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6 Steps to Achieving Your Dream Bridal Body

Here at Bridebook, the world’s leading free online wedding planner, we firmly believe that every bride is gorgeous and that every love story starts from the inside out. But we also believe in the power of feeling your absolute best as you walk down the aisle – and on that front James Duigan has got you covered. The brawn and brains behind Bodyism, the go-to fitness program of supermodels Rosie Huntington-Whiteley and Elle Macpherson, Duigan knows exactly how to get you down that aisle – aka catwalk – feeling your absolute best!

bridebook.co.uk james duigan portrait by the sea — The brains and brawn behind Bodyism, James Duigan

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1. Set Realistic Goals

Please allow yourself plenty of time to achieve realistic and safe goals. Many brides tend to panic a couple of months before the wedding leading to unnecessary stress. They hardly eat and over-train and when the big day arrives they just look tired and worn out. It’s important to plan ahead, and really think about what you realistically want to achieve before the big day. There’s no use putting your body through immense stress because you think you are going to drastically change the size or your arms or the shape of your waist.

bridebook.co.uk bride walking in a field in a two piece wedding outfit — Photo by Jana Williams Photography

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2. Move Every Day

Our bodies are designed to move, so move every day! It doesn’t have to be strenuous, but look to get variety into your week such as a yoga class, a brisk walk, a pilates class etc. You will be surprised how quickly you will start to see results. This will keep you motivated and you are more likely to reach your goal!

3. Work Your Whole Body

Some brides-to-be find it tempting to jump on the cardio train and spend hours slogging it out on the treadmill, which is a huge strain on your body and to be honest, not as effective as you may think. Cardio is a form of aerobic training which will burn fat while doing it, but as soon as you stop, the fat burning stops too. Just doing cardio alone is extremely unlikely to get you a flat tummy! The fastest way to burn that ‘stubborn fat’ is with resistance circuits using AMG movements (working all muscle groups). For example, combining squats, lunges and press-ups to strengthen your core and target all areas of the body. This will increase metabolism, switching the body into a fat burner for up to 72 hours after the workout!

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4. Eat Clean and Lean

I always tell my clients to eat ‘Clean and Lean’ which means to cut the C-R-A-P: that being caffeine, refined sugar, alcohol and processed food. These are the four main toxins that cause our bodies to cling to fat. If you are wanting to safely get in top shape for your wedding, try to eat five healthy meals a day, two of which should be smaller snacks. I would recommend having the snacks in-between breakfast and lunch and then again between lunch and dinner. Healthy snacking ensures you don’t overeat when you have main meals and will also help you to speed up your metabolism. When choosing snacks make sure you avoid the sugar packed treats; muffins, croissants and sugary smoothies are a no-no! Excellent snacks would be raw nuts, turkey slices, berries and sliced vegetables.

5. Don’t Stress!

It sounds simple and is easier said than done, but the most effective way to get a flat tummy is to stress less. The stress hormone cortisol can cause your body to store stubborn fat around the belly button. Get proper sleep, it will reduce your stress and make you a nicer person in general!

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6. Be Kind To Yourself

We live in a world of ever growing body image pressures, sometimes promoting unrealistic body ideals. It may sound simple, but keeping oneself motivated is about positivity and listening and accepting your body. Do not see fad diets as a ‘quick fix’ to fitting into a wedding dress. I always recommend living a healthy lifestyle and embracing this as part of your life and who you are. Being confident shows in your posture and body language, so accepting yourself and having confidence in your body will definitely show on the big day!

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Bonus Q&A with Bodyism’s James Duigan!

What was your favourite memory of your wedding?

Chrissy and I actually had four weddings. Two of my favourite memories from these include the one on a island with just me and her which was completely romantic and beautiful. The other favourite memory was at our one big wedding with our family in Australia and that moment of watching her with her dad and the love and pride he had for her was such a touching moment to witness. I also loved watching my dad speak because it was so heartfelt. Overall it is the feeling of love which is the most important memory to take away.

What is the one thing you wish someone had told you about planning a wedding?

If I am completely honest we didn’t really plan our weddings because we had already taken advice from friends who advised us to remember that all that matters is that you end up married and everyone has fun. It was the best advice we got as we took a step back and enjoyed the moment.

bridebook.co.uk-james-and-christiane-duigan — The happy couple, James and Chrissy Duigan

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Millennials are paying more for their weddings

‘3-day weddings’ and ‘personalisation’ trends are having costly implications

More weddings are ‘themed’ with ‘insta-worthy’ entertainment and trending hashtags

Once again wedding planning app Bridebook.co.uk has carried out the most comprehensive UK wedding industry study revealing year-on-year changes. According to Bridebook.co.uk, millennial couples* are spending a whopping 45% more of their combined annual income on their wedding than couples getting married at 40 or older. (*getting married in their 20s to mid 30s.)

The average couple is now spending £17,913 (excluding their honeymoon), up £1,071 or 6% from £16,842 in the previous year. Supplier costs have increased by an average of 12%, year over year, but there are other factors at play too:

The ‘3-day Wedding’

The ‘3-day Wedding’ is becoming popular, with 23% more couples choosing to extend celebrations to run over a 2-3-day period (compared to 5 years ago). This has contributed to the rise in spend on venues and marquees, which continue to be the biggest associated costs at £6,152 and £5,468. Multiple-event weddings require more than one dress too, and this is impacting the amount couples are spending on bridalwear & accessories which has increased significantly by over 15% since last year at £1,537. 27% of brides purchase more than one wedding dress.

New figures also reveal that couples are spending an increased amount on personalising their wedding. ‘Venue dressing’ has seen a 22% rise to an average of £882, and the spend on flowers has also increased with couples spending an average of £858, up just over 10% from £777.

33% of couples now overspend on food and drink, at a new average of £5,862 up 23% from £4,747. This is reflective of millennials choosing to cater for more than one event, with ‘rehearsal dinners’ and parties the day after the wedding becoming more common. Caterers are also offering more and more flexibility with bespoke menus, which are expensive. 12% of couples designed their own cocktail or alcoholic drink for their wedding day.

The Influence of Tech

As technology continues to evolve, supplier choices are impacted too. Couples are spending more on music (at an average of £1,039 +10%) and other forms of entertainment (at an average of £580 +11%) wanting to ‘wow’ their guests with shareable social media-friendly content. Millennials are capturing their own images too, with 60% of brides using social media on their wedding day, 76% taking a wedding selfie – affectionately coined the ‘welfie’, and an average of 3,400 photos being taken at each wedding by guests alone. 57% now use a wedding hashtag – an increase of over 40% from the year before. Fewer people are spending money on videographers (down 2%).

14% of brides and grooms are saving money by choosing to do e-invites and wedding websites. They are also making their own table plans and place cards and consequently the average amount being spent on stationery has decreased by 5% to £276.

Millennial Spending Trends

Millennials are more likely to pay for their own wedding too. 18% fewer couples who married last year aged between 25 and 35 were given money from their parents, instead footing the bill entirely themselves. Input in wedding planning from Mothers is down to 44% (from 52%), from partner’s Mothers is down to 15% (from 23%) and from Fathers is down to 11% (down from 13%).

Hamish Shephard, Bridebook.co.uk founder, comments; “The millennial generation are getting married later in life, when they are more financially independent. They are in a position to be able to ‘host’ their own wedding, and no longer see it as their parents financial responsibility. They are rising to the challenge exercising their ability to be creative, motivated by things like local sourcing, ethical production and a great authentic experience.”

Shephard continues; “Suppliers are demonstrating their creativity and working hard to meet the demands of couples wanting to personalise their day. Increasingly, brides and grooms want to tell their story through ‘themes’, and they are becoming extremely imaginative. Everything, from the stationery and the decorations to the food and drinks menu can be personalised, and that doesn’t come cheap.”

“We are seeing that people are prioritising the ‘wow’ moments, wanting to surprise and delight their guests with ‘insta-worthy’ theatrical performances. Guests are sharing mobile footage on social media or on file-sharing websites. Selfie sticks, photo booths and drones are popular too.”

More changes…

The most popular dates to get married has also changed following a significantly warmer September and a colder than average April (Met Office, Dec 2016 report) in 2016. The most popular wedding season is now Summer (44%), followed by Autumn (26%), and Spring (22%). This represents a change from last year where Spring was more popular than Autumn. Last year the single most popular dates for weddings were 9th September and 26th August.

New findings also show a geographical split with both couples living and choosing to wed in the South East and South West of England spending the most, as well as being the most likely to go over budget. (Venue Hire in London is £4,833 more expensive than the national average, and Food & Drink in London is £3,904 more expensive than the national average.)

The most popular regions in the UK for weddings are South East England (20%), South West England (16%) and North West England (14%). While 10% of the couples live in London, only 3% get married there. More couples get married in South East and South West England than the proportion who live there, demonstrating the popularity of these regions for weddings.

