Introduction: Your Wedding Breakfast

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By Millie Benbow Photography

When else do you get to scoff your favourite food ALL day? On your wedding day of course! Not only do you get to eat it, but you get to choose it, taste it AND share it with all your friends and family. On top of that it’s your first meal as a married person – hurray! It’s also an amazing moment to pause and relax after all the excitement of getting married and before the party kicks off. So let’s work out how to make it rock!

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Let’s talk budget

Prepare to fork out some cash on your catering – it’s one of the more expensive (and yummiest) parts of the big day, with prices ranging from as little as £25 per head, to the averages sitting around £50 per head and the higher end being in the hundreds (and more!). The pricing predominantly depends on your chef (Michelin star chefs will charge accordingly) and how many options your guests can choose from, but spending money on this part is worth every penny.

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By Anna Clarke Photography

How to serve

First consider how you would like to serve your food. Let’s break it down into three options: canapés only, a buffet meal or a sit-down, waiter-served meal. We find that canapés or a buffet usually work for a more relaxed wedding, whereas a three-course meal will provide a greater sense of occasion. Your mode of service can depend on your budget, as a buffet meal will normally be cheaper than a sit-down and waiter-serviced dinner. Although if you go with a buffet, we will need to run through the logistics on making it run smoothly – you don’t want your guests crowding over one station do you? Or go for a happy medium – get each table to carve and tuck into the food themselves; this is a great way to ensure all your guests interact and have fun!

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By Allister Freeman

Choosing what to eat

Now it’s time to choose the mouth-watering goodness! We find that simple, seasonal and local foods are the best answer, as they tend to be freshest, tastiest and easiest to prepare. Your own preferences are a great place to start when deciding on a menu: choose the foods that both of you like and (obviously) avoid the foods that you are allergic to. Ideally, you should be able to cater to a variety of tastes, always considering dietary and religious requirements where necessary.

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By Pippa Mackenzie

Booze Talk

Make sure you broach the subject of booze with your caterer or venue as they might require you to buy through them. Ask them whether they’ll charge you a corkage fee if you’re planning on buying your own alcohol, and find out whether you need to buy from them before you make your decision.

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By Chris Giles Photography

Canapés

Never forget the canapés (we are never not thinking about canapés)! When you’re being papped by the wedding photographer your guests will be catching up with each other and having drinks, so make sure you leave them with some snacks too! We advise around 5 canapés per person, per each hour of the reception drinks. You should provide a variety of meat and vegetarian choices, which should always be served on separate trays.

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By Anna Clarke Photography

Ask around

Get as many recommendations from friends and family as possible. Wedding guests never forget good or bad food and will not be shy in telling you what they did and didn’t like. As soon as you have decided on your preferences and collected a number of reviews, start booking in some yummy tastings – our favourite bit!

Happy Planning!

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13 Questions To Ask Your Marquee Company

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Booking the marquee makes everything seem real – you are actually getting married! And this will be the place where the party kicks off! A marquee is a fantastic way to display your individuality as a couple, as it is pretty much a blank canvas, so start thinking of ideas to decorate, arrange and spice up the dance floor. Before you  move on to that, though, we want to support you through some of  the more practical questions.  Before you decide which company to book your marquee with, here are some questions to ask your vendor, to make sure you pick the one right for you:

1. Can we get in touch with other couples that have hired your marquees?

Other couples will be able to tell you if they received good service, if there were any difficulties or any extra information that you might find incredibly useful (like where they hired their portable heaters, for example!)

2. Is it possible to see one of your marquees while it is erect?

Seeing a marquee standing up will give you a clearer idea of what you want it to look like on your wedding day, as well as how it will look in the photos!

3. What size marquee should we have for our number of guests?

Don’t forget that in addition to fitting in the tables, you will also need to think about space for the dance floor. For example, 110 guests would need a 20×60 ft marquee (including the dance floor).

4.Can you visit our suggested location and see if it is suitable for a marquee?

A professional should not only be willing but should want to assess the ground beforehand and if they don’t, seek someone who will!

5. Can you talk us through the different shapes, sizes and arrangements that could fit in our space for our number of people?

Whether you want square or round tables, or if you want to include a lounge area for your guests, your marquee provider should give you specifications and choices for whatever it is you want.

6. When will you assemble and dismantle the marquee?

Normally the process will take a few days, so make sure you know exactly how long each stage will take and when you can start decorating the marquee to suit your theme.

7. Do you supply any of the furniture, like tables and chairs? Can we see the items, or pictures at least?

If you choose some of the providers’ furniture, make sure to get this in writing to avoid any surprises come W-Day.

8. Can your marquee be opened up if it’s hot? Can the marquee be closed up and storm-proofed if there is bad weather outside? And will you provide heaters?

We strongly advise you to prepare for any weather to make sure your guests are comfortable and having fun, you won’t want them escaping the dance floor for some air or huddling for heat!

9. Will we need an electrical generator? Can you provide this or recommend a provider?

You might need a generator for your band and/or DJ and any other electrical supplies, like ovens/freezers for your caterers.

10. How will the marquee be lit? Can candles be used?

If you want a romantic candlelit reception, make sure the marquee you choose allows open flames inside!

11. Do you provide the bathrooms?

Ideally, you would also want a separate bathroom for the bride, so that she isn’t left queueing!

12. Will there be lasting damage to the ground or underground cables?

Marquees can sometimes be damaging to certain surfaces, be careful you’re not left footing the bill!

13. Do you have insurance?

This is important to ask in case the marquee you have selected does end up damaging something! You don’t want to be liable!

 

Happy Planning!