Month: June 2023

How to Save Money on a Wedding Marquee

Now that couples in the UK can legally get married outdoors, wedding marquees are growing in popularity. If you dreamed of getting married in the middle of a vineyard or deep within the rolling British countryside, you can!

But, thanks to the great British weather being as volatile and unpredictable as it is, you won’t want to risk a washout in the event it decides to drizzle…  or worse.

That’s where a wedding marquee comes in. It’s a fantastic way to add cover and customisation to your wedding. Even if you’re not getting married outside, many couples hire a marquee anyway to add more indoor space to their venue.

But, hiring a marquee isn’t always the cheapest option. In the UK, couples spend an average of £4,200 on a wedding marquee, which is a significant amount when you consider that the average overall cost of a wedding is £20,775.

If the cost is putting you off of having a marquee at your wedding, then don’t start making alternative plans just yet. In this post, we’re going to take a look at how you can save money on a wedding marquee and what you need to look out for so as not to exceed your budget.

Is it cheaper to hire a marquee for your wedding instead of hiring a venue?

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In general, the cost of a marquee can be more affordable than hiring a venue. The average cost of a wedding venue is £9,877 with catering included, and £6,084 without catering. But, if you’re not careful, then the costs involved with a marquee can spiral, which means it might not be any kinder to your budget. Hiring an all-inclusive venue which includes catering can often be the most cost-effective option overall (as just hiring a marquee won’t factor this in). 

What is the cheapest type of marquee to hire?

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There are a variety of different marquee types you can hire for your wedding, which includes everything from a tipi to a circus tent. Generally, the more premium it is, the more customisable it is, and the more difficult to transport and set up it is, the more expensive it will be to hire.

One of the cheapest types of marquee to hire is a circus-style tent – costs at Bigtopmania start from as low as £100. But, if you’re looking for something a little less niche, a traditional marquee, a clearspan marquee or a pole marquee are among the most affordable. However, the costs will generally start at around £1,500+ for each, depending on the size you need. Of course, the more guests you invite, the larger your marquee will need to be.

Can you save money by buying a marquee rather than hiring?

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Large marquees are expensive, so it more than likely won’t save you any money if you decide to buy one, and even cost more. You may be able to buy a marquee for around £500, but it won’t nearly be big enough to host your wedding – in fact, a marquee for that amount will probably fit in your average back garden.

If you’re looking to hire a marquee that will accommodate 100 guests, it’s far more budget-friendly to hire one rather than buy one. Hiring costs will also include setup and takedown fees and you won’t have to worry about where you’re going to store your marquee once your wedding’s over.

Are there additional costs with hiring a marquee?

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When compared to hiring a venue, a marquee can initially seem like a far more affordable option. But, it’s important to bear in mind that hire costs don’t include the site rental, power generator, staff, toilet hire, furniture hire or insurance costs. You may also need to hire a second marquee for the catering staff, which can significantly add to your costs.

Do you need marquee insurance?

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It may be another additional cost, but you will need to secure marquee insurance in the event something unexpected happens on your big day. Insurance will cover you and your guests, and while it’s yet another thing to pay for, it could potentially save you many thousands. If you have wedding insurance (which we really recommend) then you should check with your insurer if your marquee is included in this cover (as basic cover rarely includes). The good news is that you can add marquee cover as an additional premium… the not-so-good news is that it will cost – usually around £50 on top of what you’re already paying.

5 ways to save money on a wedding marquee

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If a marquee is a big part of your wedding plans, then there are ways you can save money. Here are five tips to help you spend less on a wedding marquee so you can have your dream wedding without breaking the back. 

1. Hire from a company outside of London

When deciding on a cheap marquee rental company to hire if you’re on a tight budget, try to choose one that isn’t based in London. As with most professional services and vendors, those located in London naturally cost a little (or a lot) more than those found outside the capital. The same applies to hiring a marquee – after all, storing a marquee when it’s not set up takes up a huge amount of space, which is expensive for London businesses. If you can, hire a local company or one that doesn’t call anywhere inside the M25 their home.

2. Avoid peak dates

Just like with any other vendor or service you may hire for your wedding, including your venue and caterers, if your wedding takes place during peak times, it will cost more – sometimes several thousands more. The most popular times to get married are during the summer months and at the weekend, so if you’re thinking about getting married during either (or both) of these then expect to pay more for marquee rental when competition is highest. 

If you can, consider getting married during off-peak times, such as during the winter or midweek. Hiring a marquee for a Tuesday wedding in February will be considerably kinder to your budget than a Saturday wedding in August.

3. Make good use of the space

As you’ve no doubt realised, marquees can be pretty huge – especially if you want one that fits 100 guests. However, it’s important to remember that you and your guests won’t be the only bodies inside your marquee. You also have to consider the staff you hire, including where the catering team is going to prepare your food, and if there’s room for a DJ and dance floor.

So, you may need to go one or two sizes bigger to make sure all the relevant vendors have room, too. If not, then be prepared to hire a second, smaller marquee – which could cost you even more.

The good news is, you can get creative with the space to prevent the need for going bigger. For example, during the wedding breakfast, you can put tables on the dance floor which can be quickly moved out of the way before the evening reception. With a little musical chairs action you can get the most out of the space you have, which will save you some money.

