Altskeith Country House is such a special place. If you want your wedding day to be magical, unique, relaxed with a house party vibe this is the place for you. Exclusive use whatever size of wedding, spectacular views to create those life long memories, a true photographer’s dream, a retreat to stay overnight and spend quality time with those people who hold a special place in your life.
“Congratulations you are now planning the most exciting party of your life, your wedding day. You can now start to plan the wedding of your dreams. Finding your venue and setting the date is the first part of the adventure. We would love to hear your ideas and dreams for your wedding day to see if we would be a match. To describe us in 3 words: Unique Romantic Exclusive. We wish you much fun and adventure planning your special day.” – Alison, Altskeith Country House on Loch Ard
Exciting news! East Lothian’s historic Broxmouth Park has big plans to restore its courtyard into a rustic, yet ultra-luxury space, tailor-made for weddings, which will be completed by November 2021. The venue will benefit from a stunning and proud ceremony chapel, separate wedding function gallery, exclusive bar facilities, plus a picturesque outdoor courtyard for your dreamy drinks receptions. There’ll even be a bridal preparation lounge! Additionally, this spectacular development will also be complemented by seven beautifully appointed self-catering cottages with accommodation for up to 40 guests – we say, roll on November 2021!
“After a decade of proudly delivering and planning hundreds of weddings for luxury venues throughout Scotland and receiving four Scottish VOWS and Scottish Hotel Awards, I have finally settled at Broxmouth Park and I am delighted to be your dedicated resident Wedding Venue Planner! Will you allow me to let you in on a secret? I’ve fallen in love with Broxmouth myself too! Most of our clients are inspired by the tranquillity and natural beauty of our country estate, coupled with attention to detail and stress-free approach, leaving them to enjoy the fun parts of wedding planning and making the most of the time with their guests on the wedding day! Would you like to find our more? Contact me today at [email protected]” – Oskar, Broxmouth Park
A family home until 2018, Newhall has retained its unpretentious charm and relaxed feel in spite of the luxurious renovations which have taken place throughout the house. Situated just 30 minutes from Edinburgh, the magic of the Estate transports you to another world entirely which you and your guests (accommodation for up to 40, hosting space for 160) can enjoy at your leisure. Whether spotting fairies in the glen, enjoying a sundowner in the lyrical walled garden or settling in beside one of the roaring fires, Newhall is a place for generations to share.
“The Estate is offered on a weekend basis, with a no rush service to ensure that everyone has ample time to enjoy the glorious surroundings. As a family owned and run business, the Kennedy’s want you to feel at home; they aspire for you to be comfortable walking around in your wedding dress, or your pyjamas!” – Newhall Estate
The Old Course Hotel is synonymous with luxury and elegance, with unbeatable views and a feeling of a destination wedding. We have a variety of spaces available for your dream wedding and can offer flexibility dependent on your numbers. Our team of award-winning chefs are ready to help you create your dream menu accompanied by fines wines, and we can offer accommodation for you and your guests in our stunning rooms and suites. St Andrews is the ultimate romantic destination.
“We love weddings and are here to help you throughout the process making it a 5-star experience. Our specialist team have a little black book full of dream teams of suppliers who will do everything they can to make your wedding magical. We look forward to helping you write the first chapter of your married life together…” – Old Course Hotel Golf Resort
Borthwick Castle , Exclusively yours, steeped in authentic style, understated luxury and unparalleled intimacy in service. With no set rules The Borthwick team will bring to life your very own hopes and dreams for your Scottish Castle Wedding.
A welcoming bespoke Castle sized Mansion, where you have the whole place to yourselves, with fabulous food & drinks. We have a relaxed ethos and not a production line place. At Kippilaw we help create your dream wedding with lots of fun and freedom. Beautiful Reception Rooms & Fabulous Bar with Outdoor seating on veranda Terrace leading into the Rose garden and onto private woodland with an ancient tree.
“Your wedding is an exciting adventure and we are here to help you. “Take your time and keep an open mind, and remember to get what you want “
An excellent venue that can host both your wedding ceremony and your celebrations and also host your wedding guests at discounted rates.
“Have the perfect wedding day at one special venue… Our spacious banquet room makes the ideal setting for your wedding breakfast and reception. Please contact us for more information about how we can help make your day truly special. Set in the leafy town of East Kilbride,Set in the leafy town of East Kilbride the hotel grounds have a beautiful decked area with ornamental pond – a picture perfect spot which offers the ideal backdrop for your wedding photos. Our meticulous Wedding Co-ordinators and impressive facilities help personalise your day to make it everything you’d ever planned. With a private red carpet entrance, air conditioning, large windows providing plenty of daylight, unique portable dance floor and a private bar & foyer area, it’s perfect for drink receptions. We can cater for large weddings (up to 260 guests) and for more intimate celebrations in the Suite, which can host up to 90 guests and has its own lobby area & bar. The lovely grounds of the hotel have a beautiful decked area with an ornamental pond – a picture perfect spot which offers the ideal backdrop for your wedding photos. And if the Scottish weather does not co-operate on the day, we have plenty of indoor space as an alternative.” – Julie-anne Passey
Smaller parties may use the highly recommended Drawing Room where dual aspect windows overlook the pretty manicured garden and a glittering chandelier sits proudly overhead. A grand piano in this room is available for you to use and the marble fireplace is ideal for inside group photographs.
The largest room, accommodating up to 200 people is the Bigge Suite, typically used for Wedding Breakfasts and Evening Receptions. This former coach house is popular for its grand appearance and complete with double doors that open the room up to greenery and fresh air.
Romance blossoms in the historic old town of Edinburgh, with its picturesque location in the country’s capital, Macdonald Holyrood Hotel is the ideal venue for a Scottish wedding. Offering luxury accommodation, a health and beauty spa, fantastic food and drink, elegant wedding suites and beautiful photogenic surroundings, this citycentre hotel will make your big day one to remember.
“I’m glad we caught your eye! Edinburgh’s Old Town is full of history and romance, I truly believe it’s the perfect location for a luxurious Scottish wedding. I would be delighted to invite you to the hotel to discuss your tailored wedding package, and the finishing touches that will make your dream day come true!”
Myres Castle is an award winning Scottish wedding venue with a difference. The 44 beautiful acres will be exclusively yours, there are rose gardens, fountains, lawns, woodlands and the unique larch Barnquee and Applestore chapel. Everything is included for your weekend, up to 24 guests can stay in the luxury castle, stunning bedrooms and bathrooms, delicious meals and wine – a weekend to be remembered! Myres is easy to get to, we are in the Kingdom of Fife with speedy access to Edinburgh airport and a main line station 4 miles away.
“If you are looking for a dreamy venue to enchant your family and guests then Myres Castle, with its unique blend of ancient, rustic and spectacular is the place for you. With an unparalleled setting and outstanding service, you will have the freedom to decide how you want to do things with constant help if you need it from the dedicated and caring Myres team.”
Over the past 20 years we have arranged many small weddings & elopements at The Lodge on Loch Goil. If you want to elope somewhere beautiful and completely breath taking, then there is nowhere else in the world you could wish to do so than here…. You can use the beauty of nature as your venue. You really can’t beat the mountains that are overlooking the sea and when the fog rolls in it just makes everything so much more dramatic. Is there anything more intoxicating than the idea of eloping? The act of stripping everything back to what truly matters… You and your beloved, your promises, your passion is superbly simple but romantic, and these elopements will certainly leave you weak at the knees. Get ready to exhale as we share some incredibly stylish and utterly adorable couples who decided to elope to “Bonny Scotland”.
“If you are deliberating over whether or not to elope or if you ever wondered what eloping actually involves… When you only have eyes for each other, which is just as it should be, and look breath taking against the beautiful backdrop of the Scottish Mountains… First things first, Scotland is a land of mountains and lochs. Many of the most beautiful locations in the world are here, but remember… The weather in this part of the country can be completely different to what you find in other parts of the UK and it’s not uncommon to have 4 seasons in one day. But not to worry, that cosy log fire roaring in our Summerhouse, that is so much more inviting after your wedding meal served in our spectacular famous Treehouse… If you are brave and want to escape from the large traditional weddings, then why not elope to the beautiful Lodge on Loch Goil, a little piece of heaven…”
Logie Country House Exclusive Use Wedding Venue is a multi award winning Aberdeenshire 1680s Country House. It has a stunning purpose built ballroom for up to 160 day guests and a dining room in the main house for up to 50 day guests. The house has 17 bedrooms and sleeps up to 50. It is available for three day and night weekend wedding celebrations or two days mid week. With an indoor infinity pool, hot tubs, a salmon river across the front lawn and a private island, your wedding will be a celebration to remember.
“Stef and Tim rebuilt Logie Country House from a ruin in 2009 and have poured their heart & soul into making this stunning house the multi award winning venue it is today. Look at our reviews on TripAdvisor, Yelp, Google and many more to get a better feel of what we offer.”
Pose for pictures in the beautiful walled gardens, dine on award-winning cuisine prepared by our fantastic chefs and spend your wedding night in one of our beautiful bridal suites. Host your drinks reception in one of several elegant function rooms or gardens and, for a truly unforgettable wedding, book our Houstoun Suite – a ballroom which can host up to 200 guests.
“Congratulations on your engagement! Here at Macdonald Houstoun House, we believe that every couple is unique – with our flexible and bespoke packages we can ensure that your wedding day will be as unique and special as you are. We would love to meet with you and discuss your dreams for your day. Get in touch with one of our specialist wedding team to arrange a viewing of the venue.” – Linsey
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Ballyscullion Park is a private stately home which offers exclusive use of its beautiful historic gardens and grounds for your wedding ceremony and reception. Ballyscullion Park is family run venue which ensures a very warm and personal welcome, with relaxed elegance with a very couple-focused approach. Our beautifully landscaped grounds and stunning scenery will cast a spell over the most special day of your lives. Multi-award-winning Ballyscullion Park is one of the best luxury five-star wedding venues in Northern Ireland. Hosting any size of wedding from small intimate weddings, to up to 250 guests, at Ballyscullion Park you can celebrate your wedding ceremony and reception in one beautiful location. A perfect exclusive use wedding venue where you can take your vows, dazzle your guests, and create everlasting memories.
“At Ballyscullion Park, we only offer private exclusive weddings – they are our speciality. From the moment you book, and throughout your wedding day, the whole team will be there just for you. You have exclusive use of the entire venue for your big day, allowing you to mould it exactly how you wish. With total control, comes total flexibility, making every wedding unique. By limiting the number of weddings held here each year, we ensure that Ballyscullion Park is still something of a best kept secret. Having our undivided attention means that you receive the very best wedding planning service and personal assistance from our expert team start to finish.” -Rosalind, Ballyscullion Park
Larchfield Estate is a privately owned Estate, based in the heart of the Co. Down countryside in Northern Ireland. At Larchfield Estate, we believe that couples should be able to create the most memorable day, unique to them, and our in-house wedding coordinators are on hand to help our couples right from the moment of the initial enquiry and throughout their wedding journey. We love getting to know our couples, understanding how their dream day will look, and knowing all of the little details that are important to them for their day. With a venue spanning across several acres including beautiful Walled Gardens and a private lake (providing a backdrop for the most spectacular photographs!), we host large celebrations as well as more intimate wedding days.
“At Larchfield Estate we simply love getting to know you right from your very first enquiry – we are here to help you create the most memorable day that is unique to you, taking care of the little details, and paying attention to what is most important to you. Drop us a line via the Bridebook enquiry form, and a member of our team will be in touch with some additional information. Please do leave your phone number if you would like us to give you a call – we love to chat! If you think we are the right fit for you, we would love to welcome you to Larchfield Estate for a viewing in person. If you are based overseas or unable to make it to visit us, just let us know and we can arrange to provide a tour via video call instead!” – Larchfield Estate
Breckenhill offers a venue with complete freedom to create your own day, and stamp your character and taste on a blank canvas (though a very pretty one to start with!) It is set in the rolling hills of south Antrim, a beautiful rural area, only 30 minutes from the centre of Belfast. Breckenhill’s gardens and landscape have been carefully developed over 30 years of extensive tree-planting and garden creation and restoration and now provide multiple outdoor spaces which we use for outdoor ceremonies, photographs and for guests to enjoy. Everyone always says how relaxed they feel here, and that it does feel like their own place for the day. Breckenhill has two main buildings (The Stone Barn and the Green Barn) with several different-sized spaces and these provide couples with incredible scope to plan their ideal day. We believe that this flexible space is so much more attractive to couples than the single room offered by many venues. At Breckenhill we also try to offer as much as we can that couples need for their wedding day to reduce the amount of equipment that they have to hire in. We have a lot of very suitable rustic decor, curtain drapes and lights, wooden tables and chairs, a PA system, garden games and lots more.
“If you are looking for a unique, private, and tranquil venue for your special day, with the space, freedom and flexibility to bring your creative vision to life, come and see us at Breckenhill.” – David
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Thank you for your interest in Hedingham Castle. Steeped in 900 years of history and with effortless romantic appeal, we have the perfect fairytale setting for your happily ever after. We are exclusively yours for as long as you wish, be it the whole day or the whole weekend, with many options to tailor your day to suit your wishes perfectly. We look forward to meeting you soon and making your dreams come true.
“Hedingham Castle is an unforgettable wedding venue setting for all styles of celebration. We host exclusive weddings each as individual as the couple at the heart of them.” – Demetra, Hedingham Castle
Micklefield Hall is a totally exclusive venue, allowing you and your guests to enjoy the splendour of the our historic buildings, in total privacy.
“It has been such a tough year for everyone and especially couples wanting to get married and start their new lives together. We have worked tirelessly to support our couples through the ever.” – Jennifer, Micklefield Hall
Our picturesque Norfolk wedding venue surrounded by parkland, offers everything you can dream of to ensure a memorable experience for you and your guests.
“We would love to be able to help you with your wedding plans and host your celebrations.” – Kevin, Curdshall Barn
Smeetham Hall Barn is an authentic rural English Barn wedding venue – a 16th century, beautifully converted and tastefully decorated building that creates the most romantic wedding venue in Essex. The venue and grounds offer incredible photo opportunities and a stunning location to begin married life. Hugely popular wedding packages include the venue fee, catering, the DJ for your evening party and a wedding video – removing the stress and strain of couples having to find their own reliable suppliers. Ideal for small and large weddings, the Barn can accommodate up to 150 guests for the ceremony and wedding breakfast and up to 250 for the evening party with a large dancefloor close to the bar. Personalised wedding planning advice and support based on 20 years of experience in delivering the day couples dream of – see the Reviews on our website.
“Since 1906, Smeetham Hall has been our family home and now our family would like towarmly welcome yours to join us for your wedding day. We have hosted weddings for 20 years and we are more convinced than ever that your wedding day should be one of the best days of your life! Sophie and I look forward to welcoming you here and working with you in the lead-up and planning of your wedding day to ensure every detail is taken care of. We are happy to be on hand to give advice and support, to answer any questions and to show you around the venue as many times as you like. Please contact us to arrange a visit or ask any questions you may have. We look forward to playing our part in your special day!” – Bridget, Smeetham Hall Barn
Alpheton Hall Barns are part of an ancient settlement which includes Alpheton Church, all set at the end of a no through road and surrounded by rolling Suffolk countryside. The Barns are an exclusive use blank canvas venue but with a host of added extras so that all you need to add is your choice of friends, food, entertainment, and a little decorative flair to make your day your own!
“We are no ordinary venue. Alpheton Hall Barns is a family owned business and Nic and I (Carol) have been helping couples to host their weddings for over 10 years now. Whilst we are a blank canvas venue we are happy to offer as little or as much help and advice (and a sprinkling of crazy ideas) as you want or need to make sure you get the day you are dreaming of!” – Carol and Nic Willcocks, Alpheton Hall Barns
Unlike most venues, Kimberley is privately owned and exclusively yours for the duration of your hire. It is set in the most beautiful parkland with a vast lake that reflects Norfolk’s spectacular sunsets and skies. It has a multitude of interesting spaces that can be utilised throughout the seasons, ensuring your day is truly memorable.
“Kimberley has played host to multiple gatherings over the years and as the current custodians of this magnificent family home, it is an honour to share these historic spaces and spectacular landscape with you and your guests.” – Robbie & Iona, Kimberley Hall
From Lords to Dukes and even Kings, Moor Park over the last 300 years has always been a home for the most spectacular celebrations. The stunning 17th architecture, bespoke menus and various sized private rooms to fit your needs perfectly. Moor Park offers you a one of a kind venue creating a magical setting to get married in style. But don’t just take our word for it… Become part of the history, experience the magic for yourself and start your happily ever after.
