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The wedding rings you and your partner wear are a symbol of your love and commitment to one another. Not only do they have to be personal to you and your partner, but they need to complement each other and any engagement rings either of you might wear.

The money you might spend on your wedding rings will depend entirely on your taste, the level of customization you’re after and – ultimately – your budget.

In this post, we’re going to explore everything related to the cost of wedding rings, including the average cost, how much you should spend on wedding rings and why some cost more than others.

What’s the average cost of wedding rings?

In Canada, the average cost of wedding rings varies depending on factors like style, material, and brand. Many Canadian couples budget around $1,500 to $2,000 for wedding bands alone, excluding additional jewelry for the big day, such as engagement rings or other accessories.

Based on our ultimate wedding budget breakdown, couples in Canada may spend approximately $5,000 on wedding jewelry in total. However, this is just an average, and there are options available for every budget. While some couples may invest more in designer or custom pieces, others can find beautiful rings within a more modest range.

When it comes to choosing wedding bands, there are plenty of options to fit various budgets. Different materials, like platinum or white gold, often come at a higher cost, while alternatives such as tungsten or sterling silver provide affordable options without sacrificing elegance.

How much should you spend on a wedding ring?

While there may be a tradition that states you should spend three months’ salary on an engagement ring (which, by the way, you don’t need to stick to), there aren’t any similar traditions when it comes to your wedding rings.

How much you should spend on your wedding rings is a completely personal choice. If you have a smaller budget, and only want to spend a couple hundred dollars, then that’s totally fine – what the rings represent is far more important, anyway. Similarly, if you have a larger budget to play with, then spending thousands is totally okay too – what you spend doesn’t affect the amount of love you have for your spouse-to-be. You should never feel pressured to spend a certain amount of money on your wedding rings.

That being said, there is one exception to this ‘rule’. It’s advised that the metal used in your wedding rings is the same as the metal used in the engagement ring. This is because some metals are more durable than others, and harder metals can damage softer metals. They can also discolor at different rates, leading to them looking mismatched.

This means if your engagement ring is made out of 18-carat yellow gold, your wedding rings should be made from metal with similar durability – ideally 18-carat yellow gold. So, if your engagement ring is made from an expensive metal, your wedding rings should be – if budget allows – as well.

Why do wedding rings cost so much?

Your wedding ring is one of those rare pieces of jewelry you’ll wear every day, all day, for many years to come. Through work, travel, and life’s daily adventures, it’ll be right there with you. Because of this, many couples choose rings made from durable – and often more expensive – metals.

While you could find silver wedding bands for under $250, silver’s softer nature makes it prone to scratches and dents and even more likely to change shape over time. In contrast, stronger metals like platinum or palladium may cost three to four times as much, but they’re highly resistant to wear and far less likely to suffer damage over the years.

How does the metal type affect the cost of a wedding ring?

The type of metal you pick for your wedding bands will dramatically alter the price you’ll pay. Choosing the right wedding ring takes thought and consideration. The price of precious metals fluctuates, but below is a rough idea of what you might pay for a few popular choices.

Gold

For those opting for gold wedding rings, a simple 9ct white gold band typically ranges between $250 for a 0.5 cm band and up to $650 for a 0.7 cm band. The price variation reflects the amount of gold in the ring as well as its durability, with 9ct and 18ct rings being popular choices for their strength and longevity.

Platinum

Platinum is one of the most durable options, known for its resilience even with daily wear, making it ideal for active lifestyles. Its durability, however, comes with a higher price tag. A thin 0.2 cm platinum ring can start at $600, while a thicker 0.5 cm band may cost around $1,800 when purchased from a reputable Canadian retailer.

Titanium

Titanium has gained popularity as a contemporary option with a darker hue. It’s lightweight, scratch-resistant, and generally more affordable. Titanium wedding bands can start at as low as $85, making them a stylish and budget-friendly choice.

Silver

Silver remains a budget-friendly option for couples who want a precious metal without the higher price of gold or platinum. While silver is softer and more prone to scratches, it’s still a popular choice for those with limited budgets. A silver wedding band typically starts around $120.

What is the most expensive type of metal for a wedding ring?

