Author: Medi Jones

Medi is a talented and creative writer and wedding expert. With an eye for detail and a love of all things ‘love’, she is known for her known for her fun long-form pieces, friendly tone, and first-hand practical advice. When she’s not writing, you’ll find her planning her own wedding, being a rabbit parent, or dreaming of her next adventure.

Everything to Know About Wedding Bands

Wedding bands may seem like a small part of your overall wedding day in and of itself. But, their symbolism, value and impact can’t be understated. 

Unlike most other wedding details, this little ring stays with you long after the big day is over. It’s the piece you’ll look at every day, the one that will remind you of the vows you made, the adventures you’ve shared, and all the memories yet to come. So while it may be small, its meaning (and its place in your life) couldn’t be bigger.

Read on to learn everything you need to know about wedding bands. We cover everything from where to wear a wedding band, to the metals, finish, and style that go into each piece. Plus, we cover 5 top tips to help you pick the perfect ring, and some general care and maintenance tips to help it look its best. Good luck! 

What is a wedding band?

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Your wedding band, or marriage ring, is the ring you receive on your wedding day from your spouse. It’s used as a symbol of commitment and love between you and your new partner. 

Wedding bands are different to engagement rings. Engagement rings are usually more eye-catching, with a focus on gemstones like diamonds or intricate mental work. They’re also traditionally only worn by one partner. However, people of all relationship types and gender identities can of course wear engagement rings. 

Wedding bands, on the other hand, are worn by both members of the couple and are usually simpler and more understated. They focus on durability and comfort for everyday wear, and are intended as a lasting reminder of your partnership. They’re worn daily and serve as a reminder of the vows you made, staying with you as a little piece of your wedding day for years to come.

Which finger do I wear a wedding band on?

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Wedding bands are traditionally worn on the ring finger (fourth finger) of the left hand. If you wear any other rings on that hand, for example, an engagement ring, you should wear your wedding band underneath that ring. This ensures it’s as close to your heart as possible (and it’s the most traditional way to wear it).  

However, in some cultures, people wear their wedding bands on the right hand. Equally, a lot of couples choose to wear their wedding band on their little finger, especially if they wear a signet ring. 

Honestly, there’s no “right” way to wear a wedding band — it’s all about what feels right and special to you both.

To compare this to which finger you should wear your engagement ring on, check out our dedicated article. 

Everything you need to know about wedding bands

Keen to learn more about the different types of wedding bands? Read on to learn everything you need to know about these beautiful and symbolic rings. 

Metals

There are a range of metals to choose from when it comes to wedding bands. The following are the most popular ones…

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  • Gold. Gold is a classic choice for a wedding band. It’s beautiful, durable, and comes in a few different shades to suit any style! You’ve got yellow gold, which has that warm, traditional feel; white gold, which is sleek and modern; and rose gold, which adds a romantic, blush-toned twist. Gold is also a versatile metal, so you can choose different levels of purity depending on how durable you want it to be. For example, 14, 16, or 18 karat. 

 

  • White gold. We’ve separated white gold out from the above due to the specialist care it needs. White gold gets its gold appearance from a thin layer of rhodium plating, which gives it that bright, shiny, silver-like finish. Over time, the rhodium layer can wear off, especially if you wear your ring daily (which, let’s face it, most of us do!). To keep white gold looking its best, you’ll need to get it re-plated every few years. You should factor this maintenance into the overall cost of your ring. 

 

  • Platinum. Platinum is a fantastic choice if you’re looking for something that’s naturally white, incredibly strong, and hypoallergenic. Unlike white gold, platinum doesn’t need any plating to keep its colour, so it’s low-maintenance while still offering a luxurious, bright finish. It’s also noticeably heavier than gold and much more durable. Perfect for those who are heavy-handed. 

 

  • Silver. Silver gives you the same look as white gold and platinum at a fraction of the cost. While it’s not as durable as other metals, it’s a great choice if you’re looking for something stylish and budget-friendly. Bear in mind that to keep silver looking its best, it may need occasional polishing and maintenance.

 

  • Untraditional metals. Untraditional metals like titanium, iron, and tungsten are perfect if you’re after something a bit different with a modern edge. They all come with unique pros and cons, so be sure to thoroughly research these modern metals if you’re after something a little different. 

Stones

Although traditional wedding bands are usually plain, many couples choose to add stones for a touch of sparkle or a bit of personality. Read on to learn more about having stones in your wedding band.

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  • Diamonds. Diamonds are the classic go-to if you want a bit of sparkle in your wedding band. They’re incredibly durable and perfect for everyday wear. You could go with tiny diamonds set around the band for a subtle, elegant shimmer or a single diamond if you want a focal point that’s not too over-the-top. 

 

  • Coloured gemstones. If you like a pop of colour with your bling, consider coloured gemstones! Sapphires, emeralds, rubies, and even birthstones are a beautiful way to add a personal touch to your wedding band. Just keep in mind that some gemstones are a bit softer than diamonds, so they might need a little extra care if you’re wearing your band every day.

 

  • Natural stones. Natural stones like turquoise, pearl, and moonstone can add a unique, earthy vibe to your wedding band. However, these stones are often substantially softer than diamonds or other coloured gemstones, so do your research and make sure you’re prepared for the maintenance to come. 

 

  • Other natural materials. Lots of jewellers now offer services where they can capture other organic matter in resin and incorporate it into your wedding band for a truly one-of-a-kind piece. For example, sand from a favourite beach, a pressed flower from a memorable bouquet, or even a bit of wood from a meaningful forest. This option is perfect for couples who want to carry a piece of their shared history or a special memory with them every day.

Width

The width of your wedding ring is also important. This detail contributes a lot to the look, style, and feel of your ring, so it’s important to consider all your options when picking a width. 

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  • Thin. Thin bands are definitely the trend at the moment. They’re dainty, beautiful, and perfect for a minimalist look. Thin bands are great if you want something subtle that won’t overpower your engagement ring or if you’re just a fan of that delicate, barely-there vibe. However, thin bands aren’t as durable as thick rings, and can bend or even snap with everyday weather.

 

  • Medium width. A happy medium (pun not intended) between thin and thick bands, medium width bands offer the best of both worlds and a classic look. They’re substantial enough to feel sturdy and durable for everyday wear, yet not too bold or overpowering.

 

  • Thick. Chunky bands look best when worn alone or paired with a simple engagement ring. Thick bands are bold and eye-catching, perfect if you want a wedding band that stands out on its own. They’re also super durable and can handle everyday wear without worry, making them ideal for someone who leads an active lifestyle or works with their hands.

Style

The style of your wedding band will make a huge difference to the overall vibe of your ring, so it’s worth thinking about what really speaks to you. Consider the below when picking the style of your wedding band:

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  • Traditional. Traditional wedding bands are the traditional, rounded wedding bands we know and love. They have a slight curve to the top and a smooth, polished finish that gives off an elegant, timeless feel. This style is perfect if you’re a fan of simplicity and want a ring that will look classic forever.

 

  • Slight. A slight wedding band is a more delicate version of the traditional style. It’s slim, dainty, and has just a hint of curve, perfect if you want something subtle but still classic. Slight bands are ideal if you’re after that “barely there” look or if you’re planning to stack multiple rings together. 

 

  • Edge. Edge rings have a flatter, more modern style with a smooth top and a defined edge, giving them a sleek, contemporary look. This style is perfect if you want something a bit more structured but still understated. 

