Author: Mike Jeavons

You’re about to celebrate your 25th wedding anniversary… wow! What a fantastic achievement, and one that not very many couples have the fortune of celebrating. It shows just how much love and commitment the two of you share to have made it to a quarter of a century of marriage. It’s an incredible milestone that deserves to be shouted about from every rooftop in your neighbourhood!

Your 25th wedding anniversary is also known as your silver wedding anniversary, because it relates to the traditional gifts couples that have been giving each other for more than 100 years. Just like every anniversary up to this point, there are traditional and modern gifts, as well as a traditional gemstone and flower. But, when you’re celebrating 25 years of marriage, there isn’t as much differentiation between them as at other milestones.

That’s because your 25th anniversary really is a big one. And if you can and want to, taking part in the gift-giving traditions associated with it can be a nice way to mark the occasion. It’s called your silver anniversary for good reason, after all. And that’s not to say you have to give your partner something silver – you’re obviously free to give them any kind of gift you like!

In this article, we’re going to let you know all about the traditions surrounding 25th anniversary gifts and the meaning behind this historical choice. We’ll also give you 50 ideas for gifts if you want to give your partner a meaningful gift but you’re not quite sure where to start.

For more information about the various anniversary gift-giving traditions from 1 year to 90, read our complete year-by-year wedding anniversary gift guide.

What are traditional and modern gifts for a 25th wedding anniversary?

Your 25th anniversary is a biggie, and is otherwise known as your silver anniversary. For that reason, silver features quite prominently when it comes to the different traditional and modern gifts. Here are the gifts you might want to consider when sticking to the 25th anniversary themes.

Traditional 25th anniversary gift – Silver

The traditional 25th anniversary gift is silver, which is why it’s also known as your silver wedding anniversary. Silver represents beauty, strength and durability, which makes it a perfect choice for this fantastic milestone. The great thing about silver is that it’s a hugely versatile precious metal, and isn’t just limited for use in jewellery. So, even though there are fewer themes for your 25th anniversary, it still allows you to have plenty of gifts to choose from.

Modern 25th anniversary gift – Silver

When the modern anniversary gifts were created in the 1930s by the American National Retail Jeweler Association, they realised that there was no point in creating something new for 25 years. By that point, your 25th anniversary was already well and truly cemented as being the silver anniversary. So, the modern gift for your 25th anniversary is also silver.

25th anniversary gemstone – Silver

While not actually a gemstone (it’s a precious metal, like gold) the traditional 25th anniversary gemstone is also – you guessed it – silver. This means there isn’t as much choice when it comes to gift themes for your 25th anniversary, but the special meaning is one that is known the world over.

25th anniversary flower – Iris

If you’re looking to give your partner something traditional but not silver, you can choose to give them the traditional 25th anniversary flower, which is the lovely iris. Irises usually come in shades of purple or blue, but you can also find them in yellow, brown, black, orange, pink and white. Irises represent courage, hope and wisdom, which are all beautiful gestures for a 25th anniversary gift.

How do you choose a gift for a 25th wedding anniversary?

With silver having such a close association with your 25th anniversary, you may have already decided what you’re going to get as a gift for your other half. Silver is a lovely gift to give during an extra special milestone that has fabulous historical meaning. But, when it comes to narrowing it down, you might not be so sure. Here are a few things to bear in mind when deciding on what to give your partner to mark 25 years together:

• Are you set on sticking to the silver theme? If so, you may want to get something traditionally silver, like jewellery, or are you open to having a bit more fun with the theme?
• Have you got a set budget? While silver isn’t as expensive as gold or platinum, it’s still not always cheap, especially when it comes to sterling silver and jewellery.
• Are you hoping to give a gift that’s personalised? Many silver gifts can be personalised in some way, but often not the more expensive silver items.
• Has your partner asked for something? If so, how does that fit into the silver theme and is there enough flexibility?

Is an amazing couple in your life about to celebrate 25 years of marriage? It might be friends, your parents or someone close. To help them celebrate, you might be interested in giving them a gift linked close to the traditional theme, but wonder if you can do that or if it’s exclusive to the couple themselves. Thankfully, these rules aren’t set in stone, so you’re more than welcome to join in on the fun and give them something made from silver. They’re bound to love whatever you give them, but a silver gift shows just how much thought and love you put into your generous gift!

50 ideas for a 25th wedding anniversary gift

For such a big milestone in your marriage, you’ve probably had a lot of thought about what to give your other half to celebrate spending 25 years together. Or, maybe you’re a little bit stuck, knowing you want to give them something but unsure about the theme. So, to give you a helping hand, here are 50 ideas for a 25th anniversary gift so you can make it extra special.

20 traditional and modern gifts for a 25th wedding anniversary

The traditional and modern gift for celebrating 25 years of marriage is silver, a hugely popular choice for couples all over the world. If you like the thought of giving a silver gift but want to think outside the box, here are 20 ideas to get you started.

1. A fine silver wine glass set

If you plan on sharing a bottle of wine with your other half on the evening of your anniversary (or the afternoon – you’re celebrating, after all), you can do so in style. This fine silver wine glass set features a silver bird design and each glass is as delicate as it is stylish.

2. An engraved silver carriage clock

Carriage clocks aren’t quite as in fashion as they once were, but for something as momentous as your silver anniversary they’re worth making a comeback for. And with an engraved silver carriage clock, it can be customised to feature a personalised message to your other half.

3. A silver leaf twist vase

For something fantastically on theme and practical, you might choose to give your partner a silver leaf twist vase, which can also include a personalised message. A great gift your other half can use again and again.

4. An engraved silver-plated trinket box

For something small, sweet, personalised and relatively inexpensive, this engraved silver-plated trinket box is a thoughtful gift that gives your love somewhere to store their bits and bobs.

5. Sterling silver wren cufflinks

There really isn’t a cuter accessory to give your suit-wearing partner than a pair of sterling silver wren cufflinks. Each pair is full of character and carefully handmade with intricate detail. 

6. A sterling silver Pandora charm

If your other half has a Pandora bracelet, you can tie their love for their jewellery into your gift, by treating them to a sterling silver Pandora charm. That way, it fits with their existing jewellery and is something they can always wear to remember your big milestone.

7. A silver photo frame

Your wedding might have been 25 years ago, but we bet you still look back on it with a huge smile on your face. You could print out your favourite wedding snap and have it framed in a silver photo frame, which your partner can then display on a desk or shelf, or hang on the wall.

8. An engraved silver pen

Gifts don’t come quite as luxurious as an engraved silver pen, a stunningly distinguished gift that your partner can hold on to and use forever.

9. A silver watch

Gold watches are often the go-to, but a silver watch can be just as fantastic. If your partner loves their watches, it’s a great choice for your 25th anniversary. You should also have no trouble finding them a watch that suits their tastes.

10. A sterling silver magnifying paperweight

Paperweights are super useful for keeping things organised on your desk, and if your partner spends time shuffling through paperwork, then a sterling silver magnifying paperweight may be just the gift for them. It can also be engraved to make it extra personal.

11. An engraved silver hip flask

If your partner enjoys a little tipple, then they’ll no doubt love an engraved silver hip flask. A stunning and highly personal gift they can always hold on to.

12. An antique silver letter opener

For something unique, antique and not too expensive, treat your partner to an antique silver letter opener, so they can feel just a little bit classy every time the mail comes… so long as they’re not delivering bills, that is.

13. A silver bookmark

Silver is a brilliant precious metal with loads of different uses, and perhaps one of the more unexpected uses is a silver bookmark. A great gift for the bookworm in your life, which can also be personalised for an extra bit of thoughtfulness.

14. Sterling silver penguin ornaments

Any animal lover is bound to fall in love with these sterling silver penguin ornaments, which are full of personality and are more than happy to sit on a shelf without the need for arctic conditions!

15. Silver wall art

Add life, shine and sparkle to a room with a piece of silver wall art. There are also plenty of different designs available, so you shouldn’t have to look too long to find something that suits your partner’s style and taste.

16. A sterling silver tabby cat keyring

The purr-fect 25th anniversary present for any cat lover, this sterling silver tabby cat keyring is highly detailed, highly thoughtful and highly adorable.

17. A silver elephant bottle opener

If you might share a beer or two on your anniversary, you can crack them open with a silver elephant bottle opener, which is sleek and modern with great contemporary detail.

18. A sterling silver dish

For a real touch of extravagance, you could go for this sterling silver dish, which can also be personalised for that extra touch of excellence.

19. A sterling silver hedgehog sculpture

Hedgehogs are absolutely adorable, and one of the symbols of British wildlife. Pay homage to this cute little critter with a sterling silver hedgehog sculpture, which would be a lovely addition to any shelf or display cabinet.

20. A silver lighter

If your partner has a need for one, there’s no way they won’t love a silver lighter, a real luxury item that has tons of class.

5 affordable gifts for a 25th wedding anniversary

While your silver anniversary is an incredible milestone and you no doubt want to give your partner the world, many silver gifts can be pretty expensive, which means they might not suit your budget. But, don’t be disheartened! There are still options available which still let you give your partner a gift in keeping with the theme but without having to spend crazy money. Here are five suggestions for beautiful token 25th anniversary gifts.

1. Mr and Mrs silver-plated keyring set

For a gift the two of you can always keep close by wherever you go, this Mr and Mrs silver-plated keyring set is a cute and thoughtful gift that keeps you both connected even when you’re apart.

2. A silver anniversary card

Combine a gift card with the traditional theme with a silver anniversary card. It makes sure you still pay homage to the theme so that you’re then free to give your partner something else if you wish to as well.

3. A commemorative silver anniversary coin

The ultimate token gift… literally! A commemorative silver anniversary coin is a lovely little keepsake your partner can always hold on to.

4. Silver anniversary keepsake jar

For something sweet, small and unique, a silver anniversary keepsake jar is a little reminder your partner can always keep close by to remind them of your special anniversary.

5. A silver love ornament

All you need is love, so the famous song goes. So, for your 25th anniversary, give your other half exactly that, with a silver love ornament!

5 DIY gifts for a 25th wedding anniversary

A popular way for couples to show each other their love and appreciation on their anniversaries is by making each other a gift. But, with silver being the main theme of your 25th anniversary, how can you tie into making something unless you just so happen to be a silversmithing expert? Well, all it takes is a bit of creativity (and some silver wire). So, here are some ideas to get you started.

