If you’re about to celebrate your 14th wedding anniversary, it’s an incredibly exciting milestone in your marriage. 14 years is a long time to spend with someone, and you no doubt know everything there is to know about your partner. As part of your celebrations, you might be looking to give your other half a gift that’s special enough to reflect this fabulous milestone. But, what on earth can you give them that’s worthy of 14 years of marriage?
Well, did you know that there are traditional and modern 14th anniversary gifts? These gifts are extra special because they’re filled with historical meaning, which can elevate them above other types of gifts. There is also a traditional flower and traditional gemstone, so if you are keen to give your partner a blooming beautiful bouquet or piece of sparkly jewellery, you can do so and make sure it’s filled with symbolic meaning.
These traditional and modern gifts have been given by couples for over a century, so they’re definitely something to consider during your hunt for the ideal gift. In this article, we’ll dive into these gifts, including the traditional flower and gemstone, and offer you loads of suggestions if it’s something you’d like to do. That means you can give your partner a gift that’s got plenty of history behind it and tells them exactly how you feel.
For more information about different anniversary gifts and traditions from all the different milestones from 1 to 90 years, read our complete year-by-year wedding anniversary gift guide.
What are traditional and modern gifts for a 14th wedding anniversary?
Both traditional and modern gifts have been given by couples to each other for more than 100 years, which means, by today’s standards, they’re potentially a little outdated compared to how we view things now. But, it’s what the gifts stand for that’s important, and with a little creativity, you can still give gifts linked to both the traditional and modern themes.
Traditional 14th anniversary gift – Ivory
The traditional 14th anniversary gift is ivory, the material from which elephant tusks are made. Ivory is incredibly durable, and is traditionally a symbol of elegance and beauty. However, not only is ivory morally wrong, as collecting it results in the death of elephants, but it’s also illegal. As a cruelty-free and legal alternative, an ivory-coloured or elephant-inspired gift is a great way to honour this gift without having to worry about the moral or ethical implications.
Modern 14th anniversary gift – Gold jewellery
The modern 14th anniversary gift is gold jewellery. Gold jewellery symbolises wealth and prosperity, which reflects the love shared by you and your partner. Gold jewellery can be a little pricey, so may be out of your budget, but there are ways to give your partner a little taste of gold jewellery without breaking the bank.
14th anniversary gemstone – Opal
The traditional 14th anniversary gemstone is opal. Opal is an absolutely stunning gemstone, which comes in an array of incredible colours and is often multi-coloured. It represents hope and truth, which is a lovely way to honour 14 years of marriage. Because of the assortment of colours opal can be found in, it’s a versatile addition to a wide variety of jewellery and accessories.
14th anniversary flower – Orchid
For a floral treat for your partner, you could give them the traditional 14th anniversary flower: the orchid. Orchids are delicate, exotic and beautiful flowers which are stunning as part of an arrangement or planted in a pot. They do take a little bit of work to care for, but it’s absolutely worth it, and is still totally accessible for beginner horticulturalists. Orchids represent love and beauty, as well as fertility – so if you have a couple of kids by now, an orchid would be rather appropriate!
How do you choose a gift for a 14th wedding anniversary?
For your 14th anniversary, you might rack your brain to think of the perfect gift for your partner. Next year is a big milestone with your 15th wedding anniversary, which makes it an extra special one. But, you can still make your 14th special and memorable too. Here are a few things to consider before deciding what to get your other half.
- Are you happy giving your partner something linked to the traditional or modern 14th anniversary themes? Ivory and gold jewellery aren’t necessarily the most accessible of themes, but if you love the sentiment behind them there are ways to be creative with them.
- What’s your agreed budget, if you have one? Ivory can be a theme that can be interpreted in different ways, but gold jewellery not so much, which means it can be rather pricey.
- Are you keen to give your partner a gift which is personalised? Both the traditional and modern gifts can be tricky to personalise, but not impossible.
- What sort of gift might your partner hope to receive? For example, have they hinted at gold jewellery or even something linked to ivory or elephants?
Do you know a couple who will soon be celebrating their 14th wedding anniversary? If so, you might be wondering if you can buy them a gift which is closely linked to the traditional and modern 14th anniversary themes. Well, the simple answer is, of course you can! Gifts related to the themes are open to everyone, so if you have an idea for the perfect gift then give away! We’re sure they’ll not only love it, but appreciate the thought and meaning behind your gift too.