Key Take-Outs:

The national average wedding spend in 2017 was £17,913 (excluding honeymoon) (up £1,071 or 6% from £16,842 in previous year)
Two thirds (65%) go over budget, or have no budget at all.
The average total cost of suppliers (excluding the honeymoon) is £30,355 (up £3,365 or 12% from £26,989 in previous year)
The most expensive region in the UK to get married is London (£31,837)
The least expensive region to get married is Northern Ireland (£12,738)
The largest wedding costs are Venue (£6,152), Food & Drink (£5,862) and Marquee Hire (£5,468) which are significantly higher than all other wedding costs
The average amount spent on bridalwear & accessories = £1,537
Supplier costs increased by an average of 12%, year over year. Marquee Hire (24%), Food & Drink (23%), and Venue dressing (22%) grew the most year over year
Many couples are choosing to have their wedding ceremony at their wedding reception venue (60%) (up from 59% in previous year)
Country/Manor Houses (28%), Places of Worship (17%) and Barns (16%) are the most popular wedding venue types
27% of couples held their ceremony at a place of worship (down from 29% in previous year)
Almost half of couples had Non-Saturday weddings (44%). For alternative wedding weekdays, Fridays are popular with 18% of weddings, as well as Sundays which represent 9% of weddings
The most popular honeymoon destinations are Europe (25%), UK (12%) and the USA (11%).

For further information please contact Harriet Hunt Communications: [email protected] T: 0208 871 2246 M: 07886 96908

Notes To Editor:

Bridebook.co.uk is the UK’s leading wedding planning app and website with over 100,000 couples currently planning their wedding on the platform.

Launched in 2016, Bridebook.co.uk‘s state-of-the-art wedding planning toolkit with personalised Checklist, Budgeter and Guestlist manager, enables couples to plan their entire wedding from any device, anytime, anywhere, all in one place…for free. With over 70,000 venues and suppliers in its directory, Bridebook.co.uk increases the digital presence of industry professionals and connects them directly with local couples. Bridebook has also partnered with leading brands such as Mary Berry, Bobbi Brown and Jimmy Choo to provide genuine expert advice and inspiration to its couples. Bridebook.co.uk was founded by Hamish Shephard, an industry professional and recently married groom who used Bridebook.co.uk to plan his own May 2016 wedding. Visit Bridebook.co.uk online or download the app on the iTunes App Store or Google Playstore.

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Your Guide To Choosing the Perfect Bridesmaid Dresses

Who better to guide you through the bridesmaid dress choosing process than the bridesmaid’s favourite? We’ve called on the wonderful pros at twobirds Bridesmaid to share their top 5 tips on how to keep you and your bridesmaids happy while completing your wedding party look.

bridebook.co.uk twobirds steel dresses in different styles — Universally flattering styles with endless ways to wrap equals happy bridesmaids!

Choosing the perfect bridesmaid dresses for your favourite girls can be very stressful. With different skin tones and body shapes to cater for it might feel like an impossible task! Luckily, at twobirds, we like to keep things as stress free as possible… We understand that every woman is different so our gorgeous range of customizable multiway dresses offer the perfect solution to ensure happy bridesmaids and – essentially – a happy bride.

Colour Scheme

It’s easy to get overwhelmed when it comes to finalising your colour scheme and if – like many brides-to-be – you’re struggling to choose it may help to consider other elements of your wedding as a starting point. If your venue has a strong colour palette or your partner’s outfit has a dominant colour, that may inform your choice.

bridebook.co.uk-twobirds bright full length dresses — Be sure to keep in mind every aspect of your day when picking your bridesmaid dress colour scheme

Go shopping

Why not make a day of it and gather your favourite girls together for a day of trying bridesmaid dresses, a lovely lunch and then finish off the day with a cocktail in your favourite bar? Dress shopping should be a fun experience so do your research before you go and make sure the dresses you have your heart set on are within your budget.

bridebook.co.uk-twobirds navy dresses smiling — Any excuse to spend a day with your girls and some bubbly!

Mix & Match

A lot of couples are choosing a tonal mix of dress colours for their bridesmaids which can look really striking on the big day. Tie it all together with the bouquets or ribbons for a cohesive and glamorous look.

bridebook.co.uk-twobirds multiple dress colours — With the extensive range of colours available, it’s easy to embrace the tonal trend

Flattering Fit

One size most definitely does not fit all and it’s tricky to find a structured dress to suit every body shape. Multiway dresses are a great option as each bridesmaid can choose their preferred neckline and wear the dress exactly as they wish – subject to bride’s approval, of course! twobirds dresses cover sizes UK 4-24, can be wrapped in endless different ways and we use a huge amount of premium quality, luxurious fabric to ensure a flattering and feminine silhouette.

bridebook.co.uk twobirds champagne dresses — Win instant points with your bridesmaids by letting them pick their most flattering neckline

Hair & Make up

Lots of couples decide to give the bridesmaids freedom when it comes to hair and make up and – depending on the chosen neckline – hair can be up or down. For example, an off-centre fishtail braid looks amazing with a one-shoulder style while a high ballerina bun will show off a backless dress perfectly.

bridebook.co.uk-twobirds pink full length dresses — Remember the hairstyle can be just as important as the dress!

About twobirds

twobirds Bridesmaid is an award-winning retailer, wholesaler and manufacturer of adaptable wrap dresses – offering a beautiful collection of stylish gowns engineered to create a flawless feminine silhouette. Designed to be worn on the wedding day and time and time again, the fluid and comfortable luxurious gowns offer an effortless shopping experience – creating a unified, yet individual look for the entire bridal party.

Launched in 2007 by New Yorker Ariane Goldman, twobirds Bridesmaid has fast become one of the leading bridesmaids dress manufacturers both in the UK and worldwide and has been worn by numerous celebrities including Lady Gaga and The Saturdays’ Mollie King.

The ingenious ‘adaptable’ design concept – inspired by a 1970’s Norma Kamali ‘Infinity’ dress – features bodice straps that can be twisted, tied, knotted  and folded to create over 15 neckline and sleeve options. Constructed to maximise assets and minimise imperfections the beautiful gowns create a flattering finish for each and every body shape.

One Dress. Endless ways to wrap. For the wedding day and forever after…. Two Sizes, Universally Flattering and Maternity Friendly.

bridebook.co.uk twobirds two girls in champagne dresses — Cover all your bridesmaid bases with twobirds

Happy Planning!

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O.P.I Expert Nails for Your Wedding Day

Recommended nail and toe-nail colours depending on dress, season, venue, style etc.

Brides now actually tend to stay well away from French and try colours that match their dress/bridesmaids dresses/flowers, etc. typically spring/summer weddings stick to pastel or taupe shades as this doesn’t take too much attention away from their wedding dress.

Creative ways to rock non-traditional wedding day nail colours

Some brides love to take it that step further and wear bold, bright colours or even try out designs with gems and crystals. There is no rule for brides and no look is frowned upon which is what gives them so much freedom in their choices! A coat of glitter over a soft colour or full glitter on ring fingers is also a popular look.

Being a nail technician myself I do find brides go bolder on toe nails. Red is the most popular choice as it suits every skin tone, every age.

A lot of brides honeymoon a day or 2 after their wedding day so they choose to have a colour that they will want to wear on holiday too.

Choosing the Perfect Bridal Hair Accessory

Rose is a freelance hair and make-up artist who also works closely with the Liz Earle Beauty brand, celebrities and international bridal clients. Rose is based in London, but travels far and wide and knows how to get you walking down the aisle looking like an absolute goddess. See also the amazing guide she wrote for Bridebook on making the decision between hair up and hair down here. Enjoy!

bridebook.co.uk-rose magnall half up floral do — Love these photos? All of these hair dos are done by Rose herself!

From clips, combs and hair-pins to flower crowns and wreaths, there are many ideas to consider, and it can be a lot of fun exploring the options available. You want to ensure that the hair accessory you choose compliments your dress, your hairstyle and your jewellery.

The overall theme and setting of the wedding also plays a part; for instance, if your wedding features a country garden setting, soft floral hair accessories can work beautifully. For an evening do, you may wish to choose something more dramatic and sparkly to catch the light. Some brides choose to make their hair accessory a main feature, opting for bold and colourful floral wreaths and flower crowns, a perfect choice for hair down styles and boho brides.

That said, if you want the focus to be purely on the dress, the jewellery and the veil (not to mention your beautiful bridal hair style) – you can choose not to have any hair accessories at all, or just add one in for the evening before your first dance.

The following considerations should help you to decide the type of hair accessory that’s right for your day.

The Dress:

Look at the fabric in your dress, are there any ‘sparkly’ or ‘pearly’ elements, or is the material matte? It’s lovely to tie in your hair accessory with the types of fabric in your dress. For example, lace bridal hair combs can really compliment a lace gown, while a crystal hair accessory will work beautifully with a dress with featuring any crystal detailing. The colour tones of your dress can also be used as a guide for selecting a complimentary hair accessory.

bridebook.co.uk-rose magnall half up with crystal hair accessory — These romantic curls and beautiful hair piece would go perfectly with a crystal detailed dress.