1. DIY silver wire flowers

With some silver wire and basic tools, it’s surprisingly simple to make DIY silver wire flowers. And once you’ve made a few, you suddenly have the most unique bouquet of all time to give your partner on the big day! Check out a video tutorial and follow the steps to get started.

2. A DIY silver wire sculpture

Fancy having a go at something a bit more complicated than a flower? A silver wire sculpture might be just what you’re after. There are plenty of video tutorials out there, like this DIY silver wire guide, which shows you how to make a stag.

3. A DIY silver wire cube

For a real one-of-a-kind trinket box, you could have a go at making a DIY silver wire cube. It sounds complex, but with a bit of patience, you’ll definitely be able to make your own. Check out a video tutorial for everything you need.

4. DIY silver wire cat bookmark

Is your partner a cat-loving bookworm? If so, a super simple DIY silver wire cat bookmark might just be the ideal gift to make. And, of course, there’s a video tutorial that shows you the ropes. Or, wire.

5. DIY fine silver jewellery

If making something from silver wire isn’t something that tickles your fancy, maybe some DIY fine silver jewellery is. And it’s not as complicated as you might imagine if you pick up a fine silver jewellery-making kit. A fun and fulfilling way to make something super special and unique.

5 experience or activity gifts for a 25th wedding anniversary

Your anniversary is a brilliant excuse (not that you need one) to spend time with the love of your life having fun and experiencing new things. There are also ways you can tie that into the traditional silver theme, so you can still give your partner something to do with silver. Here are five suggestions for experiences you can do when celebrating 25 amazing years of marriage.

1. A silver Lion King theatre experience

Silver is in the name, so it totally counts! Why not take a trip to London and catch a show with this silver Lion King theatre experience? The perfect date night.

2. A silver photoshoot voucher

Now that the two of you are celebrating 25 years of marriage, what better time to have a photoshoot than right now? Especially if your last photoshoot together was the day you got married. A silver photoshoot voucher gives you everything you need to capture more lasting memories.

3. A silver jewellery-making workshop

Making silver jewellery really is an art form that takes years of learning, practice and experience to master. But, it’s also a lot of fun to try out, and a silver jewellery-making workshop is something the two of you can do together.

4. A silver safari park tour

Enjoy a guided tour of Longleat and get up close and personal with many of the park’s beautiful species with a silver safari park tour. It’s a surefire way to have a wild time on your anniversary!

5. A Silverstone experience

Does your other half love watching the F1 and dream of driving in the Grand Prix? Well, you can give them the next best thing with a supercar experience, which absolutely counts because it’s at Silverstone!

10 25th anniversary jewellery ideas

Because there isn’t a traditional 25th anniversary gemstone, and instead it leans more into the silver theme, this opens you up to almost every type of jewellery you can think of. Silver isn’t the most precious metal out there, but it still works wonderfully well, and silver jewellery can be incredible. As it’s fairly neutral, it also pairs well with almost every type of gemstone. Here are 10 suggestions for silver jewellery you could consider giving your partner to mark 25 years:

1. Earrings
2. A ring
3. A necklace
4. A bracelet
5. A broach
6. A locket
7. A watch
8. An anklet
9. A hairpin
10. Cufflinks

Silver is hugely popular, so it’s unlikely you’ll walk into a jeweller and not find a brilliant range of silver jewellery to choose from. And because it’s not as expensive as gold or platinum, it’s often far kinder to all kinds of budget. Here at Bridebook, we also work with a huge range of jewellers, who each have amazing collections of silver jewellery, so you shouldn’t have to spend too long looking until you find something your partner would adore.

5 floral-inspired gifts for a 25th wedding anniversary

If you’d like to give your partner a traditional gift but they’re just not that into silver, you’re in luck, because you could give them the traditional 25th wedding anniversary flower instead, which is iris. Irises are usually purple, but can also come in all different colours, with open blooms that end with narrow petals. Their bold and striking look lends itself well to plenty of different gift options. So, here are five to inspire you get some ideas spinning.

1. A bouquet of irises

Of course, we just have to start our suggestions off with a bouquet of irises. You might choose the most common colour of iris, which is purple, but if that doesn’t suit your partner’s tastes, there are loads of other colours to choose from too.

2. A silver iris pendant dangle charm

Treat your partner to this fabulous little silver iris pendant dangle charm, a wonderful and meaningful addition to any charm bracelet.

3. Silver iris earrings

Combine both traditional gifts with this lovely pair of silver iris earrings. Some would say it’s the ultimate 25th anniversary gift – imagine the brownie points!

4. Glass iris in a vase

Small, delicate and beautiful – if this sounds like your other half, then they should love a glass iris in a vase, a brilliant work of craftsmanship, which can always stand proud as a reminder of your 25th anniversary.

5. Hand-painted iris and daffodil vase

With their iconic look, irises don’t just suit being in a vase, but on one too. This hand-painted iris and daffodil vase has amazing summer vibes and is a great excuse to keep buying new flowers.

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Now that your 22nd wedding anniversary is fast approaching, you’re probably on the hunt for a gift to spoil your partner with. 22 years is a hell of a long time, but the fact that the two of you have made it this far proves how much you love and care for each other. So, while it’s not one of the biggies, it’s definitely an anniversary that deserves to be celebrated.

But, what sort of gift should you give your partner to mark 22 years of marriage? There are classic anniversary gifts, like chocolates or a bunch of flowers, but did you know that, for more than a century, couples have given each other special gifts filled with deep and symbolic meaning? So, if you’d like to go above and beyond, you might want to give your partner one of the traditional or modern 22nd wedding anniversary gifts.

In this guide, we’re going to take a look at what the traditional and modern 22nd anniversary gifts are and what the meaning is behind them. We’ll also give you 50 gift suggestions, so if you know you want to give your partner a gift linked to one of these themes, it’ll give you some ideas for where to get started.

To learn more about all the different wedding anniversary gift-giving traditions from 1 year through to 90, read our complete year-by-year wedding anniversary gift guide.

What are traditional and modern gifts for a 22nd wedding anniversary?

The traditional and modern 22nd wedding anniversary gifts have been given by couples to each other for over 100 years. Originally, when the list was created during the Victorian era, there wasn’t a traditional 22nd anniversary gift. But, the modern gift has unofficially become the traditional gift over the years. This still leaves you with great choices if you want to give your partner something filled with important meaning.

Traditional 22nd anniversary gift – Copper

The traditional 22nd wedding anniversary gift is copper. After reaching your 20th anniversary, the traditional gifts used only went in five-year increments. But, the traditional gift is now commonly considered to be the same as the modern gift. 

Copper represents beauty, strength and wealth. This isn’t necessarily to be taken literally, but should sum up your relationship, and we know that to make it to 22 years you no doubt have each of these in abundance.

Modern 22nd anniversary gift – Copper

The modern 22nd anniversary gift is also copper and is also actually borrowed from the traditional 7th anniversary gift. So, if you didn’t give your partner something made from this shiny bronze-coloured metal back then, now might be the perfect opportunity to do so.

22nd anniversary gemstone – Spinel

The traditional gemstone for celebrating your 22nd anniversary is spinel. Spinel is a beautiful but affordable gemstone that comes in a variety of colours, and is sometimes confused for far more expensive and rare gemstones, such as ruby or sapphire. 

Spinel represents passion and devotion, which means it’s the perfect choice if you’d like to give your partner an item of jewellery to mark your 22nd anniversary.

22nd anniversary flower – There isn’t one

For the first time since the day the two of you tied the knot, there isn’t actually a traditional flower to give to celebrate your 22nd anniversary. But, if you’d love to give your partner something floral, there are plenty of reliable favourites out there, like roses, sunflowers, tulips, hydrangeas and more.

How do you choose a gift for a 22nd wedding anniversary?

Your 22nd anniversary might not be one of the milestones typically celebrated – after all, you’re almost slap bang in between your 20th anniversary and 25th anniversary. But, it’s still an incredible stage in your marriage and one that deserves to be shouted about from the rooftops. So, if you’d like to give your partner a gift to mark 22 years, what sort of things should you think about before choosing what to get? Here are a few considerations to be aware of: 

• Are you set on sticking to the 22nd anniversary themes? There are only half as many themes as there were for most of your previous anniversaries, but you shouldn’t have much trouble finding a gift linked to them if you choose to.
• Have you agreed on a set budget? The themes for your 22nd anniversary are far more affordable than they have been for other recent milestones in your marriage, which can make sticking to the themes a little easier than it may have been in the past.
• Are you keen on giving your partner something that’s personalised? Due to its versatility, copper is a great gift to give if you’re looking for something personalised.
• Is your partner after a specific gift? If they’ve asked for something or dropped one or two hints, sticking to the themes might be tricky, unless there’s a creative way to do both. 

Is a couple in your life about to celebrate their 22nd wedding anniversary? If so, you might be on the lookout for the perfect gift, and wonder about whether or not you can give them a gift that’s linked to one of the traditional or modern themes. Well, the great thing is, these rules aren’t specific to the couple themselves, so if you’ve got a great idea for something to give them that features copper or spinel, then you should absolutely go for it.

50 ideas for a 22nd wedding anniversary gift

It might not come with the same level of prestige or renown as other anniversaries, but your 22nd wedding anniversary is a wonderful milestone and shows just how much love and dedication the two of you share. To mark the occasion, you might want to give your partner a gift that’s filled with meaning that sums up exactly how you feel about them. 

There are only two themes associated with your 22nd anniversary, unlike the usual four, but that doesn’t mean you can’t have fun with it. Copper and spinel provide plenty of chances for you to give your other half a gift filled with symbolism which they can hold on to forever. Below we’ll give you 50 ideas so you both have a memorable and magical anniversary.

20 traditional and modern gifts for a 22nd wedding anniversary

The traditional and modern 22nd anniversary gift is copper, a versatile metal that can be used to make everything from jewellery to ornaments. It’s also far more affordable than many other types of metal, so regardless of your budget, you shouldn’t have much trouble finding the perfect gift. Here are 20 ideas to give you a little inspiration.

1. A personalised copper wine cooler

If ever there was an excuse to enjoy a drink with your other half, your anniversary is certainly one of them. And you can cool down that bottle of bubbles with a personalised copper wine cooler, which can include your name and the year you got married. 