4. Make your booking early (or late!)

Hiring a marquee for a wedding is growing in popularity, especially since laws in the UK changed to allow couples to get married wherever they like. As a result, marquee rental companies tend to fill up their availability many months in advance. If you’re keen to hire a marquee, then make sure you secure your booking early – the closer to the date you book, the more expensive it can be (not to mention more difficult to find availability). Plus, if you book really early you might even be able to secure a juicy discount.

That said, taking the opposite approach can also save you money in certain cases, depending on the provider. Here at Bridebook, we have a range of wedding marquee providers who offer exclusive last-minute discounts.

Another important tip when making your booking: ensure the price you’re quoted is fixed so it won’t go up at a later date due to inflation or other reasons.

5. Book a package deal 

Remember earlier in this article when we mentioned how, on top of the costs involved with hiring your marquee, there were additional costs on top of this? Well, some wedding marquee vendors, such as Capri Marquees, Tailor-made Marquees and Grice Foster event hire, offer package deals that include many of these extras, such as furniture, decor and power. Booking a package will be far more budget-friendly than booking each part from a separate vendor.

That said, make sure you take the time to compare both options to make sure you really are getting the best deal in your specific situation. 

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How to Save Money on Wedding Music

The soundtrack to your wedding is one that you’ll remember forever. From the soft and soothing music as the two of you lock eyes for the first time on the big day, to the crowd-pleasing bangers your guests will dance to throughout the night, music plays a huge part in a wedding.

And that’s one of the reasons why wedding music can be so pricey. The average amount couples spend on wedding music is £1,800, which is a huge chunk of the £20,775 spent on the average wedding in the UK.

But, with music being such a vital part of your wedding, it might be a non-negotiable for you and your spouse-to-be. Thankfully, there are plenty of ways you can save money if you’re on a more restrictive budget.

In this post, we’re going to take a look at how you can save money on music at your wedding while still making sure your day hits all the right notes.

Why is wedding music so expensive?

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Music literally plays such a big part in your wedding day. There’s music playing as your guests arrive, at the ceremony itself, welcoming guests to the breakfast, and of course long into the night. So, the costs quickly add up.

On top of this, when you’re hiring musicians and DJs, you also have to bear in mind that you’re paying for their skill and professionalism, their expensive equipment and setup fees, their travel and time, and often, in the case of wedding-specific professionals, their experience at working weddings . And of course, the more musicians you’re paying, the more expensive it’s going to be.

These costs are in addition to any non-musical entertainment you may also wish to have (such as magicians and lawn games), so saving money on your music can help you to have a wide range of entertainers at your wedding.

10 ways to save money on wedding music

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If music is important to you and you know it’s something that has to play a vital role in your day, then it doesn’t necessarily have to cost a ton. Below are 10 ways you can save money on wedding music.

1. Choose a DJ over a band

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A great wedding band can set you back by more than £1,000, which is quite a big chunk of change. However, a DJ is generally half the cost and sometimes even less, and therefore kinder on your budget. If you’re still umming and ahhing, check out our post on how to choose between a band and a DJ. 

2. Choose a solo artist

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If live music is important to you, the most affordable option in most cases is to hire a solo artist. Remember, while a band will generally set you back four figures, a solo singer will typically cost a similar amount to a DJ. Depending on what you’re going for, they may also play an instrument, such as a guitar or piano, or have pre-recorded backing music. 

3. Hire a band with fewer members

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The main reason a band tends to be so expensive is simply because there are more musicians who need to be paid, as well as instruments and equipment. When you hire a band, generally speaking, the more members there are, the more expensive it’ll be. So, to lower costs, why not choose a band with three or four members, rather than five or six? In this case, less is less!

The same applies to classical musicians, with a harpist or cellist usually being more affordable than a string quartet (though this isn’t a hard-and-fast rule). 

4. Go the DIY route

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It might not be the most glamorous way to entertain your guests, but it’s possible to do your music yourself if keeping costs low is your no. 1 priority. All you need is a decent sound system, which your chosen venue might already have, and a smartphone with the right adapter. Then, with a few well-chosen Spotify playlists, you can ensure your wedding has music playing non-stop into the night.

As ever with the DIY approach, bear in mind going down this route comes with its own risks. A professional won’t just provide top-quality, professional-sounding music, but also provide the best possible service so you can just relax and enjoy the biggest party of your life. If something goes wrong with your own music, you’ll be the one who’ll have to sort it out, and be ready with a backup plan. 

5. Ask music students

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If there’s a performing arts school or conservatoire close to your chosen venue, why not approach them and ask whether there are music students available to perform at your wedding? Not only will it save you money, but students are enthusiastic and are sure to put on a great performance.

6. Hire local musicians

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Remember that it’s expensive to travel. If you’re hiring a band which has to travel 100 miles to reach your venue, then that’s going to add a huge amount to their rates both in travel and potentially in accommodation costs too. To keep costs down, make sure you hire local musicians and check how far their catchment area stretches before committing to booking them. 

To find bands and DJs close to you, check out our huge selection of wedding musicians. From bands to DJs and more, you’re sure to find the one for you!

7. Consider times carefully

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Be mindful that the longer you require a musician, the more you’ll have to pay. For example, if you hire a string quartet, you could ask them to play to welcome your guests, during the ceremony and during the breakfast. That means they’ll play for several hours, which can get rather expensive if you’re on a tight budget. To cut down costs, consider having them play before and during the ceremony, then switch to pre-recorded music later on. 

