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17th Wedding Anniversary Gifts: 50 Anniversary Gift Ideas

If you’re about to celebrate your 17th wedding anniversary, congratulations! 17 years of marriage is an incredible achievement and one you’re no doubt excited to celebrate. In some cultures, the number 17 is considered unlucky, but that clearly doesn’t apply to you as you prepare to celebrate this amazing milestone.

One thing you might like to do on your 17th anniversary is treat your partner to a gift and show them just how much they mean to you and always will. But, what kind of gift do you give to the love of your life at this stage in your marriage? Well, did you know that for more than 100 years, there have been gifts traditionally given by couples to each other? That’s right, it’s not just the big milestones like your 10th anniversary or 25th anniversary where this applies. There are also traditional and modern gifts for your 17th anniversary.

These gifts go beyond the usual box of chocolates and have an extra special meaning behind them which makes them worthy of such a fabulous milestone. Not that a box of chocolates or any other type of gift isn’t amazing, but the symbolism behind the traditional and modern gifts takes your gift-giving to the next level.

In this article, we’re going to take a look at what the traditional and modern 17th anniversary gifts are, as well as the traditional gemstone and flower. We’ll also give you 50 suggestions for gifts to consider so you can spoil your other half with something full of love and meaning.

For more information about all the different traditions surrounding anniversary gifts from 1 to 90 years, read our complete year-by-year wedding anniversary gift guide.

What are traditional and modern gifts for a 17th wedding anniversary?

The traditional and modern 17th wedding anniversary gifts

Both the traditional and modern anniversary gifts for 17 years of marriage have been given by couples to each other for more than a century. These gifts are packed with symbolism, which is what makes them such a thoughtful gesture, as they let your partner know how you feel about them. They’re not something you must get for them; of course, any gift is brilliant and will surely be well-received. But these traditions help make your anniversary that little bit more special.

Traditional 17th anniversary gift – A watch

The traditional gift for celebrating 17 years of marriage is a watch. Watches symbolise the passing of time, and your past, present and future as a couple. It’s not exactly a gift that you can have too much creativity with (although there are ways, which we’ll show you below). A watch was also the modern gift for your 15th anniversary, so if you didn’t get your partner one two years ago, it’s definitely something to consider now.

Modern 17th anniversary gift – Furniture

If you’d prefer to give your partner the modern 17th anniversary gift, you’ll want to give them furniture. Initially, it may seem a bit of a strange gift, but it represents comfort and familiarity, which actually makes it very meaningful. You might not necessarily want to get your partner a flatpack wardrobe (unless they’ve asked for one or you think they’d love it – in which case, go for it!), but there’s a lot of fun you can have with the theme.

17th anniversary gemstone – Carnelian

The traditional 17th anniversary gemstone is carnelian, a fabulous red and brown semi-precious stone that is said to boost creativity and self-esteem. When it comes to your relationship, carnelian protects your marriage and brings your energy. Carnelian isn’t one of the most commonly used stones in jewellery, but you should still have a lot to choose from so you can find something perfect for your partner.

17th anniversary flower – Red carnation

The traditional 17th anniversary flower is the red carnation, a beautifully big, bold bloom which isa wonderful addition to any bouquet, but which also works perfectly well as the star of the show. Carnations represent love and devotion, so could there be a flower more appropriate to give to your other half when celebrating 17 years of loving marriage?

How do you choose a gift for a 17th wedding anniversary?

Buying the perfect gift for your other half for your 17th wedding anniversary can be a tricky decision. There may be a lot of choice, but the themes are perhaps not the most obvious when it comes to a romantic gift your partner would love to receive. Your partner might not wear a watch or have heard of a carnelian before, and there might not be any room for more furniture in your home.

But don’t let this sway you just yet. Before you make your decision, there are a few things to consider.

Is sticking to one of the anniversary themes important to you? If it is, you’ll want to figure out a way to make the themes work for you.
Have you agreed on a budget? Watches and furniture can vary wildly in price, so both would suit a variety of budgets.
Do you want to give your partner a gift that can be personalised? Watches are easier to personalise than furniture, but that’s not to say it’s impossible.
What sort of gift might your partner like to receive? Maybe you’ve spoken about themed gifts or they’ve dropped hints about something else they might like instead.

Is a couple you love about to celebrate their 17th anniversary? If so, you might be on the hunt for a gift and wonder whether you can get in on the action and give them a gift also linked to either the traditional or modern themes. These themes are for everyone, not just the couple, so if you’ve thought of the perfect gift which also just happens to be on theme, then you should definitely feel free to join in on the fun. The theme isn’t exclusive to the couple and shows them just how much you care by putting in that extra bit of thought and effort.

50 ideas for a 17th wedding anniversary gift

The 17th anniversary themes aren’t quite as obviously romantic as they are with other anniversaries. But, you might still be keen to honour the traditions and give your partner a gift filled with historical meaning. With a little creativity you can give your partner something they can enjoy and treasure for many years to come – but where do you start? Thankfully, we’re here with 50 ideas for 17th wedding anniversary gifts to help you choose something for your other half.

10 traditional gifts for a 17th wedding anniversary

The traditional 17th wedding anniversary gift is a watch, which is a gift that’s fairly self-explanatory so doesn’t leave many options for fun and creativity. But, there are still ways to do something a little different and unique, even if they don’t seem obvious at first. Here are 10 ideas so you can give your partner a watch they’ll never want to be apart from.

1. A carnelian eWatch watch

With a carnelian eWatch watch, not only do you give your partner a pretty swish-looking watch, but it’s also got a carnelian face which can be personalised to include your names and the date of your wedding or anniversary. It’s available in his and her designs and is a beautifully subtle gift your partner can always wear.

2. An engraved wooden watch

For a watch that’s bold and rustic but still incredibly stylish, you might want to choose an engraved wooden watch. It’s made to order and includes a custom message on the back so your other half can always keep a part of you close by.

3. A 17th anniversary watch gift box

This smart men’s Openwork Watch is presented in a gift box complete with a personalised message, and you really can’t go wrong with a 17th anniversary watch gift box. The back of the watch is also open which allows you to see the intricate workings inside.

4. A carnelian ring watch

For something incredibly unique, a carnelian ring watch is a personalisable watch that your partner can wear around their neck. It also features a callback to the 17th anniversary gemstone which makes it a double-hitter.

5. A rose gold watch gift set

Spoil your partner on your anniversary with a rose gold watch gift set. It covers the theme with the inclusion of a lovely rose gold watch, but it also comes with earrings, a necklace and a bangle, providing your other half with every accessory they might need for a big night out.

6. A carnation gold mesh watch

Combine the traditional gift and the traditional flower with a carnation gold mesh watch, a multifunctional watch that has a business-chic feel. Because it covers two traditional gifts, it has double the symbolic meaning, too.

7. A unique Mr Jones watch

If your partner has a style that wouldn’t necessarily be described as ‘normal’, then a bog-standard watch probably won’t push their buttons. Instead, you could get them a unique Mr Jones watch, which comes in a variety of incredible designs, including lazing in the pool, pinball-playing robots and a motorway road sign.

8. A delicate walnut and walnut watch

For a delicate but beautiful way to tell the time, a Holzkern walnut and walnut watch is reminiscent of a bracelet but versatile so that it can go with a wide range of styles and outfits.

9. A personalised photo watch

To give your partner a watch like no other, a personalised photo watch will really do the trick. You can customise the face by uploading your own choice of photo, which could be the two of you, your cat, or maybe even your kids.

10. A watch for a charm bracelet

Does your partner have a charm bracelet and love collecting charms to add their own personal memories which can be swapped out? If so, then a watch charm for a charm bracelet is a tiny perfectly on-theme gift which your partner can wear and which will always remind them of your amazing milestone.

10 modern gifts for a 17th wedding anniversary

If you’re not sure that your partner would love a watch or you gave them one for your anniversary a couple of years ago, you might want to choose the modern gift, which is furniture. Furniture isn’t often considered something you might give as a gift – after all, have you ever tried to wrap up a sofa? That said, furniture is a rather broad theme, so cancel that trip to DFS and take a look at these 10 suggestions for furniture-themed gifts which don’t necessarily mean forking out for a new three-piece suite.

1. A pair of smart bedside tables

We bet that if most of us are honest, our bedside tables are probably past their best. So, you could take the opportunity to pick up a pair of smart bedside tables and bring a breath of fresh air to your bedroom.

2. A lovely new rug

Transform any room in your home by giving your partner a lovely new rug for your anniversary. There’s nothing quite like the feeling of a new rug between your toes. Many retailers sell rugs, but they have a great selection over at Rug Shop to suit all styles, tastes and budgets.

3. A modern bookshelf

For the avid reader in your life, a modern bookshelf provides you with a contemporary way for your other half to keep their favourite books in order.

4. A sit-stand desk

If your partner works from home regularly and often complains about their back, then this gift sounds like it was made for them. A sit-stand desk can be adjusted quickly and easily, so your partner can choose to either sit down or stand up. They’re also said to improve productivity and posture, so it’s a win-win.

5. A comfortable armchair

There’s nothing quite like climbing into a big, comfortable armchair to enjoy a book, watch a movie, have a nap or any of the other things your other half might like to do in an armchair. Check out Marks and Spencer’s range of armchairs to find one that suits your decor.

6. A coffee table arcade machine

For the retro gamer in your life, give them the surprise of a lifetime by switching out your old coffee table and replacing it with a coffee table arcade machine. These tables are completely customisable, include two sets of controls for multiplayer madness and come loaded with more than 1,000 games.

7. Design-your-own coffee table

We bet you haven’t got another piece of furniture quite like this at home. A design-your-own coffee table lets you upload your own photograph which is then printed and handmade, so you can give your partner a one-of-a-kind gift to mark your big day.

8. A romantic loveseat

Give your partner a gift that lets you get snuggly on date night, with a romantic loveseat. They’re available in loads of different colours, styles and designs, so finding one that suits your home shouldn’t take long.

9. Floating book bookshelves

Floating book bookshelves let your partner display their favourite books seemingly by magic, which is great for creating a fun and unique way to store their books.

10. A hardwood storage box

If you have a little room at the end of your bed, a hardwood storage box provides ample storage space for bedding, towels and cushions, while being a centrepiece that can help bring a room together.

5 affordable gifts for a 17th wedding anniversary

Both the themes of a watch and furniture are rather different, meaning you can certainly choose to give your other half a unique gift to mark your anniversary. But, both can also be quite expensive, which might not be suitable if you have a smaller budget. That said, with a little creativity, if you’re only looking to give your partner a small token gift, you can absolutely do that without the need to spend more than you’d like. Here are five suggestions for cheap 17th wedding anniversary gifts.

1. A cute pair of chair stud earrings

There’s nothing to say the furniture theme has to be something life-size. This pair of chair stud earrings is incredibly cute and a funny yet thoughtful way to incorporate the modern theme into your gift.

2. A furniture-themed anniversary card

If you’re planning to give your partner an anniversary card, you could make sure it’s linked to the modern gift by getting them a furniture-themed anniversary card. It includes a great sofa-related pun, and who doesn’t love a good pun?

3. A bag of retro candy watches

Give your partner a sweet (literally) and affordable gift in the form of a bag of retro candy watches. They wrap around your partner’s wrist so they have a sweet treat on hand (also literally) at all times. That is, unless they scoff them all first, which is likely.

4. A Casio unisex watch

It might not have all the glitz and sparkle of an expensive watch, but at the end of the day, a Casio unisex watch tells the time and that’s all many of us expect from a watch. A solid and dependable affordable gift.

5. A pocket watch necklace

Not only is a pocket watch necklace a fabulously affordable gift, but it’s also fashionable and a quirky way to stick to the traditional 17th anniversary theme.

5 DIY gifts for a 17th wedding anniversary

If you really want to do something unique and special for your anniversary, you might consider making your partner’s gift yourself. Okay, so making your own furniture or watch from scratch might be a tall ask unless you have prior experience, but it’s not impossible. There are ways to get creative or pick up a kit so you can have a stab at doing something. Here are five ideas to get those creative juices flowing.

1. Decorate your own stool

You can really have some messy fun by decorating your own stool in a way that your partner will love. Be as imaginative as you like, whether it’s adding colours, cushions, a photograph, crystals… the possibilities are endless. Just pick up a cheap stool from IKEA and get to work!

2. Upcycle an old piece of furniture

Upcycling is a brilliant way to take an old, tired piece of furniture and turn it into something fresh and modern. It makes for a fun project, lets you have a creative outlet and leaves you with a fab gift at the end of it. You can find affordable furniture at charity shops and auctions, and there’s information on ways to upcycle furniture available online.

3. Make your own cosy pet bed

Do you and your partner have a beloved furbaby whom you love dearly and who can do no wrong? Well, one thing you might want to make for your partner (but really for your four-legged friend) is to make them a pet bed that’s completely one-of-a-kind. There are video tutorials available online to give you a helping hand.

4. A Swiss watchmaking kit

Watchmaking is a tough but hugely rewarding skill, but it can be even tougher knowing where to start. If you’d like to have a go at making your partner a watch for your 17th anniversary, a Swiss watchmaking kit provides you with everything you need.

5. A DIY wooden clock

Okay, so this one is bending the rules, but only slightly – because a clock is just a big watch, right? But it’s too good not to include. A DIY wooden clock kit is a simple way for you to create a custom clock to include anything from colours to photographs.

5 experience or activity gifts for a 17th wedding anniversary

If you’re looking for a way to make your 17th wedding anniversary extra special, why not whisk your partner away so the two of you can enjoy an activity or experience together? You don’t necessarily need to go to Paris or sit down for a Michelin-star meal either. You can tie what you do into the traditional and modern themes to make them even more memorable. So, here are five suggestions for new and interesting things to do.

1. A furniture-making course

If you and your partner have ever fancied having a go at making some furniture yourself, then a furniture-making course could just be the ideal gift. There are a range of courses available, from upholstery workshops to stool-making courses.

2. Browse ancient furniture at the V&A

The Victoria & Albert Museum is an amazing museum in South Kensington, just a little south of Hyde Park. It features incredible exhibits around art and design, including a huge collection of furniture which goes back hundreds of years. It’s the perfect way to incorporate the modern theme into an anniversary trip to London.

3. A watchmaking workshop

So much goes into watchmaking. It’s a time-consuming (see what we did there?) and intricate skill to learn. But, with a watchmaking workshop, you can find out all about what goes into it, and even have a go at it yourself.

4. Take a romantic trip to Basel, Switzerland

Switzerland is known for producing some of the best and most luxurious watches in the world. If you have the time and budget, you might consider a weekend away to Basel, which is even home to an annual watch fair. Check out Lonely Planet for more information on exploring Basel’s must-see attractions and planning your next getaway.

5. A trip to Coventry Watch Museum

For something a little bit different, take a trip back through time (we just can’t stop with these puns) and view a huge collection of antique watches at Coventry Watch Museum. You’ll have the time of your life (sorry, we’ll stop now)!

10 17th anniversary gifts that contain carnelian

If you’ve got your sights set on a piece of jewellery to give to your partner on your 17th anniversary, they’ll no doubt love it. But, you could tie that jewellery into the theme by making sure it contains the traditional 17th anniversary gemstone, which is carnelian. It’s not one of the most commonly used stones in jewellery, but its reddish-brown colour makes for a great addition to a variety of pieces (usually gold). You might want to consider the following pieces that can be set with carnelian:

Earrings
A ring
A necklace
A bracelet
A broach
A locket
A watch
An anklet
A hairpin
Cufflinks

Because carnelian isn’t one of the more popular gemstones, it can be a little more difficult to find a piece you think your partner might love. High-street and independent jewellers may have a small range of pieces which include carnelian, but you may have to visit various stores. At Bridebook, we’ve partnered with loads of brilliant jewellers, many of which have a selection of carnelian jewellery. Make sure you check them out in your search.

5 floral-inspired gifts for a 17th wedding anniversary

Flowers are a worldwide symbol of love, so you may be considering giving your partner something blooming brilliant on your anniversary. The traditional 17th anniversary flower is the red carnation, a big brightly coloured bloom that’s full of life. It works great in a bouquet, but also as the inspiration for other gifts. Here are five suggestions for carnation-inspired gifts.

1. A bouquet of red carnations

A bouquet of red carnations is a vibrant, bold and beautiful gift to give to your partner to mark your anniversary. Just an explosion of vivid colour which lets them know exactly how you feel.

2. Handmade red carnation earrings

If your partner likes to wear fabulously unique earrings, then a pair of handmade red carnation earrings might be right up their street. They’re unique but subtle enough to be worn on a wide variety of occasions.

3. A red carnation bowl

For a touch of retro class, a red carnation bowl is a versatile and perfectly on-theme gift that’s also beautiful and practical. It ticks all the right boxes.

4. A hand-knitted carnation

Give your partner a floral gift that’s guaranteed to never wilt in the form of a hand-knitted carnation. A super romantic and token gesture which they can hold on to forever.

5. A preserved carnation flower sphere

Light up your partner’s life with a preserved carnation flower sphere. It encapsulates a carnation in resin so it can be displayed on a desk or shelf, and also doubles as a lovely little nightlight or lamp.

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16th Wedding Anniversary Gifts: 50 Anniversary Gift Ideas

If you and your other half are about to celebrate 16 years of marriage, that’s an amazing milestone to have reached, and one which deserves to be celebrated.

As part of your celebrations, you may want to give your partner a gift. But, you might wonder what kind of gift is appropriate for celebrating 16 happy years with the love of your life. Do you go down the safe and reliable route of flowers and chocolates? Do you give them something they’ve asked for or need? Or do you look for something deeply meaningful which tells them exactly how you feel about them?

If you’d like to pick a gift which has that special meaning, you might wonder about the type of gift to choose. Did you know that there are traditional and modern gifts, as well as a traditional flower and gemstone, which couples have been giving to each other for more than 100 years? These gifts are lovely gestures which show your partner just how much thought and love has gone into it.

But what should you choose to help you express your feelings and sentiments, and be worthy of such a brilliant milestone? In this guide, we’ll explore everything you need to know about the 16th wedding anniversary gift-giving traditions, including all the traditional and modern gifts and what they mean. We’ll also give you 50 suggestions to help you choose a gift your other half is sure to love.

For more information about gift-giving traditions for all anniversaries from 1 to 90 years, read our complete year-by-year wedding anniversary gift guide.

What are traditional and modern gifts for a 16th wedding anniversary?

The traditional and modern 16th wedding anniversary gifts

If you’re looking to give your partner an anniversary gift packed full of meaning, you might want to choose one of the historical gifts that couples have been giving to each other from as far back as the Victorian era. These gifts aren’t set in stone, but they’re a lovely way to say I love you and call back to historical traditions.

Traditional 16th anniversary gift – Wax

The traditional gift when celebrating 16 years of marriage is wax. Wax symbolises how the two of you have moulded your lives around each other to become one, which is an incredibly charming sentiment. The most obvious choice of wax-themed gift is a candle, but it’s not your only choice. With some creativity, you have a lot you could choose from.

Modern 16th anniversary gift – silver holloware

The modern 16th anniversary gift is silver holloware, which is the name given to a vessel, like a bowl or jug, made from silver. It represents a long and successful marriage, which no doubt sums up your marriage since you’re about to celebrate 16 years. By 21st century standards, silver holloware is quite outdated, but it still offers you plenty of opportunities to give your partner an amazing gift.

16th anniversary gemstone – Peridot

The traditional gemstone for celebrating your 16th anniversary is peridot. Peridot is a striking green, almost olive-coloured gemstone, which symbolises strength and balance. It’s a semi-precious stone and can sometimes be fairly pricey, but the cost is reflected in how beautiful it is and how well it goes in a wide range of jewellery and accessories.

16th anniversary flower – Statice

If you’re looking to give your partner a floral gift to mark 16 years, the traditional flower is statice, also known as sea lavender. It symbolises good memories, so could there really be a better flower to sum up the last 16 years with your love? Statice is often dried and used to complement floral arrangements. Despite its romantic meaning, some say fresh statice has a slight smell of cat wee, which sort of explains why it doesn’t often make an appearance in bouquets!

How do you choose a gift for a 16th wedding anniversary?

When the time comes to buy your partner a gift for your 16th anniversary, you might be faced with a difficult decision with so many choices. How are you supposed to pick, especially when the traditional and modern gifts aren’t exactly the most straightforward of themes? Here are several things to consider before making your decision.

Is choosing a traditional or modern anniversary gift important to you? If you’ve stuck to either theme for past anniversaries, you may want to continue the trend.
Have you got a set budget? Wax and silver holloware have rather polar opposite costs, which may sway your decision if you have a smaller budget.
Are you looking to give your partner a gift with a personalised touch? Silver holloware can be far trickier to personalise or customise than wax.
What would your partner love to receive as a gift? Even though it’s the modern gift, silver holloware is fairly old-fashioned and your partner might not appreciate it as much as a gift linked to wax (or the traditional flower or gemstone).

If a couple in your life will soon celebrate their 16th wedding anniversary, you might be on the lookout for a gift for them. As part of that, you may wonder if it’s appropriate for you to give them something linked to either the traditional or modern themes. The great news is, you’re more than able to do that and everyone is welcome (and encouraged!) to join in on the gift-giving fun. It also shows the couple that you put extra care into your gift.

50 ideas for a 16th wedding anniversary gift

Keen to give your partner a 16th anniversary gift they’ll always remember? Both the traditional and modern themes aren’t the easiest to work with, but with a little imagination and thinking outside the box there’s a lot to work with. If you’re not quite sure where to start, we’re here to give you a helping hand. Here are 50 16th wedding anniversary gift ideas so you can give your partner something extra special.

10 traditional gifts for a 16th wedding anniversary

The traditional gift couples give to each other when celebrating their 16th wedding anniversary is wax. Wax isn’t the most versatile gift in the world, and the first thing to enter your head is more than likely a candle. Candles can be a brilliant choice, but there must be a way to make sure you give your partner something more than just a basic Yankee Candle? Thankfully, there are plenty! Here are 10 ideas so you can surprise your other half on your 16th anniversary.

1. A personalised candle

There’s no way we couldn’t start this lift without including a candle. What sets this one apart is that it’s a personalised candle which allows you to not only choose the colour and scent, but also include your names, wedding date and a custom message on the label.

2. A beeswax skincare set

Beeswax can work wonders for the skin. A beeswax skincare set can help your partner’s skin feel fresh and rejuvenated so they feel as fantastic as they look when you head out to celebrate your big milestone.

3. A wax melt gift set

Wax melts are a great way to create a warm and welcoming atmosphere and are a nice alternative to a candle. There’s a countless number of wax melt scents, so finding something your partner will love should be simple. Or, a wax melt gift set has everything they need.

4. Luxury beeswax soap

A bar of luxury beeswax soap is a nice on-theme gift which smells fabulous and which will leave your partner’s hands feeling silky-smooth. It’s a gift that contains wax and one we don’t think your partner will see coming.

5. A beeswax lip balm set

We’ve already mentioned how beeswax is good for your skin, but did you know that also extends to the lips? If you treat your partner to a beeswax lip balm set it’ll leave their lips soft, moisturised and smooth – perfect for all those kisses you’ll share on your anniversary.

6. A personalised calendar candle

For a sweet-smelling wax-themed gift which will always remind your partner of the date the two of you got married, a personalised calendar candle is a wonderful reminder of your special day. You can also choose the size of your candle and include a custom message.

7. A scented beeswax candle

Beeswax is good for the skin, but it’s also perfect for making it into a candle. This sweet and sensual scented beeswax candle is everything you need to create a romantic atmosphere on the evening of your anniversary.

8. A statice and sage-scented candle

Because the traditional flower for 16 years of marriage is the statice, you might want to get your partner a statice and sage-scented candle so your gift has twice as much meaning. This will really let your partner know how much you care.

9. A couple’s bottled candle

For a gift that is small but absolutely loaded with romance and symbolism, a couple’s bottled candle features a pair of brightly burning candles inside an adorable jar complete with glittering sprinkles. It also features a note that can be personalised so your partner has something they can hold on to forever.

10. A wax sealing letter writing kit

If your partner has a pen pal, sends a lot of cards or simply enjoys writing letters, treat them to a wax seal letter writing kit. That way they’ll have a brilliant way to class up their letters and seal them in a way that’s something of a dying art.

10 modern gifts for a 16th wedding anniversary

If you’d prefer to give your partner the modern 16th wedding anniversary gift, you might want to consider giving them silver holloware. This is any type of vessel, like a bowl or dish, that’s used to hold something inside. Think of a good ol’ fashioned gravy boat. By today’s standards, it’s actually quite an old-fashioned gift, despite it being the modern gift for celebrating your 16th anniversary. Still, it’s filled with heart and meaning and is still something couples enjoy to give. If you’d like to go with the modern gift, here are 10 suggestions to give you a few ideas.

1. A Wedgwood Vera Wang silver-plated trinket box

Does your partner have a lot of jewellery or other trinkets that they want to keep safe? A Wedgewood Vera Wang silver-plated trinket box should do just the trick, and would be a useful and on-theme gift.

2. A Nobile silver leaf roundish vase

For something a little different but still technically fitting the theme, a Nobile silver leaf roundish vase looks absolutely fabulous and can be something your partner can use again and again. You could even spoil them doubly so by giving it to them with a bouquet of flowers.

3. An antique silver bowl

Because silver holloware is quite old-fashioned (or as some might say, retro) why not fully embrace the theme and pick up your partner an antique silver bowl they can use for fruit, keys, balls of yarn or anything else?

4. A silver-plated cocktail shaker

Anyone who has a cocktail-making partner will know just how seriously they take making cocktails. It’s serious business after all! For them, the ultimate modern gift might be a silver-plated cocktail shaker which allows them to knock up the classiest cocktails of them all in totally regal style.

5. A vintage silver gravy boat

There’s absolutely no way we could put this list together but not include a vintage silver gravy boat. It’s the absolute fanciest way to serve up your Bisto on a Sunday. You’ll also find them at different prices, so even without a big budget you can find a gravy boat that suits you.

6. A silver-plated wine bottle coaster

If you and your partner love to share a bottle of wine over dinner or on date night, a silver-plated wine bottle coaster catches the dribbles in the classiest way imaginable and looks brilliant sat on the table.

7. A silver-plated top hat nibbles bowl

What could possibly be nicer than eating nibbles out of a normal bowl? Well, how about eating nibbles out of a silver-plated top hat nibbles bowl? It looks exactly like an enormous Monopoly piece and is sure to be a major talking point whenever you have guests over.

8. A silver plated teapot

To make tea time a little more special, a silver-plated teapot is a great on-theme gift that your partner can use every day. They’re also not too expensive, so you should be able to pick one up without spending a fortune.

9. A silver tureen

This might not be a gift for everyone, but if you and your partner regularly entertain guests at home, then a silver tureen will allow you to offer your guests soup in a way that is totally unexpected and completely extra. Or your partner might want to use it as an extra fancy fruit bowl!

10. A personalised silver-plated carousel money box

Delicate, adorable, useful and customisable, a personalised silver-plated carousel money box is pretty spot on. Not only is it a great-looking gift, but it’s also super useful and will help you save the pennies towards your next big adventure together.

5 affordable gifts for a 16th wedding anniversary

You may well be looking to spoil your partner, but some of the gifts can be rather expensive – especially when it comes to silver holloware. Thankfully, there are options available if you’re looking to give your partner a small token gift linked to the themes but not spend too much money. Here are five suggestions for affordable 16th wedding anniversary gifts so you can give your other half something loaded with meaning but without a huge price tag.

1. A wax-stamped card

Are you also planning on getting your other half a card to mark your anniversary? If so, you could combine the card with the traditional gift and give them a wax-stamped card, which brings historical and symbolic meaning to this ordinary gesture.

2. An aromatherapy beeswax candle

A small but sweet candle (both in appearance and smell) is an aromatherapy beeswax candle, which looks amazing and is also incredibly affordable.

3. A personalised trinket box

Silver can be expensive and it’s tough to get around that, but a personalised trinket box has that silvery shiny appearance but doesn’t cost the earth. You can also personalise it to include a loving message and make it extra special.

4. Cubed human earwax

Give your partner a giggle on your anniversary by giving them a box of cubed human earwax. Don’t worry – these actually clotted cream fudge sweets, but make for a hilarious jokey token gift guaranteed to make your partner laugh.

5. A small silver heart trinket dish

Help your partner keep their accessories, jewellery and other bits safe with a small silver heart trinket dish. It’s incredibly affordable and exactly on theme.

5 DIY gifts for a 16th wedding anniversary

One way to show how much you care is by making an anniversary gift for your partner. But, how are you supposed to do this and keep your gifts on the themes of wax or silver holloware? Well, in all honesty, unless you happen to be a skilled silversmith by trade, silver holloware might be a bit of a stretch – but there are plenty of things you can do with wax! Here are five ideas so you can get creative and make a DIY gift.

1. A DIY carved candle

Because wax is so soft, it’s a great material to use for adding your own touch of personalisation. You can take an ordinary candle and with a couple of tools add a unique touch that can transform it into something special. There are guides on how to make a candle carving to help you get started.

2. A DIY candle

Making your own candle is a fun and rewarding process, and the bonus is you’ll have a great DIY gift to give your partner at the end of it. Choose your scents, colours, containers and more to create something truly one-of-a-kind. You can use a candle-making kit which gives you everything you need to make your own candles.

3. A homemade model using modelling wax

In the right hands, wax can produce intricate, delicate and beautiful models. If you’re a dab hand at making things, you could pick up some modelling wax and have a go at sculpting something your partner loves, or maybe even make the two of you. Modelling wax doesn’t dry, but if kept on a shelf it should last for many years to come.

4. DIY wax melts

Just like you can have a go at making your own candles, it’s also possible to make your own wax melts. That way, you can create something using your partner’s favourite scents so you know they’ll love them. You can get a wax melt-making kit which includes everything you need.

5. Homemade wax artwork

Did you know you can use wax to create incredible and unique pieces of art? You don’t need years of experience, either – and if you follow a video tutorial you shouldn’t have any trouble creating your own modern masterpiece.

5 experience or activity gifts for a 16th wedding anniversary

A wonderful way to have a memorable 16th anniversary is by enjoying an activity or experience with your partner. Whether it’s something you know you both love or something entirely new, it’s a great way to create happy memories together. And if you do want to tie what you do into the traditional or modern gifts, there are plenty of ways to do it. Here are five ideas to help you both have an unforgettable time.

1. A wax hand dipping experience at Madame Tussauds

Madame Tussauds is world-famous for its wax figure celebrity lookalikes, so a visit to one of their attractions would be a great on-theme experience by itself. But, while you’re there, you could also take part in a wax hand dipping experience, which involves you immortalising your hands in actual wax. That way, you’ll have a souvenir that’ll last forever.

2. A candle-making experience

A lot goes into candle-making, and it can be a fun and rewarding activity with many different parts to it. The two of you could take part in a candle-making experience and help each other make some amazing-looking, delicious-smelling candles.

3. A candle factory tour

Get an insight into how the professionals make candles (as well as wine, wax spray and even silverware, making this a 16th anniversary double-hitter) with a Hayes and Finch factory tour. It’s an exclusive tour so you must make reservations beforehand to visit their Liverpool factory.

4. A wax hand pampering experience

Wax is great for the skin, so treat your other half to a luxurious pamper session with a wax hand pampering experience. It’s only a short treatment but will give your partner’s hands a new lease of life.

5. A tour of a grand estate

Silver holloware might not be used much these days, but take a trip through history and visit a grand old property, such as Highclere Castle (where they filmed Downton Abbey). This will give you and your partner the chance to see some genuine silver holloware, which may have even been used by Lord Grantham himself!

10 16th anniversary gifts that contain peridot

If you’d like to treat your partner to a lovely piece of jewellery to mark your 16th anniversary, you could do so with a piece that contains the traditional gemstone, peridot. Peridot is an incredible shade of green which goes well with both gold and silver jewellery. This means that whatever your other half likes to wear, you shouldn’t have much trouble finding something they’ll love. Here are 10 suggestions for jewellery containing peridot for you to consider:

Earrings
A ring
A necklace
A bracelet
A broach
A locket
A watch
An anklet
A hairpin
Cufflinks

Peridot isn’t one of the most popular gemstones, but because it’s also the August birthstone, both high street and independent jewellers usually have a decent selection. Here at Bridebook, we also work with many fantastic jewellers, who each have their own choice of jewellery and accessories set with peridot. Make sure to take a look during your search for the perfect anniversary gift.

5 floral-inspired gifts for a 16th wedding anniversary

For a gift that’s more floral, you could give your partner the traditional flower to mark 16 years, which is statice. Some say statice actually smells a bit like cat wee, so you won’t see fresh flowers featured in many bouquets. But, it looks beautiful and definitely has its place, so there are still plenty of options out there if you think your partner would love this unusual flower.

1. A dried statice bouquet

Thankfully, dried statice doesn’t have much of a smell but still looks amazing, and when cared for properly it can last a couple of years. So, a dried statice bouquet might be a unique and eye-catching way to treat your partner.

2. Statice sola cube

A statice sola cube preserves the flower inside a cube of resin, which allows your partner to keep hold of their gift forever. It makes for a lovely paperweight or gift which they can display proudly.

3. Statice watercolour art

Because it’s such a pretty flower, statices also serve as the perfect model for artists. That’s why statice watercolour art makes for a stunning addition to any room and is sure to be something your partner will love.

4. Statice earrings

For an affordable and bold way for your partner to show off statice in all its glory, you could give them a pair of statice earrings. Handmade and encapsulated in resin gold hoop earrings, these simply demand attention.

5. A pressed statice bookmark

If your partner loves to read, then a pressed statice bookmark is a simple and elegant design that is beautifully on theme. It’s also a practical gift which your partner can use whenever they pick up a book! Or should that be whenever they put it down…

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Disney Themed Wedding Ideas

Imagine saying ‘I do’ surrounded by the whimsy of your favourite Disney characters, the sparkle of fairy dust, and the promise of happily ever after. A Disney themed wedding is your chance at a real life fairytale. You’ve kissed your frogs, and now it’s time to dance off into the sunset with your prince or princess charming, and get to planning your Disney wedding.

Whether you’re looking for a subtle touch of pixie dust or to go full blown Magic Kingdom, you won’t be disappointed with these Disney themed wedding ideas. Keep reading to learn all about how to throw a truly magical Disney themed wedding. To all invited to your happy day — welcome!

What is a Disney themed wedding?

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A Disney themed wedding is a wedding where the colours, theme, and decor either subtly or blatantly draw inspiration from the beloved world of Disney. Subtle Disney themed weddings might include hidden mickeys, subtle nods to the franchise, or using Disney inspired font or monikers in your wedding.

A more obvious Disney themed wedding might include a Disney princess wedding dress, Disney themed table centrepieces, or even a magical grand entrance inspired by Disney fairytales. You could even show up in Cinderella’s carriage, carry a bouquet of enchanted roses like Belle, or wear Sleeping Beauty’s tiara! The choices are endless.

Princess themed weddings

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Want to feel like royalty on your big day? Check out these Disney princess themed wedding ideas to make your fairytale dreams come true.