50 ideas for a 14th wedding anniversary gift
Are you excited to give your partner a 14th anniversary gift closely linked to the traditional or modern themes, but not quite sure where to start? After all, how can you choose unique gold jewellery or a gift linked to ivory? There are plenty of options out there, you might just have to think outside the box a little! So, here are 50 ideas for 14th anniversary gifts so you can give your other half something they’ll never forget.
10 traditional gifts for a 14th wedding anniversary
For a gift with traditional flair, you might want to consider giving your partner a gift associated with ivory. Now, ivory is of course illegal today, but that doesn’t mean you can’t find an on-theme gift. Instead of ivory itself, you could find your partner a gift associated with the colour ivory or something related to elephants. Here are 10 suggestions to give you a little inspiration.
1. An ivory grey photo frame
Ivory is a massively appealing and versatile colour thanks to how neutral it is, so it’ll go with almost any style or colour scheme. So, you could print off your favourite wedding photo from 14 years ago and stick it in an ivory grey photo frame, which your partner could hang on the wall, put on a sideboard, or proudly display on their desk.
2. An ivory white silk scarf
Because ivory goes with almost any other colour, it’s perfect for most fashion items and accessories. That’s why an ivory white silk scarf is often a safe gift to give, because no matter what kind of thing your partner likes to wear, ivory will often complement it well.
3. An incredible elephant sculpture
Elephants are beautiful animals, which is another reason why ivory poachers are so cruel. One gift that truly celebrates these gentle giants is an elephant sculpture, which can be displayed in your home as an eye-catching centrepiece.
4. A personalised elephant wall plaque
For a cute piece of personalisation, you might want to choose a personalised elephant wall plaque. If you have a growing family, you can choose the number of elephants to include on it, and each of their names to accompany them. You can also choose the wording in the central star to wish your beloved a happy anniversary.
5. Elephants in love ceramic figures
An adorable gift that perfectly sums up the love you and your partner share is a pair of elephants in love ceramic figures. With their trunks entwined, it symbolises how the two of you are one and always there for each other.
6. An ivory-coloured bouquet
Ivory makes for a gorgeous colour when it comes to flowers, and an ivory dreams bouquet will truly make an impact on your anniversary. The subtle ivory really comes to life against the lusciousness of the green foliage.
7. Imitation ivory combs
In the olden days, the upper classes would often have combs made from ivory. Call back to those times with imitation ivory combs, which look just like the real thing but are far kinder to elephants.
8. An elephant crochet craft kit
They say an elephant never forgets, and your partner won’t forget your anniversary any time soon with an elephant crochet craft kit. They’ll be able to create their very own adorable little elephant to treasure forever.
9. An ivory paper rose
For a gift as showstopping as it is delicate, an ivory paper rose has all the beauty of a real rose but is guaranteed never to wilt. The ultimate symbol of love combined with the important meaning of ivory on your 14th anniversary.
10. An ivory leather clutch bag
If the two of you are heading out to celebrate on your anniversary, you might want to treat your partner to an ivory leather clutch bag, which is super smart and stylish and will go with almost any type of outfit.
10 modern gifts for a 14th wedding anniversary
If you’re not quite sold on the idea of ivory, you could give your partner the modern 14th anniversary gift, which is gold jewellery. While other themes allow for a lot of outside-the-box thinking and creativity, gold jewellery is exactly what it says on the tin. But, there are a lot of different types of gold jewellery out there to choose from, so whatever your partner likes, you’re bound to find something that appeals to them and their tastes. Here are just 10 you might like to consider.
1. Tiffany & Co. heart tag stud earrings
Tiffany & Co. is a fabulously luxurious brand and, if your budget allows, makes for a great anniversary gift. A pair of Tiffany heart tag stud earrings fits the theme perfectly and will go with almost any type of outfit on a whole host of occasions.
2. A gold watch
The modern gift for 15 years of marriage is a watch, so why not get in there a year early? Combine the modern options for 14 and 15 years with a gold watch that your partner will never see coming!
3. A gold bracelet
The great thing about gold bracelets is that they come in a range of sizes and styles, so no matter what type of jewellery your partner loves, you’re likely to find one that suits their taste.
4. A gold signature name necklace
A wonderful way to personalise a piece of jewellery for your partner is with a gold signature name necklace. Choose your partner’s name and the type of chain they’d love for a truly one-of-a-kind piece.
5. A gold ring
Whether your partner likes a ring that’s dainty, chunky, patterned, set with a stone, a plain band or something else entirely, you can be sure that there’s a gold ring out there for them.