“We are here to make your special day as magical and breath-taking as our venue. We will stun your guests the moment they enter and there is no doubt of extraordinary photo’s to look back on for the rest of your lives. So whether you are planning a micro-wedding, civil ceremony, religious ceremony or wedding reception we would be delighted to hear from you and guide you and your partner on this important journey as you start your married lives together.” – Moor Park Golf Club
Our beautiful medieval Old House is located in the heart of historic Rochford, Essex and still boasts many of its original features, including hammer beam ceiling and alter inspired fireplace. Also offering garden space for photographs, a suite to get ready ahead of the ceremony and reception rooms to toast the happy couple, the Old House is perfect for intimate ceremonies.
“Hello, I’m Elizabeth and I look forward to discussing your special day with you with us here at the Old House, Rochford.” – Elizabeth, The Old House
Unforgettable memories are made at Pendley Manor. A beautiful Grade II Manor with the backdrop of the Hertfordshire countryside, it’s the perfect place to seal your love in the company of your dearest. Enter the enchanting tree-lit driveway before arriving at the stunning Manor House, enveloped with immaculate lawns, landscaped gardens and wooded surroundings. Pendley Manor’s dedicated events team and excellent Chefs ensure a memorable event within an ideal setting for intimate gatherings to sumptuous banquets. Both indoor and outdoor locations provide the perfect backdrop for your wedding and photography. With over 35 acres of grounds to call yours for the day (shared with our resident peacocks), it’s bound to be the wedding of the year.
“Thank you for letting Pendley Manor be part of one of the most special days of your lives, it is our honour & privilege to be assist you both in helping your dream & visions become a reality.” – Pendley Manor Hotel & Spa
Copdock Hall – a beautifully restored Tudor brick barn with tall ceilings, oak beams and romantic ambience – boasts its own wine and fizz from its on-site vineyard. The family-run venue is set in extensive grounds, next door to the parish church of St Peter’s and offers couples access the day before and an event manager for the day.
“I’m Diane and together with my husband Ian, we run Copdock Hall, taking pride in offering the best service as well as a stunning wedding venue. All our recruits from our fantastic event managers to our friendly bar staff follow the same ethos too and our attention to detail is second to none. We look forward to showing you the venue and helping you create exactly the day you are looking for.” – Diane, Copdock Hall
Houchins, Essex
The private estate has proudly been the home of the Brudenell family since 1514 and their beautiful gardens are offered for exclusive use fairy tale weddings on just a handful of dates a year. Set in tranquil parkland with lake views and framed by beautifully planted south facing gardens, the house provides a timeless and breath-taking backdrop for your wedding day celebrations – the perfect mix of grandeur and relaxed country garden charm.
Our venue is unique and stunning. Being an independent, small, boutique hotel we are one of a kind and this helps us stand out from others. Being at our venue is seen as a little retreat from the world, we are a hidden gem
“We pride ourselves on our friendly, attentive and enthusiastic team who are here to help prior and on your special day. We all love the venue, and do our best to make sure our guests feel the same way about the hotel as we do.” – Gemma, Caistor Hall Hotel
We love our venue and we hope you do too! But weddings are really about people and the relationships between them. Nothing means more to us than a couple celebrating their fifth wedding anniversary with a picnic in the garden at The Compasses on a beautiful sunny day! It is testament to their relationship with this beautiful location and testament to the relationships our team build with our couples.
“This year has been tougher than anyone could have possibly imagined. And that simply isn’t fair. But it doesn’t alter your relationship. If anything, it will make it stronger and it will make your journey down the aisle, whenever that happens, even more incredible and even more memorable.” – Claire, The Compasses at Pattiswick
For 10 years we have helped couples create individual, personal weddings. We do not offer set packages or price per head options, couples imagination is their only limitation. Every week is wonderfully different from festival and woodland weddings to top hat and tail quintessentially English garden parties, we love them all!
“We are always proud to show couples around our home and promise to personally do everything within our power to ensure your wedding is exactly what you hope for and more. Each and every wedding at Hockering House is exceptionally special and we feel great responsibility to ensure you and your guests have a day to remember. Come with a seed of an idea and we will help you develop it and support you through your journey.” – Sam, Hockering House
Happy Valley is a blank canvas, dry hire venue so you have the flexibility to create the wedding you’ve always dreamed of. Set in nine acres of enchanting woodland, Happy Valley Norfolk is an outdoor wedding venue like no other. Perfect for intimate weddings and elopements, or large family gatherings and festival style events, you can have a woodland ceremony, a barn ceremony or even get married on a private island. Complete with hot tubs, luxury, onsite, glamping accommodation for up to 28 guests and endless views of glorious countryside, this venue is perfect for the bohemian-chic, authentic couple who dance to the beat of their own drum.
“Welcome to Happy Valley! “We” consist of Scott, master craftsman, maker of all cabins and Katy, co-owner of Happy Valley and Founder of Tribe Norfolk. We are a small, family business, who believe in the magic of bringing people together and the endless possibilities created when friends and family are taken out of their normal day-to-day and introduced to a stunning haven of tranquillity. It’s a pleasure to share our piece of paradise with you and we hope you love it as much as we do xx.” – Scott & Katy, Happy Valley
That Amazing Place isn’t just a beautiful venue set in idyllic grounds, it’s much more than that. What really makes us unique is the relationships that we build with our couples. We really want our you to have the most amazing day and we put our heart and souls into making that happen. Why not check out our reviews to see what our lovely couples have said about us!
“Thank you for taking the time to look at our venue in consideration for your wedding day. I met the venue owners Paul and Jayne, around 7 years ago and they asked me to set up the wedding business for them. Since that day, I have put everything I have into making it the successful wedding venue that is today. I have been at every wedding I have organised and have personally made sure that the couple got to relax and enjoy the wedding day the have always dreamed of. We are a small independent venue and we LOVE what we do. Trust me, your wedding day is just as important to us as it is to you! Please let me help you to create a magical day, that you can cherish forever more.” – Angie, Paul & Jayne, That Amazing Place
I believe that Holmewood Hall is unique because it is a stunning Tudor Gothic style mansion surrounded by 10 acres of manicured grounds and parkland, steeped in history and exuding elegance, Holmewood Hall is the perfect venue for your wedding. Holmewood Hall is part of Country House Weddings Ltd, a family owned and run wedding venue group that has collectively held over 10,000 weddings between our six exclusive use venues.
“I can assure you that you will have the most perfect wedding day here at Holmewood Hall as we have been making Wedding Day Dreams come true (as a group) for over 30 years. We are passionate about your day and will guide you through your planning from the moment you book your wedding day with us until the special day itself. You will have a Personal Wedding Manager to help you plan your day and to make sure your day runs exactly as you planned. Also rest assured that during these uncertain times your wedding day is protected by our Covid – 19 Promise ‘Should Government legislation surrounding Covid-19 prevent your wedding from going ahead, we will transfer your date to an equivalent package in the future with no additional fee’.” – Nick, Holmewood Hall
Situated on the edge of the Broads in Suffolk, Ivy House is a rustic, quiet, idyllic venue with all the class and style and a 17th century thatched barn where couples can say ‘I do’.
I believe that Gosfield Hall is unique being a former Royal Palace set in ten acres of manicured grounds and overlooking Gosfield Lake. Our extravagant ballroom, reception rooms, bridal suite and a choice of Ceremony rooms makes this magnificent mansion a perfect wedding venue. Gosfield Hall is part of Country House Weddings Ltd, a family owned and run wedding venue group that has collectively held over 10,000 weddings between our six exclusive use venues.
“I can assure you that you will have the most perfect wedding day here at Gosfield Hall as we have been making Wedding Day Dreams come true (as a group) for over 30 years. We are passionate about your day and will guide you through your planning from the moment you book your wedding day with us until the special day itself. You will have a Personal Wedding Manager to help you plan your day and to make sure your day runs exactly as you planned. Also rest assured that during these uncertain times your wedding day is protected by our Covid – 19 Promise ‘Should Government legislation surrounding Covid-19 prevent your wedding from going ahead, we will transfer your date to an equivalent package in the future with no additional fee’” – Nick, Gosfield Hall
All Saints Hotel is a contemporary hotel located on the outskirts of historic Bury St Edmunds with fantastic transport links. Offering a variety of function spaces and state of the art facilities we cannot wait to show you what we have to offer!
“Our experienced Events Team are here to welcome you to All Saints Hotel, from the moment you first walk through our doors to walking down the aisle, we will be with you every step of the way.” – All Saints Hotel
The Barns at Lodge Farm is a unique venue just outside London, with all packages giving couples exclusive use of the entire venue for two days. Fully licensed for civil wedding ceremonies in a number of different spaces, we can accommodate anywhere from 50 to 250 guests. We firmly believe that as no two couples are the same, no two weddings should be the same – and we pride ourselves on giving you the time, flexibility and support to plan a wedding that is genuinely unique to you.’
“The first wedding ever to take place here at The Barns was my own wedding back in June 2016 – this is my family home, and I love every inch of the barns and the beautiful field that surround it. We are a family-run business, with my father running the working farm which sits alongside the venue, and my brother being responsible for setup and operations on the day. We all care deeply about every event that we host here, and you will always be welcomed with a cuppa!’” – Bryony, The Barns at Lodge Farm
I believe that Leez Priory is unique whilst boasting many national wedding awards and one of the most sought after manor house wedding venues in the country. Located in the glorious Essex countryside within 40 acres of parkland and gardens but only just over an hour away from Central London. Ceremonies can be performed in any of 7 licensed settings, from outside to the historical tower. Leez Priory is part of Country House Weddings Ltd, a family owned and run wedding venue group that has collectively held over 10,000 weddings between our six exclusive use venues.
“I can assure you that you will have the most perfect wedding day here at Leez Priory as we have been making Wedding Day Dreams come true (as a group) for over 30 years. We are passionate about your day and will guide you through your planning from the moment you book your wedding day with us until the special day itself. You will have a Personal Wedding Manager to help you plan your day and to make sure your day runs exactly as you planned. Also rest assured that during these uncertain times your wedding day is protected by our Covid – 19 Promise ‘Should Government legislation surrounding Covid-19 prevent your wedding from going ahead, we will transfer your date to an equivalent package in the future with no additional fee’.” – Nick, Leez Priory
Steeped in history, our four State Rooms and stunning castle courtyard offer a unique setting for your wedding and reception. The walls and ceiling of the castle’s main staircase feature some of the finest murals in England, by the 18th century Venetian painter Giovanni Antonio Pellegrini.
“We are with you every step of the way. We bring a professional approach and experienced eye, ensuring that your wedding is unique and personal to you both. Creating memories that will last a lifetime.” – Lesley
From the small and intimate to the grand and lavish, here at Holiday Inn Norwich – North, we’re proud to be able to cater for both.
“Have the perfect wedding day at one special venue… From the small and intimate to the grand and lavish, here at Holiday Inn Norwich – North, we’re proud to be able to cater for both. Our experienced wedding coordinators know exactly what goes into planning your big day especially the details. With that in mind, we’re confident our beautiful suites and experience combined will be able to deliver you the most perfect day.” – Julie-anne Passey
Hales Hall & The Great Barn is one of the most stunning wedding venues in the country. The Norfolk estate, its unique luxury accommodation, Tudor Hall and magnificent thatched barn are available to hire. Licenced for civil ceremonies you may marry in the stunning walled gardens, the Great Barn or The Hall with self-catering or fully catered options. An unforgettable setting the storybook venue is surrounded by wild-flower meadows, has a picture- perfect garden aisle, feature clipped topiary and part moated walled gardens. Hales Hall & The Great Barn allows you to create the wedding celebration of your dreams with breath-taking flexible spaces for alfresco weddings, elegant country house celebrations or resplendent receptions in the vaulted Great Barn with 180 candlelit loop-hole windows, bar and upstairs gallery. Our friendly dedicated wedding planner will help you create the wedding celebration of your dreams. Hales award-winning five-star accommodation offers four individual heritage residences set within the enchanting walled grounds close to the Great Barn. Hales Hall country estate sleeps 25+ and is exclusively yours for the entirety of your joy-filled stay, with the Gatehouse offering newlyweds the ultimate hideaway.
“We’d love to introduce you to Hales Hall & the Great Barn, its’ the ultimate private paradise for a unique wedding celebration. We offer ‘exclusive use’ packages allowing you to take-over the whole estate. Licensed for civil ceremonies you can enjoy an intimate wedding or a big celebration; or both! Specifically tailored for you, our 3-day hire packages allow you to make the most of every minute and our wedding planner will help you select the very best local suppliers.” – Helen
We have a magical array of romantic locations at Fanhams Hall – Grade II listed Great Hall with a gorgeous original minstrel’s gallery and Jacobean fireplace; or for a more unusual wedding venue, our elegant Long Gallery has a wonderful sense of arrival and more than a touch of grandeur. Or venture outside to our Japanese Tea House licensed to host romantic wedding ceremonies. Our civil wedding venue in Hertfordshire is truly wonderful, you must come and see for yourself!
Colville Hall was originally a tudor village which we have brought back to life with two thatched barns lovingly renovated into a separate ceremony barn and a separate reception barn. Our barns are set within stunning grounds with which you can find original historic artifacts around every corner!
“Congratulations on your engagement! We hope you come and visit our very special venue. Not only do we have 2 unique thatched barns with all the mod cons like underfloor heating and air conditioning, they are both blessed with plenty of natural light. Our grounds are stunning with amazing photo opportunities around every corner! Please be assured that you will be well-looked after by our dedicated team, listened to and kept involved every step of the way. We look forward to welcoming you!” – Claire
We are a spacious, contemporary vintage Barn and Georgian Mansion house set within 17 acres of world renowned manicured Gardens. There is simply no better place as a backdrop to your wedding photos. Our style is serene, delivered within our pretty rustic barn, secluded courtyard and elegant magical marquee. Your guests will be wowed by our efficiency, delicious in house catering, creative cocktails and bespoke rustic oak Bar. You can even finish off the day with exclusive rides on the famous Bressingham Gallopers!
Sam and Team: “Welcome to Bressingham Hall and High Barn. We are a family run wedding venue who is passionate about making your special day carefree and totally perfect in every way.”
Hatfield House is a stunning, unique and historical Jacobean country house venue in Hertfordshire, located just a short distance from Central London. The spectacular Hatfield House gardens provide the perfect backdrop and setting for your special day.
“We offer professional weddings packages and bespoke catering to help make your day truly magical. To find out more and view our image galleries, visit www.hatfieldhousehospitality.co.uk”
Weddings at Jimmy’s Farm are beautifully rural, romantic and wild. When hosting your wedding at Jimmy’s Farm you say ‘I Do’ in our amazing Safari like Celebration Tent which sits proudly in our landscaped Herb Garden with our charming hand-built Eco Roundhouse for your ceremony. Stunning photo opportunities around every corner and once the reception drinks are done why not treat your guests to an Exclusive Wildlife Park visit, with your own park ranger and animal experience for the lucky couple. The 17th Century Barn will be waiting and set up beautifully after the fun of the Wildlife Park. Welcoming your guests to celebrate the first meal as a married couple and enjoy some of the best ‘Farm to Fork’ produce our region can offer.
“Our wedding was such an extraordinary occasion. A wonderful mix of friends and family made all the more special by the magical backdrop of the farm and wildlife park. Not too informal but enough so to make all our family and friends feel totally relaxed. It’s hard but try not to worry too much. I know, it’s easier said than done during what can often be a stressful time. Ultimately, it’s a day when everyone wants to wish you well and give you lots of love – so take your time to enjoy your special day. We found ourselves with a glass of bubbly, sitting together by the fire pit for five minuets and loved watching people laughing and dancing as the party kicked off. We would love for every single couple that gets married at Jimmy’s Farm to feel the same, if not more happy and relaxed as we were on our big day.”
Browning Bros – Chalkley Water meadows is nestled within a water meadow, amongst ancient woodland and a beautiful tree lined lake. Humanist ceremonies take place on the willow tree pontoon with celebrations held in our giant tipis, with on-site accommodation in one of our luxury lakeside cabins, or “Nomadic” bell tents. Forget your commercial conveyor belt corporate wedding venues, booted out by midnight in preparation for the next couple in the doors the following day. Instead, allow yourself to imagine a celebration created entirely by yourselves (of us if you would prefer), in a magical setting.
“Firstly congratulations!! Now the fun begins, planning your big day! We’re here to help you every step of the way and want to make the wedding of your dreams come true. Enjoy the moment! So much planning, time and money goes into weddings which can be overwhelming at times! The overall message is to make sure your enjoy the day and don’t get stressed. Make it about you and your partner! Put your individual stamp on the day reflecting you as a couple and make it personal. It’s not about the glitz and glam, it’s about you two getting married.” – Becky
We are a small family-run venue in the heart of the beautiful Suffolk countryside. We offer 4 unique ceremony spaces including our stunning woodland area. Our reception area is a large marquee-lined barn which provides couples with a neutral starting point from which to personalise the area completely. The on-site Glamping Pods offer the perfect accommodation for couples and their guests to retreat to after their special day. For the animal-lovers out there, the goats and alpacas are always looking for a little bit of attention and make for a great photo opportunity!