The Bridal Party:

Hair accessories can work with all bridal hairstyles; up, down and half up. Once you have chosen the perfect bridal hair accessory, you can select similar complimentary hair accessories for your bridal party. If your bridesmaids are having different hairstyles, a hair accessory could be a lovely way to unify them and maintain your look and feel across the board.

bridebook.co.uk-rose magnall up do with flowers — Pair this gorgeous bridal up do by sprinkling complementing flowers in your bridal party’s hair dos.

The Jewellery (and veil):

Any hair accessories you choose should work colour tone wise with your jewellery. As with your dress, it can be nice to match up elements of the detail (pearls, crystals, diamonds) between your jewellery and hair accessory. If you decide to wear a veil, make sure that the hair accessory you choose can be worn with the veil, or have one of your bridesmaids on duty to help you out it on once the veil is taken off.

bridebook.co.uk- rose magnall up do with crystal hair piece — This Jenny Packham pearl and crystal alice band would go perfectly with some pearl drop earrings…

In love with any or all of these gorgeous hair styles? Check out Rose’s very own Bridebook profile and book her for your big day!

Happy Planning!

How To Deliver Your Wedding Speech Like A Pro

For many people, speaking at a wedding can seem like a total nightmare. For help, we chatted to Lawrence Bernstein at Great Speech Writing who, together with his team of writers, has written 1000’s of wedding speeches for brides and grooms over the past ten years. He shared a few simple tips with us to ensure that your speech on the big day is remembered for all the right reasons.

bridebook.co.uk-best man gives speech black and white — Courtesy of Guy Hearn Photography

Preparation is key.

Start planning early. Know your speech well enough so that by the time you stand up to deliver it, you only need to glance at your paper to remember what comes next. You don’t want to be ‘reading’ it, however well written the speech is.

Talk slowly…

and take your time. An average wedding speech is 8-10 minutes long. Day-to-day, you’ll be talking at about 220 words a minute. In your speech, aim for 120 and allow for pauses to breathe. It’s a good idea to write these into your script for maximum effect. It may feel like you’re delivering it at a snail’s pace, but your audience will be able to digest it much better.

Speak clearly and loudly!

The audience will be on your side and eager to hear what you are saying.

Emphasize key words.

You do this in conversation, but it’s easy to forget in a ‘formal’ setting. If you’re telling people you’re “so happy”, make it clear – “I’m so happy!”

Remain calm!

Try not to let nerves (or shaky hands) show. Adrenalin can be a positive and enhance your delivery.

Make eye contact with your audience.

Looking up will give you extra confidence and engage your audience.

Body language is vital.

Gesticulate to emphasise a point, don’t forget to smile, and if you are addressing someone, look at them.

Check your posture.

Good posture can make you look and feel more in control. Stand tall, feet shoulder-width apart and project your voice.

Anticipate interruptions.

Pause for applause and laughter, rather than continuing through it. Be prepared for hecklers by having some responses up your sleeve – even if it’s just an ironic “thanks for that…”.

Stay off the booze!

It may be tempting, but getting drunk will not help you deliver a great speech… save the drinking for when the speeches are over and everyone’s toasting you!

bridebook.co.uk-father of the bride gives speech black and white — Courtesy of Guy Hearn Photography

If you would like any help on writing your wedding speech or improving your delivery contact Great Speech Writing on

0208 245 8999.

Happy Planning!

Squarespace On How To Create The Perfect Wedding Website

If you ask anyone on the Bridebook team (the gentlemen included!) what their favourite thing about planning a wedding is, creating a gorgeous wedding website is sure to be high on the list. There is something so exciting about being able to combine the romance of your story with the efficiency of a website! So when we had the chance to chat with the ultimate pros in the personalised website business, we were very, very excited. Here Squarespace spills all on how to approach putting together your very own wedding website. We hope you enjoy – we sure did!

www.bridebook.co.uk-squarespace — Photos courtesy of Squarespace

You’re a 21st century couple planning a 21st century wedding — complete with all the romance, elegance, and charm that a perfect website can provide. In this digital day and age, the wedding begins before your big day, and with easy website building platforms like Squarespace, you can create a one-stop destination that takes all the guesswork out of this exciting (yet occasionally stressful) time.

A wedding website is the perfect place not only to document memories that will last a lifetime, but also a great way to collect RSVPs, mailing addresses, share information, and even create a customised gift registry. With Squarespace, you can turn your love story into a website — one that can be easily shared with your closest friends and family.

bridebook.co.uk-squarespace-wedding-website — Turn your love story into a website that you can share with the whole family.

1. Pick a template

With six beautiful templates dedicated to weddings, Squarespace is sure to have the right starting place for you and your partner. Best of all, you can always change your mind, so whether it’s love at first sight between you and your template or a more gradual relationship, you’re sure to end up with the right one.

bridebook.co.uk-squarespace-wedding-website-templare — Six beautiful templates to choose from, each ready to make your own.

2. Tell your story

Your website is a series of blank pages just waiting to tell your love story. Let the world know how you fell in love, how you got engaged, and how excited you are to spend forever with one another. Whether you do so in a series of letters to each other or in a narrative, you can make your guests feel like they’re a part of your history, and make your wedding all the more special. Check out the Alex template, snapshot below:

bridebook.co.uk-squarespace-tell-your-story — The best way to make your wedding special is to include your guests in your story…

3. Add your photos

All our templates are designed to play host to your stunning photographs, so put those engagement pictures (and all the other photographic evidence of your relationship) to good use during this time. From your first date to the day the big question was popped, your Squarespace site will serve as a beautiful digital album for everything leading up to, during, and even after your big day.

bridebook.co.uk-squarespace-include-photographs — Show, don’t just tell!

4. Have guests RSVP online

Not only is it environmentally friendly but it’s also much easier to keep track of digital RSVPs rather than paper invitations. With Squarespace’s elegant form options, you can customize an invitation that seamlessly provides you with all the information you need including meal preference, dietary restrictions, date’s name, and so much more!

5. Register for wedding gifts

Make the days after your wedding even happier with great gifts from your thoughtful guests. Let them know what you need most — whether it’s donations to your new apartment fund, a new set of knives, or even a honeymoon, you can set up a donation block or integrate your Squarespace site with wedding registries.

bridebook.co.uk-squarespace-wedding-website-registry — Don’t forget one of the best parts – gifts!

Eager to get started on your wedding website? Visit Squarespace to start obsessing over all those gorgeous details (we know you want to).

Happy Planning!

ASOS’s Bridal Store Has Launched!

An ASOS Bridal Store? Too good to be true right? Wrong! We are jumping for joy over the news that ASOS has launched their brand new online bridal store. We’ve always been fans of ASOS’ extensive and gorgeous bridesmaid dress collection but by adding a wedding dress line and compiling all of their wonderful wedding accessories, shoes, lingerie and outfits in one place, ASOS has really upped their bridal game!

Luckily for us, ASOS has shared with us some great photos of their new wedding dresses to share with all of you, and we think it is safe to say that you will be just as impressed as we are. With none of the pieces exceeding £400, but by no means skimping on quality of design and materials, these are sure to become the go to for brides looking for affordable dress options. And keeping with the style-savy reputation that is synonymous with the ASOS brand, the collection covers every dress (and non-dress) trend, so there is something for everyone!

Happy bridal browsing everyone!

bridebook.co.uk-asos-wedding-collection-jumpsuit — This jumpsuit with the on-trend cape is perfect for the fashion savy bride.

bridebook.co.uk-asos-wedding-collection — Intricate beading in a sharp geometric pattern modernises this dress…

Introducing Rupert Sanderson’s Stunning New Bridal Collection

Style mavens – we have some very exciting news for you. Legendary British shoe designer, Rupert Sanderson, has now added a gorgeous bridal shoe collection. Too good to be true? We thought so too! Luckily for us though, the Bridebook team were invited to his flagship London store to see it for ourselves. The collection is everything we could expect from the royal and celebrity favourite – and more! From elegant and classic, to bold and stand-out – this collection has everything a bride could possibly want.

www.bridebook.co.uk-rupert-sanderson — The Calice shoe in a gorgeous nude satin – a Bridebook team favourite!

Rupert Sanderson’s style ethos is one many brides can relate to and appreciate, particularly for their wedding day. Rupert’s Head of Marketing, Rosanna Hill, described to us how, “with Rupert it’s all about less is more, focusing on lengthening the leg, and making the woman feel confident and sexy at the same time.” One of our favourite pieces from the collection that perfectly epitomizes this ethos is his Floria shoe (pictured below). Its unique way of framing the foot, acting both as a a sandal but also providing graphic coverage over the foot, makes it both light and airy, as well as having a raw edge, giving it a pronounced individuality.

One of our favourite things about Rupert’s bridal collection was his attention to the brides themselves. As much as brides want to stun on their wedding day, one always has to remember that you’ll be on your feet most of the day, so comfort and practicality is key. Rupert incorporates practicality so seamlessly into his collection, it would be easy to miss. From different heel heights to personal delivery of any Rupert Sanderson shoe to partnering dress boutiques Alice Temperly and Bruce Oldfield – Rupert has you covered. Hearing that Rupert is particularly known for bridging the gap between sexy and comfortable only made us want to play bride and try on the shoes for ourselves even more!