Frozen wedding theme

Let the magic of Arendelle come alive with a Frozen-themed wedding. This is the perfect theme if you’re looking for a subtle Disney wedding or want to incorporate your love of chilly weather. To subtly incorporate this theme into your big day, try:

Ice sculpture decor. Lean into the ice cold theme of Frozen, but with an elegant twist. Ice sculptures will need to be created by a professional, and can be created in floral, fairytale, or abstract designs, adding a touch of sophistication to your Frozen-inspired decor.
A braided wedding hairstyle. If you have long and thick hair, a side-braid wedding hairstyle will make you feel like Elsa on your big day. Simply gather your hair to one side and weave it into a loose, romantic braid, allowing a few tendrils to frame your face for a soft, ethereal look. For an extra touch of enchantment, adorn your braid with delicate crystal hairpins or frost-inspired hair accessories that sparkle like snowflakes.
A coat-style belted wedding dress. Lean further into the princess vibes by picking a coat-style wedding dress. Elsa is known for her modest and regal style, and a coat-style gown with a cinched waist and flowing skirt captures her elegant essence perfectly.
Subtle sparkles in the decor. Look for wedding vendors who offer subtly sparkly decor. This will nod to the sparkling look of fresh frost and enhance the magical atmosphere of your Frozen-themed wedding. Consider incorporating twinkling fairy lights, glittering table runners, or crystal accents throughout your venue to evoke the shimmering beauty of Arendelle. You could also use iridescent tablecloths, faux crystals, or glass beads to add a frosty sparkle to your table settings.
A light blue or light purple colour scheme. Infuse the day with Arendelle’s regality by making your colour scheme light blue or light purple. This will act as a subtle nod to your favourite film without overwhelming your guests with your love of Disney. You could use this colour scheme to inspire the bridesmaid’s dresses, the table runners, or floral arrangements.

Beauty and The Beast wedding theme

It’s a tale as old as time, and now it’s going to be the theme of your big day! The timeless nature of Beauty and The Beast means your wedding will be filled with love, enchantment, and maybe a talking clock or two. Check out these fun ideas to infuse the beauty of this magical love story into your big day.

A bouquet of red roses. Symbolising love, passion, and eternal devotion, red roses are a beautiful and classic choice for a wedding bouquet. Plus, they’re an excellent nod to the enchanted red rose in the West Wing of Beast’s Castle.
Candelabra centrepieces. Let Lumière take centre stage on your big day with classic candelabra centrepieces. You can either rent these from a wedding vendor or find your own at antique or charity shops.
A princess ball gown dress. Channel the elegance and grace of Belle with a princess ball gown dress that exudes timeless beauty. With layers of flowing tulle, delicate lace accents, and a fitted bodice, this enchanting gown will make you feel like royalty as you walk down the aisle. Try picking a subtle ivory colour as a nod to Belle’s beautiful golden dress.
A Tale As Old As Time. Hold your first dance to the 1991 classic ‘Tale As Old As Time’. This iconic song captures the essence of Beauty and Beast’s classic love story and is a staple for those wanting a romantic and beautiful first dance song.

Tangled wedding theme

I’ve got a dream, I’ve got a dream!

If you’ve got a dream of throwing the perfect wedding day, a Tangled wedding theme could be the right choice for you. Check out some of these subtle nods to this magical film that you can weave into your big day:

Floating lantern release. Capture the enchantment of the iconic lantern scene in Tangled with a magical floating lantern release. Gather your guests as the sun begins to set, and release glowing lanterns into the night sky, just like Rapunzel and Flynn. Be sure to check with your venue whether this is allowed, and make sure all elements of your lantern are biodegradable.
Lantern decor. Alternatively, consider decorating your venue with colourful paper lanterns for a whimsical appearance. You can hang them from the ceiling, from trees, or place them on tables for an enchanting ambiance.
Tangled-inspired hairstyles. The beauty of Rapunzel is that she has long and short hairstyles throughout the film, so there are plenty of options for all hair lengths and textures. If you wear your hair long and flowing, consider a long braid adorned with flowers and pretty ribbons. If your hair is shorter, try using some wax to give it a subtle spiky texture. Arrange carefully around a tiara and you’ll have the perfect short, but Rapunzel-inspired, hairstyle.
Pink and lavender colour scheme. Tangled is known for its lavender and pink colour palette, so incorporate these hues into your wedding decor for a whimsical and romantic atmosphere. Choose lavender bridesmaid dresses, subtle pink bouquets, or a mix of the two for your other decor.
Sunflowers. Although it would be great to have a bouquet of sundrop flowers, its fictional nature makes that difficult. However, you can incorporate real-life sunflowers into your Tangled-themed wedding as a nod to Rapunzel’s love for these cheerful blooms. Use sunflowers in your bouquets, centrepieces, and other floral arrangements to add a vibrant pop of colour to your decor.

Cinderella wedding theme

A dream is a wish your heart makes, and all your wedding dreams are about to come true.

Walt Disney’s classic fairytale, Cinderella, serves as the perfect inspiration for a magical wedding theme. Let the timeless elegance and enchantment of this beloved story infuse every aspect of your special day. Here are some enchanting ideas to help you create your own Cinderella-inspired wedding:

Something blue. Although it would be magical, glass slippers aren’t likely to be a comfortable or practical choice for your big day. However, you can find a range of beautiful blue wedding shoes that will quench your desire for glass slippers. Bonus — they can double as your something blue!
Horse-drawn carriage entrance. If you want to go all out, consider arriving at your venue in a horse-drawn carriage. These can be rented from specialist wedding vendors and are an unforgettable way to travel to your wedding venue. If you’re getting ready quite far from your venue, you may need to hire a car to bring you some of the way and switch into the carriage closer to the venue.
Pumpkin centrepieces. Pumpkin centrepieces are especially great if you’re planning an autumn or rustic themed wedding. However, they can also be a nod to Cinderella’s pumpkin carriage. Try using a range of different sizes, colours, and textures of pumpkins to create visually interesting centrepieces.
A sophisticated up-do. Cinderella’s high bun is the perfect sophisticated updo for your wedding day. Gather all your hair in a high ponytail, twist it around itself, and pin in place with kirby grips. Sleek down any flyaways with hairspray and use a clean toothbrush to smooth over any bumps. Finally, add a decorative clip, hair jewels, or even a tiara for extra fairytale magic.

Aladdin wedding theme

Prepare to be caught in a dance and lost in trance with an Arabian nights themed wedding.

Aladdin and Jasmine’s love story happens against the beautiful and colourful backdrop of Agrabah, where the magic of the Genie, the romance of the marketplace, and the allure of adventure intertwine for an enchanted and beautiful tale.

For your Aladdin-themed wedding, transport yourself and your guests to the mystical world of Agrabah with these captivating ideas:

Magic carpet aisle runner. Walking down the aisle on top of a magic carpet aisle runner will perfectly encapsulate the theme and intentions of your big day. You’re about to enter a whole new world of marriage, after all! You can find a ton of magic carpet replicas online that will suit all aisle lengths and dimensions.
Moroccan lantern centrepieces. Illuminate your reception with the warm glow of Moroccan lantern centrepieces, casting enchanting shadows and creating an atmosphere reminiscent of the bustling streets of Agrabah. Fill them with candles or fairy lights or scented candles for an authentic and fragrant touch.
Two-piece wedding dress. Take inspiration from Jasmine’s iconic two piece outfit and opt for a top and long skirt for your wedding day. This unusual combination is sure to make you stand out and capture the essence of Jasmine’s bold and independent spirit.
Belly dancer entertainment. If you’re looking for a real show-stopper, this wedding entertainment is for you. Consider hiring authentic belly dancers as after dinner entertainment. Their incredible energy, bright costumes, and authentic music are sure to get the party started. Plus, they can even teach your guests some basic belly dancing moves!

Underwater themed weddings

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If you love the ocean, grew up by the beach, have a passion for marine life, or are dreaming of planning a destination wedding, a Disney underwater-themed wedding is the perfect way to marry (pun not intended) your two passions.

Ariel wedding theme

Life’s full of tough choices, isn’t it? If you can’t decide between themes, colours, and decor, maybe it’s time to take wedding planning into your own tentacles.

A Little Mermaid themed wedding will be a magical journey under the sea, where you and your guests can immerse yourselves in the magical world of Ariel and her friends. Here are some fin-tastic ideas to make your underwater wedding dreams come true:

Seashell decor. The best thing about seashell decor is that it’s pretty, environmentally friendly, and, in most cases, free! Head down to your local beach and see what hidden treasures you can find. You can then create a collection of shells on your table to act as a centrepiece, or even incorporate them into your bouquet or boutonnières for a touch of beachy charm. Consider using larger shells as place card holders or table numbers for a unique and personal touch.
A mermaid tail dress. A mermaid tail wedding dress is the perfect nod to this iconic film without being over-the-top Disney. A mermaid tail dress is usually crafted to accentuate the curves of the body, hugging the hips and thighs before flaring out into a dramatic train, reminiscent of a mermaid’s tail. It’s beautiful, show-stopping, and a great tribute to your favourite princess.
Kiss The Girl. Consider holding your first dance to the iconic “Kiss The Girl” from the original film. Although it may feel a little upbeat for a soulful first dance, this song is absolutely beautiful when slowed down and will set an enchanting tone for your special moment.
Underwater photo booth. Set up a photo booth area with under-the-sea accessories and props. Think bubbles, cardboard fish, seaweed, tiaras, seashells, and giant pearls. You could even add quotes from the films like “But Daddy, I love him!” and “Poor unfortunate souls”!

Lilo and Stitch themed wedding

Ok, ok — we know Lilo and Stitch isn’t technically set underwater. But, there are certainly a lot of tropical, ocean vibes in this film that you could replicate on your big day. Check out some of these creative ideas to turn your wedding into the tropical paradise of Hawai’i:

Tropical floral decor. Bring the lush beauty of Hawai’i to your wedding venue with vibrant tropical blooms like hibiscus, plumeria, and orchids. Use these blooms to create colourful centrepieces, place settings, or other decor. You could add palm leaves, coconuts, and tiki torches around the venue for an authentic island ambiance.
Hawaiian-inspired cuisine. Treat your guests to a taste of the islands with a mouthwatering menu inspired by Hawai’ian cuisine. Serve up traditional dishes like kalua pork, poke bowls, grilled mahi-mahi, and coconut shrimp alongside sides of sticky rice, macaroni salad, and fresh fruit. Don’t forget to include signature cocktails such as Mai Tais, Piña Coladas, or Blue Hawai’ian to keep the good vibes going.
Laid-back attire. Embrace the casual elegance of Hawaiian style with a laid-back wedding dress code. Opt for lightweight fabrics like linen and cotton in vibrant prints and colours reminiscent of island life. For the bride, consider a flowy, floral-printed gown or a simple white dress accessorised with a fresh flower lei. For the groom and groomsmen, Hawaiian shirts paired with khaki pants or shorts are the perfect choice for a relaxed yet stylish look.
Surf’s up photo booth. Create a photo booth area inspired by Lilo and Stitch where guests can capture memories of your tropical paradise wedding. Deck out the space with surfboards, leis, coconuts, and beach balls, and provide props like floral leis, sunglasses, and ukuleles for guests to pose with. Encourage everyone to let loose and strike their best shaka poses for fun and playful photos that capture the spirit of aloha.

Spooky themed weddings

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If you’re throwing an autumn or Halloween-themed wedding, these spooky Disney films could be the perfect choice for your big day.

Haunted Mansion wedding theme

Ready to invite 999 happy haunts to your wedding celebration?

A Haunted Mansion themed wedding is the perfect way to infuse your special day with spooky charm and eerie elegance. Here are some ghoulishly delightful ideas to transform your venue into a haunted estate:

Ghostly decor. Set the stage for your Haunted Mansion wedding with decor inspired by the iconic Disney attraction. Adorn tables with candelabras, antique mirrors, and cobweb-covered candlesticks for a gothic touch.
Creepy cocktails. Serve up signature cocktails that pay homage to the spooky theme of your wedding. Create concoctions like ‘Witch’s Brew’ with vodka, cranberry juice, a splash of lime, and black food colouring. Alternatively, try ‘Deadly Nightshade’ with gin, elderflower liqueur, and muddled blackberries, or a classic Bloody Mary.
Masquerade ball. We know the initial masquerade ball at Gracie Manor didn’t have the best ending. However, the reunion was worth the wait! Consider asking guests to come in costume for a hauntingly chic masquerade ball. Encourage them to channel their inner spirits with attire inspired by Victorian elegance, Gothic romance, or characters from the classic film. Provide masks adorned with feathers, lace, and intricate designs for an air of mystery and intrigue.
Spooky invitations. Set the tone for your haunted affair with invitations that evoke the eerie atmosphere of the Haunted Mansion. Choose stationery adorned with vintage-inspired illustrations of ghosts, bats, and haunted house motifs. You could even seal the envelopes with authentic wax seals for an extra touch of old-world charm.

The Nightmare Before Christmas wedding theme

Ready to live like Jack and Sally? A Nightmare Before Christmas themed wedding is the perfect way to infuse your special day with whimsical charm and spooky romance. Read on for some frightfully delightful ideas to transform your venue into a Halloween town:

Pumpkin king photo booth. Set up a backdrop featuring iconic scenes from the film such as the Spiral Hill or the Halloween town square, and provide props like Jack and Sally masks, pumpkin heads, and tombstones for guests to pose with.
Tim Burton-inspired decor. Set the stage for your Nightmare Before Christmas wedding with decor inspired by the darkly whimsical style of Tim Burton. Adorn tables with black and white stripes, spider webs, and Jack Skellington-inspired centrepieces. Consider drawing inspiration from other spooky Tim Burton films if you’d prefer. Beetlejuice… Beetlejuice…
Jack and Sally cake topper. If The Nightmare Before Christmas is your favourite film, opt for a Jack and Sally cake topper that pays tribute to the beloved characters. If you prefer the other characters, consider an ensemble of Oogie Boogie, Dr. Finkelstein, and Lock.

Cute Disney themed wedding

If you prefer the whimsy and sweetness of old-school Disney, consider incorporating these family favourites into your wedding day.

Lion King wedding theme

Can you feel the love tonight? You needn’t look too far… from you and your wonderful spouse. A Lion King themed wedding is the perfect choice for couples who want to celebrate their love with a touch of African-inspired magic and adventure. Here are some roaringly delightful ideas to bring the Pride Lands to life on your special day:

Hakuna Matata cocktails. Hakuna Matata Mangoritas, anyone? Simply combine tequila, mango puree, and lime juice. Alternatively, try Circle of Life Sangria with red wine, tropical fruits, and a splash of rum. Garnish drinks with edible flowers or fruit skewers for a colourful and refreshing taste of the savannah.
Savannah sunset photo shoot. Capture the magic of the African savannah with a sunset photo shoot inspired by The Lion King. Gather outside for golden hour and have your photographer take a photo of your family, friends, and other guests amidst nature’s beautiful backdrop.
Character table numbers. Use characters from the classic film to name and theme your table numbers. Forget 1,2,3, and 4, your guests will be sitting at Timon, Pumba, Simba, and Nala. Decorate the table with subtle nods to each character, such as miniature figurines, framed illustrations, or themed centrepieces that capture the essence of hakuna matata!

Winnie The Pooh wedding theme

The whimsical world of Winnie The Pooh in the Hundred Acre Wood is the perfect setting for a sweet, fairytale wedding. Just be sure to avoid the heffalumps and woozles!

If you’re looking for a honey-sweet wedding theme filled with nostalgia and charm, Winnie the Pooh will provide endless inspiration for your special day. Here are some special ideas to bring the magic of the Hundred Acre Wood to life:

A Pooh bear picnic. If you’re looking for a laid-back wedding reception, consider holding a Pooh bear picnic for your guests. Set out cosy blankets, picnic baskets, and cushions for a relaxed dining experience. Serve finger sandwiches, strawberries and cream, crisps, fruit platters, or whatever you fancy. Encourage guests to mingle, relax, and enjoy the simple pleasures of good food and great company in the relaxed environment.
Honeycomb wedding favours. Chocolate covered honeycomb or cinder toffee is the perfect homemade wedding favour. You can find easy-to-follow recipes for cinder toffee online. Once baked, allow to cool, cover in chocolate, and separate into individual plastic bags. Seal with a twist-tie and add some ribbons or a decorative label. It’s the perfect, honey-themed wedding favour.
Pooh’s pot of wishes. Set up a large decorative ‘hunny’ pot near your guestbook and ask guests to offer special wishes for your wedding day and married life. Watching the pot fill with wishes from loved ones will warm your heart and create a cherished keepsake to treasure for years to come, just like the honey pots in the Hundred Acre Wood. This is one of many great alternative guestbook ideas.

Original Mickey Mouse themed wedding

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If you prefer the classic Disney stories, consider using the timeless charm of Mickey Mouse as the inspiration for your wedding day.

From the iconic ears to the cheerful colour palette, a Mickey Mouse themed wedding is sure to bring joy and nostalgia to your celebration. Here are some ideas to make your wedding as magical as Mickey himself. After all, it all started with a mouse!

Hidden Mickey decor. Add a touch of Disney magic to your wedding decor with hidden Mickeys scattered throughout the venue. Incorporate subtle nods to Mickey Mouse in your table centrepieces, floral arrangements, and signage for a whimsical and enchanting touch that true Disney fans will adore. It’s just like Main Street USA!
Mickey-inspired table names. Name your tables after classic Disney characters or shows. Names like ‘Steamboat Willie’, ‘Fantasia’, and ‘Once Upon a Christmas’ all nod to the rich history of Disney and will add an extra layer of charm to your reception.
A special guest. You could invite the big mouse himself to your wedding reception if you’re looking for a truly unforgettable experience. This will be easier if you’re planning a Disneyland or Disneyworld wedding. However, it’s still possible in a traditional venue. Be sure to offer Mickey a plus-one so he can bring along his sweetheart, Minnie Mouse!

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Whether you want to feel like a fairy princess, dream of an ooky-spooky Halloween bash, or simply hope to add a touch of pixie dust to your big day, a Disney themed wedding is the choice for you. It’s all about capturing the magic, nostalgia, and whimsy of this magical franchise.

From enchanting decor to whimsical details, every element of your wedding can be transformed into a magical experience that you and your guests will cherish forever. So, whether you’re saying “I do” in the Hundred Acre Wood, dancing under the stars in Agrabah, or toasting to happily ever after with Mickey and Minnie, let your Disney dreams come true and create a wedding day that’s straight out of a fairytale.

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Venue Showcase: Cherish Every Moment at Lillibrooke Manor and Barns

Welcome to Lillibrooke Manor and Barns, a picturesque historical estate nestled in the heart of Berkshire. Steeped in charm and elegance, this exclusive-use venue offers a luxuriously romantic yet rustic setting for couples to celebrate their love story in the most flexible way possible. From the lovingly restored barns to the enchanting Manor House, every corner of Lillibrooke Manor exudes romance and sophistication. Join us as we explore the beauty and versatility of this stunning venue, where love stories unfold amidst history and grandeur.

Highlights of the venue

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At Lillibrooke Manor and Barns, couples are offered complete flexibility to bring their unique wedding vision to life. Whether you envision an intimate gathering or a grand celebration, the venue provides a variety of beautiful barns and outdoor spaces for ceremonies and receptions of every kind. From the quintessentially English Cloister Garden to the romantic Small Barn with its country-church atmosphere, the possibilities are endless. Most notably, Lilibrooke boasts one of the largest barns in the South of England.

Key facilities and accommodation

You can choose from a variety of beautiful barns for your ceremony and reception, and use the gorgeous grounds and gardens in whatever way you wish.

When the weather permits, their quintessentially English Cloister Garden is a picturesque space for having an outdoor wedding ceremony.
For indoors, their Small Barn has a country-church atmosphere, which makes for a beautiful one-of-a-kind romantic setting and accommodates up to 130 guests.
Their magnificent Great Barn is a dazzling space with a high-beamed ceiling and iron chandeliers which opens into a secluded garden with an outdoor kitchen. This Grade II listed barn is one of the largest in the south of England. It has a bar, dancefloor and boasts a capacity to entertain up to 220 of loved ones.
The adjoining hexagonal Engine House is a perfect space for drinks receptions, chillout area, children’s activities – the options are limitless!

Award-winning expertise

At Lillibrooke Manor and Barns, the award-winning team is dedicated to ensuring that every moment of your wedding day is perfect and unforgettable. From seamless coordination to exquisite culinary creations, the experts are committed to bringing each couple’s unique vision to life. Led by Head Chef Krimo Merrir, the extraordinary culinary team delights guests’ taste buds with a day of delicious food, tailored to preferences and dietary requirements.

The venue is also proud of its awards and industry recognition, including:

Best of Bridebook Country Champion 2022
Platinum Certificate of Excellence: Bridebook Wedding Awards 2019
Association of British Wedding Businesses: Founding Mmeber
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Memorable moments at Lilibrooke

Gemma Thomas, who works within the venue’s Sales & Events team, shares the following when it comes to recalling the most memorable or standout moments at Lilibrooke : “We don’t have favourites! All weddings are unique and brilliant in our view. We have had such a variety of themes, from circus, fairs and festival to glamorous black tie. That’s why we say “your day your way”. We mean it! So if you want Bridgerton or vintage, boho or garden party, you’ll be at the right place when you book Lillibrooke Manor and Barns.”

The venue also shares their top tips for couples planning their wedding, and we couldn’t have said it better ourselves: “Don’t get lost in all the details and stress of planning a wedding, and instead, make sure to prioritise what truly makes you happy and will make your day feel special to you as a couple.”

Spring and autumn showcases

Couples are invited to join Lillibrooke Manor and Barns for their upcoming spring and autumn showcase events, where they can explore the beauty of the venue firsthand. Meander through the grounds, envisioning the perfect wedding day amidst the splendour of the Grade II listed estate. The doors will be open for couples to discover the magic for themselves and make plans for their big day.

Spring Showcase Event: 14th April 2024
Autumn Showcase Event: 13th October 2024

Head on over to their own events page to find out more and secure your spot.

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Treasure every moment of your big day at Lillibrooke Manor and Barns, where history meets romance in the heart of Berkshire. Contact the venue today to begin your journey of creating lifelong memories amidst the timeless beauty of this fabulous exclusive-use venue. Your dream wedding and love story await!

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How to Plan a Disney Wedding

You’ve found your happily ever after, and now it’s time to tie the knot in the happiest place on earth. If you’re stuck choosing between getting married at Disneyland or Disney World, umming and ahhing over Dole Whip or Mickey Waffle puddings, or simply want to add an extra touch of pixie dust to your special day, this is the article for you.

This post explores everything you need to know about planning your dream Disney wedding at one of their magical locations. From the locations and venues to flowers and those special finishing touches, everything you need to know about your dream Disney wedding is right here!

What is a Disney wedding?

A Disney wedding is a wedding that happens at one of Disney’s magical locations. They’re known for their attention to detail, magical backdrops, and personal touches that make every Disney wedding completely unique. Plus, where else can you invite the big mouse himself to be a special guest on your big day?

If you grew up watching Disney, had a magical holiday at one of the parks, or even just want a genuine prince or princess experience on your big day, a Disney wedding could be the perfect choice for you.

What is a Disney themed wedding?

A Disney themed wedding is slightly different to a Disney wedding in that it doesn’t necessarily have to happen at a Disney resort. Instead, you can take all the magic, special touches, and pixie dust and transfer it to a location of your choice. This is perfect for couples who want to incorporate their love for Disney into their wedding day but may not be able to have their ceremony at a Disney resort.

With a Disney-themed wedding, you have the flexibility to choose any venue that suits your style and preferences, whether it’s a ballroom, a stately home, a beach, a forest, or even your own garden. The key is to infuse every aspect of your wedding with the enchantment and wonder of Disney, from the decor and entertainment to the attire and menu.

The flexibility (and reduced cost) of a Disney themed wedding is the happy medium many newlyweds are looking for. Learn more about Disney themed weddings here.

Step 1: Pick your dream venue

First thing’s first — you need to decide which magical location will be the backdrop for your special day. You have four locations to choose from:

The location you chose will depend on your preferences, budget, and desired atmosphere. There are multiple venues at each location, so there’s plenty of flexibility around dates. We’ve included a few details about some of our favourite venues at each location, but be sure to do your own research to find the place that’s right for you.

Disney World Florida Weddings

With 48 venues to choose from, you’re sure to find the perfect setting for your dream Disney wedding at Disney World Florida. Here are just a few of our favourite venues at this magical location:

Best for a budget: Tree Of Life, Animal Kingdom

The Tree Of Life in Animal Kingdom is one of the most breathtaking locations in the park, and it’s perfect for those doing a Disney wedding on a budget! With a venue fee of $4,500 and a brunch pricing of $140 per person, you can plan a morning wedding for 50 people for $11,500. Plus, you’ll then have all day to explore the park with your guests, creating unforgettable memories together.

Bear in mind that there’s a $15,000 minimum spend, meaning you’ll need to make up the $3,500 extra with flowers, photography, and optional extras.

Showstopping: The Grand Floridian Ballroom

The Grand Floridian Ballroom combines Victorian elegance with the magic of Disney for a wedding reception that’s truly show stopping. Be warned, this is definitely one of the priciest options for a Disney wedding. But, with crystal chandeliers, ornate brass lamps, and beautifully manicured English rose gardens, this opulent venue is worth every penny.

The most magical: Magic Kingdom Park

Get married in the middle of the happiest place on earth with an after hours Magic Kingdom park wedding. With a spectacular view of Cinderella’s castle and surrounded by happy park goers, this venue is perfect for those who want a true Disney experience.

Princess vibes: East Plaza Gardens

If you’re looking for something a little more princessy than a Magic Kingdom Park wedding, try East Plaza gardens. With another beautiful view of Cinderella castle, this location is slightly more secluded but surrounded by the most beautiful pink flowers and lush greenery, creating a romantic and fairytale wedding atmosphere. This location is sure to make you feel like royalty as you embark on your happily ever after.

Low-key Disney: Destino Plaza, Coronado Springs

If you want the magic of a Disney wedding while still keeping it low-key and classy, Destino Plaza at Coronado Springs could be the place for you. Looking out over the beautiful Golden Lake, Destino Plaza is the perfect mix of elegance and Disney charm. With its Mediterranean-inspired architecture, lush landscaping, and tranquil waterfront setting, Destino Plaza offers a serene backdrop for your wedding day that could easily not be a Disney venue.

Disneyland California Weddings

If you’re a fan of the OG, a wedding at Disneyland California could be right for you. Check out some of our favourite venues at this beautiful and classic location.

Best for a budget: Wedding Garden, The Grand Californian

The Grand Californian Wedding garden has a venue hire price of $4,000 and is perfect for couples looking to have a Disney wedding on a budget. With its lush greenery, charming gazebo, and picturesque surroundings, the Wedding Garden at The Grand Californian offers a romantic setting for your special day without breaking the bank.

Showstopping: Small World Mall

We know, we know — it’s not everyone’s favourite ride. But, it’s quintessential Disney and a truly showstopping backdrop for your I dos. If you’re looking for something unique and unforgettable, consider the It’s A Small World Ride for your special day.

The most magical: Rose Court Garden

The Rose Court Garden at the Disneyland Hotel boasts over 500 beautiful rose bushes, dreamy hedgerows, and a lush canopy of trees over your head. Plus, the bride (or groom!) can choose to arrive at the ceremony in Cinderella’s crystal carriage! What could be more magical?

Princess vibes: Sleeping Beauty Castle Forecourt

With Sleeping Beauty’s beautiful castle behind you, a classical harpist playing your song selections, and your pre-reception in front of King Arthur’s Carousel, this truly is a once- in- a lifetime celebration. Plan your ceremony at night for extra magic and watch the castle light up with dazzling fireworks, creating a magical backdrop for your princess-inspired wedding.

The Sleeping Beauty Castle Forecourt offers the perfect blend of romance, elegance, and Disney charm, making it the ultimate venue for couples seeking the royal treatment.

Low-key Disney: The Grand Californian Hotel Ballroom

If you want a non-Disney, Disney wedding, consider the Grand Californian Hotel Ballroom. With its sophisticated decor, spacious layout, and versatile design, this ballroom provides a neutral canvas for couples to create their dream wedding atmosphere. Plus, it’s nestled right in the heart of Disneyland Resort, making it a convenient location for post-wedding park exploration, firework watching, or simply soaking in the magical ambiance of the resort.

Disney Resorts Hawai’i Weddings

If you want to live your Lilo and Stitch dream, Disney’s paradise resort, Aulani in Hawai’i, is the perfect tropical backdrop for your big day. Check out some of our favourite venues for twilight, beachy, or showstopping weddings:

Beach vibes: ‘Ama ‘Ama Patio

The ‘Ama ‘Ama open- air venue can accommodate up to 60 guests and has beautiful views of the Atlantic ocean. This venue really leans into the tropical vibes, offering a flower- lined aisle, stunning water features, and tropical palm trees overhead. If you dream of being Moana on your big day, this is the choice for you.

Showstopping: Kaiona Ballroom

The Kaiona Ballroom is an iconic wedding venue. Named for a local mountain goddess who helps lost souls find their way home, what better place to begin your journey as a married couple? Situated on the stunning grounds of Disney Resorts Hawai’i, the Kaiona Ballroom is a truly enchanting setting with gorgeous chandeliers, royal regalia throughout, and beautiful feather leis.

Twilight ceremony: Kula Wai

Kula Wai is a tranquil retreat with an attached Disney spa. It’s beautiful during the day, but if you’re looking for a twilight wedding, Kula Wai is truly spectacular. Kula Wai can accommodate up to 20 guests and the wedding ceremony takes place between two whirlpool spas that are illuminated at night. You can hang twinkling lights, beautiful crystals, or flowers from the trees for that finishing touch, and even have your guests enjoy the spa facilities after the ceremony. If you’re looking for something truly special, this is the place for you.

Low-key Disney: All The Hawai’i Venues

All of the Hawai’i venues are pretty low-key Disney. You may find a hidden Mickey here or there, but if you’re looking for a Disney ceremony that could easily not be Disney, the Hawai’i resorts are the place for you.

Disney Cruise Weddings

There are 4 Disney cruise liners that offer Disney weddings on board. These are the Disney magic, Disney Wonder, Disney Dream, and Disney Fantasy.

The beauty of a Disney Cruise weddings is that you can either get married on board or at one of their port destinations. For example, couples on Disney Cruise Line Bahamian or Caribbean cruise vacations can choose to get married at Castaway Cay in the Bahamas. Alternatively, you could get married on board in the Atrium, on the deck, or in the outlook lounge. All these venues will look and feel slightly different based on which cruise liner you choose. Be sure to work closely with your Disney wedding planner to ensure that every detail is tailored to your preferences and vision.

Step 2: Enlist your Disney Wedding Team

Planning a Disney wedding means you need to engage with your Disney Wedding Team. They’re the gatekeepers to the wedding of your dreams and will work with you to create a magical and unforgettable experience. Enlisting a Disney Wedding Team is an essential step in the planning process, as these planners have the expertise, resources, and attention to detail to bring your vision to life.

You’ll need to input your contact details into the Disney Wedding website and a wedding planner will be in touch shortly. Think of them as the fairy godmothers who will make all your wedding dreams come true!

Step 3: Pick your dining package

With the support of your Disney wedding planner, you’ll need to pick a dining package. There are usually 3 options for dining packages and they’re related to the time of day that you have your ceremony. For example, brunch comes in at $140 per person, lunch is $180 per person, and dinner is $240 per person. There’s an additional 6.5% sales tax added on top of this, and a 25% gratuity as is expected in the US.

Each venue has different options for their menus, which fit the theme of the locations. There’d is also an option for a buffet style menu, canapes, and the option to have your wedding cake made on site. This will increase the cost of your wedding, but means you won’t have to organise a separate wedding cake, saving you precious time and effort in the run up to your big day.

Step 4: Add the finishing touches

Every Disney wedding has a minimum spend, and most of this will be made up in the finishing touches. You Disney wedding planner can help you with:

- Flowers. Including bouquets, button holes, and decorative flowers
- Photographers and videographers.
- Extra decor.
- Entertainment. Including bands, DJs, dancers, Disney characters, and more.
- Transportation. This includes classic cars, carriages, and more.

Work closely with your wedding planner to put together a day that reflects your and your partner. If you have a specific idea in mind, a film you’d like to recreate, or a theme you want to incorporate, don’t hesitate to share it with your wedding planner. They’ll wave their magic wands and work with you to bring your vision to life. Their job is to make sure every detail is exactly how you dreamed it would be, so don’t be afraid to share your most special memories with them.

Step 5: Everything else

This is the final step in planning your dream Disney wedding: to plan everything that Disney wedding planners can’t help you with. For example, your dress, suits, hair, makeup, and other personal details that are unique to you and your partner. While Disney wedding planners are great at planning the overall event and managing the logistics, it’s up to you to take care of the personal touches that will make your wedding day truly special.

Check out our step-by-step wedding planning guide to find out more.

Make your dreams come true with a Disney wedding

Whether you grew up going to Disney, have always loved the films, or just want to feel like a prince or princess on your special day, a Disney wedding could be the perfect choice for you. These fairytales don’t come cheap, but they offer an unparalleled level of magic, luxury, and attention to detail that’s sure to make your wedding day truly unforgettable. This day is once in a lifetime, after all!

The key steps in planning your dream Disney wedding are to pick a location, work closely with your wedding planner, and embrace the magic of Disney every step of the way. Don’t be afraid to let your imagination run wild. It’s your wedding planner’s job to make all your dreams come true!

So, whether it’s recreating a scene from your favourite film, inviting your favourite characters to the big day, or even adding a touch of magic with fireworks or light effects, the possibilities are endless when it comes to planning a Disney wedding. It’s time to share a whole new world with your partner, and a Disney wedding is the perfect way to kick off this Disney dream.

Frequently Asked Questions

Can you ask someone to marry you at Disney?

You absolutely can! Popular locations include in front of Cinderella or Sleeping Beauty’s castle, in front of the Epcot Ball in Florida, or right in the middle of Main Street USA. Look out for a PhotoPass photographer to professionally capture your special moment!

How many people get married at Disney?

Around 4,000 people a year get married at Disney locations all over the world.

How many guests can you have at a Disney wedding?

The number of guests you can invite ranges based on the size of the venue. You can invite anywhere from 2 to 300 guests at the large wedding pavilion. Just make sure you save room for the guests of honour — Mickey and Minnie!

What characters can you have at a Disney wedding?

All of them, if you’d like! The most popular guests are Mickey and Minnie, of course. But you can also have Donald, Daisy, Pluto, Goofy, Chip, Dale, and many more.

Can you renew your vows at Disney World?

Yes, you absolutely can! Disney wedding planners will also be involved with this, but plenty of people renew their vows in intimate ceremonies at the Disney parks.

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14th Wedding Anniversary Gifts: 50 Anniversary Gift Ideas

If you’re about to celebrate your 14th wedding anniversary, it’s an incredibly exciting milestone in your marriage. 14 years is a long time to spend with someone, and you no doubt know everything there is to know about your partner. As part of your celebrations, you might be looking to give your other half a gift that’s special enough to reflect this fabulous milestone. But, what on earth can you give them that’s worthy of 14 years of marriage?

Well, did you know that there are traditional and modern 14th anniversary gifts? These gifts are extra special because they’re filled with historical meaning, which can elevate them above other types of gifts. There is also a traditional flower and traditional gemstone, so if you are keen to give your partner a blooming beautiful bouquet or piece of sparkly jewellery, you can do so and make sure it’s filled with symbolic meaning.

These traditional and modern gifts have been given by couples for over a century, so they’re definitely something to consider during your hunt for the ideal gift. In this article, we’ll dive into these gifts, including the traditional flower and gemstone, and offer you loads of suggestions if it’s something you’d like to do. That means you can give your partner a gift that’s got plenty of history behind it and tells them exactly how you feel.

For more information about different anniversary gifts and traditions from all the different milestones from 1 to 90 years, read our complete year-by-year wedding anniversary gift guide.

What are traditional and modern gifts for a 14th wedding anniversary?