Ruby, from Lebrusan Studio in the UK, shares her expert insights and explains about the cost of different types of metal in more detail:

“The greater the pure gold content in a gold alloy, the higher the caratage. In other words, whilst 18ct gold is 75% pure gold and 25% other metal, 9ct gold consists of 37.5% pure gold and 62.5% other metals. The higher the carat weight, the greater the price, with 18ct gold generally tending to cost around twice as much as 9ct gold.
In spite of a historic dip in recent years, platinum just about remains a more expensive option than gold. This can be attributed to its relative rarity and its density, as precious metals are often priced by weight. Although white gold, which is almost identical to platinum in appearance, is cheaper, platinum comparatively requires very little maintenance over the years, so is arguably a reliable investment.”

What other factors can affect the cost of a wedding ring?

Just like when it comes to choosing any other piece of jewellery, there are many factors that will affect exactly how much your wedding rings cost.

Design – Many couples choose a simple band, but this isn’t a requirement for your wedding rings. The more intricate the design, the more it’s likely to cost.
Size – The thicker the band, the more metal it requires and therefore the pricier it will be.
Brand/retailer – Rings from high-end brands and retailers, such as Tiffany&Co., will cost more than most online or physical retailers.
Season – During periods of high demand, such as the spring and early summer, costs can fluctuate.
Customization – Many couples choose to personalize their wedding bands with a meaningful engraving, or the fingerprint of their beloved on the inside. Due to the time and expertise required, this will increase the cost.
Stones – It has become an increasingly popular option for brides and grooms to go for diamond set rings, as they can add a bit of sparkle to a simple band. These are priced similarly to engagement rings, depending on the metal that you choose and the cut, carat and clarity of the diamonds you wish to include. For an idea of pricing, an 18ct white gold ring with a half band featuring 0.15ct diamonds generally costs around $1,050.

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You’re engaged to your best friend, your partner in crime, your ride or die – now it’s time to start planning the biggest party you’ll ever throw.

The first thing on your mind is likely to be, ‘How much is all of this going to cost?’ In Canada, the average amount couples spend on their wedding is around $30,000. Once you know that, the second question you might ask is, ‘How are we going to pay for it?’

No need to panic – we’ve got a super powerful budget tool which uses thousands of couples’ real budgets to estimate the total cost of your wedding and then break that down so you have a good idea of exactly what each part will cost.

But, if you’re looking to do things a little more traditionally, and get generous family members involved, who pays for what in a wedding?

Some families offer to help the newlyweds-to-be celebrate the most magical day of their lives, and we’re here to give you the lowdown on who traditionally (a big emphasis on the traditionally) pays for what. Once you’ve calculated your budget and seen how much everything’s going to cost, you and your partner can both let your families know what they can help with. At the end of the day, it’s whatever works for you and your family.

If you don’t want to know about the why’s and how’s of these costs and want to get straight into what each side of the family should pay for, skip ahead to our quick reference cheat sheet!

Should the bride’s family pay for a wedding?

Once again, beliefs and expectations have evolved, and in the 21st century, it’s no longer the case that the bride’s family are expected to pay. Now, in Canada and many cultures around the world, the bride’s family and the groom’s family – as well as the couple themselves – can help pay for a wedding.

So, the modern way to split paying for a wedding looks a little something like this:

Bride’s family – 25%
Groom’s family – 25%
The couple – 50%

With this in mind, based on the average cost of a wedding being $30,000, that still leaves you with around $15,000 you might have to save yourself – and that’s if your family can lend a hand.

Should you ask the bride’s family to pay for your wedding?

While it may have once been the traditional way to pay for a wedding, you should only ask the bride’s family to pay for your wedding if you know they can comfortably afford it. The same goes for asking the groom’s family. You’ll want to make sure they’re fully on board with your marriage plans, which might mean a lot of buttering up and being an exemplary son or daughter and future in-law.

The important thing to remember is not to go in expecting anyone to pay. Talking about money is personal, private and sometimes awkward. But, it can be done carefully without causing friction.

Who traditionally pays for different parts of a wedding in Canada?

If you’re lucky enough to have family who want to help you pay for your wedding, then the below guide should give you an indication of who might pay for what.