6. A gold brooch
Brooches are something of a lost accessory by today’s standards, but they shouldn’t be. They’re big, bold and beautiful, and can really elevate any outfit, especially if your partner will soon be attending a special occasion and will be dressing up. A gold brooch can be an absolute showstopper.
7. Gold bangles
Bangles are similar to bracelets but with a few small differences. Some people prefer one to the other, and if your partner is a big fan of bangles, then a gold bangle is likely a solid choice of gift for your 14th anniversary.
8. A pair of gold cufflinks
If your partner regularly wears suits or has to dress up for the odd special occasion, then they can’t have too many cufflinks. A nice pair of gold cufflinks is something they can always wear for a reminder of your amazing milestone.
9. A gold nose ring
Does your partner have their nose pierced? If so, a gold nose ring is a lovely on-theme gift that’s sure to be a massive surprise. These may be small pieces of jewellery, but can be super impactful and come in a variety of styles. Perfect if your partner is seeking a subtle and elegant addition to their look.
10. A gold anklet
If you have a holiday planned where you and your partner will spend many hours relaxing by a pool or on the beach, a gold anklet is a unique way to give them an on-theme anniversary gift that they’ll be able to show off.
5 affordable gifts for a 14th wedding anniversary
Anniversary gifts can be pricey, especially if you decide to stick to the traditional or modern gifts such as gold jewellery. But, just because you want to give your partner something filled with meaning doesn’t mean you have to pay loads for the privilege. In fact, you can still get your other half a thoughtful 14th anniversary gift without breaking the bank. Here are five suggestions for brilliant token gifts which are still full of romantic symbolism.
1. A porcelain elephant in a matchbox
For the sweetest, pocket-sized gesture of love that’s packed full of historical 14th anniversary sentiment, a porcelain elephant in a matchbox is adorable and hard to beat, with the added bonus of being super affordable too.
2. An elephant-themed greetings card
If you’re considering getting your partner a gift, then chances are you’re also thinking about getting them a card. Why not bring that traditional gift-giving meaning into that with an elephant-themed greeting card? It’s a great way to personalise their card and make it specific to your 14th anniversary.
3. Gold sun anniversary card
If gold is more your partner’s thing, a gold sun anniversary card is a smart way to combine their card with the modern gift. It also means they’ll have a small keepsake of your 14th anniversary to hold onto forever.
4. A gold sunbeam ring
Gold jewellery can often be quite pricey, which means it’s not always an option if you’re on a budget. However, a gold stainless steel sunbeam ring totally counts and is a great way to give your partner an affordable gift which has all the historical meaning behind it.
5. A faux IKEA orchid
If you think your partner would love an orchid, but they’re not confident with keeping plants alive and you don’t want to risk, it a faux orchid from IKEA could be everything you’re looking for! And it looks great, so win-win.
5 DIY gifts for a 14th wedding anniversary
Nothing says romance quite like a homemade anniversary gift, which you can tie into the themes and show just how much effort you’ve put into it. But, we hear you ask, how on earth are you supposed to make a gift linked to ivory or gold jewellery? Well, you might be surprised – there are plenty of things you can do to make your partner something with your own two hands. Here are five creative ideas for DIY 14th anniversary gifts.
1. DIY ivory fabric bunting
We decorate for loads of different occasions, from holidays to birthdays – so why not apply the same effort to your anniversary? And there’s no better way to decorate than with homemade anniversary bunting using ivory fabric. Fabric is fairly affordable, and a video tutorial will tell you everything you need to know to make it yourself.
2. A DIY ivory headband
With a little ivory fabric and some elastic, you might be able to cobble together a few bits from around the house to make your partner a DIY ivory headband. Headbands are in fashion at the moment, so not only will it be thoughtful and on-theme, but your partner can wear it proudly too. Check out tutorial for all the steps on how to sew a headband.
3. A DIY gold wire sculpture
Even if you don’t have any experience, with a little patience and time, you can create a striking DIY gold wire sculpture. You might need a couple of tools, but gold wire is very affordable and can be both rewarding and easy to work with. Watch a video tutorial for information on how to get started.
4. DIY gold wire jewellery
If you have some gold wire (and if you don’t, you can pick some up cheaply) there are loads of things you can do with it, including making gold wire jewellery. You can make everything from earrings to bracelets, and it’s straightforward to pick up. Browse Pinterest for some great wire jewellery ideas.