The traditional and modern 14th wedding anniversary gifts

Both traditional and modern gifts have been given by couples to each other for more than 100 years, which means, by today’s standards, they’re potentially a little outdated compared to how we view things now. But, it’s what the gifts stand for that’s important, and with a little creativity, you can still give gifts linked to both the traditional and modern themes.

Traditional 14th anniversary gift – Ivory

The traditional 14th anniversary gift is ivory, the material from which elephant tusks are made. Ivory is incredibly durable, and is traditionally a symbol of elegance and beauty. However, not only is ivory morally wrong, as collecting it results in the death of elephants, but it’s also illegal. As a cruelty-free and legal alternative, an ivory-coloured or elephant-inspired gift is a great way to honour this gift without having to worry about the moral or ethical implications.

Modern 14th anniversary gift – Gold jewellery

The modern 14th anniversary gift is gold jewellery. Gold jewellery symbolises wealth and prosperity, which reflects the love shared by you and your partner. Gold jewellery can be a little pricey, so may be out of your budget, but there are ways to give your partner a little taste of gold jewellery without breaking the bank.

14th anniversary gemstone – Opal

The traditional 14th anniversary gemstone is opal. Opal is an absolutely stunning gemstone, which comes in an array of incredible colours and is often multi-coloured. It represents hope and truth, which is a lovely way to honour 14 years of marriage. Because of the assortment of colours opal can be found in, it’s a versatile addition to a wide variety of jewellery and accessories.

14th anniversary flower – Orchid

For a floral treat for your partner, you could give them the traditional 14th anniversary flower: the orchid. Orchids are delicate, exotic and beautiful flowers which are stunning as part of an arrangement or planted in a pot. They do take a little bit of work to care for, but it’s absolutely worth it, and is still totally accessible for beginner horticulturalists. Orchids represent love and beauty, as well as fertility – so if you have a couple of kids by now, an orchid would be rather appropriate!

How do you choose a gift for a 14th wedding anniversary?

For your 14th anniversary, you might rack your brain to think of the perfect gift for your partner. Next year is a big milestone with your 15th wedding anniversary, which makes it an extra special one. But, you can still make your 14th special and memorable too. Here are a few things to consider before deciding what to get your other half.

Are you happy giving your partner something linked to the traditional or modern 14th anniversary themes? Ivory and gold jewellery aren’t necessarily the most accessible of themes, but if you love the sentiment behind them there are ways to be creative with them.
What’s your agreed budget, if you have one? Ivory can be a theme that can be interpreted in different ways, but gold jewellery not so much, which means it can be rather pricey.
Are you keen to give your partner a gift which is personalised? Both the traditional and modern gifts can be tricky to personalise, but not impossible.
What sort of gift might your partner hope to receive? For example, have they hinted at gold jewellery or even something linked to ivory or elephants?

Do you know a couple who will soon be celebrating their 14th wedding anniversary? If so, you might be wondering if you can buy them a gift which is closely linked to the traditional and modern 14th anniversary themes. Well, the simple answer is, of course you can! Gifts related to the themes are open to everyone, so if you have an idea for the perfect gift then give away! We’re sure they’ll not only love it, but appreciate the thought and meaning behind your gift too.

50 ideas for a 14th wedding anniversary gift

Are you excited to give your partner a 14th anniversary gift closely linked to the traditional or modern themes, but not quite sure where to start? After all, how can you choose unique gold jewellery or a gift linked to ivory? There are plenty of options out there, you might just have to think outside the box a little! So, here are 50 ideas for 14th anniversary gifts so you can give your other half something they’ll never forget.

10 traditional gifts for a 14th wedding anniversary

For a gift with traditional flair, you might want to consider giving your partner a gift associated with ivory. Now, ivory is of course illegal today, but that doesn’t mean you can’t find an on-theme gift. Instead of ivory itself, you could find your partner a gift associated with the colour ivory or something related to elephants. Here are 10 suggestions to give you a little inspiration.

1. An ivory grey photo frame

Ivory is a massively appealing and versatile colour thanks to how neutral it is, so it’ll go with almost any style or colour scheme. So, you could print off your favourite wedding photo from 14 years ago and stick it in an ivory grey photo frame, which your partner could hang on the wall, put on a sideboard, or proudly display on their desk.

2. An ivory white silk scarf

Because ivory goes with almost any other colour, it’s perfect for most fashion items and accessories. That’s why an ivory white silk scarf is often a safe gift to give, because no matter what kind of thing your partner likes to wear, ivory will often complement it well.

3. An incredible elephant sculpture

Elephants are beautiful animals, which is another reason why ivory poachers are so cruel. One gift that truly celebrates these gentle giants is an elephant sculpture, which can be displayed in your home as an eye-catching centrepiece.

4. A personalised elephant wall plaque

For a cute piece of personalisation, you might want to choose a personalised elephant wall plaque. If you have a growing family, you can choose the number of elephants to include on it, and each of their names to accompany them. You can also choose the wording in the central star to wish your beloved a happy anniversary.

5. Elephants in love ceramic figures

An adorable gift that perfectly sums up the love you and your partner share is a pair of elephants in love ceramic figures. With their trunks entwined, it symbolises how the two of you are one and always there for each other.

6. An ivory-coloured bouquet

Ivory makes for a gorgeous colour when it comes to flowers, and an ivory dreams bouquet will truly make an impact on your anniversary. The subtle ivory really comes to life against the lusciousness of the green foliage.

7. Imitation ivory combs

In the olden days, the upper classes would often have combs made from ivory. Call back to those times with imitation ivory combs, which look just like the real thing but are far kinder to elephants.

8. An elephant crochet craft kit

They say an elephant never forgets, and your partner won’t forget your anniversary any time soon with an elephant crochet craft kit. They’ll be able to create their very own adorable little elephant to treasure forever.

9. An ivory paper rose

For a gift as showstopping as it is delicate, an ivory paper rose has all the beauty of a real rose but is guaranteed never to wilt. The ultimate symbol of love combined with the important meaning of ivory on your 14th anniversary.

10. An ivory leather clutch bag

If the two of you are heading out to celebrate on your anniversary, you might want to treat your partner to an ivory leather clutch bag, which is super smart and stylish and will go with almost any type of outfit.

10 modern gifts for a 14th wedding anniversary

If you’re not quite sold on the idea of ivory, you could give your partner the modern 14th anniversary gift, which is gold jewellery. While other themes allow for a lot of outside-the-box thinking and creativity, gold jewellery is exactly what it says on the tin. But, there are a lot of different types of gold jewellery out there to choose from, so whatever your partner likes, you’re bound to find something that appeals to them and their tastes. Here are just 10 you might like to consider.

1. Tiffany & Co. heart tag stud earrings

Tiffany & Co. is a fabulously luxurious brand and, if your budget allows, makes for a great anniversary gift. A pair of Tiffany heart tag stud earrings fits the theme perfectly and will go with almost any type of outfit on a whole host of occasions.

2. A gold watch

The modern gift for 15 years of marriage is a watch, so why not get in there a year early? Combine the modern options for 14 and 15 years with a gold watch that your partner will never see coming!

3. A gold bracelet

The great thing about gold bracelets is that they come in a range of sizes and styles, so no matter what type of jewellery your partner loves, you’re likely to find one that suits their taste.

4. A gold signature name necklace

A wonderful way to personalise a piece of jewellery for your partner is with a gold signature name necklace. Choose your partner’s name and the type of chain they’d love for a truly one-of-a-kind piece.

5. A gold ring

Whether your partner likes a ring that’s dainty, chunky, patterned, set with a stone, a plain band or something else entirely, you can be sure that there’s a gold ring out there for them.

6. A gold brooch

Brooches are something of a lost accessory by today’s standards, but they shouldn’t be. They’re big, bold and beautiful, and can really elevate any outfit, especially if your partner will soon be attending a special occasion and will be dressing up. A gold brooch can be an absolute showstopper.

7. Gold bangles

Bangles are similar to bracelets but with a few small differences. Some people prefer one to the other, and if your partner is a big fan of bangles, then a gold bangle is likely a solid choice of gift for your 14th anniversary.

8. A pair of gold cufflinks

If your partner regularly wears suits or has to dress up for the odd special occasion, then they can’t have too many cufflinks. A nice pair of gold cufflinks is something they can always wear for a reminder of your amazing milestone.

9. A gold nose ring

Does your partner have their nose pierced? If so, a gold nose ring is a lovely on-theme gift that’s sure to be a massive surprise. These may be small pieces of jewellery, but can be super impactful and come in a variety of styles. Perfect if your partner is seeking a subtle and elegant addition to their look.

10. A gold anklet

If you have a holiday planned where you and your partner will spend many hours relaxing by a pool or on the beach, a gold anklet is a unique way to give them an on-theme anniversary gift that they’ll be able to show off.

5 affordable gifts for a 14th wedding anniversary

Anniversary gifts can be pricey, especially if you decide to stick to the traditional or modern gifts such as gold jewellery. But, just because you want to give your partner something filled with meaning doesn’t mean you have to pay loads for the privilege. In fact, you can still get your other half a thoughtful 14th anniversary gift without breaking the bank. Here are five suggestions for brilliant token gifts which are still full of romantic symbolism.

1. A porcelain elephant in a matchbox

For the sweetest, pocket-sized gesture of love that’s packed full of historical 14th anniversary sentiment, a porcelain elephant in a matchbox is adorable and hard to beat, with the added bonus of being super affordable too.

2. An elephant-themed greetings card

If you’re considering getting your partner a gift, then chances are you’re also thinking about getting them a card. Why not bring that traditional gift-giving meaning into that with an elephant-themed greeting card? It’s a great way to personalise their card and make it specific to your 14th anniversary.

3. Gold sun anniversary card

If gold is more your partner’s thing, a gold sun anniversary card is a smart way to combine their card with the modern gift. It also means they’ll have a small keepsake of your 14th anniversary to hold onto forever.

4. A gold sunbeam ring

Gold jewellery can often be quite pricey, which means it’s not always an option if you’re on a budget. However, a gold stainless steel sunbeam ring totally counts and is a great way to give your partner an affordable gift which has all the historical meaning behind it.

5. A faux IKEA orchid

If you think your partner would love an orchid, but they’re not confident with keeping plants alive and you don’t want to risk, it a faux orchid from IKEA could be everything you’re looking for! And it looks great, so win-win.

5 DIY gifts for a 14th wedding anniversary

Nothing says romance quite like a homemade anniversary gift, which you can tie into the themes and show just how much effort you’ve put into it. But, we hear you ask, how on earth are you supposed to make a gift linked to ivory or gold jewellery? Well, you might be surprised – there are plenty of things you can do to make your partner something with your own two hands. Here are five creative ideas for DIY 14th anniversary gifts.

1. DIY ivory fabric bunting

We decorate for loads of different occasions, from holidays to birthdays – so why not apply the same effort to your anniversary? And there’s no better way to decorate than with homemade anniversary bunting using ivory fabric. Fabric is fairly affordable, and a video tutorial will tell you everything you need to know to make it yourself.

2. A DIY ivory headband

With a little ivory fabric and some elastic, you might be able to cobble together a few bits from around the house to make your partner a DIY ivory headband. Headbands are in fashion at the moment, so not only will it be thoughtful and on-theme, but your partner can wear it proudly too. Check out tutorial for all the steps on how to sew a headband.

3. A DIY gold wire sculpture

Even if you don’t have any experience, with a little patience and time, you can create a striking DIY gold wire sculpture. You might need a couple of tools, but gold wire is very affordable and can be both rewarding and easy to work with. Watch a video tutorial for information on how to get started.

4. DIY gold wire jewellery

If you have some gold wire (and if you don’t, you can pick some up cheaply) there are loads of things you can do with it, including making gold wire jewellery. You can make everything from earrings to bracelets, and it’s straightforward to pick up. Browse Pinterest for some great wire jewellery ideas.

5. DIY gold jewellery

Want a crack at making jewellery but you’re not sure your partner will like wire jewellery? A jewellery-making kit provides you with all the tools and materials you need to make a wide variety of jewellery with plenty of gold accessories to include.

5 experience or activity gifts for a 14th wedding anniversary

Not that you need an excuse to spend time with the love of your life, but your anniversary is the perfect time to whisk your partner away to experience something new, fun or exciting together. And, there are plenty of experience or activity gifts which tie directly into the traditional and modern 14th anniversary themes. Here are five ideas to give you the most memorable anniversary ever.

1. Meet an elephant at Whipsnade Zoo

We know that it’s important for you and your love to spend quality time together on your anniversary, but there’s no harm in the two of you also sharing that time with an elephant. Whipsnade Zoo offers a meet the elephants experience so you can make some new friends on your big day!

2. Elephant keeper experience

If you think your partner would like to do more than simply meet an elephant, and has always fancied having a go at caring for them, an elephant keeper experience at Noah’s Ark Zoo Farm is sure to be an anniversary gift they’ll never forget.

3. Go on a safari

For a wild adventure which lets you see animals from all over the world (including elephants, of course) without having to leave the UK, you could treat your other half to a trip to Woburn Safari Park. Then, for the icing on the cake, a meal in a pub in nearby Woburn village will be a great end to the day (which could include a cake for dessert… literally the icing on the cake).

4. A jewellery-making experience

Has your partner ever talked about how much they’d like to try jewellery making? Now is the perfect opportunity, with a jewellery-making experience. You can both have a go at making jewellery yourself under the guidance of an expert.

5. Tour Britain’s only Roman gold mine

The UK isn’t exactly known for its gold mines, but, did you know that West Wales is home to Britain’s only Roman gold mine? Take a tour of Dolaucothi Gold Mines and learn all about how the Romans mined gold right here in the UK.

10 14th anniversary gifts that contain opal

The traditional 14th anniversary gemstone is opal, a blindingly brilliant stone which comes in so many different colours that it’s practically impossible to find two that are the same. What isn’t impossible, however, is finding one that your partner will love. Because of their versatility, opals are great when set in all different types of jewellery made from almost every different precious metal there is. If you think your other half might love jewellery set with opal, you might want to consider any one of the following 10 ideas:

Earrings
A ring
A necklace
A bracelet
A broach
A locket
A watch
An anklet
A hairpin
Cufflinks

Opals are a fairly common stone, so they can be relatively affordable. That said, some of the more valuable opals, such as black opal, can be incredibly expensive. So, opal is a great stone to suit a wide range of budgets. You shouldn’t have many issues finding opal jewellery at most high street and independent jewellers. At Bridebook, we’ve partnered with a huge number of jewellers who have their own selections of opal jewellery, so check them out and take a look to see if they have something that suits your partner’s tastes.

5 floral-inspired gifts for a 14th wedding anniversary

Flowers are always a great gift to give on your anniversary, and are sure to put you in your partner’s good books. But, to make sure your floral gift has more meaning behind it than any other bouquet you might choose, the traditional flower for your 14th anniversary is the orchid. Orchids are stunning and fill a room with elegance and life, and their striking look can inspire other gifts. Below are five orchid-themed gifts to consider giving your partner on your anniversary.

1. A white heart orchid

Giving your partner an orchid is one thing, but a white heart orchid from M&S features an orchid shaped like a heart, with a heart token hanging from the centre. It’s the ultimate symbol of love made from the ultimate flower for celebrating 14 years.

2. A rose gold orchid necklace

Orchids are iconic blooms and work wonderfully well when included in jewellery. A rose gold orchid necklace combines two 14th anniversary gifts in the form of the traditional flower and modern gift, which makes it a double-hitter for your big milestone.

3. A crocheted orchid

If your partner loves orchids but struggles to keep them alive, a crocheted orchid looks almost as good as the real thing, except it’ll never die and will always remain as vibrant as the day you give it to your partner.

4. A freesia and orchid-scented candle

Help create a romantic atmosphere on the evening of your anniversary with a freesia and orchid-scented candle, which smells gloriously floral and sweet and will last around 42 hours.

5. LEGO orchids

Do you and your partner love building LEGO sets together? If so, a brilliant choice of anniversary gift is a LEGO orchid set, which is fun and satisfying to build and looks almost as good as the real thing when finished.

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Venue Showcase: Culinary Delights at The Cadogan Arms

Nestled in the heart of Chelsea’s vibrant King’s Road, just a stone’s throw from Chelsea Old Town Hall, The Cadogan Arms beckons couples to embark on a journey of love and celebration alongside a culinary adventure. A long-awaited reopening in 2021 saw the much-loved Chelsea institution restored to its former glory with an ambitious renovation that pays homage to two centuries spent serving the local community. As a fully licensed wedding venue, it offers an exquisite setting for weddings, civil ceremonies, receptions and other pre or post wedding celebrations. Let’s delve into the allure of this enchanting venue and discover why it could be the perfect choice for your special day.

Culinary delights

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First and foremost, under the guidance of Culinary Director James Knappett, The Cadogan Arms boasts an exceptional food offering which celebrates provenance, seasonality and traceability. From reworked pub classics to contemporary dishes embodying the Best of British, along with a carefully curated wine list, every bite and every sip will be a culinary delight. Whether it’s the traditional wedding breakfast, dinner or bar snacks, your taste buds are in for a treat. Plus, their menus are customisable to accommodate the majority of dietary requirements, so you’re sure to find something which suits your needs.

In light of their culinary excellence and service, The Cadogan Arms are proud award winners, having won both press features and industry awards:

Your London Wedding Magazine
Country & Town House – The Best Places to Eat in Chelsea
Luxury London – The Best Restaurants in Kensington & Chelsea
The Infatuation – London’s Best Private Dining Rooms
Metro – The UK’s Prettiest Pubs
Condé Nast Traveller – The Best Pubs in London for Food
Michelin Guide – Best Dining Pubs in London
SheerLuxe- 19 Cosiest Pubs in London
Top 50 Gastropubs 2024 – Awarded Number 40
CAMRA Pub Design Awards

Opulent spaces

The Cadogan Arms is sure to enchant your guests with its elegant ground floor bar, opulent dining room and dedicated private events space, The Rose Room. Whether you envision an intimate gathering or a grand celebration, this venue offers versatile spaces to accommodate your wedding festivities. From canapé and cocktail receptions in the bar area to formal sit-down meals in a private dining room, every moment will be infused with elegance and charm. Downstairs, The Rose Room is equipped with a horseshoe bar and space for up to 50 guests, with food and drink packages available to suit your preferences.

Memorable celebrations

Newly appointed as a licensed wedding venue in September 2023, The Cadogan Arms is honoured and perfectly equipped to be part of your special day. Whether you’re exchanging vows in a romantic ceremony or dancing the night away with loved ones, every moment at this venue will be filled with joy and celebration.

Personalised service

The team at The Cadogan Arms fully understands the importance of a personal touch. From the moment you step through their doors, you’ll be greeted with genuine warmth and hospitality, and their dedicated Events Coordinator will be by your side throughout the planning process, ensuring that every detail is meticulously crafted to reflect your unique vision. This venue prides itself on being LGBTQIA+ and neurodiverse friendly, and on their hospitality in general.

When asked about the wedding industry specifically, their Events Coordinator Isabel Kaleva explains, “I love it because it’s all about making people’s day special”. Isabel recalls that one of their most memorable weddings was a 60s Mod themed wedding: “The décor was incredible.” This gives an indication into the level of personalisation and customisation that could be possible for you too. Whatever vision you have, their team will work to make it a reality.

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At The Cadogan Arms, a range of options are available to suit your needs, from exclusive hire through to private and semi-private hire. Get ready to step into a world of elegance and charm, where love stories come to life amidst the enchanting ambience of Chelsea’s King’s Road. Enquire now and their events team will get back to you as soon as possible. Your dream wedding awaits!

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13th Wedding Anniversary Gifts: 50 Anniversary Gift Ideas

A lot of people consider the number 13 unlucky, and if you’re one of them, perhaps it’s time to start thinking otherwise. Reaching 13 years of marriage is anything but unlucky! Now that you’ve made it to a baker’s dozen, you and your partner are very clearly doing everything right, so it’s time to celebrate this wonderful milestone.

But, when it’s time to celebrate your 13th wedding anniversary, what sort of gift do you buy your other half? Do you go for the trusted and reliable box of chocolates, a bunch of flowers, an item of jewellery, or something else entirely?

Well, did you know that there are traditional and modern anniversary gifts which couples have been giving each other to mark their 13th anniversary for more than 100 years? There’s also a traditional gemstone and flower, which means if you’d like to give your partner a gift filled with history and meaning, you have a lot to choose from. It can elevate your gift and show your partner just how much you care by giving them something extra special and thoughtful.

In this guide, we’re going to take a look at all the 13th anniversary gift-giving traditions and explain the traditional and modern gifts, as well as the gemstone and flower. That way, you can give your partner a gift that lets them know exactly how you feel and puts you in their good books for the next 12 months!

For more information about all the different anniversary gift-giving traditions from 1 to 90 years, read our complete year-by-year wedding anniversary gift guide.

What are traditional and modern gifts for a 13th wedding anniversary?

The traditional and modern 13th wedding anniversary gifts

For a gift packed with enough symbolism and meaning to show your partner how much you love them, you might want to treat them to a modern or traditional gift to mark your 13th anniversary. You don’t have to give them a gift linked to these traditions, but if you’re not sure what you could give them, these work as a fantastic starting point, with an overall theme of textiles.

Traditional 13th anniversary gift – Lace

The traditional 13th anniversary gift is lace, a luxurious and intricate material used in clothing and decorations. It symbolises the beauty of your relationship and how you need to take special care of it. With a bit of creative thinking, you can give your partner an amazing gift that utilises the theme in loads of different ways.

Modern 13th anniversary gift – Fur

The modern anniversary gift for 13 years of marriage is fur. By today’s standards, fur is a little outdated, but the good news is that there are plenty of faux fur options out there so you can still give your partner something memorable and linked to the theme. Fur represents warmth and comfort, which you no doubt have in abundance after 13 years together.

13th anniversary gemstone – Citrine

The traditional gemstone to give when celebrating your 13th anniversary is citrine, a yellowy-orange quartz that represents prosperity and success. It’s not one of the most commonly used stones in jewellery and accessories, but it definitely should be – it looks stunning and is a real showstopper.

13th anniversary flower – Chrysanthemum

The traditional 13th anniversary flower is the chrysanthemum, a big and beautiful bloom that comes in a huge variety of colours, including white, red, orange, pink and purple. It represents love, happiness and a long life, so is the ideal gift when celebrating such a fantastic milestone. Its iconic shape makes it a great addition to any floral arrangement.

How do you choose a gift for a 13th wedding anniversary?

If you believe that 13 is an unlucky number, you might be mulling over the perfect gift to banish those superstitious thoughts. What kind of gift could you possibly give your partner that tells them how you feel and lets them know that 13 can be a good and auspicious number after all? Here are a few things to consider when searching for the ideal gift.

Are the traditional and modern 13th anniversary themes important to you? Textiles can be a rather difficult theme to navigate, especially if you’re not confident you could choose something that suits your partner’s style.
Have you got an agreed budget? Lace and fur can either be affordable or expensive, but really high-quality gifts might be on the pricier side.
Are you hoping to give your partner a personalised gift? Both the traditional and modern themes are pretty tough to personalise, so this could sway your decision.
What kind of thing might your partner like to receive? If your partner has an interest in any of the traditional or modern gifts, it’ll make your choice easier. If they don’t, you might have to think outside the box.

Are you on the lookout for a gift for a special couple in your life who will soon be celebrating their 13th wedding anniversary? If so, you might wonder whether or not you can join in on the fun and give them a gift closely linked to the traditional or modern themes. The good news is that you absolutely can – giving them an on-theme gift shows just how much thought and care went into your generous gift.

50 ideas for a 13th wedding anniversary gift

If you’re on the hunt for a 13th wedding anniversary gift that ticks all the boxes, you might have to use all your creativity to find something unique and memorable. Well, that’s where we come in – we’ve put together this list of 50 13th wedding anniversary gift ideas to give you all the inspiration you need and give your partner the surprise of a lifetime on the big day.

10 traditional gifts for a 13th wedding anniversary

If you love the thought of giving your other half a gift closely linked to traditions, you’ll want to consider something made from or including lace. Lace is a super luxurious material, and actually offers you more choices than you might think. So, here are 10 lace-themed gifts to give you some inspiration.

1. Lace anniversary initials artwork

Lace isn’t always an easy gift to customise, but a lace anniversary initial artwork is just that. It’s a wonderfully unique gift which uses lace as a backdrop to your initials and which can be hung on the wall to always remind your partner of your lucky milestone.

2. A lace heart on a chain

Lace is beautiful and delicate but also striking and strong, and can be a fabulous addition to jewellery. A lace heart on a chain is a unique and romantic gift that your partner could wear with a bunch of different outfits for a whole host of occasions.

3. A white lace rose

One of the most recognisable symbols of love is the rose, so it always makes for a great gift. But how does that tie into the traditional theme for 13 years? Well, if a rose is made out of white lace, of course! A white lace rose is a lovely and thoughtful gesture which your partner can keep and display forever.

4. A pair of square lace earrings

If your partner’s a big fan of dangly earrings, spoil them on your anniversary with a pair of square lace earrings. They bring a modern flair to this traditional gift and are a subtle nod to your 13th anniversary which your partner can wear all the time.

5. Lace wall art

You could add a touch of stand-out art to your home and give your partner some Queen Annes lace wall art, a lovely atmospheric piece that is definitely linked to the traditional 13th anniversary theme.

6. A watch with a lace strap

Give your partner a lace-inspired gift they’ll never see coming with a watch with a lace strap. Not only is the strap lace but so is the face, with the bonus of it being fairly affordable too.

7. Lace underwear

There’s no way we could put this list together and not suggest lace underwear, a great way to link the traditional theme back to your anniversary night!

8. A lace bat ornament

For a cute and spooky token gift, you could give your partner a lace bat ornament which glows in the dark. A super unique gift if your partner is a fan of horror (or flying mammals, for that matter).

9. An embroidered lace tablecloth

Lace is the perfect material out of which to make a tablecloth, which your other half could use every day or only crack out for special occasions. But we bet they’ll love this lace tablecloth so much that it’ll be out all the time.

10. A vintage lace photo frame

Why not print off your favourite wedding snap and frame it in a vintage lace photo frame, so your partner can reminisce about that special day you shared all those years ago?

10 modern gifts for a 13th wedding anniversary

If you’d prefer to give your partner a gift linked to the modern theme for your 13th anniversary, you might want to give them something that includes fur. In the 21st century, fur isn’t seen as all that modern anymore, but faux fur is most definitely in the spirit of the theme. So, it’s still an option open to everyone. Here are 10 suggestions for fur-inspired gifts to keep your partner cosy and warm on your anniversary.

1. A faux Alaskan husky throw

If you’ve ever petted or had cuddles with a husky, you’ll be all too familiar with just how snuggly and soft they are. The same can be said for a faux Alaskan husky throw, except it’s even more snuggly because it’s heated and can keep you and your partner at the ideal temperature during those quiet nights in.

2. A cosy jumper

Give your partner a gift that keeps them comfortable and warm wherever they go with a Sarah Regensburger cosy jumper. It’s not only hand-knitted, but also super stylish and modern with its cropped look.

3. Toasty slipper socks

If your partner’s tootsies have a habit of feeling a little bit like ice cubes, help warm them up with a pair of cable-lined slipper socks. Not only will they have toasty feet forevermore, but they’ll look great at the same time.

4. Faux Shearling Mid Jacket

For a slice of retro charm, a Faux Shearling Mid Jacket is a wonderfully on-theme gift that will keep your other half comfortable and cool (looking cool, that is) during those winter months.

5. A pair of knitted gloves

Whether your partner enjoys hitting the slopes for a touch of winter sport exhilaration, or you’d like to give them something to keep frostbite away during those extra nippy spells, a pair of knitted gloves is a thoughtful and practical gift closely linked to the modern theme.

6. Textile wall art

A relief flowers no2 canvas is every bit as unique as it is eye-catching. It makes for a fantastically on-theme gift that your partner will want to display to remind them of your special anniversary.

7. A warm fleece blanket

For something your partner can display on the bed, snuggle beneath on the sofa or wrap inside while sitting at their desk, a warm fleece blanket will keep them as cosy as if you were forever in their arms. A romantic and toasty treat.

8. A Shearer hot water bottle

When the temperature starts to drop, your other half can stay warm with a Shearer hot water bottle, which is luxuriously soft and comforting.

9. Sheepskin slipper boots

Smart, stylish, comfortable, cosy, warm… and there are plenty more ways to describe Sheepskin slipper boots. They’re a lot like a nice snuggly hug for your partner’s feet.

10. A deliciously comfortable snood knitting kit

If your partner loves getting crafty, a snood knitting kit provides them with everything they need to create their very own super comfy snood, which also looks amazing. Perfect if your partner has always talked about wanting to learn how to knit.

5 affordable gifts for a 13th wedding anniversary

Giving your partner a gift linked closely to the traditional or modern themes might be something you’re keen to do to mark your 13th anniversary, but you might also not want to spend too much. Some of the traditional and modern gifts can be rather pricey – but not all. So, here are five ideas for affordable gifts so you can give your partner an on-theme treat but not blow your entire budget.

1. A lace bookmark

Is your partner a major bookworm? If so, one thoughtful, useful and brilliantly appropriate gift for your 13th anniversary is a lace bookmark, which also just so happens to be affordable.

2. A lace dreamcatcher

To ward off bad dreams and help encourage a peaceful night’s sleep, a lace dreamcatcher hangs above the bed and is said to only allow good dreams to pass through. A lovely gift if your partner believes in these ancient traditions.

3. A silk tie

If your partner spends time wearing a suit for work, or you have a lot of social events on the horizon that call for a suit and tie, you could give your partner a silk tie. They’re bright, colourful and full of character, and will help your partner stand out from the crowd.

4. Bamboo socks

They might not quite be fur, but bamboo socks are thick, comfortable and warm. They also help prevent blisters, so they’re a great choice if you and your partner like to spend time enjoying long walks together.

5. A lace photo frame border

Add a touch of real lace to any photo frame with a lace photo frame border, and elevate the frame to become a fantastically on-theme gift.

5 DIY gifts for a 13th wedding anniversary

What’s better than giving your partner a gift to mark your anniversary? How about a gift made with love and dedication using your own two hands! DIY gifts are a brilliant way to show your other half just how much you care, and there are plenty of ways to get stuck in even if you don’t have much experience with arts and crafts or you don’t have any specialist tools. Here are five DIY gift ideas to give you some inspiration.

1. DIY lace flowers

If you can get your hands on some old lace, with just a few common bits and bobs you might well have at home already, you can create some super simple lace flowers. In no time at all, you can create a unique bouquet that will last forever. Check out a video tutorial for everything you need to get started.

2. A DIY lace bowl

All you need is some lace, a balloon and some glue/fabric stiffener, and you have everything you need to produce a lace bowl. It’s easy peasy and you can even use it to give your partner their main gift so it ties everything into the traditional theme. Follow the simple steps in this video tutorial.

3. A DIY lace leaf

A lace leaf doesn’t take weeks, days or even hours of practice to master – especially if you use a video tutorial. Once you have a few leaves created you can use them to decorate a card, gift wrapping, a cake or anything else you can think of.

4. DIY textile wall art

Use textiles to create your very own piece of wall art and tie a creative and unique piece of art into the modern theme. It may sound complicated at first glance, but it really isn’t in practice, and allows you to be as adventurous as you like. Watch this video tutorial for everything you need.

5. DIY fabric gift bag

If you know exactly what you want to give you partner, but you’d like to use the modern theme, you could create your very own fabric gift bag and tie it all together. There are plenty of video tutorials out there to give you some ideas.

5 experience or activity gifts for a 13th wedding anniversary

To make sure your 13th anniversary is far from unlucky, you could spend time with your other half enjoying an activity or experience together. You might assume that lace and fur don’t lead to many fun activities, but it’s a great way to take part in something unique and exciting or learn a new skill. So, here are five suggestions to spend your anniversary taking part in something different.

1. Textile mill guided tour

Discover all about how textiles are made with a guided tour of a working textile mill. You and your partner will get to see first-hand how Yorkshire fur has been produced in this Huddersfield-based factory for decades.

2. A textile workshop

Textiles are incredibly versatile, and there’s a lot you can do with them just by unleashing your creativity. A textile workshop is suitable for beginners and provides you with everything you need for you and your partner to become expert designers (well, almost).

3. A lacemaking course

Lace is delicate and beautiful, but it’s actually a pretty accessible craft to learn, even if you’re a beginner. A lacemaking course is a fun way to spend time learning this forgotten skill.

4. Nottingham lace market tour

Nottingham was once the beating heart of Britain’s lace industry, but many of its factories and warehouses have since closed. A lace market tour guides you around some of the well-known sites that helped shape the industry in the city.

5. A Parisian textile tour

If you fancy going a little further afield than Nottingham, another city famous for its lace is Paris. So, you might want to whisk your partner away to enjoy some pastries, museums and a textile tour of Paris. This is definitely not an unlucky way to spend your 13th wedding anniversary.

10 13th anniversary gifts that contain citrine

If you’d like to treat your partner to a new item of jewellery or accessory set with the traditional 13th anniversary gemstone, citrine, your partner is in for a treat. Citrine isn’t all that common, but thanks to its yellow and orange colours it’s highly desirable. Whether your partner loves gold, silver, platinum or any other precious metal, you shouldn’t have to look too far to find them something they’ll love. Here are 10 suggestions for jewellery to consider that contains citrine:

Earrings
A ring
A necklace
A bracelet
A broach
A locket
A watch
An anklet
A hairpin
Cufflinks

Citrine is a relatively rare gemstone, but despite this, it can be fairly affordable. So, even if you have a limited budget, finding a lovely piece of citrine jewellery is more than achievable. Most high street and independent jewellers should have a selection for you to browse. At Bridebook, we also work with a range of brilliant jewellers, plenty of which have citrine jewellery in stock right now. Take a look and we bet you’ll spot something to suit your partner’s tastes.

5 floral-inspired gifts for a 13th wedding anniversary

For something as stunning as your other half, you could give them a gift linked to the traditional 13th anniversary flower, the chrysanthemum. Chrysanthemums are blooming lovely and come in a range of different colours that make them a must-have addition to any floral arrangement. Their distinct shape also makes them a great inspiration for patterns and designs, so even if your partner isn’t a big fan of bouquets, you’re still bound to find something they’ll appreciate.

1. A bouquet of chrysanthemums

Thanks to their incredible size and vivid array of colours, chrysanthemums make for a stunning addition to any flower arrangement. They also work just as well when they’re the star of the show, so a bouquet of chrysanthemums should be high on your list of considerations.

2. A chrysanthemum flower soap gift box

For a romantic anniversary night, draw your partner a hot, welcoming bath and give them a chrysanthemum flower soap gift box, which smells fruity and sweet and looks almost as good as the real thing.

3. A tiny chrysanthemum in a bottle

Present your partner with an adorable chrysanthemum-inspired keepsake with a tiny chrysanthemum in a bottle. You can even pair it with a personalised label so your partner always has a token gift to hold on to and remember your 13th anniversary by.

4. A chrysanthemum glass

Why not toast to 13 incredible years after giving your other half a chrysanthemum glass? This sleek and stylish curved tumbler can be used for everything from your partner’s morning orange juice to their evening glass of wine.

5. A chrysanthemum necklace pendant

A neat and subtle nod that your partner can always wear whatever the occasion, a chrysanthemum necklace pendant is both symbolic and looks lovely.

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What are traditional and modern gifts for a 14th wedding anniversary?

Traditional 14th anniversary gift – Ivory

Modern 14th anniversary gift – Gold jewellery

14th anniversary gemstone – Opal

14th anniversary flower – Orchid

How do you choose a gift for a 14th wedding anniversary?