“Thank you so much for considering us for your big day! We pride ourselves on the fantastic customer service we are able to offer each and every one of our couples and can’t wait to work with you to create some truly special memories for your wedding day.”
Organising a wedding can be both exciting and stressful, so Marriage Gift List are here to make things that little bit easier by offering a helping hand. They give you easy access to pick and choose gifts from any online store.
The choice is yours and it’s free to use! At Marriage Gift List, you are getting exactly what you ask for, at the price that you find, with no additional fees.
How does it work?
Register – Sign up for free to start your personalised gift list.
Create your gift list – Add gifts from any online store you’d like to create your dream wedding gift list.
Share with guests – Share your unique gift list link with your guests
Receive your gifts – Have your gifts delivered or receive them on your big day!
Below are 2 quick tutorial videos to show you how simple and easy it is to use Marriage Gift List, ensuring the whole experience is stress-free for both you and your guests..
When Cameron Runcie, Marriage Gift List’s founder was planning his wedding with his partner, they tried multiple gift lists, but there wasn’t one that could offer the flexibility to pick exactly what they wanted at a fair price.
Some gift lists forced guests to pay up to twice as much, and others just didn’t have the gifts that they wanted.
So they built Marriage Gift List, where you are getting exactly what you ask for at the price that you find, with no additional fees.”
So how does Marriage Gift List make money?
Marriage Gift List earn commissions on purchases made via their website links and these commission payments help them increase the functionality of the website and keep it free to use for couples and guests.
Marriage Gift List are a unique wedding gift list, offering unlimited choice of any gift from any online retailer for free!
“The gift list innovators, Patchwork removes the stigma of asking for cash.” ELLE.
Who are Patchwork?
Patchwork is a global platform that lets friends contribute cash, time and skills towards a group gift or event. You can use Patchwork to organise all sorts of celebratory occasions from weddings and baby showers to surprise birthday parties.
You can use the platform to collectively fund all kinds of unique gifts and experiences, from honeymoons to handbags, campervans to cookery classes and bikes to beehives.
Common ways to use the Patchwork platform:
As a Wedding Gift Registry:
Patchwork allows couples to create an alternative wedding gift registry to allow your guests to collectively fund and chip in towards that one gift you really want. Whether it’s a piece of art or a weekend in Paris, with Patchwork wedding guests come together to fund one big gift – piece by piece.
Patchwork enables couples to show wedding guests their dream honeymoon as a collection of images. So friends and family can choose which part of the trip to treat them to – £200 for a night in a hotel, £50 for dinner or £5 for beers on the beach.
Patchwork is used by thousands of couples planning DIY weddings:
The organiser sets up a Patchwork to show all the things they need help to fund, make or do (from buying beer to making cakes, doing the decorations or promising to DJ)
Then everyone chooses whether to contribute cash, time or skills to help make it happen.
Why use Patchwork?
With customisable templates and gorgeous image gallery, it’s easy to set up your Patchwork gift page and the Pinterest-style layout and mobile friendly shopping experience makes it easy and fun for friends to contribute too.
100,000 people (and counting) already love and trust Patchwork. Here’s why:
Your friends can give you money (or contribute their time, or their skills) and feel great about doing it.
We don’t try to sell you anything. You can spend the money you receive when, where and how you like.
You can collect funds in any currency from friends and family wherever they are in the world.
Why Patchwork is so unique?
Fund, make, do
Patchwork is the only gift list in the world that lets people register not just things they want friends and family to fund but also things people can make and do.
For example, a couple using Patchwork as a honeymoon fund can ask friends and family to treat them to a night in an Airbnb for £100 or pay for a coconut on the beach for £1. But they can also ask people to make them a travel playlist as a present, lend them a rucksack, teach them some Spanish or drive them to the airport.
Collect gift money direct
Patchwork is independent of all retailers and so it’s entirely flexible. Patchwork also doesn’t hold customer funds. Instead the creator of a patchwork receives cash gifts (in their chosen currency) directly via PayPal or Stripe so they can pay for gift items or experiences when, where and how they like.
Despite the COVID-19 pandemic, Clare and Natalie were still able to plan the wedding of their dreams. Their special day was a romantic elopement at Berwick Lodge in Bristol, a year after their engagement:
“We always dreamed that our wedding day would be intimate and cosy… Covid gave us a great excuse to achieve that by eloping!”
While the couple eloped just a year after their engagement, they met for the first time many years before:
“Clare was actually the one to propose, even though we’d openly chatted about it. THe day started with a mystery trip out, during which we visited various places we’d lived together… With the final stop being outside the school gates where we’d first met!”
“We wanted a venue with plenty of character, beautiful gardens and scrummy food… A quick search on Google for “elopement weddings” during lockdown found us this gem of a place!
“The simplicity of eloping was so appealing to us and the elopement package at Berwick Lodge included everything we wanted, making it stress-free!”
Finding dresses to suit the natural, elegant style they were after didn’t mean breaking the bank either. Instead of going bespoke, Clare and Natalie hit the highstreet — and ended up looking absolutely fantastic!
“We always knew we weren’t going to go for traditional white wedding dresses so hitting the high street was perfect for us. As it turns out, we were spoilt for choice so we would definitely recommend doing the same to others!”
Holding beautiful bouquets of white flowers picked from Berwick Lodge‘s very own gardens, the newly married couple walked out with beaming smiles.
Clare and Natalie were thrilled with Berwick Lodge, which “provided such a beautiful backdrop for [their] photographs.” They gave special thanks to their hair and makeup artist, Maria Lucas MUA, and their photographer, Christy Blanch Photography: “We absolutely love the photos by Christy! We’re so pleased with them – they’re amazing!”
So what advice do Clare and Natalie have for couples planning a wedding during a pandemic?
“Remind yourselves that it’s all about just the two of you. We found it easiest to focus solely on us and to choose the things that were important to us. Local suppliers were great as it was easy and quicker to make decisions.”
There’s one more thing Clare and Natalie would recommend to any couples in the South West (pandemic or no pandemic!):
“One big tip – choose an elopement package at Berwick Lodge!”
9th November 2020: Parliament debates Weddings – everything you need to know.
Last night, we saw MPs from across Britain discuss E-petition 329339, the petition relating to the number of guests permitted at weddings during the coronavirus pandemic. Below is a summary of the main highlights, the video recording and the full debate transcript.
Summary:
Overall, this was a brilliant debate that finally shone a light on the struggles we are facing and the urgent needs of our industry. Bridebook, the Association of British Wedding Businesses (ABWB), Wedding Venues and suppliers across the country have been looking for a platform to voice their opinions and this was that platform.
MPs in attendance were focused on 3 main arguments:
Increasing the guest numbers at venues to fall in line with venue capacity.
The need for a clear roadmap for reopening so that businesses can start to rebuild and plan for the future.
Financial support to assure that we are able to survive as an industry.
The debate highlights:
Elliot Colburn strongly opened the debate, clearly informed by the ABWB briefing note stating: “Weddings take months and even years of intricate planning. Myself and many others believe the maximum number of guests authorised at wedding ceremonies should be increased. The number of guests permitted at weddings should be calculated according to venue capacity.” He closed his opening by urging the government to “set out a clear road map for reopening so that businesses can begin to bounce back.” This was to set the tone for the rest of the debate.
MPs in attendance continued to stress the real need for a roadmap and clear guidelines & instructions to assure that the industry survives.
It was further explained that the wedding guest number should be based on venue capacity with social distancing being observed.
Also highlighted multiple times was the ripple effect stemming from venue capacity limits. Venues are the key to unlocking the industry as many suppliers rely on the venue’s business. The industry is an ecosystem with venues at the helm.
The unfairness of pubs & restaurants being able to hold receptions when wedding venues can’t was almost scoffed at. The Ministers explained that wedding venues and suppliers would do anything they can to assure they were COVID safe and that risk assessments were met.
MPs also plead for financial support, stating that the majority of grants, to date, have not reached or supported businesses within the wedding industry
January & February were highlighted as crucial months for the industry. In just two short months, venues are able to recover a substantial amount of lost revenue, as they market for future business, specifically for 2022 bookings.
MPs explained that there is no substantial evidence that suggests that weddings have a direct impact on COVID numbers. Specifically highlighted was that in NI, where weddings have been able to take place with higher numbers, that again there has been no direct evidence of weddings having an impact.
Death bed weddings – MP urged the minister to increase the restriction to allow for more family members to attend death bed weddings.
Sadly, the minister Paul Scully closed the session without giving any real clarity as to solutions, nor did he show any real urgency in providing further guidance or support. Scully explained that the hospitality industry has put a lot in place to assure covid-safe rules but that this would be more difficult with wedding venues as friends/family are within the given area for longer periods of time so social distancing rules would be challenged.
What’s next?
Scully, although lacking conviction, did state that he is working on measures to bring the industry together. He proposed to introduce a task force that would support encouraging the government to engage with the industry.
The ABWB will be writing an official response and will be reaching out to Paul Scully to gain clarity on the next steps.
Bridebook will be monitoring progress closely and will continue to share regular updates with our community.
The Law Commission held a public Q&A session to discuss their Consultation paper. Below is a summary of the main highlights and the Q&A.
Law Commission: Weddings – the home of all the information you need on the proposed reform of Wedding Law.
Provide your thoughts and feedback on the Law Commission’s proposal here: https://www.surveymonkey.co.uk/r/7R3TH65
Main highlights of the Law Commissions proposal
The Law Commission’s proposal recommends that weddings will be able to take place anywhere with a revised focus on dignity & existing health and safety legislation.
Rather than noting where the weddings take place. The new law would notify the officiant instead. In the case of registration officers, it may not be possible for a registrar to be identified and in this case, the location would then be listed. Once a schedule is listed, it will need to be signed and returned. Scheduled system to be introduced.
There will be 5 categories of officiants including independent officiants (celebrants)
Officiants will have to go through training in order for them to perform the legal requirements of marriage. Training has not yet been defined fully.
Questions asked with a summary of the Law Commission’s answers
Q: Registration Services have their own rooms, for example in the Town Halls where they’re based, to be able to conduct marriages in. Is it proposed that registrars still have exclusivity over their own venues? This isn’t clear in the consultation.
Yes they would. Those who own buildings can still control who has access to those buildings. Local authorities could say that only their registrars can hold weddings in town halls.
Q: I don’t have an issue with the concept but I think it is ill-timed. The industry needs to recover after COVID and does not need any more to deal with
We understand this. Our review is a general review. It was set up before COVID happened. And it is looking at wedding law and how weddings will happen in the future. We believe there is still a need to reform for the future.
What we have been able to do is look at what has happened during covid.
We know looking at other jurisdictions – outdoor weddings: outdoor weddings are less risky – future law much more resilient for future pandemics.
Also, we have been thinking about how emergency powers could help to support weddings to take place. E.g. enabling formalities – virtual weddings. We understand the impact that covid has had – we believe that this proposal will
Q: The wedding industry has been decimated by Covid-19, how on earth will existing wedding venues have the opportunity to recover if the new proposal will allow more venues to host weddings. The venues market is already overcrowded.
To remove the residency requirement – this will make it possible for couples coming from overseas to get married.
New revisions will make Eng & Wales more attractive – would lessen people going abroad – 73000 individuals go oversea to get married
The number of officiants – they had to turn business away because of the difficulty for registrars to book. Only one officiant would be needed.
Greater flexibility
Existing venues have an existing business – service they offer – not all of the weddings that take place – smaller/family weddings
Heard from existing venue owners – venues would be able to offer a wedding outside their buildings
Q: You’ve said by end 2021 that’s unfair
We will publish recommendations to the government in mid-2021. The legislation would have to go through parliament – changes wouldn’t be in place by end of next year.
Q: If a venue for marriage / civil partnership isn’t stated on the schedule, how will registration services know which marriages / civil partnerships are taking place in their district? Without knowing this, it’s difficult to ensure all are registered.
Rather than noting where the weddings take place. They would notify the officiant instead.
Registration officers may not be able to be identified – location would then be listed.
Once a schedule is listed, it will need to be signed and returned. Scheduled system to be introduced. Rather than listing the venues, it would be focused on the officiant.
Q: Has the proposal concerned the risks hosting weddings in venues/spaces that aren’t managed professionally eg wedding suppliers will not be vetted correctly, risk of poor service, food poisoning etc.
Discussed Venues in chapter 7 of the consultation paper. The marriage act – only governs where weddings take place. Already wedding law does not vet reception venues. Planning law, licence & health and safety laws – people providing services are governed under that law.
Safety & dignity would be the focus.
Officiant would be trained to address.
Q: You would not suddenly effectively deregulate the car industry without properly investigating the impact on the industry
We will do an impact assessment – chapter 13 and respond.
Q: I am in favour of most of the proposals. My query is how celebrants will be properly regulated – will some form of training and regulation fall on registrar services? What sort fo checks and balances are suggested?
Regulations will be focused on officiants – regulation will need to be met in order to officiate.
Chapter 5 – all officiants would have the same legal requirements – express consent and requirements are met and signed. They would have a responsibility for safety.
5 categories of officiants – independent officiants – independent celebrants: these individuals would be able to conduct ceremonies – more detailed requirements to show that they are fit and proper – completed training or that they have been approved.
Q: Have you noted this year how when wedding receptions are (often illegally) held in private houses/gardens, they tend to be more unsafe and unregulated, and that enabling people to get married at home could have similar health/safety concerns in the future?
Other underlying health and safety regulations all continue to apply.
It is not illegal to hold a wedding reception – what we anticipate is that the couple that owns the house – put concerns in the consultation response
Q: Would it still be a requirement to hold the ceremony under a cover/structure in order to keep the registers dry, or would anybody be able to get married literally anywhere?! This could be disastrous for already struggling venues if people are to be allowed to literally marry anywhere!
A wedding could take place at any place which is agreed between couples & officiant. Has to be safe.
If you are organising a wedding, you would need to take into account the weather conditions
Impact on existing venues, some of the venue owners we have spoken to are keen to use their outdoor space – marketing this.
That approach is not novel – it already happens in Scotland already.
The demand by couples – structures outdoors that are then licenced as approved premises
Issues – there are different applications across England and Wales and these decisions are made by local authorities. There are a lot of differences across local authorities – this is an issue that needs to be addressed in reformed law.
Q: Q from Ribble Valley Wedding Partnership Alcohol – clearly this is not currently permitted at or around the ceremony, what are your views regarding your proposals and if relaxed how will the dignity of the event be ensured. There doesn’t seem to be any mention in the consultation
We do in chapter 7 – currently, the only regulations relate to approved premises. Nothing currently to alcohol/decency.
Nothing to stop people before the wedding or in another part. Some local authorities dictate you can’t serve weddings before.
We focus on dignity and officiant to manage. Couples & officiant cannot be intoxicated.
Q: If a venue had a nominated responsible person (currentl required by the licence), could they also supply a celebrant to run a ceremony? Two separate people. Also could venues have control over who could run a ceremony – and have the freedom to decline particular celebrants or individuals?
Our schemes propose this – independent officiants – propose that there will be a rule
Q: Why has a report to reform the wedding law been commissioned?
We have a weddings law from 1836 that hasn’t been reviewed properly since.
The wedding law isn’t working for a lot of couples and proposes a number of restrictions
Out of date based on other countries
Asked to do scoping work by the government – immediate catalyst – focused on humanist
Current law doesn’t work for religious groups – recognised by religion but not by law.
Q: This seems to be an academic approach without any regard for the effects on a £10bn industry
Chapter in about impact – keen to collect thoughts. We will publish an impact piece.
We do try to take into account the opinions of those affected
Q: from Ribble Valley Wedding Partnership Could the new ‘Officiant’ be an employee of a venue, this would make everything easier
Conflict rules have suggested that we will not permit that
Q; what about the dignity and the legal seriousness of marriage. Naked Celebrant? People can be very strange so are we condoning that to an unlimited degree?
Officiant would be in control of this – proposal focuses on dignity.
Current law only relates to the dignity of approved premises
Q: What will the celebrant training look like?
We don’t prescribe this – we do talk about it in general terms – it would focus on the legal requirements – duties, consent & schedule signed.
The guidance given focused on forced marriage. We don’t prescribe but do ask you to share your thoughts on this.
Q: So basically all those unlucky couples who have had to postpone or cancel their weddings due to covid will now be able to sack off their original venue and potentially their associated suppliers and opt for a home-based wedding which will put so many venues and businesses out of work at the worst possible time! Why is this not now being stalled in order to give our industry a fighting chance?
We are not looking at those who supply services.
Nor is out consultation paper looking at existing couple contracts.
Looking at what wedding law will look like in the future.
Proposals are not going to provide a solution for changes to wedding plans this year
Q:Q from Ribble Valley Wedding Partnership The term ’guidance’ to officiants feels a little weak and open to interpretation, which is a concern, especially when it relates to health and safety, and accessibility. Is there not an argument for something more structured, maybe even qualified?
