The wedding rings you and your partner wear are a symbol of your love and commitment to one another. Not only do they have to be personal to you and your partner, but they need to complement each other and any engagement rings either of you might wear.
The money you might spend on your wedding rings will depend entirely on your taste, the level of customisation you’re after and – ultimately – your budget.
In this post, we’re going to explore everything related to the cost of wedding rings, including the average cost, how much you should spend on wedding rings and why some cost more than others.
What’s the average cost of wedding rings?
In Australia, the average cost of wedding rings varies based on factors like style, material, and brand. Many Australian couples budget between $1,500 and $2,500 for wedding bands alone, which typically excludes other wedding jewellery such as engagement rings or additional accessories.
According to our comprehensive wedding budget guide, Australian couples might spend around $6,000 on wedding jewellery in total. This is a general average, and options are available to suit every budget. Some couples may invest more in designer or bespoke pieces, while others find beautiful rings within a more affordable range.
When choosing wedding bands, Australian couples have numerous options for various budgets. Higher-end materials like platinum and white gold come at a premium, while options like tungsten and sterling silver offer elegant, budget-friendly alternatives.
How much should you spend on a wedding ring?
While there may be a tradition that states you should spend three months’ salary on an engagement ring (which, by the way, you don’t need to stick to), there aren’t any similar traditions when it comes to your wedding rings.
How much you should spend on your wedding rings is a completely personal choice. If you have a smaller budget, and only want to spend a couple hundred dollars, then that’s totally fine – what the rings represent is far more important, anyway. Similarly, if you have a larger budget to play with, then spending thousands is totally okay too – what you spend doesn’t affect the amount of love you have for your spouse-to-be. You should never feel pressured to spend a certain amount of money on your wedding rings.
That being said, there is one exception to this ‘rule’. It’s advised that the metal used in your wedding rings is the same as the metal used in the engagement ring. This is because some metals are more durable than others, and harder metals can damage softer metals. They can also discolour at different rates, leading to them looking mismatched.
This means if your engagement ring is made out of 18-carat yellow gold, your wedding rings should be made from metal with similar durability – ideally 18-carat yellow gold. So, if your engagement ring is made from an expensive metal, your wedding rings should be – if budget allows – as well.
Why do wedding rings cost so much?
Your wedding ring is one of those rare pieces of jewellery you’ll wear every day, all day, for many years to come. Through work, travel, and life’s daily adventures, it’ll be right there with you. Because of this, many couples choose rings made from durable – and often more expensive – metals.
While you could find silver wedding bands for under $500, silver’s softer nature makes it prone to scratches and dents and even more likely to change shape over time. In contrast, stronger metals like platinum or palladium may cost three to four times as much, but they’re highly resistant to wear and far less likely to suffer damage over the years.
How does the metal type affect the cost of a wedding ring?
The type of metal you pick for your wedding bands will dramatically alter the price you’ll pay. Choosing the right wedding ring takes thought and consideration. The price of precious metals fluctuates, but below is a rough idea of what you might pay for a few popular choices.
Gold
For those opting for gold wedding rings, a simple 9ct white gold band typically ranges between $250 for a 0.5 cm band and up to $650 for a 0.7 cm band. The price variation reflects the amount of gold used and its durability, with 9ct and 18ct rings being popular choices for their strength and longevity.
Platinum
Platinum is one of the most durable metals, known for withstanding daily wear, making it perfect for those with active lifestyles. This durability, however, comes at a higher cost. A thin 0.2 cm platinum ring can start at $600, while a thicker 0.5 cm band may cost around $1,800 at reputable Australian jewelry retailers.
Titanium
Titanium has become a popular choice in the Australian market as a contemporary option with a darker hue. It’s lightweight, scratch-resistant, and generally more affordable. Titanium wedding bands can start at as low as $85, making them a stylish and budget-conscious option.
Silver
Silver remains an affordable choice for couples wanting a precious metal without the higher price of gold or platinum. Although softer and more prone to scratches, it is still favoured by those with limited budgets. A silver wedding band typically starts around $120.
What is the most expensive type of metal for a wedding ring?
Ruby, from Lebrusan Studio in the UK, shares her expert insights and explains about the cost of different types of metal in more detail:
“The greater the pure gold content in a gold alloy, the higher the caratage. In other words, whilst 18ct gold is 75% pure gold and 25% other metal, 9ct gold consists of 37.5% pure gold and 62.5% other metals. The higher the carat weight, the greater the price, with 18ct gold generally tending to cost around twice as much as 9ct gold.
In spite of a historic dip in recent years, platinum just about remains a more expensive option than gold. This can be attributed to its relative rarity and its density, as precious metals are often priced by weight. Although white gold, which is almost identical to platinum in appearance, is cheaper, platinum comparatively requires very little maintenance over the years, so is arguably a reliable investment.”
What other factors can affect the cost of a wedding ring?
Just like when it comes to choosing any other piece of jewellery, there are many factors that will affect exactly how much your wedding rings cost.
Design – Many couples choose a simple band, but this isn’t a requirement for your wedding rings. The more intricate the design, the more it’s likely to cost.
Size – The thicker the band, the more metal it requires and therefore the pricier it will be.
Brand/retailer – Rings from high-end brands and retailers, such as Tiffany&Co., will cost more than most online or physical shops.
Season – During periods of high demand, such as the spring and early summer, costs can fluctuate.
Customisation – Many couples choose to personalise their wedding bands with a meaningful engraving, or the fingerprint of their beloved on the inside. Due to the time and expertise required, this will increase the cost.
Stones – It has become an increasingly popular option for brides and grooms to go for diamond set rings, as they can add a bit of sparkle to a simple band. These are priced similarly to engagement rings, depending on the metal that you choose and the cut, carat and clarity of the diamonds you wish to include. For an idea of pricing, an 18ct white gold ring with a half band featuring 0.15ct diamonds typically costs around $1,000.
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Wedding speeches are a crucial part of a wedding celebration, as they allow both the couple, family members, and friends to express their love, gratitude, and well-wishes for the newlyweds. However, giving a wedding speech can be nerve-wracking for many people, which is why having a few examples can be a great starting-point.
Here are some simple wedding speech examples that can help you deliver a heartfelt, memorable, and enjoyable wedding speech. Feel free to use them as a template to inspire your own writing.
And remember that these are just samples. Be sure to incorporate your own unique elements to personalise your speeches, which might mean having more gender-equal speeches compared to the traditional wedding speech line-up.
The groom’s speech and bride’s speech is a chance for the couple to thank their families, friends, and wedding party for their support and to share their love for each other. Here is a sample of a shared groom and bride speech:
“Good evening everyone, we are [bride’s name and groom’s name], the newlyweds. We want to take a moment to thank each and every one of you for being here to celebrate this special day with us. Our families, friends, and wedding party have made this day truly unforgettable, and we are so grateful for your love and support.
We also want to thank our parents for their love and guidance, and for raising us to be the people we are today. We are honoured to have both of our families come together to celebrate this special day with us.
And last but not least, we want to express our love for each other. [Groom’s name], you are my best friend, my soulmate, and my partner in life. I am so grateful to have you by my side, and I look forward to a lifetime of love, adventure, and happiness with you. [Bride’s name], you are beautiful, kind, and loving, and I feel so lucky to be able to call you my wife. I promise to always cherish and love you, no matter what life brings our way.
To our friends and family, thank you again for being here to share this special day with us. We are so grateful for your love and support, and we look forward to the memories we will create together.
Cheers to love, laughter, and happily ever after. Cheers to all of us!”
A father of the bride speech is one of the most traditional and emotional speeches of the wedding. The father of the bride has the opportunity to both reflect on the love and relationship he has with his daughter and to welcome her new spouse into the family. Here is a sample:
“Good evening, everyone. Today is a very special day for me, as I stand here to give away my beautiful daughter [bride’s name]. She has grown into an amazing young woman, and I am so proud of the person she has become. [Groom’s name], I couldn’t have asked for a better match for my daughter. You are kind, caring, and loving, and I am honoured to welcome you into our family. [Bride’s name], [groom’s name], I wish you a lifetime of happiness, love, and adventure. To the newlyweds!”
The best man speech is a fun and light-hearted speech that is often filled with anecdotes and humour. The best man has the opportunity to pay tribute to the groom and to share some memorable moments from their friendship. Here is a sample:
“Good evening everyone, I am [your name], the best man, and the groom’s closest friend. I have known [groom’s name] for [number of years], and it has been an honour to stand by his side today as he marries the love of his life, [bride’s name]. [Groom’s name], you are one of the kindest, funniest, and most genuine people I know, and I am so grateful to have you as my friend. [Bride’s name], you bring out the best in [groom’s name], and I know you will have a lifetime of happiness together. To the newlyweds, congratulations and here’s to a lifetime of love and laughter!”
The maid of honour speech is usually given by the bride’s closest friend or sister and can be a combination of humour and sentimentality. Here is a sample:
“Good evening everyone, I am [your name], the maid of honour and [bride’s name]’s best friend. I have known [bride’s name] since we were [age], and I have never seen her as happy as she is today. [Groom’s name], you have brought so much joy into [bride’s name]’s life, and I am grateful to have you as my friend as well. To the newlyweds, may your love continue to grow stronger with each passing day. Congratulations and best wishes!”
A mother of the bride speech, while not always a traditional element in the order of wedding speeches, is becoming gaining increasing popularity in modern celebrations. This beautiful moment lets the mother share her heartfelt sentiments, commemorate her daughter’s journey, and extend a warm welcome to her daughter’s new spouse. Here’s a sample:
“Good evening everyone. Today holds great significance for me, as I stand before you to celebrate the union of my beloved daughter [bride’s name]. Watching her blossom into the remarkable woman she is today fills my heart with immense joy. [Groom’s name], from the moment you entered our lives, you’ve shown remarkable qualities of kindness, compassion, and love. Welcoming you into our family is an honour beyond words. [Bride’s name], [groom’s name], may your lives be filled with boundless joy, enduring love, and remarkable journeys together. To the newlyweds!”
These are just a few examples of the different types of wedding speeches you may give on a wedding day. No matter what type of speech you choose, the most important thing is to be yourself, speak from the heart, and let your love for the newlyweds shine through. Best of luck and have a wonderful time celebrating the love and happiness of the newlyweds.
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Cutting down your wedding guest list can feel like you’re Hercules battling the Hydra – cut one person, and two more grow back in their place! But it has to be done, whether it’s because you need to save a few bucks or because they just! won’t! fit! in your venue. Remember, a bigger guest list means a bigger budget… or choosing between a champagne reception and serving your uncle’s homebrew!
The moment when you and your partner combine lists and discover the number is bigger than you ever imagined is always a dark day. To avoid disappointment for either of you – and the ruthless cull that has to follow – try using our Guest List Tool. It’ll do all the adding up, sorting and tracking, meaning you both stay on top of numbers.
Sadly, as brilliant as our Guest List Tool is, it can’t fight your battles for you. (Not yet, anyway. We wish!) So if you think your other half is being unreasonable (or maybe you just need to get something off your chest!), we’ve got some tips to help you navigate the tricky terrain of the wedding guest list.
“Your parents have a longer list… But they’re not paying as much as mine!”
Straight in at the deep end! We can almost guarantee that both sets of parents will want to invite a long list of their friends, regardless of whether or not you like them…or whether they can pay towards the extra cost. As a rule of thumb, we’d say that if they’re not immediate family or your other half hasn’t seen them in the past ten years, you have a right to question them.
“I don’t want children!” (*pause* “At the wedding, not with you!”)
Now, this is a decision that lots of couples struggle to make personally, never mind between the two of them. But if a child-free wedding is what you want, you should be reassured that you’re not a bad person for requesting this. You’re also not the only one – lots of couples do. Not only is it an easy way to cut costs and numbers (and, dare we say, stress levels), but it might even be more welcome among your guests than you’d expect! After all, it gives parents a proper night off to enjoy themselves.
“You don’t even like your work friends!”
Work friends are tricky. The key question to start with is whether they’re friends your partner happened to make through work…or if they really are work friends. Either way, it’s worth considering that not only can a blanket ban rub your fiancé up the wrong way, it might well make for an awkward office atmosphere for them post-honeymoon. Why not compromise and invite a handful of them to the drinks and dancing, if not the ceremony? That way, everyone’s happy… But you’re still not paying full whack!
“Why are you inviting your ex?”
We’d never want to make assumptions, but this can be a ticking time bomb. Now, if you’re one of those lucky few who’s genuinely on good terms with their ex (and importantly, whose partner is on good terms with them too!), more power to you. Invite away! But there are no prizes for inviting an ex out of awkwardness or some kind of weird obligation – so if you don’t have a good reason to (e.g. you’re actually still close friends), we’d give it a miss. Remember, you’ll also be risking a fair few awkward conversations: “So, how do you know the happy couple?” “Oh, erm…” Our advice? Only invite exes in exceptional circumstances.
“It doesn’t feel like our wedding anymore!”
Managing a wedding can feel like a balancing act. Yes, you want the details to be perfect and to keep everyone happy… But you still need to think about the big picture (and vice versa!). This is never more apparent than when you’re putting together your guest list. Sure, maybe those extra six guests from Mum and Dad’s timeshare won’t actually feel like such a big deal on your big day… But if it’s overwhelming you right now, you need to let your parents know.
“Shall we just bloody elope?”
Every couple will have this moment… And you know what, some of you might decide you should! But take a minute and pour another glass of wine before making any hasty decisions. We promise that nine-and-a-half times out of ten, it’ll be worth it in the end!
“We’ll have to not invite some of your family.”
Chances are, one of you will have a significantly larger family than the other. To deal with this, try to assign rough portions of your guest list to each one of you early on so that you both know what you’re working with. You might do this equally and split the list into quarters: one for each of your families and one for each of your extras. Or you might decide to reflect on the size of your respective families: if your partner has a much bigger family than you (but is still close to them!), you could decide to give them a third for their relatives and yourself a quarter. Either way, your boundaries will be a bit more obvious – and so will overstepping them!
“We can’t not invite them – they’ve just got engaged.”