8. Have an off-peak wedding

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Wedding vendors across the board will usually charge premium rates during busy periods, such as during the summer months and at weekends – this includes musicians and DJs. Instead of a Saturday wedding in August, why not think about having it on a Tuesday in December instead? You’ll save money not only on your music, but also on everything from your venue to your catering.

9. Ask a musical acquaintance

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Have you got a sister who can hold a note or a group of mates who formed a band in sixth form? Recruit them to perform at your wedding! It’ll be great for them to be involved, you’ll save money and you’ll have loads of fun too.

Just make sure that they’re happy to perform and that their standards are high… and try not to rely on them TOO heavily (remember they’re not professionals, and so you can’t expect the same quality of performance and service). You could put together a cracking playlist for the gaps in between and after, or as a possible plan B. You could give your mates a thoughtful gift to thank them for putting on a show, or perhaps a drink or two to give them a little Dutch courage.

10. Don’t have live music at the ceremony

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Live music at your ceremony can turn a beautiful wedding into one that is truly memorable. However, that can come at a cost. To save money, pre-recorded music can be still be effective at creating a welcoming and romantic atmosphere – it just won’t be quite as unique. But, it’s important to remember that, first and foremost, your guests aren’t coming to your wedding to listen to live music – they’re coming to watch someone they love get married to the love of their life. 

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How to Plan a Forest Wedding Ceremony

Forest weddings are whimsical and beautiful. There’s nowhere better to declare your everlasting love than in an enchanting forest surrounded by birdsong and the beauty of nature.

But hold on tight, because planning a forest wedding isn’t just about picking a location and calling it a day! You need to balance the practical details like finding a venue, choosing a photographer, and inviting your beloved guests to your beautiful, nature-inspired backdrop.

So, whether you’re planning an intimate, elven ceremony tucked away under a canopy of trees, or a fabulous flower-strewn soirée, this article will be your go-to guide for turning your dreams into a magical reality.

Ready to learn how to have a wedding in a forest? Let’s dive in!

What is a forest wedding? 

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A forest wedding is either a full wedding ceremony and reception in a forest, or simply a wedding reception hosted in a forest. It’s a beautiful and unique way to celebrate your union amongst the sights and sounds of nature. 

Forest weddings offer endless possibilities for personalisation and creativity. Whether you’d like delicate, natural-inspired decor or a full-blown alternative wedding or eco-warrior wedding, you’ll have full control with a forest wedding.

⭐Did You Know: If you want to be legally married at your beautiful venue, double-check that the location of the wedding venue is an Approved Premises under the Marriages and Civil Partnerships (Approved Premises) Regulations 2005. If not, you may need to have the ceremony elsewhere and move to the forest for the reception. 

How popular are forest weddings?

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Forest weddings have become increasingly popular in recent years. Many couples are drawn to the natural beauty, tranquility, and enchanting atmosphere that forests offer as a wedding backdrop. 

In fact, according to our 2023 UK Wedding Report, over ¼ of wedding ceremonies took place outside. This includes the nearly one-in-five couples married in 2022 who opted for a “unique location or venue”, such as a boathouse, forest, or scenic loch. 

But while outdoor, alternative, and forest weddings are growing in popularity, they certainly won’t feel overdone. The peaceful vibe and privacy of a forest wedding are second to none, and with thoughtful planning, you can create a memorable and enchanting experience for you, your partner and your guests amidst the beauty of nature. 

Planning your dream forest wedding 

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Let’s check out some of the key steps you need to take and elements to consider when planning your forest wedding:

1. Pick your dream venue

Picking a venue is likely one of the first things you’ll do. It will be the backdrop of all your photographs and determine the size of your wedding. Make sure you visit lots of venues, chat with in-house wedding planners and discuss budgets before committing to a location. 

With our wedding venue search tool, you can filter by venue types such as ‘Outdoor’ and styles such as ‘Rustic’ to see exactly what’s out there. This tool will also give you an approximate price, number of bedrooms and how many guests the location can hold. These approximations can help structure the rest of your planning and help you decide where to have an enchanting forest wedding.

We’ve also hand-picked our favourite forest and woodland wedding venues in the UK, so that you can find the perfect one for your special day. 

Note that it may be difficult for external suppliers to make it to a wedding in a forest. So be prepared to factor in additional transport costs or pay for wedding insurance add-ons in case their stock is damaged.

2. Embrace nature-inspired decor & styling

Wedding decor can include anything from flowers and bouquets to tablescapes and fun photo booths. Incorporate wildflowers, ferns, moss and rustic wooden accents to create a whimsical and organic ambiance. 

Twine, dried flowers, moss, burlap and other natural elements from the forest are often free or low-cost and look beautiful. You could also use eco-friendly paper options or consider seed paper that guests can plant afterwards! Leave a little note with the seed paper explaining the symbolic gesture of your growth as a couple and your connection to nature.

The cost of this decor will depend on your vision and how much you’re willing to do yourself. The great thing about forest weddings is that you can often use natural elements like foliage, dried flowers and rustic elements in your decorations. This decor is easy to DIY, and there are tons of tutorials online. Doing it yourself can help reduce costs, while hiring a professional wedding stylist or florist can increase expenses.