Are you happy giving your partner something linked to the traditional or modern 14th anniversary themes? Ivory and gold jewellery aren’t necessarily the most accessible of themes, but if you love the sentiment behind them there are ways to be creative with them.
What’s your agreed budget, if you have one? Ivory can be a theme that can be interpreted in different ways, but gold jewellery not so much, which means it can be rather pricey.
Are you keen to give your partner a gift which is personalised? Both the traditional and modern gifts can be tricky to personalise, but not impossible.
What sort of gift might your partner hope to receive? For example, have they hinted at gold jewellery or even something linked to ivory or elephants?

50 ideas for a 14th wedding anniversary gift

10 traditional gifts for a 14th wedding anniversary

1. An ivory grey photo frame

2. An ivory white silk scarf

3. An incredible elephant sculpture

4. A personalised elephant wall plaque

5. Elephants in love ceramic figures

6. An ivory-coloured bouquet

7. Imitation ivory combs

In the olden days, the upper classes would often have combs made from ivory. Call back to those times with imitation ivory combs, which look just like the real thing but are far kinder to elephants.

8. An elephant crochet craft kit

9. An ivory paper rose

10. An ivory leather clutch bag

10 modern gifts for a 14th wedding anniversary

5 affordable gifts for a 14th wedding anniversary

1. A porcelain elephant in a matchbox

2. An elephant-themed greetings card

3. Gold sun anniversary card

4. A gold sunbeam ring

5. A faux IKEA orchid

5 DIY gifts for a 14th wedding anniversary

1. DIY ivory fabric bunting

2. A DIY ivory headband

3. A DIY gold wire sculpture

4. DIY gold wire jewellery

5. DIY gold jewellery

5 experience or activity gifts for a 14th wedding anniversary

1. Meet an elephant at Whipsnade Zoo

2. Elephant keeper experience

3. Go on a safari

4. A jewellery-making experience

5. Tour Britain’s only Roman gold mine

10 14th anniversary gifts that contain opal

Earrings
A ring
A necklace
A bracelet
A broach
A locket
A watch
An anklet
A hairpin
Cufflinks

5 floral-inspired gifts for a 14th wedding anniversary

1. A white heart orchid

2. A rose gold orchid necklace

3. A crocheted orchid

4. A freesia and orchid-scented candle

Help create a romantic atmosphere on the evening of your anniversary with a freesia and orchid-scented candle, which smells gloriously floral and sweet and will last around 42 hours.

5. LEGO orchids

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12th Wedding Anniversary Gifts: 50 Anniversary Gift Ideas

12 is a very spiritual number and is often linked to the heavens because there are 12 months and zodiac signs – to many, this makes it rather lucky. And we bet you consider yourself exceptionally lucky to be celebrating your 12th wedding anniversary! 12 whole years with the love of your life is something that deserves to be celebrated, which means you might be keen to give your partner a gift they’ll always remember.

Did you know there are traditional and modern 12th anniversary gifts, as well as a traditional flower and gemstone? These gifts have been given by couples to each other for over 100 years, and they have special meanings associated with them that elevate them above other types of gifts. Not that other gifts are wrong and shouldn’t be given – far from it – but traditional and modern gifts have a wonderful history which you may like to include in your celebrations.

In this guide, we’re going to explore the traditional and modern gifts associated with your 12th wedding anniversary so you know exactly the type of gift to buy that contains extra special symbolic meaning. We’ll also give you 50 ideas related to the themes to kickstart your creativity and help you find your partner the perfect gift and mark a dozen years together in style.

To discover more about all the different anniversary gift-giving traditions from 1 to 90 years, read our complete year-by-year wedding anniversary gift guide.

What are traditional and modern gifts for a 12th wedding anniversary?

The traditional and modern 12th wedding anniversary gifts

12 years is a long time to spend with someone, so a gift packed with thought and meaning is a brilliant way to let them know just how much you care. Depending on the type of gift you’d like to give and your partner’s preferences, you have a wide range of different options to make your anniversary one to remember.

Traditional 12th anniversary gift – Silk

The traditional 12th anniversary gift is silk, a luxurious, smooth and highly-desirable material used for making a wide range of clothes and accessories. You might think this limits the type of gift you can give, but with a little creativity, there are loads of ways to incorporate silk into your anniversary. Silk represents how your marriage has become interwoven and strong, as well as how you enjoy the odd luxurious indulgence. It sounds pretty perfect to us!

Modern 12th anniversary gift – Pearl

If you’d rather go for the modern 12th anniversary gift, you might want to give your partner something containing pearl. Pearl is a lovely iridescent creamy white stone made by oysters and mussels, though artificial pearls can look just as lovely. Pearls represent strength and purity, on top of looking beautiful set in different types of jewellery.

12th anniversary gemstone – Jade

The traditional 12th anniversary gemstone is jade, a fabulous stone that comes in many different shades of green, and sometimes also in white, black and orange. It represents eternity and harmony, and we’re sure there must be plenty of harmony in your marriage – how else would you be about to celebrate your 12th anniversary, after all?

12th anniversary flower – Peony

For something a little more floral, you could give your partner the traditional 12th anniversary flower, which is the peony. Peonies are lovely big blooms that come in various shades of red, purple, pink and white, and sometimes even yellow. They symbolise happiness, romance and a contented marriage, so could there really be a more brilliant bloom to give your partner to mark your anniversary?

How do you choose a gift for a 12th wedding anniversary?

Choosing the perfect gift to give to your partner on your anniversary can be a tricky one. Silk has romantic connotations, pearl is stunning and desirable, jade is super eye-catching and peonies have a wonderful meaning… in all honesty, all four are a great choice. Here are a few things to consider when trying to narrow down your decision:

Do you want to stick to the traditional or modern themes? Every gift is lovely, so you’re spoilt for choice when it comes to ways to spoil your other half.
Have you agreed on a set budget? While all four gift choices are amazing, they can be rather pricey, which means they might not be great if you have a smaller budget.
Do you want to give them something personalised? While some of the traditional and modern gifts can be personalised, none of them are easily personalisable, so this may sway your decision.
What kind of thing does your partner like? Your partner might not be a big fan of silk, pearls, jade or peonies, which might make your decision trickier. Or they might not like any, which might make it even harder.

If you have someone in your life who’s about to celebrate their 12th anniversary, you might wonder whether or not you can join in with the traditional or modern gift-giving fun. Thankfully, these are only guidelines, so you can definitely give a couple a gift linked to the 12th anniversary themes. In fact, it’s bound to go down well, as it shows how much effort you’ve put into giving them a thoughtful gift!

50 ideas for a 12th wedding anniversary gift

If you know you’d love to give your partner an anniversary gift filled with romance and special meaning, you have plenty of choices available. But, if you’re not quite sure where to start or you need a little help choosing something that contains silk or pearls, we’re here to help. Here are 50 on-theme 12th anniversary gifts to give you some inspiration.

10 traditional gifts for a 12th wedding anniversary

The traditional gift for celebrating 12 wonderful years of marriage is silk, a luxurious material that’s smooth and fancy. You might already have one or two silk-centric ideas, but here are 10 more so you can make sure you’ve covered all bases.

1. Luxury silk pyjamas

Silk is an incredibly comfortable material – some say it feels like you’re not even wearing anything at all. That’s why luxury silk pyjamas are such an amazing anniversary gift and are available in so many different styles.

2. A silk flower arrangement

Silk is a delicate and soft material that just so happens to be strong and durable too. It’s the perfect material for making faux flowers that will never wilt, to give your partner a long-lasting reminder of your 12th anniversary. Silk flower arrangements are just as beautiful as the real deal and don’t need to be watered.

3. A pair of unique silk cufflinks

If your partner is long overdue for a new pair of cufflinks that they can wear to work or on special occasions, then a pair of silk cufflinks is unique and a way to always remember this special milestone.

4. A smart silk tie

Maybe cufflinks aren’t your partner’s thing, but there are often occasions when wearing a tie is needed. So, you could treat your other half to a smart silk tie, which looks great whether worn for a fancy meal out, a wedding, a business meeting… or any other occasion they might wear a tie for.

5. A stylish silk handkerchief

Handkerchiefs have fallen out of style a little bit, but it’s about time they were brought back! And a silk handkerchief is just the way to do it, so your partner is always prepared if they have a spillage or poorly-timed sneeze.

6. A Tiffany & Co. silk bracelet

Tiffany & Co. is a well-known and luxurious brand, and if you want to treat your partner, they offer something which fits with the traditional theme. A Tiffany & Co. silk bracelet is a subtle but stunning piece of jewellery that really is special.

7. Silk lingerie

Silk is a super sexy fabric, so it’s perfect for lingerie. Treat your partner (or yourself!) to some silk lingerie and have an anniversary day (and night!) to remember.

8. Silk bed linen

For the most comfortable night’s sleep you could imagine, silk bed linen is smooth, warm and so very luxurious. It’ll let you sink into bed every night feeling like you’re in a posh hotel.

9. A gorgeous silk scarf

Silk is a great material for making scarves because it’s soft and warm, and we just couldn’t put this list together without including silk scarves. There are loads of different designs and styles available, and they’re not the most expensive thing in the world either.

10. A silk gift set

Do you want to give your partner a silk-themed gift but can’t decide on one item? You could go for a silk gift set – a collection containing an eye mask, scrunchie and pillowcase to help your partner have a comfortable and satisfying night’s sleep.

10 modern gifts for a 12th wedding anniversary

If you’d prefer to give your partner a gift with more modern flair, you could choose the modern 12th anniversary gift – pearl. Yes, pearl is a wonderful addition to jewellery, but you’re not just limited to jewellery and accessories. Here are 10 suggestions for anniversary gifts containing pearl.

1. A freshwater mother of pearl frame

It’s been 12 amazing years since the two of you tied the knot, and while you’re a little older and wiser now, you no doubt love to look back on that day. So, why not do that by printing off your favourite wedding snap and framing it in a freshwater mother of pearl frame?

2. A pair of pearl stud earrings

Pearls are both bold and subtle at the same time – an amazing combination which makes them perfect for jewellery. So, wow your partner with a pair of pearl stud earrings, which go with loads of different outfits and styles.

3. A personalised framed pearl heart

For something on-theme you can hang on the wall for all to see, a personalised framed pearl heart uses pearls and pearl-coloured accessories to form the symbol of love. You can also feature a custom message to include the date of your wedding or your 12th anniversary.

4. Mother of pearl gin

If you don’t think your partner would want to wear or frame their pearls, maybe they’d like to drink them instead. Manchester Gin partnered with a Michelin-star restaurant to create its unique mother of pearl gin, which is distilled using oyster shells. Don’t worry, it definitely doesn’t taste fishy, but it’s lovely to drink when enjoying a fish dish!

5. A silver pearl cluster necklace

Marge Simpson is a famous wearer of a pearl necklace, but they don’t all look like that. For example, the silver pearl cluster necklace is a lovely piece which can be worn for a wide range of occasions, and is definitely not like Marge’s (not that there’s anything wrong with that – she looks lovely too).

6. A freshwater pearl bracelet

For a really classic piece of pearl jewellery, a freshwater pearl bracelet is elegant and subtle, so your partner can wear it whether they’re going to a fancy do or just for a night out to the pub.

7. A silver and pearl brooch

If your partner regularly dresses up, a silver and pearl brooch is a brilliant way for them to add a little class to their outfit. It’s not something they’re likely to wear all the time, but when it’s time to come out they’ll have that reminder of your 12th anniversary.

8. A silver mother of pearl locket

If you’d like to give your partner a pearl-related gift that’s personalised, you really can’t go wrong with a silver mother of pearl locket. Inside, you can house two photographs, so include whatever your partner loves most – your kids, your pets, your favourite travel destination… maybe even yourself!

9. A dainty pearl ring

With the right design, a pearl ring can look fantastic and not be too obtrusive. A Loopla pearl ring is exactly that, and is sure to look lovely alongside other rings your partner might wear.

10. Blossom pearl hair pins

If your partner likes to wear their hair up, a set of three blossom pearl hair pins is a fabulous and stylish way to do just that. It’s a great gift if the two of you are due to hit up a few weddings this year, and they go well with a variety of different outfits.

5 affordable gifts for a 12th wedding anniversary

Neither silk nor pearls are the most expensive gifts in the world, but they’re not exactly cheap either. You may want to give your partner a gift associated with the traditional or modern gifts, but more as a token gesture, so that means not spending too much money. Thankfully, there are ways to do that. Here are five suggestions for affordable 12th anniversary gifts, so you can give your other half something packed with meaning that doesn’t cost the Earth.

1. A silk anniversary card

If you’re thinking about getting your partner a gift for your anniversary, then you’re possibly also thinking about giving them a card. Why not combine your card with the traditional gift and give them a silk anniversary card? They’ll love the meaning behind it and it’s an affordable way to be extra thoughtful.

2. Pearl on Blu Ray (or streaming)

For something extra thrilling on your anniversary, you could treat your partner to a movie night and watch the horror movie Pearl! It’s far from romantic, but it’s a great excuse to cuddle up close and hide behind a pillow together. Pearl is available on Blu Ray and streaming platforms.

3. A pair of freshwater pearl dangle earrings

Not all pearl jewellery is expensive, and a pair of freshwater pearl dangle earrings proves just that. They come in gold and silver and the pearls are available in white and pink.

4. A silk scrunchie

Get in your partner’s good books with a silk hair scrunchie. Not only is it small and affordable, but it’s perfectly on theme and super practical!

5. A pair of mother of pearl cufflinks

If your partner often wears shirts, we bet there’s a good chance they haven’t had a new pair of cufflinks in a while. So, you could treat them to a pair of mother of pearl cufflinks, which are subtle enough to be worn for any occasion.

5 DIY gifts for a 12th wedding anniversary

A brilliant way to show your partner how much you care is by making them an anniversary gift. But, how can you link something you make yourself with the traditional or modern themes? You don’t actually need to be a trained jewellery maker or needleworker to make something out of pearls or silk – just a little bit of creativity. Here are five suggestions that will hopefully give you a few ideas.

1. DIY pearl beaded keyring

To make your partner a lovely DIY pearl beaded keyring, you only need a few bits, including thread, beads/pearls and a needle. It also takes a little patience, but if you have the willpower you can make something your partner will definitely appreciate. There are video tutorials available to help you get started.

2. DIY pearl necklace

Why not go one step further and make your partner a pearl necklace? It requires a few simple tools and some wire, but if you follow a video tutorial we bet you can make something fabulous.

3. DIY silk flowers

For a bouquet your partner won’t forget in a hurry – because they’re never going to wilt – why not have a go at making some DIY silk flowers? You don’t need anything fancy, and the results can be brilliant. Check out a video tutorial for tips on how to get started.

4. A DIY silk handkerchief

If you have some old silk lying around, you could make use of it by turning it into a DIY silk handkerchief for your partner. This one requires a bit of sewing, so if you have the know-how, it shouldn’t take you too long. There are guides detailing how to make a silk handkerchief online, so see what you can come up with!

5. A homemade silk painting

Silk paintings aren’t just beautiful to look at; they can also be a lot of fun to create yourself. If you’ve never dabbled in painting before, this is rather like jumping in at the deep end, but if you fancy giving it a go, check out a silk painting beginner course for some help.

5 experience or activity gifts for a 12th wedding anniversary

Of course, you could give your partner a physical gift on your anniversary. Whatever you give them will no doubt be well received and they’ll love it. But, one way to make your anniversary memorable and unique is by giving them an experience or activity – especially if it’s linked to the traditional or modern gifts. Here are five ideas so you can make your 12th anniversary one your partner will never forget.

1. A silk weaving experience

Silk weaving has been around for almost 6,000 years, and many silk mills still use similar techniques to this day. Spend your anniversary taking part in a silk weaving workshop, to find out all about this incredible skill and make your very own purse.

2. A silk painting experience

Instead of creating a silk painting to give to your partner ahead of your anniversary, you might want to spend that time painting together instead. A silk painting experience is a wonderfully creative and fulfilling way to spend time together, with something you can keep forever at the end of it.

3. A visit to the Silk Museum

You and your partner can find out all about hundreds of years of British textile history with a visit to the Silk Museum in Cheshire. Walk through this authentic silk mill and see actual historical machinery in action.

4. A pearl bracelet workshop

If jewellery is more up your partner’s alley, you could spend time at a pearl bracelet workshop, which provides you with all the materials, tools and information so you can make an incredible, handmade pearl bracelet.

5. Pick a pearl experience

Pearls are formed in oysters and mussels, so you could enjoy a pick a pearl experience, which allows you to select your own oyster, reveal your pearl through shucking, grade your pearl and set it in a piece of jewellery. Then, your partner will have a truly one-of-a-kind accessory they can treasure forever.

10 12th anniversary gifts that contain jade

When you’re celebrating your 12th anniversary, the traditional gemstone to give to your partner is jade. Jade is a fabulous stone that comes in loads of different shades of green and is an imperial gem, which means it was used in different ceremonial objects throughout history. It’s still often used in different types of jewellery today, including those made with gold, silver, platinum and other metals. It can vary in price, with the best-quality jade being rare, and therefore expensive. But, if you’re keen to give your partner something containing jade, there’s a good chance you’ll find something that suits a range of budgets. Here are 10 items to consider that contain jade:

Earrings
A ring
A necklace
A bracelet
A broach
A locket
A watch
An anklet
A hairpin
Cufflinks

Jade can be an incredibly popular gemstone, and many high street and independent jewellers will have a range of jade jewellery, so you shouldn’t have to look too far to find something perfect for your other half. At Bridebook, we also work closely with loads of different jewellers, who also have plenty of great pieces, so you shouldn’t have any trouble finding something beautiful.

5 floral-inspired gifts for a 12th wedding anniversary

The traditional flower for celebrating 12 years of marriage is the wonderful peony, an enormous blooming flower which flowers from late spring into the summer. It comes in an array of romantic colours and is a fantastic addition to any floral arrangement. But, it’s also a great inspiration for other gifts, so you’re spoilt for choice when it comes to gifts linked to peonies. Here are five suggestions to help you choose something perfectly peony.

1. A bunch of peonies

How could we not kick off this list by including a good ol’ fashioned bunch of peonies? Their big blooms make them a wonderful flower to include in a bouquet, especially when they’re the star of the show.

2. Peony stud earrings

For all of the beauty but none of the pollen, peony stud earrings are cute and luxurious. They also include a pearl in the centre, which makes them have double the meaning. We’re not sure you could find a more well-rounded and meaningful gift for your 12th anniversary!

3. Personalised paper peonies

For a wonderfully personalised peony-inspired gift, you could go for a personalised paper peony that’s hand-crafted. The best part is that you can include text on every petal, which could be anything from your wedding vows to the lyrics of your favourite song. It’s something your partner could hold on to forever.

4. A White Company peony candle

Create a warm and welcoming atmosphere on your anniversary with a White Company peony candle. With a deliciously floral scent, it’s soft and soothing, and allows you to set the scene on your anniversary night.

5. A peony table lamp

Light up your partner’s life with a peony table lamp, which we bet they’ll never see coming. The glass cylinder is etched with delicate patterns and casts a warm and cosy light. Lovely for those quiet nights in.

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52 Best Wedding Centrepiece Ideas

Centrepieces at a wedding may seem straightforward, but they set the tone for your wedding breakfast and deserve just as much thought as the rest of your decor. In fact, your guests will be looking at this table decoration for the duration of their meal, so it’s important you pick a centrepiece that properly represents the style and feel of your special day.

If you’re feeling overwhelmed by the options, we’re here to break it down for you. Whether you’re looking for something simple and classic, showstopping, or anything in between— we’re here to help. Check out this list of 52 carefully curated wedding centrepieces to inspire your tablescapes.

What are wedding centrepieces?

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Wedding centrepieces are table decorations placed in the middle of each table during the wedding breakfast, and are the star of the show when it comes to your overall wedding table decor. They help fill the empty space in the centre of the table (hence, centrepiece) and contribute to the overall theme of your wedding.

Wedding centrepieces can be any decorative items that match the theme of your wedding, including flowers, fruit, statues, vintage homeware, or even themed DIY centrepieces. So long as they reflect the theme of your wedding and the personality of the couple, you’re all set!

Classic centrepiece ideas

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Classic centrepieces are timeless and traditional centrepieces that add elegance and charm to your wedding. Check out these 13 ideas for classic table wedding decor.

1) Minimalist dried flower arrangements

Try arranging a few stems of dried baby’s breath, blossoms, or dahlias for a beautiful and minimal dried flower arrangement. Present the flowers in a glass bud vase, a small ceramic vase, or even a small glass bottle for a simple and sophisticated finish.

The benefit of using dried flower centrepieces over fresh flower centrepieces is that they can be prepared in advance of the wedding day and will last much longer than fresh flowers.

2) Pampas grass in glass vases

Arranging long stems of pampas grass in glass vases is another long-lasting and elegant choice for wedding centrepieces. The great thing about pampas grass is that its neutral colour suits many wedding venues and other wedding accents. Plus, it will add a soft and romantic feel to your wedding day and is one of the cheapest centrepiece options!

3) Floating candles in a glass bowl

Half-fill a large glass bowl with water and gently place scented or unscented candles on top. Light just before guests sit down for their wedding breakfast for a romantic and elegant wedding centrepiece.

Add water lilies, rose petals, or other floating flowers for extra whimsy and charm. Try to match the flowers to your overall wedding theme for a cohesive look.

4) A selection of glazed ceramics

Glazed ceramics are a great addition to wedding tables and much more sustainable than traditional floral centrepieces. Try mixing a range of colours, patterns, and sizes on each table for an eclectic look.

This is a great option for destination weddings in countries known for their ceramics. For example, Greece, Spain, or Italy. Try visiting some local shops before the wedding to pick up unique and authentic local pottery.

5) Paper flower arrangements

Similarly to dried flowers, paper flowers are beautiful, long-lasting, and eco-friendly options for wedding table decorations. Fully recyclable and usually handmade, paper flower arrangements are a great alternative to fresh flowers.

Match the colours of the paper flowers to your wedding theme for a unified feel. If you’re feeling extra crafty, try folding the paper flowers yourself!

6) Glass sweet jars

If you have a sweet tooth or love the look of bright, colourful sweet wrappers, this one’s for you! Buy some glass sweet jars in different sizes, shapes, and patterns and fill them with a mix of your favourite sweets. Whether it’s pick-and-mix, hard-boiled sweets, or individually wrapped chocolates, this edible centrepiece is sure to be a winner on your big day. Plus, guests can graze on the sweets after the meal to fuel their dancing.

Pro tip: we don’t recommend this centrepiece for an outdoor, summer, or destination wedding. There would be nothing worse than watching your beautiful, colourful centrepiece melt in front of your eyes!

7) Fairy light-filled birdcages

If you’re planning a whimsical, enchanted, or fairytale theme for your wedding, fairy light-filled bird cages could be the perfect fit. You can find decorative bird cages online or in home decor or charity shops. Buy a few different sizes and styles to add interest.

You’ll then need some battery-operated fairy light packs. You can find these online, in craft shops, and sometimes in supermarkets, so keep an eye out. Gather the fairy lights into a ball and place them inside the birdcage. Switch the packs on right before the guests sit down and keep them on throughout the night for a beautiful addition to the evening.

8) Foliage table runner

If you prefer greenery and foliage to flowers or blooms, a foliage table runner is the perfect addition to your wedding table decor.

You’ll need a range of plant greenery to make this work, so collect a variety of leaves and stems to arrange into a runner. Consider using a mix of eucalyptus, ferns, ivy, palm leaves, and olive branches for an interesting arrangement. You could also add moss, sticks, or succulents for extra visual interest.

9) Small potted trees

Small potted trees are a charming and versatile addition to your wedding decor, especially if you’re aiming for a natural or rustic theme. These miniature trees add height and dimension to your tablescape while infusing it with a touch of greenery and organic beauty.

To create this centrepiece, start by selecting small potted trees such as olive trees, lemon trees, or miniature evergreens. You can find these at local garden centres, supermarkets, or even online retailers specialising in wedding decor. Pop each tree in a decorative pot and place in the centre of your table. If your trees are extra small, consider arranging a few trees together to fill the space.

10) Flowering branches in a tall vase

Flowering branches in tall vases are another beautiful but minimalist way to fill the centre space of a wedding table. You can either purchase decorative branches from a home decor shop or even collect long sticks from a woodland walk. Arrange these sticks in a pretty vase and let the natural beauty of the branches bring a touch of sophistication to your big day.

11) Paper lanterns

Paper lanterns add colour, whimsy, and a charming ambiance to your wedding reception. These versatile decorations come in a variety of shapes, sizes, and colours, allowing you to customise them to match your wedding theme or colour palette perfectly.

Find lanterns in a range of sizes, shapes, and colours for an eclectic look. Use battery-operated tea lights or bulbs instead of actual tea lights to minimise the risk of fires on your special day.

Consider hanging the paper lanterns from the ceiling if possible. This will give the illusion of more space on the table and add extra interest to your centrepiece.

12) Ornate lamps

If you’re a fan of vintage decorations or want to create a romantic, old-world atmosphere, consider using a selection of ornate lamps to decorate your wedding tables.

You can find ornate lamps at antique shops, second-hand shops, or charity shops. Try to pick a selection of tall, short, painted, ceramic, and metal lamps, all with different patterns and finishes. This will add interest to your display and ensure a unique setup on each table.

If you run out of plug socket space, consider replacing the bulbs with battery-operated light discs. This will prevent fuses from bursting and reduce the electricity bill.

13) Glass jars filled with sand and shells

If you’re a beach bum, live near the coast, or are planning a destination wedding, consider filling a section of mason or jam jars with local sand and shells for a unique and coastal touch to your wedding decor.

Collecting sand and shells from the local beach adds a special touch and can serve as a memento of your wedding location. You can also customise the jars further by tying them with twine or ribbon in your wedding colours, or adding small tags with guests’ names to double as place settings.

Showstopping centrepiece ideas

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If you’re planning a larger-than-life wedding day, consider using these showstopping wedding centrepiece ideas to set the tone of the wedding breakfast.

14) Ice sculptures

Having a professional carve your centrepieces out of ice is sure to impress your guests and create a stunning focal point for each table. Ice sculptures can be customised to fit your wedding theme or personal interests, including intricate floral designs, geometric shapes, or even sculpted representations of you and your partner.

Consider illuminating the ice sculptures with LED lights for the cherry on top of the cake.

15) Faux cherry blossom trees

No matter your wedding theme, faux cherry blossom trees will add a romantic and enchanting touch to your wedding decor.

Owing to the size of these centrepieces, you might need to find a venue that offers tables with a hole in the middle. This way, the cherry blossom trees can stand on the floor and extend above your guest’s heads for a touch of drama and elegance.

You can decorate the branches of the trees however you’d prefer, including fairy lights, hanging crystals, or delicate ribbons.

16) Candelabras

Candelabras come in lots of different shapes and sizes and are a great option for showstopping wedding centrepieces. Check out antique shops, second-hand shops, or charity shops to find a selection of candelabras that fit your wedding aesthetic. Alternatively, you could buy a few of the same style from a home interior or home decoration shop.

Candelabras look beautiful on their own. However, if you’re looking to spice them up, consider decorating them with springs of beads, fairy lights, or even adding coloured candles to the stems for a classic finish.

17) Tall floral arrangements

Tall floral arrangements are a beautiful and classic way to add some drama to your tablescape. The flowers should match your wedding colour theme and you can add pampas grass, palm leaves, or feathers for extra interest.

18) Tropic leaf arrangement in a tall vase

Similarly to tall floral arrangements, collect some tall palm, fern, or bird of paradise leaves and arrange them in a tall vase. This is the perfect choice for those who prefer greenery to blooms, or want to add a modern twist to a classic style.

19) An antler and wildflower arrangement

If you enjoy country living or are having a country-themed wedding, using real or faux antlers and wildflowers can create a rustic and charming centrepiece that reflects your love for the outdoors. Arrange antlers in the centre of the table and weave in a variety of wildflowers, such as daisies, sunflowers, and lavender, for a natural and organic look.

To enhance the rustic vibe, consider incorporating elements like burlap, twine, or lace as accents around the base of the arrangement. You can also add candles, tealights, or small lanterns to create a cosy and intimate atmosphere.

20) Monogrammed floral initials of the couple’s names

If you’re looking for something really special, this is the centrepiece for you. You can have florists create monogrammed centrepieces of yours and your new spouse’s names in flowers that complement your wedding colours.

The best part of this centrepiece is that the decor is fully customisable. If you use the same florist, you can even have matching bouquets and buttonholes. Whether you prefer classic roses, romantic peonies, or vibrant wildflowers, the possibilities are endless.

21) Crystal centrepieces

If you love the magical whimsy of crystals and their unique look, consider collecting a few different types and arranging them together into a miniature rockery. You’ll need a range of colours and sizes to make this look effective, as well as a variety of finishes. For example, polished crystals, uncut, geodes, and beads.

Collect your favourite crystals and arrange them together in the centre of the table. This crystal centrepiece will not only add a touch of glamour and elegance to your wedding decor but also infuse it with positive energy and symbolism. Pick crystals that will bring a special meaning and healing energy to your big day.

22) Ice buckets filled with champagne bottles

Beautiful and practical, consider placing large ice buckets in the centre of your table and filling with bottles of champagne that guests can help themselves to. You could even place some fruit slices or flowers in the buckets for an extra pop of colour.

23) A cascade of candles

This arrangement is simple and beautiful and works best with long table styles. All you’ll need is a range of pillar candles in different sizes. Arrange them along the length of the table, alternating heights and sizes for visual interest. Light them right before your guests sit down, and you’ve got a low-cost but high-impact wedding centrepiece.

24) Fruit and flowers

Think of the classic Carmen Miranda headdress. Arrange a variety of fruits and flowers in a cornucopia style in the middle of your table. Select an assortment of fresh fruits in a range of colours and textures, such as grapes, berries, citrus slices, and tropical fruits like pineapple and kiwi. Flowers can match your wedding bouquet and can be arranged delicately around the fruit. You can also add greenery like eucalyptus and ferns to fill gaps and for extra glamour.

25) Ceiling projection centrepiece

How about turning your reception into an enchanting wonderland with a ceiling projection centrepiece? You can customise the projections to fit your wedding theme or personal style. Try hearts for romance, flowers for whimsy, or stars and constellations for a magical feel.

Dim the surrounding lights to enhance the impact of the projections and create a cosy, intimate ambiance that’s perfect for celebrating.

26) Disco ball centrepiece

Ready to dance the night away? Hang a disco ball from the ceiling above each of your tables for a touch of retro glamour at your wedding reception. As they spin and catch the light, they’ll fill the room with disco-worthy reflections for a festive and lively atmosphere.

Surround each disco ball with twinkling fairy lights or string lights to enhance its sparkle and add to the magical ambiance. You can also incorporate colourful LED lights to cast vibrant patterns across the dance floor, creating an immersive and dynamic experience for your guests.

DIY centrepiece ideas

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Whether you’re on a tight budget or simply love crafting, these DIY wedding centrepiece ideas are for you.

27) DIY mason jars with wildflowers

Mason or jam jars filled with locally picked wildflowers are a great DIY wedding centrepiece idea. You’ll first need a collection of mason or jam jars that have been thoroughly cleaned and have labels removed. You can decorate them with paint, ribbon, or twine, or simply leave them plain for a minimalist look.

Fill the jars half full with water and arrange a collection of wildflowers in them. Make sure you have permission to pick the wildflowers, or simply grow your own if you have the space. Use a selection of British wildflowers, such as daisies, foxgloves, bluebells, or whatever is available seasonally.

28) Driftwood with seashells and sea glass

Collect driftwood, seashells, and sea glass from your local beach for the perfect DIY coastal tablescape. Arrange the driftwood pieces as the base of your centrepiece, creating a natural and rustic table decoration for your wedding.

Next, scatter the seashells and sea glass along the driftwood, nestling them into crevices and nooks for a whimsical and organic look. You can also include any coral, sea sponge, or glass bottles you find on the beach as part of your decor. This will include each table having a beautiful and unique theme.

29) Wooden crates filled with lavender

You can find wooden crates of all shapes and sizes at charity shops or DIY shops. You can use plain, pre-decorated, or mismatched crates to create interest. Then simply fill the crates with hand-picked lavender flowers for a simple and fragrant wedding centrepiece.

30) Vintage teacup and saucer arrangements

You can find vintage teacups in antique shops, second-hand shops, or charity shops. Arrange the teacup and saucer sets along the tables, mixing and matching patterns for a whimsical and eclectic look. You can also add additional vintage touches, such as lace doilies or handwritten place cards, to enhance the nostalgic ambiance.

This one may take some forward planning, as you’ll need to spend time curating a collection of vintage teacups and saucers. You may get lucky and find a collection in a second-hand store, but otherwise, you may need to begin collecting these decorations shortly after you get engaged. You may also need to actively seek them out if you have a large number of tables or are planning the wedding in a short amount of time.

31) Book towers with arranged flowers

You’ll need a collection of your favourite hard-backed books or some old or vintage book from a charity shop in order to create this centrepiece. Stack the books from largest to smallest, and secure them together with twine or ribbon for stability. Next, choose a selection of fresh flowers or greenery that complements your wedding theme and colour palette.

Carefully arrange the flowers between the stacked books, weaving the stems through the layers to create a beautiful and cohesive display. You can opt for a single type of flower for a uniform look or mix and match different varieties for added texture and visual interest.

You can also add additional decorative elements such as ribbon, lace, or small trinkets like beads for the finishing touch.

32) Vintage suitcases with floral arrangements

Similarly to the book towers, you’ll need a collection of vintage suitcases of different shapes and sizes. Prop them open in the middle of the table and fill with flowers, greenery, and other fauna in a cascading or clustered fashion, depending on your preference. You can mix and match different types of blooms for a dynamic look, or stick to a single variety for a more cohesive design.

33) Balloon centrepieces

Balloon centrepieces are a trendy, low-cost way to add whimsy and colour to your wedding decor. Choose balloons in your wedding colours, or opt for metallics or pastels for a more sophisticated look.

To create balloon centrepieces, start by inflating balloons to varying sizes using helium or air. You can use a mix of balloon sizes and shapes to create interest, as well as mixing and matching colours for a striking and dynamic effect.

Next, tie the balloons together in clusters using ribbon or string. You can create single balloon clusters or combine multiple clusters to form larger arrangements. Anchor them with decorative vases or buckets to complete the look.

34) Pinecone and cinnamon stick arrangements

Perfect for a cosy winter wedding, pinecones and cinnamon stick wedding table decorations will create a warm and inviting atmosphere for your special day. Start by gathering pinecones and cinnamon sticks, which you can easily find at craft shops or even in your garden or local park if the season is right and you’re feeling adventurous.

Arrange the pinecones and cinnamon sticks in clusters on your tables, interspersing them with greenery or winter foliage for a festive touch. You can also add small accents like berries, pine sprigs, or dried oranges for a festive flair.

35) Alcohol bottle candelabras

Consider reusing empty wine, beer, and alcohol bottles as part of your wedding breakfast for a unique and eco-friendly touch. Start by collecting empty bottles of various shapes and sizes from your favourite drinks, then plug the bottle with long, tall candles. Burn the candles for a short amount of time so the wax melts and adheres the candles to the bottle and your DIY wedding centrepieces are complete!

36) Carved pumpkins

If you love all things spooky or are throwing a Halloween-themed wedding, carved pumpkins could be the centrepiece for you. Take some time with your soon-to-be spouse or wedding party to carve a range of pumpkins in different shapes and sizes. If you’re prepared to carve out the intricate names or initials of your guests, you could even use the pumpkins as table numbers or place settings!