2. A personalised copper bowl

A beautiful, useful and brilliantly on-theme gift for your 22nd anniversary is a personalised copper bowl, which your partner can use when you’re entertaining, as a fruit bowl or just as an extra bit of storage.

3. Copper couple figurine

After spending 22 years together, you probably know a thing or two about romance. And there’s no better way to sum up your romantic feelings for the love of your life than with a copper couple figurine, which would look wonderful on a shelf or in a cabinet.

4. A smoked copper wall mirror

For a gift with a unique look, a smoked copper wall mirror has a vintage finish and would go well with lots of different styles and colour schemes.

5. Tree of Life copper wall art

Copper symbolises the strength and beauty of your relationship, much like the strength and beauty of a tree. Combine the two with this tree of life copper wall art, which looks really lovely with an equally lovely meaning.

6. Copper Dog whisky

Is your other half a whisky drinker? If so, they’ll love a bottle of Copper Dog whisky, a delicious and easy-drinking single malt that has a very appropriate name when celebrating 22 years together.

7. A homemade copper heart

For a beautiful and thoughtful keepsake that your partner can hang somewhere around your home, you might choose to give them this homemade copper heart, which comes with a cute personalised token.

8. Personalised copper candle holders

If your partner loves creating a welcoming atmosphere at home with tea lights, they’ll definitely love this pair of personalised copper candle holders. They feature a stamped personalised message and look fabulous.

9. A hammered copper planter

Help your partner bring their favourite house plant to life even more with a hammered copper planter. It has a simple but eye-catching design and will look great in any room.

10. A copper candle

Help set a romantic scene on the night of your anniversary with a copper candle, which is all-natural and burns for over 50 hours.

11. A copper glass table lamp

Add a modern touch to a table or sideboard with this copper glass table lamp. It’s smart and sleek and comes with a black silk effect shade.

12. A pair of copper tumblers

Whether you want to enjoy a refreshing glass of OJ or something a little stronger, a pair of copper tumblers are fabulously eye-catching and stylish.

13. A pair of silver and copper earrings

Believe it or not, copper is a great metal for making jewellery out of, especially if paired with another metal like silver. So, a pair of silver and copper earrings looks unique, with enough designs and styles available to make sure you’ll find something perfect for your partner.

14. A copper bracelet

Copper bracelets are considered medical devices, as it’s believed they help alleviate the pain associated with arthritis. So, if your partner has painful joints, then a copper bracelet might be well received – and they also happen to look great.

15. Copper wall art

Make a real statement in a room with copper wall art featuring Queen Anne’s lace blooming. Over time, the art will get a little darker which makes it even more stunning.

16. A Copper Ombre vase

If you plan on giving your partner flowers for your anniversary, why not elevate them by putting them in a Copper Ombre vase? It has a luxurious look, but isn’t as pricey as you might think. Plus, once the flowers have died, your partner will still have a vase they can hold onto.

17. A copper water bottle

Water bottles will always come in use, and a copper water bottle is a functional, on-theme gift that will keep your partner nice and hydrated!

18. British farthing copper coin cufflinks

Farthings are old British coins that contain copper, and their vintage look actually makes them rather fashionable. As a result, these British farthing copper coin cufflinks are unique, look great and are perfect as a 22nd anniversary gift.

19. A pair of copper mugs

Enjoy an anniversary tipple with your partner with this pair of copper mugs, which are a great alternative to the usual glass you might enjoy a stiff drink in.

20. A 22nd anniversary copper horseshoe 

What could possibly be luckier than a horseshoe? Well, how about a 22nd anniversary copper horseshoe that makes for a perfect keepsake to mark your big day?

5 affordable gifts for a 22nd wedding anniversary

Copper isn’t exactly the most expensive metal, so finding cheaper gifts to give on your anniversary isn’t too difficult. But, you might want to keep your spending as low as possible, especially if you only want to give your partner a token gift linked to the theme. So, if you’d like to give your partner a copper-themed gift and only want to keep your spending super low, here are five ideas for you.

1. A copper wire anniversary card

If you’re on the lookout for a gift, you’re probably also going to give your partner a card on your anniversary. You could combine the two and give them a copper wire anniversary card, which features copper hearts on the front and is also very affordable!

2. A copper trinket dish

To help your other half keep their valuables, trinkets and jewellery somewhere they’ll never lose them, a copper trinket dish is small, sweet and on theme.

3. A personalised copper keyring

A personalised copper keyring ticks so many boxes. It’s small, affordable, on theme, personalised and your partner can take it with them whenever the two of you are apart. What’s not to love?

4. Copper photo frame

It might have been 22 years since you got married, but it’s important to keep those memories fresh. You could print off your favourite wedding snap and put it in a copper photo frame so your partner has something new to put on their desk or a shelf.

5. A copper stud earring

If your partner has a pierced ear, this copper stud earring is small and affordable. It’s also a subtle little nod to your 22nd anniversary which they can wear whenever they like.

5 DIY gifts for a 22nd wedding anniversary

Making your partner a gift for your anniversary can be a lot of fun, and means you can give them something truly unique and personal. But, with a more limited number of gift themes to choose from, it can be rather tricky. Unless you have some tools, creating something out of copper isn’t the easiest thing in the world – unless you get creative with it. So, here are five ways you can make a DIY 22nd anniversary gift to give you a helping hand.

1. A DIY simple wire ring

With a little copper wire and a few basic tools, you can create a simple but thoughtful wire ring. It’s a lovely little ring and your partner will appreciate the thought behind it. Check out a simple DIY infinity ring tutorial for the steps you need to follow to give it a go.

2. DIY wire earrings

Copper wire can also be used to make wire earrings, with loads of different designs and styles to choose from. Some are harder than others, but if your partner loves big, bold earrings, it’s worth trying out. Watch a video tutorial for everything you need.

3. A DIY copper coin pendant

With a copper coin, a chain and a little wire, you can make a DIY copper coin pendant. Pennies are said to be lucky, so why not make your partner something filled with luck? Follow a simple tutorial for all the information.

4. DIY copper coin earrings

Just like with a pendant, copper coins also make nice additions to earrings, so you can guarantee to give your partner a gift like no other. Read a tutorial for more information on making a pair for your other half.

5. A DIY copper coin keyring

If jewellery isn’t really your partner’s thing but you want to make something using a coin, a keyring could be just the idea you need. It doesn’t require much but makes for a great token DIY gift. There are plenty of tutorials available so you can make one for yourself.

5 experience or activity gifts for a 22nd wedding anniversary

One of the best ways to make your anniversary memorable is by spending time with your partner doing something new or exciting. Activities and experiences make for the ideal 22nd anniversary gift, but can be hard to fit into one of the themes. Hard, but definitely not impossible. So, here are five ways you can spend time together on your anniversary.

1. A Copper Rivet Distillery signature cocktail masterclass for two

Copper Rivet Distillery is a distillery that makes vodka, gin and other delicious spirits. It also offers couples the chance to take part in a cocktail masterclass, so settle in and get ready to have some fun… as well as a few drinks!

2. A coppersmithing experience

A coppersmithing experience gives your partner the opportunity to get their hands dirty and try making something out of copper. It’s a fun and interesting way to learn this rarely-used skill.

3. A bronze and copper mine tour

Take a tour underground into the depths of the Great Ormes bronze age copper mine in North Wales, to see what life was like on the hunt for copper all those years ago.

4. Copper foiling stained glass taster day

Spend time with your partner designing stained glass windows with a copper foiling stained glass taster day, perfect for beginners who have wanted to give this brilliant craft a try.

5. A copper vineyard experience

See how grapes are farmed and pressed and made into delicious wine with a copper vineyard experience. And, most importantly, try out some of the delicious wines for yourself!

10 22nd anniversary gifts that contain spinel

The traditional 22nd anniversary gemstone is spinel. Spinel isn’t one of the most rare or expensive gemstones, but it’s still beautiful, bright and colourful, so it’s a great addition to a piece of jewellery or accessory. Because it’s affordable, it’s also great if you have a smaller budget. Here are 10 suggestions for jewellery you might consider:

1. Earrings
2. A ring
3. A necklace
4. A bracelet
5. A broach
6. A locket
7. A watch
8. An anklet
9. A hairpin
10. Cufflinks

Spinel isn’t too common in jewellery in the UK, but there are still plenty of high street and independent jewellers that offer a range of jewellery with spinel. Take a trip to your local town or city centre and browse a few retailers to see what they have in stock. Alternatively, at Bridebook we’ve partnered with a wide range of fabulous jewellers, with many having spinel jewellery – so take a look and see if they have something your partner would love.

5 floral-inspired gifts for a 22nd wedding anniversary

Flowers are always a big hit when it’s your anniversary. The only trouble is, when you’re celebrating your 22nd anniversary, there isn’t a traditional flower associated with it like there has been with every single anniversary that came before it. That means you can either rely on a trusty and romantic floral favourite, or you could link it into one of the other themes. So if you’d like to go for something with a little meaning, here are five suggestions.

1. A copper rose

Roses are synonymous with love and romance, which means that, for your 22nd anniversary, a copper rose has twice as much romantic meaning.

2. Copper garden poppy sculptures

Light up your partner’s anniversary and your back garden with copper garden poppy sculptures, which add real character to any flowerbed.

3. A set of copper sunflowers

For something small and subtle but utterly fabulous, a set of copper sunflowers have all the life of real sunflowers but are smaller and will never wilt.

4. A pair of spinel flower stud earrings

Because spinels are so bright and cheery, they make for the perfect centre for a pair of blooming flower stud earrings.

5. A blue spinel flower necklace

With a silver retro look, a blue spinel flower necklace is eye-popping and bold, and will definitely turn a few heads whenever your partner wears it.

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Reaching your 21st year of marriage is such a wonderful milestone, and a real testament to the love and devotion you and your partner have for each other.

But when it comes to celebrating your 21st wedding anniversary, you may wonder what sort of gift to give the love of your life. Last year, your 20th wedding anniversary was known as your china anniversary – but what about your 21st?

Well, just like your previous 20 wedding anniversaries, there are also traditional and modern gifts for your 21st. That way, you can give your partner something filled with historical meaning that makes it an extra special gift for an extra special anniversary.

As well as the traditional and modern gifts, there are also a traditional gemstone and flower, each with their own symbolic meaning. Of course, you don’t have to give your partner a gift linked to one of the themes, but it can be a thoughtful gesture that lets your partner know exactly how you feel.