This is where you need to be firm with your decision. Lay down the law and stick to it – avoid any grey areas or sneaky exceptions. For example, many couples have a “No Ring, No Bling” policy, meaning a guest can only bring a plus one if they’re married or engaged. That said, given that many people choose not to marry nowadays, another way to keep your guest list a little leaner is by making decisions based on how long a couple have been together.
“Well, they invited us to their wedding…”
Look. Weddings aren’t tit for tat, and you should never feel obligated to invite someone to yours, just because they invited you to theirs. Planning a wedding is too hard (and too expensive!) for that. This is the bottom line: invite the people you want to spend the best day of your life with… And ideally, no one else!
“We’re treating our friends like they’re numbers!”
Maybe you are, but the reality is that this is what all couples have to do eventually. At one stage or another, you’ll start to feel like all your wedding guests have a pound sign hanging above their heads. Planning a wedding is a balancing act. Inevitably, you start to think about how one less guest means getting back their equivalent in booze, flowers or cake. But before you make any hasty decisions, think about how much that person means to you. This feeling won’t last forever – you’ll forget it as soon as they’re there at your big day. We promise, they’re worth every penny… But if you really don’t feel like they are, then it might be time to make a cut!
“It’s still! Too! Big!”
If you feel like you’ve done everything you can and your guest list is still just too big, it’s time to get pragmatic. Sit down with your partner and split your guest list into the A List and the B List. Sound cruel? Not at all! Many couples even plan ahead and print two sets of RSVP cards with different dates: an earlier date for the A List and a later date for the B List (to be sent out after the A List have said they can’t make it). A word of warning though: try not to let the B List know they’re the B List. Cher might get away with it in ‘Clueless’… But there’s no guarantee that you will too!
Got another guest list dilemma you want solved? Check out our Instagram, TikTok and YouTube channels. We might have already answered your question – and if not, drop us a line in the comments. But we reckon once you’ve sorted out these ones, you’ll be pretty much good to go. Send those invitations out – and once your RSVPs come flooding in, keep track of them with our state-of-the-art Guest List Tool. Then it’s onto budget blow-outs…
You’re engaged to your best friend, your partner in crime, your ride or die – now it’s time to start planning the biggest party you’ll ever throw.
The first thing on your mind is likely to be, ‘How much is all of this going to cost?’ In Australia, the average amount couples spend on their wedding is an eye-watering is approximately $34,000. Once you know that, the second question you might ask is, ‘How are we going to pay for it?’
No need to panic – we’ve got a super powerful budget tool which uses thousands of couples’ real budgets to estimate the total cost of your wedding and then break that down so you have a good idea of exactly what each part will cost.
But, if you’re looking to do things a little more traditionally, and get generous family members involved, who pays for what in a wedding?
Some families offer to help the newlyweds-to-be celebrate the most magical day of their lives, and we’re here to give you the lowdown on who traditionally (a big emphasis on the traditionally) pays for what. Once you’ve calculated your budget and seen how much everything’s going to cost, you and your partner can both let your families know what they can help with. At the end of the day, it’s whatever works for you and your family.
If you don’t want to know about the why’s and how’s of these costs and want to get straight into what each side of the family should pay for, skip ahead to our quick reference cheat sheet!
Should the bride’s family pay for a wedding?
Beliefs and expectations have evolved, and in the 21st century, it’s no longer the case that the bride’s family are expected to pay. Now, in Australia and many cultures around the world, the bride’s family and the groom’s family – as well as the couple themselves – can help pay for a wedding.
The modern way to split paying for a wedding looks a little something like this:
Bride’s family – 25%
Groom’s family – 25%
The couple – 50%
With this in mind, based on the average cost of a wedding being $34,000, that still leaves you with around $17,000 you might have to save yourself – and that’s if your family can lend a hand.
Should you ask the bride’s family to pay for your wedding?
While it may have once been the traditional way to pay for a wedding, you should only ask the bride’s family to pay for your wedding if you know they can comfortably afford it. The same goes for asking the groom’s family. You’ll want to make sure they’re fully on board with your marriage plans, which might mean a lot of buttering up and being an exemplary son or daughter and future in-law.
The important thing to remember is not to go in expecting anyone to pay. Talking about money is personal, private and sometimes awkward. But, it can be done carefully without causing friction.
Who traditionally pays for different parts of a wedding in Australia?
If you’re lucky enough to have family who want to help you pay for your wedding, then the below guide should give you an indication of who might pay for what.
Before we dive in, each of these traditions is based on there being a bride and groom. Many modern couples have two grooms or two brides – or perhaps neither. If you’re an LGBTQ+ couple planning your big day, we recommend that you try to evenly split what you ask your families to pay for and use the below as a rough guide.
Who traditionally pays for an engagement party?
This expense is traditionally covered by the bride’s family, since they often host the engagement party at their house as a way to welcome and bring together the two families (often for the first time). However, whichever family is feeling the most generous can offer to host or throw the engagement party. It all depends on space, funds and who wants to do the clearing up afterwards.
Who traditionally pays for the rehearsal dinner?
Since the bride’s family pays for the engagement party, the rehearsal dinner is traditionally paid for by the groom’s parents. They should only spend what they’re comfortable with, however, and hosting a small soirée the day before the wedding is more than enough.
Not all couples choose to have a rehearsal dinner, so you may ask for this contribution to go towards the big day itself, instead.
Who traditionally pays for the wedding venue?
The venue is usually the single biggest expenditure of your entire wedding, and no one is pleased to be handed an invoice with that many zeros on it. Traditionally, this would be something that the bride’s parents would pay for and covers the cost of the ceremony itself.
Because the average wedding venue costs between $14,000 and $17,000, this can be a heck of a cost to expect one family to pay for alone. So, for more modern weddings, this is something that many families – together with the couple – split the bill for.
Who traditionally pays for wedding catering?
This is another cost that traditionally lies with the bride’s family, which includes the cost of canapés and the evening buffet. The good news is that it’s not traditional for the bride’s parents to cover the cost of an open bar, with most weddings having a cash bar, so guests pay for their own drinks.
Who traditionally pays for the wedding reception?
The bride’s family traditionally pays for the wedding reception, though the costs do cross over with that of the venue, entertainment, decor and food.
Because of this, the more modern take on it is to split the cost between the bride’s and groom’s families, as well as the couple themselves.
Who traditionally pays for wedding transport?
Traditionally, wedding transport is paid for by both families. If you’re hiring transport for your guests, then this isn’t traditionally something your guests will be expected to pay for.
Who traditionally pays for a wedding photographer or videographer?
Your wedding photographer (and/or videographer if you choose to hire one) is traditionally paid for by the bride’s family.
For modern weddings, this might be something that the couple prefers to pay for themselves.
Who traditionally pays for wedding flowers?
Traditionally, the groom pays for the bride’s bouquet. For an extra romantic twist, the groom could even pick wildflowers to be included as well. On the other hand, the bride’s side of the family will traditionally pay for all the floral decorations.
For modern weddings, the flowers are something that the couple will pay for, including the bouquet and floral decorations.
Who traditionally pays for the wedding cake?
The wedding cake is traditionally paid for by the bride’s family, but this isn’t a tradition stuck to quite as closely as others. Many couples now choose to pay for their own cake, in part due to the traditions involved with cutting the cake and how it represents sharing everything.
Who traditionally pays for the wedding dress?
One of the most closely stuck-to traditions is that the bride’s family will pay for the wedding dress. This also includes any accessories the bride may wear, such as a veil, a bag and shoes.
For modern weddings, the bride may want to pay for her own dress. But, the bridal party are still encouraged to attend fittings for all the fun and excitement that goes with it.
Who traditionally pays for the groom’s suit?
The groom’s family would traditionally pay for the groom’s suit and any accessories, such as a tie, shoes and pocket square. Nowadays, it’s more likely to be one of the expenses that the groom will take care of himself.
Who traditionally pays for wedding rings?
Traditionally, the cost of the wedding rings is split between the two families. But, wedding rings are super personal – they’re pieces of jewellery the two of you will likely wear all day for the rest of your lives and have a huge amount of meaning. For that reason, many couples choose to pay for their wedding rings themselves these days.
Who traditionally pays for the engagement ring?
Traditionally, whoever proposes is the one who will pay for the engagement ring. Another option is to use a family heirloom which has been passed down from parents or grandparents.
Some modern couples will buy an engagement ring together. This might take away the element of surprise when it comes to the proposal itself, but it can be a lot of fun shopping for an engagement ring together. Other couples might choose to wear an engagement ring each, and those who do this might pay for the rings together.
Who traditionally pays for the bridesmaids’ dresses?
The bride’s side of the family traditionally pays for the bridesmaids’ dresses. But, with modern weddings, it’s becoming more common for bridesmaids to pay for their own dresses. It really depends on what your budget is, the type of dresses you want your bridesmaids to wear, and whether or not that’s within their price range. To avoid confusion later, we’d recommend discussing this as early as possible with your wedding squad.
Unless they’ll be matching or require special suits, the ushers traditionally pay for their own attire. If the suits need to be tailor-made, however, it’s an expense that the groom’s side should cover.
Who pays for wedding guests’ accommodation?
Traditionally, each side of the family pays for their own guests’ accommodation. However, this really depends on what the families are comfortable with, as most guests pay for their own accommodation nowadays. Most hotels charge north of $200 a night, and if you decide to cover the bill, that could set you back thousands. Thankfully, very few couples offer to pay for their guests’ accommodation, so it’s not something they’ll expect.
Who traditionally pays for a hen party?
Traditionally, the hens will pay for most aspects of a hen party, with the maid of honour taking the responsibility of arranging everything and making those important bookings.
Today, there are no set rules – it entirely depends on budgets and plans. Make sure you and your hens discuss all your options and what everyone expects early on.
Who traditionally pays for the bucks party?
It’s tradition for the groomsmen attending the bucks party to pay, but it all depends on budgets and what the planned activities are. For something more expensive, like a trip abroad, it’s fine to ask the groom to contribute towards costs.
Who traditionally pays for a honeymoon?
Traditionally, it’s the groom who pays for the honeymoon. Today, however, most couples split the cost, with many also asking for donations towards their honeymoon instead of wedding gifts. This is a relatively new tradition, which likely stems from the fact that people are generally getting married later and often already live together by the time they tie the knot. That means they probably don’t need (or want) a new toaster or a 24-piece dinnerware set!
Who pays for what at a wedding: the quick reference cheat sheet
If you’re looking for a list of who traditionally pays for what, check out our quick reference cheat sheet below:
Who (Traditionally) Pays for What at a Wedding: Quick Reference Cheat Sheet
What does the bride’s family traditionally pay for at a wedding?
Traditionally, the bride’s family would pay for the majority of the major costs:
The wedding dress or outfit (and any accessories that come with it)
Bridesmaids’ dresses and accessories (NB. Nowadays, more and more bridesmaids pay for their own attire)
Any accompanying outfits for the bride (for example, going-away or honeymoon outfits)
Hair and makeup (along with other beauty treatments)
Transportation to the ceremony for the bridal party
Transportation to the reception venue for the bride and groom
Photography and/or videography
Flowers
Venue hire and decorations
Wedding cake
Catering
Wedding favours
Drinks
Entertainment
Wedding stationery
The groom’s wedding ring
Engagement party
Wedding insurance
Overnight accommodation for close family
Presents for the groom’s family
What does the groom’s family traditionally pay for at a wedding?
Traditionally, the groom’s family doesn’t have to pay as many wedding-related costs, but there are still plenty of ways they can get their hands in their pockets:
The groom’s outfit
The best man’s suit and ushers’ outfits (NB. As with the bridesmaids, these now tend to be bought by the groomsmen themselves)
Groom’s going-away outfit
Transportation to the ceremony for the groom and best man
Transportation for the bride and groom from the reception venue
Buttonholes for all the groomsmen
Civil or religious ceremony fees
Church fees (plus any extras like church music and bell ringing)
Registration office and other venue fees
Travel, accommodation (and if required: visas) for the honeymoon
Spending money for the honeymoon
Travel insurance for the honeymoon
Bride’s engagement and wedding rings
Presents for the bridesmaids, ushers and best man
Presents for the bride’s parents
Press announcement for the wedding
Wedding night hotel fees
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While some couples and their families choose to abide by traditions, things are quickly changing, so you shouldn’t feel obliged to stick to any of them. It’s down to you and your family to decide who pays for what, so everyone feels included and no one feels pressured to spend beyond their means.
Are you gearing up to help your bestie walk down the aisle? Or maybe you’re a sister bestowed with the great honour of being the bride’s right-hand man? Well, first off, congratulations! Being chosen as the maid of honour to the bride is no small feat. It’s a role filled with joy, emotion, and, yes, a touch of nerves too. But fear not, because we’ve got your back!
Writing a wedding speech that resonates with both the bride and the audience can be tricky. It’s about finding the right balance of funny anecdotes, genuine love, and a sprinkle of nostalgic shared memories to write the best maid of honour speech.
In this post, we explore what you should include in your wedding speech, some top tips to consider when writing a great speech, and our top 10 maid of honour speech examples. Let’s dive in!
What is a maid of honour speech?
A maid of honour speech is a beautiful and heartfelt speech made by the maid of honour during a wedding reception. Traditionally, the maid of honour doesn’t make a speech during the wedding reception, just as there isn’t usually a bridesmaid speech. That means you have some flexibility as to where you fit into the overall wedding speech order.
A maid of honour speech should last between 5-7 minutes and should focus on the relationship between you and the bride, how wonderful she is, and the lovely year running up to the wedding.
What should you include in a maid of honour speech?
When writing your maid of honour speech, you might want to consider including the following key elements:
Lots of love. The bride might be your sister, she might be your neighbour, but she’s definitely your best friend. This is the perfect opportunity to let everyone know exactly what makes her so special. You can tell everyone how funny she is, what a caring person she can be, and all about how you’ve supported each other through life. Let the couple know how proud you are of the relationship they’ve built and how honoured you are to be there with them on their special day.
