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If you’re about to celebrate your 35th wedding anniversary, you must be over the moon. To spend 35 years with the love of your life is an amazing achievement which not all couples get to celebrate, so you’re super lucky. Plus, it’s a testament to the work and commitment you’ve put into your marriage over the years, and you totally deserve to celebrate in style.

As part of how you mark your 35th anniversary, you might be excited to give your other half a gift. It’s been 10 years since you celebrated your silver wedding anniversary, when you may have given your partner the traditional gift at the time, which was (as the name suggests) silver. But, did you know that your 35th anniversary also has a name and theme in a similar way?

Your 35th anniversary is also known as your coral anniversary, so coral naturally plays a super important role in the gifts. But, there’s also a modern gift you might want to consider, as well as a traditional flower and gemstone. That means, if you want to give your partner a gift jam-packed with meaning, which couples have been giving to each other for over a century, you have plenty to choose from.

In this article, we’re going to take a look at all the different 35th anniversary gift-giving traditions and let you know all about what they mean. We’ll also give you 50 gift suggestions to give you a head start on ideas for what you might want to give the love of your life in honour of the occasion.

For more details on the anniversary gift-giving traditions from 1 year through to 90, read our complete year-by-year wedding anniversary gift guide.

What are traditional and modern gifts for a 35th wedding anniversary?

The traditional 35th anniversary gift goes back to the Victorian era, while the modern gift dates back to the early 20th century. There’s no right or wrong answer about what type of gift to give – only what’s right for you. Each of the themes is filled with symbolism and meaning, which can take a gift and elevate it to the next level and let your partner know just how much you love them.

Traditional 35th anniversary gift – Coral

The traditional gift to give when celebrating 35 years of marriage is coral. Coral is a gemstone usually found in the Mediterranean and Pacific. It symbolises long life and success, so perfect when marking 35 amazing years. Coral gemstones are actually the same as the coral you find in the ocean, but have been polished to give them that typical shiny, gemstone-like appearance.

Coral is also, of course, a gorgeous orange-pink colour, so there are a lot of different ways you can interpret and have fun with the theme.

Modern 35th anniversary gift – Jade

The modern 35th wedding anniversary gift is jade. Jade is another type of gemstone, which usually comes in various shades of green. Many believe jade has fantastic healing benefits, and it’s often used for meditation.

When it comes to your anniversary, jade also symbolises love, wisdom and the future, so it has loads of great positive meaning on top of looking fabulous.

35th anniversary gemstone – Emerald

The traditional 35th anniversary gemstone is emerald, an absolutely jaw-dropping gemstone. It’s usually a vivid green, but can occasionally have a touch of blue in it as well. Emeralds are a precious gemstone, which means they’re both highly desirable and occasionally rather expensive, but you can still find emerald jewellery that doesn’t break the bank.

Emerald symbolises loyalty, peace and security, and is a wonderful addition to jewellery and accessories.

35th anniversary flower – Coral rose

The traditional 35th wedding anniversary flower is coral rose. Roses were previously the traditional flower associated with your 15th anniversary and 24th anniversary, but for the first time, it’s a specific colour. This links the rose to the traditional theme, and coral roses really are beautiful. They represent excitement and desire, which is spot on when celebrating 35 years together.

How do you choose a gift for a 35th wedding anniversary?

Choosing the right gift to give your partner to mark 35 years together can be a difficult decision. With four themes to choose from (which, of course, you don’t even have to stick to) it can be tricky knowing which one to go for. Here are four things to think about before you start your search for the ideal gift:

• Have you agreed to stick to one of the themes? While there is a lot of choice, three of the themes are gemstones. That means you might struggle to find something more out there, especially if your other half isn’t really into jewellery.
• Do you have a budget in mind? Coral and jade can be relatively affordable, while emerald is expensive, so what you go for depends on your budget.
• Do you want to give your partner a personalised gift? Jewellery set with coral, jade and emerald isn’t often customisable, which may sway your decision if you’re keen to give something personalised.
• Has your partner already asked for something? If so, you might have trouble fitting it into one of the traditional or modern themes.

Is a couple you love about to celebrate 35 years of marriage? It might be your parents, someone in your family or some friends. Whoever it is, if you’re looking for a gift to give them to mark the occasion, you may be wondering whether it’s appropriate for you to give them a gift linked to one of these themes. The answer is a resounding yes! They’ll no doubt love whatever you decide to give them and they’ll appreciate the extra thought that’s gone into your gift, too.

50 ideas for a 35th wedding anniversary gift

35 years is a hugely enviable milestone to reach, and you might be searching for what sort of gift you can give your partner so they know just how much you love them. Well, if you’d like to give them a traditional or modern gift but you’re not quite sure where to start, here are 50 ideas to give you a little inspiration.

10 traditional gifts for a 35th wedding anniversary

The traditional gift to give your partner when you’re celebrating your 35th anniversary is coral. This is a great theme because it gives you loads of different options, from jewellery to something linked to the ocean to attractive peachy-pink shades. Here are 10 gift ideas centred around this versatile theme.

1. A silver coral necklace

Coral is absolutely gorgeous and makes up one of the natural wonders of this world. Its beauty is brilliantly captured in this silver coral necklace, which is unique, eye-catching and just as beautiful as the real thing.

2. A rose gold and coral watch

For a watch that’s stylish, smart and dependable, with a strap linked closely to the traditional theme, you might want to choose a rose gold and coral watch. It’s sleek and modern and perfect no matter your partner’s style.

3. A coral and silver heart locket

The ultimate symbol of love for your 35th anniversary is this coral and silver heart locket, which is bold and gorgeous. When it opens up, there’s room for two photographs so your partner can always keep their memories close to their heart.

4. A coral healing stone bracelet

Many believe coral has mystical healing abilities, and this coral healing stone bracelet is small and dainty and looks great. Even if your partner isn’t particularly spiritual, it’s still a great gift perfectly fitting with the theme.