It is safe to say that Rupert Sanderson’s gorgeous bridal collection is now one of our favourites. Whether you want to keep it minimal and classic, like with the Pinka, or go bold, like with Rupert’s personal favourite and 50s inspired Cassandra, you are sure to not only find a shoe that fits your personal style, but a shoe that enhances your style to a new level of fashionable.

Want to know more about Rupert Sanderson? Check out some great personal anecdotes from chatting with the man himself:

What drew you to put together a formal bridal collection?

To be honest, the whole process happened quite organically. I always had several bridal styles that were incorporated into my classic collection. However, I noticed that a lot of our customers that came into our stores were looking for wedding shoes. One idea led to another and I decided to design a full bridal collection.

What is your favourite thing about designing bridal shoes in particular?

Whether it’s bridal, my classic line or seasonal collections, for me, it’s all about keeping things simple and designing by my “less is more” philosophy. I’ve always had a passion for creating the perfect pair of shoes by focusing on cut and line, and using the best quality materials. I love designing silhouettes that give a woman confidence.

What kind of bride wears Rupert Sanderson shoes?

I don’t believe in fixating to a specific type of bride. I like to think my collection is rather versatile and that my designs will speak to a variety of brides. The brides who wear my shoes will have their own story to tell. The most important is that they feel confident, comfortable and beautiful in a pair of my shoes.

What is your number 1 planning tip for brides and grooms?

Invest in a great pair of Rupert Sanderson shoes and the rest will happen naturally! A beautiful and comfy pair of shoes will take you through the big day, and you can wear them after the wedding.

Have you fallen in love with Rupert’s shoes as much as we have? Check out his Bridebook profile here!

11 Photographs That Will Transform Your Wedding Album

As a Husband and Wife wedding photography duo, The Springles understand your wedding day from both sides of the camera. Their truly heartfelt approach captures each wedding day authentically, creating absolutely beautiful, natural photographs. Both talented wedding photographers in their own right, their work blends their individual professional skill with their unique synergy as a married couple. With this distinctive approach in mind, Bridebook was excited to chat to Ash and Kat about the 11 photographs no wedding album should be without.

bridebook.co.uk the springles portrait — The Springles, Courtesy of Ed Peers

As wedding photographers specialising in candid natural photography, we are often asked by Brides what our top ten wedding photos are. Thanks to the amazing diversity of the human spirit, no wedding day will be the same as another, but as a couple takes their first courageous steps into their future together, these are the photographs which we believe no wedding album should be without.

1. Sisterhood

On the morning of the wedding bridesmaids, mother of the bride and girlfriends coalesce in this gorgeous display of Sisterhood. We love to capture the intricacies of these female relationships as the Bride gets ready for the biggest day of her life.

bridebook.co.uk bride getting ready with bridesmaids — Courtesy of The Springles

2. Gentlemen

Working as a couple means we can always capture the morning of the wedding from both the Bride and the Grooms perspectives, with heart-warming results.

bridebook.co.uk men getting ready for a wedding — Courtesy of The Springles

3. Presence

As the Groom waits for his Bride, he is immersed in the here and now, not focusing on the past or future, but rooted in the present. It’s a wonderful example of how every day of marriage should be.

bridebook.co.uk man waiting at the top of the aisle for bride — Courtesy of The Springles

4. Perspective

We only have our own perspective until we are shown another. We love to present more than one side to the story wherever we find the opportunity.

bridebook.co.uk bridesmaid fixing bride's train — Courtesy of The Springles

5. Joy

There are many moments of true, unfiltered joy on a wedding day. In marriage, we experience all that life has to offer, both the highs and the lows, and this captured moment of pure joy is a reminder that the best is always yet to come.

bridebook.co.uk happy couple being showered in confetti — Courtesy of The Springles

6. Humility

Our favourite thing about wedding speeches is how friends and relatives who have been with the Couple along the journey humbly offer their thoughts and feelings. We love the honesty of these moments. These photographs are a true reminder of the support and love of good friends.

bridebook.co.uk bride crying during speeches — Courtesy of The Springles

7. Identity

Every couple is made up of two unique individuals who have joined their lives together. These shots honestly reflect the Bride and Groom’s relationship, and showcase their individuality.

bridebook.co.uk happy bride and groom dancing — Courtesy of The Springles

8. History

There is such importance in the relationships that that have brought the Bride and Groom to their wedding day. The sense of family history in this image is a reminder that we are all here, at this exact moment, for a reason.

bridebook.co.uk mother and bride — Courtesy of The Springles

9. Influence

Marriages have the power to inspire the next generation about the power of love in the world. That’s why we adore these photographs of children enjoying the day.

bridebook.co.uk little boy at a wedding — Courtesy of The Springles

10. Nature

Because there is simply nothing more beautiful than two human beings celebrating their love against the backdrop of nature’s rich tapestry.

bridebook.co.uk couple in a wheat field — Courtesy of The Springles

11. Journey

At the end of the wedding day, we love to capture a final shot of the couple as they have a chance to reflect on the start of their journey as Husband and Wife.

bridebook.co.uk happy couple outdoors — Courtesy of The Springles

Happy Planning!

Love The Springles? Book them for your own wedding through their Bridebook profile or website!

You’re engaged! Now what?

Your partner popped the question. Hooray! Now what? Tiffany Wright, Proposal Planner extraordinaire and founder of The One Romance, begins the wedding planning journey by creating unique and tailored proposals that no one could ever say no to! Engagement do’s and don’ts start the moment you say yes, and Tiffany’s advice will get you on track to planning the wedding of your dreams.

Visit Your Parents

After all they have done for you over the years, you owe it to your folks to give them the honour of hearing the news first. And make sure there’s a bottle of champers on ice as they’ll no doubt be eager to kick start the celebrations!

Tell Your Friends

Before taking to social media to announce your engagement to the world and his wife, make sure your nearest and dearest receive a phone call and hear the news from you personally first.

Get Insured

After contacting your loved ones, this is the most important phone call you can make. Insuring an engagement ring is not as expensive as you might think and it is priceless should the absolute worst happen.

Get A Mani

All eyes will be on your finger and its brand-new bling, so ensure it is looking its level best by investing in a little pampering session!

Don’t feel bamboozled!

Planning a wedding can cause hot sweats. There’s not doubt about it. But you don’t have to feel intimidated by all of the wedding planning – especially when you have Bridebook to help you find everything you need in a simple and easy way -from Guestlists and budgets to venues…they’ve got your sorted.

Capture The Moment

When you do decide to make your engagement public, share a snap that captures the moment and tells your story. As much as your friends want to see your brand-new sparkler, they also want to hear how he proposed (and preferably with no details spared!).

Party

Last but by no means least, celebrate! This is such a pivotal moment in your life and one that only comes round the once, so don’t let it pass you by. Take the opportunity to raise a glass (or three!) surrounded by all those that you and your fiancé hold most dear.

Start planning THEIR surprise

If your now-fiancée has just planned a spectacular proposal for you, then why not start thinking about something fabulous you can do for them on your wedding day? The One Romance are the UK’s only Romance Planners and they specialise in planning unique and romantic surprises for couple that will leave your other half speechless. Anything is possible.

About Tiffany Wright

Tiffany is Founder and Director of UK and Europe’s first Romance Planning company ‘The One Romance’ where she helps plan all sorts of romantic experiences – from marriage proposals and dates to wedding anniversaries. The One Romance has won numerous awards (including the prestigious Jacqueline Gold ‘Women in Industry’ award) and have gathered a strong celebrity following. It is fast becoming the ‘go to’ company for anything romantic.

Tiffany is a regular on the TV/Media circuit offering advice on all things “romance”. She has her own TV show on Sky planning marriage proposals and has regularly written for magazines and national newspapers.

Happy Planning!

Smashing the Glass’ Top 5 Do’s and Dont’s For The Perfect Jewish Wedding

I love inspiring brides and grooms with wonderfully original and inclusive ideas for their wedding day. Here are my Top 5 Do’s and Don’t’s For The Perfect Jewish Wedding:

bridebook.co.uk-karen cinnamon at her laptop — Smashing the Glass’ Karen Cinnamon, portrait by John Nassari

DO expect to kick up a storm, and have your face glisten with glee (and sweat) during the ‘hora’, the joyous tradition of Jewish dancing. Just be careful not to fall off the chair, and make sure those with a penchant for booze are not the ones nominated to lift you!

bridebook.co.uk-smashing-the-glass- couple on chairs being lifted up — Courtesy of David Bastianoni

DO try to experience the pure and sacred side of a Jewish wedding as much as possible, as the spiritual significance is often lost in all the madness of putting it together.

bridebook.co.uk-smashing-the-glass- ciew of a synagogue from above — Courtesy of David Bastianoni

DO create a Pinterest board to store all your wedding ideas in one place. Pinterest is your best friend when it comes to planning your big day, as you can collect beautiful images and wedding design tips and paste them all in one place. It’s not only useful for you, your boards will also help give guidance to your suppliers. If you don’t want your whole social network to see details before the big day, use one of your private boards for your favourite ideas.