 

  • Wish. If you’re lucky enough to have an oval, marquise, or just downright big engagement ring gemstone that doesn’t quite fit with a straight band, a wishbone or “wish” band might be your new best friend! These bands have a subtle V-shape or curve, allowing them to sit perfectly around your engagement ring, creating a lovely, cohesive look. 

 

  • Curved. Slightly softer than a wish, curved wedding bands are designed to gently hug your engagement ring without a deep V shape. They’re ideal if your engagement ring has a setting that sits low or has a bit of an edge to it.

 

  • Art deco. Art deco rings are a dream if you love vintage glam and intricate designs. Think bold geometric patterns, milgrain details, and lots of character. Art deco bands often feature tiny stones or engraved patterns that give them a unique, glamorous look straight out of the Roaring Twenties. They’re perfect if you want something that feels like an heirloom or if you just love a bit of old-school charm with a modern twist. They come in lots of different shapes and styles, and look stunning either solo or paired with a simple engagement ring.

 

  • Twisted. A braided or ‘twisted’ wedding band style is known to present unity and togetherness — what could be more perfect for a wedding band? These rings usually have two or three strands intertwined, creating a look that’s both elegant and full of meaning. They add a touch of texture and look especially lovely with plain or slightly curved engagement rings. 

 

  • Floral. If you’re looking for something whimsical and beautiful, a floral wedding band might be just the thing. Floral bands feature delicate engravings or embossed patterns of leaves, vines, or flowers, adding a romantic, nature-inspired touch to your ring. Floral bands can be intricate and detailed, or bold and colourful, making them a lovely choice for a standalone piece or a charming addition next to a simple engagement ring.

 

  • Filigree. Filigree bands are all about delicate, intricate metalwork that adds an old-world charm to your wedding band. Think swirling patterns, lace-like designs, and lots of tiny details that give your ring a vintage feel. Filigree is perfect if you love the look of something ornate and timeless. It’s like wearing a tiny piece of art on your finger.

 

  • Engraved. For an ultra personal touch, engraved bands are the way to go. You can add initials, a meaningful date, a short phrase, or even a tiny symbol that has special meaning to you and your partner. It’s like a little secret message you carry with you every day, acting as a constant reminder of your special day.

Finish

The finish of your wedding band is just that — the finishing touch that pulls everything together. Below is a list of the most popular finishes for wedding bands you might want to consider. 

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  • Polished. A polished finish is a traditional, smooth, high-shine finish that gives your band a classic, mirror-like look. It’s sleek, timeless, and definitely makes a statement.

 

  • Satin. The satin finish is a smooth, semi-matte finish that offers a soft, elegant glow without the full shine of a polished band. It’s a great middle ground if you like a bit of sheen but want something more understated. Plus, it tends to hide little scratches well, so is brilliant for those who are heavy-handed. 

 

  • Matte. Matte finishes give your band a soft, velvety look without any reflection, so it feels effortlessly cool and sophisticated. It’s a modern and understated look, perfect for those who like something a little different. 

 

  • Brushed. Brushed finishes have a subtle texture with fine, directional lines that give the band a satin-like look with a bit of extra character. It’s ideal if you want a little more depth and texture without going for a full matte. 

 

  • Hammered. Hammered finishes bring a touch of rustic charm to your ring, with small, uneven dimples that create a unique, textured surface. Each “hammer” mark catches the light in a slightly different way, giving the metal a natural, organic look. This finish is perfect if you’re after something that feels handcrafted and one-of-a-kind. It’s rugged yet refined.

Top tips for wedding band shopping

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Keep these top tips in mind when you and your partner go wedding band shopping to find your perfect rings:

1) Keep your lifestyle in mind

Wearing your ring every day means it’ll impact every part of your lifestyle. If you’re an active person, or if you work a lot with your hands, you’ll want a ring that can stand up to the wear and tear. 

Equally, if you’re a little heavy-handed, durable metals like platinum or titanium, or even a hammered or matte finish, can help keep scratches at bay. For something extra tough, consider a comfort-fit band. It’s made to feel smooth and easy on your finger, so you can wear it all day, every day, with no fuss.

2) Set a budget beforehand

Wedding bands can be pricey, especially ones made of platinum or white gold, or those with inset stones. Having a budget in mind before you start ring shopping can help you stay focused and avoid getting swept away by options that are outside your price range. 

While some options can definitely add up, there are beautiful wedding bands out there for every budget. And don’t be afraid to try on a few styles slightly outside your range — you might just find “the one” that’s worth the splurge!

3) Think about future ring stacks

Eternity bands are traditionally given after the birth of a baby, to celebrate a milestone anniversary, or just because you feel like adding a little extra sparkle. If you’re already envisioning a ring stack for future occasions, go for a band that will play nicely with others. Thin, simple bands are perfect for building a stack, and they’ll let you add anniversary bands or other special rings over time.

4) Check the comfort

Sure — your wedding ring looks great on. But, can you pick up a handbag, use a pair of scissors, type on your keyboard, or even hold a pen without feeling like you need to take it off? 

Comfort is key when it comes to a ring you’ll wear daily. Try doing a few everyday tasks while wearing it. Wiggle your fingers, make a fist, and see how it feels. This ring is going to be on 24/7, so you need to be happy with it. 

5) Make it a date

Are there any other wedding activities you and your partner need to sort together? If so, you could make a fun day of this escapade, combining wedding band shopping with a few other to-dos. Check out that new coffee shop, go try on rings, and then pop by your cake tasting or suit fitting afterwards. 

Or, if it’s a more relaxed day, finish off with a celebratory lunch or even a quick toast to ticking another thing off the wedding list! Turning it into a mini date makes it feel special, and it’s a lovely way to make memories out of these pre-wedding moments.

Don’t forget to take some cute photos along the way!

Caring for your wedding bands

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Caring for your wedding bands will depend largely on the type of metal, style, finish, and thickness of the band. Speak to your jeweller for specialist care information related to your specific rings. 

General advice that applies to all rings can include:

1) Use a gentle soap and soft cloth to polish

If you wear something every day, you need to clean it — that’s a fact. A dirty ring can appear dull, scratched, and may even damage the ring over time. 

Use a mild soap like baby shampoo or fairy liquid in conjunction with a soft bristled toothbrush and a soft cloth to polish. Be sure to wash the soap off with fresh, clean water, before drying and polishing gently. 

2) Watch for perfume and hand cream build up

Perfume and hand cream can build up over time. But, not washing it off effectively may tarnish or damage your ring. Take your ring off once a month to give it a thorough clean. Consider washing it twice a month if you’re especially attentive with your hand cream or have a ring made of silver, white gold, or with precious stones. 

3) Take it for an annual MOT

Taking your wedding ring for an annual once-over with your jeweller can help keep it looking as good as new and catch any potential issues before they become bigger problems. 

Your jeweller can check for loose stones, worn prongs, and give it a professional clean and polish that at-home care just can’t match. Think of it as an investment towards keeping your band beautiful for the long haul. Plus, it’s always nice to see it shine like it did on day one.

Pick your perfect wedding band with Bridebook 

Your wedding ring is an everlasting symbol of your love. As a result, you want something that not only looks stylish, but is also designed to stand the test of time (no matter what you throw at it). Whether you’re heavy-handed, have a light touch, are committed to weekly cleaning, or prefer the natural look, there are wedding bands to suit every personality and lifestyle.

Finding your dream wedding band is simple with Bridebook. You can effortlessly browse our brilliant range of jewellers, message the ones who take your fancy, save your favourites in a handy ‘scrapbook’, and keep your ideas all in one place. Sign up for a free account today and start your wedding planning journey! 