5. A coral enamel and silver frame

Print out your favourite photograph and frame it in this coral enamel and silver frame, a super unique frame that helps your memories really pop.

6. Coral bookends

If your partner is something of a bookworm and needs a way to keep their books in order, you can’t go wrong with this pair of coral bookends. They make for a great addition to any bookshelf.

7. A coral sculpture

Give your partner a gift that makes a real statement with a coral sculpture. It’s a striking piece of modern art that has great meaning behind it and would be a brilliant addition to a cabinet or shelf.

8. A coral wooden coaster set

For a lovely gift that you can always use and remember your 35th anniversary by, this coral wooden coaster set comes with coasters and placemats that have been protected with oil and wax to make sure they last years and years.

9. A red coral rose quartz lotus symbol orgone pyramid

Give your partner a gift to banish bad feelings and lift their mood. This red coral rose quartz lotus symbol orgone pyramid is said to protect from bad spirits and calm the soul. It also has a striking look and is an amazing conversation starter.

10. A coral ornament

For a gift your partner can display an admire, you might want to consider giving them a coral ornament. A great addition to a desk or sideboard.

10 modern gifts for a 35th wedding anniversary

If you’re looking to give your partner a gift associated with the modern 35th wedding anniversary theme, you’ll want to consider something made from jade. Jade is also a gemstone and has great links to spirituality, so there are plenty of things for you to consider. Here are 10 suggestions for gifts containing jade.

1. A pair of jade cufflinks

The deep greens of jade work really well with polished brass, so this pair of jade cufflinks is ideal if your partner regularly wears a suit. Plus, the jade has flashes of emerald shades, making it a great double-hitter for your 35th anniversary.

2. A jade bangle

Jade bangles are a symbol of good luck and have historically been worn by royalty. These jade bangles are natural and untreated, so if you have the budget they’re an absolutely sensational gift to mark 35 years.

3. A jade pendant

Jade really is an eye-catching gemstone, and it’s often that the bigger and bolder they are, the more beautiful they are too, like with a jade pendant. This one is absolutely gorgeous and comes in loads of different styles and designs.

4. A jade silk tie

Jade isn’t just a stunning gemstone, but a hugely attractive colour, which lends itself well to clothing and accessories. This jade silk tie is smart with its intricate design, and would suit a range of occasions.

5. A jade tree of life

To help fill your home with positive vibes, you could give your partner a jade tree of life. Jade is often used in Feng Shui to encourage purity – plus it looks great!

6. Jade lovebirds

For a gift that’s sweet, on theme and utterly romantic, look no further than this pair of jade lovebirds. There’s oodles of meaning behind them and they’re hand-carved and mounted on a base. Plus, their small size means they make for a lovely minimalistic addition to a shelf.

7. Antique Chinese jade

China is known for having large jade deposits, and the Chinese have made some stunning jade pieces throughout history. That means, there’s a good amount of antique Chinese jade out there, which is often small, intricate and beautiful.

8. A jade hamper

“The Jade” is a luxury hamper filled with 13 gorgeous food items, including seven Great Taste gold medal winners. From sweets and biscuits, to chutneys and olives, treat your partner’s tastebuds with the ultimate jade anniversary hamper.

9. Two peas in a pod engraved jade necklace

Because jade is green, it makes for the perfect gemstone to use in a two peas in a pod engraved necklace, which you can also customise with a personal engraving.

10. A jade skincare set

If you think your partner deserves to be pampered on your anniversary, you can’t go wrong with a jade skincare set. It includes a massage roller, a candle, eye masks, a silk cloth and more.

5 affordable gifts for a 35th wedding anniversary

Your anniversary is a great time for you and your partner to spoil each other. But, what if you don’t have the budget? Or, what if your other half isn’t into gemstones and you don’t want to spend a lot of money on something they might not like? Well, there are budget-friendly alternatives, so you can still take part in the fun and give them a gift linked to the theme. Check them out below.

1. A pair of coral pearl earrings

This pair of coral pearl earrings is 18-carat gold plated and features coral-coloured Swarovski glass pearls. They make for a brilliant low-cost, on-theme gift for your 35th anniversary.

2. A coral keyring

Featuring the image of coral topped with glass cabochon, this silver-plated coral keyring is a great token gift your partner can take with them anywhere.

3. A jade gua sha massage tool

For a quick treat for your partner’s skin, this jade gua sha massage tool is unique and a must-have during those at-home facial routines.

4. A jade worry stone

A jade worry stone is small enough to hold in your hand to help relax you and ease anxiety. It’s also very affordable, so it’s the perfect token gift. 

5. An emerald crystal tumbled stone

Not all emeralds are expensive, like this emerald crystal tumbled stone. It promotes friendship, peace and harmony, and is incredibly affordable.

5 DIY gifts for a 35th wedding anniversary

When celebrating their anniversary, a lot of couples love the added gesture of making their partner a gift. It shows even more love, thoughtfulness and dedication, and can also be a lot of fun. The only trouble is, your 35th anniversary is all about the gemstones, which you might think would be tricky to DIY without jewellery-making experience. Well, believe it or not, all you need are some raw gemstones, some wire and a few basic tools to make something super unique. Here are five ideas for DIY 35th wedding anniversary gifts.

1. A DIY wire ring

Rings are small and intricate, but with a little bit of patience, it’s totally possible to make a DIY wire ring that looks fantastic. Check out a video tutorial to see if it’s something you might like to have a go at.

2. DIY wire earrings

Create your partner some earrings featuring the stone of your choice, which will definitely turn a few heads. Plus, you only need a few basic tools to try it out. Watch a video tutorial for everything you need to make a pair for your partner.

3. A DIY wire-wrapped stone pendant

This one is a little more fiddly and requires one or two additional tools, but a DIY wire-wrapped stone pendant is a great gift to make. Watch a video tutorial to see if you’re brave enough to try it yourself.

4. A DIY wire bangle

If your partner loves jewellery that’s big and adventurous, they’re likely to love a DIY wire bangle. It only requires some simple tools, but patience is important as it can be fiddly. Have a watch of this video tutorial for all the steps.