Before we dive in, each of these traditions is based on there being a bride and groom. Many modern couples have two grooms or two brides – or perhaps neither. If you’re an LGBTQ+ couple planning your big day, we recommend that you try to evenly split what you ask your families to pay for and use the below as a rough guide.

Who traditionally pays for an engagement party?

This expense is traditionally covered by the bride’s family, since they often host the engagement party at their house as a way to welcome and bring together the two families (often for the first time). However, whichever family is feeling the most generous can offer to host or throw the engagement party. It all depends on space, funds and who wants to do the clearing up afterwards.

Who traditionally pays for the rehearsal dinner?

Since the bride’s family pays for the engagement party, the rehearsal dinner is traditionally paid for by the groom’s parents. They should only spend what they’re comfortable with, however, and hosting a small soirée the day before the wedding is more than enough.

Not all couples choose to have a rehearsal dinner, so you may ask for this contribution to go towards the big day itself, instead.

Who traditionally pays for the wedding venue?

The venue is usually the single biggest expenditure of your entire wedding, and no one is pleased to be handed an invoice with that many zeros on it. Traditionally, this would be something that the bride’s parents would pay for and covers the cost of the ceremony itself.

Because the average wedding venue costs between $10,000-$12,000, this can be a heck of a cost to expect one family to pay for alone. So, for more modern weddings, this is something that many families – together with the couple – split the bill for.

Who traditionally pays for wedding catering?

This is another cost that traditionally lies with the bride’s family, which includes the cost of canapés and the evening buffet. The good news is that it’s not traditional for the bride’s parents to cover the cost of an open bar, with most weddings having a cash bar, so guests pay for their own drinks.

Who traditionally pays for the wedding reception?

The bride’s family traditionally pays for the wedding reception, though the costs do cross over with that of the venue, entertainment, decor and food.

Because of this, the more modern take on it is to split the cost between the bride’s and groom’s families, as well as the couple themselves.

Who traditionally pays for wedding transport?

Traditionally, wedding transport is paid for by both families. If you’re hiring transport for your guests, then this isn’t traditionally something your guests will be expected to pay for.

Who traditionally pays for a wedding photographer or videographer?

Your wedding photographer (and/or videographer if you choose to hire one) is traditionally paid for by the bride’s family.

For modern weddings, this might be something that the couple prefers to pay for themselves.

Who traditionally pays for wedding flowers?

Traditionally, the groom pays for the bride’s bouquet. For an extra romantic twist, the groom could even pick wildflowers to be included as well. On the other hand, the bride’s side of the family will traditionally pay for all the floral decorations.

For modern weddings, the flowers are something that the couple will pay for, including the bouquet and floral decorations.

Who traditionally pays for the wedding cake?

The wedding cake is traditionally paid for by the bride’s family, but this isn’t a tradition stuck to quite as closely as others. Many couples now choose to pay for their own cake, in part due to the traditions involved with cutting the cake and how it represents sharing everything.

Who traditionally pays for the wedding dress?

One of the most closely stuck-to traditions is that the bride’s family will pay for the wedding dress. This also includes any accessories the bride may wear, such as a veil, a bag and shoes.

For modern weddings, the bride may want to pay for her own dress. But, the bridal party are still encouraged to attend fittings for all the fun and excitement that goes with it.

Who traditionally pays for the groom’s suit?

The groom’s family would traditionally pay for the groom’s suit and any accessories, such as a tie, shoes and pocket square. Nowadays, it’s more likely to be one of the expenses that the groom will take care of himself.

Who traditionally pays for wedding rings?

Traditionally, the cost of the wedding rings is split between the two families. But, wedding rings are super personal – they’re pieces of jewellery the two of you will likely wear all day for the rest of your lives and have a huge amount of meaning. For that reason, many couples choose to pay for their wedding rings themselves these days.

Who traditionally pays for the engagement ring?

Traditionally, whoever proposes is the one who will pay for the engagement ring. Another option is to use a family heirloom which has been passed down from parents or grandparents.

Some modern couples will buy an engagement ring together. This might take away the element of surprise when it comes to the proposal itself, but it can be a lot of fun shopping for an engagement ring together. Other couples might choose to wear an engagement ring each, and those who do this might pay for the rings together.

Who traditionally pays for the bridesmaids’ dresses?