To keep costs down even further, you could create your own invitations using dried flowers, cardstock and twine. This will contribute to the rustic theme and add a personal touch to your big day. If the task feels like too much to do on your own or you aren’t very handy, ask a trusted friend (with nice handwriting) to join you in a craft evening. Then, spend some time creating your wedding invites – you’ll be surprised how much fun you have!  

3. Don’t forget the essentials

This includes chairs, tables, lighting, sound systems and any necessary permits or license fees. Check with your venue whether they offer a package that includes these essentials to minimise costs.

If they don’t, look out for companies that offer plastic or polished wood furniture. These will be easier to clean and will contribute to the fresh, woodland theme.

4. Craft a woodland-inspired menu 

When hosting a forest wedding, try incorporating nature-inspired elements into your food offerings to create a memorable and cohesive experience for your guests. 

For example, try hosting a vegan buffet with farm-to-table ingredients. Alternatively, host a barbecue or rent food vans. These interactive catering experiences will contribute to the laid-back environment of a forest wedding and allow guests with different dietary requirements to manage their plate. Plus, you won’t need to print place cards reminding everyone what they ordered! 

5. Capture the magical moments

After putting so much work into your big day, capturing the special moments of your forest wedding is essential. 

Holding a forest wedding will allow for truly breathtaking wedding photography. With an ample supply of natural light and a beautiful backdrop, your wedding photos will be something to behold. Ask your photographer if they offer:

  • Wide-angle lenses. To capture as much of the beautiful forest as possible.
  • An indoor set-up in case of weather changes. Mother nature can be unpredictable, so opt for an experienced photographer who will be prepared for every eventuality. 
  • A candid photoshoot session. Candid moments convey genuine emotions and create a more authentic story of the wedding day. 
  • Retouching at the standard price. Although a forest backdrop makes for beautiful photos, the untameable foliage is likely to produce a few outof-place leaves or twigs. A talented photographer should be able to edit these out using software. However, you should check that this won’t come at extra cost. 

Not sure where to start? Check out our guide on expert tips for choosing your wedding photographer, and some key questions to ask before booking them for your special day.

🧠Pro Tip: Check out the photographer’s social media accounts as well as their portfolio when considering your options. Often, photographers will include behind-the-scenes information, their editing process and their favourite angles to use on their social media accounts. This will help you understand whether they’re the right fit for your wedding or not. 

6. Combine practicality with style

When considering what to wear to a forest wedding, it’s important to consider the landscape. For example, if you live in an area that has a lot of rainfall, you might want to choose a shorter dress to ensure no mud catches on your hems.

If you really want to lean into the floral, boho theme, look for materials that have flower appliques or lace fabrics. In addition, breathable, flowing fabrics will keep you comfortable all day. Oh, and maybe leave the heels at home!

7. Don’t forget the rings

Wedding rings are one of the most important details of your wedding and an investment piece you’ll wear for the rest of your life. Be sure to pick wedding rings you love and ensure someone reliable has them on the big day.

If you’re looking for something bespoke, there are jewellers who can combine natural elements into your wedding bands. For example, sand from a beach, flower petals, or clay from the forest floor. This material is usually sealed in resin to create an unusual contrast with the metal of the ring. Or, consider having hand-crafted wedding bands – we particularly love Eco Wood Rings, lovingly made from sustainably sourced or salvaged wood and recycled precious metals. 

How much does a forest wedding cost?

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The cost of a forest wedding can vary greatly depending on several factors. This includes your location, head count, wedding attire, the decor and your personal preferences. 

Did you know that the average cost of a wedding in 2023 is £19,184, or £24,069 including the rings  honeymoon? Average wedding spending has increased in almost every category since 2021!

If that figure makes your eyes water, the good news about a forest wedding is that a lot of the decor and styling is DIY-friendly. It’s easy to make a forest wedding either budget-friendly or extravagant. It totally depends on your preference and priorities.  

Top tips for planning your forest wedding

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Here are our top tips to help you plan your forest wedding:

  • Location, location, location: Research and visit potential forest venues to find the perfect location for your wedding. Although aesthetic appeal is important, consider factors such as accessibility, capacity and available facilities. Look for a venue that aligns with your vision and offers the necessary amenities for your wedding day. In addition, ensure that there is an accessible route for caterers, entertainers and other suppliers to help with set-up. A solid track leading into the forest can make all the difference for small wheels and big carts!
  • Consider the weather: If you opt for a forest wedding, the weather will make a big difference. Try to steer clear of cold and rainy seasons. However, if this can’t be avoided, cover all bases and rent a marquee to protect your guests from a potential downpour.
  • Dress to impress: You want to look your best on your special day. Unfortunately, looking your best can come at a price. The cost of your wedding outfit will include the price of a dress, shoes, veil, hair and makeup. For budget-conscious or eco-friendly couples, consider renting your wedding attire. This will reduce costs significantly and ensure your dress isn’t single-use.
  • Consider the lighting: Although a forest wedding will have ample natural lighting, that beautiful sun won’t last all day! If you intend to party into the wee hours to celebrate your love, consider adorning the trees with some lanterns or fairy lights to tie in with the whimsical theme. 

The bottom line on planning a forest wedding

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Although it might feel overwhelming at first, planning a wedding is one of the most exciting times of your life, and planning a forest wedding is an opportunity to create a particularly magical and unforgettable celebration. 

There may be a lot of logistical concerns when planning a wedding surrounded by nature’s beauty.  However, with careful planning and budgeting, you can design a one-of-a-kind experience for your and your guests.