Wedding planning foibles. It’s likely that you helped the bride with a good portion of the wedding planning. As such, you probably have lots of stories about the trials and tribulations of wedding planning. Share some funny maid of honour speech stories, like how stressed she was about finding the right shape of confetti, or how many samples you tried when trying to design the wedding cupcakes! Make sure any stories you tell are appropriate for her family and acquaintances to hear, and avoid referring to her as a ‘Bridezilla.’ Trust us; it’s not as funny as you think.
Their love story. Being the bride’s bestie, you probably remember the day the bride met her new spouse. Consider sharing some happy stories from the early days of their relationship, when the bride told you they were the one, or when her partner told you they were going to propose. These stories are always a winner with the audience and bring a heartwarming touch to your speech.
Your unwavering support. Above anything else, let everyone know how much you love and support the bride’s new marriage and how you’ll continue to be there for her, just as you were before the wedding.
Maid of honour speech structure
Use this maid of honour speech template to guide your writing
The good thing about the maid of honour speech is that it’s untraditional. This means there are no expectations, and you can include whatever you’d like!
However, this open-ended approach can be a little daunting. Try using the below structure to outline your maid of honour speech and help you feel more confident.
Introduction
The first step of any great speech is to introduce yourself to the audience. Let them know who you are, how long you’ve known the bride, and how you met. Express your gratitude for being part of their special day and acknowledge how happy you are to be the maid of honour.
Stories about the bride
You can then move on to some funny stories about your relationship with the bride. Share some light-hearted anecdotes, funny quotes, or special memories that you’ve shared with the bride over the years. This will not only capture the attention of the audience but will set the tone for your speech.
The couple’s love story
You can then move on to some happy memories about how the bride and groom met. You can share their initial impressions of each other, a funny story from their first date, and how their relationship blossomed over the years. Be sure to include any funny or heartwarming anecdotes from the early days of their relationship or when the bride first told you her partner was the one!
The proposal
Telling everyone about the proposal is sure to be a winner. It’s the perfect chance to spill the beans about the ingenious proposal plans or when they finally got down on one knee. Share the part you played by picking out the ring, helping with the surprise, or sneakily standing in the background to take pictures.
Heartfelt advice
Follow up with some heartfelt advice about love and commitment. Feel free to use some popular quotes about love, poetry, readings, or try writing a few vows of your own if you feel it’s appropriate. For example, “I will support you in married life just as I have through single life,” or “I promise to be the coolest auntie to your kids and tell them all about how wild their mum used to be!”
Toast to the couple
The final step should be a toast to the happy couple. Raise your glass and invite your audience to do the same, and toast to the health, love, and happiness of the new couple. Be sure to introduce them by their new shared name and take a sip from the glass. Cheers!
Top tips for delivering the best maid of honour speech
Be mindful of the audience
Remember, there will be lots of family and old friends in the audience, so it’s important to be mindful of the types of stories you tell. Err on the side of mildly embarrassing, and make sure any anecdotes are family-appropriate!
There are no expectations!
The best thing about a maid of honour speech is that there are no expectations; There’s no rigid script to follow. Instead, it’s your chance to let your personality shine, and your unique relationship with the bride take centre stage. This freedom means you can craft a speech that’s as genuine and heartwarming as your relationship with your bestie, so make it count.
Practice, practice, practice
Practice will perfect your timing, hone your speech delivery, and increase your confidence when making your speech. Stand before a mirror, share your speech with a close friend, or even record yourself to capture your progress. Embrace each rehearsal as an opportunity to smooth out any rough edges and enhance your storytelling. You’ll be glad you did when the big day rolls around.
Top 10 maid of honour speech examples
If you’re looking for some inspiration, check out our top 10 examples of the best maid of honour speech ideas! Use them as templates for your own speech and personalise them with your own unique examples and anecdotes.
A lot of maid of honour speech examples will refer to a bride and groom, but you can simply change the references to your daughter’s partner and the appropriate pronouns if you’re attending an LGBTQ+ wedding.
Speech Example 1: The Lifelong Friend
Introduction: “Hello, everyone! For those of you who don’t know me, I’m [your name], and I’ve had the absolute privilege of being [bride’s name]’s partner-in-crime since primary school. Today, I have the honour of standing by her side as her maid of honour.”
Stories about the bride: “From building pillow forts to surviving our teenage years, [bride’s name] has been my partner in every adventure. I remember the time we tried to bake a cake from scratch and ended up with a kitchen covered in flour – and yes, our masterpiece was inedible!”
The couple’s love story: “Watching [bride’s name] and [partner’s name] fall in love has been nothing short of magical. From their first awkward hello to the moment they realised they were meant for each other, their journey has been a testament to true love.”
The proposal: “And then there was the proposal – let me tell you, I’ve never seen [bride’s name] so shocked in her life! [Partner’s name] had orchestrated this amazing surprise, complete with twinkling fairy lights and her favourite song playing in the background.”
Heartfelt advice: “As you both embark on this beautiful journey, remember that love is not just about the grand gestures, but also about the little things – like making each other laugh when life gets tough or sharing late-night ice cream runs.”
Toast to the couple: “So, here’s to [bride’s name] and [partner’s name], a love story that deserves all the happiness in the world. May your days be filled with laughter, your hearts forever intertwined, and your adventures together never-ending. Cheers!”
Speech Example 2: The Dynamic Duo
Introduction: “Hey there, everyone! I’m [your name], and I’ve had the incredible privilege of being [bride’s name]’s best friend since college. Today, as her maid of honour, I couldn’t be more excited to celebrate this beautiful journey with her.”
Stories about the bride: “From surviving all-night study sessions with gallons of coffee to our impromptu road trips that ended in hilarious mishaps, [bride’s name] has made every moment unforgettable.”
The couple’s love story: “When [bride’s name] introduced me to [partner’s name], I knew there was something special. Their love story has been a whirlwind of laughter, adventures, and stolen glances that have melted my heart.”
The proposal: “And let’s talk about the proposal, shall we? [Partner’s name] pulled out all the stops, arranging a scavenger hunt that led [bride’s name] to their favourite park, where he popped the question under a sky full of twinkling stars.”
Heartfelt advice: “As you journey together, remember that true love means supporting each other’s dreams and creating a partnership built on respect and understanding.”
Toast to the couple: “To [bride’s name] and [partner’s name], the ultimate dynamic duo. May your love continue to be as strong as your friendship, and may your days be filled with endless joy and shared laughter. Cheers!”
Speech Example 3: The Adventure Buddies
Introduction: “Hello, everyone! I’m [your name], and I’ve had the joy of being [bride’s name]’s sister and partner-in-crime in countless escapades. Today, as her maid of honour, I’m beyond excited to stand by her side.”
Stories about the bride: “From spontaneous road trips to conquering our fears together, [bride’s name] has been my adventure buddy. I’ll never forget the time we hiked up a mountain, only to realise we were on the wrong trail!”
The couple’s love story: “Seeing [bride’s name] and [partner’s name] fall in love has been an incredible journey. Their love is like a grand adventure, filled with twists, turns, and the promise of new horizons.”
The proposal: “And then came the proposal – [partner’s name] transformed a quiet night into a dreamy scene from a romance movie, complete with fairy lights and a heartfelt speech that brought tears to [bride’s name]’s eyes.”
Heartfelt advice: “As you navigate the exciting path of marriage, remember that love is an ever-evolving journey. Embrace each new chapter with open hearts and a sense of wonder.”
Toast to the couple: “Here’s to [bride’s name] and [partner’s name], two souls embarking on life’s greatest adventure together. May your love be as thrilling as your explorations, and may your days be filled with joy, laughter, and boundless love. Cheers!”
Speech Example 4: The Childhood Confidante
Introduction: “Hi, everyone! I’m [your name], and I’ve been lucky enough to share every stage of life with [bride’s name] since we were children. As her sister and maid of honour, I’m absolutely honoured to be part of this beautiful day.”
Stories about the bride: “From playing dress-up in the attic to having heart-to-heart conversations under the stars, [bride’s name] has been my confidante and best friend since day one.”
The couple’s love story: “Witnessing [bride’s name] and [partner’s name] fall in love has been like watching a favourite movie unfold – full of romance, laughter, and unforgettable moments.”
The proposal: “And then, of course, there was the proposal – a charming surprise at their favourite restaurant, complete with singing waiters and a hidden videographer.”
Heartfelt advice: “As you step into this new chapter, remember that love is built on a foundation of friendship, trust, and shared dreams. Keep your hearts open and your communication strong.”
Toast to the couple: “To [bride’s name] and [partner’s name], a match made in heaven. May your love story continue to be as beautiful and captivating as the journey that brought you together. Cheers!”
Speech Example 5: The Soul Sisters
Introduction: “Hello, everyone! I’m [your name], and if you see a whirlwind of laughter, adventures, and endless support, chances are you’re in the presence of [bride’s name] and me. Today, as her maid of honour, I am over the moon to share in this beautiful moment.”
Stories about the bride: “From singing in the rain to staying up all night solving life’s mysteries, [bride’s name] and I have created a treasure trove of memories. One of my favourites? Our impromptu dance-offs in the living room!”
The couple’s love story: “The way [bride’s name] and [partner’s name] fell in love is something out of a fairy tale. Their story is a testament to fate and the magical connection that brought them together.”
The proposal: “Speaking of magic, the proposal was straight from the heart. [Partner’s name] transformed their back garden into a wonderland, and when he dropped to one knee, even the stars seemed to shine brighter.”
Heartfelt advice: “As you embark on this journey of love, remember that it’s the everyday moments that truly matter. Celebrate each other’s victories, be each other’s shoulder to lean on, and never underestimate the power of a spontaneous dance party!”
Toast to the couple: “To [bride’s name] and [partner’s name], a love story that radiates joy and magic. May your days be filled with endless giggles, late-night conversations, and a love that continues to sparkle. Cheers!”
Speech Example 6: The Laughter Architects
Introduction: “Hey there, lovely people! I’m [your name], the one responsible for countless giggles and sidesplitting laughter shared with [bride’s name]. Today, as her maid of honour, I’m beyond thrilled to raise a glass to the love story we’re celebrating.”
Stories about the bride: “From our ‘secret’ language to the unforgettable pranks we’ve pulled, [bride’s name] and I have a laughter-filled journey that keeps getting better. One time, we dressed up as ninjas and accidentally scared the mailman!”
The couple’s love story: “Seeing [bride’s name] and [partner’s name] fall in love has been like witnessing a masterful comedy unfold – with witty banter, funny quirks, and a heartwarming connection that’s pure gold.”
The proposal: “And then came the proposal – a hilarious yet heart-melting scene that had us all in stitches. [Partner’s name] got down on one knee, and [bride’s name] was so shocked that she briefly lost her ability to speak!”
Heartfelt advice: “As you navigate the wonderful world of marriage, remember that laughter truly is the best medicine. Keep finding joy in the little things, and never let go of the hilarious moments that make your love story uniquely yours.”
Toast to the couple: “To [bride’s name] and [partner’s name], the architects of laughter and love. May your days be filled with continuous chuckles, inside jokes, and a bond that only grows stronger with time. Cheers!”
Speech Example 7: The Creative Companions
Introduction: “Hello, everyone! I’m [your name], the lucky one who’s shared a canvas of creativity and countless memorable moments with [bride’s name]. Today, as her maid of honour, I couldn’t be more excited to raise a toast to her love story.”
Stories about the bride: “From painting masterpieces that Picasso would envy to attempting a DIY home improvement project that didn’t quite go as planned, [bride’s name] and I have crafted a world of creativity.”
The couple’s love story: “Watching [bride’s name] and [partner’s name] fall in love has been like witnessing a beautiful masterpiece unfold – with vivid colours of laughter, strokes of affection, and an undeniable chemistry.”
The proposal: “Speaking of creativity, [partner’s name] proposed in a way that perfectly captured their story. He reenacted their first date, complete with the same restaurant and the same song that played during that magical evening.”
Heartfelt advice: “As you step into the realm of marriage, remember that love is a canvas where both of you hold the brushes. Paint it with kindness, patience, and the vibrant colours of trust and understanding.”
Toast to the couple: “To [bride’s name] and [partner’s name], the creators of a love story that’s both imaginative and heartwarming. May your journey be filled with artistic adventures, endless inspiration, and a love that continues to paint your lives with beauty. Cheers!”
Speech Example 8: The Travel Enthusiasts
Introduction: “Hey, everyone! I’m [your name], the crazy friend who has navigated the wild world of adventures with [bride’s name]. Today, as her maid of honour, I’m over the moon to celebrate this incredible journey.”
Stories about the bride: “From getting lost in foreign cities to bonding over bizarre local cuisine, [bride’s name] and I have embarked on some unforgettable journeys. I still can’t believe we accidentally ordered snails!”
The couple’s love story: “Seeing [bride’s name] and [partner’s name] fall in love is like watching a captivating travel documentary – each chapter filled with exciting destinations, new experiences, and a growing sense of unity.”
The proposal: “Speaking of travels, [partner’s name] took [bride’s name] on a surprise trip to their favourite city, where he proposed atop a breathtaking viewpoint. It was a moment as memorable as the stamps on their passports.”
Heartfelt advice: “As you journey through the uncharted waters of marriage, remember that love is an adventure filled with twists and turns. Embrace the unexpected, cherish the beauty of every sunrise, and hold each other’s hand through every storm.”
Toast to the couple: “To [bride’s name] and [partner’s name], the explorers of love and life. May your days be filled with exhilarating discoveries, shared laughter, and a bond that’s as unbreakable as the compass that guides your hearts. Cheers!”
Speech Example 9: The Dance Partners
Introduction: “Hello, everyone! I’m [your name], the one who’s twirled through life’s ups and downs with [bride’s name]. Today, as her proud maid of honour, I’m absolutely thrilled to share a few words about this extraordinary journey.”
Stories about the bride: “From mastering the latest dance crazes to our legendary karaoke duets, [bride’s name] and I have had our fair share of dance parties that could rival any club. Let’s just say, we’ve got moves!”