5. Grow your own giant coral flower

Fill your garden or a few pots with coral flowers to symbolise how you feel about your partner. There’s no better way than by growing some Benary’s giant coral flowers, which flower in midsummer when planted in the spring.

5 experience or activity gifts for a 35th wedding anniversary

Your anniversary is all about the two of you, so why not use it as an excuse (as if you even need one!) to spend time doing something new, fun and exciting? Believe it or not, there are also ways to tie an experience into one of the four 35th wedding anniversary themes, so here are five ideas for you to consider.

1. A trip to Australia to see the Great Barrier Reef

We’re starting big with the first idea, and if you have the time and budget, there’s no better place to go that’s associated with coral than the Great Barrier Reef. It’s a breathtaking coral reef which really needs to be seen to be believed.

2. An emerald experience voucher

If you’d like to do something with your other half but aren’t quite sure what, give them an Emerald Experience Voucher and let them choose what you do. It could be anything from a luxurious short break to an amazing animal experience.

3. A trip to the Natural History Museum

Take a trip to London and visit the Natural History Museum, where you can learn all about coral reefs and these incredible ecosystems. Then, while you’re in the capital, why not grab dinner and catch a show while you’re at it?

4. An Emerald Cruise

Emerald gemstones are stunning, but do you know what’s even more stunning? An Emerald Cruise that allows you to see incredible locations around the world. A real treat if you a have the budget for it.

5. A trip to the Sea Life London Aquarium

While London isn’t quite as exotic as the Great Barrier Reef, there are still ways to experience coral in the capital. A trip to Sea Life London Aquarium lets you check out Coral Kingdom and see some incredible species up close.

10 35th anniversary jewellery gifts that contain emerald

The traditional 35th anniversary gemstone (even though the traditional and modern gifts were also gemstones!) is emerald. Emerald is one of the four precious gemstones (along with diamond, sapphire and ruby), and is an intoxicating shade of green that looks incredible in all types of jewellery and accessories. Here are 10 suggestions for what you might want to look out for:

1. Earrings
2. A ring
3. A necklace
4. A bracelet
5. A broach
6. A locket
7. A watch
8. An anklet
9. A hairpin
10. Cufflinks

Emeralds can be rather pricey, but because they’re so popular you can usually go to your local jewellers and find a large selection of emerald pieces. At Bridebook, we also work with a huge range of wedding jewellers, so make sure you check them out to find something your partner will love.

5 floral-inspired gifts for a 35th wedding anniversary

If you’d love to give your partner a gift linked to one of the themes but aren’t keen on giving them something with coral, jade or emerald, you could give them the traditional 35th anniversary flower, which is coral rose. Coral is a lovely pastel shade in roses, but still has that big romantic meaning. Here are five ideas for coral rose-related gifts you might want to consider.

1. A bouquet of coral roses

How could we start this list and not include a bouquet of coral roses first? Choose your ideal size and arrangement and watch your partner’s face when you treat them to this ultimate romantic gesture.

2. A coral rose bush

Roses conveniently thrive in UK gardens, so a coral rose bush is a gift that keeps on giving by flowering again year after year.

3. Coral rose earrings

There are no cuter earrings to give your partner to wear whenever you head out on those light summer nights than a pair of coral rose earrings.

4. A coral rose resin ornament

To give your partner a flower that’s guaranteed to never wilt and always look fresh, a coral rose resin ornament is a gift they can hold onto forever.

5. A coral rose pendant

Treat your partner to a coral rose pendant, a lovely piece they can wear to any occasion. It’s available in silver, gold, rose gold and white gold, so they should love it whatever their preference and style. 

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Celebrating 30 years of marriage is something many couples dream about on the day they stand in front of their loved ones to exchange their vows. Yet, three decades later, you and your partner are about to do exactly that, which is an enviable milestone to reach. It means you and your other half have persevered through thick and thin to make it to your 30th wedding anniversary.

Your last major milestone was your 25th anniversary, otherwise known as your silver wedding anniversary. This was a time when you may have chosen to give your partner a gift made from silver, which is a tradition many couples have stuck to for over 100 years. But, did you know that your 30th anniversary also has a name linked closely to the traditional wedding anniversary gift?

Your 30th anniversary is also known as your pearl anniversary, though there are also other themes linked to the milestone. So, if your partner isn’t into pearls, you can still give them a gift filled with important symbolism and meaning.

In this article, we’re going to explore all the traditional and modern gifts associated with your 30th wedding anniversary, including the traditional gemstone and flower. We’ll let you know all about what each gift means so you can decide whether or not it’s something you want to give your partner to mark 30 years together. We’ll also give you 50 gift ideas to offer you a helping hand on your hunt for the perfect present.

For more information about all the anniversary gift-giving traditions from 1 year to 90, read our complete year-by-year wedding anniversary gift guide.

What are traditional and modern gifts for a 30th wedding anniversary?

Your 30th anniversary is an amazing milestone to reach, and one which not every couple will have the honour of celebrating in their lifetime. Just like with your 25th anniversary and all the other anniversaries which came before, there are traditional and modern gifts, as well as a traditional gemstone and flower, which can elevate a gift with symbolic and historical meaning.

Traditional 30th anniversary gift – Pearl

The traditional gift for celebrating 30 years of marriage is pearl, a wonderful iridescent natural stone produced by freshwater oysters (though there are beautiful vegan alternatives available too). Pearls represent wisdom, love and purity, making them a super thoughtful gift for such a milestone. They can also be fairly affordable and versatile, opening you up to a wide range of ideas.

Pearls have previously been themes also associated with your 3rd anniversary and 12th anniversary. So, if you didn’t give your partner a gift linked to the theme then, maybe now’s your chance.

Modern 30th anniversary gift – Diamond

The modern 30th anniversary gift is diamond. Diamonds are a hugely popular precious gemstone and symbolise beauty, strength and durability, making them a brilliant and foolproof way to get in your partner’s good books.