Embrace the magic, infuse your personal touch and plan ahead to ensure a truly enchanting celebration that will be cherished for a lifetime.

There you have our guide on planning a magical forest wedding ceremony! Get started on Bridebook to discover plenty more inspiration and expert advice.

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How Much Do Wedding Gifts Cost? The Ultimate Guide for Guests and Couples

Wedding gifts are something that can leave many of us racking our brains, whether you’re a guest who’s been invited to a wedding or you’re about to get married at your very own wedding.

From the point of view of a guest, how do you know what to buy and how much you should spend on a gift?

From the point of view of a couple getting married, how much is too much when it comes to creating a registry, and can you simply ask for cash?

The good news is that everyone is in the same position as you, because understanding how much to spend on wedding gifts is a confusing topic in general. So, in this post, we’re going to explore everything to do with the cost of wedding gifts, including how much you should spend as a wedding guest, what to ask for if you’re a couple getting married, and how to approach the awkward topic of asking for money.

1. You’re a guest going to a wedding

We get it, you’ve been invited to a wedding and you’re not sure how much to spend on a gift for the happy couple – we’ve all been there. There are so many unwritten rules as to what is the right amount to spend, which can vary depending on how well you know the couple, whether or not you’re in the wedding party, whether you’re an evening or a day guest and whether you’re in a couple yourself.

See, we told you it’s confusing!

So, if you’re umming and ahhing over what to buy a couple as a gift for an upcoming wedding, below should give you a rough idea as to how much you might spend.

How much should you spend on a wedding gift?

The most straightforward and simple answer to this question is you should spend as much as you’re able to and feel comfortable with. But, it’s only natural to worry about how much is enough or right and whether it’s in line with how much others are spending. Paranoia can sometimes get the best of us, with questions like ‘what if they don’t think I’m as generous as everyone else?’ creeping into our minds.

When the time comes for the happy couple to open their gifts, when they finally get to yours and see what you’ve given them, thoughts like these won’t even cross their minds. You haven’t been invited to their wedding because they think they’ll get something out of it – you’ve been invited because they want you there. Whether or not you give them a gift, and regardless of how much it is or what it’s worth, it’s simply a gesture from you to celebrate their marriage.

But, if you really want a rough idea as to how much you should spend on a wedding gift, the below guide should give you an approximation. Just remember, this isn’t set in stone and is by no means a rule you should stick to.

Wedding Gift Cost Infographic
Cost suggestions based on how well you know the couple

What’s the average amount to spend on a wedding gift?

Many guests will spend between £40 – £100 on a wedding gift. This is a fairly typical amount; however, it totally depends on your own circumstances and how well you know the couple. For example, if you’re immediate family but are on a tight budget, the couple won’t mind one bit if you don’t spend £100 on a gift. Similarly, if you’re a colleague then the couple will absolutely not expect a luxury gift from you.

Should you give cash as a wedding gift?

Some wedding guests don’t feel overly comfortable with giving cash as a gift, particularly those who may have spent their lives gifting toasters and knife sets in the past. But, during a time when a quarter of couples live together before marriage, many couples already have the appliances and homeware they need.

It also goes without saying that, after throwing the most expensive and luxurious party of their lives, couples will be grateful for a little extra cash. Plus, after a year of chaotic planning, a honeymoon after the wedding is always appreciated, and a cash gift will help make that happen.

In fact, some couples aren’t shy about asking for money instead of gifts, and this is absolutely fine, too. They may even have included information about this on their invitation or their wedding website if they have one, with information on where a bank transfer can be made before the big day.

At the end of the day, when newlyweds are gifted money they’re given far more freedom to do what they want, whether it’s go on their dream honeymoon, buy the exact toaster they’ve had their eye on, or decorate the spare room – all of which you could help make happen by giving a cash gift.

Popular wedding gifts and how much they cost

If you’re keen on giving a gift to a couple but you’re not sure where to start, here are a few ideas and a rough idea of how much they cost, to give you a little bit of inspiration.

Personalised artwork

A lovely way to mark the occasion, personalised artwork can be displayed to remind a couple of their big day, such as a map showing where they first met or a neon sign that spells out their new shared surname. Costs start from around £40.

Cookware

Perhaps a little old-fashioned, but who doesn’t love a nice casserole dish or a new set of pans? Prices for these will start at around £50. For something extra luxurious, a La Creuset dish is a wonderful gift, but on the pricey side at around £150.

Kitchen appliances

This one may be a bit of a cliché, but new appliances like a kettle, toaster or microwave are great gifts for couples about to move into their first home together. Costs start from around £30 for basic appliances and go up from there. Or, for real extravagance, a KitchenAid mixer would be a real treat for a keen baker and costs around £280.

Personalised homeware

An exciting and unique gift for a newly married couple is a personalised item they can display or use. A chopping board, doormat, or set of mugs are fun and useful, with costs starting at around £35.

Experience vouchers

Treat the newlyweds to an overnight stay somewhere, or a luxurious meal for two in a fancy restaurant. Or for more adventurous couples, something more exhilarating like a helicopter flying experience or rock climbing will get their blood pumping. Costs start at around £120.

What if you can’t afford to buy a gift?