50 Best Beach Wedding Ideas

What could be more romantic than getting married in the sight of a sandy beach and lapping ocean, amidst the warm glow of the setting sun? Beach weddings are the blueprint for a showstopping and unforgettable celebration.

If you’re looking for some inspiration for your coastal big day, look no further. We have 50 fun and creative beach wedding ideas to make your celebration as unique as your love story. From stunning decor to thoughtful touches, these ideas will help you bring the beauty and charm of the beach into every detail of your wedding day.

What is a beach wedding?

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A beach wedding can either be a wedding that you hold on the beach or a wedding with a beach theme. Beach weddings tend to take place in warm climates — think Spain, Italy, Greece, the Caribbean… However, a beach wedding can be held anywhere with willing participants and a sandy shore. 

The beauty of a beach wedding is that it blends the natural, laid-back charm of the ocean with the intimacy of a wedding. If you want a celebration that’s effortless, beautiful, and relaxed, a beach wedding could be just the thing. 

Can I get married on the beach in the UK?

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You need to be married at a licensed establishment with a registrar present to be legally married in the UK. Beaches themselves don’t qualify as a licensed establishment. However, hotels attached to private beaches, venues with beach-facing balconies, and beach-themed decor can offer a beautiful alternative. 

If you have your heart set on a beach vibe, you could have the legal ceremony at a nearby licensed venue and then head to the beach for a symbolic ceremony or reception. This way, you get the best of both worlds — making your dream of a beach wedding a reality while still following the legal requirements.

Beach wedding venue ideas

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Looking for some beach-themed wedding venue ideas? Look no further. Check out these 10 ideas for beach wedding venue ideas.

1) Beachside hotel

A beachside hotel offers all the beauty of a laid-back, casual beach wedding while still ticking all the legal boxes. Look out for venues that offer both indoor and outdoor spaces, so you have a backup plan in case the weather doesn’t cooperate. Many beachside hotels also offer wedding packages that include everything from catering to decor, making it easier for you to focus on enjoying your big day.

2) Oceanfront rooftop bar

What could be more glamorous than looking out over your own private terrace on an oceanfront rooftop bar? You can enjoy all the beauty of the ocean while staying a safe distance from any seafoam, flotsam, or jetsam. Plus, you’ll get some amazing cocktail hour photos of the sunset!

3) Beach blessing

If you’re struggling to find an actual beach-side wedding venue, consider having a traditional wedding in a church or registry office, then heading to the beach with your guests and a celebrant for the final blessing. This way, you get the best of both worlds — a formal ceremony and a relaxed post-ceremony celebration. 

4) Historic pier

You can find piers in most coastal or seaside towns for a unique and charming setting for your wedding. A historic pier adds a touch of nostalgia and romance to your special day, with the sound of waves below and the open sky above. 

Whether you choose to have your ceremony at the end of the pier or prefer to set up a reception area along it, a pier wedding is sure to be memorable and picturesque. Just be careful of any missing slats!

5) Yacht or boating club

Yachts and boating clubs usually have an attached function room, bar, or restaurant, making them the perfect place to host your wedding reception. These venues usually have great views of the water and a fun nautical theme, so you can embrace the maritime vibe for your big day. 

Pro tip: Be sure to check whether you can use your own caterers, or whether you need to use their in-house staff. You wouldn’t want to be surprised by any restrictions at the last minute. 

6) Destination wedding

If all else fails and you can’t find a beach-side venue that you like in the UK, you can always go abroad. Destination weddings are more popular than ever, with 32% of weddings happening outside the UK. Mediterranean countries like Italy, Greece, and Spain are the most popular options. But, don’t discount more niche locals like the Canary Islands, Malta, or Croatia, which offer stunning coastlines and beautiful weather, often at a more affordable price. 

7) Beach glamping site

You can find a ton of charming beach glamping sites that offer a unique blend of rustic charm and seaside beauty. These venues are perfect for couples who love the great outdoors but still want some of the comforts of home.

These venues will usually work with you to create the perfect wedding reception. Looking for tipis or yurts? They may be able to help. Fancy a hog roast or barbecue? No problem, let them do the work! But, equally, they’re likely to be pretty flexible when it comes to your own vendors, especially if they’re a family-run site. 

8) Nature reserve

Nature reserves offer a stunning, untouched setting for your wedding, surrounded by the beauty of protected landscapes. The only downside is you may find yourself exposed to the elements, especially in the rainy UK! 

A happy medium would be to choose a nature reserve with sheltered areas or nearby indoor options that allow you to enjoy the natural beauty without worrying about the weather. You could have your ceremony outdoors with the stunning scenery as your backdrop and then move to a cosy, rustic lodge or pavilion for the reception. 

9) Aquarium

Aquariums offer a true ‘Under the Sea’ feel while keeping you and your guests dry and comfortable. It’s a magical, one-of-a-kind setting that’s sure to wow your guests and create unforgettable memories.

Many aquariums also have event spaces with large tanks or underwater tunnels, so you can continue the oceanic theme throughout your reception. Plus, since aquariums are typically indoors, you won’t have to worry about the weather at all — perfect for the unpredictable UK climate!

10) Tiki-themed wedding

Tiki-themed weddings are a fun way to bring the beach vibes if you can’t actually get near a beach. Say you live in a landlocked area or haven’t been to the beach in years, but you still want to capture that tropical, beachy feel — well, a tiki-themed wedding could be just the ticket! You can transform your venue with bamboo decorations, tiki torches, and vibrant floral arrangements. 

Serve up tropical cocktails in coconut cups and have your guests dance to some island-inspired tunes. It’s all about creating a relaxed, festive atmosphere that makes everyone feel like they’ve escaped to a beach paradise, even if you’re miles from the ocean.

Beach wedding dress ideas

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Looking for some ideas of what to wear to a beach-themed wedding? Check out this list of the best beach wedding dress ideas. 

For brides

11) Floaty boho dress

Floaty boho wedding dresses are very in vogue right now. They’re bohemian, beautiful, and suit a variety of skin tone and body types. Plus, they’re perfect for a beach setting! The lightweight, airy fabric will keep you cool, and the relaxed style complements the laid-back vibe of a seaside wedding. 

Think flowing skirts, lace details, and maybe even a hint of fringe. These dresses move beautifully in the ocean breeze, making for some stunning photos too!

12) A simple slip dress

You can’t go wrong with a simple slip dress. A slip dress is sleek, elegant, and effortlessly chic. It’s the perfect blend of sophistication and ease, making it ideal for a beach wedding. The minimalist design not only looks stunning, but also allows you to move freely and stay comfortable throughout the day. Pair it with some delicate shell jewellery, a light shawl, or even a floral crown for a touch of whimsy. 

13) A light coloured suit

If you aren’t a fan of wedding dresses but still want to lean into the beach wedding vibe, a light-coloured suit could be just what you’re looking for. A soft beige, light grey, or even a pale pastel suit can give you a fresh, modern look while still keeping things relaxed and comfortable. The light colours are perfect for reflecting the sun, keeping you cool, and blending beautifully with the natural beach surroundings. 

Pair it with a simple blouse or camisole, and finish the look with some stylish sandals or espadrilles.

14) Anything chiffon

If none of these are up your street, anything chiffon will ensure you’re bang on theme. Remember, this is your big day, and you should wear whatever makes you feel most comfortable. 