DO incorporate things into your wedding that are important to you, for example, a nostalgic song that brings back memories of when you first got together, favours made by you or a family member, table centres incorporating things that are personal to you as a couple, messages from guests woven into your chuppah design – the more individuality you stamp on your wedding, the better.

bridebook.co.uk-smashing-the-glass couple being lifted up on a chair holding a blue cloth between them — Courtesy of Blake Ezra

DO take time to be calm and in the moment of your day. Hand over the reins, don’t think about any of the details and enjoy your wedding day for what it is: a joyous celebration!

DON’T try to please everyone. This is your opportunity to do things as you want and it’s a time to be making decisions without having to justify them or fit expectations. Real friends and family will understand and those that don’t are not worth losing any sleep over.

bridebook.co.uk-smashing-the-glass-rustic jewish wedding ceremony — Courtesy of Amy Shore

DON’T expect local guests to adhere to a black-tie dress code if you’re getting married in Israel. They will show up in shorts, with a couple of unexpected extra kids in tow. Expect guests that confirmed attendance not to show up, and guests that were not invited to make an appearance instead – that’s how they roll in the land of milk and honey!

DON’T think that you need a large bridal party of groomsmen and bridesmaids if that’s not your bag. What you do need is a circle of a few close friends to rely on for support, help and mini-errands on the day. Have a think on who you would like to enlist in the months or weeks leading up to your wedding – close friends and family will feel honoured and will be only too happy to help.

bridebook.co.uk-smashing-the-glass-groom jumping over wedding guests — Courtesy of David Pullum

DON’T invite too many people. Fewer and closely connected is better than inviting a cast of unknowns, and makes for a far more meaningful, intimate atmosphere.

DON’T follow the crowd. Be true to yourself and have the confidence to do things your way, whether that means incorporating something non-traditional into your ceremony, picking a weird theme or wearing a gown so impractical you can barely move. Go for it, this is your day!

bridebook.co.uk-smashing-the-glass-beautiful white outdoor jewish weddings — Courtesy of John Nassari

Happy Planning!

Want more amazing Jewish wedding inspiration? Head over to Smashing the Glass where you can get your fill of the wonderful world of Jewish weddings or have a read of our other article written by Smashing the Glass on Bridebook!

House of Ollichon on How To Be A Dress-Less Bride

Here at Bridebook we love all things new and exciting; whether it’s our incredible budgeting tool (if we do say so ourselves), the naked cake trend taking the world by storm, or #welfies – the more it pushes the envelope the better! So when we heard about House of Ollichon, we knew we wanted to hear more. House of Ollichon is redefining how we think about bridal fashion by offering the modern bride a fashionable and more practical alternative to the traditional wedding dress. Read on to learn more about how to own being a “dress-less bride”:

bridebook.co.uk model wearing jumpsuit lying down — Courtesy of House of Ollichon

House of Ollichon was launched just six months ago (yes, we’re still babies!) to bridge the gap for fashion forward brides between the big dress and the high street offerings. The collection includes luxury bridal jumpsuits and pretty but trendy two pieces. As far as we know, we are the only bridal collection to exist without a dress in sight! After my struggle to find something for my own wedding at Islington Town Hall (I didn’t want a dress but something that pushed my bridal boundaries); House of Ollichon was born. Wedding trends are changing rapidly, there are so many weddings now that are more of a party than a big ceremony and like mine, some end up in the pub! Imagine a huge dress down the local!

bridebook.co.uk house of ollichon founder working in her studio — Founder Hannah Ollichon

The Jumpsuit Bride

Does a dress simply seem too much fuss? Many women out there desperately want to don the trousers for their wedding day and so they jolly well should! Women’s tastes have evolved beyond the traditional ‘meringue’ stereotype and now we have the confidence and individuality to ‘dress’ in trousers. Until now, we just haven’t had that many options!

bridebook.co.uk house of ollichon white jumpsuit — Courtesy of House of Ollichon

Our beloved English weather!

Imagine if it rains, imagine if you have to drag your dress through puddles or hitch it up round your ankles to avoid them; kind of ruins the look right? Jumpsuits have this magical power to hover above puddles and delete this concern from your otherwise graceful arrival.

bridebook.co.uk-house-of-ollichon white culottes and crop top — Courtesy of House of Ollichon

Love your shoes?

Then don’t hide them under a million skirt layers, you can finally have your wedding shoes on show!

bridebook.co.uk house of ollichon blush skirt and crop top — Courtesy of House of Ollichon

In the mood for dancing…

The biggest annoyance from my wedding was the fact that once the party started, my dress was no longer my new BFF. It hindered my moves so much (maybe this was a good thing), I was carrying the train around all night, I still have photos of it draped over my brother’s shoulders as it was even in his way! Once I’d adopted that s*d it moment, I knew there was no more www.preloved.com cash back for me… the bottom was greyer than a winter’s morning, the beading dangling off and beautiful lace totally shredded. Embrace trousers and avoid the dress- heartache!

bridebook.co.uk-house-of-ollichon three girls throwing flowers — Courtesy of House of Ollichon

That toilet moment.

For anyone who thinks weeing in a jumpsuit is a pain, try it in a wedding dress; jumpsuits win every time. And, you don’t need an assistant!

bridebook.co.uk-house-of-ollichon white jumpsuit on model — Courtesy of House of Ollichon

Post wedding hang ups…

The day is done and now you need a metre wide space in the cupboard for a dress you’ll never wear again. Jumpsuits (even white ones!) can be re-worn, re-loved, and ensure you keep your day alive without ever offending another bride!

bridebook.co.uk House of Ollichon white jumpsuit with black belt — Courtesy of House of Ollichon

A four day wedding? Why not!

With wedding celebrations overseas spanning across long weekends, there are so many more outfit opportunities for the cocktail, brunch, and registry office ceremony before the big bash. Do you really want to wear a dress every time?

bridebook.co.uk-house-of-ollichon blush jumpuit model with parasol — Courtesy of House of Ollichon

Happy Planning! Read more of our wedding dress articles here.

Pantone’s Guide to the Spring Colours of 2016

Ready for a colourful Spring wedding?

Yes, we know that we are stuck in the middle of winter. But let’s turn a blind eye to the drop in temperature and look on the bright time of the year: Spring. And in terms of wedding decoration one thing is sure: It will be colourful – but soft. Our colour expert and trend forecaster Pantone Color Institute has recently named the top 10 Spring trend colours. With Buttercup and Peach Echo included, the bride will be spoiled for choice. And of course, we want to share the entire colour palette with you. Enjoy!

Pantone’s Executive Director Leatrice Eiseman: Colours of the Year: Rose Quartz and Serenity

Always included in the Spring’s Fashion Color Report is the Pantone Colour of the Year. For 16 years the Pantone Color Institute has been annually selecting the Colour of the Year, a colour that reflects the global Zeitgeist. “What we do is try to read the pulse of the public,” says Leatrice Eiseman, Executive Director of the Pantone Color Institute. Therefore, a colour expert team led by Eiseman literally comb the world looking for new colour influences. And this year for the first time in history, Pantone has decided to shake things up and give us not one, but two Colours of the Year: Rose Quartz Pantone 13–1520 and Serenity Pantone 15-3919. As its name suggests, Rose Quartz is a gentle pink pastel tone that conveys compassion and composure. Serenity, as a pastel blue tone, comforts with a calming effect bringing feelings of respite and relaxation even in turbulent times. According to Eiseman the two colours reflect well being, order and tranquillity: “With the whole greater than its individual parts, joined together Serenity and Rose Quartz demonstrate an inherent balance between a warmer embracing rose tone and the cooler tranquil blue, reflecting connection and wellness as well as a soothing sense of order and peace.”

And those pastel pink and soft blue are true wedding must haves: Their pastel transparency can be used in the selection of fantastic accessories to the wedding. Invitations, menu cards, flowers, room and table decorations can be optimally designed in the Colours of the Year. As an idea: Serenity can be drawn as a sky-blue string through the entire areas or as a background colour of the invitations. For those who like romance will immediately take the Rose Quartz flowery embroidery ideas on the tablecloth to their heart. Add silver for some splash and sparkle.