We welcome your views in the consultation response. The training that they would have to undertake will have to reflect that. If there are particular thoughts we would like to receive
Q: Is there any merit in proposing a “certification” standard or exam that all officiants should achieve, regardless of how they are appointed, to ensure consistency across celebrants?
The difficulty is that this already exists and it might not be prop0ortionate to influence or affect this if is it is working.
E.g. religious training exists. There would be concerns if priests have to take new training.
Q: I asked earlier about keeping the register dry – not sure you understood the question… I am asking whether if a couple choose to get married on a beach or a hilltop for example, do they have to be under a structure still (not a building, just a structure)
No, they would not. They would not need to be near a building.
Schedule system – authorised to go ahead. The registrars wouldn’t need to bring the registrar book to the wedding.
There will be one simple form for the record of marriages.
Q: Much of the decision re the setting safety seems to be suggested will now rest with the celebrant, but you’ve said anybody can be a celebrant. They will not be qualified to make that decision
There will be clear processes around officiants and the training that they will have.
We are not envisaging that officiants will be experts on health & safety or building experts. Officiants would look at other existing legal requirements.
Q: How would a venue check whether a celebrant was qualified and who is responsible if there is an incident? would there be a governing body for celebrants to call them to account?
All nominated officiants & independent officiants would be on a central database. There will be a means of checking.
Governing body – the general registry body with oversight
Nominated – by religious groups / non-religious belief – nominated
Q: A lot of room for profiteering re independent celebrants being paid to perform a legal marriage – trafficking/forced marriage
All marriages would need to be preceded by preliminaries.
Criminal activities – laws in place to support this.
Q: Giving a couple a meaningful ceremony in a place and form that has significance for them, led by someone who understands them and uses the words that they would like is a wonderful and beautiful aspiration. Has any thought been given to explicitly ruling out certain places, however – for example abattoirs, sewage works and so on? That may seem extreme, and certainly, those places may be special to some but there should be some exceptions?
Interested in consulting these views.
Q: We have spent a fortune ensuring disabled access and H&S – is that need out the window now if people can get married on top of a tree?
We do look at accessibility – existing rules on health & safety still apply independently of weddings law.
Q: I’d be interested in the timescale you expect for any changes to be implemented.
Publish in the second half of next years – we will be providing recommendations not draft legislation.
The government then to decide to accept/prepare legislation
The expectation that the government will give an initial response in the first 6 months and a full response within a year.
Q: is there any way that existing venues which are already licensed could automatically be ‘approved’ as a future venue, thereby making a pre-visit / inspection by an officiant unnecessary = saving cost
Good point. We do suggest that local authorities can keep their own list of venues that host weddings. This would prevent the need for officiants to go.
That is something that we are keen on considering.
Q: Are you prepared for say, 100,000 new celebrants and keeping a check on all of them?
I suspect that the number of celebrants will depend on demand.
I’m not sure there would be 100,00 and as we’ve highlighted, these are questions for the government to decide.
Q: What about giving notice? What would the rules be and who do they go and see?
Would be the same as they are now. With Anglican weddings – give notice to the registrar.
Q: To not consider the ancillary services of weddings demonstrates your lack of understanding of how weddings operate and are delivered.
We are looking at Weddings Law – looking at the weddings itself.
Q: would the general registrar office know whether they later got a criminal record for instance?
There would be an ability to withdraw their officiant authorisation withdrawn
Disclosure of disclosing criminal records. These rules will continue to apply.
Please put in your consultation responses to us!
Additional comments
“We manage outdoor venues and this is a huge growth industry. We’ve also been hugely affected by Covid-19. Couples hold an outdoor blessing and then a reception in a marquee of tipi. Our couples would love it if their outdoor ceremony, could also be the legal ceremony. I think existing venues with licences should be confident that couples would still choose their venue, for service, location, catering etc rather than trying to hold onto their competitive advantage and limiting choice for couples. Venues with licences do not comprise the full wedding industry.”
Is there any evidence at all that the demand for traditional (country house, hotel, church) weddings will decline? These types of weddings are hugely popular – people can already have a celebrant wedding in their back garden if they want to! people seem worried that the industry will collapse which is unfounded – there will be a huge surplus of couples in the coming years who haven’t been able to marry. it may be worth showing the evidence that ‘traditional’ venues will be just as needed – if not more now that they can use their gardens/outdoor spaces?!
I do not support your proposal to allow weddings to be hosted virtually anywhere. This idea is very ill-thought-out and will result in the closure of many dedicated wedding venues, as the market will become saturated with the number of venues.
Scotland has now restrictions for weddings but we do see that weddings are still taking place
One thing that I do agree with is that there should only be one registrar in attendance as this would vastly improve availability and costs
Tuesday 3rd November 2020
On Tuesday, I was asked to represent our industry and the Bridebook community in the latest Law Commission consultation. A small group of industry professionals met on Zoom to discuss the provisional proposals to Wedding Law Reform. Here’s everything you need to know ahead of Friday’s public Law Commission Q&A event on weddings law reform.
The scenario
The Law Commission proposed that if the new law is passed, anybody will be able to apply to become an officiant.
Anyone looking to become an officiant will need to go through thorough training and will need to be approved by Registrars.
There will be a published list of official registrars and when couples give notice, they will have to list who the officiant will be.
Couples will be able to get married in any safe and dignified location agreed by the officiant.
As I see it, the benefits to wedding venues
With plentiful officiants, couples will be able to book dates and times of their marriages instantly with their venues.
This will speed up the venue booking process
There will be no more fees or red tape to be an approved premise
Multi-faith ceremonies can occur at your venue
The risks to wedding venues
There will be increased competition in venue market place. But, we must remember that couples who have religious ceremonies are already free to choose any venue for their reception. Couples already prefer and choose approved premises already, so I believe this is a low risk.
Benefits to couples
Increased choice on where they get married
Increased ease of securing a registrar
More personalised ceremony
Lower cost, as wider choice of officiants
Hugely beneficial to many faiths and religious weddings which are rather excluded by current law.
Risks to couples
Increased costs as officiants become a standalone professional supplier with increased demand during seasonality.
Officiants will require significant formal training to become an officiant, so it isn’t as easy as just asking your friend to host your ceremony.
I predict
Most likely this will cause an increase in the cost of weddings. Weddings will become even more personal or unique, and even a small registry office wedding will be replaced with become something much more personal, and likely more expensive. Eg Marrying on a boat or on the beach etc. Large weddings likely unaffected except for outdoor moments.
Conflict that officiants choose where is safe. Currently this is the responsibility of the approved venue, hence being approved. If the officiant says they are happy to host a wedding up a mountain, are they liable for the safety of all the guests?
Likely damaging impact to religious premises, where marriages are a vital revenue stream eg small village churches, and due to the convenience of ceremony and reception being in one location, many of these will lose out.
The industry will become even more creative as social media imagery of ceremonies occurring on boats, trains, outdoors, mountains, inspires couples to hyper-personalise even further, which often comes with added expense.
Law Commission Agenda:
We have invited a range of organisations to discuss our provisional proposals, particularly as they relate to wedding venues and other vendors. The purpose of the roundtable is to facilitate an open discussion among attendees about our provisional proposals for reform.
The proposed requirements governing the ceremony
Couples will have to give notice to the registration service before getting married.
We provisionally propose that all wedding ceremonies must be attended by an officiant.
Registration officers will officiate at civil weddings;
Anglican clergy will officiate at Anglican weddings;
Officiants nominated by religious organisation will officiate at all other religious weddings;
If authorised to conduct legal weddings, officiants nominated by non-religious belief organisations will officiate at non-religious belief weddings; and
If authorised to conduct legal weddings, independent officiants will also be able to officiate at civil weddings.
Every officiant will have duties to ensure the requirements of the ceremony are complied with, and to uphold the dignity and solemnity of marriage.
We propose that couples will be able to get married in any safe and dignified location agreed by the officiant. There will be no requirement for venues to be pre-approved by the state. Both civil and religious weddings will be permitted to take place in any type of location (but religious groups will be able to impose their own requirements about where their officiants will agree to officiate at weddings).
Couples will not have to say prescribed words during the ceremony, but will have to express their consent in the presence of the officiant, each other, and two witnesses. Religious content (such as religious readings, hymns or religious imagery) will be permitted at civil wedding ceremonies. Weddings will not have to take place with open doors.
At the end of the ceremony, the couple, officiant and witnesses will be required to sign the schedule.
Questions
Q. Is it your experience that couples want to have their wedding ceremonies in non-approved areas of approved premises (such as outdoors)? Or in venues and locations that are not approved (eg due to cost) or that cannot be approved (eg because they are outdoors or on moving vehicles, including on water)?
Q. Is it your experience that some couples having religious weddings want to be able to marry in secular or commercial venues?
Q. Will venues benefit from being able to offer these options to couples? Will any types of venue benefit in particular? Will any types of venue not benefit?
Q. Will venues benefit from not having to pay approval fees? From not having to meet the requirements for approval (and if so, which ones)?
Q. Are there reasons why the location of wedding ceremonies needs particular regulation, as compared to other types of events or gatherings?
Q. How do you think the officiant agreeing to officiate at a wedding in a given location, considering safety and dignity, would work in practice? How does it work in practice currently in relation to weddings that are not legally recognised taking place in locations that are not necessarily approved premises?
Q. Would an optional system for venues to be pre-approved be useful, or efficient?
Friday 1st November 2019
Last week I asked venues owners and managers across the UK to share their views on the Law Commission’s proposal on Wedding Law reform. Hundreds of you spoke up and as a result, Beth Wright and I were able to share representative opinions at the pre-consultation meeting on Monday.
Here’s what YOU had to say, and everything you need to know about Monday night’s meeting…
Your opinions on the proposed Wedding Law changes.
This report, along with other Bridebook couple and industry insights have been shared with the Law Commission for their use during this project.
UK wedding venues employ 50+ employees and work with 20+ local businesses on average.
Almost two-thirds of venues could not stay in business without weddings.
Half of the responding venues have not experienced any growth in the last 3 years due to economy, competition and couple preferences.
Venues’ Current Experience with Ceremonies
Ceremony space: The majority of venues host weddings ceremonies as well as receptions, and two thirds do not have an outdoor approved premise. Many express frustration related to not being able to host weddings outdoors, especially when planning permission prevents them from erecting an approved structure.
Regulations: While a third feel costs are too high and regulations too much, most are satisfied with current costs and regulations. They do mention that some regulations feel antiquated (e.g. room licenses) and sometimes restrictions limit business growth.
Registrar experience: While most report a good experience with registrars, many venues mention difficulty for couples to book registrar and overly strict registrar rules which can limit business growth.
Fees: Fees are inconsistent across venue and council and can range from +£100 to over £1,000.
Venue Preferences for Future
Location: Venues feel that approved premises should still be regulated, but that rules should be relaxed with regard to outdoor space and different room options at approved premises.
Celebrant: Venues feel that approved celebrants should be able to administer weddings, but that these celebrants should be regulated (e.g. not friends of the couple).
Other Ceremony Requirements: Venues are happy with regulations across many aspects of civil wedding ceremonies, and find that the current set of regulations are suitable for the formality and sanctity of marriage. However they do feel that some ceremony requirements could be relaxed.
What happened at the pre-consultation meeting on the Government Reform to Wedding Law.
What the Law Commission is doing: The Law Commission is focused solely on reviewing the law governing how and where people can marry in England and Wales.
Who are the Law Commission? The Law Commission are funded by the government but work independently in order to provide potential Law reform for the government. On average, 2/3 of the projects put forward by the Law Commission will be enacted and law will be amended.
The Facts:
The current laws date back from 1836 so are very dated in some places and not representative of today’s market and modern couple’s needs.
Based on government research 42.8% of legal marriages take place in hotels.
Jewish and Quakers wedding ceremonies can currently take place anywhere.
Currently:
There are different ways to give notice for different types of weddings.
Almost all wedding must take place in certain buildings
A wedding must be either civil or religious
The law is not clear as to the status of a wedding that was not celebrated in one of the legally authorised ways and some religious ceremonies have not been recognised
The law is complex and contains different rules about where a wedding can take place, depending on the type of ceremony.
Who attended the Commission meeting? 12 wedding venue professionals with differing backgrounds in the industry including local authority representatives, registrars, London wedding venue owners and managers, outdoor wedding company owners and industry community representatives.
What the Law Commission & Government reform will consider:
Whether everyone getting married should have to give notice to the register office.
Where couples should be able to marry such as: outside, in a private home, on board a ship, on trains – or even in Tescos!
Opinions for couples to express their commitment in a way that is more personal to them.
How the law might allow non-religious belief organisations and independent celebrants to conduct weddings.
What should be the minimum requirements for marriage to be recognised by law, such as: giving notice, the consent of each member of the couple, signing the paperwork etc.
How to eliminate unnecessary red tape.
What was discussed?
Venues’ experience with the approved premises regulations, including:
the costs and how they affect venues and couples;
problems that arise during the approval process, or during ceremonies; and
hosting religious weddings on approved premises;
Where couples want to get married;
Experiences of working with registrars, religious or belief celebrants, or independent celebrants;
Where civil weddings should be able to take place;
What rules or guidelines there should be about civil weddings venues; and
How a more permissive system might work.
Main discussion points and opinions raised:
Everyone agreed that the dignity and sanctity of marriage needs to be kept in mind.
There were many frustrations regarding the limitations the law has on allowing outdoor ceremonies and also ceremonies in specific rooms: why is it that only 4 out of the 5 rooms in my venue can host ceremonies? It is not clear.”
It was agreed that there is a higher demand in today’s couple market for a wider variety of wedding ceremony location options. Wedding venues can satisfy this demand by the Law allowing more flexibility in terms of outdoor and building regulations for weddings.
It was posed that hosting Religious ceremonies/blessings is one of the highest heard requests from couples and that there is confusion as to why it is not possible to have such religious blessings held at approved venues.
Safety regulations both in terms of the security that venues provide and the implications of safety on couples and guests in outdoor / at home weddings has to be taken into consideration.
The local authorities’ ‘free reign’ on approved premises regulations and on costs are seemingly subjective and can be restrictive for smaller venues. More clarity needed on the reasons why different authorities have such differing costs and regulations.
Registrar restrictions on conducting ceremonies based on ceremony timings, the weather and location impacts couples preferences and venue flexibility massively. Standardisation and clarity is necessary.
There were mixed opinions on who should be able to conduct a legal ceremony. Many agreed that celebrants should have legal rights however there are concerns regarding friends or family of couples.
It was also noted that no one in the room has ever seen or experienced a disruption during a wedding yet, if public access is granted to wedding ceremonies this could become more of an issue.
What’s next?
A public consultation will take place in Spring 2020. This is the industry’s opportunity to have their say on the proposed changes. Based on this consultation, the Law Commission will make their detailed recommendation to the Government, with any legal changes being implemented in 2021.
Bridebook will be continuing to work with the Law Commission and I will continue to share any updates I receive with our Venue Community. If you have any further thoughts or feedback please do not hesitate to get in touch.
Bridebook is excited to announce the launch of Searcys intimate wedding packages and our partnership ahead of engagement season. Searcys run some of London’s most iconic stand alone restaurants and Champagne bars, including St Pancras Grand Brasserie and Champagne Bar.
Although not new for 2020, micro weddings offer a perfect way to create your big day, where every detail can be tailored to meet any want or need. Hosting up to 15 guests, the Searcy’s team have created bespoke intimate wedding packages available for our couples.
With our 143 years’ of experience in catering for weddings, Searcy’ and its iconic venues are ready to host our couples’ special day with tailored event spaces, bespoke menus focused on the best seasonal and British product, and expertly paired wines and champagne to celebrate.
Things may be a little different right now, but Searcys Exclusive Events team is on hand to create bespoke wedding experiences to make our couple’s day one to remember. In the past fortnight alone, the team at Searcy’s has received over 60 enquiries for weddings until the end of 2020, with 5 confirmed bookings, some within a week’s notice.
Throughout this year, Searcys Exclusive Events team has been helping brides and grooms plan their big day in the new normal. Over the past few months, the team have been curating bespoke weddings for couples, customising options from menus to music, as well as quirky touches of personalised bride and groom face masks, ensuring all is done in a secure way for all guests. Interesting food and drink themes, from miniature champagne bottles for a toast to touch-free menus delivered in stylish boxes, let your personality shine.
While a traditional big celebration may be on hold for the next few months, micro weddings offer the chance for an intimate and personal ceremony. As part of the new normal, don’t compromise and look to Searcys and the Exclusive Events team to make sure your day goes off without a hitch.
Choose from one of Searcys iconic and historic venues, including:
Looking for something a little quirky? Why not marry on the concourse of the station, followed by a bespoke wedding breakfast at Europe’s longest Champagne Bar. On the doorstep to France and beyond, where better to say ‘I do’ than under Tracey Emin’s ‘I want my time with you’, before experiencing a truly unforgettable day with a Champagne reception and tailored menus, set in either the Champagne Bar or art-deco Brasserie, or your very private dining room.