Not a fan of white? Opt for blue, pink, or sage green. Prefer the cut of a tea-length dress or a flowy maxi? Go for it! The most important thing is that you feel like the best version of yourself on your special day. Chiffon is a fantastic choice because of its light, breezy quality that suits the beach perfectly, and it comes in a variety of styles and colours to match your personal taste.

For grooms

15) Casual button down and chinos

A casual button down and chinos is a classic choice for an understated wedding. Opt for light, breathable fabrics like linen or cotton to keep cool under the sun. You can roll up the sleeves for an extra laid-back vibe, and pair the outfit with boat shoes or even go barefoot for a true beach feel. Add a splash of personality with a colourful tie, patterned pocket square, or fun suspenders to complete the look.

16) Linen suit

Look crisp and clean in a linen suit. Try light colours like crema, beige, or light grey, and opt for a tailored fit that’s comfortable yet stylish.

Pair your suit with a crisp white shirt or a pastel-coloured one for a pop of colour that complements the beach setting. Finish off the look with loafers or even stylish sandals, and don’t be afraid to go tieless for a more relaxed, beachy vibe.

17) Suspenders and bow tie

Hey, what’s the point in having a laid-back wedding if you can’t have a little fun? This combination is perfect for a groom who wants to keep things lighthearted while still looking put-together.

Choose suspenders in a bold colour or pattern that contrasts nicely with a simple button-down shirt and chinos, or even shorts if you’re going for a super casual vibe. Pair them with a quirky bow tie that shows off your personality, and you’ll have a look that’s both fun and stylish.

For guests

18) A floral maxi dress

A floral maxi dress is always a safe bet for wedding guests’ attire. Choose a cut and shape that you feel comfortable in, then pick a pattern that reflects the vibrant and joyful atmosphere of a beach wedding. 

The flowing fabric of a maxi dress will keep you cool and comfortable, and the floral design adds a touch of elegance while still embracing the relaxed beach vibe. Pair it with some strappy sandals and a wide-brimmed hat, and you’ll be all set for the day.

19) A cotton sundress

A cotton sundress can mean a perfect blend of comfort and style for a beach wedding. It’s lightweight, breathable, and effortlessly chic, making it an ideal choice for staying cool under the sun. Choose a sundress in a bright colour or playful pattern to match the festive beach atmosphere. You can dress it up with some simple jewellery and a pair of cute wedges or keep it casual with flat sandals. Either way, you’ll look and feel great as you celebrate the happy couple.

20) Tropical print shirt and shorts

Lean into the tiki vibes with a tropical print shirt and shorts combo. This look is perfect for anyone who wants to keep things fun and casual while staying cool on the beach. Opt for a vibrant Hawaiian shirt with bold patterns or palm prints, and pair it with well-fitted shorts in a neutral colour to balance the look. Finish off with some comfortable sandals or boat shoes, and maybe even throw on a straw hat and you’re good to go! Just make sure it fits the wedding dress code. 

Beach wedding entertainment ideas

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21) A steel drum player

The uplifting sound of a steel drum is a staple of any island or beach-themed wedding. They’re undeniably distinctive, fun, and are sure to get the party going. Try looking on social media or wedding entertainment platforms to find talented steel drum players in your area. Many musicians are willing to travel, so don’t hesitate to reach out even if they’re not local. 

A steel drum player can set the perfect tone for your ceremony or cocktail hour, bringing that authentic tropical vibe to your special day.

22) Message in a bottle crafting

Set up a craft station with a “Message in a Bottle” activity for your guests. Provide small bottles, colourful paper, and pens, and invite your guests to write down their well-wishes, marriage advice, or favourite memories of you as a couple. They can then roll up their messages and place them in the bottles. Keep them as a special memory from your big day, and maybe consider opening them on special anniversaries? This is a great wedding guest book alternative!

23) Photobooth with beachy props 

A photobooth is a classic and foolproof wedding entertainment idea. You can either have a company come and set up your photobooth (there are plenty of professional photobooths right here on Bridebook, who will supply everything you need) or DIY it. To DIY your wedding photobooth, you’ll need a backdrop, a camera or smartphone with a tripod, and plenty of fun, beachy props. Think along the lines of seashell crowns, oversized sunglasses, straw hats, inflatable palm trees, and even a surfboard cutout. 

You can set up the backdrop near the shore or under a tiki hut to really capture the beach vibes. Guests will love taking silly photos, and you’ll end up with a collection of fun memories from your big day.

24) Sandcastle building contest

This one will take a little more forward planning, but a sandcastle building contest can be a super fun and interactive activity that brings out everyone’s inner child. You can provide buckets, shovels, and other tools for your guests, or even ask them to bring their own. Set a time limit, and let the creativity flow! You can have different categories like “Most Creative,” “Tallest Castle,” or “Best Team Effort,” with small prizes for the winners.

This activity is great for all ages, and it gives your guests a chance to mingle and work together. Plus, it’s a fantastic way to make the most of your beach setting. By the end of the contest, you’ll have a beach full of beautiful sand creations, adding to the fun and festive atmosphere of your wedding day.

25) Ice cream van or cart

Do we really need to explain this one? Your guests will go wild for a classic ice cream van or cart at your beach wedding! It’s a nostalgic, crowd-pleasing treat that adds a playful touch to your celebration. You can even personalise the ice cream menu to include your favourite flavours or offer fun options like sundaes and cones.

Having an ice cream van or cart is not only a delicious way to keep everyone refreshed, but it also creates a laid-back, summer vibe that perfectly complements a beach wedding. Whether it’s a mid-afternoon treat or a sweet surprise during the reception, an ice cream stop is sure to be a hit with guests of all ages.

Pro tip: Have an ice cream van or cart instead of formal puddings. It’s more interactive, personalised, and will probably save you a lot of money on catering costs too! 

26) Fireworks display

A fireworks display is another classic choice for ending your beach wedding with a bang — literally! As the night falls and your celebration begins to wind down, surprise your guests with a dazzling fireworks display over the ocean. 

The reflection of the fireworks on the water adds an extra layer of magic, creating a truly unforgettable moment. It’s a spectacular way to close out your special day, leaving everyone in awe as they watch the sky light up in vibrant colours. Plus, the photos will be spectacular!

27) Floating lantern release

Have you seen those floating lantern releases that always go viral on social media? This could be one of them. Hand out biodegradable lanterns, and invite everyone to jot down a wish or a message before releasing their lantern into the sky or over the ocean.

As the lanterns drift away, glowing softly against the twilight, everyone will be caught up in the peaceful, enchanting vibe. It’s the perfect way to bring a sense of calm and reflection to the end of your day, balancing out the excitement of the earlier fireworks. And honestly, just imagine the incredible photos you’ll get!

Pro tip: Some venues won’t allow this kind of entertainment for environmental reasons. Be sure to check if you have your heart set on this type of display. Equally, you need to be conscious that the lanterns you’re releasing are 100% biodegradable, including all their structuring. Nothing will kill the vibe of your wedding like causing a small environmental disaster. 

28) Sea-themed face painting

This may not be for everyone, but a beach wedding with sea-themed face painting can add a playful and creative touch, especially if you have kids attending — or guests who are young at heart! Think colourful mermaid scales, starfish designs, or even simple waves and shells. Hire a talented face painter who can bring these ocean-inspired designs to life, or set up a DIY station with stencils and safe, easy-to-use face paints.

It’s a fun way for guests to get into the beachy spirit, and the face paint will look fantastic in photos, adding an extra layer of whimsy to your wedding album. Plus, it’s a great icebreaker that gets everyone mingling and having fun.