Pantone’s Rose Quartz

Pantone’s Serenity: Behind the scenes

The Pantone Fashion Color Report launches traditionally on the first day of New York Fashion Week and presents the ten most important trend colours of women’s and men’s fashion for the upcoming year, which the designers are using in their upcoming collections. As a tribute to the beauty of natural resources the colours of this year serve as a vehicle to promote relaxation, curiosity and exploration. “Yet with our culture still surrounded by so much uncertainty, we are continuing to yearn for balance by incorporating those softer shades that offer a sense of calm and relaxation,” explains Eiseman. “The colour palettes of this season transport us to a happier, sunnier place where we feel free to express a wittier version of our real selves.” The designers were inspired by the contrast of urban design and by vegetation. This results in surprising colour combinations. The collections remind of architecture and travel and bring a sense of nostalgia with it. Designers took for example inspirations from the destination Cuba to play with courageous colour statements and coupling these vibrant hues with quieting, classic and more natural tones. But here is no clear difference between the colour palette for men and women – Unisex is trend:

bridebook.co.uk-pantone — Pantone’s Serenity

PANTONE 161548 Peach Echo:

The fashion and design communities, and consequently, consumers, have been in love with orange for several seasons. Coming to the fore this Spring: Peach Echo, a shade that emanates friendlier qualities, evoking warmth and accessibility. Whether you incorporate this beautiful orange hue as a subtle accent or as the dominant colour, it will be sure to add an on-trend and bright addition to your wedding decor.

bridebook.co.uk-pantone-peach-echo — Pantone’s Serenity

PANTONE 19-4049 Snorkel Blue:

Playing in the navy family, but with a happier, more energetic context, the maritime inspired, Snorkel Blue implies a relaxing vacation and encourages escape – perfect for a destination or coastal wedding.

bridebook.co.uk-pantone-snorkel-blue — Pantone’s Serenity

PANTONE 12-0752 Buttercup:

While the majority of the Spring/Summer palette trends toward calmness, a few diversions from the theme emerge that offer a contrast. With Buttercup, designers reveal a shining beacon transporting its wearer to a happier, sunnier place. The high energy Fiesta is a harbinger of excitement, encouraging free-spirited exploration to unknown but welcoming locales – perfect for that adventurous and energetic couple!

bridebook.co.uk-pantone-buttercup — Pantone’s Serenity

PANTONE 13-4810 Limpet Shell:

A shade of aqua that leans toward the green family, Limpet Shell is clear, clean and defined. Suggestive of clarity and freshness, its crisp and modern influences evoke a deliberate, mindful tranquillity. Limpet Shell would make an ideal colour for more intimate weddings with your nearest and dearest close.

bridebook.co.uk-pantone-limpet-shell — Pantone’s Serenity

PANTONE 17-1564 Fiesta:

The high energy Fiesta is a harbinger of excitement, encouraging free-spirited exploration to unknown but welcoming locales.

bridebook.co.uk-pantone-fiesta — Pantone’s Serenity

PANTONE 16-3905 Lilac Gray:

As in most any season, the need for neutrals in the beige and grey family arises. The subtlety of the lilac undertone in Lilac Gray adds a distinctive edge to this classic grey shade.

bridebook.co.uk-pantone-lilac-gray — Pantone’s Serenity

PANTONE 15-1040 Iced Coffee:

Iced Coffee is a transitional colour that will take us through the season as another strong neutral. With its natural earthy quality, the softness and subtlety of Iced Coffee creates a stable foundation when combined with the rest of this season’s palette.

bridebook.co.uk-pantone-iced-coffee — Pantone’s Serenity

PANTONE 15-0146 Green Flash:

Green Flash calls on its wearer to explore and escape the mundane, radiating an openness that combines with the rest of the palette in unexpected but serendipitous ways. The popularity of this brilliant hue is representative of nature’s persistent influence even in urban environments, a trend continuing to inspire designers.

bridebook.co.uk-pantone-green-flash — Pantone’s Serenity

Happy Planning! For more styling tips head over to our ‘Tips and Tricks’ page for more inspiration.

Q & A With Phillipa Lepley, Legendary British Wedding Dress Designer

There is no wedding dress designer that can equal the timeless elegance and sophistication of Phillipa Lepley‘s designs. There is something so undeniably irresistible about the classic silhouettes, the endless attention to detail, and the flawless tailoring.

It is no wonder that Bridebook can barely contain the excitement of having the chance to share with you this fabulous Q & A with Phillipa herself. Packed full of insight and guidance for brides embarking on their bespoke dress journey, as well as stunning photos of Phillipa at work and her dresses, you will be sure to enjoy yourself reading this one!

bridebook.co.uk phillipa lepley at work on a dress in her studio — Phillipa Lepley at work on a bespoke dress in her London studio

What is it that drew you to bridalwear in particular, and what is your favourite thing about designing wedding dresses?

I am particularly drawn to and passionate about bridal-wear as I am able to work with corsetry, embellishment and fine feminine detail so closely, which I absolutely love. Both my grandmothers were passionate at sewing and making so I picked up a lot from them at an early age about fabrics and sewing. I was always making things and loved art and crafts.

After studying Fashion Design at the London College of Fashion I was fortunate enough to be accepted onto an apprenticeship with an established wedding dress designer based in Holland Park. One year later I launched my own business.

Your style is known for its timelessness – what defines a wedding dress or style as timeless?

We focus on finding the right shape and style for the individual, rather than following fashion trends too closely. If the dress is exactly right for the bride, really defining the figure beautifully with a fabulous fit, in clean simple lines it will stand the test of time. Quite simply, a dress that will age well. You will be looking at your wedding photos forever so you need a frock to stand the test of time.

Phillipa Lepley wedding dress — Phillipa Lepley specializes in bespoke fitting and timeless design to ensure the dress fits like a dream and will continue to look beautiful for many years to come

What is the most challenging part of designing wedding dresses?

The most challenging part is finding the time to bring all of my ideas to life! I have so many ideas, because I am inspired every day by the beautiful brides I meet.

Is the fitting process altered or affected by the fabrics, and if so how? Are certain fabrics more difficult to work with?

Yes – but with such experienced seamstresses, we manage to make light work of the various silk fabrics. Plain, satin dresses are incredibly difficult to make so that they fit well around the shoulder area. I am quite OCD about this and won’t rest until that ‘spray-on’ effect has been achieved perfectly accentuating every curve, with no seems or folds.

What are some things brides should keep in mind regarding the fitting process when choosing certain fabrics?

No matter which dress a bride chooses, she will first of all attend a measuring appointment where an expert technician will see her in the sample shape, taking all the measurements as well as a visual rendition of posture. From this information, the pattern cutter will create a paper pattern, and then a calico toile will be made.

The calico toile is a mock-up of the dress, which is fitted to the bride’s body to ascertain the most accurate fit. This is fine tuned at the next fitting before the silk fabric itself is cut. More than one toile fitting is often needed to achieve the precise level of fit Phillipa Lepley dresses require.

Phillipa Lepley dress on model in front of cabinet with dog — The calico toile “first draft” of the dress ensures every bride’s dress accentuates their figure perfectly

How long before the wedding do you recommend a bride should start her wedding dress fittings? And when is the best time for the final dress fitting?

I would recommend you start the process of looking for your dress 6-9 months before your wedding. I feel that it is important to have an idea of how you want your day to look first, so that the dress fits in with this, so if you have already chosen your venue that is helpful.

My team of seamstresses like to have 6 months to work on a couture dress, however we can turn around a dress in two weeks if we really need to – I never like to turn away a bride! The whole process should be fun though, so start soon, take your time and enjoy every moment! Couture bespoke is a wonderful experience.

What essentials should a bride bring to her wedding dress fittings?

Tights (I personally don’t like bare legs in photos, when you are being thrown around on the dance floor!), shoes with a size heel you are comfortable in and some discrete, and comfortable knickers. Once you have chosen your wedding jewellery you can bring that along too, but usually brides decide on that later on, and they often bring all their accessories to their final few fittings.

Who should brides bring?

It is lovely to bring bridesmaids or family members, however I often suggest that brides come on their own to their very first appointment. That way they can make up their own mind on what they personally like, before being too influenced by other people’s opinions. There are plenty of opportunities to bring people along either to have a second try-on, or to the fittings.

When buying a dress that’ll need to be altered, what are key factors brides should remember?

Be sure to go to a skilled, expert seamstress because the fit makes all the difference. – someone who really has experience with corsetry and fine silks is key.

What are your recommendations on how to handle sudden weight change in the run up to a wedding?

Fittings are very regular towards the end of the couture process, so changes in weight (even very last minute!) are not a problem – – something we are very used to.

What budgeting tips can you recommend to brides in the wedding dress budget?

Brides often ask what they should splurge and save on and I always say to them that if the dress is perfectly fitted people won’t be looking anywhere else!

Phillipa Lepley backless dress on model — Start looking for your perfect wedding dress at least 6-9 months in advance to ensure you find “the one” and have time to make any necessary alterations

Do you have some wedding planning tips for brides to be?

Don’t be overwhelmed by the search process. You need to feel relaxed and open-minded right from the start. You will be invited to try on as many dresses as possible, including those that don’t immediately jump out at you. Leave any pre-conceived ideas outside the door as wild cards can often be ‘the one’!

Consider adding your own special touches. The lining of the gown could be embroidered with the date of your wedding, or your initials and those of your intended. A special piece of jewellery could be incorporated in to the dress and you could wear a family veil, tiara, or keep sake.

A slight change to a gown for the evening is on-trend. A shrug, button-backed top or bolero could be removed leaving either a strapless dress or different straps. A belt could be added, removed or changed. For a winter wedding a fur shrug could be removed, or a change from a veil to a tulle stole could be incorporated into a summer wedding look.

A silk tulle veil will frame the final look adding romance and mystery. The right veil will complement the gown, echoing detail with a hand worked lace edge or a splash of sparkle. Or a clean satin bias binding can offer a crisp clean finish and really enhance the look.

