22 Questions To Ask Your Wedding Caterer

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By Weddings Vintage

The catering may be the most costly part of your wedding reception, so let’s get this right. We’ve put together everything you might want to ask, so you can sit back and enjoy that spring roll, and that piece of beef. Oh and that chocolate pudding and that treacle tart. So print out these questions and enjoy!

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1) Is there a specific cuisine that you specialise in?

As obvious as this might sound, if you and your beloved are lovers of French food, there is little point in meeting someone whose speciality is Mexican cuisine!

2) Do you provide the silverware/ linens/chairs?

If your caterer does provide these items, make sure you see photos of the available options to check that they work well with your wedding theme and colours.

3) How many other weddings will you be catering for on my chosen date?

Ideally, you will want their undivided attention!

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4) What does your price include? Does it depend on the menu or do you have a flat rate? Does it include VAT, gratuity, rentals, silverware, tea and coffee for the guests?

We recommend you get this part in writing so you can rest assured it’s taken care of.

5) Will you be present on the day or will it be someone else? Will you take on the role of coordinator, deciding when to serve the food and cut the cake?

Your wedding caterer is a huge part of your wedding day and they need to be organised and reliable. So if the person that you are meeting isn’t the one who will be present on the day itself, make sure you get an introduction ahead of time.

6) How many waiters will you provide? What will they wear/can I provide outfits? Will they be responsible for laying the tables, placing favours and place settings?

Ideally, you would need one waiter for eleven people  for a sit-down meal and you will want them to look professional and if possible, their uniforms should compliment your wedding colours.

7) Do you provide a set menu or can I customise my own? What if I have a special family dish I want to include? Can you cater kosher/ halal/ any other dietary requirements?

If there is a particular starter and pudding that you just have to have, then it is important to ensure you hire a caterer who allows you to do this!

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8) Do you work with fresh or frozen food?

This is an essential question if your caterer will require specialist equipment to store or cook the food and if you will be in charge of sourcing this, as that can add unexpected amounts to your budget.

9) Can you provide children’s and vendors’ meals? How much will they cost? Are they included in the price above?

Normally, children’s meals will be cheaper than the adult ones, as would the vendor ones, as they don’t need to be as lavish as the others.

10) How will you handle last-minute requests?

In case someone who didn’t RSVP decides to attend at the last minute, it happens more often than you’d think!

11) Do you make wedding cakes? Will you charge a cake-cutting fee?

A cake-cutting fee is charged by either the caterer or venue for serving a cake made by someone not affiliated with them. If this is the case, you will want to know about this ahead of time, to avoid any last-minute surprises.

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12) How long will you need for setting up and cleaning up?

Make sure to get clarification on the cleaning up process, as your venue will hold you responsible for clearing away all unwanted food, etc.

13) Do you have a food license?

This might seem obvious, but it’s always best to be sure.

14) Is there an extra charge for menu tastings? When can I book my tastings?

Before committing to a 3 hour long menu tasting, make sure you know whether or not you will be paying for it!

15) Is there an overtime fee, in case the event runs late?

If your wedding overruns, normally the waiters will be paid double charge for any extra hour that they stay.

16) Can I get references from couples you catered for?

If a couple loved their wedding food, they will be sure to want to tell you about it, so definitely get a few references before making a final decision!

17) When should I give you the final guest numbers?

The majority of caterers will need to know the total number of guests by a certain date so that they can order the right amount of food. If this changes at all after this date, you may be charged!

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More often than not a caterer will also provide your wedding booze. Here are some questions so you can get tasting. Oh hello more bubbles!

18) Do you provide alcohol? Can you accommodate specialist cocktails?

Espresso Martinis for desert? Yes please! Just make sure you ask if your caterer can do this.

19) What brands of alcohol will you serve?

If you have any must-haves, like your Dad’s favourite whisky you want to make sure it is included, or that you can swap a bottle on their menu for the one of your choice!

20) Can we use our own alcohol and your bartenders? Is there a corkage fee for this? What is the service charge?

Sometimes caterers allow you to use your own alcohol, whilst still using their staff. This may be a good option if you have a unique taste in alcohol which you would like to serve!

21) Is the champagne toast included in the overall price?

Many caterers and/or venues will be happy to accommodate a free glass of champagne for the toasts, so make sure to ask!

22) Will we be charged for bottles ordered, or just those that are opened?