29) Beach scavenger hunt

A scavenger hunt is a great way to get everyone on their feet and exploring the beach. You can create a list of items or clues related to the beach setting — like a unique seashell, a piece of driftwood, or a hidden message in a bottle — and send your guests off in teams to find them. It’s a fantastic way to break the ice and encourage guests to mingle while enjoying the beautiful surroundings.

You can even offer a small prize for the winning team, adding a bit of friendly competition to the mix. This activity is especially great for families and kids, making sure everyone has a fabulous time at your wedding.

30) Beach-themed cocktail making

Everyone will love a beach-themed cocktail at your wedding. But, how about shaking things up (pun fully intended) and having guests create their own based on your expert recipe? Set up a DIY cocktail-making station with all the ingredients and tools needed to create a signature beach-themed drink. Provide a few recipe cards for inspiration — like a classic mojito, a tropical piña colada, or a zesty margarita — and let your guests get creative with their concoctions.

You can even add a twist by offering a contest for the best cocktail creation, with guests voting on their favourite mix. It’s a fun, interactive way to keep the party lively, and it gives everyone a chance to show off their bartending skills (or just have a good laugh trying).

Beach wedding cake ideas

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31) Naked cake with tropical flowers

Naked cakes are very popular at the moment for their understated, minimal design. Naked cakes are a cake where the layers are lightly iced or left exposed, giving them a rustic, natural look that’s perfect for a beach wedding. To add a tropical twist, decorate your naked cake with vibrant, fresh flowers like hibiscus, orchids, or even a few palm leaves. 

32) Naked cake with seashells

As above, consider decorating your naked cake with edible seashells for a fun, beachy vibe. Imagine delicate seashells made of white chocolate or fondant, nestled between the layers of your cake. You can even add a touch of “sand” using crushed graham crackers or brown sugar sprinkled around the base. It’s a beautiful way to tie in the seaside theme while keeping that trendy, minimal look.

33) Ombre beach waves cake

This one will take a little more design work, but the result is absolutely stunning. An ombre beach wave cake features layers of icing that fade from deep ocean blue at the base to soft, sandy hues at the top, mimicking the look of waves crashing onto the shore. 

You can enhance the effect with subtle wave patterns in the icing and even add some small, edible decorations like sugar starfish, pearls, or tiny seashells. It’s a showstopper that will have your guests talking — and taking lots of pictures!

34) Tropical fruit cake

Tropical fruit cakes are cakes made with the flavours of kiwi, passion fruit, mangoes, or pineapple, bringing a burst of the tropics to every bite. Imagine a light, airy cake layered with tropical fruit jam fillings, and topped with a colourful array of fresh fruits. You can keep it neat and elegant with perfectly arranged fruit slices or get a bit playful with a cascade of fruit spilling down the side of the cake. Maybe even add a sprinkle of powdered sugar or a drizzle of honey to make those vibrant colours pop!

This kind of cake doesn’t just look amazing — it’s also super refreshing, which is perfect for a warm beach day. Plus, it’s a great way to showcase seasonal and local fruits, making your cake even more special.

35) Pearl-embellished cake

Pearl-embellished cakes are the perfect addition to an understated, beach-themed wedding. Opt for a cake that’s iced with plain buttercream and then stud with edible pearls for a touch of elegance and seaside charm. The pearls can be delicately placed to mimic the look of a string of pearls or scattered like tiny treasures found on the shore. It’s a subtle yet beautiful way to bring in the beach theme without going overboard.

36) Sailboat cake

Sailboat cakes are a little more ‘on theme’, and would best suit a beach wedding with a nautical flair. This cake is perfect for couples who love the sea and want to incorporate a bit of that adventurous, maritime spirit into their wedding. It’s fun, creative, and definitely makes a statement.

Alternatively, you could keep it more low-key and use the colours of a sailboat. For example, light blue, dark blue, and white. This subtle nod to the nautical theme can be just as impactful and ties everything together beautifully without being too over-the-top. You could even add a few small, elegant touches like a thin navy ribbon around each tier or a simple anchor cake topper to keep the theme going.

37) Underwater colours cake

Similarly to the ombre beach waves cake, an underwater colour cake can bring the deep blues and greens of the ocean to life on your dessert table. Imagine a cake that starts with rich, deep blue at the base and gradually fades into lighter shades of aqua and turquoise as it reaches the top. You could add hints of seaweed-like swirls, coral patterns, or even tiny edible fish swimming around the layers.

38) Seashell cupcakes

If you aren’t a fan of large scale or traditional wedding cakes, consider choosing muffins or cupcakes as your wedding cake. This way, everyone can pick their own little piece of sweetness, and you can still keep the beachy theme going strong. Seashell cupcakes are a perfect option — they’re adorable, easy to serve, and can be customised to fit your wedding’s colour palette.

Your seashells can either be made of fondant, chocolate, or marzipan, depending on your tastes. We recommend you keep them edible to prevent any surprises when your guests take a bite! 

39) Coconut cake

Coconut cake is delicious, effortlessly tropical, and perfect for a beach wedding. The light, fluffy texture combined with the sweet taste of fresh coconut make for the perfect wedding cake. To elevate the tropical vibes, consider adding layers of tangy lime curd or a rich passion fruit filling between the coconut layers. This not only adds a burst of flavour, but also gives the cake a beautiful, vibrant look when sliced. Decorate with a few tropical flowers or some desiccated coconut, and you’re good to go!

40) Edible sand cake

Don’t knock it until you’ve tried it! Edible sand can be made from brown sugar, crushed digestive biscuits, chopped almonds, or a combination of all three for a deliciously sweet and crunchy texture. Tailor your edible sand to the flavours of the cake for a cohesive look and taste.

You can either cover your cake in edible sand by sticking it to the icing, or sprinkle it around the base of each tier to create the illusion of a cake resting on a sandy beach. For an extra touch of creativity, consider sculpting little mounds of ‘sand’ on top of the cake and nestling tiny edible seashells, pearls, or even a fondant starfish in them.

Beach wedding decor ideas

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41) Underwater-themed centrepieces

The beauty of underwater-themed wedding table centrepieces is that they can be as understated or overt as you’d like. Prefer something more low-key? Try filling glass vases with water, a few floating candles, and some subtle accents like seashells or smooth pebbles at the bottom.

If you’re feeling a bit more adventurous, you can go all out with tall vases filled with blue-tinted water, faux coral, and colourful fish figurines. Add some fairy lights around the base for a soft glow that mimics sunlight filtering through the water. You can also use small LED lights inside the vases to create an illuminated effect that’s sure to catch your guests’ eyes!

42) Message in a bottle place settings

Message in a bottle place settings are a simple but effective way to help everyone find their seats. Simply write each guest’s name and table number on a small scroll of paper, roll it up, and tuck it inside a miniature glass bottle. You can even add a sprinkle of sand or a tiny seashell inside for an extra beachy touch.

Place these bottles on the tables or in a designated spot where guests can easily find them. If you have extra time, consider writing your guests a sweet message to thank them for attending and how grateful you are for their support in your relationship. It’ll catch them by surprise and be a sweet addition to your big day.

43) Lobster trap and anchor decor

If you’re really looking to hit the nail on the head of the beach theme, lobster traps and anchor decor will really bring that coastal vibe to life. They don’t have to be real lobster traps or anchors (which can be large and very heavy). But, you can find or create charming replicas that capture the essence without the bulk. 