Whether opting for a couture gown or not, choose one that is timeless; it can be ‘modern’ but it needs to age well and stand the test of time in your wedding photographs.

Phillipa Lepley wedding dress on model sitting with hands in lap — Don’t forget you’ll be looking at your dress in your wedding photos for many years to come, so make sure it can stand the test of time!

Happy Planning!

Are you as obsessed with Phillipa Lepley’s designs and bespoke approach as we are? You can book a consultation with the lady herself through her Bridebook profile, or visit her website!

Q & A With Royal Favourite Jewellery Designer Kiki McDonough

One of the most sought after jewellers in the luxury style set, including a personal favourite of the Duchess of Cambridge herself, Kiki McDonough epitomizes timeless style through her vibrant and wearable pieces perfect for the style-wise bride. Bridebook was lucky enough to chat with Kiki to get the inside scoop on how to accentuate your wedding day outfit with your jewellery.

bridebook.co.uk-kiki-mcdonough portrait in purple dress — The amazing lady herself, Kiki McDonough

Besides the rings, if you could only wear one piece of wedding day jewellery, what would it be?

Earrings to light up and frame the face!

What is your absolute favourite wedding day jewellery piece?

A tiara. Your wedding day is the only time you can wear one, and they are the most beautiful pieces of jewellery.

Colour is a definitive part of your design style – what are some different ways a bride could incorporate colour into her wedding day outfit?

Lots of brides choose blue topaz jewellery. It is a wonderful colour because you can wear it afterwards which is very important. I think it is a shame never to wear your wedding day jewellery again.

bridebook.co.uk-kiki-mcdonough — These gorgeous drop earrings by Kiki McDonough would be perfect for a bride’s ‘something blue’

If a bride wants to keep her ceremony jewellery to the minimum, what are some recommendations for incorporating jewellery pieces at other points of the day and night?

We sell pretty little diamond hoops which are perfect for during the day, and brides can then add drops for the evening.

Or if you really want to add some sparkle for the dance floor, a lovely colourful multi-gemstone necklace is sure to be a show-stopper!

What is the most creative way you have seen blue incorporated into a bride’s wedding day outfit for her ‘something blue’, and how would you recommend a bride do that through her jewellery?

We sell beautiful blue topaz heart pendants and matching earrings surrounded by diamonds. One recent bride wore the blue pendant herself and then bought her bridesmaids matching necklaces, but each one was given a different stone to suit their individual colouring.

bridebook.co.uk-kiki mcdonough's blue topaz pendant — The blue topaz in Kiki McDonough’s gem pendants is simply striking

What type of jewellery did you wear on your wedding day?

I wore a diamond Fleur De Lis brooch belonging to my mother (something old and borrowed), and a little pair of blue topaz earrings (something new and blue).

What was your favourite moment from your wedding and your #1 wedding planning tip for brides to be today?

My favourite moment was leaving the house with my Father, as I really felt I was leaving home for the start of a very exciting new chapter.

My advice would be to always try to take a slow pace throughout the day – it goes so quickly so try to absorb it all and not let it wiz by in a complete flash.

Happy Planning! Head over to more of our wedding jewellery articles on Bridebook.

Prezola’s Top Ten Gifts

Don’t know where to start for your wedding gift list? Whether you’re coming up completely empty handed with ideas or simply have too many, Prezola’s top ten gifts to add to your wedding gift list is exactly what you need. The modern couple’s favourite gift list has done the tricky part and picked out their shortlist of must-add gifts to complete your wedding registry.

A Gorgeous Set of Cutlery

New on site this year, Viners is a much loved brand, steeped in British heritage. Viners combine best in class materials and cutting edge technology to produce elegant, robust, rust resistant cutlery. My current favourite is the Rattail, which dates all the way back to 1604! It’s understated and elegant – the embodiment of a modern classic with a subtle raised design and brilliant mirror finish.

bridebook.co.uk prezola set of cutlery — Set of Rattail stainless steel cutlery

Last-a-lifetime ovenware

Your wedding list is your chance to upgrade in the kitchen and dining department and asking for some lovely high quality ovenware is a great opportunity to replace the stuff you’ve had since your student days!

It’s hard to beat Le Creuset, which is one of our number one sellers. It will last you a lifetime so think carefully about your colour choice!

bridebook.co.uk-prezola le creuset white casserole — Le Creuset cast iron casserole

A quality dinner service

Entertaining at home is a trend that just keeps growing and huge numbers of our wedding lists now include a beautiful bone china dinner service for all those dinner parties. If you want something lovely and elegant this blue and white Asiatic Blue Pheasant from Burleigh is stunning with a pretty vintage feel.

bridebook.co.uk-prezola white and blue china — Burleigh Asiatic Pheasant Range

Quirky personalised gifts

Do you love bespoke homewares, quirky handmade accessories and unique pieces of art? If so, one of the big trends we’re noticing in wedding gifts is for couples to reflect their true personalities by choosing bespoke gifts like personalised wall art from a boutique retailer like Bombus. This adorable bespoke map heart can be personalised with a location close to a couple’s heart. Bombus source a vintage map of the area and transform it into a beautiful bespoke artwork.

bridebook.co.uk-prezola heart map wall art — Bombus wall art

Fine wines or vintage champagne

If you know your Chablis from your Chardonnay, ask others to splash on some pricey vintages you might not buy yourself and make sure you stay well stocked for years to come.

bridebook.co.uk-prezola jacquart champagne — Jacquart Rose Champagne

A once in a lifetime experience

For the adventurous couple, give them a gift of a lifetime with a Tinggly gift box. Each gift box contains a voucher valid for any one of 350+ different experiences in 80+ countries. From a 4D experience at the London Eye to Shark Diving in South Africa, it is the world’s most exciting gift to receive!

bridebook.co.uk-prezola couple scubadiving — Tinggly Gift Box

Wonderful quality bedding

In times gone by bed linen was one of the most important parts of a bridal trousseau. These days luxurious linens are making a big return to wedding lists as brides and grooms request items that they would never normally consider treating themselves to. If you are looking for beautifully classic and simple designs, take a look at the range from The White Company. You’ll find everything from 200 thread count cotton percale to 800 thread count Egyptian cotton.

bridebook.co.uk-prezola white bedding — The White Company bedding set

Cool countertop trophies

Countertop trophies like coffee machines, designer kettles and the ever popular KitchenAid is always great choice for a gift list. Unleash your inner Mary Berry and get baking!

bridbeook.co.uk-prezola kitchenaid stand mixer — Kitchenaid Artisan stand mixer

The gift of sound

No couple should be without a gorgeous portable vintage-inspired turntable – perfect for listening to all your favourite romantic vinyl LPs! Housed in a faux leather briefcase, The Crosley turntable features built-in stereo speakers so you can have a romantic party anywhere! There’s a gorgeous range of colours to choose from too. Retro chic meets amazing sound quality.

bridebook.co.uk-prezola crosley cruiser turn table — Crosley Cruiser Turntable

Talking-point electricals

Electrical items are no longer the functional but necessary items on a wedding gift list! Let your music take pride of place with something like a funky Aerobull speaker from Jarre Technologies. Just choose red, black or white and start playing your music direct from your smartphone. It will certainly get your guests talking!

bridebook.co.uk-prezola bull speaker docs — Jarre Aerobull Speaker Doc

About Prezola:

Prezola is the UK’s leading specialist wedding gift list company, designed for modern design-conscious couples who want choice and flexibility. Founded in 2010, their unique award-winning service lets couples have gorgeous presents from all the top homeware brands, a commission-free honeymoon fund, custom gifts and charity donations all on one easy-to-use-list. Prezola understands modern couples have busy lifestyles and want to do their ‘wedmin’ online.

Prezola has been named “The Ultimate Wedding Gift List” by market leading Conde Nast Brides Magazine and were crowned “Wedding Gift List of the Year” in 2014, 2015 and 2016. Prezola are run by a husband and wife team supported by 40 dedicated staff who pride themselves on providing a truly personal service.

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Curating Your Gift List – Where to Start?

It’s not just about toasters, tea sets and towels…the only thing that should limit your wedding gift list is your imagination. Bridebook went straight to the pros at Amazon.co.uk to get their essential tips in tackling your gift list, covering everything you need to know to start putting together the perfect wedding gift list!

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Start Early

Creating your gift list is an incredibly exciting part of planning for your future. The gifts you receive may well be with you for the rest of your life.

They will become a reminder of the day you started a new life together and also of each and every guest who wanted to commemorate that day so allow yourself plenty of time to carefully select and research everything you choose.

Think Variety

Always make your list longer than you need as your guest will value having a variety of items to choose from.

Amazon.co.uk has the world’s largest selection available for wedding gift lists; anything that is available on Amazon.co.uk can be added so make sure you select items that reflect your personality as a couple and will be things that you can enjoy together.

bridebook.co.uk blue bike from amazon — His and her bicycles are a wonderful addition to give your list a little variety to the traditional items

Price Range

It’s a good idea to have a wide range of gifts across various price points so that you are catering for all budgets. From photo frames and mugs to garden furniture and TVs, offer options across the price spectrum.