Diamond has previously featured as a previous anniversary theme when you celebrated your 10th year of marriage. It will also feature again in the future, including in another 30 years when you celebrate your 60th anniversary. But, if you have the budget, why wait that long?

30th anniversary gemstone – Pearl

The traditional gemstone when celebrating your 30th wedding anniversary is pearl. After all, it’s known as your pearl anniversary for good reason! Because it does feature so heavily in the list of themes, it does mean there are fewer types of gifts to choose from, but pearls are stunning. Plus, there are still plenty of options to consider, and you’re not limited to just jewellery either.

30th anniversary flower – Lily

The traditional flower to give your partner on your 30th wedding anniversary is the lily. Lilies represent purity and rebirth, so make for a poignant choice. That said, it’s important to remember that lilies are toxic to cats and dogs, so if you have pets at home it’s worth thinking of an alternative.

How do you choose a gift for a 30th wedding anniversary?

There are three different themes to choose from when it comes to your 30th anniversary. As it’s known as your pearl anniversary, you may be keen to give your partner something associated with pearls, or you may have other ideas. Here are a few points to consider when deciding what to give your partner to mark 30 years:

• Is it important that you stick to one of the themes? These rules aren’t set in stone, but you and your partner might love giving each other an anniversary-theme-related gift.
• What is your set budget? Pearls are generally more affordable than diamonds, but it can depend on what your budget allows for.
• Are you interested in giving a personalised gift? Personalised gifts are an anniversary staple, but the 30th anniversary themes can be tricky to customise.
• Has your partner asked for a specific gift? If so, you might be limited as to what sort of gift you want to give them.

Is a couple close to you about to celebrate their 30th wedding anniversary, like friends, parents or someone else in your life? You might be on the hunt for a gift to spoil them and let them know how much they mean to you, but you might also wonder whether you can give them something linked to one of the themes. Well, these rules (not that they’re even real rules at all) are for everyone, not just the couple themselves. If you’ve got something in mind that you know a couple celebrating their anniversary would love, then go for it. They’ll no doubt love whatever it is you want to give, and if it’s linked to one of the themes, they’ll appreciate the extra thought and meaning behind it too.

50 ideas for a 30th wedding anniversary gift

It’s been five years since your last traditional and modern anniversary gifts with your silver wedding anniversary, so you might be excited to have fun now that you’re about to celebrate 30 years. Here are 50 ideas to help you choose the ideal way to spoil your partner on your 30th anniversary.

10 traditional gifts for a 30th wedding anniversary

The traditional gift to give when celebrating your 30th anniversary is pearl, a beautiful stone produced by freshwater pearls. Of course, pearls are wonderful additions to jewellery, but they also lend themselves brilliantly to a huge variety of gifts beyond that. So, here are 10 gifts featuring pearls that you might consider giving to your partner.

And don’t forget that there are also vegan pearls available if you and your partner prefer non-animal-based products.

1. An eye-catching pearl vase

Filled with the incredible iridescent colours of pearls, this eye-catching pearl vase is a brilliant on-theme gift that is just as beautiful whether it has flowers in it or not.

2. A Precious Pearl Little Mermaid figurine

If your partner is a big fan of the classic 90s Disney movie, The Little Mermaid, then they’ll love this Precious Pearl Little Mermaid figurine. Featuring Ariel holding a pearl (and Sebastian, of course), it’s a subtle but lovely way to honour the theme and give your other half something they can display.

3. Royal blue mother of pearl rectangle mirror

For a gift that sticks close to the theme but is also beautiful and functional, this royal blue mother of pearl rectangle mirror is absolutely wonderful.

4. Pearl decorative nesting bowls

For a gift that’s low-cost and sure to get a lot of use, these pearl decorative nesting bowls are very sweet and can feature a personalised message.

5. A mother of pearl pen

The iridescent look of pearl really is hypnotic, and lends itself perfectly to a mother of pearl pen. It’s a great luxurious gift, and with plenty of designs available, you’ll no doubt find something that suits your partner’s tastes. 

6. A mother of pearl bowl

The perfect centrepiece, this mother of pearl bowl is eye-catching, one-of-a-kind and memorable. Every bowl is unique, so you know you’re giving your partner a gift like no other.

7. A pearl shell lamp

For something with retro vibes that’s great for creating a cosy atmosphere, this pearl shell lamp is a fun little way to give a gift linked to the theme.

8. A pearl cutlery set

Make every mealtime classy with a pearl cutlery set. Sets like these aren’t as popular as they once were, and we’re not sure why – they look brilliant, and it’s about time they made a comeback!

9. An antique pearl

Pearls have been used in jewellery, homeware, tableware and more for centuries, and every piece is as stunning as the last. Why not give your partner a piece of history with an antique pearl, which could be set in anything from a magnifying glass to a table box?

10. A pearl silver wire tree

Make a big statement on your pearl anniversary by giving your partner a pearl silver wire tree. It’s small, delicate and beautiful, and makes for a lovely item to display on a shelf or in a cabinet to forever pay tribute to your 30th year of marriage.

10 modern gifts for a 30th wedding anniversary

The modern gift when celebrating your 30th wedding anniversary is diamond. It’s no secret that diamonds are a gift associated with luxury, and they always make for an amazing gift. Yes, they’re expensive and don’t suit every budget, but if they do, then they’re usually a wonderful choice.

1. A diamond necklace

For a gift that screams class and sophistication, the ultimate diamond gift has to be a diamond necklace. Okay, so maybe a necklace from Tiffany is the height of opulence, but you can otherwise find more affordable choices from local and high-street jewellers too.

2. Diamond cufflinks

The great thing about diamond cufflinks is that they’re available in so many different styles. So, whether your partner likes cufflinks that are big and bold or sleek and subtle, you’re bound to find something they love.

3. A pearl, blue topaz and diamond pendant

Combine the traditional and modern themes to give a gift that has double the amount of 30th anniversary meaning. This pearl, blue topaz and diamond pendant is classy and unique, and despite featuring three hugely desirable stones, isn’t crazy expensive either.