37) Pinecones in hurricane jars

Buy hurricane jars online or in a local DIY shop and fill them with pinecones of different sizes. If the season allows, you can use real pine cones, or you can buy synthetic pine cones in bags online.

38) Paper aeroplanes suspended from the ceiling

If you’re a fan or travelling or simply love the whimsy of paper aeroplanes, consider folding a range of your own in different shapes, sizes, and colours. Suspend them from the ceiling above the centre of your table using a fishing line for a playful and eye-catching centrepiece. You can use patterned paper, origami paper, or even recycled materials for an eco-friendly touch.

Once you’ve folded your paper aeroplanes, attach a fishing line to each one and hang them from the ceiling above the centre of your table. You can adjust the length of the fishing line to create a dynamic display with planes at different heights.

39) A herb garden

Herb gardens are a great choice for those who appreciate fresh and aromatic scents in their wedding decor. Start by gathering a variety of pre-grown herbs or herb seeds. These can include rosemary, lavender, thyme, and mint.

Next, plant the herbs in small pots or containers, making sure to include a mix of colours and textures. You can decorate the pots with ribbons, twine, or labels to add a personalised touch. Your guests will love the fragrant aroma of the herbs as they dine and celebrate.

Floral-focus centrepiece ideas

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Wedding floral centrepieces are a classic choice for wedding table decor and perfect for those who want to keep it classy. Check out some of these ideas for floral-inspired table decorations.

40) Vintage birdcages filled with flowers

Vintage birdcages add a sense of whimsy and adventure to a traditional floral tablescape. Start by sourcing vintage birdcages from charity shops, vintage shops, or home decoration shops. Once you have your birdcages, fill them with an array of fresh flowers in hues that complement your wedding colour palette. You can choose a single type of flower for a cohesive look or mix and match different blooms for added texture and visual interest.

Consider incorporating trailing greenery or delicate foliage to add depth and dimension to the arrangements. You can also adorn the birdcages with ribbons, lace, or decorative accents to enhance their vintage charm.

41) Terrariums with succulents and air plants

If you love the energy floral arrangements bring but aren’t a big fan of blooms, consider creating your own terrariums filled with cacti, air plants, or other succulents. You’ll first need some glass terrariums in various shapes and sizes, which you can find at garden centres or online shops.

You’ll then need a selection of small succulents like cacti, aloe plants, some types of hoya, and air plants. Choose plants in different shapes, sizes, and textures to create visual interest and depth within the terrariums.

You can then fill around the succulents with coloured sand, pebbles, or small figures to add interest.

42) Miniature fairy gardens

Fairy gardens are a great floral centrepiece choice for forest or outdoor weddings, or for whimsical weddings. To create your own miniature fairy garden centrepiece, start by selecting a shallow container or tray that will serve as the base for your enchanting landscape. You can find suitable containers at garden centres, craft stores, or online retailers.

Next, gather a variety of miniature plants such as mosses, ferns, and small flowering plants to populate your fairy garden. You can also incorporate miniature trees, tiny fairy figurines, and whimsical accessories like fairy houses or miniature animals to bring your magical garden to life.

Arrange the plants and decorations within the container, creating miniature scenes and pathways that evoke the charm of a fairytale woodland. You could also add small fairy lights or LED lights so guests can continue enjoying the decor into the evening.

43) Miniature bonsai trees

Bring a touch of tranquillity to your big day with miniature bonsai trees. Start by selecting miniature bonsai trees from your local nursery or specialty bonsai shop. Look for trees with interesting shapes and graceful branches that will create a captivating focal point for your tables.

Carefully place them in decorative pots or containers, making sure to provide proper drainage for the plants. To enhance the natural beauty of the bonsai trees, you can also add decorative accents like moss, rocks, or miniature figurines. Arrange the bonsai trees on your tables, either as individual centrepieces or grouped together for a more interesting look.

44) Wine bottle vases with baby’s breath

Similarly to the alcohol bottle candelabras, simply collect a range of clean and disused glass bottles and fill them with baby’s breath or gypsophila for a pretty and minimalistic wedding centrepiece idea.

45) A selection of peonies

Peonies are a romantic and fragrant choice for wedding centrepieces. Their lush blooms and delicate petals add a touch of elegance and sophistication to any table setting.

Start by selecting a variety of peonies in different colours and sizes from your local florist or flower market. Choose shades that complement your wedding colour palette and overall theme and arrange them in a glass vase or another beautiful pot. Make sure you fill them with water and flower food to keep the blooms fresh.

46) A handful of hydrangeas

A handful of hydrangeas can bring a burst of colour and charm to your wedding centrepieces. These beautiful blooms are known for their large, fluffy petals and come in a variety of stunning shades, including blue, pink, purple, and white. In fact, hydrangeas will either grow blue or pink depending on the acidity of the soil. Growing hydrangeas in acidic soil will give blue blooms, while more basic soil will give pink flowers.

Arrange the hydrangeas in a glass vase or decorative container, making sure to trim the stems at an angle and remove any leaves that will be below the water line. Fill the vase with water and plant food to keep the flowers looking their best.

47) Re-use your bouquets

If you don’t feel like spending extra money on your centrepieces, consider repurposing your wedding bouquets and buttonholes into wedding table decor. This is also generally a great way to save money on your wedding flowers. Start by carefully disassembling your bouquets and buttonholes, removing any wilted or damaged flowers, and trimming the stems to the desired length. This will freshen up your arrangements and help them last longer.

Then, gather a collection of vases, jars, or other decorative containers that match your wedding theme and style. Arrange the flowers in the containers, mixing and matching different blooms and colours to create unique and eye-catching centrepieces.

48) A selection of wildflowers

So long as you have permission, you can pick wildflowers from wherever you’d like. Consider asking a farmer with a wildflower field, or growing your own English wildflowers in your back garden. You can grow daisies, Queen Anne’s lace, lavender, foxgloves, and so much more.

Arrange the wildflowers in loose, organic bunches, allowing them to spill over the edges of the containers for a relaxed and natural look. Don’t be afraid to mix in other natural elements like ferns, berries, or feathers to add depth and dimension to your arrangements.

49) Beautiful sunflowers

Although sunflowers are technically wildflowers, we thought these beautiful, happy flowers deserved their own section!

Sunflowers are sure to brighten up your wedding tables with their cheerful and vibrant presence. These iconic blooms are known for their large, golden petals and striking appearance, making them a popular choice for weddings with a rustic or summery theme.

Arrange the sunflowers in rustic containers such as mason jars, wooden crates, or metal buckets, adding a touch of charm and character to your table decor. You can also mix in other blooms like daisies, asters, or wildflowers to create a dynamic and eye-catching display. Tie some twine or ribbon around the container as a finishing touch.

50) A selection of tulips

Tulips will add a pop of colour and fun to your special day. Start by picking fresh tulips from your local florist or supermarket, ensuring that the stems are firm and the petals are just beginning to open. Tulips continue to grow after they are cut, so choosing ones that are not fully open will ensure they look their best throughout your big day.

Arrange the tulips in tall vases or containers filled with water, trimming the stems at an angle to encourage water absorption and prevent wilting. You can create a simple and elegant display by arranging single-colour tulips in each vase, or mix and match different colours for a more dynamic look.

51) Calla lily elegance

Calla lilies exude elegance, making them the perfect choice for a wedding centrepiece. They are tall, colourful, and striking flowers that look beautiful in tall glass vases. You can find calla lilies at specialist florists, garden centres, or even grow them in your own garden if you have a green thumb.

Arrange the calla lilies in tall glass vases filled with water, allowing their graceful stems to stand upright and their elegant blooms to take centre stage. You can add pebbles, crystals, or floating candles to the vases if you’re looking for something more unique.

52) Romantic roses

A classic option for wedding centrepieces, roses are fragrant, beautiful, and romantic. Available in a wide range of colours, from traditional reds and pinks to soft pastels and bold hues, roses offer versatility to suit any wedding theme or colour scheme.

Start by selecting fresh roses from your local florist or flower market, choosing blooms with tight buds and vibrant colours for the best visual impact. Trim the stems at an angle and remove any thorns or leaves that will be below the water line to ensure a clean and polished presentation.

Arrange the roses in decorative vases or containers filled with water, allowing their delicate petals to unfurl and showcase their natural beauty.

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Wedding centrepieces are more than simple or general table decor. They’re conversation starters, a focal point for the wedding breakfast, and a reflection of the overall theme of your big day. It’s natural to feel overwhelmed by choice, but don’t worry— we’re here every step of the way.

We’ve broken down 52 of the most popular wedding centrepiece ideas. No matter your preference, theme, or personal style, there’s something for you on this list.

If this list has left you feeling inspired and you’re ready to revamp your whole wedding theme, check out this list of the top 70 DIY wedding decor ideas! Packed with creative and thrifty ideas for transforming your venue, these budget-friendly ideas will help you craft a stunning look that won’t break the bank.

Or, for that unrivalled professional touch, be sure to also browse our fabulous range of wedding decor providers and florists.

Happy Planning!

Supplier Showcase: Capture Authentic Moments with Jake Janes Photography

If you’re looking for an award-winning wedding photographer, look no further than Jake Janes Photography. From candid moments to posed perfection, Jake brings a perfect blend of professionalism and laid-back charm to every shot. His diverse range of photography styles catalogue and complement your big day in the most natural and heartfelt way possible. It’s all about that authenticity and those unique candid moments. Read on to learn exactly why you should book this brilliant photographer, with exclusive insights and advice from Jake himself.

Jake’s story

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Jake Janes is a passionate photographer who turned his hobby into a career after shooting at the wedding of his friend’s sister. His journey into the wedding industry began in 2021, a decade after he first discovered his love for photography. Reflecting on his journey, Jake shares, “I never initially wanted to get into the wedding industry, but my first wedding changed everything. I fell in love with the emotion, the happiness, and the faces of the couple throughout the day… I’m super lucky to be able to do my hobby as a job, and share my creativity and passion with others on such a special day.”

Jake summarises why he loves what he does: “Giving confidence to people with limited confidence is a winning feeling. That’s what I love. That’s why I do this.”

Standout features

What sets Jake apart from other photographers is his personal approach to capturing moments. He explains, “I know I can capture the images that most other photographers can, so I ‘sell myself’ on a more personal basis.” Understanding the importance of comfort, he ensures that even the most camera-shy bride or groom feels at ease on their special day, allowing them to relax and have fun. In addition, Jake’s special understanding with mental health and body insecurities means that he will always support you with any insecurities you may have and make you feel fabulous!

Another of Jake’s standout features is his involvement in the dancing festivities. While some photographers might stay on the sidelines, Jake immerses himself in the celebration, capturing candid shots of the dancing and the party. “Have you ever seen a photographer dance around with two cameras?” Jake asks. “Well, you’d have the pleasure of watching me groove while taking pictures!”

Jake’s highly personal and involved approach is clearly paying off! He is proud to have won a Bridebook Silver Award in 2024 in recognition of his glowing five-star couple reviews: “I’ve only been going for a small amount of time and been lucky enough to secure one award! It’s really incredible to know that the couples I work with have a five-star experience with me.”

Jake’s approach may be super relaxed and laid-back, but he’s also organised and meticulous. You’ll get to meet him a couple of times before your wedding to make sure you’re getting everything you want, and Jake will write everything down to ensure you’re both on the same page about what’s expected from the day: “But I’ll always make it fun, and will have a laugh and a joke with you along the way so we can all have a great time and share in the excitement.”

Sustainability and inclusivity ethos

Environmental sustainability is at the core of Jake’s business values. From driving a hybrid car to using electronic communication and powering his own office with solar panels, Jake ensures that his business practices align with his personal environmental values, and identifies as a Sustainability Hero.

Additionally, Jake’s commitment to inclusivity shines through as he adapts his services to meet the needs of all couples, regardless of their background or beliefs. He identifies as LGBTQIA+ friendly, multi-faith friendly and neurodiverse-friendly.

Memorable moments

Jake fondly remembers his first wedding – that of his friend’s sister – as his most memorable experience. “From not initially wanting to start in the industry, this wedding kickstarted my business and career, which I absolutely love,” he recalls. “I offered my services to help them for the day, and they were my first wedding, and since then I’ve just fallen in love with everything about it.”

Expert advice

Jake’s number one wedding planning tip for couples is simple yet profound: “The biggest tip I can offer is make sure you find a photographer that you’re most comfortable with! Comfort is key! Being comfortable allows you to relax, being able to relax means the photos will feel more natural, more natural photos makes for better photos!” After all, Jake is on a mission to make even the most camera-shy souls ‘werk it’ like pros, leaving you feeling confident and fabulous.

Secure your booking today

Secure your date with Jake today to make memories that will last a lifetime and have a blast along the way! After all, there’s nothing like that personal touch, or looking back on those truly authentic moments.

Happy Planning!

Venue Showcase: The Timeless Elegance of The Old Hall Ely

We’re shining a light on The Old Hall Ely, an exclusive-use destination wedding venue which epitomises timeless elegance and romantic grandeur. We also talk to Becca Haswell, the venue’s Events & Sales Administrator, to get her unique insights and expert advice. Nestled amidst immaculate grounds and boasting classic interiors, this family-owned Jacobean Manor House offers the perfect backdrop for an enchanting wedding celebration. Get ready to make magical memories that will stand the test of time for all involved.

Highlights of the venue

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As a family-owned venue since 1830, now headed by Alison Morbey and her daughter Antonia, this is a venue where warmth and romance meet grandeur and luxury. In the words of Becca Haswell, the venue’s Events & Sales Administrator, it’s this unique combination which makes The Old Hall Ely so special. It’s a venue which holds many fond memories of the happy childhood spent by the Morbey family. For example, Becca explains that the house bar originally belonged to the children of the family, and that every detail, from the colour of the walls to the light fixtures and the garden trees, is all beautifully selected by Alison Morbey herself, who still works at the venue every day.

The Old Hall Ely are also award winners, most notably:

Platinum Bridebook Award 2023
Top 100 in the KAYAK Travel Awards 2021
Tripadvisor Travelers’ Choice Excellence Award 2021
Muddy Stilettos ‘Best Wedding Venue’ Suffolk & Cambs Award Winner 2021

A manor of grandeur

The Jacobean Manor House stands as a rare beacon of timeless beauty, surrounded by manicured gardens overlooking three stunning ornamental lakes and the majestic Ely Cathedral. It’s an exclusive-use venue, so you can enjoy access to the entire Manor House, as well as its 16 hotel rooms and immaculate grounds, for both the day and night of your wedding. You can further elevate your experience by staying the night before your big day as well, adding an extra touch of luxury and extending your celebrations.

Seasonal splendour

The Old Hall Ely is captivating in every season, offering a picturesque backdrop for your wedding day. From blooming gardens in spring to summer soirées on their patios and terraces, and emotive autumn skies to winter wonderlands with roaring fires and twenty Christmas trees, the venue transforms into a magical setting regardless of the weather or season. Whether indoor or outdoor, The Old Hall Ely exudes both charm and beauty at every turn.

Exceptional service

As a family-owned venue, service is at the heart of the experience. Their dedicated team of event managers ensures your wedding day is stress-free and unique, allowing you to savour every moment of your celebration. They’re committed to going above and beyond to make sure that planning your big day is a magical and exciting experience. On top of that, their team of exceptional chefs will collaborate with you to craft the perfect menu, tailored exactly to your tastes.

Meet the team behind the venue

Prior to working at The Old Hall Ely, Becca Haswell had no previous experience within the wedding industry specifically, but has since fallen completely in love with it. In her own words, “How could you not love to work at a beautiful wedding venue and be surrounded by happy people celebrating one of the most important days of someone’s life? The best part is being part of the journey, from seeing an excited couple first arrive at their private show round, to then watching them walk down the aisle.”

When asked about her most memorable wedding, Becca explains, “The most exciting part is that every wedding is so different and it is so lovely to see. From brides and bridesmaids arriving in helicopters to a carousel in the garden, to roaming bands to the perfect sparkler shots on our beautiful Cathedral Terrace.

Becca’s best piece of expert advice to engaged couples planning their big day is simple but often overlooked: “Enjoy the journey. So many people focus on the destination and forget that getting there is half the fun. All the meetings, shopping, tastings, choices – enjoy it!” We couldn’t have said it better themselves.

Secure your booking now

Get ready to step into a world of timeless elegance and romance, where every detail is meticulously crafted to ensure your wedding day is nothing short of extraordinary. Contact The Old Hall Ely today to book this remarkable venue and embark on a journey of a lifetime that you’ll never forget.

Happy Planning!

Venue Showcase: The Serenity and Splendour of Water’s Edge at Ewen

In this exclusive showcase, we’re spotlighting Water’s Edge at Ewen, a sanctuary of serenity and splendour nestled amidst picturesque spring-fed lakes and captivating scenery. As you embark on the journey of a lifetime together, allow us to introduce you to a venue where dreams effortlessly transform into reality. Expertly led by manager Will Hewer, Water’s Edge at Ewen invites you to step into a fabulous realm where flexibility meets luxury, promising an unforgettable celebration that reflects your unique love story.

Highlights of the venue

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Water’s Edge at Ewen offers couples a stylish, unique Cotswold location to celebrate their big day. In the words of manager Will Hewer, “our stunning outdoor spaces are a huge stand-out feature, from our spring-fed lakes and rivers to centuries-old oak trees nestled amongst the nature and endless lawns and woodlands”. Plus, unlike most other venues, you can settle into the venue the afternoon before your wedding, so you can invite your bridal party in for food and drinks and get the celebrations started earlier.

The team at Water’s Edge at Ewen are proud award winners and sustainability heroes too, and identify as LGBTQIA+ friendly and as Asian Experts (specialising in both Asian catering generally and also Halal catering).

Enchanting spaces and experiences

Water’s Edge unfolds across two impressive storeys, showcasing a charming L-shaped barn design. On the ground floor, the main party space awaits, featuring a gorgeous dining room with an inviting open fireplace. Adjacent to this room, a spacious bar and lounge area set the stage for mingling and creating memories. To add to the magical ambience, guests can enjoy the culinary artistry of the in-house chef team in the open theatre-style kitchen. Outdoors, spring-fed lakes provide an exquisite backdrop for leisurely the sipping of cocktails, setting the scene for an enchanting celebration like no other.

Reception spaces and facilities

The festivities commence in the barn’s bar area, where a meticulously crafted panelled bar serves as the room’s focal point. Guests can enjoy a selection of fine locally-sourced Cotswold ales, traditional champagne and signature cocktails tailored to satisfy every taste. A panelled dining room accommodates up to 110 seated guests, with the option to add a marquee for additional guests. As the sun sets and twilight descends, the dining room transforms into an inviting dancefloor, ensuring the celebrations continue in style.

Culinary delights and delicacies

Prepare your taste buds for a one-of-a-kind culinary journey expertly crafted by Water’s Edge’s accomplished in-house chef team in their theatre-style kitchen. The menus are thoughtfully designed around each couple’s unique preferences, using locally-sourced, seasonal ingredients. From sumptuous sharing platters and delectable grilled feasts to indulgent feasting menus, the options are tailored to create a culinary experience that reflects each couple’s individual style. After nightfall, a delightful and super fun ‘Munchies’ menu awaits, featuring luxurious cheese toasties, stone-baked pizzas and locally-sourced gourmet hot dogs.

Luxurious accommodation and bedrooms

Water’s Edge offers three beautifully appointed bedrooms, including an exquisite couple suite. Complete with a charming roll-top bath, a separate dressing room, a contemporary en-suite and a lavish super-king-size luxury padded bed, the accommodation provides a luxurious retreat for both you and your guests.

Meet the venue’s manager

Will Hewer has worked in hospitality since the tender age of 15, and has always been hooked working on events. Moving into the wedding industry was, for him, always a natural progression, given that Water’s Edge is a family business, previously managed and operated by both his parents.

When asked to share his most memorable wedding, he declares, “There are too many to mention. At Water’s Edge at Ewen we provide a blank canvas for couples to create their own, unique and magical wedding.” His advice to engaged couples planning their wedding is simple. “Enjoy the process. It will be over so quickly! Also don’t be afraid to speak to venues – we have a wealth of information and wisdom – when looking at other suppliers and top tips.”

Secure your booking today

If you’re dreaming of a picturesque wedding nestled amidst outstanding natural beauty, serving up the finest culinary delights and providing the most luxurious accommodation, Water’s Edge at Ewen is the wedding venue for you. As the manager himself puts it, this is a venue which will bend to your desires, “ensuring your vision blossoms into reality.” Get ready to craft some truly magical memories together and secure your booking today!

Happy Planning!

11th Wedding Anniversary Gifts: 50 Anniversary Gift Ideas

You and your partner are now in your second decade together as a married couple. Your 10th wedding anniversary may already feel like such a long time ago, but now that you’re getting ready to celebrate 11 years of married bliss, you have another excuse to spoil your other half rotten all over again.

But what should you get your spouse when the two of you are celebrating your 11th wedding anniversary? Last year, you may have chosen to follow traditions and give your partner something around the theme of diamonds, but did you know that your 11th anniversary also has a traditional and modern gift, as well as a traditional flower and gemstone too?

So, if you’re keen to give your partner a gift filled with love and special meaning, you have plenty of options to choose from. In this guide, we’re going to explore all the traditions surrounding gift-giving when it comes to celebrating your 11th anniversary. We’ll let you know what the traditional and modern gifts are, and give you 50 suggestions to help you find something your partner will love.

For more information about all the anniversary gift-giving traditions from your first anniversary through to your 90th, read our complete year-by-year wedding anniversary gift guide.

What are traditional and modern gifts for an 11th wedding anniversary?

The traditional and modern 11th wedding anniversary gifts

You might already have a few ideas for what kind of gift you want to give your partner to mark your anniversary, but a traditional or modern gift can have a deeper level of symbolism that makes it extra special. People have been giving both traditional and modern gifts to their partners for more than 100 years, and which you choose to go with is up to you – and any can be super romantic and meaningful.

Traditional 11th anniversary gift – Steel

The traditional gift when celebrating your 11th wedding anniversary is steel. Okay, so steel might not seem like a particularly obvious choice, especially as it’s often reserved for fairly industrial use. But, steel is incredibly strong and durable, so it’s actually poignant when you think about how it sums up your marriage. If you use your creativity, steel can also make for a touching and beautiful gift.

Modern 11th anniversary gift – Costume jewellery

The modern 11th anniversary gift is costume jewellery, otherwise known as fashion jewellery. It’s often big, bold and relatively inexpensive, especially when compared to fine jewellery, because it doesn’t tend to feature pricey precious metals or gemstones. But don’t let that put you off – it symbolises the fun and playfulness you have in your marriage.

11th anniversary gemstone – Turquoise

If you’d love to get your other half some jewellery but you’d prefer it to contain a real gemstone or precious metal, then the traditional 11th anniversary gemstone is turquoise. This lovely (as the name suggests) turquoise-coloured stone represents protection and luck, which you clearly have by the bucket load after spending more than a decade with the love of your life.

11th anniversary flower – Tulip

The traditional 11th anniversary flower is the tulip, which couldn’t be a more perfect flower when celebrating your anniversary. Not only are tulips wonderful springtime flowers, but they represent perfect, deep love. And, after 11 years of marriage, we imagine that’s exactly what you feel for your other half. Plus, it looks fantastic either as part of an arrangement or as the star of the show in a bouquet.

How do you choose a gift for an 11th wedding anniversary?

When it comes to choosing the ideal 11th anniversary gift, you could have a few ideas in your mind already. Do you go for the typical anniversary gift, like chocolates and flowers, or do you think outside the box? Or, you might want to choose a gift packed with special meaning – the choice is practically endless.

Here are a few points to bear in mind when trying to think about the perfect 11th anniversary gift for your partner:

Are you keen to stick with the traditional or modern themes? They’re not exactly easy to work with – it can be easy to assume that steel doesn’t scream romance.
Do you have a set budget? Some costume jewellery can be relatively inexpensive, but it depends what your partner likes. Some steel gifts can also vary greatly in cost.
Are you hoping to choose something personalised? Steel is a great option if you want to give your partner a custom gift, while costume jewellery can be a little more difficult to personalise.
What sort of thing does your partner love? Unless you’re super lucky, your other half might not have expressed much interest in steel or costume jewellery, but they could have dropped a few heavy hints about something else.

Is a couple you adore about to celebrate their 11th anniversary, and are you wondering whether or not you can join in on the traditions and get them a gift associated with steel or costume jewellery? The great thing is, these ‘rules’ aren’t just for the couple themselves – if you want to give them something that ties into the themes then you’re more than free to do so. They’re bound to love and appreciate your gift and the extra meaning behind it.

50 ideas for an 11th wedding anniversary gift

As you near your 11th anniversary, you might wonder just how you can top what you gave your partner to mark your 10th anniversary. The good news is, even though the traditional and modern gifts aren’t quite as extravagant as diamond, they’re still jam-packed with just as much symbolism and meaning. So, if you’re looking to give your partner a gift linked to one of the themes, here are 50 suggestions to get your creativity flowing and help you find the perfect gift.

10 traditional gifts for an 11th wedding anniversary

If you’re interested in giving your partner a traditional 11th anniversary gift, you’ll need to choose something closely associated with steel. Steel isn’t a common gift to give someone (unless they just so happen to be a big fan of Sheffield-based industry), but if you think a little out of the box, you can find something wonderful that they’re bound to love.

1. An engraved steel dessert spoon

Does your partner have a sweet tooth or do you love to entertain? A personalised engraved dessert spoon is a fantastic one-of-a-kind gift that you can use every time you entertain or fancy a sweet treat. It also has the bonus of being super affordable.

2. A steel rose

The rose is a symbol of love recognised the world over. The trouble is, they wilt after a few days and your floral gift is no more – that is, unless you give your other half a steel rose. That way, it can sit in the garden forever and be a permanent reminder of your 11th anniversary.

3. A steel black cat garden ornament

If your partner loves cats – particularly black cats – then a steel black cat figure can stand on your garden fence and strut its stuff like it owns the place. A great anniversary gift for the cat lover in your life.

4. A steel figures ornament

For something truly unique and full of character, a steel love figure is a real showstopper. There are also plenty of different styles depending on what your partner might enjoy – something romantic, something silly, or something a little bit more risqué.

5. Engraved stainless steel ice cubes

It’s always worth sharing a drink with your partner to toast your anniversary. So, whether you want to share a Coke or a whiskey on your special day, engraved stainless steel ice cubes are more than fitting for the occasion.

6. A personalised steel thermos flask

If your partner spends a lot of time outdoors or travels frequently for work, a personalised steel thermos flask works on so many levels. Not only will it help quench their thirst on their travels, but it’s a personalised reminder of your anniversary which they can take with them on their adventures.

7. An “I steel love” you personalised keyring

There’s nothing quite like a good pun, and an I steel love you personalised keyring is cute, charming and funny. It’s a lovely little token gift that your other half can always keep close by.

8. A stainless steel and wooden bracelet

Traditionally, steel isn’t often used in jewellery, but in the right hands, it can be a phenomenal material. And with a stainless steel and wooden bracelet, it’s definitely in the right hands. It also sort of crosses into modern gift territory as well, meaning it’s a gift with double the meaning.

9. Stainless steel word art

For a brilliant piece of personalisation to hang on the wall, a piece of stainless steel word art lets you create custom artwork on mirrored stainless steel. It’s a brilliant and hugely personalised gift that you can use to remember the life you’ve built together.

10. A stainless steel wine tumbler

If your partner loves a glass of wine but isn’t a fan of traditional glasses, a stainless steel wine tumbler keeps wine – and any other drink for that matter – at the ideal temperature. It also comes in a range of colours, so you shouldn’t have trouble finding one that suits your partner’s taste.

10 modern gifts for an 11th wedding anniversary

If steel isn’t really your partner’s thing, then you could give them a modern gift for your 11th anniversary instead – costume jewellery. Costume jewellery is big, bold and beautiful, and with such a huge choice available you’re sure to find something that fits their usual style.

1. A precious heiress necklace

For that precious someone in your life, a precious heiress necklace will let them feel like royalty. It’s far from subtle, but it’s a lovely on-theme gift that is beautifully glitzy.

2. Celeste flower and leaf pearl cluster statement earrings

To really make a statement on your anniversary, a pair of Celeste flower and leaf pearl cluster earrings are utterly fabulous.

3. Gold butterfly wing stud earrings

If your other half is an insectologist or simply loves beautiful butterflies, a pair of gold butterfly wing stud earrings are equal parts delicate and pretty.

4. A crystal robin brooch

To make any outfit stand out from the crowd, a crystal robin brooch is perfect for any nature lover. Available in a clear or multi-coloured design with plenty of sparkly detail, this brooch goes with a wide range of styles.

5. An organic shapes necklace

For a real hit of bold blue, an organic shapes necklace is a unique and eye-catching accessory that adds a contemporary touch to any ensemble.

6. Pearls of gold bracelet

If you and your other half enjoyed bingeing Bridgerton together and they commented on the incredible jewellery they wore, you could make your anniversary one to remember with a pearls of gold bracelet, which was worn by characters in the iconic series.

7. A Diamonique scattered stone bangle

Give your partner a touch of Hollywood glam with a Diamonique scattered stone bangle, created by TV personality Brenda Edwards.

8. Silver tone ‘dream heart’ crystal pendant

For something part vintage, part modern, a silver tone ‘dream heart’ crystal pendant ticks a lot of boxes.

9. Mood gold mother of pearl disc inlay organic long pendant necklace

A mood gold mother of pearl disc inlay organic long pendant necklace is a lovely contemporary piece that can be worn with loads of different styles and can bring an entire outfit together.

10. Peacock icicle shiny short creole earrings

With a pair of peacock icicle shiny short creole earrings your partner’s sure to turn a few heads thanks to their shimmering, deep purple icicle design.

5 affordable gifts for an 11th wedding anniversary

Steel and costume jewellery aren’t gifts that are going to align with everyone’s tastes, but you might still be keen to give your partner an 11th wedding anniversary gift that is tied closely to the traditional or modern themes. Thankfully, if you’d still like to give them a token gift that has that all-important symbolism behind it, you can do just that without having to break the bank. Here are five suggestions for affordable gifts on your 11th anniversary.

1. A personalised steel guitar pick

For the rock star in your life, a personalised steel guitar pick ticks a lot of boxes: it’s steel, personalised, affordable and perfect for any guitar-strumming spouse.

2. A steel anniversary keyring

One cute and thoughtful way to mark your anniversary is by giving your partner a puntastic steel anniversary keyring. It’s a lovely little token gift your other half can keep with them wherever they go.

3. A steel D20 die

If you and your partner love to spend hours playing fantasy role-playing games, you could treat them to a steel D20 die, so they can be reminded of your 11th anniversary every time you embark on an epic quest together.

4. Clear diamante tulip flower drop earrings

Combine the modern anniversary gift with the traditional 11th anniversary flower with a pair of wonderful clear diamante tulip flower drop earrings. They have double the significance and look fantastic.

5. Sterling silver plated hammered stud earrings

TK Maxx is a great place to shop for affordable costume jewellery, just like this pair of sterling silver plated hammered stud earrings. They’re also subtle enough that they can be worn whatever the occasion.

5 DIY gifts for an 11th wedding anniversary

What could be more thoughtful and charming than giving your partner a DIY gift made by your own fair hands to mark your 11th anniversary? Yes, steel and costume jewellery are usually made by those with years of experience, but there are some unique and accessible ways to get stuck in yourself which don’t need loads of specialist tools. For example, steel wire is fairly cheap and can be crafted into loads of different things. Here are a few suggestions so you can get crafting.

1. A DIY steel wire sculpture

You don’t need to find a welder to make something small and unique out of steel. You can pick up 5m of steel wire for next to nothing, and with a wire sculpture tutorial, you can follow simple instructions to make something special for your partner.

2. DIY costume jewellery

If you have a few simple tools, you can use steel wire to create fabulous pieces of costume jewellery, like a whimsical swirly moon, with a video tutorial available that runs through the steps.

3. A DIY steel wire cat bookmark

For something quick and simple even for the most inexperienced of beginners, a steel wire cat bookmark is cute, accessible and useful. A lovely little DIY gift.

4. DIY framed costume jewellery

If you have some old costume jewellery crammed in the bottom of a box or hidden at the back of a draw, give them a new lease of life by framing them. There are plenty of video tutorials available to give you some ideas.

5. DIY costume jewellery art

Something else you might want to do with that old costume jewellery is repurpose it into a unique piece of costume jewellery art that your other half can display. It’s a great way to get those creative juices flowing.

5 experience or activity gifts for an 11th wedding anniversary

Your anniversary is the perfect excuse for getting out there and spending time with your other half doing something new and exciting. And thankfully, to keep your anniversary on theme, there are steel- and costume jewellery-centric experiences the two of you can take part in. Here are five suggestions for things to do on your 11th anniversary.

1. A steel axe-making class

Get in touch with your Viking side and spend time enjoying an axe-making course. You might not have much use for an axe at home (or maybe you do!) but it’s a fun and exciting way to spend time together while making something out of steel.

2. The Steel Cauldron tea experience

This one is bending the rules a little, but the Steel Cauldron afternoon tea experience is the self-proclaimed most magical tearoom in the world. Enjoy magical sweet and savoury treats in fabulously themed surroundings.

3. A Magna steel experience

Take a trip to one of the world’s largest former steelworks, The Magna Steelworks, which introduces you and your other half to the long and complex history of steel production in the north of England.

4. A jewellery-making workshop

Fancy having a crack at making your own jewellery but not sure where to start? A jewellery-making experience provides you with the materials, tools and techniques you need to make something showstopping.

5. Sheffield Steelers tickets

Loosely tied to the traditional 11th anniversary theme, why not check out an ice hockey game and watch the Sheffield Steelers? A unique and exciting way to spend your anniversary!

10 11th anniversary gifts that contain turquoise

The traditional stone for celebrating 11 years of marriage is turquoise, a fabulously bluey-green stone that can vary in price. In fact, some turquoise can even be more valuable than diamond, but that’s quite rare – a lot of turquoise jewellery can be fairly affordable as far as gemstones go. It’s a versatile stone that looks great set in loads of different kinds of jewellery, and here are 10 suggestions you might consider:

Earrings
A ring
A necklace
A bracelet
A broach
A locket
A watch
An anklet
A hairpin
Cufflinks

Most high-street and independent retailers will have a range of jewellery containing turquoise set in various different precious metals – so you shouldn’t have much trouble finding a lovely piece that suits your other half’s style. At Bridebook, we also work closely with many fantastic jewellers who have a wide selection of turquoise jewellery.

5 floral-inspired gifts for an 11th wedding anniversary

If your partner’s a big fan of floral arrangements, you’ll have an easy time choosing something related to the traditional 11th anniversary flower, the tulip. Just like the rose, tulips represent love, so are the perfect choice for an anniversary gift. They’re a hugely iconic and recognisable shape and come in loads of different colours. That means they’re incredibly versatile. Here are five tulip-themed ideas so you can spoil your love on your anniversary.

1. A bunch of tulips

We couldn’t not suggest a bunch of tulips as a way to let your partner know how much you love them on your anniversary. They’re the ultimate symbol of love and are not only fantastic as part of an arrangement, but also work just as well when they’re in a bunch all on their own.

2. A steel tulip

Even though tulips are beautiful, after a week or so they wilt just like every other flower. Well, not quite every other flower. A steel tulip combines the traditional gift and the traditional flower, making it a surefire hit on your big day.

3. A midnight tulip candle

Create a romantic atmosphere on your anniversary with a midnight tulip candle, with a lovely lemony and floral scent.