The couple’s love story: “Watching [bride’s name] and [partner’s name] fall in love has been like witnessing a beautiful dance unfold – each step graceful, each move synchronised, and the chemistry between them undeniable.”
The proposal: “And then came the proposal, a moment choreographed with love. [Partner’s name] swept [bride’s name] off her feet and, just like a perfectly timed dip on the dance floor, he asked the most important question.”
Heartfelt advice: “As you waltz into the realm of marriage, remember that love, like dance, requires trust, communication, and a willingness to follow each other’s lead. May your journey be filled with harmonious steps and synchronised hearts.”
Toast to the couple: “To [bride’s name] and [partner’s name], the dance partners who’ve found their perfect rhythm. May your days be filled with joyful twirls, passionate dips, and a love that dances on forever. Cheers!”
Speech Example 10: The Daring Duo
Introduction: “Hey there, everyone! I’m [your name], the bestie who’s shared countless adventures and endless laughter with [bride’s name]. Today, as her beaming maid of honour, I’m beyond ecstatic to raise a toast to her love story.”
Stories about the bride: “From planning epic pranks to taking spontaneous road trips, [bride’s name] and I have a history of being partners in crime. One time, we decided to bake a cake at 3 AM – and let’s just say, it was a happy disaster!”
The couple’s love story: “Seeing [bride’s name] and [partner’s name] fall in love is like witnessing a heartwarming heist – a perfect blend of planning, excitement, and the sweet reward of finding their soulmate.”
The proposal: “And then came the proposal, a surprise that could rival our most daring escapades. [Partner’s name] orchestrated a scavenger hunt that led [bride’s name] to the place where their journey began – and to a future she couldn’t resist.”
Heartfelt advice: “As you embark on this grand adventure called marriage, remember that love, like a perfect caper, requires teamwork, trust, and the ability to overcome any obstacle together.”
Toast to the couple: “To [bride’s name] and [partner’s name], the partners in crime who have stolen each other’s hearts. May your days be filled with thrilling escapades, shared secrets, and a love that’s as unbreakable as the bond between co-conspirators. Cheers!”
The bottom line on maid of honour speeches
The maid of honour speech is a beautiful and memorable part of your bestie’s big day. While crafting a great maid of honour speech can be tricky, with careful planning, a few funny stories, and plenty of love, you’ll write a beautiful and heartfelt speech.
Be sure to share plenty of stories about the bride and groom, describe the proposal, and toast to the happy couple. Make sure you consider the audience when sharing any funny stories, let your personality shine through, and get plenty of practice in the run-up to the big day!
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He’s your best mate. Your partner in crime. You’re brothers in spirit, if not always in blood. And now, you’re his best man. Congratulations!
The honour of being the best man is a true testament to your friendship and the faith the groom puts in you. The best way to pay him back is to write a best man speech that will have everyone in stitches and teary-eyed at the same time.
Writing a best man’s speech might not be easy for everyone. But there’s no need to panic! Whether you were born for the stage or a little more reserved, we’ve got these best man speech ideas and examples to help you get started. Prepare to craft the perfect speech to make your guests laugh, cry, and reminisce on your best friend’s big day.
What is the best man speech?
The best man speech is a speech made by the best man during the wedding reception. It should be about 5 minutes long and include some anecdotes, jokes, and your favourite memories about the groom. These stories should highlight your friendship, adventures, and any lessons you’ve learned together.
The best man’s speech is usually third in the order of speeches: first is the father of the bride’s speech; second is the groom’s speech; and third is the best man’s speech. It can be delivered after the main meal or between courses. This will give guests a break from the monotony of long speeches and capture the attention of everyone present.
What should you include in the best man speech?
Here are some key elements you should consider including in your best man speech:
Thick as thieves. Engage the guests from the get-go with captivating stories about your time with the groom. It’s the perfect time to share your adventures and describe your escapades surrounded by the people who love your groom the most. It’s important to strike the right balance between sharing your craziest moments and not embarrassing the groom too much on their special day!
Share their story. You likely knew the groom before he met his partner. Try sharing some stories of how they met, when he decided to propose, or when he told you they were the one. These special, intimate moments will no doubt make the couple smile and pull at the guest’s heartstrings.
A playful roast. Throw in a few light-hearted (and appropriate) jabs at the groom. Keep it clean; keep it playful. The goal is to make everyone laugh, including the groom himself. Balance the teasing with genuine admiration, support, and love, and you won’t go far wrong.
Toast the happy couple. Raise your glass and lead the crowd in a toast to the couple’s future health and happiness. It’s the perfect opportunity to end your speech on a high note and leave everyone feeling uplifted.
Best man speech structure
Following a clear structure can help you feel more confident when writing a best man’s speech. Try using this structure to get you started:
Introduction
The first part of your speech should be focused on introducing yourself and explaining your relationship to the groom. You’re his best man, but are you also his childhood best friend, partner in crime, brother, or new brother-in-law?
This is your opportunity to build rapport with your audience and share some light-hearted anecdotes about how you met or your journey so far.
Acknowledge the happy couple
Once you’ve introduced yourself, it’s time to shift your focus to the happy couple. This is the perfect opportunity to highlight how beautiful the bride looks and how much you admire her positive qualities. Express how happy you are for the newlyweds, your excitement for their special day, and explain how the bride has positively influenced the groom’s life.
Stories and anecdotes
The next portion of your speech should be concerned with sharing your favourite stories about the groom. These stories could showcase his character, quirks, and any memorable moments you’ve shared.
Balance your jokes with sincerity, ensuring the stories reflect the groom’s best qualities, highlight your friendship, and don’t embarrass him too much in front of his new family!
Reflect on your friendship
This portion of your speech should talk about how you’ve supported one another through the trials of life. You should discuss how you met, the lessons you’ve learned together, and how much your friendship means to you.
Although these types of speech may not come naturally to all, today is a sentimental day and the perfect opportunity to express your gratitude for their friendship over all these years.
Closing and toast
Now is the time to close your speech and raise a toast to the happy couple. Thank all the guests for attending, express gratitude to the couple’s parents, and end on a heartfelt note before raising your glass to the happy couple. Cheers, you did it!
Best man speech template
To help you navigate the complete breakdown of your speech, it can be helpful to have a visual guide to refer to. Check out our handy infographic below:
Use this best man template to guide your writing
Top tips for delivering a great best man speech
Don’t stress. It’s natural to feel nervous when making a speech in front of a large group. However, keep in mind that you couldn’t ask for a better audience! The guests will have already listened to two speeches, are expecting yours, and are likely to have met you before. Take deep breaths, speak slowly and clearly, and maintain eye contact with the audience. Remember, everyone is there to support you, and the couple will appreciate your efforts regardless.
Respect boundaries. Avoid sensitive or controversial topics that could offend or upset anyone in attendance. Some light-hearted roasting is appropriate, but stay away from any stories that may embarrass the couple or make them uncomfortable. If in doubt, check with the groom what stories he’s happy for you to use and disclose beforehand. This way, you can make sure he’s comfortable with the stories you’ll share while keeping your speech’s content a secret.
Practice makes perfect. As with anything – practice makes perfect! Rehearse your speech multiple times before the big day. Try practising in front of a mirror, to trusted friends, or even record yourself making the speech to watch back. This will help you feel more comfortable, ensure a smooth delivery, and help you remember the key points you want to cover. If you’re still feeling anxious, check out our speech delivery skills to help you prepare for your best man’s speech.
Toasting etiquette. This may be one of the first times you’re instigating a toast, so it’s important to have proper toasting etiquette. When raising a toast, ensure your glass is filled with the drink of your choice beforehand. This is traditionally champagne. However, prosecco or a non-alcoholic fizzy drink is also acceptable. Make eye contact with the couple and raise your glass towards them. Encourage others to join in by signalling or making a simple gesture.
Top 10 best man speech examples
If you’re looking for some inspiration, check out our top 10 examples of great best man wedding speech ideas, from the short and simple, to the funny and personal!
A lot of traditional best man speeches and examples will refer to a bride and groom, but you can simply change the references to the groom’s partner and the appropriate pronouns if you’re attending an LGBTQ+ wedding.
Speech Example 1: Best Friend’s Journey
Introduction: “Good evening, everyone! For those who don’t know me, I’m [your name], and I have the honour of standing here as [groom’s name]’s best man. We’ve been through thick and thin together, from childhood adventures to navigating the ups and downs of adulthood.”
Acknowledge the happy couple: “But today is all about celebrating the love between [groom’s name] and [partner’s name]. I’ve never seen [groom’s name] happier than when he met [partner’s name]. Their love is truly special, and I couldn’t be happier for them.”
Stories and anecdotes: “Now, let me share a couple of stories about [groom’s name]. I remember when we were kids, [groom’s name] always had an uncanny ability to get into mischief. Whether it was pranks or daring adventures, we were partners in crime. And that mischievous spirit has never left him.”
Reflect on your friendship: “As we grew older, our friendship deepened. [Groom’s name] has always been there for me, offering a helping hand and a listening ear. We’ve supported each other through heartbreaks, career challenges, and everything in between. [Groom’s name], I am truly grateful to have you as my best friend.”
Closing and toast: “In closing, I want to raise a toast to [couple’s names]. May your journey together be filled with love, laughter, and endless adventures. Cheers to the newlyweds!”
Speech Example 2: The Brother’s Tribute
Introduction: “Good evening, ladies and gentlemen! As [groom’s name]’s brother and best man, I have the privilege of sharing some stories about the man of the hour. Growing up together, I’ve witnessed his transformation from a mischievous little brother to the amazing man he is today.”
Acknowledge the happy couple: “But today is not just about [groom’s name]. It’s about celebrating the love he has found with [partner’s name]. [Partner’s name], thank you for bringing so much happiness into [groom’s name]’s life. You are truly his perfect match, and we are thrilled to have you as part of our family.”
Stories and anecdotes: “Now, let’s get to the fun part. I could tell countless stories about [groom’s name], but let me share a classic one. Remember that time when we tried to build a treehouse and ended up getting stuck? It was a true test of our problem-solving skills, and [groom’s name] never fails to surprise me with his resourcefulness.”
Reflect on your friendship: “Our bond as brothers goes beyond shared memories and adventures. [Groom’s name] has been my rock, my confidant, and my partner in crime. We’ve faced triumphs and trials together, and I am grateful for his unwavering support and friendship.”
Closing and toast: “To [couples’ names], may your love be as strong as the bond between brothers, and may your journey be filled with love, joy, and endless happiness. Here’s to a lifetime of love and laughter. Cheers!”
Speech Example 3: The Childhood Shenanigans
Introduction: “Good evening, everyone! I stand before you as [groom’s name]’s best man, and it is an honour to share some stories about our lifelong friendship. From playground adventures to adulthood, we’ve been partners in crime every step of the way.”
Acknowledge the happy couple: “But tonight, we gather to celebrate [groom’s name]’s love story with [partner’s name]. Seeing the way they light up each other’s lives is truly inspiring. [Partner’s name], thank you for loving [groom’s name] unconditionally and bringing so much joy into his life.”
Stories and anecdotes: “Let me take you back to our childhood when [groom’s name] had this uncanny ability to charm everyone around him. I remember one time we got into a little trouble at school, and [groom’s name] managed to talk our way out of it with his smooth talking and infectious smile.”
Reflect on your friendship: “Our friendship has been a constant source of support, laughter, and growth. We’ve weathered storms and celebrated milestones together. [Groom’s name], thank you for always being there for me, and I’m honoured to stand by your side on this special day.”
Closing and toast: “Let us raise our glasses to [couples’ name]. May your journey together be filled with laughter, adventure, and an abundance of love. Cheers to the newlyweds!”
Speech Example 4: The Unbreakable Bond
Introduction: “Good evening, ladies and gentlemen! As [groom’s name]’s best man, it is both an honour and a privilege to stand before you today. We’ve been through countless adventures, embarrassing moments, and unforgettable experiences that have solidified our bond.”
Acknowledge the happy couple: “But today, we gather to celebrate the love between [couples’ names]. Their love is truly remarkable, and it’s an honour to witness the joy they bring to each other’s lives. [Partner’s name], thank you for loving [groom’s name] with all your heart.”
Stories and anecdotes: “Let me share a story that perfectly encapsulates [groom’s name]’s adventurous spirit. We once decided to go skydiving, and as the plane ascended, [groom’s name] turned to me and said, ‘What’s the worst that could happen?’ Needless to say, we survived, but it’s moments like these that remind me of his fearlessness.”
Reflect on your friendship: “Our friendship is built on trust, laughter, and shared experiences. Through thick and thin, we’ve been each other’s support system, offering a listening ear and a shoulder to lean on. [Groom’s name], I am grateful to have you as a best friend.”
Closing and toast: “To [couples’ names], may your love be as unbreakable as the bond between best friends. May your journey be filled with joy, laughter, and endless adventures. Cheers to the newlyweds!”
Speech Example 5: The Lifelong Journey
Introduction: “Good evening, everyone! I am honoured to stand here as [groom’s name]’s best man and share some heartfelt words about our incredible journey together. From the moment we met, our friendship has been filled with laughter, support, and unforgettable moments.”
Acknowledge the happy couple: “But tonight, we gather not only to celebrate our friendship, but also to celebrate the love between [couples’ names]. Their love story is a testament to the power of true love and compatibility. [Partner’s name], thank you for bringing so much happiness into [groom’s name]’s life.”
Stories and anecdotes: “Let me take you back to a hilarious memory that perfectly captures [Groom’s Name]’s wit and charm. We were on a road trip, and when we got lost, [Groom’s Name] convinced us that he had a perfect sense of direction, only to end up at the wrong destination. We laughed it off and turned it into an adventure.”
Reflect on your friendship: “Our friendship has stood the test of time, and I couldn’t be more grateful. [groom’s name] has been there for me during my highest highs and lowest lows. We’ve shared dreams, goals, and late-night conversations that have shaped who we are today.”
Closing and toast: “To [couples’ names], may your journey together be filled with love, happiness, and endless adventures. As you embark on this new chapter, know that you have a friend for life in each other. Cheers to the newlyweds!”