Adorn them with driftwood, fairy lights, seashells, and even a few sprigs of greenery or flowers to soften the look and tie it all together. 

44) Sand from your favourite beaches

This one will take some forward planning, but is a great way to have a piece of your favourite places on your wedding day. Simply collect small amounts of sand from beaches that hold special meaning to you — perhaps where you first met, where you got engaged, or any special holidays you’ve been on.

Once you’ve gathered your sand, display it in small glass jars or vials with labels indicating the location each sample comes from. These jars can be arranged as part of your decor, whether near your guest book or as centrepieces, giving your guests a glimpse into the special places that have shaped your love story. 

If you don’t mind them being mixed, try layering your sand samples in a single, larger glass vessel to create a beautiful and unique keepsake that represents all of your cherished memories together. Write any place names on the outside in permanent marker and consider including the year you visited that beach for a special touch. 

45) Tropical flowers

You can’t go wrong with beautiful tropical flower arrangements as your decor. They’re bold, beautiful, and instantly bring that vibrant, beachy vibe to your wedding. Think of flowers like hibiscus, orchids, bird of paradise, and frangipani — these exotic blooms come in a variety of bright, cheerful colours that are perfect for a seaside celebration.

You can use them in your bouquet, centrepieces, decorations, on top of cakes — wherever your heart desires. 

46) Tropical fruit arrangements

Similarly to the above, tropical fruit arrangements are a creative and unique way to bring the tropic, beachy vibes to your big day. Picture tables decorated with simple yet vibrant displays of pineapples, mangoes, papayas, and coconuts, mixed with bright oranges and limes. You can add a bit of flair with passion fruits, dragon fruits, and star fruits, making the table look as good as it tastes.

These fruit arrangements aren’t just for show — they can double as edible centrepieces, offering your guests a refreshing snack throughout the event. You could keep it straightforward by placing the fruits in bowls or on tiered stands, or get a bit creative by carving out a pineapple to hold colourful fruit skewers. It’s a laid-back, practical way to bring a taste of the tropics to your wedding.

47) Sea glass aisle runner

Using sea glass as an aisle runner is a unique and fun way to bring the beach to your big day. The beauty of sea glass is that no two pieces are alike, so you’ll have a truly one-of-a-kind aisle that reflects the natural beauty of the ocean.

You can scatter the sea glass along a traditional fabric runner for a touch of sparkle, or get even more creative by using a clear runner with the sea glass underneath, making it look like you’re walking on a path of jewels.

Of course, it’s going to take you a while to collect enough sea glass to run alongside the aisle. Make sure you start early if you plan to use this decor option. You can also buy sea glass online to supplement any glass you find. This is a perfect backup plan in case you don’t gather enough in time. 

48) Ocean-coloured confetti

Ocean-coloured confetti includes a mix of sea green, blue, white, navy, sky blue, and soft turquoise hues that mimic the colours of the ocean. Find companies that allow you to create a mishmash of wedding confetti and have your guests throw it over you as you leave your ceremony. It’s the perfect subtle way to incorporate the colours of the beach into your big day while still adding a touch of fun and celebration.

Pro tip: Make sure any confetti is biodegradable to prevent any harm to the environment, especially if you’re getting married near the beach. This way, you can enjoy the beautiful moment without worrying about leaving anything behind but happy memories.

49) Nautical rope lanterns

If your venue allows for it, consider hanging nautical rope lanterns to add a cosy, seaside glow to your wedding. These lanterns, crafted from thick, twisted rope, can be hung from tree branches, tent poles, or even set on tables to create a warm, inviting ambiance. The soft light filtering through the rope will cast gentle shadows, mimicking the feel of a beachside evening as the sun dips below the horizon.

For an extra creative twist, you can weave small seashells, starfish, or even tiny pieces of sea glass into the ropes. This adds a personal, beachy touch to each lantern and ties them perfectly into your overall theme. 

50) Beach stone place settings

Simple but effective, beach stone place settings are a wonderful way to add a natural, coastal touch to your wedding decor. Gather smooth, flat stones from your favourite beach or purchase them online, and use them as unique place cards for your guests. You can write each guest’s name on a stone using a fine-tip paint pen or a metallic marker for a touch of elegance.

Plan your perfect beach wedding with Bridebook

Planning your perfect beach wedding is easier than you may think. While it may seem like a mammoth task, pulling together your dream venue, dress, entertainment, cake, decor, and all the other little extra touches, will really come together beautifully with the right tools and a bit of inspiration. Plus, with Bridebook, you have everything you need at your fingertips.

Whether you’re dreaming of a casual, barefoot ceremony or an elegant seaside affair, we’re here to help you navigate every detail with ease. Sign up for your free account today and make your dream beach wedding a reality!

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Real Wedding Stories: Cynical Single to Engagement Party Pro

If I’m being completely honest, I never dreamed of getting married.

I was never the little girl who planned every detail of her big day or who walked around with a pillowcase on their head. In fact, it was quite the opposite. I had very serious conversations with ex-boyfriends where I told them, “You have to be ok with me never wanting to get married. It’s just who I am”. I thought weddings were a waste of money, a loss of independence, and, quite frankly, a loss of identity. 

But, that didn’t deter the all-knowing, ever present nay-sayers in my life. They loved telling me how it would all change when I met ‘the one’, that I’d soon see the error of my ways, and that ‘they were just like me at my age’. 

Naturally I knew better. I knew I would never change my mind, and that I would happily live my life as Miss Independent and never be defeated by a bad man or an American stick insect. I was happy being Miss Jones forever. 

Then I met Tom, and he was everything you read about in books. He’s kind, sweet, clever, funny, and undoubtedly the very best half of me. I can’t imagine my life without Tom in it, so when he asked me to marry him in the same place we had our first date, there was only one answer. 

Wedding planning has been a dream I never want to wake up from. I keep telling friends I don’t want it to end, in spite of the end being our actual wedding day! I’m truly trying to make the most of this time, soaking up every aspect, and letting my “too much” gene run riot. 

This brings us happily to how I planned our engagement party. It was surprisingly easier than I thought, and probably took around two months of intermittent planning around my busy full-time job as an HR professional and part-time job as a rabbit parent. Let’s jump into the steps I took, all my considerations, and, of course, the cost!

Step 1: The venue

Location: Our house

Cost: Free

I wanted to keep our engagement party as budget-friendly as possible, considering we now have a wedding to pay for! I reached out to a few locations who were asking upwards for £2,000 just to rent their venue, not inclusive of food or drinks. This didn’t feel reasonable or feasible to us for what was meant to be quite an informal affair. 

Luckily, we (and that’s a royal we, to clarify, because I didn’t do anything) have just finished renovating our first home. We have a lovely open plan kitchen/dining room with big bright windows which lead out onto our patio. It’s the perfect spot for hosting, and we were so excited to be able to show off our new house to our family and friends. Plus, it’s free (if we forget about the mortgage!).

Step 2: The decor

We used: Ginger Ray Party Supplies

Cost: Around £120

I wanted a pinky, rose-goldy, girly theme for the engagement party (sorry Tom!). I explored a few different options for party supplies, but I liked the style of Ginger Ray’s products and appreciated that their website was sorted according to party type, theme, and colour scheme. This made it easy to navigate all the rose-gold and pink options, and helped me envision what the big day would look like.

I opted for 2x pink balloon arch kits (on sale for £10 each), an ‘Engaged’ balloon banner, a pre-inflated pack of helium balloons in the shape of champagne bottles and stars, “Mr & Mrs” Confetti and a variety of paper cups, plates, and napkins. Overall it came to £120, which I split with my partner.