4. A turquoise tulip pendant

An incredible triple-hitter for your 11th anniversary is a turquoise tulip pendant, it’s part floral, part turquoise and part costume jewellery. Plus, it goes really well with different outfits and styles.

5. A wild tulip Royal Scot Crystal vase

If you’re keen to give your partner a floral gift, you could elevate it further with a wild tulip vase from Royal Scot Crystal. That way, whenever your partner has flowers in the future they can reuse the vase and have a reminder of your 11th anniversary.

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Venue Showcase: Oak Barn, Frame Farm

We’re shining a light on Oak Barn, Frame Farm, a place where heritage, character and rural beauty all combine in perfect harmony. If you’re an engaged couple in search of an exclusive rustic venue in a truly idyllic setting, then look no further. In this exclusive showcase, we’ll explore all the charm and highlights of Oak Barn, with insights from owners Deana and Tim Maw. Read on to discover the joys of this stunning venue for yourself.

Highlights of the venue

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Oak Barn is an award-winning eco venue dating back to 1607, set in a gorgeous valley in the heart of Kent’s High Weald Area of Outstanding Natural Beauty, yet only an hour away from London.

There are three stunning and uniquely distinct barns (the Oak Barn, the Byre and the Pole Barn), as well as gorgeous garden areas, a pond, terraces and a courtyard, and luxurious accommodation in Weaver’s Cottages. The entire farm is exclusive to couples and their guests, and is perfect no matter the season.

Owners Deana and Tim Maw sum up Oak Barn’s stand-out features as follows: “We are a small, family-run eco venue which is perfect for couples looking for a wedding that is a true reflection of their vision, where they can create a bespoke and personal day or multi-day wedding. Our weddings at the farm are so personal. It is of the utmost importance to us that our couples get to choose and decide on every aspect of their wedding, rather than being presented with package deals. We are here to help and advise throughout their planning stages and on the day, and their personal event manager will ensure that their day runs perfectly.”

The team at Oak Barn also have a remarkably impressive number of awards and nominations to their name. These include the following:

2019 / 2020 Runner Up – The Rural Business Awards South East – Best Rural Start Up Business
2020 / 2021 Winner – The Rural Business Awards – The Sustainability and Environmental Impact Award
2021/22 Winner – Kent Wedding Awards – Wedding Venue of the Year, Something Different!
2021/22 Finalist – Kent Wedding Awards – Wedding Venue of the Year, Best Sustainable
2021/22 Finalist – Kent Wedding Awards – Wedding Venue of the Year, Best Venue
2022 Finalist – Muddy Stilettos Award – Best Wedding Venue
2022 Regional Finalist – The Wedding Industry Award – South East – Venue (Barn)
2022 – Coco Wedding Venue – Top Wedding Venues for 2022
2023 – Mooncast Films – One of the Best Wedding Venues in the UK
2023 Finalist – Muddy Stilettos Award – Best Wedding Venue
2024 Nominated – Muddy Stilettos Award – Best Wedding Venue

Sustainability ethos and commitment to diversity

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This outstanding venue isn’t just award-winning, but also LGBTQIA+ and multi-faith friendly, neurodiverse-friendly, and a Sustainability Hero.

They have hosted Hindu Fire Ceremonies
They have held Indian Weddings with various ceremonies
They have a stunning church walking distance from the farm, and the Reverend loves welcoming new couples to his congregation
There are 4 distinctly beautiful areas of the farm, which are licensed for civil ceremonies, so that you can have your celebration your way

Owners Deana and Tim elaborate on their sustainability ethos: “Our environment and creating a sustainable business and venue was of paramount importance to Tim and I, and so we constantly strive to be as eco-friendly as possible. We recycle, upcycle, reuse and choose sustainable products. We also only recommend local suppliers, or ones that offset their carbon. We also love planting a tree at the farm for each event that we host at the farm.

Deana and Tim own the farm and live in the main farmhouse. Deana hails from Hong Kong and has a mixed Chinese/English heritage. Diversity and inclusion are therefore of great personal importance to them both.

They are one of the few venues that are wheelchair accessible in all areas, and one of their Wedding Cottages is also wheelchair accessible
They welcome all couples to the farm, and cater to all backgrounds and beliefs

Reception spaces

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Oak Barn boasts four versatile reception spaces within the sustainable farm:

The Oak Barn

A stunning Grade II listed threshing barn stands as the estate’s centrepiece, and is a popular option for large weddings. Its gorgeous high-vaulted roof, exposed beams and floor-to-ceiling glass doors accommodate up to 135 guests for ceremonies, 135 for formal dining, and 200 for evening receptions. Hidden in the fabric of the building is a high-tech light and sound system, and it’s perfect in all seasons due to the air conditioning system, underfloor heating and wood burner.

The Byre

The Byre is an adaptable space with floor-to-ceiling glass doors that bathe the interior in beautiful natural light and flow onto the terrace and into the charming sheep field. This elegant location accommodates 100 guests for ceremonies, 60 for formal dining, and 100 for relaxed evening receptions.

Pole Barn

Steeped in rustic charm, this large open-fronted barn and wood store is stripped back and more understated in style, but also decked in pretty fairy and festoon lights, and is home to a fabulous 1956 Fordson Major tractor. Retaining the character of its humble origins, it is the venue’s most versatile events space, providing the perfect backdrop for a laid-back ceremony and drinks reception, as well as joyous garden games and romantic couples’ portraits.

The Byre’s Terrace

This is a magnificent option for an outdoor wedding ceremony, offering the perfect place to exchange vows and relax with loved ones, gaze at the glorious sunset over the Kent countryside and the lily pond, and tune in to nature.

Onsite accommodation

Unlike many other barn venues, Weaver’s Cottages offers luxurious onsite accommodation where couples can relish a few extra days with their loved ones. Staying at the farm will ensure the perfect start to your wedding celebrations. You’ll have plenty of time to settle in, unwind, and really make the most of the magical setting, surrounded by your closest friends and family members.

Meet the venue’s owners

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Deana was introduced to weddings when she started working in hotels in Asia, and loved everything about them. In her own words:

“When Tim and I first saw Frame Farm we fell in love with it and knew that it could be transformed into a breathtaking venue surrounded by sheep fields, for couples to create a bespoke wedding that would reflect them as a couple. It took a three and a half years’ renovation project to give the farm a new lease of life. We watched our ideas turn into a beautiful reality. Our vision was to create a venue where our couples could curate a dream day or multi-day wedding, within an eco and sustainable environment. Then on 2 February 2019, whilst the sun glistened on the snow, we hosted our first wedding.”

Deana continues: “It is a joy coming to work each day and the satisfaction is immense. We love seeing all our couples’ plans and styling come together on their wedding day, and witnessing the pure love and joy as our couples celebrate one of the most amazing occasions of their life with their friends and family. It always makes my heart swell! So many of our couples stay in touch, eagerly share their wedding photos and videos with us, and come back to stay for their anniversary, or return for their children’s naming ceremonies – which means so much to us. We pride ourselves on building the most caring relationships with our brides and grooms, who ultimately put their trust in us.”

Memorable moments

We asked Deana and Tim to share their most memorable wedding to date, and any particularly unusual or fun experiences. They share:

“Each wedding at the farm is so unique that it is so very hard to choose, and this is what makes Oak Barn, Frame Farm, so special. We do love seeing what transport our couples will arrive in – from classic buses and cars to a truck cab and sports cars. We must admit that witnessing couples landing by helicopter in the field next to The Byre’s terrace for their Grand Entrance into their ceremony, has certainly been unforgettable, both for ourselves and their wedding guests.”

Having the farm turned into an “English Fayre” with Morris dancers in the Pole Barn, and archery, axe throwing and wild bird displays in the fields was also a particularly memorable moment for the owners.

They also revealed that The Pole Barn is the most versatile space where couples can go wild with some incredibly fun ideas. These include:

Mini golf circuits
Pin ball machines
Pool/air hockey tables
Chill-out areas with bars
Skittles competitions
Morris dancers
Vintage games
Photo booths

In the field adjacent to The Byre’s terrace where reception drinks can be hosted, the owners also have reports of some amazing…

Wild bird displays
Giant chess games
Axe throwing
Archery contests
Croquet

Secure your booking today

If you’re dreaming of a picture-perfect wedding surrounded by beauty, charm and one-of-a-kind service, Oak Barn is the wedding venue for you. As the owners themselves put it, when it comes to your wedding, it’s not just about finding a beautiful venue for your big day; it’s also about discovering somewhere to create memories that will stay with you forever. Secure your booking today!

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Celebrating Women in Weddings: Inspiring Stories & Expert Advice

As we approach International Women’s Day, it’s time to honour the remarkable women who shape and innovate the wedding industry. From venues to planners, jewellers to designers, photographers to musicians, and more, women are often the driving force behind countless magical moments, comprising a staggering 80% of the wedding industry! So, this International Women’s Day, join us as we celebrate the achievements, share the inspiring stories, and glean expert advice from the fabulous women who bring dreams to life in the world of weddings.

Evie Arlott: The Wed Shed Decor & The Old Mill (Aldermaston)

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For Evie Arlott, the wedding industry isn’t just a profession; it’s a family legacy deeply rooted in tradition and passion. As the fourth generation overseeing The Old Mill, Aldermaston, a venue steeped in history and hospitality, Evie’s journey into the world of weddings was both personal and life-affirming. “Witnessing the legacy of hospitality and celebration at the mill,” she reflects, “fuelled my desire to continue this legacy.”

In 2019, Evie embarked on a new chapter, establishing The Wed Shed, a wedding decor company aimed at transforming dream wedding settings into reality. With a keen eye for design and a dedication to preserving her family’s heritage, Evie found joy in curating luxurious wedding spaces that reflect her personal touch and attention to detail.

Her proudest achievement lies in the successful expansion of The Wed Shed beyond The Old Mill venue. Having adorned over 300 weddings with their creations, Evie and her team have not only enhanced the venue’s appeal but also contributed to its enduring legacy. “Reaching the 90-year mark for The Old Mill,” she shares, “is a testament to our unwavering commitment to excellence and tradition.”

In a competitive industry where vendors vie for attention, Evie finds inspiration in the increasing presence of women in key roles. “The empowerment of women in this field,” she observes, “has paved the way for greater diversity and creativity.”

For aspiring entrepreneurs, Evie emphasises the importance of setting clear objectives and maintaining a positive mindset. “Obstacles are just temporary challenges,” she asserts, “and opportunities for growth.”

Beyond her entrepreneurial endeavours, Evie finds balance and inspiration as part of the Virgin Atlantic Cabin Crew, enthusing that “travelling enables us to spend quality time together.”

Embracing diversity is at the core of Evie’s business ethos. Her brother’s upcoming wedding, marrying his long-term boyfriend, underscores their commitment to inclusivity. “We embrace diversity within our team,” Evie explains, “and aim to provide a more diverse range of options for our clients.”

In Evie Arlott, the wedding industry finds a visionary leader dedicated to preserving tradition, fostering creativity and championing inclusivity. Through her endeavours, she not only creates timeless wedding experiences but also shapes a more diverse and vibrant industry landscape.

Phoebe Stanaway: Elisabeth Shell Events, Bespoke Wedding Planning

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Phoebe Stanaway’s journey into the world of wedding planning began with a desire for freedom – the freedom to work on her own terms, from wherever she pleased, and to pursue a career that brought her joy. Reflecting on her decision to found Elisabeth Shell Events, she shares, “I decided to start my own business to give myself the three big freedoms: time, financial and location.”

An innate people person, Phoebe thrives in the fast-paced, dynamic environment of wedding planning. With a background in hospitality, including managing a cocktail bar in the heart of the city and running restaurants in London, she found her true calling in orchestrating weddings. “Not one day is ever the same in my life and I love it,” she exclaims. “A wedding really does tick all my boxes and flexes the muscles I have of things I’m really good at!”

With over 400 weddings under her belt and a string of accolades to her name, including being a Regional Finalist for The Wedding Industry Awards 2023 and Highly Commended in 2022, Phoebe’s expertise is undeniable. Yet, she remains grounded, recognising the challenges that come with balancing work and personal life. “Balancing demanding work schedules with personal life can be challenging,” she admits. “It’s also very difficult to keep boundaries in place with clients sometimes, especially without coming across as too assertive as a woman.”

Despite the challenges, Phoebe finds motivation in the sheer enjoyment she derives from her work. “I’m fun, I’m friendly. I get stuck in,” she declares. Her job has seen her in some extraordinary situations, from securing a marquee in headland winds to running pizzas through a snowstorm for an entire wedding breakfast. “My job pretty much is overcoming obstacles,” she says. “I just remember to take a deep breath, think creatively and believe that there’s always a solution – I just need to find it.”

Phoebe is passionate about the representation of women in the wedding industry and the diversity of love that it encompasses. She believes that women are leading the way in redefining wedding customs and traditions, shining lights onto the LGBTQ+ scene and highlighting disability awareness. “That also encourages others to step outside the box and look at how they might be able to use a hobby, or love or craft etc around their family commitments, and contribute to such a vibrant industry,” she remarks.

Amidst the hustle and bustle of wedding planning, Phoebe emphasises the importance of self-care and wellness. “I’ve burnt out before,” she admits. “If no one is going to die, I can have a day off. Nothing is that dramatic. I just need to remind myself of that, often.”

As Elisabeth Shell Events continues to evolve, Phoebe is committed to inclusivity and representation. While acknowledging that there is room for improvement, she is proactive in her efforts to create a more inclusive environment. “I absolutely am committed to doing my best to do better!” she affirms.

Phoebe’s journey in the wedding industry is a testament to her resilience, creativity, and unwavering commitment to her values. As she looks towards the future, she remains steadfast in her pursuit of excellence and inclusivity, ensuring that every couple she works with feels seen, heard and celebrated.

Ruby McGonigle: Lebrusan Studio, Ethical Designer Jewellery

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Ruby McGonigle’s journey into the jewellery industry began with a sense of wonder and discovery amidst the vibrant gemstone markets of the Far East. Reflecting on those early days, she reminisces, “I still fondly remember my trips to Hong Kong at the very beginning and the incredible stones that surrounded me; carved, engraved, whittled into miniature sculptures, cut to enhance their natural flaws… I felt like a kid in a sweet shop.”

However, it was during these travels that she also confronted the darker realities of the trade. She recalls, “I bore witness to the dark side of the jewellery trade; the cheap prices, the offices filled to the brim with stacks upon stacks of farmed freshwater pearls, the child labour, the gemstones with murky histories circulating the market.” This experience sparked a deep commitment to ethical practices within the industry.

Armed with a passion for design and a commitment to ethics, Ruby pursued a Master’s degree in Design at Central Saint Martin’s, focusing her studies on the ethical implications within the jewellery industry. She shares, “When I met a Hatton Garden diamond dealer who told me nonchalantly, ‘When you work in this trade you sell your soul to the devil,’ I knew then that it didn’t need to be that way.”

Driven by a desire to challenge the status quo, Ruby founded Lebrusan Studio, a brand dedicated to sustainable luxury. “I didn’t set out to become a bridal jeweller,” she explains, “but I quickly recognised that engagement rings, wedding bands and commitment rings are some of the most meaningful jewels people will ever own.”

Over the past 12 years, Ruby’s impact has been profound. From championing Fairtrade Gold to delivering a TEDx talk on ethical jewellery, she has consistently pushed boundaries and garnered recognition for her efforts. Reflecting on her journey, she expresses, “I feel incredibly proud to reflect on all the ways my little homespun lifestyle brand has created a wave in the jewellery industry.”

Yet, amidst the accolades and achievements, Ruby remains focused on her mission to create meaningful, sustainable jewellery that resonates with her customers. “It’s crucial that jewels with such significance tell stories their wearers can feel proud of,” she insists.

Reflecting on the gender dynamics within the industry, Ruby highlights the importance of fostering a culture of compassion and collaboration. “Gender equality can only be achieved if we shape our industries around compassion and nurturing, sharing knowledge and supporting other women,” she asserts.

In the face of growing consumer demand for sustainability, Ruby acknowledges the need for greater transparency and education within the industry. She emphasises, “One of the biggest challenges we’re currently facing is the need to educate consumers; to equip them with the knowledge they need to navigate a heavily greenwashed market.”

For Ruby, inspiration comes not only from the exquisite craftsmanship of her colleagues but also from the diverse voices and perspectives that shape the wedding industry. “We are all valuable assets in a sturdy, interwoven net that uplifts me every day,” she reflects.

Ruby recognises the profound influence of the wedding industry, particularly on young girls. She remarks, “For so many little girls, the wedding realm is a source of aspiration, awe and inspiration from a young age; its influence on these impressionable brains is not to be underestimated.” She believes that seeing diverse representations in the industry is crucial for fostering feelings of self-worth and empowerment.

As she continues to navigate the ever-evolving landscape of the jewellery industry, Ruby remains committed to authenticity and innovation. Her advice to aspiring entrepreneurs is simple yet profound: “It’s crucial that you are authentic and unique… Once you’ve found what makes you unparalleled and you believe in it, you are unstoppable.”

In her quest for inclusivity, Ruby and Lebrusan Studio have actively worked to amplify LGBTQ+ voices within the bridal jewellery space. She shares, “We’re aware that LGBTQ+ visibility is insufficient within the bridal jewellery industry so we strive actively for better inclusivity within our own business.” From gender-neutral love rings to dedicated resources for LGBTQ+ couples, Ruby’s commitment to diversity and representation shines through in every facet of her business.

Kerri O’Brien: Francis + Louise, Contemporary Luxury Accessories

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Celebrating its sixth year in operation, Francis + Louise is more than just a business for Kerri O’Brien; it’s a passion project born out of a love for design and a desire to create something truly unique. With a background in print design for the fashion industry, including collaborations with renowned brands like Calvin Klein and Anthropologie, Kerri transitioned into the world of weddings after designing her own bespoke print for her wedding. “Our wedding was featured on the wedding blog Love My Dress,” she recalls, “and from there, I got my first international order.”

From those humble beginnings, Francis + Louise has grown into a thriving venture, offering both ready-to-wear collections and bespoke print design services. What sets Kerri’s brand apart is not just its aesthetic appeal but also its commitment to sustainability and traceability. “I’m really proud that all my products are made, designed and printed in the UK,” she explains. “The traceability and sustainability of my products are something really important to me and are clearly important to my customers too.”

As a woman navigating the wedding industry, Kerri has found support and camaraderie among her peers. “Everyone is really supportive,” she says, “and I have made lots of amazing friends and been able to collaborate with other business owners, many of them female founders.”

However, running a business single-handedly comes with its challenges, especially when juggling multiple responsibilities. “When you are managing all aspects of your business… it is impossible to not feel clouded, confused and overwhelmed at times,” Kerri admits. Yet, she finds solace in yoga, meditation, and connecting with fellow creatives. “Sometimes just talking to someone else in the same boat makes it so much better and problems are solved quicker,” she adds.

Kerri is deeply committed to challenging the entrenched gender roles that dominate the wedding industry. She reflects on the prevalent portrayal of women in traditional roles in films, literature and magazines, where brides are often depicted as being “given away” by their fathers and where virginal white remains the norm for wedding dresses. This pervasive imagery influences couples’ choices for their own weddings, perpetuating a narrow definition of what a wedding should look like.

However, Kerri sees her products as a refreshing departure from these conventions. “I love that my products often bring a strong influence of colour into a ceremony,” she says. Through her bespoke print designs, she offers couples the opportunity to break away from tradition and express their unique personalities and styles. Kerri finds that her design service particularly resonates with couples seeking a less traditional approach to their special day.

Attending events like the Un-Wedding Show, which celebrates modern and independent wedding suppliers, Kerri recognises the growing demand for alternative wedding experiences. Yet, she acknowledges that there is still a lack of representation of less-traditional female roles within the industry as a whole. By actively promoting inclusivity and diversity through her work, Kerri hopes to inspire a shift towards more progressive and inclusive weddings.

Despite the challenges, Kerri remains grateful for the opportunity to pursue her passion while balancing work and family life. “I feel very grateful I get to do something I love every day and am able to work it around my kids,” she says.

Looking ahead, Kerri is committed to empowering other women in business and encouraging them to value their worth. “I would encourage all female business owners to be more bold with their prices from the start,” she advises. “Price your worth and wealth of experience.”

Through her dedication to craftsmanship and inclusivity, Kerri O’Brien is not just creating beautiful prints; she’s crafting memories that will last a lifetime for couples around the world.

Holly Miller: Cake Design by Holly Miller

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For Holly Miller, the allure of entrepreneurship lies in the freedom it offers – the flexibility to balance her thriving cake business with the joys of motherhood. “Running my own business enables me to be at home with my children when they need me,” she shares, relishing the autonomy of setting her own rules in the ever-evolving wedding industry.

Her passion for crafting exquisite confections has earned her prestigious accolades, including the title of TWIA National Wedding Cake Designer of the Year 2024. “Becoming the best in my field,” Holly reflects, “fuels my obsession to succeed.”

As a woman who is unapologetically outspoken and fiercely independent, Holly occasionally grapples with perceptions of being too forward. “I remind myself,” she asserts, “that I am a strong-minded, badass businesswoman.” For Holly, motivation is innate and intrinsic, stemming from her unwavering dedication to her craft. “My business is like my baby,” she admits, “and I live and breathe it.”

In an industry brimming with creativity, Holly finds inspiration in the success stories of fellow female entrepreneurs. “It truly shows women can do it all,” she declares, celebrating their achievements as key figures in fabulous brands and businesses.

Despite the demands of entrepreneurship, Holly prioritises downtime with her family, recognising the importance of unplugging from work. “Days out, board games, dog walks,” she lists, cherishing moments of respite away from the bustle of business.

Her advice to aspiring entrepreneurs echoes her own journey – resilience, focus and an unwavering work ethic are the ingredients for success. “Just go for it!” she urges, a testament to her own remarkable ascent from baking cakes for her kids’ birthdays to becoming a nationally acclaimed cake designer.

Pollyanna Montagu: Pollyanna Harmsworth, Fine Stationers

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For Pollyanna Montagu, founder of Pollyanna Harmsworth, Fine Stationers, the journey into entrepreneurship began with a childhood dream of independence and autonomy. “From a very young age, when all my friends wanted to be ballerinas, I wanted to be a businesswoman!” she reminisces, highlighting her early inclination towards forging her own path. Owning her own business serves as her sanctuary, a space where she can express herself freely and pursue her passion for fine stationery.

Celebrating 15 years of entrepreneurial success stands as Pollyanna’s most cherished achievement. Through the highs and lows, she remains steadfast in her dedication to her craft and the relationships she has cultivated along the way.

Navigating the printing industry poses its challenges, with misconceptions often clouding perceptions of her expertise. Yet, Pollyanna’s depth of knowledge and passion for her craft shines through, dispelling any doubts with her insightful contributions.

Supported by her family and a trusted mentor, Pollyanna finds strength in the encouragement of her loved ones and the guidance of a seasoned confidante. Their unwavering support fuels her determination to overcome obstacles and pursue her aspirations.

As a woman in business, Pollyanna recognises the importance of female representation in navigating delicate conversations and fostering inclusivity. Her tactful approach and sensitivity to others’ needs contribute to creating an environment where everyone feels valued and understood.

Balancing work commitments with family time remains a priority for Pollyanna, with a newfound determination to be fully present with her children, free from distractions. Despite the demands of entrepreneurship, she strives to honour her commitments to her family and be present for life’s precious moments.

Reflecting on her journey, Pollyanna offers a simple yet powerful message to aspiring entrepreneurs: “Go for it.” With unwavering determination and a passion for her craft, she encourages others to pursue their dreams fearlessly.

In Pollyanna’s world, weddings represent joyous celebrations of life and love, where diversity is embraced and every detail is crafted with elegance and care. Through her work, she creates timeless pieces that celebrate the unique love stories of each couple, fostering an atmosphere of inclusivity and celebration.

Genevieve Hawks: Queen Bea Photography

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For Genevieve Hawks, Queen Bea Photography, venturing into wedding photography stemmed from personal experiences. “I had a lot of negative experiences when planning my own wedding (to another woman),” she shares candidly, reflecting on the lack of diversity she encountered in the industry back in 2018. Determined to carve her own path, Genevieve discovered her passion for photography upon returning from her honeymoon – a decision she has never regretted.

With over 200 weddings under her belt, Genevieve’s journey has been both exhilarating and challenging. “All the misogyny,” she laments, recounting instances of unwarranted questioning and condescension from male wedding guests. Despite the frustrations, Genevieve remains steadfast in her love for photography and her commitment to creating an inclusive space for couples.

In an industry predominantly led by women, Genevieve finds solace in the camaraderie and support of her peers. “It’s a lovely community,” she remarks, highlighting the importance of representation and listening to the diverse voices of brides.

Balancing her passion with the demands of the job, Genevieve acknowledges the sacrifices involved. “I’m often working well into the evenings,” she admits, a testament to her dedication to her craft.

Her advice to aspiring entrepreneurs in the wedding industry is simple yet empowering: “Just believe in yourself and go for it!” Genevieve’s own journey serves as a testament to the power of self-belief and resilience.

As a member of the LGBTQ+ community herself, Genevieve is committed to visibility and inclusivity in her work. “I try to always show a mix of couples,” she explains, emphasising the importance of representation in her marketing and social media presence. Through her lens, Genevieve captures not just moments, but stories of love, resilience and authenticity, ensuring that every couple feels seen and celebrated.

Kate Dyer: Kate and Kate Celebrants

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Kate Dyer, co-founder of Kate and Kate Celebrants, has always relished the freedom of doing things her own way and avoiding the need to answer to others. For her, owning a business is more than just a venture – it’s a “calm, happy, safe space” where she finds peace and security.

Reflecting on her entrepreneurial journey, Kate shares her passion for creating bespoke wedding ceremonies. With fifteen years of experience as a wedding registrar, Kate and her colleague felt compelled to break free from the constraints of the system in 2016 and become Independent Celebrants.

“It was a leap of faith, driven by our determination to give couples the perfect ceremony to start their special day,” she explains. “We had solid relationships with reputable wedding venues, so we embarked on this journey with confidence.”

Kate’s dedication to delivering exceptional ceremonies has earned her a stellar reputation within the industry. “There’s no greater satisfaction than hearing guests declare it the best wedding ever!” she exclaims. Working independently alongside her best friend allows them the freedom to infuse each ceremony with creativity and flair.

“While the creative aspect of our work flourished, navigating the business side presented challenges,” Kate admits. “Business acumen wasn’t our forte, but with free advice and a steep learning curve, we honed our skills in areas like cash-flow forecasting, marketing and SEO.”

Having a supportive partner by her side has been instrumental in overcoming obstacles, especially during the uncertainties brought about by the pandemic. “Our differences complement each other, and knowing we have each other’s backs keeps us resilient in the face of adversity,” she shares.

Kate emphasises the importance of female representation in the UK wedding industry. “By empowering women, the industry becomes more inclusive, diverse and empowering for all involved,” she notes.

Maintaining work-life balance is an ongoing challenge for Kate. “Setting boundaries, staying organised and effective time management are essential,” she explains. “Despite occasional mishaps, like forgetting to pick up my daughter from college, I strive to keep all the plates spinning while acknowledging my limitations.”

For aspiring entrepreneurs, Kate offers this advice: “Seek as much free advice as possible, understand that building a business takes time, and find your tribe of like-minded colleagues for support and camaraderie. Embrace the journey and enjoy the ride!”

“At Kate and Kate Celebrants, love knows no bounds,” Kate concludes. “We celebrate diversity and inclusivity by offering a wide range of options to accommodate different cultures, backgrounds and preferences, ensuring every couple feels valued and respected on their wedding planning journey.”

Louise Quenby: Jackstar Weddings, Wedding DJ Services

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For Louise Quenby, at Jackstar Weddings, the journey into entrepreneurship began with a shared passion for creating unforgettable wedding experiences. “Running my own business was something that I had thought about a lot,” she recalls, reflecting on her aspirations from college days. Together with her husband, Jack, whose background as a DJ ignited their path, they ventured into the world of weddings, starting with a white LED dance floor purchase in 2012. As they delved deeper into the wedding scene, attending their first wedding fair marked a significant turning point, propelling their business forward.

Louise’s journey continues to be one of remarkable achievements and ongoing growth. “There are so many [highlights], but the most recent,” she beams, “is that after winning The Wedding Industry Awards for 4 years in a row, I am now a judge. And to add to that, the ONLY female judge on the DJ panel.” Her accolades speak volumes about her expertise and dedication to her craft.

However, Louise acknowledges the challenges that come with balancing a demanding career with motherhood. “My challenge doesn’t link to working within the wedding industry, just working in general,” she reflects. Yet, she remains resilient, constantly striving to find the equilibrium between her professional and personal life.

Setting goals has been instrumental in Louise’s journey. “Each year I sit down and set new goals,” she shares. These goals serve as a guiding light, reminding her of the purpose behind her endeavours and motivating her to push through the tough times.

Despite being a thriving industry, Louise feels that wedding professionals often don’t receive the recognition they deserve. “I feel that the wedding industry is heavily represented in the wedding industry,” she notes wryly, highlighting the misconception that their work is merely a hobby rather than a profession.

For Louise, achieving balance means prioritising time with her family. “For me now though I ensure I take one day off during the week and try to have at least one day off at the weekend,” she explains. Her commitment to spending quality time with her children is unwavering, evident in the deliberate scheduling of holidays and breaks throughout the year.

Her advice to aspiring entrepreneurs is simple yet profound: “Write down your dream.” Louise attributes much of her success to this practice, emphasising the importance of turning dreams into tangible goals and taking proactive steps towards realising them.

In her work with couples, Louise embraces diversity and inclusivity. “We have worked with same-sex couples providing their wedding entertainment, along with working with couples from different cultures,” she shares. Celebrating love in all its forms, Louise ensures that each wedding reflects the unique personalities and backgrounds of the couple, creating unforgettable experiences for all involved.

Joanne Dodds: CAVE (Composer, Arranger, Violinist and Educator)

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Joanne Dodds, proud founder of CAVE, was a former Royal Navy Warfare Officer who found her true calling in the world of music. “When I left my job,” she recounts, “I wanted to return to my musical roots and started to compose and arrange music for weddings and special events, making couples’ special days even more unique and memorable.” For Joanne, music isn’t just a profession; it’s a passion that adds depth and emotion to life’s most significant moments.

Transitioning to complete self-employment marked a significant milestone in Joanne’s career. She celebrates “becoming completely self-employed and doing what I absolutely adore!” Her versatility as a violinist knows no bounds, as she effortlessly weaves together melodies ranging from AC/DC to Game of Thrones, Billie Eilish to Elvis, infusing each performance with her unique style and flair.

While the wedding industry may be predominantly female-owned, Joanne’s background in male-dominated workplaces has given her a different perspective. “I have always worked in male-dominated workplaces (Royal Navy, Football…),” she notes. However, as a soloist, gender dynamics take a back seat to her love for music and her commitment to providing exceptional service.

Joanne views her role in the music industry as a privilege, recognising the profound impact music has on people’s lives. “Music is a powerful backdrop to all aspects of life,” she reflects. Her calm demeanour and organisational skills, honed through years of experience, ensure smooth sailing even in the busiest of times.

In her experience, Joanne observes that brides often take the lead in booking musical services for their weddings. However, she’s delighted to see an increasing number of grooms surprising their partners with her performances, adding an extra layer of joy to the occasion.

Despite her hectic schedule, Joanne emphasises the importance of self-care. “It has taken me years to learn to slow down and take time for myself,” she admits. Yet, her genuine love for music fuels her passion, turning what could be just a job into a labour of love.

Her advice to aspiring musicians is straightforward: “Just go for it!” Joanne encourages others to pursue their dreams fearlessly, unencumbered by doubts or the safety net of traditional employment.

For Joanne, every wedding is a unique opportunity to showcase the versatility of the violin. “I like to prove that any genre or style of music can be played on the violin,” she asserts. Her commitment to making each wedding as special and personalised as possible reflects her belief that love knows no bounds when it comes to music.

Empowering voices to inspire us all

The voices of these remarkable women in the wedding industry echo themes of passion, resilience and empowerment. From creating bespoke wedding experiences to challenging traditional norms, each entrepreneur has forged her path with determination and creativity. Their stories inspire us to celebrate diversity, embrace inclusivity and pursue our own dreams with unwavering determination. As they continue to shape the landscape of weddings in the UK, their journeys serve as a testament to the transformative power of love, dedication and female leadership in the wedding industry.

Top 70 DIY Wedding Decoration Ideas

Are you a creative groom, thrifty bride, or an artistic duo looking to infuse your wedding with unique charm and personalised flair? Look no further! Whether you’re envisioning a rustic barn affair, a whimsical celebration, or a chic city wedding, we’ve got the DIY inspiration you need to create the perfect decor. Get ready to craft the wedding of your dreams with Bridebook.

Join us as we explore the top 70 DIY wedding decoration ideas. These will not only add that extra touch of magic to your celebrations and help bring your wedding theme to life, but also save you a penny or two along the way.

What are DIY wedding decorations?

DIY wedding decorations are any wedding favours, wedding centrepieces, table decorations, floral accents or displays, or general decor that you can make yourself. DIY wedding projects are fairly accessible, meaning most people with a glue gun and a roll of ribbon can tackle them with ease. However, it’s always recommended that you practise before making the final piece.

Whether you’re a seasoned crafter or just starting to explore your creative side, DIY wedding decorations offer endless possibilities for making your special day truly one-of-a-kind. Plus, you can easily match them to your overall colour scheme or wedding theme for a cohesive look.

Top 70 ideas for DIY wedding decor

The possibilities are endless with DIY wedding decor. We’ve compiled a list of 70 of the most popular types of handmade decor. But, feel free to let your creativity run wild and personalise these ideas to suit your unique style and vision for your big day.

Bouquets, buttonholes, and floral accents

1) Handmade paper flower bouquets

The beauty of paper flowers is that they won’t wilt after the wedding or create a damp patch on your dress!

Pick a handful of your favourite paper flowers from a local craft store, tie them together with some satin ribbon or twine, and let your creativity bloom!

2) Fabric flower bouquets or buttonholes

Fabric flowers and buttonholes are a great alternative if you’d like something more robust than paper flowers. They offer a timeless elegance compared to paper flowers and will usually come in more colours or styles than paper flowers.

Pick a bunch of your favourite fabric flowers from a craft store and tie them together using satin or silk ribbon. The ribbon colour should match your overall wedding theme for a feeling of cohesion.

3) Fabric flower crowns

Consider matching your fabric bouquet or buttonholes with a fabric flower crown. This will add a boho feel to your outfit and give you something to attach your veil to. Simply pick your desired fabric flowers, arrange them into a crown shape, and secure them with floral wire or ribbon.

If you’re not the most adept at flower weaving, check out some premade flower crowns online. You can then customise the already-prepared crown with ribbon, buttons, or extra flowers. Don’t worry — we won’t tell anyone!

4) Dried flower bouquets or buttonholes

Dried flowers bring a whimsical and fairy-like energy to your special day. Perfect for bohemian, rustic, or vintage-themed weddings, these arrangements bring an earthy charm and a unique eco-friendly touch that will captivate your guests.

Simply pick your dried flowers from an online wholesaler or florist, tie them together with ribbon, twine, or burlap, and let their natural beauty shine! You can easily create buttonholes following the same method— the only difference is you use fewer flowers!

5) Hand-tied wildflower bouquet

What could be more beautiful than a bouquet inspired by nature’s bounty? You can either grow your own seasonal wildflowers or source them from a local florist or flower market. We don’t recommend picking them from a field or the side of the road. After all — you don’t know who they belong to!