Speech Example 6: The Dynamic Duo
Introduction: “Good evening, ladies and gentlemen! As [groom’s name]’s best man, it’s an absolute pleasure to share some stories about our unforgettable adventures and the unbreakable bond we share.”
Acknowledge the happy couple: “But tonight, we’re not only celebrating [groom’s name]’s journey but also the love between him and [partner’s name]. [Partner’s name], thank you for accepting [groom’s name] and becoming an integral part of our dynamic duo.”
Stories and anecdotes: “Let me share a story that perfectly captures our mischievous side. We once decided to crash a karaoke night, and let’s just say our rendition of a classic hit cleared the room in record time. We may not be the next American Idol, but we sure know how to have a good time.”
Reflect on your friendship: “Throughout the years, [groom’s name] has been more than a friend to me – he’s been a brother. We’ve supported each other through thick and thin, celebrated victories, and picked each other up during the tough times. [Groom’s name], thank you for always having my back.”
Closing and toast: “To [couples’ names], may your journey together be filled with laughter, love, and endless adventures. May you continue to be the dynamic duo that lights up every room you enter. Cheers to the newlyweds!”
Speech Example 7: The Epic Bromance
Introduction: “Good evening, everyone! I stand before you as [groom’s name]’s best man and partner-in-crime. Our bromance has weathered the test of time, and today, I have the honour of sharing some memorable moments with all of you.”
Acknowledge the happy couple: “But tonight, we’re not just celebrating our epic bromance. We’re here to celebrate the love between [couples’ names]. [Partner’s name], thank you for bringing out the best in [groom’s name] and being the one who truly completes him.”
Stories and anecdotes: “Now, let me take you back to a legendary moment that embodies our bromance. We once decided to participate in a hot chilli eating contest, thinking we were invincible. Let’s just say the aftermath was not pretty, but it’s a story we laugh about to this day.”
Reflect on your friendship: “[Groom’s name] has been more than a best friend; he’s been a brother to me. We’ve laughed, cried, and conquered challenges together. His unwavering support and loyalty have been a constant source of inspiration in my life.”
Closing and toast: “To [couples’ names], may your journey together be filled with love, adventure, and the same epic bromance you’ve shared with each other. Here’s to a lifetime of happiness and unforgettable moments. Cheers to the newlyweds!”
Speech 8: Ride or Die
Introduction: “Good evening, everyone! As [groom’s name]’s best man, I have the pleasure of sharing some stories about our incredible bond. We’ve been through it all together, and today, I want to celebrate that bond and the love between [couples’ names].”
Acknowledge the happy couple: “But first, let’s raise a toast to the lovebirds. [Partner’s name], thank you for not only capturing [groom’s name]’s heart but also for accepting us, his loyal friends, into your life. Your love for each other is inspiring, and we couldn’t be happier for you.”
Stories and anecdotes: “Let me take you back to a wild adventure that epitomises our ride-or-die mentality. We once decided to embark on a spontaneous road trip with no destination in mind. It may not have been the most well-planned journey, but the memories we created along the way are priceless.”
Reflect on your friendship: “Our friendship is built on trust, loyalty, and a shared love for spontaneity. [Groom’s name] has always been the one person I can count on, no matter the circumstances. He’s been there through the highs and lows, reminding me that we’re in this together.”
Closing and toast: “To [couples’ names], may your journey together be filled with unwavering love, unforgettable adventures, and the same ride-or-die friendship that has brought us all here today. Cheers to the newlyweds!”
Speech 9: The Comedy Duo
Introduction: “Ladies and gentlemen, good evening! As [groom’s name]’s best man, I have the pleasure of sharing some hilarious moments that capture the essence of our friendship. Laughter has been the foundation of our bond, and tonight, I want to celebrate that laughter and the love between [couples’ names].”
Acknowledge the happy couple: “But before we dive into the comedy, let’s take a moment to celebrate the lovebirds. [Partner’s name], thank you for embracing [groom’s name]’s sense of humour and bringing even more laughter into his life. Your love story is like a romantic comedy we all want to watch.”
Stories and anecdotes: “Let me transport you to a moment of pure comedy gold. We once decided to take an impromptu dance class, thinking we were the next Fred Astaire and Ginger Rogers. Let’s just say we were far from graceful, but the laughter we shared was priceless.”
Reflect on your friendship: “Our friendship has been a constant source of fun and joy. [Groom’s name] has the incredible ability to make any situation hilarious, and his infectious laughter is contagious. I’m grateful for the countless memories we’ve created together.”
Closing and toast: “To [couples’ names], may your journey together be filled with endless laughter and joyful moments. May you continue to be each other’s comedic partners for life. Cheers to the newlyweds!”
Speech Example 10: The Supportive Sidekick
Introduction: “Good evening, everyone! As [groom’s name]’s best man, it is an absolute honour to be by his side on this special day. We’ve been each other’s support system, cheerleaders, and partners in crime, and today, I want to celebrate our friendship and the love between [couples’ names].”
Acknowledge the happy couple: “But first, let us raise a toast to the happy couple. [Partner’s name], thank you for being the love of [groom’s name]’s life and for being the perfect match for him. Your unwavering support and belief in him have made him a better person.”
Stories and anecdotes: “Let me take you back to a moment when [groom’s name] showed incredible courage and determination. We decided to go skydiving together, and as the plane door opened at 10,000 feet, I could see the mix of excitement and nervousness on [groom’s name]’s face. But he took a deep breath, stepped out into the open sky, and embraced the exhilarating free-fall. It was a testament to his courage and willingness to embrace new experiences.”
Reflect on your friendship: “Our friendship has stood the test of time and distance. [Groom’s name] has been my rock, always there to lend a listening ear, offer advice, and provide unwavering support. He’s taught me the value of friendship and loyalty.”
Closing and toast: “To [couples’ names], may your journey together be filled with love, support, and countless shared adventures. May you continue to be each other’s biggest supporters and find strength in your love. Cheers to the newlyweds!”
The bottom line on the best man speech
The best man speech is the perfect opportunity to share stories of your adventures, honour the groom on his big day, and celebrate the newlyweds’ love.
To write a killer speech, throw in a few (respectful) jokes, compliment the groom’s partner, and keep an upbeat pace. These tips will help you strike a balance between comedy and sincerity and ensure that you leave a lasting impression on their wedding day.
Leave plenty of time to write your speech and look up plenty of best man speech examples. Whether you’re the groom’s brother, friend, or new brother-in-law, these top 10 best man speech examples are sure to inspire your writing.
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Your big day is approaching – the happiest day of your life! You’ve organised the wedding favours, your bridesmaids are suited and booted, and you’ve got your something old, new, borrowed, and blue. All the “i”s are dotted, and all the “t”s are crossed. Just one thing remains – are you going to make a speech?
While untraditional when compared to a father of the bride’s speech or the groom’s speech, the bride’s speech can be a real tear-jerker. It’s a moment of pure happiness when the bride gets to share her thoughts, gratitude, and love with everyone gathered to witness your special day.
In this post, we explore what the bride should include in their wedding speech, the structure of a great speech, and some top tips to help you nail your delivery. Listen up, future brides! This one’s for you.
What is the bride’s speech?
The bride’s speech is a heartfelt and personal speech made by the bride during their wedding reception. It’s the perfect opportunity to thank your bridal party, parents, and guests for their support leading up to the wedding and throughout your life.
The bride’s speech is non-traditional, but future brides should seriously consider incorporating a bride’s speech into the wedding speech order. It’s a chance to not only express gratitude but also to share your own journey, hopes, and dreams with those who have gathered to celebrate your special day.
What should you include in the bride’s speech?
When writing your bride’s speech, you might want to consider including the following key elements:
Acknowledge your partner. This is the perfect opportunity to address your new spouse. Let them know how happy you are to have them by your side, reflect on your journey together, and express excitement for the future ahead of you.
The stresses of wedding planning. Although planning a wedding can be stressful, it’s all over now! Share a few funny anecdotes or stumbling blocks when wedding planning, or even tell the guests about any plans that went totally haywire! It all worked out in the end, so no harm done.
A recap of your vows. Although you’ve just delivered them, consider giving a recap of your vows to remind your new spouse about your promises and dedications. Share your dreams for your shared future and remind them how loved they will be every day.
Thank your guests. Express your deep gratitude to all your friends, family, and loved ones for joining you on your special day. These people have watched your love story from the very start, and this day marks an important milestone in your journey. Their presence here is a testament to the love and support that surrounds you both as you step into this new chapter of your lives.
Bride’s speech structure
The great thing about the bride’s speech is that it isn’t bound by tradition. There are no expectations or traditional framework, which means you can put your own special spin on the speech and create a heartfelt moment that reflects who you are as a person and as a couple.
However, following a loose structure can help you feel more confident. Try using the below speech structure to help you get started:
Introduction
The first step of a speech is to greet all your guests with a warm welcome. Thank them all for attending your special day and for listening attentively to all the speeches.
Share your gratitude
Take a moment to thank everyone who played a role in your journey – your family, friends, and of course your partner and the suppliers who made your big day possible. Share why each person is important to you and how they’ve contributed to your love story as well as the wedding itself.
Stories about wedding planning
Wedding planning is challenging – there’s no doubt about it. However, now that’s firmly in the rearview mirror, it’s the perfect time to share any funny stories or anecdotes you encountered while planning the big day. Share any hiccups with a pinch of irony and a big smile and thank your bridal party for their support through every twist and turn.
Thank your bridesmaids and maid of honour
This is the perfect segue into thanking your bridesmaids and maid of honour for their unwavering support during this process. Thank them for being your pillars of strength, for keeping you smiling, and sharing a laugh with you throughout the process.
Acknowledge your work
Don’t forget to acknowledge all the hard work you’ve done, too! Planning a wedding is a huge achievement, and you should be proud of yourself for all the hard work you’ve put in. Give yourself a well-deserved pat on the back, and take pride in the beautiful day you’ve created.
Toast
Finally, it’s time for a toast! Ask your guests to raise their glasses to you and your new spouse. Here’s to health, love, and happiness. Cheers!
Bride’s speech template
To help you navigate the complete breakdown of your speech, it can be helpful to have a visual guide to refer to. Check out our handy infographic below:
Use this bride speech template to guide your writing
Top tips for delivering the best bride’s speech
Delivery style
Speak clearly, slowly, and confidently. Don’t rush through the speech due to nerves or skip over parts you’ve rehearsed. Instead, take a deep breath, look around the room as you speak, and give the audience time to absorb your words.
Body language
Pay attention to your body language and gestures while delivering your speech. Stand up straight with your shoulders back, maintain eye contact, smile, and use hand gestures as you talk to emphasise your points and make you appear more confident.
Practice makes perfect
Rehearse your speech multiple times. Practice with trusted friends, in front of the mirror, or even record yourself to watch back if necessary. Don’t be afraid to ask for feedback to help you improve.
As difficult as it may be to relax, remember – everyone there knows you and loves you. You’re in front of the best audience you possibly could be, so take a deep breath, savour the moment, and let your words flow naturally as you tell all your guests how much you’re enjoying your big day. You’ve got this!
Top 10 bride speech examples
If you’re looking for some inspiration, check out our top 10 examples of great bridal speech ideas! And remember that these are just examples. You can use them as templates for your own speech, but it’s important to speak from the heart, and add your own personal touch and unique family anecdotes.
Speech Example 1: Our Shared Journey
Introduction: “Hello everyone! I’m [your name], and I can’t express how grateful [partner’s name] and I are to have you all here celebrating this incredible day with us.”
Share your gratitude: “Before we dive into the fun stories, I want to thank each and every one of you. Our families, friends, and loved ones – you’ve been our pillars of strength, and your presence today means the world to us.”
Stories about wedding planning: “Now, let’s talk about wedding planning. They say it’s a rollercoaster, but I’m pretty sure rollercoasters don’t come with seating charts! I’ll never forget the day I spent hours debating between rose gold and blush napkins, only for [partner’s name] to tell me they looked the same. But hey, at least I’m now a napkin colour expert!”
Thank your bridesmaids and maid of honour: “I’m blessed to have the most incredible bridesmaids and my rockstar maid of honour, [maid of honour’s name]. From helping me pick out dresses to calming me down during those last-minute jitters, you’ve made this journey unforgettable.”
Acknowledge your work: “And speaking of journeys, planning this wedding has been a ride. I never thought I’d be a wedding-planner-in-training, but here I am, a proud graduate! And [partner’s name], thank you for being my partner through every decision, debate, and DIY disaster.”
Toast: “So, here’s to us – to the journey we’ve taken, the love we’ve built, and the adventure that lies ahead. May our laughter be never-ending, our love ever-growing, and our napkin colour choices always clear. Cheers!”
Speech Example 2: Love Beyond Borders
Introduction: “Hello, everyone! I’m [your name], and I’m overjoyed to see all your smiling faces here as we celebrate the love between [partner’s name] and me.”
Share your gratitude: “Thank you for being a part of our story, for witnessing our journey, and for surrounding us with your warmth and love.”
Stories about wedding planning: “Wedding planning brought us laughter, tears, and even a few hilarious mishaps. Who knew that choosing between wedding cake flavours could be so challenging? But, in the end, it’s been a beautiful adventure we wouldn’t trade for the world.”
Thank your bridesmaids and maid of honour: “My wonderful bridesmaids and my incredible maid of honour, [maid of honour’s name], have been my backbone throughout this journey. From dress fittings to dance rehearsals, you’ve made every moment unforgettable.”
Acknowledge your work: “Planning a wedding is like building a puzzle – every piece has its place. And [partner’s name], you’ve been my partner in every decision and late-night DIY project. You’re the reason why our wedding is not just a day, but a reflection of our love.”
Toast: “To the pieces that make up our beautiful puzzle – our families, friends, and all the memories we’ve created. Here’s to us, to love that knows no borders, and to the chapters we’re about to write together. Cheers!”
Speech Example 3: The Adventure of Us
Introduction: “Hello, everyone! I’m [your name], and it fills my heart with joy to see you all gathered here to celebrate the love story of [partner’s name] and me.”