You can also add gift cards or incorporate charity donations into your list if you want to.

Go For What You Love

Don’t be constrained – whether you want design classics for the home, top-of-the-range cookware, luxury beauty and skincare products, a case of vintage champagne or a pair of bikes so you can kick start a new hobby together, do you research to ensure you’re getting the best of the best. With customer reviews you can make informed choices and read genuine customer feedback across all products.

And if there’s something specific you want from another online store and want truly endless options you can opt for the Universal Wish List Feature and add that to your list too!

bridebook.co.uk variety of items from amazon — Make sure you’re adding only the best of the best to your list by checking customer reviews

Eight Weeks in Advance

We recommend sharing your list with your guests eight weeks in advance of your wedding day. This gives them plenty of time to purchase the gifts and is short enough to avoid any products going out of stock.

It’s always a good idea to review your list a couple of weeks before the big day so that you can add extra items if necessary.

A Helping Hand

You are likely to have guests of all ages wanting to contribute to your day so make it as easy for them as possible. With an online gift list you can just share the link to your list and your guests can purchase at the click of a button, which will ensure you don’t receive duplicates.

Plus, there’s an extra bonus: as soon as your guests collectively spend £250 on gifts for your wedding, you will receive a £50 Amazon.co.uk gift card. (Ts and Cs apply)

Say Thank You

Once the wedding and honeymoon are over it’s easy to forget the all important thank you. People still appreciate a hand written thank you card and we provide a Thank You list which allows you to keep track of what has been purchased and by whom, so you can show your gratitude.

bridebook.co.uk amazon thank you note — Don’t forget the most important part – your thank yous!

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First Look At Jenny Packham’s New Affordable Bridal Collection with David’s Bridal

It’s official. Jenny Packham, one of the UK’s most recognised independent dress designers, adored by celebrities and royalty alike is launching a brand new bridal collection minus the designer price tag. The red carpet favourite follows in the footsteps of Vera Wang with the launch of a brand new collection exclusively for US bridal chain David’s Bridal. Prepare to fall in love as Bridebook brings you an exclusive first look at the Collection, available in all David’s Bridal stores and online February 10th.

bridebook.co.uk dotted veil on blonde model — We love this feminine veil with beaded floral accents

Wonder by Jenny Packham will feature bridal, bridesmaid, flower girl and mother of the bride styles plus a range of accessories including shoes, bags, sashes, hair pieces and veils. The 9 bridal gowns are available in a UK size 4-18 and are priced at £850 – £1395 whilst bridesmaid’s dresses, available in 12 delectable shades, start at £130.95.

bridebook.co.uk jenny packham for david's bridal sequin dress — A luxurious and glamorous sequin covered dress from the collection

The diffusion line offers all the grace and soft glamour Packham has come to epitomize at a fraction of the cost of her regular line, favoured by the likes of Kate Middleton and Angelina Jolie. The collection- inspired by the art nouveau style of the early 20th century – expertly captures how most women want to look on their wedding day. The beaded flowing gowns don’t feel dated or overly theatrical but instead effortlessly beautiful and timelessly chic. Trademark feminine silhouettes with intricate details along with structured shapes combine to create a collection that is light, romantic and contemporary.’ This is a designer and David’s Bridal collaboration at its best – letting all of us feel like fashion royalty without having to mortgage the house.

bridebook.co.uk jenny packham for david's bridal ivory dress with neckline details — The details Jenny Packham is so well known for continue to shine through in her collaboration with David’s Bridal

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Q & A With Kate Moss’s Florist Vic Brotherson

Vic Brotherson, owner and founder of the hugely popular London flower shop Scarlet & Violet, shares all her greatest tips and insights with Bridebook in this wonderful Q&A. From Star Wars buttonholes to ‘meadowy’ flowers to essential budgeting secrets – this is definitely one of our juiciest Q & As yet!

bridebook.co.uk blue flowers in blue vases — All pictured flowers by Scarlet & Violet.

How would you describe your signature style?

Gosh I have answered this question a few times and I still find it hard to put into words! I hope our signature are flowers that feel natural, uncontrived and meadowy, using blooms and greens that are interesting, detailed and textural . We arrange them as much as we can as if they have been picked and gathered from the garden, selecting tones and shapes that work alongside each other to build up to the finished bouquet or arrangement. It’s a bit like painting or drawing – layering and making sure that each stem has an impact whether just a subtle shadow or a shot of colour – each bunch is different and every day has its new beauties. We definitely tend to favour the more feminine, softer colours if left to our own choices.

bridebook.co.uk multi colour meadowy flowers — Vic’s signature style is natural and meadowy… and we love it!

What is your #1 tip for a bride deciding on flowers?

I can’t resist giving more than one! My top tips include looking at everything you can and seeing what you love, and making sure that the flowers you adore are available at the time of year of your wedding before you set set your heart on them. Choose your dress and venue first as these may have an impact on the colours and style of the flowers. If you’re not sure look at both options made into bouquets – brights or softs – and trial them by taking them home and have a posing hour in front of the mirror! See which works with your skin tone and wedding dress colour. Take pics, see what looks good in photos – this is the crucial thing as so much of the day is about creating beautiful memories. Keep an open mind don’t be too set on specific flowers, as you may see something when you go to the flower store that changes everything. Don’t be nervous or scared of looking at everything as even the most novice of flower buyers suddenly has a favourite and it’s always surprising you have more of an idea of what you love than you would imagine.

How do you add character to a men’s buttonhole?

I’m probably not the best at this as I do favour timeless flowers – I definitely encourage the gents to get involved and choose what they love, be it a bundle of herbs or a rose bud colour that they love- again I am always surprised at how suddenly the choices are made once there are actual flowers to look at, hold and smell. It can all get quite specific for these tiny little bundles but then again they are the only male element to the flowers so most chaps suddenly speak out. We have used star wars characters, scrabble letters, badges, tied with a variety of ribbons and embraced a few different nations with a nod to various cultures with native flowers and foliages – men’s buttonholes can be fun but remember they should not be overwhelmingly large. (Read more about grooms attire in our article here).

What is your best flower budgeting tip?

Get everything else right first, chairs and tables, linens etc. Think about anything else that’s going on the table too and where you are up to budget and space wise and work backwards- there are lots of ways to economise on flowers – be clever with single stems, be inventive with inexpensive blooms and foliage, be careful about doing them yourself as it can be too much. Be upfront about your ideal budget and then its up to us to make sure that the flowers are the most beautiful and suitable to work within that.

bridebook.co.uk pot of colourful flowers outside a tipi — The free and natural style lends itself perfectly outdoor weddings

Can you describe the most challenging assignment you’ve had?

I can’t think of one where I have felt any more frightened than usual – I am still nervous every wedding we do – I take what we do very seriously and not until it is all under way does my Saturday turn into a relaxed afternoon and I can breathe again!

What was your favourite moment from Kate Moss’s wedding?

Seeing the bridesmaids walk down the meadow walkway outside the church, that was my breathe again moment.

Whose wedding would you most like to do the flowers for – past, present or future?

My daughter, Betsy- a while to go yet but then I’ll be able to make all my favourites – so she’ll have to get married early June!

What was your favourite moment from your own wedding?

I’ve been married for 20 years – I was a florist and we got married early July so we had boxes and boxes of English delphinium for the church all down the aisle – it was such a memorable moment- the rest of the flowers were pretty minimal which just goes to show really that it’s just picking the right bits to focus on as there are flowery moments and none flowery moments.

1. Set Realistic Goals

2. Move Every Day

3. Work Your Whole Body

4. Eat Clean and Lean

5. Don’t Stress!

6. Be Kind To Yourself

Bonus Q&A with Bodyism’s James Duigan!

What was your favourite memory of your wedding?

What is the one thing you wish someone had told you about planning a wedding?

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The ‘3-day Wedding’

The Influence of Tech

Millennial Spending Trends

More changes…

Key Take-Outs:

Planning your wedding?

Colour Scheme

Go shopping

Mix & Match

Flattering Fit

Hair & Make up

About twobirds

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The Dress:

The Bridal Party:

The Jewellery (and veil):

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Preparation is key.

Talk slowly…

Speak clearly and loudly!

Emphasize key words.

Remain calm!

Make eye contact with your audience.

Body language is vital.

Check your posture.

Anticipate interruptions.

Stay off the booze!

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1. Pick a template

2. Tell your story

3. Add your photos

4. Have guests RSVP online

5. Register for wedding gifts

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1. Sisterhood

2. Gentlemen

3. Presence

4. Perspective

5. Joy

6. Humility

7. Identity

8. History

9. Influence

10. Nature

11. Journey

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Visit Your Parents

Tell Your Friends

Get Insured

Get A Mani

Don’t feel bamboozled!

Capture The Moment

Party

Start planning THEIR surprise

About Tiffany Wright

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The Jumpsuit Bride

Our beloved English weather!

Love your shoes?

In the mood for dancing…

That toilet moment.

Post wedding hang ups…

A four day wedding? Why not!

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