4. Diamond earrings

A classic diamond gift has to be diamond earrings. And the thing is, diamond earrings come in loads of different styles, such as hoops, dangles or studs, and are often accommodating to a wide range of budgets.

5. A diamond ring

You may have given your partner a diamond ring in the past, such as when the two of you got engaged or when you reached your 10th anniversary. But, both occasions were so long ago, so now might be a great excuse to give them a new diamond ring.

6. A diamond bracelet

Your partner will feel like royalty with a diamond bracelet. Bracelets are available in a selection of styles and can be dainty or heavy. You can also choose from different precious metals, so you shouldn’t find it difficult to choose something that goes with your partner’s other jewellery.

7. Diamond and mother of pearl cufflinks

Another way to combine the traditional and modern themes is with a pair of diamond and mother of pearl cufflinks. Stylish, sleek and with double the anniversary meaning.

8. A Pandora Winnie the Pooh diamond charm

The perfect 30th anniversary gift for any Disney fan, this Pandora Winnie the Pooh diamond charm is chock full of character (and hunny) and makes for a special addition to their charm bracelet.

9. A diamond watch

Truly spoil your other half with a diamond watch. It’s the ultimate symbol of elegance and luxury, and is a stunning accessory to wear on special occasions.

10. A pearl and diamond ring

The beauty and boldness of pearls really do partner well with the shine and sparkle of diamonds. That’s why this pearl and diamond ring is a showstopper, with twice the amount of 30th anniversary meaning.

5 affordable gifts for a 30th wedding anniversary

While you would no doubt love to spoil your love on your 30th anniversary, diamonds and pearls are two themes that aren’t exactly cheap. Even the more affordable items tend to be rather expensive, which can be frustrating if you have a smaller budget. But, if you’re keen to give a gift filled with symbolism and meaning, but don’t want to spend too much, there are creative ways to do so. Here are five ideas for affordable gifts when celebrating 30 years together.

1. A pearl anniversary card

A fantastic way to honour the traditional theme, keep spending down AND give your partner a card is with a pearl anniversary card. It’s fun, cute, cheap and thoughtful – you’d be on to a real winner with this one.

2. A glass diamond paperweight

If your partner spends a lot of time sifting through papers at their desk, then they’ll probably get a lot of use out of this glass diamond paperweight. 

3. A dainty faux pearl necklace

Faux pearls are a lot more budget-friendly than freshwater pearls, and this dainty faux pearl necklace is great if you’d like to give your partner some jewellery but you don’t want to spend too much money.

4. Sterling silver pearl earrings

Not all freshwater pearls have to be pricey, like these sterling silver pearl earrings, which look great and are incredibly affordable considering what they are. If your partner loves stud earrings, this is a great bargain.

5. Happy anniversary pearls in a matchbox

For an adorable token gift your partner can always hold on to, this happy anniversary in a matchbox is a sweet and thoughtful way to mark your 30th milestone. It features two cute freshwater pearls presented in a matchbox with a ‘pearl-fect’ wedding anniversary message.

5 DIY gifts for a 30th wedding anniversary

A lot of couples love the romance involved with making their own anniversary gifts. It’s a sweet and thoughtful way to acknowledge the milestone, not to mention fun and exciting. The only thing is, when it comes to your 30th anniversary, making a gift linked to one of the themes can be tough – where would you even start making something with pearls or diamonds?

Well, that’s where we come in. With a little bit of creativity, it’s totally possible. So, here are five ideas for DIY gifts you can try for your 30th anniversary.

1. DIY pearl earrings

With a couple of pearls, some beads and some simple tools, it’s surprisingly easy to make DIY pearl earrings that are unique and full of charm. Watch a video tutorial to see what you need to give it a go.

2. A DIY pearl necklace 

It’s also not too difficult to make a pearl necklace at home, and it doesn’t require any special tools or kit. Just make sure you pick up some pearls that already have holes through the centre. Here’s a video tutorial to run you through the steps.

3. A DIY pearl bead ring

Believe it or not, you can also make a DIY pearl bead ring at home, and you don’t need to be an expert silversmith to do it. It’s a little more fiddly than other DIY pearl ideas, but still totally doable – see what you think with this video tutorial.

4. A DIY pearl beaded bag

If your partner likes accessories that are unique, then they might love a DIY pearl beaded bag. It’s likely to be totally unlike anything else they have! Check out a simple video tutorial and see for yourself.

5. A DIY diamond painting

Pick up a DIY diamond painting kit and create a brilliantly vivid piece of art that will add sparkle and personality to any room.

5 experience or activity gifts for a 30th wedding anniversary

Instead of giving your partner a physical gift for your anniversary, you could take the opportunity to head out into the world and do something new, fun, exciting or interesting. Your anniversary is all about the two of you, so an experience or activity is a brilliant way to spend time together. So, here are five ideas for experiences you can do when celebrating 30 years of marriage. 

1. A diamond experience day

Take a trip to South Wales and take part in a diamond experience day, where you and your partner can create your own piece of diamond jewellery under the direction of an expert goldsmith. You can also choose what you make, including a ring, bangle or cufflinks.

2. Pearl Jam tickets

Do you love rocking out? Well, there’s no better way to tie that into your 30th anniversary than by giving your partner Pearl Jam tickets! Okay, it only loosely ties into the theme of pearls, but we think it totally counts.

3. Girl with a Pearl Earring movie night

Get a takeaway in, open a bottle of fizz and get snuggly on the sofa to watch Girl with a Pearl Earring. Catch it on your favourite streaming platform or pick it up on DVD or Blu Ray.

4. A visit to Isle of Wight Pearl

Hop on a ferry to the Isle of Wight to visit Isle of Wight Pearl, where you can pick a pearl, take part in a design workshop and enjoy a bite to eat in the Pearl Cafe.

5. A diamond driving experience

If your partner’s a thrill-seeker, treat them to a diamond driving experience so they can get behind the wheel of a supercar and burn some rubber.