Share your gratitude: “Thank you for being here, for supporting us, and for being a part of this incredible journey. Your presence makes our day even more special.”
Stories about wedding planning: “Wedding planning, they say, is a glimpse into married life – compromise, laughter, and a few unexpected surprises. Like the time we couldn’t agree on the playlist and had a dance-off to decide. [Partner’s name] won that one, but I’ve got the moves for our next adventure!”
Thank your bridesmaids and maid of honour: “My bridesmaids and my amazing maid of honour, [maid of honour’s name], have been my cheerleaders throughout this journey. From helping me pick the perfect dress to reminding me to breathe when things got hectic, you’ve been my unwavering support.”
Acknowledge your work: “Planning this wedding was like creating a masterpiece – every detail contributing to a bigger picture. And [partner’s name], you’ve been my partner through it all, and in building a life full of adventures.”
Toast: “Here’s to us, to the beautiful masterpiece we’ve created, and to the adventures that lie ahead. May our journey be filled with love, laughter, and unforgettable moments. Cheers!”
Speech Example 4: The Magic of Love
Introduction: “Good evening, everyone! I’m [your name], and I’m thrilled to stand before you on this magical day celebrating the love between [partner’s name] and me.”
Share your gratitude: “Thank you all for joining us, for being a part of our lives, and for your endless love and support. Your presence warms our hearts.”
Stories about wedding planning: “Wedding planning is like weaving a tapestry – a beautiful blend of colours, emotions, and a touch of chaos. Like the time [partner’s name] and I tried to create the perfect seating chart, which was like solving an elaborate puzzle with missing pieces. But in the end, our tapestry is beautifully woven.”
Thank your bridesmaids and maid of honour: “My bridesmaids and my incredible maid of honour, [maid of honour’s name], have been my guiding stars during this journey. Their laughter, advice, and late-night chats made every step of the way unforgettable.”
Acknowledge your work: “Planning this wedding was a labour of love, and it’s a reflection of the love [partner’s name] and I share. We’ve worked side by side, blending our dreams into a reality that’s even more beautiful than we imagined.”
Toast: “So here’s to us, to the magical journey we’ve embarked upon, and to the love that shines brighter than any star. May our days be filled with laughter, our nights with sweet dreams, and our hearts forever entwined. Cheers!”
Speech Example 5: Love Through the Seasons
Introduction: “Hello, everyone! I’m [your name], and it’s an honour to stand before you as we celebrate the love story between [partner’s name] and me.”
Share your gratitude: “Thank you for being here, for supporting us through the seasons of life, and for being a part of this special day that marks the start of a new chapter.”
Stories about wedding planning: “Wedding planning has been like navigating through the changing seasons – moments of excitement, challenges, and the promise of something beautiful to come. Like the time [partner’s name] and I debated whether to have an outdoor or indoor ceremony, only to choose both and experience the magic of both worlds.”
Thank your bridesmaids and maid of honour: “My bridesmaids and my amazing maid of honour, [maid of honour’s name], have been my rocks throughout this journey. They’ve weathered every planning storm with me, ensuring that every step was filled with laughter and joy.”
Acknowledge your work: “Planning this wedding was a labour of love, a reflection of the journey [partner’s name] and I have taken together. We’ve nurtured this dream side by side, building a foundation that’s as strong as our love.”
Toast: “So here’s to us, to the changing seasons of life and the love that remains constant. May our journey be filled with warmth, laughter, and the promise of beautiful days ahead. Cheers!”
Speech Example 6: Grand Adventure
Introduction: “Good evening, everyone! I’m [your name], and I’m so excited to stand before you today to celebrate the love between [partner’s name] and me.”
Share your gratitude: “Thank you all for being here, for adding your love and warmth to this day, and for being part of our grand adventure.”
Stories about wedding planning: “Wedding planning is like embarking on a grand adventure – full of excitement, surprises, and a few detours along the way. Like the time [partner’s name] and I accidentally ordered twice as many flowers as we needed and ended up with a garden in our living room. But at least it smelled amazing!”
Thank your bridesmaids and maid of honour: “My bridesmaids and my wonderful maid of honour, [maid of honour’s name], have been my partners in this adventure. They’ve navigated through dress fittings, cake tastings, and the occasional panic attack with me, making every moment unforgettable.”
Acknowledge your work: “Planning this wedding was hard work, for sure, but there was also so much joy along the way. Every decision, every detail, is a testament to our love and partnership.”
Toast: “To us, to the adventure we’re embarking upon, and to the love that’s stronger than any challenge. May our days be filled with laughter, our nights with dreams, and our hearts united as one. Cheers!”
Speech Example 7: Love’s Tapestry
Introduction: “Hello, everyone! I’m [your name], and it’s a privilege to stand here among you, celebrating the love story between [partner’s name] and me.”
Share your gratitude: “Thank you for being here, for adding your joy and love to this celebration, and for making this day even more special.”
Stories about wedding planning: “Wedding planning has been a journey of weaving together moments of joy, laughter, and a few surprises. Like the time [partner’s name] and I spent hours debating the perfect shade of blue for the decorations, only to realise there are more shades than stars in the sky.”
Thank your bridesmaids and maid of honour: “My bridesmaids and my incredible maid of honour, [maid of honour’s name], have been the threads that have woven this tapestry of love. They’ve stood by me through every decision, every challenge, making the journey unforgettable.”
Acknowledge your work: “Planning this wedding has been a labour of love, a reflection of the journey [partner’s name] and I have taken together. Together, we’ve created a masterpiece that’s a testament to our love and commitment.”
Toast: “To us, to the beautiful tapestry of love we’ve created, and to the journey that’s just beginning. May our days be filled with laughter, our hearts with love, and our lives forever intertwined. Cheers!”
Speech Example 8: Love’s Symphony
Introduction: “Hello, everyone! I’m [your name], and I’m thrilled to stand before you, sharing the incredible journey of love between [partner’s name] and me.”
Share your gratitude: “Thank you for being here, for lending your smiles and cheers to this day, and for being part of our symphony of love.”
Stories about wedding planning: “Wedding planning is like composing a symphony – each note representing a moment of joy, a challenge overcome, and a memory to cherish. Like the time [partner’s name] and I tried to pick the perfect song for our first dance, only to realise that we had more favourite songs than dance moves!”
Thank your bridesmaids and maid of honour: “My bridesmaids and my wonderful maid of honour, [maid of honour’s name], have been the harmonies in this symphony of love. They’ve sung along with me through every decision, every laugh, and every heartfelt moment.”
Acknowledge your work: “Planning this wedding was a labour of love, a reflection of the journey [partner’s name] and I have taken together. Each detail, each choice, tells the story of our love.”
Toast: “To us, to the symphony of love we’ve created, and to the melody of our lives intertwining. May our days be filled with music, our hearts with joy, and our love forever harmonious. Cheers!”
Speech Example 9: Love’s Canvas
Introduction: “Good evening, everyone! I’m [your name], and I honoured to stand before you, sharing the canvas of love that [partner’s name] and I have painted together.”
Share your gratitude: “Thank you for being here, for contributing your love and presence to this beautiful day, and for being a part of our masterpiece.”
Stories about wedding planning: “Wedding planning is like painting a canvas – each brushstroke representing a moment of joy, a challenge, and a touch of humour. Like the time [partner’s name] and I debated between a cake with fondant or buttercream, even though we really cared more about the taste than the look!”
Thank your bridesmaids and maid of honour: “My bridesmaids and my incredible maid of honour, [maid of honour’s name], have been my paintbrushes in this masterpiece of love. They’ve added colour, vibrancy, and laughter to every step of the journey.”
Acknowledge your work: “Planning this wedding was as exciting as it was rewarding. We’ve painted every detail with the hues of our love and commitment.”
Toast: “To us, to the canvas of love we’ve created, and to the beauty that lies in our future. May our days be filled with colour, our hearts with joy, and our love forever vibrant. Cheers!”
Speech Example 10: Love’s Adventure Awaits
Introduction: “Hello, everyone! I’m [your name], and I’m excited to share the incredible adventure of love between [partner’s name] and me.”
Share your gratitude: “Thank you for gracing us with your presence, for being a part of our story, and for adding your love and joy to this special day.”
Stories about wedding planning: “Wedding planning is like embarking on an adventure – filled with twists, turns, and the promise of a beautiful destination. Like the time [partner’s name] and I tried to choose between a traditional wedding cake or a dessert bar, only to decide that dessert is dessert, and we love it all!”
Thank your bridesmaids and maid of honour: “My bridesmaids and my amazing maid of honour, [maid of honour’s name], have been my fellow adventurers in this journey. They’ve climbed every planning mountain, crossed every decision river, and made every step unforgettable.”
Acknowledge your work: “Planning this wedding has been an adventure worth undertaking. We’ve navigated through every decision, every detail, and every dream side by side.”
Toast: “To us, to the adventure of love that awaits, and to the joy that comes from sharing life’s journey. May our days be filled with laughter, our hearts with love, and our love story an inspiration to all. Cheers!”
The bottom line on the bride’s speech
Although unconventional, the bride’s speech can be a beautiful and tear-jerking part of your wedding day. They offer a wonderful opportunity for brides to share their thoughts, emotions, and gratitude with their loved ones.
The bride’s speech isn’t a traditional part of the order of speeches at a wedding. As a result, there are no expectations as to what you should include or the structure of your speech. It’s your time to shine and show your unique personality and beautiful love story. Whether you opt for a speech packed with jokes, sentimental stories, or a mix of both, the key is to speak from the heart and let everyone know how you feel about your new spouse.
So, take a deep breath, hold your partner’s hand, and step into the spotlight. Stand up straight, speak slowly and clearly, and practice, practice, practice, before your big day. Whether you focus on heartfelt thank-yous or personal stories, this speech will be a wonderful and memorable part of your big day. It’s a gift that will resonate long after the last toast, so make sure you give it the care and attention you’ve given every other part of your big day.
But, if you’re still feeling nervous, Bridebook can be your guide in writing a cracking bride’s speech. Ditch the stresses and embrace the excitement of crafting a speech that truly reflects your love story. You’ve got this!
They’re your best friend; you’ve been through thick and thin, through hell and high water, and now they’re standing on the precipice of the rest of their life. You’ll obviously be by their side on the big day, but now they’ve asked you to make a speech! Feeling nervous? Don’t worry – it’s natural!
A best friend’s speech is quite traditional if it takes the form of the best man speech or maid of honour speech for a best friend or sister. But you don’t have to be the best man or maid of honour to make this speech. All that matters is making the speech as unique and special as the bond you share.
In this post, we look at how to write a killer best friend’s wedding speech that’s funny and engaging, but also heartfelt and loving overall. We cover what you should include in your best friend’s wedding speech, a best friend’s speech structure, and the most important things to consider when writing your speech.
What is the best friend’s speech at a wedding?
A best friend’s speech is a speech made by the best friend of the bride or groom during the wedding reception. It may be a funny maid of honour speech, a sincere best man’s speech, or even a sentimental tribute from a close friend who’s stood by the newlyweds throughout their relationship. Either way, the ‘best friend getting married’ speech is a beautiful and memorable part of any wedding reception.
A traditional wedding speech is usually between 5-7 minutes long and includes your favourite memories of the bride or groom, your honest advice, and maybe even a few light-hearted jabs at the bride or groom. A best friend’s speech can fit anywhere into the order of wedding speeches. The maid of honour speech can similarly fit flexibly into the order of speeches as it’s untraditional. By contrast, a best man’s speech traditionally comes after the groom’s speech (though there’s no pressure to stick to this structure if you don’t want to).
What should you include in a best friend’s speech?
Heartfelt advice. A best friend’s wedding speech is the perfect time to reflect on your own experiences and extend some tender advice to the newlyweds. You don’t need to be an expert in relationships or marriage to give them a few pointers on their new life together; you just need a heart full of love and advice on communication, compromise, and how the couple can grow together.
Fun anecdotes about the bride or groom. The best friend’s speech is the perfect opportunity to give an insight into the bride or groom’s personality, quirks, and special skills. Whether it’s an anecdote about how you met or a funny story about the adventures you’ve shared over the years, these fun tales will add a personal touch to your speech and ensure the audience hangs on your every word.
Your hopes for their future. Expressing your hopes and dreams for the couple’s future is a heartwarming and memorable part of any best friend’s speech. You can talk about how much you’ve enjoyed watching their love story unfold, how you envision their time together, and wish them a lifetime of love, joy, and adventures.
A playful and celebratory toast. As you wrap up your speech, raise a toast to the happy couple. Don’t be afraid to make it fun, playful, and even cheeky! Incorporate a touch of humour by adding a memorable inside joke that resonates with the couple to the end of your toast.
Best friend’s speech structure
Introduction
The first step of your speech should be introducing yourself to those who don’t know you. You should then explain your relationship to the bride or groom and express your gratitude for being asked to be part of their special day.
Acknowledge your best friend
You should then specifically acknowledge your best friend. Tell them how much they mean to you and how grateful you are to have them by your side. You can then move on to let the guests know what makes your bestie so unique and how proud you are of them for taking the next step in life.
Share a funny story
You should then move on to sharing a funny story or light-hearted anecdote about your friend over the years. Remember that their direct family, work colleagues, and neighbours may be in the audience, so make sure it’s a story that your best friend would be happy for them to hear! If you’re unsure, consider running it past them first.
Loving advice
You can then offer your advice to the newlyweds as they begin their new journey together. Draw from your own experiences and share meaningful advice on love, commitment, and friendship. Reflect on the lessons you’ve learned in your friendships, relationships, and life in general. If you’re unsure what advice you could offer, you can always switch this out for some love quotes, a tender poem, or some examples of wedding vows.
Toast
You should then end your speech with a toast to the happy couple. Raise your glass high, invite the guests to join you in a toast, and greet the couple by their names. End with a big smile and take a seat. That’s it!