In this article, we’ll explore all the traditional and modern gifts associated with your 21st wedding anniversary. We’ll also give you 50 gift suggestions, to help you on your search for the ideal way to surprise your partner and make your upcoming anniversary one to remember.

To discover more about the different traditions surrounding anniversary gifts from 1 to 90 years,  read our complete year-by-year wedding anniversary gift guide.

What are traditional and modern gifts for a 21st wedding anniversary?

Couples have given traditional and modern 21st anniversary gifts to each other more more than 100 years. The traditional gifts were outlined during the Victorian era, while the modern gifts date back to the start of the 20th century. Each theme is filled with romantic meaning that symbolises the relationship you’ve built over more than two decades. 

Traditional 21st anniversary gift – Brass and nickel

There are two traditional gifts to mark 21 years of marriage: brass and nickel. Both are types of metal but with different compositions.

Brass is an alloy, which is created by mixing copper and zinc. It has a bronze appearance and is exceptionally strong, representing all the good in your marriage.

Nickel is a metal, which is mined in areas such as Indonesia and South Africa and is naturally very durable. It represents strong emotional wellbeing in a marriage, which you likely have plenty of after such a long time with your other half.

Modern 21st anniversary gift – Brass and nickel

The modern 21st anniversary gift is also brass and nickel. This is because, after your 20th anniversary, the major traditional milestones are marked every five years. So, for many anniversaries after 20 years, the traditional and modern gifts are often the same. But, that doesn’t mean you have any less choice – they’re all wonderful themes with lovely meanings, so you shouldn’t have too much trouble finding something your partner will love to be surprised with.

21st anniversary gemstone – Iolite

The traditional 21st anniversary gemstone is iolite, which is also sometimes known as cordierite. Iolite is a gorgeously deep purple stone, with the darker-coloured stones being the rarest and most expensive. Iolites represent wisdom and rebirth, so make for a touching gift for this fantastic milestone in your marriage.

Because iolite is neither a precious stone, nor as commonly used as other stones, you can often find iolite jewellery and accessories for a fairly reasonable price, which is of course nice from a budget perspective!

21st anniversary flower – Iris

The traditional flower for celebrating your 21st wedding anniversary is the iris. Irises are most commonly known for their incredible purple colour (much like the traditional gemstone, iolite), but there are actually more than 250 varieties, coming in colours including white, yellow, pink and orange. Irises represent hope, trust and wisdom, which you likely have plenty of after 21 years of marriage.

How do you choose a gift for a 21st wedding anniversary?

Your 21st anniversary is a wonderful milestone in your marriage, and one that absolutely deserves to be celebrated in whatever way you like. Chances are, you might be keen to give your partner a gift as part of your celebrations. But, after the major milestone of your 20th last year, you might also be puzzling over what to give your other half that can match it.

The traditional and modern 21st anniversary themes are fairly unusual, and not all of them make for obvious choices for gifts. When it comes to finding the perfect present, there are a few things to consider before you make your purchase.

• Are you and your partner keen to give gifts linked to the traditional or modern themes? If so, then you’ll want to find something associated with brass, nickel, iolite or iris, which isn’t always an easy task.
• Do you have a certain budget? Thankfully, after your major milestone last year, the traditional and modern themes to mark 21 years are actually fairly affordable, which may sway your decision.
• Do you want to give your partner a personalised gift? Some types of gifts are easier to personalise than others, which can be trickier than you might expect for gifts linked to the traditional and modern 21st anniversary themes.
• Has your partner asked for something specific? You might want to stick to one of the themes, but has your partner left a few heavy hints or flat-out asked for something in particular?

Do you know a special couple who are about to celebrate their 21st wedding anniversary? If so, you might be looking for a gift and wondering whether or not to give them something associated with one of the themes. Thankfully, there are no official rules when it comes to the traditional or modern themes, so if you want to give them something linked to one of them, then you absolutely should. The couple will definitely appreciate the thought and consideration that’s gone into your lovely gift!

50 ideas for a 21st wedding anniversary gift

With your 21st anniversary coming up, you might wonder what sort of gift to give your other half. Of course, there are plenty of romantic staples: chocolates, flowers and jewellery to name just a few. But, if you want to stick to the 21st anniversary themes, you might be rather stumped about what sort of gift to get. After all, brass and nickel aren’t among the most obviously romantic themes out there.

With a little creativity, there are loads of choices out there so you can give your partner an on-theme gift they’ll definitely love. But where to start? Below, we’ve listed 50 21st wedding anniversary gifts to give you a few ideas and get in your partner’s good books.

20 traditional and modern gifts for a 21st wedding anniversary

Both the traditional and modern gift options for your 21st wedding anniversary are brass or nickel, two very different, but both equally as strong, types of metal. The meaning behind them is lovely, but they’re not exactly the most obvious choice of metals when it comes to choosing a romantic gift. It can be tricky to find something perfect, but by thinking outside the box a little, there’s plenty out there to find. Here are 20 suggestions for anniversary gifts linked to the themes of brass and nickel.

1. Personalised brass cufflinks

Brass looks almost identical to bronze, so lends itself well to jewellery and accessories (even if it isn’t often used in that way). That’s what makes this pair of personalised brass cufflinks so special. They’re not only unique and on-theme, but can also include a customisation to make them truly special.

2. Brass weighing scales

Not many appliances are made using brass, but one that’s been made from this durable metal alloy for a long time is old-fashioned brass weighing scales. If your partner loves to get creative in the kitchen, they’ll get great use out of this real old-school gadget. Just don’t forget the weights!

3. A set of brass coasters

For something small and subtle but definitely thoughtful and closely linked to the theme, a set of brass coasters is a fantastic token gift that also happens to be practical and actually quite reasonably priced.

4. A solid brass forest ring

Brass can be used to make rustic and character-filled, rough-around-the-edges but totally wonderful, pieces of unique jewellery. One particularly fabulous piece is a solid brass forest ring, which is chunky and strong, with a simple but meaningful design carved into the side.

5. A bottle of Brass Neck rum

Why not have a bit of fun with the theme? For every partner who loves a cheeky glass of rum, a bottle of Brass Neck is a delicious Scottish spiced rum that’s just as nice neat as it is with a mixer or as part of a cocktail.

6. An engraved brass plaque

To add a touch of personalisation to literally anything you can think of, an engraved brass plaque is exactly what you need. Add a plaque to a bench, beneath a tree, to the side of the shed… whatever you think your partner would like.

7. An antique brass carriage clock

Carriage clocks aren’t exactly as popular as they once were, but perhaps that’s part of the charm and why they make for such a unique gift today. An antique brass carriage clock can sit proudly on a sideboard or mantlepiece and has plenty of charm and functionality.

8. Gold-plated recycled brass hoop earrings

If your partner loves earrings with a little character, then these gold-plated recycled brass hoop earrings might be right up their alley. Not only are they brass, but they’re also hand-crafted and 21-carat gold-plated.

9. A unique piece of antique brass

Not so much these days, but in the past, brass has been used to make everything from teapots to statues. Browse online antique dealers selling antique brass or your local antique shop to find a piece of the past and give your other half something they’ll never see coming.

10. A brass teardrop pendant

With its wonderfully hypnotic design, this brass teardrop pendant is beautiful and attention-grabbing. If your partner likes their jewellery to be big and bold, then this might be just what you’re after.

11. A nickel moon-gazing hare sculpture

The myth states that the moon-gazing hare brings good fortune, so it’s always lucky if you run into one. That means a nickel moon-gazing hare sculpture has an abundance of special meaning, as well as making for a lovely ornament.

12. A pair of 20p coin cufflinks

A gift that really is unique, but also useful if your partner often wears a suit, is a pair of 20p coin cufflinks. 20p coins are partly made from nickel, which makes them a brilliant talking point when your partner dresses up.

13. A polished nickel photo frame

It may well have been more than 20 years since the two of you tied the knot, but we bet the big day still holds a special place in your heart. Keep your memories fresher than ever by printing off your favourite wedding snap and framing it in a polished nickel photo frame, which is available in a range of sizes. 

14. Nickelback tour tickets

Do you and your other half have great memories of listening to 90s and early 00s rock band Nickelback? If so, you can probably guess where we’re going with this… This is how you remind your partner about those good times – Nickelback tour tickets!

15. A nickel-plated candlestick

Help create a romantic atmosphere on the evening of your anniversary by lighting a candle. But how can you tie that into the traditional and modern theme? With a nickel-plated candlestick, of course.

16. A personalised nickel coin keyring

Nickels are small US coins worth just 5¢, but they also just so happen to contain about 25% nickel. So, a brilliant on-theme gift is a personalised nickel coin keyring, which can contain a small engraving of your choosing.

17. A nickel wall clock

If tiny nickels aren’t likely to be your other half’s thing, why not a giant one? This nickel wall clock is perfect for your partner if they love all things American, and is a great talking piece – as well as functional.

18. A nickel-plated nibbles dish

If you and your partner often entertain or you crack out the snacks during movie night, a nickel-plated nibbles dish might be just what they need. It also has a unique design with a stag head right in the centre.

19. A nickel tree ornament

A nickel tree ornament certainly is attention-grabbing and makes for a great addition to a shelf or sideboard, or as a centrepiece to a table. 

20. An item of antique nickel

While antique brass has a huge range of uses, antique nickel tends to have a smaller but far more practical use. From door knobs to knockers, and locks to  peephole covers, give your partner something they could make great use of.

5 affordable gifts for a 21st wedding anniversary

By today’s standards, brass and nickel aren’t exactly common choices for gifts, and they are relatively inexpensive metals to begin with. But, because they’re not usually a popular choice, you might not want to spend much, especially if you’re only looking to give a token gift or you have a small budget. So, here are five ideas for affordable 21st wedding anniversary gifts so you can still give your partner something filled with loving meaning.

1. A brass anniversary card

If you’re also planning to give your partner a card to mark your anniversary, you could combine that with the traditional and modern theme, with a brass anniversary card. This inexpensive card features a heart made from brass, which you can even personalise with the date of your 21st anniversary.

2. A small brass cat figurine

Is your other half a cat person? If so, we have the purr-fect suggestion: this adorable brass cat figurine can sit looking sweet on a shelf and be a constant little reminder about your 21st anniversary.