For unrivalled sky-high views across London, there are few spots as striking as Searcys at The Gherkin. Able to adapt to suit the size and style of any event, the Gherkin offers majestic views, with options including a private dining room, beautifully designed and flooded with natural light, for an intimate celebration dinner, while for a more exclusive feel, dine at the very top levels of 39 and 40 to a truly remarkable backdrop.
Home to The British Academy in the heart of Westminster, the Grade I listed Georgian Townhouse offers 10 elegant private rooms, each with its own character. Carlton House Terrace is a stylish townhouse charm with views across London’s iconic landmarks offering a picture-perfect setting.
The Barbican Conservatory is a botanical oasis famous for its cascading plants, a high glass roof and tranquil fish pools. Licensed to host wedding and civil partnership ceremonies, it is a magical space in which to entertain your friends and family. After the ceremony in the breath-taking Conservatory, you can proceed to a reception set against the lush green background or choose to enjoy your wedding breakfast at our Osteria restaurant overlooking the City.
Photograph by Andy Gaines – Instagram: andy_the_gaines / Facebook: andygainesphotography
Located in the heart of the City and steeped in history, The HAC offers four striking event spaces stretched across the estate, each licensed to hold wedding and civil partnerships. It is a six-acre estate and the home of the Honourable Artillery Company, a charity set up by Henry VIII in 1537 to support the Regiment that shares its name. The HAC offers a stunning, 18th century manor house and a contemporary, self-contained conference suite. What’s more, five acres of beautiful lawns provide an unforgettable background to wedding photographs and reception drinks, with all food and drink catered by Searcys to meet any requirement.
From photographers to caterers, to wedding dress designers, the UK is lucky enough to be home to some of the most gifted Black wedding suppliers in the world. The creativity and passion of these artisans and experts are sure to make your day one that you will treasure forever.
At Bridebook we are creating long term action strategies, both internal and external to improve inclusion and diversity within our industry but we know there is a long, long way to go. This list is just our starting off point, which we will be constantly and consistently adding to. In the meantime, we couldn’t recommend the Noire Wedding Edit by Ofe of Studio Oudizo more, for inspiration and an incredibly detailed list of suppliers.
If you’re after relaxed, informal wedding photography that is going to be as creative, quirky and fun as you are, then keep reading! Marni is all about authentic moments; tears of joy, stolen kisses, crazy dancefloor moves and everything in between. She’ll be wherever the action is, getting to know the people you love, so she never misses a moment. If you want a photographer that will feel more like an extra guest then she’s got you covered.
Leesha specialises in emotive and creative wedding photography for quirky couples in love. Her photography style definitely reflects her love for all things artsy and romantic, as well as being incredibly detail-oriented. Leesha sees the beauty not only in the big moments but the little things too, that really tell the story of your special day!
Joséphine’s love for photography stems from her love of connecting with people and showcasing their genuine emotion. Both of these are key elements of candid wedding photography, and they’re the reason she specialises in laid back wedding photography for fun and creative couples. That means that there’ll be no awkward moments or cheesy poses – she’ll be snapping all the crucial little moments of connection and emotion, and she’ll do it as part of the flow of the day.
Bubble Bar Caravan is a unique and beautifully converted caravan bar, perfect for intimate weddings. They serve a full range of alcoholic and non-alcoholic drinks, from IPA’s, Lager and Ciders on draught to bespoke Gin & Tonics, Prosecco and cocktails. They pride themselves on their friendly, energetic service that you and your guests are sure to love, as well as being an incredible backdrop for photos.
The Little Cake Garden specialises in creating bespoke wedding cakes and other sweet treats. They create some of the most stunning and whimsical cakes we’ve ever seen, as well as incredible dessert tables. Being hopeless romantics, they deliver designs that truly capture and reflect your desires. They are dedicated to quality and tailor-made creations, with all of their products made from scratch, using only the very highest quality ingredients.
The Indulgent Sugar Plum is a concept bakery & lifestyle store that produces luxurious handcrafted cakes and confectionery. They are not afraid to cross boundaries and have even been featured on Channel 4’s ‘Extreme Cake Makers! From the first moment you receive your cake, until the moment you eat it – they aim for their goods to ‘inspire your conversations’. Through the creation process the draw on inspiration from your visuals, colour scheme & themes to create a cake that’s uniquely for you and your partner.
With over 13 years of baking experience, M+H Cakes are delicious and handmade with love from their kitchen in London from start to finish. Their attention to detail is second to none, and they’ll ensure that you get your dream wedding cake. Each cake is bespoke, handmade and a true work of art.
Naomi Deru Bridal creates dresses for the contemporary bride with a modern take on style and silhouettes. Every single piece bearing the Naomi Deru Bridal label is handcrafted from scratch in Kent, with every gown being impeccably tailored, perfectly executed and with beautiful detail. Naomi makes sure that each dress is a carefully thought through collaboration with the bride, making sure the bride’s unique style and personality is reflected.
Kahmune’s aim was to redefine the word ‘nude’ and they have certainly succeeded. Just as ‘nude’ plasters are not a one size fits all, neither are shoes! Brides and bridesmaids should be able to find shoes that blend seamlessly with their skin tone, and Kahmune has delivered on their promise, blending style and comfort, with flats and heels in 10 beautiful skin shades.
Queen of Hearts Floral Design is a London based luxury floral studio in the heart of North London. Founder Bilen Zeremariam has been an Interior Designer for the past twelve years and brings forth an extensive knowledge in colour, texture, shape and interior styling. Bilen decided to pursue her passion for flowers after creating her own wedding arrangements, which led her to learn the art of floristry. Today, Bilen takes pride in creating opulent, memorable and dramatic floral displays that transform weddings & events in London, throughout the UK and abroad.
Hazel is a passionate floral artist and designer with a varied and rich background in the creative arts. Her style is free with an enriching take on colour, form and texture. After a childhood surrounded by nature in south-east England, Hazel has had a lifelong appreciation for the natural world, which is a clear inspiration in her work. Training at world-class florist McQueens, Hazel continually translates the world, taking inspiration from art, fashion and architecture. Her work is a love letter to nature with creative choices and combinations creating her fresh and unexpected designs.
Since March 2020, our industry has experienced the most challenging times in recent history. Amidst the hundreds of thousands of wedding cancellations and postponements, our industry has maintained its strength and resilience through unprecedented challenges. It has been wonderful to see business owners coming together virtually to support one another through the UK Venue Slack group, the ABWB, the #whataboutweddings campaign, our Bridebook government petition, industry letter-writing to MPs and more.
I’d like to share some key considerations based on my unique experience as not only the CEO of wedding planning app Bridebook, but also as a fellow wedding venue owner of Hedsor House. I also co-founded HelloFresh and was formerly an investment banker at UBS during the last financial crisis, so have had a varied career with some very relevant experiences. I’ve also been in direct communication with the CMA and a panel member of the Law Commission overseeing regulations for wedding venues, all of which enables me to gain insights into the current state of the industry from many sides.
Looking ahead, we unfortunately know that 2021 will be a challenging year too. However, we all have opportunities that we can leverage to position our businesses as best we can at this time. I encourage you to think about each of these key considerations.
Key Consideration 1: Prioritise Cash Flows
Key Consideration 2: Optimise Your Team
Key Consideration 3: Understand the Current Market
Key Consideration 4: Understand the Government Regulations
Key Consideration 1: Prioritise Cash Flows
Cash is vital. This can not be emphasised enough. Focus on cash. We know that weddings will be back at some point, we now need to secure enough cash to ensure that our businesses are around for that moment. Make sure you understand the implications of postponements and deposit amounts to your cash flows, and make adjustments accordingly.
A. Adjust deposit structure to frontload sales. Beware the underlying cash flow issues that postponements may have on your business. Take a close look at your cost to host a wedding, and compare that with to the deposit you charge clients. If your cost to host a wedding is >50% of the clients’ total fee, and you charge a 50% deposit, you may have an upcoming cash flow issue.
For example: Suppose you charge £10,000 for a package wedding, it costs you 70%/ £7,000 to host the wedding, and you take 50% deposit. Whilst receiving the first £5,000 deposit is useful and lucrative, beware being lulled into a false sense of security on the second payment. Though you will receive a second £5,000, you will have £7,000 outgoings so will actually have a net cash outflow. Postponements stack these outgoing up. If your hosting costs are less than your second deposit, then you don’t have this issue.
In a normal year, hosting weddings and selling weddings balances out, so you have positive cash flow. However, a year filled with hosting postponed weddings and selling weddings 2 years out may have a new cash impact for your business. Know your costs, know your cash flows, and make adjustments to your cost structure or deposit structure to ensure you stay cash flow positive. Frontloading sales early on is a key way to address this issue. The further out you can sell dates, the smoother your cash flow will be.
B. Give upgrades, not discounts. A discount hits your cash flow and net profit instantly, while an upgrade doesn’t. Think about the timing when your business is impacted from these types of incentives, and encourage your sales team to promote incentives that affect your bottom line as late as possible, with the least amount of impact to your cashflow.
For example, let’s consider £1,000 off venue hire versus £1,000 off champagne on the wedding day. The first option costs you instantly from net profit and cashflow now, while £1,000 champagne, likely only costs you £330-£500, and the cash flow impact is only at the wedding. Consider that actually £2,500 of free champagne might have the same net profit impact for you as £1,000 upfront discount, still has a later cash flow impact, and is likely much more persuasive to the couple!
Key Consideration 2: Optimise Your Team
Making sure your team is equipped to handle your upcoming business needs is vital. As we approach the biggest engagement season of the year, with 40% of the year’s engagements occurring between December and February, a huge opportunity awaits and a capable sales team should be in place to maximise results.
Be mindful of redundancies. Ensure your business is ready not only to host weddings like mad in 2021, but to sell like mad into 2022. You may be considering redundancies, but I urge you to think seriously about the repercussions. For most venues, the cashflow saving of a redundancy will be less than if that person sold one (1) additional wedding a month, or took administrative duties off a salesperson so that salesperson could sell an additional one. Beware of a vicious cycle, that if you cut costs too heavily, you may be unable to sell due to administrative overload on your sales team which can become increasingly unproductive.
A key consideration when considering the difficult decision to make someone redundant is their replaceability and the actual saving. For example, if you are making an employee redundant you may give them 2-months settlement. Hiring their replacement may cost a 20% recruitment fee, and training up the new colleague may take another 2 months. In this scenario, if you believe their role will be required within 6 months from November, then it would be a false economy to follow a redundancy route. A mutual agreement of reduced hours / sabbatical / temporary role reassignment may be a more optimal route for both parties and for morale.
Be prepared for engagement season enquiries. Be ready for another 100,000 engagements at Christmas, and have your team ready to secure business. Position your team wisely, and consider shifting roles to prioritise sales. If possible, get operational team members handling relations with existing couples and postponements, while your sales time focuses all their efforts on gaining new business. Think ahead how your entire team can work together to maximise time dedicated to new sales. Cross-training your team now will pay off later.
Key Consideration 3: Understand the Current Market
Beware increased competition. As with the last financial crisis, the competition for wedding business will increase significantly thanks to corporate business shifting to weddings. Corporate business will be affected by COVID much longer than weddings, so corporate venues will focus more on weddings in the absence of corporate events. In a recessionary environment, the first business expense cut is corporate events. Businesses have a responsibility for their employees’ health and safety so will feel very nervous about arranging large gatherings for a very long time. Just like personal travel will recover much quicker than business travel (eg Summer holidays bounced back rapidly this August, but business travel was still firmly on hold) corporate events will follow the same pattern. Ensure you are well positioned to capture and compete with this new competition for wedding business in the coming 6-12 months. We have seen this first hand, as we launched Hedsor House to focus on corporate business in 2008 until the financial crisis hit, which was when we pivoted to the stability of weddings. We already see many corporate businesses following this path.
Get timing and pricing right. Focus on late 2021 and 2022 wedding sales. Bridebook already has a backlog of over 100,000 2020 couples waiting to find their venue and we all need to be ready for this backlog to release. At this stage, venues should be booked around 40% of 2022. Across the country, 2022 is already getting booked due to postponed Covid weddings taking 2021. In fact, 57% of all Bridebook’s bookings in September were going into 2022, and 62% in October.
Filling 2022 key dates with new business, rather than postponements, is crucial for your future business viability. Selling these dates early is key to this.
Dynamic pricing for your business is incredibly important too. This will allow you to maximise sales by actively shifting couples into weekday rather than weekend bookings. If you need any guidance on dynamic pricing, do message your Bridebook venue consultant.
Key Consideration 4: Understand the Government Regulations
While our industry is impacted significantly by COVID-specific regulations, we are also experiencing impacts from changes stemming from the Law Commission as well as CMA guidance. Make sure you’re up-to-date on the impacts these governing bodies have on your business’s opportunities, competitors and contracts.
Easing of location and celebrant restrictions. On 3 Sept 2020 the Law Commission announced suggested changes to how and where couples can get married, that will ease the red tape experienced by couples and venues for approved legal weddings. I was on the commission panel during the consideration process, and feel that it is not only positive news that antiquated laws are being updated, but that new opportunities will arise for us amidst the easing of these restrictions.
The changes will likely allow weddings to take place outdoors, in a wider variety of buildings, with loosened restrictions on celebrants, ceremonies and notice-giving. While many within our industry may be wary of increased competition from non-traditional venues, we should not expect a rush to weddings in McDonalds. Couples will still want large groups of friends and family, in beautiful settings, where they can dine together in one room, and not be reliant on the weather, and that are run by experienced staff. This all leads back to the professional venues of today. We can also view the easing of these restrictions as opportunities for us to conduct wedding ceremonies more freely on our own premises and in our outdoor spaces, enabling us to enhance our current wedding offerings. Do note that celebrant weddings are already very popular, although not legal, and the vast majority of them take place at approved premise wedding venues anyway. The easing of these celebrant and ceremony restrictions benefit our venues by offering more freedom and flexibility to our clients while on our premises. We can expect further updates later in 2020.
Post-covid refund rules recommended by the CMA. On 7 Sept 2020, the CMA released guidance on wedding services affected by COVID-19, specifically on cancellation and refunds, alongside the CMA open letter to the wedding sector. Their guidance was clarified in regards to Covid and where Covid means a wedding cannot be hosted without substantial differences to the agreed contract.
Further details of a CMA action involving Bijou Weddings Group were released which concluded the fair and reasonable non-refundable amount to be 37.2% of the total cost of the wedding. On 9 Oct 2020, Bridebook issued an update to the CMA Guidance Summary, which includes an assessment of the decision with Bijou Weddings Group and continues to add updates to this page.
I know these last seven months have been difficult, and I applaud all your efforts to keep calm and carry on, despite the many adversities your business has faced. I know that we are all poised for a boom in bookings come engagement season, only two months away. I strongly urge you to take some time to seriously think about all of these key considerations and make sure your business is in the best shape possible for the next 6-12 months.
I see plenty of hope for our industry. From Bridebook data in September, we see newly engaged couples’ predicted budgets have remained unchanged versus 2019. Couples still want the large weddings we all know and love, and they are willing to wait for when it is possible. 2021 and 2022 will likely be the busiest years of weddings ever. We want to be sure you are there to work with them when that time comes.
I also urge venue owners and managers to get connected with your fellow industry colleagues on the UK Wedding Venues Slack group, a forum of thousands of wedding venues across the country, supporting each other and discussing relevant issues on a daily basis.
Now is also a great time to ensure that your digital presence is in tip-top shape, in preparation of the Christmas influx of prospective couples to your website, social media and Bridebook profile. Make sure all your photos, videos and details are up-to-date. Remember that couples love social proof, so chase any outstanding reviews from clients and fellow colleagues (share this simple link to collect reviews), and add testimonials to your Bridebook profile and website wherever possible.
Additionally, book a call with your Bridebook venue consultant to learn about ways to boost your presence among local couples, by heading to THIS PAGE or emailing business.bridebook.co.uk. If your business doesn’t have a Bridebook profile yet, create a free profile and our team will be happy to welcome you to our wonderful community of wedding professionals.
There are so many moving parts in our industry right now, and I truly want you to be the best equipped business you can be to navigate the difficulties and come out on the other side stronger than ever.
If I or the Bridebook team can help with anything, do get in touch.
While we know how frustrating some of the rules and guidelines are, the rule book has been torn up, so you’ve effectively got carte blanche! If you want to choose an outlandish theme or a controversial setting for your wedding, go for it.
Gone is the pressure to make it the classic wedding you always thought you might have. Everything about getting married right now is different, so embrace that and make it your own.
Personalise it with loads of photos of your relationship, write special vows, or ditch the typical wedding cake for a deluxe box of Krispy Kremes. Do whatever will make you happy.