Best friend’s speech template
To help you navigate the complete breakdown of your speech, it can be helpful to have a visual guide to refer to. Check out our handy infographic below:
Use this best friend speech template to guide your writing
Top tips for delivering a killer best friend’s speech
Wedding speech order
It’s important to find out where the bride and groom would like you to fit into the overall wedding speech order. The best man’s speech typically happens after the groom’s speech, but it doesn’t have to! On the other hand, the maid of honour’s speech can fit however you’d like into the overall wedding speech order. Clarify with the bride and groom when they feel your speech should come.
Nail the delivery
Shoulders back, chin up, and speak directly to the audience. Presenting your best friend at the wedding can be nerve-wracking, but you need to remember that the audience all know and love the bride and groom, and ultimately you’re here to praise them!
Take inspiration
If you’re unsure how to begin your speech or what to include, don’t be afraid to take inspiration from wedding readings or love quotes. Often, the most challenging part of writing your speech is the beginning, and these short stories and poems can give you a jumping-off point for your own speech.
Don’t panic
It can be scary to stand up in front of a big crowd and make your speech. The most important thing is not to panic. Make sure you practice beforehand, familiarise yourself with the overall speech order, and take a deep breath before you stand up to make your speech. Remember, even the most seasoned speakers experience jitters; it’s all part of the excitement that comes with being part of the big day.
Being asked to make a best friend’s wedding speech is an honour. It’s a true testament to you and your bestie’s bond, and as you stand before the happy couple, remember that you’re not just giving a speech – you’re a key part of the biggest celebration of their life!
Your words will become a part of their journey that they’ll remember forever, and your only goal should be to do them justice on their big day. Balance light-hearted stories and jokes with kind and caring words about the special bond you share.
So, embrace the nerves, channel your love, and speak from the heart to deliver a brilliant best friend’s wedding speech. For more expert advice and top tips on all things wedding-related, sign up to Bridebook today.
Wedding speeches are a cherished tradition at weddings, and an essential part of the wedding reception. They’re a way for the bride and groom, as well as their loved ones, to express their love and appreciation for each other on their big day, and can set the tone for a fun, emotional, and memorable evening.
But with so many speeches to include, it can be difficult to know the order to give them in. In this post, we’ll provide a guide to the traditional order of wedding speeches as well as possible adaptations, to help make your wedding day as unique as possible.
The origins of the traditional wedding speech order
The traditional order of wedding speeches has evolved over time, reflecting changing societal norms and values. Historically, the speeches have centred around the groom and the bride’s father, with the best man offering a light-hearted conclusion. As gender roles and wedding customs have evolved, the traditional order has adapted to include more diverse perspectives, with maid of honour speeches now the norm, and sometimes also bride and mother of the bride speeches too. Understanding the roots of these customs can help you appreciate the significance of each speech and the order to give them in at your wedding.
Traditional wedding speech order: cheat sheet
Before we dive into the details, take a look at the cheat sheet below to see how the different speeches at a wedding all flow and fit together. First is the father of the bride’s speech, then the groom’s speech, then the best man and maid of honour, and finally, any other speakers from the wedding party.
Use this cheat sheet as a guide on the traditional order of speeches at a wedding
Traditionally, the father of the bride is the first to give a speech. The father of the bride’s speech is typically a touching and emotional tribute to the bride, expressing the father’s love and pride for her, and wishing her happiness in her marriage. The father of the bride will usually welcome the guests, thank the groom for loving and caring for his daughter, and make a toast to the happy couple.
The groom’s speech is next in the order and is a time for him to express his love and gratitude to his bride, as well as to thank the wedding party, guests, and parents of the bride and groom. The groom may also take this opportunity to tell a few anecdotes or share memories of his relationship with his bride. This speech is usually light-hearted and humorous, but it should also be sincere and heartfelt.
The best man’s speech is one of the most anticipated speeches of the wedding reception. This is the best man’s chance to share some memories of the groom and offer some humorous anecdotes about him. The best man may also offer a toast to the happy couple and offer some words of advice for their future together. This speech should be light-hearted and entertaining, but it should also be respectful and appropriate.
Check out our top best man speech examples for inspiration and a complete breakdown on how to structure your speech.
If the bride has chosen to have a maid of honour, she will typically give a speech next. The maid of honour’s speech is a time for her to express her love and appreciation for the bride, as well as to share some memories of their friendship. This speech should be heartfelt and emotional, and the maid of honour may also offer a toast to the happy couple.
If there are any other speakers at the wedding, they may give their speeches after the best man and maid of honour. This may include the mother of the groom, close friends, or other members of the wedding party. These speeches should also be heartfelt and sincere, and the speakers may offer a toast to the happy couple.
Check out our wedding speech examples for inspiration and ideas on the kind of speeches you can give, including a joint speech given by the couple.
How to write a successful wedding speech
Regardless of the order of speeches at a wedding, there are a few essential elements that can make a wedding speech memorable and engaging:
Speak from the heart: Genuine emotions and heartfelt expressions resonate deeply with the audience. Be sincere in your words and share your true feelings.
Keep it concise: Aim for a speech length of 5-7 minutes to maintain the audience’s attention and keep the reception on schedule.
Balance humour and sentiment: A well-rounded speech strikes a balance between humour and heartfelt sentiment. While humour can keep the audience entertained, sharing genuine emotions and personal stories can make the speech more meaningful.
Practice makes perfect: Rehearse your speech multiple times before the big day to ensure a smooth delivery and to calm any nerves.
Adapting the traditional order to a modern wedding
While the traditional order of wedding speeches provides a solid foundation, many couples choose to adapt the format to suit their preferences or to include additional speakers. Modern weddings may feature speeches from the bride, the mother of the bride or groom, the maid of honour, or even close friends and family members. The key is to find a balance between tradition and personalisation, ensuring that the speeches reflect the unique character and dynamics of the couple and their loved ones.
If you’re looking for some non-traditional ideas, here are some examples of speech ideas other Bridebook couples have shared with us. Feel free to incorporate them into your own wedding speeches to make for a more unique and personalised speech structure.
Joint couple speech (bride and groom)
No speech from either the groom or the bride
Gender-equal speeches (including bride and mother of the groom speeches)
Mother and father of the groom speeches
Sibling or children speeches (of both the bride and groom)
Bridesmaid and groomsmen speeches
A mob speech instead of the traditional father of the bride speech
Opening up the floor to whoever wants to speak
Alternative pre-recorded speech featuring multiple speakers
No speeches or vows in the traditional sense (pub quiz style instead)
Top tips for customising the traditional speech order
If you choose to modify the traditional order of wedding speeches, consider the following tips:
Keep the flow: When rearranging the speech order, ensure there is a smooth flow between speakers, transitioning from more formal and sentimental speeches to lighter, more humorous ones.
Communicate with your speakers: Inform your speakers of any changes to the traditional order and provide clear guidance on their roles and expectations.
Consider the audience: When adding new speakers or rearranging the order, be mindful of your guests’ attention span and strive to maintain engagement throughout the speeches.
Embrace diversity and variety: Incorporating a variety of perspectives can enrich the wedding speeches, providing a more comprehensive reflection of the couple’s journey and relationships.
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The father of the bride’s speech is the top Daddy duty on your little girl’s big day. It’s a much-anticipated, heartfelt, and tear-jerking speech filled with joy and bittersweet nostalgia.
But writing a great father of the bride speech can be tricky. How do you strike the right balance between wit and sentimentality? How do you keep your audience engaged after a long wedding service? How do you properly capture your love, pride, and hope for their future in one 5-7 minute speech? Don’t stress. We’ve got you covered.
In this post, we’ve captured everything you need to know about writing a heartfelt and funny wedding speech. We break down what you should include, the structure of the wedding speech, a few top tips, and those 10 all-important examples of brilliant father of the bride speeches.
Ready to get going? Let’s jump right in!
What is a father of the bride speech?
A father of the bride speech is the speech made by the bride’s father during the wedding reception. It should be 5-7 minutes long and end with a heartfelt toast to the new couple.
The father’s wedding speech is a beautiful mix of happy memories, heartfelt advice, and funny anecdotes about the bride. Typically, the father of the bride speech welcomes your new son- or daughter-in-law to the family, is an opportunity for a father to reflect on his relationship with his daughter, and offers some words of wisdom to the happy couple as they start this new journey together.
What should you include in a father of the bride speech?
Here are some key elements you should consider including in your father of the bride speech:
All about the bride. Talk about how wonderful your daughter is. Tell her guests about your love for her, her amazing accomplishments, and fabulous qualities. Be sure to let them know she got it all from you!
Welcome the bride’s partner. This is the perfect opportunity to welcome your new son- or daughter-in-law to the family. Share positive thoughts about them, their character, and your hopes for their future together.
Anecdotes and memories. Remember when your daughter came home a little too merry from her first grown-up party? This is the perfect opportunity to share funny, endearing, or slightly embarrassing memories with your daughter. But remember, the point isn’t to make a joke of her on her special day. Any stories you pick should ultimately highlight the special bond you share.
Some pearls of wisdom and advice. Offer some sage words of wisdom to the newlyweds. Draw from your life experience and share insights about love, marriage, and building a strong, lasting relationship.
Father of the bride speech structure
When structuring your father of the bride speech, following a clear and organised framework can be helpful. Try using this structure to get you started:
Introduction
The first part of your speech should focus on introducing yourself and thanking everyone for attending. Your role is to ensure that everyone feels welcome and appreciated at the reception.
Take a moment to acknowledge and express gratitude to those who have travelled to attend and those who have supported the wedding, whether morally or financially.
The thank yous
You should then move on to thank those who have helped organise the wedding. Give a shout-out to the bridesmaids, the ushers, and other friends and family who have been involved.
It’s also a nice idea to thank the wedding planner (if they used one) and the staff working on the wedding day. They’re as much a part of making the big day happen as everyone else.
This is also a good opportunity to remember any family members who could not attend or are no longer with you. Keep it upbeat, but it’s a nice way to remember those you’ve lost who were a big part of your daughter’s upbringing.
The bride
Now is the time to discuss your special relationship with your daughter. It’s the perfect chance to talk about her childhood, accomplishments, and the little quirks that make her so special. Share any funny stories or special adventures you’ve shared. These anecdotes will add a touch of nostalgia and humour to your speech, creating a heartfelt connection with the audience.
End this portion of the speech with how proud you are of the person she’s become. Talk about her loving relationship with her new partner, and don’t forget to sprinkle in a genuine compliment about how stunning she looks on her wedding day – a moment that will surely make her smile even brighter.
The happy couple
You should then welcome your new son- or daughter-in-law and their parents to your family.
It’s a great time to talk about the groom and your experiences with them. You can reminisce about the first time you met, share funny moments you’ve shared together, or highlight some of their endearing traits. By including the groom in your speech, you’re showing your support and building a bridge of connection between families.
Some words of wisdom
You should then move on to sharing some pearls of wisdom with the newlyweds.
You can draw from your experiences and the lessons you’ve learned along the way. You can talk about love, commitment, their future, and building a strong family.
If it’s more appropriate, some carefully chosen quotes about love and marriage or a nice reading are also great options. Remember to deliver your words with clarity and calmness, whatever path you choose. This is the penultimate part of your speech; you want to round it off well.
The toast
You should then invite everyone to join you in a toast to the happy couple. Raise your glass, and present the couple with their new shared name. Congratulations, you did it!
Father of the bride speech template
To help you navigate the complete breakdown of your speech, it can be helpful to have a visual guide to refer to. Check out our handy infographic below:
Use this father of the bride speech template to guide your writing
Top tips for delivering a brilliant father of the bride speech
Know where you fit into the overall wedding speech order. The father of the bride traditionally gives the first speech at the wedding reception. That means you go before the groom’s speech and are the first family member to address the guest. How you deliver your speech will set the tone for the rest of the reception, so keep it upbeat, funny, and light-hearted.
Don’t panic! Pre-speech jitters are natural. But remember, this is one of the best audiences you could be put in front of. Everyone there knows your daughter or her new partner, and everyone is there to celebrate and have a good time. Embrace the excitement and joy of the moment, and let that energy carry you through your speech.
Let your own personality shine through. This is a unique opportunity to connect with the audience on a personal level using charm and wit. Inject your speech with your personal touch, sharing heartfelt stories, cherished memories, and insights only you can provide. Embrace your authentic self and let your love for your daughter be the guiding light in your words.
Include a few jokes. Humour can lighten the mood, enhance feelings of joy, and engage the audience. Keep the jokes tasteful and relevant to the occasion. Share some light-hearted anecdotes or playful teasing about the bride or groom, keeping it in good spirits. It’s about making the audience smile and creating connections on this special day.
Top 10 father of the bride speech examples
If you’re looking for some inspiration, check out our top 10 examples of great father of the bride speech ideas, from the simple and sentimental to the light-hearted and humorous. And remember that these are just examples. You can use them as templates for your own speech, but it’s important to speak from the heart, and add your own personal touch and unique family anecdotes.
A lot of traditional father of the bride speeches and examples will refer to a bride and groom, but you can simply change the references to your daughter’s partner and the appropriate pronouns if you’re attending an LGBTQ+ wedding.
Speech Example 1: The Classic Touch
Introduction: “Good evening, ladies and gentlemen. I am [your name], the proud father of the bride. On behalf of my partner, [partner’s name], and our entire family, I want to extend a warm welcome and express our deepest gratitude for joining us on this joyous occasion.”
The thank yous: “We would like to take a moment to thank all of you who have travelled from near and far to be here today. Your presence means the world to us. We are also incredibly grateful to our friends and family who have contributed their time, support, and resources to make this day possible.”
The bride: “As I stand here today, I can’t help but reflect on the beautiful journey my daughter, [bride’s name], has taken. From the first time she wrapped her tiny fingers around mine to the accomplished woman she has become, it has been an honour to witness her growth. [Bride’s name], you radiate love and happiness, and I’m so proud to call you my daughter.”
The happy couple: “Now, let me welcome our new son-in-law, [groom’s name], and his wonderful parents [parents’ names]. From the moment we met [groom’s name], we knew he was the perfect match for [daughter’s name]. His kindness, sense of humor, and unwavering love for her have brought us immeasurable joy. We are thrilled to officially welcome him into our family.”