3. A lucky nickel sixpence

In the 50s and 60s, sixpence coins contained nickel and were worth – as the name suggests – six pence. Of course, they’re no longer legal currency, but an authentic lucky nickel sixpence is a lovely token gift that has sweet meaning behind it.

4. A personalised brass keyring

For something small, on-theme, personalised and cheap, you might choose to give your partner a personalised brass keyring. This one ticks a lot of boxes, especially if you’re only looking for a token gift to mark the traditional and modern theme.

5. A personalised letter necklace

A unique and affordable piece of jewellery to surprise your partner with, which is totally on theme as it’s made with a copper-nickel alloy, is a personalised letter necklace. It’s big and eye-catching and might be the sort of thing your other half loves to wear.

5 DIY gifts for a 21st wedding anniversary

Some couples like to have a lot of fun around their anniversary by making each other a gift. The trouble is, if you’d also like to link your homemade gift to one of the themes, then brass and nickel aren’t exactly the easiest materials to work with. But, with a little creative thinking, you should be able to make something without the need for special skills or training. Here are five ideas for DIY 21st anniversary gifts.

1. A DIY brass wire bracelet

Brass wire is simple to get hold of and pretty cheap, and you can use it to make plenty of creative gifts. A DIY brass wire bracelet is a great place to start, and there are plenty of tutorials available to help you have a go yourself.

2. DIY brass wire earrings

With a couple of small tools, some brass wire and a few beads, you can make some unique and interesting brass wire earrings. It might sound complicated, but if you follow a video tutorial it will help you with every step.

3. A DIY brass wire figurine

If you’re not quite sure you want to make jewellery out of wire, you might want to try your hand at a DIY brass wire figure. It’s a fun challenge and you can theme it around your partner’s interests. Watch a video tutorial for more information on how to make your own.

4. A DIY nickel coin necklace

Take a nickel coin, a chain and a few tools you might already have at home, and you can create a real one-of-a-kind piece of jewellery with a nickel coin necklace. Find out more about what you need and how to do it with an easy-to-follow jewellery tutorial.

5. A quick and easy DIY coin pin badge

To create a pin badge out of a nickel coin, you don’t need much at all and it makes for a thoughtful and simple token gift for your 21st anniversary. Check out this video tutorial on how you can give it a go.

5 experience or activity gifts for a 21st wedding anniversary

Your anniversary is a great excuse to forget real life for a little while and spend time with your partner doing something new, fun or exciting. With an experience you’re guaranteed to make new memories and make your 21st anniversary one you’re not likely to forget any time soon. But, did you know there are ways to tie this into the traditional and modern themes? Here are five suggestions for things to do on your 21st anniversary.

1. Brass band concert tickets

Brass is a major category of instrument, so one way to link an experience to the traditional and modern theme is by going to see a brass band concert. Even if it’s not something your partner has shown interest in before, it’s a unique way to hang out with your love on your big day.

2. See some historical brass at the British Museum

Throughout history, brass has been used to make everything from armour to statues. Many examples of brass items can be found on display in museums, including the British Museum. You might want to head into the capital to discover these brass items for yourself, or otherwise check out what your local museum has in its collection.

3. Beginner brass lessons

If your other half has ever expressed an interest in wanting to learn an instrument, then why not give them a real surprise with a beginner brass instrument lesson? It could even be something the two of you spend time doing together so you can help each other and offer moral support. Search online to find a brass instrument tutor near you.

4. A trip to the Royal Mint Museum

For your anniversary, you could take a trip to South Wales and visit the Royal Mint Museum, to learn all about the history of currency in the UK. Of course, many coins throughout history were made using nickel and brass.

5. A trip to Clydach in the Swansea Valley

While you’re in South Wales, another option is to head over towards Swansea and the village of Clydach, which is home to a refinery that separates nickel from ore. Okay, so you might not be able to visit the refinery, but Clydach makes for a great base from which to have a fun anniversary trip exploring the area.

10 21st anniversary gifts that contain iolite

The traditional gemstone for celebrating 21 years of marriage is iolite. It’s a real shame that iolite isn’t more popular than it is because, with its rich purples and an almost outer-space-like quality to it, it’s rather intoxicating to look at. This makes iolite a beautiful addition to jewellery or accessories, with the bonus of it usually being very reasonably priced. The only downside is, you might have to do a bit of searching before you find a piece you like. Here are 10 recommendations for pieces to consider that contain iolite:

1. Earrings
2. A ring
3. A necklace
4. A bracelet
5. A broach
6. A locket
7. A watch
8. An anklet
9. A hairpin
10. Cufflinks

Iolite isn’t one of the most commonly used gemstones in the UK, and not all of the high street chains have iolite jewellery in stock. Some do, but a trip around your local shopping centre might be a little frustrating. We’d recommend checking out independent jewellers or browsing the range offered by some of the jewellers here on Bridebook. Finding iolite takes a little longer than other gemstones, but we promise it’s absolutely worth it.

5 floral-inspired gifts for a 21st wedding anniversary

If you think your partner might love something with a floral touch for your anniversary, the traditional flower for celebrating 21 years of marriage is the iris. Irises are most commonly associated with purple, and are fan-like flowers with drooping petals. They’re beautiful, eye-catching blooms that are wonderful in any bouquet, and many other gifts use irises for inspiration. Below are five iris-themed gifts you might like to consider.

1. A bouquet of irises

Of course, there’s no way we couldn’t start this list without first suggesting a bouquet of irises. These stunning flowers look great on their own but also work just as well supporting larger floral arrangements.

2. A black iris vase

To ensure your partner has a vase that’s just as beautiful as any flower inside, a black iris vase is an amazing choice. It’s a gift they can use again and again whenever they get a new bouquet.

3. Iris stud earrings

With their distinct open flowers, irises are a wonderful addition to jewellery. If your partner wears earrings, then these beautiful but subtle iris stud earrings are bound to be a great addition to their collection. They can also be worn with a wide range of outfits and on any occasion.

4. A stained glass blue iris

For a floral gift that’s always guaranteed to look just as beautiful as the day you give it to your partner, a stained glass blue iris will look great anywhere and never need to be watered.

5. Iris lolite hoop earrings

A brilliant double-hitter for your 21st anniversary, this pair of iris iolite hoop earrings aren’t only beautiful, but also have twice as much romantic meaning.

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Reaching 20 years of marriage is such a fantastic achievement! That’s two whole decades of devotion to the love of your life, and we bet you feel just as strongly – if not more strongly – about your other half as you did the day on which you exchanged your vows. Only now, you’ve built a life and possibly even a family together, and spent many adventures growing closer and closer.

That might be a rather smushy start, but when you’re celebrating 20 years together, it’s totally a time to get a little smushy about your partner!

As part of your celebrations, you may be excited to give your other half a gift. It’s a special anniversary, after all, so now is a great time to spoil them and let them know exactly how much they mean to you.

That might mean getting them something they’ve asked for, or alternatively finding one linked to either the traditional or modern theme associated with your 20th anniversary. It’s not called your china anniversary for nothing.

The traditional and modern gifts – as well as the traditional gemstone and flower – are gifts that stick to a specific theme and have been given by couples to each other for more than 100 years. These gifts have extra symbolic meaning behind them, which makes them a wonderful choice to mark such a fabulous milestone in your marriage. You don’t have to stick to them, but they’re a great place to start when considering a gift for your other half.

In this article, we’re going to explore all the traditional and modern gifts associated with your 20th wedding anniversary and give you 50 suggestions if you want to stick to a theme but you’re not quite sure where to start.

For lots more information on all the different anniversary gift-giving traditions for milestones between 1 and 90 years, read our complete year-by-year wedding anniversary gift guide.

What are traditional and modern gifts for a 20th wedding anniversary?

Both the traditional and modern anniversary gifts have been given for more than a century, with the traditional gifts dating back to the Victorian era, and modern gifts to the early 20th century. Whether you stick to either (or both) themes is entirely up to you, but both have romantic meaning behind them which can turn an ordinary gift into an extraordinary one.

Traditional 20th anniversary gift – China

As the name of your 20th anniversary suggests, the traditional gift to give to mark 20 years is china. China is a fragile but luxurious type of pottery used to make everything from tableware to ornaments. It represents the delicate but beautiful nature of your marriage, which you must work hard to protect.

China isn’t as commonly used now as it once was, but it still makes for a fantastic gift. Some types of china can be rather pricey, but there can also be gifts out there to suit a different range of budgets. So, if you love the meaning behind china, you’re likely to find something that suits your other half.

Modern 20th anniversary gift – Platinum

The modern 20th anniversary gift is platinum, a precious metal which is actually more valuable than gold. That means it’s super luxurious, which means it can be rather expensive. Platinum represents endurance, so if it suits your budget then there really isn’t a better gift to sum up two whole decades of marriage.

20th anniversary gemstone – Emerald

The traditional gemstone for celebrating your 20th wedding anniversary is emerald, a dazzlingly green precious stone that represents fortune, balance and peace. Emeralds are really popular, can be fairly easy to find in jewellers, and are often suitable for different budgets. But, some types of emerald can be even rarer than diamonds, which means they can be expensive, so make sure you have a good browse before committing to anything.

20th anniversary flower – Aster

The traditional flower to give to mark your 20th anniversary is the aster, a vibrant open flower which comes in various shades of purple, blue, pink and white. It’s such a happy flower that it makes for a wonderful choice for any happy occasion, and symbolises love and wisdom – two things you no doubt have in spades after 20 years of marriage.

How do you choose a gift for a 20th wedding anniversary?

Your 20th anniversary is definitely a biggie and there’s never a better time to spoil your other half. That means, you might be working hard to think of the perfect gift to spoil them and make sure they feel truly loved.

But with so many great themes to choose from (on top of some old faithfuls your partner would undoubtedly appreciate), how are you supposed to pick a present befitting of such an occasion? Here are a few things to think about when searching for the ideal 20th anniversary gift.

• Are you excited about sticking to either of the 20th anniversary themes? If so, you’ll want to browse for gifts related to china, platinum, emerald or aster, or maybe even a combination of two or more.
• What is your maximum budget? The traditional and modern anniversary themes are quite expensive choices, which may sway your decision. Your 20th anniversary is an important milestone, but don’t let that get in the way of spending more than your budget allows.
• Are you hoping to give a highly personalised gift? Some gifts are more easily personalised than others, and the traditional and modern gifts are often rather tricky to customise.
• What is your other half hoping to receive or have they asked for anything? Your partner might have dropped some heavy hints or even simply asked for something specific, which you may want to focus on even if they have nothing to do with the themes.