5. DIY gold jewellery
Want a crack at making jewellery but you’re not sure your partner will like wire jewellery? A jewellery-making kit provides you with all the tools and materials you need to make a wide variety of jewellery with plenty of gold accessories to include.
5 experience or activity gifts for a 14th wedding anniversary
Not that you need an excuse to spend time with the love of your life, but your anniversary is the perfect time to whisk your partner away to experience something new, fun or exciting together. And, there are plenty of experience or activity gifts which tie directly into the traditional and modern 14th anniversary themes. Here are five ideas to give you the most memorable anniversary ever.
1. Meet an elephant at Whipsnade Zoo
We know that it’s important for you and your love to spend quality time together on your anniversary, but there’s no harm in the two of you also sharing that time with an elephant. Whipsnade Zoo offers a meet the elephants experience so you can make some new friends on your big day!
2. Elephant keeper experience
If you think your partner would like to do more than simply meet an elephant, and has always fancied having a go at caring for them, an elephant keeper experience at Noah’s Ark Zoo Farm is sure to be an anniversary gift they’ll never forget.
3. Go on a safari
For a wild adventure which lets you see animals from all over the world (including elephants, of course) without having to leave the UK, you could treat your other half to a trip to Woburn Safari Park. Then, for the icing on the cake, a meal in a pub in nearby Woburn village will be a great end to the day (which could include a cake for dessert… literally the icing on the cake).
4. A jewellery-making experience
Has your partner ever talked about how much they’d like to try jewellery making? Now is the perfect opportunity, with a jewellery-making experience. You can both have a go at making jewellery yourself under the guidance of an expert.
5. Tour Britain’s only Roman gold mine
The UK isn’t exactly known for its gold mines, but, did you know that West Wales is home to Britain’s only Roman gold mine? Take a tour of Dolaucothi Gold Mines and learn all about how the Romans mined gold right here in the UK.
10 14th anniversary gifts that contain opal
The traditional 14th anniversary gemstone is opal, a blindingly brilliant stone which comes in so many different colours that it’s practically impossible to find two that are the same. What isn’t impossible, however, is finding one that your partner will love. Because of their versatility, opals are great when set in all different types of jewellery made from almost every different precious metal there is. If you think your other half might love jewellery set with opal, you might want to consider any one of the following 10 ideas:
- Earrings
- A ring
- A necklace
- A bracelet
- A broach
- A locket
- A watch
- An anklet
- A hairpin
- Cufflinks
Opals are a fairly common stone, so they can be relatively affordable. That said, some of the more valuable opals, such as black opal, can be incredibly expensive. So, opal is a great stone to suit a wide range of budgets. You shouldn’t have many issues finding opal jewellery at most high street and independent jewellers. At Bridebook, we’ve partnered with a huge number of jewellers who have their own selections of opal jewellery, so check them out and take a look to see if they have something that suits your partner’s tastes.
5 floral-inspired gifts for a 14th wedding anniversary
Flowers are always a great gift to give on your anniversary, and are sure to put you in your partner’s good books. But, to make sure your floral gift has more meaning behind it than any other bouquet you might choose, the traditional flower for your 14th anniversary is the orchid. Orchids are stunning and fill a room with elegance and life, and their striking look can inspire other gifts. Below are five orchid-themed gifts to consider giving your partner on your anniversary.
1. A white heart orchid
Giving your partner an orchid is one thing, but a white heart orchid from M&S features an orchid shaped like a heart, with a heart token hanging from the centre. It’s the ultimate symbol of love made from the ultimate flower for celebrating 14 years.
2. A rose gold orchid necklace
Orchids are iconic blooms and work wonderfully well when included in jewellery. A rose gold orchid necklace combines two 14th anniversary gifts in the form of the traditional flower and modern gift, which makes it a double-hitter for your big milestone.
3. A crocheted orchid
If your partner loves orchids but struggles to keep them alive, a crocheted orchid looks almost as good as the real thing, except it’ll never die and will always remain as vibrant as the day you give it to your partner.
4. A freesia and orchid-scented candle
Help create a romantic atmosphere on the evening of your anniversary with a freesia and orchid-scented candle, which smells gloriously floral and sweet and will last around 42 hours.
5. LEGO orchids
Do you and your partner love building LEGO sets together? If so, a brilliant choice of anniversary gift is a LEGO orchid set, which is fun and satisfying to build and looks almost as good as the real thing when finished.
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