10 30th anniversary jewellery gifts that contain pearl

Pearl isn’t only the traditional 30th anniversary gift, but also the traditional gemstone to give when celebrating this amazing milestone. Pearls make a real statement and are often associated with beauty and elegance, which makes them the perfect addition to jewellery and accessories. They also look great alongside other stones, and work with both silver and gold. That means there’s loads of choice available if you love the thought of giving your partner jewellery. Here are 10 suggestions for jewellery that contains pearls:

1. Earrings
2. A ring
3. A necklace
4. A bracelet
5. A broach
6. A locket
7. A watch
8. An anklet
9. A hairpin
10. Cufflinks

Pearls are very common, so they’re often not the most expensive of gemstones. That makes them a lot more budget-friendly than other stones, and you’re also likely to find a huge selection at local and high-street jewellers. That means you shouldn’t have too much drama finding the perfect item of pearl jewellery for your partner. At Bridebook, we’ve partnered with a massive range of jewellers, so make sure you check them out and browse the pearl jewellery they have to offer.

5 floral-inspired gifts for a 30th wedding anniversary

If you’d like to give a beautiful floral gift on your pearl wedding anniversary, the traditional flower when celebrating 30 years is the lily. Lilies are big, gorgeous flowers that come in lots of different colours and are often the inspiration for designs and other gifts. So, here are five ideas for gifts linked to lilies which you can consider for your 30th anniversary.

1. A bouquet of lilies

Of course we had to include a bouquet of lilies as the first addition to our list. Lilies are beautiful flowers that smell incredible and fill a vase to bursting point. The only thing to be mindful of is that they’re toxic to cats and dogs, so might not be suitable if you have a four-legged friend at home.

2. A lily-scented candle

Lilies have a really distinct floral scent, which is sweet and inviting. That’s why a lily-scented candle is a great gift to help create a romantic atmosphere on the night of your anniversary, especially if you’re having a cosy candlelit dinner. 

3. A Swarovski lily

Swarovski is a brand synonymous with luxury, and a Swarovski lily is a perfect gift that looks fantastic and can sit on a shelf or sideboard as a constant reminder of your 30th anniversary.

4. Water lily flower stud earrings

Give your partner a glorious set of water lily flower stud earrings, which are small and delicate and made from 9kt gold.

5. A lily of the valley engraved vase

A lily of the valley engraved vase is a stunning gift to give, with intricate etchings that are subtle and beautiful. It’s something your partner can always use whenever they have flowers, so they’re always reminded of your big milestone.

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You’re about to celebrate your 25th wedding anniversary… wow! What a fantastic achievement, and one that not very many couples have the fortune of celebrating. It shows just how much love and commitment the two of you share to have made it to a quarter of a century of marriage. It’s an incredible milestone that deserves to be shouted about from every rooftop in your neighbourhood!

Your 25th wedding anniversary is also known as your silver wedding anniversary, because it relates to the traditional gifts couples that have been giving each other for more than 100 years. Just like every anniversary up to this point, there are traditional and modern gifts, as well as a traditional gemstone and flower. But, when you’re celebrating 25 years of marriage, there isn’t as much differentiation between them as at other milestones.

That’s because your 25th anniversary really is a big one. And if you can and want to, taking part in the gift-giving traditions associated with it can be a nice way to mark the occasion. It’s called your silver anniversary for good reason, after all. And that’s not to say you have to give your partner something silver – you’re obviously free to give them any kind of gift you like!

In this article, we’re going to let you know all about the traditions surrounding 25th anniversary gifts and the meaning behind this historical choice. We’ll also give you 50 ideas for gifts if you want to give your partner a meaningful gift but you’re not quite sure where to start.

For more information about the various anniversary gift-giving traditions from 1 year to 90, read our complete year-by-year wedding anniversary gift guide.

What are traditional and modern gifts for a 25th wedding anniversary?

Your 25th anniversary is a biggie, and is otherwise known as your silver anniversary. For that reason, silver features quite prominently when it comes to the different traditional and modern gifts. Here are the gifts you might want to consider when sticking to the 25th anniversary themes.

Traditional 25th anniversary gift – Silver

The traditional 25th anniversary gift is silver, which is why it’s also known as your silver wedding anniversary. Silver represents beauty, strength and durability, which makes it a perfect choice for this fantastic milestone. The great thing about silver is that it’s a hugely versatile precious metal, and isn’t just limited for use in jewellery. So, even though there are fewer themes for your 25th anniversary, it still allows you to have plenty of gifts to choose from.

Modern 25th anniversary gift – Silver

When the modern anniversary gifts were created in the 1930s by the American National Retail Jeweler Association, they realised that there was no point in creating something new for 25 years. By that point, your 25th anniversary was already well and truly cemented as being the silver anniversary. So, the modern gift for your 25th anniversary is also silver.

25th anniversary gemstone – Silver

While not actually a gemstone (it’s a precious metal, like gold) the traditional 25th anniversary gemstone is also – you guessed it – silver. This means there isn’t as much choice when it comes to gift themes for your 25th anniversary, but the special meaning is one that is known the world over.

25th anniversary flower – Iris

If you’re looking to give your partner something traditional but not silver, you can choose to give them the traditional 25th anniversary flower, which is the lovely iris. Irises usually come in shades of purple or blue, but you can also find them in yellow, brown, black, orange, pink and white. Irises represent courage, hope and wisdom, which are all beautiful gestures for a 25th anniversary gift.

How do you choose a gift for a 25th wedding anniversary?

With silver having such a close association with your 25th anniversary, you may have already decided what you’re going to get as a gift for your other half. Silver is a lovely gift to give during an extra special milestone that has fabulous historical meaning. But, when it comes to narrowing it down, you might not be so sure. Here are a few things to bear in mind when deciding on what to give your partner to mark 25 years together:

• Are you set on sticking to the silver theme? If so, you may want to get something traditionally silver, like jewellery, or are you open to having a bit more fun with the theme?
• Have you got a set budget? While silver isn’t as expensive as gold or platinum, it’s still not always cheap, especially when it comes to sterling silver and jewellery.
• Are you hoping to give a gift that’s personalised? Many silver gifts can be personalised in some way, but often not the more expensive silver items.
• Has your partner asked for something? If so, how does that fit into the silver theme and is there enough flexibility?