Considering I have no experience, I’m pretty pleased with how things turned out. I built the balloon arch myself, using glue dots to stick the balloons to the wall. The ‘Engaged’ balloon banner was easy to work with, and I was able to scatter the confetti around haphazardly. I built the balloon arch the night before and it still looked perfect the next day.

Step 3: The food

We booked: Millie’s Grazing

Cost: £20 per head

Guests should always leave a party well-fed and well-watered, so I was passionate that I wanted good food and lots of it. We worked with Millie’s Grazing, a grazing table company covering the North West and North Wales. Jas (not Millie!) was a pleasure to work with, setting up over the course of 1.5-2 hours and chatting with me and Tom the whole time. Jas and I chatted in the weeks leading up to the party about dietary requirements, preferences, and what kind of space she would need for the most effective display. 

We set up the table in the main party room so guests could see it as soon as they walked in. We catered for 40 people with a guest list of around 50, and there was plenty of food for everybody. Many even went back for a second plate! Everyone commented on how delicious the food was, and the display was an absolute show-stopper. I can’t recommend Jas enough. In fact, we liked her so much that we’re using her for the evening buffet of our wedding!

Side note: As much as we loved it, this was undoubtedly the biggest expense of our engagement party. If you aren’t planning to have a caterer, your engagement party will be much more reasonably priced. 

Step 4: The sweets

We had: Single tiered cake and iced biscuits

Cost: Around £50

It’s difficult for me to say exactly how much this section costs, as I made the cake and iced the biscuits myself. As an avid baker, I had a lot of the ingredients and equipment already, meaning the upfront cost of these treats was relatively low. However, I estimate it would cost around £50 to buy all the equipment and ingredients needed from new.

I’m not willing to pay for anything I can do myself, so when I was quoted £80 for a cake and £160 for 80 iced biscuits, I thought to myself, “Not a chance”. I baked the cake myself on a Thursday, did a crumb coat on the Friday, and iced the cake Saturday morning before the guests arrived. It was a 3-layered victoria sponge, sandwiched with strawberry jam and covered in Betty Crocker’s vanilla buttercream. I reserved a tub of buttercream to mix with pink food colouring, and piped small rosettes along the outside edge of the cake and where the cake meets the silver cake board. I also iced our names on top, and stored it in the fridge until it was ready to serve. I don’t have a photo of the cake because it was quickly devoured before I got the chance to take it!

The biscuits were a hack I saw from TikTok. I bought 60 M&S butter biscuits and searched ‘M&S personalised Icing Cutter’ on Etsy. I was able to buy a personalised icing cutter with our initials and the date we got engaged on for around £8. I paid a little extra for fast shipping. Once it arrived, I cut out little discs of fondant icing, stamped them with the Etsy stamp, and attached them to the biscuits with a thin layer of strawberry jam. I dusted them with some edible gold lustre I purchased on Amazon, and voilà! Everyone commented on how professional they looked, and I think I may now have an accidental side-hustle as a biscuit maker for my friend’s events!

Step 5: The drinks

We had: Prosecco, beer, and soft drinks

Cost: Around £120

You can’t go wrong with prosecco, beer, and soft drinks. It really does offer something for everyone and keeps things simple. I sent Tom on a mission to Aldi the morning of the party to buy 10 bottles of prosecco, some boxes of bottled beer, and fizzy drinks like Fanta & Coke (or whatever the Aldi equivalent is). I’d estimate we paid around £120 for all the drinks, and they were nice to have, but a lot of guests (especially the younger ones) weren’t expecting to be given free drinks. I’d say 80% of guests showed up with what they intended to drink, so if you’re on a budget, you can probably skip this step. 

Step 6: The fit

Tom wore: White t-shirt, open button-up shirt, shorts, and white trainers

Cost: Nothing, as they were already in his wardrobe

Medi wore: Vinted Meshki dress, white bow heels, pearl headband

Cost: £60 for the dress, £12.99 for the headband, shoes were a gift

Now we move on to the all-important outfit! I cannot recommend Vinted enough as a means for finding second-hand wedding gear. Looking at Meshki’s website, my dress should have been £120 new, but I was able to snag it for just under £60 including postage. I bought my dress from a lovely lady who wore it in the evening of her wedding and no longer had a need for it. I also plan to wear this dress on the evening of my wedding, and then I might sell it on again à la Sisterhood of The Travelling Meshki Dress.

The shoes were a (very generous) gift from my partner. They were my dream wedding shoes and I couldn’t be more grateful for them. I plan to wear them on my hen parties, the evening of our wedding, and any bridal activities that demand heels. 

My hairband was a simple pearl headband I found on ASOS. I just googled ‘Pearl headband’ and scrolled until I found one I liked. I’ve worn it a few times since so it’s definitely a versatile piece. 

Tom’s outfit was the definition of smart casual crossed with boujee garden party. He didn’t buy a new outfit for the party, so don’t feel like you need to!

Step 7: The invites

What we did: Texted people

Cost: Free!

Ok, ok. I know it’s not the most aesthetic, but it really was the quickest and easiest way to get the message across. We’d already created our wedding guest list (thanks to Bridebook’s handy wedding guest list tool!), so we already had an idea of who we’d invite to our engagement party. We simply let them know the date, time, rough dress code, and let them know how excited we were to celebrate with them. 

Step 8: The music

What we did: Speaker & Spotify

Cost: Free!

Cheap and cheerful, we moved the speaker from our television into the party room and connected our phone via Bluetooth. We played a generic ‘Summer Songs’ playlist to get the party started, and as the night progressed, we switched to a mix of dance songs and 90s bangers. The best part was that everyone could add their favourite songs to the queue, making it a more fun and personalised experience. 

And there you have it! That was our engagement party. We spent around £1,000 to bring it all together, but you could reduce the cost massively by making your own food or choosing  more low-key decor. The key takeaway here is that it’s entirely possible to create a beautiful and memorable event on a budget, with a little bit of creativity and resourcefulness.

Now the engagement part is over, we’ve moved on to wedding planning. Wish us luck!

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How to Plan a Beach Wedding

Are you dreaming of a serene coastal wedding, surrounded by the gentle sound of lapping waves and the sand between your toes? You’re in the right place. In case you couldn’t tell, we love weddings, and beach weddings are among our favourites! The natural beauty of the seaside creates an idyllic backdrop for your special day, whether you’re planning an intimate gathering or a grand celebration.

From choosing the perfect beach wedding venue to adding those personal touches that make your day uniquely yours, we’ve got you covered. We’ll guide you through every step of the process, ensuring your beach wedding is as smooth and stress-free as possible.

Ready to start planning your dream beach wedding? Let’s dive (pun not intended) in and create a seaside celebration that you and your guests will cherish forever. Here’s how to make your coastal wedding dreams a reality.

What is a beach wedding?

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A beach wedding is a wedding ceremony or reception held on the sandy shores of your favourite beach. Beach weddings are beautiful, low-key, and perfect for couples who want a relaxed atmosphere on their big day. 

The great thing about beach weddings is they’re brilliantly versatile. They can be as casual as a barefoot ceremony, with just a few close friends and family, or as elaborate as a decorated event with all the trimmings.

Can I get legally married on a beach?