Gather an assortment of blooms, including daisies, lavender, bluebells, and more. Tie them together with twine for a charmingly rustic look. These hand-tied wildflower bouquets are perfect for a laid-back outdoor wedding, whimsical weddings, or a bohemian-inspired affair.

6) Paper rose bouquets crafted from book pages or sheet music

If you’re a bookworm or a music lover, this is the perfect bouquet for you. You can create a bouquet of origami roses using pages from your favourite book or sheet music from your favourite song. We know — sounds tricky, right? But, it might not be as difficult as you think.

While the first flower might be a little untidy, we promise you’ll get the hang of it quickly. Look up some online tutorials or try searching for a book on origami in your local library. Pretty soon, you’ll be an origami pro and folding gorgeous, meaningful flowers at record speed. Plus, what better way to subtly incorporate your favourite literature or song into your big day than by carrying it with you?

7) Handmade clay flowers

If you’re handy with a pottery wheel or even just enjoyed playing with plasticine as a kid, carrying a bouquet of handmade clay flowers as you walk down the aisle will be a testament to your creative spirit and attention to detail.

We recommend using an air-dry clay for this and that you leave plenty of time for drying. Sculpt each petal with care, but don’t be too worried about making each one perfect. Don’t forget — real flowers aren’t at all symmetrical!

Craft your petals one at a time and then combine them into the shape of a flower. Skewer each flower on some twisted wire or wooden sticks for a faux stem. Once dry, finish your masterpiece with paint and coat with PVA glue for a glossy finish.

Wedding centrepieces and table decor

8) Mason or jam jar candle holders decorated with lace, twine, or ribbon

Mason jars were really popular wedding decorations a few years ago, and the resurgence of Pinterest has breathed new life into their versatility.

Transform simple mason jars into elegant candle holders with a touch of lace, twine, or ribbon. If you don’t have any lying around and don’t feel like forking out for new mason jars, jam jars are the perfect British alternative for this Americanised decor choice.

Whether you’re aiming for a rustic, vintage, or bohemian theme, these charming accents will add warmth and ambiance to your tablescape. Plus, they’re easy to customise to match your wedding colours and style.

9) Burlap table runners

Again, burlap table runners are the perfect choice for a boho, rustic, or bohemian-style wedding. Simply lay them down in the centre of your tables for an effortlessly chic look. Try to lay them as aesthetically as possible, with a light scrunch to add to the textured effect.

Burlap’s natural texture adds warmth and character to your decor, while its neutral colour complements a variety of wedding palettes.

10) Painted mason or jam jars filled with wildflowers

Paint your mason jars in either a chosen wedding colour or a neutral shade to make them stand out. Let them dry, then fill them with an assortment of wildflowers, or re-use your bouquet flowers for an eco-friendly twist. Jars can either sit on their own as a centrepiece or be clustered together as statement decor.

Again, mason jars can easily be replaced with jam jars for a more accessible, British twist.

11) DIY terrarium

If you’re a bit of a botanist, creating DIY terrarium centrepieces is a wonderful way to showcase your green thumb. Choose a variety of succulents, air plants, and moss to create miniature landscapes inside glass containers. Layer sand, pebbles, and activated charcoal for proper drainage, then add your house plants and decorative elements like driftwood or miniature figurines.

These miniature ecosystems are the perfect way to bring a unique touch of nature to the table. Plus, guests can easily take them home as keepsakes or wedding favours!

12) Pressed flower or leaf table numbers

Using pressed leaves or flowers offers an organic touch to your table numbers. Plus, it’s a great way to incorporate more nature into your big day without the added cost of fresh flowers. You can either buy pressed leaves and flowers online or spend some time in the months before the ceremony pressing your own.

This DIY approach allows you to showcase the beauty of nature in a sustainable and budget-friendly way.

13) Crocheted or knitted doilies as table runners

If you love crochet or are an avid knitter, it’ll take you no time at all to whip up a stunning table runner using crocheted or knitted doilies. These intricate pieces add a touch of vintage charm and cosiness to your table decor. Plus, you have full control over the wool or cord used, meaning a perfect match for your wedding’s colours.

14) DIY terracotta pots with hand-painted designs

You can bulk-order small terracotta pots online and paint them with fun designs for some wholesome wedding decor. Add inside jokes from your relationships, doodles of your favourite places, or even just paint pretty flowers that match the theme of your wedding.

Whatever you decide, these hand-painted terracotta pots will add a fun and creative touch to your special day.

15) DIY pressed flower candles

Once you’ve got the hang of pressing your own flowers, it’s quick and easy to add them to a range of decorations.

Creating your own DIY pressed flower candles is as simple as glueing pressed flowers onto regular pillar candles. Choose blooms that complement your wedding theme or colour scheme, then carefully adhere them to the candles using a dab of PVA or hot glue. They’re simple, effective, and elegant.

16) DIY snow globe centrepieces

If you’re having a festive or winter wedding, consider using snow globes as centrepieces or table decor for a sweet and whimsical twist. You can use cute couple photos, holiday snaps, or even cringey Christmas pictures from when you were a kid.

You can buy empty snow globes online in bulk. They’re usually filled with snow globe fluid and glitter. However, if they aren’t, you should also be able to purchase that online. Fill each globe with liquid, fake snow or glitter, and your photo of choice.

Place cards

17) Handwritten calligraphy place cards

If you’re a dab hand with calligraphy ink and pens, try writing your place cards for an elegant touch. Use thick card stock and carefully write each guest’s name in calligraphy ink.

If you have a large guest list or aren’t too confident in your abilities, you can also hire professional calligraphers to write the place cards on your behalf!

18) Wine cork place card holders

If you fancy yourself a sommelier or simply love a glass of red in the evening, repurpose your used corks into charming place card holders. Slice a thin slit lengthwise into the top of each cork using a sharp knife, deep enough to hold a place card securely. Then, neatly write or print each guest’s name on small cards and insert them into the slits.

These wine cork place card holders add a rustic and eco-friendly touch to your table settings. Plus, they’re perfect for vineyard celebrations.

19) Hand-painted rocks or stones

Hand-painting beach stones or pebbles is a budget-friendly place card option. Simple head down to the water, pick up a handful of stones, then spend some time painting your guests’ names and some pretty patterns on the flattest surface you can find.

Pro tip: Specifically selecting stones with flat or wide edges will make this job much easier!

20) Painted wooden clothes pegs holding place cards

Another budget-friendly option for place cards is to use painted wooden clothes pegs.

Simply purchase wooden clothes pegs (or repurpose the ones you already have) and paint them in your wedding colours or desired theme. Once dry, use them to secure small cards with each guest’s name written on them. You can attach the cards to the clothes pegs with string or ribbon for a rustic touch.

21) Personalised paper aeroplane place cards

Perfect for destination or travel-themed weddings, personalised paper aeroplane place cards will add a fun and whimsical touch to your place settings.

Create paper aeroplanes from cardstock or lightweight paper, then write each guest’s name and table number on them. You can also customise them further with travel-themed stamps or stickers.

But, be warned — guests are likely to throw them after a few drinks. If you don’t want your guests getting rowdy, we recommend skipping this option.

Bits-and-bobs

22) Personalised wedding programme fans

If you’re planning a destination wedding, beach wedding, or even a high summer wedding, your guests might appreciate a cool breeze here and there. Having your wedding programmes printed on fans is a great way to keep your guests comfortable while also providing them with important information about your special day. It adds a fun and practical touch to your ceremony.

You can easily create your own DIY fans, too. Try finding an online template and filling in the blanks using a free editing tool like Canva. Once you’ve customised the design to match your wedding theme and included all the necessary details, simply print them out, fold them in a concertina style, and attach them to wooden sticks or handles.

23) Embroidered handkerchiefs with the couple’s initials

If you’re a dab hand with a needle and thread, personalised or monogrammed handkerchiefs will add a touch of class to your special day while giving your guests a way to dab their eyes during the ceremony.

Simply buy a bulk pack of fabric handkerchiefs online, and embroider your initials, a small motif, or a special message onto each one. Your design should be quite simple, as you’ll likely need to embroider a large number of handkerchiefs.

24) DIY ribbon wands for young guests

DIY ribbon wands for young guests are a sweet addition to your wedding festivities. These whimsical wands add a touch of magic and entertainment to your celebration, as guests can twirl them around during the ceremony or reception.

To make them, all you need are wooden sticks, colourful ribbons in your wedding colours, and some glue or tape. Simply attach the ribbons to one end of the stick securely, leaving them long enough to create beautiful swirling patterns when waved. You can customise the ribbons with beads, bells, or charms for extra flair.

Pro tip: These wands make a great addition to the classic ‘exiting the church’ photo op!

25) Custom temporary tattoos

If you’re a tattooed couple or simply just love the fun of temporary tattoos, consider dotting customised, temporary tattoos around your wedding reception for guests to adorn themselves with.

Although it may be difficult to DIY the actual tattoos without specialist equipment, you can certainly DIY the design or work with a professional tattoo artist to bring your vision to life. Think about incorporating symbols, quotes, or illustrations that hold special meaning to you and your partner, or that reflect the theme of your wedding.

26) Crocheted or knitted chair covers

Although time-consuming, crochet or knitting chair covers can be a satisfying DIY project that adds a personal touch to your special day. Plus, you can reuse them in your home after you’re done!

You’ll need to find an online pattern that suits the height and size of your chairs, then select your favourite wool colours to match your wedding theme or home decor. Once you’ve got your materials ready, it’s all about getting cosy with your crochet hook or knitting needles and creating something truly unique and beautiful.

Don’t worry if it takes a bit longer than expected — the end result will be worth every stitch!

27) Handmade paper confetti

Handmade paper confetti can be made from coloured paper, scrapbook paper, old newspaper, sheet music, and more. Start by cutting the paper into small, uniform shapes using a paper cutter or scissors. You can create classic shapes like circles or hearts, or get creative with custom shapes that reflect your personality as a couple.

Once you have your paper cutouts ready, gather them into small bags or collect them in a large bowl so guests can grab a handful ready to toss during your celebration.

Make sure to check whether your venue allows paper confetti. Many venues have banned paper confetti in recent years, opting for more sustainable options like flower petals or dried leaves.

28) Painted wooden fans for outdoor summer weddings

Painting your own wooden fans is a great way to help guests keep cool while enjoying an outdoor summer wedding. You can purchase plain wooden fans online or at craft stores and then let your creativity flow as you paint them with beautiful designs, patterns, or even your wedding date and initials.

29) Hand-stamped cocktail napkins

If you’re considering a cocktail hour, think about printing cocktail napkins with fun facts about the happy couple, your initials, or even just the date of the wedding. You can buy rubber stamps online or even make one out of a potato for a rustic look!

Wedding favours

30) Personalised tea bag favours

English breakfast, Earl Grey, or blueberry bliss — what’s your tipple?

Handing out personalised tea bags as wedding favours is the perfect way to share your favourite brew with your guests while also adding a thoughtful and personalised touch to your wedding favours. You can choose your favourite tea blends or create custom blends that reflect your taste as a couple.

To personalise them further, consider designing custom labels with your names, wedding date, or a special message for your guests. You can print these labels at home or order them from a printing service.

31) Homemade infused olive oil or vinegar in decorative bottles

If you fancy something a bit more continental, consider infusing your own chilli or garlic olive oil in decorative bottles.

This one will take careful prep and patience, but the result is well worth it! To make homemade infused olive oil or vinegar, start by selecting high-quality olive oil or vinegar and fresh herbs, spices, or fruits for infusion.

Thoroughly clean and sterilise decorative bottles or jars, then add your chosen ingredients to the bottles. For olive oil, you can infuse it with garlic cloves, chilli peppers, rosemary, thyme, or any other herbs and spices you prefer. For vinegar, fruits like berries, citrus peels, or herbs like basil and mint work well.

Once you’ve added the ingredients, seal the bottles tightly and let them sit in a cool, dark place for several weeks to allow the flavours to infuse. Be sure to shake the bottles occasionally to help distribute the flavours evenly. Add a personalised label or tag to ensure guests associate the oil with your big day, and voila! The perfect DIY wedding favour.

32) Homemade soy candles

You can purchase soy wax and candle-making supplies online or from hobby shops to create your own homemade soy candles. These are a great option for vegans, animal lovers, or anyone who prefers a clean-burning candle alternative.

Start by melting the soy wax flakes in a double boiler or bain-marie, then add your chosen fragrance oils or essential oils to scent the candles. Pour the melted wax into containers like jam jars, aluminium tins, or vintage teacups, and carefully insert a cotton wick into the centre of each container.

Decorate the outside of the container with stickers, doodles, or the date and location of your wedding. Soy wax candles are the perfect wedding favour for those that appreciate a little fragrance and a touch of luxury.

33) Hand-painted napkins

Hand-painted napkins are easy to create, especially if you have artistic inclinations. All you’ll need is a bulk order of napkins, fabric paint, and small paint brushes. You could even get your friends and family involved in painting them for a fun pre-wedding activity!

Gather all your supplies and sit down to paint. You could try delicate floral designs, geometric patterns, or even personalised monograms that match your wedding theme and colours. Once the paint is dry, heat-set it according to the instructions on the fabric paint packaging to ensure it doesn’t wash out. Simple!

34) Homemade jam or preserves

Similar to homemade oils and vinegars, homemade jams and preserves are easy to create and add a delicious touch to your wedding ceremony.

Pick out your favourite fruits or berries and get ready to start. Whether you pick the classic sweetness of strawberries, the tanginess of raspberries, or the sunny goodness of peaches, your homemade jam is sure to be a hit.

Making jam can be tricky, so make sure you’ve watched a few YouTube tutorials before you get started. Cook up your chosen fruit with a bit of jam sugar and a splash of lemon juice until it bubbles and thickens. Sterilise your jars and pour in the jam. Make sure you leave a little space at the top so the jam can cool down. Once cool, seal them with a lid and add a fun label or pretty ribbon for an extra special touch.

35) Customised matchboxes

Customised matchboxes are fun and cost-effective DIY wedding favours. Simply gather some plain matchboxes, crafting supplies, and some willing helpers, and you’re good to go!

You can decorate the matchboxes with your wedding date, initials, or a sweet message to thank guests for their attendance. Get crafty with stickers, stamps, or even hand-drawn designs to make each matchbox unique.

36) Hand-stamped muslin favour bags

You can either create your own stamps using a potato or buy stamps online to customise cute wedding favour bags. Simply fill the bags with sweets, trinkets, or a lottery ticket for the perfect budget wedding favour.

37) Homemade potpourri sachets

Potpourri is easy to make and a great DIY option for wedding favours. Start by gathering your favourite dried flowers, herbs, and spices. Lavender, rose petals, cinnamon sticks, and cloves are all popular choices. Mix and match until you find a combination that smells just right.

Next, grab some small sachet bags or pouches. You can find these at haberdasheries, craft shops, or online. Fill each bag with your aromatic blend, making sure to tie them securely to keep the contents contained. Add a small ribbon, label, or thank you note to further personalise the gift.

38) Homemade bath salts or sugar scrubs

DIY beauty products like homemade bath salts or sugar scrubs are a luxurious and thoughtful option for wedding favours. Plus, they’re surprisingly simple to make and can be customised with your favourite scents.

To create homemade bath salts, start by mixing together Epsom salt or sea salt with a few drops of essential oils for fragrance. You can also add dried flowers or herbs for an extra special touch. Package them in small jars or pouches, and don’t forget to add a cute label or tag with your wedding details. Encourage guests to use them within a fortnight to prevent clumping.

For sugar scrubs, combine granulated sugar with coconut oil or olive oil and your choice of essential oils for scent. You can also add a splash of vanilla extract or cocoa powder if your guests have a sweet tooth. Package them in jars or containers and decorate with ribbons or labels.

39) Handmade bookmarks with love quotes or poems

Encourage your fellow bookworms to ‘get their read on’ by crafting handmade bookmarks with love quotes or love poems. This charming DIY favour is perfect for anyone who appreciates a good book.

Start by selecting sturdy cardstock or decorative paper in your wedding colours or theme. Cut the paper into strips of your desired bookmark size. Then, get creative with decorating! Write out your favourite love quotes, passages from meaningful poems, or even personal messages to your guests. Add small embellishments like ribbon, glitter glue, or stickers for a DIY touch.

40) Personalised seed packet favours

If you have a green thumb, are throwing an eco-friendly wedding, or simply want to encourage your guests to connect with nature, personalised seed packets are a great choice.

Buy some packets of flower seeds from your local garden centre. Try to get a good range of colours and flower types for maximum impact. Mix all the seeds together in a big bowl, then package the blend in small pouches or envelopes.

Try picking seeds that will bloom in your wedding colours for extra attention to detail.

41) Hand-dyed fabric napkins

Hand-dyed fabric napkins are great for anyone planning a colourful, boho, or eclectic wedding theme.

To create these charming napkins, start by selecting plain cotton or linen napkins in sizes that suit your table decor. Then, let the fun begin! Prepare a dye bath using fabric dye in your favourite colours, following the instructions on the package. Don’t be afraid to get creative and experiment with different dyeing techniques like dip-dyeing, tie-dyeing, or ombre effects for a stunning visual impact.

Pro tip: Don’t forget to iron the napkins after they’ve dried for a crisp, polished look.

42)Homemade scented sachets

Little bags of lavender, rose petals, or your favourite dried flowers make the perfect homemade wedding favours. Simply gather your dried flowers of choice into a small cloth pouch. Tie the top with some ribbon and add a little label or sweet message to thank guests for their attendance. You can also use herbs like basil, mint, or rosemary if you prefer earthy scents.

43) Personalised wooden coasters

If you have specialist woodworking tools like a branding kit or a wood engraving kit, you can easily create your own customised wooden coasters.

Simply gather some pre-made wooden coasters or some flat wooden discs. Engrave your initials, wedding date, a meaningful quote, or a whimsical design — the possibilities are endless!

44) Handmade paper fortune tellers with wedding trivia or fun facts

Paper fortune tellers are a fun and nostalgic DIY wedding favour. If you’ve never made one before, look up an online tutorial to ensure all fortune tellers function as intended. Include fun facts about your and your partner, wedding day trivia, or even predictions for the future. Get creative with the messages inside each fortune teller, ranging from sweet sentiments to funny predictions.

Once assembled, these paper fortune tellers are ready to delight your wedding guests with entertainment and laughter. Place them at each table setting or create a dedicated station where guests can pick one up as a memorable keepsake from your special day.

45) Homemade granola

If you can’t imagine starting your day without a bowl of tasty granola, making your own delicious concoction could be the perfect DIY wedding favour.

Simply gather your favourite oats, nuts, seeds, and dried fruits to create a custom blend that reflects your personal tastes. Mix them together in a large bowl, adding a touch of honey or maple syrup for sweetness and a drizzle of coconut oil for crispiness. Spread the mixture onto a baking sheet and bake it in the oven until golden brown and fragrant. Don’t forget to stir it occasionally to ensure even toasting!

Once cooled, package your homemade granola in cute jars or bags, and don’t hesitate to add a personalised label or tag with a heartfelt message for your guests.

46) Personalised bottle opener

Personalised bottle openers will help your guests remember the details of your big day every time they reach for your favourite tipple. You can customise them with your initials, wedding date, or even a fun quote that reflects your love story. Choose high-quality metal or wooden bottle openers that match your wedding theme or style.

47) Homemade soy wax melts

Soy wax melts have become increasingly popular wedding favours in recent years owing to their portability and eco-friendly nature. Create your own unique blends using high-quality soy wax and essential oils in your favourite scents. Whether it’s soothing lavender, refreshing citrus, or cosy vanilla, there’s a fragrance to suit every taste.

Package them in personalised cloth bags with special labels or tags that highlight your wedding date and initials for a heartfelt touch.

Decor and accents

48) Hand-cut paper butterflies or birds

Decor and accents are the finishing touches that add personality and charm to any wedding celebration. For an enchanting touch, consider incorporating hand-cut paper butterflies or birds into your decor.

Gather colourful sheets of paper in your chosen palette, then let your creativity take flight as you carefully cut out delicate butterfly or bird shapes. You can find templates online to guide you or create your own unique designs.

Once cut, scatter these pretty paper accents throughout your venue, adorning tables, walls, or even hanging them for a dreamy atmosphere.

49) Origami paper cranes

If you have time on your side and want truly unique wedding decor, consider incorporating hand-folded origami paper cranes.

Start by gathering a range of colourful origami paper in patterns and shades that match your wedding theme. Then carefully fold each sheet into graceful paper cranes. Don’t worry if you’re new to origami — there are plenty of easy-to-follow tutorials online to guide you through the folding process.

According to Japanese tradition, folding 1,000 paper cranes is supposed to grant you a wish!

While folding 1,000 paper cranes might be a bit ambitious for your wedding, each crane you create adds a touch of charm and meaning to your celebration. So, even if you don’t reach that number, each crane symbolises hope, peace, and good fortune for your journey together as a couple.

50) DIY paper lanterns

Using paper lanterns as decor will infuse your wedding venue with a warm and inviting ambiance.

Start by selecting a variety of colourful or patterned paper that complements your wedding theme. Then, follow a simple online tutorial to construct your paper lanterns. You can choose from different shapes and sizes to suit your preferences. Once assembled, hang the lanterns from fairy lights, tree branches, or ceiling hooks for a beautiful display.

51) Pom-poms

You can easily create DIY pom-poms in a range of sizes, shapes, and colours to decorate your venue.

You’ll need two pieces of cardboard that resemble doughnuts. Think small circles with a hole in the middle. Loop some wool or string in a colour of your choice through the middle of the doughnuts and wrap it around the cardboard until you’ve achieved your desired thickness. Then, carefully cut around the edges of the wool or string, making sure to hold it securely in place.

Once you’ve cut all the way around, tie another piece of string tightly around the middle of the looped wool or string, between the two pieces of cardboard. Carefully remove the cardboard, fluff out the pom-pom, and trim any uneven edges to create a neat and round shape. Repeat this process to make as many pom-poms as you need, and then hang them around your venue to add a touch of whimsy to your wedding decor.

52) Hand-painted glass vases or bottles

Collect secondhand glass vases, bottles, or jars from car boot sales, charity shops, or even the back of your cupboard to repurpose into wedding decor. You’ll also need glass paint, markers, and brushes to create your designs.

Start by thoroughly cleaning the glass to remove any dirt or residue. Then, let your imagination run wild as you hand-paint or decorate each piece with your desired designs. You can create elegant patterns, romantic motifs, or personalised messages for your guests.

Allow the paint to dry completely before handling or displaying the vases or bottles. Once dry, you can use them as eye-catching table decorations, centrepieces, or even flower vases for bouquets.

53) Handmade paper garlands or bunting

Paper garlands or bunting are perfect for tea-party, whimsical, or garden party-themed weddings. To create your own, start by selecting coloured or patterned paper that matches your wedding theme.

Next, cut the paper into triangles, circles, or any other shape you desire for your garlands. You can use scissors or craft punches for precision. Thread the shapes onto string or ribbon, alternating colours and patterns to create visual interest.

Once assembled, hang your paper garlands or bunting along walls, ceilings, or even across outdoor spaces to instantly transform the atmosphere. These DIY decorations are simple yet effective, and they’re sure to delight your guests with their playful charm.

54) Seashell or sea glass candle holders

Seashells and sea glass are beautiful natural treasures that you can use to decorate your wedding reception.

Start by taking a stroll along the beach to collect these beautiful finds. Once collected, give them a gentle wash and let them dry completely. Then, simply place a tealight candle on each shell or piece of sea glass to create a relaxing, coastal ambiance.

You’ll need to find shells or pieces of sea glass big enough to hold a tea light, so start looking for your decor a few months before your wedding to give yourself plenty of time. Make it a tradition to go on a beach walk every weekend with your spouse. What better way to connect than being surrounded by the beautiful coast while you hunt for your wedding decor?

55) Paper pinwheel decorations

Handmade pinwheels are another great way to add whimsy and charm to your wedding decor. To make your own delightful pinwheels, begin by selecting coloured or patterned paper that complements your wedding theme. Cut the paper into squares of equal size, then fold each square diagonally from corner to corner to create a triangle. Make two small cuts from the folded edge towards the centre, leaving about an inch of space between them.

After that, unfold the paper and bring one corner of each cut section towards the centre, securing them with glue or a decorative braid. Finally, attach a wooden stick or a straw to the back of the pinwheel to create a handle. Once complete, scatter these charming pinwheel decorations throughout your venue, or display them in vases for a playful centrepiece.

56) Hand-stitched fabric napkin rings

If you’re skilled at needlepoint, consider putting your talents to good use by creating DIY napkin rings. Start by collecting fabric scraps in colours or patterns that coordinate with your wedding theme then cut the fabric into strips of equal width, making sure they’re long enough to wrap around your napkins comfortably. Fold each strip in half lengthwise and stitch along the open edge to create a tube.

Once you’ve stitched the fabric tubes, turn them inside out to hide the seams and give them a clean finish. Slide them onto your folded napkins and secure them in place with a few stitches or a decorative button.

57) DIY ribbon or fabric backdrop for the ceremony

A ribbon or fabric backdrop will create a charming and eclectic backdrop against which to say your vows. Pick ribbons, fabric, or silks in colours and patterns that complement your wedding theme. You’ll then need a sturdy backdrop frame or simply a long rod from which to hang your ribbons or fabric. Cut the ribbons or fabric into strips of varying lengths, ensuring they’re long enough to drape elegantly when hung.

Once you have your materials ready, start attaching the ribbons or fabric to the backdrop frame or rod. You can use clips, ties, or even simple knots to secure them in place. As you work, layer the ribbons or fabric to create depth and dimension, and feel free to mix and match colours and textures for added visual interest.

Once your backdrop is complete, hang it behind the ceremony space to create a stunning focal point for exchanging your vows and saying “I do.”

58) Polaroid photo display

This one will require some forward planning, but if you’re a fan of Polaroid or instant pictures, you could use special photos from your relationship as part of your wedding decor.

The best part about these decorations is thar they won’t cost you anything extra, so long as you’ve collected them consistently throughout your relationship. Try pegging your pictures to fairy lights, pinning them to a board, or even displaying them in a photo album for a nostalgic tour through your love story.

Signage and welcome messages

59) Chalkboard signs

Chalkboards are a fun way to get guests to interact with your wedding signs. They add a playful touch and give your guests a chance to interact and leave their own special messages. Instead of a traditional guest book, why not set up a chalkboard where everyone can share their well-wishes, doodles, or words of advice?

To make your chalkboard signs, start by finding a big chalkboard or even using chalkboard paint to create your own on a wall or board. Then, grab some colourful chalk and let guests get creative as they write well-wishes, drawings, or cute quotes.

60) Personalised wooden signs or pallets

Wooden signs are a rustic addition to any wedding ceremony or reception and help your guests navigate your special day.

Start by sourcing some reclaimed wood or wooden pallets. You can often find these at salvage yards or home improvement stores. Then, get crafty with stencils, paint, or wood-burning tools to add your names, wedding date, or meaningful quotes. You can include any information you’d like. For example, a welcome message, a seating plan, or an order of service.

61) DIY seating plan on a vintage mirror

Buy a vintage mirror from a charity shop, car boot sale, or garage sale for the perfect DIY seating plan. Look for one with an ornate frame or interesting details that match your wedding aesthetic. It’ll bring elegance, charm, and beauty to your special day.

Once you have your mirror, clean it thoroughly and decide how you want to arrange your seating plan. You can use vinyl lettering, paint pens, or regular paint and a paintbrush to write out the names and table numbers of your guests directly onto the mirror surface. Spray with a little sealant to prevent chipping, and you’re good to go!

62) Hand-painted canvas banners

A hand-painted canvas banner is a fun and inexpensive way to express your creativity and guide your guests at your wedding.

To make your own banner, start by selecting a canvas fabric in a size and shape that suits your vision. Then, gather your favourite colours of fabric paint and brushes. Sketch your design lightly with pencil before painting to ensure you’re happy with the layout. Then, paint your design onto the canvas, adding details and flourishes as you go.

Hang your banner at the entrance to your venue or near key locations like the ceremony space or reception area to help guests find their way and set the tone for your celebration.

63) Balloon arch with signage

Balloon arches are cheap, easy to build, and look great in photos. With all these pros, there’s no wonder they’re so popular!

You’ll need 100-200 balloons in a range of colours, opacities, and sizes, as well as an arch to attach the balloons to. You can even buy kits where professionals have assembled balloons in the perfect, complementary range of colours and sizes, making the setup process even easier for you.

64) Vintage suitcase sign

Vintage suitcases are perfect for themed weddings, destination weddings, or for any couples with a passion for exploration.

The first step is to hunt for the perfect vintage suitcase. Try exploring charity shops, car boot sales, or asking around friends and family to see what’s in their attic. You never know what hidden gems you might find! Once you’ve found your suitcase, clean it thoroughly and consider giving it a fresh coat of paint or a decorative makeover if needed. Then, personalise it with your chosen signage. You can use vinyl decals, hand-painted lettering, or even attach a printed sign with your wedding details.

Place your vintage suitcase sign at the entrance to your venue, welcoming guests with warmth and style. You can also use it as a creative way to display seating arrangements, guest book instructions, or other important information for your guests. It’s a lovely conversation starter and adds a memorable touch to your wedding decor!

65) Hand-painted wooden signs

If you’d prefer something more sustainable, wooden signs are a recyclable alternative to acrylic or plastic wedding signs.

Start by selecting quality wood boards or planks from sustainable sources. You can often find these at builders merchants, DIY shops, or repurpose old wooden pallets for an eco-friendly option.

Next, sand the wood surface to ensure a smooth finish for painting. Then, choose your paint colours and brushes, and let your creativity flow as you design and paint your signs. You can personalise them with your names, wedding date, welcome messages, or directional signs to guide guests.

Reception accessories

66) Photo booth backdrop

Start by selecting a backdrop material such as fabric, paper, or even a decorative wall mural. Then, add elements that enhance the theme of your wedding, whether it’s floral arrangements, balloons, or themed props. You can also incorporate personalised signage with your names and wedding date for an extra special touch.

Encourage guests to strike a pose and snap away with disposable cameras or their smartphones. The photo booth backdrop will serve as the perfect backdrop for candid and memorable shots that you’ll treasure for years to come.

67) DIY photo booth props

You can’t have a DIY photo booth backdrop without DIY photo booth props! To create your own photo booth props, start by gathering materials like cardstock, foam shapes, wooden sticks, glue, and scissors. Brainstorm a variety of props that fit your wedding theme or reflect your personalities as a couple. Think moustaches, lips, hats, glasses, and signs with funny messages or emojis.

Once you’ve decided on your props, sketch out the designs on the cardstock and carefully cut them out. Attach each prop to a wooden stick using glue or tape, making sure they’re secure enough to withstand plenty of posing. Keep some tape and scissors nearby for impromptu repairs on the night.

68) Polaroid guestbook station

Set up a station with Polaroid or instant cameras, a selection of films, and a designated area for guests to take photos and create memories for your guest book. Provide a variety of props and accessories to encourage creative and fun poses. It’s an engaging and interactive way to have friends and family create your guest book.

Include a sign with instructions inviting guests to snap a photo, write a message on the white border, and place it in your guest book. You can decorate the station with fairy lights, garlands, or personalised signage to make it inviting and memorable. This is another great alternative to a traditional guest book.

69) DIY cake topper

Creating a DIY cake topper is a great way to showcase your creativity and personalise your wedding cake. You can make the topper out of wood, clay, wire, or even paper. Start by deciding on a design that reflects your personality or wedding theme. Next, gather your materials.

If you’re using wood, you’ll need a small piece of wood and tools for carving or cutting. For clay, you’ll need sculpting tools and paint for decorating. Wire toppers require pliers and wire, while paper toppers need sturdy cardstock and adhesive.

Once you have your materials, begin crafting your design. Take your time to ensure each detail is perfect. Add colours, textures, or embellishments as desired to make your topper truly unique.

Remember –- your wedding topper doesn’t just have to go on cake. These DIY cake toppers can go on cupcakes, cheese, pies, or whatever other sweet treat you’re choosing to cut during your wedding reception.

70) Personalised drink station

Set up your very own personalised drink station with your favourite tipple. Simply fill up a stylish beverage dispenser or two with your chosen drinks, set some cups to the side, and let guests serve themselves. Whether it’s refreshing lemonade, fruity sangria, or a signature cocktail that reflects your tastes as a couple, personalised drink stations are always a winner.

Add some decorative touches to the station, such as fresh fruit slices, herb sprigs, or colourful paper straws to match your wedding theme. Don’t forget to provide plenty of ice and consider adding personalised drink stirrers for an extra special touch.

The bottom line on DIY wedding decor

Creating your own DIY wedding decor is a fun and rewarding way to add a personal touch to your special day. Plus, it’s a great way to save some money! It allows you to unleash your creativity and bring your unique vision to life, ensuring that every detail reflects your love story and personalities as a couple.

This comprehensive list of 70 wedding decoration ideas is sure to have something that suits your needs. However, if nothing has quite caught your eye, the beauty of DIY decorations is that you can tailor anything on this list to be exactly how you want it. Take some inspiration, grab a glue gun, and get crafting!

Happy Planning!

10th Wedding Anniversary Gifts: 50 Anniversary Gift Ideas

Here you are, about to celebrate 10 whole years of happiness with the love of your life – what an incredible milestone to reach in your marriage. A whole decade spent with the person you chose to dedicate your life to – magical!

So, to mark such an incredible occasion, you might wonder what sort of gift you can give your other half. Do you give them flowers or chocolates, treat them to a fancy dinner or a trip away, or do something else entirely? What kind of gift do you give your person to tell them how much you love them after 10 years of marriage?

Well, did you know that there are actually traditional gifts, flowers and gemstones that couples celebrating their 10th anniversary have chosen to give each other for more than a century? That’s right, if you want to give your partner a 10-year anniversary gift full to the brim with symbolic meaning, there are unofficial ‘rules’ you might want to follow.

In this guide, we’ll take a look at all the gift-giving traditions which surround that all-important 10th wedding anniversary, so you can give your partner something fitting for such a special occasion. We’ll also give you 50 gift suggestions and get your imagination working so you can find your partner a gift they’ll treasure until the next major milestone and beyond.

To learn all about every wedding anniversary tradition from 1 year to 90, read our complete year-by-year wedding anniversary gift guide.

What are traditional and modern gifts for a 10th wedding anniversary?

Many different anniversaries have traditional and modern themes associated with them, as well as traditional gemstones and flowers. Each has a historical and symbolic meaning, so if you choose to, you can give your partner a gift that lets them know exactly how you feel.

The traditional and modern 10th wedding anniversary gifts

Traditional 10th anniversary gift – Tin or aluminium

If you’d like to go with the traditional 10th anniversary gift theme, you actually have a choice of two: tin or aluminium. They’re both similar metals, but there are a few differences which might sway your decision. Tin is often more silvery than aluminium, while aluminium is far closer to grey, and aluminium melts at a higher temperature. But, both are strong and don’t rust, which means they’re incredibly durable – just like your marriage after making it to 10 years.

Modern 10th anniversary gift – Diamond

If you’re looking to give your partner a gift linked to the modern anniversary theme, you’ll want to pick up something linked to diamond. Diamonds are one of the hardest materials on Earth and exceptionally beautiful. They symbolise beauty, strength and durability, which makes them the perfect gift for celebrating 10 years. But on the flip side, they can be rather expensive.

10th anniversary gemstone – Diamond

You might not be surprised to learn that the traditional 10th anniversary gemstone is diamond, which means it’s both the traditional gemstone and the modern anniversary gift – a double hitter. Diamonds are stunning and often set in pretty much every type of jewellery piece or accessory you can think of, so if it’s something you choose to give your partner, you’re guaranteed to find something they’ll love.