If you’re not in a position to buy a gift for a couple about to get married, then don’t worry. A wedding is a celebration, and a couple gets married to come together and share their love – not because they want a bunch of gifts. Plus, the couple will know that you’ve already gone to great lengths just to be at their wedding, such as by taking time off work, buying a new outfit, travelling and the cost of your accommodation. Simply spend as much as you feel comfortable with and don’t worry about what you think someone is thinking.

If you want to buy a gift and you’re looking for affordable options, check out our post featuring 50 wedding gift ideas for every budget, or for some money-saving tips, our post on how to save money on a wedding gift could help you save a few pennies.

2. You’re a couple getting married

Getting married is super exciting – not only do you get to come together to build a new life with the person you love the most, but you get to throw one heck of a party and invite all your family and friends, which costs an average of £20,775.

Another big bonus is that a lot of your guests will also want to give you gifts, which could range from small token gestures to huge, generous ones – it all depends on who they are, their relationship to you and – of course – their budget.

What should you include on your gift registry?

While not everyone is going to buy you a wedding gift, many of your friends and family will want to. But, many of them will likely be stumped and have no idea where to start – which is why a gift registry is a great idea. Websites such as The Wedding Shop make it quick and easy for you to put a gift registry together.

When putting your list together, you’ll need to be open to including a range of items that fit a range of budgets. Some great items to put on your list include:

  • Dinnerware set
  • Tupperware set
  • Artwork
  • Kitchen appliances
  • Experience days
  • Spa visit
  • Vases
  • Ornaments
  • Blankets
  • Pillows
  • Luggage

Basically, you can include anything on your gift registry that you and your new spouse will use and enjoy. However, it’s usually items the two of you will use together in your home, or as part of a shared experience, rather than, say, video games or a new pair of trainers for one of you.

If you’re not putting a wedding registry together but would still like to let your guests know what they could give you, read our post on wedding registry alternatives.

Is it rude to ask for money as a wedding gift?

While it’s definitely not rude to ask for money as a wedding gift, there are ways to approach it delicately. After all, asking for money can be awkward, but it’s absolutely fine to ask for cash instead of gifts. Iif you and your new spouse-to-be are already living together, you’ve probably got most of the things you need in and around your house, and you don’t want to risk ending up with five new toasters (unless you really love toast).

You could simply explain to your guests that, if they’re considering giving you a gift, a cash gift would be appreciated so you can go on your honeymoon or buy a new car or replace the leaky roof on the garden shed. Once they know why you’re asking for money, most of your guests won’t mind at all. But, don’t be surprised if one or two of your guests decide to give you a gift anyway.

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How Much Does a Honeymoon Cost? The 2024 Average Revealed

When all the excitement and chaos involved in planning your wedding is over and the two of you have said, ‘I do’ and partied with your family and friends, many couples embark on their first journey together as a married couple in the form of the honeymoon. It’s a way for the two of you to unwind after a hectic year or more of planning, and spend time in each others’ company while soaking in some sun, being pampered and enjoying some delicious food.

But, with a wedding already costing so much money, how much is a romantic honeymoon going to add to your overall cost? In this post, we’re going to take a look at how much couples spend on their honeymoon, what it costs to visit some of the most popular honeymoon destinations and why many couples are opting for a far more affordable minimoon.

What’s the average cost of a honeymoon?

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The average amount spent by couples on their honeymoon in the UK is £4,329. While this is an average, many couples can spend far less than this – or far, far more. It all depends on what you’d like to do on your honeymoon, how far you’d like to go and whether you want to splash out on luxuries such as the honeymoon suite or first-class flights.

This is by no means a cheap getaway – it is your honeymoon, after all, and a great reason to treat yourself and your new spouse. It’s especially expensive when you take into consideration the average costs involved with the rest of your wedding, which, as set out in our ultimate wedding budget breakdown, is £20,775. That means, together with the honeymoon, you could be looking at a total cost of £24,069.

But how much should you spend on a honeymoon? Well, that’s another question entirely, and one that only you and your partner can answer. There is no right or wrong amount to spend on a honeymoon, it’s simply down to your tastes and what’s possible within your budget.

Once upon a time, almost immediately after the reception, newlyweds would jump on a plane in search of sun and sand. But, that’s becoming something of a rarity these days. In fact, the majority of couples now postpone their honeymoon, with 76% waiting at least four months after their wedding before jetting off. Of course, this is understandable, as not many couples have the budget to go on an expensive holiday right after throwing the most lavish and expensive bash of their lives.

That being said, the biggest wedding splurge is undoubtedly their honeymoon, with 40% of couples having a post-wedding getaway as their biggest expense.

How long is the average honeymoon?

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The average amount of time couples are away on their honeymoon is seven days, but many go away for two or even three weeks. It all depends on where you want to travel to and the budget you have available.

When should you start planning your honeymoon?

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You should start planning your honeymoon around the same time you start planning your wedding. This will give you a good idea as to how much your dream honeymoon will cost, and whether or not you’ll be able to go on it immediately after your wedding or a few months later.

Whether or not you book your honeymoon early is purely down to your budget. On one hand, if you book your honeymoon early you’ll be able to pay it off in chunks or set up a direct debit to pay monthly. On the other hand, if you wait until a few weeks before your wedding you may be able to secure a last-minute deal which is much cheaper. But, the risk with that is you might not be able to go to your first-choice destination.

How much do popular honeymoon destinations cost?