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Yes, you can get legally married on a beach, provided that the beach is part of a legally licensed wedding venue. But, if you’d like to get married in a more rural location, or you aren’t sure whether your venue is licensed, you could always get legally married before the ceremony, then have a blessing on the beach before moving on to a celebration at another location. This way, you can enjoy the scenic beauty of the beach for your ceremony without worrying about the legalities.

How popular are beach weddings?

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Beach and destination weddings are extremely popular among today’s couples. According to Bridebook’s 2024 Engagement Report, a whopping 32% of couples are planning their wedding outside the UK. Italy and Greece are the most popular destinations, with 24% of those couples looking to get married in Italy, and another 20% looking to get hitched in Greece. Spain and Cyprus are also high on the list, with France, Vegas, and Mexico making honourable mentions. 

Although some of these destination weddings may be taking place in historic chateaus, beautiful villas, or charming local chapels, many of these couples will be opting for relaxed beach weddings on golden sands. 

How to plan the perfect beach wedding

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Ready to start planning your dream beach wedding? Here are some tips to help you create a perfect seaside celebration.

Step 1: Sign up to Bridebook

First things first — you need to sign up to Bridebook. 

Bridebook is your one-stop-shop for all things wedding planning. From the handy guest list planner to preferential rates on vendors, our easy-to-use app has everything you need to plan your dream wedding. Sign up for your free account today and start exploring all the tools and resources available to make your beach wedding planning a breeze!

Step 2: Set a budget

Although it isn’t as glamorous as shopping for a dress or designing your invitations, setting a budget is a key part of wedding planning. Your budget will determine every aspect of your wedding, from the venue to the flowers to the food. We know it’s tempting not to keep track of spending, but small purchases add up quickly, and it’s important to keep an eye on your budget to avoid any surprises.

Bridebook’s built-in budget planning tool is perfect for helping you keep on track with spending. This handy tool will break your overall budget down into common spending categories like the venue, catering, cake, dress, rings and more, before asking you to record what you’ve actually spent and letting you know where you’re up to on your budget. You can also customise every aspect of your budget. For example, if you’re getting your cake for free because your friend is making it, or if you’re using family heirlooms for your wedding bands.  It’s easy to plan exactly what you’re going to spend and your current outgoings with Bridebook. 

Step 3: Set a date

The next step is to pick your date. Beach weddings are best planned in the late spring or early summer. This will give you the best chance of enjoying the beautiful weather without it being too warm. 

Be sure to check the local weather if you’re planning a destination wedding. Make sure your chosen date aligns with the best weather forecasts for that country. For example, countries like the Maldives or the Caribbean have rainy seasons, whichyou’ll want to avoid. Choosing a date during the off-peak season can also be a good idea, as it might be less crowded and potentially more affordable.

Picking your date means you have something to work towards and can start making concrete plans. With a set date, you can begin booking your venue, sending out save-the-dates, and coordinating with vendors. Having a timeline for your preparations will keep everything on track and ensure your big day is just perfect.

Step 4: Consider going abroad

If you haven’t already started looking at destination weddings, now’s the time to consider where you might want to say “I do.” Destination weddings can be incredibly special, offering you and your guests a mini-holiday as part of the celebration and giving you the perfect opportunity to plan a mini-moon. 

Popular destinations for beach weddings include Greece, Italy, and Spain. However, you can get married in any country with a coastline. Plus, you can usually get more for your money abroad, meaning you can have a truly spectacular wedding without breaking the bank.

For more inspiration, check out our dedicated post on top destination wedding locations.

Step 5: Think about the logistics

While planning a beach or destination wedding is exciting, it’s important to consider the logistics to ensure everything goes smoothly. For example, remote locations may not be accessible to guests who use wheelchairs or are on crutches. Equally, a destination wedding may not be accessible to grandparents or older family members. 

You also need to think about the cost aspect. Although you can get more for your money abroad in terms of the celebration, some guests may not be able to afford the plane ticket or cost of accommodation.

If your heart is set on going abroad, consider throwing a smaller, post-wedding celebration when you come home for all the guests who couldn’t make your big day. This ensures everyone feels included in your big day, regardless of their ability to travel. 

Step 6: Start your planning

Once you’ve ticked off the major decisions, it’s time to dive into the fun details. Check out these creative beach-themed wedding ideas to get your creative juices flowing:

Beach wedding catering

Beach wedding catering should make the most of the local flavours of wherever you’re getting married. For example, if you’re getting married on a UK beach, consider using local mussels, local fish, leeks, or other root vegetables as part of your meal. Equally, if you’re getting married in Italy, consider using fresh pasta, local cheeses, olives, and tomatoes to create a delicious, authentic menu. Incorporating local flavours not only makes your meal memorable but also supports the local economy!

Beach wedding colours

When it comes to your wedding colour scheme, white, light pastel tones, light earth tones, and pale blues or seafoam green are all great options for a beautiful beach wedding. These colours blend seamlessly with the natural surroundings and add a touch of elegance to your seaside celebration. Think of incorporating these shades into your decorations, flowers, bridesmaid dresses, and even your wedding cake, for a harmonious look.

Beach wedding attire

Think light, floaty fabrics, flat shoes, and casual, yet elegant styles. Flowy dresses, linen suits, and sandals or even barefoot options are perfect for a beach setting. Make sure to let your guests know the dress code so they can dress comfortably for the sand and sun.

Beach wedding decorations

Try to incorporate the natural beauty of the coastline into your beach wedding decor. Think driftwood, seaglass, seashells, and even small potted plants or succulents. You can also use lanterns, fairy lights, and candles to create a magical ambiance as the sun sets. Personalised touches like engraved seashells or beach-themed place cards can add a unique flair.

Beach wedding favours

Although wedding favours aren’t always expected, offering beach-themed wedding favours can be a nice touch to show your appreciation to your guests. Consider giving out small bottles of sand from the beach where you’re getting married, personalised flip-flops, or beach towels. Eco-friendly options like reusable tote bags, bamboo utensils, or handmade soaps can also make thoughtful and practical favours.

Beach wedding invites

Lean into the coastal aesthetic with your invitations by using beach-themed designs. Think about incorporating elements like seashells, starfish, and waves in your invites. You can use textured paper to mimic the feel of sand or opt for pastel colours that reflect the serene beach atmosphere. Adding a touch of whimsy with a message in a bottle or a nautical map can make your invitations truly memorable.

Beach wedding cake

Beachy wedding cakes are all about incorporating elements of the sea and shore. Think about cakes adorned with edible seashells, starfish, and coral. You could opt for a simple yet elegant cake with a watercolour finish in shades of blue and green, mimicking the ocean waves. A naked cake with fresh tropical fruits and flowers can also add a delightful and natural touch.

Step 7: Have a foolproof backup plan

No matter how confident you are that your wedding will be filled with sunshine, it’s crucial to have a backup plan. The UK has famously unpredictable weather, and you can’t count on destination weddings being perfectly sunny either. Renting a tent or canopy can provide shelter from unexpected rain or intense sun. Additionally, having an indoor venue nearby as a contingency can ensure that your celebration goes off without a hitch, come rain or shine.

Step 8: Sit back and relax!

The final step is to sit back and relax. You’ve done it! The hard part is out of the way and now you have your lovely wedding day to look forward to. Take time to yourself, try to switch off from wedding planning, and maybe schedule a few beach walks? You’ve earned it!

Plan your dream beach wedding with Bridebook

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Beach weddings are a beautiful but low-key way to celebrate your love. It’s easy to keep them chilled and laid-back, or dress them up to be a truly fabulous affair. Whatever your preference, you’ll want to have  Bridebook on your side.

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