Some words of wisdom: “As you begin this new chapter together, my wish for you is to always cherish and respect one another. Remember to communicate openly, be each other’s biggest cheerleaders, and embrace the journey that lies ahead. May your love continue to grow stronger with each passing day.”
The toast: “Please join me in raising a glass to [couple’s names]. May your lives be filled with an abundance of love, laughter, and countless beautiful memories. To the newlyweds!”
Speech Example 2: The Light-hearted Twist
Introduction: “Good evening, everyone! For those who don’t know me, I’m [your name], the proud father of the bride. Before we dive into the heartfelt moments, let’s take a moment to appreciate the fact that my jokes will be the second-best thing tonight. The first, of course, being my daughter, [bride’s name]!”
The thank yous: “I want to express my deepest gratitude to each and every one of you for gracing us with your presence today. We truly appreciate your love and support. A special thank you goes to our wedding planner, [planner’s name], for transforming our vision into reality, and to the incredible staff who have worked tirelessly to make this day unforgettable.”
The bride: “[Bride’s name], my sweet daughter, it feels like just yesterday you were teaching me how to change nappies. Today, I stand here in awe of the remarkable woman you’ve become. Your determination, kindness, and ability to put up with my terrible jokes are truly admirable. You look absolutely stunning, and I couldn’t be prouder of you.”
The happy couple: “Now, let’s welcome the man who has stolen [bride’s name] heart and made her laugh louder than I ever could…[groom’s name]! From the first time we met, I knew [groom’s name] was the one for our girl. His genuine heart, contagious smile, and endless dad joke repertoire instantly won me over. [Groom’s name], welcome to our more than slightly eccentric family!”
Some words of wisdom: “As you embark on this incredible journey together, remember that laughter is the secret ingredient to a happy marriage. Life will throw challenges your way, but facing them with humor and a dash of silliness will make them more bearable. Keep making each other laugh, and your love will always shine bright.”
The toast: “Ladies and gentlemen, please raise your glasses as we celebrate the union of [couples’ names]. May your lives be filled with never-ending laughter, adventure, and joy. To the bride and groom!”
Speech Example 3: The Sentimental Tribute
Introduction: “Good evening, everyone. I’m [your name], the father of the bride. Today, we gather to celebrate love, family, and the beautiful journey that lies ahead. Thank you all for joining us on this momentous occasion.”
The thank yous: “Before we proceed, I want to express our heartfelt appreciation to each of you for being here today. Your love, support, and presence mean the world to us. We are also immensely grateful to the incredible team of suppliers who have worked tirelessly to create this magical day.”
The bride: “As I look at my radiant daughter, [bride’s name], I am reminded of all the cherished memories we have shared. From tea parties to late-night heart-to-heart conversations, she has filled my life with immeasurable joy. Samantha, you are not only a beautiful bride but also a remarkable woman, and I am so proud to be your father.”
The happy couple: “Now, let’s welcome [groom’s name], the man who has captured [bride’s name]’s heart. From the moment I met [groom’s name], I knew he was someone truly special. His unwavering love, loyalty, and devotion to [bride’s name] are evident in every interaction. [Groom’s name], today, we gain a son, and I couldn’t be happier.”
Some words of wisdom: “As you begin this incredible journey together, my advice to you is to always choose love. Cherish one another, celebrate your shared dreams, and support each other through life’s ups and downs. May your love continue to grow and flourish, and may your marriage be filled with endless happiness.”
The toast: “Please raise your glasses as we toast to the happiness and love of [couples’ names]. May your hearts always beat as one, and may your lives be filled with infinite love, laughter, and beautiful memories. To the newlyweds!”
Speech Example 4: The Quirky Antics
Introduction: “Good evening, everyone! I’m [your name], and I have the incredible honour of being the father of the bride. I must warn you, though, my sense of humor can be a bit questionable. So, brace yourselves for a few dad jokes along the way!”
The thank yous: “I want to take a moment to express my heartfelt gratitude to each of you for joining us today. Your presence here is a testament to the love and support our families and friends have showered upon us. We also extend our appreciation to the catering staff for keeping our bellies full and the dance floor energetic!”
The bride: “My beautiful daughter, [bride’s name], has always been full of surprises. From her knack for disappearing in supermarkets to her endless passion for art, she has brought laughter and adventure into our lives. [Bride’s name], you are a brilliant artist and an extraordinary woman. Seeing you as a radiant bride today fills my heart with overwhelming pride.”
The happy couple: “Let’s give a warm welcome to [bride’s name] partner in crime, [groom’s name], and his amazing parents, [parents’ names]. [Groom’s name], I have watched you and [bride’s name] create countless memories together – some hilarious, others heartwarming. Your shared sense of humor and love for adventure make you a perfect match. Welcome to our wonderfully wacky family!”
Some words of wisdom: “As you embark on this exciting journey of married life, my advice is to never stop embracing your inner child. Laugh together, play pranks, and find joy in the little things. May your marriage be filled with endless laughter, happiness, and a dash of mischief.”
The toast: “Please raise your glasses high as we toast to the incredible bond of [couples’ names]. May your lives be blessed with a lifetime of laughter, love, and whimsical adventures. Cheers to the newlyweds!”
Speech Example 5: The Poetic Musings
Introduction: “Greetings, dear friends and family. I am James, the proud father of the bride, and it is an absolute delight to see you all gathered here today to celebrate the love between our families.”
The thank yous: “Before we proceed, I want to express our deepest gratitude to everyone who has played a part in making this day truly magical. From our extended family to the dedicated team of suppliers, your contributions have made this celebration possible.”
The bride: “As I stand here, my heart swells with love and admiration for my daughter, [bride’s name]. From the day she was born, I knew she was destined for greatness. [Bride’s name], you have blossomed into a strong, compassionate woman, and witnessing your growth has been the greatest privilege of my life.”
The happy couple: “Let us warmly welcome [bride’s name] partner in life, [groom’s name], and his wonderful parents, [parents’ names]. [Groom’s name], from the moment we met, your kind heart and unwavering devotion to [bride’s name] have touched our souls. We are overjoyed to welcome you into our family with open arms.”
Some words of wisdom: “As you embark on this remarkable journey together, my dear [couples’ names], I offer you this advice: nurture your love like a garden. Plant the seeds of trust, water it with patience, and watch it bloom into a beautiful oasis of love and happiness.”
The toast: “Ladies and gentlemen, let us raise our glasses in celebration of [couples’ names]. May your love be as timeless as the stars, as pure as a morning sunrise, and as enduring as the ocean waves. To the happily married couple!”
Speech Example 6: The Thoughtful Reflection
Introduction: “Good evening, everyone. I am [your name], the father of the bride, and it warms my heart to see all of your smiling faces as we gather here to celebrate love and family.”
The thank yous: “Before we continue, I would like to express our sincere gratitude to each and every one of you for joining us today. Your presence is a true testament to the love and support our families have received throughout the years.”
The bride: “As I look at my daughter, [bride’s name], standing before me today, I am reminded of the beautiful journey we have shared. From her first steps to her achievements as a confident, compassionate woman, every moment has been a blessing. [Bride’s name], you are the embodiment of grace and strength, and I am incredibly proud to be your father.”
The happy couple: “Please join me in welcoming [groom’s name], the man who has captured [bride’s name] heart and become an integral part of our family. [Groom’s name], your love for [bride’s name] shines through in everything you do. Your kindness, intelligence, and unwavering support have touched us deeply. Welcome to our family, [groom’s name].”
Some words of wisdom: “As you begin this new chapter together, I offer you this advice: never underestimate the power of small acts of kindness. Embrace empathy, forgiveness, and patience in your journey. Remember that a single act of love can have a ripple effect, changing lives and bringing light to the world.”
The toast: “Let us raise our glasses high as we toast to the love, commitment, and future happiness of [couples’ names]. May your hearts always be filled with love, and may your path be blessed with joy, understanding, and a lifetime of shared dreams. To the newlyweds!”
Speech Example 7: The Personal Reflection
Introduction: “Good evening, everyone. I am [your name], the father of the bride, and it fills my heart with joy to see all of you gathered here today to celebrate this remarkable moment.”
The thank yous: “Before we continue, I want to express our deepest gratitude to each and every one of you for being here. Your presence is a testament to the love and support we have received throughout this journey.”
The bride: “My daughter, [bride’s name], has always been a ray of sunshine in our lives. From her infectious laughter to her unwavering determination, she has brought immense happiness into our family. [Bride’s name], your strength, resilience, and beautiful spirit make me immensely proud to call you my daughter.”
The happy couple: “Let us warmly welcome [groom’s name], the man who has swept [bride]s name] off her feet and into a world of love and adventure. [Groom’s name], from the first moment I saw the sparkle in [bride’s name]’s eyes whenever she was with you, I knew you were the one. Your kindness, integrity, and love for [bride’s name] are truly extraordinary.”
Some words of wisdom: “As you embark on this journey together, my wish for you is to never lose sight of the importance of cherishing one another. Treasure every moment, celebrate your successes, and support each other through life’s challenges. May your love be the guiding light that illuminates your path.”
The toast: “Please raise your glasses as we toast to [couples’ names], two souls destined to be together. May your love continue to grow and flourish, and may your journey be filled with unending joy, love, and shared dreams. To the happily married couple!”
Speech Example 8: The Humorous One
Introduction: “Hello, everyone! I’m [your name], the proud father of the bride, and I must say, it’s an incredible honour to stand before you all today. Now, don’t worry – I promise to keep my speech sweet and simple, and certainly shorter than the time it takes for my daughter to get ready!”
The thank yous: “Before we proceed with the fun, let’s take a moment to express our gratitude. Thank you all for joining us on this special day. Your presence means the world to us, and we appreciate the love and support you’ve shown our family.”
The bride: “Today, I have the pleasure of talking about my daughter, [bride’s name]. From her mischievous pranks as a child to her caring and determined nature as an adult, she has always kept us on our toes. [Bride’s name], your free spirit and zest for life inspire me every day. You look lovely and I couldn’t be prouder.
The happy couple: “Now, let’s give a warm welcome to [bride’s name]’s partner in crime, [groom’s name], and his amazing parents, [parents’ names]. [Groom’s name], from the first time I met you, I knew you were the perfect match for our adventurous girl. Your shared love for hiking, pizza, and terrible puns solidified my belief in true love. Welcome to our quirky family!”
Some words of wisdom: “As you embark on this crazy rollercoaster called marriage, remember to embrace the silly moments, laugh at each other’s quirks, and never take yourselves too seriously. May your marriage be filled with laughter, inside jokes, and an endless supply of funny GIFs.”
The toast: “Ladies and gentlemen, please raise your glasses as we toast to the love, laughter, and happily ever after of [couples’ names]. May your lives be a series of amusing anecdotes and unforgettable adventures. Cheers to the newlyweds!”
Speech Example 9: The Heartfelt Journey
Introduction: “Good evening, everyone! I am [your name], the proud father of the bride, and it fills my heart with joy to welcome you all here today as we celebrate the love between [couples’ names].”
The thank yous: “Before we continue, I want to express our deepest gratitude to all of you for being a part of this joyous occasion. Your presence and support mean the world to us, and we are grateful for the love that surrounds our families.”
The bride: “Today, I stand before you with overwhelming pride as I talk about my daughter, [bride’s name]. From her first steps to her academic achievements, she has always impressed us with her determination and compassion. [Bride’s name], you are an extraordinary woman, and seeing you as a beautiful bride today fills my heart with immense joy.”
The happy couple: “Let us warmly welcome [groom’s name] into our family. From the moment I met him, I knew he was the perfect match for [bride’s name]. His intelligence, kindness, and unwavering support have made our daughter’s life even more radiant. [Groom’s name], thank you for loving [bride’s name] and bringing such happiness into her life.”
Some words of wisdom: “As you begin this incredible journey together, remember that a strong marriage is built on love, trust, and communication. Cherish and respect one another, be each other’s biggest supporters, and face the challenges of life as a team. May your love grow deeper and stronger with each passing day.”
The toast: “Please raise your glasses high as we toast to the happiness and love of [couples’ names]. May your days be filled with endless love, laughter, and shared dreams. To the newlyweds!”
Speech Example 10: The Genuine Connection
Introduction: “Ladies and gentlemen, good evening. I am [your name], the proud father of the bride, and I want to thank you all for joining us today to celebrate the love between [couples’ names]. Your presence here is deeply appreciated.”
The thank yous: “Before we continue, I would like to extend my heartfelt gratitude to everyone who has contributed to this beautiful day. From the family and friends who have travelled far to be here to the dedicated wedding team who have made everything run smoothly, thank you all.”
The bride: “As I stand here today, reminiscing about the beautiful moments we’ve shared, I can’t help but feel an overwhelming sense of pride for my daughter, [bride’s name]. From her first steps to her accomplishments as a talented writer, [bride’s name] has always radiated warmth, creativity, and love. [Bride’s name], you are a shining light in our lives, and I couldn’t be prouder.”
The happy couple: “Let’s take a moment to welcome [groom’s name] into our family. From the first time I met him, I knew he was a kind-hearted, genuine person. His love for [bride’s name] is evident in every glance, every smile they share. [Bride’s name], thank you for bringing happiness and love into [bride’s name]’s life. We are over the moon to have you as part of our family.”
Some words of wisdom: “As you embark on this incredible journey together, my wish for you is to always cherish the small moments. Life is made up of a million tiny fragments, and it’s in those fragments that love thrives. Embrace each other’s quirks, be each other’s confidants, and build a home filled with love, laughter, and endless memories.”
The toast: “Let us raise our glasses high to celebrate the love and future of [couples’ names]. May your lives be filled with happiness, love, and countless shared adventures. Cheers to the newlyweds!”
Start planning your father of the bride speech today!
The father of the bride speech is one of the most anticipated parts of the wedding reception. It’s your chance to tell the world how amazing your little girl is and how proud you are of her.
Make sure you leave plenty of time to plan your wedding speech. This way, you know you’ll be happy with the content and have plenty of time to practice. Follow a time-honoured structure, throw in a few jokes, and let your personality shine through. You’ve got this!
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