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If you’re keen on rewarding yourself with a honeymoon after months of busy wedding planning, what are some of the most popular honeymoon destinations for couples from the UK, and how much do they cost? Here are 10 of the most popular destinations and a rough guide to how much you might spend (based on two weeks during the summer in a standard room with economy flights).

The Maldives

A collection of islands located in the Indian Ocean, over 100,000 Brits visit the Maldives every year. With crystal clear water, white sandy beaches and stunning coral reefs, it’s a slice paradise that is perfect for honeymooners. Costs for a couple start from around £5,000.

Mauritius

Sharing the same ocean as the Maldives and not too far from South Africa, Mauritius has fabulous beaches, towering mountains, and luscious forests and gardens. Costs start from around £4,000.

Thailand

For a real adventure, Thailand is just about as far as a couple can travel from the UK, and offers a chance to see incredible sights and get immersed in a new culture. Costs start from around £3,200.

Seychelles

The ultimate luxury honeymoon destination where your comfort is always a priority.  There are also a few private island resorts in the area if your budget allows. Costs start from around £5,500 but can easily exceed £10,000.

Caribbean

With fabulous food and culture, the Caribbean has plenty of options for an idyllic honeymoon, on islands such as Jamaica and the Dominican Republic. Costs start from around £4,500.

Mexico

If you’re looking for a balance of great beaches, rich history and delicious food, you really can’t go wrong with Mexico. Costs start from £3,600.

Greece

Not only does Greece have a huge selection of fabulous resorts and beaches, but it also has a rich history and plenty of culture to keep you busy exploring. Greece is always a great spot for couples on a budget, with costs starting from around £2,000.

Italy

Great food, great wine and great sights. There’s something for everyone in Italy, and costs can be reasonable for a two-week stay, starting at around £2,500.

Kenya

For a honeymoon on the wild side, a trip to Kenya or Tanzania combines relaxation with the chance to explore breathtaking landscapes in search of incredible wildlife. Costs start from around £3,500.

Dubai

A relative newcomer on the honeymoon scene, Dubai has fabulous weather, clear seas and world-renowned entertainment. Costs start from around £4,000.

For a little more inspiration, check out our post featuring nine romantic honeymoon destinations.

What factors can affect the cost of a honeymoon?

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While many of the above costs are approximations, there are plenty of factors that can influence how much your honeymoon might cost, much like any other holiday you might book.

  • Location – The more popular the destination, the more you’re likely to pay.
  • Date – If you’re travelling at peak times, such as during the summer (and especially during school holidays) then expect costs to be way (way) higher.
  • Hotel/resort – The more premium the resort, the more it’ll set you back.
  • Upgrades – Because you’re going on your honeymoon you may be keen on a room or flight upgrade, but the costs involved can be eye-wateringly high.
  • Board – Whether you stay full board, half board, all-inclusive, or room only will affect the cost.
  • Activities – An adventure-packed honeymoon will cost more than a honeymoon spent lazing by a pool or on the beach.
  • Spending money – If you plan on eating a three-course meal every evening the costs will add up. Similarly, if you know you like to buy a lot of souvenirs you’ll need to budget accordingly.

If you want to get away on your honeymoon but don’t have a huge budget, check out our post on how to save money on your honeymoon.

How much does a minimoon cost?

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If you want to get away after your wedding but don’t have the budget to spend on a two-week honeymoon, a minimoon might be exactly what you need.

A minimoon is a shorter, more budget-friendly way of getting away after your wedding until you’re able to save and get away from a longer honeymoon. There are no rules for what’s classed as a minimoon, but they’re often a few nights and will cost less than £1,000. It’s purely a means to get away, relax and decompress after a year or more of planning your wedding.

If you’re looking to stay in the UK, some popular minimoon destinations include the Cotswolds, Cornwall, the Lake District and the Peak District.

If you’d prefer to hop on a plane to somewhere  a little further afield, great international minimoon destinations include Paris, Bruges, Mallorca and Venice.

Wherever you choose to go, and for however long you choose to go, it’s a great way for you and your new spouse to enjoy some well-earned time together.

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How Much Do Wedding Favours Cost? The 2024 Average Revealed

Wedding favours offer you the opportunity to provide your guests with a small gift or keepsake that they can take home (or eat!) and remember the time they spent celebrating with you on your big day.

But when you’re already spending thousands on your wedding, how much should you spend on wedding favours that are thoughtful, personal and something that your guests are going to appreciate?

Below, we’re going to take a look at the cost of wedding favours, including the average amount couples spend, how much some of the most popular wedding favours cost, and what factors can influence how much you might spend.

What are wedding favours and do you need them at your wedding?

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Wedding favours are small tokens or gifts that you give to the guests who come to share in your celebrations on your wedding day. They’re small, personal gestures that are used to express your gratitude and work as a little souvenir for your family and friends.

Favours don’t need to be expensive – many wedding favours cost around £1 each – but they act as a way for you to show your appreciation. Many couples even choose to put together DIY wedding favours, which can be anything from a packet of sweets to a custom-made Rubix cube (although something like this will set you back a lot more than £1).

Even the most affordable or DIY wedding favour options will add to your ever-increasing list of expenses, which is saying something when you consider that the average cost of a wedding in the UK is £20,775. Does that mean, if budget is a concern, it’s something you could cut to save a bit of money?

Do you have to do favours at your wedding?

