comes in a range of colours, so you shouldn’t have trouble finding one that suits your partner’s taste.

10 modern gifts for an 11th wedding anniversary

If steel isn’t really your partner’s thing, then you could give them a modern gift for your 11th anniversary instead – costume jewellery. Costume jewellery is big, bold and beautiful, and with such a huge choice available you’re sure to find something that fits their usual style.

1. A precious heiress necklace

For that precious someone in your life, a precious heiress necklace will let them feel like royalty. It’s far from subtle, but it’s a lovely on-theme gift that is beautifully glitzy.

2. Celeste flower and leaf pearl cluster statement earrings

To really make a statement on your anniversary, a pair of Celeste flower and leaf pearl cluster earrings are utterly fabulous.

3. Gold butterfly wing stud earrings

If your other half is an insectologist or simply loves beautiful butterflies, a pair of gold butterfly wing stud earrings are equal parts delicate and pretty.

4. A crystal robin brooch

To make any outfit stand out from the crowd, a crystal robin brooch is perfect for any nature lover. Available in a clear or multi-coloured design with plenty of sparkly detail, this brooch goes with a wide range of styles.

5. An organic shapes necklace

For a real hit of bold blue, an organic shapes necklace is a unique and eye-catching accessory that adds a contemporary touch to any ensemble.

6. Pearls of gold bracelet

If you and your other half enjoyed bingeing Bridgerton together and they commented on the incredible jewellery they wore, you could make your anniversary one to remember with a pearls of gold bracelet, which was worn by characters in the iconic series.

7. A Diamonique scattered stone bangle

Give your partner a touch of Hollywood glam with a Diamonique scattered stone bangle, created by TV personality Brenda Edwards. 

8. Silver tone ‘dream heart’ crystal pendant

For something part vintage, part modern, a silver tone ‘dream heart’ crystal pendant ticks a lot of boxes.

9. Mood gold mother of pearl disc inlay organic long pendant necklace

A mood gold mother of pearl disc inlay organic long pendant necklace is a lovely contemporary piece that can be worn with loads of different styles and can bring an entire outfit together.

10. Peacock icicle shiny short creole earrings

With a pair of peacock icicle shiny short creole earrings your partner’s sure to turn a few heads thanks to their shimmering, deep purple icicle design.

5 affordable gifts for an 11th wedding anniversary

Steel and costume jewellery aren’t gifts that are going to align with everyone’s tastes, but you might still be keen to give your partner an 11th wedding anniversary gift that is tied closely to the traditional or modern themes. Thankfully, if you’d still like to give them a token gift that has that all-important symbolism behind it, you can do just that without having to break the bank. Here are five suggestions for affordable gifts on your 11th anniversary.

1. A personalised steel guitar pick

For the rock star in your life, a personalised steel guitar pick ticks a lot of boxes: it’s steel, personalised, affordable and perfect for any guitar-strumming spouse.

2. A steel anniversary keyring

One cute and thoughtful way to mark your anniversary is by giving your partner a puntastic steel anniversary keyring. It’s a lovely little token gift your other half can keep with them wherever they go.

3. A steel D20 die

If you and your partner love to spend hours playing fantasy role-playing games, you could treat them to a steel D20 die, so they can be reminded of your 11th anniversary every time you embark on an epic quest together.

4. Clear diamante tulip flower drop earrings

Combine the modern anniversary gift with the traditional 11th anniversary flower with a pair of wonderful clear diamante tulip flower drop earrings. They have double the significance and look fantastic.

5. Sterling silver plated hammered stud earrings

TK Maxx is a great place to shop for affordable costume jewellery, just like this pair of sterling silver plated hammered stud earrings. They’re also subtle enough that they can be worn whatever the occasion.

5 DIY gifts for an 11th wedding anniversary

What could be more thoughtful and charming than giving your partner a DIY gift made by your own fair hands to mark your 11th anniversary? Yes, steel and costume jewellery are usually made by those with years of experience, but there are some unique and accessible ways to get stuck in yourself which don’t need loads of specialist tools. For example, steel wire is fairly cheap and can be crafted into loads of different things. Here are a few suggestions so you can get crafting.

1. A DIY steel wire sculpture

You don’t need to find a welder to make something small and unique out of steel. You can pick up 5m of steel wire for next to nothing, and with a wire sculpture tutorial, you can follow simple instructions to make something special for your partner.