Despite diamond playing such a prominent part in a 10th anniversary’s gift-giving traditions, it’s not the official ‘diamond anniversary’. This name is exclusively reserved for your 60th wedding anniversary, when diamond is the traditional and modern gift, and the anniversary gemstone. That means, in another 50 years, you’ll have another opportunity to give your partner a diamond-themed gift if you’re keen to stick to the traditional themes.

10th anniversary flower – Daffodil

While diamond is a big focus of the 10th anniversary themes, the traditional flower for celebrating a decade of marriage is the far more humble, but no less beautiful, daffodil. Daffodils are bright and colourful and are one of the symbols of spring. When it comes to celebrating your anniversary, they represent new beginnings, which couldn’t be more appropriate as the two of you begin a whole new decade of life together.

How do you choose a gift for a 10th wedding anniversary?

For many couples, celebrating your 10th anniversary is a big deal, so you might want to do what you can to spoil your other half. If you’re keen to stick to traditional or modern gifts, this can be a little tricky – there’s a big difference between the cost of aluminium and diamonds, after all. So, when the time comes to choose a gift, there are a few things to consider before making your purchase.

Are you interested in sticking to the traditional 10th anniversary themes? If so, you might want to have a long think about what you can do with each theme. Tin and aluminium require creativity, while diamond limits your options to mainly jewellery and accessories.
Have you set a budget? Tin and aluminium can be relatively affordable, but diamonds are notoriously pricey, so this may affect the type of gift you want to go for.
Are you looking to give your partner something personalised? Diamond jewellery can be personalised, but more often than not it isn’t, as this can impact the resale value. Tin and aluminium can be personalised easily.
What sort of thing does your partner love? Do any of the themes fit nicely with the kind of gift your partner might love, or have they dropped any heavy hints about something they might like in particular?

If a couple in your life are about to celebrate their 10th wedding anniversary, you might be looking into whether you can give them something linked to traditional or modern gifts. The great news is that you absolutely can. However, diamonds can be a difficult gift to buy for a couple (then again, you might have found the perfect diamond-related couples gift) so you might be more inclined to choose something tin-, aluminium- or daffodil-themed instead.

Should you give your partner a diamond for your 10th anniversary?

Depending on who you ask, you might be told that you ‘should’ give your partner a diamond to mark 10 years of marriage. This can put unfair pressure on some couples because diamonds can be rather costly!

So, you should definitely avoid doing this if diamonds aren’t within your budget. There are always affordable alternatives, which we’ll go into later in this article.

Yes, diamonds can be a special gift to give on your 10th anniversary, but it’s certainly not a rule set in stone. So, if you don’t have the budget for it, your partner isn’t particularly interested, you have a better idea or you simply don’t want to, then no – you shouldn’t have to buy your other half something related to diamonds.

What you give to your partner as an anniversary gift is entirely up to you. So long as you put some thought into it and it’s full of love, they’re bound to love your gift whatever you give them.

50 ideas for a 10th wedding anniversary gift

When it’s time to pick up the perfect gift for your partner ahead of your 10th anniversary, you can be faced with a huge dilemma: what should you give them that’s fitting for such an amazing milestone? Do you give them an incredible piece of diamond jewellery, or something a little kinder to your budget related to tin or aluminium?

If you know you want to give your love a gift related to one of the traditional or modern 10th anniversary themes but you’re not sure where to start, you’re in luck. Here are 50 gift ideas so you can treat your partner to something extra special on your big day.

10 traditional gifts for a 10th wedding anniversary

The traditional 10th anniversary gift is tin or aluminium, two relatively affordable but incredibly strong and durable metals. You might think they’re not the most obvious choices for romantic gifts, but with a little creativity, you can still find a brilliant traditional gift.

1. A tin rose

The rose is one of the most well-known symbols of love all over the world. You could get your partner a bouquet of roses, but they’ll die and wilt and be gone within a couple of weeks. Instead, why not tie that loving symbol into the traditional theme and give your partner a tin rose so they can have a permanent reminder of your first 10 years of marriage?

2. A 10 years of our family tin sculpture

Since you got married, you may have welcomed a third or fourth (or fifth or sixth!) little human into your exclusive family club. If so, you can include them in your 10 year anniversary gift, in the form of a family tin sculpture, which you can personalise to reflect the look of your perfect little family.

3. A pewter cat trinket box

If your partner a) has a small collection of jewellery they’re not quite sure where to keep safe and b) loves cats, then we have the perfect suggestion for you. A personalised cat trinket box is small, on-theme and can be personalised to include an engraving of your choice.

4. A personalised anniversary calendar keyring

For something small and personalised that your partner can always keep with them, a personalised anniversary calendar keyring contains the exact date you got married and slips right onto their keys. It’s also made from pewter, which contains tin, so is spot on when it comes to the traditional 10th anniversary theme.

5. Tincup American whiskey

One option you might consider as a gift for your partner is a good ol’ bottle of whisky. But how on Earth are you supposed to tie that into the theme of cheap but hardy metals? Well, by choosing Tincup American whiskey – which reviews say is delicious and refined.

6. An aluminium heart decoration

One of the best things about aluminium is just how versatile it is, and it’s great for forming into any type of shape imaginable. That includes an aluminium heart decoration, which sits on a base that reads, ‘ten perfect years’. It’s an adorable gift that can sit proudly on a shelf until the next major milestone.

7. An aluminium anniversary tree

Trees might not be the traditional 10th anniversary gift, but they represent strength and life and have deep roots that can hold onto anything. Combine this with aluminium, and you have an aluminium anniversary tree, which is fantastic and full of delicate character.

8. A personalised aluminium bowl

Thanks to its strength, aluminium is a brilliant material for making into useful items you might want to use again and again. This includes a personalised aluminium bowl, which your partner might want to use for fruit, serving food, potpourri… anything, in fact. It can also be personalised to include a hand-stamped message of your choosing.

9. A personalised floating aluminium slide

For the ultimate custom gift, a personalised floating aluminium slide includes the photo and message of your choice and can be hung on the wall to serve as a reminder about the love you and your partner share.

10. A smart aluminium wall clock

For something big and bold that can hang on the wall and be shown off to everyone who comes to visit, a textured aluminium wall clock is a real showstopper. It’s contemporary and minimalist but is totally on theme when celebrating 10 years of marriage.

15 modern gifts for a 10th wedding anniversary

Both the modern 10th anniversary gift and the traditional gemstone is the one and only diamond. Diamonds are stunningly beautiful and versatile precious stones that are popular but expensive additions to jewellery and accessories. They pair perfectly with almost every other type of stone and precious metal, which means you’re practically guaranteed to find something your partner will adore. If you’re looking for a little inspiration, here are 15 ideas for 10th anniversary gifts containing diamonds.

1. A diamond eternity ring

Eternity rings are a popular gift to give during milestone anniversaries, and with 10 years being one of the most special milestones, now’s your chance – especially since diamond has such a symbolic meaning during your 10th anniversary. Eternity rings are available in loads of different designs, from big and flashy to subtle and muted. For a good idea of what you might get for your budget, check out Ernest Jones’s selection of eternity rings.

2. Diamond cufflinks

Diamond cufflinks are one of the most luxurious and generous gifts you could give – they’re the ultimate status symbol. That means they can be rather pricey, but if you have the budget, it’s the perfect opportunity to spoil your partner. Deakin and Francis has an incredible range of diamond cufflinks.

3. A diamond belly ring

Does your partner have a belly piercing? If so, you could give them a real surprise on your anniversary by giving them a diamond belly ring. This is one piece of jewellery that’s sometimes overlooked when it comes to the more precious gemstones, but they can be absolutely stunning and a unique way to give your other half a diamond on your 10th anniversary.

4. A diamond bracelet

For a gift absolutely steeped in luxury, love and symbolic meaning on your big anniversary, you can’t get any more generous than a diamond bracelet. Bracelets can be dainty and delicate or firm and bold, offering you a wide range of choices.

5. Diamond earrings

The great thing about diamond earrings – apart from being fabulous and exactly on theme – is just how many options there are. Studs, hoops, drops, tear drops, clusters, C hoops… whatever type of earring your partner loves to wear, there will always be plenty available set with beautiful diamonds.

6. A diamond necklace

When asked to think about diamond jewellery, straight after a diamond ring, the next thing many people will likely think about is a diamond necklace. The ultimate statement piece, a diamond necklace just screams class and luxury. And you’re spoilt for choice – with so many designs available, the hardest thing will be choosing which one to go for.

7. A diamond locket

A wonderful way to add personalisation to diamond jewellery is with a diamond locket. Lockets are lovely pieces of jewellery by themselves, but they also allow you to personalise them by including one or even two of your partner’s favourite photos inside. It could be the two of you, your kids, your entire family, your pets… whoever your partner adores most.

8. A diamond watch

To spoil your partner and give them a real touch of luxury, a diamond watch has to be up there as one of the best. They’re available in loads of different styles and designs, and are suitable for different budgets – plus your other half can wear it every day if they want to.

9. A diamond nose ring

Whether your partner has a nostril piercing, septum piercing or another type of nose piercing, a diamond nose ring is a unique way to treat them to diamonds for your 10th anniversary. Not only do they look fantastic, but they’re also among the most affordable ways to give your partner diamonds when celebrating this fantastic milestone.

10. A diamond eyebrow ring

If your partner has an eyebrow piercing, you can give them an anniversary gift they’ll never forget with a diamond eyebrow ring. It’s a sweet and totally unique gift that your partner will never see coming (especially if they don’t have an eyebrow piercing, in which case it’s probably not for them).

11. A diamond charm

The great thing about a charm bracelet is how you or your partner can continue to add to it, choosing charms that are unique to the kind of things they love and enjoy. You could use this as the perfect opportunity to give them a meaningful diamond key charm from Tiffany & Co. as a symbol that only they have the key that unlocks your heart. It’s cheesy, but we bet it’s true.

12. A raw diamond ring

The majority of diamonds that are given as gifts are cut and polished before being set in a piece of jewellery or an accessory. But, raw diamonds can be just as stunning, with a rustic aesthetic that still works incredibly well in some jewellery. A raw diamond ring is a real showstopper and a wonderful choice for a 10 year anniversary gift.

13. A diamond anklet

Anklets are super dainty and the perfect accessory during hot and sunny weather or when you jet off to nicer climates. If you have plans for a post-anniversary holiday, a diamond anklet can be shown off as you relax and unwind.

14. A diamond brooch

Brooches are retro accessories that are beautiful, statement-making and timeless. They come in loads of different designs, from incredible patterns to leopard-shaped designs. Check out Antique Jewellery Company to browse their massive selection of diamond brooches.

15. A diamond tiara

Do you see your other half as your queen? If so, then a diamond tiara is an accessory to top all other accessories. It’s not something they’ll wear on the average Saturday night down the pub, but when the occasion calls for it, they really can be something else.

10 affordable gifts for a 10th wedding anniversary

Your 10th anniversary is one of the most memorable and special anniversaries you’re likely to have, but that doesn’t mean you can or necessarily want to drop hundreds or thousands on diamonds or something else just as pricey. But, that doesn’t mean you can’t still give your partner a brilliantly on-theme gift that sticks to the 10th anniversary theme. So, here are 10 suggestions for affordable gifts.

1. A diamond art craft set

For a crafty way to spend your anniversary, diamond art is relaxing and creative. A diamond art coaster kit lets your partner design their own coasters and provides them with everything they need to give it a go.

2. A diamond paperweight

A diamond paperweight looks great on a desk and is useful if your partner spends a lot of time shuffling through papers for work. It’s not a real diamond (we wish!), but it looks the part.

3. Silver imitation diamond earrings

Diamond earrings can be pricey, and they might not fit everyone’s budget. Imitation diamonds, such as Zircondia, might not be as valuable as real diamonds but they can still look great. Sterling silver Zircondia earrings are an affordable gift that still works with the traditional 10th anniversary theme.

4. Edible diamonds

What’s sweeter than receiving diamonds as an anniversary gift? How about receiving edible diamonds made from sugar? They’re literally sweeter than diamonds and look great as decoration sprinkled on a cake or over a dessert.

5. Herkimer Diamond Rough Crystal

If your partner has a spiritual side, Herkimer diamond rough crystals, also known as ‘Herkies’, are said to help boost someone’s clairvoyant abilities. It’s a unique, on-theme and affordable gift for a spiritual partner.

6. Diamonds Are Forever on Blu Ray or streaming

One of the longest-running film series, James Bond has a movie totally in keeping with the 10th anniversary theme, giving you the chance to have a snuggly date night when celebrating your anniversary. Diamonds Are Forever is available on Blu Ray, or catch it on your favourite streaming platform.

7. A grow-your-own crystal kit

If you don’t want to buy your partner a crystal this time, why not give them a gift and let them grow their own? A crystal growing kit is a great bit of scientific fun, and if you have kids you can get them in on the action.

8. A Minecraft diamond necklace

Is your other half a fan of Minecraft? If so, then they’ll know all about how precious diamonds are in the game. A Minecraft diamond necklace is cute and on theme, with the benefit of being really affordable.

9. A diamond T-shirt

Diamonds are usually super expensive, but do you know what isn’t? A diamond T-shirt! It’s a stylish and thoughtful token gift that works whatever your budget.

10. A tin of your partner’s favourite food

Ok, this one is a bit of a risk, so should only be done if you’ve talked about not giving each other a gift for your anniversary. But, a tin of beans, custard, rice pudding, ravioli, chilli con carne or similar makes for a fun and totally on-theme gift to give on your anniversary. But if you do, just make sure you have a backup present too. Chocolates or flowers often work best.

5 DIY gifts for a 10th wedding anniversary

One way to give your partner a 10th anniversary gift filled with extra special thought and meaning is by making a gift yourself. But, with one of the major themes of 10 years of marriage being diamond, what kind of thing can you make? Well, even at home there are ways to tie the themes in, especially if you lean into the traditional theme of aluminium or tin. So, here are five suggestions to get you thinking on your feet.

1. An aluminium wire scribble heart

If you pick up some affordable aluminium sculpting wire, it can be pretty quick and simple to make a wire scribble heart. You don’t need a ton of experience to make one that looks good, either – check out a video tutorial for tips on where to start.

2. Wire aluminium jewellery

Aluminium wire is super versatile so there’s a lot you can do with it, including heart-shaped jewellery. Again, you don’t need to have made anything before to produce something your partner will love. There are plenty of wire jewellery tutorials available online to help you with some ideas.

3. A tinfoil sculpture

Tinfoil is an obvious joke gift when celebrating your 10 year anniversary, but with a little effort and know-how, you can actually make a lovely little keepsake tinfoil sculpture for your partner based on something they love. If you like the sound of it, there are guides to making tinfoil sculptures that show you the ropes.

4. A homemade ‘diamond’ ring

An Ocean Diamond ring kit provides you with everything you need to design and carve your very own ring featuring an authentic, hand-dived ocean diamond. We really can’t think of anything more creative and fitting as a DIY 10th anniversary gift.

5. A create-your-own diamond painting

Diamond art is a wonderfully on-theme way to create a completely personalised work of art you can present to your partner on the morning of your anniversary. Just choose your favourite wedding photo, get to work, and then marvel at your handiwork before giving it to your partner on your anniversary. You can pick up personalised diamond painting kits online.

5 experience or activity gifts for a 10th wedding anniversary

A memorable way to spend time with your love while celebrating your anniversary is by sharing a new experience together. You can even keep it tied into the 10th anniversary theme if you think creatively, and give your activity a deep and special meaning. Here are five suggestions for fun things to try on your big day.

1. A diamond factory tour

The process of making diamonds is long and complicated, and making amazing jewellery requires a lot of patience and skill. Find out all about the process with a Royal Coster diamond factory tour, which is totally free. The only catch is, it’s in Amsterdam, but there are worse ways to spend your anniversary!

2. A diamond driving experience

This one bends the rules a little, but a diamond driving experience at least has diamond in the name! It’s one way to get the blood pumping on your anniversary (and we’ll let you think of another for yourself).

3. A diamond fragrance experience

This also slightly bends the rules, but it’s totally worth it to spend time trying something new with your love! A diamond fragrance experience gives the two of you a chance to invent your very own fragrance, which you can then wear out to a post-fragrance-making dinner.

4. A tinsmithing workshop

Something of a lost art, tinsmithing is the process of making something out of tin. You can learn all about this ancient craft with a tinsmithing experience, and have a go at creating something of your very own.

5. A trip to a Cornish tin mill

If you’re not sure your partner would like to make something out of tin, maybe they’d love to learn all about its production. King Edward Mine in Cornwall offers a fascinating insight into an authentic Cornish tin mill – a super unique way to spend your anniversary.

5 floral-inspired gifts for a 10th wedding anniversary

The traditional flower when celebrating your 10th wedding anniversary is the dainty yet vibrant daffodil – a true symbol of spring. It’s also one of the most recognisable flowers there is, and can grow in pots, in the ground, in woodland, by the side of the road… it’s surprisingly hardy considering how delicate it looks. It’s also great at brightening up a room, whether in a bouquet or as part of an arrangement or design. Here are fie daffodil-inspired gifts if you fancy treating your partner to something floral.

1. A bouquet of 100 daffodils

We couldn’t make this list and not include a bouquet of daffodils. But how do you elevate the humble little daffodil and make it special enough for an occasion like your 10th anniversary? Well, how about a bouquet of 100 daffodils? It’s equal parts extravagant and elegant.

2. A cute daffodil necklace

Because it’s so iconic, the daffodil makes for a lovely addition to jewellery and accessories. This includes a daffodil necklace, which captures the feel of this springtime beauty. It’s also small and versatile enough to be paired with loads of different outfits and other types of jewellery

3. A cast iron daffodil garden ornament

To make a real impact in your garden, a cast iron daffodil ornament provides the birds with a floral perch and offers them a bite to eat. It’s a lovely addition to any garden that has special meaning on your big day.

4. A daffodil stained glass panel

For something fresh and eye-catching, a daffodil stained glass panel is actually a two-hitter. Not only does it represent the traditional flower of 10 years of marriage, the frame also contains tin – the perfect gift thanks to its double meaning.

5. LEGO daffodils

For the LEGO lover you love, LEGO daffodils are realistic and affordable, and will happily sit in a vase for years and years and never wilt or need fresh water. And you can spend time together building them!

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What to Write in a Wedding Guest Book

Who doesn’t love a wedding? If you’re here, you’ve been lucky enough to be invited as a guest to someone’s special day. That means, at some point, you’re likely to find yourself standing in front of the guest book, pen in hand, wondering what to write. Don’t worry — we’ve all been there!

Whether you’re a seasoned wedding attendee or a first-timer, knowing what to write in a wedding guest book can sometimes feel like a daunting task. In this guide, we’re going to break down the art of crafting the perfect wedding guest book message, from heartfelt sentiments to light-hearted jokes. So, if you’re ready to leave your mark and make the happy couple smile every time they flip through their guest book, let’s dive in and discover how to write a message that will be cherished for years to come!

What is a wedding guest book message?

A wedding guest book message is a special, funny, or heartfelt message written by wedding guests in a guest book. There’s no blueprint for wedding guest book messages, so feel free to express your genuine thoughts and emotions.

Whether you choose to share a favourite memory, offer words of wisdom, or simply convey your congratulations, your message will serve as a treasured keepsake for the newlyweds.

What to write in a wedding guest book

If you’re struggling with what to write in a wedding guest book, keep reading! We’ve included some example messages and top tips for nailing the tone.

What to write for a funny wedding guest book message

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Injecting a touch of humour into your wedding guest book message is always appreciated, especially if the couple shares your fun-loving spirit.

Try using the following examples as inspiration for your message:

Cheers to a lifetime of binge-watching Netflix together! May your marriage be as strong as your Wi-Fi.
Congrats on finding your lobster! Hoping your marriage will be as heartwarming as Ross and Rachel’s, but with fewer ‘breaks’ and more ‘I got off the planes.’
Congratulations on tying the knot! Remember, there’s no problem that can’t be solved by a good cup of tea. Here’s to strong, milky, and no sugar forever.

Top tips

There’s a line between funny and offensive. Keep the jokes light-hearted and clean. After all, the newlyweds’ families or colleagues may flick through the book during the evening!
Balance humour and sincerity. While the goal is to make the couple laugh, don’t forget also to convey your genuine congratulations and well-wishes. Follow up any jokes with a sincere message to ensure your message is warm and well received.
Keep it short. No one wants your rendition of War and Peace in their guest book. Keep it short, and keep it sweet.

What to write in a wedding guest book from parents

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A guest book message from parents should be sweet and sincere, reflecting the love and pride you feel towards your baby on their special day.

If you’re looking for some inspiration, try using the following messages:

Our hearts are overflowing with pride on your special day. Seeing the love you share fills us with immense happiness. May your journey together be blessed with endless love, laughter, and beautiful memories.
What a day! Seeing you two up there, so in love, it just warms our hearts. We’re over the moon to welcome [spouse’s name] into our family. Here’s to a lifetime of love, laughter, and maybe a few family game nights.
We’re bursting with pride and joy watching you two tie the knot. Your love is contagious, and we’re thrilled to be a part of your journey. Wishing you endless adventures, cosy nights in, and all the happiness in the world.

Top tips

Share the love. Even if you aren’t a lovey-dovey family, a wedding is the time to tell your child just how proud you are of them for making this commitment.
Be supportive. Let your child know you’re always there for them, no matter what. Offer words of encouragement and reassurance as they embark on this new chapter of their lives.
Offer your advice. Offer some words of wisdom to your child that you believe will be valuable for their married life together. Whether about communication, compromise, or navigating challenges, sharing your insights can be incredibly meaningful for your child and their partner.

Heartfelt and classic guest book messages

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Whether you’re a friend, colleague, or distant family member, you can’t go wrong with a heartfelt congratulations message.

Try using the following examples for a classic wedding guest book message:

Today marks the beginning of an unforgettable adventure the two of you will share. May it be filled with love, laughter, and unforgettable moments. A huge congratulations, once again.
You did it! What an incredible day. Thank you so much for asking us to be a part of it.
We couldn’t be prouder of you both for taking this next step in life. Here’s to late-night pizza runs, spontaneous road trips, and a lifetime of true love.

Top tips

Personalise your message. Try including a specific detail or memory from the time you’ve known the happy couple. Bonus points if the memory relates to both of them!
Keep it timeless. Consider avoiding any jokes or references to current affairs. It’s unlikely anyone will remember what was in the news today in 10 years.
Write from the heart. Ultimately, the most important tip is to write from the heart. Let your genuine love and affection for the couple guide your words, and your message will surely be appreciated and cherished.

Words of wisdom or marriage advice

Sharing your words of wisdom or pearls of advice is a great way to show support to the newlyweds as they embark on this new adventure together. Here are some phrases or ideas to consider:

Always remember the love that brought you together today. Through thick and thin, may your bond grow stronger with each passing day. Congratulations again on your beautiful day.
Congratulations on tying the knot. Remember — never stop prioritising your relationship. Life can get busy and hectic, but it’s important to make time for each other.
Marriage is about finding balance and making decisions together as a couple. Listen to each other, and remember that you’re a team. It’s you vs. the problem, not you vs. them.

Top tips

Share from your own experiences. You don’t have to be an expert on love or marriage to give valuable advice. Draw from your own experiences in relationships, whether it’s lessons learned from your own dating history, observations of successful couples around you, or insights gained from challenges you’ve faced.
Keep it positive. While it’s important to offer practical advice, focus on delivering your message in a positive way. No one wants to hear about the negative side of marriage on their big day! Emphasise the strength of love, the need to overcome challenges together, and the joy that comes from building a life with someone.
Be encouraging. Offer words of encouragement and support to the newlyweds as they embark on this exciting journey together. Let them know that you believe in their love and their ability to overcome any obstacles that may come their way.

Creative wedding guest book messages

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Creative wedding guest book messages are a great way to add a special touch to your guest book entry and make it stand out. Draw on inspiration from the couple’s favourite films, song lyrics, or shared hobbies.

Here are some ideas to help spark your creativity:

Wishing you a ‘hakuna matata’ kind of love — no worries, just bliss! Congrats!
Congratulations on taking centre stage in the great production of love. Time for your grand finale — the reception! Break a leg, lovebirds!
May your marriage be filled with passion, devotion, and unwavering commitment. Congratulations on becoming a real-life Noah and Allie!

Top tips

Don’t over-egg the pudding. While it’s important to ensure the couple understands your reference, there’s no need to go over the top. Subtle references are often more effective and appreciated.
Don’t overthink it. Try not to get so caught up in trying to be creative that you forget to write a message at all. Trust your instincts and write from the heart.
Have fun with it. Enjoy the process of writing your creative guest book message! Put on your thinking cap and have fun crafting a heartfelt and memorable message for the newlyweds.

Quotes or poems about love

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If you’re stuck for words, using a short quote or poem is a great way to convey your well-wishes to the newlyweds. The best love quotes or love poems to use are the ones that are meaningful to you or the couple. However, if the poem you like is too long or you’re struggling to come up with something on the spot, try using one of our favourite quotes:

“Two souls with but a single thought, two hearts that beat as one.” – John Keats
“In all the world, there is no heart for me like yours. In all the world, there is no love for you like mine.” – Maya Angelou
“Love is like the wind, you can’t see it, but you can feel it.” – Nicholas Sparks

Top tips

Prepare your quote ahead of time. If you know you want to use a quote in a wedding guest book, it’s a good idea to prepare it ahead of time. Save it in a note on your phone or keep it on a scrap of paper in your pocket so you can reference it during the reception.
Be mindful of the space. Consider the size of the space available in the guest book when picking your quote or poem. Opt for shorter quotes or select a few of the most meaningful lines to ensure they fit neatly in the guest book.
Consider the theme of the wedding. If the couple is having a themed wedding, consider matching your quote to that theme. For example, an Alice in Wonderland-themed wedding could mean you use a quote from the film or classic books.

The bottom line on wedding guest book messages

Coming up with a unique and creative wedding guest book message can be tricky. However, with a little thought and a dash of inspiration, you can craft a message that perfectly captures the spirit of the occasion, your appreciation for being invited, and your congratulations. Plus, it’s your opportunity to give the happy couple some friendly advice as they start on this incredible journey.

Remember to personalise your message, draw from your own experiences, and above all, let your sincerity shine through. If you’re really struggling with what to write, you can always fall back on a handy quote or poem. Keep that in your back pocket (literally!) for when inspiration escapes you.

Frequently Asked Questions

What do you write in a wedding guest book?

So long as your message is sincere and heartfelt, you can write whatever you’d like in a wedding guest book. Try writing a message of congratulations, a piece of heartfelt advice, a special quote, or even a short poem if you’re lost for words.

What do you write on the first page of a guest book?

The first page of a wedding guest book should be filled in by the newlyweds. It should include a welcome message for all guests in attendance, a brief explanation of the purpose of the guest book, and guidelines for messages (if any).

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20 Wedding Guest Book Ideas

Wedding guest books are the perfect way to capture your guest’s presence and sentiments during your big day. After all, you’ll be too busy having the most important day of your life to remember all their kind words and advice!

Although wedding guest books are beautiful and traditional, there’s nothing wrong with wanting something a bit extra for your special day. If you’re looking for low-key but alternative wedding guest book ideas, look for further. We’ve compiled a list of the top 20 traditional but elevated wedding guest book ideas.

If you’re a guest, be sure to also check out our post on what to write in a wedding guest book for ideas on what to include when sharing your well-wishes.

What is a wedding guest book?

Traditionally, a wedding guest book is a bound book where guests can record their names and well-wishes during your wedding ceremony. Books are traditionally bound in satin or cloth, and will usually have the newlyweds’ names and wedding date printed on the front.

However, in recent years, there’s been a demand for alternatives to wedding guest books. Couples are looking for something unusual or quirky that matches their personality. So, if you really want to go off the beaten track, check out our post on 35 unique wedding guest book alternatives. If that’s a bit too funky for you, there’s nothing wrong with keeping things traditional but still special.

20 elevated guest book ideas

If you’re looking for a timeless but elevated alternative to a wedding guest book, look no further. Check out these 20 wedding guest book ideas to help commemorate your big day.

Simple but elevated

1) A velvet guest book

Instead of the traditional satin or cloth-bound books, consider opting for a velvet cover. This beautiful option will add a touch of glamour and decadence to your guest book. Plus, it’s perfect for an autumn or winter wedding.

2) A leather-bound guest book

If you’re a fan of folklore or fairy tales, consider opting for a leather-bound guest book. If you add a few natural accents like pressed flowers, twine, or twigs, you’ll have your very own Lord of The Rings inspired guest book! Perfect for a whimsical, Celtic, or forest wedding

3) A meaningful colour

Elevating your guest book can be as simple as matching the book to your wedding colours. For example, try picking a cloth or satin cover that matches the bridesmaid’s dresses, the colours in your bouquet, or even the colour of the groom’s eyes. So long as the colour is meaningful to you — that’s all that matters.

4) Keep it classy

If you prefer to keep things simple and classy, opt for a white satin wedding book with gold accents. There’s nothing wrong with going classic, and white satin is as classic as it gets for a wedding day.

5) Go minimalist

A minimalist wedding guest book can exude sophistication and elegance without overwhelming your wedding aesthetic. Choose a sleek and understated design, such as a slim hardcover notebook or a clean-lined acrylic guest book. Remember — less is more.

A picture is worth a thousand words

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6) Use one of your photo albums

If you’re a fan of creating photo albums, consider bringing one of your special books along to the wedding. Try to find one that captures the essence of your relationship with a good spread of holiday snaps, Christmas photos, and embarrassing party pictures. Ask guests to sign their names and well-wishes next to your authentic memories, creating a beautiful blend of past and present.

7) Snap a polaroid

Instant cameras have become incredibly popular in recent years, and lots of your friends will probably have Polaroid or other instant cameras. Ask them to bring them along to the wedding and have guests snap candid photos of themselves throughout the reception. Compile them into a photo album and ask guests to sign their names and leave well-wishes.

This creates a fun and interactive guest book filled with spontaneous moments and heartfelt messages, capturing the joy and love shared on your special day in real time.

8) Embrace your favourite places

Create an especially made photo album full of landscape shots of your favourite places. Pepper some easter eggs from your relationship throughout the pages for a fun personal twist. For example, the location of your first date, where your partner popped the question, and even the exterior of the wedding venue. Ask guests to sign their names in the album and venture some guesses as to what each location means to you as a couple.

Don’t worry if you aren’t a great photographer — there are tons of pictures you can include from various sources. For example, stock photos, online image libraries, or even postcards. You can also enlist the help of friends and family members who may have taken photos of your favourite places during visits or holidays.

9) Do a group photo

If you don’t want guests to be bogged down by writing in a guest book, consider enlisting the help of your photographer to take one large group picture of the wedding party.

If the photographer has the technology to print the photo quickly, place it down on a large mat or canvas and ask guests to sign their names and leave messages around the photo.

10) Photo booth

Photo booths are a popular choice for wedding entertainment, and they also make for a fantastic guest book alternative. Set up a photo booth with fun props and backdrops, allowing guests to take silly and memorable pictures throughout the reception.

Set up a table nearby with glue, pens, and stickers. Ask guests to stick their photo reel in a scrapbook, customise the page, and write a silly message next to it. If you’re looking for a fun and creative wedding guest book alternative, this is the idea for you.

Go thrifty

11) Reuse your welcome sign

90% of the time, wedding welcome signs go to waste after the big day. However, if you’re an eco-warrior or just feel like being a bit thrifty, you can reuse your welcome sign into a fun wedding guest book alternative.

Place some markers or paint pens near the sign and encourage guests to write their names, messages, and doodles on the board as a memory of the wedding reception. It’s a simple yet impactful way to reduce waste and create a lasting keepsake.

12) Reuse vintage books

Collect vintage books from car boot sales, charity shops, and second-hand book shops for this sustainable wedding guest book idea. You may even have a few old books lying around at home!

Bring a pile of old books to your wedding reception and ask guests to write their names and messages inside the cover, the margins, or even on the front cover if you’d prefer. It’s the perfect way to give a new lease of life to these old works of art while adding a touch of vintage charm to your special day.

13) Go digital

Asking guests to snap their own pictures on their phones or cameras is a zero-waste way to create a wedding guest book. Find a website that allows you to create your own QR code which guests can scan to upload their photos and messages directly to a digital guest book.

Once created, simply print the QR code on cards and place them on each table, along with instructions for guests. They can then use their smartphones to scan the code and upload their photos and messages, creating a digital guest book filled with candid moments (and slightly blurry moments) from the wedding reception.

14) Unplug the reception

Some people prefer an ‘unplugged wedding’, where guests are asked not to use smartphones or take their own pictures. Instead, you could pay extra and have your wedding photographer hang around into the night to take unforgettable shots of the reception.

This way, you can be fully present in the moment without worrying about capturing every detail yourself, all for a guest book you may never read again. Plus, with a professional wedding photographer on hand, you’re guaranteed to have stunning, high-quality photos which capture the essence and emotion of your special day.

15) Reuse a tablecloth

If you’re a fan of textiles or crafting, consider repurposing a tablecloth as your wedding guest book. Choose a plain or lightly patterned tablecloth that complements your wedding theme and colours. Lay it out on a table with fabric markers or paint pens nearby. Encourage guests to leave their signatures, well wishes, and doodles directly onto the tablecloth.

Get creative

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16) Paint-by-numbers

If your guests like to get creative, create a custom paint-by-numbers canvas featuring a meaningful picture of you and your new spouse. Set up the canvas at your wedding reception with paint colours, paintbrushes, and pens. Encourage guests to colour the numbered section of the canvas, following the paint-by-numbers guidelines. As they paint, guests can also sign their names or write messages in the margins or on the back of the canvas.

After the wedding, you’ll have a one-of-a-kind piece of artwork created by your friends and family. Hang the finished painting in your home as a cherished reminder of your special day.

17) Make your mark with thumbprints

Set up ink pads near your wedding guest book and ask guests to sign their name and add a fun thumbprint in ink. Each guest can press their thumb onto the ink pad and then onto the guest book next to their name, leaving behind a unique thumbprint.

You could even match the ink to your wedding colours for a cohesive and stylish look!

18) A self portrait

Set up pens, pencils, or felt tips near your guest book and ask guests to sign their names and draw a little self-portrait of themselves in their wedding gear. This will add a playful and personal touch to your wedding keepsake. Whether they’re a regular Picasso or all they can manage is a stick figure, each self-portrait will be a fun memory and a charming reflection of your loved ones’ individuality.

19) Keep it classy with calligraphy

If your guests are especially creative, you could ask them to sign their name using calligraphy ink. Beware that calligraphy ink can be a bit tricky to handle, so providing practice sheets or guidance may be helpful. However, if your guests are up for the challenge, their beautifully penned signatures will add an elegant and sophisticated touch to your guest book.

20) Ask for advice

Ask your guests to not only sign their name in your guest book, but to add their personal wedding advice or words of wisdom. Whether it’s a quick tip, heartfelt piece of relationship advice, or even just words of encouragement, each contribution will add depth and meaning to your guest book.

The bottom line on wedding guest book ideas

Wedding guest book ideas can be as simple or as complicated as you’d like. While the style of your wedding guest book may not feel like a big decision, remember it’s the little details that will make your wedding truly unforgettable.

So, whether you opt for a traditional guest book, a creative alternative, or a combination of both, the key is to create a keepsake that captures the love, joy, and memories of your wedding day. Pick something that feels authentically you and that you’ll be excited to look back on in years to come.