Is a lucky couple in your life about to celebrate 20 incredible years of marriage? If so, you might wonder whether you can give them a gift related to the traditional or modern themes and join in on the fun. There are absolutely no set rules when it comes to these gift-giving traditions, and so, of course, if you have the perfect gift in mind, nothing can stop you from giving whatever you like. The couple will no doubt appreciate the gesture and love the extra special meaning behind your generosity!

50 ideas for a 20th wedding anniversary gift

Because your 20th wedding anniversary is fast approaching, you’ve probably been thinking about what to give your partner for a while. You may well have something specific in mind, or you may be close to panic mode because you’re stumped about what sort of gift is befitting of such a huge milestone in your marriage.

That’s why we’re here to offer you 50 20th anniversary gift ideas and make your decision that little bit easier. That way, you can find your partner a wonderful gift to mark your anniversary and let them know exactly how much they mean to you. It’ll also help make your anniversary one they’ll remember forever.

10 traditional gifts for a 20th wedding anniversary

The longest-standing and most traditional gift to give to mark your 20th anniversary is china, an incredibly luxurious, delicate and beautiful form of pottery that has been around for almost 300 years. It has long been a status symbol, and in the past was regularly used by the wealthy when enjoying an afternoon cream tea. It’s not used as regularly today, but still makes for a wonderful gift, and is surprisingly versatile. If you think your partner would love a gift made from china, we have 10 ideas to give you a little inspiration.

1. A bone china tableware set

Wedgwood and china go hand in hand, with this Staffordshire-based pottery manufacturer having been around almost as long as the art of fine china itself. So, what better way to treat your partner than with a Wedgwood fine china tableware set, which you can be confident will be fabulous and of the highest quality?

2. A Fortnum and Mason bone china mug

To bring a touch of elegance and luxury to your partner’s morning cuppa, you really can’t get much better than a Fortnum and Mason bone china mug. This mug has a delicate butterfly design with touches of gold and a signature strip of Eau de Nil.

3. A King Charles III fine bone china trinket box

If your partner is something of a royalist and has jewellery and accessories they need to keep safe, a fantastic choice of gift could be a King Charles III coronation fine bone china trinket box, which has great history and meaning behind it.

4. A fine china teapot

Not all fine china breaks the bank, and even with a smaller budget, you can still pick up something lovely and lavish. A fine china teapot from John Lewis has a stunning tree and stork design to bring a touch of class to tea time, and doesn’t cost as much as you might think.

5. An aster-decorated china plate

Combine the traditional gift of 20 years of marriage with the traditional flower for a real double-hitter with twice as much symbolic meaning. An aster-decorated china plate is a lovely addition to anyone’s china collection, or the perfect way to start one.

6. A bone china vase

Tiffany & Co. are a brand associated with the finer things, and they don’t come much finer than a Tiffany & Co. bone china vase. You’ll also get extra brownie points by giving it to your partner filled with a bouquet of asters!

7. An item of broken china jewellery

Because it’s so delicate, china is prone to breaking if not looked after carefully. However, that doesn’t mean it no longer has its uses. Broken china jewellery is a unique and creative way to repurpose broken china, bringing new life to something that might otherwise have been thrown away.

8. A Buckingham Palace fine bone china Christmas bauble

Another great gift for fans of the royal family, especially if your anniversary lands around the festive season. A Buckingham Palace fine bone china Christmas bauble adds a touch of royalty to your Christmas tree and is an anniversary gift your partner can display every single year.

9. A personalised china jug

China isn’t often personalised, which is why this two pint personalised china jug is such a great choice. It can include a custom date, initials and reading, and can be used as a vase or to serve drinks.

10. A piece of antique china

Many pieces of china are antique, so you could give your partner a piece of the past with an authentic piece of antique china. It’s also worth checking local antique or charity shops to see if they have something in stock that might tickle your partner’s fancy.

10 modern gifts for a 20th wedding anniversary

For a gift with more modern flair, you might want to choose something associated with the modern 20th anniversary theme, which is platinum. Platinum is a luxurious precious metal that is actually worth more in weight than gold, which means it can be incredibly expensive. For example, a platinum watch can cost as much as £300,000. For that reason, we’re not going to include many platinum watches in our list of gift selections, but there are still options available to suit different budgets. Here are 10 suggestions for platinum gifts, which don’t cost quite as much as that…

1. Platinum cufflinks

A major 20th anniversary double-hitter, this pair of platinum emerald cufflinks contain the modern gift and the traditional gemstone, and make a real statement to help tie an outfit together.

2. A dazzling platinum rose

The rose is one of the ultimate symbols of love. If you wanted to give your partner a rose to mark your anniversary but are also keen to stick to one of the themes, you might be torn. But, a dazzling platinum rose is the best of both worlds, with the bonus of not needing to be watered.

3. Platinum emerald earrings

Platinum and emerald is a match made in heaven. That’s why a pair of platinum emerald earrings is absolutely stunning, and definitely a choice that will get you in your other half’s good books.

4. A platinum wall clock

For a smart, modern and deluxe way for your partner to tell the time, a platinum wall clock is big, striking and a constant reminder of your special anniversary.

5. A platinum picture frame

It might have been 20 years since the two of you tied the knot, but we bet the memories of that day are still fresh in your mind. Why not print out your favourite wedding snap and give it to your partner in a platinum picture frame, which has a gloriously unique ripple finish?

6. A personalised platinum and gold LP

Since the two of you got married, you’ve most definitely made some beautiful music together. Celebrate the moment two of you made it to number one with a personalised platinum and gold LP.

7. A platinum watch

There’s something quite special about a platinum watch from Rolex. Yes, they are very pricey, but if you have the budget to splash on an extravagant gift, then why not? They’re stunning and very much on-theme when celebrating your 20th anniversary.

8. A platinum indoor planter

Bring a touch of luxury to your partner’s favourite indoor plant with a platinum indoor planter. It’s handmade with a platinum finish and suitable for everyday use.

9. Chanel ÉGOÏSTE Platinum Eau De Toilette

This one’s all in the name (but also, a little bit in the nose). Chanel ÉGOÏSTE Platinum Eau De Toilette is a strong yet refined male fragrance that your other half can wear if you’re heading out for a romantic meal on your anniversary night. 

10. Vintage platinum jewellery

If your partner loves jewellery with a retro feel, then vintage platinum jewellery should be right up their alley. It can often be pricey, but is always packed with character and beauty. If you’re lucky, you might find a piece containing emeralds so it hits two of the 20th anniversary themes.

5 affordable gifts for a 20th wedding anniversary

China, platinum and emeralds are all stunning gifts to give your partner on your 20th anniversary. The only thing is, they’re often very expensive, which can limit your choices, especially if you have a smaller budget. That said, there are ways to stick to a theme even if you have a certain amount to spend. So, here are five suggestions for affordable 20th wedding anniversary gifts.

1. A bone china jewellery box

If your partner has some jewellery but nowhere to keep it, a bone china jewellery box is small, thoughtful and also kind to your bank balance.

2. Vintage china flowers

Flowers are always an anniversary winner, but if you combine the beauty of flowers with the deep, symbolic meaning of china, you get vintage china flowers which are also unique and affordable.

3. Adorable china teacup jewellery

If your partner likes unique accessories, a dolls house tea cup ring will definitely raise a smile. While not technically made from china, they certainly represent it and are affordable and unique, so why not have some fun with this token gift?

4. A personalised china keepsake

For something small, cute, personalised and affordable, a personalised china keepsake lets you give your partner a great token gift which they can hang somewhere they’ll always see.

5. A puntastic china anniversary card

Combine the theme of your anniversary with an anniversary card, with a funny and puntastic china anniversary card. It’s also pretty cheap and is a cheeky way to stick to the china theme.

5 DIY gifts for a 20th wedding anniversary

Many couples love to make each other gifts for their anniversary, as it shows their love and devotion – and lets them use their creativity and get a little messy.

For many anniversaries, the themes lend themselves well to crafts, but when it comes to china and platinum, it is rather difficult. Difficult, but not impossible. Well, it is still quite impossible to make something from platinum at home unless you happen to live in a jewellers. But, by thinking outside the box, it’s possible to make something out of china – specifically, when it’s broken. Here are five ideas which will hopefully give you some inspiration.

1. DIY broken china jewellery

Broken china needn’t be thrown away, so if you’ve accidentally dropped something or an antique piece sits chipped in a charity shop window, repurpose it into a fabulous piece of DIY broken china jewellery. Check out a DIY broken china jewellery tutorial for all the steps you need to have a go yourself.

2. Upcycle a table using old china

With a couple of broken pieces of china and an old table, you can bring them both together to create an upcycled, one-of-a-kind mosaic table. They look really striking and your other half will never see it coming. There are mosaic china table tutorials available which tell you how to get started.

3. A broken china mosaic

Broken china can also be arranged into an original piece of art, so even if a piece of china is broken, it can live on and still be beautiful. Watch a video tutorial to see if it’s something you might want to try.

4. A broken china picture frame

Do you have an old picture frame crammed in a draw somewhere, not feeling the love? Use it as a starting point and upcycle it into a broken china picture frame. There are online broken china tutorials available which give you all the information you might need on how to get started.

5. A china teacup bird feeder

With just an old china cup and saucer, you can quickly and easily create a unique china teacup bird feeder your partner can hang in the garden. A super charming and thoughtful gift, which is quite simple if you follow a video tutorial.

5 experience or activity gifts for a 20th wedding anniversary

One amazing gift you might consider giving to mark your 20th wedding anniversary is one where the two of you get to spend time together doing something new, exciting or relaxing. An experience or activity is a great way to make more memories and make an amazing anniversary even more memorable. Here are five ideas for how the two of you can spend time on the big day.

1. A china and porcelain painting course

Painting china is a real art form and one that not many people have nowadays. Spend time with your partner learning this dying skill and enjoy a china and porcelain painting course. You also get to take home your original creations to display forever.