Is an amazing couple in your life about to celebrate 25 years of marriage? It might be friends, your parents or someone close. To help them celebrate, you might be interested in giving them a gift linked close to the traditional theme, but wonder if you can do that or if it’s exclusive to the couple themselves. Thankfully, these rules aren’t set in stone, so you’re more than welcome to join in on the fun and give them something made from silver. They’re bound to love whatever you give them, but a silver gift shows just how much thought and love you put into your generous gift!

50 ideas for a 25th wedding anniversary gift

For such a big milestone in your marriage, you’ve probably had a lot of thought about what to give your other half to celebrate spending 25 years together. Or, maybe you’re a little bit stuck, knowing you want to give them something but unsure about the theme. So, to give you a helping hand, here are 50 ideas for a 25th anniversary gift so you can make it extra special.

20 traditional and modern gifts for a 25th wedding anniversary

The traditional and modern gift for celebrating 25 years of marriage is silver, a hugely popular choice for couples all over the world. If you like the thought of giving a silver gift but want to think outside the box, here are 20 ideas to get you started.

1. A fine silver wine glass set

If you plan on sharing a bottle of wine with your other half on the evening of your anniversary (or the afternoon – you’re celebrating, after all), you can do so in style. This fine silver wine glass set features a silver bird design and each glass is as delicate as it is stylish.

2. An engraved silver carriage clock

Carriage clocks aren’t quite as in fashion as they once were, but for something as momentous as your silver anniversary they’re worth making a comeback for. And with an engraved silver carriage clock, it can be customised to feature a personalised message to your other half.

3. A silver leaf twist vase

For something fantastically on theme and practical, you might choose to give your partner a silver leaf twist vase, which can also include a personalised message. A great gift your other half can use again and again.

4. An engraved silver-plated trinket box

For something small, sweet, personalised and relatively inexpensive, this engraved silver-plated trinket box is a thoughtful gift that gives your love somewhere to store their bits and bobs.

5. Sterling silver wren cufflinks

There really isn’t a cuter accessory to give your suit-wearing partner than a pair of sterling silver wren cufflinks. Each pair is full of character and carefully handmade with intricate detail. 

6. A sterling silver Pandora charm

If your other half has a Pandora bracelet, you can tie their love for their jewellery into your gift, by treating them to a sterling silver Pandora charm. That way, it fits with their existing jewellery and is something they can always wear to remember your big milestone.

7. A silver photo frame

Your wedding might have been 25 years ago, but we bet you still look back on it with a huge smile on your face. You could print out your favourite wedding snap and have it framed in a silver photo frame, which your partner can then display on a desk or shelf, or hang on the wall.

8. An engraved silver pen

Gifts don’t come quite as luxurious as an engraved silver pen, a stunningly distinguished gift that your partner can hold on to and use forever.

9. A silver watch

Gold watches are often the go-to, but a silver watch can be just as fantastic. If your partner loves their watches, it’s a great choice for your 25th anniversary. You should also have no trouble finding them a watch that suits their tastes.

10. A sterling silver magnifying paperweight

Paperweights are super useful for keeping things organised on your desk, and if your partner spends time shuffling through paperwork, then a sterling silver magnifying paperweight may be just the gift for them. It can also be engraved to make it extra personal.

11. An engraved silver hip flask

If your partner enjoys a little tipple, then they’ll no doubt love an engraved silver hip flask. A stunning and highly personal gift they can always hold on to.

12. An antique silver letter opener

For something unique, antique and not too expensive, treat your partner to an antique silver letter opener, so they can feel just a little bit classy every time the mail comes… so long as they’re not delivering bills, that is.

13. A silver bookmark

Silver is a brilliant precious metal with loads of different uses, and perhaps one of the more unexpected uses is a silver bookmark. A great gift for the bookworm in your life, which can also be personalised for an extra bit of thoughtfulness.

14. Sterling silver penguin ornaments

Any animal lover is bound to fall in love with these sterling silver penguin ornaments, which are full of personality and are more than happy to sit on a shelf without the need for arctic conditions!

15. Silver wall art

Add life, shine and sparkle to a room with a piece of silver wall art. There are also plenty of different designs available, so you shouldn’t have to look too long to find something that suits your partner’s style and taste.

16. A sterling silver tabby cat keyring

The purr-fect 25th anniversary present for any cat lover, this sterling silver tabby cat keyring is highly detailed, highly thoughtful and highly adorable.

17. A silver elephant bottle opener

If you might share a beer or two on your anniversary, you can crack them open with a silver elephant bottle opener, which is sleek and modern with great contemporary detail.

18. A sterling silver dish

For a real touch of extravagance, you could go for this sterling silver dish, which can also be personalised for that extra touch of excellence.

19. A sterling silver hedgehog sculpture

Hedgehogs are absolutely adorable, and one of the symbols of British wildlife. Pay homage to this cute little critter with a sterling silver hedgehog sculpture, which would be a lovely addition to any shelf or display cabinet.

20. A silver lighter

If your partner has a need for one, there’s no way they won’t love a silver lighter, a real luxury item that has tons of class.

5 affordable gifts for a 25th wedding anniversary

While your silver anniversary is an incredible milestone and you no doubt want to give your partner the world, many silver gifts can be pretty expensive, which means they might not suit your budget. But, don’t be disheartened! There are still options available which still let you give your partner a gift in keeping with the theme but without having to spend crazy money. Here are five suggestions for beautiful token 25th anniversary gifts.

1. Mr and Mrs silver-plated keyring set

For a gift the two of you can always keep close by wherever you go, this Mr and Mrs silver-plated keyring set is a cute and thoughtful gift that keeps you both connected even when you’re apart.