The bride’s side of the family traditionally pays for the bridesmaids’ dresses. But, with modern weddings, it’s becoming more common for bridesmaids to pay for their own dresses. It really depends on what your budget is, the type of dresses you want your bridesmaids to wear, and whether or not that’s within their price range. To avoid confusion later, we’d recommend discussing this as early as possible with your wedding squad.

Who traditionally pays for the groomsmen’s suits?

Unless they’ll be matching or require special suits, the groomsmen traditionally pay for their own attire. If the suits need to be tailor-made, however, it’s an expense that the groom’s side should cover.

Who pays for wedding guests’ accommodation?

Traditionally, each side of the family pays for their own guests’ accommodation. However, this really depends on what the families are comfortable with, as most guests pay for their own accommodation nowadays. Most hotels charge north of $140 a night, and if you decide to cover the bill, that could set you back thousands. Thankfully, very few couples offer to pay for their guests’ accommodation, so it’s not something they’ll expect.

Who traditionally pays for a bachelorette party?

Traditionally, the attendees of the bachelorette party will pay for most aspects of it, with the maid of honour taking the responsibility of arranging everything and making those important bookings.

Today, there are no set rules – it entirely depends on budgets and plans. Make sure you and your friends discuss all your options and what everyone expects early on.

Who traditionally pays for a bachelor party?

It’s tradition for the groomsmen attending the party to pay, but it all depends on budgets and what the planned activities are. For something more expensive, like a trip abroad which might be more expensive, it’s fine to ask the groom to contribute towards costs.

Who traditionally pays for a honeymoon?

Traditionally, it’s the groom who pays for the honeymoon. Today, however, most couples split the cost, with many also asking for donations towards their honeymoon instead of wedding gifts. This is a relatively new tradition, which likely stems from the fact that people are generally getting married later and often already live together by the time they tie the knot. That means they probably don’t need (or want) a new toaster or a 24-piece dinnerware set!

Who pays for what at a wedding: the quick reference cheat sheet

If you’re looking for a list of who traditionally pays for what, check out our quick reference cheat sheet below:

Who (Traditionally) Pays for What at a Wedding: Quick Reference Cheat Sheet

What does the bride’s family traditionally pay for at a wedding?

Traditionally, the bride’s family would pay for the majority of the major costs:

The wedding dress or outfit (and any accessories that come with it)
Bridesmaids’ dresses and accessories (NB. Nowadays, more and more bridesmaids pay for their own attire)
Any accompanying outfits for the bride (for example, going-away or honeymoon outfits)
Hair and makeup (along with other beauty treatments)
Transportation to the ceremony for the bridal party
Transportation to the reception venue for the bride and groom
Photography and/or videography
Flowers
Venue hire and decorations
Wedding cake
Catering
Wedding favours
Drinks
Entertainment
Wedding stationery
The groom’s wedding ring
Engagement party
Wedding insurance
Overnight accommodation for close family
Presents for the groom’s family

What does the groom’s family traditionally pay for at a wedding?

Traditionally, the groom’s family doesn’t have to pay as many wedding-related costs, but there are still plenty of ways they can get their hands in their pockets:

The groom’s outfit
The best man’s suit and ushers’ outfits (NB. As with the bridesmaids, these now tend to be bought by the groomsmen themselves)
Groom’s going-away outfit
Transportation to the ceremony for the groom and best man
Transportation for the bride and groom from the reception venue
Buttonholes for all the groomsmen
Civil or religious ceremony fees
Church fees (plus any extras like church music and bell ringing)
Registration office and other venue fees
Passports and visas for the honeymoon
Travel and accommodation for the honeymoon
Spending money for the honeymoon
Travel insurance for the honeymoon
Bride’s engagement and wedding rings
Presents for the bridesmaids, ushers and best man
Presents for the bride’s parents
Press announcement for the wedding
Wedding night hotel fees

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While some couples and their families choose to abide by traditions, things are quickly changing, so you shouldn’t feel obliged to stick to any of them. It’s down to you and your family to decide who pays for what, so everyone feels included and no one feels pressured to spend beyond their means.

Whatever you and your partner decide, make sure you keep on top of it with our free wedding planning tools, and everything will be just fine. Be sure to also download our free Bridebook app for quick and stress-free planning.