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While favours aren’t something that your guests will expect – and certainly aren’t the reason they’re coming to your wedding – their absence may be noticed by some (but certainly not all). In fact, some of your guests may choose to not take their favour home at all, and if you’re gifting food or sweets, they may even be devoured before the first course is served at the breakfast.

If you’re looking to save budget, or it’s simply not something that interests you or fits with your style or theme of your wedding, then you shouldn’t feel pressured to provide favours simply to appease others or because it’s something you believe your guests expect – because they definitely don’t.

What’s the average cost of wedding favours?

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In the UK, the average amount spent by couples on wedding favours is around £160 in total. This might not be a huge amount when you consider your overall budget (it’s about 2% of what couples pay for the average wedding venue) but if you want custom, handmade favours or you’re inviting 120+ guests, that figure can be much higher.

Similarly, you could keep costs down while still honouring the tradition, by simply leaving a small packet of Love Hearts sweets for every guest. This would cost you much less than the average, with 250 packets costing around £17 (and leaving you with some to keep for yourself).

It’s also important to remember that low-cost wedding favours don’t need to be generic or boring. For more information, check out our blog post on 29 ideas for affordable wedding favours.

What are some popular wedding favour ideas?

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If you’re looking for some wedding favour ideas but you’re not quite sure where to start, the below guide will give you a rough guide for how much some popular wedding favours cost so you can gauge if they fit within your budget.

Edible favours

  • Retro sweets – You can pick up ready-made packs of retro sweets, or put together your own if you shop around to find cheap sweets in bulk. Costs start from £1 each.
  • Honeycomb – A real crowd pleaser, honeycomb not only looks great but is delicious too. Costs start from £1.50 each.
  • Fudge – Fudge is creamy and luxurious and is a fantastic way to satisfy your guests’ sweet tooth. Cost start from £2 each.
  • Hot chocolate kit – A unique favour that most of your guests won’t resist and can be presented in many creative ways. Costs start from £2.50 each.
  • Popcorn – A cheap and tasty favour that no one will turn their nose up at. Costs start from £1 each.
  • Mints – Mints offer a breath of fresh air. Costs start from £1 each.
  • Jellybeans – Sweet treats that are affordable and come in a variety of flavours. Costs start from £1 each.
  • Cake pops – Cake pops are a lot of fun and a handy way to give your guests a cakey hit if you don’t have a traditional wedding cake. Costs start from £1.50 each.
  • Marshmallows – Affordable, sticky and sweet. Costs start from £1 each.

Non-edible favours

  • Bubbles – Everyone loves bubbles! Plus, they’re super affordable. Costs start from less than £1 each.
  • Personalised playing cards – Massively personal and always something your guests will want to keep. Costs start from around £5 each.
  • Second-hand books – A great talking point that is hugely affordable. Costs start from around 50p each, or even less if you check out some local charity shops.
  • Pens, notepads or pencils – A practical favour for everyone. Costs start from £2 each.
  • Jewellery charms – A cute memento that can be used in a huge variety of ways. Costs start from £3 each.
  • Wildflower seeds – Not a personal favour, but is certainly thoughtful. Costs start from £1 each.
  • Charity donation – A hugely thoughtful and generous gesture. You can donate as much or as little as you like.
  • Soap/hand sanitiser – A useful and unique favour. Costs start from £2 each.
  • Scratchcards – An exciting way to get your guests talking. Plus, one of your guests could leave your wedding a lot richer (and hopefully they’ll share some with you!). Costs start from £1 each.
  • Personalised candles – Who doesn’t love a candle? Costs start from £2.50 each.
  • Personalised coasters – A really unique gift that will remind your guests of your big day whenever they sit down for a cuppa. Costs start from £3 each.
  • Personalised keyrings – Everyone has at least a couple of keyrings, and there’s always room for one more. Costs start from £2 each.
  • Disposable camera – Quite a retro favour these days, but it can be a lot of fun having the photos developed to see what happened while you weren’t around! However, disposable cameras are becoming more expensive, with costs per camera starting from around £15 (and of course the cost to develop after the wedding). It can be hugely worth it if you have the budget, though.

Is it cheaper to do DIY wedding favours?

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If you’re on a budget, it can be much cheaper to do wedding favours yourself. However, if you’re looking for highly personal or customised favours, such as personalised playing cards, you may find the DIY approach more challenging. If you haven’t done anything similar before, there’s also the risk of inconsistent quality.

If you’re looking for something simple, such as a bag of retro sweets, you should be able to put this together with little effort and without much room for error. It should save you some money, too.

What factors can impact the cost of wedding favours?

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When choosing wedding favours, as well as the type of favours you go for, there are several factors to bear in mind which can impact the overall cost.

  • Quantity – It may seem obvious, but the more guests you have the more you’ll have to spend on favours.
  • Personalisation – Highly personalised wedding favours will cost more than something you can grab off a shelf or make yourself.
  • Vendor – A small, independent vendor may have higher prices than a large company with hundreds of employees. However, the level of care and quality is also likely to be better from a smaller vendor.
  • Quality – The higher the quality of materials or ingredients you use, the more expensive your favours will be. Remember, your favours are only a token gift to your guests and they won’t be expecting something premium.
  • Presentation – Marshmallows or honeycomb may be fairly inexpensive, but if you choose to package them in a fancy box with ribbon they may not be inexpensive for long.
  • Season – Depending on what you go for, the time of year may play a part in cost. For example, during peak periods when gift companies are in demand, costs may be much higher.

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