2. A silver anniversary card

Combine a gift card with the traditional theme with a silver anniversary card. It makes sure you still pay homage to the theme so that you’re then free to give your partner something else if you wish to as well.

3. A commemorative silver anniversary coin

The ultimate token gift… literally! A commemorative silver anniversary coin is a lovely little keepsake your partner can always hold on to.

4. Silver anniversary keepsake jar

For something sweet, small and unique, a silver anniversary keepsake jar is a little reminder your partner can always keep close by to remind them of your special anniversary.

5. A silver love ornament

All you need is love, so the famous song goes. So, for your 25th anniversary, give your other half exactly that, with a silver love ornament!

5 DIY gifts for a 25th wedding anniversary

A popular way for couples to show each other their love and appreciation on their anniversaries is by making each other a gift. But, with silver being the main theme of your 25th anniversary, how can you tie into making something unless you just so happen to be a silversmithing expert? Well, all it takes is a bit of creativity (and some silver wire). So, here are some ideas to get you started.

1. DIY silver wire flowers

With some silver wire and basic tools, it’s surprisingly simple to make DIY silver wire flowers. And once you’ve made a few, you suddenly have the most unique bouquet of all time to give your partner on the big day! Check out a video tutorial and follow the steps to get started.

2. A DIY silver wire sculpture

Fancy having a go at something a bit more complicated than a flower? A silver wire sculpture might be just what you’re after. There are plenty of video tutorials out there, like this DIY silver wire guide, which shows you how to make a stag.

3. A DIY silver wire cube

For a real one-of-a-kind trinket box, you could have a go at making a DIY silver wire cube. It sounds complex, but with a bit of patience, you’ll definitely be able to make your own. Check out a video tutorial for everything you need.

4. DIY silver wire cat bookmark

Is your partner a cat-loving bookworm? If so, a super simple DIY silver wire cat bookmark might just be the ideal gift to make. And, of course, there’s a video tutorial that shows you the ropes. Or, wire.

5. DIY fine silver jewellery

If making something from silver wire isn’t something that tickles your fancy, maybe some DIY fine silver jewellery is. And it’s not as complicated as you might imagine if you pick up a fine silver jewellery-making kit. A fun and fulfilling way to make something super special and unique.

5 experience or activity gifts for a 25th wedding anniversary

Your anniversary is a brilliant excuse (not that you need one) to spend time with the love of your life having fun and experiencing new things. There are also ways you can tie that into the traditional silver theme, so you can still give your partner something to do with silver. Here are five suggestions for experiences you can do when celebrating 25 amazing years of marriage.

1. A silver Lion King theatre experience

Silver is in the name, so it totally counts! Why not take a trip to London and catch a show with this silver Lion King theatre experience? The perfect date night.

2. A silver photoshoot voucher

Now that the two of you are celebrating 25 years of marriage, what better time to have a photoshoot than right now? Especially if your last photoshoot together was the day you got married. A silver photoshoot voucher gives you everything you need to capture more lasting memories.

3. A silver jewellery-making workshop

Making silver jewellery really is an art form that takes years of learning, practice and experience to master. But, it’s also a lot of fun to try out, and a silver jewellery-making workshop is something the two of you can do together.

4. A silver safari park tour

Enjoy a guided tour of Longleat and get up close and personal with many of the park’s beautiful species with a silver safari park tour. It’s a surefire way to have a wild time on your anniversary!

5. A Silverstone experience

Does your other half love watching the F1 and dream of driving in the Grand Prix? Well, you can give them the next best thing with a supercar experience, which absolutely counts because it’s at Silverstone!

10 25th anniversary jewellery ideas

Because there isn’t a traditional 25th anniversary gemstone, and instead it leans more into the silver theme, this opens you up to almost every type of jewellery you can think of. Silver isn’t the most precious metal out there, but it still works wonderfully well, and silver jewellery can be incredible. As it’s fairly neutral, it also pairs well with almost every type of gemstone. Here are 10 suggestions for silver jewellery you could consider giving your partner to mark 25 years:

1. Earrings
2. A ring
3. A necklace
4. A bracelet
5. A broach
6. A locket
7. A watch
8. An anklet
9. A hairpin
10. Cufflinks

Silver is hugely popular, so it’s unlikely you’ll walk into a jeweller and not find a brilliant range of silver jewellery to choose from. And because it’s not as expensive as gold or platinum, it’s often far kinder to all kinds of budget. Here at Bridebook, we also work with a huge range of jewellers, who each have amazing collections of silver jewellery, so you shouldn’t have to spend too long looking until you find something your partner would adore.

5 floral-inspired gifts for a 25th wedding anniversary

If you’d like to give your partner a traditional gift but they’re just not that into silver, you’re in luck, because you could give them the traditional 25th wedding anniversary flower instead, which is iris. Irises are usually purple, but can also come in all different colours, with open blooms that end with narrow petals. Their bold and striking look lends itself well to plenty of different gift options. So, here are five to inspire you get some ideas spinning.

1. A bouquet of irises

Of course, we just have to start our suggestions off with a bouquet of irises. You might choose the most common colour of iris, which is purple, but if that doesn’t suit your partner’s tastes, there are loads of other colours to choose from too.

2. A silver iris pendant dangle charm

Treat your partner to this fabulous little silver iris pendant dangle charm, a wonderful and meaningful addition to any charm bracelet.

3. Silver iris earrings

Combine both traditional gifts with this lovely pair of silver iris earrings. Some would say it’s the ultimate 25th anniversary gift – imagine the brownie points!

4. Glass iris in a vase

Small, delicate and beautiful – if this sounds like your other half, then they should love a glass iris in a vase, a brilliant work of craftsmanship, which can always stand proud as a reminder of your 25th anniversary.

5. Hand-painted iris and daffodil vase

With their iconic look, irises don’t just suit being in a vase, but on one too. This hand-painted iris and daffodil vase has amazing summer vibes and is a great excuse to keep buying new flowers.

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