2. Treat yourself
Use the savings you would have spent on guests to splurge on things that you’ll remember forever.
Whether it’s a 10 course blow-out meal or a beautiful piece of jewellery, treat yourselves with the money you are saving.
3. Bring pets
Pets don’t count in your 15 guests, so go crazy and bring all of your four-legged friends to the service.
Be creative with it and find ways to incorporate them, from your dog bringing your rings to goldfish bowls as the centerpiece.
Do make sure to check with your venue that this is OK with them first though!
4. Find ways to incorporate your virtual guests
Sadly, there will be people who won’t be able to attend your wedding. Whether it’s friends and family abroad, vulnerable people shielding, or people who just don’t make your 15 VIPs.
Find ways to include those who can’t attend. iPads at the dinner table can be great to allow people to join via Zoom, while many venues are offering live streaming for the service itself. Look at incorporating family heirlooms to make it more personal. Use your Grandparents’ tableware to serve the meal or decorate the table with framed photos.
5. Prepare for a bigger party when this is all over
We know how gutting it is for these restrictions to have come in just as you were planning to make do with a 30-person wedding.
But remember, there’s no reason you can’t have a big blowout party once all this is over. People are going to be looking to celebrate and party with their nearest and dearest. So why not think about how your ceremany could be the social event of the year in 2021?!
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After weeks of being inside, forced apart from our nearest and dearest, weddings seem like a lifetime away. And yet, the day will come when life will be full of loved ones, laughter and celebration once more. We can expect some significant effects on weddings to come later this year and into 2021.
The 2021 wedding season will not be without its challenges. With 64% of 2020 weddings expected to be pushed-back, 2021 is set to be a busy one. Couples will have to make quick decisions on dates, to get first dibs on the date they want. Guests can expect many more clashes, and midweek weddings than ever, making things a little more challenging. On the bright side, we’ll have a way to use up all of those saved holiday days…
Post-coronavirus, we can expect that weddings will be bigger, bolder, and even more full of meaning. Everyone is longing for the days of confetti, cake, and bubbly, and we have the scoop on the trends you can expect to see post-lockdown.
Digital Guests:
One thing that has come from this period of change and online socialising is the normalisation of online meeting services, such as zoom. Travel restrictions may persist for some time, and we expect two-thirds of weddings post-lockdown to have at least some guests attending virtually. For elderly relatives, as well as friends and family living in far-flung destinations, digital access will be a great way for them to still be able to attend these special moments, even if just remotely.
Courageous Fashion Choices:
After what feels like months of wearing the same pair of leggings and jumpers, everyone will be jumping at the chance to dress up and look their best. We can expect adventurous guest fashion, with brighter, more fashion-forward dresses and bolder jewellery choices.
It won’t just be guests making bold statements; we are seeing a 50% increase in the popularity of statement veils (probably thanks to Mrs. Bieber). We can expect to see many more brides making this trend their own, embroidering their veils with meaningful quotes or even initials. Alongside an increase in statement veils, we are also seeing a rise in catwalk-inspired statement sleeves and pearl-embellished dresses, seen at the likes of Dior and Chanel.
Classic Blue was announced as the Pantone colour of the year, so expect a great revival in the something blue, something borrowed tradition, featuring this beautiful shade. Think blue in newly trending hair barrettes, jewelry and even the bases of high heels!
Post-credit-crunch, boho brides were on the rise, and this trend is set to explode once more. Many 2021 brides will be going for the ethereal look, with wearable florals, and bridal crowns taking center stage.
Creative Wedding Decor:
If you thought wedding creativity had reached its peak, just you wait. With more time than ever to d think about wedding details, we can expect a move away from some more traditional elements to more creative and modern takes on decor. Some creative couples will be changing up the traditional seating charts, instead painting table lists on flower-filled glass boxes. Floral hoops have also been growing in popularity, with growing in popularity by 80% this year, alongside hanging floral decorations and flower-filled aisles.
Post quarantine, there will be a revival of the Do-it-yourself Bride and Groom. Around three-quarters of weddings will include some DIY elements, as couples cut costs where they can (and have more time on their hands!), with DIY-couples saving a combined £20million. We are looking forward to personalised table settings, wedding favours, and decor, such as photo displays.
Wedding Food Trends:
With so many couples caring more than ever about sustainability and the environment, it is no wonder that there has been a shift to a focus on menu seasonality, as well as plastic and waste reduction. With many couples aiming to create as little environmental impact as possible, the increase in zero-plastic and reduced-waste weddings could save more than 15,000 tonnes of wedding waste from ending up in landfills (that’s 100 blue whales!). From invitations made of recycled paper, vegan menus and leftover composting, we can safely assume that the sustainable wedding trend is here to stay and will explode in 2021. We imagine many couples will be donating leftover flowers to local hospitals and hospices, which hopefully will be a trend that will stick.
As for the sweet stuff, we predict a shift away from the traditional and pricy wedding cakes that often remain uneaten, to more exciting offerings. Unique grab and go dessert displays, such as doughnut walls will come into their own (there are almost 100,000 posts under the hashtag #donutwall on Instagram!).
Weddings are all about individuality and celebrating who the couple truly is. We are expecting food and drink that pay homage to the backgrounds of the couple, whether that is custom messages in fortune cookies or cocktails made with a type of Slovakian cherry liquor. More and more couples will be selecting super-personal menus, such as family favourite desserts, or cocktails named after people and places that mean something to the couple and their families.
Party Central:
After the storm of COVID, when weddings begin again, they are set to go on till the early hours. Where there is partying, there is midnight feasting. Guests can expect to be sustained with anything from sweet treat grazing tables, to late-night pasta pots to keep them dancing the night away.
Missing happy hour has become a national tragedy, and it’s coming back in a big way – think serve-yourself prosecco taps, experimental cocktails, and boozy popsicles like frozen rose, mimosas, and mojitos making their way onto a dancefloor near you.
It’s only natural that with happy hour, comes confidence in dance ability. Learning a Tiktok dance became a quarantine right of passage, and newly married couples will be eager to show off their new fancy footwork. Be prepared for some seriously questionable, but hilarious first dances.
Registry Remix:
Many couples feel that this period has put things into perspective, as well as made many questioning what gifts they can live without. Cutlery and crystal bowls are a nice memento, but lots of couples are forgoing the regular registry list, asking for experiences, not things. More will be asking for starter funds for a new home, a pet, or for their honeymoons. Charity registries will also become the norm, with more and more couples wanting to donate to a cause they feel passionate about.
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We love weddings. Like, really love them. (Can you tell?) But even we have to admit that they can be pretty wasteful affairs. Planning a sustainable wedding might sound daunting, but we promise it’s not as tricky as you might expect – so have a think about whether or not you can find a place for something green (and something borrowed!) alongside your something blue. Here are our top tips to get you started.
Resell your wedding dress or suit
Of all the items of clothing you own, we bet that whatever you wear on your wedding day will have the most sentimental value. But if you can bear to part with it, consider selling it on or handing it down to someone else. It’s an easy way to make a little cash back while reducing your wedding’s impact.
Want 10% off when you sell your wedding dress? Head over to Stillwhite, the world’s largest second-hand wedding dress marketplace.
Opt for online invitations
Your wedding stationery is one aspect of your wedding you just can’t cut. At the end of the day, your guests need to know where to go! But there are loads of eco-friendly alternatives that don’t end up with piles of wasted paper. For example, there’s no reason that e-invites can’t be just as gorgeous as traditional stationery! Why not email your guests a link to a personalised video of you and your other half or set up an awesome wedding website?
Choose a venue close to home
Having an eco-friendly wedding doesn’t necessarily mean getting married on a farm or in a field! Travel can be one of the most significant contributors to a wedding’s carbon footprint so if you want to go green, try to pick a venue that’s within easy reach of you and your guests. You might want to think about choosing somewhere that’s accessible by public transport too.
Organise a wedding coach for your guests
If lots of your guests are coming to your venue from the same place, you could organise a wedding coach to take them all there and back in one go. It’s an easy way to make sure everyone turns up on time too!
Set up carpooling
Encourage your guests to travel together where possible and help them sort out carpooling arrangements. Ask your guests to let you know if they’ll have a free spot in their car when they RSVP, then match them up with another guest in need of a lift. It’ll likely save your guests a little on fuel costs too!
Buy any clothing second-hand
Remember, it’s not just you and your other half who will be buying an outfit for the wedding. Everyone in the wedding party from the best man to the flower girl will most likely be wearing something special. A great way to be a little greener – and to save a few pennies! – is to opt for pre-loved items from a vintage boutique or charity shop. Another alternative is to explore hiring any dresses or suits needed for the wedding party. After all, they’ll probably only wear them once!
Avoid single-use items
Like your wedding invitations, little details like place cards and table numbers can quickly end up meaning mountains of paper, card and plastic left over after your big day. One easy option is to look for recyclable or biodegradable materials when choosing your designs. If you have a little more cash to spare, another idea we love is doubling up your place cards with your wedding favours so that your guests have a keepsake to take away with them, rather than something to be thrown away.
But our favourite idea? Edible place cards. Order cookies with your guests’ names written on them in icing. We can guarantee there’ll be nothing left at the end of your big day!
Make conscious jewellery choices
We know, we know – it’s hardly the most romantic thing to think about, but it’s important to be conscious of the impact your wedding and engagement rings can have on the planet and its people. Diamonds and other gems are often sourced unsustainably and unethically, as are many precious metals. To avoid participating in a potentially problematic trade, make sure to look for conflict-free materials, investigate vintage or recycled options or look into lab-grown options.
Celebrate by candlelight
Your electricity bill might be the last thing on your mind on your wedding day – and rightly so, in our opinion! – but considering energy-saving strategies is an easy way to make your big day a little more sustainable. Try turning off unnecessary lights and lighting your venue with candles instead. On top of being eco-friendly, it’ll create a gorgeous, romantic atmosphere! Just make sure you check that your venue’s happy with open flames.
Use sustainable makeup
Why not switch out some of your products for cruelty-free, zero-waste or locally produced alternatives? We’d never recommend trying something new for the first time on your wedding day so this is definitely one you’ll want to plan ahead. If you’re having your makeup done professionally, ask your makeup artist whether they use any sustainable products or quiz any makeup-loving friends on their cruelty-free recommendations.
Stay seasonal
Flowers play a big role in almost every wedding and aren’t something we’d ever recommend skipping out on! But they can have an undeniable impact on your wedding’s carbon footprint, whether that’s because of how they’re disposed of or how they’re imported. Our top tip is to prioritise flowers that are a) local and b) seasonal where possible. It’s a often fab way to save some pennies too as your flowers have less far to travel.
Go veggie (or vegan!)
Whether you go completely vegan or just opt to reduce the number of meat dishes on offer, exploring eco-friendly options for your catering is an easy way to go green. And don’t worry – it’s not 2003! Going veggie doesn’t mean limiting yourself to mediocre mushroom risottos and sad stuffed peppers. Nowadays, there are loads of caterers offering fabulous vegan and veggie options. If you do still want to serve meat, try to prioritise local and organic produce where possible to decrease your wedding’s environmental impact.
Avoid flower foam
An easy eco win is to check if your florist uses flower foam in their designs. This foam is much like single-use plastic and can be harmful to humans and animals through prolonged contact, especially if it seeps into water supplies. Our advice would be to avoid flower foam where possible and look for eco-friendly alternatives.
Buy biodegradable
Buying decorations made out of biodegradable materials is an easy way to lower the environmental impact of your wedding. This is especially important when it comes to wedding staples like confetti, as well as balloons and lanterns.
Confetti is one of the biggest offenders when it comes to the environmental impact of weddings. Fortunately, there’s loads of biodegradable options out there, as well as more traditional eco-friendly options like rose petals or rice. For extra green points, you could even gather flowers from your own garden (or a friend’s) and dry the petals yourself.
And, as much as we love them, balloons and lanterns are potentially very harmful to the environment if not disposed of correctly. If you do want a lantern display, be careful to look for biodegradable materials and be careful of where you release them.
Hire what you can
Not only are wedding decorations often un-environmental, they’re also expensive! Why not hire your decorations? You can be sure they’ll be reused time and time again while also saving some cash yourself. Plus, hiring your decorations often means being able to afford higher quality pieces, adding a little luxury to your day!
Go for gifts that keep giving!
While we always love a wedding favour, they’re not at all a necessity! Being invited to your wedding is gift enough for your guests! So why not think about making a charity donation with the money you save? If you really do want to buy favours, you could explore options that let your guests make a positive impact on the environment themselves. For example, you might gift them with a packet of seeds to grow their own flowers.
There you have it – some amazing green wedding ideas for a gorgeous, environmentally-friendly wedding!
We have been told that love happens gradually, that falling in love is like listening to the tune of a lullaby or a slow song, tender and beautiful. We have been told that love is supposed to be there all along while you blindly engage in different pursuits.
But one day, you realize that you have been hit by love, the sudden urge to make somebody yours. The tune to your favourite song, the shade of your t-shirt, the colour of their skin; everything matches with the hues of your heart that cannot stop falling for them.
Love is bliss, and expressing it is heaven. Therefore, we bring you some romantic love quotes to let your partner know how deeply in head over heels you are smitten with them.
Beautiful Love quotes
“One word frees us of all the weight and pain of life: That word is love.” -Sophocles.
“For small creatures such as we the vastness is bearable only through love.” – Carl Sagan.
“If I had a flower for every time I thought of you… I could walk through my garden forever.” – Alfred Tennyson.
“You know when you’re in love when you can’t fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams.” – Dr. Seuss.
“Love is the condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own.” – Robert A. Heinlein, Stranger in a Strange Land.
“But the heart’s not like a box that gets filled up. It expands in size the more you love.” –’Her,’ the movie.
“There is no remedy for love, but to love more.” – Thoreau.
“There’s only one thing that cuts through all our realities, and that’s love—the bridge between all our differences.” – The L Word.
“Some love stories aren’t epic novels. Some are short stories, but that doesn’t make them any less filled with love.” – Sex and the City.
“All, everything that I understand, I understand only because I love.” – Leo Tolstoy, War, and Peace.
“Give in to love, or live in fear.” – Rent.
“Because through love, we feel the intensity of our connection to everything and everyone. And at the core, we are all the same. We’re all one.” – Loving Annabelle.
Funny Love Quotes
“I love being married. It’s so great to find one special person you want to annoy for the rest of your life.” -Rita Rudner.
“Love is the same as like, except you feel sexier.” – Judith Viorst.
“Marriage is our last, best chance to grow up.” – Joseph Barth.
“Love is a two-way street constantly under construction.” – Carroll Bryant.
“Love is a snowmobile racing across the tundra, and then suddenly it flips over, pinning you underneath. At night, the ice weasels come.” – Matt Groening, The Big Book of Hell.
“All you need is love. But a little chocolate now and then doesn’t hurt.” – Charles M. Schulz.
“I love being married. It’s so great to find that one special person you want to annoy for the rest of your life.” – Rita Rudner.
“Love is something sent from heaven to worry the hell out of you.” – Dolly Parton.
“I just happened to be nowhere near your neighborhood.” – Singles.
“I’m afraid once your heart is involved, it all comes out in moron.” – Gilmore Girls.
“Falling in love is not at all the most stupid thing that people do, but gravitation cannot be held responsible for it.” – Albert Einstein.
“Real love amounts to withholding the truth, even when you’re offered the perfect opportunity to hurt someone’s feelings.” – David Sedaris.
Cute Love Quotes
“Love is a friendship set to music.” – Joseph Campbell.
“Love is a single soul inhabiting two bodies.” – Aristotle.
“I think I’d miss you even if we never met.” – The Wedding Date.
“When you’re a kid, you assume your parents are soulmates. My kids are going to be right about that.” – The Office.
“So excuse me forgetting but these things, I do you see, I’ve forgotten if they’re green or they’re blue. Anyway, the thing is, what I really mean yours are the sweetest eyes I’ve ever seen.” – Elton John, “Your Song.”
“Nobody has ever measured, not even poets, how much the heart can hold.”– Zelda Fitzgerald.
“Two people in love, alone, isolated from the world, that’s beautiful.” – Milan Kundera.
“True love stories never have endings.” – Richard Bach.
“The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched—they must be felt with the heart.” – Helen Keller.
“Deep within us — no matter who we are — there lives a feeling of wanting to be lovable, of wanting to be the kind of person that others like to be with. And the greatest thing we can do is to let people know that they are loved and capable of loving.” – Fred Rogers
“The greatest thing you’ll ever learn is just to love and be loved in return.” – Nat King Cole, “Nature Boy” lyrics.
Quotes About Marriage
“A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person.”- Mignon McLaughlin.
“The minute I heard my first love story, I started looking for you, not knowing how blind that was. Lovers don’t finally meet somewhere. They’re in each other all along.” – Rumi
“To be fully seen by somebody, then, and be loved anyhow – this is a human offering that can border on miraculous.”– Elizabeth Gilbert, Committed: A Skeptic Makes Peace with Marriage.