The most economical choice by far is to be charged for the bottles opened, as couples tend to buy more alcohol than gets drunk anyway!

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Happy Planning!

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The Ultimate Guide to Wedding Alcohol

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You’re marrying your best friend – and as far as we’re concerned, that merits the celebration of the century. For many couples (and their guests!), that means one thing: alcohol. And lots of it.

But the world of wedding alcohol can feel overwhelming. Should you have an open bar or a cash bar? What drinks will you serve? And how much alcohol do you even need?

Hang on a minute! Don’t decide it’s easier to just ask your guests to BYOB just yet (although we won’t judge you if you do). Here’s everything you need to know about wedding alcohol.

Should You Have An Open Bar Or A Cash Bar At Your Wedding?

Of all your options, an open bar is the most expensive – so it comes down to how much you have to spend. But an open bar doesn’t necessarily mean putting on the works, so consider different types of limited open bars before you ask your guests to pay. For day- and lunchtime weddings, for example, a wine and beer bar tends to be more than enough.

On the other hand, if you are on a tighter budget, a cash bar could be a great option. Your guests will be able to drink exactly what they want – and you won’t need to worry about footing the bill! One thing we will say is that if you can, it’s always a nice touch to still make sure you’ve got in some champagne for the speeches.

What Drinks Should You Serve At Your Wedding

If you can, aim to provide the following alcoholic drinks:

  • White wine
  • Red wine
  • Sparkling wine
  • Light beer
  • Dark beer
  • Spirits

On top of this, you should also provide at least one soft drink option, as well as plenty of water.

A limited drinks selection is an easy way to cut costs – and speed up service.We’d recommend spirits be the first to go. Spirits (especially shots) can push prices – as well as your guests! – over the limit, so ditch them in favour of a premixed cocktail. A signature cocktail is always a great touch to any wedding drinks menu, whether that’s a bespoke drink created just for you or a classic cocktail that has a special meaning for you and your party. You could even rename the drink after yourselves!

For a more limited drinks selection, you might want to offer the following:

  • One red wine
  • One white wine
  • One light beer
  • One dark beer
  • One signature cocktail

Again, you should always provide at least one soft drink option and water on top of this.

How Much Alcohol Should You Buy For Your Wedding?

You should generally allow for two drinks per hour per guest during your drinks reception, and one drink per hour per guest from then on. You might think that these quantities sound smaller than expected – but remember that for every colleague that loves a martini, there’s a great aunt who’ll sip a small glass of champagne. On top of that, you’ll have guests who won’t drink at all. We tend to budget for soft drinks and mixers for 25% of guests.

As for the remaining 75%, you probably know best! As a general rule, wine tends to be the most popular option at weddings, followed by beer, and finally spirits. But always consider your audience! At an Irish wedding, Guinness might be the go to – while if you or your partner are from the West Country, cider could be the drink of the day. The other thing we would recommend is keeping your wedding date in mind. In the summer, it’s unlikely that many people will go for red wine, instead opting for white wine, champagne or light beers. In the winter, on the other hand, we’d expect to see more people drinking red wine or darker beers.

Once you’ve got an idea of what your guests will be drinking, break your alcohol down into measures:

  • A bottle of liquor contains 30 single shots or 15 double shots
  • A bottle of wine contains five glasses
  • A key of beer contains 124 pints or 165 can-sized servings

Here’s an easy formula to get you started:

(number of guests x length of drinks reception x 2 x 0.75) + (number of guests x length of afterparty x 0.75)

You should always order 10-15% on top of that – so that no matter what, you don’t run out of alcohol! If you can, buy your booze on a “sale or return if unopened” basis. But if you can’t, don’t worry – alcohol doesn’t go off, so you can always keep the party going with a post-honeymoon celebration.

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Let’s talk budget

Prepare to fork out some cash on your catering – it’s one of the more expensive (and yummiest) parts of the big day, with prices ranging from as little as £25 per head, to the averages sitting around £50 per head and the higher end being in the hundreds (and more!). The pricing predominantly depends on your chef (Michelin star chefs will charge accordingly) and how many options your guests can choose from, but spending money on this part is worth every penny.