2. A Wedgewood factory tour

Wedgwood is one of the most famous pottery manufacturers in the UK and is known for their range of amazing products. See how the experts do it with a Wedgwood factory tour located in Stoke-on-Trent.

3. A platinum supercar experience

If your partner loves to drive fast and dreams of owning a sports car, a platinum supercar gift voucher lets them go for it and put the pedal to the metal.

4. A platinum carnivore experience

For a roaring good time on your anniversary, head to Yorkshire Wildlife Park in Doncaster and take part in a platinum carnivore experience. Get hands-on with some big cats and make your other half purr with delight! 

5. A platinum B&B experience

For a special night away, a platinum B&B experience gives you everything you need. A romantic escape, a fine dinner, a luxury bed… what else could you possibly need?

10 20th anniversary gifts that contain emerald

The traditional gemstone to give on your 20th anniversary is emerald, which is gloriously green and one of the four precious gemstones. Some emeralds are relatively common so can be quite affordable, whereas others are incredibly rare and can be even more expensive than diamond. A lovely gesture if it fits your budget! If you choose to spoil your partner with emeralds, you really can’t go wrong, as they’re also incredibly versatile. Here are 10 ideas for jewellery and accessories you can give to your partner to mark 20 years of marriage.

1. Earrings
2. A ring
3. A necklace
4. A bracelet
5. A broach
6. A locket
7. A watch
8. An anklet
9. A hairpin
10. Cufflinks

Because emeralds are so popular, you usually don’t have to go too far to find a range of pieces in either a high street or independent jeweller. It can be a little pricey though, so you might need to do some search to find something your partner will love which suits your budget. Here at Bridebook, we also work closely with loads of brilliant jewellers, so have a browse to see what kind of emerald jewellery they have in store.

5 floral-inspired gifts for a 20th wedding anniversary

If your partner loves their gift to include a touch of flora, then you might want to consider giving them something linked to the traditional 20th anniversary flower, which is aster. Asters are gorgeous open blooms which come in a range of colours and can brighten up any room. They’re the quintessential flower and the perfect addition to any bouquet. Here are five ideas for gifts containing aster.

1. An aster bouquet

Asters are glorious and full of life. It’s impossible not to smile when given a bouquet of asters, and there’s never been a more appropriate time to surprise your partner with a colourful floral arrangement.

2. An aster pendant necklace

Asters lend themselves perfectly to jewellery and accessories, including this blue aster pendant necklace. It’s bold enough that it stands out but subtle enough that it goes with loads of different styles and outfits.

3. Vincent Van Gogh Vase with Gladioli and China asters print

Vincent Van Gogh is one of the most famous painters to have ever lived, with one of his notable pieces being the iconic sunflowers. A slightly lesser-known piece of his, but still just as stunning, is Vase with Gladioli and China asters, and a framed print would be a great gift to hang on any wall.

4. An aster water bottle

If your partner regularly hits the gym or takes a bottle with them to work, an aster water bottle is probably going to be right up their street.

5. An engraved aster vase

Asters don’t just look great in a vase, but on one too. An engraved aster vase is the sort of gift your partner will get use of again and again.

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Celebrating your 18th wedding anniversary is such an exciting time. It’s a wonderful milestone which means you’re also just two short years away from reaching 20 years of marriage. 18 is often seen as a lucky number, and if your marriage was a person, it would now legally be allowed to drink in the UK – incredible!

To celebrate this amazing stage in your marriage, it might be nice to treat your other half to a gift. But what sort of thing should you buy them now that your marriage is officially old enough to apply for a credit card? Well, did you know there’s a traditional and modern gift for celebrating your 18th anniversary, as well as a traditional gemstone and flower? It’s true, and it means by sticking to these unofficial rules, you bring your gift-giving skills to the next level thanks to the deep level of symbolism and meaning behind them.

Deciding the perfect gift can be tricky, so the traditional and modern gifts not only show how much you care, but can also make your decision so much easier. 

In this post, we’re going to explore all the traditional and modern gift-giving traditions when it comes to your 18th wedding anniversary. We’ll also offer you 50 suggestions for gifts to give you a head start and find something your partner is bound to love.

For more information about the different anniversary gift-giving traditions from 1 to 90 years, read our complete year-by-year wedding anniversary gift guide.

What are traditional and modern gifts for an 18th wedding anniversary?

Couples have been giving each other traditional gifts for their anniversary from as far back as the Victorian era, with modern gifts being created at the start of the 20th century. Now, couples can choose whether or not to give one or the other – or sometimes even both. Both traditional and modern gifts are filled with history and meaning, so which you give is entirely up to you.

For many different anniversaries, there are separate traditional and modern gifts. However, when it comes to your 18th anniversary, both the traditional and modern gifts are the same. This lessens the choice, but the meaning behind your gift is still so special.

Traditional 18th anniversary gift – Porcelain

The traditional 18th anniversary gift is porcelain, a type of ceramic made by potters and fired in a kiln to give it that shiny and luxurious finish. It represents how you’ve worked hard over the past 18 years to keep your marriage strong and how you need to continue preserving something beautiful and delicate into the future.

Porcelain is a versatile material and is used to make lots of different things, so despite its close link to expensive pottery, you shouldn’t actually have too much trouble finding something for your other half.

Modern 18th anniversary gift – Porcelain

The modern gift for your 18th anniversary is also porcelain, which means you don’t have quite as much variation when it comes to a gift. But, the meaning behind it is lovely, so even just a small token porcelain gift should be more than enough to get you in your partner’s good books.

18th anniversary gemstone – Cat’s eye

The traditional 18th anniversary gemstone is cat’s eye, which is the name given to a gemstone that has chatoyancy. A gemstone is chatoyant when it contains a band of reflected light, which gives it that distinct appearance reminiscent to a cat’s eye.

Genuine cat’s eyes are pretty rare, and the rarest chatoyant stones are incredibly expensive. But, thankfully, even if you have a smaller budget, you can find alternatives so you can still treat your partner something containing cat’s eye.

18th anniversary flower – Sunflower

The traditional flower for celebrating 18 years of marriage is the sunflower, which was also the traditional flower when you celebrated your 3rd wedding anniversary. Sunflowers are big and bold blooms that are one of the symbols of summer. They represent a long and happy life, which makes them the perfect gift for this special occasion.

How do you choose a gift for an 18th wedding anniversary?

Your 18th wedding anniversary is a big deal and you may struggle to figure out what to give your partner to mark this amazing occasion. Do you go for something simple but loving, like flowers, or traditional and packed with historical meaning? It’s not a necessarily obvious choice, and it can depend on different things. Here are several points to think about when choosing the perfect 18th anniversary gift:

• Are you excited to stick to the traditional or modern gift themes? If so, you’ll want to make sure you choose something linked to one of the themes rather than go off-piste.
• Do you have a set budget? Porcelain can be rather pricey, as can a high-quality and rare cat’s eye gemstone. Sunflowers are far more affordable but just as thoughtful, so this may be something to consider.
• Is a personalised gift important to you? Many people love to give their partners a personalised gift to mark an anniversary, which is obviously easier to do with some gifts than others.
• What kind of thing does your partner love? Even though it’s both the traditional and modern gift, porcelain is actually a fairly old-fashioned gift by today’s standards, so this might play a big part in your decision.

If a couple in your life will soon celebrate their 18th wedding anniversary, you might be on the hunt for the perfect gift to let them know how much you care. As part of that, you may wonder if you can give them a gift linked to the traditional and modern themes, or if it’s something only the couple should do. Well, the great news is, you’re more than welcome to join in on the fun! So, if you’d like to give the couple a gift linked to porcelain, sunflowers or cat’s eyes, then you absolutely should. They’d no doubt be hugely appreciative of such a thoughtful and generous gesture!

50 ideas for an 18th wedding anniversary gift

When it comes to your 18th anniversary, because the traditional and modern gift themes are the same, you don’t have quite as much choice as you did on other anniversaries. For example, on your 3rd anniversary you had a choice of five, but here you only have a choice of three.

Even so, that doesn’t mean there aren’t loads of options out there – you’ve faced a similar anniversary before, such as on your 10th anniversary. 

But, if you’re still not quite sure what sort of gift to treat your partner with to mark 18 years, we’re here to help. Below are 50 18th anniversary gift ideas so you can let your other half know just how much you love them.

20 traditional and modern gifts for an 18th wedding anniversary

With your 18th anniversary, because the traditional and modern gifts are the same, you do have a little less choice when it comes to finding something for your partner in the form of porcelain. But, that doesn’t mean you’ll struggle – porcelain is a type of ceramic that can be molded into a million and one things. That means, whatever your partner is into, you should still be able to find something in keeping with the theme. Here are 20 ideas to get you started on your hunt for something perfectly porcelain.

1. Personalised and framed ceramic hearts

Because porcelain is such a versatile material, it can be personalised really easily. So, why not immortalise your and your partner’s names – and even the names of any kids or pets you may have too – with a lovely framed set of ceramic hearts?

2. Personalised Emma Bridgewater pottery

Emma Bridgewater is one of the biggest names in pottery and creates everything from bowls and plates to cups and vases. Take your gift to the next level with a piece of personalised Emma Bridgewater pottery, the ultimate on-theme gift for your 18th anniversary.

3. A handmade porcelain sunflower seed

This might seem like an unusual choice, but bear with us. In 2010, the Tate Modern was home to an art installation that consisted of millions of porcelain sunflower seeds. The installation is now gone, but you can give one of those porcelain seeds to your partner, complete with a frame. The perfect gift that’s memorable, unique and covers two of the traditional themes. It’s not often you get the chance to give your other half something that was once displayed in the Tate Modern!

4. Circle of Love white porcelain figurine

For a touch of contemporary art, treat your partner to the Circle of Love white porcelain figurine, which features a couple together in an eternal embrace. It’s fabulously striking and modern, and would look great on a shelf, in a cabinet or on a sideboard as a permanent reminder of your 18th anniversary.

5. A set of porcelain roses

Roses are a well-known symbol of love, and they might have been high on your list of gift options until you decided to stick to the 18th anniversary themes. Well, why not do both? A set of porcelain roses means you can give your partner a perfectly on-theme gift with the added bonus that they’ll never wilt!

6. Magic Forest porcelain cufflinks

If your partner often wears suits for work or special events, then they can never have too many pairs of cufflinks. And for a subtle, on-theme anniversary gift with lovely meaning, treat them to Magic Forest porcelain cufflinks, designed to look like a pair of fabulous birds.