2. DIY costume jewellery

If you have a few simple tools, you can use steel wire to create fabulous pieces of costume jewellery, like a whimsical swirly moon, with a video tutorial available that runs through the steps.

3. A DIY steel wire cat bookmark

For something quick and simple even for the most inexperienced of beginners, a steel wire cat bookmark is cute, accessible and useful. A lovely little DIY gift.

4. DIY framed costume jewellery

If you have some old costume jewellery crammed in the bottom of a box or hidden at the back of a draw, give them a new lease of life by framing them. There are plenty of video tutorials available to give you some ideas.

5. DIY costume jewellery art

Something else you might want to do with that old costume jewellery is repurpose it into a unique piece of costume jewellery art that your other half can display. It’s a great way to get those creative juices flowing.

5 experience or activity gifts for an 11th wedding anniversary

Your anniversary is the perfect excuse for getting out there and spending time with your other half doing something new and exciting. And thankfully, to keep your anniversary on theme, there are steel- and costume jewellery-centric experiences the two of you can take part in. Here are five suggestions for things to do on your 11th anniversary.

1. A steel axe-making class

Get in touch with your Viking side and spend time enjoying an axe-making course. You might not have much use for an axe at home (or maybe you do!) but it’s a fun and exciting way to spend time together while making something out of steel.

2. The Steel Cauldron tea experience

This one is bending the rules a little, but the Steel Cauldron afternoon tea experience is the self-proclaimed most magical tearoom in the world. Enjoy magical sweet and savoury treats in fabulously themed surroundings.

3. A Magna steel experience

Take a trip to one of the world’s largest former steelworks, The Magna Steelworks, which introduces you and your other half to the long and complex history of steel production in the north of England.

4. A jewellery-making workshop

Fancy having a crack at making your own jewellery but not sure where to start? A jewellery-making experience provides you with the materials, tools and techniques you need to make something showstopping.

5. Sheffield Steelers tickets

Loosely tied to the traditional 11th anniversary theme, why not check out an ice hockey game and watch the Sheffield Steelers? A unique and exciting way to spend your anniversary!

10 11th anniversary gifts that contain turquoise

The traditional stone for celebrating 11 years of marriage is turquoise, a fabulously bluey-green stone that can vary in price. In fact, some turquoise can even be more valuable than diamond, but that’s quite rare – a lot of turquoise jewellery can be fairly affordable as far as gemstones go. It’s a versatile stone that looks great set in loads of different kinds of jewellery, and here are 10 suggestions you might consider:

1. Earrings
2. A ring
3. A necklace
4. A bracelet
5. A broach
6. A locket
7. A watch
8. An anklet
9. A hairpin
10. Cufflinks

Most high-street and independent retailers will have a range of jewellery containing turquoise set in various different precious metals – so you shouldn’t have much trouble finding a lovely piece that suits your other half’s style. At Bridebook, we also work closely with many fantastic jewellers who have a wide selection of turquoise jewellery.

5 floral-inspired gifts for an 11th wedding anniversary

If your partner’s a big fan of floral arrangements, you’ll have an easy time choosing something related to the traditional 11th anniversary flower, the tulip. Just like the rose, tulips represent love, so are the perfect choice for an anniversary gift. They’re a hugely iconic and recognisable shape and come in loads of different colours. That means they’re incredibly versatile. Here are five tulip-themed ideas so you can spoil your love on your anniversary.

1. A bunch of tulips

We couldn’t not suggest a bunch of tulips as a way to let your partner know how much you love them on your anniversary. They’re the ultimate symbol of love and are not only fantastic as part of an arrangement, but also work just as well when they’re in a bunch all on their own.

2. A steel tulip

Even though tulips are beautiful, after a week or so they wilt just like every other flower. Well, not quite every other flower. A steel tulip combines the traditional gift and the traditional flower, making it a surefire hit on your big day.

3. A midnight tulip candle

Create a romantic atmosphere on your anniversary with a midnight tulip candle, with a lovely lemony and floral scent.

4. A turquoise tulip pendant

An incredible triple-hitter for your 11th anniversary is a turquoise tulip pendant, it’s part floral, part turquoise and part costume jewellery. Plus, it goes really well with different outfits and styles.

5. A wild tulip Royal Scot Crystal vase

If you’re keen to give your partner a floral gift, you could elevate it further with a wild tulip vase from Royal Scot Crystal. That way, whenever your partner has flowers in the future they can reuse the vase and have a reminder of your 11th anniversary.

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