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How to serve

First consider how you would like to serve your food. Let’s break it down into three options: canapés only, a buffet meal or a sit-down, waiter-served meal. We find that canapés or a buffet usually work for a more relaxed wedding, whereas a three-course meal will provide a greater sense of occasion. Your mode of service can depend on your budget, as a buffet meal will normally be cheaper than a sit-down and waiter-serviced dinner. Although if you go with a buffet, we will need to run through the logistics on making it run smoothly – you don’t want your guests crowding over one station do you? Or go for a happy medium – get each table to carve and tuck into the food themselves; this is a great way to ensure all your guests interact and have fun!

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Choosing what to eat

Now it’s time to choose the mouth-watering goodness! We find that simple, seasonal and local foods are the best answer, as they tend to be freshest, tastiest and easiest to prepare. Your own preferences are a great place to start when deciding on a menu: choose the foods that both of you like and (obviously) avoid the foods that you are allergic to. Ideally, you should be able to cater to a variety of tastes, always considering dietary and religious requirements where necessary.

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Booze Talk

Make sure you broach the subject of booze with your caterer or venue as they might require you to buy through them. Ask them whether they’ll charge you a corkage fee if you’re planning on buying your own alcohol, and find out whether you need to buy from them before you make your decision.

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Canapés

Never forget the canapés (we are never not thinking about canapés)! When you’re being papped by the wedding photographer your guests will be catching up with each other and having drinks, so make sure you leave them with some snacks too! We advise around 5 canapés per person, per each hour of the reception drinks. You should provide a variety of meat and vegetarian choices, which should always be served on separate trays.

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Ask around

Get as many recommendations from friends and family as possible. Wedding guests never forget good or bad food and will not be shy in telling you what they did and didn’t like. As soon as you have decided on your preferences and collected a number of reviews, start booking in some yummy tastings – our favourite bit!

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Booking the marquee makes everything seem real – you are actually getting married! And this will be the place where the party kicks off! A marquee is a fantastic way to display your individuality as a couple, as it is pretty much a blank canvas, so start thinking of ideas to decorate, arrange and spice up the dance floor. Before you  move on to that, though, we want to support you through some of  the more practical questions.  Before you decide which company to book your marquee with, here are some questions to ask your vendor, to make sure you pick the one right for you:

1. Can we get in touch with other couples that have hired your marquees?

Other couples will be able to tell you if they received good service, if there were any difficulties or any extra information that you might find incredibly useful (like where they hired their portable heaters, for example!)

2. Is it possible to see one of your marquees while it is erect?

Seeing a marquee standing up will give you a clearer idea of what you want it to look like on your wedding day, as well as how it will look in the photos!

3. What size marquee should we have for our number of guests?

Don’t forget that in addition to fitting in the tables, you will also need to think about space for the dance floor. For example, 110 guests would need a 20×60 ft marquee (including the dance floor).

4.Can you visit our suggested location and see if it is suitable for a marquee?

A professional should not only be willing but should want to assess the ground beforehand and if they don’t, seek someone who will!

5. Can you talk us through the different shapes, sizes and arrangements that could fit in our space for our number of people?

Whether you want square or round tables, or if you want to include a lounge area for your guests, your marquee provider should give you specifications and choices for whatever it is you want.

6. When will you assemble and dismantle the marquee?

Normally the process will take a few days, so make sure you know exactly how long each stage will take and when you can start decorating the marquee to suit your theme.

7. Do you supply any of the furniture, like tables and chairs? Can we see the items, or pictures at least?

If you choose some of the providers’ furniture, make sure to get this in writing to avoid any surprises come W-Day.

8. Can your marquee be opened up if it’s hot? Can the marquee be closed up and storm-proofed if there is bad weather outside? And will you provide heaters?

We strongly advise you to prepare for any weather to make sure your guests are comfortable and having fun, you won’t want them escaping the dance floor for some air or huddling for heat!

9. Will we need an electrical generator? Can you provide this or recommend a provider?

You might need a generator for your band and/or DJ and any other electrical supplies, like ovens/freezers for your caterers.

10. How will the marquee be lit? Can candles be used?

If you want a romantic candlelit reception, make sure the marquee you choose allows open flames inside!

11. Do you provide the bathrooms?

Ideally, you would also want a separate bathroom for the bride, so that she isn’t left queueing!

12. Will there be lasting damage to the ground or underground cables?

Marquees can sometimes be damaging to certain surfaces, be careful you’re not left footing the bill!

13. Do you have insurance?

This is important to ask in case the marquee you have selected does end up damaging something! You don’t want to be liable!

 

Happy Planning!