7. A set of porcelain coasters

Porcelain might be known for being delicate, but it can also sometimes be quite hardy. A set of porcelain coasters is a great example of this and makes for a practical and on-theme gift.

8. Contemporary porcelain earrings

For jewellery that will really make your partner stand out from the crowd, look no further than a pair of contemporary porcelain earrings. These earrings are like no others and go perfectly with a sleek, modern outfit. Who knew porcelain earrings could look so incredible?

9. A striking porcelain lamp

Part lamp, part vase, this striking porcelain lamp is available in three sizes, and thanks to dozens of holes pierced into the side, it casts brilliant light around the room. Just remember, if your partner does use it as a vase then they can’t put water in it!

10. A porcelain silver dipped necklace

Porcelain isn’t exactly the most common material for making necklaces, but when combined with silver you might wonder why not. This porcelain silver dipped necklace is as beautiful as it is unique and even comes packaged in a glass bottle. Nothing about this necklace is ordinary.

11. A porcelain vase

For a sleek and modern gift, you might consider giving your partner a porcelain vase. It might have a simple design, but that means it will work with a wide variety of flowers and go with practically any decor. For double brownie points, give this amazing vase to your partner with their favourite flower already inside.

12. An item of antique porcelain

Porcelain has been used to create luxury homeware for centuries, which means there tend to be loads of incredible porcelain pieces available in antique shops both online and in brick-and-mortar stores. A lot of antique porcelain also looks wonderful, so have a browse and see what you can find. We bet there are some antique shops not too far from you, or you can browse sites like Selling Antiques to see what they have in stock.

13. A porcelain rabbit figurine

What could possibly be cuter than a bunny rabbit? Well, how about an adorable porcelain rabbit figurine holding a heart? This lovely ornament oozes love and affection and is the perfect 18th anniversary gift for the animal lover in your life.

14. A porcelain picture frame

You might not expect porcelain to work as a material for making picture frames, but it really does work. This porcelain picture frame has an elegant embossed design and your favourite wedding snap (from 18 years ago – wow!) would certainly look amazing inside it.

15. A porcelain Christmas ornament

Are you going to celebrate your anniversary during the lead-up to Christmas? Even if you’re not, if your partner loves the festive season, a porcelain Christmas ornament is a brilliant way to give them an on-theme gift which they can hang on the tree every year and which will always carry extra special meaning.

16. A matching couples’ mug set

For a gift that’s romantic, on-theme and just a tad bit cheeky, a matching couples’ mug set is full of character and lets you give a gift that matches your mischievous side.

17. A porcelain scented candle

A candle is usually a sure-fire winner when it comes to a romantic gift, and allows you to create a great atmosphere during a snuggly night in. This Moonlight crush candle lets you set the mood and fits with the theme because the lid is made out of porcelain.

18. A porcelain wall clock

Another unexpected use for porcelain is a clock, which can actually make for a bold and unique look. Give your other half the gift of time they’ll never see coming with a porcelain wall clock.

19. A porcelain teapot

If your partner loves a good cuppa, make every tea time classy with a porcelain teapot. It has a simple design and is also fairly affordable, so makes for a brilliant token gift.

20. A tiny toilet (which is actually a flower pot)

There’s no way we could create this list filled with porcelain gift ideas and not include a toilet in some way. This tiny ceramic toilet actually doubles as a pot for a succulent plant, so it’s funny, on-theme and rather thoughtful!

5 affordable gifts for an 18th wedding anniversary

Porcelain can often be quite pricey, which means with a smaller budget it can be difficult to find your partner something that’s linked to the 18th anniversary themes. Difficult – but not impossible! With a little creative thinking, there are still ways to give your partner a gift closely linked to one of the 18th anniversary themes while also making sure you don’t spend too much. Here are five suggestions if you’re hoping to give a little token gift for the big day.

1. A porcelain heart pebble

Possibly the best token gift there is linked to the theme of porcelain, a small porcelain heart pebble is dinky and affordable yet makes a big statement.

2. A porcelain trinket dish

Does your partner have small items of jewellery or other trinkets but doesn’t have anywhere to keep them safe or together? A porcelain trinket dish is small, sleek and doesn’t cost much at all.

3. A porcelain heart anniversary card

If you’re thinking about getting your partner a card as well as a gift, you could combine the two and give them a porcelain heart anniversary card. As the name suggests, it includes a tiny porcelain heart on the front which makes it ideal for such a special milestone.

4. A personalised porcelain photo mug

For a fabulous on-theme gift that’s personal to your partner and affordable, a personalised porcelain photo mug ticks a lot of boxes and is a brilliant low-cost option.

5. A porcelain 18th anniversary ornament

Featuring a very sweet personalised message, this porcelain 18th anniversary ornament is a wonderful keepsake your other half will want to display for years and years.

5 DIY gifts for an 18th wedding anniversary

To give your other half a gift that’s truly one of a kind, you could make them something using your own fair hands. You might think that making something out of porcelain would require special equipment – and you’d be right! But, there are a few sneaky ways around it so you can still have some creative fun and have a great gift to present to your partner. Here are five suggestions for DIY, on-theme 18th anniversary gifts.

1. Paint your own ceramic figure

Get artistic and paint your own ceramic figure, which could be anything from a lion to a teapot. There’s so much choice you’ll definitely find something your partner will love.

2. A DIY paper sunflower

Sunflowers are big, bright and colourful flowers that are full of life. They’re also surprisingly simple to make out of paper, and don’t require experience or special tools. Check out a DIY paper sunflower video tutorial for help on how to get started.

3. Mini porcelain flower pot decorating

For the ultimate DIY 18th anniversary gift, you could pick up a mini porcelain flower pot decorating set and scribble your own fun design. Then, for the icing on the cake, plant a sunflower seed before giving it to your other half.

4. Decorate a ceramic vase

Let your creativity loose by decorating a ceramic vase. Whether you go for something bright and cheery or stylish and modern, the choice is yours. It makes for an even more perfect gift when given alongside a lovely floral bouquet.

5. Design your own porcelain bowl

Another simple but effective DIY gift is designing your own personalised porcelain bowl. You could give your partner a one-off, or design a whole set. Read this handy porcelain bowl tutorial for everything you need to give it a go.

5 experience or activity gifts for an 18th wedding anniversary

To make your 18th wedding anniversary one you and your partner will never forget, you could give them a gift which lets you spend the day doing something fun, exciting or unique. There are plenty of brilliant ways to tie whatever you get up to closely with the traditional and modern themes. So, to spend time doing something a little different, here are five ideas for experiences and activities.

1. A pottery experience day

If your other half has always fancied giving pottery a go, now’s the perfect excuse to try it! The two of you can let your hair down, get your hands dirty, and throw down some clay to make something unique during a pottery experience day.

2. A pottery factory tour

Denby is a well-known maker of pottery and has been creating tableware and kitchenware in their Derbyshire factory for more than 200 years. Spend time learning how the experts do it with a pottery factory tour that tells you everything there is to know about this fascinating craft.

3. A fine porcelain painting course

For a gift that’s truly unique, spoil your partner and help them gain a new skill with a fine porcelain painting course. This four-week course will teach them everything they need to know about hand-painting incredible porcelain pieces.

4. Sunflower camping

If your anniversary is during the summer, spend time sleeping among nature with a sunflower camping experience. Just imagine how romantic it will feel to fall asleep beneath the stars while surrounded by tens of thousands of beautiful sunflowers – bliss!

5. Pick your own sunflowers

Every summer, farms around the country offer pick-your-own experiences, so why not tie your anniversary into one and spend time with your other half picking your own sunflowers? They’re available up and down the country, like this one at Overfarm in Gloucester.

10 18th anniversary gifts that contain cat’s eye

Jewellery and accessories always make for a beautiful and long-lasting gift that your partner can wear for all sorts of occasions. For your 18th wedding anniversary, the traditional gemstone is cat’s eye, a striking stone that is perfectly named as it often does look exactly like a cat’s eye. Many different types of gemstone can contain this amazing effect, but it is rare which means it can be tough to find a genuine cat’s eye. However, cat’s eye jewellery is out there, and here are 10 suggestions for jewellery containing this alluring gemstone:

1. Earrings
2. A ring
3. A necklace
4. A bracelet
5. A broach
6. A locket
7. A watch
8. An anklet
9. A hairpin
10. Cufflinks

As beautiful as it is, because of its rarity it can be difficult to find the perfect cat’s eye piece for your other half. Not to mention expensive. There are affordable not-so-genuine alternatives, but they don’t tend to have that iconic cat’s eye look. Some high street jewellers may have a small range of cat’s eye jewellery, or you can browse local jewellers to see if they have something for you to take a look at. At Bridebook, we work with a range of fabulous jewellers, so take a look and see if they have something your partner will love.

5 floral-inspired gifts for an 18th wedding anniversary

Flowers are always a fantastic choice of gift on your anniversary, and marking 18 years with a floral arrangement is going to get you in your partner’s good books. The traditional flower for your 18th anniversary is the gorgeous sunflower, one of the symbols of summer. Sunflowers are big, bold and bright, and are an inspiration for loads of different gift options. Here are five suggestions if you’d like to give your other half something floral.

1. A bouquet of sunflowers

Bring life to any room and a smile to your other half’s face. There’s no way we couldn’t kick off this list without including a bouquet of sunflowers!

2. Sunflower seeds

In the UK, it’s surprisingly simple to grow sunflowers in your garden or a pot, so sunflower seeds make for a thoughtful token gift. After sowing in the spring, they shoot up so fast that within a couple of months, you could have gorgeous blooming sunflowers that are taller than you.

3. A ceramic sunflower pitcher vase

Not only do sunflowers look great in a vase, they also look great on a vase. A ceramic sunflower pitcher vase not only fits the floral theme, but also the traditional and modern themes of your 18th anniversary. A triple-hitter and the ideal gift.

4. A beautiful sunflower necklace

For a beautiful piece of jewellery that your partner can wear with a selection of outfits to practically any occasion, a sparkly sunflower necklace is as lovely as it is thoughtful.

5. LEGO sunflowers

LEGO isn’t just for kids anymore, and by giving your partner a LEGO sunflowers set, you can spend time on your anniversary building them together, then display them at home and never have to worry about watering them.

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