“If I get married, I want to be very married.” – Audrey Hepburn.
“I love you without knowing how, or when, or from where. I love you simply, without problems or pride: I love you in this way because I do not know any other way of loving but this, in which there is no I or you, so intimate that your hand upon my chest is my hand, so intimate than when I fall asleep your eyes close.” – Pablo Neruda, 100 Love Sonnets.
“Love recognizes no barriers. It jumps hurdles, leaps fences, penetrates walls to arrive at its destination full of hope.”– Maya Angelou.
“I am nothing special, of this, I am sure. I am a common man with common thoughts, and I’ve led a common life. There are no monuments dedicated to me, and my name will soon be forgotten, but I’ve loved another with all my heart and soul, and to me, this has always been enough.”– Nicholas Sparks, The Notebook.
“If I had a flower for every time I thought of you… I could walk through my garden forever.”– Alfred Tennyson.
“Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength while loving someone deeply gives you courage.”– Lao Tzu.
“We’re all a little weird. And life is a little weird. And when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up with them and fall into mutually satisfying weirdness – and call it love – true love.”– Robert Fulghum, True Love.
Love Quotes from Literature
“Each time you happen to me all over again.” – The Age of Innocence, Edith Wharton
“Grow old along with me! The best is yet to be.” Rabbi Ben Ezra – Robert Browning.
“I’ve never had a moment’s doubt. I love you. I believe in you completely; you are my dearest one. My reason for Life.” Atonement – Ian McEwan
“Who, being loved, is poor?” —Oscar Wilde, A Woman of No Importance
“Perhaps, after all, the romance did not come into one’s life with pomp and blare, like a gay knight riding down; perhaps it crept to one’s side like an old friend through quiet ways; perhaps it revealed itself in seeming prose until some sudden shaft of illumination flung athwart its pages betrayed the rhythm and the music, perhaps… perhaps… love unfolded naturally out of a beautiful friendship, as a golden-hearted rose slipping from its green sheath.” — Lucy Maud Montgomery, Anne of Avonlea.
“To love or have loved, that is enough. Ask nothing further. There is no other pearl to be found in the dark folds of life.” —Victor Hugo, Les Misérables.
“When you love something, it loves you back in whatever way it has to love.” —John Knowles, A Separate Peace.
“A love story is not about those who lose their heart but about those who find that sullen inhabitant who, when it is stumbled upon, means the body can fool no one, can fool nothing— not the wisdom of sleep or the habit of social graces. It is a consuming of oneself and the past.” —Michael Ondaatje, The English Patient.
“We love the things we love for what they are.” —Robert Frost, Hyla Brook.
“The way her body existed only where he touched her. The rest of her was smoke.” —Arundhati Roy, The God of Small Things.
“In love, there are two things—bodies and words.” —Joyce Carol Oates.
“I have learned not to worry about love; but to honor its coming with all my heart.” —Alice Walker.
“All, everything that I understand, I understand only because I love.” —Leo Tolstoy, War, and Peace.
The best thing that we can do in life is love. Love should come to humans as easy as breathing. Therefore, with these famous love quotes, let your partner know how much you mean to them. Which is your favourite quote on love?
You have found the one whom your soul loves, and it is time for the next chapter of your story to begin!
The wedding bells bring along nervousness and euphoria, which keep adding to the album of memories. Marriage being one pious milestone the couple achieves for spending the eternity together. From kneeling with a ring to choosing the theme, from picking the right shoes to finally walking down the aisle, everything contributes to achieving your fairytale wedding.
So, to help you strike off one of the most crucial parts of your wedding checklist, we bring to you 20 amazing wedding food ideas that take care of your guests’ hunger pangs.
1. Pie Station
Everything will be alright; all you need is a pie! To amp up, your wedding menu must have a super cute pie station. A bonus tip is worth checking if your caterer can heat the pies for you. Serve slices from large pies or small pie pop-tarts, and everything will be okay if the dessert is this tasty!
2. Sushi Bar
If you and your partner are a big sushi fan, then a Sushi Bar will truly add some fun to your wedding! Serve your guests with some sushi and wine, and they will all relish the fine dine.
3. Tacos & Nachos Station
Nothing can ever go wrong with Tacos & Nachos. So set up a spicy corner to ensure your guests don’t just cry listening to your wedding vows.
4. French Fry Cones
On your wedding day, keep your friends close and your French Fries closer! These drool-worthy snack time companions can reasonably accompany your guests while you exchange rings.
5. Pizza Pies
Fill your wedding with positivity and pizza pies. We are sure that your guests will fall in love with this gourmet snack with the first bite. Crunchy and flavourful crust loaded with extra cheese will leave you wanting more!
6. Pizza Bar
No matter what happens, pizza will always be there for you, thick and thin, in the crust we trust. So set up a Pizza Bar at your wedding and trust the game that follows!
7. Oyster Bar
Let’s bring the oceans to your feet with delicious oyster loaded bar tables. A tremendous little oyster station always tops the charts when it comes to fantastic wedding food ideas.
8. Waffle Bites
We hope that you and your partner go along like waffles and coffee. Setting up a small waffle corner to help your single guests find themselves people with similar tastes catalyzes falling in love at a wedding. It will make a great love story, and you and your partner will be dawned as the matchmakers.
9. Spanish Paella
Spanish Paella is theperfect menu option to add to your wedding day. Don’t be surprised if all you end up doing is passing the Sangria and Paella because this one does garner all the attention!
10. Ice Cream Bar
The only thing that can make your wedding day better is an Ice Cream Bar. After all, ice cream is always a good idea. Choco-chip, vanilla, blueberry, cookies and cream, buttered pecans are our top picks amongst the never-ending options.
11. Candy Floss Station
Reminisce your childhood with your partner with these sugar-laden candies. Also, pastel pinks will amplify your decor. Set up an enchanted Candy Floss Station and make your dream wedding come true because dreams taste like candy floss!
12. Doughnut Wall
The key ingredients to any successful wedding are rings, be it diamonds or doughnuts! These Doughnut walls will fortify a strong bond for your marriage and leave the guests busy helping themselves. Doughnuts are incredibly delicious with their signature bakery taste and texture.
13. Fried Asparagus
Even if you don’t care for asparagus, you will love these super crunchy and crispy Fried Asparagus. It’s cheesy, it’s crunchy, and goes well with all kinds of dinners.
14. Popcorn Station
Life is salty, but love is sweet. Your guests will help themselves with this tasty treat! Thank the popcorns for popping to celebrate your W-Day. Keep the love popping with some salty and some caramelized popcorns.
15. Churro Bites
Your guests are the cinnamon to your Churro wedding. Satiate your taste buds with these delectable options to add to your menu because these will brighten moods and enliven the evening. Get these handy bites to control your hunger pangs.
16. Bubble Tea
No cup is going to be your last with a Bubble Tea station nearby. Be ready for your wedding parTEA with some delicious cups of bubble tea. Besides, chocolate cookies can complement your high-tea party really well.
17. Chocolate-covered Bacon
Chocolate-covered bacon might win the award for the most heavenly dish on the platter as you can accumulate all the best flavours in just one plate. Having a corner for chocolate-covered bacon is definitely a win-win situation for the wedding to leave a long-lasting impression on the attendees.
18. Cake Pops
Are you stressed about your wedding? Well, stressed is desserts spelled backward, and what’s better than sharing a cake pop with your better half. Sugarcoat everything with a cake corner. After all, a piece of cake is happiness with icing on top.
19. Watermelon Pops
With all these fantastic wedding food ideas listed above, you might as well include some watermelon pops for an extremely relaxed wedding. All that standing and the last minute preparations need you to sit down and relax with some watermelon pops.
20. Omelette Bar
What’s better than cracking a joke to entertain your guests? Crack an egg, whisk it with your favourite ingredients into an omelette and top it off with your chosen seasonings! It will absolutely be a delight for your taste buds and your guests’.
Nothing brings together people like good food, and lasting impressions are given way through the palate. Spice up your wedding day with some fantastic flavors that will melt in your mouth and the wafting aroma to keep the stomachs of the guests rumbling.
These food options are our top picks to help you plan your perfect wedding. So make sure to use these wedding buffet ideas to add gorgeous looking and way tastier food options to capture enough limelight in your wedding album!
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Many of you might be thinking of hiring a wedding planner to plan your wedding and get your wedding venue decorated. But Wait! There’s another fantastic way in which you can get a stylish wedding touch on your own.
Yes, you’ve read it correctly, you can do it on your own, and that’s why we’re here with the best DIY wedding decoration ideas that will truly amaze your guests.
So, if you both fall under the umbrella of budget-friendly or décor-savvy couples who want to tackle the decoration process independently, then prepare to be the best temporary wedding planner your wedding ceremony will ever see!
From Bride & Groom Bucket List to Photo Family Tree, the 16 best DIY Wedding Ideas mentioned below will genuinely embrace your wedding ceremony’s beauty.
1. Use Bridebook’s Free Wedding Planning App
Become your own wedding planner with the Bridebook app. Search for wedding venues, and all the wedding suppliers you need like caterers, photographers, florists and so much more!
So what are you waiting for? Sign up and download the free Bridebook Wedding Planning App now!
2. Bride & Groom Bucket List
Similar to the guestbook, another popular and unique idea is the Bride & Groom Bucket List. It is super fun and also relatively easy to create. In this list, you can add all the things that you and your partner can do together to strengthen your love and bond.
This will be a fun and creative idea for you and your partner and will surely give you some fantastic ideas for activities to do during your wedding.
3. Ribbon Tied Chairs
Another unique way to add style to your wedding is by making the chairs look more impressive – tie beautiful ribbons around the back of the chairs.
Chair décor is one of the most overlooked details at the wedding, and the right embellishments or the wedding chair décor ideas will genuinely create a dramatic look for your special day.
4. Blackboard Wedding Program
While planning a wedding, it is vital to have a program so that the guests can have an idea of what will be happening in the entire wedding ceremony. For this, you can be creative enough by using a blackboard or a chalkboard to chalk out the complete wedding program.
5. Paper Lanterns
Paper lanterns are beautiful enough that they will truly embrace your wedding décor.
The paper made lanterns will spark the inspiration to create your own one of a kind environment for your wedding day without breaking the bank. Paper lanterns are easy to make, which will combine lighting with table décor.
6.Self Portrait Guest Book
Ditch the photo guest book and just ask your artistic guests and relatives to draw self-portraits. You can allow space to your guests to fill it in with their amazing artwork and signatures, and the coloured Sharpies add to the fun.
7.Hanging Flowers
The hanging flowers or the flower chandeliers work amazingly to add beauty to your wedding. Wedding trends may come and go, but the trend of hanging flowers will remain the same.
Hanging flowers of different colors or the flower chandeliers will surely give your wedding a garden-fresh feel that your guests will truly love.
8. Pineapple Vase Centrepieces
With so many ideas of centrepieces, you can ditch all of them and give a try to the most trendy Pineapple Vase Centrepiece.
Hallowed pineapples will make a perfect and eye-catching Whimsical Pineapple vase that will truly capture your guests’ interest. The Pineapple Vase Centrepieces will look the best with the tropical flower blends.
9. Custom Balloons
The colorful custom balloons will liven up your wedding event and will surely give a fantastic look to your wedding.
The various sizes, shapes, and colors of custom balloons are available easily online. You can get customized according to your need with cute pictures or cheeky slogans.
10. Bow Tie Napkins
Bow Tie Napkins are truly loved by all, and they give a cute and unique touch to the wedding décor ideas.
Instead of placing the napkins generally on the table, you can create a bow-tie shape of the napkins that will embrace the beauty of the table and will indeed prove to be a great tablescape at your wedding.
11. Flower Walls
Floral Floral on the wall, they are the prettiest of them all! Flowers are a crucial part of the wedding, and right from the dainty wedding elements to the boisterous decorations, the presence of flowers embraces the entire wedding look.
A plethora of colorful flowers bunched together into a wall will look surreal and will take your wedding pictures to the next level.
12. Giant Paper Flowers
The giant paper flowers look amazing when they are part of a backdrop installation. Make a lot of giant paper flowers of different colors, and then combine all of them to be a part of the backdrop installation. This will give an eye-popping look to your wedding decoration.
13.Woodland Floral Centrepieces
As said earlier that flowers are an essential part without which the wedding décor is incomplete. So here we are with another flower décor idea that involves Woodland Inspired Floral Centrepieces.
If you plan a rustic themed wedding, you can ditch the flower vases and display flowers in old tree logs that will give a unique touch of earthy vibes to your wedding.
14. Blanket Wedding Aisle
Your grand entrance right down the aisle is one of the most unique and special moments during your wedding.
There are amazing aisle runners out there, but you can be creative enough by using colourful blankets as an innovative alternative to aisle runners. It will surely fit perfectly in any of the wedding themes.
15. Customised Lawn Games
To add some kind of fun and spark to your wedding, you can arrange some customised lawn games for your guests to keep your guests engaged. With the best wedding lawn games, you can keep guests of all ages entertained at an outdoor wedding.
So, if you have a large lawn to work with, then it may be fun to set up multiple games so that everyone who wants to play can get a chance.
16. Photo Family Tree
Last but not least, a photo family tree is a great way to enhance the look of your wedding décor.
For this, you just need pictures of your family and your couple’s photos, some decoration elements like ribbons, lights, and maybe even a tree. And then you can decorate the tree and hang the pictures on it with ribbon. This will look pretty amazing.
So, how did you find these fantastic DIY Wedding Decoration Ideas? Aren’t they amazing? These DIY wedding ideas are budget-friendly, and they will let you create a whole new stylish look at your wedding without costing you much.
So what are you waiting for? Just grab the required items that you will need and start preparing for creating an excellent DIY wedding decoration.
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This year has been an impossibly hard one for the wedding industry, but our industry is a resilient one. With 86% of 2020 wedding bookings now falling into 2021, Bridebook predicts that 2022 will be the biggest bumper year in wedding industry history. It is time for you to save your business, by focusing your marketing efforts on the future. Bridebook has developed a 4 step strategy to help you sell your business back to success and to make it through 2020.
STEP 1: Decide on a realistic timescale for a return of meaningful weddings.
The first step is for you, to decide when you think you’ll be able to sell ‘meaningful’ weddings again. By this, we mean weddings in a more ‘normal’ state: more guests, more flexibility and most importantly, more room for profit.
A survey in the UK Wedding Venues Slack Group showed that 60% of venues would suggest March 2021 as the very earliest for the return of meaningful weddings. You need to be considering what this means for your business in terms of potential loss and then get creative with your short term venue & marketing.
How can you support your business and bring in revenue now? Here are a few of our short term recommendations:
Host 30 person weddings, as long as there’s a return on investment (ROI): The Government update of 9th September limits social gatherings, indoors and outdoors, to 6 people only. Whilst this may feel like a step back, the good news is that this does not include weddings, which can go ahead with receptions of 30 people. Venues have been battling huge challenges of couples wanting refunds, only to go and host bigger receptions at home or in the pub. Couples who wanted refunds are already starting to request receptions for 30, now that their plans have been made ‘illegal’. Venues need to use this update to their maximum advantage, and market all availability for 30 person receptions to keep revenue, even if small ROI, coming in.
Got accommodation? Host families or small groups of friends as a B&B or holiday venue. A great example of this is how Hedsor House has flipped their marketing to being a ‘luxury country retreat’ and offering takeover of the venue to families, friends or couples.
Lights, camera, ACTION! Could your beautiful, unique, quirky venue be used for filming?! There are many location agencies (eg Lavish Locations & Shoot Factory) that promote venues to location agencies and then take a commission.
Get your chefs cooking up a storm – why not turn your venue into a temporary restaurant? Quantock Lakes have launched “Kitchen at Quantock Lakes” – allowing them to welcome new guests and most importantly, bring in new revenue.
Whilst we wait for meaningful weddings to return, we also highly recommend doing a cost-cutting exercise for your venue. Are there any ‘less necessary’ overheads you can forgo for the time being? Spending the time going back through your books and cutting even a few overheads (e.g. phone bills) could mean assuring keeping a team member, paying an electricity bill and saving your business.
STEP 2: Focus your attention 2022
The second step is to focus your mind on 2022 (and beyond). The lack of news from the Government is keeping our attention focused on the here and now. Not helped by the combination of the old and new CMA guidance, which is forcing venues into a myriad of legal issues. To avoid putting your head in the sand and digging yourself into a worse cash position, start focusing on 2022 and its revenue-generating potential.
Bridebook statistics prove that the future is much more secure and has the potential to save your business:
17,500 couples have signed up to Bridebook since the beginning of August (+15% YOY) clearly showing that the business for 2022 & beyond is readily available for you to secure.
Roughly 50% of these users are planning their wedding in 2022 or later.
For the users who have put 2021 as their wedding year, 60% are planning to have their wedding in the second half of the year.
57% of all enquiries sent since the beginning of August are for 2022 or later.
Couples are ready to pay deposits and secure their future wedding dates now. Deposits taken for future bookings gives you money in the bank and keeps your business tick over.
What actions can you take immediately to support 2020 revenue generation…?
STEP 3: Take action and turn 2022 into a bumper year for your business.
The third step to consider is how to start marketing your 2022 (and beyond) to ensure that it is your best year yet. 2022 is likely to be the year that saves the wedding industry – so how can you make the most of it?
Review your existing 2022 calendar – get a strong view on your availability – what dates, months, seasons are currently available for bookings? Use this knowledge to frame your marketing efforts. E.g. if you have a large amount of Autumn and Winter dates available, how can you use imagery to highlight these dates specifically?
Challenge yourself with the number of weddings you can host. Which days can you host weddings on – can you do more?
For example, if you usually only host 2 weddings per week, see if you can host 3, or even 4.
Stretch yourself to make the maximum amount of revenue during this undoubtedly busy year – this is your opportunity to recover your losses.
Set clear KPIs and goals for you and your team, to ensure you are motivated to hit sales targets for 2022 & beyond.
Focus on marketing your high value, priority dates first. Get the peak season dates sold first, as these deposits will do more to support your business in the short term.
Selling all your Saturdays in July and August for 2022 would give your venue security for that year, and also cash flow to get you through these hard times now.
If your venue only has a summer license – can you re-address this? Can you start doing events in the shoulder season, or winter, to increase your opportunity for revenue?
Local councils may be more flexible with licensing, so it is worth asking.
Don’t forget to push sales into your ‘off-days’, and use your pricing strategy to support you.
Similarly to above, you can use your dynamic pricing to push your mid-week dates, just as you can with your seasonal dates. E.g. “That Friday is booked, but the day before is free and is £XX less.”
Make the time to review your Pricing Strategy – pricing is your most powerful lever for revenue growth.
Ensure your prices are dynamic, so you can increase your volume of sales significantly, and achieve a higher marginal price on each of these additional weddings.
For example, you should have very different prices for your Saturday in August, than a Tuesday in February.
You can use your dynamic pricing to fill your remaining dates & support your sales tactics. E.g. “Our September dates are busy but we have space in October and they are £XX less.
Review and optimise your Terms & Conditions for future bookings, to support healthy cash flow in the short term.
Securing upfront deposits and booking fees for weddings in 2021/2 will be vastly easier than finding the equivalent cost savings in 2020.
We have seen one venue make very smart amendments to their T&Cs so that the couple is “purchasing an option to use the facilities at VENUE “exclusively” of any other guests”. This has protected them during COVID. Couples are able to change the date but not liable for a refund.
Instead of using discounts for future sales, use upgrades (only if you need to!).
Upgrades impact your cost of sales, whereas discounts directly hit your net profit. Giving a free late-night extension worth £1000 has a vastly smaller financial impact to a £1000 discount.
Get creative with your marketing: how can you stand out from the crowd? Every venue will be jumping aboard the 2022 sales push, so you need to go above & beyond. Here are some things to think about:
Open day appointments/wedding fairs: how can you host these safely? Or virtually?
Styled shoots: couples love to get inspiration for their own weddings through editorial pieces. Who can you partner with? Make sure to share it like mad after!
Winter weddings: can you use any weddings from this Christmas in your marketing, to support sales for the 2021/22 festive seasons?
Special Offers: how can you make booking far in advance irresistible to couples – what can you offer them?
Reach out to your Bridebook Venue Expert and become a VenuePro member today.
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STEP 4: Don’t forget 2023
We foresee 2022 as the bumper year to recover the wedding industry. Whilst you should be prioritising filling your 2022 calendar, we also highly recommend being prepared for the end of 2021 AND 2023 as they have the potential to be extremely busy as well.
You need to have your pricing strategy for 2023 in place sooner rather than later, so you do not lose out on potential business.
By putting Bridebook’s 4 Step strategy into action, you will be able to recover from 2020 and save your business. As our industry continues to go through such difficult times, remember that things will get better. Our industry is a resilient one, and people will never stop getting married – we just have to make it through the storm.
Bridebook are here to help our wonderful community as much as possible, so don’t hesitate to reach out. Our brilliant team of Venue Consultants would be delighted to chat with any venue wanting to learn how we can support you with our premium platform, VenuePro – just leave your details HERE.
We also highly encourage all venues to join the conversation. We have over 1000 venue professionals using the UK Wedding Venues Slack Group to communicate with each other every single day. Join for free now and make the most of valuable and supportive business advice and knowledge.
I (Hamish Shephard, CEO & Founder of Bridebook) would like to share a very important update on the CMA guidance on refunds for wedding venues and suppliers. Details of the CMA’s agreement with Bijou Weddings have been released and the outcome gives extremely valuable insight on what is deemed as fair and reasonable by the CMA. Here is the key information:
THE CMA concluded the fair and reasonable amount Bijou could retain was up to 37.2% from weddings affected by COVID from 24th March 2020:
The CMA allowed retained costs to include proportions of planning costs, staff costs, venue repair and renewal, and cleaning or gardening amongst others.
This gives much further clarity to the CMA’s most recent guidance of 7th September, which has been regularly misinterpreted as a directive for full refunds.
The CMA’s breakdown is explained here:
The CEO of the CMA, Andrea Coscelli, confirmed the CMA’s confidence in the Bijou settlement as a benchmark for the industry in September. “It is good news that Bijou has agreed to offer fairer levels of refunds to its customers, and we encourage other firms in the industry to follow suit“
Another key part of the Bijou agreement was that the CMA confirmed that “Bijou will not have to give refunds to people who have already received, or are going to receive, their money back through their insurance.” This again puts pressure on the insurers to honour and payout on their insurance contracts.
We know discussion on refunds has been an incredibly tense and challenging topic for wedding businesses and couples over recent months, and hope this insight aids in reaching fair and amicable outcomes for both parties.
At Bridebook, we strongly encourage that the optimal outcome for all parties is postponement, rather than cancellation, in the majority of cases. This allows couples and businesses to not forgo incurred costs, for businesses to retain this future business, and all parties to enjoy the celebration at a later date.
We believe this insight into the CMA’s opinion will help give ongoing business confidence to wedding companies, give existing couples increasing confidence in their venue and suppliers, and adds needed pressure on the insurers.
I know these times are incredibly tough. The rollercoaster seems to never end, and the end is not yet in sight. But stay strong. We will get there.
2021 and 2022 will be incredibly busy wedding years. The COVID backlog of weddings will ensure the rapid recovery of our industry, the reflourishing of our wonderful businesses and the joy of hundreds of thousands of couples. Bridebook and I are dedicated to ensuring everyone gets there. This week, I have been on BBC News live and BBC Radio 4 live fighting for our industry and will continue to do so.
If I or the Bridebook team can help you in any way or you’d like to discuss anything further, please email [email protected].
The latest official guidance from the CMA can always be found here: https://www.gov.uk/government/collections/cma-covid-19-response#updates-from-the-cma
Stay strong,
Hamish Shephard
7th September 2020: CMA News Update
Wedding professionals, particularly venues, have been one of the most hard hit and under supported groups of businesses through the COVID-19 pandemic. Our industry, usually so full of joy and love, has been plagued by financial and emotional stress as weddings are postponed and cancelled. And sadly, the majority of venues are still sitting empty through our industry’s peak season
There will likely be an increase in requests for historic refunds / settlements from previous couples
The CMA want the venue to split the consumed costs with the couple, so be aware of this
We expect venues will be having even more difficult discussions with couples, as they have the CMA guidance on their side
As always, we recommend that venues remain firm and fair: do the absolute best for your couples whilst protecting your business. Also, do remember that whilst these guidelines are presented by the CMA to encourage reasonable and fair behaviour, the final determination of individual scenarios would only be given by a judge via a court escalation. For more information on this please read Explanation of CMA Guidance on Weddings & Refunds.
This guidance may not be what we wanted to read, but now more than ever, we must hold our heads high and continue to support each other. We must look to the brighter future to get through the ongoing difficult times we face.
How can you support influencing CMA advice, as a venue?
When the CMA first released their guidance on business refunds due to the pandemic, the Association of British Wedding Businesses’ Venues Committee members were impacted as venue owners, along with much of the wider industry with customer refund claims and threats of action from the CMA. They considered the guidance to be unbalanced and unfair, so formed the Wedding Venues Support Group (WVSG) to mount a legal challenge on the CMA. Over 170 venues have joined the Company and pledged over £60,000, used to instruct solicitors and deliver Target One, outlined in this flyer.
In light of the new CMA guidance, the WVSG are continuing their mission and are asking more venues to join this industry wide wedding venue initiative, as a united front. You can join as a member and pledge to support their fund HERE. New members will receive the full benefits of Target One legal advice and defences, and their subscriptions will be used to fund (for the benefit of all Members) Target Two, a Wedding Industry Standard Contract based on Counsel’s expert opinion, designed to be authoritative and CMA proof. If you have any questions, please email the team at [email protected].
Keep looking ahead – the future is brighter!
Keeping your head up and pushing to fill the diary with bookings for 2022 and beyond is the only way to keep afloat through these tricky times. The new CMA guidelines mean venues may need to issue a higher number of refunds, so continuing to bring in new revenue to support your cash flow is crucial. The end of 2021 and 2022 are going to be the busiest years for weddings in history, so now is the time to be securing that business as early as possible. After all, the pandemic has not stopped couples getting engaged; Bridebook has seen 17,500 new couples sign up since the beginning of August, which is up 15% YOY!
The Government update of 9th September limits social gatherings, indoors and outdoors, to 6 people only. Whilst this may feel like a step back, the good news is that this does not include weddings, which can go ahead with receptions of 30 people. Venues have been battling huge challenges of couples wanting refunds, only to go and host bigger receptions at home or in the pub. Couples who wanted refunds are already starting to request receptions for 30, now that their plans have been made ‘illegal’. Venues need to use this update to their maximum advantage, and market all availability for 30 person receptions to keep revenue coming in.
There are many ways to support your revenue stream to get through the storm. We highly recommend optimising your Terms & Conditions to promote a healthy cash flow. For example, securing upfront deposits & booking fees for future weddings will be much easier than trying to find the equivalent cost savings this year.
Secondly, make sure you take the time to review your Pricing Strategy. Pricing is your single biggest lever for revenue growth as a venue, so ensure you are being dynamic. For example, you should have very different prices for your Saturday in August, than a Tuesday in February – you need to be thinking how you can use your dynamic pricing to support your sales. Hamish Shephard, Bridebook CEO & Founder will be hosting a virtual Masterclass on creating a pricing strategy and using it to recover your business, so watch this space!
Finally, in order to be securing those new bookings, you need to get your venue in front of couples. This is not the time to drop your venue marketing – quite the opposite! Make sure you keep up your social media, website content and keep any online profiles up to date. If you are a VenuePro member, make sure you keep your Account Manager informed of any Special Offers you are promoting so we can push them to our community. If you are not a VenuePro member and would like to see how we can boost your marketing, please leave your details HERE. For advice on how to make the most of your social platforms, how to build content, the benefits of video tours and more, see our articles & videos here.
We are stronger together.
Our community is like no other; we are so lucky to be surrounded by genuinely caring, fun and resilient individuals in the wedding industry. Whilst coronavirus has caused terrible times for our industry, the one positive has been wedding venues coming closer together, which continues to be crucial during these turbulent times. The UK Wedding Venues Slack Group has been an incredible source of support for its 1000+ members, and we invite any venue who is not yet a member to join. A recent survey showed that 87% members would recommend the group to a friend, so what are you waiting for! We have been uplifted seeing venues coming together in all sorts of ways; whether it is to offer advice on a tricky situation, share personal experiences or just to jump on a video call with a glass of wine to de-stress.
Whilst the updated CMA guidelines are not what our industry was hoping for, we urge our venue community to not feel defeated. By working together, continuing to push for support from the Government and maintaining a view for the future, we will get through this.
Whether you’re newly engaged or only a few weeks from your big day, we’re sure you’re imagining what your big day will look like. And that means thinking about decorations! Now, there are thousands of wedding decoration ideas to choose from that transform your venue into a real show-stopper. Here’s fifteen of our favourites to get you started.
1. Fairylights
Everyone loves fairylights – and for good reason! They’re an easy way to add a little atmosphere to your big day. Your venue will look even more enchanting, lit up with twinkling fairylights in jam jars or along the walls. You could even string them through trees to create an enchanted forest feel.
2. Floral Arches
Whether you go for a more rustic arch that’s full of greenery and wildflowers or an elaborate floral sculpture which is overflowing with fresh blossoms, flower arches make for a fantastic focal point at your wedding ceremony or reception. In our opinion, more is more when it comes to flowers!
3. Chair Decorations
It’s easy to overlook but we promise, giving a little thought to how you’ll decorate your chairs makes a big difference to the overall look and feel of your ceremony. As they say, the devil’s in the details! Whether you’re stuck with ugly plastic seating or you’ve brought in some gorgeous antique chairs, adding ribbons, fabric or flowers is a great way to take your wedding decorations to the next level.
4. Photo Walls
While you and your partner are at the centre of your wedding, it’s also about your two families coming together. Pay tribute to your loved ones with a gallery wall displaying photographs of your nearest and dearest. You could even give your guests polaroid cameras and add to the wall during your reception!
5. Candles
Candles are a classic way to add a little atmosphere to any wedding ceremony or reception, no matter what your chosen style or theme. The options are endless, from tealights and votives to pillar and taper candles. Whether you use them as table centerpieces or dot them around your venue, your guests will be enchanted. And if you choose fragranced candles, they’ll even add a signature scent to your wedding!
6. Mirror Decals
Why not put a twist on traditional wedding signs by opting for mirror decals instead? They’re fast becoming one of the most popular wedding decoration trends, with gorgeous calligraphy popping up on ornate framed mirrors across the country. And everyone loves a mirror selfie – so they make for great photo ops too!
7. Chalkboards
Take a leaf out of your favourite coffee shop’s book and add a chalkboard to your wedding venue. Chalkboards are a super easy, DIY wedding decoration idea – and they’re functional too! You can use them to welcome your guests, direct them to their seats or display your menu.
8. Giant Letters
These have been popping up at weddings more and more over the last few years – and they’re definitely here to stay! Whether you keep things simple with you and your partner’s initials or spell out a special message, giant letters are a fab way to personalise your big day. If you’re going for a more modern wedding, tarnished metal and exposed bulbs will give your decorations an industrial feel, while those of you having rustic barn weddings might want to consider distressed wood instead. You can even position the letters so that they define different areas – for example, separating the dance floor from a quieter area.
9. Table Lamps
An easy way to add atmosphere to any room? Turn off the overhead lights. Opting for the soft, diffused light of table lamps instead will instantly take your wedding venue to the next level. We especially love table lamps for intimate weddings – their warm glow creates a gorgeously cosy feel.
10. Bespoke Table Plans
Yes, they’re a necessity – but that doesn’t mean your table plan has to be strictly functional! After all, all your guests will stop and look at it – so get creative and make it part of your wedding decorations. If you’ve opted for bespoke wedding stationery, why not see if your designer will make you a table plan that ties in with it? Or roll your sleeves up and get DIYing!
11. Ceiling Drapes
Instantly transform any venue with ceiling drapes. Whatever your wedding colours, you’ll be able to find a fabric to match. For a formal wedding, you might want to go for an elegant brilliant white, while soft linens are perfect for a more relaxed, rustic vibe. Or opt for brightly coloured fabrics to create a joyful atmosphere and lift your guests’ spirits!
12. Flower Walls
Flowers are a must at any wedding – so why not take things one step further with a whole flower wall? Focus on flowers that tie in with your wedding colours to keep things cohesive and create a fab focal point for your venue. Your guests will be completely wowed by the extravagant display – and it’s a fantastic spot for photographs too!
13. Signage
We’re sure you’ll need at least one sign at your wedding (even if it’s just for the loos!) so why not spend a little time making them decorations that tie in with your wedding theme? You’ll need a few practical signs to let people know where to go – try mixing in some extra signs printed with cute sayings and funny expressions to keep things fun!
14. Neon Signs
A quick scroll through Instagram is proof enough that neon signs are here to stay! Whether you dot lots of smaller ones around your venue or place one statement piece in a key location, there are countless ways to incorporate neon signs into your wedding decorations.
15. Coloured Glassware
To take your tablescapes to the next level, consider coloured glassware. You can find coloured glassware to suit all wedding styles and themes, from glamourous vintage pieces to sleek modern designs.You could even choose glassware in your wedding colours to tie everything together.
There you go – fifteen fabulous wedding decoration ideas to transform your wedding venue. So what are you waiting for? Hit the shops or get DIYing and make your wedding venue a showstopper!